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Growth Mindsets to Afford Anything | Paula Pant - E75

February 28, 2024 / 52:39

This episode features Paula Pant, host of the Afford Anything podcast, discussing personal finance, real estate investing, and growth mindset. Jesse Kramer and Paula cover her journey in personal finance, her real estate investments, and the importance of mindset in achieving financial goals.

Paula shares her background, including her transition from a newspaper reporter to a successful entrepreneur. She emphasizes the concept that "you can afford anything, but you can't afford everything," highlighting the importance of opportunity cost in personal finance decisions.

They discuss Paula's real estate portfolio, which includes seven rental units across Georgia, Indiana, and Nevada. She explains her investment strategy, focusing on properties with healthy cap rates and the significance of location in real estate investing.

The conversation also touches on the idea of 10x thinking, encouraging listeners to focus on increasing income rather than just saving money. Paula shares her experiences and insights on how to adopt a growth mindset and seize opportunities.

Listeners are encouraged to check out the Afford Anything podcast for more insights on financial independence and investing.

TL;DR

Paula Pant discusses personal finance, real estate investing, and adopting a growth mindset in this episode with Jesse Kramer.

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welcome to the best interest podcast
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where we believe Benjamin Franklin's
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advice that an investment in knowledge
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pays the best interest both in finances
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and in your life every episode teaches
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you personal finance and investing in
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simple terms now here's your host Jesse
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Kramer hello everybody and welcome to
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episode 75 of the best interest podcast
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my name is Jesse Kramer today I'll be
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joined by Paula pant Paula is the host
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of the afford anything podcast we have a
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really fun conversation not only talking
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about some of Paula's personal finance
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background and and how she started
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afford anything and built it into the
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empire for lack of a better term that it
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is today but also we talk about some of
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Paula's real estate investing because
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she owns seven real estate properties as
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we'll get into or seven doors I should
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say and she has a lot of cool things to
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say about real estate and we also talk a
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little bit about mindset in in a couple
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interesting ways growth mindset or just
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you know the willingness to take on
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challenge in the world and go through
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some struggle and build something new
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and unique for yourself which Paula has
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done an amazing job with first we're
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going to start with a little review of
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we're going to talk a little bit about
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some Minds ideas I'm not talking like
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Guru woo woo uh you know kind of
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fanciful ideas but just kind of helpful
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thoughts at least some things that have
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helped me along the way and I'm going to
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start with a classic friend of the blog
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friend of the podcast Tyler Tyler you
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know who you are I hope you're listening
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right now this story starts in August of
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2021 when Tyler broke his hand on his
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birthday no less H what a bummer sorry
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Ty I know that was a tough time for you
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because sure there was the the physical
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pain of a broken bone B and and that's
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certainly not fun but I know Tyler also
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felt the mental frustration of knowing
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that I slipped I fell I took the wrong
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step this wasn't some unavoidable
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external mistake this was a
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self-inflicted wound self-inflicted
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wounds are a double bummer and and
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bummer one is the wound itself but that
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physical pain is compounded by the
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knowledge that you did it to yourself
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and that really is bummer number two
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it's the knowledge that the injury was
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avoidable and the knowledge that your
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own mistake WIll Cascade into weeks or
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months or years of negative consequences
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but I want to convince you that bummer
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number two has very little utility in
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our lives you can't go back in time to
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undo the mistake Tyler can't Unbreak his
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hand so what is the real use of feeling
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that ongoing regret I think the smart
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emotional response is not prolonged but
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brief it's to realize your mistake to
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learn the lesson to commit to changing
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diffus your behavior which I think is
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very important and then to move on
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because in finances there are a lot of
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self-inflicted financial flaws for
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example we spend money on stupid stuff
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that we later regret or we borrow too
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much money we go into too much debt for
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our houses for our cars or maybe for our
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college education or we invest too
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little money early in life we start
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investing a little too late in life now
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the obvious consequences appear on our
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balance sheets and in our bank accounts
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we don't have as much money as we hoped
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we would the secondary consequence
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though it haunts our thoughts right if
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only I bought Bitcoin in 2012 I could
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buy four jet skis like the Jones family
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down the street but just like with
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Tyler's broken hand those if only
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regrets they really don't have much use
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in our lives they're only worthwhile if
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they help you learn for next time and
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that's great if they do help you learn
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for next time that's a wonderful reason
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to have a regret but beyond that it's
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uselessly crying over spilled milk so my
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go-to overspending story as an example
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is that I bought a hot tub in 2017 I
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overspent and then I underutilized it
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but it helped me learn some amazing
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lessons so the first one I have a
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psychological weak spot for a good sales
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pitch and you might too I think most of
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us think that we're immune to sales or
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we think no no I'm I'm not going to fall
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for that sales pitch but until you
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understand the way that sales people
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work the fact of the matter is you might
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fall for a sales pitch and for example I
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found the book influence by Robert
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calini I'm looking at it right now in my
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book
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it was extremely helpful because it
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allowed me to recognize sales pitches
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more readily another thing when it came
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to the hot tub I learned a lesson that
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it's important to find the root of your
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desire so it turns out I thought hot
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tubs were so much fun because in my
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limited experience with them it always
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involved groups of friends it involved
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you know that fun weekend getaway in the
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atar around deck mountains with a kind
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of a cabin in the woods and a hot tub
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see it it wasn't the hot tub itself that
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was so fun it was the friends it was the
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weekend getaway and you don't
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necessarily need a hot tub just to hang
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out with friends and I also learned that
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good deals are always out there I bought
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what ended up being called it the
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Mercedes of hot tubs and I probably
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should have just gone with a used Honda
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maybe a new Honda but either way a Honda
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over a Mercedes I don't regret
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necessarily buying the hot tub but I
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learned some valuable lessons from that
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experience now another self-inflicted
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wound that many of us have suffered is
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over borrowing if only I knew at age 18
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what I now know at age 24 or 28 or 32 I
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never would have borrowed that $100,000
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for college I see this sentiment a lot
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it's a really tough pill to swallow a
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lot of the millennial generation are
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dealing with these thoughts and now I
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suppose what gen Z they're after
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Millennials they're starting to deal
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with it too the desire to change past
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decisions is so strong but the ability
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to change those past decisions is
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non-existent and if you let it that kind
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of frustration can consume you so what
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can you do about it a few ideas well the
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first one obviously hopefully is to
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never make that same mistake again right
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we have to learn from our mistakes the
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first time the second one is to help
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others avoid the same mistake in the
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future I think that's a powerful way of
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of learning from our stakes and then the
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third is to find an optimal path out of
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the woods so if you find yourself in
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debt maybe you don't take joy and you
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know or you just don't want to put
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yourself out there and help others avoid
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the same mistake I totally get that I
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think it behooves you to find an optimal
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path Out of the Woods for you right you
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you can't change the paths but you can
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find the quickest way to to get out of
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the mess that you find yourself in so we
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learn from the past and we lean into the
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future the last one too little too late
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the regret of an action so now that we
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are what we are 14 years into an amazing
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bull market stock run okay maybe we had
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a little blip there in 2022 that's fine
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but either way the last 15 years overall
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since the great financial crisis have
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been a wonderful time to be a stock
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investor and I read a lot of comments
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like bam I missed my chance to invest
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and that means either one I'll never get
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another chance to invest again or two I
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should wait for the market to fall
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before pulling the trigger and investing
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now this thought process is very easy to
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empathize with but thankfully it's also
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easy to refute for evidence I highly
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recommend you read two articles that
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I've written on the blog the first one
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is called are we in the best stock
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market period ever and the second one is
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called should you keep investing at
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all-time highs the current stock market
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is not a reason to feel like you
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shouldn't be investing and again those
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two articles are in the show notes now
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the last thing I want to leave you with
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from this first kind of stanza of the
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monologue is self-inflicted growth
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because I want to leave you with this
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question what are all the things you've
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done right in your life it's easy to
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focus on the negatives in life many of
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us are maybe perfectionists or at the
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very least we we seek growth we seek
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Improvement our mistakes those are loow
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hanging fruit right for the fixing right
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it's easy to see the broken hand and say
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I messed up stop I want to improve that
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does it do us good to focus on the bad
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stuff a 100 times more than we focus on
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the good stuff I doubt it so next time
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you're wallowing in self-inflicted guilt
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remind yourself of the amazing
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contributions that you've made to your
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world to your financial life etc etc etc
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and take heart in the fact that you're
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making strides to be ever better okay
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let's transition to Travis Scott's
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important investing reminder now Travis
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Scott I'm told is a a rapper I used to
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be into full disclosure when I was maybe
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12 13 14 High School age I enjoyed rap
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there was some Jay-Z fabulous I still
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know the lyrics to a lot of rap songs
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Eminem all all fine good artists
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talented people Travis Scott and some of
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the new age hip-hop and rap stars I I
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don't really know them I don't really
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know their music but anyway Travis Scott
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is a a more modern rapper and he has an
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important investing reminder for us and
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this story starts uh November 5th 2021
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where sadly there was a crowd surge at a
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Travis Scott concert in Houston that I
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think in retrospect a lot of people
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ended up blaming Travis Scott for and it
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sounds like he was probably guilty
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that's neither here nor there I'll let
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you guys do your own research if you
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want but the sad thing is the crowd got
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out of control and people panicked and
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some people died and it's a terrible
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terrible way to die and more importantly
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for the the topic today is that it's a
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preventable way to die and I say it's
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preventable because this has happened
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before crowds surges have happened
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before not once not twice but hundreds
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of times for example the Romans and the
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Jews infamously suffered a deadly crowd
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trampling incident that killed hundreds
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of people and do do you know when that
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was I mean the hint is it was the Romans
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and the Jews it was thousands of years
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ago humans have known this for a very
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long time that crowds cannot control
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themselves left to their own devices
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they will over crowd they'll Panic
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Stampede and Riot and that leads to
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death Humanity knows this or at least we
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should know it right we should have
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learned this important lesson Millennia
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before Travis Scott was a glimmer in his
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papy's eye but we need reminders and
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without those reminders we repeat our
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past mistakes it gets worse you know
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it's the same for nightclub fires or or
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structure fires and I know this is a
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morbid topic but but stick with me for a
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minute and we will get to the investing
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content I swear for example the station
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fire the station was a nightclub in
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Rhode Island the station fire killed 100
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people and injured 230 more people you
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might ask yourself wow that that's
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tragedy when did that happen was it in
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the 1800s maybe the early 1900s or I
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don't know maybe it was in like the
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1950s before fire alarms that kind no it
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was in 2003 the station fire was far
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from the first awful club or structure
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fire in the United States too we've had
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fires kill more than 500 people from one
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building but at the station in 2003 they
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forgot or ignored or never even
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contemplated the lessons we've compiled
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from generations of fire safety again
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people need reminders without them we
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repeat our past mistakes now both Travis
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Scott's concert and the station fire
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both the scenarios making me want to
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grab someone by the shirt collar and
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shake them and ask them how did you not
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know better but we already know the
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answer people need reminders it's that
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simple if we don't actively choose to
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remember then we forget entropy kicks in
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we get lazy we cut Corners our safe
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systems lose their Edge and it's a
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slippery slope downwards and then
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tragedy strikes that tragedy jolts us
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and we suddenly remember oh this is why
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we had those safety measures in place
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this is the bad outcome that can occur
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tragedy or if we're lucky a mere close
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call it's a highly effective reminder of
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rationality but of course it's a tragedy
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too right we don't want to have to
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suffer a tragedy every time we need a
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reminder of how to be rational the
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Preferred Choice
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is to maintain rationality before the
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painful reminder okay so let's talk
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investing there's a direct analogy
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between the Panic of a crowd and the
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Panic of an investing Market every
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investing bubble in history is marked by
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the fact that rationality was forgotten
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Common Sense became uncommon and past
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lessons were ignored in fact the
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language of Market irrationality is the
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same language of crowd irrationality
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what's a synonym for a market crash
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it's a panic well how do you describe a
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panic selling event it's like a large
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movie theater with a small door that
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sounds like a fire trap to me and in
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fact the most famous book about
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investing bubbles is called
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extraordinary popular delusions and The
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Madness of crowds That's right The
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Madness of crowds the psychology of
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markets is eerily analogous to that of
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physical crowds the highs can be
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similarly euphoric right we're all One
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Soul Man the music is flowing through me
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but the lows can be similarly
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destructive and just like a fire or
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crowd surge a market crash helps us
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remember that people need reminders and
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without them we'll repeat our past
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mistakes so when I wrote this article it
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brought me to Charlie Munger you know
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the Bitcoin Grinch himself love Charlie
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Munger more rationality more often that
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is the best preventative for avoiding
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crashes of all sorts and if I had to
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guess that's exactly why Charlie Munger
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says that cryptocurrency is disgusting
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and contrary to the interests of
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civilization those are exact quotes one
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of my favorites ones right there
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contrary to the interests of
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civilization it's because Charlie Munger
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saw crypto as a bubble and a bubble is
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kind of equivalent to Travis Scott's
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concert before the tragedy struck it's a
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powder keg waiting for a spark and
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Munger saw that and he didn't want to
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wait for what he thought would be a
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future Bitcoin Panet he wanted to call
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attention to it now in other words
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Charlie remembers he remembers the many
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bubbles that he's read about before and
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the few that he's seen firsthand and he
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doesn't want to forget or repeat past
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mistakes now is Charlie right was he
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right about Bitcoin about cryptocurrency
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I'm not wise enough to know myself but I
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listen hard I listen hard when a smart
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rational person says we've made mistakes
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like this before and I see one again
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Charlie was acting like a fire marshal
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right he's seen the charred remains of
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too many buildings and he's now walking
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into the Bitcoin nightclub as it were
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and calmly stating this is a fire hazard
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and a death trap period it's hard to
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know if Charlie Munger was right we
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might not know this week this month this
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year this decade it might take a long
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time to know if Charlie Munger was right
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or wrong but if he was correct and the
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risk was present then the law of large
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numbers mandates that tragedy will
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eventually strike Charlie to his credit
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is famously a student of psychology he
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knew how people tick both individually
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and in crowds and he knew that people
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need reminders and without them we
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repeat our past mistakes here's a quick
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anything podcast which has more than 30
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million downloads and is ranked by Apple
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podcasts as one of the top 50 business
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podcasts she is the founder of afford
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anything.com person finance and
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financial Independence website that
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draws more than 2.5 million annual page
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views and holds more than 78,000 email
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subscribers and you might have seen
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Paula starring in the Netflix
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documentary get smart with money on
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which she also served as a Consulting
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producer Paula thanks for stopping by
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the best interest podcast I thought we
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could start with the afford anything
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Credo I think anyone who has listened to
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you has heard the idea that you can
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afford anything but you can't afford
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everything so I wanted to start with
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that statement because I think it's just
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such a fundamental but probably
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underrated pillar of personal finance so
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where did the statement come from why
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has it really become one of your
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personal mantras sure well first uh to
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explain that Credo a little bit to
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anybody who's new to it the notion that
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you can afford any anything but not
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everything is fundamentally one of
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opportunity cost every time you say yes
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to something you are implicitly saying
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no to something else and the problem is
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a lot of people don't consciously
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recognize that I came up with afford
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anything when I was in my 20s my my mid
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20s I quit my job I was making the
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highest income that I ever made working
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for somebody else was $31,000 a year so
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I I quit a job at which I was earning a
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full-time salary of $31,000 a year and I
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lived out of a backpack and for the next
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27 months I backpacked around the globe
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I flew to Egypt on a one-way ticket and
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spent six weeks in Egypt and then I went
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to to Israel to India to Nepal to
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Thailand Lao Cambodia Vietnam Malaysia
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Singapore Indonesia and then I finished
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it off with 10 months in Australia plus
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like three weeks in New Zealand during
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that time my friend kept saying I would
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love to do that but I can't afford it I
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kept hearing that over and over and over
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I would love to travel like that but I
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can't afford it but the thing is I know
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that those friends were making
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substantially more than 31,000 a year
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many of them were making double or more
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than double that right but they were
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also living in apartments with stainless
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steel appliances they would go to bars
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on the weekends and buy $14 cocktails
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right they would buy $50 or $100 concert
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tickets and that's fine if you sit down
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and you make the conscious choice that
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hey I could either travel or I could
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have stainless steel appliances and $14
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cocktails right which one do I prefer if
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you sit down and you think about it and
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you make the deliberate conscious
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decision that you prefer the stainless
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steel appliances and the $15 and the
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expensive cocktail
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that's great I fully support that
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because that is a deliberate conscious
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choice but then the statement is not I
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can't afford to travel the statement is
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I choose not to travel I have decided
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that travel is not a priority for me
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right so it isn't that you can't it's
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that you choose not to to say that you
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can't is simply disempowering and also
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false and so that's why I started to
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afford anything is I wanted to eradicate
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the phrase I can't afford it from
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people's mouths when it comes to all
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reasonable purchases now of course there
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are like nitpicky nerds out there who
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are like can you afford a rocket ship
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you know and so afford anything is not
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an abdication of common sense right
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afford anything means that anything that
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a reasonable middle class American can
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do is something that is within your
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reach as well I I think to myself I
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think it's Jesse meechum and the wab you
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need a budget app they part of their fun
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Al rules is you know a dollar can only
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be spent once and that's that's a very
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similar thought process which is like
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you know right if you want the spend a
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dollar on that cocktail go for it but
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that dollar can no longer be allocated
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to your future trip it can no longer be
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allocated to your retirement savings and
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on the opposite end of that Spectrum you
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know we're big Savers and and the FI and
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personal finance Community are big on
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saving if you allocate dollars to your
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savings you can't then spend those
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dollars on having fun today and it
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really is about striking some sort of
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balance there and I should also add you
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know it's this applies not just to money
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it applies to any limited resource so it
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applies to time it applies to energy
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attention focus all of those are limited
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and that's something especially in the
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FI the financial Independence Community
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many people become obsessed with the
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numbers they often I think this is one
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of the pendulum swinging too far in the
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opposite direction can devalue their
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time in exchange for a rounding error
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and when that happens you are trading
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your most valuable asset which is your
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time your energy your attention that is
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a non-renewable asset money is a
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renewable asset and so afford anything
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applies to time as well it applies to
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all limited resources that that's so
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cool and and only out of curiosity do
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you have a background in in economics at
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all because the whole opportunity cost
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is a very you know very economic uh
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thought yeah I have a masters in
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economic journalism Economic and
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Business journalism M from Columbia
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University very cool very cool well
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let's segue a little bit because I'm I'm
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kind of interested so you're you're
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greatest earning year
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$331,000 you used it to afford not
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everything but anything in the in the
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form of this amazing world trip so I'd
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like to learn a little bit more about
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your personal fi or fire or just your
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personal finance Journey Paula you know
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we love good examples good stories
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everybody likes a good story so where
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did you find yourself in life before
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discovering the world of personal
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finance and what's your journey and
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growth been like so straight out of
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college I was a newspaper reporter and
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my starting salary was $21,000 a year
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now this is in 2005 so you've got to
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adjust that for inflation so actually
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you know what let's do that really
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quickly right now let's do it live yeah
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let's do it live all right so
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21,000 in
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2005 is what today okay okay ooh
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32752 got it got it so my starting
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salary was today's equivalent of earning
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32,000 a year and I worked that job for
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three years and so at the time that I
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quit that job which was in 2008 my
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ending salary was 31,000 so let's see
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$31,000 in
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$208 so $
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43,800 okay okay so modern dollars
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44,000 is 434 4,000 was your top end
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salary exactly exactly so uh during that
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time I lived on my full-time income I I
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still contributed 15% to a 401k but
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other than that I lived on and I didn't
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know unfortunately I didn't know about
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the Roth IRA um which was dumb but I
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contributed 15% to a traditional 401K
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the rest of it uh I lived on and then
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during the evenings and weekends I
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freelanced and my freelance income was
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at at an hourly rate was substantially
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higher than what I was making in my
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full-time job I would write these
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articles where I would make the
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equivalent of $75 an hour which when
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you're making a full-time salary of the
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today's equivalent of 44,000 a year and
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on the side you're making $75 an hour I
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mean huge it's huge the shortcut for
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anyone listening is you you work about
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2,000 hours a year in a standard job so
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take your salary divide it by 2,000 you
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are earning about $22 an hour
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in your salary so 22 an hour versus 75
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on the freelance side right exactly
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exactly I mean it's just like what 4ex
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difference yeah it's huge it's huge
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every penny that I made from freelancing
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after taxes I saved and so I ended up
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over the span of three years I saved on
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average about $800 a month and so after
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three years that totaled up to
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$25,000 now that for me was the
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equivalent of about onee salary cuz you
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remember during this three-year time
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span I was earning 21 on the low end 31
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on the high end so on average during
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those three years I was earning 25 Grand
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and after three years that was what I
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saved I had the equivalent of a year
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salary in the bank and so when that
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happened a couple of things so it was
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2008 it was I quit my job kind of right
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before the Great Recession really kicked
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in like there were signs that the
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economy was not doing well but we
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weren't really in the the throws of it
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quite yet but was very clear that print
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journalism was not doing well and it was
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very clear that if you just stated a
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newspaper hoping for promotions you
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gonna go nowhere fast so you saw the
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writing on the wall yes exactly exactly
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but yeah so it was clear that the future
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of Journalism was going to be online and
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it was going to be independent and so I
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did in 2008 the thing that no one ever
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does which is I voluntarily quit a job
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at a print newspaper which no one does
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because those jobs are so few and far
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between everyone was like you're
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committing career suicide you're never
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going to get a job again and sure enough
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I never have gotten a job again that
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that was the last job I ever
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had so I guess they were right you know
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I I never got a job again and so for the
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next 27 months I just backpacked you
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know I I was not trying to build a
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full-time freelance career I was just
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freelancing Moonlighting here and there
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writing an article or two but mostly I
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was in countries where the dollar
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exchange rate really worked in my favor
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you know I was in LA I was in Cambodia
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like I was in places where the US dollar
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just went a lot further so I was living
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on about ,000 dollar a month a lot of
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people think that traveling is like oh
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I'm in transit all the time like which
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is what you do if you've got 10 days of
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holiday right right when you're
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backpacking you go to one location and
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you park your butt there for five weeks
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which means you're not spending money on
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bus tickets you're not spending money on
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Transit you're like renting a guest
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house for $5 a night and you're eating
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local food you're eating pad tie for
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25s and so travel becomes a lot cheaper
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when you think of it not as a holiday
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but rather as essentially just living
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your life in a different location right
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that's how it becomes so cheap you're
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just living your life elsewhere like I
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just sat there in like read Harry Potter
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books did you take any inspiration from
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uh
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vagabonding but the book oh by R po yeah
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that's that's an oldie that's an oldie
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but goody indirectly because that's
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that's what he talks a lot about is just
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travel somewhere and then Park yourself
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preferably travel somewhere cheap and
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then Park yourself and just live life in
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this new city and and see how the locals
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live and it's a very cool way of
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approaching not only travel but just
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kind of being a global citizen exactly
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I'm a huge fan of that like long-term
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slow travel because that's the that's
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the way that you sink in cool how did
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that then so now you're probably by then
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what in your late 20s maybe when the 27
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months is up yeah exactly I was 20 with
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no job yeah exactly you're you're in
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Australia or New Zealand and and then
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what so then I came back to the US I
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moved to Atlanta because that's where my
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parents live I found uh on Craigslist it
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was five roommates sharing a
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three-bedroom so my personal share of
00:29:26
the red was $200 per month but only
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because we were cramming so many people
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into such a small space I had a car that
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was worth probably around like three
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grand you know just a super old beater
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and you know I basically ate from Costco
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and those those were my bills that in
00:29:46
health insurance right health insurance
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is probably my biggest bill but based
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with like a extremely extremely cheap
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cheap cheap cost of living I started
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eeking out at at the time a career as a
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freelance writer and eventually that
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escalated two things happened
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simultaneously one was that as my
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freelance writing clients grew and grew
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and grew and grew I came to realize that
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I was getting more work than I could
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individually handle myself and so I
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formed a Content agency and so I started
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hiring freelance writers who worked
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under me and then I managed those
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writers and I would pass the projects on
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to those writers and then my agency my
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content management agency would handle
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you know the assignments and then I
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began to realize that you could make a
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little bit of money if all you did was
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like submit an assignment but you could
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make a lot more money if you did all of
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the management of the editorial
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calendars and so I was serving clients
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these were mostly small business clients
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small businesses paid much better than
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Publications so I started working for
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these two to three person certified
00:30:58
financial planner firms or these two to
00:31:00
three person accountant firms these
00:31:03
small businesses that needed content
00:31:06
they needed real estate content in order
00:31:08
to be competitive on Google to Corner
00:31:10
SEO you know they wanted to to Really
00:31:12
Corner the SEO market for like Kansas
00:31:14
City accountant but they don't have the
00:31:16
time to do all of that writing
00:31:18
themselves nor do they have the time to
00:31:20
even just broadly like if you're
00:31:22
assigning it to writers somebody still
00:31:24
has to manage that you've got to manage
00:31:26
the editorial calendar
00:31:27
you've got to study keyword optimization
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right somebody needs to manage
00:31:31
editorially manage the project and so
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that's what my agency ended up doing we
00:31:36
became content editors and managers we
00:31:39
became a Content editing and management
00:31:41
agency so that ended up being fairly
00:31:44
lucrative and so that was how I that was
00:31:46
the first time that I began earning six
00:31:48
figures and you know as somebody who
00:31:50
used to make 31,000 a year to be
00:31:52
self-employed and earning six figures
00:31:54
was huge and so I was doing that that
00:31:57
was my full-time work and then in
00:31:59
parallel with that I was running a Ford
00:32:02
anything I started a Ford anything in
00:32:04
2011 and for the first five years or so
00:32:07
it was making some money but not a ton
00:32:11
but I knew the audience was growing
00:32:13
right the readership was growing after
00:32:16
five years I knew that if I were to give
00:32:18
it my full-time attention then this
00:32:20
could really be something and so in 2016
00:32:24
I faced this Crossroads where I was like
00:32:26
man do I continue running this
00:32:29
six-figure business that I built or do I
00:32:33
kill the business like it it it didn't
00:32:35
seem viable enough to sell you know do I
00:32:38
kill this business that I painstakingly
00:32:40
grew and instead Focus all of my effort
00:32:45
on building out my own platform right
00:32:48
afford anything and it was terrifying
00:32:52
but my thinking was a Content management
00:32:55
agency is a service-based
00:32:57
agency model business and the gross
00:33:00
margins on that tend to be rather
00:33:02
limited I felt like that could be a
00:33:05
six-figure business but I would I
00:33:07
personally would have a hard time
00:33:08
growing that to a seven fig business by
00:33:11
contrast if you're building a platform
00:33:14
if you're building a brand that's a very
00:33:17
different business model entirely that
00:33:21
can be a seven or eight figure business
00:33:23
that was around 2016 so since 2016 or or
00:33:25
so aord that thing has been 100% of your
00:33:29
time and energy maybe even 110% of your
00:33:32
time and energy exactly and you don't
00:33:35
have to share personal details with us
00:33:36
but as far as your own Financial
00:33:39
Independence journey goes I mean how has
00:33:42
afford anything helped you in that
00:33:43
regard oh I mean it's the overwhelming I
00:33:48
mean it it's my sole source of income
00:33:50
right okay and so the money that I've
00:33:53
made through first through the content
00:33:55
marketing agency that that was really
00:33:57
key and then later through afford
00:33:59
anything the money that I've made
00:34:00
through being an entrepreneur and
00:34:02
through running businesses that has
00:34:05
allowed me to aggressively invest and by
00:34:09
virtue of a increasing my income and
00:34:12
then B using that increased income to
00:34:15
aggressively make investments that's
00:34:17
what's allowed me to build my net worth
00:34:20
here's a quick ad and then we'll get
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back to the show one of the more common
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questions I hear is Jesse what do you
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like in you books blogs podcasts even
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Banks and brokerage firms what are your
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recommendations so to answer that
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question I put together a web page you
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to check out how I'm improving my
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financial life let's transition a little
00:34:49
bit into the investing Paula I know that
00:34:52
you have done and continue to do a lot
00:34:55
of real estate investing real estate
00:34:56
investing is a a regular topic on a for
00:34:59
anything and you even you have some
00:35:01
courses related to real estate investing
00:35:04
just one just one I'm sorry so one
00:35:06
course we haven't talked about real
00:35:08
estate investing a lot here before on
00:35:09
the best interest podcast so what's some
00:35:11
of your background or experience or just
00:35:14
you know where are you in the real
00:35:15
estate investing world so I have seven
00:35:18
uh rental units all paid free and clear
00:35:21
one Triplex one duplex and two single
00:35:25
family homes so yeah that's portion of
00:35:27
my portfolio do you manage them yourself
00:35:30
as like are you the the landlord who
00:35:31
someone's going to call at 10 at night
00:35:33
if the toilet's overflowing only with
00:35:35
one of them for the rest they've got
00:35:36
property managers got it what's the
00:35:38
thought process on that well number one
00:35:41
they're all out of state right I live in
00:35:43
New York City and so these and the Seven
00:35:46
units that I have are spread across
00:35:48
three different states they're spread
00:35:49
across Georgia Indiana and Nevada you
00:35:52
know I live in Manhattan Manhattan is a
00:35:54
terrible place to invest in uh rental
00:35:56
real estate
00:35:57
so I'm a big proponent of if you live in
00:35:59
a high cost of living area don't buy
00:36:01
real estate there not as an investment I
00:36:04
mean if you want to have something for
00:36:05
yourself personally I think that's still
00:36:07
a really terrible use of money but if
00:36:09
for emotional reasons you want to then
00:36:12
you know people buy things for emotional
00:36:13
reasons all the time but specifically as
00:36:16
an investment Buy in lowc cost of living
00:36:19
areas you know that's where the good
00:36:20
investment deals are because you're
00:36:22
going to be looking for properties that
00:36:24
have a healthy cap rate right and a cap
00:36:27
rate is simply a measure of the
00:36:29
unleveraged dividend or income stream
00:36:32
that a property produces so if you think
00:36:33
of it all assets whether it's index
00:36:36
funds or income properties all assets
00:36:39
make money in two ways right there is
00:36:41
appreciation which is the value of the
00:36:43
asset rising and then there's the
00:36:46
dividend or income stream that it pays
00:36:47
so a share of Coca-Cola ideally will
00:36:50
rise over time that's the appreciation
00:36:53
and that share of Coca-Cola will also
00:36:54
pay a dividend same thing with a rental
00:36:57
property that rental property will
00:37:00
ideally rise in value over time that's
00:37:02
great but that's also market-based
00:37:04
appreciation which is largely out of
00:37:06
your control I like to conservatively
00:37:08
estimate that it'll just keep Pace with
00:37:09
inflation nothing more historically it's
00:37:12
actually been around 5% so if you want
00:37:13
to say inflation plus two if you imagine
00:37:17
around 3 to 5% uh over the long term
00:37:20
that's ballpark what you can estimate
00:37:23
there now the real money comes from the
00:37:26
dividend or the income stream that that
00:37:27
property pays and so that income stream
00:37:30
is rent minus operating expenses is your
00:37:35
net operating income and then that net
00:37:37
operating income divided by the purchase
00:37:39
price or acquisition price of the
00:37:40
property that's your cap rate you know
00:37:43
what I look for is properties with
00:37:44
healthy cap rates and you're likely to
00:37:47
find a really healthy cap rate in a
00:37:49
location that has a low cost of living
00:37:52
so Paula what what is an example of an
00:37:54
attractive cap rate to you oh okay okay
00:37:56
so in the way that you want returns to
00:37:59
be commensurate with risk right you want
00:38:01
low risk low low risk you accept low
00:38:03
returns higher risk you demand higher
00:38:05
returns in order to justify the higher
00:38:06
risk that's the same way that I look at
00:38:09
cap rates so when you think of
00:38:10
properties are class A B C or D A Class
00:38:13
A property is a property that is
00:38:16
relatively lowrisk it tends to be uh
00:38:19
newer property either new construction
00:38:21
or newly renovated it tends to be in the
00:38:24
you know what I call the the Lulu Lemon
00:38:26
Panera Bread neighborhoods the soul
00:38:29
cycle neighborhoods right yeah yeah
00:38:32
right so if you're if you're drawing the
00:38:33
Lululemon crowd right that's those are
00:38:36
the class A rental properties and
00:38:38
generally in those properties you tend
00:38:40
to have high occupancy low levels of
00:38:44
repairs maintenance Capital expenditures
00:38:46
because they are tend to be newer or
00:38:48
more newly renovated properties you tend
00:38:50
to have like I said High occupancy low
00:38:52
tenant turnover high demand so your
00:38:54
vacancy rate tends to be quite small
00:38:57
there tend to not be a whole lot of
00:38:58
problems or issues that you have to deal
00:39:00
with in those properties and so for a
00:39:02
class a property I mean if it's super CL
00:39:06
if it's class like A+ man I'll take a
00:39:09
three cap for that even or you know if
00:39:11
it's like class A++ plus by contrast if
00:39:14
you've got a property that is Class B
00:39:18
which is I would say where Homer Simpson
00:39:20
lives like if you think of Homer and
00:39:21
Marge Simpson that would be like a Class
00:39:24
B neighborhood I grew up in a like a
00:39:26
class I'd say B minus C+ neighborhood
00:39:29
this is not what you should do but this
00:39:30
is just what I personally do personally
00:39:33
I would look for maybe a five cap in a
00:39:36
place like that and then if you're going
00:39:38
Class C I would look for maybe at least
00:39:41
a six seven cap there because they are
00:39:44
worse grade real estate you're demanding
00:39:46
a higher percentage of rental income
00:39:49
like so for a seven cap that would be
00:39:50
what that the operating income of the
00:39:52
property pays you back 7% of what your
00:39:55
initial invest investment was on an
00:39:57
annual basis the net operating income of
00:40:00
the property would be 7% got it net
00:40:03
operating income okay and and and these
00:40:05
are riskier properties and therefore as
00:40:08
the investor you are saying that you
00:40:10
need more reward for them yeah exactly
00:40:12
exactly and and the reason for that is
00:40:15
because there's going to be a lot more
00:40:16
with the riskier properties there's
00:40:17
going to be a lot more volatility in
00:40:19
what you're actually making right with
00:40:21
riskier properties you are likely to
00:40:23
have much higher repair costs much
00:40:25
higher m cost much higher levels of
00:40:27
capital expenditure more turnovers more
00:40:30
vacancy vacancy is a huge huge cost
00:40:34
right massive cost because of that
00:40:37
there's likely going to be a lot of
00:40:39
variability there might be some years
00:40:41
where you are just negative right where
00:40:43
you're in the hole with a Class C
00:40:45
property and you you're bleeding money
00:40:47
you're losing money and then there are
00:40:49
other years where you need a really good
00:40:51
return in order to compensate for the
00:40:54
years where you were just bleeding by
00:40:56
contrast with a Class A property you
00:40:58
tend to have more stability right you
00:41:00
tend to have more predictable returns so
00:41:03
the returns aren't going to be as high
00:41:05
you're not going to make as much money
00:41:07
but it's going to just be a lot more
00:41:09
generally going to be a lot more
00:41:11
predictable over time and actually I I
00:41:13
do want to come back to the fact that
00:41:15
you have properties in such a diverse
00:41:17
different geographies but are your
00:41:19
properties that you own would you
00:41:21
classify them as Class A Class B Class C
00:41:24
I used to have C Properties I no longer
00:41:26
do so they range Class A and B got but
00:41:29
there's even within that there's a
00:41:30
spectrum of like you know you've got the
00:41:32
B minus and you've got the B+ they're
00:41:34
all I would say within the ab sphere
00:41:37
like this this this one there is a
00:41:40
Panera close by but the bread is kind of
00:41:42
stale usually so that's not really an a
00:41:44
it's kind of like a B+ but you you
00:41:47
mentioned properties in Georgia your
00:41:48
parents are in Georgia yeah exactly but
00:41:50
I I moved to Atlanta I liveed there for
00:41:52
five years gotcha and and is that the
00:41:54
Georgia connection which is why you you
00:41:56
have properties there exactly what about
00:41:58
the Nevada and was it Indiana was that
00:42:01
the other place yeah Nevada I also lived
00:42:04
in for five years and then Indiana that
00:42:07
one I had never I'd never set foot in
00:42:11
Indiana prior to going there to look for
00:42:13
rental real estate I actually in my
00:42:15
course uh the course that I teach which
00:42:17
is called your first rental property
00:42:19
it's for beers I documented the entire
00:42:22
process of having never set foot in the
00:42:26
state of Indiana I documented all right
00:42:29
from the internet you know from afar
00:42:31
from New York here's how I'm doing my
00:42:34
preliminary research here's how I'm
00:42:36
narrowing it down here's how I'm looking
00:42:38
at different neighborhoods and here's my
00:42:40
preliminary research from that I've done
00:42:42
from Manhattan and then I actually
00:42:44
videoed myself like all right here's me
00:42:47
boarding the plane here's me getting off
00:42:49
the flight and realizing I forgot my
00:42:51
toothbrush right and and then just
00:42:53
documented like a 48h hour trip it was a
00:42:56
weekend literally a weekend trip where I
00:42:59
was just like zipped across all these
00:43:01
different neighborhoods got like a a
00:43:04
sense of the terrain and 48 Hours on the
00:43:07
ground and then boom back home right it
00:43:09
was a weekend trip and then from home I
00:43:12
started just making offers on properties
00:43:15
with you know the knowledge of the
00:43:16
neighborhoods that I had from those 48
00:43:18
hours and then I went under contract on
00:43:20
a handful of properties before I closed
00:43:22
on uh the duplex that I have there have
00:43:25
you been back to in Indiana since cuz I
00:43:27
know you're you you're managing it
00:43:28
remotely right I've been there one more
00:43:30
time since then actually it was I went
00:43:33
under contract on another property
00:43:34
because I was going to buy a different
00:43:36
duple like a second duplex there and so
00:43:39
I went under contract on it and then
00:43:41
during the inspection a bunch of stuff
00:43:43
came to light and so I canceled the
00:43:44
contract got it that was the other time
00:43:46
that I went back that's so cool though
00:43:48
just because it shows the power of you
00:43:51
know much like in the way that Index
00:43:52
Fund investing gives you access to these
00:43:55
cash flows and access to these companies
00:43:57
you don't have to sit on the board and
00:43:58
you're not the CEO you're not the
00:44:00
employee but you get to invest in them
00:44:01
from afar and I think the average person
00:44:05
probably thinks of rental real estate
00:44:06
investing as like oh that's very
00:44:08
Hands-On and it's it's very intense and
00:44:11
you better know how to replace a shingle
00:44:13
and and fix a toilet but you're kind of
00:44:15
showing and and others have shown that
00:44:17
no it's very possible to do from a
00:44:19
remote location you can hire out a lot
00:44:21
of the help and and I'm sure there are
00:44:23
some costs involved in all of that
00:44:24
obviously that might affect your all
00:44:26
return but if you pick the right
00:44:28
property with a good cap rate and a good
00:44:29
neighborhood those kind of things it's
00:44:31
it's a great investment yeah exactly
00:44:33
exactly you could say it's a 10x
00:44:35
investment which is a perfect segue one
00:44:38
of my next questions Paula it's it's one
00:44:40
of my favorite articles on afford
00:44:42
anything it's about 10x thinking what
00:44:45
exactly is 10x thinking so this is
00:44:48
something that I wrote Because I myself
00:44:50
was struggling with thinking bigger and
00:44:53
I I think that that's something
00:44:54
particularly those of us who are
00:44:56
naturally Frugal we're inclined to save
00:44:59
maybe people especially people in the
00:45:00
financial Independence space there's a
00:45:03
bit of a mindset of hey what I earn is
00:45:06
fixed or what I earn is you know X and
00:45:09
so my job is to save more of what I make
00:45:14
and 10x thinking flips that on its head
00:45:17
and says you know what no you're you
00:45:19
can't shrink your R greatness if you are
00:45:22
entirely focused on pinching pennies
00:45:24
then you're never going to get very far
00:45:27
you're going to be overlooking
00:45:29
opportunities for dollars for the sake
00:45:31
of clutching onto dimes let's flip the
00:45:34
script and let's focus on the earning
00:45:36
side the income side the growth side
00:45:39
let's focus on what are the things that
00:45:41
you can be doing that would 10x your
00:45:44
income I remember going back to what we
00:45:46
were talking about earlier I when I was
00:45:48
making $331,000 in 2008 which is the
00:45:52
equivalent of with inflation I was
00:45:54
making the equivalent of $44,000 000 a
00:45:56
year as a full-time salary in today's
00:45:58
dollars right which is the equivalent of
00:46:01
$22 per hour but as a freelancer I was
00:46:05
making let's see let's actually do the
00:46:07
math because
00:46:09
$75 per hour in 2008 what would that be
00:46:12
in today's dollars so 75 that'd be
00:46:16
$106 per hour today that was 5x right
00:46:20
that was 5x I I in my day job was making
00:46:23
the equivalent of $22 an hour but as a
00:46:26
freelancer I was making the equivalent
00:46:27
of $100 an hour right so I was making 5x
00:46:31
as a freelancer over what I was making
00:46:33
in my day job and those are the types of
00:46:36
opportunities that allow you to move the
00:46:38
needle I mean how making 31,000 a year I
00:46:42
never would have been able to save to
00:46:44
aass a savings of 25,000 there's just no
00:46:47
way right but freelancing I could back
00:46:50
then I didn't realize that there was a
00:46:51
distinction between being self-employed
00:46:52
versus being an entrepreneur at the time
00:46:55
I thought that one was equal to the
00:46:57
other it took me a couple of years to
00:46:58
figure out that even being self-employed
00:47:01
you're trading time for money versus as
00:47:03
an entrepreneur you're building a
00:47:05
platform and a brand and systems and
00:47:07
processes and you're building something
00:47:09
that can outlive you right the goal of a
00:47:11
business is build something that
00:47:13
outlives you and outlasts you so that
00:47:15
you are not the bottleneck and it is not
00:47:17
dependent on on you and only you what do
00:47:20
you think is the thing that is holding
00:47:22
you know Average Joe or average Jane who
00:47:24
who may or may not listening to this
00:47:26
podcast it's actually um we've done
00:47:28
science we've hired the Einstein of the
00:47:30
world and listeners of the best interest
00:47:33
podcast are not Average Joe's and James
00:47:35
they are far above average we thank you
00:47:37
for listening but for those who are
00:47:39
listening who are like H how do I
00:47:41
Implement 10x thinking into my life what
00:47:44
is your thought process on that there
00:47:46
are a few things so number one and I
00:47:49
think each person listening needs to do
00:47:50
an internal check of whether or not they
00:47:52
have a tendency for this I see this a
00:47:54
lot on on social media
00:47:56
anytime that there's an article about
00:47:59
somebody's success you inevitably read
00:48:01
this long string of comments where
00:48:03
people will attribute somebody else's
00:48:06
success to some imagined advantage that
00:48:11
they just assume the other person has
00:48:13
right so there will be an article on
00:48:15
like so and so bought a house and people
00:48:18
are like bet their parents bought it for
00:48:20
them but if you actually stop and do the
00:48:22
math okay so and so bought a
00:48:26
$300,000 house using an fa loan putting
00:48:31
5% down so like 5% of$ 300,000 that's
00:48:35
what
00:48:36
$155,000 so how do you save
00:48:38
$155,000 you save $500 a month for 30
00:48:41
months can you save $500 a month yeah I
00:48:44
think you can very few people will stop
00:48:47
and actually do the math and ask how is
00:48:50
this possible instead they'll have this
00:48:52
knee-jerk reaction of like I bet it's
00:48:54
not possible
00:48:56
and so you see that and it's really
00:48:58
toxic thinking and that's the type of
00:48:59
thinking that makes people people hold
00:49:02
themselves back right because if you're
00:49:04
just always assuming that everybody who
00:49:06
has done something great has done it
00:49:09
through mechanisms that you cannot
00:49:11
access if that's the assumption that you
00:49:13
use to walk through life you are
00:49:15
guaranteed to be stuck where you are
00:49:18
right so that is not a success mindset
00:49:21
it's not a growth mindset and it's not a
00:49:23
mindset that's serving you it's a fact
00:49:25
it's a mindset that's holding you back
00:49:27
so if you want to move forward then you
00:49:28
got to get rid of that thinking I I
00:49:31
really like that and I I like the idea
00:49:32
of just open-mindedness and curiosity
00:49:35
wonderful traits to have and then some
00:49:37
something that's helped me and I'm not
00:49:39
sure if I'm at 10x yet maybe I'm at four
00:49:41
or six or 8X and working my way up but I
00:49:43
kind of zoomed out on the world and said
00:49:45
to myself you know what there are some
00:49:46
people who are the Einstein and they
00:49:49
were born with a really high IQ and and
00:49:51
maybe I'll never be there there are
00:49:52
other people who are the Shaquille
00:49:53
O'Neal of the world and you know what
00:49:55
I'm never going to be 7 foot one and
00:49:56
weigh 300 pounds and and be as strong as
00:49:59
he is so maybe that's not my future but
00:50:01
for 99% of people and 99% of jobs and
00:50:04
99% of the paths that are available
00:50:07
before us it's kind of just average
00:50:09
people like you and me but who who
00:50:11
dedicated themselves in a big way or
00:50:13
were open to try something new and then
00:50:15
they they went after that thing and it
00:50:17
worked out for them and you realize it's
00:50:20
not that someone's born with this
00:50:22
amazing trait that you and I aren't
00:50:24
privy to the Einstein or the Sha type
00:50:27
trait they just have a little bit of
00:50:29
gumption and maybe a little bit of luck
00:50:31
and and a little bit and a lot of hard
00:50:33
work and all these things kind of mix
00:50:34
together in a pot and some magic ensues
00:50:37
but it's possible for me and you I mean
00:50:39
that's the big takeaway I think yeah
00:50:41
exactly so 10x thinking I like it a lot
00:50:44
and we are I really like I was saying I
00:50:46
love that article a lot it'll be in the
00:50:47
show notes a lot of afford anything will
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00:50:51
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Episode Highlights

  • The Best Interest Podcast Introduction
    Welcome to the best interest podcast, where we teach personal finance in simple terms.
    “An investment in knowledge pays the best interest.”
    @ 00m 04s
    February 28, 2024
  • Lessons from Self-Inflicted Wounds
    Jesse shares insights on learning from financial mistakes and avoiding regret.
    “Self-inflicted wounds are a double bummer.”
    @ 03m 18s
    February 28, 2024
  • Paula Pant Joins the Podcast
    Jesse is joined by Paula Pant, host of the Afford Anything podcast, to discuss finance and real estate.
    “You can afford anything, but you can't afford everything.”
    @ 18m 04s
    February 28, 2024
  • Choosing Travel Over Comfort
    It's not about what you can't afford; it's about what you choose not to prioritize.
    “I choose not to travel, I have decided that travel is not a priority for me.”
    @ 20m 41s
    February 28, 2024
  • The Power of Freelancing
    Transitioning from a full-time job to freelancing allowed for significant income growth.
    “I was making $75 an hour on the freelance side.”
    @ 25m 16s
    February 28, 2024
  • Building a Content Agency
    Turning freelance work into a content management agency led to six-figure earnings.
    “I was self-employed and earning six figures, which was huge.”
    @ 31m 54s
    February 28, 2024
  • Remote Real Estate Investing
    Investing in real estate remotely is possible with the right approach and research.
    “You can hire out a lot of the help.”
    @ 44m 17s
    February 28, 2024
  • 10x Thinking
    10x thinking flips the script on saving, focusing on income growth instead.
    “Let’s focus on what are the things that can 10x your income.”
    @ 45m 36s
    February 28, 2024

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  • Introduction00:04
  • Self-Inflicted Wounds03:18
  • Backpacking Journey19:03
  • Freelance Success25:16
  • Class A Properties39:02
  • Risk and Reward40:08
  • Remote Investing44:11
  • 10x Mindset45:17

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