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Boxing Promoter and former league player Dean Lonergan || Runners Only! Podcast with Dom Harvey

February 26, 202301:22:48
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Escape Runners only with dime Harley
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's only with dom Harvey and Dean lonigan
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g'day mate how are you yeah fantastic
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thank you so much for coming over no
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problems it's fair to say haven't done
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too much running of late you're looking
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like a Scandinavian racing sardines and
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I'm looking like a fairly bloated
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pump that way or maybe oh you're being
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too hard on yourself what is um first of
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all thanks for coming over I had I told
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some people you were coming over and
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they said oh what's he selling or what's
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he promoting I said no nothing he just
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agreed to agreed to come over is that a
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reputation you have oh I'm assuming it
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is you know by Nature I think I'm a
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Salesman and we I sell stuff for a
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living that's what I've been doing for
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the last sort of 30 or 40 years and at
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the moment we're in the business of
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selling boxing and we're we're
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re-establishing ourselves back here in
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New Zealand we've got some stuff coming
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up but I'll talk about anything you want
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to talk about Dominus you're uh you
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asked me over I have no idea what the
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agenda is so we'll just roll with it
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well there's there's no agenda this is
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just um basically to unpack your
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fascinating life I've always found you a
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fascinating dude I promise you it's not
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that fascinating especially when you sit
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in the middle of it so
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um first of all yeah the podcast is
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called Runners only what what is your
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relationship with running do you run at
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all not anymore Once Upon a Time
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obviously uh when I was a young fellow I
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aspired to be a professional a football
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player which I sort of managed to
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achieve on a semi-professional basis and
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used to do quite a bit of obviously
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training like predominantly short stuff
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but uh you know with a benefit of time
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and looking at the times when I achieved
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the most I did them in sport uh the
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longer distance was definitely the way
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to go to get a base and the sport that
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we participate in now in boxing and we
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don't participate we organize all boxes
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if you want to be good they have to get
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out and do the miles on the road in the
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morning five six miles or whatever that
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equates to in case gives them a good
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base running for 45 minutes to half hour
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sorry 45 minutes to an hour and that
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that provides the base for what they do
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but yeah certainly a long time ago I
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used to do it I get out and I walk you
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know and I've got to get out and move
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more and walk more I'm probably about 20
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kilos overweight so I've got 20 to lose
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so I'm working on it
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um yeah the distance you were talking
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about that's probably the best Pad like
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10ks and uh I know like Tyson Fury and
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Joe Parker those guys do that most
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mornings and David nikau who is in
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Australia in similar location to where
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you've been he's um he's a demon isn't
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he runs super he's an outstanding
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athlete you just got to get his shirt
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off to see
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is that he's he's cut he's very much in
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the uh he could be a male model quite
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easily yeah ridiculously good looking
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and what I can't believe I think he's
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about six foot three six foot four and
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he fights a Cruiserweight which is about
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91.5 kilos how he gets down to that
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weight is beyond me because he is all
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muscle so I can only imagine he's got
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fairly light bones so God knows what
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reason and he must have reasonably
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skinny legs because he's just he's built
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like a brick [ __ ] house up top so and he
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is an exceptional boxer uh he's going to
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be a great New Zealand Talent yeah
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phenomenal and you you're back in New
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Zealand because the the fight for life's
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coming back oh at some stage I'm sure
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we'll be announcing that but we come
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back here uh we had a contract Liam and
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my son we run a company called DNL
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events which stands for Dean and Liam
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it's very clever I never would have
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guessed it short to the point
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um and you I tell you what when people
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are taking down your email addresses you
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have to spell it out them letter by
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letter by letter because it's actually
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not that easy strangely enough and they
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look it looks like dandel events but
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it's not but um we had a contract with
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Fox Sports I think for seven and a half
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eight years and unfortunately that come
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to a conclusion December 31 and so we've
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still got a stable of fantastic New
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Zealand boxes uh and Andre mccailovich
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is is one who's a middleweight he's
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probably the greatest middleweight
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Prospect this country's ever seen we've
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got Jerome pampalone and they're both
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world rated guys and we're looking to do
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a deal and maybe put some stuff on with
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a young lady called miyamatu who was
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quite Sensational she uh she's capable
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of fighting for a world title so we've
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got some really great New Zealand talent
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and we've currently got the only male
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world champion in Australia a guy called
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Jaya Pattaya Jay is without doubt the
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toughest man I've seen in my entire life
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and I I would say he's probably the
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toughest Combat Sports sports athlete on
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the planet he fought in a world title uh
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July 2 last year on the Gold Coast and
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he fought the number one guy in the
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division a guy called Morris breedus he
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broke his jaw Joy broke his jaw in the
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first two rounds of the fight so he had
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to fight 10 Rounds with a broken jaw but
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then and I was right ringside when I saw
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this he broke it on the second side
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um in around 10. so his whole Jewel for
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two rounds was literally flopping around
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in the breeze and I I should can you
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imagine the intense Agony every time you
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get even a light gray he couldn't talk
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afterwards he was just an immense pain
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but to be able to still walk forward
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like he was taking shots on the chin
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biting down on his jaw and it was just
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flopping he said it was like bite into a
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mouthful of marbles and like he he
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couldn't hold the jaw together but he
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still kept fighting but I don't know
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anything like that I'd be so mad at my
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corner for not throwing Talent well I
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think I'd go over there and grab that
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towel myself to be fair Joy Joy would
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have been gutted if they did that
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because his his goal is mate he this is
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what he does for a living he's always
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wanted to be world champion he got his
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chance and he is the greatest advocate
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for
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um how do you get over pain and
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adversity this is a guy who had a broken
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hand for five years so he's a South poor
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and his left hand is power weapon he
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couldn't fully land that because it was
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broken for five years and he kept
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fighting and didn't tell anyone because
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he needed the money
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this is a guy who probably started
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boxing age eight or ten went to the
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Olympics was selected for the Olympics
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for Australia when he was 16 fought when
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he was 17 one of the youngest boxers to
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ever go to the Olympics
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um got his chance at a world title and
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nothing was going to take that chance
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away from him no matter what broken jaw
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he actually broke his ribs a month
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before the fight and Rib injuries I
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don't know if you've ever had them done
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but I fractured as well that's excrucia
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they are excruciating well he it not
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only broke it separated crossed over
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another rib and ripped all the rib
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cartilage off and Rib cartilages are the
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most painful injury you can ever have
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and normally these things are take two
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three months minimum he was fighting six
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weeks later he did the injury on a
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Thursday had surgery on it on a Sunday
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and about a week and a half later it was
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back in nearly full training his
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tolerance of pain is through the roof
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and I can't
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everything you see on Conor McGregor on
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the outside and how angry and tough he
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looks that's what Joy's got on the
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inside and uh watch out for him he's
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something very very special I've never
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seen anything like him and uh Liam and
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herself think he's going to be something
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special okay now this is the funny thing
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this Joy guy that you mentioned and all
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those kiwi Fighters hand on heart I've
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never heard of any of them but you and
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your son do such a phenomenal job like
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promoting these people like you you
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should have made Joseph Parker a
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household name well we worked with
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Joseph yeah all we did was provide him
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the platform and Joe took advantage of
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it by doing what he did which is win
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fights the reason why you haven't heard
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a lot of Andre michaelovich and miyamadu
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and and Jerome pampalone is simply
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because we've been over in Australia and
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these guys have been fighting over there
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so our job over the next 12 months is to
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blow these people up because they are
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seriously world-class they're all
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they're coached by a guy called Isaac
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Peach who's a hardcore heavily tattooed
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West aucklander who lives out in West
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Auckland but in my opinion he's a
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Bastion of world-class Excellence he
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really knows what he's doing when it
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comes to boxing he's he's got a world
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champion where he's got a guy called
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David light's going to fight for a World
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Championship uh I think March 25 in
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England against Lauren sir Cole who's a
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WBO World Cruiserweight Champion he's
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got miyamadu he's got
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um he's got uh
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um Andre michaelovich and Jerome pamplon
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that's fascinating about all these
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Fighters he's had them all for about
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four years or more none of them have
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lost yet
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he is just an incredible uh boxing
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trainer and I think you're going to see
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some big things out of him and over the
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next sort of couple of years you're
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going to start seeing New Zealand boxing
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you know come to the four again Joe
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Parker's going to keep what do it Joe
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does I think Joe's an exceptional Talent
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mate I think he could go back to a
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heavyweight title at some stage he's not
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that far away from it kiwis can be very
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critical if they don't see amazing
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performances every time someone steps
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out yeah it's terrible thing it is a
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little bit but you know what the fact is
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that they care enough to have an opinion
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and you'd rather have people who've got
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an opinion good bad or otherwise and
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people not have an opinion and not
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knowing who they are yeah that's true
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um right enough about other people let's
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talk about you Dean lonigan so you um so
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you you became famous like in the late
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1980s uh early 90s playing um for the
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Kiwi League team I wouldn't quite say
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famous but I was interested involved in
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uh involved in back then there was no
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social media there's no fragmentation of
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media that I think there are only
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probably three or four TV channels going
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at the time and uh the kiwis played
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Australia I think in 1991 at Mel in
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Melbourne we hadn't won against the
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Aussies for a long long time and uh they
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had one of the all-time great teams that
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had the likes of Steve roach I think
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Wally Lewis and a number of other really
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high profile players and in 91 we went
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over there with a very unheralded young
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Underdog side I was part of that along
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with Clayton friend and Gary Freeman and
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Peter Brown and a whole lot of other
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guys and we managed to pull off a win
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and uh
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at the time I got knocked out probably
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10-15 minutes into the game I uh was
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this the one is this the one where you
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um you were like convulsing on the floor
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yeah right yeah I guess it was like a
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concussion a head knock yeah it very
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much was we um might still be on YouTube
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if anyone wants to look it up but it's
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it's sickening right well it's not great
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but we I was very very keen to put a big
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shot on roach because we'd played Stevie
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roach and we played Balmain early in the
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New Year early in the preseason uh
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Auckland rugby league played Balmain and
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one new roach was going to be in the
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side so we had a bit of a fracker in
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that game and I was very keen to put a
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big hit on him early on and you know try
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and intimidate him it was the dumbest
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thing I could have done because I ended
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up getting knocked out he ended up with
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about 20 stitches in his head I got
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knocked out and convulsed on the field I
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got carried off and came back on a
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little bit later
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yeah that was sort of the incident that
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blew us up and then I got a job on radio
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hierarchy after that right wait wait
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wait you are moving way too fast like
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this uh we need to digest this somewhat
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like the podcast will be over in four
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minutes so yes so you get knocked out
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it's sickening um I feel like this was a
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golden era for league and it was a time
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where yeah fights were still sort of
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encouraged and you know if you squirted
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some water on your head and came back on
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the field you were considered like like
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heroic in a way that wasn't the reason
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behind it right pretty much as I was
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being dragged off I could see George
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Mann who I'd played with in the Auckland
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team and I played against him in quite a
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few Club competitions George was warming
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up and I just thought man I've fought
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too hard for you to have the spots yours
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so as soon as I regained my George ran
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on and as soon as I regained my stuff I
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said to Bob on it Bob Bailey who's a
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coach this is mate I'm ready to go back
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on it was 10 or 15 minutes later so he
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threw me back on and I've only I've
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watched the game once and I know how do
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you feel when you watch it all right
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it's like somebody watching somebody
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else yeah but I know when I come back on
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if I'm staggering all over the place we
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managed to get through the first I don't
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remember much about the first half we've
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got we got through the game and we won
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the game and what's really interesting
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right is that you don't know what people
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are going to come into your life as a
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result of things like that and Liam and
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myself have been working in Australia
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for the last seven years and the
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commentator who called that game was a
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guy called Pat Walsh and Pat had gone on
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to be quite instrumental in uh in
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Channel 7 Brisbane and massive media
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context so Pat has been incredibly he
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remembered the game he remembered me
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from that game Pat Walsh has been he
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only just retired incredibly helpful
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toward for us in terms of connections
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all around Australia you know so it's
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just and those sort of connections they
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last for a very very long time so yeah
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it's quite it's quite interesting where
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where things end up and what you end up
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doing how many other times were you can
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cast I I couldn't tell you are you right
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now yeah I think so so my memory is not
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as good as it could be but then again
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most people well you're in your late 50s
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so that's yeah I'm 57 you know so but
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you know you look at guys overseas in
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Australia in particular and they've all
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got the fading memories like I think the
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Ray Price has got some issues I think
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Steve mortimer's got some issues
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dodge a bullet do you think well I
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finished quite young so that the the
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game that I got knocked out and I played
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one more test match after that and I
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might have had another five or six games
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after that then I finished up so I was
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only 26 when I finished rugby league and
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then I was lucky enough you know that I
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didn't think much of it at the time but
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I was lucky enough to get a job on radio
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hierarchy and I got to tell you Dom you
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did 25 years plus on radio yeah there is
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no doubt that in my opinion of all the
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media of anything you can do radio is
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the greatest job because you know I I
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wouldn't have done I never took it as
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seriously as you did as your career
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right and it was something I just
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stumbled into and just got lucky but um
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I got a job on radio hierarchy I used to
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do six to nine fine I'd turn up at five
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to six and I'd leave at nine o'clock
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you're part of a very successful show
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called the morning pirates with um was
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it Mark Perry and Leah Mark Perry and
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Leah we took what happened was that what
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sort of music was it a rock station
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classic rock to The Cutting Edge and
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made it we hierarchy at one stage it was
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very very popular in Auckland way back
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before the days of the fragmentation
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you've got now and you're all up and in
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the country and it was very very popular
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so how how did that um how did that
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career come about like were you just
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quote were you were you quite
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charismatic at aftermath speeches and
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stuff or you had another natural Flair
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for no I think what happened was uh I'd
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been on this show a couple of times
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because you had Phil Gifford and um I
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can't remember the other girl's name and
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Mark Perry was on the show and then I'd
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been in the studio a couple of times
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which was one of the local rugby league
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players and when I got knocked out
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obviously there's a bit of I was quite
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high profile and I
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yeah I was in the media a lot for a very
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short space of time but uh I ended up
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being quite good mates with some some of
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the radio guys Dan Boyle was in there
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and Mike Regal who was a program
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director and when um for whatever reason
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I think more FM Cam and poached Phil
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Gifford and I think it was Kathy at the
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time and they took them down to
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Christchurch so that's when Phil left so
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all of a sudden there was a space so
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they got me in for a few days to cover a
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few days turned to a couple of weeks a
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couple of weeks two to a couple of
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months and then a couple of months
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turned to I think I did seven years so
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it was just luck amazing I feel like you
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get bored of things too so seven years
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for you is a long time you know what I
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really enjoyed it radio is a lot of fun
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and do I get bored with stuff
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some maybe I don't know but I did enjoy
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radio and it's a great meeting to be
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part of and I'll tell you the perfect
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place to do radio would be Sydney London
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or New York where they get paid Millions
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to do it yeah because it's the world's
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easiest job and I know a lot of people
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you know a lot of people aspire to it
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and and and they should do and a lot of
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people are in there for their careers
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get all nervous about it and they do a
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lot of work and that's fantastic but I
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can only tell you how my experience and
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compared to bloody working 12-hour shift
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set at Coca-Cola driving forklifts and
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packing loads or being an offsider on
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trucks delivering Coca-Cola you know and
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then I was also I used to be a cleaner
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so I used to run three jobs yeah I used
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to run three jobs so when I first left
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school I went what you'd call to be an
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offsider on trucks so you help people
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deliver soft drinks right then I'd
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finish that and I'd come home and I'd do
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I was a cleaner at a school at my school
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I used to work at so I used to go to
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school at and then after that I would be
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at rugby league so effectively I had
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three jobs because I was getting paid
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for all three of them so it's a with
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money any good in Rugby League at that
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time yeah I was right yeah you know like
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so these jobs sort of LED before you
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were a professional player yeah a lot we
00:16:01
were getting paid to play rugby league
00:16:02
and it's all relevant right back then I
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remember I brought my first house as an
00:16:06
investment was like 75 grand well when I
00:16:09
at the time I might have been making 50
00:16:10
or 60 Grand a year before tax you know
00:16:13
so it's very very easy to get into these
00:16:15
things and when I was a young fella
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maybe 21 22 I remember having two or
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three houses you know so um it was a lot
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there's no doubt it was a lot easier
00:16:23
back then compared to what you've seen
00:16:25
now in average house prices are up over
00:16:27
they're now coming back but yeah so and
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the opportunity to buy in was a lot
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easier unfortunately you know I was
00:16:34
going to keep these houses and have 10
00:16:35
or 20 by the time I'm 57 didn't quite
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work out that way
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ex I remember
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um just when I sort of left school and
00:16:43
started in radio this would have been
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like 1990 I guess early 90s I'd come up
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to Auckland stay with my friend Robert
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Scott who's on the breeze now and
00:16:50
because you guys were on 2xs together
00:16:52
right that must have been a great place
00:16:54
to work because I've I'm on social media
00:16:57
it's one of the great things about
00:16:57
Facebook Facebook friends with a few
00:16:59
people and I always see this 2xs stuff
00:17:01
come up and people say what a great time
00:17:03
it was down in the manner with two in
00:17:04
Palmerston yeah
00:17:07
for like really quite good radio talent
00:17:09
for some reason yeah um but yeah I'd
00:17:11
come up and stay with Robert and he
00:17:12
lived in sarsfield Street and I'd point
00:17:14
out your house really and I don't know
00:17:16
if you were playing League at the time
00:17:17
or maybe just started on radio but it's
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like one of the most expensive streets
00:17:19
in Auckland now that it has probably
00:17:21
worth seven or eight metal it probably
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is and I wish I had to keep the bloody
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thing but yes I was in Southfield Street
00:17:26
we were right down the bottom of it and
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it was a lovely it was amazing
00:17:29
neighborhood yeah but like I said it's a
00:17:31
lot easier to get back getting it back
00:17:33
there what it is now and I think yeah I
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paid about a half a million bucks for
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that place whereas now it's like
00:17:38
whatever it's worth and at the time it
00:17:40
was a real stretch for me and you know
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and I was really I was being a wanker to
00:17:44
be honest because we used to live in a
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place called wanganui Ave which is on
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the other side of uh Hoon Bay and I love
00:17:50
her I love wanganui Ave but that was
00:17:53
sort of the Southern slopes and all the
00:17:54
knobs were on the other side of the uh
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the northern slopes and then my
00:17:58
stupidity as a young fellow I thought it
00:18:00
was a call to be with all the knobs but
00:18:01
you know I should have stayed where we
00:18:03
were it was a lot a lot less to get in
00:18:05
there and make great place to live it's
00:18:10
close to where we are now in the podcast
00:18:13
space so um were you were you married at
00:18:16
the time have you ever been married no
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so you so you you're um a father of one
00:18:20
Liam and one thing that strikes me about
00:18:22
you from my relationship with you is
00:18:24
just how much your relationship with
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your son means to and I'm talking way
00:18:28
back when you used to work in the same
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building as me and you'd come in and
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Liam was a young fella at the time and
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you always give them a shout out on the
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year using his middle names the whole
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lot that's yes I've got a mate of mine
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Leah I've got Leo Malloy who's Run for
00:18:40
the mayor of Auckland always calls them
00:18:43
lrd which is Liam Robert Daniels which
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is I always call them uh Liam Robert
00:18:48
Daniel on here so yeah no it's you know
00:18:50
we got Perfection on the first go
00:18:52
there's no need there anymore
00:18:54
so so Liam's mum and your ex her name is
00:18:57
Julie Julie it is yes you were never
00:18:59
married no we didn't marry but we're
00:19:01
still really good friends yeah you know
00:19:03
she's been an amazing mum and you know
00:19:05
she's a good friend of mine and I get
00:19:07
she's married now and I get on very very
00:19:10
well with her husband so yeah it's been
00:19:11
a while it's not never ideal it's been
00:19:14
as good as it could be I think when did
00:19:16
when did you break up when Liam was
00:19:18
quite yes yeah Liam was on a young
00:19:19
father maybe one what happened you want
00:19:21
to talk about no and not particularly
00:19:23
it's not a period that I'm proud of I
00:19:26
made a complete dick of myself on a
00:19:28
number of occasions yes infidelity or
00:19:31
yes but look there's a lot of water
00:19:34
under the bridge oh
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the answer is you're right and we all do
00:19:39
stupid we do it younger you can't you
00:19:41
can't hold that much killed in the same
00:19:43
quarter of a century later if I had my
00:19:46
chart if I had my time again you'd do
00:19:48
things way differently so yeah it's not
00:19:50
it's not a proud period of my life
00:19:52
wasn't it she forgiven you though oh
00:19:55
yeah you need to forgive yourself well I
00:19:57
probably have I just don't ever want to
00:19:59
talk about right
00:20:01
but you were I mean you were famous at
00:20:03
the time you know you were young you
00:20:05
were successful I suppose there was a
00:20:06
lot of they're not excusing your
00:20:08
behavior but there was a lot of
00:20:09
Temptation
00:20:10
it's really interesting you say famous
00:20:12
right
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I don't kill anyone says you can't be
00:20:15
famous in New Zealand there's five
00:20:17
million people live here you might a
00:20:20
whole lot of people might recognize you
00:20:21
when you go past but I once spend some
00:20:24
time with a guy called Mark Jackson and
00:20:26
Mark played in the AFL and he fought in
00:20:28
one of my fight for life he was a real
00:20:30
character a real character and he used
00:20:33
to say you know these people of
00:20:35
Australia think they're [ __ ] famous
00:20:37
they're not famous Frank Sinatra is
00:20:40
famous and I hung out with Frank Sinatra
00:20:41
in the 70s you know what I mean like
00:20:43
these if Tom Cruise has got real Fame
00:20:45
yeah and it's true when you look at the
00:20:47
likes of the Brad Pitt's and the Chris
00:20:49
rocks and the the rock and all these
00:20:51
different Arnold Schwarzenegger they're
00:20:52
really famous that's real Fame yeah the
00:20:54
stuff we have down here is just a few
00:20:56
people recognize you on the way through
00:20:58
and annoy the [ __ ] out here when you go
00:20:59
out and you might you might have a drink
00:21:01
when you go out no I actually don't
00:21:04
drink milk milk and water's my drink of
00:21:06
choice yeah actually I I do want to get
00:21:08
to that well by the way I got you a
00:21:10
drink if you want to I've got your own
00:21:11
milk Dom actually would you believe this
00:21:13
with my current fat guts I need to stay
00:21:17
off the milk I love milk it would be my
00:21:19
favorite drink if I wanted to I could
00:21:21
drink four and five liters a day easily
00:21:23
but I choose not to because it's not
00:21:25
good for me yeah I went to see it like a
00:21:27
nutritionist years ago and she was like
00:21:29
oh you need to cut your coffee out you
00:21:31
know milk is used to fatten babies well
00:21:33
correct and it's not only milk is used
00:21:35
we use another species milk the cows to
00:21:39
feed us I don't know that it's overly
00:21:40
healthy but I do love the stuff better
00:21:42
yeah and that's one thing that struck me
00:21:45
about you always like if you're out at a
00:21:46
bar with you you'll have like a pint of
00:21:48
milk and it's like you'd be probably the
00:21:50
only person I know over the age of eight
00:21:51
that drinks milk is like a recreational
00:21:54
drink it's a very bizarre site so I
00:21:58
think you know like now I'm sitting
00:21:59
there with the milk we've actually I the
00:22:02
the late great Phil Kingsley Jones I
00:22:04
went to Wales with him and we were
00:22:05
searching for people to fight in one of
00:22:07
our fight for life one year and we and
00:22:09
Phil was a great guy a good just an
00:22:12
amazing character for anyone that
00:22:13
doesn't know Jonah lomey's manager he
00:22:15
was General but he was way more than
00:22:16
just that he was a personality in his
00:22:18
own right and he's a great speaker and
00:22:20
had great jokes but we went up to the uh
00:22:22
The Valleys of of Wales which is and
00:22:25
that's the coal mining area and I've got
00:22:27
to tell you I've never seen so many
00:22:30
rough hardcore women in all my life and
00:22:32
they all knew and loved Phil and one of
00:22:34
the piece of his ass back then but
00:22:37
um yes and he could not believe I'd send
00:22:39
him to the bar and he'd have to order
00:22:40
pints of milk yeah so yeah
00:22:43
um why have you never been married do
00:22:46
you think are you sorry just going back
00:22:48
to that are you better on your own or
00:22:49
you just never found the right person or
00:22:51
are you just busy focused on Career
00:22:54
stuff it's really interesting have you
00:22:55
been married yeah I'm well I'm still
00:22:57
legally married to JJ but we broke up
00:22:59
about five years ago yeah look I've had
00:23:01
some
00:23:03
significant relationships but haven't
00:23:05
quite got around to doing the Marion
00:23:06
thing and you know I
00:23:08
as you get older in life I think you can
00:23:11
reflect on a whole lot of things and you
00:23:12
go you know what maybe I was the problem
00:23:15
as opposed to them so as you get on in
00:23:19
life you go
00:23:21
yeah it's not uh and look I I live an
00:23:25
amazing situation at the moment which I
00:23:28
can't believe I'm in but I'm there and I
00:23:31
really enjoy it you know it's very cool
00:23:32
what is it what's the situation I live
00:23:34
with my I live with my mum and my sister
00:23:37
and I absolutely love it I'm telling you
00:23:40
right because I've been transient for
00:23:42
the last or leaving myself in particular
00:23:44
I've been transit for the last bloody um
00:23:46
the last probably five or six years
00:23:48
between here in Australia you know we
00:23:50
had an apartment over in Brisbane for
00:23:52
quite some time
00:23:53
and then uh we moved sort of down to the
00:23:56
Gold Coast and we come and we become a
00:23:58
little bit transient and one of the
00:23:59
things I I hate in life I just hate it
00:24:01
is moving house it is the worst it is
00:24:05
one of my pet hates and I've been a
00:24:07
transient for 30 40 years so uh yeah
00:24:11
that's the hell is your mum now you're
00:24:12
in your late 50s my mom's
00:24:15
77. that's nice and your dad's still
00:24:18
alive as well yeah you should I had 79
00:24:20
dead Deads and they're both incredibly
00:24:24
fit and healthy like all the mum's
00:24:26
um brothers and sisters one brother died
00:24:28
young but they all lived to a ripe old
00:24:30
age you know the older sister got to 92
00:24:33
I think and so I expect mum's got a few
00:24:36
more uh
00:24:37
miles left on the tires getting dad's
00:24:40
dad still he lives in waiki Island
00:24:41
trains three times a week and very very
00:24:44
strong still well it looks a lot like
00:24:47
you to be honest Fitness wise so he does
00:24:49
a lot of weight training and and
00:24:51
exercising and the Germany's been doing
00:24:52
it for 20 25 years and Dad's committed
00:24:54
no matter what happens to get into a
00:24:56
hundred so you know which is it's a
00:24:58
pretty good goal to have that's a great
00:24:59
goal so
00:25:01
wow is it that seems like a weird
00:25:04
dynamic living with him so your sister's
00:25:06
a similar age you know 50. my sister is
00:25:08
uh she's four years younger than me
00:25:10
she's 53 and my mother's they brought a
00:25:13
house together going back probably 20
00:25:15
years ago and then they sold that house
00:25:17
and they brought a really really big
00:25:19
house so we live in a big house it's
00:25:21
like three stories high and I sort of
00:25:23
have commandeed the middle level mum has
00:25:25
the bottom level and my sister has the
00:25:26
top level okay so you're not all three
00:25:28
of you are sitting on the sofa it's a
00:25:31
big house
00:25:33
I've got to get the situation sorted out
00:25:35
I can promise you that you know like
00:25:37
I've got some land up in taupaki that I
00:25:39
need to um I need to get a house on at
00:25:42
some stage but uh yeah I I just feel
00:25:44
like you're not a not overly
00:25:45
materialistic were you materialistic
00:25:47
before you lost your fortune and that's
00:25:49
that's such that's a big understatement
00:25:51
I was very very committed to when I was
00:25:53
a young fella and I was going to be done
00:25:55
and dusted by 30 or 40 you know I
00:25:57
retired yeah retired and doing nothing
00:25:59
and made millions and you know
00:26:01
unfortunate I've had ups and downs yeah
00:26:05
I want to get into the seat you have
00:26:08
your radio career which is very
00:26:09
successful then you get out of there
00:26:12
never we had a great time but never made
00:26:14
huge money out of it got paid okay yeah
00:26:16
but enjoyed it immensely but never like
00:26:19
you were rooming at one stage to be on
00:26:21
300 000 plus a year which is brilliant
00:26:23
money
00:26:24
oh yeah yeah a bit more but more than
00:26:26
that especially if you get the kpis
00:26:28
there you go um which is if you're doing
00:26:30
radio and a three-hour shift and I know
00:26:32
you probably prepped a lot more and
00:26:33
you're turning yeah I took it way too
00:26:35
seriously you turn up at four and you go
00:26:38
you know then you're prepping afterwards
00:26:39
you've got to do that if you're going to
00:26:40
be paid the big money yeah
00:26:42
um but you also got to enjoy it along
00:26:44
the way and I've got to tell you some of
00:26:45
the people I got to do to to work with
00:26:48
like the absolute highlights like Leah
00:26:50
panapa um she's still a great mate we
00:26:52
went out to lunch just recently Nathan
00:26:54
rarely I was very lucky to be on air
00:26:56
with Nathan Nathan's real strength on
00:26:59
radio and this is very rare his real
00:27:02
strength was the same guy turned up
00:27:04
every single day and was pleasant and
00:27:07
was a nice guy and he's just such a good
00:27:09
guy to deal with and you would know this
00:27:11
Dom over the years
00:27:13
you want consistency whereas you know
00:27:16
some people in radio they come up they
00:27:18
might have different things are
00:27:19
happening in their lives and they're all
00:27:21
over the place which it happens because
00:27:22
they're creative talented people and uh
00:27:25
mate he was uh Nathan was amazing you
00:27:27
know and we got luckily got to talk with
00:27:29
Ian Smith as well who I think is one of
00:27:32
the all-time great Cricket commentators
00:27:34
no anywhere in the world his
00:27:36
commentaries over the years there'll be
00:27:37
nothing short of stunning and I'm
00:27:39
saddened to see he's not working with
00:27:40
Skye anymore yeah so that you're talking
00:27:42
about that's when I got to meet you so
00:27:44
you um you you lost all your money with
00:27:47
the circus thing yeah so you got back
00:27:48
into radio
00:27:50
we're gonna we'll backtrack and we'll
00:27:52
get into that but when you're working
00:27:54
with um Nathan and Smithy I remember
00:27:57
this clearly we're in the same building
00:27:58
and it was um all the radio stations
00:28:00
faced this internal Courtyard and you'd
00:28:02
be I don't know how many voice breaks
00:28:03
you did on here but you're wander around
00:28:04
the courtyard on your phone all [ __ ]
00:28:06
morning and then Nathan would tell me
00:28:08
stories that um I think you were
00:28:10
contracted to where to wait 30 or 9 A.M
00:28:12
and he said 9 aim on the dot if in the
00:28:15
middle of an interview or something and
00:28:16
Dana would just give him the thumbs up
00:28:18
like
00:28:19
let me take the headphones off and set a
00:28:20
tiptoe out
00:28:22
oh
00:28:24
that was more out of necessity like when
00:28:27
I when we I did about seven years I
00:28:29
think on radio Herrick you know I think
00:28:31
about seven or maybe eight years I think
00:28:33
it was radio what was it called live
00:28:35
talk spot lifestyle live Sport and I got
00:28:38
a call out of the blue from Brent Impe
00:28:40
and Brent had been instrumental in me
00:28:42
getting the job already howicky Brent as
00:28:44
it turns out uh he's a Bastion of New
00:28:46
Zealand broadcasting has been wonderful
00:28:48
to me
00:28:49
in my all through my life to be honest
00:28:52
my adult life because he he got me the
00:28:54
job on he was chairman of the board or I
00:28:56
think he was a CEO of the company when I
00:28:58
got on radio hierarchy then he was sort
00:29:00
of really high up in the radio industry
00:29:02
when I got given this job already alive
00:29:04
or live Sport and he also on a number of
00:29:07
occasions put my Fight For Life on TV
00:29:09
three you know and I've had subsequent
00:29:11
conversations with the Rugby Union about
00:29:13
all sorts of things and Brent's been a
00:29:14
conduit to get me in there so he's been
00:29:16
very very good to me that's great I'm
00:29:19
very very uh appreciative of the support
00:29:21
that I've always had from from bimpy
00:29:23
unfortunately he's retired or
00:29:25
fortunately he's retired now he's on a
00:29:26
few boards but he was certainly good to
00:29:28
me and my broadcast yeah likewise as
00:29:30
well actually great great man so okay so
00:29:33
you you leave radio helodecki is that
00:29:34
when you start the fight for life is
00:29:36
that when you bring the fight for life
00:29:37
like corporate boxing to New Zealand
00:29:39
feels like it's such a big thing now
00:29:40
even the non-televisions yeah like I
00:29:43
think around 2000 right maybe even just
00:29:46
before 2000.
00:29:51
oh yeah yeah no that's right no you did
00:29:53
right so I at when I left radio hauraki
00:29:56
no I was I was at Radio hierarchy I
00:29:59
finished Rugby League at probably 26 and
00:30:01
I had played at the Canberra Raiders got
00:30:03
a phone call out of the blue from Tim
00:30:04
machine says look we'd love to bring the
00:30:06
camber Raiders over to play in a local
00:30:08
game and I said yeah that'll be fine
00:30:11
so I did a joint venture with radio
00:30:14
hierarchy who I was working with at the
00:30:15
time this is sort of the start of my
00:30:16
entrepreneurial career I'd only been out
00:30:18
of rugby league for about a year maybe
00:30:19
less and um we put this game on Auckland
00:30:23
versus this is way before the Warriors
00:30:25
this is like 1991. so we put this game
00:30:27
on Auckland versus uh the Canberra
00:30:30
Raiders and they were the hottest thing
00:30:31
at the time you know you had Mel meninga
00:30:33
he had Laurie Daley Bradley Clyde you
00:30:35
had at least 10 to 15 bloody people who
00:30:40
played for Australia and New Zealand or
00:30:42
you know state of origin it was a big
00:30:43
big so it was a big we sold the thing
00:30:45
out and made it we made a couple hundred
00:30:47
grand and I took a hundred and Harrogate
00:30:50
took 100 and I thought at the time geez
00:30:52
this is better than playing footy so
00:30:54
that's we concentrated on doing for the
00:30:56
next sort of two or three years and then
00:30:57
I got tied up Kevin Barry came up for me
00:31:00
said look I've got this really hot young
00:31:01
heavyweight David tour I don't know much
00:31:04
about promotion do you want to help out
00:31:05
so I helped him put on the first David
00:31:07
tour fight and uh just singing spiraled
00:31:10
from there and eventually we got to a
00:31:11
thing called fight for life and what had
00:31:12
happened with that a friend of mine who
00:31:15
used to work I think in a media works
00:31:17
called Peter Spears a sales rep in there
00:31:20
and he's a good Maid of mine and his
00:31:22
house had burnt down and he had no
00:31:23
insurance so we put together a little
00:31:25
fight night there's I fought on it Spiro
00:31:27
fought on it my mate Mark bournville
00:31:29
fought on it and we got a few mates
00:31:30
together and we we raised some money for
00:31:33
him to give him some money for his house
00:31:34
so we raised about 50 Grand and made it
00:31:37
was like walking on ears one of the
00:31:39
greatest things I've ever done is like I
00:31:40
don't drugs are not my go but I can tell
00:31:43
you if drugs make you feel as good as
00:31:45
this you'd be on them all the time
00:31:46
because it was just a real highlight and
00:31:48
it was just to do something for a bloke
00:31:50
anyway one thing leads to another and
00:31:52
there's a place called yellow ribbon
00:31:53
Marco Marinkovic was at that event I
00:31:55
think
00:31:56
and he said would you do that for us I
00:31:58
said yes sweet but we gotta we'll try
00:32:00
and raise you a million bucks and we've
00:32:01
got to get it on TV and we'll use rugby
00:32:03
league players he said sweet so he gave
00:32:05
me full license to do what we did I that
00:32:07
first year I did it for nothing
00:32:08
and we raised about half a million bucks
00:32:11
and we ended up with the number one
00:32:12
rating show on TV three and it just yeah
00:32:15
just it spiraled from there yeah so is
00:32:17
that is that how I started so you're
00:32:18
doing like league players fighting rugby
00:32:20
players
00:32:21
yeah the clash of the codes and we had
00:32:24
some real Legends yeah you know for
00:32:25
those who are old enough to remember we
00:32:27
had Mark Graham and buck shelford and
00:32:29
there I had uh
00:32:31
um Mark bournville who the horse who
00:32:33
went on to become really amazing and
00:32:34
fight for life and Stevie McDowell we
00:32:37
had Mel meninga fought with Kevin
00:32:38
borovich so yeah there's a it was a big
00:32:40
deal to us at the time and it was a lot
00:32:41
of fun to do it so when did you when did
00:32:43
you broaden it and get into a like other
00:32:45
sort of mainstream celebrity started or
00:32:48
mainstream celebrities that just sort of
00:32:50
continued on for quite some time and
00:32:52
then um
00:32:53
we tuned into more of an entertainment
00:32:55
event you know I think we need like
00:32:56
dwarfs and yeah well no that was sort of
00:32:58
the second alliteration I used to bring
00:33:01
in these really cool acts you know like
00:33:03
we'd have motorbikes doing backflips
00:33:05
over the boxing ring and we'd have uh
00:33:07
we'd have got you know motorcycle foot
00:33:09
juggling X coming in where we had all
00:33:12
these acts and I thought oh wouldn't it
00:33:14
be a good idea if we took all these acts
00:33:16
out of fight for life and put them into
00:33:17
a circus and that was probably the
00:33:19
dumbest thing I ever did in my life but
00:33:21
you're you're like you're a risk taker
00:33:22
so you don't know it's a dumb thing
00:33:23
until you got the benefit of hindsight
00:33:25
so the you so you took a big bath on
00:33:27
this one this year yeah we dropped in
00:33:29
one year uh I'd done a number of things
00:33:32
it wasn't that smart so one I put the
00:33:35
circus on I lost about a million bucks
00:33:37
on that
00:33:38
I'd brought I I'd sold off previously
00:33:41
half my company to a couple of guys and
00:33:43
they were good guys and I brought them
00:33:45
out of the company and I had some issues
00:33:47
around tax I was about 1.8 million
00:33:49
dollars in debt and I had no assets to
00:33:51
back it nothing so what happened to
00:33:54
those houses we talked about it well you
00:33:56
know you sell things as you go and you
00:33:58
make mistakes you get separated and you
00:34:00
make sure people are looked after all
00:34:02
that sort of stuff so you know like I've
00:34:03
made
00:34:05
if I could make some changes in my life
00:34:07
it'd be the slow accumulation of assets
00:34:09
right I got mates of mine who had very
00:34:12
long-term plans and they've done very
00:34:14
very well just out of slow accumulation
00:34:16
so that's my advice to all you Risk
00:34:18
Takers out there it's fantastic Throwing
00:34:20
It All into one and you know having a
00:34:22
crack but I suggest you just out the
00:34:24
back end just accumulate those assets
00:34:26
slowly but um so yeah you mentioned um
00:34:29
Leo Malloy before and I've had him on
00:34:31
the podcast and we talked about he he
00:34:33
ended up bankrupt for a time after he
00:34:35
set up a bar called cardiac yes he did
00:34:37
and he reflected on the podcast on his
00:34:39
mistakes and he said he sort of through
00:34:40
everything that he knew about
00:34:42
Hospitality out the window with this is
00:34:44
that what happened to you do you think
00:34:46
you got too big for your boots yeah 100
00:34:48
yeah you know you're taking look we
00:34:51
hadn't when we're doing fight for life
00:34:52
so I was putting more and more money
00:34:54
into the entertainment side of it and
00:34:55
there was bugger all net profit coming
00:34:57
back it was just bigger and better
00:34:58
events you know with bugger or net
00:35:00
profit and so we got to the end of it
00:35:02
when we did this bloody massive circus
00:35:04
which lost a huge amount of money and I
00:35:07
got all the aspects of circus that you
00:35:09
get right I got them wrong so if you're
00:35:12
the dumbest thing you can do if you're
00:35:13
ever going to put on a circus the
00:35:15
dumbest thing you can do is fly the best
00:35:18
accent from all around the world and
00:35:20
only have them compete or you know do
00:35:22
their stuff for a week which is what we
00:35:24
did in a fixed outlet and the reason why
00:35:26
it's dumb is firstly their prices
00:35:28
through the roof and then you've got all
00:35:29
the accommodation expenses you've got
00:35:31
all the bloody um airfares coming in to
00:35:34
be amortized over no more than sort of
00:35:35
seven days
00:35:37
smart circus acts right they have their
00:35:39
own tents they travel around the world
00:35:41
or travel around the area and you employ
00:35:43
them for a long period of time their
00:35:45
cost per day goes through the floor so
00:35:46
you don't have to sell as many tickets
00:35:47
anyway so I dropped a million on that I
00:35:50
was probably 1.8 in debt and it took me
00:35:52
four years to pay it off there's no way
00:35:54
I was going to go bankrupt because I
00:35:56
knew if I did that I was going to be all
00:35:57
over the front pages of the paper so I
00:35:59
called my creditors in and said look
00:36:01
here's my problem and I said to them if
00:36:04
you just hang tough with me I'll get you
00:36:06
paid then I turned around and I borrowed
00:36:08
about half a million it was about 550k
00:36:11
off three different people
00:36:13
they gave me that so I managed to work
00:36:16
out a whole lot of non-risky events
00:36:19
right that I could run there's no risk I
00:36:21
was going to make money so what we would
00:36:23
do is I've got the half million and I
00:36:25
paid off as much of it keeping everyone
00:36:27
happy and then I just went on the slow
00:36:29
ride of sort of selling the events
00:36:30
paying them off selling new events and
00:36:32
paying off the old credit that's when
00:36:34
you and I got to meet and sort of become
00:36:35
friends because you got back into radio
00:36:37
first yeah well the radio thing came up
00:36:38
because I desperately needed the cash so
00:36:41
I was working I was running a small
00:36:43
business trying to make some money I was
00:36:45
working for an organization trying to
00:36:47
raise their money and I was also working
00:36:49
on radio so I basically had three jobs
00:36:51
so when you were uh saw me on the phone
00:36:54
it's because I'm desperately trying to
00:36:56
place the bills mate I can tell you this
00:36:58
I remember one day I'm on the North
00:36:59
Shore and made I couldn't pay my [ __ ]
00:37:03
phone bill you know and having your
00:37:05
phone disconnected is you won't do
00:37:07
nothing so they were they were hard
00:37:10
times but you know you have some good
00:37:12
times along the way I end up I went and
00:37:15
moved into a flat with a good mate of
00:37:17
mine called Grant Church who I just love
00:37:19
eternally and we we in it we're in this
00:37:22
flat or it was a house another major I
00:37:24
know it's a three-bedroom house and I
00:37:26
was in one bedroom and he had the main
00:37:27
bedroom which had the uh the ensuite it
00:37:30
was really nice and uh it was a great
00:37:32
Victory to me when he moved out and I
00:37:35
could afford to move into the main event
00:37:37
for the simple fact like that was just
00:37:40
to move forward right you know was that
00:37:42
like in the hindsight looking back was
00:37:44
that period um I would say that's the
00:37:46
last period of your life man it was
00:37:48
stressful it's got to be um I mean you
00:37:50
you can probably like look back with
00:37:52
enough hindsight now to get a picture of
00:37:53
things but to go from like being
00:37:55
successful like being a successful
00:37:57
League player successful broadcaster
00:37:59
successful promoter having like all the
00:38:02
money all the assets and stuff and then
00:38:03
being down below zero it was just gonna
00:38:06
be [ __ ] hard it was stressful yeah I
00:38:08
reckon I was depressed for a year really
00:38:11
what did depression look like for you
00:38:12
depression for me
00:38:15
um
00:38:16
the only Escape was sleep from the
00:38:19
pressure
00:38:20
and like for the first year I knew that
00:38:23
if I got it wrong I was going to be all
00:38:25
over the news and for doing this and
00:38:27
doing that and I'm a low life when all
00:38:29
you've done is made mistakes and tried
00:38:31
your best so
00:38:33
the first year was the hardest right and
00:38:36
when you get to the end of the first
00:38:38
year all of a sudden you realize I can
00:38:41
actually do this and I'm going to get
00:38:42
out
00:38:43
but when you talk about pressure the
00:38:46
second you wake up you're stressed and
00:38:49
you're thinking about what's going to go
00:38:51
wrong and then you're anxious right and
00:38:53
that feeling doesn't leave you and it
00:38:55
doesn't leave you until you go to sleep
00:38:57
it's like going to bed with a wet
00:38:58
blanket and when you go to sleep it
00:39:00
disappears but when you wake up it comes
00:39:02
back and it's just stress and it's
00:39:04
horrible so 12 months was probably like
00:39:06
that and then it started to diminish
00:39:09
after 12 months because you go I can get
00:39:12
out of this why did it start to diminish
00:39:13
were you just making a Headway because
00:39:15
you're making Headway every time you
00:39:16
paid off a bill or paid some money off
00:39:19
it's another it's another Victory you
00:39:21
know and all of a sudden all the new
00:39:22
ideas you're forced to have they're
00:39:25
working you know like you're never going
00:39:27
to get rich off them but you sure as
00:39:28
hell are going to pay your debts so at
00:39:30
the end of 12 months I've gone right
00:39:33
this is a long long tunnel but we go I
00:39:36
can see the light at the end and it took
00:39:37
another three years after that
00:39:41
see a therapist or anything in that time
00:39:44
would I you know I don't think so no I
00:39:46
might have I might have you know and I
00:39:49
read an article somewhere you were
00:39:50
reading like a lot of self-help books at
00:39:52
the time yeah yeah yeah like this is a
00:39:54
long time ago yeah yeah like so you know
00:39:57
it's a long time again we've we've had
00:39:59
all sorts of successes and failures and
00:40:01
challenges since then but
00:40:04
having someone you could talk to is
00:40:06
essential because it's like a relieving
00:40:09
of pressure yeah who did you have is it
00:40:11
like look I always have my mates right
00:40:13
they were great you know like Mark
00:40:15
bournville and Mark Bedford and Mike
00:40:17
Patton's mate Steve cousins you know
00:40:20
they were fantastic
00:40:21
that you know you also need to have
00:40:24
other people you and it's I would
00:40:26
recommend
00:40:27
therapist I'm not not big on Psychiatry
00:40:29
but certainly from am but if for some
00:40:31
people that works for them but a
00:40:33
psychologist someone you can go and have
00:40:35
a release valve too also I suppose if
00:40:37
you're 1.7 million in debt spending 250
00:40:40
or for an hour with a trained
00:40:42
professional probably a lot of people
00:40:43
that's chump change look at me at the
00:40:45
time that was a huge amount of money you
00:40:47
know so uh and it just took a long time
00:40:49
to pay it back which was pretty shitty I
00:40:52
wouldn't want to go through it again why
00:40:54
I mean it says a lot about your
00:40:55
character I think like not just
00:40:57
declaring bankruptcy why didn't why
00:40:59
didn't you just do that that would have
00:41:00
been the easiest thing to do right I
00:41:01
guess
00:41:03
my attitude is is that
00:41:06
if somebody supplies to you a good or a
00:41:08
service right you're it's up to you to
00:41:11
pay for it now in that case it just took
00:41:13
a long time for some people to get their
00:41:15
money but that supplied me the goods and
00:41:17
the services so they have to be paid you
00:41:20
know and and the alternative
00:41:22
you know the alternative as you end up
00:41:24
on the front page of the paper and
00:41:26
[ __ ] all sorts of others but I've
00:41:27
heard people have said that they've gone
00:41:29
bankrupt and the stress and pain goes
00:41:32
instantly it was just not an option for
00:41:35
me that was all just a character thing
00:41:36
to say well I don't know if it's
00:41:37
character because everyone it was just
00:41:40
it was just not an option yeah because
00:41:42
everyone approaches these things
00:41:44
differently you know I've had friends
00:41:46
who've gone through similar
00:41:47
circumstances and they did things
00:41:48
differently and that's fine as well you
00:41:51
know and I think the most important
00:41:52
thing you can do with people just be up
00:41:53
front and tell them the truth
00:41:55
yeah one thing I've said a fan over life
00:41:57
is that um the the [ __ ] hits the fan for
00:42:00
everyone at some point everyone goes
00:42:01
through good good times and bad times
00:42:02
and one thing you find is people that
00:42:04
you think are really good friends
00:42:05
they're either like lean in or lean out
00:42:08
when that happens and uh Did you sort of
00:42:10
I don't have anyone lean out yeah not by
00:42:13
any stretch the imagination they more
00:42:15
leaned in yeah that's good yeah so you
00:42:18
know
00:42:18
you're lucky I saw something by Tom Tom
00:42:20
Hanks was sitting down there that I saw
00:42:22
on social media is a wonderful thing but
00:42:25
there's this little sort of 30 second
00:42:26
one minute clip where he was sit with
00:42:29
some really famous guys I might be
00:42:31
Robert De Niro and and and and and
00:42:33
Steven Spielberg and a few others and he
00:42:36
said when I was I wish someone had told
00:42:38
me when I was a young fella this too
00:42:40
shall pass and what he was talking about
00:42:43
is that you will have hard times in your
00:42:45
life this tooth shall pass you will have
00:42:47
amazing highs in your life this too
00:42:49
shall pass so you've I think the lesson
00:42:52
is try not to get too stressed because
00:42:55
one way or another you're going to get
00:42:56
out of it or you know and um don't take
00:43:00
it all too serious you've had to learn
00:43:02
these lessons the hard way though and
00:43:05
where does where do you think this
00:43:06
resilience comes from or is it something
00:43:07
that you've you've had to build by
00:43:09
necessity over the years I have no idea
00:43:11
I don't know it's resilience it's just
00:43:12
oh I know it absolutely you get you get
00:43:15
faced with situations and you just got
00:43:17
to overcome them and it's really it's
00:43:18
about about the key thing is is just
00:43:21
doing what's in front of you just deal
00:43:23
tackle what's in front of you and then
00:43:25
tackle it again the next day and the
00:43:27
next day and in the perfect world you'll
00:43:28
get to a point where there's the
00:43:30
challenges are overcome and you start to
00:43:32
get this from gravy and have some fun
00:43:33
[Music]
00:43:35
um yeah you must be immensely proud of
00:43:37
how you handle that whole situation
00:43:38
getting out of that hole looking back
00:43:39
don't really think about it too much no
00:43:41
no just clearly learn some good lessons
00:43:43
though yeah
00:43:45
just glad I did it the way we did it as
00:43:48
opposed to take taking the option of not
00:43:50
having to pay everyone yeah you know I
00:43:53
think I read an article about you at the
00:43:54
time and you're talking about that flat
00:43:55
situation with that guy Church you're
00:43:57
talking about and another guy called
00:43:58
mango yes what was the flag called the
00:44:01
the flat of broken men or something what
00:44:03
is it the house of misunderstood
00:44:07
I used to write a bit of a Blog yes so
00:44:11
we uh I had two guys in the flat with me
00:44:14
one was called Church which was
00:44:15
obviously and church was when he was we
00:44:18
went to school together and played rugby
00:44:19
together and church was and his an
00:44:22
absolute rocket scientist like he is in
00:44:24
six subject class at school used to do
00:44:27
five subjects of school C and I think he
00:44:29
went to uh he went he could have gone to
00:44:31
University he got great marks but he
00:44:34
ended up you know driving us a a uh a
00:44:37
roller called the space shuttle he
00:44:39
called it Challenger Space Shuttle you
00:44:41
know like those Steamrollers and uh he
00:44:43
is just he's just a great guy
00:44:46
and and just just a really good guy an
00:44:50
amazing flatmate you know I wish we were
00:44:52
still living with the church because
00:44:53
he's such an amazing guy but uh we used
00:44:55
to have this other guy called mango and
00:44:57
he was called mango because he used to
00:44:59
ride motorbikes really fast and
00:45:01
everybody would say look at that man go
00:45:08
oh God what a time God it sounds like it
00:45:11
sounds like some sort of sitcom doesn't
00:45:13
it well I ended up at some at one stage
00:45:17
there might I can't remember because all
00:45:19
the dates you know
00:45:22
but I used to write this blog and my mum
00:45:25
encourages me to to go back to writing a
00:45:28
Blog and it used to be called the house
00:45:29
of misunderstood blokes and it was
00:45:31
predominantly about the life of my mate
00:45:33
Grant Church who was the world's
00:45:35
greatest drain layer and we used to talk
00:45:37
about his uh how he'd go on dates and
00:45:40
you know like I was chronicling his life
00:45:42
it was quite funny but I've said to her
00:45:43
Manuel if I do this again mum I'm gonna
00:45:46
have to write about you and my sister
00:45:47
because that's who I'm living with what
00:45:49
we call it did you uh like did you fall
00:45:52
back on alcohol or anything in any of
00:45:53
these low points how do you not because
00:45:55
a lot of people would like deal with the
00:45:57
stress of a situation like this by I
00:45:59
made a conscious decision going through
00:46:02
going through it that if you drink
00:46:04
alcohol like you know like I said it was
00:46:06
I had a really hard time for the first
00:46:08
year but if you drink alcohol
00:46:10
you're going to escape all your problems
00:46:12
for three four five or six hours right
00:46:15
and then the problem is when you wake up
00:46:17
the next day even worse it's way worse
00:46:19
and not only that is way worse for three
00:46:21
or four days so I sort of thought right
00:46:24
I'll kick alcohol for touch and commit
00:46:26
myself to doing what I've got to do
00:46:29
and at the back end of it which was four
00:46:31
years I lost the taste for the alcohol
00:46:34
hence I don't drink anymore because I
00:46:37
just don't like the taste of it there's
00:46:38
no great hidden meeting like I used to
00:46:41
drink so much when I was a young fellow
00:46:42
and I used to you know I used to have a
00:46:44
good time and used to go out and have
00:46:46
plenty to drink but that's not the
00:46:47
reason I don't drink anymore it's just I
00:46:49
don't like the taste if you could make
00:46:52
alcohol taste like a strawberry
00:46:54
milkshake
00:46:55
I'd get drunk 24 hours a day but as it
00:46:59
turns out you can't that's good so you
00:47:01
got through that period with a clear
00:47:02
head and very very dense bones for all
00:47:04
the calcium you're having probably you
00:47:07
um but I'll tell you what I do now right
00:47:09
with the milk I cut it in half
00:47:11
suddenly that is my drink of choice is
00:47:14
half I get the biggest glass I can get
00:47:17
half milk half water lots of ice
00:47:20
it's actually really good and the key
00:47:23
thing is to have it cold but that way
00:47:25
you can drink you know you can you're
00:47:28
not drinking as much as milk because
00:47:29
milks I don't think it's overly healthy
00:47:31
for you and I'm sure fonterra doesn't
00:47:33
want me to say this yeah but yeah geez
00:47:37
you're an unusual guy was it around this
00:47:39
time when you're living in the flat with
00:47:40
these two other misunderstood blokes
00:47:42
that you were you were adding
00:47:43
um you had like a Nando's thing as well
00:47:45
you're eating Nando's every night of the
00:47:46
week did I read that somewhere I don't
00:47:49
think so
00:47:50
you're making this episode did we
00:47:54
had those
00:47:55
Espionage ah yeah
00:48:02
I'll be all I am a creature have it
00:48:04
Nando's is very good and very healthy so
00:48:06
do you think um part of it is like um I
00:48:09
don't know like a a like a Steve Jobs or
00:48:12
Mark Zuckerberg thing you know they were
00:48:13
the same clothes every day because it
00:48:15
just takes a like a decision-making out
00:48:17
of their day like if you're eating
00:48:18
Nando's you can't possibly put my name
00:48:20
in those two in the same sentence Jesus
00:48:22
but um no but you know what I mean it's
00:48:25
like a decision every day that's like
00:48:26
man it's because look I go to the same
00:48:29
Cafe most times because I like going
00:48:31
there because I have food that I like I
00:48:33
ate nandos if I ate Nando's every night
00:48:35
for God knows how long it's because I
00:48:37
like the taste of it as opposed to
00:48:39
taking the decision-making process away
00:48:41
right like I'm not I'm just not that
00:48:43
complex I don't know but I think I think
00:48:45
you are smarter than what you give
00:48:46
yourself credit for I I sometimes wonder
00:48:49
yeah
00:48:50
um
00:48:52
um what else was there so okay so so you
00:48:55
get through that first year is difficult
00:48:56
and then you start to see a bit of
00:48:58
Headway then you make more and more
00:48:59
progress I suppose it's like a Snowball
00:49:01
Effect then how do you um how do you get
00:49:03
back into the promotion game is this is
00:49:06
promoting all the way through yeah I was
00:49:09
working on contract for a lot of people
00:49:10
I worked I'd do anything to get the
00:49:12
money in and one of the contracts I got
00:49:15
was with uh with Duco
00:49:17
and yet a guy called David Higgins who I
00:49:20
don't have much of an opinion on and
00:49:22
John McRae were there and they were
00:49:24
putting together the David tour versus
00:49:26
Shane Cameron fight they didn't have any
00:49:28
experience at the time right boxing
00:49:29
specifically but they had a nose they
00:49:32
definitely had a nose for uh what made a
00:49:34
good promotion so I helped them put that
00:49:36
together and I charged them through the
00:49:38
nose for it and uh and helped put them
00:49:41
together and it turned out to be very
00:49:43
very successful it's a phenomenal event
00:49:44
yeah the fight of the century I had um
00:49:46
Shane Cameron on the podcast and we yeah
00:49:48
he is a good guy he's a great guy and we
00:49:50
talked about that fight and quite a bit
00:49:52
of length and uh he's got so many
00:49:54
regrets he said it took seven years for
00:49:55
him to get over there I bet it did yeah
00:49:57
seven years seven years before he
00:50:00
realized huh I haven't thought about
00:50:02
that all day today wow crazy huh but
00:50:06
that's that's what that's what been in
00:50:08
the boxing ring can do to people you
00:50:11
know because that was Shane's whole life
00:50:12
was boxing and he built himself up along
00:50:16
with his manager Kenny rangefield as you
00:50:18
have to do to be the L for male of the
00:50:20
country and all of a sudden there's
00:50:22
another alpha male who realizes you
00:50:24
might be a great white shark but this
00:50:26
boy over here is a killer whale I mean
00:50:27
he's the top of the food chain yeah and
00:50:30
and I'm sure Shane's made peace with it
00:50:31
since then you know and David are
00:50:34
friends now they've had a couple of
00:50:35
tequila nights together and yeah
00:50:38
do you do you feel
00:50:40
um You probably don't it's just business
00:50:42
but I mean they were we talked about the
00:50:45
interview that they did on a show it's
00:50:46
called Uh close up at seven with Sansone
00:50:48
I remember it yeah and there was like it
00:50:50
wasn't quality trash talk it wasn't
00:50:52
Conor McGregor style but it was high
00:50:54
quality trash cool you think so why
00:50:56
because it was authentic and it wasn't
00:50:59
and Shane was probably putting it on a
00:51:01
bit right but tour wasn't Tua I remember
00:51:05
Shane and and and and giving David a
00:51:08
hard time and it was just Shane doing
00:51:10
the best he could from a trash talk
00:51:11
point of view he's a high quality human
00:51:12
being and a great guy but David tour he
00:51:16
wasn't trash talking he did something
00:51:18
like he he moved his neck around like
00:51:20
that and made it crack and he just
00:51:21
looked I think at Shane and says I'm
00:51:23
really going to hurt you and thank you
00:51:25
for the opportunity that was about as
00:51:27
authentic as it gets yeah you know what
00:51:29
I mean when David tour had never said
00:51:31
anything like that in his entire career
00:51:33
and Kenny rainsfield who's a good mate
00:51:35
of mine I've known for 30 years was
00:51:37
manager of Shane he really got under
00:51:40
David's skin and he was doing things
00:51:42
which as a promoter you look at him go
00:51:45
thanks Kenny you just did a great job
00:51:47
and of course that sold massively well
00:51:49
both at the venue down in Hamilton and
00:51:51
uh and on TV yeah Shane and our podcast
00:51:53
he talks about regrets he's gone and he
00:51:55
conducted himself in a way that's not
00:51:56
not him to his core yeah but do you feel
00:51:59
a little bit good about that because I
00:52:00
feel I feel like you guys made him made
00:52:02
him well not made him instead of hyped
00:52:04
the fight because all you can do right
00:52:06
at the end of the day all these Fighters
00:52:08
make their own decisions as to what they
00:52:10
do and all you can do is provide the
00:52:12
platform and Kenny in particular Kenny
00:52:14
really got he'd been a promoter himself
00:52:16
and Kenny rainsfield who was Shane's
00:52:18
manager understood the need for
00:52:19
promotion and Kenny was a genuine tough
00:52:22
guy as well you know he represented New
00:52:24
Zealand in the Commonwealth Games I
00:52:26
think he went to the Olympics as a
00:52:27
wrestler and one of the great stories
00:52:30
about Kenny rainsfield is that going
00:52:33
back 10 years ago and he's going to hate
00:52:35
that I tell the story but Kenny could
00:52:38
hold himself well and account when it
00:52:41
come to a street fight right because
00:52:42
he'd have all his background of
00:52:44
wrestling but he got into a fight with a
00:52:46
guy in ponsonby Road who was lesser
00:52:49
fighting more an altercation which the
00:52:51
other guy should never have started but
00:52:53
Kenny did something I've never heard
00:52:55
anyone do and was the most painful thing
00:52:57
of anything in anyone's life he grabbed
00:53:00
the guy by the hand his thumb like that
00:53:02
and he snapped it down with a quick
00:53:04
movement so he broke the guy's thumb and
00:53:06
I've thought about that on many of
00:53:08
occasions as one how do you think about
00:53:10
doing that and two the pain and her that
00:53:14
you were reflected on someone yes is
00:53:16
beyond beyond thoughts it's like torture
00:53:19
oh mate that's like medieval [ __ ] you
00:53:22
know so Kenny was a he was an
00:53:24
interesting cat and he's now chairman of
00:53:26
the New Zealand Warriors amazing there
00:53:28
you go amazing so yes after the um the
00:53:31
fight of the century the two of the
00:53:32
Cameron thing um it's when you you uh
00:53:36
Duco started working with um Joseph
00:53:37
Parker yeah I started they brought they
00:53:40
brought me into the company right
00:53:43
I owned half of it okay and you you guys
00:53:46
did a phenomenal job with Joseph Parker
00:53:48
like what
00:53:52
what no look what was that noise
00:53:55
all I can take it from is like um I was
00:53:58
on a top 40 radio station called The
00:53:59
Edge and we'd never have a boxer on yeah
00:54:01
you guys um presented us with Joe Parker
00:54:04
well I think we had him on as a favor
00:54:06
for you because you're a nice guy and I
00:54:07
like it yeah and then he did a good job
00:54:09
on the air and see then that
00:54:11
relationship was formed so yeah you guys
00:54:13
sort of made Joseph Parker like a
00:54:15
mainstream household name in a French
00:54:16
sport all we did was provide the
00:54:18
platform and Joe took advantage of it
00:54:20
don't forget David tour versus Linux
00:54:22
Lewis
00:54:23
was the number one rating show of all
00:54:26
time on television in New Zealand so to
00:54:28
say boxing was a French sport I think
00:54:30
it's a probably a bit of a stretch
00:54:32
because and I know it's not the All
00:54:33
Blacks right but
00:54:34
tour went to fight for the heavyweight
00:54:36
championship of the world his rise was
00:54:38
well documented in New Zealand media
00:54:39
then Shane Cameron came along and he was
00:54:42
there and Joe was sort of the next
00:54:43
alliteration of that standing on these
00:54:45
shoulders to some degree so uh but Joe
00:54:48
definitely all you do is provide the
00:54:49
platforms up to the individual athlete
00:54:51
to take advantage of it yeah we have we
00:54:54
hassled at people and got them on where
00:54:56
we had to get them on and if they're no
00:54:58
good here's what my experience is
00:55:00
most of these guys they start off not so
00:55:03
good in the media some of them are born
00:55:04
to it right but most of them aren't that
00:55:06
good but the more you throw them in you
00:55:07
can give them the media train in the
00:55:09
world I'm not a big fan of it the more
00:55:10
you throw them in the more you do it the
00:55:12
more comfortable they get and you start
00:55:13
to see the real person come out and
00:55:15
that's all we did with Joe was just keep
00:55:16
throwing them and throwing them and
00:55:17
Joe's got a lovely personality and he's
00:55:19
a genuinely good guy you know so when
00:55:22
that starts to come out it's quite
00:55:23
amazing that he boxes for a living
00:55:25
Because deep down to be a boxer you've
00:55:27
got to give some angry [ __ ] going on
00:55:28
yeah he's not a Savage is he
00:55:31
I think deep down he still loves to
00:55:33
fight anybody who loves to fight and
00:55:35
what look not everyone's going to be
00:55:38
Conor McGregor right yeah but in all
00:55:40
boxes good or bad but the really really
00:55:43
good ones what Conor McGregor's got
00:55:45
going on the outside a lot of these
00:55:47
boxes have got going on the inside they
00:55:48
just don't show it because mate it is
00:55:50
not a normal thing to do these are the
00:55:52
Gladiators the mod Gladiators there's
00:55:54
only about ten thousand maybe 15 000
00:55:57
professional boxes in the world and out
00:56:00
of those fifteen thousand no more than a
00:56:02
hundred to 200 will make money out of it
00:56:04
and no more than 10 make the millions
00:56:07
that you hear about you know so it's a
00:56:09
very very competitive Sport and it's uh
00:56:11
it's very very cutthroat
00:56:16
see what you want to drive back up who
00:56:18
called you
00:56:20
but was it Kevin Barry
00:56:24
was it yeah I think it was Liam's
00:56:27
talking in the background I'm pretty
00:56:28
sure he's right was Judith Collins who
00:56:31
was Joe's Auntie oh the Old National
00:56:33
party leader yeah really yes right
00:56:36
Professor Collins my memory is terrible
00:56:38
right concussions
00:56:40
oh I'm also of the opinion there's only
00:56:43
so much your brain can do yeah yeah and
00:56:45
sometimes stuff comes in if it's going
00:56:47
to stay there something's got to go out
00:56:48
to Wrangle around now you're right Liam
00:56:51
Judas Collins did ring me about and tell
00:56:53
me about him see he wasn't on your radar
00:56:55
at that point
00:56:56
no no no and look this is a long time
00:56:59
ago crikey when did we first started
00:57:01
promoting um Joseph
00:57:04
2010 maybe it's like 12 years ago it
00:57:08
just goes so fast
00:57:10
what was that what was that groaning
00:57:12
noise you made before when I when I
00:57:13
brought up Joseph Parker I just do cover
00:57:15
is not a period in my life that I want
00:57:17
to talk too much about I have zero zero
00:57:20
respect for the bloke awesome business
00:57:21
four I think it's fairly well known why
00:57:23
we separated I mean it seems like a sad
00:57:26
in a way because you guys were
00:57:27
incredibly successful together and I
00:57:29
hope maybe there would come a time maybe
00:57:30
they won't where you can look back and
00:57:31
reflect on that but it's yeah it seems
00:57:33
sad like um like Kevin Kevin Barry and
00:57:36
David tour like it's another very very
00:57:38
successful relationship that had a
00:57:40
terrible split and it seems sad in a way
00:57:42
that you can't rescue anything from it
00:57:44
at the end you guys were successful I
00:57:46
think you had the Charisma of the
00:57:48
operation and I I don't know I'm
00:57:50
guessing here but you you both bought
00:57:52
different things to your partnership it
00:57:54
as a partnership you and David were very
00:57:56
success useful I can tell the way you're
00:57:58
sitting here like
00:58:00
I don't want to talk about one day I
00:58:02
might one day I might serialize it you
00:58:04
know and tell what really went on and
00:58:06
why I was separated one day and he
00:58:08
himself for that one day when it comes I
00:58:11
can promise you that
00:58:13
there's no no love lost no relationship
00:58:15
there now no um
00:58:17
I once run into them in the gray Lynn
00:58:19
RSA and I ended up chasing around a car
00:58:23
and unfortunately I'm fat and overweight
00:58:25
and he's quite skinny so it's like I'm
00:58:27
like Wiley Coyote chasing the Road
00:58:29
Runner and I just wish I could
00:58:42
but that's not for the podcast
00:58:52
well I mean
00:58:54
like time time he was done has a lot of
00:58:57
words so maybe there'll become a time
00:58:58
where no chance wow not ever
00:59:03
you don't want to get into any of I mean
00:59:06
I've heard some marimbas over the years
00:59:07
about what happened but your neighbors
00:59:09
are probably true right
00:59:11
um
00:59:12
but I've got a saying in life like you
00:59:14
know you shouldn't believe everything
00:59:15
everything you hear uh they are usually
00:59:17
you know where there's some smoke
00:59:18
there's some fire but yeah it's fair to
00:59:21
say you shouldn't believe everything you
00:59:23
hear yeah yeah
00:59:25
um move on okay
00:59:26
so then so after after 2K that I I hope
00:59:29
there comes a time where you can look
00:59:30
back on on that period um uh you know
00:59:33
with some sort of pleasure because um
00:59:35
yeah what you did was very very
00:59:36
successful you deserve it we did some
00:59:39
okay things you know like the rise of
00:59:41
Joe Parker that was that was a lot that
00:59:43
was a lot of fun and seeing someone like
00:59:44
Joe being successful
00:59:46
also the NRL Auckland nines was you know
00:59:49
that's right I forgot about the nrl9s
00:59:51
yeah that was very successful and uh
00:59:53
that was very that was probably the most
00:59:55
gratifying thing for me because we got
00:59:57
to bring rugby league
00:59:59
you know to Auckland and it was a real
01:00:00
great celebration of rugby league and
01:00:03
the Auckland rugby league Community got
01:00:04
to come together and you know we we got
01:00:07
NRL players out into the clubs and it
01:00:09
was really cool that was very cool been
01:00:11
from a league background so then so then
01:00:14
um post Duke you go to Australia yep
01:00:17
um how come why did you
01:00:19
well when we had the split I went with
01:00:21
Jeff Horn who with Australian fighter
01:00:24
Australian boxer welterweight and the
01:00:26
Zenith of Jeff Horn was to fight Manny
01:00:28
Pacquiao at suncorp stadium and he beat
01:00:30
many 51
01:00:32
000 people turned up for that event and
01:00:34
it's probably the signature event in
01:00:36
boxing in Australia even to today
01:00:38
um Manny pacca a little little Filipino
01:00:40
he used to be the president of the
01:00:41
Philippines he ran for president ran for
01:00:43
prison but Manny was in all one of the
01:00:45
all-time great stars of the game and he
01:00:47
fought against the guy
01:00:48
and I think Manny's end of that fight
01:00:51
was about 100 million dollars Bob's
01:00:53
Aaron's in was about 50 million and
01:00:55
Floyd's was probably about 150 million
01:00:57
so they made some serious money out of
01:00:58
that so you were involved in
01:01:00
negotiations not for that fight yeah but
01:01:03
for the one in Brisbane that we did yeah
01:01:05
we I did it from top to bottom so your
01:01:08
dealings with um Manny Pacquiao uh with
01:01:10
Bob Aaron right right Manny was a lot of
01:01:13
fun was he a lot of fun when we we did a
01:01:15
bit of it he didn't need dog in
01:01:16
Australia
01:01:19
many was one of the most generous men
01:01:21
Manny Pacquiao did [ __ ] I've never seen
01:01:23
in my life so he comes over to do a
01:01:26
promotional tour no he comes over for
01:01:29
the fight and I had to have a quarter of
01:01:32
a million dollars in cash which was
01:01:34
Manny money and many money was given out
01:01:38
to all of the the cohorts that had come
01:01:40
over so he hired a private plane and
01:01:42
brought about a hundred to 150 people
01:01:44
with them all stayed in the hotel who
01:01:46
like his Entourage yes like all his
01:01:48
friends Manny Pacquiao how many staff
01:01:51
how many staff and how many friends I
01:01:53
honestly I couldn't tell you but what I
01:01:55
had to have that quarter million dollars
01:01:57
ready for him when he got there and that
01:01:59
was handed out he brought to that event
01:02:02
see every fighter gets an allocation to
01:02:04
the fight nights and how much you know
01:02:06
their tickets to give away he brought
01:02:08
850
01:02:10
000 worth of tickets to that fight I kid
01:02:13
you not and so and we had to give him a
01:02:16
quarter of a million bucks as he got off
01:02:17
the plane it was all deductible a person
01:02:19
stuff like that so many had this
01:02:21
progression of Filipinos coming in from
01:02:24
all around Australia which he's handing
01:02:26
out money and tickets to to go to the
01:02:27
fight and whatever he's and generous
01:02:29
like he'd be getting someone to shine
01:02:31
his shoes at the airport and give him a
01:02:33
hundred dollar U.S tip wow Manny is the
01:02:36
only boxer I've ever been out with who
01:02:38
offers to pay for stuff right so we went
01:02:40
out and had a dinner and maybe there was
01:02:42
a couple of grand and there's a whole
01:02:44
lot of people and it was he he's pulling
01:02:46
money out of his pocket to pay and go
01:02:47
Mania you don't have to do this you know
01:02:49
I was um
01:02:51
but many formed a friendship with a very
01:02:54
very unique character called Jim
01:02:56
bannigan Jim's a very good friend of
01:02:58
mine
01:02:59
and I don't know how to describe Jimmy's
01:03:01
an Australian agent player manager he's
01:03:03
been a very good friend of me a very
01:03:05
good friend but he is one unique
01:03:06
individual and Jim is the guy in life
01:03:09
that you can equally hate and love at
01:03:11
the same time because he will really
01:03:12
piss you off I mean piss you off with
01:03:15
things you've never seen before he was
01:03:17
at the time quite an obese overweight
01:03:19
white Australian male with great
01:03:22
religious beliefs and that's why
01:03:24
he's a Catholic and that's why him and
01:03:26
Manny because the Filipinos are very
01:03:28
very religious and very Catholic so him
01:03:30
and many Struck it off but we went on
01:03:32
this bit of a tour and um Manny made the
01:03:36
mistake of giving Jim a bit of lip now
01:03:38
Manny Pacquiao
01:03:40
couldn't give anyone lip in the world
01:03:42
that he wants because he's Manny
01:03:43
Pacquiao so we're in a small bus going
01:03:46
from place to place doing his
01:03:47
promotional gigs
01:03:49
and Jim Bennigan turned around and
01:03:52
looked at him and says Manny Pacquiao
01:03:54
you can go and get [ __ ] now I promise
01:03:58
you in 25 years of Manny Pacquiao being
01:04:01
who he is he's never been told to get
01:04:02
[ __ ] in his entire life man he took
01:04:05
one look at this fat overweight
01:04:06
red-faced Australian telling them to get
01:04:09
[ __ ] and what the things he's going to
01:04:10
do and he just cracked up laughing fell
01:04:12
on the floor of the bus and he's never
01:04:14
laughed so hard in his life so you have
01:04:16
you meet some interesting characters and
01:04:18
you and interesting things happen along
01:04:20
the way but equally that same guy Jim
01:04:23
oh this is typical Jim bannigan right so
01:04:26
I had Jim doing the media
01:04:28
uh on this Manny Pacquiao bloody tour
01:04:31
and I sent him into the Philippines
01:04:34
where many lived uh with a whole lot of
01:04:36
media worked him quite hard and Jimmy
01:04:39
was under stress and pressure so Jimmy
01:04:41
had a stroke about three weeks before
01:04:43
the fight so I'm very concerned about
01:04:46
Jim because people die from Strokes so I
01:04:48
go in to see him one day I've made a few
01:04:50
phone calls we're going to see him at
01:04:51
the hospital one day and he's got his
01:04:53
whole family's around him and he looks
01:04:55
up at me and says this is your [ __ ]
01:04:58
fault
01:05:08
that's just over the top yeah but you
01:05:11
know you have you have your so there's
01:05:14
some good yards you meet some
01:05:15
interesting people yeah so financially
01:05:17
how are you now if you don't don't quite
01:05:19
well out of um duko and Australia the
01:05:21
last few years look why are you living
01:05:23
with your mum and your sister
01:05:24
I'm sort of in between places right now
01:05:27
look we've done okay yeah it hasn't been
01:05:28
brilliant we've done okay I've got some
01:05:30
land that I'm looking to develop up in
01:05:32
taupaki at the moment but it's been you
01:05:34
know it hasn't because of the uh
01:05:37
the entrepreneurial ride that you take
01:05:39
man I've had ups and downs all over the
01:05:41
place what's your relationship with
01:05:43
money money like now are you sort of
01:05:46
neutral to it or I think so yeah like
01:05:49
Everyone likes would like to have a bit
01:05:50
more of it and um and I've been very
01:05:53
very lucky I've similar had some amazing
01:05:55
investors come along along the way and
01:05:57
wanted to be part of the journey
01:05:59
so uh I think the path going forward is
01:06:02
going to be a lot smoother as a result
01:06:04
you know we get a lot of advice off
01:06:06
different people
01:06:08
um you'd like to be more successful than
01:06:09
what you are but at the end of the day
01:06:11
you know
01:06:12
money is something that you should use
01:06:15
to just help you get through life and
01:06:17
obviously you want to get ahead right
01:06:19
but you know as you get older it becomes
01:06:21
less and less of a focus and and you
01:06:24
want to be spending time with more time
01:06:25
with family and friends but you also
01:06:27
want to have that success and then your
01:06:29
financial side to help you achieve that
01:06:32
more and more you know but it seems like
01:06:34
you you don't have an ego at all I think
01:06:38
um I think you've got to have an ego to
01:06:39
get things done yeah you know like there
01:06:42
you go I suppose like an ego like um
01:06:44
when you when you went through that
01:06:46
circus stuff and then you know you you
01:06:48
were stripped back to be a Basics like
01:06:50
not even in the biggest room in the
01:06:51
house yeah
01:06:52
um yeah I suppose you learned a lot
01:06:54
about yourself then well when you go
01:06:56
through shitty times like that your ego
01:06:58
takes a bit of a hammering yeah and
01:06:59
you're not quite as good as you thought
01:07:01
you were you know and uh but you look
01:07:04
back at those times and if I could look
01:07:06
I had really good times in there it's
01:07:09
just if you could do it without the
01:07:10
stress and the pressure you know
01:07:13
stress and pressure is one of the
01:07:15
[ __ ] of life and and
01:07:18
along the way I've worked out that I
01:07:21
suffer from anxiety up until probably
01:07:24
five six years ago I didn't realize that
01:07:26
I did but it's probably been a part of
01:07:28
your life for a very very long time what
01:07:30
do you mean what did that look like for
01:07:31
you
01:07:32
um like panic attacks or no no no no
01:07:35
um your guts tuning on a regular basis
01:07:37
worrying about how you're going to solve
01:07:39
problems overthinking things thinking
01:07:42
things over and over and over again
01:07:44
and it's only been the realization that
01:07:46
you do it you go oh wow okay this is
01:07:48
what sort of I used to do some work for
01:07:50
the phobic trust and they used to do
01:07:52
some stuff around anxiety and at the
01:07:53
time I didn't know what was really all
01:07:55
about but now I do and it's only with
01:07:58
realization that you you suffer from it
01:08:01
you go oh okay now we've got to work out
01:08:03
how do you deal with this and I think
01:08:05
that's been you know and one of my pet
01:08:07
things in life is I don't want to go
01:08:09
through anxiety and I think a lot of
01:08:11
people do and it's a shitty place to be
01:08:13
because that feeling in your guts that
01:08:15
you
01:08:16
you just work to get rid of it yeah
01:08:18
fortunately there are I can actually I
01:08:20
think I can identify why I get it when
01:08:23
you can identify why you get it then you
01:08:25
can help yourself get rid of it Well
01:08:26
everybody's different why is it for you
01:08:28
oh all sorts of different things yeah it
01:08:30
could be anything it could be um I don't
01:08:32
know let's just say we're going to
01:08:34
announce a fight night and we haven't
01:08:36
got a couple of guys signed up you start
01:08:38
thinking about it and go you know but
01:08:40
all the thinking in the world doesn't
01:08:42
necessarily solve the problem if you're
01:08:44
thinking the same [ __ ] over and over
01:08:45
again yeah I I I saw a therapist a
01:08:48
couple a couple of years ago and um she
01:08:50
asked me like about overthinking and
01:08:52
doing that stuff and she said when you
01:08:54
catch yourself doing it you just got to
01:08:56
pause and ask yourself is this helpful
01:08:58
yes and it never is but it's easier said
01:09:00
than done to then just throw it in the
01:09:02
back it's taking me years to work it out
01:09:04
and it's taken me years to understand
01:09:05
I'm not sure I'm brilliant at getting
01:09:08
rid of it but it's taken me years to
01:09:10
work out okay I when I get into work and
01:09:13
attack problems one by one by one the
01:09:15
anxiety disappear years and you get on
01:09:17
with it right but it's when you've got
01:09:18
that thinking time and and the worst
01:09:21
time and this is I think this goes for
01:09:22
everyone is when you wake up so two or
01:09:24
three in the morning as you get older
01:09:26
and you're going to start suffering this
01:09:27
for whatever reason older blokes get up
01:09:29
at two or three in the morning they have
01:09:31
a purse I don't know why it is but they
01:09:32
do and if you can't get back to sleep
01:09:34
that's when it's at its worst you know
01:09:36
I've talked to a lot of my mates about
01:09:37
it and they're all the same you know
01:09:39
it's funny because
01:09:40
you sell legit going to be the next
01:09:41
question I ask you like how do you sleep
01:09:43
at night yeah well most amazing I get I
01:09:46
go to bed early right it's early like
01:09:49
nine ten earlier 8 30 9. does your mum
01:09:53
make you no
01:09:55
I quite like it I'm on the bed before we
01:09:57
love that's truly tragic hey why are you
01:10:00
just exhausted at the end of the day or
01:10:01
is it just yeah an old routine it's I've
01:10:04
always been to bed early you know and I
01:10:07
always get up early and if you get up
01:10:09
early you want to go to bed early so but
01:10:11
yeah but I do watch a lot of Netflix and
01:10:14
I have seen the Big Bang Theory at least
01:10:16
five times maybe six every single
01:10:18
episode but when you um I suppose a lot
01:10:20
of a lot of your work at least from an
01:10:22
outsider's perspective is being on the
01:10:23
phone like if you get up early what are
01:10:25
you doing for those hours when you can't
01:10:26
ring people
01:10:27
um
01:10:28
the first thing I do is go and have
01:10:30
breakfast that's all and then you sort
01:10:32
of start your day at 8 39 if you can and
01:10:35
then you're away you know
01:10:37
yeah so I I like to try and finish like
01:10:39
you try and do nine to five but that's
01:10:41
not how long yeah I get told all the
01:10:43
time that I'm on the phone all the
01:10:45
weekend and you get you're all on the
01:10:47
phone all sorts of different times and
01:10:48
one of the things as you get older I
01:10:50
think you try and be more present
01:10:52
in what you're doing rather than being
01:10:54
on a phone call or being a hundred miles
01:10:56
away or thinking about something else
01:10:58
try and be present in the moment because
01:11:00
that moment ain't coming back you don't
01:11:02
know if your family or friends or
01:11:04
whatever you're doing be in that moment
01:11:06
because that's important yeah what's the
01:11:08
rest of your um life or career going to
01:11:10
look like you're never going to retire
01:11:11
are you what are you now 57 57. you'll
01:11:15
be one of these people that keeps
01:11:16
working when you man you have to I would
01:11:18
rather not really really what would you
01:11:21
do what would retirement look like
01:11:22
um retirement would look different to
01:11:24
what I do now right but you know I would
01:11:27
like to have my build my Airbnb up in
01:11:31
taupaki and have people from around the
01:11:34
world come and stay there and then six
01:11:37
months of the year go off and do what
01:11:38
you've got to do you know whether it be
01:11:40
Gold Coast whether it be going to the
01:11:42
states whether it began England hanging
01:11:45
out you know hanging out with friends
01:11:46
and family in particularly we've got
01:11:47
Liam over here you know we used to do a
01:11:49
lot of traveling I'd like to get back to
01:11:50
that
01:11:51
but at the moment we've got to you know
01:11:53
we've just finished up in Australia
01:11:54
we've got to rebuild our business back
01:11:56
here and mate there's another you know
01:11:58
fight to be had
01:12:00
literally and figuratively and we're
01:12:02
slowly getting there you know so um yeah
01:12:06
as um is your relationship with your son
01:12:08
one of the things you'd say you're most
01:12:10
proud of in your life oh yeah yeah it's
01:12:12
the number one priority I mean he's been
01:12:14
sitting here he's a grown ass man but
01:12:16
he's been sitting here watching this
01:12:17
whole interview and I think that says a
01:12:18
lot about a lot about you as a person
01:12:20
and a lot about the relationship that
01:12:21
you guys have together Liam
01:12:24
uh listens to more podcasts than any man
01:12:27
I know so it will be remiss of me not to
01:12:29
bring him down to see how they're made
01:12:31
he haven't seen hundreds of them yeah
01:12:33
but it's it's a podcast but it's still
01:12:34
listening to your old man talk [ __ ] for
01:12:36
an hour and a quarter well there's no
01:12:39
there's no there's nothing I've said
01:12:41
that he hasn't heard yeah right right
01:12:43
well that's cool well you've always had
01:12:45
a real close relationship with them as
01:12:46
as I said you used to come on my radio
01:12:48
show and give them a shout out that was
01:12:49
the first thing you did and the fact
01:12:50
that you're in business together now
01:12:51
it's still incredibly close I think
01:12:52
that's his lot not every not every
01:12:54
Father and Son relationship is like that
01:12:56
no they're not and I'm sure I drive a
01:12:58
mentor quite often and I'm sure there's
01:13:00
a number of times when he wants to
01:13:02
headbutt me and to be fair he would
01:13:04
probably be quite right in doing so like
01:13:06
Liam's managed to see things in our
01:13:08
business that I haven't seen and he's
01:13:10
given me advice at times that I haven't
01:13:11
taken
01:13:13
and I need to listen closer because he's
01:13:16
got some great ideas that he understands
01:13:18
a macro part of our business you know so
01:13:20
there's a lot of things we do now
01:13:21
because if there's suggestions yeah I'll
01:13:23
say yeah yeah I suppose young ideas
01:13:25
fresh ideas different perspectives not
01:13:26
big time and if he really really
01:13:28
understands this game because maybe
01:13:30
watches and loves the fights that we do
01:13:32
and he loves UFC and he understands
01:13:35
media so you know it's a pretty good
01:13:37
it's it's a pretty good ground yeah and
01:13:39
he's been rounded all his life Christ I
01:13:41
got photographs of Liam when he was five
01:13:43
or six when I'm fighting and he's in the
01:13:45
corner with a sinuses go Dad that's
01:13:47
pretty cool oh how cool yeah and what
01:13:49
about um what about you personally yeah
01:13:51
you hope to find the one do you believe
01:13:52
in soul mates
01:13:54
I'm not holding my breath I've managed
01:13:57
to get to 57 years and haven't quite you
01:14:00
know got there yet so yeah actually I
01:14:02
was talking to
01:14:03
um I I just had 50 the other week I've
01:14:05
got a mate has a similar age and he
01:14:06
broke up how long you've been single for
01:14:08
now no four or five years oh I've been
01:14:09
seeing I've been seeing a single lady
01:14:11
for the past year right
01:14:13
um but me and JJ we broke up about five
01:14:15
years ago is that your first marriage
01:14:17
yeah yeah yeah yeah I've got to make
01:14:19
that broke up with his wife a similar
01:14:20
time and he's he said the thing that
01:14:22
he's worried about is like getting like
01:14:23
set in his ways now because he quite
01:14:25
enjoys being single now yeah and just
01:14:27
being able to do as he pleases when he
01:14:29
pleases but I think you like you're a
01:14:31
great guy and you've got a lot to offer
01:14:32
someone I feel like you've learned a lot
01:14:33
about yourself as you've evolved you
01:14:36
might want to give me one Dom
01:14:40
give you one like metaphorically
01:14:42
speaking who knows
01:14:46
like do you like are you on any apps or
01:14:48
anything or no no no no no so you'd want
01:14:52
to meet someone organically like that
01:14:53
yeah
01:14:55
I don't think about it too often yeah
01:14:57
like if these things if they happen to
01:14:59
happen if they don't they don't you know
01:15:01
it is what it is yeah and you just get
01:15:03
on and at the moment I got
01:15:05
other priorities and the priorities I
01:15:07
gotta we just we're coming back into New
01:15:09
Zealand we've got to reestablish
01:15:10
ourselves back here we've got a whole
01:15:12
lot of good ideas and we just got to bid
01:15:13
them in and get them done and most
01:15:15
importantly we've got some Fighters
01:15:16
signed to us who are very very good at
01:15:18
what they do and we they deserve to have
01:15:20
a platform you know these guys are
01:15:22
seriously seriously talented so uh we've
01:15:25
just got to provide the platform for
01:15:26
them to do what they do best yeah well
01:15:28
it's great to have you back in New
01:15:29
Zealand and to be here man I got to tell
01:15:32
you like when you're overseas Australia
01:15:33
is a very very tough place to do
01:15:35
business is that if you're a kiwi or for
01:15:37
anyone for anyone like a lot of people
01:15:39
would say it's one of the hardest
01:15:40
markets between that and China is the
01:15:41
hardest markets in the world to crack
01:15:43
and uh it's it's nice being home with
01:15:46
family and friends and what have you can
01:15:48
go and see on a regular basis you know
01:15:50
you run into people in the street and
01:15:51
stuff which is because you haven't lived
01:15:53
there all your life it doesn't happen in
01:15:54
Australia yeah yeah and I mean back here
01:15:56
here you run into your mum and your
01:15:57
sister every time you go home and how
01:15:59
good is that
01:16:00
how good is that yeah that's gonna tell
01:16:03
you this man when I was 21 the last
01:16:05
thing I would have thought I'd be doing
01:16:06
is saying I love living with my mum and
01:16:08
my sister but I do and I love I tell you
01:16:11
what else I love doing I love going down
01:16:13
to waiheke on the weekends and living
01:16:15
and and starting with dad's place at
01:16:17
Rocky Bay you know so little things in
01:16:20
life man that's cool you're quite family
01:16:22
orientated as you get older you be you
01:16:25
know you realize how important it is
01:16:26
yeah but often as you get older you
01:16:28
realize how important it is but it's
01:16:30
like if you had if you didn't have the
01:16:31
relationship with your son all the way
01:16:33
through and you decide now it's
01:16:34
important no no I agree yeah I agree
01:16:36
yeah you need to do the work all the way
01:16:38
through yeah I'm talking about extended
01:16:39
family but even extended family when we
01:16:41
were young we used to all going to work
01:16:43
you on them for Christmas you know like
01:16:45
and you've been there for six weeks and
01:16:46
you had six or different eight branches
01:16:48
of the family there and you'd hang out
01:16:50
together on a regular basis and you
01:16:52
don't realize you just think it's normal
01:16:53
right you don't realize our special
01:16:55
letters until you actually you get older
01:16:57
and other people don't get to do that
01:16:59
sort of stuff you know Mom and Dad they
01:17:01
had they built their first house in
01:17:03
Massey they built a bloody they brought
01:17:06
a section and built a house or built a
01:17:07
batch down at waiheke and we've had this
01:17:09
lifelong affiliation with with waiheke
01:17:12
and Rocky Bay you know which goes right
01:17:13
back to my grandparents in the 30s built
01:17:16
a place of Rocky Bay and back then they
01:17:19
have to do like a one and a half hour
01:17:21
trip on a tram or a bus to get to the
01:17:23
downtown then the ferry was another sort
01:17:25
of two hours and they used to catch a
01:17:28
milk cart from bloody the rocky Bay
01:17:31
store up to their place you know so it
01:17:32
was five or six hours to get down there
01:17:34
and they had six kids in tow
01:17:36
so uh it's amazing how times change you
01:17:39
know and she said would have been your
01:17:40
dream being on the milk truck yeah
01:17:43
you believe this you know sections back
01:17:46
then when I was maybe 22 23 I had the
01:17:49
opportunity to buy sections for five
01:17:52
thousand dollars a section those same
01:17:54
sections are half a million bucks now
01:17:55
it's quite amazing with a passion of
01:17:57
time you know but you got no regrets
01:17:59
about
01:18:00
your financial decisions or anything
01:18:01
yeah financial decisions of course yeah
01:18:04
because if you could change three or
01:18:06
four fundamental decisions along the way
01:18:07
life would be a lot easier but at the
01:18:09
end of the day you can't change it so
01:18:11
you can't think too much about it the
01:18:12
best you think you can do I think is
01:18:14
learn from it learn learn from your
01:18:15
mistakes unfortunately wise people learn
01:18:18
from other people's mistakes
01:18:20
I have to learn from my own so uh you
01:18:24
know hopefully we've learned all the
01:18:26
mistakes from the mistakes we've made
01:18:28
and we can Implement and go well I feel
01:18:30
like you're living with your mum and
01:18:30
your sister by choice so it's not like a
01:18:32
financial decision
01:18:34
to be bluntly honest if I wanted to live
01:18:36
elsewhere I probably could but for
01:18:38
Christ's sake don't tell them that they
01:18:41
can't see this podcast hey mate it's
01:18:44
been wonderful sitting down with you
01:18:45
today I really appreciate you being so
01:18:46
generous with your time and your stories
01:18:48
it's all right brother and it's
01:18:49
wonderful to be here and it's great to
01:18:51
see you're out having a crack by
01:18:52
yourself and fingers crossed you get you
01:18:55
know you get up to a couple hundred
01:18:56
thousand listens a show and you can sell
01:18:58
it off for millions of dollars just like
01:18:59
Joe Rogan did that's that's [ __ ]
01:19:02
terrifying doing something on your own I
01:19:03
mean this is new to me but you've been
01:19:05
doing it for decades now but see what's
01:19:06
really interesting for you is this is
01:19:08
not new to you you've been doing this
01:19:10
exact thing for 30 years this is just an
01:19:12
extension of what you've done the only
01:19:14
thing you're doing differently is you
01:19:17
don't have the guaranteed income and
01:19:19
you've got to get out and sell it
01:19:20
yourself and all those sales reps and
01:19:22
Those Years Gone by that you used to
01:19:24
curse and swear for having you to read
01:19:25
[ __ ] and endure stuff you didn't want to
01:19:26
endorse you're going they actually might
01:19:28
have been good blokes because they
01:19:30
helped pay my wages yeah they used to
01:19:32
say things like oh I pay you a wages and
01:19:34
I'll be like [ __ ] off without the
01:19:35
ratings I deliver you've got nothing to
01:19:36
sell exactly but I do understand it now
01:19:39
yeah well and the thing yeah eating a
01:19:41
bag of [ __ ] yeah and look you know Dom
01:19:44
I'm sure you're going to end up doing
01:19:46
this you'll be the biggest podcast in
01:19:48
the country very very quickly you've
01:19:50
only done what 56 57 apps yeah just a
01:19:52
year on a year that's incredible man
01:19:54
what are you doing one a week yeah one
01:19:55
per week I think I think Joe Rogan does
01:19:58
three a week three a week I'd love to
01:20:00
build up to that level yeah
01:20:02
yeah something is you know the the the
01:20:04
the the
01:20:06
um things been set he's done something
01:20:07
like
01:20:08
1935 apps or something because I've
01:20:10
become quite a follower of him and he's
01:20:12
really impressive it's incredible and
01:20:13
you look back to the early stuff like he
01:20:15
was doing this 10 years ago so he's like
01:20:16
an overnight sensation there it's been
01:20:18
years and years grafting away and he
01:20:20
probably did it just because he loved
01:20:22
doing it 100 yeah there were no
01:20:23
Financial reward in the first however
01:20:25
many years which is I guess why you're
01:20:27
doing this is yeah of course you want
01:20:28
Financial recompense but you actually
01:20:30
like doing what you do yeah and you're
01:20:31
good at it look at some of the
01:20:32
interviews you've done like Mike King I
01:20:34
thought was outstanding oh thanks very
01:20:35
much yeah there's been some been some
01:20:37
really really good ones and uh it's
01:20:38
getting easier and easier to get good
01:20:40
people on the the issue that I have to
01:20:42
get over is um I've always Associated
01:20:44
success with money right and I need to
01:20:47
somehow split those two apart and
01:20:49
realize that they're not always hand in
01:20:51
hand so I've had more feedback about
01:20:54
this podcast I'm doing than what I had
01:20:55
in the last few years of radio so it's
01:20:57
like I know I'm on to a good thing
01:20:58
that's because when um when you're doing
01:21:00
short form radio like you have what a 3
01:21:02
three minute talk right yeah there's not
01:21:04
much you can do you know it's like short
01:21:06
hits try and be funny get in and get out
01:21:08
and you don't really get to talk in
01:21:11
depth like we're doing now oh 100 like
01:21:13
if we're doing for a chat it would be
01:21:14
get Dean and talk about how he drinks
01:21:16
milk get your Scala point and then send
01:21:18
you on your way yeah pretty much you
01:21:21
know we wouldn't get to we wouldn't get
01:21:22
to dig through the surface and find out
01:21:23
that you're living with your [ __ ] mum
01:21:25
what's really fascinating right is that
01:21:27
what's really fascinating with social
01:21:29
media it's all about short clips 15 30
01:21:31
seconds you want to get cut through get
01:21:34
in and get out but Joe Rogan has shown
01:21:37
that long-form media has got a real
01:21:40
place and that's what you you know
01:21:41
you're starting to get into which is
01:21:43
totally opposite to what you've done all
01:21:44
your life yeah
01:21:45
which is pretty interesting that's
01:21:48
enjoyable too it's enjoyable and I can't
01:21:50
thank you enough for coming and being so
01:21:51
generous with your time today great to
01:21:52
have you back in New Zealand and uh
01:21:54
those boxes that you mentioned at the
01:21:55
beginning I look forward to um hearing
01:21:57
more about them Andre michaelovich
01:21:59
Jerome pampalone and of course Jaya
01:22:02
bataya who's the current IVF
01:22:04
cruiserweight champion of the world
01:22:05
they're all very very special in their
01:22:06
own way and they can really fight and
01:22:08
look ahead look out for them on the way
01:22:10
through because they're about to do some
01:22:12
cool stuff
01:22:13
sounds like a made-up name it's too good
01:22:15
to be true
01:22:17
he actually hit the open tires I think
01:22:20
come from West Auckland originally oh so
01:22:22
he's been over there for a couple of
01:22:23
generations but yeah he's a
01:22:25
he's something very very special all
01:22:28
right and so are you Dean lonigan thanks
01:22:30
for your time good man

Podspun Insights

In this episode, Dean Lonigan and Dom Harvey dive into the fascinating world of boxing, sports promotion, and personal resilience. With a light-hearted banter, they explore Dean's journey from a semi-professional rugby player to a boxing promoter, revealing the ups and downs of his career. Dean shares gripping stories of fighters like Jaya Pattaya, who fought through unimaginable pain, and the challenges of promoting New Zealand talent in a competitive market. The conversation flows seamlessly as they touch on Dean's personal life, including his relationship with his son Liam, and the lessons learned from past mistakes. This episode is not just about boxing; it's a heartfelt exploration of perseverance, family bonds, and the importance of staying true to oneself amidst life's chaos.

Badges

This episode stands out for the following:

  • 92
    Most heartwarming
  • 90
    Most emotional
  • 90
    Best overall
  • 89
    Most satisfying

Episode Highlights

  • The Rise of New Zealand Boxing
    Dean and Liam are committed to promoting New Zealand's boxing talent to the world stage.
    “We’ve got some really great New Zealand talent.”
    @ 03m 57s
    February 26, 2023
  • A Remarkable Comeback
    Dean Lonigan recounts his return to the field after a serious concussion, emphasizing determination.
    “I said to Bob, 'Mate, I’m ready to go back on.'”
    @ 11m 03s
    February 26, 2023
  • Reflecting on Relationships
    Discussing past relationships and personal growth, he admits, "As you get older, you reflect on a whole lot of things."
    “As you get older, you reflect on a whole lot of things.”
    @ 23m 11s
    February 26, 2023
  • Living Situation
    He shares his unique living arrangement with family, stating, "I absolutely love it."
    “I absolutely love it.”
    @ 23m 37s
    February 26, 2023
  • Starting Fight for Life
    The inception of Fight for Life stemmed from a friend's misfortune, leading to a successful charity event.
    “It was like walking on air, one of the greatest things I've ever done.”
    @ 31m 39s
    February 26, 2023
  • Authentic Trash Talk
    The trash talk wasn't Conor McGregor style, but it was authentic and high quality.
    “It was high quality trash talk.”
    @ 50m 52s
    February 26, 2023
  • Manny's Generosity
    Manny Pacquiao surprised everyone with his generosity during promotional events.
    “Manny Pacquiao is the only boxer I’ve ever been out with who offers to pay.”
    @ 01h 02m 36s
    February 26, 2023
  • Anxiety Awareness
    Realizing the impact of anxiety on life and the importance of addressing it.
    “I don’t want to go through anxiety; it’s a shitty place to be.”
    @ 01h 08m 11s
    February 26, 2023
  • The Struggle of Overthinking
    Waking up at odd hours can amplify anxiety and overthinking, a common struggle for many.
    “When you wake up at two or three in the morning, that's when it's at its worst.”
    @ 01h 09m 21s
    February 26, 2023
  • The Importance of Being Present
    Cherishing moments with family and friends is crucial as time is fleeting.
    “That moment ain't coming back, you don't know if your family or friends will be there.”
    @ 01h 10m 58s
    February 26, 2023
  • Reflections on Retirement
    Discussing what retirement might look like and aspirations for the future.
    “I would rather not really, really what would retirement look like?”
    @ 01h 11m 18s
    February 26, 2023
  • Encouragement for New Ventures
    Pursuing personal projects like podcasting can be rewarding and fulfilling.
    “It’s great to see you’re out having a crack by yourself.”
    @ 01h 18m 45s
    February 26, 2023

Episode Quotes

Key Moments

  • Running Reflections01:08
  • Auckland Memories16:47
  • Family Reflections18:20
  • High Quality Trash Talk50:52
  • Authenticity in Boxing51:27
  • Manny's Generosity1:02:36
  • Retirement Reflections1:11:21
  • New Ventures1:18:45

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