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Instructive and Surprising Questions to Ask Before You Retire | Joe Saul-Sehy - E93

November 06, 2024 / 01:11:18

This episode of the Best Interest Podcast covers retirement planning, featuring guest Joe Saul-Sehy from Stacking Benjamins. Jesse Kramer and Joe discuss essential questions pre-retirees should consider, including lifestyle choices, financial management, and health care.

Jesse and Joe compare their lists of the most important questions for those approaching retirement. Joe emphasizes the significance of understanding what to do with retirement years, highlighting that many people fail to plan adequately for this phase of life.

They also discuss the importance of assessing typical monthly finances, which helps individuals understand their income sources and expenses in retirement. Joe shares insights on the necessity of planning for health care and managing relationships during retirement.

Throughout the conversation, they stress the importance of community involvement and giving back, noting that engaging with others can enhance the retirement experience.

Listeners are encouraged to think critically about their financial and personal goals as they transition into retirement.

TL;DR

Jesse and Joe discuss crucial retirement questions, focusing on lifestyle, finances, health care, and community engagement.

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welcome to the best interest podcast
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where we believe Benjamin Franklin's
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advice that an investment in knowledge
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pays the best interest both in finances
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and in your life every episode teaches
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you personal finance and investing in
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simple terms now here's your host Jesse
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Kramer hello and welcome to episode 93
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of the best interest podcast my name is
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Jesse Kramer later in today's episode
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Joe Sal SEI is back Joe from the
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stacking Benjamins podcast if you
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haven't heard of Joe stacking Benjamins
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is the best money Show on Earth I think
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Joe calls it because stacking Benjamins
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not only is it amazingly popular not
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only does it have great guests but
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stacking Benjamins is always
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entertaining I've been really honored
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that in some recent months Joe has asked
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me to join the stacking Benjamin's
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Friday Roundtable to be part of the the
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expert panel that they have on Fridays
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and Joe and I have a really fun
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conversation today it's going to be
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quite similar to episode 78 where I
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asked Justin Peters to come on the
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podcast and he and I had a fun debate
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about what we thought are the most
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important rules of personal finance
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today Joe and I are doing something
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similar Joe came with a list I came with
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a list and we talked about what we think
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are the most important questions that
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someone should ask themselves as they
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glide into retirement we didn't know
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each other's list as we came in but we
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went back and forth we compared and
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contrasted what we thought were the top
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priorities for pre-retirees what are the
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questions that they should be asking
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themselves so it's a really fun
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conversation but first let's do a
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customary review of the week this one
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comes from pivot Points MD who wrote in
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and said Jesse is a changemaker he
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really does take tricky or complex
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topics in the personal finance Arena and
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boils them down into digestible bites he
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shows us how to eat the elephant in the
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room I have had the Good Fortune to meet
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Jesse and the content he produces they
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are both topnotch I'm an avid Fanboy and
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urge you to become one too he really
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does have your best interest at heart
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well thank you very much pivot Points MD
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for the kind words and the multiple food
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references in there I I saw that
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digestible bites he shows us how to eat
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the elephant in the room I like it I
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like it so pivot Points if you're
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hearing this please send me a note to
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Jesse bestter interest. blog and we'll
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get you hooked up with a super soft
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bestest t-shirt now before Joe sa SEI
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joins us today I wanted to read to you
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from a recent article I wrote called
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putting a dollar sign on financial
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planning considering we're talking about
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retirement planning today which is
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certainly I'd say one of the pillars of
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financial planning I thought this
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article would be uh pretty interesting
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to you listening today because whether
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you're a dedicated diyer or you prefer
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to lean on professional Guidance the
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truth is clear that Smart Financial
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Planning can save you a lot of money
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over time and in this article and what
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I'm going to tell you today I'm just
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going to share some recent examples of
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tactical planning moves that I
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participated in or that I noticed that
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other people should be taking advantage
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of and I'm going to include today how
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much money was saved by these Smart
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Financial Planning moves first we're
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going to start with the covid panic back
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in March 2020 you could be forgiven for
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thinking that the world is ending and I
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want to sell everything but with proper
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perspective and an investment policy
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statement which are both Hallmarks of
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sound financial planning many investors
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stayed the course they rode the stock
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market down more than 30% from Peak to
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trough ouch right that must have been
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very hard for them to do but then
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nevertheless they rebalanced along the
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way selling the more stable assets in
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their portfolio like bonds or money
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market funds in order to buy stocks now
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that's not natural behavior buying
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stocks as they decrease in price in fact
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I'd say it's the opposite of natural
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behavior that the natural thing to do is
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to run away from the threat right if
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stocks are falling and if that hurts us
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to see that if that's a threat to our
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mental stability to see our stocks fall
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the natural inclination is to run away
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from that to sell our stocks to run away
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from that pain right to remove your hand
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from the hot stove but the smart thing
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to do in investing is to run toward that
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threat right to buy more stocks to
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rebalance into stocks as stocks drop
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that's not natural behavior that's
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learned behavior through experience
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through education through proper
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perspective proper guidance in the end
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While others might have made portfolio
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mistakes during the covid Panic that
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cost them 10% or 20% or more things that
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are probably permanent impairment of
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capital that can never be recovered from
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the intelligent investor has a better
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portfolio now than if the covid crash
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hadn't occurred because they rebalance
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throughout it so we should ask ourselves
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what's the value of a say a 10% mistake
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on a $1 million portfolio that's a
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$100,000 mistake right there and as our
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portfolio continues to compound the the
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the dollar value of that mistake is only
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going to grow larger and larger over
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time okay a second example which I call
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bring me a higher yield a friend of the
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blog recently sold his successful small
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business here in Greater Rochester for
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about $10 million or so which is
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certainly not your everyday event to be
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certain but it's actually more common
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than I realized I kind of had this
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interesting realization over the last
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couple years of just everywhere you look
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there are small and medium-sized
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businesses a lot of them are more
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successful than than you might think
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from the outside looking in but anyway I
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sat down with this individual just to
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spitball some ideas and my honest advice
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to him was hey first put together a
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financial plan which would detail the
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the future planned inflows and outflows
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of money from your from your family's
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Financial ecosystem which would of
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course include some very well observed
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near-term spending you could even say
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splurging I mean hey you just sold the
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business for $10 million do something
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fun with some of your money but then
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once you have a plan in place pick an
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asset allocation that corresponds with
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that plan and with the various timelines
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embedded in that plan and then dollar
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cost average the money into that asset
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allocation for example it might look
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like four large tranches of investment
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over a 12-month period or something
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similar to that now one of the problems
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was that the idea of investing million
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dollars into the stock market concern
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ear this individual and personally I
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mean I think good investing education is
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is one way to solve that problem but
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that type of education doesn't occur
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overnight right it's it takes a while I
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think for that to sink into someone
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where they say okay they start to trust
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if you will the stock market as a good
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long-term investment short of that as we
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discussed next steps I I asked this
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individual I said where's the money
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right now right where's the money right
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now and the answer was it was in a large
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US Bank that you all would have heard of
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in their in a savings account there ear
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05% that was the interest rate 05% and
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now the math there on a $10 million
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deposit 05% is about $5,000 in annual
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interest so while we continued the
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long-term conversation about investing
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in the stock market I gave him some
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important near-term advice seek out a
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higher yield via a brokerage money
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market fund and in the 18 months since I
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gave him that advice his average yield
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has been about 4 a half to 5% per year
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or about 400
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$75,000 per year in interest on his $10
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million deposit so yes a very simple tip
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to be sure but sometimes financial
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planning is all about identifying the
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simple fixes in your financial ecosystem
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that yeah will provide
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$475,000 a year instead of $5,000 a year
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suffice to say he bought my coffee that
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day don't tell Susie Orman okay on to
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the next one the car loan one of my
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clients bought a new car a few months
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ago and came to me with a simple
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question should I take advantage of the
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0% financing that the dealership is
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offering me so the question there is
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should they pay $40,000 cash out of
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pocket or take on a $40,000 loan with
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zero interest now the math here is quite
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simple if this person takes the loan
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they can keep their $40,000 in a high
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yield account just like the one we just
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talked about and earn something like
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$1,500 to $2,000 per year in interest
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with no downside right there's no
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interest on a loan AC crewing against
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them so $22,000 a year that's not
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life-changing money but it sure is easy
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money it sure is lwh hanging fruit it's
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a small easy few percentage points that
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can move the needle over time so again
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much much different than the
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$475,000 year advice from the previous
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example but hey every dollar matters
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every dollar is fungible with one
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another and would you say no to $2,000 a
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year in interest I don't think so okay
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the next little piece of advice sneaking
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through the back door another client of
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mine that came to me with the following
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details of their situation they're a
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couple a married couple in their early
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30s they're high earners their total
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income is over $350,000 per year they're
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using their 401K accounts wisely putting
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a lot of extra money after their 401ks
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into a joint taxable brokerage account I
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asked them if they'd looked into saving
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money in an IRA and they said yep we
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looked into it but we earned too much
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money and they were partially correct
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they do earn too much money for normal
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Ira contributions but they're the
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perfect candidates for back door Ira
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contributions and I'll I'll link an
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article here in the show notes that I
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wrote All About backdoor Ira
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contributions because they're now using
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backdoor IRA and as long as the back
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door Ira remains open in the IRS code
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because that's certainly a topic of
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conversation who knows how long uh that
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option will be available to us but I
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think we can conservatively calculate
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that for this couple if they were to
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make backdoor Roth contributions for the
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next 30 Years and compare that to the
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alternative what they were doing which
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is putting the money in a taxable
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brokerage I mean in the Roth of course
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there's tax deferred growth and then
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there's no capital gains taxes when they
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withdraw that money eventually so the
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question is how much extra money will
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they save and earn over the next 30
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years I think it's easily in the six
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figures by utilizing a backdoor Roth IRA
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instead of putting the money into a
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taxable Brokers account again not rocket
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science per se a lot of people execute a
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backdoor Roth IRA on their own there's a
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couple tricky parts to it and you want
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to make sure you get it right but that's
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the kind of thing that doing financial
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planning again whether it's working with
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a cfp or whether just being aware of all
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the available tools on your own backdoor
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Roth IRA contributions can really move
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the needle over your financial lifetime
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the next situation which house should we
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buy another client of mine lives in the
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greater Washington DC area and with
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their growing family they face a really
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interesting question where should we buy
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our forever home there are three options
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right if you're not familiar Washington
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DC itself U Maryland and Virginia which
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are both right on the outskirts of
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Washington DC they each come with their
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own Financial pros and cons and so we
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help this family weigh the following the
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the cost of the homes themselves right
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how far does their dollar go the
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long-term cost of property and school
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taxes in those three different areas the
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state tax benefits of home ownership in
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those three areas the impact of state
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income taxes on their earnings over the
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coming decades right they're a high
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earning couple and Maryland versus DC
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versus Virginia will tax their income at
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different rates so even though really
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what they're thinking about is buying a
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house they also need to think about how
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will their income be taxed and and
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that's a really big part of this
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equation and then the impact of again
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another state tax capital gains taxes on
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their long-term investing and the
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differences and capital gains taxes
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between Maryland Virginia and DC so of
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course this family they should first and
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foremost pick a home that's right for
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their lifestyle right the finances
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should come second here but the maximum
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versus minimum that we calculated puts
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their range of possible outcomes at a
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net present value of over $500,000 in
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other words imagine house a for this
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couple it's located in the most
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expensive locality for them in the
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greater DC area and then imagine we pick
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up that same exact house in terms of you
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know square footage and amenities
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everything like that and we place it in
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the least expensive area for them in
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Greater DC and then we look at how much
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those two houses will cost this family
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over the next 30 Years the most
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expensive area is going to be
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$500,000 more expensive than the least
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expensive area that's their range of
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outcomes it's a really wide range and
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that's why it's important for them to
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factor this in to their question so as
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always we should ask ourselves if they
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had an extra
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$500,000 how might that affect their
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lifestyle how might their life's plans
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change with an extra $500,000 how much
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earlier could they retire what could
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they do with that extra money that's the
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fun part of financial planning our next
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topic the value of a base point now
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portfolio reviews are a vital part of
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financial planning and if an expert
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looks at your Investments and says you
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know you can accomplish the same asset
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allocation as you already are but you
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could save 20 or 30 or 50 basis points
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if you do it this way now what's the
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value of that recommendation now quick
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aside if you don't know a basis point
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equals
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0.1% 1/1 100th of a percent so 50 basis
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points that's 50 hundreds of a percent
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or half a percent okay basis point one
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100th of a percent smart simple
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investing strategies don't have to be
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overly expensive and so while
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professional financial planners do need
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to charge for their time and expertise
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they can and should also save their
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clients money by keeping investing costs
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low so the question is what is a basis
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point actually worth imagine this simple
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scenario an average investor they might
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invest for 35 years during their life
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putting away $110,000 per year and
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achieving a long-term average return of
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8% per year throw that into a spread
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sheet pretty easy formula pretty easy to
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do an Investor's final portfolio in that
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case would be worth $1.86 million okay
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just shy of $2 million and in that case
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each extra basis point along the way
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decreases the final portfolio value by
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about
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$4500 11 basis points of difference well
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that adds up to
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$50,000 the lesson here is simple keep
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fees low where you can and make sure
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you're getting value above and beyond
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the basis points that you're paying
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every single one counts the next topic
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what's a cash balance plan financial
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planning as I've learned in my time it's
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a deep subject area there are a lot of
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different nooks and crannies that I
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haven't even heard of yet you might have
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heard me here I use the cave diving
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example right when you hear these
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stories of cave divers they say yeah I'm
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deep down in this cave and I realize oh
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there's a a fork in the road here in
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this cave that I've never explored
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before and the deeper I go in the cave
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the more options I find and you realize
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that cave systems are fast and and
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mostly unexplored that's kind of how I
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feel about financial planning at times
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well one example of this occurred
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earlier this year in 2024 when my
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colleagues recommended a cash balance
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plan to one of my clients he's a
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successful solopreneur last year he
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grossed about $700,000 in income and a
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lot of those dollars obviously were
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taxed at the highest possible levels his
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effective tax rate total tax rate was
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north of 40% a cash balance plan it's a
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defined benefit retirement plan whereas
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a 401k is a defined contribution
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retirement plan so in this case it's a
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defined benefit which in other words
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it's kind of like a self-funded pension
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cash balance plans are especially
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beneficial when all of the following are
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true we have a solo business owner or
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someone with a very small staff the
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business owner has a high income and
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they would benefit from putting away
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more tax deferred dollars and the
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business owner is higher in age as I'll
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explain in a minute the annual
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contribution limits are very high for
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older business owners and they aren't
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quite as high for younger business
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owners which is why it starts to make
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more and more sense the older the
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business owner is so in my case this
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particular client can contribute about
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$200,000 into his cash balance plan this
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year saving about $80,000 on his 2024
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tax bill and those savings that amount
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of savings is likely to increase every
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year between now and his retirement of
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course kind of like a traditional 401K
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he will eventually have to pay income
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taxes on those dollars when he withdraws
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them in retirement but in in the
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meantime he benefits from tax-free
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growth and more importantly from the
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flexible and planned nature of his
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retirement withdrawals in other words a
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Smart Financial plan a smart retirement
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plan will plan his eventual withdrawals
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such that the rate of tax he pays is
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going to be much lower than the 40% that
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he's currently scheduled to pay right
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he's saving 40% now to pay much lower
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than 40% in the future and that
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Arbitrage is money in his pocket as I
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alluded to before of the tax balance
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plan I mean for this is for 2024 limits
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a 50-year-old can contribute about
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$200,000 a 55-year-old about 250 a
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60-year-old over $300,000 and and it
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goes up from there so quite clearly if
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you're an older solopreneur or just an
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older entrepreneur with a with a
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relatively small business you can sock
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away a lot of tax deferred dollars into
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a cash balance plan the final example
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here ugly annuities I dove deep into
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annuities on episode 86 of the best
00:17:00
interest podcast in short the vast
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majority of annuities are either vastly
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overcosted or disappointing in terms of
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return on investment and for that reason
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about 99% of us are best off never
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touching annuities in the first place
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but what if you've already bought an
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annuity what should you do then as
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always an essential part of financial
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planning is to let the numbers be your
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guide annuities typically have surrender
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fees which charge the owner of the
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annuity an extra fee to exit the
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contract these fees range from say up to
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10% of the total annuity amount so
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that's like $100,000 fee on a $1 million
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annuity but those surrender fees they
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typically decay in size as the annuity
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matures so it's common to see for
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example an 8% surrender charge in year
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one of the annuity but it decays down to
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zero surrender charge after year 10 or
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something like that and again here I
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have I have a client example working
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with a gentleman who owned multiple
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annuities at various maturity levels uh
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we analyzed each one and showed him the
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potential upsides and downsides of
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dissolving those annuities paying
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surrender fees and then investing the
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proceeds into a moderate Investment
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Portfolio and together we created a
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multi-year schedule to flip his
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portfolio to what I'm going to call here
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the light side of the force and in the
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long run say over the next 20 years I
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can confidently say that he'll save 1
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and a half% per year on fees and then
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slightly more conservatively I can
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predict that his new allocation will
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outperform the annuities by 3% maybe
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even up to five or 6% per year if I'm
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being a little less conservative so he's
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saving on fees and he's going to get
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better performance especially when we
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start to measure over a multi-decade
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time span so on his
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$750,000 annuity portfolio which is now
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flipped over to the the light side of
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the force over the next 20 years those
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conservative saving assumptions between
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fees and and extra performance is likely
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to lead to an extra 1.3 million in extra
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compounding in his pocket so you see
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Smart Financial plan it's not about
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outperforming the stock market right
00:19:01
it's not about finding the hot stock
00:19:02
it's not about options trading it's not
00:19:04
about Bitcoin instead it's about
00:19:06
identifying places in your personal or
00:19:08
your family's Financial ecosystem where
00:19:10
you can and should be saving money where
00:19:12
you can and should be paying less taxes
00:19:14
or earning better returns reallocating
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assets paying lower fees taking
00:19:19
advantage of special types of accounts
00:19:21
etc etc it's about knowing all the
00:19:23
different rules of the game and then
00:19:25
playing that game effectively so this
00:19:27
idea or you know this this little
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monologue here showed you just a few
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examples whether it's avoiding panic in
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the stock market earning higher yields
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on your money on your savings things
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like backdoor WTH contributions or cash
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balance plans understanding the value of
00:19:42
a basis point optimizing a home purchase
00:19:44
decision or car decision detangling ugly
00:19:47
annuities and the list goes on and on
00:19:49
and on just a few of many examples and
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none of which are picking the winning
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stocks the real value of financial
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00:21:00
Joe is the the founder and and the main
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host of stacking Benjamins one of the
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most popular Financial podcasts in the
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world always entertaining always
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informative at stacking Benjamin for
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what it's worth I am a Avid listener of
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stacking Benjamins I don't listen to
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every episode though because he puts out
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three episodes a week which is amazing
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but at least once a week I'll see a
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guest I'll see a topic I'll just see
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something funny or entertaining that
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they're doing and I'll tune in that's
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the nature of stacking Benjamins and and
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his team have been doing it for over a
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decade so without further Ado here's Joe
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Saul
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[Music]
00:21:38
SEI Joe thanks for stopping by the best
00:21:42
interest podcast to be clear the best
00:21:44
interest podcast you're fresh off the
00:21:47
the plane right are you calling in from
00:21:49
the tarmac right now almost almost it
00:21:52
was so fun I went to South America had a
00:21:55
great time I was telling you about this
00:21:57
before we started recording it was
00:21:58
amazing but the cool thing is they're
00:22:00
very close to our time zone Jesse so I'm
00:22:02
here I'm wired I've had a little bit of
00:22:05
coffee so let's bring it very cool and
00:22:08
we are going to talk today as we as we
00:22:09
talked offline it's it's a similar to
00:22:11
episode 78 for you listeners who listen
00:22:13
to episode 78 where my favorite
00:22:16
episode Justin Peters and I compared and
00:22:19
contrasted our list of the five golden
00:22:21
rules of personal finance and today Joe
00:22:24
and I are going to talk about the most
00:22:25
important questions we each brought a
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list of five the most most important
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questions one should ask themselves as
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they glide into retirement some of these
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questions are probably going to be
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Financial some of them might not be
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Financial at all some of them might have
00:22:39
to deal with how many trips you're going
00:22:41
to take to Peru in your retirement I
00:22:43
don't know that might be one of Joe's it
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could be it could be in in Justin
00:22:47
episode we ended up deciding to start
00:22:49
with our our most important question if
00:22:51
you have ranked them by importance Joe
00:22:53
and as the guest here I think it's only
00:22:55
fair that I I let you go first just so
00:22:57
you can years on top of mine go that
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stupid one I got a better one Joe I got
00:23:03
a better one I don't know I don't know
00:23:04
if that's possible but why don't you
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kick us off what was either your your
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number one or just the most important
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question that one should ask themselves
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as they glide into retirement yeah and
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generally Jesse when I do these I like
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counting the other way I like doing like
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the Dave Letterman style if you remember
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that like 54 3 2 one but I like doing it
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this way for your particular list
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because mine all flow from this number
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one every single thing I bring up after
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this one is going to flow from number
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one because it solves so many problems
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when you focus on this first so many
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people start with what's the best
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investment I should use when should I
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take Social Security what's the optimal
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withdrawal rate draw down rate how do I
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make sure that I don't get caught in a
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Black Swan event like you know as soon
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as I I get into retirement all these big
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questions people have one question you
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ask one that's it and by the way I want
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to clarify this before I even say it
00:24:00
which and I do this to build dramatic
00:24:01
tension by the way totally build
00:24:03
dramatic tension just people like just
00:24:05
say it Joe that's an experienced host
00:24:07
right there you you've done this for a
00:24:09
while haven't you you're you're gonna
00:24:11
wait for it but I'll say this if you're
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25 you're 30 years old and you don't
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plan on retiring until 55 60 65 don't
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worry about this number one but
00:24:22
specifically Jesse because the homework
00:24:24
you gave me was as you glide into
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retirement this is super super important
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and it is this what are you going to do
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with your retirement Years first of all
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a lot of people don't even spend a lot
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of time on retirement there was a survey
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once that showed that people spend more
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time planning a family vacation than
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they do planning their retirement you're
00:24:44
going to go on vacation for two weeks
00:24:46
maybe to South America maybe have the
00:24:48
time of your life but then retirement
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just it's going to be like 30 years and
00:24:54
what you do the more things change
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change over the course of my career the
00:25:00
more important this question gets like
00:25:01
when I started back in
00:25:04
1993 things were all about the money it
00:25:07
was just about what funds do you pick
00:25:08
what's the money what's the okay how
00:25:10
much Social Security you going to get
00:25:11
it's all that but it's funny how even on
00:25:13
the certified financial planner courses
00:25:16
they've added Behavior to the game right
00:25:19
and what we're learning more and more
00:25:20
and more is if you only focus on the
00:25:24
money in your planning there's not only
00:25:26
a good chance that you're going to get
00:25:28
it wrong there's also a good chance
00:25:30
you're going to die sooner because if
00:25:34
your goal is for a fulfilling retirement
00:25:36
it isn't about the money it's about what
00:25:38
are you going to do how much life are
00:25:41
you going to live what does that look
00:25:42
like and so if you're gliding in
00:25:44
retirement I think you need to be
00:25:45
crystal clear about what you want to do
00:25:49
and and and and I get this all the time
00:25:50
right I used to get this I've been a
00:25:52
financial planner people don't know I've
00:25:53
been a financial planner a long time but
00:25:54
when I was and I talked to OG my co-host
00:25:57
on stacking bment about this
00:25:58
people always say I want to travel I
00:26:00
want to play golf and then just poke my
00:26:02
eye out with a pen because playing golf
00:26:06
can you play golf every day for 30 years
00:26:08
I had clients that said I'd like to try
00:26:10
like a few of them might right maybe one
00:26:13
or two but you know like three months
00:26:15
into it you're like is this it well and
00:26:17
very seriously this is the most common
00:26:20
thing according to a guy named Ken
00:26:22
diwald who studied for a long time
00:26:24
longevity planning 18 months in
00:26:27
retirement people go from a sense of
00:26:29
euphoria to a sense of is this it is
00:26:33
this all there is really and you know
00:26:35
who those people are those are people
00:26:36
that haven't asked themselves what am I
00:26:39
going to do in a much more serious
00:26:41
manner than Golf and travel so I've got
00:26:45
four more but the four are going to
00:26:47
Spring directly from that and these four
00:26:49
become easy if you start with that
00:26:52
really hard question I love that and I
00:26:54
will say that that's in my the way I
00:26:56
phrased it is what kind of life style do
00:26:59
I want in retirement yeah I think that's
00:27:01
a very a very similar analogous question
00:27:03
and as you're explaining this Joe I
00:27:06
think back to a few things that I've
00:27:07
discussed before just a few of my little
00:27:09
lines that I like to drop on people
00:27:11
which is you know if you're going into a
00:27:13
regular weekend you might not really
00:27:15
plan for that weekend you know if you're
00:27:17
taking a one trip a onee vacation though
00:27:19
you're you're probably going to do some
00:27:20
planning but retirement is almost like
00:27:22
the weekend that never ends or the
00:27:24
vacation that never ends and the fact
00:27:27
that more pre-retirees don't spend more
00:27:30
time thinking about it which we know is
00:27:32
true you mentioned I I his last name was
00:27:36
Ken dyal Ken dyal hadn't heard of Ken
00:27:38
we'll we'll try to find some of his work
00:27:39
and Link it in the show notes I think a
00:27:41
study that Fritz Gilbert helped put
00:27:43
together I think last year in the last
00:27:45
couple years which I've cited a few
00:27:47
times here the number one concern for
00:27:49
pre-retirees tends to be Financial if
00:27:51
you PLL pre-retirees they're worried
00:27:53
about finances but if you ask post
00:27:56
retirees people in the first three or 5
00:27:57
years of their retirement finances is
00:28:00
usually not even in the top five because
00:28:02
they've realized you know their finances
00:28:03
are okay now they're having some
00:28:05
existential concerns about right is this
00:28:07
it or the other analogy I think of is
00:28:10
whether it happened to you maybe as a
00:28:12
teenager going to college or or maybe it
00:28:14
happened to you as a college graduate
00:28:15
entering the workforce where you have
00:28:18
some new freedoms you have maybe more
00:28:20
time or more money than you've ever had
00:28:21
before and we all know the story or we
00:28:24
know maybe even a person who they went
00:28:25
to college and they kind of went off the
00:28:27
deep end they they slept in didn't go to
00:28:29
class they drank too much they they let
00:28:32
themselves go a little bit hopefully
00:28:34
though at some point they kind of look
00:28:35
themselves in the mirror and they say
00:28:36
okay is my lifestyle finishing last
00:28:39
night's beers every single day for the
00:28:41
rest of my life and then dragging my ass
00:28:43
to class and and like no you got to get
00:28:45
your together and figure out what
00:28:48
you're going to do and I think in my
00:28:50
experience talking to retirees sometimes
00:28:52
there's some of that which is right the
00:28:54
golf trips wear off the beach days wear
00:28:56
off and there has to be a little bit
00:28:58
more substance underneath do do you have
00:29:00
any specifics Joe or I mean if I'm kind
00:29:02
of trespassing on your other answers
00:29:04
don't don't let me but any specific
00:29:07
types of changes in thought process that
00:29:10
come to mind where you entered
00:29:11
retirement thinking a and then after a
00:29:14
year or two someone starts thinking B
00:29:16
I've got three different ones you know
00:29:18
you were on a recent episode of stacky
00:29:20
Benjamin where we talked about the idea
00:29:22
of goal setting in general not being
00:29:25
about the goal but about it being a
00:29:27
quest where along the way the whole
00:29:29
thing is this dramatic journey I feel
00:29:31
like too many people look at retirement
00:29:33
as the Finish Line when it truly isn't a
00:29:35
lot of ways a starting line of a new
00:29:38
quest which means a few things it's
00:29:40
really disturbing I talked to Christine
00:29:42
Benz recently from Morning Star and
00:29:44
Christine said some things I think that
00:29:47
will scare and upset people going into a
00:29:50
retirement that is not real which is
00:29:55
it's important to still have an alarm
00:29:56
clock it's important to still get your
00:29:58
butt out of bed it's important to have
00:30:00
goals and to have things that you're
00:30:03
doing and for most successful retirees
00:30:05
and this comes from Wes Moss who wrote a
00:30:07
great book about what the happiest
00:30:09
retirees know it is because you have so
00:30:12
many other things that you want to do
00:30:14
it's just like Jesse it's like a
00:30:15
different career but it's a career it's
00:30:18
it's more of a Dr Seuss you know the
00:30:21
places will go kind of career where
00:30:23
where we can do it now because we love
00:30:25
it not because we're financially
00:30:26
committed to it we now can get passioned
00:30:29
about speaking of Fritz Gilbert by the
00:30:31
way this guy for people in in the best
00:30:33
interest community that don't know Fritz
00:30:36
Gilbert like Fritz Fritz Gilbert this
00:30:39
dude definitely has an alarm clock you
00:30:41
can feel his sense of purpose his wife
00:30:43
is this phenomenal nonprofit they do
00:30:46
with animals fences for Pho yes putting
00:30:50
hours and showing up quote at work
00:30:53
during your retirement which means Jesse
00:30:56
the more that you and I read about
00:30:58
Retirement Research the more we need to
00:31:00
take the word retirement and kind of put
00:31:02
it in the trash because there's so many
00:31:05
connotations that don't work if you want
00:31:07
to live a long time have a great
00:31:09
existence where retirement that sitting
00:31:11
back in a rocking chair doesn't work for
00:31:13
anybody yeah post employment maybe we'll
00:31:16
have a competition how about that what
00:31:18
if we do a joint competition to rename
00:31:21
retirement that could be fun anyway I
00:31:24
want people to do the most ridiculous
00:31:25
name though yeah the European the B
00:31:27
mcboat face are you familiar with this
00:31:29
story B mcboat face won the the prize as
00:31:32
the most popular name for some big
00:31:34
auspicious boat that's good that's good
00:31:37
let's go on to number two and I'll I'll
00:31:38
volunteer to go first this time Joe
00:31:41
because after all I'm thinking to myself
00:31:43
all right this is a financial podcast
00:31:44
it's something that you and I share as a
00:31:46
passion and something we love to talk to
00:31:47
people about and there are a ton of
00:31:50
different directions that we can go for
00:31:52
finances in retirement and so I thought
00:31:54
to myself of what's a a relatively easy
00:31:57
question
00:31:58
but but also a question that's like an
00:31:59
onion with many different layers that
00:32:01
someone can ask themselves as they're
00:32:03
gliding into retirement and the one that
00:32:05
I settled on is what does a typical
00:32:09
month of finances look like for me a
00:32:12
typical month of finances look like for
00:32:14
me and my thinking was that if somebody
00:32:16
sits down and tries to answer that
00:32:18
question they will start to check off
00:32:21
whether it's Social Security whether
00:32:22
they're collecting a pension whether
00:32:24
they're living off of some savings
00:32:26
whether they're pulling some money out
00:32:27
of their investment accounts it'll at
00:32:28
least get their brain thinking you know
00:32:30
maybe they won't get to uh the Black
00:32:32
Swan events quite yet maybe they won't
00:32:35
have a efficient Frontier safe
00:32:36
withdrawal rate complexity stuff quite
00:32:38
yet but at least it'll get them moving
00:32:40
in that direction of trying to
00:32:42
understand all the various interplay of
00:32:44
their income sources and then of course
00:32:47
what they want to spend in retirement
00:32:49
right what their monthly uh expenses
00:32:51
will look like so this overarching
00:32:53
financial question in my top five is
00:32:55
what does a typical month of expense of
00:32:58
finances look like for me well I think
00:33:00
the important thing that you nail there
00:33:02
Jesse is that just the exercise is
00:33:05
sitting down and talking about what a
00:33:06
typical month looks like kind of goes
00:33:08
back to your mind number one it goes
00:33:10
back to okay now that I've dreamed it up
00:33:12
let's put some numbers behind it and I
00:33:13
got to tell you this is a little bit
00:33:15
like putting on my running shoes let me
00:33:18
explain what I mean by that I run I've
00:33:20
run 11 marathons and and still every day
00:33:24
I really don't want to go out there and
00:33:27
run it just feels like it's going to
00:33:29
hurt it's not going to be any fun of
00:33:30
course when once I get out there it's
00:33:31
great and it's fine and I finished the
00:33:33
workout and I'm happy I did when I
00:33:35
finish when you tell somebody sit down
00:33:38
and begin spreadsheeting out what your
00:33:41
typical month is going to look like
00:33:42
expense wise you're like oh God no oh
00:33:45
please no no no no no no but just like
00:33:47
putting on my running shoes Jesse once
00:33:49
you get the spreadsheet open you start
00:33:51
doing it Cheryl will tell you this she's
00:33:53
not a money geek like you and me my
00:33:55
spouse Cheryl loves it we have a we
00:33:57
money meeting like getting the two of us
00:33:59
to sit down and do it sometimes it's
00:34:02
difficult but we get into it for two
00:34:04
minutes and then next thing you know we
00:34:06
are both just nerding out on oh yeah
00:34:09
look Hulu's raising their prices we we
00:34:11
just had our meeting Hulu raising their
00:34:13
prices in a couple months and we have
00:34:15
Hulu so what are we going to do we going
00:34:16
to keep it we G to and then the cool
00:34:18
thing is this whole idea around what
00:34:22
does a typical month look like isn't
00:34:24
about the spreadsheet anymore and we
00:34:25
talk about Hulu it becomes about Val
00:34:27
value do I value Hulu enough to pay $89
00:34:32
a month like do I really value Hulu that
00:34:34
much or is it time to look for a
00:34:35
different solution and when we get
00:34:37
beyond the money to the value part like
00:34:39
pow I get super excited yeah agreed I I
00:34:43
like that you brought up that when you
00:34:44
started in the financial industry what'
00:34:46
you say 90 93 93 it really was just
00:34:49
about the money and over time it has
00:34:51
evolved to be more about some of the
00:34:53
softer things and one of those I think
00:34:56
is those values right is sitting down
00:34:58
with someone and saying well you've got
00:35:00
x amount of money how are we going to
00:35:03
align that with what you value what you
00:35:04
want to spend it on and with retirement
00:35:07
planning be this multi-decade period
00:35:09
it's just such a ripe opportunity to
00:35:12
pursue the things that are most valuable
00:35:13
to you so to to not answer those kind of
00:35:16
questions early on or at least to not go
00:35:18
in with some sort of direction right it
00:35:19
doesn't have to be forever you're always
00:35:21
allowed to change course but to not have
00:35:23
some direction up front is is probably a
00:35:25
mistake no which is why it's so
00:35:27
important to start with what you had is
00:35:29
number one right I mean your number two
00:35:31
flows flows right from your number one
00:35:34
thank you Joe thank you how how about
00:35:35
you what was your uh what was your
00:35:36
number two believe it or not mine does
00:35:38
too
00:35:39
Jesse mine is not that far off yours so
00:35:41
I don't need to spend a lot of time on
00:35:43
mine mine is and from now on all my five
00:35:46
are organized as if it's a timeline
00:35:49
instead of a Finish Line I want people
00:35:51
to draw out their life and I want them
00:35:53
to start drawing these events on their
00:35:55
life but also think about what you
00:35:57
brought up what's my average month look
00:35:59
like but then when am I going to need
00:36:02
the money my goal next is to figure out
00:36:05
what streams of income do I have coming
00:36:06
in how do I want to spend my money based
00:36:09
on what am I going to do and once I've
00:36:12
done that then that's going to create
00:36:14
these holes and in those holes I know I
00:36:17
need to fill those in with the buckets
00:36:19
of money that I've accumulated over my
00:36:21
retirement CU it's super important to
00:36:24
know when am I going to need that money
00:36:26
one of the things that me when I was a
00:36:28
financial planner was when people would
00:36:30
just think well I got x amount of money
00:36:32
and I'm taking y out per month so I'm
00:36:35
good I'm like have you ever done the
00:36:36
math on this cuz this ain't math and
00:36:38
this is going to run out faster than you
00:36:40
think and people are like what are you
00:36:41
talking about it's only you know I've
00:36:42
got 880,000 left and I'm only taking out
00:36:44
2,000 a month I'm like yeah but you're
00:36:48
64 it isn't going to last it's not going
00:36:51
to last classic 20% per
00:36:54
year that's a withdrawal rate I could
00:36:56
stand behind as long as you die very
00:36:59
soon when are you going to need the
00:37:01
money filling in and knowing what that
00:37:02
deficit is now it's going to drive the
00:37:06
next three things that I wrote Because
00:37:09
when you know what the deficits are like
00:37:10
you're going to know so much and and
00:37:12
here's the thing we often start off with
00:37:15
the dream and this is why this whole
00:37:16
exercise I think scares people we often
00:37:18
start off with the dream and then we get
00:37:20
to this number two when you going to
00:37:21
need the money and you realize oh crap I
00:37:23
don't have enough but what's cool is
00:37:25
Jesse then we go back to what you and I
00:37:27
were talking about with your number two
00:37:29
now we can talk about what do we value
00:37:31
in that Vision that I built how can I
00:37:35
rearrange this so I get the stuff I
00:37:37
value and I just eliminate the stuff
00:37:39
that's nice but it's not great or maybe
00:37:42
I decide that I do want to keep quote
00:37:44
working during my retirement years for a
00:37:46
while maybe I want a part-time job my
00:37:49
father-in-law retired early he didn't
00:37:51
have any health insurance he looked at
00:37:53
health insurance this is before the
00:37:54
Affordable Care Act and regardless of
00:37:56
what the name is health insurance Across
00:37:58
America pretty unaffordable care but he
00:38:01
couldn't afford it before Medicare so he
00:38:05
went he loved kids he didn't want to
00:38:08
keep working in engineering he got a job
00:38:11
as a school bus driver because he got to
00:38:14
spend time with kids and he got health
00:38:17
insurance as a bus driver he got health
00:38:19
insurance working for the school system
00:38:20
so he found a creative way around his
00:38:22
problem because he knew that he was
00:38:25
going to need that money later and he
00:38:26
didn't want to spend it on Healthcare
00:38:28
today we've talked about it here on the
00:38:29
podcast before and and it's gotten some
00:38:31
positive and some negative feedback from
00:38:34
experts out there the idea of goal-based
00:38:36
investing which is a fancy way of saying
00:38:39
and the way I like to summarize it is
00:38:41
try to understand what your future
00:38:43
financial needs are try to assign
00:38:45
dollars in your current ecosystem to
00:38:47
those future needs and then invest
00:38:50
accordingly and that that I think it's
00:38:51
pretty similar to what you were just
00:38:52
saying there Joe how would you get push
00:38:54
back on that so uh the reason why is
00:38:57
because it's it's funny you and I were
00:38:59
talking offline about some some people
00:39:00
who push back on other people's content
00:39:03
you know well that's not on the
00:39:04
efficient Frontier kind of criticisms
00:39:07
and essentially the criticism is that
00:39:08
goals-based investing this whole Bottoms
00:39:11
Up kind of investing approach doesn't
00:39:14
always mathematically lead to a perfect
00:39:17
portfolio and therefore it's somehow
00:39:19
inherently flawed to me it's when
00:39:21
someone says the criticism it overlooks
00:39:23
the behavioral aspect of this all it's
00:39:26
actually funny Jesse say that because
00:39:28
goal-based Investing For Me is the thing
00:39:31
that saves your behavior cuz I'll tell
00:39:33
you this if I tell you you've got x
00:39:35
amount of money and we don't put a
00:39:37
ribbon on it that this is what it's for
00:39:39
it's for the second home it's for that
00:39:41
vacation it's for this thing it's for
00:39:43
whatever you effing touch it right you
00:39:46
go and you blow up your plan but if I
00:39:49
tell you no no no no no you need this
00:39:51
money five years later from X people
00:39:54
don't care about the name of the fund
00:39:56
they don't care about the asset class
00:39:58
they don't care about anything about the
00:39:59
investment they care about their goal
00:40:02
and if I tell you this money meets this
00:40:04
goal
00:40:06
behaviorally you're going to keep that
00:40:08
money where it needs to be and leave
00:40:09
your hand out the damn cookie jar your
00:40:11
hand's not going to go near the cookie
00:40:12
jar so that person is totally wrong
00:40:15
Jesse you're the
00:40:17
king just no it's it's true I'm I'm
00:40:20
laughing to myself not only because of
00:40:22
of what you're saying Joe but also it's
00:40:23
this whole like there are some people
00:40:25
out there who hey respectful
00:40:26
disagreement I try to say but it's
00:40:28
almost like their approach is a little
00:40:29
bit of investing for robots like you and
00:40:32
here we're here Joe and we're kind of
00:40:34
thinking to ourselves like let's invest
00:40:35
for humans like sure the the math needs
00:40:37
to make sense but also like we want to
00:40:40
think about the human element of this
00:40:41
all and there's some other people out
00:40:43
there who like nope investing for robots
00:40:45
and uh don't worry about the mushy brain
00:40:47
just worried about the hard numbers I
00:40:49
got another rant on this one more please
00:40:51
let's hear it when people in this
00:40:53
community
00:40:55
nitpick stuff like this
00:40:57
I'll tell you what it does to the
00:40:59
average person who's just getting
00:41:00
involved it scares the hell out of them
00:41:02
and they do nothing it scares the hell
00:41:04
out of them and you know what's funny
00:41:06
that way directionally is correct this
00:41:08
way is directionally correct I actually
00:41:10
went after somebody on Twitter the other
00:41:12
day because they were like I just don't
00:41:15
understand where asset-based management
00:41:17
makes sense anymore I just don't get the
00:41:19
percent for asset-based management and I
00:41:22
wrote back I don't understand why you as
00:41:24
a certified financial planner are
00:41:26
arguing over things that yeah might be
00:41:30
important like number 678 but there's a
00:41:32
ton of people who will never go get help
00:41:34
from anybody because you're scaring them
00:41:37
with this BS I saw somebody in a forum
00:41:40
yesterday saying this target day fund
00:41:41
has a
00:41:43
0.07% expense ratio is that high I think
00:41:45
I should get rid of it I've never seen
00:41:47
somebody not retire because of a
00:41:50
0.07% expense ratio I've never seen
00:41:53
anybody not retire frankly because of a
00:41:56
1%
00:41:57
one per here I pay
00:41:59
1% you know what fees are important and
00:42:02
between two things I want to keep I want
00:42:04
to I want to keep my fees low if if
00:42:05
everything else is equal duh that's what
00:42:07
I want to do but there are people who
00:42:10
are trying to shrink everything and when
00:42:12
you don't have smart people around you
00:42:14
you kick your own ass you do nothing you
00:42:17
got to surround yourself with smart
00:42:18
people and people nitpicking this crap
00:42:20
drives me crazy you you said crazy there
00:42:24
Joe but I but I think what you meant was
00:42:26
it just no I'm kidding let me pick your
00:42:29
words can we can we have a semantic
00:42:31
argument here no I I I couldn't agree
00:42:34
more and it's it is funny too and it's
00:42:36
sometimes I get sucked into certain
00:42:38
pockets of the internet and I have to
00:42:39
remind myself that you know what not
00:42:41
everybody thinks this way thankfully and
00:42:43
you're right I've seen it on LinkedIn
00:42:45
I've seen people are now referring they
00:42:47
they call it the fee Wars and what
00:42:50
they're referring to is like cfp versus
00:42:53
cfp arguments that go viral because all
00:42:55
these other cfps chime in where one cfp
00:42:58
is saying I charge my clients $7,000 per
00:43:01
year flat fee and the other one's saying
00:43:03
I charge my clients you know a 0.9%
00:43:06
asset fee and they have some giant
00:43:08
argument about it and it's like guys
00:43:10
talk about like missing the forest for
00:43:11
the trees yeah not to blor this point
00:43:13
but I did see something that was pretty
00:43:15
cool yesterday at a spot I don't talk
00:43:17
much about white coat investor I I
00:43:19
generally don't talk about that brand a
00:43:21
lot but he was talking about how they
00:43:24
have recommended advisor lists on their
00:43:27
thing and they were kicking some people
00:43:29
off because they charged too much and I
00:43:32
love his point of view Jim's point of
00:43:34
view the white coat Investor's point of
00:43:35
view is like listen good advice costs
00:43:38
money hiring good people cost money he
00:43:41
goes but at some point it does and I
00:43:44
totally agree at some point it does
00:43:46
become prohibitive he goes I don't like
00:43:49
cutting my grass but if somebody's going
00:43:51
to charge me $36,000 to mow my lawn I'm
00:43:55
cutting my own grass and I thought that
00:43:57
that analogy is great but it totally
00:43:59
puts this argument where it belongs too
00:44:01
which is you should expect to pay smart
00:44:03
people you want to throw we used to have
00:44:05
this problem with charitable giving for
00:44:07
a long time in charitable giving it was
00:44:09
less money less money less money less
00:44:11
money then we figured out these
00:44:13
Charities are giving away all the money
00:44:14
but they're giving away crappy places
00:44:16
you know why because none of the smart
00:44:17
people want to work there and all of a
00:44:19
sudden you realize oh I got to pay
00:44:20
something for smart people so that we
00:44:22
can be more effective and you will be
00:44:25
more effective if you pay the right
00:44:26
people I hear you the other example you
00:44:28
know why should I be 80% stocks in my
00:44:30
portfolio I feel like 75% is better oh
00:44:33
God okay that's fine that's like saying
00:44:36
why am I painting my wall off white I
00:44:38
think cream is better yeah that's fine
00:44:40
go ahead you know you won't get an
00:44:42
argument from me here's a quick ad and
00:44:45
then we'll get back to the show a few of
00:44:47
you occasionally inquire about two
00:44:49
different topics that are actually
00:44:51
related the first type of question seeks
00:44:53
out details about my professional life
00:44:55
and the wealth management firm that I
00:44:57
work for here in Rochester New York the
00:44:59
second type of question involves the
00:45:01
best interest which operates with no
00:45:02
advertising no pushy sales no pay walls
00:45:05
and the question is how can the best
00:45:07
interest stay afloat well to answer both
00:45:10
of those questions I want to point you
00:45:12
to episode 78 of the best interest
00:45:15
podcast I intentionally recorded episode
00:45:17
78 to shine light on those topics and
00:45:20
inform you how you can actually help the
00:45:22
best interest if you're so inclined so
00:45:25
if you've ever been curious about the
00:45:27
business of the best interest please go
00:45:29
listen or download episode 78 and let me
00:45:32
know what you think I think now it's
00:45:34
your turn to describe your number three
00:45:36
on your list so we start off building
00:45:38
this timeline what are we going to do
00:45:39
with our Years and we're going to
00:45:41
timeline that out then we're going to
00:45:42
see where there's holes in the timeline
00:45:44
and then that leads to goal-based
00:45:46
planning that leads to what funds or
00:45:49
what assets are you going to meet this
00:45:51
is a huge huge problem that people have
00:45:55
Jesse what's the good thing I should
00:45:57
invest in Jesse this Nvidia now lately
00:46:00
it's been going nowhere like what's
00:46:02
going on with the Nvidia train it was
00:46:04
going to the Moon forever and now it's
00:46:06
kind of stalled what do I do Bitcoin is
00:46:07
that a thing should I get in there
00:46:09
instead of asking these ridiculous
00:46:11
questions because there's so many
00:46:12
different Investments we freak out about
00:46:14
which one's the right one and instead of
00:46:16
doing that we go hey I'm going to need
00:46:18
this money probably in 12 years it looks
00:46:21
like I got this big hole 12 years from
00:46:22
now if I don't need this money for the
00:46:24
next 12 years and I know I'm probably
00:46:25
gonna need year 12 where do I go and we
00:46:28
take this monster list of investment
00:46:30
choices and we narrow it down to just a
00:46:32
few and now our valuation process and
00:46:35
the freakout Factor goes from a million
00:46:38
to almost none because they go hey guess
00:46:41
what instead of having to evaluate
00:46:42
300,000 we can look at these five and
00:46:45
then we can decide how these five work
00:46:47
and then we know we have the appropriate
00:46:50
vessel the appropriate train to get us
00:46:52
to where we need the money so number
00:46:54
three on my list is what funds assets
00:46:56
are you going to use
00:46:57
I love it I love it there's a cool stat
00:47:00
that you might be familiar with Joe and
00:47:02
listeners maybe are too but I I when it
00:47:03
comes to this asset allocation decision
00:47:06
the stat is and this comes from like the
00:47:08
CFA the real nerdy investment Minds out
00:47:11
there that basically 90% or so of
00:47:15
someone's return can simply be
00:47:18
attributed to the asset selection
00:47:21
meaning like stocks versus bonds versus
00:47:23
pixelated pictures of cats at nfts I'm
00:47:27
kidding uh it was a serious Point except
00:47:29
for the Cat part but then only that the
00:47:31
remaining 10% or so is well did you
00:47:35
select a a stock manager who's going to
00:47:38
outperform did you end up just going
00:47:39
with an index fund what were the actual
00:47:42
Securities selected under that asset
00:47:44
class umbrella and generally the way
00:47:46
that I talk about things whether I'm
00:47:48
writing on the blog or speaking here is
00:47:51
exactly what you just talked about as a
00:47:53
retiree that you're hopefully going to
00:47:55
have 20 or 25 or 30 plus years of
00:47:58
spending and for some of those near-term
00:48:00
years well it might not make sense to
00:48:02
take a risk in the stock market to help
00:48:05
support your lifestyle in in 2025
00:48:07
because we don't know if the stock
00:48:08
market will go up between now and 2025
00:48:11
so maybe for those near-term years you
00:48:12
want to lean more on slightly safer
00:48:15
fixed income or cash or something like
00:48:17
that but once you get out into year 12
00:48:19
like you said Joe or year 15 whatever
00:48:21
your your personal risk measurement or
00:48:23
risk appetite is at some point it makes
00:48:25
sense to introduce some some higher risk
00:48:27
higher return Investments and just
00:48:29
starting with that just you don't have
00:48:30
to worry about picking Nvidia or picking
00:48:33
Facebook or picking anything else just
00:48:35
start thinking about your overall asset
00:48:37
allocation and how that meshes with your
00:48:40
timeline I I think that's a great place
00:48:42
to start it's wonderful what's your
00:48:44
number three my number three has to do
00:48:47
with health and healthcare because I I
00:48:50
just think that you know if I had to if
00:48:52
I had to put it into an actual question
00:48:54
or an actual topic it would just be how
00:48:56
I manage my health and health care in
00:48:59
retirement because I think all this
00:49:00
conversation we're having and just think
00:49:02
about all the ink that's been spilled
00:49:04
about retirement planning and think
00:49:06
about all the words that have been
00:49:08
spoken about retirement planning and all
00:49:10
the money that's changed hands when it
00:49:12
comes to retirement planning and then
00:49:15
juxtapose that with the current state of
00:49:18
the American Health not only health
00:49:20
system not healthare system but just
00:49:22
Americans Health right the American food
00:49:25
and fitness Industries and and you
00:49:26
realize there's something funny going on
00:49:28
where we've got plenty of 65 and 70y
00:49:31
olds who are financially prepared for
00:49:33
retirement and they are going to get
00:49:35
sick and die very soon into their
00:49:38
retirement unfortunately and and it is a
00:49:41
pretty widespread you can use some
00:49:43
flowery language here and I I'll let you
00:49:45
fill in the blanks but I think it's so
00:49:47
important for people to yes you want you
00:49:50
want to think about your multi-decade
00:49:52
financial retirement and all the fun
00:49:54
things you're going to do and you also
00:49:56
owe it to yourself to say how will I
00:49:59
increase my probability that I have a
00:50:01
happy healthy that I'm there that I'm
00:50:03
living and I'm vibrant during that
00:50:05
retirement it's so frustrating to see
00:50:08
somebody who did a great job with the
00:50:09
money and they're not healthy enough to
00:50:11
get any of those goals which brings up
00:50:13
two things number one if you're younger
00:50:15
and you're listening to this this idea
00:50:17
sabatical whenever possible is such an
00:50:19
important thing because you know you
00:50:21
have your health now do the things that
00:50:23
you want to do now take a break and and
00:50:25
do those plus part of that Jesse is also
00:50:28
play testing maybe some other time I'll
00:50:30
share my complete story with people
00:50:32
about me being a nomad for a while but I
00:50:34
thought that was going to be my life I
00:50:36
was sure we sold our house we sold all
00:50:37
our stuff we were going to go live and
00:50:41
then covid hit we looked at each other
00:50:43
and said okay my wife was taking a job
00:50:46
in Arizona we lived in Michigan at the
00:50:48
time and it was funny we were just
00:50:50
waiting on one license she needed and we
00:50:53
get this call there is no job because of
00:50:54
Co and we'd already sold everything we
00:50:57
sold our we sold everything and we look
00:50:58
at each other and this is the first time
00:51:00
when I when I realized how cool
00:51:01
Financial Independence is because we
00:51:03
went from horrified oh my God there's no
00:51:05
job which would be 99% of us to looking
00:51:09
at each other going wait a minute you
00:51:11
don't need to work we can to live where
00:51:13
the hell we want like where do you want
00:51:14
to go so we went we lived in Vermont for
00:51:16
a month we lived in Palm Springs for a
00:51:18
month like we spent most of covid in
00:51:19
these outdoor places exploring national
00:51:21
parks and trying to stay stay safe and
00:51:24
away from people do all the cool things
00:51:25
for two years away from people but I'll
00:51:27
tell you I hated it you're saying by the
00:51:29
by the end of the nomadic lifestyle or
00:51:31
kind of throughout it it started to
00:51:33
grind on you yeah probably by month
00:51:35
three or four I was like there's
00:51:36
something missing here I like slow
00:51:38
travel I will be okay during my quote
00:51:41
retirement years when I when Cheryl
00:51:43
decides she doesn't want to work because
00:51:45
also during this process we went through
00:51:47
valuing work and she said no I really
00:51:50
want to work I like what I do I really
00:51:52
like what I do it's not about the money
00:51:53
and so she decided to go back to work
00:51:55
but when she decides to retire Jesse I
00:51:57
like slow travel we're going to go spend
00:51:59
summer it's hot as hell here in Texar
00:52:00
can in the summer so we're going to
00:52:02
spend three months in Portugal or maybe
00:52:04
three months back in Chile or Peru where
00:52:06
I just was or Vermont even go love
00:52:09
Vermont so or Northern Michigan which is
00:52:12
amazing maybe go stay at Jesse's house
00:52:14
in Rochester do do some of that cool
00:52:17
stuff we've got a little corner in the
00:52:19
basement it's a little musty and dank
00:52:21
but it's all yours well it it it's going
00:52:22
to be perfect then cuz it's exactly what
00:52:24
we have here mom's basement so but
00:52:26
anyway but back to healthcare the the
00:52:29
the fact that the fact that you play
00:52:31
test stuff so you know what you like and
00:52:33
what you don't like is super important
00:52:35
sabatical is super important because you
00:52:37
don't know what your health is going to
00:52:38
be like but also then taking care of
00:52:40
your health and I found as I get older
00:52:42
well I get frustrated that I can't do
00:52:45
things the way that I used to I can see
00:52:47
my time slowing down speaking of running
00:52:49
like I just become happier as a slower
00:52:51
and slower and slower Runner it still is
00:52:54
really fun the challenge of staying
00:52:55
healthy is fun but it's a mindset shift
00:52:58
I like it let's go to number four do you
00:53:00
want to go first do you want me to go
00:53:01
first are we are we doing a snake draft
00:53:03
I think we are doing a snake draft which
00:53:04
means you're up my number four is that a
00:53:08
pre-retired re gliding into retirement
00:53:10
needs to identify their important
00:53:13
relationships and understand how they'll
00:53:16
maintain those relationships throughout
00:53:17
retirement because again going back to
00:53:20
some of the Retirement Research that
00:53:21
I've read a very common stressor or a
00:53:25
common complaint or ation that retirees
00:53:27
have is the change and usually it's the
00:53:31
lack of the same type of social
00:53:33
engagements and relationships that they
00:53:35
had during their working years that
00:53:37
could be I used to obviously know a lot
00:53:40
of people at work and I spent 45 hours a
00:53:42
week at work and now I don't see those
00:53:44
people anymore it could be I was
00:53:46
participating in kind of professional or
00:53:48
Civic societies whether you know the
00:53:51
rotary club or or the network after work
00:53:53
club and now I'm not doing that anymore
00:53:55
I used to work with clients and I'm not
00:53:57
doing that anymore now it's no offense
00:53:59
to my spouse it's just me and my spouse
00:54:01
all day every day that's a very common
00:54:04
frustration and going back to what it's
00:54:06
the Harvard Grant study the longitudinal
00:54:08
happiness study that's very famous and
00:54:11
one of if not the biggest outcomes from
00:54:14
that study is that human happiness is
00:54:17
directly correlated to our relationships
00:54:19
and when our relationships suffer we
00:54:22
tend to suffer as social animals so I
00:54:24
think it behooves any pre-tie to
00:54:26
understand how their relationships will
00:54:29
ideally flourish throughout their
00:54:31
retirement it's a harder Point than I
00:54:34
think a lot of people think it is and as
00:54:36
a guy who's in his
00:54:37
mid-50s let me tell you I see friends
00:54:40
falling into this trap already I have
00:54:43
two friends that within the past five
00:54:46
years have bought a quote vacation house
00:54:49
away from all of their friends and they
00:54:51
increasingly spend more time at the
00:54:53
vacation house because you know what
00:54:55
Jesse you get to a certain amount of
00:54:57
money you get to a certain point of your
00:54:59
life and you go I deserve it but the
00:55:01
thing that they're really doing is
00:55:03
isolating themselves from those
00:55:05
communities I love board games so I have
00:55:08
board game nights fairly often there's
00:55:11
one dude that I've forgotten to invite a
00:55:14
few times because he's isolated himself
00:55:16
so much I didn't do it to him he did it
00:55:18
to him but the cultural expectation is
00:55:21
this is good if I told you oh this guy's
00:55:24
got this beautiful property on a lake
00:55:25
about an an hour and a half away and he
00:55:27
spends a lot of time there and it's up
00:55:28
on a hill and he's building this
00:55:29
gorgeous huge like 4,000 foot house like
00:55:32
it's gorgeous unbelievable house uh on
00:55:35
top of this this hill just looking down
00:55:37
the spine of the lake it's beautiful you
00:55:39
would think everybody would think well
00:55:41
yeah it's retirement Vision that's great
00:55:43
it's horrible it is medically going to
00:55:47
make him die sooner I've got another
00:55:50
friend who is retiring and chasing his
00:55:52
children chasing your children I don't
00:55:55
think is
00:55:56
horrible but what I've found is I've
00:55:59
been around people that are on the other
00:56:01
end of that once the kids get past High
00:56:02
School your kids kind of look at you and
00:56:05
go yeah thanks yeah okay don't need you
00:56:08
around anymore I have I have one friend
00:56:10
of our families who moved from Michigan
00:56:14
to California to take care of her
00:56:16
grandkids after Grand her last grandson
00:56:19
graduated from high school she within 6
00:56:22
months moved to Virginia to be with
00:56:24
other family and during that the whole
00:56:26
time think about how hard it is to get
00:56:28
friends especially for men like study
00:56:30
show men have a hard time making friends
00:56:32
after age 35 40 years old it's the only
00:56:35
reason why I podcast actually I need to
00:56:37
invite people I mean this is my social
00:56:39
engagement right now Joe he needs a
00:56:41
buddy it is so difficult so I think
00:56:44
that's an issue the other issue there's
00:56:45
one more I know people in their 70s
00:56:48
there's a guy who's a wonderful
00:56:49
podcaster I love him a lot but the thing
00:56:52
that I hear people say about him is this
00:56:54
guy's in his 70s what the hell is he
00:56:55
still doing working what's funny is
00:56:57
Jesse I want to be that guy I can't
00:56:59
imagine not doing this 20 years from now
00:57:01
Cheryl and I said that if we go live in
00:57:02
Portugal for 3 months I'm taking my
00:57:04
podcasting stuff with me I'm find a
00:57:06
place with fast internet I'm GNA do
00:57:07
because I love it but it is the first
00:57:09
thing people ask about this guy all the
00:57:10
time like what's he does he not enough
00:57:12
money so these cultural things of I
00:57:15
deserve the vacation house I deserve to
00:57:17
stop working are actually the lifeblood
00:57:21
for the guy still working it's his
00:57:22
lifeblood and he's great at it why the
00:57:24
hell should he stop because he's 75
00:57:26
why should I go isolate myself from my
00:57:29
friends because I'm nearing retirement
00:57:31
age I think we have to carefully
00:57:33
reexamine those things so I love I love
00:57:35
the fact that you brought that up I I
00:57:36
agree with what you said and not only
00:57:38
because you agree with me it's not just
00:57:39
pure confirmation bias speaking I
00:57:41
actually agree with what you said there
00:57:43
Joe what's your uh what's your number
00:57:45
four my number four is very similar to
00:57:47
your number three which is how are you
00:57:49
going to protect yourself how are you
00:57:51
going to protect yourself now you've got
00:57:53
illness on just the everyday end to
00:57:56
if I pass away and I'm married what's my
00:57:59
spouse going to do if my spouse pass
00:58:01
away what am I going to do do I have my
00:58:04
estate plan set up do I have have I
00:58:06
thought about long-term care long-term
00:58:08
care is you know is such a big problem
00:58:10
this idea of I'm going to have a
00:58:11
catastrophic illness at some point
00:58:13
what's my strategy think about this
00:58:15
stuff early on think about it once
00:58:18
develop your plan and don't sit around
00:58:20
worrying about it but problem I saw when
00:58:22
I was a financial planner too many
00:58:24
people in their retirement years sitting
00:58:25
around worrying about this stuff without
00:58:27
a plan create your plan live with it
00:58:29
have fun like go do your thing go do
00:58:32
whatever your mission is but don't worry
00:58:34
about all that stuff frankly this should
00:58:37
have been my number three because I
00:58:39
agree with this client that I had she
00:58:41
was an engineer for the state of
00:58:42
Michigan and she told me when we were
00:58:44
talking about protection right we're
00:58:46
talking about insurances and having a
00:58:48
big enough cash reserve and our state
00:58:50
plan she said I like this because as an
00:58:53
engineer when we're building a new
00:58:55
highway the first thing we do is we look
00:58:57
at everything that could go wrong and we
00:58:59
protect against all those things like we
00:59:00
on a whiteboard try to make sure we've
00:59:02
covered everything and once we know we
00:59:04
have a plan for all this then we start
00:59:06
building but I think that narrative wise
00:59:09
thinking about what funds or assets
00:59:10
first goes along in people's brain
00:59:13
easier so really before you start
00:59:16
investing in funds and assets you should
00:59:18
figure out how am I'm going to protect
00:59:19
myself and then do it but narrative wise
00:59:21
I think number four I like this better
00:59:24
it's scary to think about and so we're
00:59:25
we're not wired to ask that question
00:59:27
well what if I die sooner than I expect
00:59:30
what if something terrible happens what
00:59:31
if I fall off you know what if I become
00:59:33
like those what if questions the scary
00:59:35
what if questions that as you alluded to
00:59:37
your your engineering client I mean I
00:59:39
can certainly relate to that as in my
00:59:40
former engineering career absolutely
00:59:43
what kind of things do I need to design
00:59:44
for and what factors of safety do I need
00:59:46
to include and what don't I fully
00:59:49
understand what are the unknown unknowns
00:59:50
can I try to figure that all that kind
00:59:52
of stuff I think it's it can be scary
00:59:54
for the average person to
00:59:56
commit a lot of their brain power to
00:59:58
those questions because it's really not
00:59:59
fun to think about and not to belabor
01:00:03
the point not to steal a spotlight but
01:00:04
that my number five is it's worded a
01:00:06
little bit differently but it's what
01:00:08
legal or estate planning do I need to do
01:00:11
am I all set on the legal Estate
01:00:13
Planning and I should throw uh Insurance
01:00:15
in there too if that's a a need for
01:00:17
someone gliding into retirement because
01:00:19
if if you haven't thought about it yet I
01:00:21
mean I I feel a little bit behind I'm in
01:00:23
my mid-30s and I think there are some
01:00:25
things where ask myself boy have I have
01:00:27
I really set up my family as optimally
01:00:29
as I should have probably not because
01:00:31
you never know when that bus is going to
01:00:32
when that plane is going to land on you
01:00:34
on the highway inside joke inside joke
01:00:36
right there you know if you haven't
01:00:38
thought about it by the time you're 50
01:00:40
or 55 or 60 and you're going into
01:00:42
retirement with a partner or if you plan
01:00:44
on leaving money behind to your airs or
01:00:46
whatever those kind of questions are
01:00:48
it's really time to get all those
01:00:50
Affairs in order 100% absolutely 100%
01:00:53
it's so funny how closely our list align
01:00:56
it's either great minds think alike or
01:00:57
fools seldom differ it's one of the
01:01:00
two could be one of those so that that
01:01:02
was my number five and that completes my
01:01:04
list but what what's your number five
01:01:05
Joe my number five is for all the snarky
01:01:08
people out there because Money podcasts
01:01:10
tend to attract money nerds and money
01:01:12
nerds are like oh yeah done all those
01:01:14
I'm good I'm good and you know what
01:01:17
generally I think it's not great
01:01:19
somebody doing what you or I do or back
01:01:22
when I was a financial planner to be
01:01:24
snarky but this is the one spot where I
01:01:26
get snarky where I'm like oh good for
01:01:29
you good for you that you're going to be
01:01:31
okay boy I bet you feel great don't you
01:01:34
and people might be wondering why the
01:01:36
hell what's that about here's the deal
01:01:40
you know when we look at things like the
01:01:42
efficient Frontier as an example and we
01:01:45
look at organizing your assets better
01:01:47
people that listen to this type of show
01:01:49
usually people are pretty damn good at
01:01:51
this and when we're suboptimal with
01:01:54
stuff we let it go cuz I'm going to be
01:01:57
okay and yet you think about those
01:01:59
people around you those communities
01:02:01
around you those you could do some
01:02:04
serious good in your own backyard
01:02:07
whatever that means to you whether it's
01:02:09
your immediately immediate family if
01:02:10
it's your kids if it's your social
01:02:12
organizations you talked about
01:02:14
communities while we fight more and more
01:02:17
online about politics you know what's
01:02:19
happening Community organizations in our
01:02:21
backyard are shrinking nobody's going to
01:02:23
the Kanas Club anymore helping out their
01:02:25
organization nobody's going to the
01:02:26
Rotary Club anymore I go and I speak to
01:02:29
these organizations about Trails which
01:02:31
is what I do in my backyard make walking
01:02:33
trails around Tex Arcana our mutual
01:02:35
friend Chad Carson does the same thing
01:02:37
in Clemson it was funny when we found
01:02:39
that out that we're both passionate
01:02:40
about walking trails in our town like we
01:02:42
both are on boards for those so I work a
01:02:44
lot with the parks department but I'm on
01:02:47
this group of just citizens that build
01:02:50
matching gifts for more walking trails
01:02:52
and beautification safe roots to school
01:02:54
with kids great place to work work out
01:02:56
but these communities need your help and
01:02:59
you know what's funny is when I started
01:03:02
getting involved with Community stuff I
01:03:05
realized that I should and I thought as
01:03:07
a financial Planet it would be good
01:03:08
marketing just getting to know people
01:03:10
because you always see the movers and
01:03:12
shakers in a town do this stuff right
01:03:15
and I thought it was all marketing I
01:03:18
realized I wasn't really PR good
01:03:20
passionate about anything like I had no
01:03:22
real goal I had no cause I had no
01:03:24
whatever so I just picked one frankly I
01:03:26
picked one at the time that my client
01:03:28
was the head of the Arthritis Foundation
01:03:30
my mom has arthritis my grandmother had
01:03:34
really bad arthritis so I did stuff with
01:03:36
the Arthritis Foundation instead of
01:03:37
waiting for passion to hit you just go
01:03:40
get your hands dirty and when you go and
01:03:42
you get involved and you see what the
01:03:44
need is then all of a sudden you're 100%
01:03:47
on it and now any way that I can use my
01:03:51
money and my brain and whatever to help
01:03:54
the people and the community around me
01:03:56
grow it sounds like I'm like Joe
01:03:58
humanitarian some Monk who's just you
01:04:01
know doing great it isn't Jesse this is
01:04:03
completely selfish I will tell you you
01:04:05
will feel so kickass if you get more
01:04:08
involved and if you help out so if
01:04:11
you're feeling okay after Jesse and my
01:04:14
list well good for you great now go do
01:04:18
something you know what I mean so it is
01:04:20
snarky but I think there's a wealth of
01:04:22
knowledge that gets wasted and I'll tell
01:04:24
you specifically who I'm talking to I'm
01:04:27
talking to people that read J Collins
01:04:30
book The Simple path to wealth they put
01:04:32
all their money in vtsax they know
01:04:35
nothing about either goal-based
01:04:36
investing the in fishing Frontier and I
01:04:38
will tell you that strategy is beatable
01:04:41
by a lot and if you have more than 70
01:04:46
80,000 sitting in
01:04:48
vtsax you are you're doing it wrong I
01:04:51
mean you just just quite frankly you're
01:04:53
doing it wrong and and you missed the
01:04:55
point of the book the book was hey
01:04:57
you're young stop freaking out about
01:04:58
what to invest in just invest in vtsax
01:05:01
and you will become wealthy and he's not
01:05:03
wrong he's he's 100% right it's a simple
01:05:06
path to wealth not the optimal path to
01:05:07
wealth not the best path to wealth jail
01:05:09
count smart dude he didn't name it any
01:05:11
of those things he named it simple and I
01:05:14
see otherwise brilliant money nerds get
01:05:17
caught in this trap of suboptimization
01:05:20
which is so easy to beat they'll have a
01:05:22
budget that is unbelievable they will
01:05:26
have the right insurances exactly mapped
01:05:29
out and then it comes to their asset
01:05:31
allocation and they crap on it because
01:05:33
of a book JL Collins read that they
01:05:36
misinterpreted anyway another rant sorry
01:05:39
yeah no no oh understood understood that
01:05:42
and that's another uh you want to talk
01:05:44
about like some nitpicking arguments
01:05:46
that I've decided to avoid now I mean
01:05:48
that's a big one it's hard having an
01:05:49
actual cohesive coherent conversation
01:05:52
with someone who's really drinking the
01:05:53
uh the VT Kool-Aid as it were well they
01:05:56
don't get the point correct exactly the
01:05:58
whole missing the forest for the trees
01:06:00
thing again and it's fun as you were
01:06:01
describing some of the ways to give back
01:06:04
to your community I thought just past
01:06:06
this past week have you heard of
01:06:07
paychecks yes the company payroll I used
01:06:10
to use them so founded here in Rochester
01:06:12
New York by a gentleman named Tom galiso
01:06:15
who is a a multi-billionaire I think
01:06:17
he's a multi multi times over
01:06:19
billionaire at this point he's probably
01:06:20
in his 80s called a surprise press
01:06:22
conference last week he invited it was
01:06:24
actually kind of cool thinking about
01:06:25
cool ways of doing things he invited all
01:06:27
these people to a room they didn't know
01:06:29
why they were there they were starting
01:06:30
to look around the room and they
01:06:31
realized like wait I'm the head
01:06:33
fundraiser for this nonprofit you're the
01:06:35
head fundraiser for that non like
01:06:36
everybody in here was a fundraiser for a
01:06:39
nonprofit then who walks on stage Tom
01:06:42
galano whoa big surprise gave away $360
01:06:45
million to like 40 or 50 organizations
01:06:49
in you know1 to20 million chunks so this
01:06:52
huge Monumental thing that affected a
01:06:54
lot of organizations here in West New
01:06:55
York and he always has been very
01:06:57
philanthropic in that way but I think
01:07:00
that's the kind of thing of course most
01:07:02
of us listening are not going to be able
01:07:03
to give away 360 millions of dollars but
01:07:06
you probably can look at your financial
01:07:07
plan you can look at how it will change
01:07:09
over time you can start giving away
01:07:11
money you can just give away your time
01:07:13
and effort which is something you
01:07:14
alluded to Joe and and speaking of when
01:07:16
you come stay in in the basement here
01:07:18
parenton New York my little suburb is a
01:07:21
trail Town USA design I don't know if
01:07:24
you're familiar with this but there's
01:07:25
something like 50 or 100 Trail towns in
01:07:28
the US that have a very high
01:07:30
concentration of walking trails that's
01:07:32
fabulous it's great you're going to love
01:07:34
it you're you can bring your board games
01:07:36
we'll put you in a tent down in the
01:07:37
basement you bring your walking shoes
01:07:39
you can walk all over I won't drive you
01:07:41
anywhere I swear you can do all the walk
01:07:42
no but it it is something that and
01:07:44
talking about making people happy giving
01:07:46
people purpose I mean putting your time
01:07:48
and effort and resources to use in
01:07:50
retirement generally is something that
01:07:52
brings people a lot of joy and it is
01:07:54
something worth thinking about ahead of
01:07:55
time well Joe here we are the end of the
01:07:58
episode thank you so much for coming
01:08:00
here on the best interest podcast I mean
01:08:02
how can people let's say someone's been
01:08:04
living under a rock they they heard of
01:08:06
me because I'm there under the rock with
01:08:07
them but they haven't heard of stacking
01:08:10
Benjamin what's going on over at
01:08:11
stacking Benjamin's these days oh we got
01:08:13
this guy who's appearing quite a bit on
01:08:15
our Friday roundtables lately some dude
01:08:17
named Jesse Kramer mixing it up with
01:08:20
Paula pant from a for anything and our
01:08:23
own OG Josh Bannerman who is my co-host
01:08:26
and we have these great Round Table
01:08:28
discussions on Friday Mondays we have
01:08:30
Mentor Mondays we have great people we
01:08:33
just had a a great Professor on from
01:08:35
Stanford University we have Seth Goden
01:08:37
coming up the marketing Guru we got Josh
01:08:39
Brown downtown Josh Brown coming on so
01:08:42
people that know CNBC or people that
01:08:44
know great financial planning people
01:08:46
Josh is going to be coming up so we have
01:08:48
great mentors on Monday people we really
01:08:51
respect Wednesday we take a headline and
01:08:53
we go deep with it we just talked about
01:08:55
the Dallas pension fund firefighter
01:08:57
pension fund and we use that as a case
01:08:59
study on a Wednesday show about how
01:09:03
these big big big Pension funds even
01:09:05
mess up their money and how easy it is
01:09:07
to do here's what they did Jesse they're
01:09:09
like we're not going to pay Pros we're
01:09:11
going to put firefighters on the pension
01:09:13
fund and these firefighters invested in
01:09:17
vacant land swads of land in Wyoming and
01:09:21
they invested in wineries in California
01:09:24
mostly I think because the wineries sent
01:09:28
them on due diligence imagine if you
01:09:30
told your spouse that we get to go to a
01:09:32
due diligence trip with a wi and you're
01:09:34
sitting back there over you know you're
01:09:36
half drunk and you're looking out over
01:09:37
the you're like we should invest in this
01:09:39
can't go wrong those are mistakes of pro
01:09:41
wouldn't make and so while it doesn't
01:09:43
need to be made by a pro we kind of
01:09:45
teach people in these case studies on
01:09:46
Wednesdays to think more like a pro and
01:09:48
then on Fridays we have a great Round
01:09:50
Table discussion about some great topic
01:09:53
we've talked about is door Dash killing
01:09:55
the community neighborhoods and our
01:09:58
wallet at the same time you know that's
01:10:00
number one we talked about instead of
01:10:03
goal setting should we be going on
01:10:04
quests having a lot of fun there so
01:10:06
Monday Wednesday Friday the greatest
01:10:08
money Show on Earth because it's a
01:10:09
circus the stacking Benjamin show it is
01:10:12
it's always entertaining and always
01:10:14
enlightening and and I mean I'm
01:10:15
definitely going to check out Josh and
01:10:17
and Seth two two people who I have a ton
01:10:19
of respect for what could I say thank
01:10:21
you again Joe Sal SEI of stacking
01:10:24
Benjamins for stopping by by sharing
01:10:25
your time and expertise and your smile
01:10:28
and your laughter with us on the best
01:10:30
interest podcast thanks a ton man you
01:10:32
and I have so much
01:10:34
fun thanks for tuning in to this episode
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Episode Highlights

  • The Importance of Financial Planning
    Smart financial planning can save you significant amounts of money over time.
    “Smart Financial Planning can save you a lot of money over time.”
    @ 02m 39s
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  • The Value of a Basis Point
    Understanding how small changes in fees can significantly impact your investment returns.
    “Keep fees low where you can; every single one counts.”
    @ 13m 53s
    November 06, 2024
  • Flipping to the Light Side
    A financial plan that saves fees and boosts performance over 20 years.
    “He'll save 1.5% per year on fees and outperform the annuities by 3%.”
    @ 18m 16s
    November 06, 2024
  • The Real Value of Financial Planning
    It's about saving money and optimizing returns, not just picking stocks.
    “Smart financial planning lies in knowing the rules of the game.”
    @ 19m 55s
    November 06, 2024
  • Planning for Retirement
    Most people spend more time planning vacations than their retirement.
    “People spend more time planning a family vacation than their retirement.”
    @ 24m 39s
    November 06, 2024
  • The Importance of Values in Retirement
    Aligning finances with personal values is crucial for a fulfilling retirement.
    “It's about aligning your money with what you value.”
    @ 34m 56s
    November 06, 2024
  • The Importance of Goal-Based Investing
    Discover how goal-based investing can help you stick to your financial plan.
    “Goal-based investing saves your behavior.”
    @ 39m 26s
    November 06, 2024
  • The Cost of Good Advice
    Understand why hiring good financial advisors is worth the investment.
    “Good advice costs money; hiring good people costs money.”
    @ 43m 38s
    November 06, 2024
  • The Importance of Relationships in Retirement
    Human happiness is directly correlated to our relationships, especially during retirement.
    “Human happiness is directly correlated to our relationships.”
    @ 54m 14s
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  • Isolation in Retirement
    Retirees often isolate themselves, losing valuable social connections.
    “I deserve it, but the thing they’re really doing is isolating themselves.”
    @ 55m 01s
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  • Get Involved in Your Community
    Engaging in community service can bring joy and purpose in retirement.
    “You will feel so kickass if you get more involved.”
    @ 01h 04m 05s
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  • Investment Wisdom00:04
  • Investor Behavior03:38
  • Retirement Questions24:32
  • Retirement Quest29:35
  • Fear of Investing41:02
  • Value of Good Advice43:38
  • Isolation Trap55:01
  • Show Appreciation1:10:59

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