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for anything that you're trying to quit
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isn't about leaving something it's about
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going towards something so I wasn't
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quitting alcohol I was choosing better
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sleep loving myself more confidence I
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had to be going towards something that's
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why I think I failed so many times I had
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no meaning to move towards I had no goal
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I had no reason as such and that is
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strange to say my wife my kids my family
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my job it wasn't strong enough reason
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and that's why I see so many people that
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try and change their life they're trying
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to do it for someone else they're trying
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to do it to impress someone many of the
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changes we make in our lives it is down
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to guilt or obligation we're doing it
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because we feel guilty or because we
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feel obliged to please someone else it
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isn't until you say no I'm going to do
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this for me for my goals for my life
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even though a lot of people are going to
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call me selfish that's when you start to
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actually get on the right path and start
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to make things happen
