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Lance Burdett was NZ Police’s lead crisis negotiator.

February 18, 2025 / 00:34

This episode discusses the importance of connecting with one's true self, especially in the context of mental health and suicide prevention. Key topics include the significance of personal motivation, referred to as the "hook," and how it can help individuals overcome challenges.

The conversation emphasizes that the voice of despair is not one's true identity. The speaker highlights the need to focus on what one loves to maintain hope and resilience.

Practical advice is shared on how to support individuals who are struggling, encouraging listeners to help others find their "hook" to push through difficult times.

TL;DR

Connecting with your true self is vital for overcoming despair.

Episode

0:34
00:00:00
there's one thing that keeps you going
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and that is you your true self this
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voice is not you it's not who
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you are it's a part of what designed you
00:00:09
across your life your true self is here
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hence the the badge right the heart will
00:00:14
always overcome the brain what do you
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love it's called your hook so that's one
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thing that I always worked with when
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we're dealing with people who are
00:00:21
suicidal what's kept you going and
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that's your hook and you just keep
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focusing on that and you push through
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that because if you don't it will happen
00:00:29
so so quickly and just had no control
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over it yeah

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Episode Highlights

  • Heart vs. Brain
    The heart's strength surpasses the brain's logic. 'The heart will always overcome the brain.'
    “The heart will always overcome the brain.”
    @ 00m 14s
    February 18, 2025
  • Finding Your Hook
    Discover what keeps you going in tough times. 'What do you love? It's called your hook.'
    “What do you love? It's called your hook.”
    @ 00m 16s
    February 18, 2025

Episode Quotes

  • Your true self is here across your life.
    Lance Burdett was NZ Police’s lead crisis negotiator.
  • The heart will always overcome the brain.
    Lance Burdett was NZ Police’s lead crisis negotiator.
  • What do you love? It's called your hook.
    Lance Burdett was NZ Police’s lead crisis negotiator.

Key Moments

  • True Self00:09
  • Emotional Resilience00:14
  • Finding Motivation00:16

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