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How did you and your husband navigate that? Did you sit down together and come up with a strategy or We do tend to talk
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everything through as a family. We're quite open in the the way we communicate. And they didn't come home
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that day at the same time. So I was so that we did tell them essentially individually. Hindsight, they responded
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exactly as I know their personalities, exactly as I would have expected them to respond. So being the fixer, and he he
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was like, "Okay, well, what does it mean if I'm going to have surgery?" And you
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know, it's probably going to affect my speech or it might affect my ability to
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eat. And he disappeared off and came back about half an hour later and was like, "It's okay, Mom, cuz we're just
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going to we're going to blend your food. I've been I've been looking on TikTok."
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>> [laughter] >> You just going to talk a little bit like And we're going to blend your [snorts]
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food and it's all going to be okay. And the other one my youngest is like the immediate
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emotional response, which was exactly how I thought, you know, that I don't want you to die. And a big hug. But
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we're all very individual in our, you know, in our responses. >> Mhm.
