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So, who's who's in the room now? Is
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anyone in the room?
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>> I thought you mentioned that one. I
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Well, good question actually. Yeah,
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let's tune into that because
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um so lose my breath instantly. So, as a
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medium, as I said,
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>> uh when I connect with spirit, it is
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like tuning a radio dial in. Um they are
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already around us. Um I as I'll be
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transparent when coming into the room I
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hadn't felt anyone since we've been
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here. Uh but uh as soon as we sort of
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sat down you can definitely feel the
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energies around you. Especially when I
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said at the start when I closed my eyes
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I could feel people. Um now let's dive
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into it. Now for me. So I'm just going
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to have a drink.
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>> You'll probably notice my whole So if I
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start floating off the chair. No, I'm
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joking. I won't do that. You're
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levitating. I'm waiting for the moment I
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do one day. Um,
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now when I uh read for people, I I I
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actually do read with my eyes closed
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most of the time because I people always
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give facial expressions away and I don't
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want to see their faces.
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>> Um, I do say though when I do read for
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people that also have public images or
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are in the media. 99% of what gets
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bought up for them isn't something that
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you could see on like, you know, Google,
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Instagram, Facebook, things like that.
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Um, but there are of course things that,
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um, people can find out about us online.
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Um, what I've got for you. Oh, here we
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go. It always surprises me as soon as I
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feel it. I'm like, maybe it's not going
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to work. And it's like, it's always
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worked every time over the last 15
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years.
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Um, okay. Tune in. We'll come through
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this way.
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Instantly for me, you've got an older
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female who's making her presence clear.
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Now, she does reference having issues
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with heart. Uh, so, uh, she says, "I've
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been here from the start, Dave." She
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says to me, "I did wonder whether you
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would feel me." Uh she says, "But when I
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crossed over,
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uh you know, Dom still thinks about me,
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but he wondered whether I would be here
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today." Uh there's a lot of other people
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that do want to say hello to him, but
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I'm here.
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Um she says, "I I I think I had a heart
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attack once."
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And she says, "But uh but say that
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again."
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She said, "But Greg was there for me.
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John and Greg were there. Where's John
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Sean? Who are John and Greg for you?
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>> Oh my [ __ ] god.
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>> Actually, don't tell me how. But if that
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makes sense to you, that's good for me.
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Uh, so I aim for specificity with names
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because names is a personal connection
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with them. I think John and Greg might
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be Earth, though.
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Um, she says it's good for him to know
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that I'm always around Dave. She says, I
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I've been listening to the conversation.
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And she says, "I've loved everything
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you've said."
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Perfect. She says, "But let him know Joy
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is here." Or like the Joy. Joyce,
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something like that. Where does that
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connect for you?
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>> Joyce.
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>> Joyce. Perfect.
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>> Grandmother.
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She looks more like a son, but she's the
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older female.
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>> What the [ __ ]
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Do you know what she just said? She's
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like, "No one can Google that." And I'm
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like, "Well, I didn't, so that's good
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news."
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Then I find out you've done a whole
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episode on Joyce. Like I'm like, "Oh,
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no." Um,
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uh, she does come forward on my left
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side, which is predominantly the
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mother's side of the family. So, this
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would be mom's mom. Perfect.
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>> Uh, now she is referencing again like
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Greg or Gary and John. So, I'm like her
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boys, which I'm going to assume is
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probably sons or uncles for you. Um, she
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does have an older man with her, which
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is your grandfather, but he's passed
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quite a longer time ago to be fair.
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>> Um, he knows you, so I don't doubt that
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you probably met him. Um, but you might
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have been quite younger when he crossed
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over. Probably an adult, I would say,
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actually.
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>> But she he would have passed before her.
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Does that make sense? Yeah, because
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there's a reference of she found him or
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I found him.
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>> I don't know whether either of them
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smoked. I'm getting very blocked in the
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throat again.
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Um,
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now when Joy crosses over, she
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references been very peaceful, but it
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was sort of like a bit of a slow decline
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for her towards the end of her time on
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Earth. Um, she's very thankful for my
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girl, which I'm going to say is probably
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your mother in this case, uh, for uh,
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not putting her life on hold, but by
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being able to be there for her or look
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after her.
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>> Um, she says, "I don't want him, which
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is you, uh, to feel guilty by not seeing
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me enough. It doesn't matter. You are
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living your life. You've got to live
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your life."
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>> Um, but she says, you know, New
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Zealand's not big, Dave.
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Uh,
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she's very gentle, but she's also sassy.
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Like, I wouldn't [ __ ] with her.
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Uh,
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she picked up Kanye as well. She just
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leaned forward and picked him up, put
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him under her arm.
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>> Uh, he's I mean, but he's a spiritual
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dog. All animals are cats and dogs are
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very switched on. So yeah,
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>> I wouldn't be surprised if he
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>> I was going to say if he gets up and
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starts walking around, but if he starts
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looking around the room.
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>> Um,
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and
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yeah, so I mean she's got the gentle
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connecting with us. She was the very
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first one here. So she does bring
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forward a grandfather and she with you.
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Uh,
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but towards the end of her time, she
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just references organ shutting down.
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Like I just feel kind of older and
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tired. There is definitely issues with
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the heart though. So she had a heart
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attack previously.
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>> Yeah. when she
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>> issues, stints and stuff and
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>> that's it because might have also been
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kidney issues at some stage. I don't
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know whether you know that but my kidney
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is getting a little bit sore. Um
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thankful for her daughter which is your
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mom. Uh you might have aunties. Yes. But
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this is she's referencing through your
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line which is going to be your mom. Um
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she says not much uh we have to talk
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about his dad. So this is your father.
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uh the element of uh how life
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experiences turns Dom into the man that
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he is
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not separation but what's a
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personal question. Are your parents
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together or are they separated? Yeah. Um
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yeah cuz I have to go like that which is
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sometimes I look like I'm doing an
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interpretive dance but that means
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separation. Um
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yeah, so it's element of life
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experiences because uh don't tell me
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whether you've got siblings or not, but
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it's element of like um how Dom sort of
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becomes like the man, if that makes
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sense, or the man of the house and like
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as his grandmother and as the family,
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we're very proud of him. Uh because the
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experiences of everything that his
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parents have gone through, have taught
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him how to um understand life. But stop
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being harder on yourself, Dom. Um
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because it's sort of like it's not
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history repeating.
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>> Mhm. Um, she says, "I'm proud of the man
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he is because it's it's like he he
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understands life and he was nicer than
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his father."
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>> Um, you got a very strong male coming
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forward. I don't like asking questions,
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but your dad is earthside still. Yeah.
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>> I just don't
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>> Do you talk to him? I don't feel
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connected that strongly.
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>> Um, so it's not to say that he's a bad
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guy or anything like that. I think the
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lessons that dad has taught you has made
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you as, you know, as uh as Joyce said,
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the grand the son and the man that you
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are. Um
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it's very drawn into
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like parenthood.
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Um because it's all the journey of like
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how my girl was with him which is uh
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your your parents
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and then when it comes to Dom uh and
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fatherhood or parenthood. Don't tell me
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whether you've got kids or anything like
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that. I'll let spirit bring that up.
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Don't worry.
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Um, I would say though, Dom,
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that you are the father uh to a soul in
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spirit.
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Uh, did you ever have a partner that had
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a miscarriage or anything like that that
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you're aware of?
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>> Yeah. Okay.
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>> Uh, or say it doesn't have to be a
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miscarriage. It's essentially a
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pregnancy that doesn't go full term.
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>> Mhm.
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>> Uh, so uh for everyone listening as
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well, when we do have pregnancies uh
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that don't go full term, the soul is
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still connected with the family and the
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soul understood their journey. They knew
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that they weren't meant to be human, if
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that makes sense. They meant they knew
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that their time on Earth was just a lot
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quicker. Um, so you've got that also
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coming for there's probably
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unfortunately maybe more than one there.
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Um,
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I can appreciate you may not have known
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the sexes. Uh, then there's no way to
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validate this. Uh, predominantly girl
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energy. Do you know the sexes?
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>> No, it was too early in the
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>> Yeah, that's it. I mean, that's what the
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thing I mean even if they were sometimes
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20 weeks, sometimes parents don't know.
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Uh, so as I mentioned, I know
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unfortunately there's no way to validate
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that. There's a lot of feminine energy
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around that. Uh, where does Sue, Susan,
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Suzanne, something like that connect
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with you?
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>> It's Yeah, mom. Mom.
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>> Perfect. Okay.
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>> She kind of just feels like a best mate.
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You know what I mean? Like she's
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obviously your mother, but she's
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needs to work on her communication.
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>> Uh,
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she's getting a screenshot of that
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sentiment, I'm sure. Um because Joy
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suddenly blocks my throat when I
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reference her. So that's lack of
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communication. But your mom's a strong
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woman, very much like my mother,
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>> very aware of everything, very
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intelligent, very aware of everything
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that goes on around her.
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>> Maybe needs to release some things that
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happened decades ago. You know what I
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mean?
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My mom will hate me for saying it on a
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podcast, but um because with all of us,
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no, not just our families, but everyone
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listening, everything we feel
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emotionally has an impact on the body.
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Uh and if we don't heal it, if we don't
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evolve through it, if we don't release
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it, it can negatively impact us
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physically. Uh so you know I believe a
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lot of uh autoimmune issues, a lot of uh
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neurological issues even unfortunately
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some types of cancers or maybe all kinds
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of cancers actually begin I mean have an
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emotional beginning within us. Mom's got
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issues with knees as well cuz my knees
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are getting sore. So I don't know
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whether she's been complaining about
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sore knees or ankles something like that
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but my whole left leg just kind of went
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off. Um
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>> there's a lot of correct information
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here.
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>> Yes. I hired a private investigator
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yesterday. No. So we only connected on
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yesterday really did we? Well, I I
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didn't even I've never really referred
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to my nana as as Joyce. She's just Nana.
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So,
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>> yeah. Perfect.
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>> Um Yeah. So, when I got the name, this
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sounds ridiculous, but they actually
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showed me Remember the TV show Buffy?
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Did you ever watch Buffy? Probably not.
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Oh, you did? I was like, as a straight
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man, he probably didn't watch. Yeah.
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Yeah. Yeah. Her mom was Joyce,
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>> right?
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>> So, I don't personally connect with the
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Joyce. So, every time they showed me
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Buffy's mom, it's always the name Joy or
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Joyce. Uh so, it's more the element in
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life. It's this realization where you
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find yourself and it's not a negative
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whatsoever but it's kind of like
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probably if I was to put a time frame on
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you cuz time doesn't exist but if we
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were to put a time frame on you uh Dom
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probably the last 2 three years in
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particular uh they're very proud of you
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with the element of self-reflection
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where it's a realization that u
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sometimes life uh can get the better of
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us but it's the element of like you're
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able to really look back if I you know
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over the last 20 years plus about who I
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am where I want to
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Um spirit's also very proud of you for
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acknowledging mental uh so uh that can
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be mental health, mental stresses,
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things that you've gone through. Um
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sometimes especially as men uh we feel
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like we do have to soldier on or we do
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feel like that we have to kind of just
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be like the stronger person like we
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can't talk about our feelings. We can't
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talk about what we sense. That's why we
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don't like spirituality cuz that's so
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gray and we're black and white. Um, but
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they're proud of you for at least being
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able to uh have a lot of uh not just
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recently, but also throughout life, even
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from the time you were a young man or a
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teenager, like self-reflection. Um,
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you're good at that. Uh, and be easier
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on yourself for that. Like, give
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yourself the grace to stop feeling like
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that you should have understood things
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differently at the time. Um,
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and I know you mentioned a partner at
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the moment.
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Uh, it's comfortable. I like her.
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Yeah, I wouldn't mess with her. She'd
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sneak.
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Joyce means this in the nicest way, Dom,
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but you do bring women into your life,
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and it's not a criticism
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that kind of are like the mothers,
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you know what I mean?
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Like it's kind of like they love you,
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you love them,
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but they'll smack you into line if they
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need to, but they're also kind of like
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very motherly women. Does that make
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sense?
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>> Um,
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we should reference this uh uh Joyce
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again, you know, with like a Joselyn or
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something like that.
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>> No,
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>> probably Earthight. But if it doesn't
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make sense instantly, don't show us cuz
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it's not going to be like your friend's
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wife or anything like that. Has to be
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someone close to you.
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Uh, perfect.
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Uh, health-wise, I don't have any
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concerns for you. You're very much like
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me, actually. You come awake at night.
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Uh, so as soon as the sun goes down,
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your brain's like, I'm awake. It's like,
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where were you at 12:00? Like, you know
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what I mean? So, yeah, you got that deep
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thinker sense.
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>> Um,
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they usually don't ask this, but it's
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probably because it's a one-on-one
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reading.
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Um, they said that you have questions
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about kids or around children.
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>> Do you have children earth side?
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>> No. No.
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>> Yeah, cuz I didn't feel it earth.
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But that's impersonal. Is that been sort
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of a bit of a spot of contention?
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um like it's something I would have
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loved, but they don't want you to
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essentially, sorry to interrupt you, but
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they sort of like
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>> they know that you would have loved to
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have been a father, but they don't want
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you to feel like that there's things
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that you should have done differently or
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that that or that like you missed the
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boat or missed out. Does that kind of
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make sense?
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>> Yeah.
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>> Yeah. It's a very personal thing to talk
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about. I know. But
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>> um
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and Joy says, "Your partner now
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is like she'd kill him if he had a child
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with her." my head sort of like sort of
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like I don't know I don't know if she
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wants kids right now like even adoption
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or anything like that you know what I
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mean but like
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>> um it's reference of the Brady Bunch so
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which usually when that's when families
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come together so does your I mean I'm
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asking too many questions but does your
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partner now have kids?
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>> No she doesn't.
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>> Yeah. Yeah.
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>> So I'm trying to work out how I'd
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reference the Brady Bunch. Uh cuz like
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that's when like mom has kids or dad has
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kids or they both have kids and the
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families come together. But
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>> Right. Right. Uh,
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I feel like I would love to have like
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lunch and a glass of wine with your
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current partner. Like I reckon she'd be
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a hoot
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>> like over lunch. Like I wouldn't like
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talk to her in a like you just go and
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get pissed with her and have fun. Like
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she'd be good in that vibe. Um, but
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again it's a self reflection where
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they're very proud of you. They like the
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relationship energies in your life. It's
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also with ex partners and stuff like
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that where it's actually been good. Um,
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I'll let you be the judge of this
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actually, but it's sort of like where it
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feels like you can actually still keep
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positive relationships with them, which
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is nice. Um,
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and I don't know why they're all
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laughing when I say that, so I mean
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hopefully it's been positive for you,
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but like
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>> who's laughing?
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>> Like spirit like, well, they're the ones
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that said that like, you know, but he's
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good at keeping like amicable or
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positive uh with any exes you may have
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in your life. And then they went and I'm
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like, okay. Um
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um but it's also like where you can be
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supportive of them. So I like I don't
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know whether you like are in
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communication with any former partners.
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Like I'm not talking about you know the
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first girl you kissed when you were 15.
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It can even be other longerterm
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relationships. How long have you been
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with your current partner for now?
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>> Uh almost four years.
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>> Yes. Cuz it feels more recent. But it's
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like any
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>> and JJ who came in to take the photos
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just before we start.
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>> Yeah. She's my ex-wife.
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>> That's why they're laughing. Well,
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that's good then actually because you
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get along well with her.
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>> Yeah.
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>> Oh, there you go. Perfect.
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So, can she hear us? I don't I feel like
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>> I don't know if they're playing this in
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the office.
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>> I feel like we want I feel like I want
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to talk about JJ now. So,
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if I like I like JJ's got a good vibe. I
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did like her. No one's picking on JJ,
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but it's kind of like the older she's
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becoming, the younger she's becoming. Um
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because it's kind of like um how do I
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translate that? Cuz she's very
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self-aware. Like she's not an idiot, but
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it's kind of like she's doing life
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differently. It's like okay like like
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obviously JJ's in her like you know 40s
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or 50s now. How old are you now?
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>> Uh 51.
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>> Yeah. Perfect. Yeah. Cuz she like I
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wasn't definitely didn't look 60s or so.
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I was like yeah 40s or 50s. But it's
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sort of like, and this is also the same
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for you, Dom, because they're validating
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like now's the time if we was to look
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over who we were as teenagers, as young
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adults, what part of those versions of
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JJ or what part of those versions of Dom
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do I feel like I want to redo or do I
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want to bring out again? Like, it's not
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that we missed the boat on anything
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because we have the ability to structure
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our life however we want, whenever we
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want. Um, so JJ, how do I translate
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that? They're like they're really proud
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of her. I like her mom as well. Her
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mom's earth I take it. Yeah, her mom
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feels quite
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they reference flat light actually which
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is a bit emotionally difficult but
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lovely just bagging everyone in this
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one. Um so if I was to say to you like
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who does Dom want to be when he was 20
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and it's not about career but it's about
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what life did I want to live even from a
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relationship perspective.
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>> Bring that out. Now, I think JJ may
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have.
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>> Mhm.
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>> If that makes sense. Like, she's really
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embracing the younger versions of
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herself while also still being the
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capable, intelligent adult. Um, and they
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want you to now do that too if you
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haven't already, which in some ways you
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maybe have, but it's like we can do it
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more.
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>> Um, there's a younger man that's also
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floating around us as well. References
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passing very quickly when spirit clicks.
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That's quick. Uh it's a little bit vague
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for me, but I think he may have
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unfortunately passed accidentally or in
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like a uh
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I don't want to say suicide, but it kind
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of feels like there's a lot of
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responsibility around it. Let's just see
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where we go.
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Um he's not very old when he passes, but
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like I mean you're a younger man now
00:18:10
yourself. Um
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he takes responsibility for his passing,
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which is actually suicide.
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He actually looks at you like a brother.
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But it's like the mate or the
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connection. He just sort of puts his arm
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around her. He's like, "No, I got him."
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>> Um
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I'm 38.
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Uh do you know how old he was when he
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crossed?
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>> Cuz he kind of feels younger than me,
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but then also feels like he's 90. I
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can't work it out. Like
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>> maybe maybe 40ish.
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>> Yeah. Okay. Yeah. Yeah, cuz he kind of
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feels like my age, but he's also young
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and up, but he's wise at the same time.
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Um, very gentle, soft energy, but
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there's the element of like, um,
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God, it's literally the questions we
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were talking around cuz he says, "No,
00:19:01
but I felt guilty, Dave."
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And he says, "But now I understand life
00:19:07
differently."
00:19:12
And he says, "But I" He says, "I don't
00:19:13
want people to be mad at me." He says,
00:19:16
"But I thought that they were."
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He says, "I just assume people don't
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like or have anger around that." And he
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says, "But I'm free from that, and I
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don't want them to ever think that about
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me." Um,
00:19:30
again, he feels like a brother. I know
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he's not your actual brother. Sorry. Um,
00:19:34
I would probably say like a friend
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connection. I would, again, I'm asking
00:19:37
too many questions, but like feels like
00:19:39
a work colleague, but like friend. How
00:19:41
did you
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>> through work? Yeah.
00:19:42
>> Yeah. cuz he I I know it's not the
00:19:45
podcast studio, but he puts himself in
00:19:46
that seat there, which is the element of
00:19:48
work space.
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>> Mhm.
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>> Um
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so again, yeah, it sounds weird, but he
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kind of puts you in a headlock.
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>> Like he's just kind of very
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>> Yeah. Like with our friends, we kind of
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punched him and like he's just kind of
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thrown you around a bit.
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>> Uh your grandmother's looking at him
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like, "Oh, what's he doing?"
00:20:11
Um, yes, he just wants to make his
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presence clear. Very he's not vague, but
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he's just a bit more sort of gentle than
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the rest of the spirits. Like he just he
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definitely wants to take the opportunity
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to say hello. Um,
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again, I know unfortunately by the time
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we get to our age, it's not a surprise
00:20:24
that grandparents cross over, but dad's
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family is also coming forward there. Uh,
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I don't know whether mom or dad also
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lost like a sister or a brother cuz if
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we go the level above, it's like the
00:20:34
uncle auntie energy. It's like a family
00:20:36
tree for me. Um, that energy is also
00:20:38
coming forward there. Uh, I know we said
00:20:40
the names Greg and John, which I think
00:20:42
were mom's side, weren't they? Yeah,
00:20:43
perfect. Dad's side's a little bit more
00:20:44
vague, but I think there may be someone
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going through there.
00:20:47
>> Yeah.
00:20:47
>> Is that cancer? Does that make sense?
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>> Um,
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no, a car crash.
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>> That's a car crash then from before.
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>> M.
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>> So, and when I reference health, it's
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not a warning either. M
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>> um
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now I want to go back to the work friend
00:21:05
uh who looks at you like the brother
00:21:06
mate because before he made the suicide
00:21:08
clear there was energy of accidental
00:21:10
passing uh which would actually be the
00:21:12
car crash. Um
00:21:16
we're going back a while there as well
00:21:17
to be fair.
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>> Yeah. It was an auntie that I never met
00:21:23
so she passed before I was born.
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>> I was actually going back to you maybe
00:21:26
as a young child. So it was even before
00:21:28
you were born. Okay. Not that long ago,
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not
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um I'm actually surprised you've never
00:21:35
met her to be fair
00:21:36
>> because when spirit never like met us
00:21:39
earth side, they usually go to shake
00:21:41
your hand of like the introduction.
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>> She didn't do that. She actually came in
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sort of the energy stood right next to
00:21:47
you. I actually thought it was a male,
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but then it felt female at the time.
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Then kind of went a bit male. So I
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wasn't sure it was auntie or uncle. Um I
00:21:53
think she's just probably a dominant
00:21:54
young female.
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>> Uh but yeah, she kind of put her arm
00:21:57
right around you. who wasn't the element
00:21:58
of shaking the hand. So yeah, very again
00:22:00
very protective from spirit which is
00:22:02
lovely to see. Uh but mom's parents are
00:22:04
the strong ones for you that's for sure.
00:22:06
Um I uh with uh JJ obviously if uh she's
00:22:11
your ex uh partner obviously you're very
00:22:13
connected with her family as well. Uh I
00:22:15
know we validate her mom as being earth
00:22:17
sign. Um
00:22:22
she's got a very strong father energy
00:22:24
though. JJ's dad's earth side. Yeah,
00:22:27
she's probably a grandfather, but
00:22:28
grandparents don't come for in readings
00:22:30
unless you met them. So, I don't know
00:22:31
whether I may have met a grandfather of
00:22:33
hers, of course, but uh it's just a bit
00:22:36
vagger. She's there and she's over
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there.
00:22:39
>> Um but yeah, definitely work colleague,
00:22:42
auntie, mom's parents, very strong for
00:22:44
you.
00:22:47
>> Any questions for me?
00:22:48
>> Oh, wow. No, no, the um yeah, the names
00:22:51
you blew me away with some of those.
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Yeah.
00:22:53
>> Yeah, Joyce. Oh, Greg and John are
00:22:55
Earth. Yeah. So, John's my uncle and
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Greg they um
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>> Did you ever watch the Mighty Bouch?
00:23:00
>> Yeah.
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>> If they ever reference the name Greg,
00:23:03
they showed me old Greg.
00:23:05
>> It's my favorite episode. Ever drunk
00:23:07
Bailey's out of a shoe. So, they always
00:23:09
show me old Greg if they want to
00:23:10
reference the name Greg. This is why I
00:23:11
belong on a psychward, honestly. Um, but
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I think the main message is and it's
00:23:17
without sounding cliche or corny, but
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very proud of like the development of
00:23:22
who you are, but also the element of
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self-reflection through life experience
00:23:25
to help you understand life better,
00:23:26
whether it's career, yes, but also the
00:23:28
personal experiences of how family is,
00:23:30
of how life is, of how relationships is.
00:23:32
>> Um, that you always do reflect on it.
00:23:34
So, don't ever think that you're doing
00:23:35
anything wrong. And I think that's a
00:23:37
message for everyone like we never do
00:23:38
anything wrong cuz everything does teach
00:23:39
us a lesson. uh but not crossroads
00:23:42
energy but like where you are right now
00:23:43
is the real opportunity to really
00:23:45
embrace the younger versions of Dom. So
00:23:47
if you were to ask yourself, okay, what
00:23:50
does 25-year-old Dom feels like he like
00:23:51
missed out on? Can I do that now?
00:23:55
>> Like do it for the other versions of you
00:23:57
from the time that you were born up
00:23:58
until yesterday. What do those versions
00:24:00
of Dom still feel like they want to
00:24:01
achieve? Because you've got the
00:24:02
potential now to now do it.
00:24:03
>> So that's their main message for you.
00:24:05
Like they're guiding you through it, but
00:24:06
let's go kind of
00:24:09
>> Yeah.
00:24:10
Well, thanks very much for that.
00:24:11
>> Thank you. Yeah.
00:24:12
>> Yeah. Yeah. That's crazy.
00:24:14
>> I know that was a bit like off the cuff
00:24:16
there, which I love. Yeah.
00:24:18
>> Yeah. I still don't fully understand it.
00:24:19
>> Either do I. That's Either do I. It's
00:24:22
okay. Yeah.
00:24:23
>> There's some there's some [ __ ] there
00:24:25
that you just would be unable to make
00:24:26
up. You know what I mean?
00:24:27
>> Yeah.
00:24:28
>> Yeah. Hey, this has been a lot of fun.
00:24:30
It's been really good. Thank you. Oh,
00:24:31
I'm so grateful that you came in this
00:24:33
morning at short notice and um
00:24:34
>> absolute honor to come on and thank you
00:24:37
for having me on at short notice cuz
00:24:38
yeah, it was very last minute which is
00:24:40
just how it should be. Nice and fun.
00:24:42
>> David the medium
00:24:43
>> Tom Har being a guest on the podcast.
00:24:46
>> Thank you so much for having me. Thanks
00:24:47
everyone.
