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Silly Hacks, New Rules, & Unpopular Opinions - E94

November 20, 2024 / 47:01

This episode of the Best Interest Podcast features Jesse Kramer discussing unconventional personal finance opinions and how his views have changed over time. Key topics include the FIRE movement's obsession with 100% stock portfolios, misconceptions about tax hacks, and the value of 529 college savings plans.

Jesse critiques the FIRE movement's recommendation of a 100% investment in VTSAX, arguing that it poses significant risks during market downturns. He emphasizes the importance of a diversified portfolio and the need for a buffer in cash or bonds.

He also warns against relying on popular tax hacks, stating that many are either illegal or misleading. Instead, he advocates for accepting the inevitability of taxes and focusing on legitimate ways to minimize them.

In discussing 529 plans, Jesse suggests a 50% rule, where half of the college savings go into a 529 plan and the other half into a taxable brokerage account for flexibility. He further asserts that a primary home should not be viewed as an investment.

Jesse concludes with reflections on side hustles, the rent versus buy debate, and the importance of perspective on wealth, urging listeners to recognize their privileged positions globally.

TL;DR

Jesse Kramer shares unconventional personal finance views and discusses how his opinions have evolved over time, covering topics like the FIRE movement and 529 plans.

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welcome to the best interest podcast
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where we believe Benjamin Franklin's
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advice that an investment in knowledge
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pays the best interest both in finances
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and in your life every episode teaches
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you personal finance and investing in
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simple terms now here's your host Jesse
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Kramer hello and welcome to episode 94
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of the best interest podcast my name is
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Jesse Kramer got an interesting one
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today it's going to be a bit of a
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monologue and I want to share with you a
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different things I want to share with
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you some of my unconventional personal
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finance opinions I think there's some
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interesting stuff there to talk about
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and then I want to share how I've
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changed my mind over time some topics
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that I used to think one thing and now I
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think another thing going over topics
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like this is really helpful because even
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if you don't always agree with me I
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think it's going to be helpful to see
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how other people out there think and and
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maybe it will shape some of your
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opinions in a new way but first as
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always let's do a review of the week uh
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as always this review comes from
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podcasts and man from tondo Manila left
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a festar review and it says American
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Dream found thank you Jesse as an
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immigrant from a third world country my
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American dream is to work and work and
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buy things to make me look so successful
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your podcast changes that view now I
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have a great vision for my finance well
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I'm glad to hear that man from tond
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Manila because I I do think you know
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hard work is important and it is fun to
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buy things but just working and making
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money and buying things isn't
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necessarily what I would call a view of
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success and I'm glad that the best
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interest podcast has helped you you know
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shift your mindset there so man from
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tond Manila if you hear this shoot me an
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email Jesse at best. blog and we will
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get you set up with a super soft bestest
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t-shirt let's dive into it we're going
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to talk about yeah two types of ideas
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today the first one are my
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unconventional personal finance opinions
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contrarianism at least I think
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contrarianism is always interesting not
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only because it's disagreeable but
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because it begs the question why why
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does someone think the things they think
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why do they disagree with what I think
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while opinions like that grab the
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headlines the explanations behind the
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opinions that's what contains the real
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knowledge that's the cool part and I
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hope to dive into some of that today and
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then I'm going to share how I've changed
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my mind over time December of 2023 this
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past December was the five-year
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anniversary of the best interest and
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I've changed my mind a lot over that
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time I've changed my mind on budgeting
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on spending habits on investing topics
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and more and again understanding why
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someone changes their mind provides
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interesting perspective on long- held
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beliefs I'm not asking you guys to
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change your minds today too but if you
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do end up asking yourself even one good
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question about your current personal
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beliefs at some point during today's
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episodes I think it'll be time well
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spent let's dive into some of my
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unconventional personal finance opinions
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the first one the fire movements
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obsession with 100% vtsax or similar
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thoughts is stupid okay if you don't
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know what I'm talking about here some
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people in the financial Independence
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Movement preach that an Investment
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Portfolio should be 100% vtsax which is
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the vanguard's total us stock market
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index fund 100% now the reason why this
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is stupid is there there's a few reasons
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why one reason is because it flies in
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the face of any sort of asset liability
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matching or goals-based investing or
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bucketing your money it flies in the
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face of those kind of topics because
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your portfolio is 100% invested in the
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US Stock Market it means that the
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spending that you're planning on this
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year and next year and then year after
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that that near-term spending you're
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depending on stocks for that and and
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that's a really big risk because we know
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that the stock market can and has before
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dropped 20 or 30 or 40% in a given year
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and in that scenario this early retiree
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is going to have to pull on their stocks
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when their stocks are down and that's
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something that isn't ideal for portfolio
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construction the thought process that
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many people in the fire movement have is
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they say listen I I understand Market
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history uh I've back tested this this
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strategy it's not going to bother me
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when my market drops 40 or 50% in a year
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I can handle it that might be true and I
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think for some people it is true however
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investing and bare markets it's one of
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those things that until you live through
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it it's really hard to understand how
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you'll react I think a lot of people out
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there can say yeah whatever 40% it's
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just a number right who cares but when
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you're living through it and your
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million dooll portfolio is now
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$600,000 when you've lost $400,000 on
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paper and now you're early retired and
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now you have to pull on those assets so
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you're withdrawing after that 40% draw
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down in practice a lot of people that I
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talk to realize that their feelings
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about that 100% stock portfolio change
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it's like that Mike Tyson quote right
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Everybody's Got A Plan until they get
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punched in the face that plan of 100%
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stock index fund it sounds good on paper
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and for some people it is right on paper
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but for some people it's only right on
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paper because when the stock market does
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punch them in the face they realize that
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they've been caught off sides they
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realize that they're in a position that
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they never wanted to be in and that at
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least some sort of safer allocation
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bonds would be a traditional example
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even cash can be a good example there's
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a well-known portfolio out there that's
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75% stocks 25 % cash and that cash is
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meant as a short-term buffer it's where
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you're going to pull money from in the
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next few years just in case your stocks
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do drop and they need time to recover so
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beaten that one enough that's my first
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unconventional opinion that the fire
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movements obsession with 100% US Stock
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Market portfolios is stupid the second
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one you're going to pay taxes and most
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tax hacks are either wrong or illegal
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one example being the child Roth IRA
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hack
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or another one being that the business
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owners pay no taxes hacks a third one
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being that everything can be written off
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all of these are stupid hacks and the
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fact of the matter is that you would do
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much better if you simply accepted the
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fact that you are going to pay taxes
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there are certainly some things you can
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do to try to minimize taxes over time
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but if something feels like a hack you
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should always sort of question it now
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let me go into some of those examples
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child Roth IRA hack what this hack says
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is that if you're a business owner even
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if you're not a business owner you can
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start a business is what they say so
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that's step one is you have to start a
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business and step two is that you employ
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your child even if your child is like
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two years old they become an employee
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you pay them a salary of it doesn't have
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to be much but the child has earned
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income ideally the earned income is at
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least as much as what the Roth IRA
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limits are so this year the Roth IR
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limits are $77,000 so let's say you you
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pay your child $10,000 in income and
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then because the child has earned income
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they can contribute money into a Roth
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IRA so you can set up a Roth IRA for
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your kid and put $7,000 in it even
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though they're two years old and you're
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setting them off on an amazing start for
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their long-term investing career then
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you as the business owner you paid them
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$10,000 so that payroll is a write off
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for you as a business owner so it saves
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you taxes it's like a win-win win okay
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that's what the hack is but the reason
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why you really need to be careful here
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is because you need to justify to the IR
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r s that your child did $10,000 worth of
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work and provided $10,000 worth of value
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to your company now if the child's two
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you're going to have a hard time
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defending that if the child's 12 right
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and they're out there you're paying them
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$20 an hour and they're out there for
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500 hours over the course of the Year
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sweeping the shop and stapling papers
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and licking envelopes I mean yeah
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they're they're definitely are some ways
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that you can use this quote unquote hack
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it it will benefit you in the way that
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it's described but the way that I've
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seen it described way too often is this
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idea that basically your kid doesn't
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have to do anything for you all you have
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to do is put them on payroll pay them
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money and then boom magically you win
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the game and that's just not true the
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other one that I mentioned before the
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idea that business owners pay no taxes I
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mean there is a little bit of truth that
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business expenses are written off
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against business Revenue But ultimately
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if a business owner finds himself in a
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place where they pay no taxes the reason
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why is because they had no Revenue they
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had no profit from that year and that's
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not exactly a place where you want to be
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if you're running a business there might
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be exceptions you can think about some
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of these giant corporations like Amazon
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or apple that move their operations to
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places like Ireland that have minimum or
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zero corporate taxes and therefore those
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businesses get away with having very
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very small tax bills but for the average
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mom and pop kind of business owner
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running the local restaurant or garage
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or something like that if you pay no
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taxes that's a sign that your business
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is not doing well that's my second
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unconventional person personal finance
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opinion it applies to business owners it
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applies to individuals you are going to
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pay taxes and most tax hacks are either
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wrong or legal number three pertains to
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529 College savings plans I think people
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should use the 50% rule when it comes to
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their 529 College savings plans I'm
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going to explain what that rule is and I
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I even think that's true with the new
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Roth IRA conversion rule which I'll
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explain that as well so if you're saving
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for your kids college step number one is
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to determine as a family or with your
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partner how much money you want to set
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aside for your kids so for this easy
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hypothetical let's say that you have two
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kids you want to set aside $100,000 for
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each of them for their future college so
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you can figure out what their timeline
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is to college you can assume some sort
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of conservative rate of return on your
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Investments and with a pretty simple
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spreadsheet or with the help of some
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sort of financial professional can put a
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plan together how much money you need to
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set aside right now or how much money
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you need to set aside each year from now
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until they go to college to reach that
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$100,000 goal for each kid but now the
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question is where does that $100,000 or
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where does that investing money go does
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it go into a 529 plan and now this is
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where the 50% rule comes in I believe
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that 50% of the money should go into a
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529 plan the other 50% of the money
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should go into a taxable brokerage
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account that at least in your mind using
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mental accounting you have set that
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taxable brokerage account aside for
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College funding there's a few reasons
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why 529 plans are famously illiquid and
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they are very rigid and that's not good
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for you as the owner of the 529 plan the
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IL liquidity means that if you need to
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pull money out of the 529 plan say in a
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couple years because of some sort of
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emergency you're going to have to pay
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income tax on all the gains and you're
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going to have to pay a 10% penalty if
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you use that money for something that
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isn't education spending and the other
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problem is you don't want to end up in a
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situation where you have overfunded your
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529 plans we talked about that a few
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episodes ago I think it was
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episode 69 I want to say was Shawn meany
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we talked about the idea of overfunding
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529s and that's another place where you
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don't want to be as an investor you
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don't want to be in a place where you
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have put more money than you expected or
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more money than you wanted to or more
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money than you could use into a 529 plan
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because the only way to get it out or at
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least one the most common way that
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you're going to be forced to get that
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money out
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is by paying taxes and paying a penalty
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you're better off intentionally
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underfunding your 529 plans hence only
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putting 50% of the goal money into the
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529 plan you're intentionally
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underfunding you're essentially
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guaranteeing that you're going to use
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that entire 529 money for the kids
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college and then the other 50% goes into
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a taxable brokerage account it's more
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flexible in case you need it early and
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in case it goes unused you're going to
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get access to it penalty-free
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of course the downside there is that you
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don't get the tax advantages of the 529
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plan if the money's in a taxable
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brokerage but in the long run that's not
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that big of a deal that's another thing
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we talked about with Shawn meany is that
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the tax benefits of the 529 they're
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certainly nice but they're not out of
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this world so you're securing some of
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those tax benefits by using the 50% rule
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but you're also ensuring you don't face
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any of the downsides of the 529 at the
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same time that's take number three that
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for 529 you should use the 50% rule
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take number four your primary home is
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not an investment this is something I've
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talked about before I've written about
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before I've I wrote about it at length
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because last summer Kelly and I we
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bought what I hope at least is our
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forever own here in in Suburban
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Rochester at the time mortgage rates
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were 6.5% which did not feel good
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especially because the year before they
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were 3% or something like that but
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ultimately the one of the main reasons
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why we bought the home is because of the
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thinking that your primary home is not
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an investment your primary home is a
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place to meet your family's needs first
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and foremost it's a place to live if it
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happens to be a good investment in the
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long run that'll just be a cherry on top
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if it happens to be a terrible
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investment in the long run that won't
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feel great if the value goes down in the
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long run it's certainly a very expensive
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asset and because it's expensive and
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because it's it costs money to keep up a
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house or to fix a house that kind of
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thing we plan on taking great care of it
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it it certainly is an an asset from that
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point of you but an asset is not the
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same as an investment Investments
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produce cash flow stocks bonds they
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produce cash flow real estate produces
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cash flow when someone else is living in
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it and paying you rent that's true but
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your primary home doesn't produce any
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cash flow for you and so for that reason
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I don't think you should think of your
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primary home as an investment and when
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you're shopping for a primary home I
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don't think it's smart or it certainly
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shouldn't be a primary concern to try to
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do any sort of investment calculations
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and have that way into whether or not
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the home that you you think you want is
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is right for you ultimately it's what
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neighborhood do you want to live in what
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school district do you want to live in
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how many bedrooms and bathrooms do you
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need that you and your family are
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comfortable those are the primary
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questions that you should be asking
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yourself not what's the 20-year irr of
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this house going to be that's take
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number four your primary home is not an
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investment controversial take number
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five side hustles are usually a waste of
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time I think if you scoped around the
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personal finance space you're very
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frequently going to see people say
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things like oh increase your income pick
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up a side hustle do a few side hustles
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there's so many great ways to do side
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hustles and make side income some people
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call this financial pornography you know
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stuff you see on like MSN or CNBC with
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these really outrageous headlines of
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this 24 yearold Works five hours per
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month and her income is
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$300,000 and you're like well what does
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she do and the answer is like she sells
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callar By Number books to four-year-olds
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on Etsy and she's like yeah it was just
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a side hustle and and now I'm a
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billionaire I sell color by number books
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you buy crayons color and I'm the queen
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of that and you're just like man can I
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do something like that too of course
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that is the exception not the rule those
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articles are perfect example of what's
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called survivorship bias where we hear
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stories about survivors and we often
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don't hear the stories about the
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failures and I think most people who try
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to do color by number books on Etsy end
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up failing but even there's just more
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mundane examples like uber driving if
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you were to run the math on Uber driving
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you would realize that it's a really
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hard way to to make any sort of money
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and odds are the average Uber driver is
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making somewhere around minimum wage if
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they're lucky the side hustle in that
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case isn't really good that person would
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probably be better off just spending
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more time on their primary job now there
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are of course exceptions a good friend
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of mine and a friend of the blog I'm
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going to leave him anonymous just
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because I didn't run this by him
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beforehand he's a good friend of the
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best interest and he started a side
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hustle probably about 10 years ago and
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it involved AIC specific group of
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products that he was selling in a little
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online store through Amazon so he's like
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all right yep this little niche and I'm
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just going to try to make really high
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quality products and differentiate
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myself and I'm just going to have better
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products than my competitors on Amazon
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and he was successful at that and
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eventually that side hustle he he was
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able to double and triple down on it he
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quit his main job his full-time job and
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he recently sold that side hustle
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business which grew into like a 20
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employee business or something like that
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and he sold it for a very large sum of
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money more than single digit Millions
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I'll say that and so he's an exception
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where that side hustle turned into life
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something that was life-changing but the
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question that I think we should all ask
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ourselves and the differentiating
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question between this friend of the blog
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and podcast and the average Uber driver
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the question to ask is what's the upper
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limit of this and then how much time
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will I give myself to reach that upper
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limit now when you're really starting a
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a true side business there's a pretty
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high upper limit and if you're seeing
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success there I think it's reasonable to
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give yourself quite a bit of time to to
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reach those goals ultimately maybe I'm
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being hypocritical here the best
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interest you can think of that as a side
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hustle I've been running it for five
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years if it's been profitable it's
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barely been profitable as its own entity
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but over the last two years now the best
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interest has been going kind of side by
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side with what doing in my day job right
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I work for a wealth management firm
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educating meeting clients talking to
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clients working with clients by day and
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then I come here by night and educate
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and and bring cool knowledge to everyone
00:18:41
here who's a fan of the best interest
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and a lot of that is swimming in the
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same direction so it's like okay my side
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hustle if you will has a really strong
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overlap with my day job at this point
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and I feel like the upper limit of the
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best interest is is reasonably high and
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can bring me success professionally and
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I'm willing to put in a lot of time also
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I'm just having a lot of fun ultimately
00:19:01
guys I might have talked about this
00:19:02
before and since this is a bit of a
00:19:03
monologue episode I can go down this
00:19:05
little Rabbit Trail here I have so much
00:19:07
fun writing and podcasting meeting
00:19:10
really cool people bringing guests onto
00:19:12
the podcast answering your questions via
00:19:14
email reading your reviews like the
00:19:16
interaction that we have here it's so
00:19:18
much fun for me so for that reason alone
00:19:21
I'm going to continue doing it but then
00:19:22
when I think about the upper limit it's
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like yeah this is a great side hustle
00:19:25
for me personally if you want to pursue
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side hustles in your own life I would
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ask yourself those questions what's the
00:19:31
upper limit of this side hustle and how
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much time will I give myself to get
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there because most of the time side
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hustles are a waste of time and that was
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number five okay number six rent versus
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buy my opinion neither one is great okay
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the fundamental questions are numbers
00:19:49
and landlord those are the two questions
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you have to ask when it comes to the
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rent versus by question so the first one
00:19:54
of course is just what is the math what
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are the numbers when it comes to what
00:19:58
you might want to go rent what are the
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numbers of any sort of house where you
00:20:02
might want to buy there are some numbers
00:20:04
involved and one of the most fundamental
00:20:06
questions actually if you go look and
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there's some great online calculators
00:20:09
some rent versus bu calculators I I use
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the one on nerd wallet I think it's a
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great one I'll throw the link in the
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show notes one of the biggest
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differentiators between renting versus
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buying in those calculators is quite
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simply how many years you plan on
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staying in that residence if your plan
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is to stay somewhere you know if living
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in your Forever City if it's where you
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grew up and wh your family is and you're
00:20:33
never going to move in that case buying
00:20:35
makes a lot of sense because the major
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expense of buying a house the frictional
00:20:41
costs that you never get back that feels
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like wasted money the interest payments
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on your mortgage that all occurs at the
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front end buying a house is a super
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front-loaded expense and if you're
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planning on being there for long enough
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to get past those front-loaded expenses
00:20:58
that that's when buying really becomes
00:21:00
the Smart Choice that's when you start
00:21:02
building your Equity that's when you
00:21:04
start gaining on the renting idea I mean
00:21:07
the reason why renting exists in the
00:21:09
first place the reason why it's a a
00:21:11
reasonable business proposition for
00:21:12
renters for many of them at least is
00:21:15
because they might say well I don't know
00:21:17
how long I'm going to be here I don't
00:21:19
know how long I want to live in this
00:21:20
particular City or in this particular
00:21:22
neighborhood maybe I'm a young worker
00:21:25
coming to a new city for a first-time
00:21:26
job who knows if I'll stay here or not
00:21:29
maybe I just don't have the assets right
00:21:30
now to put a down payment on a house and
00:21:33
I I need some sort of temporary solution
00:21:35
renting makes a lot of sense there and
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then earlier I mentioned the second big
00:21:39
question has to do with landlords I mean
00:21:40
ultimately you have to ask yourself do
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the pros of having a landlord outweigh
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the cons now for a lot of renters they
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would say yes the fact that they have
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someone who comes in and fixes the
00:21:50
leaking syn someone who plows the
00:21:52
driveway someone who takes care of
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essentially running the household all
00:21:57
they have to do is live there and keep
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their own space clean that's a that's a
00:22:00
really nice perk you know it's not great
00:22:03
that you aren't building any Equity but
00:22:05
there's pros and cons to that deal so
00:22:07
ultimately renting versus buying I mean
00:22:09
if if you look at the the return on
00:22:11
investment of residential real estate in
00:22:13
the past 100 years the US inflation
00:22:15
adjusted it is something like 05% per
00:22:19
year which suggests that buying is not
00:22:22
necessarily a great investment we
00:22:24
already covered that earlier and then
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obviously we all know that renting is
00:22:28
strictly speaking throwing your money
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away I'm using air quotes there because
00:22:32
we know there there's you're getting
00:22:34
something valuable by renting you're
00:22:35
getting a valuable service but just when
00:22:37
it comes to building your net worth over
00:22:40
time it's not ideal and so anyway that
00:22:42
leaves me just to summarize my opinion
00:22:44
that rent versus buy neither one is
00:22:46
great but you need to ask yourself some
00:22:49
fundamental questions about numbers math
00:22:51
and the landlord to figure out if which
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one is right for you uh number seven
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this is a fun one number seven most of
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us are spoiled I'm reading a book right
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now it's called factfulness and it's
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really interesting highly recommend it
00:23:05
so far I'm only about halfway through so
00:23:07
maybe I'm prematurely recommending it to
00:23:09
you guys but so far I I really enjoy it
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it's been eye opening and one of the
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cool things that the book does is it
00:23:16
it's it divides the world's population
00:23:18
into four income quadrants group one
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lives off of less than $2 per day group
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two lives off of of between two and8 per
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day group three lives off of between
00:23:34
eight and $32 a day and group four lives
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off of more than $32 a day and just some
00:23:40
back of the envelope math here you could
00:23:42
be level four you could be group four
00:23:43
you could be living off of $40 a day and
00:23:47
that's about what
00:23:49
$14,500 a year I mean an American would
00:23:52
say $40 a day 14 Grand a year that is
00:23:55
poverty level but if you really zoom out
00:23:58
to the entire world you are in the
00:24:00
wealthiest group of people for those
00:24:03
keeping track at home there's about 1
00:24:05
billion people at level four about two
00:24:07
billion people in level three about
00:24:10
three billion people in level two and
00:24:12
then about 1 billion people in level one
00:24:15
so most Americans including Americans
00:24:17
who are living in American poverty which
00:24:21
is not good poverty is not good but even
00:24:23
those who are living off of say $20,000
00:24:25
a year here in America they are living
00:24:28
in the upper echelon of world citizens
00:24:32
and most of us listening to this podcast
00:24:33
though now most of us I know the people
00:24:36
who are listening to this podcast we are
00:24:38
all over the age Spectrum from 25 to
00:24:40
some of us are 55 plus we are all over
00:24:43
the income Spectrum but on average a lot
00:24:45
of us are middle class or upper middle
00:24:47
class and we truly are in the 1%
00:24:50
globally in in so many ways we spend
00:24:53
money in ways that the rest of the world
00:24:56
finds luxurious we spend money in ways
00:24:58
that our own grandparents would find
00:25:00
Luxurious that put us in the top 1% of
00:25:03
all humans who ever lived but then we
00:25:05
turn around at the end of the month or
00:25:06
at the end of the year and we say things
00:25:08
like man life is expensive and money is
00:25:10
tight yeah but guess what that's what
00:25:13
you get if you spend money in ways that
00:25:17
no one else on Earth can afford to spend
00:25:18
money you are living a luxurious
00:25:20
lifestyle it might make you feel a
00:25:22
little bit tight at the end of the month
00:25:24
but you also have to realize the fact
00:25:26
that we're living it up we're living a
00:25:28
great life so just to point out exactly
00:25:30
what I'm saying I'm going to list some
00:25:32
items here and after each item ask
00:25:34
yourself is it a necessity or is it a
00:25:36
luxury the first one multiple bathrooms
00:25:39
inside a house specifically inside a
00:25:42
house okay multiple bathrooms inside a
00:25:44
house the second one Queen and king-size
00:25:47
beds the third item retirements that's
00:25:50
it that's it the idea that at some point
00:25:51
you won't need to work anymore the
00:25:53
fourth one grocery stores that are
00:25:55
absolutely teeming with food the fifth
00:25:57
one paved sidewalks six clean hot tap
00:26:02
water seven underground highquality
00:26:05
sewage and sanitation the eighth one
00:26:08
WiFi everywhere and the ninth one
00:26:11
multiple pairs of all clothes now those
00:26:14
nine items most people living at level
00:26:17
three in the world have few if any of
00:26:20
those nine items so if you have those
00:26:23
nine items you are living a life of
00:26:26
luxury compared to the rest of the world
00:26:28
maybe not compared to your neighbors and
00:26:30
that's why this whole keeping up with
00:26:31
the Joneses thing is so dangerous it
00:26:33
melts our brains when we compare to
00:26:36
ourselves to our neighbors and we forget
00:26:37
the fact that the rest of the world
00:26:39
isn't living like us that we are Kings
00:26:42
compared to the rest of the world so
00:26:44
anyway bit of a diet tribe but I just
00:26:46
think perspective is an amazing thing I
00:26:48
think having the perspective that we are
00:26:50
lucky or that we're spoiled or that we
00:26:52
should count our blessings how whatever
00:26:54
language you want to use that's a
00:26:55
perspective that will make you happier
00:26:57
because if you raise your expectations
00:26:59
above that and you start saying
00:27:01
something like I deserve this life I
00:27:03
earned this life that all those lists
00:27:05
that Jesse said that's just table stakes
00:27:08
and that should just go without saying
00:27:10
and if you were to take that away from
00:27:11
me I'd be pissed well you're setting
00:27:14
yourself up for disappointment there it
00:27:15
also flies in the face of how humans
00:27:18
lived for the 100,000 years before 1990
00:27:22
something like that so anyway that
00:27:24
that's a good one uh you guys might
00:27:26
disagree with me and that's okay but I
00:27:29
think that most of us are
00:27:30
spoiled going on to number eight this is
00:27:33
another one that's a little bit Saucy
00:27:34
here blaming billionaires for problems
00:27:37
does little to solve your problems now
00:27:39
some of you might be going like Jesse
00:27:41
what a repugnant thing to say now it's
00:27:44
not that you shouldn't care about
00:27:46
reforming a system where we have 500,000
00:27:49
homeless people in this country which we
00:27:51
do but we also have 4.5 trillion with a
00:27:55
t as in T-Rex $4.5 trillion dollar in
00:28:00
the hands of about 756 billionaires
00:28:04
because we also have that so just to go
00:28:05
over those two facts again 500,000
00:28:07
homeless people in the USA but we also
00:28:10
have $4.5 trillion dollar in the hands
00:28:12
of 750 billionaires I think it's okay to
00:28:16
think that that is a systemic problem
00:28:18
worth understanding worth thinking about
00:28:20
and worth solving in some way just
00:28:22
getting some semblance of income and
00:28:25
wealth equality so at least that guy not
00:28:28
living in the ditch while that guy has
00:28:30
10 billion like finding a little bit of
00:28:32
a way to balance that is worth thinking
00:28:34
about but blaming or hating billionaires
00:28:38
for where they are it's wasted energy it
00:28:41
does little to improve your personal
00:28:43
situation it does little to improve the
00:28:45
situation of the people living in the
00:28:46
ditch so anyway we I think we do need to
00:28:50
change that mindset or at least
00:28:51
personally I mean I try not to hate
00:28:53
billionaires simply for being
00:28:54
billionaires if they're pricks I can
00:28:56
hate them for being a prick but when I
00:28:58
look at Warren Buffett Charlie Munger
00:29:00
like they seem like pretty reasonable
00:29:01
dudes to me they're both billionaires I
00:29:04
worked for a billionaire in Wisconsin
00:29:06
epic medical records was my first job
00:29:07
out of college Madison Wisconsin the
00:29:10
founder and maybe even the second in
00:29:11
command now of Epic billionaires were
00:29:15
they quirky yeah they were quirky but
00:29:17
they were also really charitable people
00:29:19
by all measures on the outside seemed
00:29:21
like really nice people so anyway I
00:29:23
think blaming hating billionaires is
00:29:26
just a lot of wasted energy you're
00:29:28
better off actually trying to bring some
00:29:30
change to the world here's a quick ad
00:29:33
and then we'll get back to the show
00:29:35
serious question why do podcasters
00:29:37
constantly ask for ratings and reviews
00:29:40
yes they do help highlight our shows to
00:29:42
new listeners they help strangers find
00:29:44
us on Apple podcast and Spotify it's
00:29:46
totally true and a good reason to ask
00:29:48
for ratings and reviews but I have
00:29:50
something more important at least more
00:29:52
important to me I want to know if you
00:29:54
like this stuff I want to know if you
00:29:56
like my podcast episodes my monologues
00:29:58
my guests the information I share with
00:30:00
you and the stories I tell I want to
00:30:02
improve and make your listening more
00:30:04
enjoyable in the process so yeah I would
00:30:06
love to read your reviews and sure if
00:30:08
you throw a rating in there too that's
00:30:10
great if you like what I'm doing please
00:30:13
share it with me it's such a great
00:30:14
feeling to read your feedback I'd love
00:30:17
to read your review or see a rating on
00:30:19
Apple podcasts or Spotify thank you okay
00:30:23
let's go into chapter 2 here some things
00:30:26
that I've changed my mind on in the
00:30:28
personal finance and investing space now
00:30:29
when I got started on the best interest
00:30:32
at that time I followed a bunch of
00:30:33
financial independent stuff on Reddit
00:30:35
and for what it's worth I mean I think
00:30:36
the financial Independence Movement is
00:30:38
wonderful I think so many great lessons
00:30:41
are taught there I still consider myself
00:30:43
part of it even though I don't talk
00:30:45
about it or write about it that much I
00:30:47
don't consider myself a fire blogger or
00:30:49
a fire podcaster but I still consider
00:30:51
myself part of the movement but you know
00:30:54
as I talked about earlier in this very
00:30:55
episode too many people in the fire
00:30:58
movement believe that 100% stock
00:30:59
portfolios are the right solution they
00:31:02
can be an okay solution if you're
00:31:04
building your wealth right if you're 22
00:31:06
now you want to retire at 40 and if
00:31:09
you're in 100% stock portfolio right now
00:31:11
I I I can be convinced of that totally
00:31:13
convinced that even that being said I
00:31:15
mean my retirement I still think is
00:31:17
going to be more than two decades away
00:31:19
I'm not 100% stocks right I have asset
00:31:21
class diversification bonds Alternatives
00:31:24
real estate I don't think you should be
00:31:26
going after the biggest possible pile of
00:31:29
gold and essentially that's what 100%
00:31:31
Stock Investing does it says I just want
00:31:33
the biggest possible pile of gold
00:31:35
instead you should think about having
00:31:37
the highest probability that you reach
00:31:39
your goals and what that can mean is
00:31:41
preventing situations where you fall off
00:31:43
the wagon because you got punched in the
00:31:45
face that's another you know we talked
00:31:47
about that earlier the stock market
00:31:48
drops by a significant amount and your
00:31:50
portfolio gets punched in the face and
00:31:51
you fall off the investing wagon because
00:31:53
you say this really sucks that's
00:31:55
something you want to avoid you also
00:31:57
just want to have more near-term
00:31:58
liquidity you want to have the ability
00:32:00
to rebalance so I've changed my mind
00:32:03
over the years on asset class
00:32:04
diversification I think it's a great
00:32:06
thing I invest that way myself number
00:32:09
two detailed budgeting now for a long
00:32:11
long time probably from before I started
00:32:14
the best interest so we'll call it like
00:32:18
2017 until about a year ago I was a very
00:32:21
very detailed budgeter I did my best I
00:32:25
was never perfect but I did my best to
00:32:27
literally track every single penny I
00:32:29
spent when I bought a pack of chewing
00:32:32
gum for 79 cents with cash I would make
00:32:35
a note of it in my app and say gum 79
00:32:38
cents cash so that at the end of the
00:32:40
month if I did my job right I could
00:32:43
reconcile and say my budget tells me I
00:32:46
should have $47 cash in my wallet right
00:32:49
now do I my budget tells me I should
00:32:51
have
00:32:52
$779 in checking right now do I I was
00:32:55
doing that and on the one hand it was
00:32:57
terrific because when it comes to
00:33:00
monthly cash flow I knew exactly where
00:33:02
my money was going all the time I could
00:33:05
plan and track money so well and it was
00:33:08
one of the big game changers in my
00:33:10
personal finance story but it was a bit
00:33:13
overdone and when I married Kelly
00:33:16
September of 2022 so it's been what 16
00:33:19
17 months now Kelly wasn't into
00:33:21
budgeting like that Kelly's got great
00:33:23
personal finance habits but she just
00:33:24
wasn't into budgeting like that so
00:33:26
instead what we did we finally kind of
00:33:28
sat down and really combined our
00:33:30
finances in a meaningful way this past
00:33:32
summer we have now started tracking our
00:33:34
net worth on a monthly basis we update
00:33:37
our account numbers into a spreadsheet
00:33:39
that we share like a Google spreadsheet
00:33:41
so we can see each other's bank account
00:33:43
numbers and and credit card debts and
00:33:45
investment account numbers y y yada but
00:33:48
from that alone I can go month over
00:33:50
month and I can see how our cash flow
00:33:52
has been over the past month and it
00:33:55
basically provides the same information
00:33:56
that my budgeting did before right I can
00:33:59
say well this month our total bank
00:34:01
accounts have
00:34:03
$40,000 and last month our total bank
00:34:05
accounts had
00:34:06
$38,000 so we were plus 2,000 for the
00:34:09
month in terms of cash flow great that's
00:34:12
that's about all you need or at the very
00:34:13
least that's where you need to start if
00:34:15
you start there and sometimes you
00:34:16
realize that you have a a
00:34:17
month-over-month trend that you're
00:34:19
losing cash that you're spending more
00:34:21
than you're earning okay in that case
00:34:23
you might have to break out the credit
00:34:24
card statements and try to understand
00:34:26
why are we overspending but you don't
00:34:28
need a highly detailed budget to do this
00:34:32
right and and that's something that I've
00:34:34
changed my mind on over time because
00:34:35
Kelly and I are now we're we're not
00:34:37
doing the highly detailed budgeting
00:34:38
anymore but we are still measuring our
00:34:40
money we're still tracking our money and
00:34:42
we're doing just fine we're just doing
00:34:44
it in a more coarse way as opposed to
00:34:46
the Fine way that I was doing it before
00:34:48
what I've changed my mind on number
00:34:50
three college now I went to college I
00:34:52
have two degrees from college and I
00:34:54
totally think it was the right move but
00:34:56
there was a time when I thought to
00:34:58
myself I'm sitting there at whatever age
00:35:00
21 or 22 or 23 and I'm thinking to
00:35:03
myself man sure I'm glad that I have a
00:35:05
good GPA because For the Rest of time my
00:35:08
employers are going to look at that as a
00:35:10
positive thing and the simple truth is
00:35:12
that's not true GPA is a signal it's a
00:35:15
useful signal it's a signal that says
00:35:17
this person has a good combination of
00:35:20
being smart and working hard right if
00:35:23
you come out of college with a 39 GPA
00:35:26
employers are going to look at you and
00:35:27
say great this person is smart and they
00:35:28
worked hard and that's a good signal a
00:35:31
positive signal that gives them
00:35:33
confidence when they hire you but then
00:35:35
once they hire you well now you have to
00:35:37
be smart and work hard at your job and
00:35:40
if six months down the line you're not
00:35:41
smart and not working hard at your job
00:35:44
and they think about firing you you're
00:35:46
not going to be able to go to them and
00:35:47
say but I have a 3.9 GPA they don't care
00:35:50
right the real world doesn't really care
00:35:52
about the number what they care about is
00:35:54
if you're smart and if you work hard
00:35:56
there's a great video that I found of a
00:35:58
gentleman who talks about the 11
00:36:00
Essentials of client service and one of
00:36:02
them is your clients don't care if
00:36:04
you're good-looking your clients don't
00:36:06
care if you're a scratch golfer they
00:36:09
don't care if you're a member of the the
00:36:10
exclusive Club what they really care
00:36:13
about is this person smart and are they
00:36:15
going to work hard for me are they going
00:36:17
to apply the smart thinking and their
00:36:19
hard work ethic to benefit my situation
00:36:22
so that's what I think about at work and
00:36:23
it's it's served me well so far when it
00:36:25
comes to my clients I don't I'm I'm at
00:36:27
am I the smoothest talker I don't know I
00:36:30
don't know I try to be a helpful person
00:36:32
I try to be a good teacher and more than
00:36:34
anything else I just try to be smart and
00:36:37
I try to work hard to benefit their
00:36:38
situation that's what the world that's
00:36:40
what the real world wants so college gpa
00:36:44
it's not all it's cracked up to be what
00:36:46
is really important is being able to
00:36:48
prove to the real world that you're
00:36:49
smart and that you're GNA you're going
00:36:51
to work hard all right number four
00:36:53
something I've changed my mind on
00:36:55
advisers okay we're going to dive into
00:36:57
this because this is a juicy one when I
00:36:59
peruse the world of LinkedIn and I see
00:37:02
coaches I see agencies I see stuff like
00:37:05
that executive coaches and I'm an agent
00:37:08
I'm not sure what I'm an agent of but
00:37:09
I'm running an agency what I found is
00:37:12
that there's such a wide spectrum of
00:37:14
coaches and agencies out there and it's
00:37:17
really hard to discern at times the
00:37:20
difference between someone who's been a
00:37:22
quote unquote coach maybe like a career
00:37:24
coach or or an executive coach and
00:37:26
they've got a 35 year career and they've
00:37:29
got actual experience as a CEO they have
00:37:31
actual experience as a teacher maybe in
00:37:33
their prior life and so they have these
00:37:35
bonafides that make them an amazing
00:37:37
coach and they've had amazing clients
00:37:39
and their amazing clients have been
00:37:41
really happy with them and you say wow
00:37:43
that is a coach and that coach is great
00:37:46
but then you also might have a quote
00:37:47
unquote executive coach or a life coach
00:37:49
or something like that and it's some
00:37:51
29-year-old dude who just got fired from
00:37:54
his temp job at the accounting firm and
00:37:57
he doesn't know what else to do so he's
00:37:59
going to become a life coach because
00:38:00
he's he can talk the talk and maybe
00:38:02
convince a few poor Schmucks to pay him
00:38:04
money and you realize I mean they have
00:38:06
the same title life coach executive
00:38:08
coach the vast Valley the canyon between
00:38:12
these two people is huge the spectrum is
00:38:16
wide and advisers are similar there's an
00:38:19
extremely wide spectrum when it comes to
00:38:21
financial advisers financial planners
00:38:23
wealth planners money coaches so many
00:38:26
titles for us ostensibly the same thing
00:38:29
on one end of the spectrum you have
00:38:31
experienced intelligent professionals
00:38:33
offering deep knowledge deep expertise
00:38:36
for fair prices and on the other hand
00:38:39
you have unn knowledgeable hacks with
00:38:41
two weeks of shady corporate training
00:38:44
Shilling some sort of overpriced product
00:38:46
to anyone with a pulse both these people
00:38:49
can and often are called financial
00:38:52
advisers and it's really hard for the
00:38:54
average person to look at that and say
00:38:56
well to me they're are they both crooks
00:38:58
are they both good I don't know and one
00:39:01
problem is that the negative end of the
00:39:03
spectrum because they are so negative
00:39:05
often times and often do Cloud the
00:39:08
positive end of the spectrum and casts a
00:39:10
bit of a shadow over the whole industry
00:39:12
so I wrote an article last year we'll
00:39:14
throw it in the show notes it's the 12
00:39:15
questions you should ask your financial
00:39:17
adviser and the whole reason why is it's
00:39:20
to help you fend for yourself and try to
00:39:22
sit through the many different advisers
00:39:24
out there there are some fantastic
00:39:27
questions that you can and should ask
00:39:29
the adviser you're already working with
00:39:30
or potentially the adviser that you're
00:39:32
thinking about working with to help you
00:39:34
better understand who is this person
00:39:37
what end of the spectrum do they lie on
00:39:39
I there was a time when I was just
00:39:41
starting out and again very involved in
00:39:43
the fire movement and I said all
00:39:45
financial advisers are bad but then I
00:39:47
met many financial advisers through the
00:39:49
best interest and I realized yes some of
00:39:52
them are bad some of them are extremely
00:39:54
helpful and some of them provide a
00:39:57
service and a level of expertise to
00:39:59
their clients at a reasonable price that
00:40:01
their clients would be completely lost
00:40:03
without them a Ethel who has no idea
00:40:06
what she's doing and it just makes her
00:40:08
nervous to log on to Fidelity in the
00:40:10
first place she wants help she needs
00:40:12
help and she needs someone to do it in a
00:40:14
fair reasonable way at a fair price
00:40:16
there are good advisers there are bad
00:40:18
advisers I think that we all owe
00:40:20
ourselves not everybody needs an advisor
00:40:23
that's really important to understand
00:40:24
right if I had change careers if I'm not
00:40:26
working here at well management firm I
00:40:28
mean I was a DIY investor and I loved
00:40:31
this stuff enough I was a nerd for this
00:40:33
tax stuff and some of these planning
00:40:35
topics that I was also a DIY planner I
00:40:37
mean I did my own financial plan I did
00:40:39
my own investment allocation I didn't
00:40:42
need to hire someone but the reason why
00:40:44
it's because I I spent a lot of time
00:40:46
learning this stuff and a lot of you
00:40:48
listening the reason why you're here I
00:40:50
get it like you're diyers I'm helping
00:40:52
you learn a little bit more some of you
00:40:53
are helping me learn it's awesome and
00:40:56
you might not need advice too and and I
00:40:58
think that's really important to
00:40:59
understand but there are some people out
00:41:01
there who greatly benefit from the help
00:41:04
of advisers and something I've changed
00:41:05
my mind about over recent years there
00:41:07
are different fee models as you guys
00:41:08
know some fee models are right for some
00:41:11
people I think if you're a if you're an
00:41:13
Uber DIY person and you need someone to
00:41:15
double check your numbers right you
00:41:16
should probably hire like an hourly or a
00:41:18
Project based adviser if you're someone
00:41:20
whose life is pretty complicated you
00:41:21
want to offload everything in your life
00:41:23
to someone else in that case the hourly
00:41:26
adviser I mean they'll tell they they
00:41:27
don't really want to be completely
00:41:29
offloaded on to you still want to make
00:41:30
sure they're a fee only fiduciary but
00:41:32
you might need a an a adviser in that
00:41:34
case so anyway Different Strokes for
00:41:37
different folks the last thing I've
00:41:39
changed my mind on I'm sure it's not
00:41:40
really the last thing it's just the last
00:41:42
thing on my list is the concept of
00:41:44
paying yourself first everybody calm
00:41:46
down yes you should definitely pay
00:41:49
yourself first I'm not saying that the
00:41:51
idea is wrong but I do think you should
00:41:53
only pay yourself so much for a while I
00:41:56
paid myself first so much that the rest
00:41:59
of my life became a financial burden and
00:42:02
so depending on your income I do
00:42:04
recommend that you get your full 401K
00:42:06
match first you should pay yourself
00:42:08
first there and ideally if you can
00:42:10
afford to you should max out your Roth
00:42:12
IRA first you should pay yourself first
00:42:14
there or you know if you need a backdoor
00:42:16
Roth IRA execute that but then after
00:42:19
those two things I think you should live
00:42:20
your life a little bit you should use
00:42:22
some of your money to do fun things you
00:42:24
should prioritize living life right now
00:42:27
and then after you do a little bit of
00:42:29
living life right now then you can pay
00:42:31
yourself more after that and then you
00:42:33
can start to go back and forth allocate
00:42:34
some dollars to the present moment to
00:42:37
near-term fund savings then allocate
00:42:40
some dollars to the long-term you know
00:42:43
retirement style savings back and forth
00:42:44
back and forth you should pay yourself
00:42:46
first you just want to make sure that
00:42:48
you're also able to live a fun life
00:42:50
right now and I suppose I should also
00:42:52
talk about some things that I still
00:42:54
think are essential to True wealth some
00:42:57
things I haven't changed my opinion on I
00:42:59
promise you this one will be short but
00:43:01
this will be very beneficial I've got
00:43:03
six thoughts here and I think each and
00:43:05
every one of you should probably be
00:43:06
applying these six thoughts into your
00:43:08
financial life the first one
00:43:11
understanding your monthly cash flow is
00:43:13
the basic personal finance building
00:43:15
block from which all other success flows
00:43:19
if you don't know your cash flow you are
00:43:21
lost I highly recommend each and every
00:43:24
one of you understands what your monthly
00:43:26
cash flow that is the money coming in
00:43:28
and the money going out of your life
00:43:30
what your monthly cash flow looks like
00:43:32
number two wealth is what you don't see
00:43:35
true wealth is the sports car
00:43:37
unpurchased the boring meals at home you
00:43:40
know it's that kind of stuff I recently
00:43:41
saw a young guy this is true story he's
00:43:43
Pro I'm guessing he was 25 he was
00:43:45
driving a $150,000 car a $150,000 car
00:43:49
and I honestly thought to myself said
00:43:51
well like 2% of me thinks good for you
00:43:54
and the other 98% feels really bad for
00:43:57
you now I don't know the guy right so
00:44:00
maybe he's in a financial position where
00:44:02
the car fits in perfectly for his
00:44:03
long-term plans that's the 2% but for
00:44:06
98% of the population of 25y old men
00:44:09
that car is a terrible financial
00:44:12
decision and is the exact opposite of
00:44:14
true wealth so wealth is what you don't
00:44:17
see number three automate automate as
00:44:20
much of your finances as you can if you
00:44:23
don't automate I would bet against your
00:44:26
long-term success I know some people are
00:44:28
successful without automating but if
00:44:30
you're not automating I would not bet
00:44:33
for you I would bet against you I think
00:44:36
you need to automate as much as you can
00:44:38
in your financial life number four
00:44:40
diversify you should diversify between
00:44:42
asset classes you know stocks bonds real
00:44:44
estate Etc and within asset classes
00:44:47
meaning large stocks small stocks US
00:44:49
Stocks International stocks
00:44:51
diversification is the only free lunch
00:44:53
now there's one exception to this rule
00:44:55
if your personal goal is to die at top
00:44:58
the biggest pile of money possible you
00:45:00
should not diversify you should
00:45:02
concentrate into a few positions as few
00:45:05
positions as possible actually and then
00:45:07
you could pray but if your goal is to
00:45:09
live your current lifestyle comfortably
00:45:12
to retire securely to sit back and relax
00:45:16
and let your portfolio do your thing you
00:45:18
should diversify number five Buy and
00:45:20
Hold investing is a long-term game and
00:45:23
your portfolio is like a bar of soap the
00:45:25
more you touch it the quicker it
00:45:26
disappears
00:45:27
and number six hanging around people who
00:45:29
have mastered their finances is a life
00:45:31
hack just watch what they do and take
00:45:34
inspiration from it so that's what I
00:45:36
like to do that's why I read and listen
00:45:37
to so many podcasts that's why I like
00:45:39
talking to not only my colleagues here
00:45:41
at work I like talking to other advisers
00:45:43
who I respect in the community because I
00:45:45
think hanging around people who have
00:45:46
done well in their finances is a great
00:45:48
way to learn and I hope that you guys
00:45:50
continue to hang out here and take a
00:45:52
little bit of wisdom from me because I'm
00:45:54
I'm happy to share it I enjoy sharing it
00:45:56
maybe you can take a little bit of
00:45:57
inspiration from it what do they say
00:45:58
what do I say a rising tide lifts All
00:46:02
Ships all right guys that's all I've got
00:46:04
today as always thank you for tuning in
00:46:06
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00:46:08
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00:46:13
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00:46:15
next time over and
00:46:17
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Episode Highlights

  • Changing Perspectives on Finance
    Jesse shares his unconventional personal finance opinions and how his views have evolved.
    “I want to share some of my unconventional personal finance opinions”
    @ 00m 33s
    November 20, 2024
  • The 50% Rule for 529 Plans
    Jesse discusses the importance of balancing 529 plans with taxable accounts for college savings.
    “You should use the 50% rule for 529 College savings plans”
    @ 09m 09s
    November 20, 2024
  • The Upper Limit of Side Hustles
    Consider the upper limit of your side hustle and how much time to invest in it.
    “What's the upper limit of this side hustle?”
    @ 19m 29s
    November 20, 2024
  • Rent vs. Buy: The Dilemma
    Neither renting nor buying is ideal; ask fundamental questions about your situation.
    “Rent versus buy, neither one is great.”
    @ 22m 44s
    November 20, 2024
  • Wealth Inequality and Billionaires
    Blaming billionaires for problems is wasted energy; focus on personal change instead.
    “Blaming billionaires does little to solve your problems.”
    @ 27m 33s
    November 20, 2024
  • The Importance of Hard Work
    Clients care more about your intelligence and work ethic than your appearance or status.
    “What they really care about is this person smart?”
    @ 36m 10s
    November 20, 2024
  • Understanding Wealth
    True wealth is often invisible, represented by choices rather than possessions.
    “Wealth is what you don’t see.”
    @ 43m 35s
    November 20, 2024
  • Automate Your Finances
    Automating your finances can significantly enhance your long-term success.
    “Automate as much of your finances as you can.”
    @ 44m 20s
    November 20, 2024
  • Investing Strategy
    Buy and hold investing is a long-term game; less handling means better outcomes.
    “The more you touch it, the quicker it disappears.”
    @ 45m 23s
    November 20, 2024
  • Learning from Others
    Surrounding yourself with financially savvy people can inspire and guide your own journey.
    “A rising tide lifts all ships.”
    @ 46m 02s
    November 20, 2024

Episode Quotes

Key Moments

  • Unconventional Opinions00:33
  • 529 College Savings09:09
  • Home Investment Debate13:25
  • Rent vs. Buy22:44
  • Billionaire Blame27:33
  • Client Priorities36:10
  • Financial Automation44:20
  • Inspiration from Peers46:02

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