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Social Media or Social Minefield

June 09, 2014 / 16:31

This episode discusses the impact of online social media on work lives, focusing on the blurring of personal and professional boundaries. Key strategies for managing online presence are explored, including the open strategy, audience strategy, content strategy, and custom strategy.

The conversation features insights from interviews conducted by the speakers, highlighting the paradox of social media as both an opportunity for connection and a challenge for managing relationships. The concept of the 'invisible audience' is introduced, emphasizing the need for awareness of who is viewing online content.

Specific examples illustrate the consequences of different social media strategies, such as the potential backlash from the open strategy and the careful curation required in the custom strategy. The speakers stress the importance of tailoring communication to fit professional contexts and the potential pitfalls of failing to do so.

Real-life anecdotes, including experiences from a synagogue employee and a military member's violation of policy, underscore the risks associated with social media use in professional settings. The episode concludes with a discussion on future research directions, including the role of social media in global teams and the effects of hierarchical relationships in online interactions.

TL;DR

The episode examines how social media affects professional lives and strategies for managing online presence effectively.

Episode

16:31
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so with my colleagues what I was trying
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to look at was this question of online
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social media and how that's impacting
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our work lives social media is really
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all around us in the recent in recent
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years and we see this in organizations
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in terms of how organizations are using
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it to Market Etc but how it affects
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people's work lives is what we were
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interested in and this this is really
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where the title When Worlds Collide
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comes into play we were really
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interested in how the personal and
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professional lives of employees can
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become blurred on online social media
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and so this is where we really um we
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really see both opportunity but also
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challenge for people one of our uh we we
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did some interviews uh as we were doing
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this work and one of our interviewees
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said social media or social mindfield
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right this is and really sums up really
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beautifully I think the inherent Paradox
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here we have both A New World opening up
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for us where social media has so many
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amazing uh opportunities to connect and
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to enhance relationships and to build
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new relationships but it also poses
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challenges for us as we think about how
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to manage the relationships that we that
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we have one of the big challenges is
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this notion of the invisible audience
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when we connect to people on Facebook or
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on Twitter or Instagram there are some
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people who are really following us and
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are responding to us or liking us or
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favoring us or they're they're they're
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very visible because they're interacting
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with us in a much more visible way but
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there's often a whole host of people who
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are invisible who are just sort of in
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the background who are watching what
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we're saying or doing but are not
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actively responding and what happens is
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that we can
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often times forget about them when we're
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posing these uh when we're posing
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questions when we're posting information
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uh and what'll happen is sometimes that
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information that we post has some
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unintended effects in terms of how
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people respond to us and that's really
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what we were focusing on in this
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research focusing on what are the
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consequences of different online social
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media strategies that people have
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we identified four strategies that
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people use now these are archetypal
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strategies people might use a hybrid of
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of these as well but the four strategies
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that we identified were one the first is
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called the open strategy so this is
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where the people who are willing to
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connect to anyone and everyone and they
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post anything and everything right so
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the good bad the ugly uh they'll reveal
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they'll they'll share it with everybody
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and this is this is sort of the the the
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strategy of authenticity openness trying
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to uh connect broadly and fully that's
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the open strategy the second strategy
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that we identified uh was one where
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people are much more careful about the
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audience that they choose to connect to
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and we call that the audience strategy
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as a result so they they limit the
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audience who they are they're they are
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conferring with and this by the way
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helps with invisible audience problem
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that I mentioned earlier um they they
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also though will use a strategy of
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authenticity so they've they've
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carefully curated who Their audience is
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but they will Express fully The Good Bad
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and the Ugly to that carefully chosen
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audience Okay the third strategy is what
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we call the content strategy so here
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people will choose to connect broadly to
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multiple audiences but they will
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carefully instead curate their content
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they will choose uh pick and choose what
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kinds of uh information to post they
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will typically choose things to post
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that is more self-enhancing that manages
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the impression that they're that they're
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giving to other people uh and so we call
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that the content strategy the last
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strategy is what we call the custom
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strategy these are folks who carefully
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manage uh the the the the worlds where
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they separate the the audiences they
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they'll connect to multiple audiences
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but they'll carefully manage what gets
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seen by which audience and so this is a
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more difficult strategy to manage if you
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you need to have some technologically uh
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sophisticated skills and you need to
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monitor it right and so uh this is where
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for example on Facebook there are things
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like lists that you can use where you
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have different lists and you put and you
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have one list see maybe everything and
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then another list see only a a sub
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selection of of what you're posting um
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and and so this strategy will again
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allow you to connect
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broadly but and but it will uh and it
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will allow you to verify and to you know
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uh be authentic to one set of your
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audiences but to be more careful about
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what another audience
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sees so each of these strategies has
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important consequences for respect and
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liking so one of the in the workplace
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how you're seen professionally by others
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right and one of the things that we see
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is that the open the open strategy might
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be very very um it might make you
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likable deeply likable to some people
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but again with that invisible audience
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there could be a whole bunch of people
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who might be offended even by some of
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the things so if you're posting
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political views some of your audience
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might be rah rah right with you and
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others are
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kind of
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silently um a little bit taken aback by
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what you're what you're expressing right
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and so there are there are some
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different consequences in in terms of
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these different strategies the audience
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strategy allows you typically to you
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know preserve the respect of others
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around you but not not not necessarily
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enhance it if you're not connecting with
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them um the the custom strategy is the
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one which we would argue has the
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highest uh sort of ability to both
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maximize respect and liking but it's
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hard to do and if you make a mistake
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then it can have a backlash because then
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people realize oh wow you're actively
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managing this and you're managing me Etc
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um the content strategy also will have
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the opportunity to enhance professional
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respect and liking but again you could
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go overboard on that if you're if you're
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too you know enhancing people might be
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put off by that right and so there might
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be some there might be some backlash
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there as well so all of these have
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tradeoffs and they they need to be
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chosen carefully we have a couple of
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different thoughts about how to do
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that so I think that there's a couple of
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different steps that you want to think
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about when you think about the strategy
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that you're choosing and what the
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consequences are for your online social
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uh media presence and how that affects
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your professional reputation so firstly
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you need to choose your strategy think
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about think think about what your
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strategy is and what it should be right
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maybe what you're doing isn't what you
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should be doing right so be be
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thoughtful about what your strategy is
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secondly you want to think about whether
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what your goals are on social media is
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your goal to express yourself or to
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impress others right so thinking about
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whether you want to let the good Bad and
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the Ugly all hang out and whether you
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want everybody to see that or whether
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you want to be more aware of your
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professional reputation and what the
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impact that has on others and how that
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how that's seen by others right and so
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the impression management piece may be
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more important in terms of your goal the
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third piece that we really think is
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important in terms of how you manage
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this behavior is to also assess your fit
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with the professional context that
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you're in so if you're a lawyer uh and
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uh you you may not be able to be
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connected with a judge on online social
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media because that would there are
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regulations around that however if
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you're in a technology startup company
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the norm and the culture may be that all
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of you are connected and that's how you
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interact and you do online chat and you
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do Facebook and you do Instagram and and
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all of that is part of how you relate to
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your co-workers and so you need to be
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really aware of both your personal
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preferences as well as your on as well
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as your environment and how that all
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fits
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together so I think that the Gaff is
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actually really important because the a
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lot I think people are very inertial in
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terms of their strategies until they
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either have something where there's
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there's a big sort of Gaff that happens
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where they get feedback negative
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feedback about what happened or if they
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are switching their professional context
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right there's some there's usually some
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impetus for people to change their
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strategy it doesn't happen that that
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frequently um so uh as an example one of
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our interviewees had a situation where
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she was she worked at a synagogue and uh
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her Rabbi uh had asked her if he could
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connect with her on Facebook and so she
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said sure she was very active on
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Facebook and one of the things that this
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is a a reform uh synagogue where they um
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you know it they they they they they
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abide by a lot of the you know
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regulations that the more strict uh Jews
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would but it was not necessarily uh it's
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not as strict right and so she she was
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um posting a picture of her son who was
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playing a soccer game on a Saturday and
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um so her Rabbi saw that and said to her
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you know as an employee of the synagogue
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I don't think it's a good idea for you
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to be posting a picture of your son even
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though it's this wholesome soccer game
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on a Saturday because it's giving the
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you know the wrong impression because
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it's Shabbat and that he shouldn't be
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playing soccer on a Saturday and she was
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really taken back by this and uh was a
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little surprised and she ended up um
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unfriending him as a result um but it
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was really I mean it was a real wakeup
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call to her that you know she needed to
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be more aware of who was in her
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audience and so you know these these
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gaffs really do I think sometimes make
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people much more aware of what strategy
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they have so sometimes gffs can be good
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because they they bring to light what
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your what Your strategy is and if you do
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need to correct it because you need to
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be much more aware of how people are
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responding to
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you so our research shows that
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what what's changed really is that
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people need to be much more careful
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about thinking about their communication
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strategy when we communicate face to
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face or over the phone or dietic or in a
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small group typically what happens is we
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automatically tailor our Communications
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to our audiences we read their facial
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expressions we look at their nonverbals
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their body language we H we usually know
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something about them and so we're we're
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more careful about how we are
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automatically careful about how we are
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tailoring what we are saying and how
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we're saying it in online social media
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what's happened is that the whole point
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is that we're connected to a broad
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audience right and and that's that's
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really the purpose of it but what
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happens is it makes it much more
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difficult to tailor our Communications
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in an effective way and there are as as
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we were talking about earlier there are
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gaffs that people can make where they
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are not tailoring their Communications
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in a way that they would just naturally
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do in these other in these other media
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right and so one of the re there's some
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there's some really spectacular examples
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from the media recently um there was a a
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a US Marine uh core member who was uh
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running a tea party website uh Facebook
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page and what he did was he posted
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negative comments about Obama not really
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realizing and forgetting about the fact
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that uh there there was actually a
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policy a pentagon policy about that
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Limits The Free Speech rights of their
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uh of of uh military members and so what
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ended up happening was he was um
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discharged not honorably because he had
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really violated this policy when he said
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something extremely negative about Obama
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uh there's another example uh where that
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involved Twitter where um Bob Parsons
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who was the CEO of GoDaddy uh he's he
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was an avid Game Hunter and he had gone
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and had he posted a video of himself you
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know I think shooting elephants in
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Zimbabwe and uh you know Peta got and
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and posted this on Twitter and um Peta
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really uh got very very um exercised
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about this and he ended up having to
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step down a CEO and so there are a lot
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of uh ways in which we see that this new
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online social media has one opened up
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doors right opened up amazing doors in
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terms of allowing us to connect really
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broadly and impactfully in ways that
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personalize who we are and make people
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feel connected to us but it also has the
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the challenge of how do we do this in a
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consistent and positive way such that we
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don't have some of these really
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spectacular disasters that can befall uh
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and or even small disasters that can
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befall us um along the
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way we're going a lot of different
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directions one of the directions that
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I'm really excited about is a project
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that's looking at online social media
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and how that helps with teams one of the
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things that is really challenging in
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today's environment is we're oftentimes
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working in global teams where
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everybody's not collocated so we're
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interested in seeing how online social
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media can be really positive
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for people who are working in
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non-collocated teams and asking the
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question do some of these online social
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media strategies help more than others
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uh another way that we're looking at
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going forward in in this research is
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looking at the question of hierarchy one
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of the things that came up in a lot of
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the interviews that we did with folks
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initially around online social media
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usage was the question of hierarchy and
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how uh the the
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online uh the online relationship
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is um thinking about connecting with
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your boss thinking con about connecting
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with your subordinates so once you cross
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those hierarchical lines how does that
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really impact your work relationships a
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lot of our uh interview subjects
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actually likened their boss being
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Facebook friends for example with their
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boss to being Facebook friends with
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their mothers and so you know that
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hierarchical line I think is a really
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important one and we're we're also doing
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some research trying to understand and
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when PE how people react to that and
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what the consequences are for crossing
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those lines in the workplace

Episode Highlights

  • When Worlds Collide
    Exploring how social media blurs the lines between personal and professional lives.
    “Social media is really all around us.”
    @ 00m 11s
    June 09, 2014
  • The Invisible Audience
    Understanding the challenges of the unseen followers on social media.
    “We often forget about the invisible audience.”
    @ 01m 49s
    June 09, 2014
  • Strategies for Social Media
    Identifying four archetypal strategies people use on social media.
    “Each strategy has important consequences for respect and liking.”
    @ 05m 25s
    June 09, 2014

Episode Quotes

  • Social media is a social minefield.
    Social Media or Social Minefield
  • We need to be much more careful about our communication strategy.
    Social Media or Social Minefield

Key Moments

  • Social Media Impact00:09
  • Blurring Boundaries00:36
  • Communication Strategies07:30
  • Audience Awareness11:01
  • Hierarchical Relationships15:54

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