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I couldn't get it out my mind I had to get hold of a psychologist [Music]
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can't go on Jamie carragher is a Liverpool stalwart 730 odd appearances it's never going to
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be another Jimmy character he's a winner he will you know it's just ridiculous I'm no huge Ronaldo
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fan I think that's pretty obvious it's sad for him the ways people are speaking about Messi towards the end of his
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career and Ronaldo and it's completely different it's almost like he feels like he's not racism I've got so much admiration for him for his mental
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strength to be able to withstand fresh air criticism and I saw too many players never recover from that I knew from the
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first time I played football for me winning was all that mattered if you say to me what do I miss most of being a
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professional footballer it's women I'd rather cheat and win than not win when Jaime loses a game is he different
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that punish myself when I didn't perform well and I regret that but absorbs that thing of oh my God
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I was just driving myself mad when I was at my absolute Peak and best that's when I needed more help the
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feeling your stomach is that bad you just you zombie there I always remember and the only time I've ever did this in
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my whole career much of your success has been a result
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of a winning mentality in some of the toughest moments where does that come from the reason why I've become the
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Jamie when I start this podcast I usually start with people's childhoods but as I was reading
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through your story I think this is the first time I'm going to start before the person was even born because I I read that
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there was a possibility that you weren't even going to be born because of a I
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guess a misdiagnosis that your mother was giving about you can you take me back to that story yeah
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that was uh would have been about let's say would it
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be in about 1977 obviously 78 I was born and I mean mum has had two miscarriages
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before me and then when I it will she feel pregnant with me
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did the doctors nurses didn't know what was wrong with the new something was
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wrong and initially they were saying that we think your child has got Spina
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bifter and I think well I'm saying it in those days maybe I
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don't know if it's the same now there's a chance you could terminate the pregnancy if the if the baby was
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whatever in order and my mom was I think was given that
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option and she my mom's my mom's very holy things the right way that probably
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at that stage in the early 20s she would be going to church every day
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she still goes every Sunday now so here thing was not with the way she says to me was
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if our Lord wants me to have a baby who's got Spina bifter or maybe
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something else that's that's what's being decided for me that's fine it's my child I love that child
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and what I find fascinating when you think of sort of
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today is that the closer it got to the me being born
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it wasn't Spina bifter but they still knew something wasn't right and it wasn't until
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I was born that I had basically my insides were on the outside
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so I've I've uh gastro's gastroskitas it's called the condition now I've got a
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big scar right across my stomach I mean if if someone has that condition today and plenty of babies do it's a really
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small scar but the the thing that I think is fascinating or just makes me think wow
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on my mum's side is the fact that as soon as I was born I was rushed away straight away to Alder hay children's
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hospital hospital which is still going strong today in Liverpool and because of what I've gone to achieve I've got a
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real link with the hospital and uh through our charity we actually funded the uh the ward that looks after
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babies who have oh really what I had uh but I get pushed away
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to children's hospital and I mean mum doesn't know anything there's no phones there's no she's still
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in the Zachary Hospital obviously I've got a problem straight up to older hey my dad go straight there
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but again there's no the technology isn't like that and I just think how long it must have been before one we mum
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knew I was all right what I had how could it have to go you know you aren't
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quite fathom that when you think about today and how quickly even get in touch with with different people so uh I just
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think about what was going through my mum's behind there for that sort of the next hour or two until you know she probably found out everything was okay
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your knowledge of that story and that experience has that left a lasting impact or impression on
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you in terms of the decision your mum made your mum made or being whisked away or the operation or having this guy or
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anything like that has that left any sort of impression on you at all yes
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all about me more I would say you know to to
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have had two miscarriages to have that going through your third pregnancy to think you could lose the baby the no one
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can quite give you a definitive answer about what's going on with you know this child in your stomach and then to
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to not know straight away I just I just I only know of now and when people have kids and I've had my own kids and
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everything's so documented isn't it whether it's you know the first picture on Instagram you're there with the the
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baby when the baby's born I I wasn't actually maybe we can get to that later I wasn't there for my uh
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firstborn and that's something I do regret but I just think about how
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my mom must have felt and and sort of me look at my mom because I've been very lucky the life I know leads the
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experience about I've I've had you know it's it's not there if anyone doesn't make you know saying he says no
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longer with me dad of course but yeah for me want to sort of make that decision and uh I'm still here today
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what about your dad what what um talk to me about him and his character and what impact that had on you before the age of
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10. it's a real big character yeah he's you
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know he's he'll be in the pope he'll have a debate he'll get up and sing he'll he'll have
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an argument with someone he's like a real Larger than Life sort of character who did you care about impressing the
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most just not even in the context of your parents but just who were you trying to impress when you were young because for me you know it might have
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been my older brothers it could have been my dad it could have been you know a teacher who are you trying to impress
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I mean the obvious wants to save me that because he was the one who was always there in terms of he talked about football or like yeah
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I mean mum never watched him play football okay I mean memo must have watched me play
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five times in my life and that's nothing to do with not being proud of me or not
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being able I know it's not the done thing now but it was always the case of my dad took us the football and stayed
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at all you know and and did what we associate with women things and now obviously
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that type of comment or then thought certainly back then be classed as like sexist now and rightly so but that was
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just the way it was it wasn't I don't think my mum was sort of badgered me dad to go to the
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football she always just felt well okay that's your thing to take them to the football whether to be going to watch everything as young kids or you know
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play me games for you know amateur teams little boys and I want to start on that journey and when
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you when he took you to football did he have high standards and expectations
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for you when you were playing yes but I think that came not because he
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was so desperate for me to be a footballer I think that became because I think he knew pretty early on
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I had something you know my dad had played football he's had a watched football my dad was a massive
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football fan so he he done everything he could do in football in terms of played amateur football
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managed amateur teams went to what you have it at home and away so he was just
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he was obsessed with football so from a young age I think he was quite tough for me a couple of times I'd Stand
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Out only because he knew the standards I could get to I'm one of those times is like a story I put in my book
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and I think sometimes with me Dad listens back I think he I think he doesn't like me to say the
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story because I think he looks back at it and thinks oh I wish I hadn't done that but I've got no problem with it you know I think it's part of my life past
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my story that basically I was seven years of age and I didn't want to play in a game it
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was that cold it was freezing it was Hailstone and I got tackled and I pretended that was a hair crying and come off buddy me Dad and I'm the same
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we we couldn't suffer bluffers or phonies we'd say you know that's hypothetic and he knew I was putting it
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on unless you say it was the last time I did and I read that part in your Memoir yeah
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in your Memoir it says there was some reigning football boots when you got home yeah maybe there's a little bit of
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artistic license there with the uh the guy who wrote it but no I think it was that and I think
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throughout my football career not much I'm talking about the big thing
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for me and the big thing for me that I want to pass on to my son is having character
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after me will will take you to places that you don't think
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are possible if you've got that personality mental strength character I think that overrides a lot
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of things that's really why I'm asking these questions because I could see throughout your career that much of your success has been a result of a winning
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mentality and character in some of the toughest moments and that's not the case with all the footballers that I've
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spoken to that's just the case with some of them even when I sat with Peter Crouch she referenced you as being
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um so set on winning and so obsessed with winning that you didn't even that
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he didn't think you were ever enjoying it and so I'm trying to figure out and you smile when I say that because you you know it's true I've read you I've
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heard you say that subsequently but um where where does that come from where does that character and that obsession
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with victory at all costs to the point that you cause suffering in yourself where does that come from
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foreign
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something like that maybe you know you speak to a lot of probably more people who give you that handset
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than I do and maybe have a better insight into it to me in some ways now I'm not quite sure but I knew from the first time I played
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football for me winning was all that mattered and if you say to me what do I miss most of
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being a professional footballer it's winning it's not the taken past not the training
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a lot of people always say this I footballers say this all the time I miss the dressing room I don't miss the dressing room
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I missed the dressing room after the game and we win that life you've done something together
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and I listened to crouchie's podcast because I've seen it pop up somewhere I think it was made online or some piece
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of crowd said Stephen Gerard and Jamie carragher race off players after 15 I thought I better listen to this one uh
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but what Peter Crouch said Is Right and he's probably looking at me a little
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bit dumbfounds I can't understand that but I can't understand him
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for me Bill shankly said football is a matter of life and death and
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I don't think he meant that I think that was obviously tongue and cheek at the time and no football club knows that statement
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is not true more than Liverpool Football Club but it's very close to being true
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that's the way I see it that's football for me is a way of life and and winning is all
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that matters and for me when I played I'd rather cheat and win than not win and uh I don't ever be any
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different and that's why I think football is taking me to places in my life
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that almost means a tear to me I but it's always taking me to places where I'm like I don't feel like I'm ever
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gonna get over it you know results or something hasn't gone well
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you mentioned that that post-match feeling is is the best and potentially the feeling you missed but I've also
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heard you describe it as relief you know and that's um that's an interesting thing because people would think the
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post-match victory feeling would be Euphoria and Elation but for you to describe it as relief is a
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curious word because I knew how bad I'd feel if we didn't win or they hadn't gone well it
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was almost relief that I'm not going to feel like that for the next two or three days because I would I think I punished myself a little
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bit when I didn't perform well or we didn't win and I regret that but I don't know if I could have done anything different
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it was what it was me you know what I spoke to a site at one stage I spoke to
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I had to I had to I wasn't asked to I had to get hold of a psychologist sport psychologist that
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were new because what I was doing to myself was I was just driving myself mad really
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with the standards I was expecting of myself and this I must say was not when I was not playing well in shorter
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conference this one was when I was at my absolute Peak and best that's when I needed more help
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because I got to a stage where I felt I couldn't make a mistake if I if if I didn't play well I thought
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we're gonna lose yeah because I wasn't Daft I was playing at my best I was a huge part of the team
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and there's lots of other great players around there of course but I knew I was a huge influence in the Rafa beneath his
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area era and I felt I'd go into big games thinking if I don't play well today I'm not going to win
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and if I made a mistake and I always remember the mistake I made it was aware that Atletico Madrid
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Champions League group game will win a one nil but under pressure constantly and I'm I'm playing really well I'm in
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control that was me and my elements away from home in Europe for Liverpool trying to get that clean
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she's organized and talking to everyone and a longboard and he scored
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and in the airport on the way home she's like this can't go on uh this has got to stop you know that
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what I'm actually doing to myself I've played great I've made a little mistake you know they've capitalized on it
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but you can put yourself through that what was the symptoms that you were confronting in that moment why what
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couldn't carry on so you had made that mistake you're in the airport you're on the plane whatever what is the what's happening I couldn't
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get it out my mind I couldn't I got like shoot two nights when I was sleeping I mean you want to say not to sleep and
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I get a couple of hours I'll be like constantly on my mind and wake up it was the first thing to think about
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and I was just like what am I doing to myself but how would you stop it but but the fascinating
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thing was when I spoke to the sports psychologist that guy called Bill Bez we kind of knew
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him from the England squad speaking to it and then it got to the
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stage where I spoke to him probably two or three times a season almost like I reflect and you know
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what's gone on I couldn't change we actually got to the bottom of actually this is what Tamika
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knew who you are this is the drive to sort of if you if you did probably dismiss mistakes or
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were not too bothered I'll be I'll be fine next week that wouldn't make I wouldn't make you
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who you are and I could still never Shake It Off I could
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I couldn't but I almost by speaking to him it made me understand and accept
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that's what it was so I still went through turmoil if I didn't play well if I made a mistake I always wonder if
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that was like a byproduct of being a local player I always think what would I have been like about a plate for Aston Villa or
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Tottenham you know I I didn't know that many people you know I felt like you were playing for
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the club of the supporters of your family and friends really if you know did you ever feel anxiety in those
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moments the feeling of anxiety so when something is plaguing you so much that you almost feel that kind of sense of nervous energy that keeps you up at
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night and you feel it in your stomach no it was never anxiety I would say anger
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and I want to put this rice it's like I didn't even want to sleep when I get to train in the next day did that come
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out in your home life because it's hard not to take that home with you yeah I think it will have time
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yeah yeah 100 percent I remember something came up
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a year or two ago on here on Twitter about a group of players or a certain player
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or maybe being a manager went out another meal or a few drinks after they'd lost
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and with this big debate on uh on Twitter well why shouldn't you know some
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fannular fans are like he shouldn't be like they shouldn't go out and there was this few big debates and I think Gary
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lineke mentioned something that I've never not chain I've never changed my plans on the
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back of the results okay that that sounds nice I thought it was unbelievable I would change plans
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every single week if that game didn't go well so that's where it was affected my home
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life so in terms of organizing a night owls going for a meal with friends whatever it may be
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I couldn't I couldn't show my face if we'd have lost and I played poorly not a chance and I couldn't believe that some
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players could could just carry on with the life I'd be a bit like oh no you no you
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because the feeling your stomach is that bad you just you don't even want to be he's gonna be there he's gonna be
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whipped people you don't speak you know that's that's what animal she got me and I go back to that you know would it have
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been different at another club I would never wanted to play for another club but that is the one thing I do think
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about would it have resulted some performances affected me differently you come home after a you know
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losing a game or something you've got your family there your kids run up hey
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I mean to be fair me kids were quite Young when I was still playing but there was one game that stands out
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when I couldn't get out of something I was opening a restaurant I opened a restaurant about 10 or 15 years ago
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called Cathy Sports England in Liverpool and the two times we opened
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those two games I didn't play well and in my head before the game I'm
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thinking I've got to play well in this game because people will think of it don't play well I've got my mind somewhere else and I was probably too
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focused on the game in some ways and then I had to go and almost open the
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restaurants and there was people here I remember the second one it was like no I went I was there 20 minutes I was like
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I've got to go if I spoke to Nicola which I might have done but I won't tell you before this I asked the question and
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I said when Jamie loses the game is he different and what's he like what would she have said to me
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hundred percent yeah 100 what you said you reckon
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he's not there when I'm talking to him I think she'd probably say that
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maybe now at different times but I would be I'll be in a chance I'd just be sort of Daydream is people
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will be speaking to me and it's probably best just to leave me alone and not
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try and get my mind off because I couldn't even if I if it did get my mind off I
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know I'd go back to it and you're talking about going home I always remember one time when I said I
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was in a trance where I was with the players so I always remember
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we were playing a game against Evan which for me is the biggest game I had a nightmare
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in the game and we were going for a meal afterwards with the team like an official not a sort of few drinks it was
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it was to to refuel basically this game is an early morning kickoff we had a Champions League game on the Tuesday
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night in in Eindhoven foreign
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and we've gone to the center of Liverpool for a meal just to make sure eating the right food and I remember just staring
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just couldn't stop I was just I wasn't even eating just just staring
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and next I get a text message Stevie Jared it's just like he's there
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he's gone don't worry about it it's gone finished forget about you know just you've got the time but I was just I
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he could just see everyone was devastated but for me I just no I'm not trying to
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make out that I cared more than anybody else because everyone's got their own ways of dealing with things but
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I yeah it was a yeah it was it's a huge part of my life football it
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always has been always will be I think I'll always be affected by football results
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when I went that's when I was playing as an Everton fan as a Liverpool fan right now
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football results will affect me it sounds painful sounds like suffering doesn't sound like well when you win I
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can assure you I make sure I I I enjoy them I know afterwards I said before that it was relief but you had that
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moment of sort of Joy the reason it was difficult to enjoy and why I'm probably different to a
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Peter Crouch or certain players who came in as a I think they'd come in from clubs where they played once a week and
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if they played well it was like I don't need somebody to that game I'm gonna be off for two or three days but as we have a game Tuesday
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Champions League or a cup game and they'll be ready to enjoy that right bang we're back on it now it was almost
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like you're just on this train and you nothing's getting in the way nothing's not Unstoppable I can assure you it
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wasn't the whole Doom and Gloom I loved it and so many nights and times and experiences but I do wish I was a little
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bit kinder to myself on the back of a poor performance or a defeat I mean does what I keep thinking about one standing
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out we we we won the FA Cup Final in 2006. personally out of the great season we'd
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we kept 33 clean sheets which was one away from a record which was which was
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obviously a lot we played the Cup Final I scored their own goal I didn't play well Stevie Jack
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had wins the final and we go on the open bus tour around Liverpool so I've had a great
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season but not had a great last game and my son's on the bus with me and I go on the top of the bus to start with
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but you're on the bus for maybe three or four hours within an hour I was downstairs I just sat there thinking oh
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it didn't go well I didn't do that you know I didn't do and I was thinking now when I look I'm embarrassed I'm like
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what are you doing it was one game you've had an unbelievable season the team have we won the FA Cup we finished
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the season with a trophy but I couldn't it was almost like I was up there acting because I didn't feel
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like celebrating but we won the cup you know just because I hadn't I I'd
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made a mistake hadn't played particularly well I know most players will be able to go I've had a great season there's only one
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game we won I found it tough people that have that Winner's mindset they um as you kind of
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alluded to a second ago they often struggled to understand those that don't to relate to them and they often have a
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lot of friction with the people that don't have the Winner's mindset because when you see the world and that way I saw it a lot in um Michael Jordan's
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documentary Last Dance brilliant wasn't that yeah amazing I think I've got a poster upstairs book after I watched it
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but um he had that mindset where he was you could see he would like pick on
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certain people who who wouldn't meet him at his level did you ever find yourself
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and Stevie doing that where if someone came into the dressing room and they and they weren't at that level you would you
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would either you'd force them out or you'd I mean that's kind of what Peter Crouch was alluding to right that he was kind of saying that you two would be
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protecting the bar yeah I mean I think what what happens is I think
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what Peter was trying to mention which I think is a little bit unfair the way he described it was that when a new player
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came in I think me and Steve were fans we ain't just players we were fans it was like oh God
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I hope he's good you know like a fan was out this new Fella's good and when you're coming after the first training session it'd be more than a joke oh God
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this doesn't look good does it or you know what I mean that type of thing about God because I hope this goes well uh but I was Stevie
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Stevie was different to me and I was very vocal very emotional Stevie's maybe body language on the
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picture times will be questioned if you know he wasn't happy with somebody he might turn away you know whereas I'd be
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remonstrating screaming shouting you know and not in terms of someone hadn't played Paul poorly but might have been
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more in terms of organization someone doing the job for the team where are you where you need to be I always felt like I was
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the coach of the team in some ways and because I played a center-back and I could you know see the whole team in front of me yeah but we would be on top
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of people but I don't I wouldn't like that to come across in like a a bullion way or you're trying to you know keep
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people down here we loved
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because you wanted to win that was all that matter it wasn't about securing your place or making sure I was
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protected in any way it was that thing of like it's Liverpool it
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the big clubs it's not enough to play Ford man I know
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some people think I played for this club and it's on your CV and it's a great achievement to get to a Liverpool or
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United Chelsea City but it's not enough to play for and you've got to win the whole existence of
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those clubs about winning if they're not winning there's no point you know so that was my thing my drive
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at Liverpool was to win every single day when Jared Julia came in came in as a managers Julia so Julia Gerard we'll
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just call him Gerard Julia um when he arrived at uh Liverpool in I think it was 1986 1998 1998 he came into
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the the club um the place took to him at faster than I read because he one of the key decisions
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he made was around Paul lince you see the players talk to him yeah and no I think he found it difficult to
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start with really I think it was a a big split in the camp in that the players would come before
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that with Roy Evans and Jared Huli came in he was new to it and
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yeah I think it was tough for him enough for this season yeah did that turn at some point did he
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win the trust of the players yeah I mean yeah he put Paul in great
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fella I get on great with paulins great player as well didn't have the career that Liverpool
00:27:53
he's had maybe at other clubs and I think gerardi just wanted to make a fresh start and he wanted to I think
00:27:59
most a lot of managers do it the the take on you know the uh the big guy if you like
00:28:06
and it was certainly that he was I think he was maybe England's captain or Vice Captain at the time
00:28:13
but he wanted a completely revolutionized Liverpool and completely changer and yeah he had a Wedgewood with
00:28:20
paulins and the thing was not about him having weeds as such but also the fact
00:28:26
that he didn't sort of back down he really held his own he had a strong argument in the team meeting I think wow
00:28:31
we just stood up to probably one of the best Midfield players of his generation what was that strong argument in the
00:28:36
team meeting it was it was over Poland's question what we're doing in training as senior Pros do at times you
00:28:43
know we're trying to get it right why are we doing this why are we doing that and I think General and Julia saw this
00:28:49
has this opportunity to sort of stand his authority it was almost like I would imagine he was glad
00:28:54
paulins had said it and it was what it was Poland's in some ways and I don't think the message was for Pauline
00:28:59
because I think he was always going to get rid of NC I think the message was the rest of us you know don't don't try and take me on
00:29:06
this is what we're going to do publicly in front of in the team meeting yeah told Paul yeah basically but not you
00:29:13
wouldn't be at this club anymore but he questioned his desire in a game uh Anthony fairpoints was probably one of
00:29:19
the bravest footballers you'd say but in a particular game against Manchester United
00:29:25
we'd lost it 2-1 and we'd lost two goals in the last minute and I think it was a very so defeat for everyone
00:29:32
so I think everyone was a little bit emotional about it and because he had jumped up and said something he just went straight back and
00:29:38
said he wasn't happy that he'd come off he shouldn't have come off my captain should come off on a stretcher from Old
00:29:44
Trafford and it was it was interesting with Jared Julia in that we we had him the first foreign manager
00:29:52
and all of a sudden people would associate him with this flee football and being maybe a bit nice but that was
00:30:00
that was what the Liverpool team was before General Juliet came he completely
00:30:05
went the other way and was once a big strong powerful player's aggression and
00:30:10
that's why me and him are such a great relationship because I was such a competitor maybe he didn't have the quality that some of the players had in
00:30:17
the Roy Evans team if you're liking some of the football they played was outstanding but he just wanted people who would die
00:30:22
for that [ __ ] because I I read that part of the reason why his reign as manager
00:30:28
sort of came to an end was because he made some bad signings and he was he didn't really inquire enough about
00:30:34
the players that he was signing's character and their personality and so and I was just so compelled by that idea
00:30:40
that that's one of the most important things when you're building teams is finding people that have the same like mentality and character versus just
00:30:47
great sort of technical players I think about the same in business like I'm always considering how someone will
00:30:53
um support our culture make our culture better raise the bar in terms of like that mentality versus just being able to
00:31:00
do [ __ ] a thousand kick-ups or whatever and loads of skills yeah I I think you do need the same mentality to
00:31:05
play for Liverpool what does that mean and the other big clubs
00:31:11
to be able to withstand pressure criticism that comes your way so often I saw a lot
00:31:18
of Liverpool players who would start really well and it wouldn't it wouldn't make me think we've got a great player here I'd
00:31:25
always think let's see a couple of months down the line because I knew what was coming because every player goes through a few
00:31:31
by games he gets criticism whatever it may be and I saw too many players never
00:31:37
recover from that and that that tells me now for me the
00:31:43
top level football is mentality it was do you have that personality character
00:31:49
to get you through those tough moments and come back and fight back and not give in can you teach
00:31:55
that I don't know you tell me what do you think
00:32:01
um I tend to believe that it comes from ex experience I think resilience and
00:32:08
that sort of character those character traits come from being knocked down loads of time so when the tenth failure
00:32:13
or knockdown comes or the tenth moment of hardship comes you're more equipped to deal with it
00:32:19
um so players that haven't been through the tougher you know challenges in their life maybe in their personal life maybe
00:32:24
where they come from don't have that well it's interesting we're doing this
00:32:30
uh this afternoon and this morning someone in front of the operation yes indeed yeah right so he's going for
00:32:36
the operation he's a professional footballer and painfully haven't been able to probably
00:32:42
sleep about it thinking about it you know just want to do as much as you can you know
00:32:47
to help them because it's your son but the thing I keep jumping home to him
00:32:53
and I keep saying it almost every day we're not using this as an excuse
00:32:59
this is not going in the way it's like this happened is it okay boom we're going again it's like
00:33:06
this I know for a lot of people or players or young players or whatever it may be would be a hero to come across and
00:33:13
understandably so but it's not in years to come gonna be oh I didn't quite do what I wanted
00:33:19
because of that knee up yeah and this never happened and that it's like no there's there's going to be lots of
00:33:25
things in his career as in my career obstacles in the way you've got to get over them you've got
00:33:32
to get them all the way or you've got to deal with it and then keep going nuttings and that was always my mindset and that's what I'm trying to put into
00:33:37
my son I'm pretty confident he's got that mindset of not the structure nothing getting your way you don't use
00:33:44
anything as an excuse or a reason why something didn't happen that no excuse
00:33:49
mentality just you keep going nothing gets not no obstacles in the way you said earlier on that you might not
00:33:55
have cared as much as you did you might not have had that that same level of um sort of excruciating Obsession and and
00:34:01
care about the results and the outcome and winning if you'd been at another club and you were at another club which
00:34:07
is England and you didn't seem to care as much you said that you remember I I was quite shocked to read that that
00:34:14
remember the text message that said [ __ ] it it's only England and um generally you didn't seem to be as
00:34:20
excruciatingly hard on yourself after losing for England as you did with losing for Liverpool
00:34:27
I think that was down to the fact that I didn't carry the same responsibility because I I never really played I was
00:34:34
like a squad player really I wouldn't Clash myself as patriotic not at all
00:34:41
can you be patriotic if you're on city is that is that a word or is there something I have no idea
00:34:47
I'm actually massively passionate about my own city um
00:34:53
maybe that comes from the way we're brought up in Liverpool you know the
00:34:59
thing of you feel as if like a lot of the country's against you and maybe that's some of it's true some people outside
00:35:05
other people think oh that's a chip on your shoulder but there is that so we sort of buy into that and that doesn't
00:35:11
mean like I'm against England as such but it watching England now in the World
00:35:18
Cup would never take me to a place emotionally the way it would if I saw a Liverpool
00:35:24
playing it just wouldn't take me there it's not like a conscious thing of ugh I'm not gonna make I'm not gonna be
00:35:30
happy about this it's just inside me and and that wasn't just when I was playing for him that was when I
00:35:36
was a child I'd be thinking why in England because they haven't players you know we
00:35:41
almost felt like England was a team from down south or a London team that's just the feeling I had and but I think if if
00:35:49
I would have become a Mainstay of the England team I think I would have felt that I think I
00:35:56
would have got there and that's me one disappointment in my football great it's the only team in my life from when I
00:36:03
started five years ago I didn't dominate I'm gonna say dominate was be a Mainstay of the team be one of the
00:36:09
voices of the team be one of the leaders because I wasn't good enough that's a simple fact there's lots of
00:36:14
plays that you've encountered in your career that didn't reach their potential you're talking about Reaching Your Potential doing your best getting to the
00:36:20
getting to the top of your potential a second ago when you think about why those players didn't reach their
00:36:25
potential if you had to point out characteristics or behaviors that led them to miss their potential what would
00:36:30
those behaviors be the traits of losers hmm
00:36:38
I think blaming other people at different times for their own poor games mistakes
00:36:45
always looking for excuses I would say I think I'm I'm pretty honest and I was
00:36:52
as a player and I always remember when I was a young lady I had a bad game I keep talking about games
00:36:59
you remember them more yeah but a very famous coach it was a huge inspiration
00:37:05
to me was running around and uh I played a game and played poorly
00:37:11
and I did the ninja after the game saying it was my fault those goals were my fault
00:37:17
you know this was the a coach who was a a real sort of man's
00:37:22
man a legend of Liverpool Football Club he wasn't the coach then he still used to come in and walk around the training
00:37:28
ground and he said don't have to do that again
00:37:33
he said you don't need to open yourself up like that he should be honest with an injection room and see a
00:37:39
manager but he said you know what I mean somebody's got to be clever and look after yourself a little bit and you
00:37:45
don't need to be as honest you think you're doing the right thing and I think
00:37:50
I knew exactly where he was coming from I think at times you need to be honest but I think it was probably a lot of the times like that you maybe need to
00:37:55
protect yourself a little bit but you're never hide behind the fact that it was someone else's fault and again I keep
00:38:00
going back to me soon because I'm not a coach or a manager and people say to me you know could you give something back
00:38:07
but I was trying to give it back to me soon and things like that don't question them aren't you don't make excuses don't
00:38:13
blame the manager or if you come in and say oh the culture the trainer well get shot out of it don't don't be in the
00:38:19
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on the point of questioning the manager one of the things I read was that Gerald Julia Julia cuts his bloody name Julia
00:40:17
Julia cool one of the reasons why he ultimately ended up leaving the club
00:40:22
um was because he started to lose his authority in the dressing room now Peter Crouch said to me that
00:40:28
great managers even when they don't know the right answers pretend they do because they know that if they ever get to a point where the players know that
00:40:34
they're not in control then the Authority's gone and there was a story I read about Gerard wholey a
00:40:40
um picking a team and then going and asking Jared if it was the correct team and then Gerard said it's not the
00:40:46
correct team and changed it this happened in in spring in 2004 in in the run-up to a
00:40:55
Premier League match way to Manchester United Jared Julio picked the team but then consulted with Gerard whether the
00:41:01
selection was right who said it wasn't right and then Julia changed it I don't I don't it rings a bell I don't
00:41:08
know the specific game if that was the right game but I think towards the end of his time I think the results are going well and
00:41:16
marriages no matter who they are they will lose confidence and Stevie at that time was obviously a mega stat and
00:41:22
you're trying to maybe keep people on side if you're like not that I think the players were ever offside with with
00:41:28
Gerard Julia but that confidence and belief in the manager starts to have away when results don't go well I
00:41:34
wouldn't say Gerard Healy ever lost digestion in terms of how we felt about him
00:41:40
as a man but it was it was a time for her to come to an end there's no doubt
00:41:46
about that and it's an interesting one that does a manager lose the dressing room
00:41:52
yes he's always lost part of adjustment because the players who he's not picking
00:41:58
but I think it's when that belief goes really but for me
00:42:04
again I think I was different to all the players because I never played for the manager ever
00:42:10
I always play for the club and again because it was the club I always felt like I played for the club and the supporters and I'm not saying that too
00:42:17
Curry favor with the supporters as such but
00:42:22
no manager bought me you know I I didn't no one managing anything as such I mean bro you haven't
00:42:27
given me me Debbie or supposing but the managers played me but I never
00:42:33
had that sort of feeling that we need to win this for the manager
00:42:40
Rafa Benitez comes in next what's the difference between Gerard Julia and Rafa
00:42:46
Benitez in terms of style because I find it so compelling that managers can be great for various different reasons and
00:42:51
we think of management as like a formula but as I sit here with football players that I've had seven eight nine managers
00:42:57
they all say that managers are completely different in their stolen approach yeah raffle was completely different
00:43:02
Jared Julia was a manager I think Gerard wholey was the type of
00:43:08
guy who could he could manage an organization didn't just have to be football I think he
00:43:15
could have been a bank manager he could have been a CEO if you're like he organized
00:43:20
people get everyone focused on you know what do we want to achieve and but the actual day-to-day stuff of coaching I
00:43:27
thought it wasn't as Forte and I'd sound strange I don't think he had a huge knowledge of the game enough but it
00:43:34
wasn't somebody was going to say something something to you in a coaching session or a tactical point that made you think oh I never did that before or
00:43:41
that's a bit different it wasn't like that his thing was bringing people together for a common goal and almost
00:43:47
what I've described them to other people people say Clive Woodward the the England rugby
00:43:54
College World Cup winning culture was probably similar in that now he's had all the cultures but he's always been coming up with ideas to create sort of a
00:44:00
Siege mentality or togetherness whereas Rapha was a coach he was on that training pitch every day
00:44:06
and he was a lot colder than Gerard Julia he was a lot more interested in the kids the wife you know yourself you
00:44:14
know we speak ask me about my dad or different things like that was Jared who Rafa didn't want to get involved in
00:44:20
anything it was just football I mean if the guy was obsessed with football Raffa was just like he was probably above me
00:44:26
somewhere but it was different but it doesn't I I mean I'll be honest with you when we
00:44:33
describe managers like the one who come a couple after was Roy Hodgson and it didn't go
00:44:39
particularly well but we point it when a new manager comes in
00:44:44
I want to get whatever I can from so it may not work for Liverpool I may
00:44:50
not like X but I might like lion's head I'm sorry so
00:44:55
you're always going to be a sponge and taking things in and learning things and I think when John Julia came in I was a
00:45:02
bit Power Player and then became a fully fledged member of Liverpool's first 11 for the next
00:45:08
five years and then Rafa came in and then we again stepped up a level to become the Vice Captain and one of the
00:45:15
leaders in the team one of the best players in the team so I always think I got the most
00:45:21
from these these other managers coming in you know certainly I don't think he would have ever heard of me
00:45:27
maybe you know not too much but I think it's important when people come into your life figures of authority
00:45:34
you've got to basically squeeze everything out of them to your advantage and I think I did that with both
00:45:39
managers let's do the biggest prone con then so from what I of these individuals as
00:45:46
managers so Jared Julia you said he's a great sort of man manager CEO type that's probably from what I hear one of
00:45:51
his greatest strengths his downside is maybe a lack of football knowledge is that what you're I wouldn't say it was a downside because he had cultures around
00:45:58
him who who did the training sessions it just it got to its its natural end right
00:46:03
in that you know we shouldn't forget him and he nearly lost his life managing Liverpool
00:46:10
and he's then making decisions is he in a fully you know football focused
00:46:17
state of mind but he's actually recovering from almost losing his life and we made a few signings that didn't work and and to be honest that's always
00:46:23
How It Ends for Liverpool managers when it comes to the end that they have a summer where they buy a few plays they don't quite work out and then the next
00:46:30
manager has to has to come in because you know the the energy and the excitement not just from the squad but also the supporters just peed at an
00:46:37
house so rapha's great tactically obsessed with football obsessed with the game but his sort of downside was if
00:46:43
there I mean everyone has a [ __ ] downside I have a downside as a manager yeah yeah is is probably the the man management stuff you yeah but I don't
00:46:49
think that's that stops US winning as such yes nobody is everything yeah Alex
00:46:55
Ferguson is not a cult she's bought but we more like a Gerard wholey type figure and there's cultures there Rafa Benitez
00:47:01
people question his man management but I I don't question the research and I
00:47:06
don't question Gerard who like oh the managers you've just got to do what's your strength that's your strength or
00:47:11
what if Rafa benite says his strength is not the man management I'm putting this act on it's all about being obsessed
00:47:17
with football and coaching every single day do what you're good at and it is not interesting is there's so many ways to
00:47:23
win because when I sort of sat here with all the United players Rio Patrice Gary they all say about Sir Alex Ferguson
00:47:29
they go manager but only came in the training room dressing around twice in 26 years whatever and I and then you
00:47:34
hear about these other people like Rafa who also tremendously successful um won the biggest trophies you could
00:47:40
possibly win but wasn't that way inclined history is written by the winner it doesn't matter what you do so
00:47:47
if Sir Alex Ferguson doesn't do well at Man United those same plays be sent to you he's not
00:47:53
at the training ground yeah he's never there yeah we don't do tactical work he doesn't do any culture it it's all about
00:47:58
women and and to be honest what you're saying that is interesting because one time I
00:48:04
remember Rafa Benitez he knew someone at United and he said physician doesn't even coach because in
00:48:10
rapha's mind you've got to be to be a top man you're a coach you know I think when him and Mourinho came along
00:48:16
they were like cultures I probably couldn't get their heads around the way Alex Ferguson was and it was almost
00:48:21
it was almost a little bit dismissive and it wasn't like I was trying to defend the Manchester United manager it was just a training if infection doesn't
00:48:27
even do the coaching I said so what yeah it's like it doesn't matter he wins there's different ways of winning and
00:48:33
that's my thing on TV now there's no right or wrong way to play football it's being the best you can be at what you do
00:48:41
and that and if that's for Rapides is being on that training now coaching not getting involved in stuff away from the
00:48:46
pitch well that's someone else's job you know no one is perfect at any Alex Ferguson wasn't a great coach so he
00:48:52
brought in great coaches I think that's really important not just in in
00:48:58
in football management I actually think in life in that for me I'm a little bit weary of getting involved in things but
00:49:04
I think that's not my area of expertise I think I'd be a little better arrogance of Michelle to think I could just parachute myself in there and
00:49:13
you know start running the show or you get right involved in it so I think we all got to know what our students are
00:49:19
and all God are no way we need help because we all need help that's what Richard Branson taught me um you know reading through his story
00:49:25
but also getting to speak to him on this podcast this is a guy who didn't know what the difference between net profit
00:49:30
and gross profit until I think he was 50 which is the one of the key principles like understandings of running a business
00:49:36
dyslexic can't look at presentations if you try and show him words on a slide deck he'll he won't look at it he'll
00:49:41
only look at pictures he's got so many deficiencies in areas that you think are
00:49:46
critical to business but the one thing that everyone says he says and everyone around him says was because
00:49:52
of all of his deficiencies he made up for it by being the best delegator in the world so he found people that could
00:49:57
plug all of these gaps and gave them huge responsibility and you think you know by the age of
00:50:03
at the same time when he doesn't know the difference between net profit and gross profit he's running 50 different companies virgin is now 400 different
00:50:10
companies and you go how is someone who's in his own words like not good at
00:50:15
business doing that well just a supreme delegator and Sir Alex focused in the same bad
00:50:21
coach but had can't remember his name that guy that did it Carlos Keys lots of different ones didn't he but I think I
00:50:27
think what you're saying is really good because the Creator I've had has afforded me so
00:50:34
many opportunities I'm so fortunate that I I mean I'm speaking to you you know
00:50:39
you're speaking to other people who are experts in their field but when you speak to them and that
00:50:44
story about Richard Branson is perfect in that if you don't know them and you know say
00:50:52
my family and friends sometimes they're fascinated by some of the people I meet and I said I'm lucky to be in certain situations and
00:50:58
they look at these people like that they're extraordinary and when you've got a sort of relationship with someone
00:51:04
whether it's someone I work on TV with they're just normal people and they've
00:51:10
got the same sort of insecurities that you've got but they've got something about them where they've got sort of
00:51:16
maybe it's an opportunity that's a reason they've grabbed it with both hands they've an enthusiasm something
00:51:23
about them put them in that position but do not
00:51:28
Extraordinary People they've got an extraordinary talent for that you know which finds themselves I feel it in that
00:51:35
field so that thing where people are so impressed with someone or think they're going to
00:51:41
give them these words that they've never heard of before I think the olds that are getting now I realize that a lot of people in you know
00:51:48
great positions it's not because they're some genius sometimes as I said it's opportunity they've seen a niche in the
00:51:54
market whatever it may be they've just gone out there and grabbed it you know there's a real trap I've noticed based
00:52:00
on exactly what you've said where someone's successful so what we do is we assume that they get everything right and so with Richard Branson because he's
00:52:07
a super successful entrepreneur we assume that he's the best at marketing branding Finance all of these things and
00:52:14
I noticed this a lot when I was in San Francisco and we were it was when Snapchat the app had blown up and we were building a chat app and what you'd
00:52:20
see the team doing was whenever we were trying to make a decision we the team were going well what does Snapchat do
00:52:25
because Snapchat was successful we assumed that their marketing strategy every feature they had everything they
00:52:33
did with the login form we assumed everything they did was right um and I came to I came to sort of see
00:52:39
that bias in myself and it's exactly what you've described if we see someone who is at the top of the game we assume that they are Godlike in
00:52:46
everything that's what you do with Richard Branson she means the best speaker in the world you've seen the best salesman who know in reality from
00:52:52
what I've learned from doing this and honestly looking at my own life because I'm not actually good at business like I'm not good at the business stuff I'm not good at like Finance
00:52:59
um operations processes but I'm good at this one thing and that's what I learned from Richard is Richard's good at this
00:53:05
one thing he's like good I'd say he's good at The Branding piece but he's just an unbelievable delegator
00:53:11
um so that's yeah I mean that's that's what I got from all of that but it's it's funny having this conversation in
00:53:16
the wake of Richard Branson because he's the the best example of that one of the obviously one of the defining moments uh
00:53:23
I think in football generally not just as live as a Liverpool player or a Liverpool fan was that final away at
00:53:28
Istanbul you uh you go in at half time I think it's 2005 final you go in three nil down
00:53:36
when you go down that tunnel at three nil down honestly do you think you can turn that game around no no no
00:53:43
not at all no what are you thinking when you walk through the tunnel then there's gonna be six nil is that what you're
00:53:48
thinking oh how can we stop it being six nil I think if you lose again three nil
00:53:54
it happens if you lose five or six and it's remembered
00:54:01
and that was my fear that was fear what happened in the dressing room what did Rafa say
00:54:06
not a lot he wasn't a motivator he was he was a tactician and he made changes in this system-wise
00:54:14
strategically to change it but if I'm being honest I think he changed the changes he made was not to win the game
00:54:20
I think the changes he made was to stop it becoming five or six nil because we actually brought on a
00:54:26
defensive Midfield player Didier man we went to you can call it three at the back but
00:54:31
you can you can be B5 at the back if you like rather than playing four don't get me wrong the changes helped us
00:54:36
go on and get the goals but I think initially we need to stop what AC Milano
00:54:42
doing otherwise this is going to be a massacre why did the game turn around
00:54:47
I think the change is Rafa made a little bit of luck and Steven Gerard
00:54:54
hmm he scores the head oh 54 minutes or something and then within a couple of more minutes you've you're three now
00:55:00
three three but that's that's the little bit of looking you just go so quickly right after that that happens in some
00:55:05
games and we did get a little bit of a look uh I think the Lions would actually flagged
00:55:11
for an offside the referee didn't see it and they carried on playing for 30 seconds so the lantern puts his flag down
00:55:16
and that's in the run-up two was getting our second goal so we scored the second goal and then
00:55:23
generation it's just you know when you're on a football pitch you smell it it's 3-2
00:55:29
we knew it was good I knew it was gonna be three three everybody knew it was going to be three three just what is that I don't know
00:55:36
you just the the reason I know is because when we score 3-2
00:55:42
no one celebrated the goal scorer everyone just runs back he started celebrating he starts
00:55:48
celebrating but it's he was going crazy I remember thinking you shouldn't do that yeah but everyone's back it's like everyone's
00:55:54
saying oof in his own and you don't need to speak to other people sometimes there's moments in games it
00:56:00
just you can smell it you can feel something's happening is that a culture thing as well because there's certain clubs you have that when when they go
00:56:06
two-nil down three nil down no everyone goes oh they're gonna do it they're gonna come back and there's that mentality where you go yeah we're not
00:56:12
safe here they're coming for us I think Liverpool man united have got it City you seem to have it now a city yeah
00:56:19
certainly in the last couple of years on the Pep Guardiola I've always felt Chelsea have had that in the last 10 years or so even when
00:56:26
they went at the best they'd still find a way to win and yeah I know our club's got that and
00:56:33
we'll always have that you just it just you feel like something's gonna happen
00:56:38
why why is Liverpool done so well in the Champions League I think a lot of that is emotion
00:56:44
belief getting winning those finals as well yeah winning finals the history that's gone before the anfield crowd
00:56:50
believe that the opposition coming to anfield believe that something's going to happen special this is a this is a mythical football ground do you believe
00:56:57
they're the best fans in the Premier League I I wouldn't say that and the reason I wouldn't say that because everybody thinks they're the best fans yeah and I
00:57:04
think if I do say that I won't be turning on my Twitter notifications in a few days after this
00:57:09
podcast comes out but but no um I would say yes I
00:57:14
but every set of supporters what they do to follow their team home and away I think I'm feel special I don't think
00:57:21
anyone could deny that that there's something special Adam feel that doesn't happen at any
00:57:27
other places where I think when we say that you know the
00:57:32
crowd suck the goal in well the opposition manager would always say before the game no Spectators ever scored a goal
00:57:39
that's pretty obvious but Adam field it almost feels like I
00:57:45
think even top managers even Pep Guardiola he's his record that anfield maybe the greatest manager of all time
00:57:50
he's had some of the greatest teams of all time his record and I'm feels horrendous and he
00:57:57
he hasn't changed his mind when he goes to anfield it's just like the environment the atmosphere just he
00:58:03
mad things happen at HomeField was that the Pinnacle of your career that that final battle oh yeah Istanbul
00:58:10
I have to be honest I couldn't believe I was playing at that level
00:58:15
well I was a huge football fan probably the biggest football fan in the
00:58:21
dressing room who was just obsessed with football red watched everything
00:58:27
and I know about all the great teams you know going back to the Real Madrid teams of the 50s the Stefan postcas
00:58:34
um then you probably got to buy a Munich teams of Beckham Bauer Krave teams just before that
00:58:40
uh Total Football Holland then you've got the AC Milan team the great teams who dominate European football AC Milan
00:58:45
late 80s early 90s I could name all the players what they did guardiola's team of Barcelona obviously that was after we
00:58:52
were involved in the Champions League and I'm very honest about
00:58:57
my capabilities of footballer but I didn't think I was that level
00:59:02
some people may still think I'm not that's obviously football's opinions but I always remember when we won the
00:59:08
semi-final against Chelsea I wasn't thinking right we're going to win the championship meet me first few
00:59:14
days afterwards was I'm playing the Champions League final you know this is like Maldini berazi Crow you know all
00:59:21
these players who who I absolutely idolize and know so much about the defined by the European Cup
00:59:28
or a tournament I always think the greatest players of all time they've either dominated the European
00:59:33
couple they've won the World Cup of the Euros or something it's winning leagues is not enough to be really
00:59:39
put yourself on a level of the real greats that's what they all do and it was almost wow I can't believe
00:59:47
I'm I'm playing at this level you know that made me think about Ronaldo obviously he's he's out the World Cup
00:59:52
now and you've had a couple of strong opinions on Ronaldo over the last couple of weeks have I to be honest following
00:59:57
the interview he did and then I'm a man united fan so I I didn't take it especially well what he said and how he
01:00:04
did it and I thought it was very self-serving and looked selfish Etc um but there's probably another way to
01:00:09
do it and I wonder now I actually wonder if he regrets doing it I regret I wonder if he he knew it would play out like it
01:00:15
did and then he'd go to the World Cup be benched again which almost kind of validates Eric tenhag's position but
01:00:22
what's your whole stance on the Ronaldo Saga I actually only watched the full
01:00:28
interview a couple of days ago he did with Piers Morgan I'd only seen clips of it and I watched the full interview
01:00:35
I'm not sure he's a guy who regrets anything or too much if I'm being totally honest or simply doesn't give
01:00:41
off that maybe in his private thoughts I think the Poetry one will have hated
01:00:47
him but you know it's he's fallible you know he's he's not superhuman he's he's one of the greatest
01:00:54
players of all time he's special but I I mean I'm no huge Ronaldo fan I think
01:01:01
that's pretty obvious and that's not for his football and ability I actually I got so much admiration for him for his
01:01:08
mental strength I just think it's unbelievable I think probably one of the strongest
01:01:13
players mentally because he he's had that thing his whole career for how good he is he still had such a messy
01:01:19
on his shoulder it's always he could never almost sit back and go I'm the best almost relax he's always
01:01:25
had this constant yeah be not as good as Messi and I know people it splits people but I would say the majority of people
01:01:30
would probably side with Messi out I would I would imagine I think that they do and I think to always have that and
01:01:37
always have that thing of trying to prove people wrong and I've got that on a completely different level it's almost like he feels like he's not
01:01:43
rated even though everyone says he's one of the best players of all time and I and I can't help but admire that drive because
01:01:50
I've got that drive but just not that ability that he's got but I just I mean I'm saying I don't
01:01:56
want him to sort of ruin his legacy with interviews I mean I don't really care it's not not my problem but
01:02:04
it's it's it's sad for him the way people people are speaking about messy towards the end of his career and
01:02:10
Ronaldo and it's completely different and it's not to do with what's going on in the pitch I think it's always that
01:02:16
idea that Ronaldo was about himself it was the eagle whereas Messi has painted this this like sync figure when I don't
01:02:22
actually think that's true but people are talking about what messy to win the World Cup you know with
01:02:29
Ronaldo it's like he's not the same player but who is the same player to 37 so he's getting criticized for not being
01:02:34
the same player 37-38 when really he's getting loads of that stage of his career but because of the way he comes
01:02:41
across he storms off the pitch uh storms down the tunnel he he's given that
01:02:46
interview people have obviously going on Forum now and uh where does he go from
01:02:51
here because he because if he had had a phenomenal World Cup then there'd probably be a lot of doors open for him
01:02:56
some top sides would probably want him even just for a year contract or something but in the wake of being a
01:03:02
disruptive employer at his last role and then going off to the euros and being either a disruptive employee or just a
01:03:07
little poor performing employee he makes you wonder like what manager is going to want to take on that ego but also
01:03:13
without the upside you get with just like incredible unfilled performance so it's now just it seems like it's just
01:03:19
it's tilted the other way now yeah I mean Ronaldo hasn't changed yeah he's always been that sort of
01:03:25
character everyone's known that but he was with the hassle yeah exactly now and that's like everything in football you
01:03:32
know when we talk about a manager making a decision can you put up with that and it's not it's in your business isn't it in your
01:03:38
life you know you don't cut off your noses about your face but when I get to that stage where you're thinking this
01:03:44
will become a more of a problem and again I say that to be soon you know when a manager looks at you as a player
01:03:51
every manager wants the same thing performance low maintenance that's it
01:03:56
you know Satan players you know and it's when it goes starts getting weighted to the high maintenance
01:04:02
is basically the scales are more tilted towards the high maintenance it's time to go did you see any high maintenance
01:04:08
players in your career that were specific particularly troublesome
01:04:13
that weird or wind were it's funny at Liverpool
01:04:19
in that I think Liverpool's a unique Club and I'm sure it's still the same
01:04:25
Liverpool supports have an obsession with the manager that I don't think I've seen at any other club
01:04:30
so when the team win it's about shankly Paisley now it's klopp we know there's
01:04:36
great players but the adulation I think starts with Bill shankly
01:04:43
and when we when Liverpool win it's about the manager and the players it's not the players then the manager so the
01:04:50
managers are at Liverpool I think have always had a great deal of authority they've always had the people with them
01:04:56
so it's never a case of a players could get a manager out and I never saw that
01:05:01
at Liverpool certainly not when I was there Roy Hodgkin had a tough time at Liverpool
01:05:06
he wasn't the right manager for the club and the club moved around after about six months why was he the right manager
01:05:11
he just he didn't get the club he didn't say the right things in the Press he was he was too defensive for
01:05:18
Liverpool for the top not just for Liverpool but for any top club but listen he'd had success in his career
01:05:24
playing that way and he wasn't going to change when he was in the 60s so it was just the wrong appointment it didn't work I read that Gerard deliberately
01:05:31
missed a penalty to no that's not true yeah I wonder I couldn't believe it was true but I read that's what I read and I
01:05:37
thought there's no [ __ ] way that Jared would miss a penalty I actually went upstairs before you came and watched it to see Gerald's body language
01:05:43
and Gerard did look pissed off nothing like that and I mean I was I
01:05:49
felt sorry for him hey to be honest but me points of making them what the club is I think it would always be difficult at
01:05:55
any stage for a player to have this big ego to
01:06:01
sort of try and think he was more powerful than manager because I think that's why managers love being Manager of Liverpool is because they'd always
01:06:08
get time you look at you can clap now and there's a spell in in the season
01:06:14
the pandemic season where he's done he's not amazing he's a Godlike figure
01:06:20
but other people actually lost six games a whole against teams in the bottom of the table in a row
01:06:26
and I'm not saying you should have been exactly what I'm saying this I know the clubs that question would have been asked I don't even mean one Liverpool support
01:06:33
as a saying one yeah it would have actually even contemplated that for anything because that's the type of
01:06:38
support that they've been brought up on the manager knows what he's doing well one of my best friends is um I love my
01:06:45
maybe my best friend in the world is a Liverpool fan and I I said to him this year when Liverpool was struggling I said what would it take for you to
01:06:53
become clop out he wouldn't answer the question I pressed him I pressed him for weeks and weeks and weeks eventually I
01:06:58
was like if Liverpool get relegated are you still klopping he was like yeah and he just like leaves the group chat but
01:07:04
it's like a religious phenomenon yeah I just I don't even with Vegas in a menu I
01:07:09
know he was he was a mumbly unbelievable but I just think when I go to see man United's past a big rival it'll be
01:07:16
George best and Bobby Charlton in that and then maybe you know Maples becomes after them in some ways maybe I'm wrong
01:07:22
but it just feels like different at Liverpool I think that gives managers huge power and why I don't think I've
01:07:27
ever encountered what I would call player power as such at Liverpool probably why Liverpool have been successful though because many other
01:07:34
clubs have struggled with that even Manchester United most recently with some of the big personalities we've had where the manager doesn't have authority
01:07:39
and you just get you get into the first season and you go the manager is going to be fired because we're not going to
01:07:45
get rid of this world-class player um and then you I was speaking to Jesse lingard about this like
01:07:51
because you can almost feel it in the air when when it's coming you know you can feel that they've lost that phrase
01:07:57
lost the dressing room I've always wondered if that was true because it's a real thing yeah I think
01:08:03
so I mean I I probably felt that when Roy Hodgson was there I don't think many players were enjoying the training or having them and I was almost felt like I
01:08:09
was trying to like come on you you know is there private comments though between you and Gerard where you go uh this is
01:08:16
not oh yeah of course listen we're not we're like fans if that would be maybe I'll tell her what are you doing here why has he done that uh I I always
01:08:23
remember and the only time I've ever did that did this in my whole career
01:08:29
we lost a home to Blackpool under Royal I think it was an international break
01:08:34
and I'd stop playing for England then and I couldn't sleep and I went in the next morning and I
01:08:40
went straight into his office and he was actually having a coach's meeting
01:08:45
and I was probably 33 34 so I was a really experienced Pro
01:08:52
and we just had this big discussion with all the cultures and it wasn't and probably said things soon that
01:08:57
happened maybe you know he was talking about what he wanted to do for that and everything you can do that you can't do
01:09:02
it wasn't me questioning him as a manager it was almost like I want to help him and not because he again he
01:09:08
needed help as a manager he needed help as a Liverpool manager as such and
01:09:15
it was almost like no if you if if you come out and say that or if you play this play everyone's just going to you
01:09:21
you can't do that anymore that's got to stop I wouldn't name the names I was talking about I wouldn't do that but
01:09:26
that wasn't a case of me saying you don't know what you're doing you needed it wasn't an arrogant way it was in a way as if like again the
01:09:33
club was just like oh my God where are we going what are we doing it wasn't for sort of it was more trying to help the
01:09:39
situation reading trying to help him as a as a managers I knew it was tough
01:09:44
sounds like he's lost a dressing room at that point oh yeah yeah yeah no I said that you know a lot of the play is what
01:09:50
I'm saying is he hadn't lost me as such as I said no no manager could lose me or get me in some ways and that I always
01:09:57
felt like I wasn't really playing for them I mean I was behind every manager and wanted to take things from every
01:10:02
manager we hear these stories where they're like the the CEO has had a conversation with a player that's a
01:10:08
disgrace is that is that is that true have you ever heard of that happening where the CEO of the club will have a
01:10:13
conversation with the player about the manager is the manager right do we need to move him on what's going on in the dressing room because if I was to CEO of
01:10:20
a club and I wasn't like I'm seeing on the pitch that the club is performing badly I might go and post TV aside or you
01:10:27
aside and go how's everything going that happened once to me and I just absolutely completely said this is an
01:10:34
absolute joke that happened in 2007.
01:10:41
with American owners Hicks and Gillette oh gosh that was a yeah they'd had a big follow-up with
01:10:48
Rafa Benitez over transfer attacks whatever it must have been and they wanted to sacrifer and bring Jag and cleanseman
01:10:55
and they me and Steve had the same agent
01:11:00
and rather it wasn't a case of we'd speak to them on the phone I never really ever you know never spoke to no need to
01:11:06
they said would Stevie and kind of be okay if Rafa Benitez was changed and we brought young
01:11:12
klinsman in and I was like what we've been in the Champions League final about two months
01:11:17
before so we've been in underneath we've been in two Champions League finals in three years but listen I'm not defending the
01:11:24
Americans in anybody but I know Rapha but he says as a manager there's hardware for a CEO and an owner I know that he pushes them to the absolute
01:11:30
limit where I think in the end they think oh he's you know the performance high maintenance type of thing it is
01:11:36
like that as a manager but it was like what absolutely not I mean why are you even
01:11:42
speak no it's I couldn't believe the question was even asked number one because of how well
01:11:47
we've done as a team but also number two why are you asking me it's just like no don't ever almost put me in that
01:11:53
position or situation or you can fire the manager yeah but if that did happen at that time you can imagine it happen
01:12:00
at other clubs certainly Chelsea who was just a revolving door and Rafa was eventually fired by them wasn't he I
01:12:07
believe yeah but like three years later or something like that that was like that was when it was at its best it wasn't a
01:12:13
football and decision like that was a personal decision so you so you I'm guessing you didn't go and tell Rafa
01:12:18
that conversation had happened no okay eventually you retire and interestingly which kind of Buck's the trend again you
01:12:24
you said you were happy that your career was done um why
01:12:30
the roller coaster of emotions it was yeah I just I had enough of it
01:12:36
you know behind the highs and lows and the high was never as
01:12:42
high as the low was low if you like so now I was done I didn't it's very
01:12:49
difficult to leave Liverpool I'd seen other plays Lee because in
01:12:55
Liverpool fans eyes I'm rightly so ways better than Liverpool I actually said that an interview once who's bigger than
01:13:00
Liverpool but we've had plays with left and gone to Real Madrid didn't last longer but as a local player you could never move to
01:13:07
another English Club or certainly feel like you were going on the up you may be your career might be petering
01:13:13
out and you go lower down Liverpool fans would be fine with that but a local player moving very difficult there's you look at the
01:13:20
reaction to Mike alone moving to Real Madrid and then subsequently ends up at Manchester United even Steve McManaman
01:13:27
is not loved as much as he should be for how good a play he was at Liverpool I feel because he left on a bus when I
01:13:33
went to Real Madrid didn't go to a big rival he went to the biggest club in the world that was always in my head
01:13:40
not that I could necessarily move to a European giant but the thing of
01:13:48
how do you get out how do we tell how do I time this right
01:13:55
I don't want to carry on playing when I'm embarrassing myself and embarrassing the club or the supporters so I've
01:14:00
almost got the timings out and I know towards the end of my career there was Liverpool fans really questioning
01:14:06
why I got a new contract at a certain stage you know why I was playing and saying games ahead of another player not
01:14:12
not massively not where people outside of Liverpool would know but again you smell it you feel it the local
01:14:18
paper fans you know it just you know you're not stupid and I had that to start to be clear the flip side of that
01:14:25
way it was always that thing of am I fully rated am I good enough to play for
01:14:31
Liverpool so I always had that through my career and I think the one thing that's helped me
01:14:38
in my career is I've always had the feeling that I'm not
01:14:44
fully rated or I think I've been underestimated a little bit as a player and maybe in the
01:14:50
role that I do now where no one's expected what I've ended up
01:14:56
doing so it's almost maybe that takes a little bit of pressure off but I've always felt like
01:15:01
I've got something to prove they don't quite think I'm good enough I wasn't sure I wasn't Stephen I wasn't Michael I wasn't Robbie Fowler when I got into the
01:15:07
team I was a slow being and I got better and better and better as the years went on through experience and maturity
01:15:14
but absorbs that thing of am I good enough did that make you work harder than people around you
01:15:20
yeah yeah I I yeah 100 it always felt like um
01:15:28
always I have it now where I always feel like there's some fight of some battle to win
01:15:35
or something like you know and I never look back I never sort of think I've done that
01:15:42
I I always remember something Brendan Rodgers said to me
01:15:48
you just become Liverpool manager and he'd been promoted the year before with
01:15:54
Swansea and he told me about Alex Ferguson sent him a letter as I think Alex Vegas must maybe do two every manager gets promoted
01:16:01
and he's written this letter well done congratulations and he said to Brandon Rogers something
01:16:07
he said but remember never lose your fear
01:16:13
and I remember Brendan Rodgers telling me and it was like a light bulb moment and I went I've never lost mine
01:16:21
it almost like yeah I'm not trying to compare myself to Doug's face what I'm saying is when he
01:16:26
said that was like a piece of advice to Brendan Rogers and I'm sure he said it to all the managers and players but it was like probably the biggest
01:16:32
figure in English football at that time and I didn't say nothing to Brenda wow
01:16:39
that is so important to success I think always having that fear
01:16:46
without letting it sort of overtake you where you can't actually you know
01:16:51
mentally you can't achieve what you want to do but always have that thing where you think someone's going to take me Place someone's looking to beat me so
01:16:58
who am I competing with you know always having that and I've I've still got that today I've also got the fear that
01:17:06
use the next plunder coming um you know what what angle are they going to come out
01:17:12
I'll think about what I'm going to say before I get to a game it's the opposite of complacency right that's yeah yeah
01:17:18
and whether you can put that into people I've never had complacency in my life I don't think I ever will do you think yeah it's a good point do
01:17:24
you think you can teach that or is that just a yeah because I don't even we do you ever
01:17:29
do you ever feel I mean obviously you're very successful do you ever feel like you've done enough
01:17:36
um of course not I I don't yeah of course not do you think that's that's a that is a treat with with people you know you
01:17:42
bring on the podcast as well it's just I I mean even when I'm speaking to you a lot of time I'm speaking about poor
01:17:47
games I'm not speaking about great games and it just that constant feeling as if I can do more I should have done more
01:17:54
but I'm the thing I'm most curious about is of course I see that in on all my guess I mean Eddie Hearn comes to mind
01:18:00
his book is called Relentless and he's you know I remember I remember him asking him like what's the end game and he's like well you know one day we'll
01:18:06
we'll sell this company okay so that day you sell the company then you go to the beach and have the pina coladas and you
01:18:11
could just sit in his face for horror the thought that even if he sold matching boxing he he would need to go
01:18:16
and just carry on fighting for something and we all have that we all I think we have it hardwired into us as just generally as humans and this is why
01:18:23
we're here in these buildings and have this the roads and the cars that our ancestors put something in us where they
01:18:28
said you're gonna struggle forward but then I think other some people have it to an even more obsessive degree and
01:18:34
it's usually people who've had some early experience where losing
01:18:40
um came at a real cost to their self-esteem or to someone around them that mattered
01:18:46
or their dad or you know they just learned early that losing meant that they were they weren't enough they
01:18:51
weren't Worthy and that's kind of what I was trying to understand in you is because that I see that particularly in
01:18:57
your story that like obsessive competitiveness but I don't see it in everybody so where did that like what was the cost
01:19:04
of losing or not winning or not you know
01:19:09
I've said it before I go back to me a child with football a feeling of winning losing you were playing since
01:19:16
you were three or something right yeah playing really early and I was thinking about you know I was
01:19:21
thinking about what I'm going to say when I come on here what am I going to say that's you know different than you know you have lots of
01:19:27
guests and even that's you know everything like yeah just just thinking you know well nice point would you like
01:19:33
to be I don't know what you want to ask me but I think that the role I'm in now
01:19:38
we talk about the you know I've read that book bounce have you read that book no the table Yeah the
01:19:45
ten thousand hours sort of mindset of you know that and you know I was a footballer for
01:19:52
professional football for 17 years but you don't realize when you're in it will be forwarded that it's actually a small
01:19:57
penalty of your life really and the job I'm in now I'm probably going to be doing that a lot more than
01:20:04
I'm actually a professional footballer and I actually think my 10 000 hours
01:20:12
of what I did as a kid is almost not just to be a footballer so actually be a Ponder an analyst whatever you want to
01:20:19
call it because I don't think anybody I want to talk I'm the reason I'm talking about this is because I'm talking about being
01:20:24
competitive now as a pundit talking on TV making good points analyzing games is that who's going to
01:20:31
come next who's going to try and take my place but I I don't think many if any
01:20:39
I've had my education in football the way I have I
01:20:44
don't think anyone could have done more in football than what I did to prepare me to get to
01:20:49
where I was when I finished what about Gary no do you think Gary do you say no what
01:20:55
a meat what I mean by this is not in terms of like putting hard work and I'm thinking talk about I was getting taken to football
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games from the age of four or five amateur football I was in the back of the van with all
01:21:07
the players so listen to men talk football straight when you come back go back to
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the pub everyone back the pub so we'd meet at the pub 12 on a Saturday and a Sunday my dad was
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the manager we're all back at the van I'm listening to these I'm five six listen to men talk football back to the
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pub I'm playing on the pool table all the football results are coming in but again that constant talk of football why
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don't you become a manager people would think you'd become your leader yeah I actually think Leeds is interesting in
01:21:37
that I think it's almost like a different type of leadership now I think in the 70s 80s maybe 90s
01:21:44
we always cast a leader as me you know whether he had the captain's arm on your screaming shout out to
01:21:49
referee your own players you're aging people on and that is leadership but I don't think that that person
01:21:55
necessarily ends up always being the manager I'm just thinking of Michael arteta I played against him I don't
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think he had him say a word on the pitch and then you could say someone like a Tony Adams well has he not Arsenal
01:22:06
manager you know he's that leadership well he's had a little goal with the management more than a little goal but I
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think management now is set up for more of the studious types not that I don't think about the game but
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I actually think I've made a great decision not to be a manager because I think when I was playing I thought
01:22:26
like a manager and I think what managers put themselves through is probably what I put myself through as a
01:22:32
player where you really torture yourself and you get that emotionally involved and
01:22:39
I I would back my football knowledge I I wouldn't be embarrassed if you're in trouble Peg Guardiola came on Monday
01:22:45
Night Football and we were talking to football and I might disagree with something he said he might disagree with I wouldn't feel out of place
01:22:53
but would I make a good football manager I don't think so I spoke to Michael Holman's and sometimes it's when someone
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else says something to you it really hits home and he I was interviewing him but he said to me you're not a people person and I was
01:23:07
like what aren't I even not really said you don't have a you know you don't suffer feel you know
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you're quite sharper people at times and it was only I thought well yeah he'd probably raised and that wouldn't help
01:23:21
you be a top football managers you've got to put up with things and basically
01:23:26
you know if if a player came into me and said he was injured my first thought was he's telling a lie
01:23:31
I'm like that with my kids if they say the sick you know I just I can't get that feeling up we had that
01:23:37
no the bluffing you know that type of I'd always think I'd be questioning you
01:23:43
know players speaking of your kids how did fatherhood change you
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because I heard you say it changed you and I couldn't didn't find the details so how did it change you
01:23:55
well I don't think it changed when my wife is pregnant I don't think I realized the enormously of having a kid
01:24:00
or having me some I should say I wasn't there for the bath I was Liverpool had a game
01:24:08
in Europe on the Tuesday in the Champions League and I was with my wife on the Sunday she went in but obviously
01:24:13
I didn't deal with the baby by the Mundy and we were traveling I had to go but I say I had to I didn't have to go
01:24:20
but it was always that I think at the time it was like oh it should be okay you know my mom was there and I went
01:24:27
and there we're gonna be three and after half an hour I was like uh but we we
01:24:33
sung up was born the day before the game we played the game in Europe and I
01:24:38
always remember we got we drew three three and we went off to Champions League which was a big a big blow and I always remember Jared Julia after the
01:24:44
game toasten me and I always loved and admired him for
01:24:50
that because I used to think I can't believe he's done that because I think I'd feel like my stomach's being ripped out if we're just gonna have the
01:24:56
champions league as a manager in some ways and it was I I didn't I didn't
01:25:01
realize how big it was to to have a child uh I think yeah they do not just for being there
01:25:09
when James was born more for being there you know you know he's going through you know it's not easy
01:25:14
uh you know the birth of a child so
01:25:19
yeah I regret that I would advise anyone in my situation to you know be there but I think I think it
01:25:27
is the common thing now I think even when you see you know different example but sort of
01:25:34
regime still at the world cup goes home on the back of his house getting baggled whereas maybe years ago that'd be seen
01:25:39
as if like well yeah yeah you'd have to wear a cup yeah you're playing for England you know and I think there's a lot more
01:25:46
probably get empathy and understanding from football managers now to sort of you know family matters but with me with
01:25:53
me kids it's like I wouldn't say I was a kid person before I had kids you know with relatives or something
01:26:00
but I feel like I'm completely different now so I've got nieces and nephews who it's funny really because
01:26:08
man and Nicholas kids are but we're all they're older so James is 20 me as 18 me
01:26:14
lives in New York now but we've got nieces and nephews and we're almost at times in the house on
01:26:20
our own it's like should we go and see the kids we see the kids not even our kids it's a bit like we need a fix of
01:26:26
kids for sort of an hour you know we're handing them up have you got a boyfriend have you got a girlfriend you know all
01:26:32
this thing that you did when your kids were growing up because we we really miss and
01:26:38
I think my wife would have wanted more kids but I was no we've got two we've got the boy and a girl Nicola your
01:26:44
childhood sweetheart um you married her in 2005 I believe yeah yeah yeah you've forgotten yeah
01:26:51
Champions League yeah one of the quotes that um struck me was this so did you speak to her no no no
01:26:59
because you know why because she tells me everything really she can't keep a secret she would tell me everything I
01:27:06
reckon I could have got it I will find out maybe in the future party um this quote here where it says
01:27:11
this part of my life story is the one I find most difficult to tell I could talk to you for hours expressing my fondness
01:27:17
for certain players or football teams but doing the same thing about the woman you love question mark hmm
01:27:26
yeah I do find that even with shorter me Mom or Dad really you know saying you love them and
01:27:33
I do to my wife of course I do but there's there's definitely when we have
01:27:38
disagreements my wife I'll you know it'll be I'm not
01:27:44
saying too much but you say but when you're on the phone talking to sky or you're doing your
01:27:49
newspaper column you can't shut up you know about football and ideas where's this you know I I want that and
01:27:57
I'm just not I just I do find it difficult I'm just not that patient to come out with those
01:28:03
words and I do find I don't know if it's I don't know what it is I mean I think
01:28:09
the brothers are the same we were yeah you know we're not like a an overly Huggy kissy family I'm like
01:28:16
that with my kids and I'm like that with my wife but I wouldn't say I wouldn't be classed to someone whoever does it now
01:28:22
which she can't see as an affectionate person or a romantic person I wouldn't say romantic I might say
01:28:29
affectionate is that different I don't know affectionate I think of like kissing and schmoozing romantic I think
01:28:34
of like gestures you know like the roses and stuff like that oh probably more yeah yeah I would do things like that maybe yeah yeah
01:28:41
as you look back on the role that your parents played in your life what would you
01:28:46
um I've got all of these wonderful photos here which I printed off earlier on oh cool show me
01:28:54
I'll slide the photos to you and you tell me you tell me what the person means in your life then what about that
01:29:00
one oh that's me Dad yeah yeah huge influence yeah still like
01:29:06
a huge influence now a larger than life character I think these past I wouldn't well this I know
01:29:13
I'm a strong character no I'm a big character and I think that comes from from me Dad uh I think
01:29:19
that personality and character he's passed on to me I think is the reason why
01:29:25
become the player I have because the reason I got there was not
01:29:30
justability I don't think my ability is Champions League final level
01:29:37
but I think my personality and character is and that's what dragged you know Jamie had a footballer to a
01:29:43
Champions League final because I can and mentally strong and tough and you know it
01:29:49
you know what and you have ups and downs in your life in your career but as I said not getting your way not in
01:29:55
stopping you no obstacles in the way and I think a lot of that comes from me Dad what about this one
01:30:03
foreign [Laughter]
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what does this mean to you yeah
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that's me life yeah that's me Nick London's two kids in Ibiza
01:30:44
uh yeah I'm really proud of my family and what we we all have and listen we
01:30:51
said before no one's got no one's amazing no one's got you know he's got all the answers we
01:30:58
have ups and downs like any family or you know you have words at the moment me as in New York now we
01:31:04
haven't got we're the same as any other family can't sleep is she okay my wife's going
01:31:10
to sleep probably three or four o'clock in the morning because of the time difference making sure she's in and you know just that whole balance of life she
01:31:16
she was only supposed to do three months she then told us a week ago she wants to do a year and we're excited to bring her own but
01:31:22
so proud of her to go to New York at 18. living on at all you know but it's it's it's tough but again so proud and James
01:31:30
what he's doing playing football I mean uh not easy I know being a son of a
01:31:36
footballer a girl but I always say again don't use that as an excuse because there's positives to that as well you
01:31:43
know uh but no really really you know we're proud of them and what I always
01:31:49
say to them is have a story
01:31:55
when you get to my age older make sure you've got a story so
01:32:00
you know what have you done do amazing things that me has gone to New York I don't know whether that's going to lead but what a thing to tell your own kids I
01:32:07
lived in New York for a year you know and that's I always drawn that into the kids you know he wants to do special things
01:32:14
amazing things just go on Smash life basically just go and do it Jamie thank you thank you so
01:32:21
much and we have a closing tradition on this planet no I haven't got a question you can you can you can take your time
01:32:28
on that part okay the part and also when I ask people this this question they usually take like five minutes to think about the answer
01:32:34
which is funny but um the question that's been left for you obviously the person didn't know they were leaving it for you is
01:32:42
interesting you do uncomfortable situations bring the
01:32:49
best or worst out of you
01:32:55
I would say the best I think
01:33:02
whether that's on the pitch off the pitch family stuff
01:33:08
I think when when in the moment I think I can
01:33:15
almost narrow it down and not get too hysterical or two it's a bit like okay need to do that that and that
01:33:22
and almost be a little bit calmer in there and that comes maybe as well
01:33:28
on the pitch when if you know you've had a bad injury or
01:33:34
you feel like someone's going to take your place or you feel like something's a bit like almost was a car compartmentalizes it is
01:33:41
that the right word yeah uh not always good with words but no just get that
01:33:48
focus of like that's what I need to do and I think that's I think it's it's probably a strength of mine of like not
01:33:54
worrying about its face I think I like doing that with the kids or my wife if they come to me with a
01:34:00
problem and it's always easier someone else's problems because you don't have as much
01:34:05
the emotional attachment and to think about a few other things but it's a bit like
01:34:10
and that's what I love about being a dad
01:34:16
helping your own kids with those problems and being I've been there before and
01:34:22
sort of given that advice the best thing about getting older I think is experience and being able to give that
01:34:27
to someone and I think a lot of the time you know it's funny with me son
01:34:33
in that I think when he's in a really good mood and he's happy and his life's going really well
01:34:40
I know he's out with his mates and he doesn't need but I know sometimes if he's
01:34:46
not feeling 100 I can just feel it I can smell it and it'll come to me and you know you
01:34:52
you want to be there to help you know that sort of passion on something so I think from an individual point of view
01:34:58
yes but I also love the fact that I love helping people on that side of it
01:35:04
when because we're all we're all in uncomfortable situations at different times and whenever life's going great
01:35:11
I'm obviously in something around the corner slightly terrifying because it's so true
01:35:17
Jamie thank you so much thank you thank you for having the conversation I really I was so excited to talk to you because
01:35:22
of the mentality you have and how how that's resulted in such tremendous career says for for Liverpool but now
01:35:29
also as a pundit and I can see that kind of Relentless fight in you and how that hasn't disappeared and I find it so
01:35:34
incredibly inspiring that mentality is at the very heart of your success because I do believe to some degree that
01:35:39
that is something that people can pick up like Talent is one thing being seven foot tall and becoming a basketball player but knowing that there is this
01:35:45
other thing which is the the values we hold in our mind and the behaviors that creates that we can all embody which you
01:35:51
perfectly embody I mean Peter Crouch really I think I told you after the reason I reached out to you is because of that conversation with Peter Crouch
01:35:57
and I just thought God like the way he talks about you like you're on this other level of extreme you know winning mentality
01:36:04
um is tremendously inspiring but also there's a cost to that and you've kind of detailed the cost you went to is it
01:36:10
Billy the psychologist you went to Bill Bill yeah Bill Bestway can you kind of detailed the cost of it is this still on though yeah yeah Oh I thought we'd
01:36:16
finished no no I'm just wrapping up
01:36:22
but yeah that's exactly it it's um it's the cost of that mentality which I think is also important to be clear on um so
01:36:29
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