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Piers Morgan: Dealing With Repeat Failure, Death Threats & Regrets | E137

April 25, 2022 / 01:14:00

This episode features Piers Morgan discussing his early life, career, and views on cancel culture with Stephen Bartlett. Key topics include mental resilience, the impact of social media on mental health, and the importance of free speech.

Piers Morgan shares his childhood experiences, including the loss of his father and his early fascination with news. He reflects on how these events shaped his strong opinions and desire for fame. Morgan emphasizes the importance of having opinions and engaging in debates.

The conversation touches on mental health, with Morgan arguing that society is too focused on self-pity and not enough on resilience. He believes that young people need to learn how to cope with life's challenges rather than wallowing in their problems.

They also discuss the effects of social media on anxiety and the pressure to conform to public opinion. Morgan expresses concern about the rise of cancel culture and advocates for a return to open dialogue and debate.

The episode concludes with Morgan's thoughts on his new show and his mission to challenge cancel culture, emphasizing the need for free speech and honest discussions.

TL;DR

Piers Morgan discusses his life, cancel culture, mental resilience, and the importance of free speech with Stephen Bartlett.

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opinions to me are the spice of life if
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you don't have an opinion there's
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something wrong with you i'm peters
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morgan uncensored show some damn respect
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why do you want to deport me am i
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allowed to respond yet i'm a news junkie
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and it started when i was six or seven i
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mean as i got through my teens i became
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very opinionated i read a report last
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year said 33 million people in britain
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are mentally ill no they're not it's
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crap we're spending too much time
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encouraging a kind of wallowing in
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self-pity people will misunderstand the
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use of the word but hang on hang up the
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risk i see is being the judge of whether
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someone's feelings are worthy of the
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emotion
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i'm done with this i left on a point of
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principle and the principle was i'm
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entitled to my opinion why should my
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sons be exposed to death threats simply
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for being my children cancer culture is
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a virus as deadly over time as a
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coronavirus the public wants someone to
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cancel cancel culture i want to
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stimulate debate and to get to some kind
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of truth have you ever regretted
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anything you've said
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so without further ado
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i'm stephen bartlett and this is the
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diary of a ceo usa edition i hope
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nobody's listening but if you are
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then please keep this to yourself
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this stephen this is quite quite
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interesting you're usually on the uh
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i already feel uncomfortable right
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i watch your stuff you're forensic you
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know you go deep and i'm like i don't
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know i don't really know why i'm doing
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it other than at least one of my sons is
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a massive fan of yours and said daddy
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you've got to do this podcast everyone
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listens to this podcast so whatever
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you're doing
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it's working so i'm here you make great
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kids well thank you for being here um
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the the thing i was thinking thinking
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where do i start with this conversation
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and honestly the the the center point of
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my curiosity is how you came to be the
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person you are today and i look through
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your story especially your early years
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the loss of your father
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certain experiences you've had when
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you're younger you're a self-aware guy
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you're an honest man
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what are the factors
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at that pre-teen age that went into
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making pierce morgan the man that we all
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know is this media anomaly i'm a junkie
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i'm a news junkie
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and it started when i was six or seven
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which is just weird i've had four kids
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myself the idea of being six or seven
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and being addicted to what's happening
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in the world to news to newspapers i
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used to sit and read the daily mail my
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parents used to get the mail i used to
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read it from cover to cover when i was
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six or seven so from a very early age i
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had that kind of
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fascination and curiosity with what was
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happening and i wanted to know what was
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happening and what to think about it i
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mean as i got through my teens i became
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very opinionated you know to regularly
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get thrown at my local pub on a saturday
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night for getting drunk and disorderly
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disorderly they meant just to opinion
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they'd been too loud so i'd argue with
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people and then it would get out of hand
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and i'd be thrown out i always got
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myself back in why why would you argue
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with people uh because i used to feel
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strongly about stuff you know people see
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me hyperventilating about vegan sausage
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rolls i think how can any sensible human
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being in the world get so enraged by a
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vegan sausage roll i don't know except
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that when i was young i used to get
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enraged by all sorts of things now not
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to the point where i'd hit people
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or you know
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manifest itself in any sort of violence
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but i would be
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passionate about arguing and most of my
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family are the same my grandmother was
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very opinionated my mom's very
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opinionated my siblings on they're
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probably the quiet is one of the three
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of us when we go out of all of us um so
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opinions to me are the spice of life if
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you don't have an opinion there's
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something wrong with you to me you've
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got to care about what's happening in
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the world and you've got to work out
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what you think about it and i
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particularly think it's important now
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and there's so much opinion flying
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around that people go to the right
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people so that they hear the right kind
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of stuff because there's so much
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nonsense being spewed into the sort of
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twitter sphere and so on on facebook but
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that's why i think your show is so
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successful your podcast because then
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people appreciate the more reasonable
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take that you have on things and the way
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you try and get to the truth about
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people and about things
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so
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there's on one hand um
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loving
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to have a discussion and to have your
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opinion be heard and and to convey
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information and then there's this other
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part which i tried to understand which
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was you repeatedly said even at 16 and
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17 years old that you liked being the
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center of attention
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so i'm like where does because that
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feels like more of a psychological thing
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a lot of people don't like being the
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same i just wanted to be famous i used
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to practice my autograph when i was a
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kid why regularly i wanted to be
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fabulous i used to collect autographs so
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i was a massive cricket fan in
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particular me and my brother used to go
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and
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stand outside pavilions at professional
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games and wait for players to come out
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and get ian botham's autograph rich's
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autograph
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and i used to practice mine then i began
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writing to world leaders i've got all
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these letters from my margaret thatcher
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and ted heath when he was prime minister
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and world leaders around the world i've
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got letters from donald bradman you know
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whole shaftland the greatest cricketer
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that ever lived i used to just write to
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him and used to write back so i used to
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spend my entire time in weird
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correspondence with the world's most
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famous people and quietly thinking to
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myself i'd love to be one of these
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people must be great center of attention
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everyone looking at you talking about
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you good bad and ugly so yeah i mean
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there are bits of paper at home that my
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mum's kept with just endless best wishes
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appears morgan best wishes i mean it
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sounds ludicrous and extremely vain and
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presumptuous of me but now i'm at the
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stage where ironically i've got to a
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stage where if in the old days i had
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this level of recognition i'd be
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starting autographs all the time but
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nobody wants autographs anymore everyone
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wants a selfie
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so when i finally got there yeah
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actually all the grass had gone out of
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fashion it's now selfie time you're very
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you're very honest about that a lot of
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people wouldn't i don't think
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i think 99 of my guests would not have
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the whatever to say i wanted to be
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famous and by the way most of them are
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lying yeah right so i i like to think
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that whether you love me or hate me i do
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have a kind of brutal honesty about what
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i've set out to achieve
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what i have achieved what i've failed at
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i don't try and sugarcoat things nor do
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i try and pretend i'm something i'm not
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you know you don't have to like me to
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respect the fact i think that i speak my
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mind i give honest opinions about stuff
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they're not always opinions people agree
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with but i want them to be i don't want
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people to agree with me necessarily i
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want to stimulate debate and to get if
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hopefully get to some kind of truth
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which is the most important thing in
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in a world where truth is so difficult
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to find i also wanted to be famous and
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i've only really realized this in
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hindsight that i definitely wanted to be
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famous not for the wrong reasons but i
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think the reason i wanted to be famous
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is because
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it was the antithesis it was the
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opposite of what i was sometimes when i
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was younger when you're a kid trying to
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fit in on the playground only black kid
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in an all-white school people calling me
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the n-word relaxing my hair to try and
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be white like my friends were and i
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think i thought fame as
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acceptance
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on a mass scale so i thought an
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admiration so i thought that's what i
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wanted when i read about you going to
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that comprehensive school
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i you were also subjected to quite a
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rough treatment yeah well my full name
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is piers stefan pugh morgan it's a
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double barrel surname imagine having
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that name when you go to a local comp
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so you know on day one i had the local
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skinhead who had a mohican come up and i
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think smacked me in the face and that
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carried on for quite a while but it
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carried on people doing that kind of
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thing until my brother jeremy's now a
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british army colonel joined the school
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and he was like the old thing of mike
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tyson you know everyone's got a plan
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until they get punched in the face
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everyone had a plan about me
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until my brother joined and punched him
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in the face so i realized then that fall
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sometimes it's not a bad thing that when
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you're subjected to bullies actually
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there's only one language most of them
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understand i feel that as i did about
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the playground at the time and i feel
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about vladimir putin now what's going on
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in ukraine it's the same principle when
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someone's bullying you either show them
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fear and weakness or you stand up to
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them did you like school even though you
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were both yeah i loved it i went to a
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prep school until i was 13. so i had a
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lot of privilege at the prep school you
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know played sport every day
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great academic uh levels and so on i
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then went to the local comprehensive
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which was a great school great very
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successful comprehensive but suddenly
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you were playing sport once a week i
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realized then the massive gulf
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between facilities and resource at a
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comprehensive compared to a fee paying
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prep school and how that was seemed so
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unfair to me but i also discovered that
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people
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they had chips on their shoulders in
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both environments you got the snobs at
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the prep school and you got the yobs at
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the
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comprehensive most people were fine at
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both but you got those two types of
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people who would have chips on their
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shoulders
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about in the snobs case looking down on
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people in the yobs case hating people
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who had more privilege than them i think
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i came out of that environment both
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environments with quite a healthy you
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either have a chip on both shoulders we
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have no chip at all i think my ability
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to
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be exactly the same whether i'm sitting
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with nelson mandela and the queen or my
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old village mates
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comes entirely from that dual pronged
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education i had where i saw great
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privilege and no privilege and had to
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work out a way
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of thriving in both environments i think
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that was good for me actually if i
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removed that experience of that
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comprehensive school especially that
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before your brother arrived um and saved
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you from the bullying per se um what
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would if i removed that experience what
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would i remove from adult pierce morgan
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um i think resilience and mental
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strength these are two things i'm
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extremely hot about i think this
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generation in particular has lost the
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ability to look at mental strength and
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resilience and triumph over adversity
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and being tough in difficult times as
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badges of honor they've almost become
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badges of shame
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where people feel like it's wrong to
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have a stiff upper lip to be
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strong-minded to be resilient to be
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tough under pressure and i looked yes i
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was watching the golf the masters tiger
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woods
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look at tiger woods the story i mean
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unbelievable 21 is the greatest golfer
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that's ever lived destroying everybody
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he has it all he wins 14 majors then he
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has one of the greatest falls in the
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history of sport and it all involves you
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know vegas mayhem and so on and his
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world collapses then he has horrific
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injuries he becomes number 1100 in the
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world he's finished there's a whole
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mashup of clips of people saying he's
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washed up he's finished he'll never win
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again whatever
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and there's also a video of him watching
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that mashup just after he wins the 2019
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masters which no one said he could do
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again and again now he has a horrific
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car crash you know a year ago and yet
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here he is competing in the masters he's
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made the cut again the guy is a freak of
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nature but he's a freak of mental
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strength and i look at him
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and i see rocky balboa in mentality and
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i look at many other sports stars at the
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moment who think it's fine to quit to
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give up to walk away to complain all the
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time to moan about their lot in life and
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i think how have we come to this
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how even in high level sport has
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quitting now becomes something to
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celebrate now it's a contentious issue
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and people say you're mocking mental
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health when you do this but i don't
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think so i think we treat the whole
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mental health debate the wrong way i
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think we should separate mental health
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from mental illness
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i don't think mental health is an issue
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to even be debated particularly we all
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have mental health but if you have a
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mental illness you need help you need
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treatment right now people are it seems
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to me looking at normal life stuff as
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some form of mental illness
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and anxiety is exploding
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people saying they're mentally sick
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the incidence of that is exploding how
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can that be happening when it's all
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we're talking about 24 7. i think we're
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going about it the wrong way i think
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what we're losing in this debate
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is a celebration of resilience and
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mental strength i really believe that
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and i think i think schools should have
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more people in there teaching kids how
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to be tougher about how to deal with
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normal life stuff and i'm not talking
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about people who have clinical
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depression or suicidal tendencies or any
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of those things those are serious mental
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illnesses i'm talking about people who
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are
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thinking that normal stuff that's
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happening in my life which we all have
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to go through grief when you lose a
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loved one
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trouble at work trouble with
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relationships whatever it may be
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you've got to learn to be more resilient
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about these things because that is life
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life is rocky balboa said it's it's not
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a it's not a better roses
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life is tough you know and it's not
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about how many times is rock he said to
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his son and the famous scene in the
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sixth of the franchise when they're that
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scene in the street with the spoiled
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entitled sun whining away about
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everything and rocky turns on him
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finally and says look it's not how many
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times you
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can hit it's how many times you can get
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hit get knocked down and get back up and
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keep moving forward that is what life's
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about
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and i don't think
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we spend enough time
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helping people to be mentally strong and
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resilient we're spending too much time
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encouraging a kind of wallowing in
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self-pity and weakness and it's it is
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i'm afraid it's not working demonstrably
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not working i remember when you did an
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interview with a famous world leader i
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think he was a terrorist and you said to
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him about his daughter what if your
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daughter had dated a jewish yeah
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so uh president in the judge of iran
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yeah so so the i'll use that same
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technique if if one of your children
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comes to you and they and they express
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some kind of symptom which could either
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be a lack of mental resilience or it
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could be but they do yeah they do and
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how do you know the difference though
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well you don't i talk to them yeah and i
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talk i try and with all my kids they're
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all very different
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but they've all come to me at certain
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stages with issues they they want help
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with
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and i always try and drill into them
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perspective the great thing you get as
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you get older and i'm 57 now
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you learn about life good bad and ugly
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you learn from mistakes you learn from
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stuff that's gone bad in your life
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you learn that actually you either give
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up or you keep pounding as i keep always
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say to them keep pounding just keep
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pounding it'll be fine
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and it invariably is fine so they start
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to realize over time that i'm right that
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actually just keep going right don't
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give up whatever it is if it's a work
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issue if it's an exam issue if it's a
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relationship issue whatever it is i have
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these conversations all the time on my
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kids you know they're like the people i
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spend most time talking to and i try and
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you know and they all need different
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advice and different help in different
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ways
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but what i try and do is perspective all
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the time and based on my own experience
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it's like i've been there i've been in
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this position it feels like the worst
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thing in the world
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you know you lose a girlfriend that you
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love you lose a job that you love you
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you know you crash a car you lose a
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family member that you love whatever it
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may be
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there are all sorts of things that will
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come and test you especially as you get
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older you lose your first friend who
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dies when you're young i can remember
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losing one of my closest friends before
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he was even 30. devastating absolutely
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devastating but when it happens again
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and again with people that you care
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about you realize that's life life is
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what it is you have one life and people
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die and people you love die and people
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you care about die
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and you've got to learn to ride that
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that wave of grief and it's not mental
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illness
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it's not anxiety
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it's
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actually just something we all have to
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deal with but too much i think too many
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young people today
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feel unnaturally anxious about these
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things as they did about the pandemic or
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about the war in ukraine an interesting
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conversation i had with dr phil
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out here in america actually about this
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who said when he was young he gave the
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analogy when he was young if
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someone was eaten by a crocodile on a
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golf course in florida very unlikely
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that anyone would know that outside of
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the immediate area
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you know there were very few as one or
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two
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main television news bulletins a day
00:16:15
there were very few national newspapers
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most state or county newspapers
00:16:21
and so it might get reported in the
00:16:22
local paper that would be it but
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certainly nobody outside of florida
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would likely ever hear about that the
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difference now is
00:16:29
young people will see the video of the
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person being eaten by the crocodile
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within 20 minutes of it happening
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quite likely someone will have got it on
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a camera on their phone so they're being
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exposed all the time to a sensory
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overload of quite grim stuff ukraine is
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a very good example
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of the first time really we've had a war
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of this kind where we're all watching it
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in real time
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unfurl on social media we're seeing all
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the videos we're seeing the horror in
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real first hand
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exposure and that has to have an effect
00:17:03
on your senses it has to increase your
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anxiety levels i get all that um you
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know my grandmother was 19 in world war
00:17:10
ii when it started 25 when it ended she
00:17:13
didn't see all this stuff you just
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didn't get exposed to it but if she had
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been it would have probably had a
00:17:18
devastating effect on her so i think
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that
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i have sympathy with this generation i
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think in many ways they're a great
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generation they're better informed than
00:17:26
any previous generation i think that
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these
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networks like instagram facebook twitter
00:17:32
and so on they've certainly given people
00:17:35
an amazing connection with each other
00:17:37
but they've also got this terrible fomo
00:17:40
which has been created which i see the
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first time with my kids one of their
00:17:43
summer and all their mates are somewhere
00:17:45
else all they're seeing is all the fun
00:17:47
going on on instagram
00:17:49
and it makes them a bit
00:17:50
anxious
00:17:52
i never had that i didn't know what my
00:17:53
friends were doing in the next village
00:17:55
so things have changed technology's
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changed it's good in one way it can be
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bad in other ways and we've got to work
00:18:01
out a way to help
00:18:03
young people but ultimately i come back
00:18:05
to
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i don't want to be unsympathetic
00:18:08
certainly i want to help
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but i do think we're going about it the
00:18:13
wrong way i think we're encouraging or
00:18:15
wallowing we're celebrating self-pity
00:18:18
we're celebrating victimhood in a way
00:18:21
that everybody now is like you see stuff
00:18:23
on twitter like you know i've just
00:18:25
failed my driving test for the fourth
00:18:26
time but i'm so proud of myself for the
00:18:28
journey i've gone on what are you
00:18:30
talking about
00:18:31
which means you're proud of yourself you
00:18:32
just failed you're driving desperately
00:18:34
thought let's be proud of i get that
00:18:36
part the bit that i i still i'm still
00:18:38
struggling to get on board with is
00:18:39
having sat here with even i know you
00:18:41
know roman kemp yeah and his love
00:18:43
right having sat here with roman kemp
00:18:45
and hearing this what he went through
00:18:47
with his his friend who was on his radio
00:18:48
station with him i'm very aware of that
00:18:50
yeah killed himself out of the blue yes
00:18:52
and never spoke to anyone and roman said
00:18:54
if i'd lined up 20 of my friends and
00:18:55
said which one is suicidal he would have
00:18:57
been named last yeah in my estimation so
00:18:59
when i reflect on that and i i look at
00:19:02
male suicides in particular and a lot of
00:19:04
what the mental health organizations say
00:19:05
the causes of that one of them is that
00:19:07
men just don't talk about how they're
00:19:08
feeling and then that results in
00:19:10
alcoholism and these are but i do talk
00:19:11
about it yeah and i do encourage people
00:19:13
so this is what i'm saying so when
00:19:14
someone says the use of the word
00:19:16
wallowing that sounds very similar it
00:19:18
depends what they're wallowing in if
00:19:20
they're wallowing in
00:19:21
but you know when you use those words
00:19:23
yes
00:19:24
you know because you're a smart man and
00:19:26
you you you write you know that people
00:19:29
will
00:19:30
misunderstand the use of the word and
00:19:32
there's harm in them that's them
00:19:33
misunderstanding what i mean by it okay
00:19:35
it's a bit like the debate about obesity
00:19:37
we're now at the ludicrous stage of this
00:19:39
debate we're not allowed to call people
00:19:41
fat
00:19:42
you're not allowed to it's offensive
00:19:44
so we now have a situation where you see
00:19:46
a 310 pound model on the cover of
00:19:48
cosmopolitan who's five foot two she's
00:19:50
dangerously morbidly obese but the cover
00:19:54
the picture and the interview six pages
00:19:56
inside never mentions that it celebrates
00:19:58
her body positive image nothing body
00:20:01
positive about being morbidly obese
00:20:03
she's going to die if she's enabled in
00:20:05
this way going forward i'm not afraid to
00:20:08
say that and there's a society that
00:20:11
doesn't go there
00:20:12
and pretends that this is all perfectly
00:20:14
acceptable is doing that woman an
00:20:17
incredible disservice so when you say
00:20:19
well you can't use the word wallowing
00:20:21
but i would say to you stephen i didn't
00:20:23
say that because you're implying it yeah
00:20:24
yeah
00:20:26
because i would say to you a lot of
00:20:28
people do wallow i see them what's the
00:20:30
difference between wallowing and coming
00:20:32
to a friend and saying i'm feeling
00:20:33
really or even tweeting it so i'm
00:20:35
feeling like there's something wrong
00:20:37
with me what's the difference between
00:20:38
wallowing well there's a line i don't
00:20:40
know i know exactly what the line is but
00:20:43
i do know when friends or family members
00:20:45
come to me
00:20:46
either they come to me with something
00:20:47
where i think yeah they've got a valid
00:20:49
reason to feel this way or sometimes you
00:20:51
just got to go
00:20:52
get over it and then they might laugh
00:20:54
and have a drink and they get over it i
00:20:56
think by the way you're not allowed to
00:20:57
say that anymore there'll be people
00:20:58
watching this your younger audience will
00:21:00
be going oh my god did you just tell
00:21:02
people to get over it it's all about
00:21:03
people with mental illness no i'm not no
00:21:05
i'm not be very careful that you listen
00:21:07
to what i'm saying i distinguish between
00:21:09
people who i believe have mental illness
00:21:11
and people who i believe are genuinely
00:21:14
wallowing because society has decided
00:21:17
that it wants to celebrate people who
00:21:19
have something wrong with them more than
00:21:21
it celebrates now people who are
00:21:23
successful and tough achievers and talk
00:21:25
about having grit and stiff upper lip
00:21:28
and all these things that's all become
00:21:29
sticks to beat people with i have it
00:21:31
used against me a day you talk about a
00:21:34
stiff upper lip why shouldn't i
00:21:36
why shouldn't i i have a stiff upper lip
00:21:38
i've been through a lot of crap in my
00:21:39
life and i've decided that that's the
00:21:41
way i deal with it you may not like it
00:21:44
and maybe you like to deal with it by
00:21:46
going woe is me and one of my favorite
00:21:48
poems is a uh d.h lawrence poem called
00:21:51
about self-pity it's only three or four
00:21:52
lines
00:21:53
and it says a wild thing never feels
00:21:55
sorry for itself
00:21:56
a bird will die frozen
00:21:59
on a bow of a tree before it feels
00:22:01
self-pity or something like that it's a
00:22:03
brilliant poem so that's it it's only
00:22:05
about four lines
00:22:06
and i get that point is in the in the
00:22:09
jungle in the world of animals self-pity
00:22:11
doesn't exist
00:22:13
wallowing in your own woe doesn't exist
00:22:15
you've got to get on with it you know
00:22:17
one of my favorite conversations ever
00:22:19
with with sir roger bannister who sadly
00:22:21
died but he was the first man to break
00:22:23
the four-minute mile
00:22:25
and he i asked him he used to live in
00:22:28
the square i live in london and he came
00:22:30
to one of the 200th anniversary of the
00:22:31
square and i had a chat with him and i
00:22:33
said did you only you know when you won
00:22:34
this amazingly killed it collapsed at
00:22:36
the line i said did you have any sort of
00:22:38
motivational quote that drove you and he
00:22:40
went funny enough he said i have one it
00:22:42
was an anonymous proverb from the
00:22:44
african bush
00:22:45
and it was when a lion wakes up in the
00:22:47
morning
00:22:48
it knows one thing it has to run faster
00:22:51
than the slowest gazelle or it won't eat
00:22:54
and when a gazelle wakes up in the
00:22:56
morning it knows it has to run faster
00:22:59
than the slowest line or it's going to
00:23:01
get killed
00:23:02
so whatever you are in the african bush
00:23:05
one thing's for sure
00:23:07
when the sun comes up you better start
00:23:09
running
00:23:11
and that motivated him and it's a great
00:23:13
quote and i think it's a great quote for
00:23:15
all your
00:23:17
viewers listeners in this podcast to
00:23:18
take away from this interview if you
00:23:20
take one thing away
00:23:21
get running get moving
00:23:24
be positive don't let normal life stuff
00:23:26
drag you down because if it does it will
00:23:28
dominate your life and you'll become one
00:23:30
of those sort of miserable
00:23:32
self-obsessed people in the wrong way
00:23:34
where all you're thinking about is you
00:23:36
and your problems and your woes it's
00:23:38
like there are a lot of people a lot
00:23:39
worse off than you when i see some of
00:23:41
the crap i'm watching at the moment on
00:23:43
social media of people feeling sorry for
00:23:45
themselves when you see what's happening
00:23:47
in ukraine it actually makes me puke
00:23:49
it's like watch what's happening to the
00:23:51
people of ukraine and get a perspective
00:23:54
about your life and i'm sorry if that
00:23:56
sounds tough but i'm not sorry actually
00:24:00
i get you i completely get the point
00:24:01
about mental resilience and i think
00:24:02
there's so much of what you said that i
00:24:04
really agree with especially about a
00:24:06
younger generation i'm
00:24:07
i've said on this podcast many times i
00:24:09
am scared of over labeling things things
00:24:12
that might just be a bad mood or
00:24:13
whatever with something else which is
00:24:14
much more medically um concerning and
00:24:18
when i asked that question then you said
00:24:20
it depends what it is yeah in terms of a
00:24:22
friend coming to you with mental health
00:24:23
disorder the problem is
00:24:24
you'll know that these things are so
00:24:26
subjective so
00:24:27
when uh when someone comes like people
00:24:30
could genuinely be suicidal genuinely be
00:24:32
suicide not well faking or looking for
00:24:34
attention over
00:24:36
losing a cryptocurrency investment i
00:24:38
read an article about that the other day
00:24:39
guy's crypto investment goes down kills
00:24:41
himself
00:24:42
so i i the risk i see is being the judge
00:24:45
of whether someone's feelings are worthy
00:24:47
of the the emotion
00:24:49
that's the risk it's like
00:24:51
you know like i think there are because
00:24:53
there are millions of people out there
00:24:56
prepared to
00:24:58
do what you're talking about i i'm a
00:25:00
very rare voice
00:25:02
in the public platform arena who's
00:25:05
prepared to give a slightly different
00:25:06
perspective on this stuff and to me
00:25:08
there's room for both of us you know you
00:25:10
don't need any more people who are going
00:25:12
to give 24 7 coverage to mental health
00:25:15
as an issue as
00:25:17
on the assumption we're all slightly
00:25:18
mentally ill i just don't buy it i read
00:25:20
i read a report last year said 33
00:25:23
million people in britain are mentally
00:25:24
ill no but not
00:25:25
it's crap
00:25:27
crap and when when a society pretends
00:25:30
that is the case
00:25:32
because a lot of people are identifying
00:25:33
as mentally ill when actually they just
00:25:35
have anxiety about exams or
00:25:37
relationships or whatever it may be
00:25:38
when we do that it means the people who
00:25:40
really need help are not getting it it
00:25:43
means they're slipping through the
00:25:44
cracks in my opinion
00:25:46
and that's the problem with it
00:25:48
um and you know it's not about being
00:25:49
callous or insensitive my i think my
00:25:52
kids would tell you i spent hours and
00:25:54
hours
00:25:55
sometimes talking through problems with
00:25:57
them but always i come back to look
00:26:00
life's tough and you've got to keep
00:26:01
pounding that's my mantra
00:26:04
because this one i've applied to myself
00:26:05
and my family have had a lot of stuff to
00:26:08
deal with and they've kept pounding
00:26:10
because what's the alternative really
00:26:12
the alternatives you give up
00:26:14
and that to me is not an option
00:26:16
not an option that would bring me any
00:26:18
pleasure couldn't look in the mirror
00:26:19
having just given up all the time why
00:26:21
would why would that bring anyone
00:26:22
pleasure
00:26:23
i had a few words to say about one of my
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sponsors on this podcast for many years
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people have been asking for a coffee
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i've just become hooked on it over the
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last couple of weeks i've been on a
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which i've described and talked about a
00:26:44
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00:26:52
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i've got really into the iced coffee
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00:27:13
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00:27:16
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know what you think on social media i
00:27:21
see all of your tags and instagram posts
00:27:23
and tweets about you
00:27:24
back to the podcast
00:27:26
one of the things that i love about your
00:27:28
um well i was really compelled by by
00:27:30
your story as i read through your early
00:27:31
professional career was clearly for some
00:27:34
reason which i couldn't figure out from
00:27:36
just reading
00:27:37
you got a head quite quickly
00:27:39
kelvin gave you a shot yeah at the sun
00:27:42
rupert murdoch gave you a shot at news
00:27:43
of the world when you were 28 he made
00:27:45
you the the editor of the largest
00:27:48
newspaper in the western hemisphere if
00:27:49
i'm not correct 28 years old so when i
00:27:51
was reading that i i thought i've got to
00:27:53
ask him
00:27:54
why
00:27:55
what was it about you well i think that
00:27:57
i remember alex ferguson saying i know
00:27:59
you're a big united fan of my sympathies
00:28:00
at this different time i remember him
00:28:02
saying that he loved youth because there
00:28:04
was a fearlessness of youth i think i
00:28:06
was quite fearless in my 20s certainly
00:28:08
you know before you get responsibility
00:28:10
before you get married you have kids and
00:28:11
so on you get other people you're
00:28:13
responsible for there's a fearlessness
00:28:14
that comes with youth and i think i had
00:28:17
that certainly it was instilled by
00:28:19
the confidence came from my family very
00:28:21
strong women in particular in my family
00:28:23
my mum my grandmother tremendously
00:28:26
strong people who come through a lot of
00:28:28
adversity um never wallowed in self-pity
00:28:32
to quote the awful phrase i know drives
00:28:34
you mad
00:28:35
but they never did and that was just not
00:28:37
allowed it was always like just get on
00:28:38
with it dust yourself down get on with
00:28:40
it and i like that to be honest i
00:28:42
thrived under that mantra and i remember
00:28:44
kelvin mckenzie was a mercurial genius
00:28:46
in many many ways
00:28:47
brutal but brilliant you know hilarious
00:28:49
and barbaric i mean he's like everything
00:28:51
but the sun had an amazing power and
00:28:54
voice when he was in charge of it
00:28:56
and
00:28:56
he said the most annoying thing about me
00:28:59
was that he could give me the most
00:29:00
savage bollocking where literally his
00:29:02
sort of neck
00:29:04
veins would start to explode
00:29:06
and within an hour i'd bounce back into
00:29:08
his office
00:29:10
bouncing with excitement because i had a
00:29:11
scoop for him and i was completely
00:29:13
unfazed by the bollocking it had
00:29:15
motivated me to go and prove him wrong
00:29:17
and get and get a good story i think
00:29:20
that's how people should be in life
00:29:22
i think it's a shame that in the
00:29:23
workplace now you're not allowed to
00:29:25
raise your voice
00:29:26
you're not allowed to it's bullying
00:29:28
everyone's a victim of bullying you
00:29:30
can't have any banter anymore can't be
00:29:32
fun
00:29:33
all the joy's been sucked out of life by
00:29:35
this woke brigade of
00:29:38
in my view awful people
00:29:40
who just think that life should be
00:29:42
humorous
00:29:43
banterless
00:29:45
uh everything is bullying every
00:29:47
criticism is bullying
00:29:49
everything is terrible people are awful
00:29:52
you can't have fun you can't do anything
00:29:54
i don't buy it it's not what most people
00:29:56
are like
00:29:57
most people aren't like that they don't
00:29:58
actually believe the crap they're coming
00:30:00
out with they don't it's not how anybody
00:30:03
wants to lead their lives we know from
00:30:04
the pandemic what it's like when our
00:30:06
freedom our basic freedom gets taken
00:30:08
away why would we come out of a pandemic
00:30:10
would we want to lead a joyless
00:30:12
existence how do we fix this because i
00:30:13
agree with you i i think that common
00:30:15
sense has to come into play i think the
00:30:17
problem with the the woke council
00:30:19
culture as i put it is if you go and
00:30:22
study i read a whole book about this
00:30:23
last year it was a massive bestseller
00:30:25
because people understood it right so i
00:30:27
think you know where i come from
00:30:28
probably politically we're not that far
00:30:29
apart from each other i guess from what
00:30:31
i know about you um but i i want to
00:30:34
study the origin of the word woke and
00:30:36
what it meant i by that definition i'm
00:30:38
woke
00:30:39
i believe in promoting
00:30:41
uh campaigns against racial and social
00:30:44
injustice i've done it all my career as
00:30:46
a newspaper editor and as a television
00:30:48
broadcaster you know i've done that it
00:30:50
doesn't cut the ice though with the
00:30:52
modern word brigade because they've
00:30:53
stolen
00:30:55
wokery and they've now used it as a new
00:30:57
form of fascism
00:30:59
where they want to dictate to people how
00:31:01
they lead their lives what they can find
00:31:03
funny
00:31:04
what movies are acceptable are not
00:31:06
acceptable what television shows they
00:31:07
can enjoy you know what haircuts they
00:31:09
can have that aren't inappropriate or
00:31:11
cultural inappropriation you can't
00:31:13
celebrate any other culture anymore it's
00:31:16
all inappropriate every joke is
00:31:18
inappropriate every comedian has to be
00:31:20
cancelled people can't host the oscars
00:31:22
if they told a inappropriate joke 10
00:31:24
years before
00:31:26
uh yet roman polanski was given an oscar
00:31:29
after he raped a child i mean the sort
00:31:31
of warp morality of all this
00:31:33
is absolutely extraordinary to me but at
00:31:35
its center a woman came up to me in
00:31:37
kensington
00:31:38
a few months ago after the markle
00:31:40
debacle as i call it and she said she
00:31:42
said mr morgan i'm an 80 year old
00:31:44
australian woman but don't hold either
00:31:46
of those things against me i meant to
00:31:48
laugh on the streets he said the trouble
00:31:50
with these wokies is they want to suck
00:31:52
all the joy out of life and i thought
00:31:54
what a brilliant way of describing it
00:31:56
and they've literally become the very
00:31:58
fascists that they profess to hate most
00:32:01
and we have to counter it and so my
00:32:04
ambition with my new show for example is
00:32:06
to cancel cancer culture to go back to
00:32:09
what a democracy should be to what
00:32:11
society should be when it's supposedly
00:32:12
democratic where you and i can have a
00:32:14
spirited debate about something and
00:32:17
agree to disagree and go and have a beer
00:32:19
or maybe we reach points of consensus to
00:32:21
what used to happen i've had ferocious
00:32:23
arguments with my friends and family my
00:32:24
entire life the idea i would disown them
00:32:27
as you see happening all the time now
00:32:28
with people falling out with friends and
00:32:30
family because they're so blindly
00:32:32
self-righteous about their own opinion
00:32:34
that they can't tolerate another opinion
00:32:36
the idea we have university campuses
00:32:38
where
00:32:39
only one certain type of voice is
00:32:41
tolerated at a university a place you're
00:32:44
supposed to learn all sorts of disparate
00:32:46
views hear all different voices and make
00:32:48
your own mind up now no unless they're
00:32:51
woke speakers no one else is allowed if
00:32:54
you're a conservative which by the way
00:32:56
many millions of people are in this
00:32:58
country in america and australia if
00:33:00
you're a conservative you are the enemy
00:33:01
to be crushed and destroyed and no
00:33:03
platformed really
00:33:05
how do we get there
00:33:07
how could any student
00:33:09
have their mind developed or evolved in
00:33:12
an environment that cancels anybody
00:33:15
for deviating from a woke agenda
00:33:18
it's
00:33:19
madness
00:33:20
you know and when i look at what's
00:33:21
happening with the transgender debate i
00:33:24
support transgender rights to fairness
00:33:26
and equality i always have publicly in
00:33:30
columns on television
00:33:32
on twitter
00:33:33
i've been very clear i want transgender
00:33:35
people to have equality and fairness
00:33:38
right to the point where trans activism
00:33:42
leads to an erosion of women's rights as
00:33:44
we're seeing all over the place not
00:33:45
least in the world of sport if anybody
00:33:49
genuinely wants to sit here and say to
00:33:51
me that what's going on in women's sport
00:33:53
with transgender athletes is fair or
00:33:55
equal
00:33:56
i'd love to listen to it because it's
00:33:58
[ __ ]
00:33:59
we all know it's unfair and what's being
00:34:02
caught in the crosshairs of this is that
00:34:04
many trans people who don't want to get
00:34:06
involved in this debate and just want to
00:34:08
be able to go about their lives and try
00:34:09
and have a life of fairness and equality
00:34:12
they're getting subjected to mockery and
00:34:14
ridicule
00:34:15
because it's so ridiculous what's going
00:34:17
on
00:34:18
with
00:34:18
transport
00:34:20
and so i say to people yeah you can say
00:34:22
to me you're bigoted and you're
00:34:24
transphobic but i'm not
00:34:26
i'm actually just the voice of common
00:34:28
sense when you see even jk rowling
00:34:30
cancelled because she believes in the
00:34:33
biology of sex
00:34:35
it's just madness
00:34:37
sex is not something you can just
00:34:39
pretend like gender it could be anything
00:34:41
you make up on the spur of the moment it
00:34:43
can't be
00:34:44
you you've seen how this is
00:34:46
got progressively more let's say the
00:34:49
world has got progressively more work
00:34:51
i think
00:34:52
the world has moved from being
00:34:54
woke
00:34:56
right okay by the original i think that
00:34:58
most people in the 60s 70s and 80s
00:35:00
wanted to see better
00:35:03
racial equality and social equality
00:35:05
most people
00:35:07
but that's what the original definition
00:35:09
of woke was the modern day woke is
00:35:12
nothing to do with that the modern day
00:35:14
woke is a form of fascism okay so you
00:35:16
will abide by our rules or you get
00:35:18
destroyed that's the difference to me so
00:35:21
the world has got more of this modern
00:35:22
day wokism yeah right um and it's i i've
00:35:25
seen it on social media the way that
00:35:27
algorithms work as well they show you
00:35:28
more of the same they keep reinforcing
00:35:29
you then they then because you build an
00:35:31
audience of the same people they clap
00:35:32
more when you say a certain thing yes
00:35:33
kind of reinforcement you appreciate
00:35:34
your choir yeah you know i i i you know
00:35:37
geologies
00:35:38
you go about two thousand years we lived
00:35:40
in tribes yeah that's written in your
00:35:41
book yeah right and i told the story you
00:35:43
never used to come out of your tribe so
00:35:44
everyone in the tribe would look the
00:35:45
same same attitudes eat the same food
00:35:48
drink the same drink same senses of
00:35:50
humor because you never moved out of
00:35:52
this group of people
00:35:53
and then people began to move out of
00:35:55
their tribes and meet other tribes who
00:35:57
dress differently thought differently
00:35:58
laughed at different things maybe spoke
00:36:00
differently and both tribes in that
00:36:02
moment decided the only answer to this
00:36:05
was to kill each other
00:36:06
well that's where we've gone back to are
00:36:08
you optimistic that not really no so
00:36:11
this is what i wanted to say is your
00:36:13
antidote for this new workism is to lead
00:36:16
and to create a counter narrative which
00:36:18
is what you're doing with your new show
00:36:19
piece you haven't centered what you did
00:36:21
with your book as well are you
00:36:22
optimistic deeply that that will win
00:36:25
well let me ask you a question so i'm
00:36:26
i'm described as highly controversial
00:36:29
right i've been called all sorts of
00:36:30
names people say that what i say things
00:36:32
i say are outrageous
00:36:34
when you read my book how many times did
00:36:36
you stop and think that's outrageous no
00:36:38
i didn't really disagree with anything
00:36:39
right so that's my point i don't think
00:36:41
i'm the controversial one well so i
00:36:44
think i come at this from a reasonably
00:36:45
common scenario i didn't disagree with
00:36:47
you at all because you were talking
00:36:48
about things like populism and
00:36:49
liberalism and how it's changed i
00:36:51
completely agree i think i used to
00:36:52
identify as being on the left now i
00:36:54
don't because the the
00:36:56
the because they're nuts a lot of them
00:36:58
yeah a lot of it is absolutely nuts i
00:36:59
also don't really identify with being on
00:37:00
the right either because they're nuts i
00:37:02
agree
00:37:02
i find myself you get nuts on both sides
00:37:04
and we're moving to the extremities but
00:37:06
i'll get cancelled from both sides yes
00:37:08
because i don't wear the football kit of
00:37:09
either i'm the same yeah so i want to
00:37:10
bring back a more
00:37:12
consensus related society
00:37:15
where consensus where you reach points
00:37:17
of agreement through debate and you
00:37:20
don't try and
00:37:21
shame or cancel each other by having
00:37:23
different opinions
00:37:24
because that's at the core of this you
00:37:27
know they call themselves liberals
00:37:28
they're not liberal liberalism isn't
00:37:30
about
00:37:31
an inability to tolerate other opinions
00:37:33
it's the opposite
00:37:36
you're supposed to tolerate and respect
00:37:37
other opinions
00:37:39
and agree to disagree we've lost this in
00:37:42
society because a small group of people
00:37:44
but very vocal and very angry about
00:37:47
everything all the time
00:37:49
they are driving an agenda which if we
00:37:51
go down that road we'll be the end of a
00:37:53
democratic society as we know it so i
00:37:55
see my self
00:37:57
humbly as
00:37:59
trying to defend democracy genuinely
00:38:02
and humility is not something that comes
00:38:03
naturally to me but genuinely trying to
00:38:06
defend what democracy really is and
00:38:08
trying to educate these
00:38:10
wokies about what real liberalism is
00:38:15
what democracy actually means what free
00:38:17
speech means free speech is not about
00:38:20
you in an echo chamber all agreeing with
00:38:22
each other as churchill said free speech
00:38:25
is about listening to views you just
00:38:26
don't agree with but allowing people to
00:38:28
have different views
00:38:30
you're you know it's funny i i went
00:38:32
around the world when i was running my
00:38:33
marketing business um before i resigned
00:38:35
and i used to have one slide on my
00:38:37
presentation deck that had your face on
00:38:39
it
00:38:39
and do you know who else's face was on
00:38:41
that same slide deck i went all around
00:38:42
the world with this presentation with
00:38:44
apple amazon i had pierce morgan
00:38:47
katie hopkins kanye west and donald
00:38:49
trump and i used to tell people that
00:38:51
this a very important thing to learn
00:38:53
from these four people because whether
00:38:55
you like them or not
00:38:56
in marketing the least profitable
00:38:58
outcome is indifference when you don't
00:39:00
carry either way and people have an
00:39:01
opinion it's funny because
00:39:03
you know i was talking to the girls on
00:39:04
my team here yesterday and they don't
00:39:06
always agree with you but they're always
00:39:08
listening yeah and sometimes you know on
00:39:09
the covered issues or this issue they'll
00:39:10
be behind you and then they'll be
00:39:12
against you but do you realize
00:39:14
strategically
00:39:16
um the art of being the sen being the
00:39:19
center of conversation yes and and what
00:39:21
are the principles
00:39:23
if if it's a brand trying to be relevant
00:39:26
or the center of attention or if it's a
00:39:27
person in their personal brand for you
00:39:29
what are the principles for one to
00:39:31
replicate what you've done with that
00:39:33
confidence confidence in yourself
00:39:34
self-belief yeah i think the one thing i
00:39:37
have is a lot of self-belief i'm i'm
00:39:39
firm i remember a friend of mine kevin
00:39:40
peterson the cricketer his big mantra
00:39:43
with himself when he played cricket for
00:39:44
england was back yourself back yourself
00:39:47
whoever you're facing he was one of the
00:39:49
few players in history to demolish shane
00:39:52
warm at his peak in the 2005 ashes
00:39:54
series because he backed himself but
00:39:56
it's smashing it's risky we've seen from
00:39:58
your cause it's risky but as wayne
00:39:59
gretzky the greatest ice hockey player
00:40:01
in history
00:40:02
said brilliantly you'll miss a hundred
00:40:04
percent of the shots you don't take
00:40:06
you've got to take risks in life you've
00:40:08
got to learn from failure mars the
00:40:10
confectioners used to celebrate
00:40:13
chocolate bars that didn't work more
00:40:15
than they did chocolate bars that worked
00:40:17
they worked on the assumption that most
00:40:19
of their bars would work they tested
00:40:21
them tested and tested and knew what
00:40:22
they were doing so most of their
00:40:24
new bars would would work but if they
00:40:26
occasionally had a failure out of
00:40:27
nowhere stunned everyone they would
00:40:29
celebrate that because they reckon they
00:40:31
learn more from the failure than they
00:40:33
did from the endless success and i agree
00:40:36
i've learned more from failures and
00:40:37
success success is easy
00:40:40
when you're successful everyone must
00:40:41
have a piece of the pie and i've had
00:40:43
great success and i've had
00:40:45
wonderfully you know cataclysmic moments
00:40:48
of doing
00:40:50
and when you get the doing the old
00:40:51
cliche you find out who your friends are
00:40:53
is completely true you find out who your
00:40:55
friends are you find out who actually
00:40:57
cares about you who's prepared to stand
00:40:59
up for you
00:41:00
you know i remember
00:41:02
after my dramatic departure from good
00:41:04
morning britain sharon osbourne
00:41:06
tweeting uh that i was entitled to my
00:41:08
opinion
00:41:09
she knew by doing that there could be
00:41:11
massive repercussions for her given how
00:41:13
incendiary the whole debate was it cost
00:41:16
her a job
00:41:17
scandalously
00:41:19
scandalously she was described as a
00:41:21
racist sympathizer
00:41:23
on her show the talk but when she asked
00:41:25
them to describe what racist things i'd
00:41:27
said they weren't able to do so because
00:41:29
guess what i'd said nothing racist
00:41:31
nothing i thought about mega market was
00:41:33
driven by
00:41:34
anything to do with her race or skin
00:41:36
color why would it be
00:41:37
i just thought she was a disingenuous
00:41:39
piece of work smearing the royal family
00:41:42
i'm entitled to that opinion you may not
00:41:43
agree with it i think most people who
00:41:45
watch the interview probably ended up
00:41:46
agreeing with me it doesn't really
00:41:47
matter whether you agree or not but the
00:41:50
idea that sharon osborne was destroyed
00:41:54
at the altar of
00:41:55
cancel culture
00:41:57
because she had the audacity to say i
00:41:59
was entitled to an opinion not that she
00:42:01
even agreed with my opinion
00:42:03
just that i was entitled to one
00:42:05
that in that moment said to me
00:42:08
how ridiculous this culture has got
00:42:11
ridiculous and i'm delighted that sharon
00:42:14
is now going to be back on talk tv in
00:42:16
the uk
00:42:17
in the show after mine on a show called
00:42:19
the talk
00:42:20
she's going to be uncanceled by us
00:42:23
because she should never have been
00:42:24
cancelled in the first place and when
00:42:25
people say counseling doesn't exist look
00:42:28
at what happened to sharon look at the
00:42:30
effect it had on her and her family
00:42:31
devastating she couldn't get a job in
00:42:33
america where she'd worked for 40 years
00:42:36
so it's going on and i i want to cancel
00:42:39
that culture i think it's wrong so so
00:42:41
one of so that led to the first point
00:42:42
there was confidence in backing yourself
00:42:44
yes i think the other thing you've got
00:42:45
to have a bit of bravado a bit of
00:42:47
hutzpah
00:42:48
you've got to have an ability to know
00:42:50
how to stir things up and wind people up
00:42:52
i like to annoy all the right people who
00:42:54
are so permanently offended by
00:42:56
everything they're easy to wind up do i
00:42:58
enjoy that yes i love sometimes just
00:43:00
putting a tweeter i mean the vegan
00:43:02
sausage roll debate was one of the
00:43:03
funniest things ever i had the flu on
00:43:06
holiday in italy i was in bed sweating
00:43:08
with a raging fever and i saw greg
00:43:10
saying the wait is over
00:43:12
finally it's here the vegan sausage
00:43:15
right so what on earth are you talking
00:43:17
about who's been waiting for a vegan
00:43:19
sausage roll apart from anything else
00:43:20
like brew with the french where it's
00:43:22
illegal to market
00:43:24
uh vegetarian or vegan products using
00:43:27
meat language a sausage roll is meat
00:43:31
if vegans want to eat their gruel fine
00:43:33
go and have a joyless existence munching
00:43:36
your lentils don't take my language
00:43:38
don't pretend your sausage rolls are
00:43:40
real sausage rolls they're not and
00:43:42
they're tasteless and they've got more
00:43:43
calories than mcdonald's cheeseburgers
00:43:45
so my point is
00:43:46
do i care look i don't care as much as i
00:43:48
do about ukraine
00:43:49
but in the moment it really annoyed me
00:43:51
that there was a presumption we'd all
00:43:52
been waiting for a vegan sausage roll
00:43:54
and i was also annoyed that you were
00:43:56
seeing stories of
00:43:57
vegans charging into state restaurants
00:43:59
and playing music of cows being killed
00:44:01
it's like shut up and go away i don't
00:44:04
come into your gruel restaurant
00:44:06
ever and shout about what you do to the
00:44:08
bee community in california when you eat
00:44:10
your almonds and almond milk right
00:44:12
billions of bees exterminated every year
00:44:15
in a six week cull in california so
00:44:18
vegans can eat almonds and eat avocados
00:44:22
but do you care about vegan sausage
00:44:23
rolls uh i care about the hypocrisy that
00:44:25
surrounds the debate actually so anyway
00:44:27
i did a tweet saying this is ridiculous
00:44:31
and
00:44:32
and everyone went nuts i wasn't allowed
00:44:34
to think that this was ridiculous i had
00:44:36
to agree that vegan sausage rolls are
00:44:37
fantastic everyone goes bonkers
00:44:40
greg's love it because they sell i think
00:44:42
about a billion dollars worth more of
00:44:45
their products that year in fact the ceo
00:44:47
thanked me personally at the end of year
00:44:48
results so they cleaned up in fact i'm
00:44:51
thinking about going to a business where
00:44:52
all i do is take big checks from
00:44:54
companies to attack their products and
00:44:55
probably make a fortune and but the
00:44:57
whole thing to show me that everyone was
00:44:59
allowed to love vegan sausage rolls but
00:45:01
if you deviated from that and said you
00:45:03
hated them you had to be destroyed this
00:45:06
wasn't acceptable
00:45:07
the work brigade decided vegan sausage
00:45:09
rolls were untouchable you had to
00:45:11
support them you had to think they were
00:45:13
great this was brilliant even though
00:45:15
they're bad for you
00:45:16
literally worse for you than a
00:45:17
mcdonald's cheeseburger uh in terms of
00:45:20
salt and calorie intake
00:45:22
and even though the whole thing was
00:45:23
predicated on this utter hypocrisy
00:45:25
around vegan food that somehow they're
00:45:28
leaving the little the animals alone
00:45:29
when they exterminate the little guys
00:45:31
the bees and i feel sorry for the bees
00:45:33
no one ever hear vegans talk about bees
00:45:35
here it's always the big animals they
00:45:36
care about cows not the little guys i'm
00:45:39
a little guy
00:45:40
i'm the robin hood of this debate i look
00:45:42
after the little guys against the
00:45:43
sheriffs of nottingham sure
00:45:47
well i think about that so okay you play
00:45:50
that you play you know i know from what
00:45:52
you've said here you know that it's part
00:45:53
of it is a game and it's a very
00:45:54
profitable it's all fun right to a point
00:45:57
but there's also a serious point behind
00:45:58
it which is that actually
00:46:00
the vegan
00:46:02
food business is a massively burgeoning
00:46:04
business and that's fine people want to
00:46:05
eat that that's fine but i do agree with
00:46:07
the french that actually you shouldn't
00:46:08
be allowed to
00:46:10
pretend what you're doing is meat
00:46:12
related because it's not so there's a
00:46:13
genuine point there which i do feel
00:46:15
quite strongly about the french have
00:46:16
made it illegal you can't use meat
00:46:19
language to sell vegan products i think
00:46:21
we should go the same way you have your
00:46:23
world and we'll have ours you know your
00:46:25
career has been pretty filled with these
00:46:26
moments of like where you are the center
00:46:28
the orbit of sort of you know
00:46:30
debate and controversy controversy when
00:46:33
you go for a period and people aren't
00:46:34
tweeting at your abuse and stuff and
00:46:35
they're not kicking off do you feel a
00:46:37
little bit like [ __ ] was i've made a
00:46:38
mistake i remember donald trump telling
00:46:39
me when he got to the white house he put
00:46:41
four tvs in his bedroom i used to wake
00:46:43
up in the morning at five o'clock
00:46:44
because he doesn't sleep
00:46:46
and he'd look at the tvs and if he
00:46:47
didn't like what was on the screen or if
00:46:48
it wasn't about him he'd just pull his
00:46:50
phone out and tweet something and next
00:46:51
thing they'd all change in real time
00:46:53
breaking news president trump says blah
00:46:55
blah blah and i kind of related to that
00:46:58
it's like i wake up in the morning and
00:46:59
i'm not trending it's like there's a
00:47:00
problem and i have to deal with it so
00:47:01
yeah look i'm in the opinion business
00:47:03
it's very lucrative for me i make a lot
00:47:05
of money out of it i get a lot of
00:47:07
notoriety and fame out of it people love
00:47:10
me or hate me but you know that's
00:47:12
part of being in the opinion business if
00:47:14
you don't want to be
00:47:15
loved and hated
00:47:17
then you don't express opinions about
00:47:18
anything and that way to me madness lies
00:47:21
you know i'd much rather be it's like
00:47:23
the old again churchill uh you know he
00:47:25
said that
00:47:26
if you've got enemies it means at some
00:47:28
stage in your life you stood up for
00:47:29
something that you believe in good
00:47:32
that's good
00:47:33
when you've had those you you called
00:47:34
them catastrophic events in your life
00:47:35
where you know
00:47:37
and well other people see them as
00:47:38
catastrophic i've never really seen it
00:47:40
that way myself like when i got fired
00:47:41
from the mirror for example yeah after
00:47:43
10 years other people were far more
00:47:46
agitated about that and thought it was
00:47:48
far more characterism than i did the
00:47:49
mirror good morning britain and this was
00:47:51
the other thing about your story which i
00:47:52
found really i wanted to ask you about
00:47:54
is you have these these ups and then
00:47:56
these downs and these ups and these
00:47:57
downs and your twitter bio i think is
00:48:00
probably quite an an apt um
00:48:03
summary of of maybe your views on this
00:48:04
which is i can't remember exactly but
00:48:06
one day of the cockpit one day you're
00:48:07
the [ __ ] of the war next to feather
00:48:09
duster yeah so
00:48:10
and then i read that you know after like
00:48:12
the mirror situation you slept a lot
00:48:14
yeah
00:48:15
and then and then also it seems that
00:48:16
after every firing or push getting
00:48:18
pushed out whatever you go and get
00:48:19
pissed no
00:48:22
again churchill who i love as you may
00:48:24
have gathered again churchill who's now
00:48:26
being reviled by the white brigade of
00:48:28
course because he saved the world from
00:48:29
nazi germany so of course he has to be
00:48:31
destroyed
00:48:32
but churchill you know he he also said
00:48:34
that the best definition of success is
00:48:36
going from failure to failure with no
00:48:38
discernible loss of enthusiasm now i
00:48:40
think i've had a lot of success and
00:48:42
occasional failure but i don't look upon
00:48:44
any of the downs in the same way that
00:48:46
other people do about my career i'm very
00:48:48
relaxed about my level of success and
00:48:50
failure i think it's all been greased to
00:48:52
the mill
00:48:53
normally i've left somewhere in
00:48:55
explosive circumstances and it's lit to
00:48:58
something better invariably so i'm very
00:49:00
optimistic about it my glasses always
00:49:02
are full i think that one chapter ending
00:49:05
is another chapter about to start you
00:49:07
just have to make sure you get something
00:49:08
good
00:49:09
if i spoke to your wife i mean even your
00:49:11
kids and i said how does pierce's
00:49:13
emotional state change after in one of
00:49:16
these moments of catastrophic
00:49:18
failure getting kicked out
00:49:20
they'd say what i'm saying
00:49:22
he doesn't change at all barely at all
00:49:25
barely at all no i don't i don't i
00:49:27
probably if anything i'm more relaxed
00:49:28
that's all because when you're in one of
00:49:30
these cauldron jobs editing a daily
00:49:32
newspaper or doing a morning tv show you
00:49:35
know and you've got the adrenaline
00:49:36
whirring and you're caffeined up and so
00:49:38
on it makes you slightly wired to be
00:49:39
around when you're not doing that you're
00:49:41
more relaxed i'm probably just calmer a
00:49:43
bit more relaxed and then that gets a
00:49:44
bit boring and i want to get back in the
00:49:46
game again because in that in that gap
00:49:48
between one job and the next that you've
00:49:50
had many of those those gaps what's
00:49:52
going on in your life and how are you
00:49:53
not because it must be very easy for you
00:49:56
to just to rush into something else the
00:49:57
next day yeah but the gap between you
00:49:59
leaving good morning britain i always
00:50:00
advise people
00:50:01
when they lose a big job take your time
00:50:04
just go and clear your head
00:50:06
you'll get offered loads of things but
00:50:07
don't react to it let the dust settle
00:50:10
you know i left good morning britain it
00:50:12
was a massive global firestorm uh and i
00:50:15
just took my time i had loads of people
00:50:16
offering me stuff every day
00:50:18
all sorts of jobs from around the world
00:50:20
could have taken any one of them
00:50:21
uh but actually i thought i'm gonna take
00:50:23
my time just chill
00:50:25
watch some football watch some cricket
00:50:26
see some friends
00:50:28
uh get fit you know unfortunately then
00:50:30
got covered and that was the end of the
00:50:31
fitness camp over a few months but the
00:50:34
the principle is clear your head you get
00:50:36
these moments a few times in your life
00:50:38
where you get a chance to reset
00:50:40
recalibrate clear your head and then
00:50:42
work out what you really want to do next
00:50:44
because it won't be the same thing three
00:50:46
or four months down the line as it feels
00:50:47
in the moment most people's tendencies
00:50:50
when they leave a big job in dramatic
00:50:51
circumstances i've got to do the same
00:50:53
thing somewhere else
00:50:54
prove my point i don't feel i need to
00:50:56
prove anything to anybody you know i was
00:50:58
a talent show judge for six years loved
00:51:00
it number one show on british tv and
00:51:02
american tv for six years great then i
00:51:04
left
00:51:05
i i just couldn't think of any more
00:51:06
things to say about piano playing pigs
00:51:09
it's time to move on you know i did
00:51:11
larry king's job at cnn after him for
00:51:13
nearly four years i did 1200 shows on
00:51:16
prime time cnn around the world people
00:51:18
call it a failure it's like well that's
00:51:20
1200 more than any other british person
00:51:22
i've seen do a prime time talk show in
00:51:24
america so it's all about it's all
00:51:26
relative isn't it about what your
00:51:28
perception of failure is had a great
00:51:30
time in cnn and actually i wanted to
00:51:32
come home i then did breakfast tv which
00:51:34
i never thought i'd ever want to do or
00:51:35
even enjoy i loved it and we absolutely
00:51:38
crushed it we took the ratings from a 14
00:51:41
share to 36 share they've now gone back
00:51:43
to 18. so people could do the maths you
00:51:46
know i think it was a massive success
00:51:48
and yeah i still meet some people go uh
00:51:50
yeah all went wrong for you didn't i
00:51:51
said not really no no it was a brilliant
00:51:53
success good morning britain uh we
00:51:55
became the number one
00:51:57
breakfast show in the country on my last
00:51:59
day
00:52:00
i left on a point of principle and the
00:52:02
principle was i'm entitled to my opinion
00:52:05
you may not like it i'm entitled to my
00:52:07
opinion and in each case where i've had
00:52:09
a career-ending sort of moment it's
00:52:12
really been where the bosses have lost
00:52:14
their bottle with me
00:52:16
so i need i've now gravitated back to my
00:52:18
first big boss in the media rupert
00:52:20
murdoch who's got balls of steel
00:52:23
and he's not going to take a phone call
00:52:24
from meghan markle demanding my head on
00:52:26
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00:52:27
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right not going to go into the issues of
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that i'm really not personally that
00:53:31
interested in it but what i was i didn't
00:53:32
want to ask you as i saw when you spoke
00:53:34
oxford they you were talking about
00:53:36
jeremy clarkson getting in a fist fight
00:53:38
with him yeah going down the pub making
00:53:40
up after and there you said i do like to
00:53:42
fall out with someone in the makeup
00:53:43
again yeah
00:53:45
what would it take for you and meghan
00:53:47
markle
00:53:48
to make up
00:53:50
she could do she did an interview like
00:53:52
this with me be very interesting
00:53:54
you know it's like meghan markle to me
00:53:57
has lost all sense of reality about life
00:54:01
she needs to sit with someone like me
00:54:03
not an oprah winfrey enabling interview
00:54:07
fueling your victimhood she needs
00:54:09
someone to give her some perspective i
00:54:10
talk to her about perspective
00:54:12
where i say you know you are you aware
00:54:14
that when you preach to us about climate
00:54:16
change and the environment and carbon
00:54:18
footprint from elton john's private
00:54:20
plane
00:54:21
it doesn't sit very well are you aware
00:54:23
that when you tweet as they did on the
00:54:26
day of her half a million dollar baby
00:54:27
shower in new york with all her
00:54:29
celebrity friends
00:54:31
when you tweet from your twitter account
00:54:33
about poverty it doesn't sit very well
00:54:35
are you aware that when you preach about
00:54:37
equality from your 11 million california
00:54:40
mansion it doesn't sit very well are you
00:54:42
aware that when you rip our beloved
00:54:45
prince away from the bosom of his family
00:54:47
and take him to america and woke him
00:54:49
into submission it doesn't sit very well
00:54:52
with the british people are you aware
00:54:53
that when you make
00:54:55
very serious allegations of racism and
00:54:58
callous disregard for suicidal thoughts
00:55:01
you actually have to produce some
00:55:02
evidence to support it otherwise
00:55:04
everyone at the palace and the royal
00:55:06
family gets smeared by association with
00:55:09
those comments is she aware of any of
00:55:11
those things i don't know but i'd love
00:55:13
to ask those questions she didn't get
00:55:15
asked them by oprah oprah's went what
00:55:19
what what repeatedly
00:55:22
just believed everything she said we now
00:55:23
know at least 17 statements that meghan
00:55:25
markle made in that interview were false
00:55:29
so am i still supposed to believe her
00:55:32
is it a job-ending moment if i don't
00:55:34
believe her so i think she's a piece of
00:55:36
work
00:55:37
i think she i was one of many people
00:55:40
that she used along her
00:55:42
her path up the slippery ladder that's
00:55:44
fine i don't care he met her once
00:55:47
but the way she treated me on a very
00:55:48
small level is not dissimilar the way
00:55:50
she disowned her father the guy that
00:55:53
brought her up on his own for six seven
00:55:54
years
00:55:55
you know he got disowned he lived 70
00:55:58
miles away she never sees him he's ever
00:56:00
met his son-in-law i miss crazy stuff
00:56:03
right she had one member of her entire
00:56:05
family at the wedding
00:56:06
where her family should have been on
00:56:08
either side was oprah winfrey and george
00:56:10
clooney do me a favor
00:56:13
so i see right through it people still
00:56:17
want to believe her that's fine people
00:56:19
love meghan markle think what's happened
00:56:21
to harry is great that's fine too i just
00:56:23
don't agree
00:56:24
and i'm afraid you have to respect my
00:56:26
right to have that opinion um i'm
00:56:29
getting about as bored with it as you
00:56:30
are to be honest with you yeah so i
00:56:32
don't want to be defined by meghan
00:56:33
markle even though she was personally
00:56:36
responsible for me losing a job that i i
00:56:38
loved
00:56:39
you know she was the one who wrote to
00:56:41
the boss of itv
00:56:42
on the monday night that led to me
00:56:44
leaving the next day
00:56:45
um
00:56:46
talking about being we're both women and
00:56:48
we're both mothers you've got to get rid
00:56:50
of him do people think that's right
00:56:53
is it right that uh
00:56:55
that a
00:56:56
person like meghan markle from the
00:56:58
california mansion should leave her a
00:57:00
british television broadcaster out of a
00:57:04
job he's enjoying that viewers are
00:57:05
enjoying him doing in that way i don't
00:57:07
think so is it right that my right to
00:57:10
free speech was so impinged that i had
00:57:12
to leave a job if i didn't apologize for
00:57:14
disbelieving someone who said false
00:57:17
things i don't think so i thought the
00:57:19
whole thing was ridiculous as did ofcom
00:57:21
the government regulated months later
00:57:23
who ruled in my favor so i thought the
00:57:26
whole thing frankly was preposterous but
00:57:29
in answer to your original question
00:57:31
let's do an interview megan let me put
00:57:33
all these questions to you and answer
00:57:35
some difficult questions
00:57:37
because i don't wish them harm i don't
00:57:39
wish them to be unhappy but i hate what
00:57:42
they've done between them to the royal
00:57:44
family and the monarchy i think it's
00:57:46
been incredibly damaging do you ever do
00:57:49
you ever get concerned that on a real
00:57:51
human level that some of the words you
00:57:53
say
00:57:54
say for megan or sam smith or on good
00:57:56
morning britain or even around i know is
00:57:59
it tessa who was the front cover of the
00:58:01
magazine yeah the the cosmo covergirl
00:58:03
cover do you ever has it ever crossed
00:58:05
your mind that the words or tweets might
00:58:07
actually
00:58:08
hurt someone do you think it's crossed
00:58:11
did you well has it across meghan
00:58:12
markle's mind
00:58:14
what she did to me you know like on the
00:58:16
suicide megan i didn't cost her a job
00:58:19
you know
00:58:19
she was saying she was suicidal
00:58:22
again i don't want to go back to the
00:58:24
point of mental health but did you ever
00:58:26
like think
00:58:28
is this going to
00:58:29
hurt this person on it she she said that
00:58:32
two people at the palace when she told
00:58:34
them she had suicidal thoughts said she
00:58:36
couldn't get treatment
00:58:38
because it would be damaging to the
00:58:39
brand yeah i don't believe that and no
00:58:42
evidence has been brought forward to
00:58:44
support it those are extremely
00:58:46
incendiary allegations in my view
00:58:49
weaponizing mental health and suicide
00:58:51
to portray yourself as a victim if
00:58:54
meghan markle has proof
00:58:56
that two senior members of the royal
00:58:57
household refused to let her get help
00:59:01
for suicidal thoughts i want to know who
00:59:04
they were
00:59:05
when they said it and they shouldn't
00:59:07
have those jobs
00:59:08
but we are now
00:59:10
a year and a bit later
00:59:12
no evidence similarly with her racism
00:59:14
claims one of them we knew immediately
00:59:16
was untrue it's completely untrue that
00:59:18
her son
00:59:19
was prevented from being a prince
00:59:21
because of his skin color demonstrably
00:59:23
untrue
00:59:24
factually wrong and the other claim was
00:59:26
that a member of the royal family
00:59:28
expressed concern about archie's skin
00:59:31
color who was it and what did they say
00:59:33
and what was the context in which they
00:59:35
said it because the damage that she
00:59:37
calls by calling the royal family a
00:59:39
bunch of racists is incalculable as we
00:59:41
saw on the recent tour of the caribbean
00:59:43
with william and kate so i don't think
00:59:45
it's i don't think it's harsh
00:59:48
to want some evidence to support such
00:59:50
incendiary claims and when it comes to
00:59:53
do i use tough language yes sometimes i
00:59:56
think i do
00:59:57
but i don't regret doing that because i
00:59:58
think they've been using pretty
01:00:00
despicable language themselves have you
01:00:02
ever regretted anything you've said in
01:00:03
terms of sometimes you think oh i mean
01:00:06
sometimes no i encourage all my kids to
01:00:07
be free thinkers and sometimes they'll
01:00:10
be on me you know like dad you went too
01:00:12
far you shouldn't say that and we'll
01:00:14
have a spirited debate about it and
01:00:15
sometimes they they change my mind about
01:00:17
stuff tell me one example i knew that
01:00:20
i tried to think it has happened
01:00:22
it has happened i mean they'll be saying
01:00:23
that my middle son stanley is an actor
01:00:25
and photographer
01:00:27
he loves your podcast he's my favorite
01:00:29
son yeah exactly he's like oh he's on
01:00:31
mine all right i have all my sons of the
01:00:33
same and my daughter um
01:00:35
but he would say now that's talking
01:00:37
about meghan markle yeah just don't
01:00:38
bother don't and he's right there comes
01:00:41
a point what's the point the problem is
01:00:43
they make themselves
01:00:44
newsworthy all the time my job is to
01:00:46
talk about the news and obviously have a
01:00:48
vested interest in
01:00:50
the mark called debacle because it cost
01:00:52
me my job so i still feel that i have a
01:00:54
sort of involvement in that in that
01:00:56
story but he would certainly be saying
01:00:57
that move on to other stuff
01:01:00
you know just do something else in this
01:01:02
interview that's more interesting than
01:01:04
megan bloody markle and he's right
01:01:07
actually
01:01:08
so that would be an example i've had
01:01:09
that conversation with him and my other
01:01:11
sons but we argue we have we have a
01:01:13
what's up group me and my sons if people
01:01:15
read that or they laugh because they
01:01:17
hammer me my kids about all sorts of
01:01:19
stuff sometimes we agree a lot of the
01:01:21
time we don't agree and we have
01:01:23
really vociferous arguments but then we
01:01:25
all go out there and have fun together
01:01:27
and that's the way it should be i want
01:01:29
my kids to be independent-minded i want
01:01:32
them to challenge me i want to challenge
01:01:34
them and sometimes it gets really heated
01:01:36
you know as a dad when you're leading at
01:01:38
such a crusade as i'm sure you'd call it
01:01:41
um about free thinking and free speech
01:01:43
and these kinds of things
01:01:44
surely
01:01:46
there's some kind of consequence for
01:01:48
your kids right because you're put not i
01:01:50
mean fame
01:01:51
in and of itself creates a consequence
01:01:53
for you they get picked on because
01:01:54
they're my dad but i always say to them
01:01:56
you also get lots of benefits because
01:01:57
you're my sons right and my children all
01:02:00
of you right we go and have a we have a
01:02:02
wonderful time right we get treated like
01:02:04
royalty in restaurants we you know we
01:02:07
have lovely holidays we have a lovely
01:02:08
place in beverly hills they come to all
01:02:10
this is because
01:02:11
of
01:02:12
my
01:02:13
fame for one of a better word and
01:02:15
success as amid the failings
01:02:18
and i say you got to take life in
01:02:20
totality there'll be some annoying bits
01:02:22
of being my
01:02:24
children and there'll be some very good
01:02:26
benefits of being my children you know i
01:02:28
got cristiano ronaldo when i interviewed
01:02:30
him to do a uh video to my sons naming
01:02:34
them all right they were like oh my god
01:02:37
but they wouldn't get that if i wasn't
01:02:39
who i am so they have a wonderful moment
01:02:41
and then they might get trolls as in one
01:02:44
case happen making death threats to my
01:02:46
oldest son on his instagram and i did
01:02:49
take that to the police because why
01:02:50
should my sons be exposed to death
01:02:52
threats from some disgusting troll and
01:02:55
it's interesting with the process it's
01:02:56
been over a year now and it still hasn't
01:02:58
come to court it was a clear and
01:03:00
demonstrable death threat specific
01:03:03
to my son and me and to his mum my
01:03:05
ex-wife and it's like how can this be
01:03:07
allowed to happen and we're still a year
01:03:09
a year and a half later and we're still
01:03:11
no action against the perpetrator i'm
01:03:13
hoping there will be it's going through
01:03:14
the process but shows you the frailty
01:03:17
and weakness of social media that
01:03:19
someone can make a specific death threat
01:03:22
and nothing gets done for so long so
01:03:25
that's a downside of being
01:03:27
my you know when in the good morning
01:03:29
britain thing blew up all my sons were
01:03:31
being abused on social media in the most
01:03:33
horrific manner by a targeted mob
01:03:36
of people normally who have the be kind
01:03:39
hashtag in their bio
01:03:41
while spewing vile abuse of my kids
01:03:44
simply for being my children they didn't
01:03:46
even agree with me about a lot of it
01:03:50
outside of losing people
01:03:52
when does pierce morgan cry
01:03:56
nafta
01:03:58
i mean really
01:03:59
the last time i cried was my
01:04:00
grandmother's funeral 2013.
01:04:03
before that
01:04:05
i remember welling up at a movie um i
01:04:07
was trying to i think it was it was a
01:04:09
movie that ends in a horrible fashion
01:04:12
with a young son being shot dead i can't
01:04:15
remember what each one it was um
01:04:17
i think it was paul tom hanks maybe
01:04:20
paul newman or something like i can't
01:04:22
remember the movie but i was at the
01:04:24
cinema i was watching it and
01:04:26
it reminded me of my sons
01:04:29
and when the kid gets killed in the kind
01:04:31
of horrible denis montes movie i did
01:04:34
actually well up and i was surprised i
01:04:35
learned normally i don't well up at most
01:04:37
things because i think also as a
01:04:38
newspaper relative for 10 years you get
01:04:40
quite immune to shocking things
01:04:43
even if they're real in your world you
01:04:45
get immune to it you get used to dealing
01:04:47
with you know you've had to
01:04:48
cover stories like the dumb lane
01:04:50
massacre or 911 or
01:04:53
diners death or whatever it may be these
01:04:55
things are huge emotional things for the
01:04:57
country for the world
01:04:59
and over time you learn to be able to
01:05:02
handle that and do your job so you
01:05:04
become quite tough
01:05:06
quite thick-skinned on the outside
01:05:08
doesn't mean you have to feel things
01:05:09
inside i do that's what i'm curious
01:05:10
about because reading through what
01:05:11
you've been through in your career the
01:05:12
ups and the downs i was like if i was
01:05:14
this man i would have had suffered with
01:05:17
anxiety pretty badly i think i don't get
01:05:18
anxiety do you ever get anxious no never
01:05:22
not really no i don't i don't get
01:05:24
nervous i don't get anxious i'm very
01:05:26
self-confident i think i'm pretty
01:05:27
self-aware which i think is really
01:05:29
important
01:05:30
i'm i'm very aware of who i am what i am
01:05:33
how i operate
01:05:35
i'm also aware over time the things that
01:05:37
seem terrible in the moment very rarely
01:05:40
are
01:05:40
everything is survivable apart from
01:05:42
death or
01:05:44
you know some sort of terrible illness
01:05:46
that you can't get rid of um you know
01:05:48
the most frustrated i've probably ever
01:05:49
been was i got long covered uh last year
01:05:52
after i got the
01:05:54
delta varium so i had a week of very
01:05:56
high fever and stuff then got six seven
01:05:58
months of long cove no smell no taste
01:06:02
endless fatigue no energy which for me
01:06:04
was like the worst thing you know i
01:06:06
broke an ankle the summer before and i
01:06:08
didn't mind that too much it was
01:06:09
annoying physically
01:06:10
i couldn't do golf and stuff like that
01:06:12
but i was able to function as myself but
01:06:16
when you lose energy it's a really
01:06:17
interesting thing i i found that really
01:06:20
debilitating and in a way quite
01:06:22
depressing you know over time as the
01:06:24
months went on because no doctor could
01:06:26
tell you what the cure is and i have
01:06:28
great sympathy with all the millions of
01:06:29
people out there with a form of long
01:06:31
covert it's a very brutal virus even if
01:06:34
you've been as i was fully vaccinated it
01:06:36
can cause you a lot of problems
01:06:38
but as i sat there month after month
01:06:40
after month with the energy not coming
01:06:41
back and no taste couldn't drink my
01:06:43
favorite fine wine only drink terrible
01:06:46
wine because the sharp tastes i could
01:06:48
actually just about make out so you're
01:06:50
down to your leapfrown emotion
01:06:52
really awful pinot grigio as opposed to
01:06:54
my normal you know chateau la tour it
01:06:57
was a it was a difficult moment
01:07:00
stop wallowing these are first world
01:07:02
problems and i am wallowing um
01:07:04
but it made me realize that if you've
01:07:06
got good health
01:07:07
you've got
01:07:09
a wealth really
01:07:10
far better than any actual physical
01:07:13
wealth that really if you've got your
01:07:15
health make the most of it i've got a
01:07:17
lot of sympathy for people who have
01:07:18
debilitating illnesses either mental or
01:07:21
physical that's why i always try and
01:07:23
debate about mental health to park the
01:07:25
two things i know people who've got
01:07:27
clinical depression it's an awful thing
01:07:30
and they need constant help and constant
01:07:32
medical attention and treatment and
01:07:34
drugs and so on i've got great sympathy
01:07:36
for people in that position in a way
01:07:37
when i had the long covid it it felt
01:07:40
like i guess this sort of brain fog that
01:07:42
comes with it which anyone who's had it
01:07:44
will know what i'm talking about if you
01:07:45
don't you just wonder what the fuzz is
01:07:47
all about but you get this kind of brain
01:07:49
fog that sits in your head and i'd
01:07:51
imagine that it's on a much worse level
01:07:53
for people with clinical depression i
01:07:54
can kind of understand a bit more now
01:07:56
about what that must feel like but
01:07:58
that's not the same as feeling anxious
01:08:00
about normal life stuff
01:08:02
it's the levels of anxiety completely
01:08:03
out of control so i don't get anxious
01:08:06
about things i don't get nervous about
01:08:08
stuff i get excited
01:08:10
i get that kind of adrenaline
01:08:12
excitement excitement nervous excitement
01:08:15
pierce morgan uncensored tell me then
01:08:17
why how are you finding your excitement
01:08:19
in doing this having had such a long
01:08:22
career what is it about this new show
01:08:24
that's exciting you it's brand new it's
01:08:26
starting from scratch i had lots of
01:08:28
offers to establish shows established
01:08:30
networks around the world and i thought
01:08:31
you know what i like this idea i like
01:08:33
going back to work for rupert murdoch
01:08:35
he's been a great mentor for me in my
01:08:37
life he's 91 i dinner with him here in
01:08:38
la a couple of nights ago and he just
01:08:40
his brain at 91 is just staggering and
01:08:44
his extraordinary drive to always be
01:08:47
thinking of the next thing he's just
01:08:49
been down to spacex and was in so
01:08:51
enthused by what elon musk is doing with
01:08:53
that he never looks back he just only
01:08:56
ever looks forward it's very contagious
01:08:58
and he believes completely in free
01:08:59
speech and it's made him a very
01:09:01
polarizing figure himself as it has with
01:09:03
me but he believes completely in that
01:09:05
and i find that intoxicated so going
01:09:06
back to where it started with the person
01:09:08
who gave me my first really big media
01:09:10
job uh with a global platform so no
01:09:13
one's really tried doing a daily show
01:09:15
that airs in the uk the us and australia
01:09:18
three different continents at the same
01:09:20
time and my gut feeling is the world's a
01:09:23
small place with debena that actually
01:09:26
we've got to a place now where because
01:09:28
of social media
01:09:30
whether you're in sydney london new york
01:09:32
you're all having the same arguments
01:09:34
everyone's talking about the will smith
01:09:36
slap or ukraine and zolensky and putin
01:09:39
or trump whatever it may be it's the
01:09:42
same conversations the same people being
01:09:44
held around the world and i think what
01:09:45
people want to know is not what's
01:09:47
happening because they're seeing that
01:09:48
all the time they're getting an overload
01:09:50
of information they want to know what to
01:09:52
think about it and i'm in the opinion
01:09:54
business i'm going to tell people what i
01:09:56
think about stuff i don't expect you to
01:09:58
agree with me
01:10:00
but i do want to challenge what you may
01:10:01
be thinking yourself i want to be firm
01:10:04
about what i believe about situations
01:10:06
and if you want to persuade me i'm wrong
01:10:08
come on i'm going to have people from
01:10:09
the left from the right i don't want to
01:10:11
be a partisan show i don't park myself
01:10:14
into the right or left at all
01:10:16
i think i'm a voice for common sense i
01:10:18
see it i don't actually think i'm that
01:10:20
controversial in terms of my opinions i
01:10:23
think anyone who read my book knows that
01:10:25
i think i'm pretty much on the side of
01:10:27
the 80 majority in most places but it's
01:10:29
going to be a challenge and it you know
01:10:31
i'm hoping it will work i'll give it
01:10:33
everything i've got and it's a big big
01:10:36
challenge probably the biggest i've ever
01:10:37
had but i find that exciting i love
01:10:40
starting from scratch brand new studio
01:10:42
we built an ealing out of rubble
01:10:44
literally out of concrete slabs we built
01:10:46
this amazing high-tech studio um i've
01:10:49
just been on a global tour to australia
01:10:52
to america and it was so exciting the
01:10:54
energy that i was getting everywhere
01:10:55
about this it's a lot of
01:10:57
support from this massive company to
01:10:59
make it work but ultimately it's the
01:11:00
wayne rescue thing maybe i'll miss
01:11:03
we'll see
01:11:04
but it won't be through lack of trying
01:11:06
and it won't be through lack of
01:11:07
confidence and it won't be through lack
01:11:09
of self-belief that i have that this is
01:11:11
the right show for the right moment
01:11:13
the public wants someone to cancel
01:11:15
cancel culture and because of what
01:11:17
happened with good morning britain i
01:11:19
became for better or for worse
01:11:22
a very public defender of free speech
01:11:24
and the right to have an opinion and
01:11:26
that will be the core of my show and
01:11:28
we've got to get back to that i think
01:11:30
it's a war
01:11:32
and i think cancer culture is a virus as
01:11:34
deadly over time as a coronavirus it
01:11:37
really is the damage it can do to
01:11:39
society i think is extremely serious and
01:11:43
it's getting worse not better and i want
01:11:45
to cancel it and what could be a better
01:11:47
legacy than the man
01:11:49
who canceled cancer culture
01:11:52
pierce thank you um you know as you can
01:11:55
tell you know there's much we agree on
01:11:56
there's some things we don't agree on as
01:11:58
well i followed trump not because i
01:11:59
agree with everything he says but
01:12:01
because i don't want to be trapped in an
01:12:02
echo chamber of people that are just
01:12:03
telling me things that i already believe
01:12:05
and there's this quote i read one day
01:12:06
which really resonated with me which is
01:12:08
if your friends have the same opinions
01:12:10
of you they're probably not your
01:12:11
opinions yeah but i would say my own
01:12:12
kids are like that yeah they don't agree
01:12:14
with a lot of the things they agree with
01:12:16
a lot of things as well but they also
01:12:19
understand the perils of this culture
01:12:21
that we're going down this slippery path
01:12:24
and they understand actually how
01:12:26
important this debate is
01:12:28
to get back to where we used to be with
01:12:30
debate it is we have a closing tradition
01:12:32
on this podcast always where the
01:12:33
previous guest writes a question for the
01:12:34
next question ah they don't know who
01:12:36
they're writing it for okay and you
01:12:37
won't either but um the question that's
01:12:40
been written for you is
01:12:45
okay interesting so i don't ever get to
01:12:46
read it tony jack reads it slope in the
01:12:48
book what advice would you give to your
01:12:51
five-year-old
01:12:53
self
01:12:55
just live exactly the dream you're
01:12:57
currently dreaming
01:13:00
good bad and ugly warts and all
01:13:03
find something you're passionate about
01:13:04
and at five i was passionate about news
01:13:07
i don't know why i can't explain it
01:13:10
but i was
01:13:12
and so i pursued a path of wanting to be
01:13:15
in the news
01:13:16
business
01:13:17
and it's been the greatest
01:13:19
journey
01:13:20
i could ever have imagined
01:13:22
good and bad
01:13:24
i wouldn't change any of it nothing so
01:13:26
my advice to five-year-old peers would
01:13:28
be yep go for it
01:13:32
there you have it thank you pierce thank
01:13:33
you really enjoyed it appreciate it
01:13:36
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01:13:43
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Episode Highlights

  • Desire for Fame
    Piers Morgan reflects on his childhood desire for fame and acceptance.
    “I wanted to be famous.”
    @ 04m 35s
    April 25, 2022
  • Resilience in Life
    Morgan discusses the importance of resilience and mental strength in facing life's challenges.
    “Life is tough, it's not about how many times you get hit.”
    @ 13m 08s
    April 25, 2022
  • The Impact of FOMO
    Discussing how social media creates anxiety and fear of missing out in young people.
    “They've also got this terrible fomo.”
    @ 17m 37s
    April 25, 2022
  • The Dangers of Wallowing
    Exploring the celebration of self-pity and victimhood in modern society.
    “We're celebrating self-pity in a way that everyone now is like...”
    @ 18m 15s
    April 25, 2022
  • A Call for Resilience
    Encouraging a mindset of perseverance and resilience in the face of life's challenges.
    “Life's tough and you've got to keep pounding.”
    @ 26m 01s
    April 25, 2022
  • The Evolution of Woke Culture
    The modern definition of 'woke' has shifted dramatically, now seen as a form of fascism.
    “The modern day woke is a form of fascism.”
    @ 35m 12s
    April 25, 2022
  • Defending Free Speech
    Free speech is about tolerating differing opinions, not silencing them.
    “Free speech is about listening to views you just don’t agree with.”
    @ 38m 25s
    April 25, 2022
  • The Vegan Sausage Roll Debate
    A humorous take on the absurdity of vegan marketing and the hypocrisy surrounding it.
    “I’m the robin hood of this debate.”
    @ 45m 40s
    April 25, 2022
  • Career Reflections
    Piers Morgan discusses his career transitions and perceptions of success and failure.
    “It's all about your perception of failure.”
    @ 51m 26s
    April 25, 2022
  • Leaving on Principle
    Morgan explains his departure from Good Morning Britain on principle, emphasizing his right to opinion.
    “I left on a point of principle.”
    @ 52m 00s
    April 25, 2022
  • Health vs. Wealth
    Morgan reflects on the importance of health over material wealth, especially after experiencing long COVID.
    “If you've got good health, you've got a wealth far better than any physical wealth.”
    @ 01h 07m 15s
    April 25, 2022
  • Cancel Culture as a Virus
    A strong stance on the dangers of cancel culture and its societal impact.
    “Cancel culture is a virus as deadly over time as a coronavirus.”
    @ 01h 11m 32s
    April 25, 2022

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  • FOMO Anxiety17:37
  • Resilience Mantra26:01
  • Woke Culture35:12
  • Vegan Debate45:40
  • Career Transitions50:50
  • Perception of Success51:26
  • Leaving on Principle52:00
  • Free Speech Advocate1:11:22

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