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I never let money get in the way of a
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good time. I'm spending money like a 50s
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gangster just diagnosed with ass cancer.
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>> Hi everyone, this is Pivot from New York
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Magazine and the Vox Media Podcast
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Network. I'm Cara Swisser
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>> and I'm Scott Galloway
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>> and Scott. This is our end of the year
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listener mail episode. We're probably
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both elsewhere doing fun things, but are
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you ready to hear some emails and
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voicemails from our lovely listeners,
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who by the way, we have a full new
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appreciation for after meeting so many
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of them on our Pivot Live tour. I really
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enjoyed that. Are you ready?
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>> Yeah, ready.
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>> Okay, Scott, let's kick off with a
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question about taxing AI. Let's listen.
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>> Hi, this is Lynn. Um, I've been
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wondering as artificial intelligence
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continues to replace human jobs, do you
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think we'll ever see attacks on AI
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itself or on the companies that use it
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as a way to offset its impact on
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displaced workers? And would that in a
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sense become a new way of taxing the
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rich? Thank you. Bye.
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>> Gosh, Lynn, what a great question.
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Actually, I'm going to start. You know,
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many years ago, Bill Gates sort of set
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off a kurfuffle when he talked about
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taxing robots if they become workers um
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the same way because you aren't going to
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get those money that you get from human
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workers and so they should be taxed in
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the same way. I hadn't really thought
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about it about AI. Uh Scott, I I'm I
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think I'm I think you're more qualified
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to answer this.
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>> I don't know if that's true. Uh my view
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around taxation is that the moment you
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start taxing specific industries, you
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weaponize special interest groups to
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come to their defense and you also
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create some confusion around like is
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Oracle AI, you know, if if McKen I mean
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at what point what qualifies as an AI
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company and not an AI company? Is
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Microsoft an AI company? What what I'm a
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big fan of and I think that the the the
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caller is alluding to I want to go back
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to Reagan era taxation and that is
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there's no difference between I think
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the capital gains tax deduction is
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nothing but a transfer of wealth from
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young to old because somehow we've
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decided that sweat is less noble than
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money and that is the money I make on
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money gets taxed at a lower rate than
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the money that young people make on
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sweat. So I would like to see an elim
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elimination of the capital gains tax
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deduction and raise those rates to
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current income and restore a progressive
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tax structure. In my view, you do it
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across all income and all firms because
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I think the moment you start getting
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into this notion of let's put a super
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tax on this type of firm. I think that's
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I think you regulate them. I think you
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have an EPA, you have an AI act, you
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have privacy, you have laws, but in
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terms of taxation, I just think you say,
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look, above a certain level of
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profitability, when you sell a stock,
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you pay this much in tax. I think taxes
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need to go up. I think we need to do
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away. We need to raise long-term capital
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gains from 21 to 37%. It makes no sense
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that I'm paying lower taxes than people
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actually working for a living. But I
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think you apply it to every company
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because a lot of a lot of for example
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the AI boom is going to make a lot of
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people in the construction industry very
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very rich.
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>> It is that's one people group of people
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that are benefiting. Yeah.
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>> Tax them. Would you tax them? Right.
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Would you tax
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>> my out of there's so many loopholes
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right now. The only way we get there is
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with an AMT. There should be an AMT.
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Anything above $10 million and anything
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above three million you pay a federal
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AMT
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>> of 40%.
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>> Yep. Because what happens is guys like
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me weaponize the tax code and do 122 and
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buy assets and we end up paying high
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teens in tax rates. Yeah.
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>> So the stated the stated we focus too
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much on tax rates not on the tax code
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and enough already. There is no reason
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why someone working for money should be
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taxed at a higher rate than someone who
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is making money from investments.
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>> Although I don't see any wrong with
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taxing robots if they're workers. I
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don't know. I don't
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>> It's an interesting one.
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>> Yeah. I just I when he said it and I
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thought, "Oh, Bill Gates." And I
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thought, "Oh, actually he's really
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smart. I forgot. Anyway, it's an
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interesting question. We have to deal
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with all these things and what happens
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with displaced workers and how we're
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going to pay for that or get them
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different jobs. So, there's going to be
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a lot of rethinking of all the way the
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workplace is taxed, how it's conducted,
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what people get paid. Um, and obviously
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the damage that some of this AI is going
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to do. There's going to have to be some
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mitigation. Uh, okay, Scott, next
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question. This one is a tough one. Let's
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listen.
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>> Hey, Scott and Cara. I'm Liam, a high
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school senior from New York, and I want
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to ask the following. America certainly
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has its fair share of economic and
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social problems, but a lot of the time
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these problems stem from the same root
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causes. Too often though, our
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politicians create costly band-aid
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solutions rather than trying to address
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the underlying issues. So my question to
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you guys is, if you could implement one
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single policy to try and solve the most
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problems at once, what would it be?
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Thanks for taking the time to answer.
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>> Wow, that's a great question. I hate
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that with just one thing. If I had to
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pick
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$25 minimum wage.
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>> I like that.
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>> Let me explain very quickly because I
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think it it lists all votes. If people
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get paid more, they'll spend more. It
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creates a better economy. I know there's
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initial costs for businesses that have
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these things, but it creates an people
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that can do a living wage. They spend
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money. They want to do things. They lean
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into the future. I just it it would be
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great. The second one would be 8 million
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houses, more housing. But go ahead. once
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a program, one is structural or
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legislative. Um, I do think a lot of
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this reverse engineers to in terms of
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inability to get things done to Citizens
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United. If I could overturn Citizens
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United, I would I think a lot of our
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problems stem from the weaponization of
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Washington by corporate interest and
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corporate money.
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>> Oh, wow.
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>> Um, and then
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>> Wow, Bernie Sanders, I like that answer.
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>> Well, I mean, it's just true. There's
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more there's more full-time lobbyists
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living in DC working for Amazon than
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there are sitting US senators. So, what
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do you know? Anyway, uh but you know, a
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close second, mandatory national
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service, universal child care, lower
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Medicare eligibility by two years a year
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for 10 years until threequarters of
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America has essentially socialized
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medicine. You know, I could go on and
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on.
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>> Yeah, I love it. I love that answer. I
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was not expecting it. Boy, that came out
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left field there, Scott. All right,
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Scott, let's take a quick break and
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we'll be back with more listener
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>> Scott, we're back. The next listener
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wants to know what we're doing with our
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money. Let's listen.
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>> Hi, Scott and Kira. It's Eric from
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Brooklyn. Scott, you talk a lot about
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how you spend, how you invest, and I
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imagine how you save. Carrie, you don't
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and you come off as maybe a bit more
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frugal. Can you share a little bit about
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your investment in spending and saving
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philosophy in the context of your shared
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success? Um, thank you so much and uh
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hope we'll see you soon.
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>> Gosh, thanks Eric. A little personal.
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Um, uh, I am not I don't think about
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money a lot. That's my problem. I'm not
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interested in it and I make a lot of
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money. I do. Um, for especially for a
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journalist, I'm like I'm like Daddy
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Warbucks, a journalist in that regard.
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But I would say I save a lot. I have a
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lot of savings and I diversify. I'm sort
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of your basic person, uh, basic [ __ ] of
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investing. I have bonds. I've got quite
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a bit of real estate that I hold on to.
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This force savings as Scott calls it.
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Um, I, um, I don't spend a lot of money.
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I really don't. It's, it has nothing to
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do with me being frugal. I just don't
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I'm don't like buying a lot of stuff.
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I'm wearing the same All my clothes I've
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had for 20. I don't buy a lot of
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clothes. I don't buy drugs. I don't buy
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I don't go out a lot. Um I'm really
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boring.
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>> Don't buy drugs. Where did that come
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from?
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>> Well, no one here buys drugs. Maybe you
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I don't buy like I don't drink. I don't
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party. I I'm trying to think like what
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costs money. I have a Chevy Bolt like
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and a Kia. So, I don't really care about
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cars.
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>> You're the primary bread winner in a
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family of four people.
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>> Yeah.
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>> I mean, that in itself is
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>> Y
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>> Mommy's got to make real money.
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>> Mommy's got to make real money. And so,
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that's spent on the kids. I definitely
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get them through college and but I did
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those savings plans for college for for
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my boys and I'm doing them for my little
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kids. That worked out really well
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actually. I didn't have to think about
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it. Um and I did that 20 years ago for
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my older kids. Um I think I um what I do
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spend on I have way too much cash
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compared to what I need. But I like to
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have it. I'm one of those sort of
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people. I do spend money on a couple of
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things. Um I always will upgrade. I mean
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I always get first class. I fly well.
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you know, I don't have a private plane,
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but I I would love to have one, but um
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I'm sorry to say that people who love
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the same energy are going to think
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they're wonderful. Um and I I will
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upgrade all the time, like upgrade
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hotels and things like that. So, I I've
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gotten I got old very early and then I'm
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like I didn't want to be in bad food. I
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didn't want to stay in bad places. I
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suppose if I spend on anything a lot,
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it's vacations. I really I I do, but I'm
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still more frugal than Scott. Scott is
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really I really admire Scott's vacation
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spending. Um I don't know Scott, what do
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you think?
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>> Well, you know, I think a lot about
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this. One of my addictions is money and
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that is I continue to be too focused on
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it to the detriment of my mental health
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and it takes time away from my family. I
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grew up with a scarcity of money until,
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you know, I got through my senior
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college on Top Ramen and bananas. That's
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not an exaggeration.
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I was in student debt. Um, you know,
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even at the age of 27, I was traum not
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traumatized, but I had a difficult time
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paying for my mother's um, uh, healthc
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care. So, I've been very focused on
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money and got very lucky. And that's not
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a humble brag. I think I'm a monster. I
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think I'm talented and hardworking, but
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I did get lucky. And now I am, by most
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people's standards, wealthy. Uh, my
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approach to spending money is that we
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don't own money, we rent it. And I also,
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you collide that with my atheism. You
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know, I believe that this is all coming
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to an end pretty quickly for me. So, I
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spend a great deal of money. I spend
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between $3 and $400,000 a month. Uh, I
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own homes all over the world. I uh have
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a plane and I spend most of my money on
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homes and experiences
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and
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>> not gifts for Cara, just
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>> but along those lines. The way I try and
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keep in check is I think hoarding money
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is a virus. When I hit my number eight
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years ago, I decided anything above that
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number I would give away. And what I do
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each year is I look at my total spending
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and I match it and I give that amount of
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money away and it keeps my my net worth
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has not increased in eight years.
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>> Yeah.
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>> And uh because I think hoarding wealth
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is a virus. There is no reason anybody
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needs to be a billionaire.
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>> But there's no I can't stand it when
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wealthy people can't aren't good at
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spending money. I have an amazing time.
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>> Yeah.
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>> I do things for my friends and family to
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get us all together in the same place. I
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never let money get in the way of a good
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time. I'm spending money like a 50s
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gangster just diagnosed with ass cancer.
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>> And
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>> I think is a nicer way of putting that.
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Scott is very generous, let's just say,
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to employees. Scott's very generous.
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>> We don't own money. We rent it. And I'll
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give my kids some money, but there's no
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reason why my kids need to inherit tens
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of millions of dollars. So,
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>> I'm going to spend it all on people I
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love and experiences and take advantage
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of capitalist society. And I'm also
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going to give a [ __ ] ton of money away
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to make sure that the things that made
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me rich are still available for younger
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people. So, I love making money. I love
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spending it. I stopped making it 8 years
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ago and I anything above a certain
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level, I give away. In terms of my
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investments, I'm pretty well
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diversified. My quote unquote investment
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strategy is the following. I think
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income inequality, unfortunately, is
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only going to get worse. And what I find
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is that people worth over hund00 million
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are the most homogeneous, boring people
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in the world. And that is they all want
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to party in St. Barts. They all want to
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buy Hermes. They all want to send their
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kids to elite colleges. And they want to
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live in one of five areas. They want to
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live in Dubai, London, Palm Beach, New
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York, or Aspen. And I bought homes in
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all of those places except for Dubai.
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Big homes. And the way I I refurbish
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them. And what I tell my contractor and
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my decorator is pretend Jeff Bezos is
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going to buy this home cuz the world is
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going to produce thousands of
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billionaires over the next 20 years. And
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by the way, I think it's a terrible
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thing about our society. I will vote for
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people to try and reverse that. But the
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free gift with purchase is at these
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homes. I want to make it impossible for
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my boys to avoid me. And the
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conversation when they're say at UC San
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Diego or something, we can go to Tijana
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with our friends and eat lobsters or we
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can go to Aspen, but we have to have
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dinner with my dad. I'm hoping that
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they'll say, "Yeah, let's go hang out
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with dad." I spend a [ __ ] ton of money.
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I love it. I give it away. It's not It's
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not virtue. It's not ethics. It makes me
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feel strong. It makes me feel masculine.
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It makes me feel American. But I'm
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planning to not increase my net worth.
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There is no reason anybody needs to be a
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billionaire. It's not going to make you
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any happier. What's going to make you
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happier
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>> is doing amazing things with people you
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love and doing nice things for other
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people. And I spend to that and I very
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much enjoy it and money is something
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>> money is something I think a lot about
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because I didn't have a lot of it
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growing up.
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>> Yeah.
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>> Um it's still a very big issue in my
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life.
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>> Yeah. It's interesting because I grew up
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with a lot of money and so I guess I
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don't care. I I've always had money. You
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think about money less than almost
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anybody I know.
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>> I know you you get mad at me because I
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don't I don't I have enough. I had a
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also let me point out my mom was a spend
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thrift and it upset me and made me both
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my brothers and I are very hard workers
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and we don't spend a lot of money. All
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of us are very we like my brother built
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a beautiful house in Pennsylvania where
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he lives and it's beautiful and he
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didn't it's it's gorgeous and he loves
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it and so that's what he spends money on
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and I love that cuz I feel like it was
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money well spent cuz he enjoys it and
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it's quite beautiful. It's beautiful
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setting. So we always spend money on
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homes but not extremely like not like
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ridiculously. Um same thing with Jeff's
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has a beautiful home. I have beautiful
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home and
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>> you live well not opulently not at all.
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No people are surprised. Um, I had the
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luxury of not having to worry about
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money early in my life, but I there was
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a lot of my mom being such a spender.
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She was always out of cash and she
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always had to scrge for it from and
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trick people getting her dad to write
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her a check. And I found that grotesque.
00:15:03
I did. I was like, I'm always going to
00:15:05
have enough money. And I had money from
00:15:08
a very early age cuz my dad died. There
00:15:10
was an insurance thing. And I got a hold
00:15:12
of it when I was 18. And I have not I
00:15:14
didn't want my mom near it cuz she was
00:15:16
she would she spent a lot of our money
00:15:19
um that we got from my dad. And so I've
00:15:21
had control of my money for years. So I
00:15:23
I I just don't care about it enough. I
00:15:25
just don't I just I I wish I did. Like I
00:15:28
I I want my boys to work hard, my older
00:15:30
boys to work hard, and I think they do.
00:15:32
Both of them are really hard workers.
00:15:34
And again, just like Scott, they're not
00:15:35
going to get they're going to get the
00:15:37
houses is what they're going to get,
00:15:38
which is what which I love the house. So
00:15:40
it's something like that. All right,
00:15:42
Scott, let's get to a question about
00:15:43
parenting. Let's listen.
00:15:45
>> My name's Lisa. I'm the mother of a
00:15:48
17-year-old boy and a 13-year-old girl.
00:15:50
Two years ago, their father died
00:15:52
unexpectedly.
00:15:53
Cara, as someone who lost their father
00:15:55
and also as someone who's raised
00:15:57
children without a male partner. And
00:15:59
Scott, as someone who's largely raised
00:16:00
by a single mother, I'm looking for
00:16:02
advice. Cara, what do you wish your mom
00:16:04
did to keep your dad's memory alive?
00:16:06
What did she do right or wrong? Scott,
00:16:08
what did your mom do right to make you
00:16:10
feel like one parent was enough? What do
00:16:12
you wish you would have done if, for
00:16:13
example, she had had more financial
00:16:15
resources? Thank you both.
00:16:17
>> Man, these are good questions. They're
00:16:19
highly emotional. God Jesus,
00:16:22
>> I don't think my mom did a very good
00:16:23
job. I I hate to trash my mom this
00:16:25
episode, but it's true. You know, she
00:16:27
lost contact with my dad's uh parents,
00:16:29
and I reestablished it when I was in
00:16:31
college myself. uh when you're a kid,
00:16:33
you're a little bit at cross purposes of
00:16:36
loyalty and I I thought that was not
00:16:38
good. She threw away a lot of pictures
00:16:40
um which I recovered some of which I
00:16:42
spent a lot of time finding stuff about
00:16:44
my dad and I have right now have a big
00:16:46
box of letters of his that I just read
00:16:48
one that was wonderful. Uh um I I think
00:16:52
she should have spent a lot more time
00:16:54
talking about him and and I don't I
00:16:57
don't think she remembers herself, but I
00:16:59
don't think she was kind to his parents.
00:17:02
Um so that was one thing is if your
00:17:05
grandparents are good people, make sure
00:17:06
your kids know them and know their
00:17:08
relatives on your dad's side and they're
00:17:09
his friends. I wish I knew more about my
00:17:12
dad's friends. And I found out later
00:17:14
when I wrote a piece in the Washington
00:17:15
Post, I got inundated with friends of
00:17:17
his that my mother never told me about
00:17:20
that I then went and met and all these
00:17:22
stories. It was a as I think I've said
00:17:24
this for there was a gay couple who my
00:17:26
dad was lovely to and I didn't know
00:17:28
that. I I it was a wonderful thing to
00:17:29
find out. Uh a young uh African-American
00:17:32
woman he tutored wrote me for now she
00:17:35
was a doctor and said she wanted to
00:17:37
thank him. my an ex-girlfriend of his
00:17:39
wrote me saying it should have been me
00:17:42
uh that married him uh which was funny
00:17:44
like there's a picture of him behind me.
00:17:45
I have a lot of pictures of him around.
00:17:47
One thing I'm sad is my kids won't know
00:17:49
him. I name my and I also name my son
00:17:51
after my dad. So that's what I would
00:17:53
say.
00:17:54
>> It's nice.
00:17:56
Yeah.
00:17:58
I mean there's just thinking about it um
00:18:01
stirs emotion. So when I was 15 and in
00:18:04
California, you were what you drove and
00:18:07
or just having a car was everything. You
00:18:08
had no social life in high school in LA.
00:18:10
There was no public transportation
00:18:11
unless you had a car. We didn't have a
00:18:13
lot of money. My mom used to come home
00:18:15
uh when I was 15 and a half and honk the
00:18:17
horn and we go into a garage of this
00:18:18
giant apartment complex and she would
00:18:20
teach me how to drive stick on her 19
00:18:23
like 77 opal green, you know, lime green
00:18:28
opal manta. Mhm.
00:18:29
>> And then on my 16th birthday, when I
00:18:31
passed my driver's test, she came home
00:18:32
and she had bought this shitty Acura and
00:18:35
she put her arms on my shoulders and put
00:18:38
keys in my hand and said, "You're a
00:18:39
handsome young man and you have a car."
00:18:41
>> Oh, Scott, you're breaking my heart.
00:18:47
>> You okay?
00:18:50
>> Yeah, I'm good. The The best thing
00:18:53
literally I think of any parent or
00:18:54
mother
00:19:03
Um, if you tell your kids every day they
00:19:05
have value, they start to believe you.
00:19:07
>> Yep. 100%. Scott, I bought you an Acura
00:19:10
for your
00:19:10
>> There you go.
00:19:11
>> For Christmas.
00:19:12
>> That's what I needed.
00:19:13
>> Get you out of this. That is a beautiful
00:19:14
story. I
00:19:16
knew that.
00:19:17
>> The good news is you become more
00:19:18
thoughtful when I reverse engineer all
00:19:20
my blessings to two core things. It's
00:19:23
big government, assisted launch, Pell
00:19:24
Grants, University of California, uh
00:19:27
DARPA, the internet, uh and also just
00:19:30
hands down, I think I've always had a
00:19:32
base of confidence that that my mother
00:19:34
gave me.
00:19:34
>> Oh my gosh.
00:19:35
>> The more the more pragmatic piece of
00:19:37
advice is that
00:19:40
unfortunately, if you were to reverse
00:19:42
engineer a young man's problems to a
00:19:44
single point of failure, it's when he
00:19:46
loses a male role model. And you've had
00:19:49
your husband has passed. I think it's
00:19:51
especially important that you get men
00:19:53
involved in your son's life.
00:19:55
>> Uh Cara, you do a great job.
00:19:57
>> I do. I didn't mention that. I have my
00:19:59
brothers, both my brothers and friends,
00:20:01
they have been critically part critical
00:20:03
part of my boy's upbringing, my older
00:20:05
boy's upbringing, and it'll be the same
00:20:06
for Saul because he needs a lot of man
00:20:08
around him. I agree. Go ahead.
00:20:10
>> So, anyways, get Yeah. Get men involved
00:20:12
in your son's life. What's weird is
00:20:15
>> it's not as important for the girl.
00:20:17
girls have similar outcomes of college
00:20:18
attendance and self harm in single
00:20:20
parent homes. It ends up that while boys
00:20:22
are physically stronger,
00:20:24
>> they're emotionally and neurologically
00:20:25
much weaker than girls.
00:20:27
>> So the the involvement of a male role
00:20:30
model in your son's life is actually now
00:20:32
>> I say I miss having my dad. I have to
00:20:35
every day. One of the last things I
00:20:36
would say is um there's a great book
00:20:38
called The Loss That is Forever. I
00:20:40
forget the author. I would recommend
00:20:42
reading it. It's forever loss. So don't
00:20:45
like pretend it's not like don't under
00:20:47
don't underscore what the loss is. And I
00:20:51
I think about my dad every day, every
00:20:53
single day. And you should let them do
00:20:55
that. And you should think and talk
00:20:56
about him every day to them. I mean, I
00:20:59
think that's critically important.
00:21:01
>> All right, Scott, are you okay? Can we
00:21:03
move on?
00:21:03
>> I'm good.
00:21:04
>> All right. It gets worse from here, I
00:21:05
think.
00:21:06
>> Yeah.
00:21:07
When Scott dies, he'll be like, you
00:21:08
know, you remember like at the end of um
00:21:10
the Orson Wells movie, Rose Bud. It's
00:21:12
gonna be Acura.
00:21:15
>> Acura, Acura.
00:21:16
>> Opal.
00:21:16
>> Opal.
00:21:17
>> Lime green opal.
00:21:18
>> We have an Opal. I love an Opal, but the
00:21:21
Opal. We also literally the lamest with
00:21:24
Navajo print. It was so nice.
00:21:26
>> I know. There's a reason I lost my
00:21:27
virginity at 19.
00:21:28
>> P. Well, try having a pacer with Navajo
00:21:30
print. Okay.
00:21:31
>> Pacer's kind of cool in a weird way,
00:21:32
though.
00:21:32
>> I know, but not then. Okay, Scott. One
00:21:35
more quick break. We'll be back and
00:21:37
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00:21:40
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00:23:02
Okay, Scott. Moving on. This question
00:23:03
comes from Paul via email. I'll read it.
00:23:06
If you had all the money in the world,
00:23:08
these are such good questions. Let me
00:23:09
read this. If you had all the money in
00:23:11
the world, what would you be doing with
00:23:13
your precious time at this moment with
00:23:15
that money? And why aren't you doing
00:23:16
that? Oh my god, Paul. Wow, Paul, that's
00:23:20
a lot. Scott, you go first on this one,
00:23:22
and I'll I I got to think for a second.
00:23:24
>> I'm doing it. I realize how privileged I
00:23:27
am and I realize this is, you know, a
00:23:29
function of my being born a white male
00:23:32
heterosexual and, you know, um, I do
00:23:35
exactly what money had plays. Money as a
00:23:39
construct puts no constraints on my
00:23:41
life. I am doing exactly what I want to
00:23:43
be doing every day. Every day I'm I'm
00:23:45
blessed and I realize that there's
00:23:46
only.1% of the populace can do that. If
00:23:50
I had billions of dollars and I'd
00:23:52
started a private equity firm like
00:23:55
>> well what I would be focused on right
00:23:57
now if I had say hundreds of millions to
00:24:00
waste I'm going to spend millions but I
00:24:02
don't have tens or hundreds of millions.
00:24:04
I'm very very focused on restoring some
00:24:07
of the traditional American values and
00:24:08
getting Democrats elected in 26 and 28.
00:24:10
>> That's what I do.
00:24:12
>> Yeah. I would put a take a bunch of
00:24:13
money and solidify a progressive not it
00:24:17
not not like hateful to conservatives
00:24:19
but like American values that are about
00:24:22
fairness and equity and things like
00:24:24
that. So I'd spend money on that. I
00:24:26
would spend money on um I would I I' I'd
00:24:29
do the McKenzie B Scott. That's what I
00:24:31
would be. That's what I I just suddenly
00:24:33
show up with money and not be heard from
00:24:35
or seen from again. I would that's how I
00:24:38
would do what she's doing exactly what
00:24:40
she's doing and suddenly give Howard a
00:24:42
whole bunch. She's did two gifts to
00:24:43
Howard and she's all of a sudden she's
00:24:46
over at Planned Parenth she's so diverse
00:24:48
in her giving um that I I love it and
00:24:51
it's that's how I would behave. I would
00:24:54
um I would also create um uh uh
00:24:58
universal daycare. I mean that's what I
00:25:00
would do for people better child care uh
00:25:03
for all kinds of parents. Uh I I would
00:25:06
somehow figure out a way to fund like
00:25:08
right now New Mexico has it because they
00:25:10
have all this oil and gas or shale uh
00:25:13
money they can do it. Every state we
00:25:15
should have nationally we should have
00:25:17
universal care. That's what I would do.
00:25:19
I would spend less on health stuff but I
00:25:21
couldn't see why. Um again money is I
00:25:24
don't spend a lot of money so I wouldn't
00:25:26
buy anything. I wouldn't I'm trying
00:25:28
would I buy anything? Maybe like my own
00:25:30
Taylor Swift concert perhaps. That's
00:25:32
what I would do. Anything crazy would
00:25:34
buy. I I might buy invite Scott hurt him
00:25:37
hurt his ears.
00:25:39
>> You'd be so nice to Taylor Swift.
00:25:41
Anyway, something like that. Something
00:25:43
like that. Someone I enjoy like that.
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Okay, Scott, we're back and we're ending
00:26:56
on something very special. A few weeks
00:26:58
ago, I asked what tattoo I should get
00:27:00
for Scott. ideally on my ass. Let me
00:27:04
read some of the answers we got. A roll
00:27:06
of toilet paper with an S on one of the
00:27:08
sheets. The Professor Galloway memorial
00:27:10
tattoo should feature an angry but
00:27:12
dignified daisy duck with a lot of pink
00:27:14
shading. Interesting. A penis that
00:27:16
cleverly embeds his name on it. Essie on
00:27:19
one cheek and TT.
00:27:24
>> Get the O is the [ __ ] Get it. Get
00:27:27
it. Okay. Uh, Groucho nose and glasses
00:27:30
was Scott's nose and glasses. I don't
00:27:32
like any of these. I do like the SCT,
00:27:35
I'd say. Uh, I need more. Scott, do you
00:27:38
have any suggestions?
00:27:40
>> Uh, I would get some I would just in
00:27:42
case of emergency, call Scott.
00:27:45
>> Oh my god. Break glass
00:27:47
>> or maybe a tiny raccoon holding a beer.
00:27:50
>> Oh, I think that's good is what I should
00:27:53
get. Just the word.
00:27:54
>> Um, a barcode. a barcode that if you
00:27:58
scan it, it said the problem with Scott
00:28:00
is
00:28:02
>> um
00:28:04
you better.
00:28:06
>> Yeah.
00:28:06
>> Let me see. Uh I don't know.
00:28:09
>> I would How about a cat and a dog sort
00:28:11
of fighting but hugging at the same
00:28:13
time?
00:28:14
>> Something like that.
00:28:15
>> You know, tattoo of a receipt. Total
00:28:17
0000 item putting up with
00:28:19
>> Cara.
00:28:23
Broken halo with the caption Scott
00:28:25
tried.
00:28:28
>> Acura
00:28:29
>> uh a fortune cook a fortune cookie and
00:28:31
the fortune reads you will tolerate
00:28:33
someone named Scott today.
00:28:36
>> How about one that just says at least
00:28:37
he's not Scott Jennings.
00:28:39
>> That's right. That's right. No, I think
00:28:42
there's a lot we could do. I could go
00:28:44
on. I'm fine.
00:28:45
>> I may get a Scott tattoo. I may just do
00:28:47
it as a surprise. I think I might maybe
00:28:50
I'll get make fake ones made and then
00:28:52
trick Scott in some fashion. We have we
00:28:55
have tattoos of us
00:28:56
>> tombstone that says rest in peace
00:28:58
Scott's sanity taken by Cara.
00:29:01
>> These are your tattoos. We have tattoos
00:29:04
that we made when we did that
00:29:05
conference. The one we didn't make money
00:29:07
at. This one we did.
00:29:08
>> Oh yeah. In the middle of co
00:29:10
>> Yeah, we we have tattoos. I'm going to
00:29:12
find those. There are Scott and Cara
00:29:14
tattoos. They were good, actually. Huh.
00:29:16
All right, everybody. You got to try
00:29:18
harder. Come on. Come on. Send more.
00:29:21
>> Okay, Scott, that's the show.
00:29:24
>> It's time to say goodbye. Thank you
00:29:26
listeners. And again, I truly and so
00:29:28
does Scott appreciate uh you and we were
00:29:30
very touched uh by all your questions on
00:29:32
the tour and we're touched by these
00:29:34
questions too and we truly appreciate it
00:29:36
because we love our fans. So Scott, read
00:29:38
us out.
00:29:38
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