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You are the single most requested guest.
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And let me tell you, this has not been
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easy because we went to some hard
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places. But I don't think we'll ever
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talk about anything more important than
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this. Cuz it's not fear that gets in the
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way of us being brave with our lives and
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our work. It's the armor that we reach
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for to self-protect when we're afraid.
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And the hardest work is being aware of
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what is my armor when I'm afraid.
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Is that automatic?
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Oh no. That's a train.
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And what about vulnerability? Like is
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vulnerability important?
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It is. if we want to be brave with our
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lives. But we were raised to believe
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that vulnerability is weakness. Like in
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my family, we were allowed anger. But
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sad was not an option. You needed to be
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tough. And so when I get scared, when I
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feel anxious, disappointed, I'm just
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angry. And so when you're raised without
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vulnerability, it'll put you in
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jeopardy. Like you want to know what
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vulnerability is? Joy. Joy is so
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vulnerable that people choose to live
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disappointed rather than to get excited
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about something and risk getting sucker
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punched by disappointment. Like there is
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no courage without vulnerability because
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courage is the willingness to show up
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and be allin when you cannot predict the
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outcome.
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Wow, I've never thought about that
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before.
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But you can develop skills.
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Remember four steps to courage.
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Yes. We've taken 165,000 people through
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this work. That included how to build
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trust
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and I've heard about your marble jar
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theory. Could you explain to me what
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your marble jar look how excited you
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are.
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I know.
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So this is how we teach trust to the
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most senior leaders in Fortune 100
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companies. It's awesome.