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the world of the moments in this weird
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space where everything kind of toxic
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masculinity right toughing it out is bad
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but actually sometimes toughing it out
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and just hardening is the most important
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thing to do and it's like if I really
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care about the people around me I can
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try to make their lives easier and when
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I do that when I do this act of
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generosity towards other people it makes
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me feel better whenever I behave like an
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or I do something that's selfish
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or I do something it's own kind even in
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the moment when you feel justified in
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doing it it's never made me feel good
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the stuff that makes me feel good is
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when you're being generous and helping
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the people around you and so really
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early on I just decided that I'm just
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going to do everything I can to make it
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easier for the people around me rather
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than harder it just works it does make
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life easier