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Health = Money = Time | Phil Pearlman - E79

April 24, 2024 / 50:17

This episode of the Best Interest Podcast covers the relationship between health, wealth, and time, featuring guest Phil Pearlman, a former finance professional turned health advocate. Key discussions include the intrinsic connection between money and time, the importance of health in financial planning, and how personal choices impact both health and wealth.

Host Jesse Kramer introduces the episode by emphasizing the parallels between financial independence and health, explaining how decisions regarding money and time are intertwined. He highlights the concept of opportunity cost and how financial constraints can affect lifestyle choices.

Phil Pearlman shares his background in finance and psychology, discussing how his journey led him to focus on health. He stresses that good health is essential for enjoying financial success and achieving long-term goals.

The conversation touches on the importance of mindful decision-making in both health and finance, encouraging listeners to visualize their future selves and the impact of their current choices. Pearlman emphasizes the need for a holistic approach to personal well-being.

Listeners are encouraged to consider how their health decisions can affect their financial futures, reinforcing the idea that investing in health is as crucial as investing in finances.

TL;DR

Phil Pearlman discusses the vital links between health, wealth, and time in personal finance.

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welcome to the best interest podcast
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simple terms now here's your host Jesse
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Kramer hello and welcome to episode 79
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of the best interest podcast my name is
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Jesse Kramer I'm excited and honored
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that Phil Pearlman will be joining me
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later today Phil despite spending most
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of his career working in finance related
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fields now dedicates his life to health
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related topics personal health but this
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isn't a personal health podcast it's a
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personal finance podcast but I think
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we'll convince you today to start
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thinking about health as one of the
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ultimate personal finance topics but
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now before we get to fill today I want
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to talk about some interesting
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connections between money and time and
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health you know we know money and time
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share an intrinsic connection that
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really permeates every aspect of Our
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Lives from the most mundane daily
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decisions to the grandest of Ambitions
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and at its core that relationship is
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rooted in a few fundamental concepts one
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of which is opportunity cost which is
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the notion that the value of one choice
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can be measured by what we forego by not
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making a different choice now time as
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the proverbial currency of life it's
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finite it's replaceable and each passing
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moment represents an opportunity to
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allocate our time towards various
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activities whether it's pursuing our
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passions or building a relationship
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perhaps engaging in work and the
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decisions that we make regarding how we
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spend our time are intimately tied to
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our personal values our goals our
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priorities now money on the other hand
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it's a tangible representation of of
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value that enables us to access goods or
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services or to experience some sort of
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fun experiences money serves as a medium
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of exchange allowing us to trade our
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time and our skills for compensation uh
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which we'll come back to that idea money
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acts in some way as a tradeoff for time
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we can convert time into money and we
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can convert money into time and money
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also allows us to acquire the resources
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necessary to fulfill our needs and our
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desires in life however unlike time
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money is renewable it can be earned and
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saved invested and spent now the
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connection between money and time
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becomes particularly evident when we
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consider the concept of earning power in
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a modern economy like ours the value of
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an individual's time is often Quantified
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by their earning potential the wages or
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salaries we receive from our labor those
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reflect not only the skills and the
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expertise we bring to the table but also
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the time we invest in our work now that
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idea right there that's a pillar of the
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financial Independence Movement right
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the value of our time can be Quantified
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in some way by our earning potential our
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future earning potential or spending
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needs in retirement now conversely the
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decisions we make about how to allocate
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our money can have significant
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implications on how we use our time
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wealth provides the opportunity to
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delegate tasks to Outsource
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responsibilities streamline processes
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and that frees up time for other
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Pursuits so there's an instance where we
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take money and we convert it back into
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time right when we're working we take
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time we convert it into money and once
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we have enough wealth we can take our
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money and convert it back into time very
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interesting it goes in both directions
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now Financial constraints on the other
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hand May compel us to devote more time
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to activities like household chores or
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DIY projects or long commutes that could
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otherwise be outsourced or streamlined
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with sufficient resources now the
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relationship between money and time it
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extends beyond the realm of individual
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decision-making to to influence actually
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broader societal structures and Dynamics
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economic disparities for example can
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exacerbate inequalities in access to
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time-saving resources and opportunities
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people with greater financial means they
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may enjoy access to conveniences like
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domestic help or child care services or
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private transportation allowing them to
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reclaim their own precious time for
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their own Leisure or personal
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development or meaningful Pursuits in
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ways that other people in society can't
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really do and it's all a trade-off of
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time and money now ultimately the
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connection between money and time it
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really underscores the importance of
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mindful decision- making in both Realms
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by recognizing the value of our time and
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our resources we can strive to align our
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actions with our priorities to maximize
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our own well-being and ideally to
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cultivate a more fulfilling life whether
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through budgeting or investing in
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experiences or pursuing Financial
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Independence understanding the intrinsic
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relationship between money and time it
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empowers us to make informed decisions
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informed choices that honor both our
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present and our future selves well
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better health decisions can also
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profoundly impact the quality and the
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quantity of our time in the rest of of
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Our Lives when we prioritize our health
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and our well-being we invest in our
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future we enhance our resilience and our
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longevity things like increased lifespan
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right healthy lifestyle choices whether
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it's maintaining a balanced diet or
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exercise or getting enough sleep or
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managing stress those are all associated
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with longer life expectancy and they
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help reduce the risk of chronic diseases
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like heart disease diabetes certain
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types of cancer increasing our
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likelihood of enjoying more years of
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life focusing on Health gets us more
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time and we just talked about how time
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and money really are interchangeable so
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in some sort of weird mathematical way
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maybe with equal signs I'm not exactly
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sure what the equation would look like
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but essentially money equals time but
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Health also equals time so there's some
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sort of uh what is that the transitive
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property the commutative property if a
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equals b and b equals c therefore a
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equals c i I forget what my elementary
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math is but if time equals money
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and health equals money well in then
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some way right there there's a
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connection between all three of those or
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by focusing on health you can increase
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your health span as Peter AA would call
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it health span you can think of that as
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enhanced quality of life good health
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isn't just about living longer it's also
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about living better by adopting habits
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that support our physical or our mental
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or emotional health we just have a a
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simply higher quality of life it means
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experiencing fewer limitations due to
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illness or disability
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and being able to engage fully in the
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activities and relationships that bring
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us joy and fulfillment there's another
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time connection here which could just be
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improved productivity Optimal Health is
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is closely linked with cognitive
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function and productivity when we
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prioritize activities that give us
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better mental Clarity we'll call it
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whether that's exercise or adequate
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sleep or Stress Management we can
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improve and enhance our focus and
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creativity and efficiency it translates
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into accomplishing more in less time
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essentially buying us more time whether
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that's in a professional or a personal
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setting and I also think about enhanced
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relationships good health Fosters
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stronger connections with others by
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enabling us to to show up fully into our
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relationships and when we feel
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physically and emotionally well we're
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more capable of offering support and
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empathy and companionship to our loved
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ones we can invest our own time in
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nurturing those relationships and that
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provides a sense of fulfillment and
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belonging that enriches our lives in a
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way that's really hard to measure and
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that hearkens back to uh the famous
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Harvard Grant study the longitudinal
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study that followed many Boston citizens
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throughout their entire life actually
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and the way that the study summary was
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written it starts out quite simply it
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says happiness in life can be boiled
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down to one thing love not like a
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romance story love we're not talking
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about like the movie Love Actually
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really what we're talking about there is
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relationships that all happiness all
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happy people share share something in
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common and that is relationships so good
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health fostering stronger connections
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fostering those enhanced relationships
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leads to a better happier longer Life by
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making Better Health decisions it's not
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just about adding years to our lives
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it's about adding life to our years
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prioritizing our health and our
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well-being can create conditions for a
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more vibrant fulfilling existence where
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time is not just a measure of quantity
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but also a precious resource to be
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savored and enjoyed to the fullest so as
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we segue right now into the conversation
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with Phil Pearlman I want to keep that
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idea in mind that in some sort of
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nuanced way or some sort of soft way if
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you prefer to be kind of more of the
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creative side of the brain or maybe in
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an actual hard nuts and bolts mathy way
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if you're more on the on the math side
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of the brain health and wealth and time
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are all interchangeable in some way
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shape or form so as Phil and I dive into
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what ends up being mostly a health
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related conversation today sure it's
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about health it's about diet it's about
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exercise it's about stress it's about
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addiction it's about all those kind of
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topics but at its core it's also about
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time and therefore it's also in some way
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about money it's about personal finances
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in that way so I hope you'll keep that
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in mind as we start talking with Phil
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met Phil Pearlman back in December when
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I I had a few conversations with him
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back and forth because Phil is highly
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respected in the finance space I know a
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lot of other for example Financial
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content creators who have significantly
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you know bigger audiences than the best
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interest they're doing some great work
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and they would talk about Phil and I was
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like oh I wonder who this guy Phil is I
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knew he had a background in finance I
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knew that he was involved in Psychology
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in some way which is very interesting
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behavioral Finance why people make the
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decisions that they make and he had a
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career on Wall Street but everything
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that I saw with people talking about
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Phil had to do with health and so I
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started following Phil I was interested
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in what he was doing I was interested in
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his writing I really like Phil's writing
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some of which we share in the show notes
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below and ultimately I reached out to
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Phil in December because Phil for the
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first time in his kind of new career
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which is health related was offering a
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10-week educational course and I'm the
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kind of person where I've been an
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athlete all my life but I've always
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struggled I'd say on the dietary side my
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whole life where I've never really
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thought too much about what to eat or
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why I should be eating it and thus
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especially with some of my recent career
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change and just the frequent access to
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going out for breakfast going out for
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lunch going out for a drink that kind of
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thing I've put on some pounds in the
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recent couple years and I don't want to
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do it for for my own self you know
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selfish
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I'd rather feel better and and look
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better and then just be healthier but
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also for the sake of my family you know
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I've got a kid coming in June and I want
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to be healthy for my child and it's just
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health is equated to time is equated to
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money it makes sense to get healthy so I
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reached out to Phil and for 10 weeks
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Phil provided some education and we had
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one-on-one calls and I learned a lot
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from Phil and I really enjoy his
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approach which is in some ways simple in
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many ways motivational and I think that
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comes across today and I wanted to get
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Phil on the podcast to share his message
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with you all so without further Ado here
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is Phil
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Pearlman Phil thanks for joining us
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today very excited to talk to you about
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health and how it pertains to wealth and
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maybe I don't want to spend too much
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time diving into the nitty-gritty of
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your background but the audience might
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appreciate understanding you do have a
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little bit of a finance background from
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an interesting Psychiatry route that
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eventually got to where you are now and
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without spending 10 minutes on it but do
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you mind spending 60 seconds real quick
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on on how you got here Jesse Kramer
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great to see you great to be here thank
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you for having me yeah so I've been
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involved in finance for a long time I I
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have I ran a hedge fund way back in the
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day I went into to finance social media
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I'm an investor in a bunch of those
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companies and was a early investor in
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stock twits and involved with Finance
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media for a long time I was in banking I
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was a uh marketing director at a large
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Bank large Regional and I have been
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involved with behavioral economics for a
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long time so I cut my teeth there it was
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a behav behavioral hedge fund but I I'm
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a psychologist by education so I studied
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behavioral economics from the other way
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I studied the psychology first the
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psychology of decision making I mean I
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knew who kman and tersi were years
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before they won the you know years
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before Conan won the Nobel Prize and he
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got famous from decision-making social
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psych he was a social psychologist he
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was a decision theorist and there's a
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whole vein of social psychology that is
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choice and decisionmaking which he
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helped to invent obviously I went
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through my own rebirth and was always
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interested in my health and wellbeing
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but I didn't take such good care of
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myself over the last three years
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transition just got out of Finance
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completely I still have some Investments
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there still involved within doing so I'm
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an advisor here for a couple of
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companies but I really day-to-day am not
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active in finance at all anymore and I
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started a company called Pearl Institute
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which is focused on helping people get
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healthy and the funny thing is half of
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my clientele is in the advisor space so
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there's a natural relationship there my
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network is advisers I know a lot of them
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I work with a lot of them and so I have
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a lot of clients and I understand what
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they're going through and I understand
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their perceptions of time perspective
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and that's actually a really important
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one in the work that I do and with with
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advisers in General on the topic of
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decisionmaking Phil I mean there there's
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so much overlap between personal finance
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Finance investing and these Health
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topics right and I I think at its core
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Health longevity Health span these truly
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are personal finance topics because
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retiring at 50 isn't great if you're
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dead at 60 so let's dive into some of
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these parallels between Good Financial
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decision-making good health
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decisionmaking maybe even we can bring
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back some of Conan tersi rip Danny Conan
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died last week but what are some things
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that come to mind when you're working
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with people on moving them towards
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health goals that you think have direct
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parallels to what listeners will
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understand from the the personal finance
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goal setting point of view well that's
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my whole thing is that health and wealth
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how we take care of ourselves how we
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take care of our bodies and minds and
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spirits and how we take care of our
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pocketbook are really the same thing
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they're not even parallel they're even
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more than they are parallel we're going
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to look at the parallels but they're
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really at the core they're more than
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parallel they're part of the same thing
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this is a holistic Enterprise the
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integration of health and wealth
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personal health and wealth planning
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because they're really the same thing
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and when I say that what I mean is is
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our future selves our future well-being
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and our present well-being both are both
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equally dependent upon the two in a
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complimentary manner so if we're looking
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at our what our life is going to be like
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25 years from now and we think to
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ourselves well am I going to be in good
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health am I going to be fit am I going
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to be able to do things that I enjoy
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that might be a mind and body thing but
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then if we say well am I going to have
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the financial resources to do those
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things then it becomes a financial so
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those two things go together like peanut
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butter and chocolate or you know
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whatever bread and butter pun intended
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right don't have don't eat bread it's
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not good it's not healthy so that's
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really how I see it and we can look at
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the parallels so there's so many
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parallels one would be planning time
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wisdom and planning our today and our
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future and then having a balance between
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the two because we want to have fun you
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know we want to spend money today but we
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want to save money for the future and
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there is a balance there and we want to
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have fun today we want to you know maybe
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have birthday cake when our kit turns
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three but we also want to be healthy
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when we are 65 70 years old and we want
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to be able to enjoy that money that
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we've saved so there's the balance
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between the two that's really a critical
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one and then this one maybe even more
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fundamental is the fact and you alluded
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to this when you alluded to you know
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maybe we even talk a little bit about
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behavioral economics and that is is that
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we have this tendency to we have this
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gravity we have this inertia or pool to
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make poor decisions in both areas that
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we have this tendency to be averse to
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some outcomes right so canaman called it
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loss aversion and so we will do things
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to try to avoid loss aversion and bring
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about losses or act irrationally we do
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the exact same thing in health and
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there's a lot of reasons for it's
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complicated but there's some
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evolutionary reasons that are really
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really interesting thing but there's a
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that's a fundamental parallel in the way
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we behave we're so close and money and
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our health are both so important to us
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and when I say money I mean money as a
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representation of access to resources
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both are so important our ability to
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access resources our ability to go out
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and buy food and to have clothing and to
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live under a roof that has working
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plumbing and heat for the winter and our
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ability to be able to move our bodies
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and feel good and those things are
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fundamental to our lives both of them so
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it's no wonder that we focus on them and
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hold on to them and have such an
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emotional attachment to both we have a
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tendency to distort and get anxious
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about and then misbehave in both domains
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I love that you said that Phil and I I
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have a question for you now which is
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we're recording this on April 12 2024
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yeah and here we both are well let's
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talk about Phil Pearlman on April 12
00:20:31
2025 one year from now and let's talk
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about the probability that that Phil is
00:20:37
here and the conclusions that you draw
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from that that realistic fact that Phil
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Pearlman is probably going to be here
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one day from now do do you know what I'm
00:20:45
alluding to yeah I totally do and I love
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this you're turning the hunter gets
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captured by the game you're turning this
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around this is a question that I often
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ask and this is something that I've
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written about and this is imagining
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ourselves in the future what we'll be
00:21:01
doing and what we aspire to so it's not
00:21:05
just what do I look like in a year and
00:21:08
what am I going to be doing in a year
00:21:10
but it's what do I aspire to be doing in
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a year what would I love to be doing in
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a year and where would I love to be
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here's what I'll tell you I I think I
00:21:19
have this worked out pretty good first
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of all I love what I'm doing right now
00:21:24
so I help people get healthier we have
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an epidemic in this country we have an
00:21:30
obesity and we have a metabolic Health
00:21:33
epidemic in this country right now and
00:21:36
there are many people out there who have
00:21:38
the means to be healthy and they are not
00:21:42
able to do it and so I help people get
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healthy not just for a diet not just for
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three months or six months or hey you
00:21:51
know my daughter or my son is getting
00:21:53
married six months from now I'd like to
00:21:55
be able to fit into the tuxedo or what
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ever but for Life as a as an identity as
00:22:01
a lifestyle and then I also help people
00:22:05
make decisions and make trans
00:22:07
transitions in their lives and I've been
00:22:09
getting more into more and more into
00:22:11
that as people come to me as I get
00:22:13
referrals and that's more of a life
00:22:15
planning type of a thing executive
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planning Executive coaching type of a
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thing I love doing that I spent a ton of
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years in finance and before that I got
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my degree in clinical Psy psychology and
00:22:29
there was that part of me that was a
00:22:30
Helper but I didn't have the capacity to
00:22:33
be a helper because I wasn't taking good
00:22:35
care of myself and you have to get your
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own house in order before you can help
00:22:38
other people it's it's a critical thing
00:22:40
right you have to have your own house in
00:22:41
order you know doctor heal thyself and
00:22:44
all that and so I got to this point
00:22:46
where now I'm able to help people and it
00:22:49
is just fantastic I feel inspirational I
00:22:53
learn from them I'm inspired I see
00:22:56
people that have changed their whole
00:22:59
lives based in part on the work we do
00:23:01
together and that part of me has been
00:23:03
reactivated that is an authentic Part of
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Me In addition to that I get to focus as
00:23:10
a part of my life on my own Fitness and
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my own athletic Pursuits and that is a
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part of me that I've rediscovered that
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was a huge part of who I was when I was
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young it's a part of my authentic self
00:23:25
who I really really am and I get to do
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that so
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as far as what I'm doing on a day-to-day
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basis I can't think of a much of a
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change like I'm doing what I love to do
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right now do I want to run a 630 mile
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yes that's part of it I'll be honest
00:23:40
like I want to do that do I want to get
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to a place where I can do 20 pull-ups
00:23:45
yes but you know if I fail at those
00:23:47
crazy Pursuits for a 57 year old I can
00:23:50
live with that but what I really love to
00:23:53
be doing so that's part of it and then
00:23:55
the other part is helping people who are
00:23:57
struggling helping helping people who
00:23:59
want more out of life helping people who
00:24:01
wake up one day and say Hey you know
00:24:03
there's this part of me I'm doing great
00:24:05
over here maybe I have 10 million or 20
00:24:07
million bucks in the bank but over on
00:24:09
this side I am suffering or I'm
00:24:12
struggling or I'm not going to be here
00:24:14
to enjoy it in 10 or 15 or 25 years if I
00:24:17
don't start taking care of myself I I
00:24:19
love the thought process that you walked
00:24:21
me through Phil where we said you know
00:24:24
what and this applies to personal
00:24:25
finance it also applies applies to
00:24:27
Health in the perfect away which is one
00:24:30
year from now there's a a 99%
00:24:32
probability probably even greater that
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I'm going to be sitting here a year from
00:24:36
now and that version of Jesse except for
00:24:39
that tenth of a percent probability that
00:24:41
something bad happens is just as real as
00:24:44
the Jesse who's sitting here today and
00:24:46
the Phil one year from now is just as
00:24:48
real as the Phil that's sitting here
00:24:49
today and for all you listeners the
00:24:51
version of you one year from now is just
00:24:54
as real as the version of you today sure
00:24:56
except for some tiny percent that
00:24:58
something terrible happens but when you
00:25:00
sit down if I were to sit down this
00:25:01
morning and say you know what you only
00:25:03
live once you never know when that bus
00:25:05
is going to come and and hit me off the
00:25:07
sidewalk I'm gonna go eat a dozen Crispy
00:25:09
Cream Donuts well that's a poor decision
00:25:12
for many reasons one of which is it it
00:25:14
ignores the fact that future me is very
00:25:17
very real and future me does not benefit
00:25:20
from that decision and similarly when
00:25:22
someone thinks about well you never know
00:25:25
I might get hit by that bus so even
00:25:26
though I'm in terrible Financial shape
00:25:29
I'm gonna go take an all-inclusive trip
00:25:30
to Bermuda you can't just YOLO it and
00:25:33
you you really are hurting your
00:25:35
long-term prospects can you talk us
00:25:36
through some of that perspective Phil
00:25:38
about that realization of that future
00:25:41
you is real and we have to admit that to
00:25:44
ourselves well you did a pretty good job
00:25:46
of explaining it I appreciate that the
00:25:48
Multiverse is real right so my kids
00:25:51
watch all those movies the spiderverse
00:25:54
there were two of those spiderverse
00:25:55
movies and in the movies there's like 50
00:25:58
different Spider-Mans in the second one
00:26:01
they all meet at this place where
00:26:02
there's like hundreds of them running
00:26:04
around and there's parallel universes
00:26:06
that's this fantasy and a lot of times
00:26:09
the great science fiction writers are
00:26:12
commenting on the world we live in and
00:26:15
the funny thing is is that the
00:26:17
Multiverse is real there are multiple
00:26:21
selves that exist there's you talking to
00:26:25
me right now in the present and there's
00:26:27
me talking to you that's one self that's
00:26:29
one Jesse and it's one Phil and then
00:26:33
there is with a small discount for
00:26:37
getting hit by a bus or getting a brain
00:26:39
tumor tomorrow chances are a year from
00:26:42
today Phil pran's going to wake up gonna
00:26:46
get out of bed gonna go to the bathroom
00:26:48
take a pee brush his teeth pull on some
00:26:51
some pants and go about his day
00:26:55
99.8% chance so that person is also real
00:26:59
that sun will rise just because it's in
00:27:01
the future doesn't mean it's any less
00:27:03
real maybe 2% less real than the me that
00:27:08
woke up this morning and did the exact
00:27:10
same thing and then there's the one
00:27:12
three days from now and then there's the
00:27:13
one tomorrow and then there's the one 10
00:27:16
days from there and so given that all of
00:27:19
those sells are real and then there's
00:27:22
the 125 years from now I want to be I
00:27:24
want to be healthy then and so all of
00:27:27
those elves as we imagine those we have
00:27:31
this tendency that the longer time goes
00:27:34
out and this is why I love working with
00:27:36
advisors because they have a great sense
00:27:38
of time perspective I went to a
00:27:40
financial advisor and he said to me and
00:27:43
my wife so what would you like your life
00:27:46
to look like in 20 years and that day I
00:27:50
created a notebook called the beach
00:27:52
house notebook and it was like okay and
00:27:55
I put right on the front I got it
00:27:56
sitting right over there it's the beach
00:27:57
house notebook and that is The Notebook
00:28:00
where I keep notes about what I have to
00:28:03
do and what the financial plans are and
00:28:06
what my life plans are to have this
00:28:08
beach house in the future and that is an
00:28:12
advisor thing so advisors have a very
00:28:16
strong we're are preaching to the choir
00:28:18
right now advisers have a very strong
00:28:21
sense of time perspective and so it made
00:28:23
it a very n and that's why it maybe
00:28:25
resonated with you and I'm able to work
00:28:28
work with people like that one problem
00:28:29
that humans have is the further we go
00:28:31
out in the future the harder a time we
00:28:34
have imagining ourselves we begin
00:28:38
thinking of ourselves as a different
00:28:40
person and so what I want to do is I
00:28:42
want to pull you away from that and if I
00:28:45
get you imagining your future self
00:28:47
whether it's that one year that you're
00:28:49
talking about or whether it's 10 or 15
00:28:51
or 20 years from now if I get you
00:28:53
imagining that future self in a very
00:28:56
Vivid manner visualizing ing it deeply
00:28:59
looking at the details what does my hair
00:29:01
look like what do I look like what am I
00:29:03
wearing how do I feel who am I with what
00:29:07
am I doing that day what where are my
00:29:10
kids and what are they doing if I do it
00:29:12
very vividly then that other person of
00:29:16
it that that begins to fade and the same
00:29:19
person hey that's me that I'm thinking
00:29:22
about that's me that I'm imagining
00:29:24
that's me that I'm talking about so it
00:29:27
really really makes the Multiverse real
00:29:30
and it is real it's just that we've had
00:29:32
a hard time we think of it as science
00:29:34
fiction or fantasy we don't realize that
00:29:38
the Multiverse is real I saw something
00:29:40
recently Phil talking about all that
00:29:42
visualization they're even taking it a
00:29:44
step further and I think there was some
00:29:46
research cited that even said that
00:29:48
they're using AI so they'll take a photo
00:29:51
let's say you submit a photo of yourself
00:29:52
Phill and then AI is obviously smart
00:29:55
enough and helpful enough that it'll
00:29:57
take your picture and say let's age fill
00:29:59
by 5 years 10 years 20 years and seeing
00:30:02
a picture of yourself in the future even
00:30:05
if it's not perfectly accurate it's
00:30:06
going to look like you plus 20 years
00:30:08
that is also helpful to say like oh yeah
00:30:11
that is me and that is really what I'm
00:30:13
probably gon to look like and it helps
00:30:15
people get get in that mindset perfect
00:30:18
and then the thing is and this is a
00:30:20
critical component of it what do you do
00:30:23
with that so you look at that picture
00:30:24
and you go oh I look old what are you
00:30:26
going to do with that now right what are
00:30:28
you going to do with those thoughts what
00:30:30
are you going to do with this
00:30:31
realization that the Multiverse is real
00:30:33
and that your future you is a 99.8% as
00:30:37
real as the U right now what are you g
00:30:39
to do with that and then you can begin
00:30:41
crafting a vision for that person one of
00:30:44
the things that really inspired me doing
00:30:46
this work right so I was very familiar
00:30:49
with this work this is IM called
00:30:50
imaginal work in the psychology World
00:30:54
hey we're going to do imaginal exposure
00:30:56
if you're scared of a bridge we're going
00:30:58
to have you close your eyes and imagine
00:31:00
that you're going near a bridge you're
00:31:01
going over a bridge and then your heart
00:31:03
starts racing if you're doing a good job
00:31:05
imagining it so now what I want to do is
00:31:08
I want to flip that upside down and I
00:31:09
want to say I want to imagine that
00:31:11
future self vividly not a photo I mean
00:31:15
the photo is helpful because it makes it
00:31:17
real I get that and we're visual animals
00:31:19
but I want to imagine for myself who I
00:31:22
aspire to be what would I love to be
00:31:24
doing so when you ask me that question
00:31:26
what I love to be doing in a year here
00:31:28
it was like well exactly what I'm doing
00:31:30
now plus I can run a 630 mile like
00:31:33
that's pretty much it that's where I
00:31:34
want to you know like that I don't have
00:31:36
too much else to change but that ability
00:31:38
to do that you know so if everybody
00:31:40
listening today or if somebody listening
00:31:43
today even if it's only one or three of
00:31:45
the listeners stops when they're done
00:31:48
with this uh podcast and takes a few
00:31:51
minutes to jot down on a piece of paper
00:31:54
or in a Google doc what they would love
00:31:58
life to look like in a year or in 10
00:32:00
years or 20 years or on quote unquote
00:32:03
retirement and really be Vivid about it
00:32:05
really take some time or maybe wait till
00:32:07
the weekend maybe they're listening to
00:32:09
this on a Thursday and say you know I'm
00:32:10
gonna wake up Saturday morning fresh
00:32:12
mind and I'm GNA take a half hour or an
00:32:14
hour and I'm really going to think about
00:32:16
where I would love to be and I'm going
00:32:18
to do it with a lot of vividness really
00:32:21
gonna let my mind go there and stay
00:32:23
there for a bit turn off my phone that
00:32:26
to me is an exercise it is a very
00:32:29
powerful exercise and it will affect us
00:32:34
as soon as we're done like once we've
00:32:35
done that exercise no matter what we do
00:32:38
the next day will'll be altered by it
00:32:41
we'll be there'll be a shift just from
00:32:44
that here's a quick ad and then we'll
00:32:46
get back to the show one of the more
00:32:48
common questions I hear is Jesse what do
00:32:51
you like in use books blogs podcasts
00:32:53
even Banks and brokerage firms what are
00:32:56
your recommendations so to answer that
00:32:58
question I put together a web page you
00:33:01
can check it out at bestin interest.
00:33:03
blog reccommendations again that's
00:33:06
bestin interest. blog reccommendations
00:33:10
to check out how I'm improving my
00:33:12
financial life in the personal finance
00:33:14
space there's so many different opinions
00:33:16
flying around you know here on the best
00:33:18
interest we talk about Smart Financial
00:33:20
Planning very much a long-term
00:33:22
Diversified investing mindset keeping
00:33:24
things simple for long-term great
00:33:27
results but at the same time there are
00:33:28
blogs and podcasts out there that are
00:33:30
preaching crypto you know there blogs
00:33:32
and podcasts there's Dave Ramsey I mean
00:33:34
so many different opinions flying about
00:33:36
and that's a parallel to the health
00:33:38
industry or the personal health industry
00:33:39
from my point of view there's so many
00:33:41
different opinions flying about you know
00:33:43
I don't want you to have to spend an
00:33:45
hour talking about everything you
00:33:46
believe in and why but I'm just curious
00:33:49
how did you hone in on your particular
00:33:51
Health viewpoints and do you mind just
00:33:53
sharing a couple or a real quick brief
00:33:55
description of your your foundational
00:33:57
Health beliefs first of all I was a
00:34:00
scientist so I became a
00:34:02
psychologist and I learned a lot about
00:34:05
science social science and I have
00:34:09
scientists good scientists need to be
00:34:11
skeptical and I think I have a little
00:34:13
bit more than skepticism I love science
00:34:17
but I hate scientists and I think that
00:34:20
they are bound by all of these
00:34:24
biases that
00:34:26
canamy eluc dated literally 50 years ago
00:34:29
I mean that P that paper was published
00:34:31
in
00:34:32
74s juristic and biases so that's 50
00:34:36
years they're Bound by the same thing so
00:34:38
I think that there's a lot of BS
00:34:41
especially in the social science
00:34:43
Community but in all science or I think
00:34:45
there's a lot of bsers and so I have a
00:34:49
contempt so I was Resolute to come to my
00:34:52
own
00:34:53
conclusions and so I built a model that
00:34:57
I call
00:34:58
the Pearl scientific method that goes
00:35:01
like this I am the chief
00:35:04
scientist and the sole subject the only
00:35:08
subject in the most important scientific
00:35:11
experiment that I will ever be involved
00:35:13
in and this is a longitudinal experiment
00:35:16
which means it continues over time as
00:35:18
opposed to cross-sectional which is just
00:35:20
a snapshot at any one moment it
00:35:22
continues over time for my life and I'm
00:35:25
going to learn by what works for me I'm
00:35:29
going to try things and see what works
00:35:34
and then I'm going to cut out things
00:35:36
that don't work and I'm going to amplify
00:35:40
things that do work and that is just I'm
00:35:43
the scientist I'm the subject I am
00:35:46
studying myself and I have found that
00:35:50
some things that were conventional
00:35:52
wisdom were utter garbage like the food
00:35:56
pyramid that we learned about forever
00:35:59
since we were kids in school and we walk
00:36:01
into Miss adelberg's class in fifth
00:36:04
grade and she hands us this laminated
00:36:07
food pyramid and we see that we're just
00:36:10
supposed to you know the bottom of the
00:36:11
pyramid is
00:36:13
Breads and muffins and rice and that
00:36:18
food is not the food we should be eating
00:36:20
the most of we're living in a world
00:36:23
where we have obesity is an and
00:36:25
metabolic health is an epidemic met
00:36:27
illness and the reason is because we eat
00:36:30
too much of this garbage we eat too much
00:36:33
when we eat carbohydrates our body takes
00:36:35
it in turns into sugar immediately and
00:36:37
then if we don't use it for energy it
00:36:39
turns into fat and it winds up right
00:36:42
here on our in our waistline the bad
00:36:45
kind of fat and right here in our jows
00:36:48
and we get heavy and that is bad that
00:36:51
affects us in many ways it affects our
00:36:53
blood pressure it affects us it affects
00:36:55
our internal organs and our function
00:36:58
it affects everything it affects our
00:36:59
energy level stress tolerance mood
00:37:03
everything and lifespan Health span and
00:37:06
so I discovered for myself in this one
00:37:09
area that eating a lower carbohydrate
00:37:12
diet I began to get lean I lost 50
00:37:14
pounds I gained a huge amount of energy
00:37:17
my mood got better my ability to
00:37:19
tolerate bad things coming at me
00:37:22
improved I also stopped drinking as part
00:37:24
of it a huge part of it but those two
00:37:26
things together and so I'm a science
00:37:29
that's my model I'm a scientist I'm the
00:37:32
subject I'm going to read new texts and
00:37:37
new ideas and different points of view
00:37:40
with curiosity and then I'm going to try
00:37:43
certain things that resonate with me and
00:37:46
then I'm going to make decisions about
00:37:48
whether I continue them or extinguish
00:37:50
them based on my observation of myself
00:37:54
how I feel how it works for me some of
00:37:58
what you shared with us in your class
00:37:59
fill was was very helpful I mean some of
00:38:01
the lessons that you learned in your own
00:38:02
experiment and and you encouraged us to
00:38:05
all run our own experiments as well I
00:38:07
mean that I guess that's another
00:38:08
parallel here which is you know I can
00:38:10
sit here and talk about Diversified
00:38:12
lowcost passive Investments and positive
00:38:14
monthly cash flow simple advice
00:38:17
sometimes hard to implement for people a
00:38:18
lot of the stuff that you talked about
00:38:20
too there's no silver bullets there's no
00:38:22
magic formulas there's no magic
00:38:23
supplements a lot of it was just simple
00:38:26
advice applied in a smart way over a
00:38:29
long period of time getting to good
00:38:31
results so what happens over time when
00:38:33
you become your own scientist and your
00:38:35
own subject is you discover who you are
00:38:38
and you discover how you feel and as you
00:38:41
do that you realize that you have a
00:38:43
personality and that you have a style
00:38:46
and so that carries and I notice that
00:38:50
many of the most successful advisers
00:38:52
have nishas they work with a specific
00:38:55
type of client whether it's an age group
00:38:58
or whether it's former athletes or
00:39:01
whether it's former entrepreneurs who
00:39:04
have you know had a a liquidity event
00:39:07
the best advisors not all but they have
00:39:08
these niches and the best advisors I
00:39:12
think found those niches Honestly by it
00:39:17
being a reflection of themselves in some
00:39:20
way so one guy that I know that works
00:39:23
with entrepreneurs is one of the best
00:39:25
entrepreneurs that I know and one of the
00:39:27
guys that I know who works with a
00:39:30
athletes and former athletes was a great
00:39:33
College athlete and D want and so that
00:39:36
is a real honest way of coming to this
00:39:40
and I think that's a way that you
00:39:42
develop whether you're an advisor or
00:39:45
whether you're pursuing your own health
00:39:47
whether it's personal health or personal
00:39:48
wealth where if you cultivate that for
00:39:52
yourself and identify that and go
00:39:55
through that process of discovering Who
00:39:56
You Are are at that point you really
00:40:00
have an in in terms of what type of work
00:40:03
you're going to do with clients because
00:40:05
it becomes an authentic Endeavor it
00:40:07
becomes something where you share an
00:40:09
interest that is really your thing so
00:40:13
that when that person talks to you you
00:40:14
know exactly what they're talking about
00:40:17
and when you give them advice that
00:40:19
advice is coming from a place that is
00:40:21
coming from inside yourself so when I
00:40:23
talk about hey here's the process I went
00:40:25
through not everybody's is going to be
00:40:28
resonate with that you know I'll have a
00:40:30
client here or there and there's people
00:40:32
out there where it's just like listen
00:40:34
Phil just tell me what to do I don't
00:40:36
want to go through a discovery process I
00:40:37
just want a set of rules I've adapted to
00:40:40
be able to work with those kind of
00:40:41
people too because they're actually very
00:40:42
easy to work with right they're just
00:40:44
like okay I'm gonna tell you what to do
00:40:45
and you're gonna do that thank you very
00:40:47
much it's great everybody success when
00:40:49
everybody's happy but let's dip that's
00:40:50
not my bread and butter because that's
00:40:53
not who I am and what I went through and
00:40:55
now I read something that you wrote
00:40:56
recently Phil where you talked about
00:40:58
what gont tag Fahrenheit 451 being a
00:41:02
rebel as we record this on April 12th I
00:41:04
actually shared your article this
00:41:05
morning with my newsletter so listeners
00:41:07
if you're a subscriber of the best
00:41:08
interest newsletter you can go to bestin
00:41:10
interest. blog and subscribe it's
00:41:12
totally free you might have seen Phil's
00:41:13
article this morning but let's talk
00:41:15
about that Phil let's talk about
00:41:17
addiction culture let's talk about being
00:41:19
a rebel what am I making you think of
00:41:21
right now about the society that we're
00:41:24
living in now are we living in a
00:41:27
dystopia I don't think we are but I do
00:41:30
think that we share some characteristics
00:41:34
and the big difference right now you
00:41:36
mentioned guyon talk and that's why I'm
00:41:38
talking about dystopia and I'll get into
00:41:40
it and I really appreciate you asking me
00:41:42
about this because I a lot I've been
00:41:43
thinking about like crazy I'm going to
00:41:45
do my own video on this called are we
00:41:48
living in a dystopia and the answer is
00:41:49
no but we do share a lot of
00:41:51
characteristics and the big difference
00:41:54
the reason that we're not living in a
00:41:55
dystopia right now even with all the
00:41:57
things that are sort of wrong is because
00:41:59
we're not forced for those who don't
00:42:02
know dystopia is sort of this
00:42:04
nightmarish world right so like 1984
00:42:08
where there's Big Brother watching
00:42:10
everything you do and you have to behave
00:42:11
in a certain way or Fahrenheit 451 where
00:42:15
they're burning all the books making you
00:42:17
watch TV so everybody's thinking the
00:42:19
same way and not thinking really not
00:42:22
being themselves anymore or Brave New
00:42:25
World where the government just makes
00:42:26
you so comfortable you have this they
00:42:29
give you drugs and give you a Soma
00:42:31
holiday so you're high out of your brain
00:42:33
and you just think you're enjoying life
00:42:35
but you're not really living those are
00:42:37
forced so you have no choice and that is
00:42:41
the one component of a distopia that we
00:42:43
are not experiencing right now but if we
00:42:47
look at a lot of the data of our country
00:42:52
we see that a lot of things are going
00:42:54
poorly we see that there's a lot of
00:42:56
addiction
00:42:57
we see that suicide rates are going up
00:43:00
we see that depression is skyrocketing
00:43:02
we see that poor health is increasing we
00:43:06
see that obesity is on the rise like
00:43:09
crazy we see diabetes and heart disease
00:43:12
are all Rising we see despite all of the
00:43:17
new technology that we have the average
00:43:20
lifespan in this nation has not only
00:43:22
leveled off but has begun to contract so
00:43:27
so potentially our children will be the
00:43:29
first generation in the history of this
00:43:30
nation where they can expect to live a
00:43:33
shorter life than their parents than us
00:43:37
given the level of technological
00:43:40
advancement and knowledge that we have
00:43:42
that is an astounding contrast and so
00:43:46
yes I think there are some significant
00:43:48
problems and one way to quantify that
00:43:51
very easily is to look at all the
00:43:54
different types of addictions alcohol
00:43:56
addiction
00:43:57
Fentanyl and prescription drug addiction
00:44:01
drug addiction porn addiction access by
00:44:05
the way to all of these things gambling
00:44:07
addiction we can just pick up our phones
00:44:10
when I was a kid you had to go to Vegas
00:44:13
to gamble or you had to know a bookie
00:44:15
that was illegal in some bar now you
00:44:18
just pick up a thing download DraftKings
00:44:20
and you gambling on every aspect you
00:44:22
know I can pull up the Masters right now
00:44:25
it's round two of the Masters and I can
00:44:27
bet on one guy's round is he going to
00:44:30
par the 11th so access has been gasoline
00:44:33
so we live in this hyper addictive
00:44:35
culture where our health is getting
00:44:37
worse and so the thing about it is
00:44:40
though that all of that data is mean
00:44:45
data in other words all of that data is
00:44:47
looking at the group is looking at the
00:44:50
collection it's looking at these large
00:44:52
samples but we are individuals right so
00:44:55
there are outliers in that data and we
00:44:58
are individuals so we can be the outlier
00:45:02
we have choices to make and so in one
00:45:05
way the mean data is meaningless so it
00:45:09
doesn't have meaning for us if we choose
00:45:13
if we go along with this inertia of the
00:45:17
current of our culture that is not a
00:45:19
good thing if we decide to be a rebel to
00:45:23
be subversive and to behave in our own
00:45:26
best interest
00:45:27
despite this way so when I mentioned guy
00:45:31
monag guy monag was a fireman in
00:45:35
Fahrenheit of 451 and the firemen in
00:45:38
Fahrenheit
00:45:39
451 were paid to not to put out fires
00:45:43
they were paid to burn books bur so they
00:45:47
were paid to cause fires what happens
00:45:50
with kont he's a fireman right he goes
00:45:52
around and they find these Heretics who
00:45:55
are hiding books
00:45:57
thorough and
00:45:59
Shakespeare and you know all the great
00:46:02
authors of choser and Heming way and
00:46:07
bakov and doeski they go find the houses
00:46:10
they arrest the people and they burn
00:46:12
down the house with the secret libraries
00:46:14
behind the wall he has this moment where
00:46:18
he's like wait a minute what are we
00:46:19
doing here I haven't even ever read one
00:46:21
of these books he has an Awakening he
00:46:23
becomes a rebel he becomes one of those
00:46:26
people that he used to be persecuting
00:46:29
and he Rebels against the system that is
00:46:32
a dystopic system and what a great
00:46:36
character man guy Monta you know I just
00:46:39
love him and there was a great movie
00:46:41
version 1966 movie version with just
00:46:44
this great you could find it in fact
00:46:47
somebody that I somebody that emailed me
00:46:49
a reader emailed me afterwards and they
00:46:51
said they found it they found the full
00:46:53
movie on Vimeo so if you're watching
00:46:55
this today and you're looking for for
00:46:57
this incredible 1966 version of and the
00:47:01
book is great by the way too Ray Brad
00:47:03
obviously one of the great great books
00:47:05
of all time if you're looking for a copy
00:47:07
of this movie you could find it on Vimeo
00:47:11
we'll do our best to find it we'll do
00:47:12
our best to include it in the show notes
00:47:14
at the very least we will include your
00:47:15
article in the show notes Phil and
00:47:17
listeners Phil thank you for choosing to
00:47:19
be here today listeners thank you for
00:47:21
choosing to listen in and Phil let's end
00:47:24
with this tell us what's the latest
00:47:25
what's going on at Pearl Institute
00:47:27
what's going on at Prime Cuts how can
00:47:29
people reach out to you work with you
00:47:32
read your stuff listen to your videos
00:47:34
yeah you know you could just shoot me an
00:47:36
email at Pearlman
00:47:39
gmail.com or you could find me on
00:47:41
Twitter at PE Pearlman or you can go to
00:47:43
my website Pearl
00:47:45
in.com the Pearl Institute basically
00:47:48
what I do is I help people you know as
00:47:51
tho said suck the marrow out of life I
00:47:54
help people live I help people get get
00:47:57
healthy I help people make decisions in
00:47:59
their own best interests I help people
00:48:01
be subversive bastards sometimes and
00:48:05
really get themselves healthy mind body
00:48:07
and spirit it's what I dedicated my own
00:48:09
life to Chang my whole life Chang my
00:48:12
relationships with my family changed the
00:48:14
way I conduct business got back to who I
00:48:17
am you could find me a Prime Cut
00:48:20
substack you're going to put the link
00:48:21
out there and what I'm doing is I'm just
00:48:24
pursuing that that's all I'm doing like
00:48:26
I'm just I want to help people I do have
00:48:28
a.org where I am doing some pro bono
00:48:32
work with people in my own Community who
00:48:35
can't afford me I'm a little bit
00:48:36
expensive which I really love doing that
00:48:39
because there's people out there who are
00:48:42
struggling there's people out there who
00:48:44
maybe don't have the means to afford me
00:48:47
but they are struggling they're trying
00:48:49
but maybe they don't know how or maybe
00:48:51
they are caught somewhere you know
00:48:53
snagged in a net or by a fish hook
00:48:56
somewhere
00:48:57
I really really enjoy that because these
00:48:59
are people that I go out into my
00:49:01
neighborhood and I see and I go out into
00:49:03
my community and I see so I've been
00:49:05
doing some of that too you know as a
00:49:07
matter of fact you asked me where I'd
00:49:08
like to be a year from now five years
00:49:09
from now I'd like that to be more and
00:49:11
more if I'm 820 now PE institute.com and
00:49:15
and PE institute.org I'd lik it five
00:49:18
years from for that to be 20180 that's
00:49:20
awesome we will share all those links in
00:49:22
the show notes and Phil Pearlman thank
00:49:25
you so much for joining us today on the
00:49:27
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00:49:30
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00:49:32
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Episode Highlights

  • The Connection Between Money and Time
    Exploring the intrinsic relationship between money and time, and how they impact our lives.
    “Money acts as a tradeoff for time.”
    @ 03m 00s
    April 24, 2024
  • Health Equals Time
    Prioritizing health can lead to a longer, more fulfilling life.
    “By focusing on health, you can increase your health span.”
    @ 07m 07s
    April 24, 2024
  • The Importance of Relationships
    Good health fosters stronger connections, leading to a happier life.
    “All happy people share something in common: relationships.”
    @ 09m 01s
    April 24, 2024
  • The Importance of Self-Care
    You must prioritize your own health before helping others. 'You have to get your own house in order before you can help others.'
    “You have to get your own house in order before you can help others.”
    @ 22m 36s
    April 24, 2024
  • The Reality of Future You
    Recognizing that future versions of ourselves are just as real as today. 'Future me is very real and future me does not benefit from poor decisions.'
    “Future me is very real and future me does not benefit from poor decisions.”
    @ 25m 03s
    April 24, 2024
  • Visualizing Your Future Self
    Imagining your future self can inspire positive changes. 'I want to imagine that future self vividly, not just a photo.'
    “I want to imagine that future self vividly, not just a photo.”
    @ 31m 11s
    April 24, 2024
  • Dystopia and Addiction
    Exploring the characteristics of our society and the rise of addiction.
    “We do share some characteristics of a dystopia, but we have choices.”
    @ 41m 30s
    April 24, 2024
  • The Role of the Rebel
    Discussing the importance of being subversive in a culture of addiction.
    “To be a rebel is to behave in our own best interest.”
    @ 45m 26s
    April 24, 2024
  • Helping the Community
    Phil Pearlman shares his commitment to helping those in need in his community.
    “I enjoy doing pro bono work with people who can't afford me.”
    @ 48m 36s
    April 24, 2024

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  • Happiness and Love08:48
  • Self-Care First22:36
  • Future Self Realization25:03
  • Multiverse Concept26:12
  • Imagining the Future31:11
  • Authenticity40:05

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