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I couldn't stay pregnant and so like that's quite traumatizing you know we
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went for over 20 weeks with our first baby that was still born and that was really difficult right I think the
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problematic thing was after that that the clinicians or the doctors at that point kind of said oh well look
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lightning doesn't strike twice you should just go again there's nothing wrong with you and then we had a similar
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experience the next year losing another baby at 17 weeks and I lost the the girls within a day of each other so the
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year prior on like June 24th I'd found out that we lost the baby and on June
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23rd the next year I lost the second baby and that was the emotionally, physically, you know, for everyone it
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was really hard, right? You know, 11 years ago, James gave me this gorgeous little outfit for our baby girl that we
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knew we were expecting and then, you know, 8 weeks later we lost her. And so, you just don't know what people's
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journeys look like, right? You just have no clue. And you can't assume just because they kind of have everything
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that they've ever wanted that they can't empathize with you because in fact, many
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people can, right?
