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David Seymour on THAT Haka Backlash, Chloe, Winston, Luxon & Finding Love

August 17, 202501:30:07
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Would it be fair to say like this year
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you've probably been one of the most
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disliked people in New Zealand? Hannah
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rips up the um treaties principal bill
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and then they perform a hacker in front
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of you. What what's that like from your
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perspective?
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>> It's saddening. Uh because
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>> for you personally like being the the
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the you person that hacker was aimed at.
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Is that embarrassing?
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>> Oh, it's not embarrassing. It's
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embarrassing for them.
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>> What about Chloe?
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>> Yeah.
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>> Do you like each other?
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>> I think it's a sad situation. I I I've
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had a good relationship with Chloe for
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most of the time. I I think she's
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frankly hardened a bit after I
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criticized her for chanting the, you
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know, river to the sea thing. And for
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some reason since that particular
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incident, she's had a very different uh
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tone on me, which is a shame.
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>> On this on the school lunches, um
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there's a quote from you. Sushi is woke.
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>> What does that mean?
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>> You know what? I'm I'm just going to
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tell you.
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David Seymour, welcome back to my
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podcast. It's great to be back and um I
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just looked at the way you've grown how
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long you stuck at stuck at it and now
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you've got this huge audience and Flash
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Studio. You even got you're literally up
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at neon lights. Good for you.
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>> You asked you asked me to come back on
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this time.
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>> Yeah.
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>> I got a phone call out of the blue. I
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said, "What did I do to deserve this
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phone call?" And can you remember what
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your line was?
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>> Yeah. said your rating.
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>> Yeah. So, just to time stamp it, but
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last time you came on the podcast, it
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was um early in 2023, actually the week
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that Justindra Adun stood down.
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>> Yeah.
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>> Um since then, uh lots going on
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professionally and personally, ACT's
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biggest election result, October 2023.
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>> Yeah. Yeah.
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>> And uh on a personal perspective, you've
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got engaged.
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>> Yeah. Well, I figured the the real the
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real truth is it's not just that you're
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rating. I thought I I got some content
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for you and I thought, you know,
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podcasters need content. I try to help
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people where I can. And it's always fun
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to chat to you.
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>> I I was thinking maybe it's like um an
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image rehabilitation thing or something
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like it's Would it be fair to say like
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this year you've probably been one of
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the most I don't know disliked people in
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New Zealand and New Zealand politics?
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>> You know, I I think that probably is
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fair if you just look at the numbers of
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uh people that like and dislike a
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politician. Bear in mind there's still a
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lot of people who uh support me, but it
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makes me overall polarizing. You know,
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I've probably got the biggest group on
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either side of that. Um there's a lot of
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politicians. Uh about 40 new politicians
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are elected every election and a lot of
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them uh go through and don't get known.
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Um I certainly haven't had that problem.
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Uh but yeah, it's fair to say that I I
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like to take on hard issues and I
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thought, you know what, I I should call
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Dom and and get on his podcast because
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frankly, I want to talk through uh some
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of the the issues that have cropped up
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in the last um year or so. I think
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podcast is a good uh environment to have
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that discussion and say, "Look, if you
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you know, if you like me, good on you.
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If you don't, fair enough." Um, but I
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find that there's actually a vacuum of
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open discussion and a lot of people are
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frustrated. A lot of people are turning
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to podcasts around the world because
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they don't trust what they're seeing in
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the news. So, uh, let's see how we go.
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>> Yeah.
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Well, the issue that you got with my
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podcast is I'm not I'm I'm I'm fairly
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dumb. I'm not very politically savvy.
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Um, so you're not going to get um
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>> a lot of people say that about me,
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>> but um my goal my goal with this is like
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to um you know get to understand a
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person and understand the way they think
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through long form conversation and um
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you know behind everyone's job there
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there's a person. Um but I am keen to
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get into some of the um some of the some
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of the stuff. It's interesting like I'm
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from like a media background where there
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is a desperate need to be liked um
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because you live and die by by your
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ratings on radio so you need to be liked
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and I suppose to a degree you're the
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same like you need you need you need
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name recognition and you need people to
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like you in order to get reelected but
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um the flip side of that is it's like
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it's not nice when people hate you. So,
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let let me ask you though um in in radio
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and and that's your domain, but do you
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need people to like you or do you need
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people to to think that you're effective
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and you you stand for something? Um,
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personally, I don't mind so much I don't
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have a need to be liked. Uh it's nice if
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people like you, but um you know, you
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don't go into politics to be popular.
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It's a pretty big failure if you do. Uh
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I go into politics because I think that
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there are better ways to live and we
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need to change some of our laws to do
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it. Uh so there's a need to be I guess
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respected as someone who's in it for the
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right reasons and effective but not
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necessarily liked. There's a difference
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there.
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>> Yeah. One of the the most popular
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podcast guests I've had in between you
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coming in now and our last chat was um
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this woman called Tracy Chapman. Uh
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Tracy Hickman. I think I sent you a a
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clip from the podcast and
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>> she had so much gratitude for it. She
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got to die in May 2024 on her own terms.
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>> Yeah.
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>> Um you you must get a lot of like
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messages like that from real life
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examples of um people who have used that
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bill.
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>> Yeah, I do. It's I mean she was, you
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know, a very special and spectacular
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case and um I think the reason I always
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thought the law would pass is that
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people knew what they'd seen and I think
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she kind of brought out a lot of the
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rawness of that. So uh but I do I do get
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notes. Um, I can think of a couple I've
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had just in the last month. You know,
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almost every couple of weeks, someone
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will write and say, "I know someone that
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um used it. Um, and uh, you know, we're
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very grateful we got to uh have the the
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choice and control and the dignity and
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um, and the ability to plan. Um, someone
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trying to think who messaged me just the
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other day saying that they were on their
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way to a sort of living wake. So, people
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are now doing their funeral before they
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die." Um, which you know is pretty cool
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because I've always thought it would be
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nice if the person could be there.
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>> Well, that's what Tracy did. Um, even
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though she was um incredibly unwell like
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the the day before she went to Phar with
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her sister and her partner and some
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other family. Um, they went to karaoke
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that um that night for a couple of songs
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like um Staying Alive and I will
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survive. And then um the morning of they
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they drove to a beach which I won't name
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with um the medical professional that
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was administering the drugs and they
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stopped by Wild Bean on the way and she
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had some Whitaker's chocolate for
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breakfast and um yeah she she got to you
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know take some control back o over her
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own life and sort of die the way that
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she had lived her life
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>> with dignity. If if it all ended for you
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today is is that how you'd like to be
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remembered as a politician?
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>> Um it's it it's one thing uh and I'm I'm
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very proud of it. Um, but I would like
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to think it's it's part of a wider theme
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of letting people live and in this case
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die uh the way that they would like to
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there's no shortage of politicians. I
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know I've said this a few times, but
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there's no shortage of politicians who
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basically want to lead a tribe and have
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everyone live according to the tribe.
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The tribe has spoken. Uh I I want to try
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and uh let a bit more light out and let
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people live their own way so as not
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harming someone else. So I I I hope that
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that will be seen as an example of a
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theme.
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>> So at the time we're recording this,
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it's uh what August 2025. So you've been
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deputy prime minister of New Zealand for
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3 months. Um what changes when you
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become deputy prime minister? Does it
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does it mean anything? What does it
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mean?
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>> It means everything and nothing. Um so
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it means everything because uh it just
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shows just about anything's possible in
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this country. I say to kids, look, if
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that guy could become deputy prime
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minister, that's what you could do.
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>> Meaning you.
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>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
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>> So, um on the other hand, it it kind of
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means nothing because my basic job is to
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be the minister of regulation, be the MP
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for EPSUM, lead the ACT party, all that
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stuff stays the same. Where it's a
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little bit different is if Chris goes
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overseas, then I'm now the first in line
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to be the acting PM. Uh which again
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means everything and nothing. Uh in
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theory, it's it's just a symbolic job.
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Uh but if something goes really wrong
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then you have to actually um be there
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and and potentially make decisions if uh
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you know things are are really really
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drastic. Um like I mean not just any
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decision but you know significant
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decisions. Um and uh that's that's
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always something to think about. Uh and
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I I feel like I'm jinxed because uh so
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far I've been acting for the crowd
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strike um when those Chinese ships came
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the floods in Nelson. Uh there was
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something else. Oh, Israel and Iran
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decided to fire missiles at each other.
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So, it seems every time I'm acting PM,
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something crazy happens.
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>> Are there any good perks? Do you get a
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nicer office? You have security detail.
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Is it more money? Must be more money.
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>> Well, I I it is a bit more money. Um,
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but the this the only perk that I that I
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really really think is is worth it.
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Normally, I don't go for perks. Um but
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if you have the security with you then
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because those guys are all carrying a
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bit of metal uh you don't have to go
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through the security at the airport. So
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there's a little things but um but other
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than that very little changes.
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>> So in the in the last 3 months since you
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were made deputy prime minister how many
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days have you been caretaker prime
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minister?
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>> Uh I don't know probably
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couple of weeks worth. Yeah. Yeah. You
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and I went out and got some fish and
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chips for lunch a couple of weeks ago
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and that was a day where you were
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caretaker prime minister and yeah we had
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security guards.
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>> Oh yeah.
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>> Do they have guns? Do they have guns on
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their person?
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>> I don't think you're supposed to talk
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about that. I don't think so. I assume I
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assume that that's just their handcuffs
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that can't go through security.
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>> Yeah. Right. Right. Um was there a
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special ceremony when you become deputy
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prime minister?
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>> Yeah. And it was actually really nice.
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Um Cindy Ko the um governor general said
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look you know we think we should do
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something. I said okay and um you know
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Chris Luxon actually didn't have to but
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but showed up. Um so it was nice that
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people were there and also had um you
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know a few members of my family and and
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also some of my staff that have been
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with me since you know since times when
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this seemed crazy uh were were there
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with me. Um so that was that was it was
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a pretty cool day actually.
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Yeah, we we don't need to focus too much
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on the the David Seymour back story
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because I feel like we did that in the
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previous um podcast, but um in a
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nutshell, your dad is still around and
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you've got two brothers. Um your mom
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passed away from cancer in your early
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20s, so you've had you've been without
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her for as almost as long as what you
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had her now.
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>> Very Yeah. Yeah. A few years off that,
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but very close. Yeah.
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>> Yeah. What What did your dad make of the
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whole thing becoming deputy prime
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minister?
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>> Pretty cool, right?
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>> Yeah. Yeah. Oh, he he's just a you know
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um proud dad in that sense. Um I think
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uh so no I'm lucky to um have someone
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that's been sort of quietly supportive
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for such a long time. Most dads are but
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he's a pretty pretty classic dad in that
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sense.
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>> How how are they when like are you are
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you quite close with them in terms of
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like talking on the phone or you got a
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family WhatsApp group? Like I'm thinking
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when when the heat's really on you like
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I think I said at the start of it you're
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like you you're probably one of the most
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hated politicians in New Zealand this
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year. Like what sort of impact does that
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have on them? Um,
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>> are they quite resilient or they know
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that you can handle yourself?
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>> They are. I I mean, they don't worry
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about me. I I worry about them um
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probably unnecessarily. But I think it's
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almost harder when it's someone close to
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you because you sort of have, you know,
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you want to defend them, but you
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actually can't really. Uh, or you could,
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but it would make the situation more
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complex. Um, so yeah, I I worry a bit
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about them, but they seem to be fine. I
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mean, to be honest, we're all at a
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really busy stage. So, you know, Mark's
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got three young children. Um, one of
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whom sends me political emails quite
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often. Um, that's the one that sent me
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the email about children being able to
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work. Um, you know, Xander's got a
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couple of uh small children, so they're
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they're kind of at like peak crazy in
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their life cycle. Uh, so, you know, we
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see each other, but not as much as we
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probably have at other times and will in
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the future. Well,
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>> it's adulting, right? You you have your
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own stuff going on. Everyone's busy.
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Totally. Yeah.
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>> So, you're over halfway through this
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term. Um, yeah. Give yourself a report
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card. Like, are there KPIs? How do you
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know what you're doing and and if you're
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doing the right thing?
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>> Well, the number one thing is are we are
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we bringing about the change of policy?
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Uh, so if you look at, you know, the
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stuff that I'm specifically doing,
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Pharmac is way different and it's
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funding a lot more drugs than it was 18
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months ago. The culture is way more
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listening. They've now got, you know, a
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patient group inside Pharmac. So,
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they're actually listening to patients
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more and they're starting to figure out
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how they bid to get more money. Uh,
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Medsafe that allows medicines to be used
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in New Zealand. Uh, they have decided to
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allow medical conferences, thank God,
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uh, because we've effectively banned
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those for a long time. Uh, sent all our
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doctors to Fiji. Uh, they're saying that
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if something is allowed in two other
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countries, then it has to be approved
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here within 30 days. So I think all
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pretty good stuff. Uh you know I'm also
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responsible for education. Uh school
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attendance uh continues to rise. We've
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got a lot more money in the budget which
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is one of the few areas I think it's
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worth spending more that drugs. uh we've
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um medicines that is I'm always told to
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say um um and uh you know we've also
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opened up charter schools which are just
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really radically changing things because
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I'm a a big supporter uh of what the
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government is doing with the NCA uh with
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the phones and schools uh with the you
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know not having three classrooms joined
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together
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>> but ultimately that is running the
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government schools better uh we need to
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start thinking out of the box how we get
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some totally different ways of doing
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education if we're going to keep kids
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engaged and have a big future as a
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country. So really proud of what we're
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doing with charters and attendance
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school lunches. Everyone loves to beat
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up on it but you notice there's been no
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media coverage for the last 2 3 months
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because basically we fixed all the
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problems. We're doing it for half the
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price uh and the satisfaction's gone up
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and the on-time delivery has gone up.
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So, you know, there's there's no no
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story for RNZ in that. Um, so look, I I
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think those things are going well. Um,
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and then I I get the sense going on of
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it. So, you ask,
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>> yeah, on this on the school lunches, um,
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there's a quote from you. Sushi is woke.
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Y
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>> what's what's woke about sushi? What
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does that mean?
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>> You know what? I'm I'm just going to
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tell you, um, that comment wasn't by me.
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It was somebody put that on my social
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media. I've never been more pissed off.
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I I thought it was a stupid comment and
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um you know I so I can't answer that. I
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I think it was a really dumb thing to
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say. Um and sometimes that just happens.
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>> Oh, like someone in your team.
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>> Yeah. Yeah.
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>> Right. Right.
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>> Oh god, that must be infuriating.
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>> Yeah. I mean that happens every now and
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then. I'll never I'll never say who. Um
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I I never uh bag someone else for a
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mistake that's made. Usually you just
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own it. But yeah, that was a stupid
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comment. So
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>> thanks for that. That's going to make a
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great little clip for social media.
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>> Yeah. Yeah. I'm so I feel so much better
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now. I feel kind of weights off my
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shoulders.
00:15:50
>> Cleansed. Yeah. Some other good stuff
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you've done. I don't think anyone would
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disagree with this. Um the the cauldrons
00:15:55
and night and days putting pseudoine
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back into them. They didn't work. They
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were ineffective.
00:15:59
>> Pseudoine's back to wake you up.
00:16:00
Melatonin's going to be back very soon
00:16:03
um to uh put you back to sleep. So yeah,
00:16:05
that's all good. And look regulation. I
00:16:07
mean, we're slashing red tape. I mean,
00:16:08
even just little things like letting
00:16:10
people put a garden shed wherever the
00:16:11
hell they want rather than there's
00:16:12
actually rules about that. We got rid of
00:16:14
it. Um, and a whole lot of sort of
00:16:16
bigger, probably more serious stuff
00:16:18
about how early childhoods regulated.
00:16:20
Um, what we're doing with uh letting
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agricultural products into the country
00:16:24
so our farmers can stay at the cutting
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edge. We're reviewing
00:16:27
telecommunications, product labeling I
00:16:29
mentioned. I mean, right across the
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board, we're just slashing stupid rules.
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So, look, all of that stuff I I think
00:16:34
we're doing pretty well. Um, and then
00:16:36
the other side is, you know, where's
00:16:37
your your public perception? How's your
00:16:40
polling? I mean, ACT generally polls
00:16:41
higher now than it did on election
00:16:43
night. Got to be happy with that. Uh,
00:16:45
and then there's the wider act team. You
00:16:46
I look at what Brook's doing, Nicole,
00:16:48
uh, you know, I look at people like
00:16:50
Paramid, Palmer, some of our our newer
00:16:52
MPs on the back benches. I I think our
00:16:54
team's going really well, too.
00:16:57
>> Okay. Some other bits and pieces. Um,
00:16:59
driving a Land Rover up the steps of
00:17:01
Parliament. Yeah. Was was that a Was
00:17:03
that a good move, a bad move? Was that a
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mistake?
00:17:06
>> You got told off for that. It was a
00:17:07
stunt.
00:17:07
>> No, no, I didn't get told off for that.
00:17:09
No, no one no one did cuz I I actually
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didn't break any rules. Uh it would be
00:17:16
breaking the rule to disobey the
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speaker. Uh but no one actually told me
00:17:19
the speaker had said that. Uh and here's
00:17:22
why I did it. You know, I love this
00:17:24
country, but it just depresses the be
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Jesus out of me whenever and you heard
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it after that. People say, "Oh, you
00:17:31
should have asked permission." Really?
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Who? Who? There was no rule to be
00:17:36
broken. That no one was in any danger.
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The only person that put themselves in
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danger was the security guard that ran
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in front of the thing trying to stop me
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doing the thing that was otherwise not
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dangerous. It was an example of just
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being able and you know a lot of the
00:17:48
feedback we got from you know farmers up
00:17:50
in the hook you say, "Yeah, we should
00:17:51
have bloody gone to the top of the
00:17:53
stairs." So, and and we just I mean we
00:17:56
need to break free. If something's not
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hurting anyone else, you should be able
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to do it. The other reason I did it, uh,
00:18:02
and this is someone that you should get
00:18:04
on your show now think about it, Julian
00:18:06
Payton. I first came across him when he
00:18:09
tried to import a piano from England as
00:18:12
he migrated to New Zealand to uh, work
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at the medical school. Anyway, he, long
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story short, the Department of
00:18:18
Conservation tried to destroy his piano.
00:18:19
I won't go into that now. Then he's he's
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researching to do these heart valves
00:18:24
which grow with the kid because at the
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moment if you're a heart kid with
00:18:27
roheatic fever which New Zealand has
00:18:28
like third world levels off. They put a
00:18:31
tiny valve in then your heart grows.
00:18:32
They cut you up again. And these kids
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40% of them die before 20 cuz they're
00:18:36
multiple open heart surgeries. He's
00:18:38
creating valves that are made out of pig
00:18:41
cells that grow with your heart as a
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small child. and he's trying to raise
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money and he raised a lot of money after
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the attention that the whole thing got
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after that.
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>> But it also showed I mean it was on TV
00:18:54
for three nights in a row. I mean like
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seriously uh no rules were broken.
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Everyone went berserk. The opposition
00:19:00
went berserk. It's like actually I never
00:19:03
faced any penalty. I was never in any
00:19:05
trouble. Nothing was done wrong. There
00:19:07
was no one put in any danger with that
00:19:08
one exception. It raised money for a
00:19:10
great charity and um a whole lot of
00:19:13
people decide to have a massive wing.
00:19:14
Well, you know, that's on them. And
00:19:16
>> did you get told off by um Prime
00:19:18
Minister Luxen for writing a letter to
00:19:20
the UN? What was the story there? And
00:19:21
what is a a telling off from the Prime
00:19:22
Minister look like?
00:19:23
>> Well, no. I mean, people people say
00:19:25
that. And again, that's another example
00:19:27
of where the media has misrepresented
00:19:29
what's actually happened. Um, should I
00:19:32
have written it? Well, I suspect there
00:19:33
will be more to come out about that. Uh,
00:19:36
but at the end of the day, people love
00:19:37
the letter. If anything, I think people
00:19:39
just wish that they'd uh written it
00:19:41
themselves. Um but no, I wouldn't
00:19:43
believe the hype on that one.
00:19:45
>> What about um there was something to do
00:19:46
with a a Pulking Horn letter. Did you
00:19:48
write a letter of support to the police
00:19:50
about Pokey?
00:19:51
>> Yeah, I did. And again, um I have a
00:19:54
policy that my first job is to be the
00:19:56
last line of defense for people who live
00:19:58
in the Epsom electorate. Uh so if
00:20:00
someone comes in and bear in mind at
00:20:02
this point there were no charges. Uh
00:20:05
this was a person who had been adjacent
00:20:07
to a death. uh and I'd been told by
00:20:12
other people who knew him, look, this
00:20:14
guy is on the edge. I I think he could
00:20:16
actually uh kill himself comes into my
00:20:19
office and says, "Look, you know, I feel
00:20:21
I'm being harassed and unfairly
00:20:23
treated." So, I wrote a letter which
00:20:25
just said, "Look, um totally respect
00:20:28
your independence. You guys have got to
00:20:30
make a call on this, but you know, this
00:20:32
guy's at his wit's end. He's got no one
00:20:34
else to go to. I feel it's my duty to
00:20:36
pass on that these are this is how he's
00:20:38
feeling about the whole situation right
00:20:39
now. Um that was it was as simple as
00:20:42
that and I would do that for any uh
00:20:46
constituent um whether they're popular,
00:20:48
unpopular, liked, disliked. If someone
00:20:51
came into my office tomorrow and I was
00:20:53
getting messages saying this person is
00:20:55
suicidal, someone's got to help them. Uh
00:20:57
then I would help them.
00:21:01
Yeah, it's interesting giving the the
00:21:02
time frame of it because you hear the
00:21:03
thing and you think how could how could
00:21:04
someone support Pulking Horn like he's
00:21:06
he's not a great character, but this is
00:21:08
like pre-arrest, pre- anything. So you
00:21:11
you weren't aware of the full extent of
00:21:13
everything that had gone on.
00:21:15
>> No. And I had I had no all I had was the
00:21:18
facts in front of me. Um and you're
00:21:20
right. So that you know I I can't even
00:21:22
remember when it was. When the media
00:21:24
asked me about it, I completely forgot
00:21:25
I'd done it. Um but it was certainly you
00:21:30
know after uh Pauline had died and it
00:21:34
was a long time before it was all over
00:21:36
the media. Uh interestingly the letter
00:21:39
just kind of appeared in the media you
00:21:41
know 2 years after it was written. So
00:21:44
whatever. I mean, ultimately, if people
00:21:47
are um accusing me of being prepared to
00:21:50
uh stand up for my constituents and have
00:21:53
some humanity for someone who's down and
00:21:55
and perhaps dangerously down, then I'm
00:21:57
Yes, I I will do that.
00:21:59
>> Well, thanks for that explanation. Wait,
00:22:00
what sort of time schedule are you on
00:22:02
today as deputy prime minister? Is this
00:22:03
your last thing of the day?
00:22:05
>> No, no, I'm doing a public meeting at
00:22:06
Eldersley tonight. So, we got two or 300
00:22:09
people RSVP and I'm basically going
00:22:11
along just to hear what people have got
00:22:13
to say cuz the danger is um you know,
00:22:16
you know a politician stuffed when they
00:22:18
start to sound like the people in the
00:22:19
beehive and uh you got to get out and
00:22:21
listen to the people who are actually
00:22:22
paying the paying the ticket for you to
00:22:24
be there.
00:22:24
>> Got it. Never ends. But yeah. Yeah. One
00:22:25
other thing that's been quite big in in
00:22:27
parliament was the um the haka tipati
00:22:29
maldi. Um there was Rawi Hana. Who was
00:22:32
the other the lady from?
00:22:34
>> Oh, Debbie Napka.
00:22:35
>> Yeah. Yeah. So um Hannah rips up the um
00:22:38
treaties principal bill and then they
00:22:40
perform a haka in front of you.
00:22:42
>> You what what's that like from your
00:22:44
perspective? Is that intimidating?
00:22:46
>> No. Um it's saddening. Uh because I look
00:22:51
at the society we live in and after
00:22:54
about 300,000 years of humans running
00:22:56
around boppinging each other over the
00:22:57
head, keeping each other as slaves,
00:23:00
practicing cannibalism, and just
00:23:02
generally being savages, uh we have
00:23:04
arrived at a time in our history where
00:23:06
to be respected, you have to make your
00:23:08
arguments using ideas and logic and
00:23:11
facts. And people have the ability to
00:23:14
choose which ones they believe and how
00:23:16
they think. Um, that's a wonderful place
00:23:19
to be. It's allowed us to have science.
00:23:22
It's allowed us to have democracy. It's
00:23:24
allowed us to have courts and the rule
00:23:26
of law. It's basically allowed us to
00:23:29
live twice as long uh as humans used to
00:23:32
live. I mean, people, everyone used to,
00:23:33
you know, on average live to 40. Now, on
00:23:35
average, we live to 80.
00:23:36
>> Now, all of a sudden, we say, "Okay, um,
00:23:40
if you don't like something, uh, then
00:23:42
you just get up and and dance around and
00:23:44
yell and poke your tongue out." and in
00:23:46
their case um make gestures of of
00:23:49
shooting gestures uh of a gun uh that
00:23:53
people if you don't like their ideas
00:23:55
instead of debating them with better
00:23:57
ideas maybe you should kill them. Well,
00:23:59
that makes me sad. Um and it makes me
00:24:02
sad that it has been given as much
00:24:05
legitimacy uh as it has because this
00:24:09
whole idea that we live in a
00:24:11
post-enlightenment world with reason,
00:24:13
facts, and logic um you know that's
00:24:16
pretty lucky. And uh the danger is you
00:24:19
don't know what you got till it's gone.
00:24:22
>> That moment went um crazy viral, spread
00:24:24
like wildfire around the world. Yeah. Um
00:24:27
for you personally, like being the the
00:24:28
the Yeah. the person that hacker was
00:24:30
aimed at like is it is that
00:24:32
embarrassing?
00:24:34
>> Oh, it's not embarrassing. It's
00:24:36
embarrassing for them. Um because I
00:24:39
believe that you know the age of reason
00:24:41
and you know debating based on the facts
00:24:44
and allowing people to choose make up
00:24:45
their own mind which which story they
00:24:48
prefer. Uh I'm contributing to that. I'm
00:24:51
contributing to the the democratic
00:24:53
environment that that allows people to
00:24:55
live twice as long. Um those guys
00:24:57
whether they realize it or not uh are
00:25:00
trying to take us backwards and and
00:25:01
worse they're trying to say that there's
00:25:04
something inherently mauy about uh you
00:25:08
know behaving that way. Well there's not
00:25:10
uh there are Maui people who believe in
00:25:14
them actually a small minority of Mari
00:25:16
that actually vote for Tatarati Mari. Uh
00:25:19
there are non-mari people who who
00:25:21
actually agree with them. Uh but there
00:25:24
are also uh a lot of mai people who
00:25:27
would much rather be in an environment
00:25:29
of open debate and persuasion without
00:25:31
violence or without attempts at
00:25:33
intimidation and there are equally uh
00:25:35
lots of non-mai people who feel that way
00:25:38
too. So you know they're trying to say
00:25:40
that this is the only way to be mai and
00:25:42
that's totally untrue that that's
00:25:43
embarrassing.
00:25:45
>> What's your relationship like with those
00:25:47
guys like generally speaking if you see
00:25:48
each other in the hallways or whatever?
00:25:50
We talked about in the last last time
00:25:51
you came on the podcast like we talked
00:25:53
about your relationship with some of the
00:25:54
other politicians like Willie Jackson
00:25:55
Springstine had called you um a useless
00:25:58
marry.
00:25:58
>> Yeah. Um and you spoke really highly of
00:26:01
him and um
00:26:01
>> I still do. I think Willy's great.
00:26:03
>> Seemed like there's like a fairly good
00:26:04
relationship between you guys. It's
00:26:06
almost like um
00:26:07
>> Cody Taylor and Dane Cole's on the
00:26:08
field.
00:26:09
>> They seem to hate each other, but
00:26:10
there's a lot of mutual respect there
00:26:12
with the um the party moldy crew. Like
00:26:14
it Yeah. Is there any sort of like
00:26:16
mutual respect there and that you you
00:26:18
know you're both a small group of people
00:26:19
doing the same job a very unique job or
00:26:22
>> Well the problem is that you know a guy
00:26:25
like Willie Jackson I mean first of all
00:26:26
he's just a lot of fun and second of all
00:26:28
you know he doesn't mean it um and uh
00:26:31
you know good on him I guess but these
00:26:33
other guys they are there to try and
00:26:37
pull down the institution of parliament
00:26:39
you know they're not they're not there
00:26:41
as colleagues like a Willie Jackson or
00:26:44
you know a Chris Hipkins or Winston
00:26:46
Peters or you know someone who's in a
00:26:48
different party but basically committed
00:26:50
to or even even the Greens basically are
00:26:53
committed to to the parliamentary
00:26:55
democratic um way of life for New
00:26:57
Zealand. Uh whereas those guys are there
00:27:00
make no mistake to get as many hits on
00:27:03
Tik Tok as possible and they don't give
00:27:05
a rat's derriè about the future of our
00:27:08
parliamentary democracy. In fact they
00:27:09
openly say they don't like democracy. Uh
00:27:11
I find it much more difficult uh to have
00:27:14
a relationship with someone like that.
00:27:17
>> Yeah. With the the treaty's principal
00:27:18
bill, did you did you anticipate the
00:27:20
level of backlash and emotion it would
00:27:22
trigger?
00:27:23
>> Um yes and no. Uh I thought that there
00:27:27
would definitely be people who frankly
00:27:30
are um you know just so committed to
00:27:34
this idea that your identity as Mai
00:27:37
trumps everything else and that anything
00:27:40
that questions that is an attack on you
00:27:41
and you've got to march and you know
00:27:43
call the person racist and all the rest.
00:27:45
Uh but I I certainly didn't think that
00:27:48
it would be as widespread as it was. And
00:27:51
it just I guess reminded me that there
00:27:53
is a a sense of tribalism that never
00:27:56
goes far away. By the way, I mean
00:27:59
this is not just Maui. I I mean
00:28:03
everybody 200 years ago, everybody uh
00:28:06
was keeping slaves. Uh everybody was
00:28:09
applying the death penalty. Uh the
00:28:11
French I recently found out only got rid
00:28:14
of the guillotine in 1981. So there you
00:28:16
have it. But uh you know I was surprised
00:28:20
at uh just how many people were prepared
00:28:23
to attack a bill that says look the
00:28:27
government makes the laws. The
00:28:29
government has the same treatment for
00:28:31
everyone and the government upholds
00:28:32
everyone's basic rights. It it I I
00:28:34
didn't think it would be that
00:28:35
controversial. Mhm.
00:28:36
>> If he knew it was going to be that that
00:28:38
controversial, would would ACT and
00:28:39
yourself have just scrapped the whole
00:28:42
idea?
00:28:42
>> Oh, no. No. I I mean,
00:28:44
>> but you would have proceeded anyway.
00:28:45
>> I think it made it more important to do
00:28:47
it. And I believe that in time the
00:28:50
treaty principles bill or something very
00:28:51
much like it will succeed because the
00:28:54
alternative is to have a society which
00:28:57
is basically a cast system where if you
00:29:00
are of one background, you have a sort
00:29:03
of place in the world. If you're a
00:29:04
different background then you have a
00:29:05
different place in the world and you
00:29:07
hear that I mean I mentioned Parid
00:29:09
Palmer before she's one of our MPs she's
00:29:11
born in India um you know she's got a
00:29:13
PhD she runs a successful export
00:29:14
business she's been a broadcaster she's
00:29:16
been a member of parliament she's a
00:29:17
mother of two she's you know a fantastic
00:29:20
person and she's frequently told that
00:29:23
she has no right to commentate even
00:29:26
though she's an elected MP uh on issues
00:29:28
in New Zealand she should go back to
00:29:29
India or someone told me the other day
00:29:32
she should focus on uh overstayers and
00:29:35
immigration fraud amongst quote her own
00:29:37
people. Now that's the view that's
00:29:40
coming out. Uh that's the view that
00:29:42
there are people who are legitimately
00:29:44
here and there are people that are just
00:29:45
sort of late comers who should play a
00:29:47
different role. New Zealand won't work
00:29:50
if that is our outlook. And so I believe
00:29:53
sooner or later uh enough people are
00:29:55
going to say this is enough. We we need
00:29:58
to get back to our roots as a a nation
00:30:01
of pioneers, you know, pioneering people
00:30:03
who's traveled further than anyone else
00:30:05
to give our kids a better tomorrow. And
00:30:06
we got more in common than separates us.
00:30:09
>> Yeah. Oh, I'd agree with that. That I
00:30:11
love that line. That's um that's yeah,
00:30:13
sort of like a by line of this podcast.
00:30:15
You know, you have more in common than
00:30:16
what you have different from people.
00:30:18
That's why I like having long form
00:30:19
conversations with people just so you
00:30:20
can get to understand them a bit better.
00:30:22
Um, the Times UK, they called you, this
00:30:24
was a headline, the New Zealander who
00:30:26
aims to undo 185 years of moldy rights.
00:30:30
Um, yeah. Does that sting? I'm trying to
00:30:32
I'm trying to I'm probably projecting
00:30:33
here, but if I was in your position,
00:30:35
like I I'd be really upset by that.
00:30:37
>> I guess the thing is I I don't
00:30:40
personally get hurt or stung by these
00:30:43
things because I know that they are
00:30:47
actually they're frankly wrong. I mean
00:30:49
that that particular headline is is
00:30:51
factually untrue. Um I want to uphold
00:30:54
Maui rights. I want to embed the treaty.
00:30:57
I just have an understanding of it that
00:30:59
I think has been lost for a long period
00:31:01
of time. Uh that's that's why that's why
00:31:03
I'm doing it. So that headline is wrong.
00:31:06
Uh it doesn't hurt me because it hasn't
00:31:08
proven that I'm wrong. Uh it saddens me
00:31:10
again that we live in this time uh of
00:31:14
never been more human freedom. There's
00:31:15
never been more human enlightenment. And
00:31:17
yet, uh, you know, people like that are
00:31:21
actually just putting sand in the gears.
00:31:25
>> Yeah. When there's, um, 35,000 people or
00:31:28
whatever the crowd was that marched to
00:31:29
Parliament, um, they can't be wrong,
00:31:31
though. That many people can't be wrong.
00:31:33
Did Did they
00:31:34
>> Oh, easily.
00:31:35
>> Did they You think 1% of of people can't
00:31:38
be wrong on an issue? Yes, they can. I
00:31:40
mean, it was less. It was, you know, 2/3
00:31:42
of a percent of New Zealand.
00:31:44
But do you think people just
00:31:45
misunderstood it or was it was it a
00:31:47
communication problem somewhere along
00:31:49
the the pipeline?
00:31:50
>> I I I think people were people were
00:31:52
deliberately told uh things that were
00:31:54
untrue about it. Uh a lot of people you
00:31:58
know who were on that march I at least
00:32:00
one journalist went and asked them you
00:32:02
know why are you here and there weren't
00:32:03
a lot of coherent answers for that. If
00:32:05
you looked at the submissions on the
00:32:07
bill uh there weren't a lot of answers
00:32:09
for that. I visited a school in Palmy
00:32:13
North, Fryberg High a while back, and
00:32:16
there are a whole lot of students
00:32:18
protesting my visit. They'd been told on
00:32:21
TikTok that I was there to take away
00:32:23
their Kapahaka group. Number one, I have
00:32:25
no power to do that. Number two, I have
00:32:27
no interest in doing that. Uh, but
00:32:29
that's what they had come to believe.
00:32:30
And if I thought that was true, I'd go
00:32:32
out and protest, too. So, I I think
00:32:34
there's an element of that. I I think
00:32:36
about some of the things that the likes
00:32:37
of Tartati Mai uh said that I was trying
00:32:41
to take away the language, the culture,
00:32:43
the manner of Mai people. Um that's
00:32:46
untrue. Uh but a lot of people believed
00:32:48
it. So uh could we have head that off at
00:32:52
the past and communicated better? Yeah,
00:32:54
always could have done better. Uh but
00:32:56
it's worth noting that there were also
00:32:58
people who are actively acting in bad
00:33:01
faith at the same time. M
00:33:05
if you sat down for dinner with um some
00:33:06
moldy elders who are deeply hurt by the
00:33:09
bill, what would you say to them human
00:33:10
to human?
00:33:12
>> Uh well, I mean I've I've done something
00:33:15
very much like that. I I used to get
00:33:17
frequent calls uh from Dame Eritana
00:33:21
Tafifangi. Um may she rest in peace. And
00:33:25
well, in fairness, I mean, she she
00:33:26
wasn't really opposed um in our
00:33:29
conversations. So, but if I was to sit
00:33:32
down, I'd say, well, just a second.
00:33:33
Let's just look at what are the
00:33:35
aspirations of young MAI in New Zealand
00:33:39
today. Uh it's something like I want a
00:33:43
place to call my own. Uh I want
00:33:46
something to do that's meaningful. I
00:33:48
want the choice or the ability to start
00:33:50
a family. I want to feel good about
00:33:52
myself and be able to express my
00:33:53
language and culture. Now, show me where
00:33:57
this conception of the treaty that I've
00:33:59
advanced uh takes away from that.
00:34:02
There's there's lots of problems right
00:34:03
now that are stopping that. I mean, you
00:34:05
try building a house. You know, we got
00:34:06
real problems with productivity, growth,
00:34:08
and job creation. And uh you know, I I
00:34:10
think there's a lot of people are
00:34:11
struggling with uh knowing where they
00:34:14
fit in that that there there's no
00:34:15
shortage of other problems that we
00:34:17
should be addressing together. But my
00:34:19
bill by saying that the parliament makes
00:34:21
the laws that that everyone has equal
00:34:23
rights and that the crown's going to
00:34:25
uphold your your property rights. Uh
00:34:27
that that's not the problem here.
00:34:29
>> So you you genuinely believe it was a
00:34:32
win-win for everyone.
00:34:34
>> There's no question about that. And it's
00:34:36
based in the evidence of what has worked
00:34:38
around the world. I mean we've now got
00:34:41
you know hundreds of countries that have
00:34:43
tried all sorts of different things and
00:34:45
the places where people especially
00:34:47
people who are disadvantaged have been
00:34:48
able to get a good shot at life feel
00:34:51
good about themselves have somewhere to
00:34:52
live have a future have a home uh be
00:34:55
fulfilled are the places where you say
00:34:57
right here's the basic deal there's a
00:35:00
set of laws that basically say you can
00:35:02
do what you like as long as you're not
00:35:04
harming anyone else and uh you just get
00:35:07
on with it and good luck and When other
00:35:09
people succeed, you know, their success
00:35:11
isn't taking away from you. In fact,
00:35:13
often when one person invents a
00:35:16
technology, someone else will use it in
00:35:17
a way that means that they can produce
00:35:20
more or do something else that's special
00:35:21
or inspiring. Um, you know, I I look at
00:35:25
the success of the Oakland FC, which I
00:35:28
visited this morning. I mean, you could
00:35:30
imagine where some of those young people
00:35:32
who are growing up in that team culture
00:35:34
are going to end up and what they're
00:35:34
going to do. So, success actually spills
00:35:36
over and gets more success. It's
00:35:38
positive some thinking. Uh, and all I
00:35:41
propose is a a version of that basic
00:35:44
starting point. Here's a set of rules.
00:35:46
Do what you like. Don't harm anyone
00:35:48
else. You're all equal. Get on with it.
00:35:50
Let a thousand flowers bloom.
00:35:53
>> So, you're not racist.
00:35:56
I I That's a It's a It's a terrible a
00:35:59
terrible thing to be called,
00:36:00
>> especially if you're not and you know
00:36:02
you're not and you know that your
00:36:04
intentions are coming from a good place.
00:36:06
I I struggle to say how that wouldn't
00:36:08
that wouldn't hurt you even a little
00:36:09
bit.
00:36:10
>> Again, it it saddens me because
00:36:15
first of all, you know, I talk about the
00:36:16
enlightenment, I talk about reason, I
00:36:18
talk about facts and logic. Uh you have
00:36:20
to first of all to use a word, you have
00:36:23
to know what it means.
00:36:24
>> So, you've got to have a decent
00:36:25
definition of what racism is. And for
00:36:27
me, uh well, let's think about, you
00:36:30
know, sexism is when you say that you
00:36:32
you're really focused on someone's sex.
00:36:34
You know, the the most important thing
00:36:35
about a person is are they a man or a
00:36:37
woman? And therefore, you're going to
00:36:39
make all sorts of conclusions about them
00:36:41
that might not be supported by their
00:36:43
actual characteristics. And you know,
00:36:45
we've got rid of a lot of there's still
00:36:47
some sexism, but we've got rid of most
00:36:49
of it, I would say, in the last hundred
00:36:51
years. Um, racism is again, it's it's
00:36:54
it's race is your big thing. You know,
00:36:56
you someone's before you know anything
00:36:58
else about someone, uh, you you got to
00:37:00
focus on their race. Uh, one of my
00:37:03
favorite songs in the world by Buddy
00:37:04
Guy, uh, Skin Deep. He says, you know,
00:37:07
he he faced a lot of racism growing up
00:37:09
in the South as a black man in the 50s
00:37:11
and, uh, you know, his mom used to say
00:37:13
to him, "Yeah, but that's only skin
00:37:14
deep. It's what's inside that counts."
00:37:16
So that that's always been my belief and
00:37:18
a lot of that came out of the civil
00:37:20
rights movement. Um, you think about MLK
00:37:22
Jr., the famous, you know, content of
00:37:24
your character, not color of your skin.
00:37:26
So, you got to start with a definition.
00:37:28
Racism is when you believe that
00:37:30
someone's race is more important than
00:37:31
all their other characteristics. Now, I
00:37:34
I say the opposite. I say you should
00:37:36
ignore someone's race, they can't change
00:37:38
it. So, what's the point? Uh you should
00:37:40
focus on all the other characteristics
00:37:42
of a person. Um so, you know, not only
00:37:45
am I not racist, I'm I'm actually
00:37:47
fighting it. Uh, a lot of my opponents
00:37:50
in politics will say, for example, Mari
00:37:53
have special insight into looking after
00:37:56
the environment. Like, really? Because
00:37:59
I'm part MI Mari and I've looked inside.
00:38:00
I I, you know, if I want to be good at
00:38:03
looking after the environment, I should
00:38:04
probably go and study ecology or, you
00:38:07
know, learn to plant trees or something.
00:38:09
Those are things that I can actively do
00:38:11
with my life. You're not born with that
00:38:13
innate ability. And that's really the
00:38:15
the ultimate conflict of visions. Some
00:38:17
people think life is predetermined. It's
00:38:19
tribal. You live in the tribe. They
00:38:21
bring you up to do just like your daddy
00:38:23
done. It's Bruce Springsteen song. Uh
00:38:25
and
00:38:26
>> the river great song.
00:38:27
>> It is a beautiful song. Come from down
00:38:29
in the valley where Mr. When you're
00:38:31
young and
00:38:31
>> we'll get back to that.
00:38:34
The alternative the alternative view is
00:38:37
that well look you know there's there's
00:38:39
good luck there's bad luck but basically
00:38:41
uh you're stuck here and you better use
00:38:43
your time on earth as crowded house say
00:38:46
um to make the most of of those years
00:38:49
and if you can uh you know take the
00:38:51
initiative take the future in your hands
00:38:53
who knows what you might achieve
00:38:54
determinism uh versus selfdeterminism or
00:39:02
>> sorry just a sidebar what the crowded
00:39:04
house song.
00:39:05
>> Oh, I I think it was actually an album
00:39:07
titled Time on Earth.
00:39:08
>> Right. Um,
00:39:09
>> beautiful phrase.
00:39:10
>> Has has this hurt you politically, do
00:39:12
you think?
00:39:14
>> Like, is it irreparable damage or do you
00:39:17
think you've done like enough good over
00:39:18
the years to to get past this? Is this
00:39:21
just a speed bump in the David Seymour
00:39:23
story? I think that it has um
00:39:27
strengthened that support amongst a core
00:39:30
of people who can see well this is what
00:39:33
you're trying to do and pe people who if
00:39:35
they listen to or watch this podcast
00:39:38
will be completely unsurprised because
00:39:40
they already basically could would know
00:39:42
what I was going to say. Uh they
00:39:45
probably become stronger supporters.
00:39:47
There will be a bunch of people on the
00:39:49
edge who sort of used to cons maybe used
00:39:52
to support ACT maybe used to be
00:39:54
considering supporting ACT who will say
00:39:56
oh I don't know it sounds a bit racist
00:39:58
it's disruptive and it didn't actually
00:39:59
pass so you know why bother uh for those
00:40:02
people yeah probably given us a bit of a
00:40:05
>> pick and bit of a hit um but I'm a great
00:40:08
believer that the truth always comes out
00:40:10
and the truth is New Zealand's future is
00:40:12
as a a society of people with equal
00:40:15
rights
00:40:16
Yeah, I I don't want to turn this into a
00:40:18
into a wo is me segment. Um and um I'm
00:40:21
sure you know
00:40:22
>> a pity party. It's not your style,
00:40:24
>> but um yeah, on online abuse or abuse in
00:40:27
public?
00:40:28
>> I mean, there were some really mean
00:40:30
banners at parades and there was lots of
00:40:32
comments online. What about you
00:40:33
personally? Are people going into your
00:40:34
DMs or
00:40:36
>> Oh, no doubt. But I mean, I I don't
00:40:38
really look at that. um you know if
00:40:40
stuff gets brought to my attention if I
00:40:42
need to see it but I mean again I guess
00:40:45
it's I'm sort of giving you the same
00:40:46
answer over and over but
00:40:48
>> that's if that's your truth though
00:40:49
that's fine.
00:40:50
>> Yeah. Which is is that
00:40:52
>> I actually feel more sad for them
00:40:53
because you've got this wonderful
00:40:55
opportunity to use your time on earth to
00:40:57
transact and debate and find new ideas
00:40:59
and learn new things and then you know
00:41:01
you're sort of sitting there saying you
00:41:04
know David Seymours or whatever. Um
00:41:07
that's sad for you. Um, it's not really
00:41:10
sad for me. Um, it it would be nice. I
00:41:13
mean, I wish I persuaded you to become a
00:41:14
supporter and, you know, it'd be all the
00:41:16
better. Um, but it kind of sounds like
00:41:19
it's going to be hard to do that with
00:41:20
your present disposition. So, I'll just
00:41:22
move on.
00:41:23
>> Where does where does that resilience or
00:41:26
strength of character, whatever you want
00:41:27
to call it, come from? Uh, I'm I'm just
00:41:30
curious because um like if we could
00:41:31
bottle that up, like um there'd be a
00:41:34
whole lot happier people in New Zealand.
00:41:35
You know, I was, you know, I'm a little
00:41:37
bit older than you, but we were brought
00:41:39
up with um the saying sticks and stones
00:41:41
may break my bones, but names will never
00:41:42
hurt me. And then social media came
00:41:44
along and names actually do hurt you.
00:41:46
There's a lot of lot of kids, young
00:41:48
people in particular in New Zealand that
00:41:49
would struggle with that. Yeah. How can
00:41:51
how can people be more like David
00:41:53
Seymour when it comes to that sort of
00:41:54
abuse online?
00:41:56
>> Well, it's pretty simple. Uh I hate to
00:41:58
tell you, but you're going to be dead in
00:42:00
80 years max for most people. uh and uh
00:42:04
there's not much you can do about that.
00:42:06
I know um some people like Elon Musk are
00:42:08
trying to live forever, but let's assume
00:42:10
that most of us got 80 years max. Um
00:42:14
then what are you going to do with that
00:42:16
time and there are things that you'll be
00:42:18
able to control and there'll be things
00:42:20
that you won't be able to control and as
00:42:22
the old saying goes um you need the
00:42:24
serenity to accept the things you can't.
00:42:26
So there's some things I just hate. I
00:42:27
mean I wish the Russians would stop
00:42:29
invading Ukraine. I've done a little
00:42:31
bit. Ray tried to raise a bit of money
00:42:33
and change that but you know I can't
00:42:34
really change it. Uh there are things
00:42:36
that I can control and the thing I have
00:42:39
the most control over is how act is
00:42:41
going to perform in the next we while
00:42:43
and how my personal relationships go and
00:42:45
that kind of thing. So, you know, focus
00:42:47
on those. Um, but the critical thing is
00:42:50
knowing the difference. And where a lot
00:42:52
of people get in trouble is they spend a
00:42:54
huge amount of time shouting at the
00:42:56
ocean trying to work out uh how they can
00:42:58
change things that they'll they'll never
00:43:00
actually be able uh to change. So,
00:43:03
there's a bunch of angry people out
00:43:04
there. I'll probably never be able to
00:43:06
change that. Uh there are things that I
00:43:08
can change. I'm focused on that. And if
00:43:09
you do that, you might be surprised uh
00:43:11
how much positive energy you can
00:43:13
generate.
00:43:14
>> Is that the serenity prayer? I feel like
00:43:16
that's the serenity prayer. accept the
00:43:18
things I can't I can't change and know
00:43:20
that the know the difference or
00:43:22
something.
00:43:22
>> I'm I'm not very good with my
00:43:24
scriptures, I got to tell you, but um I
00:43:26
think it was St. Francis of Aisi, but
00:43:28
it's also the alcoholics anonymous
00:43:31
prayer, I think. So,
00:43:32
>> in the movie.
00:43:33
>> Yeah. Yeah.
00:43:34
>> Yeah. Um Yeah. What's your relationship
00:43:36
like with alcohol at the moment? Are you
00:43:37
are you in one of your non-drinking
00:43:38
periods or when we went out for lunch a
00:43:40
couple of weeks ago, we both had Coke
00:43:41
Zeros?
00:43:42
>> Yeah.
00:43:42
>> Coke. No sugar.
00:43:43
>> I am. Well, I am. I am today. Uh but
00:43:46
yeah, I I I'm in a way more moderate
00:43:49
place than than like when I was my first
00:43:51
year in parliament was wild. Like I I
00:43:53
think I actually spent more than I um
00:43:56
earned that year. Uh it was just one
00:43:58
endless um party really. It was great
00:44:00
fun. Um but not sustainable and pulse
00:44:04
didn't really work out that well. Then I
00:44:05
went cold turkey for a few years which
00:44:08
um was productive but boring. Now I'm
00:44:10
back to being a moderate couple of times
00:44:12
a week drinker and that's probably a
00:44:14
good space to be in. I can tell because
00:44:16
I start getting fat if I drink too much.
00:44:18
So yeah,
00:44:19
>> you must have long days.
00:44:20
>> Uh yeah. Yeah. I mean
00:44:22
>> you're up when what time's the alarm
00:44:24
going off?
00:44:24
>> Uh 5:15 some days. Depends if I got to
00:44:27
catch a flight or do early media. Um if
00:44:30
it's a if it's a Saturday then then
00:44:32
probably more like 8 or 9. So, in that
00:44:34
in that zone, but you know, definitely
00:44:38
definitely before 7 and weekdays and
00:44:40
usually um usually before 600.
00:44:43
>> Yeah. If you're getting up um like 6:00
00:44:46
most mornings or earlier, you you can't
00:44:47
do that and be a successful drinker, can
00:44:49
you?
00:44:50
>> Uh no, it depends how you define
00:44:52
success. But, um look, ultimately it
00:44:54
just makes you grumpy and then of course
00:44:56
everything else is harder. So
00:44:58
>> yeah, it's been a media stuff. And one
00:45:00
thing one thing I've noticed with you,
00:45:02
um, with me here today, with Henry, the
00:45:04
little boy that was in here earlier,
00:45:06
stuff I've seen with you on TV, whether
00:45:08
it's with, you know, Jack Tame, Jenny
00:45:10
May Coffin, Mike Hosking, whoever,
00:45:12
you're Oh, even Guy Williams um, at
00:45:15
Wangi. We'll get to that soon. Well, um,
00:45:17
you're always very calm and and and
00:45:19
measured. You know, your your
00:45:20
disposition never sort of changes.
00:45:22
>> Is that something you've learned over
00:45:24
time? Is it is that like a an axe that
00:45:26
you've sharpened?
00:45:28
>> Um
00:45:29
>> or is it just you innately?
00:45:30
>> It's um it just goes back to uh you know
00:45:33
you got to work out what you what you
00:45:35
can change and what you can't. Uh with a
00:45:37
bit of luck uh you can share some ideas
00:45:40
the other person will find valuable and
00:45:43
uh you might pick up some from them and
00:45:45
there's no point uh getting emotional
00:45:47
about it. that that it just means that
00:45:48
people go into all these sort of
00:45:50
primordial lizard brain type reactions
00:45:53
and um they stop speaking straight so
00:45:55
they're thinking straight so they're
00:45:56
less likely to share something
00:45:58
interesting with you and they're less
00:45:59
likely to take in what you're sharing
00:46:01
but also your own performance you're
00:46:02
less likely to communicate well if
00:46:04
you're in that state so um look you know
00:46:07
what there's a lot to be there's a lot
00:46:09
to be said for just being chill you know
00:46:12
there's a whole lot of people that could
00:46:14
benefit from just calming the down
00:46:16
and chilling out, you know, and it would
00:46:18
be a lot better off.
00:46:20
>> Sometimes it's it's hard though. Um I
00:46:23
had a Zoom meeting earlier this week. Um
00:46:25
it's a neighbor dispute about the sound
00:46:27
from the TV on my wall and I go in there
00:46:29
and I plan to be chill.
00:46:31
>> Yeah.
00:46:31
>> And then something happens and you see
00:46:32
the red mist and and as soon I I
00:46:35
immediately afterwards I regret it cuz I
00:46:37
know I've lost when you lose your call
00:46:39
in an argument, you know you've lost the
00:46:41
argument, right?
00:46:41
>> Absolutely. Absolutely. So
00:46:44
>> can anyone teach themselves to do that?
00:46:46
>> Yeah. I think you can because and
00:46:49
ultimately it just requires reflection.
00:46:51
So it's like any any good sports team or
00:46:53
any uh you know airplane pilot. You have
00:46:56
to work out what happened and go back.
00:46:58
So you I've got better over over the
00:47:01
years and the times that I've lost
00:47:03
support is actually when I've really had
00:47:04
a go at a jouro because people
00:47:06
ultimately say okay well you know we
00:47:08
don't like the Jouro but you're supposed
00:47:10
to be better than that. So you know
00:47:12
that's um that's really useful to useful
00:47:14
to remember. Is it frustrating doing
00:47:17
that media stuff when like say Jack Tame
00:47:19
for example on that show Q&A by the way
00:47:21
that Q&A show is that live? Is that
00:47:23
early on a Sunday morning or is that
00:47:24
>> you usually live? Sometimes Jack
00:47:26
pre-records,
00:47:27
>> right? So you you you're there early on
00:47:28
a Sunday morning like what sort of time?
00:47:30
>> Uh well the show starts at 9:00. So if
00:47:32
you're first up, you're probably there
00:47:33
at about 8 and then they do makeup and
00:47:36
stuff.
00:47:36
>> Yeah, it feels like a gotcha sort of
00:47:38
show like they're trying to
00:47:40
>> not just you but whoever they have on,
00:47:41
they're trying to trip you up.
00:47:42
>> I really like Jack. Um, I think he's one
00:47:45
of the more thoughtful uh good faith
00:47:47
actors in politics, but he has a thing
00:47:50
and he maybe he'll watch this. Just so
00:47:52
you know, we see you, Jack. Um, we he'll
00:47:56
he'll have some sort of um gotcha thing
00:47:59
and so he'll ask reasonable questions,
00:48:01
let the audience understand where you're
00:48:02
coming from. Then he'll have his gotcha
00:48:04
thing and he'll sort of stick at that
00:48:05
for a few minutes in the middle and then
00:48:07
he'll realize it's not going anywhere
00:48:08
and then you just move on back to
00:48:10
normal. and you just you just know the
00:48:12
middle of the interview that Jack's
00:48:13
gonna do it and you're like it's not
00:48:15
really gonna get anyone anywhere but
00:48:16
whatever. Um so you know that's that's
00:48:19
Jack, but I actually think he's one of
00:48:20
the better and more thoughtful people
00:48:22
out there.
00:48:22
>> Who who do you get nervous about? I had
00:48:24
um Dr. Ashley Bloomfield on the podcast
00:48:27
a couple of years ago and he told me
00:48:28
during um the pandemic when he had a
00:48:30
husking morning on ZB him and his team
00:48:32
had be up at like 3:00 a.m. um just
00:48:36
reading the notes in anticipation of
00:48:39
where husking was going to go. Obviously
00:48:41
a husking's more right leaning so I
00:48:43
suppose you'd get an an easier ride but
00:48:45
do you get nervous for these?
00:48:46
>> Um husk is one you got to be very very
00:48:50
careful about because he can turn so
00:48:52
quickly. Um, but I I usually uh have
00:48:56
good interviews on his show. Not always,
00:48:58
but usually. Um, there's no one I I
00:49:01
really get especially uh worried about
00:49:03
or worried about at all to be honest
00:49:05
because at the end of the day um you
00:49:07
know, we got a certain amount of policy
00:49:10
and ideas and attitudes to offer New
00:49:12
Zealand. Uh we're going to get those
00:49:14
across and uh if the journalist decides
00:49:16
to be a dick, then that's a real shame
00:49:18
and people will probably see that. and
00:49:20
if they don't decide to be a dick, we'll
00:49:22
get more stuff across and everything
00:49:23
will go well. So, you know, ultimately
00:49:25
they they're making the choice and
00:49:27
frankly the media has more to answer for
00:49:31
and more trouble. I mean, you look,
00:49:33
we're sitting here today. I mean, this
00:49:35
morning, uh, the Christ Church Press has
00:49:38
had to print an apology because they
00:49:40
hired a person, um, who
00:49:44
they hired a person who, um, had, um,
00:49:48
uh, been working for the health
00:49:51
coalition, which was a lobby group
00:49:53
opposed to the school lunch program.
00:49:55
This person gets hired by the Christ
00:49:56
Church Press, then writes a whole lot of
00:49:58
stories criticizing me and the school
00:50:00
lunch program without declaring that
00:50:02
just a second ago they were like a
00:50:03
lobbyist against it. And I just think
00:50:06
for the integrity of stuff, for the
00:50:07
integrity of the Christ Church Press,
00:50:09
and you know, by contagion, the entire
00:50:11
media, that's bad. Um, far out. I
00:50:15
mean, I think um, you know, Chenade
00:50:17
Boucher got a huge amount to answer for
00:50:19
that that's been allowed to happen in a
00:50:21
a company that she runs. Uh so look, you
00:50:25
know, they've got a problem with trust
00:50:27
and stuff like that. It just underlines
00:50:29
it. Uh doesn't worry me so much.
00:50:31
>> Yeah.
00:50:33
>> Not a journalist, but um yeah, there was
00:50:35
a a viral moment from uh Wangi earlier
00:50:37
this year where you're doing like a
00:50:39
media standup. Is that what they called
00:50:40
them? Like a media standup and Guy
00:50:43
Williams, a comedian. Um he starts sort
00:50:45
of heckling you. Um, yeah. I I look look
00:50:49
I thought you handled yourself really
00:50:51
well, but if you went on a a Guy
00:50:52
Williams sort of thread, they'd probably
00:50:54
say he handled himself very well. It's
00:50:57
all It's all subjective, isn't it? Um,
00:51:00
but yeah. How's that for you? Is that
00:51:01
annoying? Is it frustrating? Is it
00:51:03
funny?
00:51:04
>> Well, I mean, Guy Williams, I thought,
00:51:06
did us a huge favor cuz um the the rest
00:51:10
of the standup was actually a very good
00:51:13
one. There are a lot of journalists
00:51:14
there who I actually thought asked good
00:51:17
questions for the most part and and I I
00:51:19
thought I answered them, you know, was
00:51:21
great, but I I thought compared with how
00:51:23
I normally go, I thought I answer them
00:51:25
pretty well. Uh so that was all great
00:51:27
stuff and uh then of course Guy by doing
00:51:31
his whole thing helped ensure that, you
00:51:34
know, hundreds of thousands of people
00:51:35
would see it. Um so I I got to thank
00:51:38
him.
00:51:41
>> Yeah, you had some good lines in that.
00:51:43
Do you um have were you a good debater
00:51:44
at school?
00:51:45
>> No, no, no. God, no. No. I I wasn't in
00:51:48
debating. I was
00:51:49
>> I wasn't interested in I was interested
00:51:50
in rugby uh and also rugby and and and a
00:51:54
bit of rugby was my main interest at
00:51:56
school.
00:51:57
>> Yeah.
00:51:58
>> One one more thing sort of media related
00:51:59
before we move on from this completely.
00:52:01
Um there's a clip I found online
00:52:03
yesterday uh while researching this
00:52:05
interview from your time in Canada. You
00:52:07
had a thick Canadian accent.
00:52:09
>> Oh, I know. Yeah.
00:52:11
>> What was that all about? Was it
00:52:12
something you adopted in order to fit in
00:52:14
or to accelerate your career?
00:52:17
>> No, I I I it it happens naturally. I
00:52:20
mean, it it's interesting. Some people
00:52:21
do, some people don't. Um, so I mean, my
00:52:24
partner, Alex still has quite an English
00:52:27
uh accent from living over there for 10
00:52:29
years. And I I don't know. I don't think
00:52:31
she did that deliberately. Um, I didn't
00:52:33
I'll give you one example. Um, there was
00:52:35
a beer uh called a a cocon
00:52:40
e. Uh, so it must be a First Nations uh
00:52:44
word and um you go into a bar and ask
00:52:48
for a cocon and they give you a coke and
00:52:49
ice. Well, you got to learn to say cocky
00:52:52
and then you get what you want which is
00:52:54
a beer, right? So, you got to make
00:52:56
yourself understood. And what I found
00:52:59
was it was mostly just about being
00:53:01
understood and you just sort of
00:53:02
naturally take this on. Uh, and uh, you
00:53:06
know, when I came back, it went away,
00:53:07
but but it was certainly sort of a
00:53:09
necessary thing.
00:53:11
>> Uh, not not something that I ever did
00:53:12
deliberately. I see people online say
00:53:14
it's a fake Canadian accent. I
00:53:15
deliberately I I didn't. I just wanted a
00:53:17
beer.
00:53:18
>> Well, I sort of find when I go to
00:53:19
America, like if you go to IHOP or
00:53:22
somewhere like you have to ask for bacon
00:53:23
and eggs
00:53:24
>> cuz if you say eggs, they they can't
00:53:26
figure out what the word you're trying
00:53:27
to say would be.
00:53:28
>> Yeah. And trying to explain you're from
00:53:29
Oakuckland. Oakuckland. Auckland. No,
00:53:32
Auckland.
00:53:32
>> Yeah. You learn very quickly there's
00:53:34
word and you need to say force it
00:53:35
because if you say tap they don't know
00:53:36
what you're talking about. Oh, they
00:53:38
would. There's a bunch of words in his
00:53:40
pin.
00:53:40
>> Do you There was um a former prime
00:53:42
minister of New Zealand, Jim Bulier,
00:53:43
that did the same thing. He was an
00:53:44
accent adopter but in his own country.
00:53:46
So yes, yes, he had the Irish guy and he
00:53:50
started Yeah.
00:53:51
>> Well, whoever you know um Yeah. Whatever
00:53:54
he you country he was entertaining the
00:53:57
person from he'd sort of like mirror
00:53:58
their accent. Do you do that or you only
00:54:00
do it when you're in other countries?
00:54:01
>> I don't think so. So, I um I I met with
00:54:04
the uh debt PM of Malaysia the other
00:54:07
day. I certainly hope I didn't.
00:54:10
>> I don't think you're allowed to do that.
00:54:11
>> And if I did, I hope he didn't notice.
00:54:13
>> Yeah. Hey, you mentioned um your your
00:54:16
partner before. So, Alexandra.
00:54:17
>> Yep.
00:54:18
>> So, she's she's a New Zealander, but she
00:54:20
spent time in the UK.
00:54:21
>> Yep.
00:54:21
>> Yeah. So, you got engaged in the US over
00:54:24
summer. Where was it? On the beach. Was
00:54:26
it Venice?
00:54:28
>> Santa Monica. Which beach in California?
00:54:30
>> Uh well, it wasn't a beach. It was one
00:54:32
of those if you've ever driven from um
00:54:35
LA north the there's the uh Pacific
00:54:38
Coast Highway which I've driven a few
00:54:40
times and it's a beautiful uh stretch
00:54:42
and uh anyway the I had a plan but
00:54:45
unfortunately um it's not only us that
00:54:47
have orange cones. The whole thing was
00:54:49
blocked by a slip. So then had to get on
00:54:52
the highway, drive up to San Francisco
00:54:53
and back down again. Anyway, um we got
00:54:56
to a place and we're just walking and I
00:54:58
I had the the ring in my uh jeans and
00:55:02
then you couldn't make this up, but
00:55:04
there's actually a pod of dolphins and I
00:55:07
thought, sheesh, it's time to go. Like,
00:55:09
you're not going to get dolphin, like,
00:55:10
you know, you you couldn't you couldn't
00:55:12
pay for this. Uh so, yeah, it was it was
00:55:14
a good time for us. Yeah.
00:55:16
>> So, what did you do? Was she expecting
00:55:18
it at all?
00:55:19
>> Um I I think so. I think so. Uh because
00:55:23
I'd been relying on one of her best
00:55:25
friends for um ring design and I I don't
00:55:28
trust them not not to leak.
00:55:29
>> Oh yeah, absolutely.
00:55:31
>> Then did you did you put much thought
00:55:33
into what you were going to say? Did you
00:55:35
get get on one knee? Oh, something some
00:55:38
things too too uh too private. But um
00:55:41
fair to fair to say that it wasn't the
00:55:44
um orchestrated uh you know classic uh
00:55:48
romantic proposal that um that that that
00:55:51
you're supposed to do, but it worked. So
00:55:53
>> why um Yeah. Yeah. Why Why don't you
00:55:57
want to elaborate on that? Um, oh, just
00:56:00
cuz just cuz it wasn't wasn't possibly
00:56:02
uh as as perfect as hopes, but I managed
00:56:05
to managed to get a result. So, you
00:56:07
know,
00:56:08
>> so you'd been together for a couple of
00:56:09
years. What was what was the meet cute?
00:56:11
How did you meet?
00:56:12
>> Um, we got set up actually by friends,
00:56:15
uh, mutual friends. So, uh, someone that
00:56:18
Alex had, um, had worked with as a sort
00:56:21
of student or intern or graduate or
00:56:23
whatever. and um somebody who um uh I
00:56:28
had a friend of someone that I'd knocked
00:56:30
on the door of as a politician. So it
00:56:32
was sort of a a work related um uh
00:56:35
connection.
00:56:37
>> Did you ask her dad for permission
00:56:39
before I traditional sort of thing?
00:56:42
Maybe she doesn't have that relationship
00:56:43
with her dad. Maybe it's not necessary.
00:56:45
But
00:56:45
>> yeah, and unfortunately her dad um is
00:56:48
not with us, so that I have to um didn't
00:56:51
have that option. Um, no. I'm I'm sort
00:56:54
of of the view that um, and you could
00:56:56
say ask your mom, but I I'm sort of of
00:56:59
the view it's a bit old-fashioned. I
00:57:01
mean, that's from the days when um, you
00:57:03
know, daughters were kind of property of
00:57:06
fathers and you sort of, you know, we
00:57:07
don't do that anymore.
00:57:08
>> So, have you made wedding plans or
00:57:10
>> Oh, we have. We have. Yep. They're um
00:57:13
they're top secret, but they're they're
00:57:14
underway and uh we are just finalizing a
00:57:18
few details um for the summer. So, yeah.
00:57:20
>> Wonderful. Who did she vote from in the
00:57:22
last election?
00:57:23
>> Uh, well, we got a secret ballot, but um
00:57:25
I certainly hope she voted the right
00:57:27
way.
00:57:28
>> What What about her family? What were
00:57:29
you her mom? Any siblings? What way do
00:57:32
they vote? Do they do they like Do they
00:57:35
>> They obviously like you as a person.
00:57:37
>> Yeah, I think so. Her family have some
00:57:40
some pretty strong exup supporting
00:57:42
markers, but um I wouldn't badger them
00:57:44
because it might be a bit embarrassing
00:57:45
if they voted the wrong way. So anyway,
00:57:47
>> there was an article in the uh in a New
00:57:49
Zealand Women's Weekly and yeah, have a
00:57:51
water. Have a water. You're getting a
00:57:52
bit parched, are you?
00:57:55
>> In um a Women's Weekly article in 2021,
00:57:58
um there was a quote from you. We all
00:58:00
hope to find a real connection. Being
00:58:02
effectively married to Parliament gets
00:58:03
in the way a little bit. Um
00:58:06
yeah, so you managed to find love as
00:58:09
well as you being perhaps the busiest in
00:58:11
your political career. Are you going to
00:58:13
stick with politics? you were sort of
00:58:15
indicating that you'd give it away for
00:58:16
the right person.
00:58:18
>> Yeah, I guess I'm I'm I'm lucky I found
00:58:20
the the right person who is equally busy
00:58:24
and you know, she's a a smart business
00:58:26
woman. Uh she's building an incredible
00:58:29
company and I'm just so impressed with
00:58:31
what she's doing. It's very very cool.
00:58:33
Uh and um she even, you know, has the
00:58:36
generosity to to ask for my advice
00:58:38
sometimes, which I'm sure she was just
00:58:40
being kind. Uh, so when you've got
00:58:43
someone who's equally driven and equally
00:58:46
um, you know, doing their own thing, it
00:58:48
kind of works, which maybe I hadn't
00:58:50
anticipated,
00:58:51
>> maybe I should have anticipated. It's
00:58:53
pretty obvious now. Uh, so look, we're
00:58:55
in a we're in a good space and I I have
00:58:57
no plans of uh going anywhere much as my
00:59:00
uh might might get my enemies watching
00:59:02
your podcast if they don't already, but
00:59:04
um, you know, uh, but look, I I don't
00:59:07
want to be in politics forever. I'm
00:59:09
really clear about that. I I want to
00:59:10
leave an ACT party that I can vote for
00:59:13
and and not have to do it myself. And I
00:59:15
think anyone in any kind of business,
00:59:17
you know, your objective should be not
00:59:19
to create a job for yourself, but to
00:59:21
create an institution that delivers a a
00:59:25
a service without you necessarily
00:59:28
needing to be there doing it. Um, that's
00:59:30
that's the real success because then
00:59:31
you're raising other people's
00:59:32
productivity and helping them achieve
00:59:34
stuff. And that's what I want to do for
00:59:35
ACTMPs ultimately.
00:59:37
How's the how's the whole backlash thing
00:59:39
been for her? Like she's been um by your
00:59:42
side through this whole um re-election
00:59:44
process and the whole treaties principal
00:59:46
uh treaty principal bill. Um it's a
00:59:48
whole new world for her.
00:59:50
>> Yeah, it is. And I think for anyone it's
00:59:53
it's kind of unusual like um she's been
00:59:56
down to parliament with me and um you
01:00:00
know sort of struck by the fact that you
01:00:03
know you can work part these people on
01:00:05
on TV are your worst enemies but you
01:00:07
actually walk past them in the corridor
01:00:09
or could end up standing in the lift
01:00:10
with them. Uh so that's kind of weird
01:00:13
and uh you know just the fact that
01:00:15
people are um you know able to to write
01:00:18
stuff about you in the paper and she
01:00:20
said oh can we stop them? I said
01:00:21
unfortunately we can't actually control
01:00:22
the herald. In some countries you could
01:00:24
uh but not here. Uh so you know there's
01:00:28
there's certainly things that I think
01:00:29
would be unusual to any person and
01:00:32
certainly you know often it's that
01:00:34
criticism of me that it's actually
01:00:37
people around me who are more worried
01:00:39
about it than I am because I've sort of
01:00:40
got this kind of pragmatic resilience
01:00:42
you know St. Francis of Aisi thing going
01:00:44
on. Other people worry about it a bit
01:00:46
more but also acclimatize and she's I
01:00:50
think in a fairly stable space about it
01:00:52
now. M who would she say the real David
01:00:54
Seymour is?
01:00:56
>> Oh, look, she she's a real sympathizer.
01:00:59
So, I think she would say that I am a
01:01:03
very kind and thoughtful person, a very
01:01:05
driven person, a person that is doing
01:01:07
what they do because they have the
01:01:09
country's best interests at heart. I
01:01:11
mean, she she sees that uh I spend a lot
01:01:14
of time uh have a bunch of conflict that
01:01:17
is kind of more the norm than the
01:01:18
exception. Like hopefully in most
01:01:20
workplaces, conflict's the exception. In
01:01:22
my business, it's the norm. And you
01:01:25
wouldn't do that for malevolent aims. I
01:01:27
mean, you don't do it so you can uh you
01:01:29
know, skip the uh airport security for a
01:01:33
week every few months.
01:01:35
Uh some people say you're you're well
01:01:37
paid and and that is true, but once you
01:01:40
put in hours, job security, uh and a few
01:01:44
other unwelcome things, it may not be as
01:01:47
great as um as people think it's cracked
01:01:49
up to be. So, you know, I I think she
01:01:52
would say, "Look, I I I see what what
01:01:55
the job takes from you. Uh the only
01:01:57
reason you do it is if you had benign
01:01:59
intentions." And I think that's true of
01:02:00
most politicians.
01:02:03
>> I I applauded you before for your um
01:02:05
like conflict style or communication
01:02:07
style. Um but I can imagine like in a
01:02:09
romantic relationship, a committed
01:02:10
relationship, it would be bloody
01:02:12
annoying. It would be frustrating.
01:02:14
Are you the same at home? you know, you
01:02:17
just measured and calm. Sometimes if
01:02:20
you're having some sort of conflict in a
01:02:21
relationship, I'm sure she'd want you to
01:02:22
get a bit animated.
01:02:24
>> Well, yeah. I I mean, it's it can also
01:02:27
be quite effective to suck the oxygen
01:02:30
out of the situation, but um but also I
01:02:34
mean, you know, nor normally I I work on
01:02:37
the basis that unless they can give me a
01:02:40
compelling reason why I'm wrong, then
01:02:44
then I'm right. uh with Alex it's the
01:02:46
inverse of that. I work on the basis
01:02:48
that unless I can give a compelling
01:02:50
reason why I'm right the default is that
01:02:52
I'm wrong. So in that sense it's a
01:02:54
different different outcome or a
01:02:56
different starting point.
01:02:58
>> Um one thing we discussed last time you
01:02:59
came on the podcast a couple of years
01:03:01
ago was um
01:03:03
the ultimate act of love that your mom
01:03:05
did before she passed.
01:03:07
>> Um she recorded DVDs for you and your
01:03:10
two brothers um to give to your life
01:03:12
partners when you found the right
01:03:14
person. At the time of doing the podcast
01:03:16
in 2023, you hadn't found that committed
01:03:19
relationship. You'd never seen the DVD.
01:03:20
You've never watched it. Yes. Um you're
01:03:22
in a position now where you're engaged
01:03:23
to be married.
01:03:24
>> Has um Alexandra seen the DVD from your
01:03:27
mom?
01:03:28
>> Uh well, there have been developments.
01:03:30
>> Uh we got the DVD out. We got the DVD
01:03:35
player. We hooked it up to the TV. We
01:03:37
put it in. We pressed play. It had a
01:03:40
menu which I'd completely forgotten
01:03:42
about which you can navigate through. We
01:03:44
were all poised to watch it. It was a
01:03:46
poant and special motion moment. Sorry.
01:03:49
Um but tragically it was the wrong DVD.
01:03:54
So
01:03:55
>> what was Well, she made a few. There was
01:03:58
one generic one that had um funeral
01:04:01
scenes and her general message that she
01:04:04
gave at the funeral. Um, however, uh,
01:04:07
the actual DVD is MIA. So, I I've talked
01:04:11
to my dad about it. I'm going to
01:04:14
organize a search. Of course, I got to
01:04:16
go to Feray where he lives and have time
01:04:18
to, you know, do a search party to
01:04:21
figure out what the hell's going on. So,
01:04:23
look,
01:04:24
we're still committed to watching the
01:04:26
DVD. However, there's been some there's
01:04:28
been some complications.
01:04:29
>> Oh my god. All that anticipation.
01:04:31
>> Yeah, I know. I know. I know. I know. It
01:04:33
was um yeah, it was a bit of a let down.
01:04:36
>> Um how was that though? Even though it
01:04:38
wasn't the right DVD, sitting down um
01:04:40
with this woman that you love,
01:04:42
>> seeing your mom on screen as as she was
01:04:45
you before she passed 20 years ago.
01:04:47
>> Yeah.
01:04:48
>> Well, I'd forgotten how Kiwi her her
01:04:50
accent was. Uh, and um, I, you know,
01:04:54
obviously have very, I thought I had
01:04:56
very clear memories, but it was at least
01:04:58
neat to show some video of her talking
01:05:01
cuz she'd done all these messages for
01:05:03
people. She' done a generic one. She
01:05:05
actually spoke at her own funeral. So,
01:05:06
it was neat in a sense to be able to
01:05:09
introduce her beyond photos. Um, just
01:05:12
not the actual message that uh, was
01:05:13
intended for my uh, future beloved. So,
01:05:16
we we will locate this DVD, but uh yeah,
01:05:19
it's it's a bit of an anti-limax at this
01:05:21
point.
01:05:22
>> Was it emotional?
01:05:23
>> Uh yeah, of course, because um you know,
01:05:27
she's sort of back from the past. Uh and
01:05:31
she's no longer with us, but she's no
01:05:33
less real uh when you see that. So,
01:05:36
yeah, it was it was quite a a poignant
01:05:39
sort of a experience. Yeah. M
01:05:44
seeing um or experiencing what you've
01:05:47
gone through the past year in terms of
01:05:48
political backlash. Um yeah. Do you do
01:05:50
you wish she was here for that or in
01:05:52
some ways are you from a protective son
01:05:54
point of view? Are you pleased she's not
01:05:55
here for that?
01:05:56
>> Oh I I wish she was here for it. I mean
01:05:58
she was a very determined person. I
01:06:00
should add I also found another DVD in
01:06:03
the case uh which had uh my fifth
01:06:07
birthday with me singing head shoulders
01:06:09
uh knees and toes in ter uh so I was I
01:06:13
was singing and speaking in mai as a
01:06:15
four-year-old um you know long long
01:06:18
before it was cool which I I think some
01:06:20
of I should show some of my uh opponents
01:06:23
who think I'm there to take away the le
01:06:25
but uh anyway uh look I I think um you
01:06:28
know she was a determined person and I
01:06:31
obviously you wish she was here. Um
01:06:33
there's there's nothing that's happened
01:06:35
in the last year that that is worth her
01:06:37
not being there. That's for sure.
01:06:38
>> Yeah.
01:06:39
>> Well, thanks for sharing that. On um
01:06:42
children, have you discussed children
01:06:44
with Alexandra?
01:06:45
>> Uh yeah, we have. Um and uh you know,
01:06:48
all in all in good time. We've just got
01:06:50
one one step at a time at this point. So
01:06:53
>> how many
01:06:55
>> uh look I I think ultimately life is
01:06:58
what it throws at you and whatever
01:07:00
number you have is is actually the right
01:07:02
number but there seems to be something
01:07:04
good about two um you know not not too
01:07:07
many not too lonely
01:07:09
>> and also in terms of convenience as well
01:07:12
you know
01:07:13
>> well that yeah you don't want to be
01:07:15
outnumbered I mean um you know it helps
01:07:18
helps to at least have a an even a tied
01:07:20
vote if not a majority So,
01:07:23
>> so from a personal perspective, it seems
01:07:25
like everything's going good. You're
01:07:26
happy. You're a happy man.
01:07:27
>> Oh, look, I'm I'm just in one of those
01:07:29
stages of life that you just have to
01:07:32
live for. I mean, there's crazy stuff
01:07:34
happening every every day. There's
01:07:36
conflict, there's sleep deprivation. Uh,
01:07:39
but we are doing a bunch of good things.
01:07:41
Um, uh, you know, won't go through every
01:07:43
portfolio and every policy that we're
01:07:45
changing. We're doing a lot. You know, I
01:07:46
would say that the ACT party is is
01:07:48
having an outsiz influence, a
01:07:50
disproportionate influence uh on how
01:07:53
this government's going. Really proud of
01:07:54
that. Um you know, we still have the
01:07:56
party polling well. We've got a lot to
01:07:58
lot to talk about. Um and uh we've got
01:08:01
the big challenge of an election next
01:08:02
year uh and a a blossoming relationship.
01:08:05
So you know, you'd have to be
01:08:08
>> you'd have to be pretty happy. It's just
01:08:09
not for the faint-hearted.
01:08:10
>> You for ACT to be strong, national sort
01:08:12
of needs to be strong, doesn't it? Would
01:08:14
that be fair to say? What? What? What's
01:08:16
up with um Christopher Luxon? I had him
01:08:18
on the podcast. I found him to be like a
01:08:20
perfectly lovely man, like ruthlessly
01:08:22
self-disciplined and and organized and
01:08:24
and yeah, quite quite nice and
01:08:26
charismatic. Why did he get booed at the
01:08:28
net? Why don't people like him?
01:08:30
>> Um well, I'm I mean, I'm not surprised
01:08:32
that any politician would get booed at
01:08:34
the net. I mean, if you if you look at
01:08:36
the polling um for any politician who's
01:08:40
got any profile, uh there's going to be,
01:08:42
you know, 10 20% uh who really don't
01:08:46
like them and then a few more who just
01:08:48
don't like them, a few that are neutral,
01:08:49
a few that like them, a few that really
01:08:50
like them. So, most politicians are
01:08:53
going to have, you know, one out of
01:08:55
every 10 people in that in that room who
01:08:58
who really don't like them. It's just
01:08:59
the way it is. And um so I I I wouldn't
01:09:02
read too much into it. Um, what I know
01:09:04
of Chris is that, as you say, he's
01:09:07
incredibly disciplined. I think he likes
01:09:09
the word intentional. Uh, and he's
01:09:13
someone that's basically just set up his
01:09:14
life with a series of goals and knocked
01:09:16
them off. And, uh, you know, there's
01:09:18
something to admire about that.
01:09:20
>> What about you and Winston? When when
01:09:23
this coalition was formed, by the way,
01:09:24
it took 20 days, eh, 20 days of
01:09:26
meetings. Why did it take 20 days after
01:09:27
the meetings to form a coalition
01:09:29
government?
01:09:29
>> I think in partly took a long time
01:09:31
because we didn't know the result. So um
01:09:34
after the election it looked like act
01:09:35
and national together could form a
01:09:37
government and then the late votes came
01:09:39
out and it turned out we couldn't so we
01:09:41
had to form a three-way. So partly
01:09:43
because we didn't actually know the
01:09:44
result for like 3 weeks um and then it
01:09:45
took a bit longer after that cuz we had
01:09:47
to negotiate it all. There's never been
01:09:49
three parties in a cabinet. So I think
01:09:51
that was always going to take some time.
01:09:53
But your question about Winston, I mean
01:09:56
what I found is that uh you know we we
01:09:58
actually have a pretty good working
01:10:00
relationship. uh you know we're both
01:10:02
professionals. We both know that people
01:10:04
want to see our government succeed.
01:10:06
There's obviously huge differences uh in
01:10:10
terms of our outlook. For example, uh
01:10:12
you know, I think that we need to get
01:10:14
more money into New Zealand. Uh they
01:10:16
would say, well, New Zealand first. We
01:10:18
don't like overseas investment. We've
01:10:21
negotiated through that and we've got a
01:10:23
half decent uh overseas investment
01:10:25
reform coming out of the government. So,
01:10:27
yeah, on balance pretty good.
01:10:28
>> Do you like each other?
01:10:30
>> Oh, no. Well, I mean I I don't but I
01:10:33
don't think I don't think anyone goes to
01:10:35
politics to to find people they like. Um
01:10:38
you know I think um but but that I I
01:10:41
mean I wouldn't expect anyone to say
01:10:42
that they uh liked everyone they work
01:10:45
with. The question is can you be
01:10:46
effective? You know
01:10:47
>> so I can't remember who who did we talk
01:10:50
about in the first podcast. You
01:10:51
mentioned Colin Craig. He always made
01:10:52
your skin crawl.
01:10:53
>> I never physically touched the guy. He
01:10:55
tried to shake hands with me a few times
01:10:56
and I you know
01:10:57
>> can't remember. I think there was
01:10:58
someone else. I I could be wrong, but
01:10:59
but you're Winston, so you'd never catch
01:11:00
up for a whiskey or anything.
01:11:02
>> No. Um, but
01:11:03
>> is there a mutual respect?
01:11:05
>> Uh, I hope so. I I mean, you know,
01:11:08
Winston has been the great survivor of
01:11:10
New Zealand politics. He he loves being
01:11:12
an officer and he's managed to get back
01:11:14
there even when he's um been voted out.
01:11:17
He he always comes back and there is a
01:11:19
skill in that. So, you know, you've got
01:11:21
to admire it. Um I would hope that he'd
01:11:24
say similar things, but that's up to
01:11:26
him. I mean for me politics is not so
01:11:28
much about being there. It's about
01:11:30
improving the policy and and ideally uh
01:11:34
getting getting out and getting your
01:11:35
life back having left the country a
01:11:37
better place. So different objectives.
01:11:39
>> What about Chloe?
01:11:41
>> Yeah.
01:11:41
>> Do you like each other? Very different
01:11:43
politically obviously but you know
01:11:46
>> I think it's a sad situation. I I I've
01:11:49
had a good relationship with Khloe for
01:11:51
most of the time that we've been in
01:11:53
parliament. Uh I've always had a bit of
01:11:55
time for her. obviously think that, you
01:11:56
know, there's aspects where I think she
01:11:58
policies are just crazy. But
01:12:00
>> I should say the same about you though,
01:12:01
no doubt.
01:12:01
>> Probably. Yeah. Um I I think she's
01:12:04
frankly hardened a bit after I
01:12:06
criticized her for chanting the you
01:12:08
know, river to the sea thing. I mean,
01:12:10
you know, that is a a Hamas slogan that
01:12:13
basically says wipe out all the Jews.
01:12:15
And I represent an electorate which has
01:12:17
a lot of Jewish constituents who are
01:12:19
genuinely mortified by that. Um, and for
01:12:23
some reason since that particular
01:12:25
incident, she's had a very different uh
01:12:28
tone on me, which is a shame, but um,
01:12:31
you know, it is what it is.
01:12:33
>> So, she's not getting an invite to the
01:12:34
wedding.
01:12:35
>> Uh, no, no, no. I think probably
01:12:38
unlikely.
01:12:40
>> Who what politicians would be there?
01:12:42
Chris Bishop, you're quite good friends,
01:12:44
aren't you?
01:12:45
>> Huge amount of respect for Bish. Um, you
01:12:48
know, he's someone who genuinely
01:12:50
believes that public policy is the
01:12:54
object of being in politics to leave
01:12:56
better policy so people can unleash
01:12:59
their creativity and build better lives
01:13:01
for themselves. And that's a lot rarer
01:13:04
than you think. You know, there'd be,
01:13:06
>> I would say, um, you know, a dozen
01:13:09
people in parliament uh, who think like
01:13:11
that uh, and 11 of them are in act. Is
01:13:14
there a mistake you wish you could go
01:13:16
back and correct
01:13:18
>> professionally or personally?
01:13:20
>> Um,
01:13:22
look, I I think uh if you Well,
01:13:25
personally, I wish I'd kept playing
01:13:27
rugby. I gave up far too early and I I
01:13:29
just I I wish I I started coaching. I
01:13:32
could do that for the rest of my life.
01:13:34
>> Now, I'd give anything for a game. And I
01:13:36
know that all sorts of things I've never
01:13:38
even heard of before would either snap
01:13:40
or crack or break. So, so that that is a
01:13:42
a tragedy. I mean, I kind of buggered my
01:13:44
knees in Dancing with the Stars, so I
01:13:46
can barely run. But um but but look,
01:13:48
that's that's it's a bit of a humble
01:13:50
brag. I mean, I wish I' I think I think
01:13:54
professionally uh look, I I look at the
01:13:57
2023 election and um I look at how we
01:14:01
went into that. I mean, we're riding
01:14:03
high. Um, we campaigned on real change
01:14:07
like we are going to cut waste,
01:14:11
deregulate,
01:14:12
sell things that we don't need, invest
01:14:14
in things that we do need, uh, we're
01:14:17
going to be really straight on the
01:14:18
treaty relationship. Uh, and if people
01:14:21
don't like that, uh, then we will hold
01:14:24
out until other people come around,
01:14:27
former government, on on terms that New
01:14:29
Zealand needs real change. I think what
01:14:32
we found was that about 2/3 of our
01:14:34
support, they're like, "Yeah, that's
01:14:37
actually what we need." Uh, and those
01:14:39
people remain with us. There was another
01:14:41
third who said, "Uh, look, we we think
01:14:44
you're better than the other guys, but
01:14:46
we just we don't want any trouble. So,
01:14:48
sorry sunshine, we're off." Um and so
01:14:50
that misjudgment of how badly the
01:14:52
country, you know, how badly I think the
01:14:54
country needs change versus what a
01:14:56
coalition of voters need change. Um that
01:14:59
was a miscalculation. Um but I also feel
01:15:03
that as time goes on, it becomes clearer
01:15:07
that that actually for New Zealand to
01:15:09
succeed the way it could, uh we're going
01:15:12
to need to be a bit more bold about the
01:15:16
changes that we make. M what about
01:15:19
regrets?
01:15:21
>> That was a regret.
01:15:22
>> Um
01:15:25
>> uh
01:15:27
look, not a lot. I mean, you know, I've
01:15:30
done
01:15:32
11 11 years uh next month. Uh showed up,
01:15:36
done my job, helped my constituents,
01:15:38
growing my party, uh you know, been good
01:15:41
to my staff. We got amazing culture,
01:15:43
almost no turnover, uh all of that. and
01:15:47
and we've introduced policies I think
01:15:48
are good for New Zealand. So, um you
01:15:51
know, sure that you could you could find
01:15:53
something if you wanted to, but I
01:15:54
actually actually think uh you know,
01:15:57
there's areas we could have done better.
01:15:58
The the things I just thing I just
01:16:00
mentioned is a good example of that. Um
01:16:02
but on balance, you know, I'm pretty
01:16:04
proud of what what I've managed to
01:16:05
achieve so far. The the trick is to keep
01:16:07
it going.
01:16:08
>> What about flaws? What are your biggest
01:16:10
flaws?
01:16:11
>> What would Alexander say or your
01:16:13
brothers?
01:16:14
Oh, look, I I think that um there is a
01:16:19
balance between being really clear in
01:16:22
your convictions and knowing exactly uh
01:16:26
where you want to go and what has to
01:16:27
happen and coalition building. So, there
01:16:30
are politicians who basically they live
01:16:33
for the polls. They want to be popular.
01:16:35
They want to be liked. Uh and they can
01:16:37
be very successful. They can get really
01:16:40
high votes. um and they can be in office
01:16:42
and they can do but when they're gone
01:16:45
there's there's not a trace. Um then
01:16:48
there's people who are absolutely
01:16:50
strident and they know what they want
01:16:51
and they know what they believe and
01:16:52
they're not going to compromise one bit.
01:16:54
Um and I'm, you know, no one's got that
01:16:57
balance right in my view, but I'm I'm
01:16:59
more at the strident end of it. I think
01:17:00
the world needs people like that, but
01:17:03
it's probably cost me a bit too.
01:17:06
>> Yeah. It seems like there's three things
01:17:07
in New Zealand that you just don't want
01:17:08
to go near.
01:17:10
one's the treaty um capital gains tax
01:17:13
and um the age of the pension.
01:17:16
>> Would that be fair to say?
01:17:18
>> That's probably a learning from this
01:17:19
year, right?
01:17:21
>> Yeah.
01:17:21
>> Difficult conversations that the country
01:17:23
is perhaps just not prepared to have
01:17:24
yet.
01:17:25
>> Well, the the implication behind that is
01:17:27
that they're conversations where we
01:17:29
should be braver. Um I don't agree on
01:17:31
the capital gains tax. I I think it you
01:17:33
know, people people say that a capital
01:17:35
gains tax is going to help with the
01:17:37
housing market. Oh, no, it's not. I
01:17:39
mean, you look at Sydney, Vancouver, LA,
01:17:40
London, Hong Kong. I mean, they all have
01:17:41
capital gains tax. They all have house
01:17:43
prices out of control. So,
01:17:44
>> capital gains tax ain't going to fix
01:17:46
housing. Uh, what it is going to do is
01:17:48
complicate the tax system. And it's also
01:17:50
got a certain amount of the tall poppy
01:17:52
in it. So, it's kind of like, oh,
01:17:54
someone else has done well. How do we
01:17:56
take more money off their personal
01:17:58
business or the shares they own or the
01:18:00
house or whatever? We got to we got to
01:18:01
find a way to my my my problems are
01:18:03
caused by someone else's success. I'm
01:18:05
going to find a politician to bloody
01:18:06
take it off and give it to me. So, I
01:18:07
agree. The other two I think you know as
01:18:10
we've discussed in this the the
01:18:13
prevailing concept of the treaty as a
01:18:16
partnership between races is not
01:18:17
sustainable. We've we've got to go there
01:18:19
and I believe it will come back. Um and
01:18:21
then the the other one was was the the
01:18:24
third rail you you mentioned
01:18:26
>> retirement age.
01:18:26
>> Retirement age. Yeah. Well, again, I
01:18:28
mean, unpopular to say it, I know, but
01:18:32
the simple maths is that every year, um,
01:18:36
60,000 people turn 65 and about 30,000
01:18:40
people move on. So, you've got 30,000
01:18:42
more people, uh, getting the super and
01:18:45
as a result, uh, you've got about a
01:18:47
billion and a half of of extra, uh,
01:18:50
expense uh, that the, um, taxpayer is
01:18:53
lumped with. Now, as that goes on, uh,
01:18:57
you know, you get to the stage where
01:18:58
there's a million people over 65. You
01:19:02
know, there's another million or so
01:19:04
under 18. There's 3 million in the
01:19:06
middle. Not all of them are working. Uh,
01:19:09
so you actually end up with about 2
01:19:12
million people working to support 3
01:19:14
million people. It just doesn't add up.
01:19:16
>> So, what can you do about that? Well,
01:19:18
you know, you mentioned my dad. I mean,
01:19:20
he's 73. He's still working. I mean, we
01:19:22
just talked about Winston. He's 82. You
01:19:24
think or 80 anyway? He's well over 65
01:19:27
and still working. Um so I would just
01:19:30
say look, you know, at what point are we
01:19:32
going to start being honest about this?
01:19:35
It's one of the biggest drivers, you
01:19:37
know, a billion and a half extra every
01:19:39
year that we somehow got to stamp up
01:19:41
stump up with a ratio of working
01:19:44
taxpayers to dependent people that that
01:19:46
just can't hold together. And so then
01:19:49
you say, okay, this is not sustainable.
01:19:52
Would you like the change to happen uh
01:19:55
you know sometime in the future
01:19:58
with no warning because there's I don't
01:20:00
know a big natural disaster or a global
01:20:02
recession or you know people just say
01:20:04
right the country is broke no one wants
01:20:06
to buy New Zealand government bonds uh
01:20:08
we can't refinance we've got to cut our
01:20:10
expenditure somehow because it could be
01:20:12
forced on us or do you want to start
01:20:15
saying okay let's let's start making the
01:20:17
change slowly and quick slowly and
01:20:21
immediately and slowly rather than
01:20:24
sometime in the future and rapidly.
01:20:27
>> How's your vulnerability? Are you are
01:20:28
you good at having um you mentally like
01:20:32
you seem to be in a really good spot?
01:20:33
Like you you're very measured. It feels
01:20:35
like you're always sort of rolling at a
01:20:36
five out of 10. You're never getting too
01:20:37
high. You're never getting too low. Are
01:20:39
you are you good at having you
01:20:41
conversations like with your partner or
01:20:42
with close friends if you're not doing
01:20:45
well or if things are getting to you?
01:20:47
Look, I I actually think that, you know,
01:20:50
and I say this, I I started out as um I
01:20:54
I volunteered for Kids Line, which was a
01:20:56
youth counseling thing. I think I talked
01:20:58
about this on the the last uh and
01:21:00
>> we did.
01:21:01
>> Yeah. What I found it's a it's a good
01:21:03
service. Uh it's why I tried to raise
01:21:05
money for it on Dancing with the Stars.
01:21:07
Um now not able to happen. I think we
01:21:09
talked about anyway. My point is that
01:21:12
there's also people who have kind of
01:21:14
gotten into this kind of counseling and
01:21:17
vulnerability and I'm okay, you're okay.
01:21:19
And it it's sort of taken on its own
01:21:21
momentum. And of course, if you say
01:21:23
anything different, people say, "Oh,
01:21:25
you're terrible." But I actually think
01:21:27
that there is something to be said for
01:21:29
just being a bit resilient, saying, "You
01:21:31
got a certain amount of time on Earth.
01:21:33
How about we just make the most of
01:21:35
that?" because if you want to get into a
01:21:37
mass sort of naval gazing exercise, you
01:21:40
can. Um, but it might start to become
01:21:43
its own uh to have its own momentum. And
01:21:47
so I'm I I know that's probably an
01:21:49
unpopular position to take. Um, but
01:21:51
there's also something to be said for
01:21:53
being a bit resilient. I mean, not to
01:21:56
give you a political answer, but I just
01:21:58
look at this thing I got, you know,
01:21:59
people criticizing me for saying that
01:22:01
you're a dropkick if you don't enroll to
01:22:02
vote. I mean, it's as easy as ordering a
01:22:05
pizza. It it it but it costs nothing. Uh
01:22:09
it's a legal requirement. You have three
01:22:11
years to do it. And people say, "Oh, but
01:22:12
what about people that are just so
01:22:14
vulnerable and they can't it's like you
01:22:17
get to live in a democracy. This is all
01:22:18
you have to do. It's simpler than eating
01:22:20
a pizza than ordering a pizza and it's
01:22:22
free. Oh, but you know, it's too hard."
01:22:24
And I just think, you know, everyone's
01:22:26
vulnerable. Everyone's got a problem.
01:22:28
Everyone's medical. I mean, sometimes
01:22:30
life just is hard and stressful. You
01:22:31
just get on with it, you know. It it is.
01:22:34
Yeah, it is. There's a lot of suck in
01:22:36
life.
01:22:36
>> Yeah. Oh, tell me about it. You know,
01:22:38
>> it's the price you pay for this
01:22:39
opportunity of being here. When was the
01:22:41
last time you cried?
01:22:43
>> Uh, probably when mom died. So,
01:22:45
>> really? Like, no. Like 20 years ago.
01:22:47
>> Yeah.
01:22:48
>> No, actually.
01:22:50
>> Yeah.
01:22:52
>> Just not not an overly emotional person
01:22:53
at all. That's David. That's sad if it
01:22:55
if it's been 20 years.
01:22:57
>> Well, again, you know, this you've got
01:22:59
to you've got to cry. you know, you're
01:23:01
you're not a real man if you don't cry.
01:23:03
I mean, come on. Um,
01:23:04
>> no, but it's a wonderful emotion to
01:23:06
experience. It's like um laughter or
01:23:09
anger. It's
01:23:10
>> Oh, I mean, now you're b you're
01:23:11
basically now telling me you got
01:23:12
compulsory crying. This is exactly what
01:23:14
I'm trying to say, you know. And it's
01:23:16
worse. You're sort of trying to make
01:23:18
people feel inadequate for not leaking.
01:23:20
I mean, God,
01:23:21
>> what what about if you if you're
01:23:23
watching um a romcom at high altitude,
01:23:25
like if you're flying in somewhere and
01:23:26
you watch, I don't know, School of Rock
01:23:28
or the Pixar movie Up. Do you not get
01:23:31
emotional at movies ever? Have you seen
01:23:33
the movie Tina?
01:23:35
>> I haven't.
01:23:36
>> Yeah.
01:23:36
>> Um
01:23:38
there are there are a few movies that I
01:23:40
I think are um uh emotion worthy. Um uh
01:23:45
strangely uh I I watched one um about uh
01:23:49
I think it was Suffragette. It was about
01:23:51
the British version of Kate uh Shepherd
01:23:53
and I want to say it was Emily Pankers,
01:23:55
but I might have that wrong. It was a
01:23:57
very emotive uh movie. Um strange one to
01:24:00
pick for some people, but it was was
01:24:02
just neat the way that people had this
01:24:04
strong belief in being able to be who
01:24:07
they uh well just to be equal and to be
01:24:10
treated as free. That really resonates
01:24:12
with me. So does that song. I mentioned
01:24:13
my buddy Guy, you know, a man in
01:24:15
Louisiana never called me by my name and
01:24:17
said, "Boy did this, boy do that." But I
01:24:19
never did complain. I knew he had a good
01:24:21
heart, but he just didn't understand. I
01:24:23
needed to be treated like any other man.
01:24:25
For some reason, those themes of being
01:24:28
treated with equal dignity. Those those
01:24:30
resonate with me.
01:24:34
>> Not even when you watched that DVD with
01:24:36
your fiance the other week.
01:24:37
>> Well, no, cuz I was trying to think
01:24:38
where the right DVD was. Actually,
01:24:42
I'm I'm probably the same as you.
01:24:43
Through my uh through my 20s and 30s, I
01:24:45
don't think I cried. Maybe at my nana's
01:24:47
funeral or something, but um it's an
01:24:48
emotion that I've like embraced and lean
01:24:50
into. It's wonderful. It's nice having a
01:24:52
good cry from time to time.
01:24:55
>> Hey, um well, this has been a fun chat
01:24:56
today.
01:24:57
>> It really has.
01:24:58
>> It's been really enjoyable. Um we'll
01:24:59
have you in again at some stage. It'd be
01:25:01
interesting to compare answers at the
01:25:03
end.
01:25:03
>> Have you cried yet?
01:25:05
>> I'm thinking
01:25:06
>> you get me in every year.
01:25:07
>> Yeah. Well, I have succumbed once you
01:25:10
become a dad. Like, um I haven't had the
01:25:12
the good fortune of having my own
01:25:13
family, but most of my friends say the
01:25:15
the birthing process is quite an
01:25:16
emotional thing to experience. Um but
01:25:19
it'll be just interesting to see if your
01:25:20
reflection and answers would change at
01:25:22
the end of your political career because
01:25:24
obviously now you've got a like Yeah, it
01:25:27
it's political to say you believe in
01:25:29
everything that you've done and you
01:25:30
don't have regrets. Do you know what I
01:25:32
mean? Um yeah, but I I mean there are
01:25:35
give you examples of things I do uh
01:25:37
regret. Um and there's probably others,
01:25:40
but it's also true that um politics
01:25:43
doesn't really reward second guessing.
01:25:45
Um
01:25:46
>> you know,
01:25:46
>> you get called a flip-flop. Is that what
01:25:48
you mean?
01:25:48
>> Well, exactly. Um and uh so, you know,
01:25:52
it probably be probably be good if there
01:25:54
were more rewards uh for confronting
01:25:57
mistakes, but um there's not, so we just
01:25:59
don't make any. H
01:26:01
>> yeah. Wouldn't society be better and
01:26:03
wouldn't it be a better lesson for
01:26:04
everyone involved if you could say
01:26:05
actually I was wrong about this and then
01:26:08
course correct
01:26:09
>> but you just can't it's seem seen as a
01:26:10
political failure to do that isn't it?
01:26:13
>> Uh yeah I I think um you know part of
01:26:16
the issue is that uh if you're the most
01:26:20
informed voter and you're the least
01:26:22
informed voter
01:26:24
you still wake up with the same
01:26:25
government on Sunday morning after the
01:26:27
election. So if you're smart, you'll use
01:26:30
your time for other things that do give
01:26:31
you a direct payback uh rather than uh
01:26:34
investing in being an informed voter who
01:26:36
who gets the same results anyway. And
01:26:39
and and that is the the kernel of why I
01:26:41
think you need to um do less through
01:26:44
government because it's it's not an
01:26:46
informed way of decision-m for the most
01:26:47
part. And one of the things that comes
01:26:50
out of it is you say, well, I think most
01:26:52
of them are probably wrong, but if that
01:26:54
one's but I'm not sure which ones. If
01:26:56
that one is openly saying they're wrong,
01:26:58
then must be them. And so it's partly
01:27:02
just the the sort of information
01:27:03
environment you're in.
01:27:05
>> So election next year, are are you going
01:27:08
to get reelected? Is ACT going to what
01:27:10
do you need like 5% of the vote to get
01:27:12
back in? Well, you need to uh win a seat
01:27:15
and or um get 5%. So, look, at the
01:27:20
moment, ACT holds two electorate seats.
01:27:22
Uh it is um not never guaranteed that
01:27:26
they'll be reelected, but they're
01:27:27
elected by reasonably healthy majorities
01:27:29
in both cases and and in my case elected
01:27:32
for the fourth time. So, you know, that
01:27:34
bodess well, but it's not guaranteed at
01:27:37
all. We continue to work hard to get out
01:27:40
and do street corner meetings and help
01:27:42
our constituents and do all the things
01:27:45
that usually lead to re-election. Um and
01:27:48
uh then there's this question of will
01:27:50
you get 5%. I mean every poll that we've
01:27:52
had since about mid2020 has has been
01:27:57
over 5%. So again uh nothing's
01:28:00
guaranteed but but things bode well. So,
01:28:03
um, based on the information we have
01:28:04
right now, I say we probably will be,
01:28:06
but, um, you know, we can you can lose a
01:28:08
lot and you can gain a lot in a year.
01:28:10
>> If it all ended next year, would you be
01:28:11
happy? Would you be at peace with your
01:28:13
political career?
01:28:14
>> Absolutely. I I mean, you know, I've
01:28:16
I've shown up uh I've argued the case.
01:28:19
I've made some changes that I think are
01:28:21
good for New Zealand. I've taken a whole
01:28:23
lot of people along with me and a lot of
01:28:25
them have had experiences and made
01:28:27
changes and contributed in ways that
01:28:29
they they couldn't have if uh that ACT
01:28:32
vehicle hadn't been there. Um and I I
01:28:35
feel like I've uh you know made the the
01:28:37
most of the the time that I've been
01:28:39
given. And it's possible the voters will
01:28:41
say, "Yeah, that time's up, Sunshine."
01:28:42
Well, that could happen, but but I'd
01:28:44
still be in a in a good place. I mean, I
01:28:46
have on my um on my phone there. Um
01:28:50
that's me with a constituent walking out
01:28:52
of um Starship Hospital. So, it's under
01:28:56
Cararolina Burch and we um we fought for
01:28:58
years for her to be able to live
01:29:00
supported in the home and um that's uh
01:29:04
you know something that I've I've had on
01:29:05
my phone. I think that was about 2019.
01:29:08
>> Um so that really for me is a symbol of
01:29:11
what a local MP can do and I'm really
01:29:13
proud of that. got a not notification
01:29:15
from NT Games as well. Are you a Wordle
01:29:17
guy?
01:29:18
>> Oh, look, I'm I'm addicted. I I
01:29:20
shouldn't tell you. People probably
01:29:21
build me for it, but uh look, I'm I'm
01:29:24
Wordle guy. Connections fiend. Um I've
01:29:27
stopped doing the crossword cuz I
01:29:28
actually do have job. Uh but that was
01:29:31
good. Uh and um I I try and there's one
01:29:34
other Oh, the the one where you got to
01:29:36
line up the um spell the words, whatever
01:29:39
that's called there. I know the one you
01:29:41
mean, but I I can't remember the name
01:29:43
either. Hey, David Seymour, thank you so
01:29:45
much for coming on the podcast. Deputy
01:29:46
Prime Minister of New Zealand.
01:29:48
>> Thank you very much. See you again.
01:29:49
Round two.
01:29:50
>> Thanks.

Podspun Insights

In this episode, the conversation takes a deep dive into the world of New Zealand politics with David Seymour, who reflects on his tumultuous year as a polarizing figure. The episode opens with a candid discussion about the backlash he faced after ripping up the treaties principal bill, leading to a powerful haka performance aimed at him. Seymour shares his perspective on the emotional weight of being a target in the political arena, revealing a mix of sadness and resilience. The dialogue flows into his recent engagement and the joy it brings amidst the chaos of politics, showcasing a personal side that contrasts with his public persona.

As the episode unfolds, listeners are treated to insights about Seymour's political philosophy, including his views on the importance of open debate and the dangers of tribalism in politics. He discusses the challenges of being a leader who tackles hard issues and the necessity of being respected rather than liked. The conversation touches on the complexities of his relationships with fellow politicians, including Chloe and Winston, revealing the nuances of political camaraderie and rivalry.

Throughout the episode, Seymour's humor shines through, especially when discussing his infamous "sushi is woke" comment and the media's portrayal of him. The episode culminates in a reflection on his political journey, the impact of his policies, and his hopes for the future of New Zealand. With a mix of levity and seriousness, this episode captures the essence of navigating the turbulent waters of politics while maintaining a sense of self.

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Episode Highlights

  • Engagement and Growth
    Seymour shares his personal milestone of getting engaged while discussing his political journey.
    “You’ve got engaged.”
    @ 02m 19s
    August 17, 2025
  • Deputy Prime Minister Insights
    Seymour shares what it means to be deputy prime minister and the responsibilities that come with it.
    “It means everything and nothing.”
    @ 08m 05s
    August 17, 2025
  • Driving a Land Rover up Parliament Steps
    A controversial stunt that raised money for charity and sparked debate.
    “No rules were broken. It raised money for a great charity.”
    @ 18m 54s
    August 17, 2025
  • The Treaty Principles Bill Backlash
    The bill faced unexpected backlash, revealing deep societal divisions.
    “I didn’t think it would be that controversial.”
    @ 28m 36s
    August 17, 2025
  • The Power of Success
    Success spills over and creates more success, fostering a positive environment.
    “Success actually spills over and gets more success.”
    @ 35m 34s
    August 17, 2025
  • Focus on What You Can Control
    Life is about knowing what you can change and what you can't.
    “Focus on those things you can control.”
    @ 42m 47s
    August 17, 2025
  • Engagement Proposal with Dolphins
    A surprise dolphin sighting made for a memorable engagement proposal.
    “You couldn't pay for this.”
    @ 55m 10s
    August 17, 2025
  • Emotional DVD Experience
    David reflects on the emotional experience of watching a DVD from his late mother.
    “It was quite a poignant sort of experience.”
    @ 01h 05m 39s
    August 17, 2025
  • Wishing for Mother's Presence
    David expresses his wish that his mother could witness his political journey.
    “There's nothing that's happened in the last year that's worth her not being there.”
    @ 01h 06m 37s
    August 17, 2025
  • Winston's Political Survival
    Winston has been the great survivor of New Zealand politics, always managing to come back.
    “You’ve got to admire it.”
    @ 01h 11m 21s
    August 17, 2025
  • Emotional Resilience
    Discussing the importance of resilience over vulnerability in life.
    “How about we just make the most of that?”
    @ 01h 21m 33s
    August 17, 2025
  • Political Reflections
    David Seymour reflects on his political career and contributions to New Zealand.
    “I’ve shown up, I’ve argued the case.”
    @ 01h 28m 16s
    August 17, 2025

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Key Moments

  • Engagement Announcement02:19
  • Haka Protest22:44
  • Online Abuse40:28
  • Handling Hecklers51:00
  • Wishing for Mom1:06:37
  • Political Relationships1:09:53
  • Contentment1:28:44
  • Wordle Fan1:29:20

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