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Life Expectancy, Caregiving Costs, & Retirement Planning | Christine Benz - E103

March 26, 2025 / 52:58

This episode features Christine Benz, director of personal finance at Morningstar, discussing retirement planning, her book "How to Retire," and insights from various retirement experts.

Jesse Kramer introduces Christine Benz, highlighting her extensive experience in personal finance and retirement. They discuss the evolution of financial planning conversations, moving from investment selection to a more holistic approach.

Christine shares personal experiences with her parents' retirement planning, emphasizing the importance of having a competent advisor or a trusted family member to manage finances as one ages.

The conversation also touches on the unique financial challenges women face in retirement, including caregiving roles that impact their savings and investment strategies.

Finally, they explore the significance of planning for retirement, addressing both financial and non-financial aspects, and the need for open communication between partners regarding their retirement goals.

TL;DR

Christine Benz discusses retirement planning insights from her book and the importance of holistic financial strategies.

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Welcome to personal finance for
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long-term investors, where we believe
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Benjamin Franklin's advice that an
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investment in knowledge pays the best
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interest both in finances and in your
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life. Every episode teaches you personal
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finance and long-term investing in
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simple terms. Now, here's your host,
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Jesse
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Kramer. Hello and welcome to episode 103
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of Personal Finance for Long-Term
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Investors. My name is Jesse Kramer.
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Today, Christine Benz is joining us.
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Christine. You might know of her from
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her Morning Star fame, if you will.
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Christine is the director of personal
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finance at Morning Star and the host of
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the Long View podcast, which features
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Nobel laureates, A-list economists, and
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billionaire investors. Christine is a
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true expert when it comes to the ins and
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outs of well, personal finance general,
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but especially retirement. And we spend
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some of today's conversation discussing
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the interesting things she learned from
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other retirement experts while writing
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her book, which is called How to Retire.
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Before Christine joins us, I'm going to
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share a few thoughts with you. Uh, my
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own thoughts and first read one of our
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customary reviews of the week. This is a
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five-star review from Apple Podcasts
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where MG Taylor wrote in and said, "I
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love this pod. Jesse does a great job
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relaying highquality personal finance
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info. I've really enjoyed listening.
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From hosting quality guests, AMAs, deep
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dives on technical concepts or the
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psychology of money and saving and
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investing. You man, Jesse, keep it up."
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Well, MG, thank you very much for the
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kind words. Feel free to shoot me an
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email to
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jesse@bestinterinterinterinterinterinterinterinterinterinterinterest.blog
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and we will send you a supersoft
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bestinterest t-shirt. Yes, the t-shirts
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still say bestin interest. They don't
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say personal finance for long-term
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investors yet. Let me work through some
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of these best interest t-shirts and then
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we'll get new PFF LTI t-shirts at some
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point in the near future. Okay, before
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Christine joins us to dive into
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retirement topics, I want to share a few
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retirement topics of my own or just a
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few articles that I've written over the
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last year or two that have these
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interesting kind of tangential
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retirement topics associated with them.
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So, first I'm going to read from an
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article I wrote called Some Bets I'm
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Willing to Make. And this article starts
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with a a true story, a bachelor party
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that I was a part of, an attendee of.
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The party decided to go to a casino and
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I happily went along for the ride. the
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behavioral finance nerd in me was ready
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to witness some some pretty interesting,
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fascinating behavior. I'm not too much
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of a gambler myself. I I maybe
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occasionally will play poker for
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entertainment, and it certainly can be
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entertaining. But gambling, especially
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at a casino, is not financially savvy.
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As as long as you know that, you'll be
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okay, albeit most likely a little bit
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lighter in the wallet. And this
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particular casino had an engaging loss
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leader. You know, a loss leader is a
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strategy where a company has a product
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that it sells or a service that it sells
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at a price below its market cost to
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stimulate other sales of more profitable
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goods or services. Right? I mean, we've
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all seen it in our lives, if we're not
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familiar with it, where a company will
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intentionally give away something for
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free or intentionally give away
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something for a very cheap price to then
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encourage you, the customer, to come in
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and actually spend more money. That's a
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loss leader. Now, this particular casino
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offered all of us
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$1515 $15 in free casino credit to all
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of us new gamblers. The scheme, of
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course, is pretty cynical. You know,
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they hope that those free bets will hook
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you knowing, they know full well that a
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regular gambler is surely to lose back
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more than the free $15 over a long
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period of time. And all it really takes
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is one true gambling addict to make up
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for hundreds of free giveaways. Like I
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said, that's pretty cynical. Now, most
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of our friends from the Bachelor Party,
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most of them went to the blackjack table
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where, if you didn't know this, as
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you're listening, the perhand odds of
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winning at blackjack are about 42% for
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the player and 50% for the house and
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roughly 8% of of ending in a tie. And
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so, most of the bachelor party
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attendees, they went to the blackjack
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table and they bet their own money on
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top of the free $15 in credit. My buddy
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and I, we kind of cheaped out. We took
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our $15 free casino cards. We went over
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to the dollar slot machines and we
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basically said, "Let's push some
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buttons. Let's have some free fun and
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we'll do that until the $15 disappears."
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But we got kind of lucky. My friend
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Trey, he turned his $15 into 80 bucks of
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real money. And in the same period, I
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turned my $15 into about $200. So our
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$30 of of free casino credit became
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about $30 real dollars. And at that
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point, once we realized what was
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happening in front of us, we decided to
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count our blessings and we walked away.
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And you know what? We we bought a round
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of drinks and we said, "Guys, some of
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the appetizers are on us, you know."
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Meanwhile though, the blackjack players,
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they ultimately played until all their
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chips disappeared. A few of them lost a
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couple hundred bucks. They had their
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fun, but yeah, they ended up losing uh
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all their money. And when a few of them
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learned of our quote unquote success at
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the slot machines, they felt a little
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bit agrieved by our dumb luck. I get it.
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I understand. But if we look strictly at
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the financials, I personally see a clear
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takeaway from this story. Trey and I or
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my friend and I, we played quote unquote
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in a way that was literally impossible
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to lose as long as we didn't succumb to
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any impulse to wager our own money. We
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had a 0% chance of losing money in that
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casino. Granted, at the end, you know,
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we got lucky to leave with any sort of
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gains, right? I think the probability is
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that we would have taken the 15 free
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dollars, spent it down to zero, and
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walked away with nothing. But because we
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had this agreement or this shared
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thought, I should say that we didn't
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really want to wager our own money, we
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knew that there was a zero percent
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chance of us losing. But the way the
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blackjack guys played, in my opinion,
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they played in a way that was guaranteed
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to lose, barring any sort of luck.
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Right? the more hands they played, each
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hand with a 42% chance that they would
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win, but a 50% chance that the casino
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would win. Every hand they played
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increased the probability that they
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would lose money and walk away at a net
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loss. And okay, part of this story is
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that it's true. I'm not the most fun guy
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at a casino, but I would implore all of
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you listening to apply a similar idea to
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your investing, thinking about the odds.
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Now, the market is not a casino, and
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that's the first thing we need to talk
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about, and investing isn't, or at least
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shouldn't be gambling. I can understand
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at times why it feels that way,
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especially when we hear stories about a
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GameStop or an AMC or a Tesla or Bitcoin
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or Nvidia. Big wins, uh, sometimes big
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losses over very short periods of time.
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That feels like gambling. But the market
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as a whole especially is not gambling.
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It's not roulette. simply it represents
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the ownership of businesses, right?
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We've talked about that many times here
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before. A small slice of the global
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economy that we each own through our
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stock portfolios. And owning a business
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is not the same as blind gambling.
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You're not depending on the fall of the
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dice or the flip of a card to fall your
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way. Stock investing involves exchanging
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money today for the future income stream
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of that particular business or in the
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case of a broad fund of stocks, the
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future income stream of the global
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economy. The economy doesn't over or
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underperform based on dice or cards.
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Investing in stocks, at least the way I
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implore all of us to approach it, is not
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gambling. But the stock market isn't a
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guarantee either, right? There will be
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times when we invest on Monday only to
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see our investments decline in value on
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Tuesday. In fact, the shorter our
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investment period, you guys might know
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this, the shorter our investment period,
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the more likely we will see losses in
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our portfolio. Now, I don't want to play
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blackjack with my retirement. I don't
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want to make coin flip bets. And the
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more the odds are in my favor, the more
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I'm willing to wager, right? The more
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I'm willing to put on the line. In one
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of Bergkshire Hathway's annual meetings,
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uh this is up on YouTube. Warren Buffett
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says something akin to roughly speaking,
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he goes, quote, "If you give me five to
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seven odds, we'd be willing to wager a
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very large sum of money." For what it's
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worth, five to seven odds is roughly a
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60% chance of winning. Now, personally,
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I don't have enough extra money to make
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too many bets that are a 60% chance of
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winning. I'd much rather make bets that
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are a 90% or a 95% or a guarantee to
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win. I really want to feel sure that I'm
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going to walk away a winner. Now, the
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longer you invest in the stock market,
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the more likely you will walk away with
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profits. And that's a wager I'm willing
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to make. In this article and the link we
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will share in the show notes, it shows a
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great graph that shows total market
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returns from like the 1870s until
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basically today over uh 1 month and two
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month and three month and five month and
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one year and three year and five and 10
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and 20 and 30 year holding periods. And
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the shorter the period, the two months
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and the 3 months and the four months,
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you have roughly a 60% chance of making
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money in the stock market. But if you're
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willing to wait 10 years or 15 years or
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20 or 30 years, your odds of making
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money in the stock market, at least
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historically, have approached 100%. High
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80s, mid9s, all the way up to 100%.
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Granted, is is the future going to mimic
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the past? Well, of course, that is the
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trillion dollar question, but it's a bet
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I'm willing to make. Now, as of writing
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this article originally, the S&P 500 was
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at 5,500. As I'm speaking these words to
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you right now and talking to you in this
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recording, the S&P is much closer to
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6,000. Now, I ask myself the question,
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will the S&P 500 be higher or lower in
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one month from now? Now, I don't know
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the answer to that question. And to be
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honest with you, I don't care. I don't
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want to make that bet, and I'm not
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making stock market bets over the next
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month. Here's another question to ask
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yourself. So, as of this, as I said, as
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I'm speaking into this microphone, the
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S&P 500's at about 6,000. Will the S&P
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hit 6,100 or 5,900 next? In other words,
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will it increase 100 points from now
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before it decreases 100 points from now?
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I don't really want that bet either cuz
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both those bets I just described involve
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short periods of time and or really
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small changes in the market. You know,
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100 points out of 6,000, that's roughly
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a 2% change in the market. And those
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bets, at least according to historical
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data, those are too close to being 50/50
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bets. And I don't want to take 5050 bets
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with my money. It's too risky for me.
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And that's why, in my opinion, stock
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investing is inappropriate over short
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periods. It's inappropriate if you're
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only trying to ek out a one or a 2%
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quick hit return, 1 month, 6 months,
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even out to a few years. Stocks aren't
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appropriate over those kind of
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timelines. But then if I think of a bet
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that says, will the S&P 500 be higher or
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lower in 10 years? Will it be higher or
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lower in 20 years or more? Well, now
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we're starting to talk about bets that
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I'm willing to make, and it's a pretty
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sizable bet that I'm willing to make at
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that. I've got a lot of money on the
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line. I'm not sure it's going to pay
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off, right? I'm not positive that it'll
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pay off, but I really like my odds. Now,
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will the S&P 500 hit, call it 9,000
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before it hits 3,000, right? Will it go
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50% up before it goes 50% down? I'm not
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positive, right? 50% declines in the
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market do occasionally happen. They have
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happened before, but they're not too
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frequent. 50% increases actually are
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much more common. So when it comes to
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this particular bet, I'm an optimist
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here. I like the odds being in my favor.
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I care about long periods of time and
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steady compounded returns over those
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periods of time. And the odds are
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clearly in the investor's favor in our
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favor when looking at those kind of time
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scales. Those are some bets that I'm
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willing to make. All right, the next
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retirement topic, a kind of a quick one,
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and it comes from an article I wrote in
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April 2023, and we will link it in the
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show notes. And the article is simply
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called, "How long will you live?"
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Because I was reading in April 2023, and
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I saw a headline stating, most people
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don't understand life expectancy data,
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which means they don't understand the
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fundamental aspect of retirement
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planning. A 20-year retirement is
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drastically different than a 30-year or
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a 40-year retirement. Specifically, the
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headline said, "More than half of US
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adults are jeopardizing retirement
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preparedness with poor life expectancy
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knowledge report says. So, let's answer
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that question right now. How long will
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you live?" Well, as of 2020, the average
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American male lived for about 75 years.
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The average American female lives for
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about 80 years. But wait, there's more.
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Because imagine you're 55 years old
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right now and you're planning your
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retirement. How long should you plan
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for? Well, if you're a male, you might
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say, "Well, about 20 years, right? the
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average death 75 minus your current age
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of 55 yields 20 years and for females
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the answer would be 25 years because
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you're 55 right now and you die at age
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80. But that's actually the wrong
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approach because the average death of 75
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and 80 years respectively accounts for
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all deaths at all ages including all
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those unfortunate deaths that occur
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before age 55. Once you've already hit
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age 55, you've avoided those premature
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deaths meaning that your most likely age
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of death will actually be above average.
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We can look at the Social Security
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Administration's actuarial data to see
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that truth in action. And I have a link
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to this in the article. So, if you want
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to check it out yourself, go to the show
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notes. The average 55-year-old male will
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actually live another 24 years to age
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79. That's 4 years beyond the average of
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all males. And the average 55-year-old
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female will live another 28 years to age
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83. That's 3 years beyond the average
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age of all females. The true midlife for
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the average American man is 38 years
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old. Because at age 38 their average
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remaining life expectancy is another 38
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years. And for women true midlife is age
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40. Because at age 40 the average life
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expectancy is another 40 years. Now
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maybe you haven't planned much of your
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retirement and you're sitting down say
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at age 65 to figure out your retirement.
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You have on average 17 more years to
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live as a man and 20 more years to live
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as a woman. That's 82 years old in total
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for men and then 85 years old in total
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for women. Now, every year matters in
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retirement planning. The difference
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between dying at age 74 and 79 and 82,
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it's a big difference. Not only that,
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but you might live longer than the
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average. For example, a 55year-old
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American male listening to this right
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now has the probability of reaching age
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75. Well, it's about 64% that he'll
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reach age 75. About 50% that he'll reach
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age 80. about 30% that he'll reach age
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85 and about 13% that he'll reach age
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90. Now 13% might sound small, but it's
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a 1 in8 chance. It's nothing to ignore.
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In short, as part of your retirement
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planning, don't look at the average life
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expectancy for all people. If you're
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going to look at an average, you should
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certainly start with the average life
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expectancy of people your age. Then
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potentially bake in some conservatism on
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top of that because there's a 50% chance
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you'll live longer than average. Now,
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when it actually comes to things like uh
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when to take social security, estate
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planning, insurance planning, those kind
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of things, I also highly, highly, highly
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recommend you factor in your own family
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history. At the end of the day, there
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might be no better indicator of your
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life expectancy than your family
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history. Yes, environment does play a
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huge role, so you do want to take care
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of yourself. But if you have four
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grandparents who lived into their 90s,
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right? If you have two parents who are
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currently 85 and and strong as oxen and
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and you're sitting there at age 50, odds
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are you're going to live into your 80s
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and well into your 90s, right? There's
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just a good chance genetics play a huge
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role. If you have two parents who died
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prematurely at age 50 and you're at age
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55 and you have a bunch of health
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concerns yourself, I I think it's okay
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to assume that you might live less than
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the average person and it's okay to make
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those assumptions and bake them into
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your retirement plan. It's a really
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interesting conversation. It's a little
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touchy, right? Because it deals with
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life and death. It deals with our own
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mortality and it's never something that
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we want to think about. But the point
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being, if you're out there doing some
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DIY retirement planning, it behooves you
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to understand your own life expectancy.
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And the last one today on the topic of
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retirement planning from a recent
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February 2025 article on the best
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interest blog, an article that I titled
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The Man Who Never Looked Up. I was
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hoping that would be a catchy title. I'm
00:16:01
not I'm not sure if it worked or not,
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but The Man Who Never Looked Up. I'm
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reading and I've just about finished
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Morgan Hel's recent book titled Same as
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Ever. And one of the chapters in that
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book is called The Best Story Wins. The
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idea is pretty fascinating and it
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probably makes sense to all of us. The
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takeaway is that as humans we promote or
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discount particular ideas simply because
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of the story told around that idea.
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Which means that at times we will ignore
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a great idea because it involved a bad
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story or because we heard a bad story
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about it. And other times we're going to
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promote a terrible idea because of a
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good story that we've heard about it.
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And Hel the author Morgan Howell
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challenges all of us readers or for you
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guys all of you listeners to ask
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yourselves in your lives who is someone
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in my life who has the right answer but
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I ignore them because they're
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inarticulate or what do I believe is
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true but is actually just good
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marketing. I immediately thought of one
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of my former engineering colleagues in
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our early years working together. I saw
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him as quirky, obtuse, at times
00:17:00
unprofessional, and overall just a bit
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of an oddball. Over time though, I
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realized, yes, while all those things
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were still true, every room that he was
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in, he was always one of the smartest
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people in the room. And okay, call me a
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jerk, but I think the average person
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sometimes can confound or confuse a
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quirky personality with an intelligent
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personality. Think about um like the Big
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Bang Theory. She's so strange, she must
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be a genius or something. No, I I
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disagree. Just because someone is weird
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enough to memorize Wikipedia doesn't
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necessarily make them intelligent.
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Hollywood might have taught us to
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correlate weird with smart, but I don't
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buy it. This former engineering
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coworker, though, I know enough to know
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that he was genuinely brilliant and
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coincidentally also very quirky. But the
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problem that he faced was that 99% of
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our shared colleagues, of our customers,
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of the stakeholders, they couldn't
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really get past his strange exterior to
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see, to understand, and appreciate the
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genius underneath. His story, as Morgan
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Hel would say, the way he presented
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himself was a perfect example of Morgan
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Hel's idea that a bad story can discount
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a terrific idea. Nobody took him as
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seriously as they should have. I thought
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of this idea again recently when I spoke
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to one of my clients. They emailed me
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with an insurance pitch that they
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received. The video featured this very
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affable, well-dressed, wellspoken
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insurance guy. He explained the untold
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downsides of all the traditional
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retirement investing advice, the kind of
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things that I talk about here on the
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podcast while preaching his own
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incredible upsides of the universal
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indexed life insurance that he was
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selling. All the upside, none of the
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downside. and you get a free steak if
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you go attend his seminar. Now, it was a
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great story, though, and it was
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delivered smooth as butter. And I've
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seen these pitches before. I've seen the
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math. The math they use is patently
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untrue. And the language they use is
00:18:52
usually overly emotional. It stirs up
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the audience's deepest fears. You know,
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if I can scare to you, I can sell to
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you. That kind of thing. But to the
00:19:00
unknowing outside listener or viewer,
00:19:02
I'm sure this insurance pitch works.
00:19:04
It's a good story. Now, is it dishonest?
00:19:06
Of course it is. And if a viewer sees
00:19:08
through that lie, well, the jig is up.
00:19:10
But until that point, it seems like a
00:19:12
conversation worth continuing. And by
00:19:14
looking at the size of big insurance out
00:19:16
there, all the names that you might have
00:19:18
heard of, you see their commercials on
00:19:19
TV. There's no shortage of people having
00:19:22
those conversations with insurance
00:19:23
salespeople. Meanwhile, what's going on
00:19:25
on the independent fiduciary side of the
00:19:27
financial industry? Well, the smart
00:19:29
long-term financial planning principles
00:19:31
we discuss here are immensely valuable.
00:19:33
And I think the stories I share here on
00:19:35
the podcast or on my blog, they add some
00:19:37
spice, add some flavor to the topics, I
00:19:39
hope it's somewhat entertaining to all
00:19:40
you listening. But is it exciting? Or is
00:19:43
it at times maybe a little boring, a
00:19:45
little repetitive, lacking some
00:19:46
boogeyman to fear? So, I'd like to
00:19:49
present to you the man who never looked
00:19:51
up. Ryan had a plan. Or so he thought.
00:19:54
Work hard, earn more, save later. He
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wasn't irresponsible, per se. He paid
00:19:59
his bills, avoided credit card debt. He
00:20:00
even put a little bit into his 401k. But
00:20:03
retirement, well, that was a problem for
00:20:04
future Ryan. For now, Ryan had bigger
00:20:07
things to focus on. The next promotion,
00:20:09
the next house upgrade, the next family
00:20:11
vacation. So, he kept his head down,
00:20:13
grinding, hustling, living in the
00:20:15
moment. And then one day, he looked up.
00:20:17
He was 55. Retirement wasn't some
00:20:19
distant concept anymore. It was right
00:20:21
there staring him in the face. But he
00:20:23
wasn't ready. His savings not nearly
00:20:26
enough. His investments scattered and
00:20:28
inconsistent. His timeline pushed back
00:20:31
yet again. Ryan had done what so many
00:20:33
people do. He spent decades focused on
00:20:35
the next step, never stopping to see the
00:20:37
bigger picture, never looking up. And
00:20:39
what if he had started sooner? If he had
00:20:42
invested consistently so that time, not
00:20:44
effort, did the heavy lifting? If he
00:20:46
built a real plan so his future wasn't
00:20:48
just a vague idea. If he optimized his
00:20:50
choices so that he kept more of what he
00:20:52
earned. The truth about retirement isn't
00:20:54
complicated. You don't drift into it.
00:20:56
You plan for it. Because someday you'll
00:20:58
look up. The only question is whether
00:21:00
you'll like what you see. Here's a quick
00:21:03
ad and then we'll get back to the show.
00:21:04
I still remember it was 2019 and a guy
00:21:07
from Fidelity came in to speak to my
00:21:09
then employer about personal finance in
00:21:11
general and about our 401k plan in
00:21:13
particular. There were 60 or so of us
00:21:15
who attended, mostly 50 plus years old,
00:21:18
clearly with retirement on their minds.
00:21:20
And nothing against this individual from
00:21:22
Fidelity, but unfortunately the guy just
00:21:24
didn't really know what he was talking
00:21:25
about. It ended up being a major
00:21:26
disappointment and a bunch of my
00:21:28
colleagues afterwards said in short, you
00:21:30
know, man, we're really thirsty for good
00:21:32
financial retirement information. Where
00:21:34
do we go find it? Now, does that sound
00:21:37
true, listeners, for you and your
00:21:38
colleagues? Last year, either in person
00:21:41
or via Zoom, I spoke to about 800
00:21:43
employees at 11 different organizations.
00:21:46
sometimes about personal finance in
00:21:47
general, sometimes about specifics of
00:21:49
their retirement plans, sometimes about
00:21:51
the the nitty-gritty details of social
00:21:53
security and withdrawal planning and
00:21:54
retirement math. The point being, if
00:21:57
you're interested in inviting me to come
00:21:59
talk money to you, to your colleagues,
00:22:00
where you work, that is absolutely
00:22:02
something I'm interested in talking to
00:22:04
you about. Simply drop me an email to
00:22:07
jessebinterest.blog and let's start a
00:22:09
conversation. And with that, I would
00:22:11
like to bring Christine Benz onto the
00:22:12
podcast. Again, Christine is the
00:22:14
director of personal finance at Morning
00:22:16
Star and the host of the Long View
00:22:17
podcast featuring Nobel laureates, Alys
00:22:20
economists, and billionaire investors.
00:22:22
Christine's true expertise is about
00:22:23
retirement planning. And today, we spend
00:22:25
much of the conversation discussing the
00:22:27
many interesting things that Christine
00:22:29
learned from other retirement experts
00:22:30
while writing her book, How to Retire.
00:22:33
So, without further ado, here's
00:22:34
Christine Benz.
00:22:37
[Music]
00:22:41
Well, Christine, thank you for joining
00:22:42
the podcast today. And my understanding
00:22:45
is that you've been with Morning Star
00:22:46
for over 30 years. You're currently the
00:22:48
director of personal finance, retirement
00:22:50
planning, as we said in the intro. And
00:22:52
so, with that kind of experience and in
00:22:54
your capacity in your role, I'd love to
00:22:56
get an understanding for how you view
00:22:59
the conversations around personal
00:23:01
finance and retirement planning have
00:23:03
evolved over the last 30 or 35 years,
00:23:06
you know, over over your career. How has
00:23:07
the public conversation changed? Thanks
00:23:10
so much for having me on. It's really
00:23:12
great to chat with you. I know we know
00:23:13
some of the same people and it's great
00:23:15
to to finally meet you. As far as how
00:23:17
the conversation has changed, it may
00:23:19
have something to do with my own kind of
00:23:21
evolution in terms of the work that I
00:23:23
focus on, but I do feel like we have
00:23:26
gotten away from focusing strictly on
00:23:30
investments more toward financial
00:23:33
planning matters. And that probably does
00:23:35
dovetail with kind of how I've chosen to
00:23:38
position my career. So I just am getting
00:23:40
more questions in the realm of financial
00:23:43
planning and retirement planning. But I
00:23:45
do think that the
00:23:47
conversation has had a healthy shift
00:23:50
away from an investment selection only
00:23:54
mindset toward one that is more holistic
00:23:57
and more planning based. And I think
00:24:00
that's all for the better. Do you find
00:24:03
that's true? And and when it comes to
00:24:04
maybe this might be a question that has
00:24:06
to do with Morning Star's actual
00:24:08
consumers and clients if you will. Do
00:24:11
you find that to be true from both the
00:24:13
side of professionals meaning the
00:24:15
advisers who you're working with at
00:24:16
Morning Star or who are reading Morning
00:24:18
Star or writing in but also I I think to
00:24:20
myself I most of my audience maybe 20%
00:24:23
of my audience are other adviserss or
00:24:26
planners. The other 80% tend to be
00:24:28
DIYers who are they enjoy learning more
00:24:31
about financial planning or just
00:24:33
investment management. So do you find
00:24:35
that to be what your your answer just
00:24:36
now is that true for both sides of the
00:24:38
aisle? In general, I would say it is
00:24:41
that the
00:24:43
advisor community seems to have gotten
00:24:46
away from advisor as portfolio manager.
00:24:49
And there are still some adviserss who,
00:24:51
you know, that is what they perceive to
00:24:53
be their main value ad. But it seems
00:24:56
like many other advisors and certainly
00:24:59
planners are looking more at holistic
00:25:04
planning. In fact, they're increasingly
00:25:07
outsourcing the investment selection to
00:25:10
a basket of inexpensive index funds or
00:25:13
ETFs. So, I feel like we've seen a
00:25:17
pretty clear migration there in the
00:25:19
advisor space with consumers. It still
00:25:22
is a mixed bag. We have a healthy share
00:25:24
of engaged individual investors on
00:25:26
morningstar.com who really do like the
00:25:30
process of either picking individual
00:25:33
stocks or picking individual funds. But
00:25:36
there again, I think we've seen many
00:25:40
individual investors appreciating the
00:25:43
virtue of a lowcost minimalist portfolio
00:25:47
composed of index funds and ETFs. the
00:25:49
fund flows very much tell that tale and
00:25:52
I think it's being driven by both types
00:25:54
of investors, their adviserss as well as
00:25:58
individual investors. So, you recently
00:26:00
published an excellent book, How to
00:26:02
Retire, where you interview 20 subject
00:26:05
matter experts and and we'll get into
00:26:07
some of these questions later because I
00:26:09
have some some pointed questions about
00:26:10
the book. I love the fact that basically
00:26:13
by by my count at least 10 of the 20
00:26:16
chapters are about what I'd call maybe
00:26:18
more nitty-gritty numerical objective
00:26:20
retirement topics and the other 10 are
00:26:23
about more subjective mental
00:26:25
psychological retirement topics and
00:26:27
alluding to what you just said about the
00:26:29
more planning focus that the industry
00:26:31
has taken over the recent decades. I
00:26:32
mean that is that marriage of the the
00:26:35
numerical and the more mental or the
00:26:37
softer psychological. But even before we
00:26:39
get into these 20 topics that you dive
00:26:41
into, I want to ask you about your
00:26:44
parents, Christine, and specifically
00:26:45
your dad, and the story that you share
00:26:48
in the introduction to your book, How to
00:26:50
Retire. Can you tell us that story and
00:26:52
and kind of how it shaped some of your
00:26:54
thoughts on financial planning and
00:26:56
family and and all these different ideas
00:26:57
and how they're intertwined? Sure. So, I
00:27:00
was very close to my mom and dad.
00:27:02
They've since passed away and was my
00:27:04
family's kind of quote unquote first
00:27:06
responder. I was the person living in
00:27:09
close proximity to my mom and dad and so
00:27:11
was frequently with them and ended up
00:27:14
helping them through the last years of
00:27:16
their lives when my dad had cognitive
00:27:19
decline and needed long-term care. My
00:27:21
mom eventually needed long-term care as
00:27:24
well. But I was able to be my dad's
00:27:27
buddy, investment buddy throughout his
00:27:30
journey. He was someone who always
00:27:32
really liked investing, was a stock
00:27:34
investor early on and then eventually a
00:27:36
mutual fund investor. And so he and I
00:27:38
frequently talked over investment
00:27:40
matters. And I think about his
00:27:42
transition into not being able to
00:27:44
oversee his portfolio was about as
00:27:46
smooth as you could get where he was all
00:27:49
in on letting me be on his accounts to
00:27:53
see what was going on. Eventually we
00:27:55
transferred it to where I was managing
00:27:57
my parents' money and then managing
00:27:59
other aspects of their financial lives
00:28:00
as well including bill paying the stuff
00:28:02
that my mom had handled. I think for
00:28:04
them it was you know a beautiful kind of
00:28:08
transition. They had this trusted adult
00:28:10
child who did this stuff for her job.
00:28:12
And I think about how rarified that is
00:28:15
that most people do not have that and
00:28:18
really need to put some thought into
00:28:21
well how do I create a plan that could
00:28:23
kind of manage itself for a while if it
00:28:26
needed to? How do I find a competent
00:28:29
advisor? A whole suite of considerations
00:28:32
that should accompany aging and
00:28:34
transitioning that portfolio into later
00:28:37
into life. And so I wanted to talk more
00:28:39
about those things. And that's been
00:28:41
something that I've focused a lot of my
00:28:43
work on for the past 10 or 15 years,
00:28:45
influenced in in no small part by that
00:28:47
experience with my mom and dad. Yeah,
00:28:49
it's funny you say that, Christina, and
00:28:51
I think about my own background. And I
00:28:53
don't know if I I don't think I've
00:28:54
shared this with you or maybe you found
00:28:55
out on your own. I was an engineer and
00:28:56
so my background is in engineering and I
00:28:58
went through this interesting little
00:29:00
career change that first involves
00:29:02
creating content because I was just
00:29:04
interested in investing in personal
00:29:05
finance and eventually led to now I'm
00:29:08
working at an RAIA. And when I was an
00:29:10
engineer and very much a dedicated
00:29:12
DIYer, I found this stuff so
00:29:14
interesting. I thought to myself, well,
00:29:16
I'm sure there are financial planners
00:29:18
out there who simply understand the
00:29:20
numbers better than I do, and that's
00:29:23
their value ad. And to some extent, now
00:29:25
that I'm in the industry, I see some
00:29:27
truth in that. But I was surprised in
00:29:31
some of the clients that I'm now working
00:29:32
with that it's far more common to hear
00:29:35
someone say, "No, no, it's not
00:29:37
necessarily about the numbers or it's
00:29:38
not that the client is saying, I don't
00:29:40
understand the numbers, Jesse, and you
00:29:42
do, and that's why I want to work with
00:29:43
you." It's also extremely common to
00:29:45
hear, "Well, if I got hit by a bus
00:29:47
tomorrow, my family wouldn't know what
00:29:48
to do, so that's why I'm outsourcing it
00:29:50
to you." Or, "Here I am, 60 years old
00:29:53
and in good health. I don't know if
00:29:55
it'll always be this way. So that's why
00:29:57
I want to onboard a competent adviser
00:30:00
right now. And so it's just that idea
00:30:01
that there is more to financial planning
00:30:04
than simply the numbers themselves and
00:30:06
optimizing the numbers themselves
00:30:08
because it really is about these
00:30:09
potential curve balls that life can
00:30:11
throw your way and depending on the
00:30:13
severity of that curveball, what you're
00:30:15
going to do once it comes. Yeah. No,
00:30:19
absolutely. I am someone who has a
00:30:21
financial planner myself and people are
00:30:23
sometimes surprised to hear that. But
00:30:25
one of the key reasons that we work with
00:30:27
her is that she is a receptacle of all
00:30:30
of our information if something happened
00:30:33
to us to my husband and me that she
00:30:36
would be there for our loved ones to say
00:30:38
okay what do they have and where is it
00:30:40
and you know she could help with that
00:30:43
transition. So, I do think that's a key
00:30:46
benefit, which is not to say everyone
00:30:48
needs an advisor all through their
00:30:51
accumulation and deumulation years, but
00:30:53
it does it does make sense to have at
00:30:57
least someone in place to keep track of
00:31:01
what you have. Maybe it's a super
00:31:02
trusted adult child who's very
00:31:04
financially competent, but I don't know
00:31:06
how common that configuration is. Yeah,
00:31:10
I completely agree because I I I can
00:31:11
also hear some of the listeners right
00:31:13
now saying that's all well and good,
00:31:15
Jesse and Christine, but still you're
00:31:17
you're not going to convince me to hire
00:31:18
someone full-time. And that is fine. And
00:31:20
and something we've talked about here
00:31:21
before is just the concept of, for
00:31:23
example, a life file or some people call
00:31:25
it a death file or just that's fine. If
00:31:27
if you're not going to have if you're
00:31:29
not going to outsource this to someone
00:31:30
on the outside, well, at the very least,
00:31:32
whoever your next of kin is or whoever
00:31:35
might be the executive of your estate,
00:31:37
you better put everything in order for
00:31:39
them so that if something happens, it
00:31:41
there's a smooth transition and
00:31:42
everybody's on the same page after you
00:31:44
die. Cuz those are, again, not to
00:31:46
fearonger, but some of the stories that
00:31:48
you hear about so and so passed away and
00:31:51
boy, it was a mess, cleaning up after
00:31:53
that was mess. Those are the kind of
00:31:54
things that ideally ideally we'd want to
00:31:56
avoid. Absolutely. Yeah. And I would
00:31:59
also say, Jesse, we don't pay our
00:32:00
planner every year. We find that our
00:32:03
advice needs are pretty episodic and we
00:32:06
are fine managing our portfolios. I I
00:32:08
would hope I would be able to do that
00:32:10
after all these years. So, we're fine
00:32:12
managing our portfolios, but we pay her
00:32:15
on an hourly basis, and it just works
00:32:16
out tremendously well for us. So, which
00:32:19
is not to say that model is the right
00:32:20
thing for everyone, but for us, it's
00:32:22
been a super good fit. Yeah. No, to
00:32:24
totally hear you. The most common
00:32:26
questions that I get as far as people
00:32:28
seeking out advice tends to is hourly.
00:32:31
The most common questions I get are
00:32:33
people seeking hourly advice and then
00:32:35
after that is usually a tie between
00:32:37
either annual flat fee versus annual aum
00:32:42
based fees. But it's funny, my the firm
00:32:44
that I work for here in Rochester, we
00:32:46
don't offer hourly guidance. At one
00:32:48
point we did, but strictly from a
00:32:49
business decision and you know where's
00:32:51
our revenue coming from and do we want
00:32:53
to diversify across these you know to
00:32:55
the listeners who aren't familiar I'm
00:32:56
sure Christine has some experience in
00:32:58
this like it takes quite a bit of
00:32:59
overhead to dedicate part of your firm
00:33:02
to the hourly advice model. It just
00:33:04
takes a different amount of overhead to
00:33:06
do the flat fee or the AOM model and we
00:33:08
basically said you know what we're a
00:33:10
solid business on this one fee model and
00:33:12
that's what we're going to stick with.
00:33:13
But at the same time, I see the value in
00:33:16
hourly advice, especially for someone
00:33:18
like me, someone like you, someone like
00:33:19
a lot of our listeners who say, "I never
00:33:21
have that many portfolio questions."
00:33:23
It's more about what happens after I
00:33:25
die. It's more about how do I do these
00:33:27
Roth conversions? And for them, some
00:33:29
sort of hourly or flat fee advisor makes
00:33:32
a lot of sense. There's a space for all
00:33:34
those different kind of adviserss. I
00:33:36
think of uh Cody Garrett who I know
00:33:37
you've had on the long view and he's
00:33:40
been here on the best interest and you
00:33:41
know he's a terrific example of someone
00:33:43
who exclusively works in the hourly
00:33:45
space and does a great job for his
00:33:47
clients but on the topic of experts I I
00:33:49
don't think Cody is in is in the how to
00:33:51
retire book Christine but he's not but I
00:33:54
love his work. Yeah, you still you found
00:33:56
some terrific terrific authors, writers,
00:33:59
uh storytellers to help you put that
00:34:00
book together. And I know this is a hard
00:34:03
question because it might be like
00:34:04
picking your favorite children, but did
00:34:07
any of the authors in the chapters
00:34:08
really stick out to you as something
00:34:10
that you feel like it's just not
00:34:12
discussed enough? A couple, Jesse, and I
00:34:15
will say I'm I'm someone who had
00:34:17
probably underrated all of the
00:34:20
non-financial aspects of retirement
00:34:22
planning while I was toying with bucket
00:34:24
portfolios and safe withdrawal rates and
00:34:26
all that stuff. I think I had not
00:34:28
thought enough about the non-financial
00:34:31
pieces. So, when I think about some of
00:34:33
my favorite chapters, those really stand
00:34:35
out. Early on in the book, I have a
00:34:37
conversation with Laura Karstensson,
00:34:39
who's a the director of the Stanford
00:34:42
Center on Longevity. And so, we talk
00:34:44
about the role of work in our lives. She
00:34:48
has made the point and she makes the
00:34:50
point in the book that the way we work
00:34:52
in this country is all wrong. She thinks
00:34:55
because people oftenimes show up in
00:34:57
retirement completely exhausted,
00:35:00
completely burned out. They are only
00:35:02
able to visualize sitting on the couch.
00:35:05
They really don't visualize a fuller
00:35:08
retirement. And so she makes the point
00:35:10
that we need to retire more often in
00:35:13
this country if we can. that there may
00:35:15
be times in our lives when young
00:35:18
children enter the picture. For example,
00:35:20
that might be a good time when someone
00:35:22
could pull back from work for a few
00:35:25
years, fully engage with child raising,
00:35:28
and then maybe step back in. But our
00:35:31
culture really doesn't support that
00:35:33
model as much. So, we talked about that,
00:35:34
but the bulk of the conversation was
00:35:37
about relationships later in life and
00:35:40
how our relationships tend to change a
00:35:43
little bit as we age. we tend to self-
00:35:45
select into smaller networks of people
00:35:48
who we are spending time with. And she
00:35:51
leaves the reassuring message that
00:35:53
that's actually just fine. You don't
00:35:55
want that inner circle to get too too
00:35:57
small. And there might be sad reasons
00:35:59
why that social network gets a little
00:36:02
smaller like people moving away or dying
00:36:04
or things like that. But overall, she
00:36:07
said that we are becoming more
00:36:09
discerning. we are self- selecting into
00:36:11
smaller, more satisfying or a smaller
00:36:14
group of more satisfying relationships.
00:36:16
So, I just really enjoyed all of the
00:36:18
aspects of that conversation. She talks
00:36:20
about healthy aging, getting outside.
00:36:23
Ideally, you would be moving physically
00:36:27
outside and with someone. And if you can
00:36:30
bring those three things together, all
00:36:32
the better, but those factors tend to
00:36:35
contribute to healthy aging. So, that
00:36:37
was one of my favorites. And then the
00:36:38
last chapter with Jordan Grummit, who is
00:36:40
a an author and a a leading light in the
00:36:44
fire movement and has his own podcast.
00:36:46
That was another one that I really
00:36:48
enjoyed and felt was a good end cap to
00:36:50
the book. Some of Jordan's words about
00:36:53
the conversations that he's had with
00:36:55
dying patients and the thoughts or the
00:36:58
regrets, the excitement, the things that
00:37:00
brought people joy during their life as
00:37:02
they're dying or what they reflect on
00:37:04
most versus the kind of things that you
00:37:05
and I hear during the prime years of our
00:37:07
life. the things that we think might be
00:37:09
important aren't always the things that
00:37:11
people really reflect on as being
00:37:13
important. And I think some of that
00:37:14
message is really interesting. I love
00:37:16
that uh discussion and I remember
00:37:18
telling my husband I was like so you
00:37:20
know that hospice doctor I'm always
00:37:22
talking about I'm going to make his
00:37:24
chapter the last chapter in my book and
00:37:26
he's like really a hospice doctor but
00:37:28
the message is so uplifting because
00:37:30
Jordan speaks with people at the end of
00:37:33
their lives but his point is you're not
00:37:34
at the end of your life right you
00:37:36
probably have 20 or 25 or 30 years ahead
00:37:39
of you what are you going to do to
00:37:42
maximize this time this remaining time,
00:37:45
how will you make sure that in the end
00:37:49
you don't have regrets? So, I felt like
00:37:51
ultimately it's a really uplifting
00:37:53
message and his whole thing on purpose
00:37:56
of making sure you have purpose but also
00:37:58
making sure that you aren't
00:38:01
overly sort of fearful like oh I've got
00:38:04
to start a foundation or do something
00:38:06
really he calls it big P purpose
00:38:09
something really you know sort of with
00:38:12
enormity about it. It doesn't have to be
00:38:14
that. That can be something more modest
00:38:15
and that's totally fine too. Yeah,
00:38:19
absolutely. Here's a quick ad and then
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00:39:11
What about on the more technical
00:39:13
numbers-based objective side? I know
00:39:15
that's where your experience and your
00:39:17
expertise lies, especially maybe on the
00:39:19
asset allocation or security selection
00:39:22
or those kind of topics. But still, were
00:39:23
there any of the authors where you just
00:39:25
said, "Oh, this their message is either
00:39:27
something that was surprising to you or
00:39:29
you just thought was particularly
00:39:30
pointed for someone planning their
00:39:32
retirement?" Well, I love talking to
00:39:34
John Gayton, who is a financial planner
00:39:37
in the Minneapolis area and has done
00:39:39
some research on flexible spending in
00:39:43
retirement. He developed or co-developed
00:39:45
what's called the guard rails approach
00:39:47
to retirement spending that basically
00:39:50
ratchets spending up and down depending
00:39:53
on how the portfolio has behaved. And
00:39:55
the guard rails kick in to help ensure
00:39:58
that in a bad market that the portfolio
00:40:01
withdrawals won't have to go too low and
00:40:03
really start to cut into someone's
00:40:05
quality of life. And they also help
00:40:07
ensure that in a good market environment
00:40:09
like the one that we've just come
00:40:11
through that even though you are giving
00:40:13
yourself a raise, you aren't going
00:40:15
crazy. And so that's what the guard
00:40:17
rails are about. But I just find him to
00:40:19
be phenomenal at explaining things
00:40:22
because he works with clients. So he's
00:40:24
not just someone who does academic
00:40:27
research, he's actually a practitioner.
00:40:29
And so I just find him to be
00:40:31
extraordinarily good about explaining
00:40:33
things. So one point he made on this
00:40:35
guard rail strategy and on on being
00:40:38
flexible with your withdrawals in
00:40:40
general is that taking less when the
00:40:42
market's down and taking more when it's
00:40:44
up is the rare thing that feels like the
00:40:47
right thing to do
00:40:49
behaviorally that also aligns with
00:40:51
what's good for your portfolio. So he
00:40:53
makes the point that he's like spending
00:40:56
more feels better than spending less and
00:40:58
pulling money out of stocks feels good
00:41:01
when the market's down. Those those
00:41:03
things are bad for your long-term
00:41:06
financial wherewithal. Adjusting your
00:41:08
portfolios up, portfolio withdrawals up
00:41:11
and down with the market is something
00:41:13
that actually feels like the right thing
00:41:15
to do and is also the right thing for
00:41:17
your investment portfolio. So I loved
00:41:19
that whole discussion with him. Yeah,
00:41:21
that is that's a really good point
00:41:23
because so many of the things that we
00:41:25
have to talk about or or so many of the
00:41:26
truths of, you know, this investing
00:41:28
journey that we're all on is that we
00:41:30
kind of have to come to the
00:41:32
understanding that we we fight our own
00:41:33
human nature. We have to fight our human
00:41:35
nature. It's, you know, there pick your
00:41:37
favorite Warren Buffett or John Bogle
00:41:38
quote about it's what's John Bogle say?
00:41:40
Uh when the human instinct is don't just
00:41:43
stand there, do something, right? Well,
00:41:45
well, yeah. Actually, in the investing
00:41:47
world, most of the time you're you're
00:41:48
not supposed to do anything at all.
00:41:49
You're just supposed to live with the
00:41:51
discomfort of a volatile market and just
00:41:53
wait it out. But right, the gon guard
00:41:55
rails are actually something that's it
00:41:58
feels right like the right thing to do
00:42:00
and numerically or when you crunch the
00:42:02
numbers, it is the right thing to do. I
00:42:04
wanted to ask you specifically Christine
00:42:06
about one of the chapters. I want to say
00:42:08
it's with Jean Chhatsky
00:42:11
and it has to do with some specific tips
00:42:14
and tricks and thoughts that women need
00:42:16
to apply in their financial lives that
00:42:20
that are different. Can you dive into a
00:42:21
little bit of that chapter? Yeah, Jean
00:42:24
is kind of a role model to me. Her work
00:42:26
has been so influential and she has been
00:42:30
out there in the consumer space, but
00:42:32
helping women improve their financial
00:42:34
well-being is a huge thrust of her work.
00:42:37
And so when I asked her what she wanted
00:42:38
to talk about for the book, she was
00:42:40
unequivocal. She said, "We should talk
00:42:42
about what women need to do differently
00:42:44
with their money as retirement
00:42:45
approaches." What we do know is that
00:42:48
women tend to be more likely to be
00:42:51
exclusively reliant on social security
00:42:53
than men. and they're tend to be
00:42:55
understsaved for retirement relative to
00:42:57
their male counterparts. And there are a
00:43:00
few reasons why. We discussed some of
00:43:02
them in the book. In fact, Gene said
00:43:04
quite pointedly, I blame child care or
00:43:07
caregiving because women of course are
00:43:09
much more likely to be caregivers for
00:43:11
their children. And many women want to
00:43:13
be caregivers for their children, but
00:43:15
that time out of the workforce does
00:43:17
reduce the opportunity for retirement
00:43:20
savings. And then I think the thing that
00:43:23
we're only beginning to get a greater
00:43:25
recognition of is that women are much
00:43:27
more likely to be caregivers for their
00:43:29
elderly parents than men. Which is not
00:43:32
to say some sons don't help a lot. They
00:43:35
do. But women when you look at the data
00:43:37
are very often unpaid caregivers. Often
00:43:41
adult daughters are unpaid caregivers.
00:43:44
And that can reduce their retirement
00:43:46
savings contributions. It can also just
00:43:48
limit their work uh opportunities. It
00:43:52
may require that they pull back from
00:43:54
paid work to help with the parents and
00:43:57
those things can work against women with
00:43:59
respect to retirement savings. So, Gene
00:44:02
made a couple of points. One is that
00:44:04
women their earnings tend to peak a
00:44:07
little bit earlier than men. So, early
00:44:09
in their careers, they need to hit it
00:44:11
hard in terms of retirement savings.
00:44:14
They also need to make sure that they
00:44:15
are investing in an age appropriate way.
00:44:18
So investing aggressively, having enough
00:44:22
in stocks. And then women need to be a
00:44:24
little bit more mindful about long-term
00:44:26
care than men. They both probably do,
00:44:29
but women are more likely to need paid
00:44:32
long-term care than men. And so that
00:44:35
necessitates having a plan for that,
00:44:37
whatever that might be, whether it is
00:44:40
buying insurance or setting aside a a
00:44:43
long-term care fund apart from insurance
00:44:46
or for women with very constrained
00:44:48
resources, it it may be re relying on
00:44:51
government provided care, but having a
00:44:53
plan there is super important. That's
00:44:56
really interesting. And it reminded me,
00:44:57
Christine, when we were planning for our
00:45:00
daughter, we've got a seven-month-old. I
00:45:03
remember writing a few articles and I
00:45:05
think recording a couple episodes just
00:45:07
about I was going through it. So, what
00:45:08
are all the things that a young parent
00:45:10
needs to prepare for when it comes to
00:45:12
financial planning? And one topic that
00:45:14
came up that I was I just hadn't thought
00:45:16
of it before, hadn't heard of it, but it
00:45:18
totally made sense is this idea that
00:45:20
from a like an estate planning point of
00:45:22
view or almost it's almost like a
00:45:24
postnuptual agreement point of view is
00:45:27
depending on what path the parents take,
00:45:30
it is far more often that the woman the
00:45:33
mother might take more of a caregiving
00:45:35
role while the father might continue to
00:45:38
work or at the very least what whatever
00:45:40
the situation is. Sometimes one partner
00:45:42
takes on more of a caregiving role than
00:45:44
the other, whichever one it is. And for
00:45:46
that caregiving partner, they're going
00:45:49
to contribute far less to their own
00:45:50
retirement. They're going to earn far
00:45:52
less. And there might come a point in
00:45:54
the future when depending on again, and
00:45:57
this is going down a bit of a rabbit
00:45:59
hole, but let's say in the unfortunate
00:46:01
event that couple ends up getting
00:46:03
divorced. Well, depending on the
00:46:06
arrangement that they have in place, is
00:46:08
one partner going to leave post divorce
00:46:11
with potentially much more assets or a
00:46:13
much larger retirement account or
00:46:15
whatever it may be as a function of the
00:46:17
fact that they had different caregiving
00:46:19
roles. And basically what some articles
00:46:22
that I read discussed is partners should
00:46:25
have that discussion because oftentimes
00:46:28
as you and Jean discussed the woman does
00:46:31
take on more of a caregiving role. And
00:46:34
it's almost this idea of do we need to
00:46:36
put something in place? Do we need to
00:46:37
come to some sort of financial agreement
00:46:39
just to make sure that woman doesn't end
00:46:41
up getting screwed over in some way
00:46:43
because she's the one who's taking a
00:46:44
step back from work? And I suppose the
00:46:47
way you just described it is that
00:46:49
arrangement can express itself in other
00:46:51
ways too. Whether it's the caregiving
00:46:54
for elderly parents or just the career
00:46:57
sacrifices that women often make more
00:46:59
than men and some of the long-term
00:47:01
financial repercussions as a as a
00:47:03
function of that. Yeah. No, it comes
00:47:05
down to communication really very much
00:47:08
so. If the couple are kind of a healthy
00:47:10
intact couple, it's well worth having
00:47:12
those conversations. And then, you know,
00:47:14
unfortunately in the case of like
00:47:15
divorcing couples, it's super important
00:47:17
for the spouse, the female partner to
00:47:21
make sure that she's getting good advice
00:47:22
on which assets she should go for in the
00:47:26
divorce. Often times, the way it works
00:47:29
out is that the female partner, who's
00:47:31
often the caregiver for the children,
00:47:34
gets the house and less of the
00:47:36
investment assets. and that may be
00:47:38
exactly what she wants, but it will tend
00:47:40
to leave her with fewer retirement
00:47:44
assets. So, getting some good financial
00:47:47
advice as part of that divorce process,
00:47:49
I think, is very much a key point to
00:47:52
make. Speaking of couples though, we can
00:47:55
obviously hope that many couples enter
00:47:56
retirement perfectly, blissfully happy
00:47:58
and and their marriage is intact. But
00:48:00
still, were there any interesting
00:48:01
thoughts that came out of the research
00:48:03
for the book or the interviews for the
00:48:04
book when it came to partners who are
00:48:07
retiring? Maybe they're not retiring at
00:48:09
the same time or maybe they're not
00:48:11
exactly on the same page for what they
00:48:13
want to do in their retirement. Are
00:48:15
there any chapters that we can point
00:48:16
listeners to or any experts when they
00:48:18
that had really good thoughts on on that
00:48:20
topic? Well, I loved our mutual friend
00:48:22
Fritz Gilbert's thoughts on navigating
00:48:25
retirement with his wife. He shared a
00:48:30
really poignant story of his wife having
00:48:32
been the primary caregiver for her
00:48:34
mother who I believe had dementia and
00:48:37
then passed away and how they had not
00:48:40
planned on her retirement quite as much
00:48:43
as they had Fritz's. Fritz had a
00:48:45
traditional career in the office and so
00:48:48
they, you know, knew that his retirement
00:48:50
was impending, but they I think that
00:48:52
they weren't equally prepared for sort
00:48:54
of the life dislocation that would
00:48:56
happen with her as part of her mom
00:48:59
passing away and those caregiving
00:49:01
obligations going away overnight. And
00:49:03
I'm sure there were aspects of that were
00:49:05
a great relief, but also, you know, an
00:49:08
element of a loss of identity. Here's
00:49:10
something that I did at one point in my
00:49:12
life I no longer do. I'm effectively
00:49:15
retired from that work. So he discussed
00:49:18
that which I thought was
00:49:19
thoughtprovoking. And he also just
00:49:21
talked about embarking on retirement
00:49:23
with another person. He called it he
00:49:26
time, she time, and we time. Don't
00:49:28
assume that you will just be hanging out
00:49:30
together constantly during retirement.
00:49:32
That you you need things that you pursue
00:49:35
independently. You need things you do
00:49:37
together, some shared interests. So, I
00:49:40
thought that he did a great job of
00:49:43
discussing his realworld experience
00:49:46
navigating retirement as part of a
00:49:47
couple. Very good. The last question I
00:49:50
wanted to ask you, Christina, I I
00:49:51
haven't even thought through this
00:49:52
question to be honest with you. So, let
00:49:53
me see if I can navigate my way through
00:49:54
it. It's maybe it's more of a statement,
00:49:56
and I'll start with the fact that when
00:49:58
people ask me for a lot of the podcasts
00:50:00
that I consume, The Long View is always
00:50:03
at the top of my list, which is hosted
00:50:05
by you and and Jeffrey Pac. Sometimes
00:50:07
you'll have a guest host come on and one
00:50:10
of the reasons why is because I feel
00:50:11
like you guys quite simply I mean you
00:50:13
guys get worldclass guests and you ask
00:50:16
them very interesting questions about
00:50:18
what makes them world class and you know
00:50:20
whatever their expertise is in in the
00:50:21
financial or economic world. So I
00:50:23
suppose maybe the question can simply be
00:50:26
how did it start? How do you manage to
00:50:28
find get these guests to come on and
00:50:30
then how do you not stumble over your
00:50:31
words like I've been stumbling over my
00:50:33
words today when you're sitting in front
00:50:34
of, you know, a Nobel laureate or or
00:50:36
something like that? Well, Jesse, thank
00:50:38
you so much for listening to the
00:50:39
podcast. I really appreciate it. We've
00:50:41
been doing it since precoid, so like
00:50:44
2019 or something. And it's just been a
00:50:47
a really fun diversion from my job where
00:50:49
we have these great deep conversations
00:50:52
with thought leaders. In terms of
00:50:55
getting the guests, recruiting the
00:50:56
guests, I think just, you know, reading,
00:50:58
listening to other podcasts, those are
00:51:01
great sources of ideas about who to ask.
00:51:04
Increasingly, I've been delving into
00:51:07
some non-financial podcasts. So, we had
00:51:10
Charles Doohig, who did a great book
00:51:12
called Supercommunicators.
00:51:14
We've had a few totally non-financial
00:51:16
guests on the pod which have been really
00:51:18
fun. And then some sort of psychology
00:51:21
types as well because we know the
00:51:24
intersection between psych psychology
00:51:26
and money is is huge and rich terrain.
00:51:29
And then we have in terms of just making
00:51:31
us sound our best. That's our engineer
00:51:34
George Cassidy is a phenomenal producer
00:51:37
and I think he really nicely clean
00:51:40
cleans things up for us. Awesome. Well,
00:51:42
if our listeners today, if they either
00:51:44
want to check out the long view, if they
00:51:46
want to go get a copy of How to Retire
00:51:48
Christine, or maybe if they just want to
00:51:50
reach out or follow you on social media,
00:51:52
something like that, where can we point
00:51:53
them to? So, I'm on X. I'm also on
00:51:56
LinkedIn and I'm a fixture on
00:51:58
morningstar.com writing articles and
00:52:01
doing videos. That's really my main job.
00:52:04
And so, people can find me there as
00:52:06
well. Awesome. Well, Christine Benz,
00:52:08
thank you so much for stopping by the
00:52:10
Best Interest Podcast. Thank you so
00:52:12
much, Jesse. It's been my honor. Thanks
00:52:14
for tuning in to this episode of
00:52:15
Personal Finance for Long-Term
00:52:17
Investors. If you have a question for
00:52:19
Jesse to answer on a future episode,
00:52:21
send him an email over at his blog, The
00:52:24
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00:52:27
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00:52:31
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00:52:43
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00:52:45
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00:52:48
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00:52:50
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00:52:52
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00:52:54
financial advice and it's not
00:52:55
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00:52:57
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Episode Highlights

  • Listener Review
    MG Taylor praises the podcast for its quality personal finance information and engaging content.
    “I love this pod. Jesse does a great job relaying high-quality personal finance info.”
    @ 01m 09s
    March 26, 2025
  • The Odds of Investing
    Jesse discusses the importance of understanding the odds in investing compared to gambling.
    “The market is not a casino.”
    @ 06m 10s
    March 26, 2025
  • Long-Term Investment Benefits
    Investing for longer periods increases the likelihood of making profits in the stock market.
    “The longer you invest in the stock market, the more likely you will walk away with profits.”
    @ 08m 15s
    March 26, 2025
  • The Quirky Genius
    A brilliant engineer faced challenges due to his strange exterior, overshadowing his genius.
    “Nobody took him as seriously as they should have.”
    @ 18m 08s
    March 26, 2025
  • Ryan's Retirement Wake-Up Call
    Ryan spent decades focused on the next step, only to find retirement looming with insufficient savings.
    “He spent decades focused on the next step, never looking up.”
    @ 20m 35s
    March 26, 2025
  • Christine Benz on Retirement Planning
    Christine Benz discusses the evolution of retirement planning and the importance of holistic approaches.
    “We’ve gotten away from focusing strictly on investments toward financial planning matters.”
    @ 23m 30s
    March 26, 2025
  • The Importance of Relationships in Aging
    As we age, our relationships tend to change, leading us to self-select into smaller, more satisfying networks.
    “You don’t want that inner circle to get too too small.”
    @ 35m 55s
    March 26, 2025
  • Lessons from Dying Patients
    Jordan Grummit shares insights from conversations with dying patients about what truly matters in life.
    “You’re not at the end of your life right; you probably have 20 or 25 or 30 years ahead.”
    @ 37m 34s
    March 26, 2025
  • Financial Planning for Women
    Jean Chatzky emphasizes the unique financial challenges women face, especially regarding caregiving and retirement.
    “We should talk about what women need to do differently with their money as retirement approaches.”
    @ 42m 42s
    March 26, 2025

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Key Moments

  • Investing vs Gambling06:10
  • Quirky Genius18:08
  • Retirement Reality Check20:54
  • Personal Finance Evolution23:10
  • Holistic Planning Shift23:57
  • Life Planning Insights28:32
  • Healthy Aging36:23
  • Purpose in Life37:56

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