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Early on in this book, he was talking about how he wanted to go back to dating as if it was in the 1800s. Now, if we
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look at historically like dating and we look at dating even within the Bible, one of the reasons I think the Bible
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doesn't talk a lot about dating is because at the time women were like bought and sold. A lot of times it was
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these plays within families to strengthen themselves like strengthen their their worth, their their value,
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their standing in society. And it's like Josh, why are we going back to that?
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Because now we're coming out of that and we're coming into a place where women
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can have a say. Women can have a voice and they can say, you know, I value these things in a partner. Before they
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couldn't do that. I think it's interesting this push within Christianity specifically in this book,
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but I think by so many to kind of go back to this like maledominated 1800's view of of romance
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as opposed to we're in a different place now. We've evolved as a society. We've
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changed the rules. We we evolve, we change, we grow, we become better. And um yeah, it just
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honestly feels very like patriarchical um and nasty to be quite honest.
