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"Truth: We Are Very Bad At Anticipating What We Want" | Jonathan Clements - E82

June 05, 2024 / 47:08

This episode features discussions on personal finance, investing, and the relationship between money and happiness with guest Jonathan Clemens, founder of Humble Dollar.

Host Jesse Kramer shares a review from a listener in the Philippines, highlighting the podcast's focus on clear, research-backed personal finance strategies. He then introduces Jonathan Clemens, who has extensive experience in personal finance writing and editing.

Jonathan discusses his book, "My Money Journey," which includes stories from various contributors about their financial paths. He reflects on the importance of saving and the challenges of transitioning from saving to spending in retirement.

The conversation touches on the psychological aspects of financial independence, the importance of having a sense of purpose in retirement, and the need for ongoing discussions about money within families.

Listeners are encouraged to explore Humble Dollar for more articles and insights on personal finance, as well as Jonathan's books available on Amazon.

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Jonathan Clemens discusses personal finance, happiness, and the transition from saving to spending in retirement on The Best Interest Podcast.

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welcome to the best interest podcast
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where we believe Benjamin Franklin's
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advice that an investment in knowledge
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pays the best interest both in finances
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and in your life every episode teaches
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you personal finance and investing in
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simple terms now here's your host Jesse
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Kramer hello and welcome to episode 82
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of the best interest podcast my name is
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Jesse Kramer now later in today's
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episode Jonathan Clemens will be joining
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us Jonathan is is the editor and and
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probably you could say the lead author
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of The well-known humble dollar website
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uh humble dollar features really writers
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there's probably 50 plus writers at this
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point I am honored to be one of them and
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Jonathan edits all of our writing and he
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does a terrific job because I I I enjoy
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writing I'm I'm probably a reasonably
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good writer yet every single time I
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submit an article to Jonathan he is able
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to polish it into something so much
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better than what I contributed myself
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Jonathan spent many years writing for
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the Wall Street Journal he's got a very
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interesting and useful helpful personal
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finance and investing thought process
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himself but first as always I wanted to
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share a review of the week this one
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comes from Apple podcasts from a user it
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it's not exactly an English word but
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user rch LL THL richl thank you for
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submitting this very kind review
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five-star review where you said I love
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this podcast the best interest cuts
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through the noise of bad advice with
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clear research backed personal finance
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strategies for the everyday investor and
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you wrote that in from the Philippines
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according to my sources here so thank
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you rch
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lltl for those very kind words if you
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get this send me an email and as long as
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the postage to send a t-shirt to the
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Philippines isn't too outrageous I would
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be happy to send you a super soft best
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interest t-shirt and before we get to
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Jonathan Clemens today I wanted to do a
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little brief monologue interestingly
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enough this is from an article that I've
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submitted to Humble dollar and by the
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time this podcast is live most likely
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this article will be live on humble
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dollar and now for the past few years
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I've been on a radio head kick if you
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don't know radio head for the
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uninitiated they're an English rock band
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their lead singer Tom York their most
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famous song is called creep but it's
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actually it's very interesting right
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creep is the song that average person on
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the street will have heard of but so
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many of their songs are really really
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good and the more you listen to them the
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more you find that some of the lesser
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known songs are actually terrific now
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Tom York that lead singer he's known for
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his distinctive whining vocals and and I
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mean that in a good way uh whining in a
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good way and also his Innovative
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songwriting and as I've gotten to know
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the band and learn more about them and I
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I read you know I read about Tom York on
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his Wikipedia article a quote that he
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said it it leapt off the page and and it
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kind of hit me right in the face and the
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quote is when I was a kid I always
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assumed that Fame was going to answer
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something to fill a gap and it does the
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absolute opposite end quote now when I
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saw that I immediately thought of the
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financial coraly people assume that
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money will make them happier or fill
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some sort of void in their life they
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grind and they grind and they grind
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until finally they reach retirement or
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they hit their financial Independence
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number or cross whatever threshold
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occupies their mind but does money
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really make us happy now some studies
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say no a famous 2006 study by five
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academics including the late great Danny
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Conan uh concluded the belief that high
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income is associated with good mood is
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widespread but mostly ucer people with
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above average income are relatively
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satisfied with their lives but are
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barely happier than others in momentto
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moment experience they tend to be more
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tense and they do not spend more time in
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particularly enjoyable activities that
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is just to to reaffirm that people with
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high income tend to be more tense and do
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not spend more time in particularly
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enjoyable activities now Conan Danny
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Conan and a fellow scientist named Angus
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Deon they they added new findings in
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20210 suggesting that emotional
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wellbeing Rises with income but there's
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no further progress Beyond an annual
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income of roughly $775,000 low income
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exacerbates the emotional pain
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associated with such misfortunes as
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divorce ill health and being alone we
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conclude that high income buys life
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satisfaction but not happiness and that
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low income is associated both with low
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life evaluation and low emotional
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well-being okay we'll come back to
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exactly what that means but first I want
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to talk about a 2021 study that adds a
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new important wrinkle to this kind of
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research Matthew Killingsworth of the
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University of Pennsylvania's Wharton
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School he found that happiness kept
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Rising with income with no limit no
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limit for example at
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$75,000 Killingsworth wrote that it's a
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compelling possibility the idea that
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money stops mattering above a certain
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point at least for how people actually
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feel moment to moment but when I looked
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across a wide range of income levels I
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found that all forms of well-being
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continued to rise with income I don't
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see any sort of kink in the curve an
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inflection point where money stops
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mattering instead it keeps increasing
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very interesting but why we should ask
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now if Fame couldn't fill Tom York's Gap
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is money somehow different can
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Killingsworth research be right now I
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personally have a suspicion and it
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starts with a favorite phrase from one
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of my mentors and the phrase is I don't
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know if money buys happiness but it
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certainly buys flexibility it turns out
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that that idea is a key part of
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Killingsworth Theory higher earners are
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happier in part because of an increased
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sense of control over their lives when
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you have more money he says you have
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more choices about how to live your life
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you can likely see this during the covid
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pandemic people living paycheck to
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paycheck who lose their job might need
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to take the first available job to stay
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afloat even if it's one they dislike
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but people with a financial cushion can
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wait for a job that's a better fit
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across decisions big and small having
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more money gives a person more choices
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and a greater sense of autonomy more
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money equals more flexibility more
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autonomy and more satisfaction but we're
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still left with a bit of a puzzle why
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did Conan's results disagree with
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Killingsworth results now fortunately
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those two scientists got together in
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2022 to compare notes and discuss why
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their conclusions were in opposition the
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upshot is that it seems we need to view
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happiness and unhappiness not as
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opposites but as separate phenomena
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altogether the happiness Spectrum for
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example it might show the difference
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between a 10-day vacation in a luxury
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hotel versus a 4-day vacation in a motel
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now both are good additions to life we'd
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probably accept either one but more
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money buys you the better of those two
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but what about unhappiness money can put
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a roof over our heads it can put food in
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our stomachs preventing those two
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unhappy outcomes but a lot of
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unhappiness in life is is untethered
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from money you know money can't cure a
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disease it can't necessarily prevent a
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messy divorce or change the the chemical
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imbalance in your brain the $75,000
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threshold according to Conan and
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Killingworth in their final study they
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said it may represent the point Beyond
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which the miseries that remain are not
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alleviated by high income heartbreak
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bereavement and clinical depression may
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be examples of such miseries Conan and
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Killingworth their joint research allows
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us to answer two crucial questions can
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money increase happiness yes and
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seemingly without limit the nicer and
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nicer and nicer vacation those are nice
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things and we'd rather have that 10day
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vacation in the nice hotel than the
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5-day vacation in the motel but can
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money decrease unhappiness the answer
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there is yes but only to a point now the
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armchair psychologist in me would guess
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that Fame Works similarly in Tom York's
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case well Fame might have made certain
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highs even higher It Like Money Can't
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address many of life's lows here's a
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is the founder and the editor of humble
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dollar he's also the author of A Fistful
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of personal finance books including my
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money journey and how to think about
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money both of which we talk about today
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Jonathan spent almost 20 years at the
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Wall Street Journal where he was the
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newspaper personal finance columnist
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between October 1994 and April 2008 he
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wrote 1,9 columns for the journal and
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for the Wall Street Journal Sunday
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edition he then worked for 6 years at
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City Group where he was the director of
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financial education for City's personal
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wealth management before returning to
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the Wall Street Journal for an
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additional 15-month stint as a columnist
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and as I alluded to earlier Jonathan now
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spends his time running humble dollar
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which is a very very educational wellone
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creative personal finance website if you
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subscribe to My Weekly Newsletter you'll
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recognize humble dollar because I'd say
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most weeks I end up sharing an article
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that has Jonathan's fingerprints on it
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either because he was the author or
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because he eded it to its final form so
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without without further Ado here is
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Jonathan
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[Music]
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Clemens Jonathan thank you for joining
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us on the best interest podcast and I
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was looking at my money Journey your
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book and we can talk about that in in
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some detail and it includes 30 stories
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from 30 different people about their
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unique Financial paths some are smooth
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some are bumpy some are triumphant some
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have some disasters in there and I'm
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curious which of those stories actually
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had the biggest influence on you in in
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your personal financial life and and why
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well all of them had an influence on me
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to the extent that I to a degree know
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all of the contributors I mean all of
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them have also written for this website
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I run humbl dollar.com and so even
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before I received their essays I knew a
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lot about them but uh yeah to me it's s
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like hearing the personal stories of a
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colleague a lot of the details but see
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it all in one place is really
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interesting in terms of the specific
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stories I certainly saw something of
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myself in Mike Sardi M Mike Sardi is the
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youngest contributor to the book he's in
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his mid-30s now Mike is a classic
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example of a Super Saver which I
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certainly was from very early on not as
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early as Mike and I wasn't as successful
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as Mike partly because I you know had
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this habit of having children and that
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that's an expensive preoccupation
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nonetheless you know Mike by the time he
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got into his early 30s had a master
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figure portfolio super impressive for
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somebody so young but even as mik
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amassed that portfolio you know he also
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became more philosophical I mean this
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big goal he set for himself let's get a
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seven figure portfolio he realized that
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maybe he hadd been too Frugal that maybe
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money in of itself is not the goal it's
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not enough and that maybe he was missing
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out on life and I found that really
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interesting it certainly made me reflect
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on my financial Journey which early on
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did involve some pretty severe frugality
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partly out of necessity because I was I
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was a poorly paid journalist in New York
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City but also you know even now now that
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I have plenty of money learning to spend
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has been a struggle for me and I can see
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that it's certainly been a struggle for
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Mike it's not only a struggle for you
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and Mike it's funny I know on humble
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dollar which by the way I think many
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listeners are going to be familiar with
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because humble dollar articles often
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make it into the the best interest
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newsletter that goes out weekly dollar
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there will be people writing about
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financial Independence retirement is a
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very very frequent topic on humble
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dollar and in both those ideas whether
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it's the financial independence movement
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or just retirees who are have been
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saving and saving and saving forever
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switching from saver to spender is this
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constant theme in personal finance and
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you know in your time of editing you
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know you created humble dollar and now
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you're the editor and you see all the
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Articles have your fingerprints on them
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I I assume is that some sort of
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recurring theme that you either see from
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your writer
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or just from the readers who are
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frequently commenting on humble dollar I
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see it in both and there's a reason that
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people are financially successful and
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it's a you know a reason it's a theme
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that runs through the book my money
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Journey which is that you know people
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who are financially successful normally
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aren't great investors they often make a
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lot of financial mistakes but the one
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common trait is they are great great
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Savers they've saved diligently for
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three or four decades that's how they've
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amassed enough for financial
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Independence but having been so diligent
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about saving for all those decades it's
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awfully hard to turn around and start
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spending that money I mean for 80% of
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Americans spending money is not a
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problem it is not a big issue in this
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country being able to spend but for
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those people who are Frugal who have had
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this lifetime habit of soaking away
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money month after month year after year
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turning around and starting to spend
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that Nest tic is a struggle yeah there's
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there's a bit of a goldilock situation
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going on is there where it's too hot too
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cold and and not many people are able to
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strike that perfect balance in their own
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lives too much spending too much saving
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but it's it's hard to find that that
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right balance and I think one of the
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things that people discover as they get
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older is two things happen I mean one is
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they reach a point where they realize
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there's no way you're going to spend all
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of this money so hey I might as well
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spend some of it on myself two as you
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get older and I'm 61 so I sort of you
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know I look ahead to the people around
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me who are my age and somewhat older and
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I realize that come the mid to late 70s
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a lot of people lose their taste for
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this sort of Exotic Travel that we think
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is part of retirement by the time you
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get to 75 80 climbing on a plane to make
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a transatlantic trip becomes a big deal
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I mean even for me now at 61 you know
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sitting upright and coach for six or
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seven hours on an overnight flight to
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London or Paris is a daunting Prospect
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and the other thing that you know people
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come to appreciate is the joy of giving
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away money not just to charity but also
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to their family and certainly for me and
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certainly for a lot of the readers of
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humble dollar and the contributors to it
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giving away money becomes a great source
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of Joy it's certainly something that is
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probably my biggest expenditure in 2024
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is giving away money and I think that
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also true for a lot of people who are
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involved with the site it's really
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interesting too because I I would assume
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that many of the younger listeners right
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now maybe in their 20s and their 30s
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that's not something on their radar at
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all or if if it is it's maybe a pretty
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small budget line item but it just uh
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shines a light on the fact that as we
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grow older our priorities change whether
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it's spending spending priorities maybe
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it's lifestyle priorities like the TR
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the travel priority that you just
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mentioned but it is important for
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long-term Savers long-term investors
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anyone planning for the long run to be
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self-aware to the fact that what you
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think you is important right now might
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not be important in 10 or 20 or 30 years
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you know Jesse that is such an important
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point we are very bad at anticipating
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what we will want in the future I mean
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the life that I envisaged at this age
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and what I thought I really wanted is
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totally separate from what I what I want
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now and this is almost laughable but I
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came across to the States from London
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1986 you know I was in my early 20s and
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I started learning about us personal
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finance stop market returns what it
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takes to retire and so and I had this
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very simple notion and this very simple
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dream which was I imagine that if by the
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time I was 40 or so I had amassed
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$250,000 and I put that in the stock
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market and I could Notch seven
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percentage points a year more than
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inflation that I would have a million
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dollars at retirement and I would have
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be financially free and then over those
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final 20 years while I was earning those
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S percentage points a year you know
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above inflation like clockwork I would
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be able to do pretty much whatever I
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want as long as I had a little money
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coming in I mean the naivity of that to
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imagine that one retirement is All About
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The Money Two that the stock market is
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going to clock seven percentage points a
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year above inflation like clockwork and
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three that I was really going to be
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happy for a couple of decades basically
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not have a career just making a little
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bit of money I just I was out of my head
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I mean as i' got older what I've
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discovered is doing nothing which seems
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so tantalizing when you're in your 20s
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and 30s you know that thing I can't wait
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for the weekend I can't wait till every
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day is a weekend and I don't have to go
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to the office and I have to don't have
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to do any work when you get to my age 61
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it's like hey you know doing that work
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is actually pretty fulfilling and doing
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nothing is really pretty boring yeah and
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and you need a sense of purpose you need
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a reason to get out of bed in the
00:18:02
morning and I'm at the point where I'm
00:18:05
not sure I'm ever going to retire I
00:18:07
certainly want to work less but I'm not
00:18:09
sure I will ever call it quits entirely
00:18:12
yeah well that's why I think the title
00:18:13
of your book my money Journey it is
00:18:15
Journey right and I think back you're
00:18:17
reminding me Jonathan of Fritz Gilbert
00:18:19
do you know Fritz Gilbert the retirement
00:18:21
Manifesto is his blog but he he writes a
00:18:23
lot about retirement topics and and one
00:18:26
thing that stuck from my conversation
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with Fritz is this idea that a lot of
00:18:30
retirees face whether you want to call
00:18:31
it depression or a little bit of malays
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or just a little bit of they're they're
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a little kind of unored in their life
00:18:37
and their Direction and often it's just
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tied back to this fact of careers gave
00:18:42
us so much Direction and so much purpose
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and then but going from 100 down to zero
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just flipping that switch off is really
00:18:49
hard and and they don't have anything to
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retire to so maybe it's work maybe it's
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just side Hobbies or just uh
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volunteering it it's some sort of
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Direction in retirement because I think
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I don't I'm not a psychologist but I
00:19:02
know enough people to know that a lot of
00:19:04
people enjoy doing stuff you you need
00:19:06
something to do something to give you a
00:19:07
purpose something to occupy your time
00:19:09
the idea of retiring to just the the
00:19:11
proverbial Beach and Mojitos I don't
00:19:14
think as many people actually are going
00:19:15
to enjoy that as they might think one of
00:19:18
the things that a lot of us have in our
00:19:19
heads is that you know life is going to
00:19:21
be nasty budish and short that we're
00:19:23
going to kill over at any moment and so
00:19:26
we tend to not only run our financial
00:19:28
lives that way but we also plan the rest
00:19:31
of our lives that way that I mean I'll
00:19:33
be here tomorrow so I better you know
00:19:35
one make sure I'm out of the way of any
00:19:37
potential stock market decline but two
00:19:40
you know I better enjoy today in that
00:19:42
sort of conventional fun way you know I
00:19:45
better party I better go out to dinner I
00:19:48
better do this traveling now because I
00:19:50
may not be here to do that next year but
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at my not so Grand age of 61 it's
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entirely possible
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and if this doesn't happen you know
00:20:01
you'll be playing this clip and people
00:20:03
be laughing their asses off but it's
00:20:05
entirely possible that I can live
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another three decades am I Really Gonna
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spend three decades
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relaxing right I mean that would be all
00:20:15
you know half of my adult life spent
00:20:18
doing nothing is that really what I want
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to do and the answer is no of course not
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I mean if I knew that I was going to
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make it to my 90s I would be completely
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motivated to keep working or keep
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working part-time I would take on longer
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term projects I would think about
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self-improvement why wouldn't you launch
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a new B business in your 60s if you knew
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you're going to make it to your 90s and
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yet we have this mentality well it's
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could all be over tomorrow so not going
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to do that I'm gonna go and have you
00:20:49
know fun and I think it's a big mistake
00:20:52
I don't obviously some people do ke over
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tomorrow but for for most people they
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are going to make it into their 80s if
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they're in their 60s they're going to
00:21:00
make it into their 80s and they should
00:21:02
be thinking with a longer term Focus
00:21:06
that's probably a Danny Conan thing
00:21:07
where it's much easier for us to focus
00:21:09
on the proverbial tiger in the grass you
00:21:11
know that that giant risk that's waiting
00:21:13
just around the corner and it occupies
00:21:15
too much of our brain space and and we
00:21:17
forget the fact that actually the
00:21:18
probabilities are in our favor and we're
00:21:20
going to live longer than the most risk
00:21:22
ofse of us might think going back to to
00:21:24
my money Journey Jonathan I was I was
00:21:27
looking onlineer earlier and I found
00:21:29
this list of of eight traits that I I
00:21:31
want to say you put together as you were
00:21:33
writing the book but it's a list of
00:21:34
eight traits that successful investors
00:21:37
tend to have in common can can you walk
00:21:40
us through either some or all of that
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list well Jesse the first one I want to
00:21:44
mention is is the obvious one and the
00:21:46
one that we've already talked about
00:21:47
which is the key to Financial Freedom is
00:21:50
good savings habits and it's so obvious
00:21:54
and yet it can't be said often enough I
00:21:57
mean if you want fincial Freedom you
00:21:59
need to be able to control your spending
00:22:01
and you need to suck Away Great gobs of
00:22:04
money you know if you haven't heard that
00:22:06
lesson if you haven't embraced it
00:22:08
embrace it now because that is going to
00:22:10
be the key to Financial Freedom if you
00:22:12
can't control your material desires your
00:22:14
entire life is going to be a struggle so
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for goodness sake get a grip on your
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spending the other one that I think is
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important particularly from my
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perspective at the other end of the
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journey is it's important to have some
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sense for what is enough most of us
00:22:31
spend our lives focusing on having more
00:22:35
more this more that but when you get to
00:22:38
my age you need to look at your
00:22:41
portfolio and say yeah that is enough
00:22:44
that is enough for me and all in favor
00:22:48
of trying to set goals and write them
00:22:51
down so you don't keep moving the
00:22:53
goalpost so if you think your magic
00:22:56
number is 1.5 million when you are age
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45 you should write $1.5 million on a
00:23:03
piece of paper and stick it on the
00:23:04
refrigerator so that 15 years later you
00:23:08
don't think hey I really need $4 million
00:23:13
I really need $5 million because if you
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have that mentality if you keep moving
00:23:18
the gold poost you will never be
00:23:20
satisfied and I would actually also say
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this about Career Success as well you
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know at some point we should all step
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away from the corporate ladder pursuing
00:23:33
those pay raises and promotions and say
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I have had enough success as defined by
00:23:40
society and what I really want to focus
00:23:42
on is things that I find personally
00:23:45
satisfying hopefully things that can
00:23:47
also make you a buck or two but things
00:23:49
that you find personally satisfying so
00:23:51
both in terms of career and in terms of
00:23:54
money you need to have goals where you
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say that is enough and then allow
00:24:00
yourself to move on and focus on what I
00:24:04
would argue are more important matters
00:24:05
well there's a phrase in in retirement
00:24:07
planning one more year syndrome is what
00:24:09
they call it right where where and I've
00:24:11
heard it both in traditional retirement
00:24:13
planning and also in in financial
00:24:15
Independence where people set their
00:24:17
goals they know their fi number or they
00:24:19
work with a cfp who's laid out with them
00:24:22
based on your lifestyle here's where you
00:24:24
need to be and they get there and
00:24:26
technically speaking the math works out
00:24:28
I think it goes back to some sort of
00:24:30
psychological hitch for lack of a better
00:24:32
term where the math can work out all
00:24:34
good but something in in these people's
00:24:36
brains says I'm just too worried there's
00:24:38
an anxiety it's what if I quit now what
00:24:41
if there's a market crash a sequence of
00:24:43
returns problem and then I need to go
00:24:45
back to work I'd rather just work one
00:24:47
more year were there any specific
00:24:48
stories or specific writers in the book
00:24:51
that was just a a really poignant part
00:24:53
of their story that's a good question I
00:24:56
actually edited the book two years ago
00:24:59
at this point Jesse totally fair I
00:25:01
cannot actually remember all the stories
00:25:03
in the level of detail where people said
00:25:05
I'm GNA do one more year but certainly
00:25:08
this has actually become a bit of a a
00:25:10
hobby horse for me now I wrote an
00:25:12
article earlier this year and the
00:25:14
headline was fire meets Ice so fire of
00:25:18
course is financial Independence retire
00:25:20
early and ice is an acronym I created
00:25:23
which stands for I'll continue earning
00:25:26
and I think that continuing to earn a
00:25:29
little bit of money through part-time
00:25:31
work through your early retirement years
00:25:35
is psychologically enormously comforting
00:25:39
it's really is hard as we've already
00:25:41
discussed to turn around and start
00:25:43
spending down this heap of savings that
00:25:45
you've amassed and it's comforting to
00:25:49
have a little bit of money continuing
00:25:51
come in and that's why I think parttime
00:25:53
work early in retirement is a great idea
00:25:56
hopefully it's part time work where you
00:25:57
have the flexibility to do the traveling
00:25:59
you want and so on but remember you know
00:26:02
one of the reasons why people are
00:26:04
reluctant to leave the workforce isn't
00:26:06
just because they give up the paycheck
00:26:09
they also lose their identity and if you
00:26:12
continue to do some work and get paid
00:26:14
for it you have an identity I mean
00:26:17
nobody wants to walk around a cocktail
00:26:20
party say hey I'm a
00:26:22
retiree that is not a label that any of
00:26:25
us want you know what what we want to do
00:26:27
is say yeah hey yeah you know I'm a I'm
00:26:29
a freelancer I do this I have this
00:26:32
little business where I do X you know I
00:26:34
do some Consulting whatever it is we all
00:26:37
want an identity and what we do for a
00:26:40
living provides that identity well
00:26:42
speaking of part-time work I found an
00:26:44
article that you wrote I want to say it
00:26:46
was last year Jonathan but you might you
00:26:48
might know better than me but it's
00:26:49
called Jonathan's retirement is that
00:26:51
relatively new maybe the last 12 or 18
00:26:53
months so actually that part of the site
00:26:57
is part of what I call the money guide
00:26:59
so there's a this backbone of the site
00:27:01
is this money guide with little writeups
00:27:05
on a host of different topics everything
00:27:08
from how much you should save to
00:27:09
something you mentioned sequence of
00:27:11
return risk and so on so Jonathan's
00:27:13
retirement is simply a recap of my
00:27:16
retirement strategy which is ever
00:27:18
evolving but it should it is reasonably
00:27:21
accurate got okay so so if it's okay I
00:27:24
actually wanted to share some some of
00:27:25
the high level details from that but
00:27:27
then I want to dive into a few of those
00:27:29
ideas because I think they're very
00:27:30
interesting and and it kind of brings
00:27:31
about some topics that we don't talk
00:27:33
about too much here on the best interest
00:27:35
podcast so we we were talking earlier
00:27:37
about part-time work you you say that
00:27:39
you're semi-retired right now humble
00:27:41
dollar keeps you as busy as ever you've
00:27:42
reduced some of your spending mainly
00:27:44
through a move from the New York City
00:27:46
area to outside of Philadelphia you plan
00:27:48
on delaying Social Security until age 70
00:27:50
which is you know common for people who
00:27:52
are in in a comfortable Financial
00:27:54
circumstances and are likely to lead a
00:27:56
long life which we talked about now your
00:27:58
portfolio even though you're
00:27:59
semi-retired you said you're 61 years
00:28:01
old you're about 80% stocks 20% bonds
00:28:04
right now you don't plan on using the
00:28:06
traditional 4% rule but instead plan on
00:28:09
using a a roughly 5% rule although
00:28:12
you've mentioned in the article that
00:28:14
you're very willing to be flexible in
00:28:15
bad markets and the last one perhaps the
00:28:17
most interesting one from my point of
00:28:19
view is you're considering buying
00:28:20
immediate fixed annuities to provide
00:28:22
lifetime income to supplement social
00:28:25
security income so I'd love to dive into
00:28:28
the those last three ideas as I said
00:28:30
they aren't retirement thoughts that you
00:28:31
hear every day maybe let's start with
00:28:33
the lifetime annuity could you explain
00:28:35
what a fixed lifetime annuity is and
00:28:37
what some of your thought process is
00:28:39
behind that so an immediate fixed
00:28:40
annuity simply involves handing a sum of
00:28:43
money over to an insurance company and
00:28:45
in return they'll cut you a check every
00:28:48
month on occasion it's for a specified
00:28:50
period of time like five or 10 years but
00:28:52
what I'm talking about our lifetime
00:28:54
income annuities the best income annuity
00:28:57
of course is Social Security and that's
00:28:59
why I'm planning to delay Social
00:29:01
Security until age 70 so I get the
00:29:03
largest monthly check possible according
00:29:06
to the Social Security website if I
00:29:07
delay till 70 I will get
00:29:10
$55,500 a year which will easily cover
00:29:13
my fixed living Cost Plus that goes up
00:29:16
with inflation every year to supplement
00:29:18
that I plan to buy some income annuities
00:29:22
to provide additional income on top of
00:29:24
that cover travel expenses and stuff
00:29:26
like that so people say oh well that's a
00:29:28
super conservative strategy you know
00:29:31
you're basically turning this money over
00:29:33
to an insurance company and return for
00:29:36
you know lifetime income but I would
00:29:39
argue that actually what this does is
00:29:41
free me up to be super aggressive I mean
00:29:44
I've carried a high stock allocation
00:29:47
throughout my life and well it says on
00:29:50
the website that you know my target is
00:29:52
80 right now I'm actually closer to 90%
00:29:55
in stocks and people say how can you be
00:29:58
61 years old and have 90% in stocks well
00:30:01
one is because I know that between
00:30:04
Social Security and these income
00:30:06
annuities when I buy them that I W need
00:30:08
to rely on my portfolio for income every
00:30:10
year I will have plenty of money if the
00:30:13
market knows Dives 50% moreover on top
00:30:17
of that Social Security on top of those
00:30:20
income enties I do have a portion of my
00:30:23
portfolio allocated towards short-term
00:30:26
bonds and people say well why is your
00:30:28
Target only 20% work with me here I mean
00:30:31
there is this thing called the 4% rule
00:30:33
right and according to the 4% rule you
00:30:35
know you can withdraw 4% inflation
00:30:38
adjusted from your portfolio every year
00:30:41
and over a 30-year retirement according
00:30:44
to Market history you will not run out
00:30:47
of money no matter how bad the sequence
00:30:49
of return is in the markets while I
00:30:52
don't plan to follow the 4% rule I do
00:30:54
think it is a useful guidepost so let's
00:30:57
say that I want enough money in my
00:30:59
portfolio to make it through a terrible
00:31:02
5-year Market well you take 4% you
00:31:05
multiply it by five and that gives you
00:31:07
20% so that's why I Target 20% of my
00:31:11
portfolio for short-term bonds because
00:31:14
that way I know I can go five years
00:31:16
without pulling any money out of the
00:31:18
stock portion of my portfolio now a lot
00:31:21
of people when they create their stock
00:31:22
Bond mix you know go by rules of thumb
00:31:25
oh you know I'm a balanced investor I
00:31:28
should have 60% stocks 40% bonds and so
00:31:30
I don't work that way I drive it based
00:31:33
on how much cash I'm think I'm going to
00:31:35
need for my portfolio over the next five
00:31:36
years right now I don't need any because
00:31:39
I'm still earning money but if and when
00:31:41
I decide to retire the most I'm going to
00:31:44
be pulling over a 5-year period is going
00:31:45
to be 20% and so that's why I only
00:31:49
allocate 20% to short-term bonds I like
00:31:52
that a lot that's that's a Bottoms Up
00:31:54
portfolio construction very much
00:31:56
math-based which I'm a fan of we've
00:31:58
talked around words on the podcast
00:31:59
before goals-based investing or
00:32:02
something I've called the bucket method
00:32:03
although the problem is other people
00:32:05
have a bucket method that has a
00:32:06
completely different definition so maybe
00:32:07
the bucket method isn't great verbiage
00:32:09
but goals-based investing is good
00:32:11
verbiage or a Bottoms Up portfolio is
00:32:13
good verbiage which is to say let's give
00:32:16
our dollars a job let's give them a
00:32:18
timeline which is most important and
00:32:20
then based on that timeline we can back
00:32:22
into what the appropriate amount of
00:32:24
investment risk we can take is and then
00:32:27
we can back into based on that
00:32:29
investment risk what kind of asset class
00:32:31
is appropriate and absolutely it's it's
00:32:33
something whether it's four years or
00:32:34
five years in your case Jonathan maybe
00:32:36
the more conservative person would say
00:32:37
eight years those kind of near-term
00:32:39
assets should be allocated to bonds
00:32:41
anything in the long run should be all
00:32:44
allocated to something heavier in Risk
00:32:46
stocks being kind of the most common
00:32:48
example and it's very understandable for
00:32:50
someone essentially what I'm saying is
00:32:52
it shouldn't be based on age right just
00:32:54
because you can say well I'm 60 years
00:32:56
old I should therefore be 6040
00:32:58
certainly not we have to talk about the
00:33:00
unique circumstances in someone's life
00:33:02
and the unique needs for money over time
00:33:04
and even their risk tolerance and and
00:33:06
something you've outlined is that your
00:33:08
annuities give you the ability to be
00:33:10
more risk tolerant and going back to the
00:33:12
annuities just for one quick second
00:33:14
whether it's the annuities that that
00:33:15
you're looking at specifically or just
00:33:17
your general knowledge of these fixed
00:33:19
lifetime annuities what kind of payout
00:33:21
do you receive from the annuity once it
00:33:23
start once it's annuitized and roughly
00:33:26
speaking what kind of fees are involved
00:33:28
there annuity is a dirty word and it
00:33:30
deserves to be a dirty word I mean there
00:33:32
are all kinds of atrocious annuities out
00:33:35
there there are these you know index
00:33:36
link annuities there are these variable
00:33:39
annuities this is not what I am talking
00:33:41
about right if somebody tries to sell
00:33:44
you a variable annuity run in the
00:33:46
opposite direction if somebody tries to
00:33:48
sell you an index link annuity run in
00:33:50
the opposite direction but really really
00:33:52
fast annuities as a rule are not a good
00:33:55
product but immediate fix sties are
00:33:58
completely different in the academic
00:34:00
World Finance professors are a huge fan
00:34:02
of them you essentially what it is is
00:34:04
just pulling your money with other
00:34:06
investors in order to provide lifetime
00:34:08
income same as with any other insurance
00:34:11
that you might buy when you buy
00:34:12
homeowners insurance you're all
00:34:14
contributing to a pool of money out of
00:34:17
which the people who have a disastrous
00:34:19
year their home burns down whatever it
00:34:21
is they're the ones who collect so
00:34:23
similarly with an immediate fix andity
00:34:25
what you're doing is contributing to a
00:34:26
pool of money out of which the various
00:34:29
people who participate are then paid and
00:34:31
the people who live longest get the
00:34:33
payments for the longest possible time
00:34:35
it's a way of pulling risk and hedging
00:34:37
the danger that you live to a ripe old
00:34:40
age there are no explicitly listed fees
00:34:45
in an immediate fixed annuity these are
00:34:47
also not a product that insurance
00:34:49
salesmen tend to push because the
00:34:52
commissions on an immediate fixed
00:34:54
annuity tend to be tiny I mean typically
00:34:56
from what I gather if an insurance
00:34:58
salesman sells an immediate fixed
00:35:00
annuity they will make maybe 1% of the
00:35:03
amount that you're investing whereas
00:35:04
I've seen Equity indexed annuities where
00:35:06
the commission is like 14 15% is
00:35:08
completely absurd so mediate fixed
00:35:11
annuities are a very reasonable product
00:35:14
you should avoid nties generally but
00:35:16
this is one that I think deserves a
00:35:18
second look here's a quick ad and then
00:35:21
we'll get back to the show serious
00:35:23
question why do podcasters constantly
00:35:26
ask for ratings and reviews yes they do
00:35:28
help highlight our shows to new
00:35:30
listeners they help strangers find us on
00:35:32
Apple podcast and Spotify it's totally
00:35:34
true and a good reason to ask for
00:35:36
ratings and reviews but I have something
00:35:38
more important at least more important
00:35:40
to me I want to know if you like this
00:35:42
stuff I want to know if you like my
00:35:44
podcast episodes my monologues my guests
00:35:47
the information I share with you and the
00:35:48
stories I tell I want to improve and
00:35:51
make your listening more enjoyable in
00:35:52
the process so yeah I would love to read
00:35:55
your reviews and sure if you throw a
00:35:57
rating in there too that's great if you
00:35:59
like what I'm doing please share it with
00:36:01
me it's such a great feeling to read
00:36:03
your feedback I'd love to read your
00:36:05
review or see a rating on Apple podcast
00:36:08
or Spotify thank you let me hijack the
00:36:11
conversation a little bit more Jesse and
00:36:12
talk a little bit about this High Equity
00:36:15
exposure that I have one I just want to
00:36:18
make it clear that while I'm comfortable
00:36:19
doing this I've always had a high stock
00:36:22
exposure I realized that this is not the
00:36:25
sort of equity exposure that most people
00:36:28
will be comfortable with particularly
00:36:29
when they they reach my age but I've
00:36:31
been very used to you know Market
00:36:33
downturns I've lived through 2000 to
00:36:35
2002 2007 to 2009 the covid crash and so
00:36:40
on I mean none of that has beted me I
00:36:42
mean in each case when the market was
00:36:45
dropping like a rock you know I was
00:36:46
increasing my allocation to stocks I
00:36:48
don't know why I'm wired that way but I
00:36:50
am so to use uh phrase that's popular
00:36:53
why if I've won the game and am I
00:36:56
continuing to play and the reason is
00:36:59
this I want my two kids to inherit a
00:37:03
healthy sum well they already are
00:37:04
working so it's not like I'm going to
00:37:07
leave them enough so they never have to
00:37:09
work another day in their life but I
00:37:10
believe for S middle class upper middle
00:37:13
class families there is this chance to
00:37:16
pay it forward to make sure that your
00:37:20
kids and your grandkids are able to stay
00:37:23
within the middle class and you if you
00:37:26
manage your your money properly and you
00:37:29
not only teach them well about money but
00:37:32
also them a healthy sum you will be able
00:37:35
to replicate your position in the middle
00:37:37
class and that is sort of my goal it's
00:37:40
to make sure that my kids and my
00:37:42
grandkids continue to be financially
00:37:46
successful and I do that not only by
00:37:49
talking to my kids about money on a
00:37:50
regular basis talking to them about how
00:37:52
much they can expect to inherit trying
00:37:54
to make sure that they have good
00:37:56
financial habits but also by leaving
00:38:00
them a decent sum of money it's very
00:38:01
important to me well and getting back to
00:38:03
the topic of timelines I mean it's it's
00:38:05
very interesting that you bring that up
00:38:06
Jonathan because now it's important for
00:38:09
every investor to understand in your
00:38:11
particular case that your timeline for
00:38:14
at least a portion of your assets it's
00:38:15
not really your timeline per se it's
00:38:17
your children's timeline and that adds
00:38:20
decades on to whatever your timeline
00:38:23
would have been and an analogous
00:38:25
scenario is when someone has the hopes
00:38:27
of leaving a large sum of money to say
00:38:29
charity or to an endowment the
00:38:30
University of X changed my life and so I
00:38:33
plan on leaving a million dollars to the
00:38:35
University of X well that's probably
00:38:37
going to be a gift that the university
00:38:39
uses in perpetuity or it might be and in
00:38:42
that case there's a very long timeline
00:38:44
on that particular sum of money and so
00:38:46
if the university had its way they would
00:38:48
probably say we want you to invest it in
00:38:50
the long long run I mean no bonds right
00:38:53
essentially what we're getting back to
00:38:54
here is no bonds and so that that for
00:38:56
that portion of your particular assets
00:38:58
that you plan on leaving to your
00:38:59
children again that's where the the
00:39:01
asset allocation conversation comes back
00:39:03
into play because we'd say yeah it
00:39:05
probably doesn't make sense for any
00:39:06
bonds to be there you want to be in kind
00:39:08
of the longest duration assets you could
00:39:10
find and in your case that leads back to
00:39:13
this 8020 mix that might not seem normal
00:39:16
for every 61y old but for you is very
00:39:19
well thought out you're very comfortable
00:39:20
with it and that really is ultimately
00:39:22
important in the individual investor
00:39:25
conversation so just something else to
00:39:28
think about here and again I think your
00:39:30
audience is probably somewhat younger so
00:39:32
this is maybe aspirational at this point
00:39:34
but I was a father at age 25 which is
00:39:36
ridiculously young nobody should be a
00:39:38
father that that young but I was and so
00:39:41
my kids are in their 30s now and by the
00:39:45
time I check out they will be retirement
00:39:47
age they may will be retired so at that
00:39:50
point my money is not going to be that
00:39:53
useful to them so one of the things that
00:39:56
I've taken to doing in years is starting
00:39:58
to make gifts to them because I realized
00:40:01
the money is going to be much more
00:40:03
useful to them now than it will be later
00:40:05
on you know I'm obviously I'm not going
00:40:07
to be Reckless about it but I am
00:40:09
starting to make Financial gifts to them
00:40:12
within the uh the gift tax limit and you
00:40:16
know it's it means a lot to them it
00:40:18
gives them a sense of Financial Security
00:40:20
I mean they they're both very smart
00:40:22
about money they're they have good jobs
00:40:25
and so on and so on so I'm not really
00:40:26
worried about it somehow corrupting them
00:40:28
um but it does give them an added sense
00:40:30
of Financial Security and I think that's
00:40:31
great well that makes me think of
00:40:33
another interesting topic Jonathan that
00:40:34
just I I would think your career might
00:40:37
have you have you really well positioned
00:40:39
for it and then here you are with two
00:40:40
grown children and now all of a sudden
00:40:42
there is a pretty significant transition
00:40:44
of of assets going on and and the topic
00:40:46
really is just conversations with your
00:40:48
children and and maybe these are
00:40:50
conversations that you would have had
00:40:51
with them growing up and for some of our
00:40:53
younger listeners it's conversations to
00:40:55
have with your eight or 10 or 12
00:40:56
year-old kids but for other listeners
00:40:58
and and for you right now Jonathan it's
00:41:00
conversations to have with your adult
00:41:02
children about the money you're earning
00:41:05
the the wealth of the family how you
00:41:06
choose to spend your money in your case
00:41:08
how you're choosing to gift them money
00:41:10
does that idea does that topic bring
00:41:12
about any interesting thoughts from from
00:41:13
you and your experience so one yes I
00:41:16
think that having an ongoing
00:41:19
conversation about money with your
00:41:21
family from a young age is really
00:41:24
important but let's let's throw in a big
00:41:26
caveat here which is kids are not stupid
00:41:28
you know they will learn not just from
00:41:30
what you say but also from what you do
00:41:32
so if you spend every evening on the
00:41:35
computer online shopping if the Amazon
00:41:39
guy is your best friend that's the
00:41:41
lesson they're going to learn it doesn't
00:41:43
matter what you tell them about
00:41:44
frugality if you don't live those words
00:41:47
they will learn from what you're doing
00:41:49
not from what you're saying so for
00:41:50
goodness sake model good financial
00:41:53
behavior because that is what they will
00:41:55
learn from and and how about on the top
00:41:57
topic of gifting I'm just curious you
00:41:59
know are there any not strings attached
00:42:01
that's the wrong way of saying it but
00:42:03
what is the conversation like when as
00:42:05
you're making these gifts I don't know
00:42:06
is there is there any sort of Greater
00:42:08
kind of estate planning conversation
00:42:10
that you're having with the kids at this
00:42:11
point any sort of dialogue that goes
00:42:13
along with here's this pretty
00:42:15
significant gift from me to you because
00:42:17
it's probably useful more useful to you
00:42:19
right now than it will be in 30 years so
00:42:21
a couple points here one is I have been
00:42:24
giving my kids money from relatively
00:42:27
early on and so they are used to
00:42:30
handling sums of money they've shown to
00:42:32
me that they're not going to be
00:42:35
propagate with it so I don't feel like I
00:42:38
need to sort of give them money with
00:42:40
strings attached I know they're going to
00:42:42
use it sensibly we've got over that
00:42:44
hurdle I mean obviously if if you give
00:42:46
money to your kids and they immediately
00:42:48
squander it the alarm Bell should be
00:42:50
going off and you should be more careful
00:42:52
with the next gift I mean that's why if
00:42:54
you're going to give Financial gifts to
00:42:55
your kids you want to St small and work
00:42:59
up over time so that you see how they
00:43:02
handle it but too you I'm super open
00:43:05
with my kids I mean they know the size
00:43:06
of my portfolio when I revise my will I
00:43:09
immediately you know scan it and email
00:43:12
the PDF to them you know they know who
00:43:14
the beneficiaries are on my IRAs and so
00:43:18
on and so on I'm totally open about it
00:43:20
and I think you know everybody should be
00:43:22
in fact I this may not sound like a
00:43:24
wonderful experience but in February I
00:43:26
flew down down to Florida to B Ron where
00:43:29
my mother lives in a Continuing Care
00:43:30
retirement community she's 84 years old
00:43:33
about to turn 85 and the explicit reason
00:43:37
I went down was to spend time touring
00:43:41
her apartment at the Continuing Care
00:43:42
retirement community so that she could
00:43:44
show me where everything was what's
00:43:46
really important to her who she wants to
00:43:48
get what I realize you know many
00:43:51
families you know money is a taboo topic
00:43:53
and it they're on conversations like
00:43:55
that but in the case of my mother you
00:43:56
know she's modeling great Behavior there
00:43:58
she's showing that she's completely open
00:44:01
about money and you when she goes things
00:44:05
should be super easy in fact my mother
00:44:07
is so concerned that her paring will be
00:44:10
super easy that my sister and I joke
00:44:12
that if she could she'd figure out a way
00:44:14
to bury herself I mean she's just she is
00:44:17
so determined that it'd be as easy as
00:44:19
possible for us well well thank you for
00:44:21
for sharing that with us Jonathan thank
00:44:23
you for sharing your money Journey your
00:44:25
family's money journey and and doing so
00:44:28
I mean this is going to be very punny
00:44:29
but doing so very humbly today if they
00:44:31
want to find a copy of my money Journey
00:44:33
your book if they want to read your work
00:44:36
and and the amazing roster of author's
00:44:38
work at humble dollar how can listeners
00:44:41
reach out to you or or find the various
00:44:43
pieces of work that that you've
00:44:44
contributed to check out humbled
00:44:46
dollar.com huge number of Articles
00:44:49
available including you know countless
00:44:51
articles by me we're putting up a couple
00:44:53
new pieces of content every day if you
00:44:56
dig into the ite you'll find that
00:44:58
articles are organized by writer so you
00:45:01
if there's a writer you like you can go
00:45:02
back and read their past articles I mean
00:45:04
one of the things that you know Jesse is
00:45:06
that personal finance tends to be pretty
00:45:08
Timeless you know people get wound up
00:45:11
because the market went up or down today
00:45:13
you know what's it going to do tomorrow
00:45:14
blah blah blah blah blah but the fact is
00:45:17
the principles of sound personal
00:45:20
financial management are pretty Timeless
00:45:22
and if you come to humbl doll.com and
00:45:24
you read a bunch of the the articles
00:45:27
you'll get a lot of wisdom including
00:45:29
some wisdom from this guy called Jesse
00:45:30
Kramer who's you know written up one
00:45:32
piece for the site and we got another
00:45:33
one on Deck by you in terms of my books
00:45:37
obviously they're all available from
00:45:39
amazon.com if you're going to read any
00:45:41
of what any of them yes my money journey
00:45:43
I think is a good read the other book
00:45:44
for which I'm best known is a book
00:45:47
called How to think about money which
00:45:48
came out in 200 16 and it's really a
00:45:52
book about how to think about money
00:45:55
about my financial philosophy
00:45:57
it has been the the bestselling book
00:45:59
that I have written It's relatively easy
00:46:01
read it's not a long book and if you
00:46:04
want to see how I think and learn a bit
00:46:07
more about managing money I would
00:46:08
encourage folks to pick up that one
00:46:09
wonderful we'll make sure we will throw
00:46:11
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00:46:13
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00:46:15
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00:46:17
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00:46:19
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00:46:23
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  • Money and Happiness Research
    Studies suggest high income buys life satisfaction but not necessarily happiness.
    “High income buys life satisfaction but not happiness.”
    @ 04m 24s
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  • The Importance of Flexibility
    Money may not buy happiness, but it certainly buys flexibility and choices in life.
    “I don’t know if money buys happiness, but it certainly buys flexibility.”
    @ 05m 31s
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  • The Joy of Giving
    As we age, giving away money becomes a source of joy and fulfillment.
    “Giving away money becomes a great source of joy.”
    @ 15m 21s
    June 05, 2024
  • The Purpose of Retirement
    Retirement isn't just about relaxation; it's about finding purpose and staying engaged.
    “I mean if I knew that I was going to make it to my 90s, I would be completely motivated to keep working.”
    @ 20m 26s
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  • Financial Freedom Essentials
    Good savings habits are crucial for financial freedom; control your spending to avoid struggles.
    “If you want financial freedom, you need to be able to control your spending.”
    @ 21m 50s
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  • The Importance of Enough
    Setting financial goals is vital; don't keep moving the goalposts.
    “You should write your magic number on a piece of paper and stick it on the refrigerator.”
    @ 22m 56s
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  • Annuities and Financial Security
    Immediate fixed annuities can provide lifetime income and financial peace of mind.
    “Immediate fixed annuities are a very reasonable product you should consider.”
    @ 35m 11s
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  • Gifting Money to Children
    Gifting money to children can provide them with immediate financial security.
    “Money is going to be much more useful to them now than it will be later.”
    @ 40m 01s
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  • The Importance of Financial Conversations
    Having ongoing discussions about money with your family is crucial for their understanding.
    “Kids are not stupid; they learn from what you do, not just what you say.”
    @ 41m 28s
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  • Open Conversations About Money
    Discussing financial matters openly can ease future transitions of assets within families.
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