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Sir John Key - Why Trump WINS the 2024 US Election, Advice for Luxon, Remembering 3-Way Handshake

November 03, 202401:49:05
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Sir John Key welcome to my podcast well
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that's quite a title is it well it's
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crazy to be here beautiful actually
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looks beautiful you've got everything
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going on and it's kind of nice that your
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name is so short cuz that fits in
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perfectly so you know like it's it's all
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good Al so your shorter name makes it
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cheaper for the neon cheaper for the
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Neons yeah yeah um how are you uh
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remarkably well actually I am uh having
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quite a Cru life I mean I'm sort of um
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yeah obviously doing some work still um
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but a lot of what I do I'm on three
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boards of three different companies
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either cheer them on them and they're
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largely offshore you know us related and
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they can be virtual if I need them to be
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so I'm not in that situation now where
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you know when I was say for instance on
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A&Z group board or cheering A&Z New
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Zealand that was 17 board meetings a
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year and a lot in Australia and I had to
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you know dedicate my diary around making
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sure I was in the right place now I can
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kind of be I like and make them fit in
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um so yeah so I've got I've actually got
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a really nice work life balance now
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between that and traveling and playing
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golf and flying helicopters and doing
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all sorts of other different things so
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it's it's it's a really good balance you
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say it's quite cruisy but I think by
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most people's measure it's probably
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quite quite hectic but I think after the
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after the pressure of being prime
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minister how many years were you PM uh
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eight yeah after 8 years of of that job
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where you're working I don't know 18 20
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hour days we'll get to that later I'm
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guessing anything sort of seems cruy
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yeah it does yeah yeah and and that's
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right you you get used to I mean what is
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what makes it so much better now is this
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and this is the thing I mean I talked to
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Chris Laxon obviously a bit and and you
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know so much of what he's doing he'll
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send me a picture I go yeah I remember I
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was there and I went there nine times or
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whatever and I remember that person and
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all those things it's just it's a
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marathon so you're out every night
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you're away every day um yeah you might
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even get home on a Wednesday night or
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something and it's 10: at night you got
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to go and do some reading so it's
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midnight and then you get up in the
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morning and you Department North or
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something so what I don't have now is I
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now I have lots of nights when we're
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home like Bron and I went for a walk
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this morning well you're never going to
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do that when you promise or even even in
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my previous working life so we did that
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and then yeah I'm kind of busy I got a
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few things on and then tonight we're
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going out for dinner you know we and so
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you just have you have a life you know
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you feel like you can do things but but
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for all of that the things that I did um
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in my previous working career where they
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ultimately actually Bing about obviously
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clearly politics you wouldn't trade it
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for anything they were the most
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incredible unique experiences and I will
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be eternally grateful I ever did it but
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but it's nice having a bit of me time
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now oh 100% 100% yeah kind I remember um
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so when you first became prime minister
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uh whatever month that happened to be
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you came in to see us at the edge for a
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Christmas interview so you're like two
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or three months under the desk and um
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the biggest surprise you said at that
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time was just how much readings involved
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and I'd imagine it's one of those jobs
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where you're just always on the back
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well they basically deliver you a
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briefcase every day and the and the
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briefcase sort of goes from points of
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importance so it's what you're doing
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tomorrow by the way that's a good idea
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that you know where you are what you're
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doing who you're talking to who you've
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met before who you haven't that s thing
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and then there's all the things are
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likely to blow up in the media the next
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morning by the way there's quite a few
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of those and then it's oh by the way
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every stupid thing you ever said about
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whatever you're now in trouble of
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tomorrow and then but then it's just a
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mountain of paperwork is coming and
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that's every day
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so of itself if you actually if I gave
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it to you today and you went oh I've got
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to dedicate a couple of hour that I'll
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do that you'd go okay well that's fine
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but it's it's every day and um people
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always ask me what you Lumin when you
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were primin and I go just how much the
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body can function with so little sleep
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because you're really in a permanent
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state of sleep deprivation that's really
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where you're at um and and it is funny
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you wake up in the morning you don't
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feel good I think if you're honest you
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know you probably know when you go to
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bed you sleep incredibly well because
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you don't have time actually to lie
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around there thinking about things just
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go to bed and you're exhausted um and
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when you wake up for the first 5 Seconds
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you don't feel great and then you're
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into it and you're away so but there's a
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huge amount of adrenaline stuff going on
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and so that that that helps feed the
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beast but but you know certainly a
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decade of being on the job I remember
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the I think it was the the heral the
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Dominion Post ran a series of pictures
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of me over 10 year perod now everyone
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ages but man I didn't look good at the
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end of it look any better now but look
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good at the end of it um but the the the
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Aging thing happens really quickly you
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see it with any leader even I think he
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was like gray after year he's pretty
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great now I saw him at the Democratic
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Convention um you know and man's still
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an amazing got to be the best oror of
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the world's produced in you know decades
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abely great speaker um but yeah yeah you
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they they all age and I mean you know
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like Bill Clinton it's every look
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frankly it's everybody and if you're in
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that job for long enough that's what
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comes with it and as I said I don't
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think it's I mean there a lot of
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everybody ages that's the thing I mean
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they just have a Time series of you and
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so it's easy to see and um uh you know
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you don't want to do this but I went
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into parliament in 2002 and if you have
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a look at some pictures of me going in
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and my maiden speech and stuff you I
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look really young but I was 40 you know
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I'm 63 today so some people come up to
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me they go oh you're looking bit rough
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or something okay but it was 25 years
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ago you know give me a break you so
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everyone looks a bit different over time
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yeah yeah yeah oh what what is your um
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relationship with um Chris lexon really
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good yeah did you become friends when
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you were prime minister and he was of he
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was head of so he used to he used to
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ring me quite a lot he he I will say
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people like in the time that I was P
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because I came from a very unusual route
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I didn't really come from being a
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political person I was green as grass
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but I wanted to do it and I'd been a
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long-term member of the national party
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but that's quite different from working
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in the Research Unit being around this
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thing being actively involved I was a
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business guy you know and um so then a
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lot of other business people saw me do
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that and thought you know hey I would
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mind being prime minister maybe I could
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do this and of all the people that used
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to ring me or talk to me or contact me
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he was the only one I ever thought would
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go all the way and by that actually give
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up the job actually run and actually do
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it and and and he honestly he used to
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ring me at like 11:30 at night I'd be in
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my office of Wellington and he'd go I've
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just been watching question time
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question three why did you give that
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answer and I go for goodness sake Chris
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it's theater they're not asking a
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question they want an answer to they
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know the answer they just want they just
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want to wind me up or wind and so it's
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all about theater and so we've been
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friends for a very long time and um and
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you know and I'm you know I don't want
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to say I'm as Mentor because I like he
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he runs his own ship and his own thing
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but I'm probably one person he can talk
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to that at least has been there and
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knows what it's like good and bad and
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probably probably a person that can
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occasionally say to them hey you might
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actually change tack on that or maybe do
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something different there just on the
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basis that um you're in an unusual power
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position I actually finally had it with
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my chief of staff Wayne egleson who was
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I used to describe as the unelected
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prime minister of New Zealand he was the
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one person that would come on occasion
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and go yeah well you might believe what
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you said but tomorrow morning you're
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saying sorry and you're doing this and
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you're doing that or you're wrong and um
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and uh in in the entire 10 years we had
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together um there was only once I
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actually disagreed and said no I don't
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think you're right and I did what I
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thought I was right and and actually I
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think on the occasion I was
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right it was one in 10 years the other
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999 I had to follow his advice cuz I've
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noticed um just recently last couple of
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weeks um LX seemed um there's been times
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where he seemed quite Snappy with the
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media and I Part of Me part of me thinks
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has has someone told him that he needs
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to be more more defiant with them or is
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he actually like seeing the red my you
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never did did you no looked it's your
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own style I always sort of you right or
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wrong took the view you know the you
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know the famous line you know don't buy
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a fight with people who buy ink by the
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barrel you know like you can't win you
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won't win you can't win and I had it
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once actually we were in the middle of
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um I think it was um
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2014 when was doing the Moment of Truth
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which by the way there wasn't a lot of
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Truth as we now know but anyway and the
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media were obsessed with the whole thing
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and oh then that book Hager written yet
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another book and it was all that stuff
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you forget it was a long time ago um and
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so Steven Joyce who was our campaign
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manager he said to me he said look uh
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what we're going to do with this press
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conference is you're going to do this
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stuff and when they when you've answered
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you know 10 mons of questions at the end
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of it end of that 10 months I want you
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to get up and say right it's enough to
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say you're walking out and I said well
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that's not what I've normally done I've
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always just burned them out he said no
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no but that's what we're going to do
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today and I went okay and everyone
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agreed so I said fine so I did that and
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the headlines the next day were
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something like you know prime minister
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rattled prime minister angry something
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like that and and I said to him I'm not
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doing that again I'll just burn these
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guys out and it doesn't matter if it
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takes an hour and 10 minutes I'll answer
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all the questions cuz I know the answer
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to every question they've got they might
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not like the answer but I know it um so
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M yeah mine wasn't mine was just sort of
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to say look yeah okay you can have a
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good relationship with them and they
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they may not always they may not always
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agree with you but the important the
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really important thing to remember is
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that you can be doing an interview and I
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might be doing an interview with John
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Campbell and John Campbell is not going
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to be voting for the national party and
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probably not a massive fan of my
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policies when I was prime minister but
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I'm not talking to John Campbell like
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I'm not talking to you now really I'm
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talking to the people that listen to
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your podcast right and so that's just a
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vehicle for communicating to those
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people and many of the people who
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watched John Campbell's show when you
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had Campbell live or whatever they were
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National Party supporters you know they
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they might not have agreed with lots of
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things that John personally thought but
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they were interested in show or they
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liked it or they found it entertaining
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or they you know they liked him
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personally but didn't like you know
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necessar his policies um or what he
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thought was right um and so when you get
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in there and you just give your in a
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relaxed way answer to the question then
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people that just gives some reassurance
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they go yeah am I guys on top of that
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that's his View and it's it's like I
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don't know whether you watch the vice
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presidential debate but I thought JD
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Vance who you know like a lot of people
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think is like Devil sort of thing and
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mean like he's said a lot of things that
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you know are way away from what I would
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believe because I'm actually socially
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liberal as you probably know I'm
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economically conservative he's obviously
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clearly very conservative he I thought
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he gave the master class yesterday
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because he did an amazing he's got an
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amazing back story if you haven't seen
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either the movie or his book you know
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either read the book or watch the movie
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bit quicker on Netflix amazing back
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story and he did a great job of feeding
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that and and looking likable and I think
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in the end that's what you're trying to
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do I think is is to be relatable so I
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mean you know but but everyone has their
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own style Chris has obviously decided
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I'm going to push back a bit harder and
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um and that's that's fine too I mean
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it's it's whatever style you like mean
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Winston's made a lifetimes work
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including at the United Nations recently
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so hey you know everyone's different
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well since since you bought up American
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politics um the the time we're recording
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this it's the first week of October um
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you're blown up in the news the last
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couple of days for saying you're backing
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Trump or something what no what I said
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was that I thought he'd win and I mean
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to be fair I said look it's 55 45 it's
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really close I mean this is the thing in
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the United States is we don't have first
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past the post now every vote doesn't
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count as sorry we don't have um in New
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Zealand we have m where every vote
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counts so it doesn't matter whether
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you're a national voter delivering mango
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we're not going to win the seat but that
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National vote counts cuz it's party vote
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that counts in the US it's just where
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you live so if you're that's why only
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half of all Americans vote because if
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you're a republican in California you
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know you know the Republicans aren't
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going to win the state so you don't vote
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and if you're a Democrat half the time
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you go well they don't need my vote so I
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don't bother so half of them don't vote
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um so it's going to come down to those
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real swing States so so sort of fly over
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Rust Belt states Pennsylvania will be
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the big one cuz it's got 16 or 17
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Electoral College votes and um and so
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it's really tight but I I think
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Trump because Trump's personality is
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what it is I think he under represents
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in polls CU I think some people will
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vote for him thinking he'll be better
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for I don't know border control or the
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economy or whatever it might be don't
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want to say to a pul that they're doing
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that so I think he is a bit on the light
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side I mean it's really close have it
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been Biden
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completely different story but I think
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with carel Harris it's you know much
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much tighter but I I think he can get
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there um but you know it look equally
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yeah could I could I could convince
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myself be the other way but does it does
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it um annoy you though like that your
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words to care even though you haven't
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been prime minister for however many
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years um you you say something and you
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know it can sort of get twisted or
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turned and it becomes like a big
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headline yeah I mean look it's sort of
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clickbait isn't it in the world that we
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live in I mean what it surprises there's
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two things that surprised me more and
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like and it happened this morning when I
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was I was literally BR and I went for a
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walk and then we had coffee a guy came
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up to me and said um I did a fantastic
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job wish you'd come back and like BR
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goes you've been out of this thing for
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seven years people are taking selfies of
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you every day and coming up to you like
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that happens literally every day and
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it's a nice thing I mean it's really
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nice that people you know would want you
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me I person think Chris doing a great
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job and the government's doing great job
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so I need to go back but the point being
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that it's really nice that people do
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that and I will say yeah the older I get
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the better I was so you know it's like a
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lot of things in life I think probably
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like child birth you know he want you
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throw it you can sort of remember the
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good bits which is you know the baby um
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so uh look I think in that regard um
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yeah I'm not I I I am was surprised but
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it's it's just been there and I don't
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know you know like and I've sit with Max
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you know like he will he will literally
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buy buy a buy a site because he's a
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property developer and it'll make the
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news and it's like why is that
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particularly news with it's not but but
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but the simple facts of life art in the
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modern world that we live in they you
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know media needs people to click on
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their thing and if you just go and talk
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to the herald or something they'll be
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quite honest I'll tell you look with our
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nam's here people click on it and um I I
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remember saying to the editor of the
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herald one time you know you you writing
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way too many articles about Max it's a
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but unfair on a young guy to be doing
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that he said yeah I know but he said it
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just goes nuts every time we every time
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we put his name up we just get a lot of
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hits so they were quite honest about it
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you know so yeah I had Max on the
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podcast about a year and a half ago we
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had a had a great chat and it's um yeah
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he during those those years when you
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were prime minister he got a raw you
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look at it he got a raw deal he he he
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was unfairly treated really what how how
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old was he he was a kid when 14 15 you
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know that s of stuff I mean you're
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younger actually younger
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um so you know what it is was first you
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got to remember we were the first um you
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know family if you like for a while that
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that had had children so Helen had been
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there for for 9 years but didn't have
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children so it was a bit of a novelty at
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that point again for us to turn up with
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two kids that were relatively young
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secondly um it was the it was the start
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of social media and so you know that
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wasn't around really in Helen's day and
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even in my day you know Instagram was
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the thing you put up a photo on at the
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very end of my time being prime minister
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you weren't dming people and all of that
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kind of stuff and and I mean you know
00:16:07
you weren't using like look at the
00:16:08
modern world I mean the politicians of
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all Stripes all around the world try and
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go around the mainstream media not to be
00:16:14
difficult because they hate them but
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because that's how they connect via
00:16:17
where is Facebook or Tik Tok or whatever
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platform they want so that was all
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different so that was so there were many
00:16:23
things and then to be fair you know Max
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sometimes CED it a bit he you know he
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had periods of LoveHate relationship
00:16:31
with all but times where he liked it and
00:16:33
Stephy is Stephy you know she's an
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amazing girl but she like I mean she did
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Cover herself and and Sushi and then
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photograph herself semi naked so yeah
00:16:42
that sort of thing does get the media's
00:16:43
attention occasionally you look back in
00:16:45
hindsight that was rough like Steph it
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was an art project and M in terms of um
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um you know High Janks or whatever you
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want to call it teenage boys get out to
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it was fairly low level the um one thing
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that the thing where he um it was a
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Snapchat where he yelled out to a
00:17:01
cyclist
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woman it was it was a dumb joke but it
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was a joke by teenage boy how how do you
00:17:08
hear about that do you hear about it
00:17:09
from him or from the
00:17:10
media it depended on the circumstances
00:17:13
generally generally from him but
00:17:15
sometimes from my press sex that would
00:17:17
be like wow you're going to get that one
00:17:19
I mean there were very I mean most for
00:17:22
the most part I I really defend them and
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actually the New Zealand Public were
00:17:26
amazing cuz they just sat there and went
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well our do that stuff even if it was
00:17:30
dumb or even if it was you know a bit
00:17:32
sort of you know you know geish or young
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young boy stuff I mean they go yeah okay
00:17:37
but but our teenage son does that too
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you know like he's not on his own um and
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for the most part they were they were
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great kids you know they didn't do
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anything seriously wrong but something
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like that like are you are you telling
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them off are you on the phone saying
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what if are you doing there was one or
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two there was I can't remember it might
00:17:53
have been that one or another one where
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I just said look yeah that's just that's
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just no um and but but but for the most
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part you know it would depend on the
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circumstance of what he was doing and
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what it was but I mean you know I
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remember when he he came home that day
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and did a plank and he was in the he was
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it was when planking was the big deal
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and he was in the study and he yells out
00:18:15
at me I'd been in Parliament all week I
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walk into the study and he'd set up the
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camera somehow in a way where he takes
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that photo apparently we were
00:18:22
single-handedly killed blanking but
00:18:25
anyway worldwide or whatever a little
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rough but yeah it was and then that was
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days of it and then he I know we we get
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in the spa one day he takes a photo and
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I'm there you know like you know and I
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mean it's not like I'm naked but I don't
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obviously got togs on so I mean yeah and
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stuff like that I mean when you look
00:18:41
back on all of it it makes you laugh you
00:18:43
know really um but at the time some of
00:18:47
it was like oh so it was a bit draining
00:18:49
but it comes back to what you said I
00:18:50
mean this is the problem and this is
00:18:52
what I was try and say to people when
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they go into politics you know it's a
00:18:55
weird world you're in because when you
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first go there you're cting the media
00:19:01
you know you want to be noticed you want
00:19:03
them to you know like you and to promote
00:19:05
you and all that sort stuff and then all
00:19:07
of a sudden when you turn them on just
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be careful because you can't turn them
00:19:10
off and um but you I remember like we we
00:19:14
did commercial radio which obviously you
00:19:16
know you know J Mike and do yeah yeah um
00:19:19
and you you're our favorite Prim out of
00:19:22
all the seconds of prises I've had Helen
00:19:25
never played ball never wanted to play
00:19:27
ball no no it was all I was stupid
00:19:29
enough to do but but but the thing was
00:19:32
though I was worked on the principal a
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lot again if you go back to what I was
00:19:35
saying ear you're really talking to the
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audience I reckon there were a whole you
00:19:39
know hundreds of thousands of people
00:19:41
that used to listen to your show who
00:19:42
weren't actually that interested in
00:19:44
politics didn't really know much about
00:19:45
me didn't know really much about
00:19:47
politics in general but I Reon they
00:19:49
would have come away and said oh he's a
00:19:50
bit of a laugh he seems like an okay guy
00:19:52
probably voted for us you know so there
00:19:54
was method in the madness in that um
00:19:57
you're just trying to show them your
00:19:58
person Al it a little bit and and to be
00:20:00
fair I've kind of got that personality
00:20:03
where I've definitely an A type
00:20:04
personality obviously so you know I
00:20:06
wasn't like I was trying to you know I
00:20:08
got some dark personality and I was
00:20:09
trying to turn it on when I was it just
00:20:11
as who I am um and for the most part it
00:20:13
worked really really well for me and it
00:20:15
was like you know the yeah like it like
00:20:18
when you build a bit of a following I I
00:20:20
remember in 2014 like I said that was
00:20:22
the time when we had the.com thing in
00:20:24
the book and everything and it was so
00:20:25
internally it was feeling like oh my
00:20:27
goodness gracious you know was all
00:20:28
feeling quite ugly I I remember ringing
00:20:31
at Wayne you know my chief staff and
00:20:33
saying this is nuts we were trying to
00:20:35
walk into malls on doing the Walkabout
00:20:38
during the campaigns we if we couldn't
00:20:41
get through the double doors to get a
00:20:43
little bit of space inside the whole
00:20:46
thing was there was so many people come
00:20:48
around us taking F and it was just crazy
00:20:51
it was like honestly hundreds and
00:20:53
hundreds and hundreds of people trying
00:20:54
to take photos and I said to way I said
00:20:57
look I know I know when we do the
00:21:00
standup every day it's like you believe
00:21:02
that you know we're in so much trouble
00:21:04
it's not funny but I said it's like a
00:21:06
rock concert out there I've never felt
00:21:08
anything like that and um and to be fair
00:21:11
I had a lot of it over the time over the
00:21:14
over the sort of 10 years I was the
00:21:16
leader and eight years I was prime
00:21:17
minister I had a lot of it but but it
00:21:19
was a great barometer and I think by
00:21:22
building that sort of I guess that
00:21:25
personality that just that it just it
00:21:28
just meant that if if there was
00:21:30
something negative in the media people
00:21:32
kind of um could see around it and I was
00:21:35
thought like if I did a selfie with you
00:21:37
know some young person and then they
00:21:39
show it to their parents and then they
00:21:41
share it with all their friends and all
00:21:42
that stuff and then they go oh what was
00:21:43
he like and then they go yeah he seemed
00:21:45
really nice and he took it of us and all
00:21:46
this but you know that that personal
00:21:49
support probably adds a lot more than an
00:21:52
editorial which might be negative about
00:21:54
me because most people don't read the
00:21:55
editorial whereas they actually listen
00:21:57
to the Billy who met me somewhere and
00:21:59
goes oh he was actually way better than
00:22:01
I thought or whatever yeah you were
00:22:03
great like when um there's there's one
00:22:05
clip of you on coming on our radio show
00:22:06
singing the Mariah care oh god well
00:22:08
there still the Shocker isn't it it's
00:22:10
had millions of views on Tik Tok um
00:22:14
Millions when when and not in a good way
00:22:17
when when you do when you did that like
00:22:18
did did you go did Leslie your press
00:22:21
lady like tell you off in the car yeah
00:22:23
yeah no no no no I got a pacing yeah but
00:22:26
every time I put on a hat I had to pay a
00:22:28
fine I literally used to just pay the
00:22:30
morning tea fine before I even left in
00:22:31
the week I just go like here's the money
00:22:34
every time you put on a hat some stupid
00:22:36
hat they didn't like that and because
00:22:38
they knew the media would take a photo
00:22:39
then they had some get another picture
00:22:41
of me and they everywhere you go they go
00:22:43
no hats and then they' give me some hat
00:22:44
and I put the bloody hat on and then I
00:22:46
have to pay the fine which was morning
00:22:48
tea for the press press secret and so I
00:22:51
know just basically was a direct debit
00:22:53
from my account um but again you know it
00:22:56
was like people yeah I tell you a really
00:22:59
interesting story Angela Merkel you know
00:23:01
the chancellor of Germany she came to
00:23:02
New Zealand so she comes over and she
00:23:05
was she's a great one I actually think
00:23:07
she's one of the great leaders actually
00:23:08
I know there were one or two things that
00:23:10
weren't perfect but there was a hell of
00:23:11
a lot right and she lead Europe and she
00:23:13
was she made Germany the you know the
00:23:15
strong man of Europe anyway she she
00:23:17
comes out and she was coming to the G20
00:23:19
and we were going because we're not
00:23:20
we're the 53rd economy in the world so
00:23:22
we're not big enough to go to the G20
00:23:24
but we were going and um because you can
00:23:27
if you're the host you invite your
00:23:28
friends so Australia had to invite us
00:23:30
and Tony invited us over so we were fine
00:23:33
so Anga said I'm going to come down to
00:23:35
New Zealand I'm going to come on the
00:23:36
Thursday and Friday or something and
00:23:38
then we'll go over to um you know
00:23:41
G20 which was in Brisbane so I said yeah
00:23:44
fine all good so she comes s here and I
00:23:46
so I rang her up and I said what do you
00:23:47
want to do and I knew it quite well so I
00:23:48
said what do you want to do she said
00:23:49
John I don't want to do meetings let's
00:23:51
just do one little you know a meet and
00:23:53
greet you know a little little thing a
00:23:54
press conference but I want to do nature
00:23:57
you know cuz you know the Germans love
00:23:58
nature right a lot of gym tourists come
00:24:00
for nature so I said okay so we decided
00:24:03
we'd take her to motoro Island and to
00:24:05
release a Ki right so anyway there's
00:24:08
this picture of her and she's holding
00:24:10
the Kiwi I think I'm standing next to
00:24:12
her and then she releases this kiwi into
00:24:14
the W anyway fine so you that's the end
00:24:16
of it there's tons of media and lots of
00:24:17
people we've done same thing with Prince
00:24:19
William and you know he came out anyway
00:24:21
fine all good so anyway on the Sunday
00:24:23
she comes over she goes John John I go
00:24:26
go yes she goes the picture the picture
00:24:28
and I go what picture Ang she goes the
00:24:31
picture me and the kiwi and I go yeah
00:24:33
yeah it was a good picture she goes that
00:24:34
picture has had five times more views
00:24:37
than anything I've done at the
00:24:39
G20 this is like the to be the 20 big
00:24:42
leaders of the world and people are
00:24:43
looking at the picture of her with a
00:24:45
kiwi right in New Zeal and that's the
00:24:47
point that most people in their lives
00:24:48
they just say to politicians oh you get
00:24:50
on with the the hard stuff good better
00:24:52
and different they're actually
00:24:54
interested in human life they're
00:24:55
interested in and that's why you know
00:24:58
celebrity pictures of their wedding or I
00:25:00
don't know on the holiday somewhere that
00:25:02
sells because it's relatable and the
00:25:06
other stuff is just like I don't know
00:25:07
what the oecd stanville what do they
00:25:09
really do I know you know that kind of
00:25:11
stuff yeah yeah yeah that's true I
00:25:13
suppose there's some people that are
00:25:14
like super Super Hyper actively engaged
00:25:16
in politics but then 80% in the middle
00:25:18
that just yeah they just sort of roughly
00:25:20
good close enough is good enough um well
00:25:23
these are great Yarns hey um let's go um
00:25:26
let's go all the way back I've got a
00:25:27
photo here to
00:25:29
okay oh you're the State House 19 Holly
00:25:31
for yeah I wanted to buy it actually
00:25:32
when the government was selling them off
00:25:34
yeah so let's talk about the the early
00:25:35
years so so values and lessons so um
00:25:39
that you were born in Orland and yeah
00:25:40
born Inland yeah you moved into 19
00:25:42
Holford 19 hollyood was in crush so when
00:25:45
I was about six I think dad died and had
00:25:48
this massive heart attack drop down dead
00:25:51
um and so Mom had gone off to the
00:25:53
accountant and said look my husband's
00:25:55
died he's got all these businesses I've
00:25:57
got three children um he and the
00:25:59
accountant said come back in two weeks
00:26:00
and he basically said you want the good
00:26:01
news or the bad news and she said no
00:26:03
I'll take the bad news first and he said
00:26:05
you're broke she what's the good news
00:26:07
and he's he said well I'm not too bad of
00:26:10
an accounter I can get you out of quite
00:26:11
a bit of stuff her mom said nah that's
00:26:12
not really how it work so she sold the
00:26:14
family home sold up all the businesses
00:26:16
sold everything and moved us to kashish
00:26:18
which is how we ended up in the infamous
00:26:20
kind of state house which was 19 Holly
00:26:23
so yeah I remember her being there but
00:26:24
you know the interesting thing with this
00:26:26
was we stayed there my other sisters
00:26:28
older than me so Liz went off to London
00:26:30
Sue was um 3 years older than me
00:26:32
eventually you know what all people you
00:26:35
young young people did those say got a
00:26:36
job at 16 and then you know went
00:26:38
overseas and um I convinced m m was M
00:26:43
was a great worker and she was a cleaner
00:26:46
she so that was the only thing she was a
00:26:47
night Porter cuz she cuz she could do
00:26:49
something when I was in bed literally at
00:26:51
night and she could go from work and
00:26:54
leave my sisters there at the time and
00:26:56
then later on she was a cleaner but she
00:26:58
saved enough money to buy herself an
00:27:01
ownership flat so she moved out so she
00:27:03
moved to um you know 160 High Road
00:27:05
actually I think it was but yeah what
00:27:07
are your Recollections of your dad uh
00:27:09
virtually none I know it sounds really
00:27:12
weird yeah but um Dad was dad was that
00:27:15
was his second marriage so we had two I
00:27:17
got two half Brothers one of them was
00:27:18
passed away actually but so dad was
00:27:20
quite a bit older than Mom and um they'd
00:27:23
met after the war so they then they come
00:27:25
out to New Zealand so um so weirdly I
00:27:29
have one memory of him um and it was he
00:27:32
gave me some toy and he was I think he
00:27:33
was in trouble with Mom so I think I
00:27:35
remember the ra um and to be FY drank a
00:27:39
bit too much if you know what I mean so
00:27:40
there was a few issues but but but um
00:27:44
but yeah I virtually no memories of him
00:27:48
and um and Mom just sort of when dad
00:27:51
died mom just sort of really moved on
00:27:53
she never she never
00:27:55
remarried and um
00:27:58
and she but she she was an incredible
00:28:00
person I mean she was this Austrian
00:28:02
Jewish Refugee you know had got out when
00:28:05
the Nazis invaded out of Austria she
00:28:07
always used to say to me look John you
00:28:09
get out of life what you put into it and
00:28:11
you you can sit around with every excuse
00:28:12
you want but ultimately you you're the
00:28:14
master of your own destiny and it was
00:28:17
that and really education she used to
00:28:19
say look you they can take money away
00:28:21
from you they can do all of these things
00:28:23
but ultimately they can't take your
00:28:24
drive and they can't take um your
00:28:26
education away from you if you have both
00:28:29
of those things you can make it work and
00:28:31
and so many people when I was prime
00:28:33
minister used to come up to me and go
00:28:34
yeah mate I grew up in the state house I
00:28:35
did this and they massively successful
00:28:38
so which is not to say it's an easy life
00:28:40
for someone so I understand completely
00:28:42
you how hard does for youngsters it
00:28:43
might find themselves in a difficult
00:28:45
position but I do think ultimately
00:28:47
ultimately if you want to make it you
00:28:50
can and you will you even today and as
00:28:53
difficult as you can and you will I love
00:28:55
that that's such you had a guy on the
00:28:56
the podcast a couple of months ago
00:28:58
called um I don't expect you to know the
00:28:59
name but abz nazari and uh his family
00:29:01
were on the uh the Tampa oh they're on
00:29:03
the Tampa yeah yeah so they they um I
00:29:05
think John Howard didn't want them in
00:29:07
Australia New Zealand and he he learned
00:29:09
he learned the English alphabet in the
00:29:11
um Refugee Center in mang and now he he
00:29:15
owns a couple of business his dad who
00:29:16
was stripped of his identity and
00:29:18
everything and he came to New Zealand
00:29:19
with nothing now he a like a car parts
00:29:21
business in kich with 20 staff like
00:29:23
every single family member's done
00:29:24
exceptionally well from this um State
00:29:26
housing environment and the opportunity
00:29:28
they were given in New Zealand yeah and
00:29:29
that's what you see on migration I'm I
00:29:31
was always Pro migration so when people
00:29:34
don't like migration it's generally
00:29:36
speaking not that they're a bunch of
00:29:37
racists I mean you know you can obvious
00:29:39
get people who might be like that but
00:29:40
but as a general rule new zealanders are
00:29:42
actually not racists and they and they
00:29:44
get on with their neighbors and they
00:29:46
like their workmates and all that sort
00:29:47
of stuff and all the rest of it right
00:29:49
what they don't like about migration is
00:29:51
if they think that the the Ser Social
00:29:54
Services they rely on the school they
00:29:56
send their child the hospital they might
00:29:57
need to go to the road that they drive
00:30:00
on if they think they're overpowered by
00:30:02
by lots of people coming in they don't
00:30:04
like that right and we basically have
00:30:06
legal migration New Zealand so the big
00:30:08
debate in places like the UK with brexit
00:30:11
or the United States with this all this
00:30:13
build the wall and all that stuff that's
00:30:15
all driven off illegal migration but
00:30:17
we've this massive SE round New Zealand
00:30:19
you might have noticed so it's quite
00:30:21
tricking to get to and and so basically
00:30:23
our migration is legal so we can control
00:30:26
tap and see why to say to people is look
00:30:28
it's good if you bring Capital as a
00:30:31
migrant so you know these these people
00:30:32
who come and they build businesses and
00:30:34
they're fantastic um it's it's good if
00:30:36
you bring skills and high level of
00:30:38
Education again fantastic you can fit in
00:30:40
but most of all bring the bring the
00:30:42
attitude that you want to make New
00:30:44
Zealand your home and you want to work
00:30:46
hard and I mean you can pick any
00:30:49
combination you want right I mean I'm
00:30:51
just but but okay take the South African
00:30:54
population um there's a huge number of
00:30:56
South Africans that have come to New
00:30:57
Zealand of them live in ockland she last
00:31:00
time I locked on and see many of them
00:31:01
being unemployed I mean they work hard
00:31:04
they're
00:31:05
entrepreneurial um you know they they
00:31:08
frankly they might still support the box
00:31:10
and that's about it you know you know by
00:31:12
the way we're beating us a bit more than
00:31:14
than they should be um but you know the
00:31:16
Filipinos I mean you go to any hospital
00:31:18
and show me and show me how the place
00:31:20
would operate without Filipino nurses
00:31:22
and so what are these people bringing
00:31:24
they're
00:31:25
bringing because you're a migrant and
00:31:27
because because you have to give up so
00:31:29
much from where you were to make a new
00:31:32
place home you have to give up your
00:31:34
family half time and your friends and
00:31:36
the things that make you feel
00:31:37
comfortable from foods and you know I
00:31:39
know drinks and newspapers and all that
00:31:42
sort of stuff I mean of course in the
00:31:43
modern world a bit more of it
00:31:44
supportable but not as much as it was um
00:31:47
or not you know not nothing like being
00:31:49
there you it takes a certain personality
00:31:53
to do that and that personality breeds
00:31:55
in you a determination and that why you
00:31:59
know look at the number of of Asian
00:32:01
parents that really push their kids now
00:32:04
you can say maybe they're pushing them
00:32:05
too hard and you know there's too much
00:32:07
you know study after school and ballet
00:32:10
and all that stuff but but in the end
00:32:11
they're doing that because they came
00:32:13
from highly competitive place they gave
00:32:15
up everything to be here and they they
00:32:17
are literally dedicating their life for
00:32:20
their for their children and those
00:32:21
children are very often going on to
00:32:24
being partners of law firms and surgeons
00:32:27
and whatever so
00:32:28
that's kind of why I'm Pro well it kind
00:32:30
of goes back to the um the the mentor
00:32:32
from your mom you get out what you put
00:32:34
on yeah and she was she was like that
00:32:36
she was and she was hard like my my
00:32:38
mother was very very European in that
00:32:41
regard you know how like you know like I
00:32:43
I if you watch F1 but like Max for
00:32:45
Stefan most people don't seem to like
00:32:46
Max for Stefan actually we went to F1 in
00:32:48
Singapore for semi work and obviously a
00:32:51
lot of fun and I actually I like Max for
00:32:54
7 and I get it that some people don't
00:32:56
because he's you know sounds a bit Gruff
00:32:58
or whatever um but he's just he's just
00:33:02
that those sort of you know benx type
00:33:05
countries you know basically Germany
00:33:06
Austria you know the Netherlands that
00:33:09
they you know they are a bit more abrupt
00:33:12
sometimes um but but but they're just
00:33:16
telling you what they think and they
00:33:17
don't even mean it in a way that's we
00:33:19
might sugarcoat it a bit more but you
00:33:21
know in a lot of ways I'd rather you
00:33:22
tell me what you think I mean you know
00:33:23
it's actually fine I I can I can live
00:33:25
with it it's it's probably if you tell
00:33:26
me one thing in mean something different
00:33:28
that I probably don't like yeah
00:33:30
absolutely so so you wanted to be um you
00:33:33
had like aspirations to be prime
00:33:34
minister from a real young age like 10 I
00:33:37
was about 10 years what did you why what
00:33:39
did you what did you associate with the
00:33:40
job at that age did you associate money
00:33:42
with it power well well I think you yeah
00:33:45
okay it's power and opportunity and
00:33:47
money and Glamour and all of those
00:33:49
things you know like these are the days
00:33:51
where you know New Zealand had one one
00:33:52
TV channel oh by the way oops we're
00:33:54
getting rapidly back to that situation
00:33:57
but you know yeah and so you watch the
00:34:00
news and M was a massive sort of you
00:34:03
know like she yeah I guess it was
00:34:04
probably that generation not we're still
00:34:06
the same we still watch six o' news and
00:34:08
we watch both channels but um but you
00:34:10
know she watched the news and and I was
00:34:12
always s of and she loved political
00:34:15
debate you know she actually liked the
00:34:17
discussion about things and she was yeah
00:34:19
like I said my mother was very socially
00:34:21
liberal um and and actually more labor
00:34:25
than than National cuz she you know the
00:34:26
state house and all that sort stuff but
00:34:28
but but basically she was quite happy to
00:34:31
have the discussion you know like she
00:34:33
was interested in that and so I got
00:34:35
interested and then I just watched it
00:34:37
and I think I think look your
00:34:38
motivations when I ran I was 40 so your
00:34:41
motivations for becoming a MP and
00:34:44
hopefully one day prime minister at 40
00:34:46
is very different from a 10-year-old you
00:34:48
know um but but you have to have that
00:34:52
you have to have enough of an ego to
00:34:56
really ultimately when you do it to
00:34:57
really believe you can change things and
00:34:59
make a difference and oh by the way
00:35:00
you're right you know and but when
00:35:03
you're 10 I think it's just you look at
00:35:05
it and you go wow and it's like the the
00:35:07
biggest job in the country and nowadays
00:35:09
it might be a little bit different maybe
00:35:10
you want to be Tay or something else but
00:35:13
you know I can't sing oh yeah that's
00:35:14
right you know that cuz I've been on
00:35:15
your show but I did have headphones on
00:35:19
and no music just for the record like
00:35:22
it's like the three-way handshake that
00:35:24
was nothing to do with me the French guy
00:35:25
came over the top leway we'll get into
00:35:28
that um okay yeah so you even wrote to
00:35:31
the uh prime minister at the time yeah
00:35:34
yeah and he wrote back and and that was
00:35:35
one of the reasons when I was prime
00:35:37
minister I used to write to every single
00:35:38
young person that wrote to me and the
00:35:40
and the correspondence unit you have
00:35:42
four people in corresponden you four or
00:35:44
five people and they are answering
00:35:46
everything now some of them might be if
00:35:48
there's a generic campaign going on
00:35:50
about climate change or whatever but you
00:35:52
know kids would go to school and they'd
00:35:54
study your know Parliament or they'd
00:35:56
study you know you know Hector's
00:35:58
dolphins or Maui dolphins or whatever
00:36:00
and then I'd get you hundreds of letters
00:36:02
you but every child I'd write back with
00:36:04
this little card they had a picture of
00:36:05
my face on the front of it and I'd write
00:36:08
you know dear Katie hope school's going
00:36:09
well thanks for writing to me you know
00:36:11
Jo and and I honestly it'd be one in the
00:36:13
morning I'd be in my office in
00:36:15
Wellington that every single light would
00:36:17
be out except the ninth floor I don't
00:36:19
trying to make people feel sorry for me
00:36:20
and then I put that little silver
00:36:22
through pin and i' do hundreds of these
00:36:24
play things but I did it because when
00:36:25
rolling wrote back to me I always
00:36:28
thought um it just felt special and I
00:36:30
thought you know um it a different it
00:36:34
was a different world but I you know I
00:36:36
just respected the fact I didn't
00:36:37
obviously it's not my style of politics
00:36:39
but I just respected the fact he' done
00:36:41
it so I did it no one no one sees that
00:36:44
eh no no one sees you sitting in the
00:36:46
office at 1: a.m. no well that that's
00:36:47
the thing that's the thing that they
00:36:49
don't realize I mean you know when you
00:36:50
see these sort of arguments around you
00:36:52
know MP's perks or whatever I mean look
00:36:56
um you can never in those arguments and
00:36:58
and and actually I got the thing from
00:37:01
the um you know they they they they
00:37:03
write you a letter as a former prime
00:37:05
minister and and um and uh uh you know
00:37:08
if you're the spouse of a former prime
00:37:10
minister you have all these entitlements
00:37:12
and you can imagine what would be like
00:37:13
if I took those things over the life is
00:37:15
I never talk them when I was primeone
00:37:17
now so I got the thing yesterday from
00:37:19
the from the interal of fears R me tell
00:37:21
me that one of the they name everyone so
00:37:23
someone cuz they're going to release it
00:37:25
publicly and one person's out at like 30
00:37:27
$6,000 I was $56 to this day I have no
00:37:30
idea what the $56 was but anyway the
00:37:33
point being you know you you know you
00:37:35
can't win those arguments but yeah
00:37:37
people don't realize actually these
00:37:39
people are working ridiculous out cuz
00:37:41
you see the little bit you see you don't
00:37:44
see them going off to every school fear
00:37:46
or calf day or a million different
00:37:49
things that they're required to do it
00:37:50
doesn't matter where you're the most
00:37:51
Junior back bencher they actually work
00:37:53
insane hours really um and it's a little
00:37:56
bit like you know it's become a thing in
00:37:58
the media now to bag the Civil Service
00:38:01
when they go off to some conference
00:38:02
somewhere and they're going business
00:38:04
class apparently well okay fair enough I
00:38:07
suppose if people want to argue that but
00:38:09
seriously we're a $350 billion economy
00:38:13
the government I mean my opinion been
00:38:14
too much or the current government is
00:38:16
doing a good job of trying to reduce it
00:38:18
but we probably spend hundred billion
00:38:19
dollars a year I mean if we can't send
00:38:22
the head of a government agency to a
00:38:24
conference business class we've really
00:38:26
lost the plot I mean the point being
00:38:29
that you know you can make an argument
00:38:30
about whether they should go to a
00:38:32
conference but then I'd make an argument
00:38:33
with you that again you know I'm not
00:38:36
trying to defend the civil service but
00:38:38
but they they have big responsibilities
00:38:39
these are like in the essence very very
00:38:41
big organizations you want them to be
00:38:43
engaged in what's happening around the
00:38:45
world so sometimes we got to get over
00:38:46
ourselves a little bit yeah also um
00:38:49
having our I don't know what the plan's
00:38:50
called but our version of Air Force One
00:38:52
that bre it's embarrassing yeah yeah
00:38:54
well you know the truth is that you no
00:38:57
PR get had the the the you know gumption
00:38:59
or whatever to change and they're going
00:39:01
to have to change cuz the seven part is
00:39:02
a pretty old plane so I suspect that'll
00:39:04
get changed at some point but yeah so um
00:39:07
so you finished school and you becomeing
00:39:09
you you do an accountant degree was that
00:39:11
sort of like a like a planned Pathway to
00:39:13
being prime minister play by my mother
00:39:15
not to be prime minister yeah yeah no I
00:39:19
I had numerous occasions where I'd said
00:39:20
to you I'm going to do this I'm going to
00:39:22
do that I mean like literally my you go
00:39:24
back to school in those days you know
00:39:26
you learned French or German right
00:39:28
that's what well if you didn't do that
00:39:30
you did Commerce basically counting or
00:39:32
whatever right I remember coming home
00:39:34
saying right well I'm going to learn
00:39:35
German and a m and who are very austron
00:39:38
go that's a bloody waste of time I go
00:39:41
yeah okay well maybe if you Tau to me
00:39:42
then I could do both she goes no there's
00:39:44
a waste of time too
00:39:46
so you will do your you you will do your
00:39:49
accounting and she my friends would come
00:39:51
over and get tutoring from my mother in
00:39:54
German she wouldn't she wouldn't teach
00:39:56
me German because she said that is a
00:39:57
complete waste of time you're never
00:39:59
going to use that by the way would have
00:40:00
been quite useful I Anga MK although she
00:40:02
speaks perfect English um but you know
00:40:04
the point being um she said no no no you
00:40:07
you you're going to be a business person
00:40:08
well she always used to say son there
00:40:10
are two types of people in the world
00:40:11
doers and payers you are most definitely
00:40:14
a payer so get a decent education by the
00:40:16
way that means you're going to be an
00:40:17
accountant so every time I came home
00:40:19
with an alternative thing I might do was
00:40:21
say no no no no no you're going to me an
00:40:23
accountant and um and so I didn't even
00:40:26
want to do account and I'm hopeless at
00:40:28
it although I can't read a balance sheet
00:40:29
now but you well know but you did all
00:40:31
right so then um yes so you become an
00:40:33
accountant um then you become a currency
00:40:35
Traer and um yeah there's um if you go
00:40:37
to New Zealand on screen there's a
00:40:38
documentary there called Big dealers
00:40:40
yeah the day in the life of change
00:40:42
dealers this is you me with the glasses
00:40:45
you you were saying before how you've
00:40:46
aged but I re you've aged 12 you had a
00:40:48
glow up what when did the glasses go
00:40:51
yeah where the glasses went well funny
00:40:52
enough actually I had a thing called um
00:40:55
I didn't care about the glasses as in
00:40:56
like then BR Mar it was all too late
00:40:59
anyway but um I didn't care about the
00:41:01
glasses per say but you know if I went
00:41:03
to sport you know like I quite like
00:41:05
sports so if I if I went for a run or I
00:41:07
you know did anything you know played
00:41:08
golf or you it used to annoy me you know
00:41:11
that so so I in the very early days they
00:41:14
did a thing called PRK which I think is
00:41:17
um radial chema tottering but it was the
00:41:19
way they did it before they lasered your
00:41:21
eyes nowadays they're lazy your eyes you
00:41:22
know if you're if you're long-sighted
00:41:24
you know can't see shortsighted can't
00:41:26
see distance you so um and I went in it
00:41:29
was really early on and the guy who was
00:41:32
my um surgeon you know or or the well we
00:41:35
were great friends with them we' gone
00:41:36
through an NA class together he we were
00:41:39
I was in London he was so particular
00:41:41
about he checked out the the serial
00:41:43
number of the machine that they were
00:41:45
doing anyway it was it was a really
00:41:46
amazing they burn off the front of your
00:41:48
eye with the thing goes click click
00:41:49
click click click and you can smell you
00:41:51
can smell a burning smell and that's
00:41:54
actually your your corn or whatever
00:41:56
being burned off oh anyway um the crazy
00:41:59
thing about it was I remember going it
00:42:01
was quite new technology and we went in
00:42:03
and I was booked in at 4 in the
00:42:04
afternoon on a Friday and by then you we
00:42:07
were in London we had two kids the kids
00:42:09
were young like it was you know like any
00:42:11
household with two young children and BR
00:42:13
was sort of at home and it was chaos and
00:42:15
all sort stuff so anyway I go along to
00:42:18
this PRK thing and there's three or four
00:42:20
other you know people who are doing it
00:42:22
and they're all with their families
00:42:24
literally having prayer sessions the
00:42:27
waiting room and I'm there on my own
00:42:30
catching a camp home with some big thing
00:42:31
over my eyes and oh my God but anyway I
00:42:34
had all that done and then the glasses
00:42:36
went so you know yeah um and then so
00:42:39
before you yeah so obviously we're doing
00:42:40
quite well as a currency Trader like in
00:42:42
that documentary which I think is the
00:42:43
mid 80s yeah that was At Elders Merchant
00:42:45
finess so what happened was in ' 84 they
00:42:48
labor came in and longy um appointed
00:42:51
Douglas's Finance Minister and Douglas
00:42:52
did the right thing actually deregulated
00:42:54
New Zealand it was the only way through
00:42:56
and that saw a floating of the exchange
00:42:58
rate and that's when I came in basically
00:43:00
then and then I started with Elders
00:43:03
merch and finance but pretty rapidly
00:43:05
went to Banker trust and I was in Banker
00:43:07
trust for 1995 and it was then that I
00:43:09
realized I kind of ran out of Runway
00:43:11
really and I was going to go to
00:43:13
Singapore and the ultimate they wanted
00:43:15
me to go to New York with bank stru I
00:43:17
ended up going with Merl Lynch and that
00:43:19
was miror I stayed with until I came
00:43:20
back to run so it was you know 20 odd
00:43:23
years of investment banking yeah what
00:43:25
what sort of money were you earning in
00:43:26
the mid 80s you were driving like a nice
00:43:27
uh it looked like a nice BMW for its
00:43:29
time well that was that was the crazy
00:43:31
thing I think in I mean those days in
00:43:33
the early days when it first started
00:43:36
they they there was no one in that
00:43:37
industry so it was like it was the hot
00:43:40
thing to do and and to be fair we had a
00:43:43
pretty good track record and I I kind of
00:43:46
worked for me it just suited my
00:43:47
personality so I think in the I was
00:43:50
getting you know not a long way short of
00:43:52
a million dollars I think I went to
00:43:54
Banker trust for a million dollars a
00:43:56
year and that was like
00:43:58
1989 yeah I know it was crazy I mean we
00:44:01
bought the beach house at
00:44:03
Omaha um we bought we bought it for cash
00:44:07
and it was it was a um we bought the
00:44:10
section and built the house and it was
00:44:11
350,000 the first round we bought it for
00:44:14
cash and we already bought a house in
00:44:17
remuer and all that sort of stuff and
00:44:19
yeah I mean by the time I left I mean it
00:44:21
was the biggest salary drop in history
00:44:23
going from that to being a big Venter in
00:44:25
Parliament yeah what what were you on a
00:44:27
miral check when you when you finished
00:44:29
up oh millions and millions really oh
00:44:31
millions millions and millions yeah so
00:44:34
why why do why do that yeah know I mean
00:44:37
it worked out all right but you you're
00:44:38
rolling the dice in a big way like you
00:44:40
know everyone yeah and I nearly didn't
00:44:42
make it I mean I came in an o02 which
00:44:43
was the worst result Nationals had I'd
00:44:46
only just won the challenge to win
00:44:48
henville which by the way was a lot more
00:44:50
tricky than anyone ever thought because
00:44:53
I well I was so green I thought
00:44:55
challenges happened all the time they
00:44:56
never did the whole thing was you know
00:44:59
um so yeah if you sat there today and
00:45:02
said okay I'm going to map all this out
00:45:04
and you're going to take that risk you
00:45:07
would you would say you've got rocks in
00:45:09
your head like when I went into resign I
00:45:12
went in I think in 2000 something to
00:45:14
tell Dave kamansky that I was going to
00:45:17
at Merill in New York um because I was
00:45:19
quite senior so I wanted to give them
00:45:21
lots of time and it wasn't like I was
00:45:22
going off to Golden sax or something so
00:45:24
I just went and say hey look I'm going
00:45:25
to go back I'm going to retire I'm going
00:45:27
to run for politics you know and I'm
00:45:28
going to retire at the end of 2001 right
00:45:31
and he just looked at me he went John my
00:45:33
boy you are having a midli crisis I'm
00:45:36
going to send you to run Australia I
00:45:38
went well okay um I said well I don't
00:45:40
think I am having a midli crisis but
00:45:41
then they came back about two weeks
00:45:43
later and they said we want you to stay
00:45:49
and we want for the for the whole of the
00:45:51
Investment Bank we want to make you
00:45:52
Global head of sales and that was across
00:45:54
everything there was you know all of the
00:45:56
different businesses and that was a huge
00:45:59
job and and that was a lot of zeros and
00:46:04
um I remember going home to br going
00:46:06
this is absolutely lunacy cuz I would
00:46:08
actually do that job really well and
00:46:12
um but you know I made the decision I
00:46:14
was going to go and I just got to my
00:46:15
head I was going to do it and I did it
00:46:18
but but if you really sat back and
00:46:20
looked at it you would say it was a m it
00:46:22
was a brain expion it was mad it was
00:46:24
totally mad but then you look at at it
00:46:27
today and see maril Lynch eventually
00:46:29
went bus so who knows how much stock I
00:46:30
would have lost and who knows what would
00:46:32
have happened and you never know and
00:46:35
then and then by the way you know I've
00:46:36
got these
00:46:37
Irreplaceable um things and and and and
00:46:41
and I think you know I don't morbid
00:46:43
about these things but I think you know
00:46:44
when they're finally lowering me into
00:46:46
the ground or actually I'm getting
00:46:47
burned but you know the principal the
00:46:48
same um you know when it's all over do
00:46:51
you think I'll really you know look up
00:46:53
and go you know I should have earned
00:46:55
another $20 million with $ million or do
00:46:57
you think I you think I should have done
00:46:59
what I did and um and I'll always
00:47:02
believe I should have done what I did so
00:47:04
it it's like money money's look I was my
00:47:09
mother used to say money doesn't bring
00:47:10
happiness and I used to say sure as hell
00:47:13
helps and and I was a really
00:47:16
economically driven prime minister um
00:47:18
not because despite what a lot of people
00:47:20
might say I wanted to advance the causes
00:47:22
of rich people cuz actually rich people
00:47:24
can look after themselves they don't
00:47:26
need the government they don't need me
00:47:28
but it was because I wanted to make more
00:47:30
people financially independent because
00:47:31
there's nothing worse than actually not
00:47:33
being able to pay the bills and feeling
00:47:35
frightened and you know having a whole
00:47:37
life you know living from paycheck to
00:47:39
paycheck um and you can argue the case
00:47:41
about how you make that happen I've got
00:47:43
a particular economic prescription some
00:47:44
will agree with me some won't um but but
00:47:48
I kind of learned that you know that but
00:47:50
but on the other side of the coin money
00:47:52
is only value in exchange right like
00:47:54
that's it's what you can do with it I
00:47:56
mean the richest guy in the graveyard is
00:47:58
not necessarily the smartest guy right I
00:48:01
think it's about what you did with your
00:48:03
life and and so so me at our at our
00:48:07
stage in life and everything might
00:48:09
change but in our stage in life with the
00:48:11
amount of Financial Resources we've got
00:48:13
more money probably wouldn't make any
00:48:15
difference because I'm not sure I'd do
00:48:17
anything different we like our houses we
00:48:19
have the Hobbies we want we drink the
00:48:21
wine we want you can only eat a couple
00:48:22
of meals a day you know this is just a
00:48:24
limit to what you can do you know when
00:48:26
Mi on the podcast he he said you you
00:48:28
were sort of like um you and brona were
00:48:30
s like tight asses growing up like you
00:48:32
made him job McDonald's yeah well that's
00:48:34
what he says he reckons he was the
00:48:35
poorest little rich kid yeah okay well
00:48:37
good one um yeah but the point was okay
00:48:42
I reckon throwing heaps of money
00:48:44
sometimes at these really young kids I
00:48:46
don't know if that's a great idea you
00:48:48
know like I think that can you you just
00:48:50
asking you know asking for potential
00:48:52
trouble and then secondly um you by the
00:48:55
way life wasn't that bad as first car
00:48:57
was a brand new polo and you know I mean
00:49:00
so he had a pretty nice life um but yeah
00:49:02
we did make him we did make him do that
00:49:04
but to be fair see you can criticize Max
00:49:08
and Stephie for anything you want I mean
00:49:10
all no kids are perfect boy we're not
00:49:12
perfect parents so okay but what you
00:49:16
don't think you can criticize him for is
00:49:18
work ethic like both of them like she's
00:49:20
extremely artistic and doing you know
00:49:22
doing really well and he's really
00:49:24
talented as well but there are many
00:49:26
things but they're not lazy you know
00:49:28
they they they try hard they work hard
00:49:30
they're quite entrepreneurial and so all
00:49:33
you're trying to do is in still in them
00:49:35
that belief that they can do what I said
00:49:37
earlier change their own lives and in
00:49:39
the end they'll decide what they want to
00:49:41
do you're not going to make Stephie some
00:49:44
incredibly financially focused person
00:49:47
she's always going to have that
00:49:49
incredible artistic flare and that's
00:49:50
just her um she's actually more
00:49:52
entrepreneurial than she might want you
00:49:55
to believe and she's she doing really
00:49:56
well um and she's designing jewelry now
00:50:00
and doing you know she's really talented
00:50:03
but um MX has always been much more
00:50:06
business interested but yeah you all
00:50:09
you're trying to do is do that so I mean
00:50:10
to me anyway you know like you make your
00:50:12
choices and don't know what I was saying
00:50:14
but that was that was a choice I made
00:50:16
you know what it worked
00:50:18
out yeah and um um you mi told me like
00:50:21
you are you are you a fan of like manif
00:50:24
manifestation and he he said you used
00:50:26
like talk to the mirror and oh you
00:50:29
would yeah yeah so it's more about Vis
00:50:32
the way I describe would be
00:50:33
visualization so I Reon if if you I I
00:50:36
for when I was leader of the opposition
00:50:38
I was leader of the opposition for I I
00:50:40
was I came in 2006 and won the election
00:50:43
08 so I think M mean certainly that last
00:50:46
year in the 08 year I think I literally
00:50:48
got up every morning went in 191 days
00:50:50
I'll be prime minister and 190 days I'll
00:50:52
be prime minister and and I think if you
00:50:55
can't visualize yourself being there
00:50:58
you'll never get there it's like on a
00:51:00
golf course the greatest PS are not the
00:51:02
technique is no
00:51:04
better nothing's better they just feel
00:51:07
the ball going in the hole they just
00:51:09
think they're going to apparently Trump
00:51:11
I I don't want to bringar Trump's like
00:51:13
that app's annoyingly so but apparently
00:51:16
when he puts go I'm the greatest butter
00:51:18
of all time this is going in the hole
00:51:19
apparently half time does so um I don't
00:51:22
know but to me see if you can't if you
00:51:25
can't
00:51:27
if you can't perceive yourself to be
00:51:29
there you're never going to get there
00:51:31
because you're always going to there's
00:51:33
always going to be someone else you
00:51:34
believe that could be better or take
00:51:36
your place or whatever and I don't know
00:51:37
I mean I don't know enough about
00:51:39
professional sport but the difference
00:51:42
between you know between a Dan Carter
00:51:45
and a whole lot of first fives that
00:51:46
didn't make it or I don't know or you
00:51:48
know Richie mccor and a whole lot of all
00:51:50
black captains that maybe didn't do as
00:51:52
well I mean is it ability I mean maybe I
00:51:54
mean you know but they're all you're
00:51:55
talking about degrees of you know at the
00:51:58
absolute yeah they're right up there
00:52:01
anyway it's more about just they believe
00:52:04
and if you talk to Richie they I think
00:52:05
they got everything from the SAS to all
00:52:07
these sorts of people and after they
00:52:08
lost an' 07 before the 11 campaign they
00:52:11
got all these people need to to role
00:52:13
model and to roleplay all of the
00:52:15
different scenarios including the one
00:52:17
they found themselves in which was you
00:52:19
know they were leading by a point with
00:52:21
you know 10 minutes to go and and and so
00:52:24
and and he reckons that they thrive red
00:52:26
off I don't know just you know I had an
00:52:28
election to win four weeks after that so
00:52:30
I wasn't thriving off that 15 points he
00:52:32
would have been better but anyway I get
00:52:35
it um but yeah to me to me that's a lot
00:52:38
of what what I've been about that I just
00:52:41
and and
00:52:43
and yeah I I know I think I just don't
00:52:45
know I think if you don't have that I
00:52:47
just don't know how you kind of get
00:52:49
there because you know I used to say to
00:52:50
young people all the time I tell you why
00:52:53
most young people don't don't really go
00:52:55
all the way and do everything they
00:52:57
they're capable of doing it's not
00:52:59
because of their own fear of failure you
00:53:01
might think that's the case but it's
00:53:03
actually not that most people can live
00:53:05
with giving a go whatever it might be
00:53:07
running a marathon like you do or
00:53:08
whatever and maybe not making it to the
00:53:10
Finish Line they're worried about what
00:53:12
other people will think about them
00:53:14
failing and so I always used to say them
00:53:16
look don't worry about that okay the
00:53:18
fact actually the very people that
00:53:20
you're worried about maybe your parents
00:53:22
or your friends will be incredibly proud
00:53:24
of you that you actually gave it a go
00:53:26
mostly by the way you learn from Little
00:53:28
failures along the way then you do
00:53:30
actual you know it's like the All Blacks
00:53:31
they Le more when they lose than they
00:53:33
when they win yeah failur a stepping
00:53:35
stone to to success success um and also
00:53:38
as you get older you realize um
00:53:39
everyone's thinking about themselves no
00:53:41
one's actually thinking about you as
00:53:42
much as what you think you are you
00:53:44
exactly you think about a lot more you
00:53:47
you you are convinced that everyone's
00:53:48
going to see it and remember it and and
00:53:50
they just they just don't they just
00:53:52
don't they they take very little of it
00:53:54
in actually um so yeah just you know I
00:53:57
think look you get one shot at this
00:54:00
thing give it everything you got yeah so
00:54:02
and and it worked you became prime
00:54:04
minister that's that's the photo of
00:54:05
the're all in blue there we go look at
00:54:07
that eh yeah you look look at Max like
00:54:09
he's a little boy there and you reflect
00:54:11
on the heart to from the media it was
00:54:13
rough but yeah what what are your
00:54:14
Recollections of that time so I think he
00:54:16
went to short he I think he wore shorts
00:54:19
that
00:54:19
night elction 908 so what happens when
00:54:23
you become so Helen Clark had been prime
00:54:24
minister for three 3
00:54:27
um and then that was the day you became
00:54:28
prime minister do do you know what
00:54:30
you're doing do you have like a a
00:54:32
handbook or no no there's no handbook
00:54:34
although um I remember you know for the
00:54:36
first month of when I was prime minister
00:54:39
people because the bureaucracy will only
00:54:41
call you prime minister even ministers
00:54:43
only call you prime minister I mean like
00:54:46
Wayne as my chief of staff might call me
00:54:49
John for it was just me and him I think
00:54:51
most time he just avoided call me
00:54:53
calling me anything um but in front of
00:54:56
everyone else he'd only call me prime
00:54:57
minister and we we're great mates you
00:54:59
know like um but for the first month or
00:55:02
two months people would go prime
00:55:03
minister I'd look over my shoulder for
00:55:05
alen Clark realize they were talking to
00:55:07
me you know but it's it's an incredible
00:55:09
systemate you're walking in day one I
00:55:12
could you not you have a you have a you
00:55:14
have you have your own bureaucracy when
00:55:16
your Prime school department of prime
00:55:18
ministering cabinet dpmc and my head of
00:55:20
dpmc was these days s Martin wavers and
00:55:24
Martin was fantastic i' been in
00:55:26
Ambassador for us in Japan and various
00:55:28
other places very senior in foreign
00:55:29
affairs had been the Foreign Affairs
00:55:31
advisor to David longy has the most
00:55:33
amazing DAV longy stories fantastic guy
00:55:36
and you literally walk in day one and
00:55:38
they go right well prime minister today
00:55:39
you need to deal with these things it's
00:55:41
like it's like she left the building on
00:55:43
Sunday afternoon and you walked in on
00:55:45
Monday morning it's completely seamless
00:55:47
and that's why we have a neutral Public
00:55:49
Service you know in theory they don't
00:55:51
you wouldn't know who they vote for you
00:55:53
know and and Franklin Martin may have
00:55:54
voted both ways I don't know um that's
00:55:58
not what they're about what they're
00:55:59
about is providing you the best advice
00:56:01
they possibly can as prime minister do
00:56:03
the job as best you can and it's it's
00:56:06
it's brutal in some ways cuz you know
00:56:07
you're literally when you're leaving
00:56:09
you're packing the boxes and you're gone
00:56:11
the next day and and and so much of what
00:56:15
comes with that is the office of that
00:56:17
you know like and and and I think and
00:56:20
it's just is the way it is you know and
00:56:22
and I think go ask crans who probably
00:56:24
tell you you know one day he was prime
00:56:27
minister because just s to resign
00:56:28
obviously and all of a sudden he's in
00:56:30
this big office and there's all these
00:56:31
things around him and now he's leader of
00:56:33
the opposition and he's fighting for
00:56:35
scraps on the last column inch of a of a
00:56:38
story a lot of fun did did you did you
00:56:40
have any um sort of imposter syndrome at
00:56:42
that time or you just didn't have the
00:56:43
time or too much ego ask me oh no look
00:56:49
I look you don't what you I tell you
00:56:52
what's weird when you PR that everyone
00:56:54
assumes you have perfect knowledge they
00:56:55
just assume you have a briefing paper
00:56:57
and you think look sometimes you'd watch
00:56:59
CNN and you'd go oh that's more
00:57:01
interesting than the paper I just got on
00:57:03
that particular topic but um you do you
00:57:06
have to be over everything like it's you
00:57:08
you can't speak to Jack tame or Mike
00:57:10
hosing or John Campell say that's that's
00:57:11
a good question let me get back to you
00:57:13
on there you need to know everything
00:57:14
don't you and that's right so you got to
00:57:16
be an inch deep and a mile wide um which
00:57:19
by the way you pick up when you're there
00:57:20
cuz bio osmosis you're just sitting
00:57:21
around listening to a whole lot of
00:57:23
conversations and that that and you
00:57:25
learn a lot of stuff you you know a
00:57:26
little bit about a lot of stuff um you
00:57:29
don't know a lot about you know lot of
00:57:31
stuff but you know a little bit um I
00:57:33
don't know I don't think I really did I
00:57:35
mean you know the iy got a pretty
00:57:37
healthy yearo so I think I was fine um
00:57:40
but yeah it was one of those things
00:57:42
where um it's it's definitely very
00:57:46
different
00:57:47
and when I when I retired and I became
00:57:50
chairman of A&Z I appointed um Antonio
00:57:52
Watson as as CEO and I said Antonio the
00:57:56
same thing I'd say kind of to anyone
00:57:58
going into a leadership role which is I
00:58:01
just said to her just remember um you
00:58:04
you'll never regret the things you did
00:58:06
you'll regret the things you didn't do
00:58:09
and by the way it'll go a lot faster
00:58:10
than you think now yeah the one or two
00:58:12
things I did that I might have regreted
00:58:14
as well but as a general rule I don't
00:58:16
really regret things what are they what
00:58:18
are the biggest biggest regrets are they
00:58:20
things that you did or things that you
00:58:22
wanted to do and didn't they're probably
00:58:23
they're probably policy things that I
00:58:25
might have wanted to do really I mean I
00:58:27
don't think you're going to change the
00:58:28
personality and stuff um and a lot of me
00:58:31
kiding around stuff you know was good
00:58:33
and bad and and but but it was it was
00:58:36
part of part of uh probably the way I am
00:58:40
I think more than you think it's I I
00:58:42
think you are who you are you can you
00:58:43
can't actually create the like like and
00:58:46
that's what I always say to chrst all
00:58:47
the time I say you know you're not me
00:58:51
and I'm not you you know you do I I
00:58:53
might do one or two things B than you
00:58:54
but you do half a dozen things
00:58:59
and it's
00:59:02
know going get rid ofps cuz they're just
00:59:04
going to test your retina you or your
00:59:06
walking gate you know face on the Fly is
00:59:08
going to be the technology they're going
00:59:10
to use and you're just going to walk
00:59:11
through an airport and you never going
00:59:12
to have a passport why because we have
00:59:14
unique identifiers they're our voice or
00:59:17
they're the way we walk or might be our
00:59:19
eyes or whatever and that's like any
00:59:21
personality they unique identifi so you
00:59:25
can I used to look at previously it's
00:59:27
like I spent lots of time looking at
00:59:28
Helen Clark or Tony BL or lots of
00:59:30
different people and um I tried to Lun
00:59:34
from them but in the end I am who I am
00:59:36
and I just do things my way and and
00:59:40
they're not always perfect or right but
00:59:41
they are what they are and you know they
00:59:44
just vary a bit yeah it's funny just um
00:59:47
picking up on something you said before
00:59:48
about some of the regrets of the the
00:59:49
falling around things what do you mean
00:59:50
like the the modeling for the 2011 World
00:59:53
volunte there was no big deal though was
00:59:55
it no no none of them none of them were
00:59:57
really a major but I mean in hindsight
01:00:00
it was like oh God and we were just
01:00:02
McKing you sort of what but tell what
01:00:04
happens is you're you live in this world
01:00:07
where it's 24/7 scrutiny so You' think
01:00:09
you'd be bright enough to have a brain
01:00:11
engaged that every single thing you do
01:00:12
would be scrutinized right um because
01:00:15
you know that CU that's the world you
01:00:16
live in but you get so comfortable in
01:00:17
that that sometimes you're just kidding
01:00:19
around and you you know you don't mean
01:00:20
anything by it what El there was yeah
01:00:22
there's a photo that we involved of you
01:00:24
eating a hot dog which oh yeah I did
01:00:26
care about that either there was another
01:00:27
one way I got fined by the Press unit
01:00:29
but I mean you know oh my God I gave
01:00:31
away so much money it wasn't fun of you
01:00:33
I me there were just endless things that
01:00:34
happened but but they were all part of
01:00:37
that you they used I tell you what they
01:00:39
used to run a poll and I'm not sure they
01:00:40
do it anymore but it was who who do you
01:00:42
want to babysit your kids and I used to
01:00:44
win that poll hands down and okay you
01:00:49
actually wouldn't want me baby Senor
01:00:50
because I'm pretty useless but but um
01:00:53
but actually I was took that as a good
01:00:56
thing I took that as a thing that people
01:00:58
said he's
01:00:59
relatable cuz cuz you want people saying
01:01:03
that they' trust you with their kids kid
01:01:04
yeah yeah that's right yeah so I
01:01:05
actually took it as a good thing and
01:01:09
um and actually see I find Chris Lux and
01:01:12
I mean I find him um he's a thoroughly
01:01:15
nice really relatable person when you
01:01:17
meet him and I think what'll happen is
01:01:19
the more overtime people get to meet him
01:01:21
more people will realize actually he's
01:01:23
really cool guy and he's not what you
01:01:25
know some Persona that's been created by
01:01:27
various versions of the media or
01:01:29
political opponents I mean you know is
01:01:31
what does and that's the game by the way
01:01:33
I mean it's nothing unique to him it's
01:01:35
it's true of everyone everyone in
01:01:37
politics but the more people get to meet
01:01:39
you the more yeah you got Fighting
01:01:41
Chance and might I like you and V for
01:01:42
you yeah there's a another photo of you
01:01:45
that went viral with um
01:01:47
Harrison oh yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah
01:01:50
that kid yeah that was a classic yeah
01:01:52
yeah you got a good good good chunk of
01:01:54
my cheek
01:01:56
well I always said to Chris LX you're
01:01:57
one screaming baby away from a
01:01:59
nightmare that's a great photo it would
01:02:02
happen all the time on the Campa TR
01:02:04
honestly you go because you're always
01:02:06
constantly in shopping malls and
01:02:07
different things and so young moms all
01:02:10
the time would come up and go oh you
01:02:11
want to have a photo with Billy or
01:02:13
whatever and you pick up Billy and 98%
01:02:16
of you you would just be please don't
01:02:18
cry because if you cry that's going to
01:02:20
be the bit on TV tonight and so many of
01:02:23
them would like they'd goo and they'd
01:02:24
gar and they'd be totally fine everyone
01:02:27
get bit frightened and they would and
01:02:28
then that that would make the use how is
01:02:30
your um how is your mental health over
01:02:32
over this time like I've heard you say
01:02:34
in other interviews where you know the
01:02:36
advice you give to your kids is in
01:02:37
regards to social media is not to read
01:02:39
the comments and stuff but when you when
01:02:40
you're prime minister and everyone's
01:02:41
having to go at you or it seems that way
01:02:44
yeah um yeah like how do you look after
01:02:46
your mental health yeah and it's I wish
01:02:49
I had a better answer than this cuz I
01:02:51
think I think mental health issues are a
01:02:53
massive issue I think you know I
01:02:54
actually went to a lunch with John K and
01:02:56
he's been doing some amazing work in
01:02:57
that space um last week and um you know
01:03:02
I look I think I think everything from
01:03:04
Co to social media has made it worse you
01:03:05
know I think there's an enormous amount
01:03:07
of young people that that believe you
01:03:09
know they they in their mind they'll be
01:03:11
telling themselves are the only person
01:03:13
that's got there but actually what
01:03:14
they've got to take is some comfort from
01:03:15
the fact that you know they're in the
01:03:17
majority probably not the minority um
01:03:20
and there nothing to be ashamed of or
01:03:21
frightened of um but it's really hard to
01:03:23
get help actually man it's really hard
01:03:25
to get and we did lots on Mental Health
01:03:27
in my time too I know people might not
01:03:29
believe it but we spent ages on you know
01:03:32
very focused on youth suicide and
01:03:34
anorexia and all sorts of different
01:03:36
different versions of of mental health
01:03:38
disorders um but I was just really lucky
01:03:42
is something about my
01:03:44
personality that um it just wasn't a
01:03:48
thing that I like I never felt depressed
01:03:50
I never felt um so under the pump that
01:03:54
you know that I was you know I was in
01:03:56
some form or another you know you know
01:03:59
in trouble or or or was causing me any
01:04:01
issues but but but what I did do is what
01:04:05
what I said to ma is I never bothered
01:04:07
reading the the comments because if you
01:04:09
read the comments they largely keyboard
01:04:11
worriers that you know blah and then
01:04:14
secondly um I used to have a once only
01:04:16
policy so I try and read as much as I
01:04:18
possibly could and it become so much you
01:04:20
can't but I try and watch or read
01:04:22
everything once and it was once only
01:04:24
because if it's good and you watch watch
01:04:25
it five times and you go oh that's great
01:04:27
that person really liked me and they
01:04:28
wrote all these really nice things then
01:04:30
you start believing your own PR but if
01:04:34
you read all the really negative things
01:04:36
all the time then you know what's the
01:04:38
point in doing that because it's only
01:04:39
going to kind of depress you and then
01:04:41
I'd also try and take a lens so I could
01:04:44
name for you some journalists who write
01:04:46
in The Herald and some of them are
01:04:48
really rightwing and what they write is
01:04:49
largely very supportive of me and some
01:04:51
or was and some of them it wouldn't
01:04:53
matter what I did you know they wouldn't
01:04:55
have liked what I I did so there's no
01:04:57
point in taking the bad ones and going
01:04:59
oh I'm having a bad day because by the
01:05:00
way they don't like me anyway it's a
01:05:02
signing point they don't agree with my
01:05:03
policies I agree with I'm coming from so
01:05:05
actually it's waste of time right and so
01:05:07
I just ignore them and sometimes these
01:05:09
people would write this stuff and you
01:05:11
you and and and I just go like the loser
01:05:14
is them not me because actually I'm if
01:05:17
they think they're affecting me they're
01:05:18
not CU I'm not even reading it and
01:05:21
sometimes when I was PR people they go I
01:05:23
feel so sorry for you the me
01:05:26
and I'd go oh yeah yeah yeah it's all
01:05:28
good and just carry on now you know yeah
01:05:32
I mean you it's like anyone here I
01:05:33
suppose like you know if if you get cut
01:05:35
you bleed I mean you I understand that
01:05:37
but I just and a lot of it I just took
01:05:40
on the chin see a lot these people have
01:05:41
to fill up colines they have to fill
01:05:43
bulletins they have to do stuff um and
01:05:47
it depended who they were like someone
01:05:48
like John Armstrong who's you know was
01:05:50
the chief um political reporter at the
01:05:53
hero for a long time has died unfort
01:05:56
um had Parkinson's but had a brilliant
01:05:59
brilliant mind he led the he led the
01:06:01
Parliamentary pre scal if you going ask
01:06:03
pet G or Duncan Garner or you know guy
01:06:05
in Espen they'll say when John Armstrong
01:06:07
was at his prime when he wrote things he
01:06:09
was everyone followed him I just found
01:06:12
with someone like John he was very very
01:06:15
balanced so if he liked what I was doing
01:06:17
on that particular issue he'd give me
01:06:19
credit for it if he thought I was on the
01:06:22
wrong place but I was coming from the
01:06:24
right execution whatever he'd give me
01:06:26
some credit for it and if he thought I
01:06:27
was wrong he'd say I was wrong um but at
01:06:29
least it was balanced you know and I and
01:06:31
and so i' follow John because I'd say
01:06:34
okay he's got a point but I I used to
01:06:37
call John every single Friday that I was
01:06:40
prime minister every week and sometimes
01:06:43
twice or three times a week and go hey I
01:06:45
just want to give you a bit of
01:06:46
background of this is why I'm doing what
01:06:48
I'm doing this is the logic of what's
01:06:49
happening so yeah I mean most of the
01:06:51
other stuff I just didn't worry about
01:06:52
it's just I don't know you it's just
01:06:55
nature of the personality it's just not
01:06:57
something that's affected me and it's
01:06:59
not that it's not that yeah exactly it's
01:07:00
not that I'm better than anyone else I'm
01:07:02
definitely not it's just it's never been
01:07:05
a thing with me that and I think it like
01:07:08
even when I was a traitor I was under
01:07:10
you know huge amounts of pressure
01:07:11
running massive amounts of risk it just
01:07:13
I don't know just my personality seems
01:07:15
to feed on it I don't know why that's
01:07:18
lucky so yeah CU I had Simon bridges on
01:07:20
the podcast and he um he was actually
01:07:23
very um vulnerable of him like he said
01:07:25
when he was leader of the opposition
01:07:26
some weeks i''d be flying back to toong
01:07:28
on a Friday night and he' shut his eyes
01:07:30
on the plane and just feel himself
01:07:31
almost crying you know because it would
01:07:33
have been such a rough week um but you
01:07:36
you never sort of felt never had it no
01:07:37
oh that's awesome never had it um what
01:07:39
is that is that a healthy ego or yeah it
01:07:41
must be I don't know over inflated you
01:07:43
go um you but I mean I think I think
01:07:46
look I do things to try and um dstress
01:07:50
stuff as much as I can so within reason
01:07:52
I mean you know like I always did exess
01:07:54
like would when you when you live with
01:07:56
police officers like I did and they're
01:07:58
all young and Incredibly fit it's like
01:08:00
living with personal trainers so you
01:08:02
would go down like we'd run to the gym
01:08:04
in the morning when we're in Wellington
01:08:05
we get up at 5:40 I have a very quick
01:08:08
look at the phone I would have already
01:08:09
read the Dominion Post from the night
01:08:11
before because it gets delivered at
01:08:13
midnight so I'd already read the morning
01:08:14
paper in the evening before I went to
01:08:17
bed I already knew what bad stuff was
01:08:19
coming then I'd run down from Premier
01:08:21
house to the gym and Parliament then
01:08:23
we'd do 40 minutes of boxing and you
01:08:27
know all sorts every day were like
01:08:28
personal trainers and then we'd take the
01:08:30
car back I'd go back have a shower um
01:08:33
I'd make myself a cup of tea um and I'd
01:08:36
walk down get in the car and we'd go go
01:08:38
after work and um so I think things like
01:08:41
exercise for me that's why I love golf
01:08:44
and I've always sort of I mean I didn't
01:08:46
play obviously when I was prime minister
01:08:47
very much and I and all those things but
01:08:50
I think what I love about it is I love
01:08:52
the feeling of I mean firstly golf
01:08:53
courses are generally in beautiful
01:08:55
places anyway and that feeling of having
01:08:57
a great shot I think I'm not a great
01:08:59
fisherman but I think it's like when you
01:09:00
catch the one fish you always want to
01:09:01
come back um for me I think those things
01:09:05
do help my mental health and
01:09:09
um yeah and and you know I drink I I
01:09:13
don't drink to get over stuff I mean I
01:09:16
probably drink more than I'm sure more
01:09:18
than what I tell the doctor
01:09:20
but but but I think reality is I just I
01:09:23
just I actually like it I like having in
01:09:24
class one find relaxing having a glass
01:09:26
of wine but not in a way where I go oh
01:09:28
God I need a drink I just think oh it's
01:09:30
nice you know I'm having you know having
01:09:32
glass of wine and we're having some
01:09:33
cheese or watching dinner or having
01:09:35
dinner or watching news or whatever I
01:09:37
like it but yeah so um February 22nd
01:09:40
2011 what what are your Recollections of
01:09:43
that day yeah so um this was the that
01:09:45
was the second one yeah so the first one
01:09:47
happened overnight um so there's some
01:09:48
property damage but no the first one
01:09:50
happened and I flew down it happened at
01:09:53
about 3:00 or 4: in the morning it was
01:09:54
like near four than three for memory but
01:09:56
anyway very middle of the night and so
01:09:58
it was incredibly lucky because actually
01:09:59
most no one was on the streets so it did
01:10:01
do quite a lot of damage um but no one
01:10:05
was around to to you know get crushed so
01:10:07
on on the the one in February we finally
01:10:11
enough actually we um we were in my
01:10:14
office I I was meeting um Phil o Riley
01:10:16
who head of business New Zealand and um
01:10:20
and we used to meet people from say 12:
01:10:22
to 1 or you know up until 1:00 and then
01:10:24
we' prep for question time and we were
01:10:27
in my office and there was this shaking
01:10:29
and I thought I was yet another
01:10:30
earthquake in Wellington cuz you get
01:10:32
quite a lot of shakes when you're there
01:10:33
and then the Beehive is built on rubber
01:10:35
so it moves so that's why it's category
01:10:37
you can withstand a category 9
01:10:39
earthquake in theory and um and so the
01:10:42
building started moving so sometimes it
01:10:43
moves a bit because it's on that rubber
01:10:45
you know and I thought it was a
01:10:47
reasonable shake and and Wayne came and
01:10:49
open the door and he and I went oh a
01:10:51
little bit of an earthquake goes yeah
01:10:52
but the problem is that was Christ
01:10:53
Church and I oh and so um Phil left and
01:10:58
we knew pretty much early on that was a
01:11:00
massive problem obviously um then we
01:11:02
started getting reports really quickly
01:11:04
you know about what was happening so
01:11:06
yeah I remember flying down we flew down
01:11:09
and initially they flew me around in one
01:11:11
of the Air Force planes and and then I
01:11:14
got on the ground and we got to the um
01:11:16
they had a they set up the emergency
01:11:18
civil defense center at the um at the
01:11:21
art gallery I think it was and the art
01:11:23
Galler is made of see the Ze Ziller and
01:11:26
it's it's it's got massive big glass
01:11:29
windows and and steel sort of you know
01:11:31
thing and the aftershocks were
01:11:34
incredible that's the thing I didn't
01:11:35
really understand about major earthqu
01:11:37
just get aftershocks in fact they go on
01:11:39
for years half time and these things
01:11:41
would Shak and the noise of them shaking
01:11:43
was like the building was going to fall
01:11:45
down the first one that happened I like
01:11:46
really thought I thought and um but
01:11:49
man it shook and
01:11:52
um and then and then I'm the police
01:11:55
Police Commissioner was there and he
01:11:57
said to me was I think it was the
01:11:59
district commander and I said uh the
01:12:02
media were reporting about eight people
01:12:03
were dead or something and he said to me
01:12:07
well it's at least 50 and I said well
01:12:11
are you sure about that and he said he s
01:12:13
to me he said well we've counted 50 body
01:12:16
bags so I said well I'm going to say
01:12:19
that then and he said yep and I went we
01:12:23
went down to latim square that's where
01:12:25
we did all of the big you know we you
01:12:27
went into the newses and did all stuff
01:12:30
and that's that's where they the um they
01:12:32
were setting up all of the the rescue
01:12:34
facilities here and
01:12:37
um yeah I remember I remember the CTV
01:12:39
building actually it was almost an ey
01:12:42
shot if you like it was just just down
01:12:44
there it was on fire and I it was just
01:12:47
really awful really really awful um and
01:12:51
um and it carried on for obviously a
01:12:52
very very long time with all the
01:12:54
aftershocks and different things that
01:12:55
went on but you know I mean I think I
01:12:57
think Jerry brownley actually deserves
01:13:00
huge amount of credit and again I know
01:13:02
that you know politics is just a
01:13:04
polarizes and some people love and some
01:13:07
people hate and some people say you know
01:13:09
he had strong personality and he was
01:13:11
bombastic and all that sort of stuff but
01:13:13
actually he needed that strength of
01:13:15
personality and that Real Love Of Christ
01:13:18
Church to make it you know be sorted and
01:13:21
you can look around the world there are
01:13:22
so many places like New Orleans have
01:13:24
never recovered from major disasters I
01:13:26
mean look at this hurricane Helen that's
01:13:27
just gone through who knows what they
01:13:29
even rebuild half this stuff whereas you
01:13:32
know really Jerry and you know I think
01:13:35
there was a real nucleus of us Bill and
01:13:37
me and a couple of others you know were
01:13:38
very committed to getting cross back on
01:13:40
it feet and I
01:13:41
think it probably is and will be the
01:13:43
most liable city in New Zealand because
01:13:45
you kind of got a chance to rebuild some
01:13:47
great things but yeah it was it was very
01:13:50
very tough yeah is that a hard time as a
01:13:52
prime minister to lead something like
01:13:53
that yeah well you feel enormously for
01:13:56
the families and people feel very
01:13:57
vulnerable and we did we did the thing
01:14:00
that Jinder did for Co which was those
01:14:03
payments where we paid people and
01:14:05
honestly to this day I can walk down the
01:14:07
street in Christ Church and people come
01:14:09
up to me they go mate you saved my
01:14:10
business you know CU people couldn't you
01:14:12
know it's very was we can all imagine it
01:14:14
now because of Co but back then you
01:14:16
couldn't imagine it which was a w Subs
01:14:18
wage sub you couldn't get into work you
01:14:20
couldn't pay people you had you know you
01:14:21
had no income coming in so we just
01:14:23
decided right for 16 weeks with paying
01:14:25
people and we went around treasury
01:14:26
advice we did it overnight it cost a
01:14:28
quar of a billion dollars we did all of
01:14:30
these things which became the blueprint
01:14:32
for the co sort of wage subsidy scheme
01:14:35
um and that that like we we did we did a
01:14:38
lot of really good things there and I
01:14:41
remember at times when the media were
01:14:42
running stories about oh the portable
01:14:44
toilets were in the right place
01:14:45
somewhere or something and it was like
01:14:47
there's so many things going on we've
01:14:48
got the military here I mean places on
01:14:51
sneeze okay yeah I get it but um that's
01:14:53
probably not the big thing but but again
01:14:55
there's no point in losing your rag
01:14:57
about it you basically just got to go
01:14:58
okay is what it is um but yeah there
01:15:01
there were a huge number of people did
01:15:03
remarkable things but oh my goodness
01:15:05
some of the stories and and it was just
01:15:07
some people were just so desperately
01:15:08
unlucky I remember there was a story of
01:15:10
a guy who was walking over the Port
01:15:11
Hills had survived the earthquake and
01:15:13
everything and an Aftershock there was a
01:15:15
boulder came down and killed him well
01:15:16
there were people literally sitting in
01:15:17
the bus and they just got completely
01:15:19
flattened because the the facades of the
01:15:21
building fell on them but then there
01:15:22
were other people who you would for all
01:15:25
money you know would have got killed in
01:15:27
the quake and the thing just missed them
01:15:29
by an inch and they they were fine yeah
01:15:32
so it's terrifying and actually Bob Park
01:15:35
did a very good job he was did very good
01:15:37
communicator yeah he did really well um
01:15:40
yeah you mentioned Co just before
01:15:42
um do you think do you think the um
01:15:45
Jinder and the labor government did a
01:15:47
did a mostly good job or I mean you've
01:15:49
got the UN for advantage of hindsight
01:15:51
but yeah yeah so look on the way in yes
01:15:53
um and I think you know I think I think
01:15:55
she was a unified view that you know we
01:15:57
didn't have a vaccine we didn't have a
01:15:59
response we weren't sure the reports
01:16:01
came from around the world was that this
01:16:03
could be a catastrophic thing that could
01:16:04
wipe people out you have you know
01:16:06
there's great deal of vulnerability in
01:16:07
any Community it was the right thing to
01:16:09
do close New Zealand down um and and
01:16:13
yeah it is so easy in hindsight too and
01:16:16
you know to criticize look a lot of the
01:16:18
communication she did um you know all of
01:16:21
those sorts of things again you know she
01:16:23
did a really good job of that um and I
01:16:25
think the way they did the wage subses
01:16:27
and all all that that that was really
01:16:29
good I I I always see to bro I said look
01:16:33
their challenge won't be how you close
01:16:35
the place down it'll be how you open the
01:16:37
place up it's the pathway out not the
01:16:39
pathway in and I think in the end they
01:16:43
they really struggled and I think they
01:16:44
just frankly if you want me to be honest
01:16:46
I think they listen to Too Much official
01:16:47
advice and they got terrified of the
01:16:50
fact that unfortunately would claim some
01:16:52
lives and it did but it was was going to
01:16:55
be inevitable that ultimately you could
01:16:56
never stop it being in the community and
01:16:59
you know so many and the way that Orland
01:17:01
got treated you know was just some of it
01:17:03
was crazy but anyway you know as I say
01:17:06
you know every prime minister deals with
01:17:08
difficult circumstances and and um that
01:17:10
wouldn't have been easy for them so I'm
01:17:12
not I'm not knocking them and I think
01:17:13
they did a really good job early on I
01:17:15
just think later on it was too much
01:17:17
money spent later on too much stuff that
01:17:19
was wrong yeah I feel like we were sort
01:17:20
of painted into a corner really when we
01:17:22
way um what you why did you why did you
01:17:24
start to stand down so you were almost
01:17:26
at the the end of your third term yeah
01:17:28
well ironically it wasn't cuz I thought
01:17:30
I was going to lose the election it's
01:17:31
cuz I thought I was going to win another
01:17:33
one four turn were you just done were
01:17:35
you exhausted or um I said at the time
01:17:38
you know like there's nothing left and
01:17:40
you know and I think Justa sort of said
01:17:42
the same kind of things but actually
01:17:43
truthfully that probably wasn't quite
01:17:46
right I mean yeah yeah look I was
01:17:48
obviously I'd had 10 years of being
01:17:50
leader eight years of being prime
01:17:51
minister you know you're pretty you know
01:17:53
you've done a lot you know so you pretty
01:17:55
tight but but I if you'd said to me
01:17:58
you've got to carry on for another
01:17:59
couple of years or another 3 years or
01:18:01
whatever it would have been fine my
01:18:03
concern was that eventually
01:18:06
eventually even if they do love you in
01:18:09
some form they fall out of love with you
01:18:11
and it's not that you're bad or wrong or
01:18:14
whatever but the job forces you to make
01:18:17
decisions and making those decisions
01:18:20
there is always a risk that you become
01:18:22
more and you've actually become better
01:18:24
at it but you might become a bit more
01:18:26
belligerent in the way that you think
01:18:28
right secondly you chart a pathway and
01:18:31
changing that pathway is really
01:18:32
difficult because then you got to go
01:18:33
back and say all these other things I
01:18:35
did was wrong and no one really does
01:18:36
that and so that's why there's changes
01:18:39
in government because basically um
01:18:42
people start saying right well they're
01:18:44
just you know they're not listening
01:18:45
anymore or they're on the wrong track or
01:18:46
they need to refresh I'm sick of them
01:18:48
I'm sick of the manism mannerisms or
01:18:50
whatever it is you and so what I did was
01:18:54
I I just thought we need to refresh if
01:18:57
we're going to if we're going to beat
01:18:58
labor we've got to out labor labor by by
01:19:00
basically looking like we're fresh and
01:19:03
we're new and you can't do that if you
01:19:05
don't start at the top and I thought
01:19:07
bill would make an excellent promise and
01:19:08
I think he did and I think you know I
01:19:11
don't sound like Donald Trump but the
01:19:13
simple reality is under an MMP
01:19:15
environment Bill won the election you
01:19:17
pulled a fantastic result he P 45% and
01:19:20
he P an amazing result but what we
01:19:23
always knew was possible that the
01:19:25
Coalition of small parties would get
01:19:26
together and and outgun US happened and
01:19:30
you know Winston might regret that
01:19:32
decision now actually because you know
01:19:33
he didn't seem to end that relationship
01:19:35
with J's government too well but the
01:19:38
reality is that um that that so I think
01:19:41
the strategy worked but but you know oh
01:19:46
well what what was that period like um
01:19:49
yeah I've had heaps of um like all
01:19:51
blacks and um high-profile Sports people
01:19:52
on the podcast and they talk about the
01:19:55
um almost like a drop off a cliff when
01:19:57
down yeah when you go from being in that
01:19:59
sort of um environment to being I
01:20:01
suppose for lack of a bit of term just a
01:20:03
civilian again yeah well nobody yeah
01:20:06
yeah yeah I mean well it is it is very
01:20:08
extreme I mean it is literally Yes Prime
01:20:10
Minister to you know hello John you know
01:20:13
and I mean I could have carried on with
01:20:15
security I violate those sort of things
01:20:18
but I could have but I didn't have to
01:20:20
and I didn't think I needed to so I
01:20:22
didn't worry but early on of course
01:20:23
people thought I honestly you know
01:20:26
people aren't necessar completely in
01:20:27
touch with you so people thought people
01:20:30
still thought I was prime minister and
01:20:31
so um there were a couple times when I
01:20:34
went out there and and all of a sudden I
01:20:36
didn't have security around me and there
01:20:37
were people really having a crack at me
01:20:39
and that was a little bit interesting
01:20:40
not not much I mean but you know there
01:20:42
was a little bit um really like what
01:20:44
sort of things oh I just remember being
01:20:45
in court new place one night fny enough
01:20:47
sephie was in New Zealand working on a
01:20:49
movie and um and I'd taken her out for
01:20:52
dinner and and i' put her in the cab and
01:20:54
then this guy just started going he was
01:20:56
obviously drunk and he was going nuts to
01:20:58
me I was thinking well maybe I got R
01:21:00
security a little bit too early anyway
01:21:01
it was fine um that wouldn't happen very
01:21:06
often they'll ignore you no exactly yeah
01:21:09
um look the weird thing was and I again
01:21:12
you're right because you read all these
01:21:14
things and and the amount of you know
01:21:16
you know depression and and all of these
01:21:18
mental health issues for export stars is
01:21:21
incredible because I mean as you say you
01:21:23
know they go from being you know you
01:21:25
know this period of agulation and you
01:21:27
know being the person to all of a sudden
01:21:29
know what's next to my life I mean for
01:21:31
me because I sort of chose that timing
01:21:34
if you like I didn't feel like that and
01:21:38
I didn't want to get in Bill's way you
01:21:40
know he was being prime minister and I
01:21:42
had to respect that and so you I stayed
01:21:44
as a backbencher and and you know for as
01:21:46
long as it talk to avoid a b elction but
01:21:49
you I kept a really low profile and kept
01:21:51
out of the way um they were nice enough
01:21:53
to give me a great offic and that was
01:21:54
good for a we while um but as soon as I
01:21:57
could I sort of moved on so yeah funny
01:21:59
enough it was just like I'm pretty good
01:22:00
at looking forward and not looking back
01:22:02
like even when I left Merill and you
01:22:04
know not standing yeah I'm I noticed
01:22:06
that I wasn't getting some mess of bonus
01:22:08
or whatever you know little things like
01:22:09
that but then I was mostly I was like
01:22:11
okay and so I've just built a different
01:22:14
life and it's different now and I
01:22:16
remember people used to say to me oh
01:22:17
mate mate you shouldn't have retired the
01:22:18
phone will stop ringing and I used to go
01:22:20
well actually I want the phone to stop
01:22:21
ringing but actually what's ended up
01:22:23
happening is
01:22:25
people have rung that I never thought
01:22:27
would ring like if I really look at I
01:22:29
always thought I was going to be group
01:22:31
chairman of A&Z and chairman of New
01:22:33
Zealand and of course when the change of
01:22:34
government happened obviously Winston
01:22:35
didn't want me to be there on the board
01:22:37
so I was always going to be exited stage
01:22:39
left there and and then probably by the
01:22:42
time I could have been chairman of group
01:22:43
chairman of an yet I realized the work
01:22:44
commitment was so great didn't want to
01:22:46
do that but actually I've ended up in
01:22:48
different places doing different things
01:22:50
and there's just so many organizations
01:22:52
I've ended up being involved with would
01:22:54
just never have dreamed it possible so
01:22:57
yeah I mean it's just been such a ride
01:22:59
it's been such a great ride you know and
01:23:01
I'm not actually a workaholic you know
01:23:03
like I I like working and I like doing
01:23:05
things and I like doing things to get my
01:23:07
brain going but I'm I'm not this crazy
01:23:09
person that wants to die in the office
01:23:10
I'm actually really happy doing you know
01:23:12
other fun things whatever they might be
01:23:14
you know like I like cooking I like
01:23:16
traveling with Briner I like doing lots
01:23:17
of things you know I um uh yeah so so
01:23:21
working is good yeah it's a good thing
01:23:22
to do and I'm interested in and I always
01:23:24
do some work hopefully helping Max or
01:23:26
whatever it might be but but I'm not you
01:23:28
know not I'm not this person that needs
01:23:30
I don't need to I suppose what I say is
01:23:33
I don't need to be validated by the
01:23:35
office I whole because probably in the
01:23:37
commercial sense nothing I'm going to do
01:23:39
is ever going to rank with being prime
01:23:41
minister you either like me or you won't
01:23:43
like me or remember me or won't remember
01:23:46
me as prime minister it won't be that I
01:23:47
was a andz or BHP or wherever company I
01:23:50
might be helping yeah but I mean to to
01:23:52
get through three terms and then you
01:23:54
know probably get elected for a fourth
01:23:56
term it's amazing right cuz you you sort
01:23:58
of how many terms did Helen get was it
01:24:00
three she got three Yeah Yeah by the end
01:24:01
of term three people are turning on you
01:24:03
a bit aren't they yeah yeah well and it
01:24:05
does happen a bit like that and then I
01:24:08
mean I think I think I you know I mean
01:24:11
it's all hindsight you don't know my
01:24:13
guess is I would have pulled about the
01:24:14
number the bill pulled that's what I
01:24:15
think 45% I don't think it would have
01:24:17
been much different and Winston would
01:24:19
never have come with me because if that
01:24:21
wasn't happening so so maybe the result
01:24:23
might have been the same outcome but who
01:24:25
knows maybe I would have got a percent
01:24:27
more and maybe that might change but
01:24:28
there's like so many things maybe I
01:24:29
would have got percent less who knows I
01:24:31
personally thought Bill did really well
01:24:33
and ran a great campaign so that's what
01:24:35
it does but but you left and you're at
01:24:36
peace with your decision totally yeah
01:24:38
never looked back and and funny thing
01:24:40
was Bron is not that political right
01:24:42
like she's a good little cender voter
01:24:44
but she's not she doesn't want to be in
01:24:46
front of the camera doesn't want the
01:24:47
linelight isn't a political activist and
01:24:50
so when I told her in the January of of
01:24:53
2016 I'm going retire at the end of the
01:24:55
year she eventually she saw really and I
01:24:59
went yeah and she said Okay and then
01:25:02
then eventually then she came back and
01:25:03
she said look we've been doing this for
01:25:05
15 years if you think about it um and
01:25:07
said you know me I don't love all this
01:25:09
stuff and if I never saw another camera
01:25:11
again it would be fine by me I don't
01:25:12
need to read about myself on the paper
01:25:14
or you but she said look if you're doing
01:25:17
it because you're worried about me
01:25:18
another three years ain't going to make
01:25:20
any difference so if you want to do it
01:25:21
and you know kind of wi it wasn't quite
01:25:24
true it was a historic fourth ter
01:25:25
because you know Hol did it but she said
01:25:28
if you want to do it go and do it but
01:25:29
she said my only request is if you're
01:25:31
going to leave don't go back so I knew
01:25:34
once I was leaving I was wasn't going
01:25:36
back yeah what sort of impact did it
01:25:38
have on your relationship uh well I
01:25:40
think it's good really because you have
01:25:42
a lot more time I mean like I always say
01:25:43
to people if you've got a bad marriage
01:25:45
and you go into Parliament it's
01:25:46
definitely going to blow up um if you
01:25:48
got a good one it'll probably survive
01:25:50
but it's not easy I mean par is not in
01:25:52
an easy environment I mean she would say
01:25:55
I think Bron was here that she really
01:25:57
you know was basically solo mother for
01:25:59
for for8 years you mean I was away and
01:26:02
busy I actually think I was there a bit
01:26:05
more than no one was going to agree with
01:26:07
me on the same but I think I was there a
01:26:09
bit more than what Max might tell you I
01:26:11
was he' tell you oh you're never there
01:26:13
and you even know what day my birthday
01:26:15
is oh my goodness gra no no that's on on
01:26:18
on the podcast we did he said he sort of
01:26:19
suggested that but he did um yeah it
01:26:22
seems like you did it as as well as what
01:26:24
you could possibly do in managing like
01:26:26
family life and work life but it's a
01:26:27
it's a big job it's look it's and and
01:26:30
and you can't you can't sit there and go
01:26:33
oh I know you're having this crisis
01:26:35
whatever it might be could be economic
01:26:36
crisis political crisis natural disaster
01:26:39
and say oh by the way I'm l a little bit
01:26:40
busy this afternoon because the kids are
01:26:42
doing something you are locked in louder
01:26:45
and actually everybody knows that and
01:26:48
and and it might not even be a crisis
01:26:50
it's just like you know it's it's
01:26:52
Saturday night and you spend been all
01:26:54
day and you've been out doing a variety
01:26:56
of different things around the country
01:26:57
and now you're going to the breast
01:26:58
cancer ball and you're going as the as
01:27:01
the person of you know the the important
01:27:04
person at the there because you're prime
01:27:05
minister and and it's an incredibly
01:27:07
important charity that does great work
01:27:10
um and yeah you might be exhausted and
01:27:13
want to stay home Saturday night and
01:27:15
watch a movie but it doesn't work like
01:27:18
that and everybody understands it and um
01:27:22
I always tried to just to go and say
01:27:24
look I'm just going to there is no point
01:27:26
to me feeling sorry for myself because
01:27:28
no one is going to feel sorry for me nor
01:27:30
should they Because by the way I signed
01:27:32
up to this and um I knew what it was
01:27:35
like and I and and and you might not
01:27:37
know every element but you you pretty
01:27:39
much know what you're doing so um so I
01:27:42
never did I just got on with it and did
01:27:44
it and and tried to enjoy it and make
01:27:45
the most of it and Men you see and
01:27:48
experien some incredible things and and
01:27:51
and some of them are really surprising
01:27:53
you know some of them you expect to be
01:27:54
incredible and some of them you don't
01:27:56
think they will be and they're amazing
01:27:58
and you you know I think it was Helen
01:28:00
Clark who said but I used to say all the
01:28:02
time you see the very best and the worst
01:28:04
of New Zealand but mostly it's the very
01:28:06
best yeah can we draw down on some of
01:28:08
them you've been so generous with your
01:28:10
time have you got a t a bit more yeah
01:28:11
yeah for yeah like um yeah holidaying
01:28:14
with the queen yeah well that was
01:28:16
incredible yeah she and she was a truly
01:28:19
remarkable person and and and it was
01:28:22
kind of special cuz we I think I was the
01:28:24
first austral Asian prime minister that
01:28:25
been asked to go there and and with the
01:28:28
family and the whole thing I mean being
01:28:30
at borrow and and and just she she you
01:28:34
know just the time to spend with her
01:28:36
one-on-one where she would just like I
01:28:38
remember we were at lunch one time and I
01:28:39
always looked at something I said oh
01:28:40
that's really cool it's like a little I
01:28:42
think it like a little salt and paper
01:28:43
shake or something she said oh it was
01:28:44
Queen Victoria and but she just talked
01:28:47
to a million of things she' had every
01:28:49
some of the stories she told me and
01:28:50
experiences she had and I think they
01:28:53
they know that they know there's a bond
01:28:56
of trust um and they're quite open like
01:28:58
she said she would say to me people she
01:29:00
liked and people she didn't like cuz she
01:29:02
she knew I would never repeat it and I
01:29:04
never would until this podcast until
01:29:06
this podcast yeah I know even now I
01:29:09
better not um but yeah she was truly
01:29:12
remarkable um but the whole experience I
01:29:14
mean that was just totally surreal I
01:29:16
mean you know doing doing all of that
01:29:18
and being there um but when you when you
01:29:20
were hanging out together like in a in a
01:29:22
holiday home do what you call her her
01:29:24
majesty or yeah well the the protocol as
01:29:27
they call her her majesty in like even
01:29:29
will and Kate came that weekend and they
01:29:31
would stand up when she came into the
01:29:32
room the first time in the morning and
01:29:34
go your majesty after that
01:29:36
Mom wow what memories yeah I know God
01:29:40
they were amazing yeah they were crazy
01:29:41
yeah no and I mean the room that Max
01:29:43
slept in that every room has um
01:29:46
portraits in Downing Street when you
01:29:48
know when you if you watch Love Actually
01:29:50
I think it's got the you go up in this
01:29:52
big yellow wall and it's got got
01:29:54
portraits of prime Min they always do
01:29:55
them in black and white and then they
01:29:56
sign them they do two copies and one
01:29:59
copy was um is in on that wall and
01:30:02
Downing Street and the other one was at
01:30:04
B moral and he slept in the room under
01:30:06
wison Churchill one that wion Churchill
01:30:09
yeah and U Obama yeah so you play golf
01:30:13
with Obama were you did you have sort of
01:30:15
like a friendship with him no very much
01:30:17
so yeah was there a transactional sort
01:30:18
of thing no no it was it was I think
01:30:20
more than that I think I was trying to
01:30:22
say to people look it sounds a bit weird
01:30:23
and s of you know like I'm turning my
01:30:26
own horn but the reality is if you go to
01:30:28
something like ape there are 20 leaders
01:30:29
10 of them probably don't speak English
01:30:31
five of them you might not want to mix
01:30:32
with them three of them and new so you
01:30:35
know in the end you know like I like
01:30:36
sport he likes sport he likes golf you
01:30:38
know I was around a long time we came in
01:30:40
exactly the same time we're exactly the
01:30:42
same age like there were just a lot of
01:30:44
things that we got got on got had in
01:30:47
common so yeah he was he was great I
01:30:50
mean actually economically wise I didn't
01:30:53
necessarily with you know his policy I'm
01:30:55
much more you know free market and you
01:30:58
know more rightwing and all that sort of
01:30:59
stuff he's but but there were but he but
01:31:03
he was incredible like he was some of
01:31:05
their experiences but in the end when
01:31:07
you when you're on the golf course and
01:31:08
you're talking about what's going
01:31:10
on without being silly that that New
01:31:13
Zealand's just a small version of what
01:31:15
they've got yeah they got different
01:31:16
issues I mean I think actually the
01:31:18
United States at the moment has probably
01:31:19
never been more divided and some of
01:31:20
their issues are much more extreme and
01:31:22
we don't really have those here which is
01:31:24
great like like the gun issues as a
01:31:26
general rule or they focus on abortion
01:31:28
thank goodness it's a sort of settled
01:31:29
issue in New Zealand but but the point
01:31:32
is that outside of that though it's
01:31:34
still you're still dealing with all of
01:31:36
the same kinds of issues really you know
01:31:38
CU at the core of it leadership from a
01:31:41
government point of view whether your
01:31:42
prime minister or president is all about
01:31:44
allocation of resources it's how much
01:31:46
resources do you take off the masses to
01:31:49
pay for the things that you want to
01:31:50
allocate them to and and and whether
01:31:53
it's the vision of policing services or
01:31:55
health care or education whatever
01:31:57
they're all the same issues it doesn't
01:31:58
matter with your country has 350 million
01:32:01
people or 5 million it's the same thing
01:32:03
yeah I understand that the leader of the
01:32:04
Free World and that's you know some
01:32:06
things are you know much more important
01:32:08
from his perspective it was used to make
01:32:10
me laugh when you know the media would
01:32:12
say JY is with other world leaders today
01:32:15
I used to go well okay my her used to go
01:32:17
not quite sure I'm a world leader but
01:32:19
you know but I'm there with some people
01:32:21
you might describe as a world leader but
01:32:23
but yeah but anyway it's um but yeah he
01:32:26
was that was really remarkable and he he
01:32:29
incredible I asked him once actually I
01:32:30
said could you always speak you know
01:32:33
like you speak like that and he said to
01:32:35
me said look um you got to remember
01:32:37
Martin Luther King was wasn't the first
01:32:39
person who could speak like this he said
01:32:41
he was the first person that the
01:32:42
American Media probably really really
01:32:45
you know discovered and and and exposed
01:32:48
if you like and um he said I grew up in
01:32:51
a lot of you know different churches and
01:32:53
things where he I could show you 50
01:32:55
people that speak like that and funny
01:32:56
enough actually I watched the the
01:32:58
Republican convention and quite a bit of
01:33:02
the democratic convention I think it was
01:33:03
at the Democratic Convention I'm going
01:33:05
to get wrong but the guy who spoke he
01:33:08
was the governor for I don't know I'm
01:33:10
going to say North Carolina or one of
01:33:12
those States anyway and if you closed
01:33:15
your eyes you would have sworn to God it
01:33:16
was Obama he was just a fantastic
01:33:19
speaker but you look at Obama he no one
01:33:23
can a prepared speech like him and it's
01:33:25
partly about next time if you're
01:33:27
interested go and watch a YouTube video
01:33:29
of him and when he when he gives a a
01:33:31
statement or says a sentence he doesn't
01:33:35
do what normal people do which is read
01:33:37
in a slow way he doesn't go today the
01:33:39
weather in ockland is wet he goes it's
01:33:41
wet in Oakland today and then he stops
01:33:43
from an interminable period of time it's
01:33:45
about five or six seconds partly because
01:33:48
of the sound bites but partly because of
01:33:50
the way works he said when he gave that
01:33:53
famous speech the Democratic Convention
01:33:55
the very one that really launched him on
01:33:56
the on the stage and he later on became
01:33:59
you know a senator and then you know
01:34:01
then president he said they he said when
01:34:03
I was walking out they told me they're
01:34:05
going to clap like crazy when they do
01:34:07
just keep talking cuz it'll sound even
01:34:09
more impressive when you see it that
01:34:12
he's I mean yeah lots of little he's a
01:34:15
brilliant orator actually William hag
01:34:16
was as well William hag was a was a was
01:34:20
and is a brilliant speaker um different
01:34:23
version different style but but um
01:34:25
brilliant and it's sort of living proof
01:34:27
question time do en count for he used to
01:34:29
monster Tony BL Question Time still lost
01:34:32
action but he was a brilliant speaker
01:34:34
are you still in touch now like do you
01:34:36
exchange te yeah yeah yeah he's in he's
01:34:38
mostly in when he's over he in different
01:34:40
Island from us but yeah yeah I mean not
01:34:42
every day and lots of stuff I probably
01:34:44
see David Cameron more than anyone else
01:34:46
actually done a few weeks ago but yeah
01:34:48
he's great for him David wow yeah um
01:34:51
there's another photo I wanted to run
01:34:52
past you cuz um well I've met you
01:34:55
several times you're just a normalized
01:34:57
man and there's this photo of you and
01:34:58
Sam white loock oh yeah I know yeah I
01:35:00
know it's crazy that picture a yeah is
01:35:02
it what is that an angle thing he's he's
01:35:04
not that big is he he is pretty damn big
01:35:07
um and uh and uh but but yeah it looked
01:35:11
like I was a hobbit a and he looks
01:35:13
colossal and I look like this tiny
01:35:15
little but it must have been I don't
01:35:18
think they did something weird with the
01:35:19
lens I think he literally was the angle
01:35:21
that could I was in the all black
01:35:22
changing room um hell of a nice guy
01:35:25
actually great great all black man he's
01:35:26
just uh more caps than anyone else isn't
01:35:29
it but and that same day that was the oh
01:35:32
threeway handshake by the way that was
01:35:33
not my fault as I said I was actually
01:35:36
going up there to give Richie the cup
01:35:39
and and and I was looking at Richie in
01:35:42
the eyes and so I wasn't looking at
01:35:44
Bernard lap who was the head of you know
01:35:46
the Rugby Football Union and for
01:35:49
whatever reason weirdly he decided he
01:35:51
was going to shake hands at the same
01:35:53
time and so I was looking and I just put
01:35:54
my hand out and as I was doing it
01:35:56
Richie's hand was going to mine but then
01:35:58
I felt this hand on the top and and then
01:36:00
it was like you know you have this sort
01:36:02
of surreal experience where you're not
01:36:04
quite sure what to do whether you should
01:36:06
pull your hand back or keep on going and
01:36:08
I sort of stayed there for a bit and
01:36:10
then I thought this is a bit weird and
01:36:11
you know when I came off the stage I
01:36:13
thought GE I wonder whether anyone would
01:36:16
notice and then I sat W there's probably
01:36:19
about a billion people watch I someone
01:36:21
will probably pick up on it is
01:36:23
embarrassing or funny or oh it was quite
01:36:25
funny but what happened was it didn't
01:36:27
get a lot of coverage cuz everyone was
01:36:28
euphoric about winning the World Cup
01:36:31
until the next day I think the heral or
01:36:33
someone someone ran a story in the paper
01:36:36
where they had a picture like that that
01:36:38
picture there and then a little just a
01:36:40
little story back then it just blw out
01:36:42
and then for the rest of the time I was
01:36:43
prime minister everywhere I went you'd
01:36:46
see two guys and soon as you saw two
01:36:48
guys standing next to each other you
01:36:50
knew what was happening next and they
01:36:52
thought they were so funny cuz they
01:36:53
thought they were the first person to
01:36:54
have ever done it I go mate I know not
01:36:57
my first radio not my first radially on
01:36:59
campus when I used to go on campus You'
01:37:01
always oblig though oh yeah I couldn't
01:37:03
couldn't stop it really um what about
01:37:05
Dom M you know have you ever met M and
01:37:07
you said you famously said rather have
01:37:09
sex with a crayfish which I thought was
01:37:11
a really odd analogy they really sort of
01:37:12
heard that one actually and not
01:37:14
something I've ever envisaged having sex
01:37:16
with a crayfish but um yeah he said but
01:37:19
you used to get a lot of those sort of
01:37:20
people to be honest in the in the world
01:37:23
of s and and in in entertainment they're
01:37:26
more biased towards the left than the
01:37:27
right you I mean you'll you'll get some
01:37:29
people a little different in fact I
01:37:30
watched Dwayne The Rock Johnson or
01:37:33
something on Fox news this morning
01:37:34
talking about how he was he was
01:37:36
rightwing but as a general rule it's not
01:37:38
going to come as shock people that you
01:37:40
know Taylor Swift is is Moly um so you
01:37:43
know so you take it all with a bit of a
01:37:44
grain of salt but um yeah it was weird
01:37:47
because I don't think I'd ever met him
01:37:50
um but yeah it was sort of weird I
01:37:52
remember you know remember there lots of
01:37:53
people I think Elanor K had a real go at
01:37:56
me once and I thought that's weird cuz I
01:37:58
just hosted them for the book prize and
01:38:01
it was sort of odd does it does it sort
01:38:03
of hurt like on a a deeper level does
01:38:06
does it sort of hurt a little bit Yeah
01:38:08
well it's sort of
01:38:10
more it's kind of frustrating because
01:38:13
you'd sort of sit there and go um it
01:38:17
doesn't yeah you you're coming at it
01:38:19
from a you know preconditioned View and
01:38:22
predetermined View and I'm
01:38:26
um am I really the thing that you're
01:38:29
sort of saying like you know we did put
01:38:30
lots of money to the Arts and we did you
01:38:32
know all that sort of stuff and and and
01:38:34
I remember when elen was doing that we
01:38:37
had said all these great things because
01:38:38
she won the book of priz and so we'd put
01:38:40
our statement on stuff and then and then
01:38:43
she had one go and I think she might
01:38:44
have had a second go and when they she
01:38:46
had the second go I a lot of me wanted
01:38:48
to say something and I just B my tongue
01:38:51
and said yeah that's what is so I kind
01:38:54
of get it you know I understand that I
01:38:56
mean you know it sort of is what it is
01:38:58
but you get it you get it both ways I
01:39:00
also I also get a lot of people like you
01:39:02
know people like Richie mcco and Dan
01:39:04
Carter who carried a lot of weight would
01:39:05
come out and say really nice things
01:39:07
about me or you know Kieran Reed a lot
01:39:08
of the All Blacks a lot of the sports
01:39:10
and you know I remember when Michael
01:39:11
Jones and to Gala went out and
01:39:12
campaigned for me in ' 08 in South
01:39:15
Oakland we didn't even know they were
01:39:16
coming they literally came because they
01:39:18
wanted to come and they believed that we
01:39:20
could make a difference for Pacific
01:39:22
people Young people in Southland so you
01:39:25
know you get it both ways yeah but it's
01:39:27
it's just frustrating if you if you know
01:39:29
who you are as a person and um you know
01:39:31
people have sort of misconstrued you or
01:39:33
taking you the wrong way like it's
01:39:34
that's never nice well it also if you
01:39:36
think about the movie industry it's
01:39:38
really interesting but Richard Taylor
01:39:40
who you know r with workshops with with
01:39:42
Peter Jackson but well Peter obviously
01:39:44
you know but um Richard I went to a
01:39:48
lunch he was there um and actually it
01:39:51
was just before just to resign
01:39:53
and Justa came over and said something
01:39:55
to me and when I think back on it I cuz
01:39:58
I was quite surprised when she resigned
01:40:00
I should have picked up on it on
01:40:01
something she said to me if I was
01:40:03
thinking straight I should have picked
01:40:04
up on it what did she say oh she was
01:40:05
just coming over to thank me because I'd
01:40:06
be supported to her on something there
01:40:08
was an internal affairs issue they were
01:40:11
looking at and they'd run all the former
01:40:12
prime ministers for thing but I I'd
01:40:14
obviously said look I you know what
01:40:16
she's saying is right and she needs you
01:40:18
know support for that I and I said I'd
01:40:20
publicly support her if it was required
01:40:23
and she's come over to thank me for it
01:40:24
but in hindsight you know any it's no
01:40:26
big deal but but um but Richard got up
01:40:31
and he he gave the speech where the S of
01:40:34
the speech he just said I'm never going
01:40:36
to forget what you did for you saved
01:40:38
saved the movie industry in New Zealand
01:40:40
you know you funded the hobbits you you
01:40:42
know you've sold the issues you changed
01:40:44
the law you took all the Flack about you
01:40:46
know the definition of a contractor and
01:40:48
blah blah blah blah and none of this
01:40:50
would have happened if you hadn't done
01:40:51
that and that was a long time afterwards
01:40:54
and you think about the audience that he
01:40:56
would have been talking to lots and lots
01:40:58
of times cuz I've heard him say that
01:40:59
before he never forgot and he always
01:41:01
said it even when there were lots of
01:41:03
people who would have fundamentally been
01:41:05
leftwing wouldn't have agreed with it
01:41:06
and so that was what I always thought
01:41:08
was a bit of was that I our government
01:41:11
did do a lot actually to because because
01:41:13
I because I always believed not
01:41:15
everyone's going to want to be an
01:41:16
accountant or a currency Trader or
01:41:18
whatever you know there are lots of
01:41:19
people interested in the Arts and we
01:41:21
want to support that and it wasn't was
01:41:23
just I thought people come from all
01:41:26
different walks of life different Stokes
01:41:28
different interests you know so hey you
01:41:30
know why not why not do that so but I
01:41:33
kind of get it you know like it is what
01:41:35
it is I mean people have views and as
01:41:37
said early I I never used to take things
01:41:39
too personally and I just move on you
01:41:42
know yeah one of the yeah one of the big
01:41:44
things the the ponytail thing oh yeah
01:41:46
what what was was it just I've got
01:41:49
uncles that sort of you used to Pat me
01:41:50
on the is it was it like that
01:41:54
it's not even worth reliving all of it
01:41:56
except to say we were literally doing
01:41:57
what we're doing which was kidding
01:41:58
around um but but if you look at it um
01:42:05
you'd have to say you know yeah I was
01:42:07
doing that and and it was a bit of a
01:42:10
laugh and you know there are some
01:42:12
extenuating circumstances but but if you
01:42:16
think about it I shouldn't have done it
01:42:18
and and and you know it was never meant
01:42:20
to be anything more than that and and
01:42:23
you know the media s of randomly stories
01:42:25
there some stories of me with a couple
01:42:26
of kids but you do that montages yeah
01:42:29
but you do but you know like kids with
01:42:31
ponytails you know like I mean that's
01:42:33
everyone does that Stephie used to WAND
01:42:35
around with the ponytail you know that's
01:42:36
just you just mucking around you you
01:42:38
know so I don't know I mean y it was
01:42:42
what it was but but again it was all
01:42:45
sort of part of part of a personality of
01:42:49
of of just having a bit of a laugh and
01:42:52
not taking myself to too seriously and
01:42:55
and and so as much as I might want to
01:42:57
change that I don't probably want to
01:42:59
change a million different things I did
01:43:01
that were all part of that personality
01:43:04
trait of
01:43:06
being up for a bit of a laugh and being
01:43:09
you know and so that was bad but then
01:43:12
the other things were good and if you
01:43:14
put it all together you just take the
01:43:16
good with the bad and if you start to
01:43:17
overthink everything then you lose the
01:43:18
essence of who you are as a person right
01:43:20
yeah yeah and but but I you know there's
01:43:23
certain times where you think okay well
01:43:25
you know you know you you know you real
01:43:28
you realize you realize if you sat there
01:43:29
in cold light of day you would you
01:43:31
wouldn't have done it but are you proud
01:43:33
of yourself I am yeah there was when
01:43:36
there always say you know the judge of a
01:43:38
good Prime Ministers whether they leave
01:43:39
the country in better shape than they
01:43:41
found it and it's a totally subjective
01:43:43
thing I mean it's like what I think or
01:43:45
you think or somebody else thinks might
01:43:47
be very different to you you know a huge
01:43:50
number of people who listen to your
01:43:51
podcast and some people who listen to go
01:43:53
he sure as hell didn't and some people
01:43:55
say he sure as hell did right yeah there
01:43:57
are some people that will say you
01:43:58
wrecked the country right now yeah it's
01:44:00
what you see what you see it's like
01:44:02
political debates I mean that debate
01:44:04
with Biden and Trump will go down in
01:44:07
history for one of the very few debates
01:44:09
that actually had massive consequences
01:44:12
and that Biden stood down after that
01:44:14
because he was you know struggling and
01:44:17
you became parent for everyone to see it
01:44:19
but actually as a general rule they
01:44:20
don't move anything and the reason is if
01:44:23
I watched that debate yesterday with JD
01:44:25
Vance and talz I think JD Vance gave a
01:44:29
master class and was fantastic why
01:44:30
because I'm rightwing and I want to like
01:44:32
JD Vance and I like the way he said what
01:44:34
he said right but if you are a Democrat
01:44:37
voter you'd say toolz is nice guy and he
01:44:39
did a really good job so you see what
01:44:41
you want to see but I personally think
01:44:43
that we went from having a GFC that we
01:44:46
inherited in 08 to living as the
01:44:48
Rockstar economy and we keept debt under
01:44:51
control and and I look at say the way
01:44:54
debt blew out under the previous labor
01:44:55
government I think generations of new
01:44:57
zealanders are going to be paying for
01:44:59
that and for a very long time I think
01:45:02
we've got a lot to be proud of with our
01:45:03
government and it wasn't just economic I
01:45:05
think we did a lot of things in lots of
01:45:07
different places like I said in the Arts
01:45:09
sector or you know a lot of stuff that
01:45:11
we dealt with build huge amount of
01:45:12
infrastructure we did a lot I just did a
01:45:14
lot of different things and I think we
01:45:16
tried to build National confidence and
01:45:18
National and in a sense that New Zealand
01:45:20
was really doing well and people wanted
01:45:22
to be here which is why migration
01:45:24
numbers turned around and more new
01:45:25
zealanders started coming to or
01:45:27
Australian started coming to New Zealand
01:45:28
and New Zealand is going to Australia so
01:45:30
it's all about ambition so yeah I mean
01:45:34
like I say if it's for every promise
01:45:36
will be the same if you had it all again
01:45:38
would there be some things you do
01:45:40
differently of course you there would be
01:45:41
but you don't live in that perfect world
01:45:43
you live in the real world which is
01:45:45
stuff's getting try at you every five
01:45:47
minutes and Legacy um yeah everyone
01:45:50
thought I wanted the flag as a legacy
01:45:52
which didn't I wanted the flag because I
01:45:55
wanted to build that national identity
01:45:57
that we something we could coal around
01:45:59
that's obviously the silver F hind I
01:46:01
should have just done it I didn't need
01:46:03
actually need 61 Bus I think that the
01:46:05
whole thing was confusing was almost
01:46:07
like an X Factor sort of elimination
01:46:09
exactly he should have just done it um
01:46:10
that's what they did in Canada and they
01:46:12
end up with the bloody great flag which
01:46:13
is the maple um so yeah Legacy I think I
01:46:19
think I think
01:46:21
that there's no question if you put a a
01:46:24
gun to someone's head and said one word
01:46:28
you know J ke's government I think
01:46:30
people would say economic right like we
01:46:32
were an economically focused government
01:46:34
I'm kind of an economically focused guy
01:46:36
and people elected us because they
01:46:38
thought we'd be good with money the more
01:46:39
labor went on about me being some rich
01:46:41
fat cat the more the punter just heard I
01:46:44
quite good with money from s so
01:46:45
hopefully be good with us right so you
01:46:47
got to accept all that so for me I think
01:46:49
the Legacy was that we were just a much
01:46:51
stronger vibrant economy is at the end
01:46:54
of all that and um so yeah I'm I'm
01:46:59
personally really proud of that and I
01:47:00
think I think we had a great team um and
01:47:04
and we did a lot of good things and um
01:47:08
and so yeah I as say you know like I
01:47:11
might change the old thing but it
01:47:12
wouldn't change much well I asked um
01:47:14
chat
01:47:15
GP
01:47:17
say well we've he what you think see
01:47:20
what
01:47:23
John ke is often regarded as a
01:47:24
successful and popular prime minister of
01:47:26
New Zealand though opinions about his
01:47:28
leadership are mixed opin on one's
01:47:29
political perspective yeah um his tenure
01:47:32
also had significant social and economic
01:47:34
challenges that continue to shape
01:47:36
debates about his legacy yeah pretty
01:47:39
good dollar each way he pretty good hey
01:47:42
um this has been fun good glad you enjoy
01:47:44
it i' I've really really enjoyed it I'm
01:47:45
um so grateful for you being so generous
01:47:48
with your time Y no problems I hope I
01:47:50
hope some of your listeners get through
01:47:51
the whole time I don't know be a long
01:47:54
card trop if they do but anyway oh well
01:47:56
that's what I like about long form um
01:47:58
podcasts you know you can listen till
01:48:00
you get bored but I've got no doubt that
01:48:01
you know and people probably come in and
01:48:03
out of themp what they do I mean
01:48:06
podcasts I mean podcasts I think are
01:48:07
amazing like I mean Mex listens to lots
01:48:10
of podcasts more than I do I mean I
01:48:11
listen to some um but yeah I find them I
01:48:16
you hopefully at the end of it you have
01:48:19
a sense of what makes the person tick
01:48:21
yeah and that's all you're really trying
01:48:22
to do
01:48:23
and I think if you can do that then then
01:48:25
you come away a rich person CU you
01:48:27
understand at least their perspective
01:48:29
and actually the fact that you might not
01:48:30
agree with that perspective is no bad
01:48:32
thing it's just your view of the world
01:48:34
and we're all different and that's
01:48:36
that's what makes makes us a great you
01:48:38
know country and Society yeah well I've
01:48:40
really enjoyed that I think there's a
01:48:41
lot of insights into you as a you know a
01:48:43
person politics aside yeah yeah all
01:48:46
right Sir John K thank you so much
01:48:51
thanks for

Podspun Insights

In this captivating episode, Sir John Key shares an intimate look into his life after the prime ministership, revealing the joys of a more relaxed lifestyle filled with golf, travel, and quality time with family. He reflects on the intense pressures of his eight-year tenure, including the relentless demands of reading and preparation that kept him in a constant state of sleep deprivation. The conversation takes a nostalgic turn as he recounts his early years, the loss of his father, and the influence of his mother, a resilient Austrian Jewish refugee who instilled in him the values of hard work and education.

Key discusses his relationships with current political figures, including Chris Luxon, and offers insights into the dynamics of media interactions, emphasizing the importance of maintaining a good rapport with journalists while navigating the challenges of public scrutiny. He candidly addresses the emotional toll of leadership during crises, such as the Christchurch earthquakes, and reflects on the lessons learned from his time in office, including the significance of mental health and the impact of social media.

The episode is peppered with light-hearted anecdotes, including his memorable encounters with world leaders like Barack Obama and the Queen, showcasing his ability to connect with people from all walks of life. As he navigates through the complexities of politics and personal life, Key's story is one of resilience, humor, and a deep appreciation for the journey that has shaped him.

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Episode Highlights

  • Life After Prime Ministership
    Sir John Key discusses his transition to a more balanced life after politics.
    “It's nice having a bit of me time now.”
    @ 02m 38s
    November 03, 2024
  • The Media's Clickbait Culture
    Key reflects on how media twists words and creates headlines.
    “It's sort of clickbait, isn’t it?”
    @ 13m 26s
    November 03, 2024
  • Relatability in Politics
    John discusses how people are more interested in the human side of politicians.
    “Most people are actually interested in human life.”
    @ 24m 55s
    November 03, 2024
  • Aspirations of a Young Politician
    From a young age, he dreamed of being prime minister, inspired by political debates at home.
    “I had aspirations to be prime minister from a real young age.”
    @ 33m 33s
    November 03, 2024
  • The Importance of Correspondence
    As prime minister, he made it a point to respond to every young person who wrote to him.
    “I used to write to every single young person that wrote to me.”
    @ 35m 35s
    November 03, 2024
  • Visualization and Success
    The speaker emphasizes the need to visualize success to achieve it. 'If you can't visualize yourself being there, you'll never get there.'
    “If you can't visualize yourself being there, you'll never get there.”
    @ 50m 55s
    November 03, 2024
  • Regrets in Leadership
    Advice shared about leadership: 'You'll never regret the things you did, you'll regret the things you didn't do.'
    “You'll never regret the things you did, you'll regret the things you didn't do.”
    @ 58m 01s
    November 03, 2024
  • Mental Health and Exercise
    Discussing how exercise, like golf, helps maintain mental health.
    “I think things like exercise help my mental health.”
    @ 01h 08m 41s
    November 03, 2024
  • Reflections on the Earthquake
    Sharing memories of the Christchurch earthquake and its aftermath.
    “You feel enormously for the families and people feel very vulnerable.”
    @ 01h 13m 56s
    November 03, 2024
  • Leaving Politics Behind
    Reflecting on a decision to retire, the speaker emphasizes peace with their choice.
    “You’re at peace with your decision totally, yeah.”
    @ 01h 24m 36s
    November 03, 2024
  • Frustrations of Public Perception
    The speaker discusses the challenges of being misunderstood in the public eye.
    “It’s just frustrating if you know who you are as a person.”
    @ 01h 39m 27s
    November 03, 2024
  • Legacy of Leadership
    John Key reflects on his tenure as Prime Minister, emphasizing economic strength and national identity.
    “I think we’ve got a lot to be proud of with our government.”
    @ 01h 45m 03s
    November 03, 2024

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Key Moments

  • Friendship06:46
  • Media Relations08:19
  • Human Connection24:55
  • Mother's Wisdom28:00
  • Money and Happiness47:10
  • Emotional Flight1:07:26
  • Vulnerable Times1:13:56
  • Surreal Royal Moments1:29:14

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