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Jeremy Wells shares when he considered suicide || Runners Only! Podcast with Dom Harvey

October 15, 202201:01:41
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Hello friends welcome to Runners only
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with dom Harvey today on the podcast
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Jeremy Wells a New Zealand TV actually a
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New Zealand media icon I'd say this
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guy's been around forever if you're old
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enough to remember him as Newsboy from
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the havoc and Newsboy days if you're
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younger maybe you know I'm from the
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radio holiday breakfast show or maybe
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you know I'm from uh seven sharp with
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Hillary Barry at seven o'clock on
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weeknights lovely guy and it's an honor
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to have him on the show he loves running
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if you live in central Auckland
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especially around the ponsonby area
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you'd know that because you see him
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running around some days he goes real
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fast other days this is a bit slower you
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look down you see the knee brace and you
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go oh yeah he's battling he's battling
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today the knees flared up but that's
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Jeremy Wells he's a fascinating man so
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interesting uh so honest a lot of people
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you speak to when they get to a certain
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level in the media they become more
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guarded and more filtered but absolutely
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not Jeremy Wells nothing off limits and
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actually uh when I got to the end of the
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chat with him I said to him listen if
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you if you have you know remorse or
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regret and there's anything you want
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taken out uh just let me know and I'll
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um catch you some slack and he said to
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me um he goes now that's not how these
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things work are they he goes uh you know
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whatever you've got there you can do
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what you want with it and um I
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all right let's go we're into it this
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week I have a confession to make I did
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make a slight f up with Jeremy Wells
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this unfortunately means you won't get
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to hear the theme song this week because
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I wasn't recording in the beginning of
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the interview some people will be um
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relieved about that if the feedback's
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anything to go by but it also means we
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missed out on maybe the first three or
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four minutes of the conversation which
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is unfortunate because Jeremy and I were
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talking about his relationship with his
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partner who was in the house Tulsi who's
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been with for over 20 years and just how
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they how they met how they fell in love
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and how their relationship has evolved
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over the years it was a wonderful candid
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moment and I'm spewing that I missed it
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I didn't even say anything at the time I
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just um like reached down to my podcast
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unit and hit the record button just to
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keep the conversation going anyway thank
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you for joining us for another episode
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of Runners only enjoy Jeremy Wells
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since the podcast is called Runner Zone
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there's there's so much I want to
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discuss with you because it's been such
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a varied career that you've had and it
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just seems to be going from strength to
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strength so we'll cover all that off
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um but we've got to talk about the
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running thing first because it's um a
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lot of people wouldn't even know this
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about you but you you do run on a
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regular basis anyone that lives in sort
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of central Auckland ponsonby would know
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that because you know you're like me
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you're very very tall so when when
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Jeremy Wells is running you see Jeremy
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was running so how long why did why did
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you start was it a fitness thing
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can't even remember like I remember when
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I started running would have been in
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about 2 3 oh well when I was a kid I was
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forced to run
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because we used to have cross-country at
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school and I I hated it I was always
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okay at it but I I used to know that
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like the cross country date would be
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coming up and I get no I get butterflies
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in my stomach why because you were you
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were good are you in either front or you
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just hate just because you hated it I
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was never I was never good but I mean it
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was something I wasn't bad but I was
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never good and I certainly never trained
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I I liked playing cricket and rugby and
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tennis and golf and sports like that I
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was never into
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Sports Wii U and probably less so rugby
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of all the sports like sports where you
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had to be fat that was not I like sports
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where you could talk and and so that
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yeah the running for me was like that
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just seemed like a lot of exertion yeah
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yeah and I that wasn't until I was
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probably in my mid to late 20s when all
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of a sudden I just thought I think I'm
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just gonna go for a run and then I went
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for a run how are you going it's quite
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hot because I had a coffee before I came
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here I was I'm sweating a little bit
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don't mind me though
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looks like you've been for a run
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um yes and I just started running and I
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thought oh this is quite good and I
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actually started to feel good oh that's
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right I know I remember where I started
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because I was giving up smoking right
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that's right and I thought to myself I
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need to do something that's the opposite
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of smoking and then I'll feel better
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about giving up smoking and if I get
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fitter then that's another reason why I
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won't want to smoke I won't wanna like
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having a cigarette to me being a smoker
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and a and a runner is a whip I know a
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couple of people are smoke and run I was
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like that to me seems really kind
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intuitive but but I do know a few people
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to do it but for me if I I thought if I
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run I won't smoke yeah right and it
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worked actually and then I sort of just
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started running I started feeling quite
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good about it and I've I've pretty much
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run ever since really you you run uh
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most days I would say I see you around
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most days yeah I do I go through periods
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of running more than other times but I I
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probably run four days out of seven
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right I like to have a bit of a break
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every now and then because I'm getting a
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bit old and I think I try and listen to
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the body and if it's sore that's a sign
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either that I need to change my shoes or
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that I'm doing a little bit too much
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running yeah yeah and there's always the
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challenge with running because you
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always want to I I put a I have an app
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that I run with and it's you know a
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timing app and I use map my run I don't
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know why it's because it's the first
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thing that I started using and
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it tells you you know how you're going
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with your K's and stuff and I I I'm
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quite competitive with myself weirdly
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but of recent times and I was wanting to
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get my times better but of recent times
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I've actually just been occasionally
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going why am I am I going to take that
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with me I'm just going to run like
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yesterday I just ran without anything
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and without headphones actually it's
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quite good sometimes I'd just be in tune
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with the body yeah no I found it quite
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good because I hadn't run for three
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weeks so a bit of a dodgy calf so I
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actually found it I found it quite good
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there was no pressure to be faster I
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just thought I'd just go I'll just go
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and get through this 6K run how big is
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your six case do you do like the same
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block every time and you're sort of a
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creature of habit or do you sort of mix
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it up a bit no well I've learned from
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experience now that the best thing to do
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is not to do the same thing all the time
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because you get injured if you do the
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same thing over and over so I mix up the
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Run lengths and then I mix up the Run
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Roots I've got a 6K I've got an 8K I've
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got a 10K and I've got a 12K and I said
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sort of mess up the Links at any given
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time but I don't generally run much more
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than 12. yeah yeah or you probably don't
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need to I mean if you're just doing it
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for the like the health benefits then
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that's probably plenty long enough it
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feels like plenty long enough and I find
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that if I run much longer than that I
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start to get I mean I get fitter there's
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no doubt about that but I start to get a
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little bit sore and I'm not a
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competitive runner in terms of I don't I
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don't want to do marathons or half
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marathons or anything like that I only
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do it because
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I enjoy it and I've always found that
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when I'm running I have my best ideas
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and I I never have a negative thought
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about myself if I'm running I've only
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just come to realize that in the last
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couple of years I just realized how do
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you mean like during during the run or
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like afterwards during the Run yeah
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right when I'm running I never think I
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never think oh what did you do that
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before that was a stupid question to ask
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or you know why did I say this or I wish
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I never did a story on that or why did I
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you know I don't look back on things
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that I've done in my life and think well
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that was that was a mistake whereas
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normally if I'm just sitting down by
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myself I'll have a tendency to go over
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things and start raking over the coals
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and there's quite a few coals up there
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yeah you know yeah we've all we've all
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got yeah we've all got coals up there
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to rake over them if I can but when I'm
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running I find I never if I rake over
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them I tend to find a solution rather
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than just going down into a spiral yeah
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but sometimes with the coals that you
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rake over there there is no solution no
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you just have to like learn from it and
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do better and promise yourself not to do
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it again yeah well well yeah but do you
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do you ever get to that point I mean
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when you're running for example are you
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raking over the coals you've got quite a
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lot of coals to rake yeah yeah yeah much
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like me yeah yeah
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um I do actually yeah I yeah I wreck
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over the coals and I do have negative
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thoughts about myself when I'm running
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which is terrible I'm envious of you
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there yeah
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golden you run for a long time
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there's a lot of calls
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for me I find like there's the physical
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benefits of running but also like the
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mental health benefits as well how's
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your mental health been good over the
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years you've never had any issues uh I
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think everybody has their issues and
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I've certainly had my issues but nothing
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that hasn't been
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um easily or reasonably easy to overcome
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and I think I've always felt if
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something's not going right or you don't
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if the coals are getting a little bit
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hot
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um then I have always gone back to
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health and exercise and I've always
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found that because oftentimes a part of
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the all of my problems seem to be my of
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my own making yeah it's either something
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that I've done
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um or too much of something you know
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what I mean and I've gone down a you
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know a bit too much substance abuse
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whatever that might be and then I've
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like and if you get the balance wrong
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every now and then and then in those
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situations I've always found if you go
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if you eliminate all of those things you
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eliminate the exterior crap and then you
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go back to eating good food drinking
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lots of water and uh and doing a bit of
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exercise I've always found in terms of
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mental health things generally come back
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your brain just works yeah yeah well I'm
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not sure whether that's a recipe for
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other people as well but it's worked for
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me yeah well I mean it makes sense I
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think some people just have like a
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chemical imbalance in their brain so
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even if they do those things they're
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still going to have have issues yeah
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everyone I don't think I've got I've got
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a chemical imbalance but I'm not sure
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that it's um it's not clinical
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let's uh let's run the clock way back so
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you're from an interesting family I met
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your parents a few years ago I was um an
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ambassador for the uh World Masters
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games and I was at a function at
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government house with the governor
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general and
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um your dad came up to me and we were
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having a conversation and he asked what
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I did and I told him I was on radio and
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he said you might know my son and uh it
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was you and and it really really
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surprised me your dad's like a sewer yes
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yeah and your mum's a lady yeah well
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that he hasn't always been a sir and she
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hasn't always been a lady I mean they
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they were you know I don't I I don't
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it's weird even now when when If Ever I
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See You know my dad's name and print
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anywhere or my mum's name in print it
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always seems quite unusual to see you
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know that title
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um and you certainly don't ever think of
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your parents it's true Dad no you don't
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even think of them like that so but I
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think that was a that was a nice thing
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to happen to him particularly and my mum
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has had you know Awards and accolades
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she's done a lot of work in netball
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um and um and she's been honored for for
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that sort of stuff as well and and both
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of them were quite heavily involved in
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sport
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my dad in terms of administration sport
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Administration
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he had a lot to do with the setting up
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of sport New Zealand he was called spark
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at the time and some other people
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including Sir John Graham wrote a report
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and said look all this funding needs to
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be changed so we can streamline this and
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they did a lot of research in terms of
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what had happened over Australia and all
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sorts of stuff and so they're
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streamlined the sports funding agencies
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right and uh and I think he did that for
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quite a long time and obviously gave a
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lot of us a lot of his time and and it
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was and it all worked out quite well I
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mean it was reasonably successful and
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good for New Zealand Sports as far as
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I'm aware absolutely yeah so I think
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that was you know fear in that situation
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that that he was he was given then I was
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very proud as a very high achieving
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family so there's there's you've got one
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brother right yep and he's a commercial
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lawyer so your parents are very
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successful your brother's successful you
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you must have been a worry for a while
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with all due respect
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I'm sure they're incredibly proud of you
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now like you've you know you've got a
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nice house and a nice family and you're
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very very successful but uh you must
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have been a cause of concern in those in
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those young years almost 10 years I I
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think I was a definitely I know I was a
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cause of concern and yeah my brother's a
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lawyer and he's he's similar but quite
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different to me and was always in the
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top class at school and I don't even
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remember my parents telling him off
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actually he's such a he's such a nice
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person my brother very studious and then
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I wasn't like that at all to be honest
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but I think that's always the case isn't
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it with siblings and you probably find
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this as well it's like you you find a
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way that's not
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the same as everybody else like show me
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a family where two brothers or two
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sisters or a brother and a sister are
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the same I don't think that exists I
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mean I look at my own children they're
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so they're so different yeah it's crazy
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and what one is the other one isn't yeah
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and in every aspect of everything
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and so yeah definitely growing up I gave
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them some I gave them some Helix
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particularly you know one particular
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moment in time I think I was you know it
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would have been my late or mid teens mid
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to late teens was was I was really kind
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of
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experimenting with things that probably
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weren't
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didn't make them feel particularly
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comfortable is it cannabis or wow I was
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expelled from wanganui Collegiate for um
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I think you're at mornings we're always
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going to go to boarding school or do
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they send you or whatever they really
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sent me away to be honest yeah so I was
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in Auckland until the end of um year 11
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and then there was a bit of marijuana
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that was discovered over a holiday
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period and next thing you know I've been
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whisked away so that was kind of a weird
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time in my life I don't weirdly enough
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every now and then I look back on it and
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I think God that was weird wasn't it
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were you really into the marijuana or
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was it like an active Rebellion do you
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think in hindsight I don't think it was
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an act of rebellion I I just I I
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remember the first time I had it and I
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thought oh this I just laughed and
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laughed and laughed that was such a good
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time and then you didn't I felt I didn't
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have a hangover the next day and and it
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actually opened my mind to a whole lot
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of ideas and things and and music
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sounded a particular way and I was into
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music and and
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and I thought oh this is this is quite
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interesting this is I feel completely
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different this is a different way of of
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this different Consciousness I I and
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then then probably
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I became a little bit probably too
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focused on it but I think for my parents
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who were very conservative you know they
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were they'd never they've never smoked
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marijuana in fact none of their friends
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had and they'd never seen it and so for
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them it was like oh my God my child's
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got to be a heroin addict this is oh
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yeah my mum yeah the whole Gateway thing
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oh that's a Gateway well that was the
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that was the that was the thinking of
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the time yeah yeah and and so they've
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they've freaked out pretty much and I
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can understand that from they were they
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were ignorant they didn't understand
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really what was going on yeah and so
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they thought the best thing to do was to
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send me down to wanganui where there'd
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be no marijuana
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I mean they thought it was a big city
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thing
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I know I know that's the thing they
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would they were doing what they thought
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was the right thing yeah yeah I'm I'm
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happy that they did what they did
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because like everything worked out well
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in the end and and I think you know I'm
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a big believer that whatever decisions
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and whatever things you go through in
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your life they lead you to the point
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that you're at and if you take out some
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of those things and you look back and
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you say well I I regret this moment and
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I take this out well you unless
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if you're not happy with we if you're
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happy with where you are at this given
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time then you can't take anything from
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your past out yeah because it's altered
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your entire life absolutely and so I
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ultimately that was good that they sent
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me away but they discovered would I do
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the same thing again I think I'd have to
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don't hate hopefully they don't hear
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this because that will really upset them
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yeah yeah okay so you haven't learned a
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lesson
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and you're 45. so they so they they send
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you to um wanganui Collegiate and then
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um you you manage to get yourself
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expelled from there for for drugs again
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at this stage they must have been just
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freaking out oh it was terrible and it
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was it was bad a genuine what happened
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oh it was Gin it was terrible the whole
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thing is is embarrassing we don't have
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to go there if you don't want oh no I
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don't mind I don't mind going there it's
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just it's the past is the past and it's
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I can't pretend that it didn't happen
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because it did happen
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I'd actually been that whole year after
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smoking a bit of pot probably in fifth
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form and and being kind of into it but
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nothing crazy I mean we're talking sort
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of a bit of weekend use here and there
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sure nothing unusual for the time I was
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certainly just doing exactly what
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everybody else was doing around me
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um then going down to wanganui and and I
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was at boarding school at that stage so
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you couldn't smoke marijuana so I didn't
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and I'd and I've also kind of believed
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the line that maybe it wasn't good for
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me and and I think it probably wasn't
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it's not great for your brain when
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you're younger developing brain it's no
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good no and I I think that's a fear
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thing and fear assumption and then so I
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didn't smoke it and and actually it was
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a good year for me I met lots of
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interesting people and I had a good time
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and um I all of a sudden I was doing my
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homework at night because you have to at
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boarding school and do prep and stuff
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like that and and I did quite well at
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school I was like oh you see that's
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well this is unusual um because I hadn't
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been doing that well before then and uh
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and the end of the year came and um
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and we went away to you had these
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different choices of places that you
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could go to to do community service
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because in sixth form in those days you
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remember your exams used to finish quite
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early and it had nothing to do because
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it was internally assessed so I knew my
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marks everything was sussed and then
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they want to keep you at school at
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wanganui instead of sending you home so
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they send you away and and you had it we
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had a choice well I remember my choices
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being there must have been more choices
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but I'm in my choices being
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um a rest home like we go and do work in
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a rest home for a week in wanganui so
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we'd stay we'd stay at school and then
00:19:02
go to a rest home every day and and look
00:19:04
after people my experience is that at
00:19:06
that point of Rest Homes were both of my
00:19:08
grandmother and also my great uncle and
00:19:10
I I just remember the smell I was like I
00:19:12
don't like wrist homes
00:19:14
the other choice was Lake Alice
00:19:17
oh yeah the um yeah the mental hospital
00:19:18
that's right yeah it was right that was
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your other option of going there and
00:19:22
doing community service look the stories
00:19:25
of the guys from the year before who'd
00:19:27
been to Lake Alice were not positive
00:19:28
there was stuff about knives and penises
00:19:31
and all sorts of weird things that were
00:19:33
going on there and as it turns out there
00:19:35
was a lot of very strange stuff going on
00:19:36
there but anyway that's another story
00:19:38
and the other option was the nsid drug
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treatment center in Martin which was a
00:19:42
drug rehab center
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and with my history in that area I
00:19:47
thought oh this is actually I'd be quite
00:19:49
interested to meet some of some people
00:19:51
who are in the situation and uh and this
00:19:53
way as well it was in Martin you could
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stay in a motel and there were no
00:19:57
teachers with us and I thought oh this
00:19:59
is great I get to go away from boarding
00:20:01
school we can we can at night time when
00:20:03
we go back from from doing the community
00:20:06
service at the rehab center we can do
00:20:08
whatever we want this is awesome we can
00:20:09
take some alcohol and drink end of the
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year and I thought you know what I could
00:20:14
we could even smoke a bit of pot why not
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so organized
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through someone at school to get a cap
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of hash oil yeah and took that away
00:20:27
and I think we'd been there for maybe
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three days the opportunity hadn't really
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Arisen to sort of have it at that stage
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and then one day I think it would have
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been the Wednesday I was about to go
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home and one of the patients patients
00:20:41
they call themselves patients and they
00:20:43
they said to me I heard you've got some
00:20:44
marijuana and I was like no I don't have
00:20:46
any marijuana and then I said uh well
00:20:49
that's not what one of the other guys
00:20:51
one of your other friends has told me
00:20:53
and I was like no that I I haven't read
00:20:55
any guys well he told me that you've got
00:20:56
it in your wallet and I was like oh
00:21:00
and I said no no I didn't know I lifted
00:21:02
a home Blow Away guys we've got your
00:21:04
wallet I was like no no I haven't got it
00:21:05
and he goes you're not lying to me are
00:21:07
you and I was like no no I'm not he goes
00:21:09
if you find out you're lying sort of was
00:21:11
going down a line right and he's trying
00:21:14
to Corner you well he just he really
00:21:16
wanted that way he did want that weed
00:21:18
and he I even remember him saying to me
00:21:20
you don't know what it's like I've been
00:21:21
here for six months
00:21:23
I haven't smoked weed for six months it
00:21:25
just it won't be anything and I was like
00:21:28
so in the end after I was I was saying
00:21:30
no I don't want to give marijuana to a
00:21:32
you know anybody here someone had a
00:21:34
recovery yeah that would be bad he's
00:21:36
like he's like I'm here for marijuana
00:21:38
man I mean it's not like it's addictive
00:21:40
it doesn't matter I'm like no no no I
00:21:42
don't want to do that and I did have
00:21:44
some kind of I did have morals and I
00:21:46
knew it was wrong and then ultimately
00:21:49
he kind of it was it got reasonably
00:21:52
threatening he and I was just like okay
00:21:54
I don't want this problem anymore and I
00:21:56
threw it on the ground and I said if you
00:21:57
want to pick it up pick it up I don't
00:21:59
want anything to do with it I wish I
00:22:00
didn't even bring it and um he daddy
00:22:03
picked it up and then he had it and of
00:22:06
course at a rehab center when you are
00:22:07
stoned you really do stand out because
00:22:09
there's a lot of sobriety
00:22:11
so I went home knowing I'd done
00:22:13
something that was not good but I'm
00:22:15
thinking well at least I kind of feel
00:22:16
like my conscience is slightly clear I
00:22:18
mean I put on the ground and it was like
00:22:20
if I didn't want to give it to him I
00:22:23
certainly didn't come here with the
00:22:24
intention of giving this to anybody and
00:22:26
then anyway here then then everybody
00:22:28
sort of knew about the next morning I
00:22:30
came in and man
00:22:32
just the disapproving looks because he
00:22:34
clearly told everybody about what had
00:22:36
gone on and people were just shaking
00:22:38
their heads and then and I realized
00:22:40
immediately I was like oh this is bad
00:22:42
yeah I stood up and just one by one just
00:22:45
people just laid onto me and I wasn't
00:22:47
here it was this horrific experience
00:22:49
they just said how dare you yeah right
00:22:50
and fair enough I mean they were
00:22:52
frustrated yeah and and also they
00:22:54
thought who is this guy and who was I
00:22:56
doing that it was just completely wrong
00:22:58
and I felt you know deep shame and um
00:23:01
and I I don't know if you you know
00:23:03
remember that feeling as a kid of
00:23:05
standing up and when people just really
00:23:06
you get that feeling shame and you feel
00:23:08
thin like a piece of paper you almost
00:23:11
feel like you're not there yeah just the
00:23:13
ultimate vulnerability oh it's terrible
00:23:14
and then uh in the end
00:23:16
School Deputy principal came and picked
00:23:19
me up drove me back my parents flew down
00:23:21
to try and like discuss with the
00:23:22
Headmaster how I sort of maybe might not
00:23:24
get expelled that didn't work
00:23:26
and then that was the end I was expelled
00:23:28
I said you must have said Thanks a lot
00:23:29
and we'll see you later and then my
00:23:32
parents said okay we'll see you later as
00:23:33
well you knew that you came down here
00:23:36
because of that you've disappointed us
00:23:38
and then they just they took off I was
00:23:40
just down there I was stuck there
00:23:43
the school bought me a train ticket I
00:23:46
get back to Auckland but I didn't know
00:23:48
where to go I went back and stayed with
00:23:50
a friend that Craven for for probably a
00:23:52
month and and got a job at a uh at a dry
00:23:54
cleaning right outfit Loving Care mascal
00:23:57
Street do you feel like that was um like
00:23:59
a turning point in your life I mean a
00:24:00
lot of it was your fault but also a lot
00:24:02
of it wasn't like you know that it seems
00:24:04
like you were bullied into into no it
00:24:06
was all my fault because I took I took
00:24:08
an illegal yeah into a rehab center
00:24:10
maybe I'm going to easy no that was 100
00:24:13
my fault but it was a 16 year old you
00:24:16
know I mean the 16 year old you you do
00:24:18
do stupid things you don't get things
00:24:20
through
00:24:21
and um and I that was a stupid mistake
00:24:23
and then I remember going back on the
00:24:25
train on the Northern and I I remember
00:24:27
specifically thinking yeah I never
00:24:29
thought I'd be expelled from school I
00:24:30
mean I was not a bad I was not bad kids
00:24:33
you know I I was a I was I obeyed the
00:24:36
roles and I tried to be a respectful I
00:24:37
was polite and then I thought oh God
00:24:39
what do you do in the situation I
00:24:41
thought you meant do you kill yourself
00:24:42
is that what you meant to do and and I
00:24:45
was on this train I remember having a
00:24:46
cigarette I used to smoke Marlboro Reds
00:24:48
in those days and I had a cigarette at
00:24:51
the front of the train and I thought
00:24:54
I think he meant to do that and I
00:24:56
thought unfortunately I'm I haven't I
00:24:58
don't have enough guts that I could ever
00:24:59
do that but I was sure that was what you
00:25:01
were meant to do you know and that would
00:25:03
be the right thing that would put an end
00:25:04
to any of the shame that you'd brought
00:25:06
upon your family or any of that sort of
00:25:08
stuff as as you I I was going to say as
00:25:11
you get older you realize that that's
00:25:12
not the solution and that it's a storm
00:25:13
that passes back 100 but at the time
00:25:16
it's the first terrible thing that's
00:25:18
really happened that you've done in your
00:25:19
life
00:25:20
and uh and you don't know that it's
00:25:22
going to pass you don't you don't know
00:25:23
that that was I mean I'm so pleased that
00:25:26
I didn't do that I could never do that
00:25:28
anyway but um yeah that was a I just
00:25:30
remember I gotta say they were probably
00:25:32
the lowest point in my life and then um
00:25:34
so shortly after that you you how did
00:25:37
you and you and Mikey Havoc mate I
00:25:39
reckon I've got something in common with
00:25:40
you and that I've got like a almost like
00:25:41
an encyclopedic knowledge when it comes
00:25:43
to like useless information trivia and
00:25:45
pop culture in New Zealand like uh I
00:25:48
could sit here with you for an hour and
00:25:50
have a chat about the Ingham Twins and a
00:25:52
lot of people listening to this won't
00:25:54
even remember the Ingham twins are
00:25:56
so I I have a very very fond memories um
00:26:00
of yourself and Mikey have okay I'm a
00:26:02
lot of people won't even remember the
00:26:03
amazing work that you guys did together
00:26:04
on TV but you're sort of like a like a
00:26:06
cool edgy version of like Hamish nandy
00:26:08
or John Bean or something it was like
00:26:10
just real Innovative [ __ ] I I was on the
00:26:12
edge then um and at the radio station of
00:26:14
Palmerston North and we were like what
00:26:16
like cheesy pop culture stuff and um you
00:26:19
guys were doing like everything that
00:26:21
that I would have wanted to do and um I
00:26:23
was so in the world yeah completely the
00:26:26
stuff you were doing was just
00:26:27
groundbreaking Innovative and we were
00:26:29
just doing fart jokes
00:26:30
how did you guys make because you were
00:26:33
it was it was an interesting sort of
00:26:34
relationship especially early on from
00:26:36
the stuff I remember on TV it was like
00:26:37
um almost like a pen and Teller Vibe how
00:26:39
you know one of them one of them did
00:26:41
most of the speaking havoc and you were
00:26:43
sort of a you know a quieter sort of
00:26:45
sidekick yeah well I that's I think
00:26:48
that's a fair assessment of what it was
00:26:50
but we went through bfm student radio in
00:26:52
Auckland and I went there and read the
00:26:54
news as I was doing a bachelor of
00:26:56
communications at aut at the time and
00:26:59
and uh they were like a couple of people
00:27:02
from bfm came and did a lecture and said
00:27:04
you know if anyone's interested in
00:27:05
reading the news then that'd be great
00:27:07
it's a good good training ground and I
00:27:08
thought yeah I'd like to I've always
00:27:09
loved radio because I loved radio
00:27:11
growing up and uh and I was into it and
00:27:14
listened to be with him so went along
00:27:15
there read the news and then started
00:27:17
reading the news in the in the midday
00:27:21
slot and then ended up reading breakfast
00:27:22
news because in those days you'd start
00:27:24
on the on the midday slot and most
00:27:26
people couldn't I mean most and read a
00:27:28
sentence a little it's terrible let
00:27:30
alone a bullet and like and I would have
00:27:33
been shocking I'd hate to hear it it'd
00:27:34
be awful but then you don't have any
00:27:36
tapes no no thank God and none would
00:27:39
exist but but then uh started reading it
00:27:42
on the breakfast show and that was the
00:27:43
Pinnacle of breakfast radio and student
00:27:46
radio and at the time reading the news
00:27:48
on the breakfast show and and it was fun
00:27:51
actually and I that's where I met Mikey
00:27:53
and we got on well and he was he was
00:27:56
like a
00:27:57
he was like a force like the most
00:27:59
amazing person I'd ever met at that
00:28:01
stage so funny and so smart and so quick
00:28:06
with so much energy as well a just a
00:28:08
ball of energy so much energy and so
00:28:11
much charm like that guy was the most
00:28:13
Charming person that I'd ever met and uh
00:28:17
and so cool he was so cool yeah and a
00:28:20
lot of people remember this but he he
00:28:22
was uh the charismatic singer of a band
00:28:25
called push push they had a massive song
00:28:26
called tripping yeah um and then he got
00:28:29
into the media after that yeah and I'd
00:28:31
remembered him from being the lead
00:28:32
singer of push push in tripping which is
00:28:35
a massive massive number one hit in
00:28:36
about 1991 1992 something like that
00:28:39
but then he'd had to see and then he
00:28:41
disappeared for a while Mikey and then
00:28:43
he'd had a second life really as a as a
00:28:45
radio DJ on student radio and as a bar
00:28:49
host and actually a DJ he was getting
00:28:51
into dance music at the time and
00:28:54
and I remember going along to squid
00:28:56
which was his bar in Auckland and
00:28:58
O'Connell Street and uh and then because
00:29:00
I'd read the news with him he'd like you
00:29:02
know
00:29:04
give me like he'd get me a give me a
00:29:06
bourbon and Coke and I was like wow see
00:29:08
I know the guy who I know the DJ this is
00:29:10
this is a great moment and uh and we got
00:29:14
on we got on incredibly well and uh and
00:29:16
it sort of started From It Started from
00:29:18
there and I think then I started reading
00:29:20
the news more often and then ended up
00:29:22
doing that and thinking well this the
00:29:24
special of communications doesn't seem
00:29:26
like much fun for me anymore and then
00:29:28
luckily the next week
00:29:31
Mikey had met up with Neil Roberts who
00:29:33
was former head of tvnz or TF teams tvnz
00:29:36
at the time and he was just brought MTV
00:29:38
uh the format for MTV over in uh in the
00:29:42
UK and he's bringing it to New Zealand
00:29:43
he wanted chose and he said you know
00:29:45
would Mikey would you be interested in
00:29:46
Mike immediately put a proposal to him
00:29:49
on this crazy show called Havoc actually
00:29:51
I think he called it something else he
00:29:52
had some brilliant name for it and then
00:29:54
Neil said no that's got to be called
00:29:55
Havoc it's got to be named after you
00:29:58
and um and then Mike said would you like
00:30:01
to come and work on it as a researcher
00:30:02
and I was going to be a researcher and
00:30:03
then ended up being on air and just sort
00:30:06
of originally I was just going to sit
00:30:08
there and every now and then say
00:30:09
something and maybe mainly made soda
00:30:12
streams for people and that was that was
00:30:14
the idea and then I ended up sort of
00:30:17
saying more but I still didn't really
00:30:18
say much and I was really not that
00:30:19
comfortable with being on TV I was like
00:30:21
this is a little bit weird especially at
00:30:23
that age and but in the end um yeah we
00:30:26
then got other shows of traveling around
00:30:28
New Zealand shows and it was a lot of
00:30:30
fun it was loose man like it was so
00:30:33
loose the stuff you were doing was just
00:30:36
so Innovative it was Mikey that was that
00:30:38
was Mikey was just amazing I mean he he
00:30:41
had so many ideas that guy ideas he just
00:30:44
farts ideas for breakfast and and then
00:30:47
he met Paul casley at the time and those
00:30:50
two working together was like
00:30:52
they had an amazing
00:30:55
chemistry creative chemistry Mikey was
00:30:59
he crazier ideas Paul was was very
00:31:02
disciplined and quite structured but
00:31:04
totally got Mikey and immediately
00:31:06
recognized his talent
00:31:09
and together those guys there was Mikey
00:31:11
and Paul that made havoc and then we and
00:31:14
then we did the sellout tour which is a
00:31:15
different thing where we traveled around
00:31:16
the country oh is that where you went to
00:31:18
gore that's where we went to gore that's
00:31:20
um some people might remember that if
00:31:22
you want to find it it's probably on
00:31:23
YouTube as well what do you call it like
00:31:25
greed greedy old gay man's good well the
00:31:27
reason that it happened we didn't even
00:31:30
want to do a piece to camera and the
00:31:32
producer the director just said look
00:31:33
we're driving past the brown trout do
00:31:35
you mind just stopping and doing a piece
00:31:36
of camera we're like we're always
00:31:37
looking to not do anything yeah that was
00:31:40
our main thing was driving around the
00:31:42
country we liked the driving around the
00:31:43
country but talking we didn't really
00:31:45
like having to get out of the car and do
00:31:46
stuff so we we which is just ridiculous
00:31:49
but the night before we'd been at the
00:31:50
Miss New Zealand contest at the working
00:31:52
men's club in Dunedin had a huge night
00:31:54
and ended up hardly sleeping and then
00:31:56
the next day we were we were driving
00:31:58
down to invercargill down to slope point
00:32:00
the most southern point of New Zealand
00:32:01
and on the way drive past Gore and and
00:32:04
Dave Slade the director said Mazel
00:32:06
where's he going to set up a shot here
00:32:07
you might as well just come closer look
00:32:09
at it got to that point that Dave Slade
00:32:11
was setting up shots driving ahead
00:32:13
setting up a shot and then saying we've
00:32:15
set it up you won't even have to stop
00:32:17
really you can stop you can just walk
00:32:18
into the shot say something and then
00:32:20
bugger off we're like okay so we're dead
00:32:22
and what we came up with is just a piece
00:32:24
of crap I mean we were just crapping on
00:32:26
about nothing just really wasting time
00:32:28
thinking we won't use this we'll just
00:32:31
keep Dave Slade happy
00:32:32
and we'll drive off you know when Dave
00:32:35
Slade then started cutting something up
00:32:36
and and got us in the air between I've
00:32:38
cut this and about Gore and I don't know
00:32:41
either it's really good or it's terrible
00:32:43
I can't work out what it is and then we
00:32:45
watched it and I was like wow that is a
00:32:47
weird sort of piece of TV but then when
00:32:49
it played out I didn't think anything
00:32:50
was going to happen but then turns out
00:32:52
of course everybody in Gore watches TV
00:32:55
too when they talk about Gore but the
00:32:57
only thing that happened was we just
00:32:58
stepped by the bloody trout and just see
00:33:01
that it was the gay capital of New
00:33:02
Zealand which yeah it clearly was not no
00:33:04
oh yeah absolutely but you sort of
00:33:06
insinuated that it's um yeah the the
00:33:08
capital of closeted uh yeah gaming or
00:33:10
something and the funny thing is that
00:33:12
um I don't think he was living there at
00:33:13
the time but um a good friend of yours
00:33:15
and mine Mike Peru yeah
00:33:17
um yeah he would have been in Hamilton
00:33:18
at the time but he was from Gore and he
00:33:20
was closing I didn't know he said to me
00:33:23
he goes you were speaking to me yeah
00:33:25
yeah because he was speaking directly to
00:33:26
me but yeah it turns out in the mirror
00:33:29
of Gore maryog she did not like being
00:33:32
called the gay Capital she and then went
00:33:34
and the next day it was a headline in
00:33:36
the South and times and the headline
00:33:37
said
00:33:39
Gore mere reels at gay quip and then I
00:33:43
had a picture of her by the brown trout
00:33:44
and she said we are not the we are not
00:33:47
the gay Capital there are no gay people
00:33:49
in court that is not true
00:33:51
because it was 1998. you know it was a
00:33:54
different climate yeah yeah and it
00:33:56
wasn't there she may have had a point
00:33:58
there there was maybe there were maybe
00:34:01
10 gay people in the Lower South Island
00:34:03
at that stage and it only just because
00:34:04
well come on and it only just become
00:34:07
legal seriously good luck and and Mike
00:34:09
Peru good luck being gay in Southland
00:34:12
and in the 90s cheap as creep as you'd
00:34:15
have to be very gutsy it'll be it's not
00:34:18
like now it's completely different yeah
00:34:20
they're never going to attend the brown
00:34:22
trout into a rainbow trout are they
00:34:24
that's right I've never thought of that
00:34:27
that was a brown trout weren't you sort
00:34:29
of like ambushed you went back to
00:34:30
schools years later and some [ __ ] hit
00:34:32
the fan yeah well that was it was 10
00:34:34
years later and then 10 years 10 years
00:34:37
10 years later and then we went back to
00:34:39
cover the election actually someone some
00:34:42
someone at tvnz thought yeah we'll get
00:34:44
Jeremy involved in the election night
00:34:45
coverage you can go to gore
00:34:47
and I didn't have the presence of mind
00:34:51
to say no so next thing you know I was
00:34:52
down there and we went and shot some
00:34:54
stories during the day and everything
00:34:55
was good and then went back to the
00:34:57
National Party headquarters and I did a
00:34:59
couple of live crosses
00:35:01
from Bill english's headquarters in Gore
00:35:03
and then at the end of the night it was
00:35:05
like one in the morning by the time
00:35:06
everything would packed up and Hugh
00:35:08
Sunday and I went into into town with a
00:35:10
couple of guys who were at the party and
00:35:13
uh ended up everything was shut down so
00:35:15
we went to the BP to have a pie that was
00:35:17
a terrible mistake because Gore on a
00:35:20
Saturday night by about one o'clock
00:35:22
things get a little bit rough and people
00:35:25
are looking for something to do because
00:35:27
yeah so they cruise around in cars and
00:35:29
then basically there's a guy that ended
00:35:31
up arriving in this in the four court
00:35:32
and uh he wasn't happy about what had
00:35:34
happened 10 years ago
00:35:36
and he kept saying going you [ __ ]
00:35:40
calling me gay you [ __ ] calling me I
00:35:42
was like no I never I never called you
00:35:44
guys and he goes I'm the [ __ ] gay I
00:35:46
was like okay mate you're clearly not
00:35:48
gay
00:35:50
that's fine I never seen anywhere and
00:35:53
then he was started pushing me and then
00:35:55
oh it was and then it was terrible
00:35:58
actually I tried to get the four chord
00:35:59
attendant to after about 20 min parts of
00:36:01
the sky keeping on you just keep going
00:36:03
going
00:36:04
then said the forklifting would you mind
00:36:06
kind of calling place I couldn't work
00:36:07
out how I was going to get out and in
00:36:10
the end that's terrifying it was quite
00:36:12
scary yeah yeah I grabbed myself a I
00:36:15
remember a bottle of v and I thought
00:36:16
most days the V used to come in bottles
00:36:18
and I thought I bet I while he was
00:36:20
getting tucking into me I and yelling at
00:36:23
me I I grabbed I managed to get to the
00:36:26
you know with him and toe I went to the
00:36:28
to the fridge and Grandma's have a
00:36:29
bottle of v and I remember thinking and
00:36:31
bought it and I remember thinking if
00:36:33
things go bad this is going to be my
00:36:35
weapon I'm going to need something yeah
00:36:36
it was pretty the guy was quite intense
00:36:38
he was really sweaty
00:36:40
and he had a craziness in his eye that
00:36:43
was pretty full-on definitely hadn't
00:36:45
processed his um sexuality yet well I
00:36:48
know I know if he look he might be
00:36:49
listening and I don't know
00:36:51
I don't protest that much there's got to
00:36:54
be some some underlying I think there
00:36:56
was a bit of glass barbecue right yeah I
00:36:59
and I was kind of told later on that
00:37:00
there was that he was definitely a glass
00:37:02
party Enthusiast a well-known glasses in
00:37:04
other words he he was big into the into
00:37:06
the mid amphetamine it's what I don't
00:37:08
understand it's like um methamphetamine
00:37:09
is going to keep you awake if you're in
00:37:10
a place like Gore it wouldn't weed you
00:37:13
know what I mean weed would make more
00:37:14
sense so you know you have a nice
00:37:16
pleasant sleep anything you want to do
00:37:17
in Google you can do in a day you don't
00:37:19
need to stay awake for days on end to
00:37:20
get it done yeah that's that's true I
00:37:22
mean you think maybe you'd go down the
00:37:24
hallucinogen Road or something that
00:37:26
makes a little bit different I I think
00:37:27
as well it's true though it's massively
00:37:29
prevalent particularly through Southland
00:37:31
and I think it's just an escape and it's
00:37:34
everybody's looking to escape in one way
00:37:36
or another we might do it through
00:37:37
running we might do it through anything
00:37:39
and there might be some alcohol or
00:37:41
something and I think for a lot of
00:37:43
people that's the only drug that they
00:37:44
have access to because it's everywhere
00:37:46
yeah I mean it's a terrifying idea that
00:37:49
you've been sitting inside a house and
00:37:50
just smoking it
00:37:52
[Music]
00:37:53
awful yeah
00:37:56
so then after after the Heather can use
00:37:58
with stuff do you still get people
00:37:59
yelling out Newsboys
00:38:01
yeah yeah it's kind of weird I used to
00:38:03
get a lot of Newsboys where's Havoc
00:38:05
now I just people just ask me where
00:38:08
Hillary is now it's quite interesting
00:38:09
there's always someone that someone's
00:38:10
asking me where's someone else is yeah
00:38:12
but yeah that sort of
00:38:15
um occasionally occasionally you'll hear
00:38:17
a Newsboy and that's it's always I was
00:38:20
at that places that person I'm like okay
00:38:23
that person's that person's been around
00:38:25
for a while a certain age yeah yeah
00:38:26
after that you did um a series of
00:38:28
fantastic TV shows like eating media
00:38:30
lunch what were the other ones there's
00:38:31
any media lunch uh the unauthorized
00:38:34
history of New Zealand which we did four
00:38:36
series of that which is like a
00:38:37
historical s both are you concerned
00:38:40
about um someone dredging up any old
00:38:42
clips and you've been canceled at some
00:38:44
point or I think there's been some
00:38:45
attempts at that already yeah and and
00:38:47
people are gonna try and do that sort of
00:38:49
thing I'm no I'm at peace with what I've
00:38:52
done
00:38:52
and
00:38:54
seriously you're gonna I mean you're
00:38:56
gonna get something that someone's done
00:38:57
from 20 years ago and it does seem mean
00:38:59
it was fine at the time then that's
00:39:02
maybe where it should remain I I feel
00:39:04
like that's the case
00:39:06
um especially when you're dealing in the
00:39:07
realm of satire or comedy or parody
00:39:10
but the other thing is that I was in it
00:39:12
right but you never know like
00:39:14
other people
00:39:16
wrote it other people directed it there
00:39:19
were you know when you look back on
00:39:21
these songs like there's an actor that's
00:39:23
a part of something do they get canceled
00:39:25
for acting in something at the time I
00:39:27
mean
00:39:28
it seems like a very unusual thing to do
00:39:31
to go back and I mean people were
00:39:33
working for whatever reason and maybe
00:39:34
maybe you needed to get money to live at
00:39:37
the time and so you had to act in a
00:39:38
particular thing and then we look at
00:39:39
that now and think well in the context
00:39:41
of 2022 that's not exactly what someone
00:39:43
will do so therefore we'll cancel that
00:39:45
person yeah I suppose they'd go for you
00:39:47
because you've got the biggest Target on
00:39:49
your back well I think that's easy
00:39:50
around cancer culture is about isn't it
00:39:52
right who can get the biggest biggest
00:39:54
scope here yeah it's like it's scalping
00:39:56
this is the craziest thing like you've
00:39:58
got a remarkable work ethic like and
00:40:00
given your family's background and stuff
00:40:02
like um I've talked about this with your
00:40:04
co-host as a good friend of mine Matt
00:40:05
Heath you you could be a real [ __ ]
00:40:07
like you could be a real dick but you're
00:40:09
one of the nicest people and uh and you
00:40:11
work bloody hard as well you do
00:40:12
something that um only a few people have
00:40:14
done you work both ends of the day like
00:40:16
Paul Holmes uh he did that for a number
00:40:18
of years breakfast radio on the evening
00:40:19
show
00:40:20
um Hoskin did it for a few years and now
00:40:22
you're up to like doing those two two
00:40:24
things for four years yeah so everybody
00:40:25
that ever does it goes crazy or sorry
00:40:28
what dies awesome do you find it
00:40:31
exhausting or are you coping okay with
00:40:32
both you manage I think I think when you
00:40:34
first start doing it certainly it's
00:40:36
quite intense and then over time it
00:40:38
actually just becomes normal and then
00:40:40
you go oh yeah I think the the hardest
00:40:42
thing is trying to get a balance and you
00:40:45
know what this is like and I think
00:40:46
everybody who's listening will
00:40:47
understand this as well I always try to
00:40:49
look for a balance and when you're
00:40:51
working
00:40:52
a lot of your life
00:40:55
hard to get the balance right
00:40:56
particularly with with kids and family
00:40:58
and I think the thing that I miss out on
00:40:59
the thing I feel worst about is
00:41:01
definitely that I'm not ever at home for
00:41:03
family meals which are actually very
00:41:05
important parts of a family oh yeah
00:41:07
you've missed both you must sound
00:41:08
breakfast and the evening meal that's
00:41:09
right and that's a big thing and this
00:41:11
week I haven't been doing TV you've just
00:41:13
been doing radio and you know the last
00:41:15
couple of days it's been great we're
00:41:17
sitting around as a family you know over
00:41:19
dinner and chatting and it's like oh
00:41:21
that's right this is actually a really
00:41:23
important time because he established
00:41:24
the culture of your family basically
00:41:26
around meals yeah that's fine and so
00:41:28
that's been
00:41:29
that's been something that I that uh
00:41:31
that I haven't been able to do
00:41:33
and uh and I don't get as much time to
00:41:36
see my friends is what I'd like to to
00:41:38
see
00:41:39
um so yeah the balance is a bit out of
00:41:41
whack in terms of how much work that I
00:41:43
do but I wouldn't say that the work of
00:41:44
this is not really works
00:41:46
it's like turning up in the morning I
00:41:48
just got to turn up and be happy you
00:41:52
know and and be and be that's a just
00:41:55
turn up with a good attitude yeah that's
00:41:57
not very hard I suppose um like what
00:41:59
separates you from um the other people
00:42:01
that we mentioned like hosking and homes
00:42:03
is um like there
00:42:05
what they did fit it in together like
00:42:07
they're both doing breakfast on YouTube
00:42:08
ZB and then both doing a carrot official
00:42:10
in the evening but the um the
00:42:11
juxtaposition between what you do in
00:42:13
terms of your radio show what you do on
00:42:15
your TV show it's almost like two
00:42:17
different Jeremy's in a way you know
00:42:19
I've heard people I've heard people
00:42:20
seduce that but to me hasn't everybody
00:42:23
got different parts of their personality
00:42:25
I mean of course depending on who you're
00:42:26
having a conversation with yeah that's
00:42:27
right and I kind of see it that way I
00:42:29
think in the morning I feel like I'm
00:42:30
having a conversation with a a different
00:42:33
group of people than I am at night and
00:42:36
both both groups are
00:42:41
have particular things to them like for
00:42:43
example the seven sharp is a very broad
00:42:46
audience Stephen sharbers there's a lot
00:42:48
of children that watch seven sharp and
00:42:50
there's a lot of very old people that
00:42:51
watch seven sharp um and uh it's a very
00:42:55
broad audience so you've got to be
00:42:56
you've got to be Broad and you're being
00:42:58
invited and it's different radio is
00:43:00
different than TV when you invite it
00:43:02
into someone's living room you're a
00:43:04
guest at their house when you're invited
00:43:07
into someone's car you're not a guest in
00:43:10
their car it's a completely different
00:43:12
thing you can get away with saying
00:43:13
things and doing things on radio that
00:43:15
you can't do on television and the other
00:43:16
things that you've got you know people
00:43:18
it's dinner time it's yeah it's
00:43:20
completely different thing so it's kind
00:43:22
of like the the version that I that I
00:43:24
take seven sharp is the same thing that
00:43:26
I the same person that I am for my
00:43:27
parents and grandparents and and more
00:43:30
elderly people and children that I speak
00:43:32
to and yet I think in the in the morning
00:43:35
on the radio
00:43:36
I just kind of am speaking probably to
00:43:39
more my people my age my friends that
00:43:42
makes that makes perfect sense and um
00:43:44
both of them are authentic versions of
00:43:45
yourself but it's just changing your
00:43:47
language for different audiences
00:43:48
definitely and some people might say
00:43:50
well I am just this and but I mean I I
00:43:52
don't know that many people who are like
00:43:53
that I think most people are reasonably
00:43:56
multi-faceted and and I kind of feel
00:43:58
like that also radio as you know is so
00:44:01
different than TV radio is
00:44:03
uh I mean the fact that they are just so
00:44:06
different the type of the part of your
00:44:07
brain that you use for radio is not the
00:44:09
part of the brain that you use for
00:44:10
television it's a completely different
00:44:12
part of your brain yeah you guys you
00:44:14
guys do a very good shot it's a very
00:44:16
enjoyable show the Madden Jerry Show on
00:44:18
radio how to get some fantastic show
00:44:19
doesn't doesn't rate that well no no
00:44:28
says uh as like a radio lifer it's
00:44:30
always sort of puzzled me because it's
00:44:31
like now I you know you would sort of
00:44:33
want to look under the Bonnet and sort
00:44:34
of like try and work out why it's not
00:44:36
getting the ratings it deserves it's a
00:44:38
very good shot why do you reckon that is
00:44:39
I don't know maybe it's the music the
00:44:41
music I don't blame the music when
00:44:44
you're on the here that's what you do uh
00:44:45
you've had huge radio success you know
00:44:48
probably more about radio than pretty
00:44:50
much anyone in New Zealand so that's a
00:44:51
that's a great compliment you and Matt
00:44:53
Heath you're quite good friends before
00:44:55
you work together and how do you find
00:44:56
that the friendships change because I've
00:44:57
sort of found people I work with you
00:44:59
sort of you see enough of them during
00:45:01
the week that you sort of don't need to
00:45:02
be friends with them outside of work so
00:45:03
much yeah we spend a lot of time
00:45:05
together because not only will we doing
00:45:06
a breakfast radio show but for a long
00:45:09
time we're also Cricket commentating
00:45:10
together
00:45:13
a very very small Caravan together but
00:45:16
but Matt is Matt is one of the most
00:45:20
interesting people that you'll ever meet
00:45:21
he's always got a line he's always he's
00:45:25
interested in everything there's nothing
00:45:27
that he's not interested in
00:45:29
and
00:45:30
as a co-host he's a fantastic person to
00:45:33
work with because you always know you
00:45:35
throw something at hum
00:45:37
and not only can he communicate what
00:45:39
he's thinking very very effectively so
00:45:42
his his filter from brain to mouth is
00:45:44
super slick much like yours actually is
00:45:48
super fast and he backs what he's going
00:45:50
to say doesn't he doesn't double think
00:45:52
things and he's so he's incredibly smart
00:45:55
so I'm I'm kind of lucky that I work
00:45:57
with a cohoshui you know when you can
00:45:58
throw something at someone and you know
00:46:00
they're going to come back yeah
00:46:00
something that's great you know that's a
00:46:04
big part of having trust in your co-host
00:46:06
is really important and also he's not
00:46:08
going to he's not going to just shut
00:46:11
something down straight away he's not
00:46:13
interested in shutting stuff down he's
00:46:14
interested in blowing things up and
00:46:16
seeing what's under and looking
00:46:17
underneath them and seeing what's
00:46:18
underneath them and those sorts of
00:46:20
people are so good to work with yeah so
00:46:23
I'm really lucky in that regard and uh
00:46:26
and I always respected his his creative
00:46:28
abilities he's got a lot of ideas Matt
00:46:30
yeah he's a great human if you were to
00:46:33
give up one of them like if you decide
00:46:34
enough is enough
00:46:36
um you know I want to have a meal at
00:46:37
home with my family well which would
00:46:39
your partner I would never want to part
00:46:41
with either yeah but I think what
00:46:43
happens is that radio is a different
00:46:45
Beast you can go for a lot longer as you
00:46:47
know on radio you can you can go for
00:46:50
years and years and years and years and
00:46:51
years and and people like that
00:46:53
familiarity in the morning
00:46:55
particularly so I think what will happen
00:46:59
oh sorry my dog my dog just found your
00:47:03
cat
00:47:04
excuse us podcast
00:47:07
we'll be right back
00:47:13
okay we're back might end up that out
00:47:16
might not I don't know I think you want
00:47:17
to probably leave then what just
00:47:18
happened there it was quite a chaotic
00:47:20
moment well yeah
00:47:22
um Mavis just sort of strolled her way
00:47:24
down and came across Kanye your dog she
00:47:26
wasn't expecting to see that yeah God
00:47:28
sorry I'm such a piece of [ __ ] come
00:47:30
around to your house bring my dog with
00:47:31
me he's very pleased with himself
00:47:34
he's probably the same size as they get
00:47:37
too yeah so one day
00:47:39
um TV and it will get to a point where
00:47:42
with that show they'll go no you can't
00:47:43
do that anymore and that's just the way
00:47:45
that it works and you'll no longer do it
00:47:47
whereas with radio there's there's
00:47:49
different radio stations that are all
00:47:51
operating at the same time it's a
00:47:53
completely different thing yeah well I
00:47:55
think I'll just let that sort of happen
00:47:56
the way that it happens and no doubt it
00:47:59
will happen a particular way I haven't
00:48:00
actually got any ideas around it would
00:48:02
certainly be nice to wake up in the
00:48:04
morning as you've found out not have to
00:48:06
get up early and and talk but at the
00:48:09
same time it's a great pleasure to talk
00:48:10
to people and I really enjoy it I enjoy
00:48:13
I enjoy the vibe in a studio when things
00:48:16
are really fizzing along and then people
00:48:18
are coming in with suggestions and it's
00:48:20
like you're kind of an idea just becomes
00:48:22
it elevates it massively and create
00:48:24
there's an energy sometimes that your
00:48:26
radio show gets in the morning yeah but
00:48:28
you've got this momentum and you feel
00:48:29
like you're going somewhere it's a job
00:48:31
like no other right when you leave that
00:48:33
studio after having a really good
00:48:34
morning and you maybe it may have one of
00:48:37
those a week two of those a week three
00:48:39
if you're real lucky but you you know
00:48:40
it's a it's just a just a incredible
00:48:43
feeling it's like we delivered today
00:48:44
yeah totally you know I think it takes a
00:48:46
certain amount of concentration for
00:48:48
three hours as well and it takes a lot
00:48:50
out of you like yeah it's mentally
00:48:52
exhausting yeah and have a look at the
00:48:55
people who have been doing it for long
00:48:56
periods of time and what it turns people
00:48:59
it changes people oh I mean you know
00:49:02
what this is like and there was a people
00:49:04
have suggested for the longest time is I
00:49:05
think all breakfast radio host syndrome
00:49:07
where people become very good at sending
00:49:10
and not so good at receiving they become
00:49:12
like a fax machine on scene and it's
00:49:14
just years in here or you start talking
00:49:16
to someone and they become if after
00:49:19
about two minutes they haven't got to
00:49:21
their point you're like you need you
00:49:22
need to get to your point and we need to
00:49:24
move on yeah that that is that is a
00:49:27
hundred percent true and that's what I'm
00:49:28
finding um new and exciting and
00:49:30
challenging about doing this podcast
00:49:31
thing it's like there's less time
00:49:33
constraints like uh we've been talking
00:49:35
for like the best part of an hour now
00:49:37
yeah and it's just you don't have to
00:49:40
you don't you don't have to interrupt
00:49:42
people and get to the next question
00:49:43
radio if you're doing a live interview
00:49:45
sometimes you have to be quite brutal
00:49:46
and rude yeah it's quite intense so your
00:49:48
TV partnership as well with Hilary Barry
00:49:50
that's a surprisingly successful
00:49:52
partnership it seemed like a Very Odd
00:49:53
Couple when you guys were teamed up
00:49:55
together
00:49:56
um but I I don't know it probably says a
00:49:57
lot about both of you actually that
00:49:58
you're able to gel and make it work yeah
00:50:01
it's um it's a very good thing you guys
00:50:03
have got going on well we get on well
00:50:05
and I was I was you know when I someone
00:50:09
came and asked me John Gillespie said
00:50:10
would you like to do this show and
00:50:12
Hillary's going to be doing it and I
00:50:13
immediately thought absolutely if I if I
00:50:16
can work with Hillary because in my
00:50:18
opinion and and this is not PR in my
00:50:21
opinion she is the best broadcaster in
00:50:23
New Zealand I I think I think Mike
00:50:25
hosking is also a great broadcaster but
00:50:28
I think Hillary
00:50:30
has a thing where people people don't
00:50:33
love Mike hosking he's a great
00:50:34
broadcaster but people people don't love
00:50:36
him
00:50:37
um people love Hillary they they love
00:50:39
her when we go places
00:50:41
when we go places together she uh people
00:50:44
come up and they hug her she really
00:50:46
connects with the audience in a way that
00:50:48
I've never seen anyone else ever connect
00:50:50
and people want to tell her about stuff
00:50:53
and they feel like she's their friend
00:50:55
she's a beautiful connection with people
00:50:56
and also on top of that she's incredibly
00:51:00
smart she knows what she's doing she's a
00:51:03
complete Pro she's a great interviewer
00:51:06
I mean and she's a love she's a great
00:51:09
person to work with she's got a great
00:51:10
work ethic
00:51:11
I mean embarrassingly good work ethic
00:51:13
actually she puts me to shame yeah she's
00:51:16
she's a pro and if something goes wrong
00:51:17
she's one of those people like she just
00:51:20
Revels in the opportunity which arises
00:51:23
when stories fall over or something's
00:51:26
not working that's when she's at her
00:51:28
best that's when you know that someone's
00:51:29
a good broadcaster when things go
00:51:31
completely because things go wrong all
00:51:32
the time and yeah never other people
00:51:34
you'd try and muck their way through it
00:51:35
like she'll just hit it head on
00:51:38
and you see how real she is she's she's
00:51:41
she's a fantastic person I've learned a
00:51:43
lot working with her
00:51:45
yeah and it's nice to see
00:51:47
um see sort of more of her she was on TV
00:51:50
three and then but she was she was just
00:51:52
a news reader though wasn't she yeah she
00:51:54
was just she was just 10 years I mean
00:51:55
you don't really connect with the news
00:51:56
reader because they're just reading the
00:51:58
news so it's been um nice to see more of
00:52:00
her her personality yeah well she was on
00:52:02
more FM as well for the longest time
00:52:04
that's right with Kevin Corbett yeah and
00:52:06
and before that she actually started in
00:52:08
radio and the other great thing about
00:52:10
her is she's a very giving kind
00:52:12
thoughtful person I mean you can't fault
00:52:14
her actually as a person and and she
00:52:16
where we went right in terms of our
00:52:19
combination was that we uh we both were
00:52:22
focused on making sure that that
00:52:24
relationship on air was good and that
00:52:27
the chemistry was right and both of us
00:52:29
were focused on that and she doesn't
00:52:31
have an ego and I like to think that I
00:52:33
don't have an ego and then you've got
00:52:34
two people that are working and trying
00:52:36
to work on our chemistry together and
00:52:37
you don't have an ego things generally
00:52:39
go quite well for you I've found and
00:52:41
we're both focused on that from the
00:52:42
start it wasn't like who's going to be
00:52:43
the boss who's going to decide to tell
00:52:45
anyone to do what it wasn't like that
00:52:46
yeah
00:52:47
and yeah now I I when we're sitting
00:52:51
there together we might have an idea of
00:52:53
what we're going to say coming out of
00:52:54
the story but I
00:52:56
she'll say something and I'll
00:52:57
immediately kind of feel I know the
00:52:59
rhythm of which she's going to go and
00:53:00
she's she has a beautiful predictable
00:53:02
Rhythm to it it takes it takes a while
00:53:03
to get the array with a co-host it
00:53:05
totally does yeah it totally does and
00:53:07
you get exposed very quickly on
00:53:08
television because you're giving off
00:53:10
little signals with your body language
00:53:12
and you through your eyes and through
00:53:14
tiny pauses and facial expressions that
00:53:17
you can't necessarily detect on radio
00:53:18
but on TV very exposed visually well
00:53:22
you've done pretty well at both haven't
00:53:23
you you've I feel like you're at the top
00:53:25
of your game and both mediums at the
00:53:26
moment I think I've been lucky because
00:53:28
I'm I'm blessed with a limited amount of
00:53:30
talent but I think I've been lucky
00:53:32
because I I've I found myself and I
00:53:34
actually think like I've been lucky with
00:53:36
my hope with people that I've worked
00:53:38
with I'd never worked by myself and I
00:53:40
don't ever want to work with myself oh
00:53:42
that's a very good I like the thing I'm
00:53:44
a team person yeah in my heart so I want
00:53:46
it to work I will long may continue I
00:53:49
feel like it's a combination of um I
00:53:51
mean you're being very humble but a
00:53:52
combination of like just hard work and
00:53:54
being nice as well it's amazing how far
00:53:56
you can get it it's not a lot of hard
00:53:57
work
00:53:58
well I mean yeah hard work with them you
00:54:02
talk to people who work with me you
00:54:03
realize I'm not a lot of Hardware I
00:54:04
don't know
00:54:05
working harder than other people
00:54:07
necessarily in the same industry being
00:54:09
tuning up yeah yeah
00:54:12
um I have taken up enough of your time
00:54:14
we're just in with some quick fire
00:54:15
running questions and then I'll um I'll
00:54:16
leave you to it okay what do you listen
00:54:18
to when you run I know you said uh on
00:54:19
today's run you're nothing nothing today
00:54:21
normally music uh normally my Spotify
00:54:24
discover weekly which always throws them
00:54:26
into seeing things up at me and uh and
00:54:29
this year or last year has been a lot
00:54:31
about disco so really a huge like 70s
00:54:35
disco 70s early 80s Sister Sledge
00:54:38
um just yeah it's somehow got going on
00:54:41
Disco and then my Discovery Weekly's
00:54:44
realized that I just love it obviously I
00:54:46
find disco good good to run to
00:54:48
what's your favorite place to run
00:54:51
favorite place to run Urban environments
00:54:54
uh and or and or
00:54:57
um by the Sea right yeah oh we're
00:55:00
blessed around here aren't we there's so
00:55:03
many yeah I I see you often on the um on
00:55:05
the Boardwalk by uh Westhaven Marina
00:55:07
under the Auckland Harbor Bridge love
00:55:08
the West Haven Boardwalk what's your
00:55:10
favorite shoe what do you normally
00:55:11
running I've got I operate three
00:55:14
different shoes
00:55:16
um at any given time because I found
00:55:17
that we're in the same shoe all the time
00:55:19
gives you injuries so I've got a pair of
00:55:21
New Balance I've got a pair of uh Adidas
00:55:25
and I've got a pair of those ones that
00:55:29
you've got they're called hookers hocus
00:55:31
hookers oh my God but the hokers are not
00:55:33
working for the hookers I think gave me
00:55:35
a calf injury they just went right for
00:55:37
my terrible running style or a shuffle
00:55:39
I've got a terrible Shuffle it's odd
00:55:41
because it's um I got given a pair of
00:55:43
hookers for free before that I hadn't uh
00:55:45
where's your family off I don't know
00:55:46
where are you going let me just
00:55:50
kids are going to playbacks sorry about
00:55:52
that oh nice nice
00:55:54
um oh that's a shame about the hokers
00:55:55
yeah I've never heard of focus and they
00:55:57
sent me a free pair and then um I was
00:55:59
like wow this is a game changer it's
00:56:00
like the most supportive shoe there is
00:56:02
and then you go to like a an
00:56:03
International Marathon like in New York
00:56:05
or London or whatever and where there's
00:56:06
a lot of um sort of middle-aged Runners
00:56:08
and you you see them everywhere does
00:56:10
that three of them yeah okay so do you
00:56:11
always wear those now yeah I love
00:56:13
hookers yeah so much so much support
00:56:14
which um I think is important when you
00:56:16
get a bit older yeah but uh if they're
00:56:17
not working I mean you just gotta go
00:56:19
with what's working for you though
00:56:20
you've got to go with what's working for
00:56:21
you when I look down at them I feel like
00:56:23
it makes me look like I've got a club
00:56:24
foot but I mean I don't know
00:56:29
um do you prefer to run a low loner with
00:56:31
other people always alone yeah yeah
00:56:32
don't like running with people yeah yeah
00:56:34
likewise actually I mean there is um
00:56:36
there is a real good sense of community
00:56:37
if if that's what you're into and you
00:56:39
want to meet people through running but
00:56:40
yeah as we were talking about before I
00:56:42
find it's a good time to break over
00:56:44
those coals well that way I can decide
00:56:45
the run that I'm gonna do I can decide
00:56:47
the pace that I'm going to do it at and
00:56:49
for me that's that's kind of what it's
00:56:50
about out otherwise I mean I have run
00:56:51
with people and enjoyed it but I don't
00:56:53
really have people I run in the middle
00:56:55
of it well I run about 10 or 11 in the
00:56:57
morning and there's nobody ever seems to
00:56:58
be at work at that time so I'm kind of
00:57:00
have to run by myself anyway yeah the
00:57:01
problem with running with anyone else I
00:57:02
think is that um someone's always going
00:57:03
to be running fast than what they want
00:57:05
to and someone's going to be running
00:57:06
slower than what they want you generally
00:57:07
do you prefer um summer or winter hot or
00:57:09
cold for running uh definitely winter
00:57:11
yeah yeah 100 I I'm not a big fan of
00:57:15
running and especially in Auckland and
00:57:17
summer like yesterday I went for a run
00:57:19
it was about 12 o'clock by the time I
00:57:20
started running it's like humidity isn't
00:57:23
so it's a tough time to run at the
00:57:24
moment actually what's the worst injury
00:57:26
you've had uh I've had a weird knee
00:57:28
injury that that's kind of lingers
00:57:30
around I don't even know quite what it
00:57:32
is but it's disappeared at the moment
00:57:34
generally when I change shows it sort of
00:57:36
disappears but sometimes I just run
00:57:38
through it for a while though I just had
00:57:39
a shockingly painful knee and then I had
00:57:42
a calf injury recently but apart from
00:57:44
that I haven't really had a lot of
00:57:45
injuries you've been lucky yeah I feel
00:57:47
like um I feel like a lot of it's got to
00:57:48
do with um genetics like a lot of people
00:57:50
will say to you if you run you know your
00:57:52
knees are definitely going to blow out
00:57:53
or your hips going to blow out but in my
00:57:55
experience not necessarily yeah well
00:57:57
where's the science I'm running now
00:57:58
because it's always sort of flips around
00:57:59
people say a lot of the time it gives
00:58:01
you arthritis I was reading something
00:58:03
the other day and it was saying no it
00:58:04
definitely does not give you arthritis
00:58:06
in fact
00:58:07
you're less likely to have arthritis if
00:58:10
you run because you're using your joints
00:58:12
more in your but I guess there's
00:58:13
different types of running there's
00:58:15
there's very very long distance running
00:58:16
which is very hard on the body and
00:58:19
there's you know shorter distances and
00:58:21
there's running too much I I think as I
00:58:23
said earlier on I just think the main
00:58:24
thing is that you've got to listen to
00:58:25
your body and when something's not quite
00:58:28
going right or you're in a bit of pain I
00:58:29
think at that point just take it easy
00:58:31
yeah oh yeah there's absolutely nothing
00:58:33
wrong with rest days no nothing wrong
00:58:35
with it you've got to give the body time
00:58:36
to recover no well Matt Heath of course
00:58:38
made that um rule with himself in 2020
00:58:41
2020 I think it was where he ran every
00:58:44
single day for the entire year what like
00:58:46
what's what's her distance do you have a
00:58:48
minimum like 5K a day right yeah at
00:58:49
least five k's and one day we'd been up
00:58:52
for like we had like two hours sleep but
00:58:54
he's still doing his 5K run he came back
00:58:56
looking like a cadaver it was just
00:58:57
horrific
00:58:58
to someone that's so smart he he is
00:59:01
capable of doing some dumb [ __ ] is me
00:59:05
and run as high as the real or a myth
00:59:09
uh I think it's real yeah I think it's
00:59:11
real I always feel better after I've
00:59:13
been for a run I don't know what's going
00:59:15
on in there but I there's nothing for me
00:59:18
better than when you're fit you know
00:59:19
when you're fit yeah and um and and you
00:59:23
and everything feels good you've eaten
00:59:25
the right food that I before by mistake
00:59:27
or whatever and then that day uh you're
00:59:30
running and you're running along and
00:59:31
you're running along the flat and you're
00:59:34
not puffing that for me is a great
00:59:36
feeling because I just feel so good on
00:59:38
those situations yeah you know when
00:59:40
you're properly fit uh normally it takes
00:59:43
a while to get to that point and
00:59:44
normally I've pushed myself a little bit
00:59:46
and say maybe the two weeks before then
00:59:48
and then just pulled back a little bit
00:59:50
but just lovely when you're running and
00:59:52
and not puffing and it feels effortless
00:59:54
yeah yeah you have days like that not
00:59:55
always sometimes sometimes it feels hard
00:59:57
but um yeah I I agree and just the
00:59:59
feeling you get when you're in the
01:00:00
shower afterwards just for a couple of
01:00:01
hours after a run you just feel amazing
01:00:03
right yeah do you shower after you run
01:00:04
do you tend to yeah straight after yeah
01:00:08
which culture no no warmish what do you
01:00:13
mean sweat for the rest of the day what
01:00:14
are you doing
01:00:16
well when do you shower after you run
01:00:17
well I'm always cold right right I go
01:00:20
for the plunge pool right particularly
01:00:22
good in winter
01:00:23
and then just kind of knocks the sweat
01:00:25
off right
01:00:26
um and then I'll have a shower later on
01:00:28
but if I shower after the thing I just
01:00:29
start sweating even more right maybe
01:00:31
that's why you've gone through two
01:00:33
T-shirts
01:00:36
it is a very clammy day there's so it's
01:00:39
dried up well actually that was that a
01:00:41
is that a running just a just a
01:00:43
Lululemon all right um Jeremy you're one
01:00:46
of the nicest guys ever I can't imagine
01:00:48
you ever ever being a dick to anyone oh
01:00:50
thank you that's a that's a very nice
01:00:52
thing that's embarrassing for me but
01:00:54
that's a very that's a really nice thing
01:00:56
to say yeah and uh you deserve all the
01:00:58
success that you're experiencing at the
01:00:59
moment and long mat continue oh thank
01:01:01
you very much might be over tomorrow
01:01:02
always waiting to be canceled foreign
01:01:08
hope you enjoyed that thank you very
01:01:10
much for joining us for another episode
01:01:12
of Runners only with dom Harvey thank
01:01:14
you very much for trying up and disaster
01:01:16
for jumping on board and sponsoring this
01:01:18
podcast we'll see you guys again soon
01:01:19
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01:01:22
gmail.com or on Instagram Don Harvey NZ
01:01:25
thanks guys

Podspun Insights

In this episode of Runners Only, Dom Harvey welcomes the charismatic Jeremy Wells, a fixture in New Zealand media known for his candidness and humor. The conversation kicks off with a delightful exploration of Jeremy's running journey, revealing how he transitioned from a reluctant school runner to a passionate daily jogger. With a knee brace hinting at his struggles, Jeremy shares the ups and downs of his running routine, emphasizing the mental clarity it brings him.

As they delve deeper, the duo navigates through Jeremy's rich history in the media, from his early days as Newsboy on Havoc to his current role on Seven Sharp alongside Hilary Barry. Their chemistry is palpable, and Jeremy's anecdotes about his past—filled with both triumphs and missteps—paint a vivid picture of his growth. The conversation takes a reflective turn as they discuss the impact of family, personal challenges, and the importance of maintaining balance in life.

Listeners are treated to Jeremy's insights on mental health, the significance of exercise, and the joys of running solo. The episode is sprinkled with laughter, candid confessions, and a few chaotic moments, including a surprise appearance from Dom's dog, adding a light-hearted touch to the conversation. Overall, this episode is a heartfelt exploration of running, personal growth, and the beauty of authentic connections.

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Episode Highlights

  • Candid Conversations with Jeremy Wells
    Jeremy Wells shares his journey in media and running, emphasizing honesty and openness.
    “Nothing off limits and actually, uh, when I got to the end of the chat...”
    @ 00m 50s
    October 15, 2022
  • Running for Mental Health
    Jeremy discusses how running helps him maintain mental clarity and positivity.
    “I’ve always found that because oftentimes a part of my problems seem to be my own making.”
    @ 09m 49s
    October 15, 2022
  • Reflections on a Tumultuous Youth
    Jeremy reflects on his teenage years and the impact of his parents' decisions.
    “I think I’d have to don’t hate hopefully they don’t hear this because that will really upset them.”
    @ 16m 45s
    October 15, 2022
  • A Turning Point
    The speaker contemplates the impact of their actions and the shame that followed.
    “I felt deep shame and the ultimate vulnerability.”
    @ 23m 06s
    October 15, 2022
  • Expulsion from School
    Facing the consequences of a poor decision, the speaker reflects on being expelled from school.
    “I never thought I'd be expelled from school.”
    @ 24m 29s
    October 15, 2022
  • Innovative Television
    The speaker recalls the groundbreaking work done with Mikey Havoc in television.
    “The stuff you were doing was just so innovative.”
    @ 30m 36s
    October 15, 2022
  • Challenges of Being Gay in the 90s
    Reflecting on the difficulties faced by the LGBTQ+ community in Southland during the 90s.
    “Good luck being gay in Southland.”
    @ 34m 09s
    October 15, 2022
  • A Scary Encounter in Gore
    Describing a tense and frightening confrontation in a small town.
    “It was quite scary.”
    @ 36m 12s
    October 15, 2022
  • The Importance of Family Meals
    Discussing the significance of family dinners and the struggle to balance work and family life.
    “I always try to look for a balance.”
    @ 40m 45s
    October 15, 2022
  • The Unique Experience of Radio
    Exploring the distinct nature of radio work compared to other media.
    “It’s a job like no other.”
    @ 48m 31s
    October 15, 2022
  • The Importance of Teamwork
    He emphasizes the value of collaboration and humility in broadcasting.
    “I want it to work; I’m a team person at heart.”
    @ 53m 42s
    October 15, 2022
  • The Joy of Running
    He shares the uplifting feeling that comes after a good run.
    “I always feel better after I've been for a run.”
    @ 59m 11s
    October 15, 2022

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Key Moments

  • Meet Jeremy Wells00:09
  • Mental Health Insights09:22
  • Family Background10:45
  • Shame and Vulnerability23:06
  • Expulsion23:28
  • Innovative TV30:36
  • Radio Experience48:31
  • Rest and Recovery58:31

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Matt Fenn on his 654km continuous run! || Runners Only! Podcast with Dom Harvey
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Nick Ashill on surviving a hit-and-run accident || Runners Only! Podcast with Dom Harvey
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Matthew Ridge shares awkward story about how he met his wife | Runners Only! Podcast with Dom Harvey
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Zoe McBride on how one decision crushed two dreams. || Runners Only! Podcast with Dom Harvey
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Sophie Devine discusses mental breakdown on the cricket pitch | Runners Only! Podcast wth Dom Harvey
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Zac Guildford sold his commonwealth games medal for gambling money! || Runners Only! with Dom Harvey
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Josh Koman talks about beating cancer twice! || Runners Only! Podcast with Dom Harvey
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Mitch James discusses mental health and suicide || Runners Only! Podcast with Dom Harvey