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How did you and your husband navigate
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that? Did you sit down together and come
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up with a strategy or We do tend to talk
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everything through as a family. We're
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quite open in the the way we
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communicate. And they didn't come home
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that day at the same time. So I was so
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that we did tell them essentially
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individually. Hindsight, they responded
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exactly as I know their personalities,
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exactly as I would have expected them to
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respond. So being the fixer, and he he
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was like, "Okay, well, what does it mean
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if I'm going to have surgery?" And you
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know, it's probably going to affect my
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speech or it might affect my ability to
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eat. And he disappeared off and came
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back about half an hour later and was
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like, "It's okay, Mom, cuz we're just
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going to we're going to blend your food.
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I've been I've been looking on TikTok."
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>> [laughter]
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>> You just going to talk a little bit like
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And we're going to blend your [snorts]
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food and it's all going to be okay. And
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the other one
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my youngest is like the immediate
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emotional response, which was exactly
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how I thought, you know, that I don't
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want you to die. And a big hug. But
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we're all very individual in our, you
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know, in our responses.
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>> Mhm.
