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RE-RELEASE - Steve Buscemi

November 27, 2025 / 50:15

This episode features actor Steve Buscemi discussing his experiences in film, including his roles in Fargo, Con Air, and Grown Ups. Buscemi shares anecdotes about working with Adam Sandler, directing his latest film The Listener, and his time as a firefighter during 9/11.

Buscemi talks about the challenges of filming a scene in Grown Ups where he had to match his drunken performance after a long delay. He recalls the fun of working with Sandler and the collaborative nature of filmmaking.

The conversation shifts to Buscemi's directorial debut The Listener, which stars Tessa Thompson as a helpline worker. He explains the film's intimate atmosphere and the unique challenges of shooting with only one actor in a confined space.

Buscemi reflects on his career, mentioning his iconic roles and the impact of The Big Lebowski. He discusses the evolution of his acting style and the importance of voice in performance.

Lastly, the episode touches on Buscemi's past as a firefighter and his volunteer work after 9/11, highlighting his dedication to helping others during a crisis.

TL;DR

Steve Buscemi shares stories from his film career, directing <i>The Listener</i>, and his experiences as a firefighter during 9/11.

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You know, Dana, um, we all know Steve Bushi. Yeah. Friend of the show, friend of the Happy
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Madison world. Uh, saw him at Sanders. Last time I saw him was at Sandler's
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Kennedy Center award. Yeah, we were I was actually next to him singing. I'd not really hung out with
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him and he's so much fun and so nice. You know, he's such an intense actor and we we talk about Fargo on on this movie
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and he can play the bad guy or whatever, but man, is he a sweet, funny person in real life and can sing pretty good.
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Good dude in everything. People really like him. He was in Con Air. I remember that's the part I
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Oh, yeah. I love that. And uh obviously I think it was Wedding Singer and Grown-Ups. Uh we did one
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summer. I think he was in both of them. Mhm. and just all around great actor,
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pretty beloved out there and does comedy, does drama and talks
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about everything in between. So, here he is. Uh, everybody Steve was young.
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Well, you were in Gronest, but the one I was in that I don't know if you This was the one you were in the cast. Which one
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is that? Is that both of them or is it I was in both of them. Yeah. Okay. Yeah. So,
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so the one where But Dana, this is boring as [ __ ] [ __ ] but I'm Me and Steve will crack up. You're
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already mesmerized. That's good. Okay. So, we're doing a drunk a scene where we're all around and it's night time and
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and uh we're all drinking and the couples start to pair off in slow dance
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and this Joe Walsh song comes on or something and I uh or not Joe Walsh but sentimental lady and I go, "Oh, no. Um,
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oh, this is a good song. And I and I'm drunk and I get up and I sort of stumble around and I interrupt Adam and Selma
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and then I wind up falling down drunk. But it's a seven-page scene and we're
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all in it. So, it's hard to shoot. So, we shoot it all night one night and we get to my coverage and they go, "It's
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getting light. We'll pick that up another time." And I'm like, "Another time?" Because I just had it all
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memorized because I'm doing it all night. I'm like, "I'm kind of glad I'm last because I have a lot of lines." So,
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three weeks later, McCartney is playing in Boston. We're pretty close.
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We might be in swamp squat. I just McCartney sounds.
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Yes. Sounds like I thought he was here. Everyone's looking around. When did he
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jump on? So, I go Chris Rock is in the movie and I say, "Chris McCartney is in
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Boston tonight." And he goes, "His ticket lady was my third grade teacher."
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And I said, "Oh my god." He goes, "Let's call her right now." And he goes, "We're all dialed in." I said, "We're done
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around six, seven." We haul ass. We found exactly when he goes on. And then he goes, "And he wants to say hi right
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before." We're like, "Oh my god." Wow. So about right before the end of the
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day, it was maybe Jack or someone came into my trailer and goes, "We're going to pick yours up tonight." I go, "Oh
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god, pick up my what?" And they go, "Remember, Jack, remember that scene you didn't finish?"
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I'm like, "Like like it's my fault." I go, "Yeah, I didn't finish it, right?" And he goes, "I think tonight's good." I
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go, "No, it's not. It's [ __ ] Paul McCartney." You're just not a worker. You know, you're not a real worker.
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Paul McCartney waited till midnight to go on. He's like, "Are they coming?" God, he's 81 and he's up for half the
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night. Yeah. So, I go I go, "Keep waiting." And then they go, I said, 'd
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do not bring that [ __ ] cast in to do all their [ __ ] again. I go, I'll do it.
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I said, I can't do that to them. So they gladly all scrammed. And then it was Sandler, you know, he's overseeing it.
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And then um I'm doing it to, you know, a bunch of like tennis balls or whatever the eyelines. And I do my whole seven
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pages. I'm drunk. And so I come to Video Village. This is sort of the point of the story.
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Yeah. And uh can't wait. And I'm like like Adam like we got it and uh yes I haven't taken any classes
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but yes I'm really good. And I sit there and he's just looking at it going.
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And I go we watch the playback and I'm behind him kind of chuckling like this is working. And then he goes were you
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drunker last time? Were you was it a little It was a little different. I don't know if it's matching. And I'm like, so I go,
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play me back something from the last time, you know, and I was and so we we're trying to go, okay. And it was
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really hard to match the exact tone of the drunkenness. Sounds crazy, but I go,
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I'm going to go under on this one. And then I come back and then I go, okay, I'm going to go a little bigger. And we
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did it until it made sense. Now, when you see the movie, you don't even notice, but it kind of fits in. Oh, you
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you notice I noticed when I saw it that you go he's medium plus David is a little drunker in this line.
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30 seconds later he's slightly less drunk. Just play it six and a half Titos and
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Diet Cokes. And I'm like, "Oo, that's a big one. Okay, I can play that." And then um so that just shows you first of
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all, Adam's eye is always on the ball. Yes. And and little things like that
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matter and it's you can't tell yourself when you're acting and you need someone
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else's eyes to go, it was good. I just don't think it's exactly what we had. And and
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so it took a little bit of a collabing right there. And then that's kind of fun when you finish and you feel like you
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got it right and everyone goes, "Got it." And then you all go home and you go, "Got it. Got it." And you just knock it out. I have two questions for you.
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Did you make it to the concert? Not a [ __ ] chance. It was till 2 am we did
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that. All right. Well, I guess my second question is not a question. It's it's a comment about Adam because I agree with
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you. He's always so involved in like, you know, all the all the films. And I said to him, why don't why don't you
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ever direct? Yeah. I said and he said he didn't doesn't want to location scout.
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Like that was the extra extra work. Yeah. That was the reason. He works morning, noon, and night anyway. I mean there's
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block. He's reblocking. He's doing things that directors all do. So I think he's listened to so much indie
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Wayne. It's sort of just uh you know uh given that he's going to have a lot of
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say, but uh I guess you're right. It's that extra. Well, it's a little bit like Saturday
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Night Live. If you write a sketch, you're sort of the de facto director. We had Dave Wilson. He's setting up shots.
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He's he's got just it's live. So that it's not you, but you're still kind of the boss of your sketch. You're the
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producer and the director. If you wrote it, you're casting it with other cast members. And Sandler is like that. He's
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like a co-coirector. I mean, you sort of everyone knows he's the overarching
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creative force. He's got his eye on every ball. So um I think the way he did it was brilliant. You know, I don't
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think anybody else in history has done that many movies where they are in a sense an aur, right? It it is Adam, you know, and uh
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he puts his stamp. I mean, definitely when he he the fact that he actually cares and
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even when we're doing movies where you think this will probably not get good reviews just because they have a sort of
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bias, he still puts everything into it and really cares. I mean, another
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grown-up story is Do you have a half hour is um We'll get We'll get to you in a minute, Steve.
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No, Steve. So now we're gonna ask David for I want to ask Stephen when did he get fitted for the full body cast and what
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was his reaction to going wait what do I do here or do you see the script and go uh oh
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yeah I I could tell I was yeah in that one even on the day like because
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I remember and and the whole cast was there you know because it's like one of the big scenes and it was and it started
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to rain and they got the scene and then everybody just scatters. I thought these
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are like I thought we were friends. Like are we You're left out there in the room. Nobody's checking on me. Like everybody
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just like And then uh the ad. Then I thought I was
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done. And the ad said, "Well, I think they want to get a shot where the dog comes up and sniffs your balls." And I
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actually got mad. I went, "Are you [ __ ] kidding me?
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Are your Are your real hands in the real sticking straight up like goalpost or do they put fake hands in there so you
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don't have They put fake hands in. Thank you, God. You couldn't move. Thank you, Jesus. I thought it was real
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until right now. I just went, "Wait a second. Could you hold your hand up all day?" Because also the thing about it,
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when you're like that, like if I was seen like that, I go, "Well, obviously they're going to shoot me out first." And no one even gives a fat [ __ ]
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They're like, "Nope. Oh, Bushami, we never picked up. We'll get him at the end. Just sit there in the rain. We'll
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come to you while you're rotting and getting rusty."
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Yeah, it is tough. Movies are so complex and especially grown-ups, you got 55 leads.
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Oh my god, there's so many people Yeah. that are on set and I don't know how the producers and the ads do it, but they
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somehow manage. And just just for the people, young people listening that are in the groundings or whatever and
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aspiring to have a career in television or movies, we understand these are first world problems.
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Sure. Stupid. But but um the thing is you're on a
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movie set. I would say the most tired I I ever been I was because it was one of those 21-hour days and they said, "Okay,
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G's going to go in the diner. I'm going to do this thing I worked on for weeks, this dance." And I'm going and I was
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young and fit. I go, I am as tired as I've ever been in my life. I've been up
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like 40 hours and here's your shot for eternity. Go for it. Oh, at the very end of the night they
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get you. Yeah. Well, that's with Steve's film. I'm assuming like Woody Allen would do like night shoots would end at 8:00.
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Let's, you know, I think we should get some Chinese, you know. Did you uh were you able to have civilized hours in a
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sense for the listener? Pretty much. Um, but we know we wanted
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to we we knew we had nighttime shots so that by the end of the week we were going to
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be uh shooting outside. So, you know, we started at the beginning of the week normal hours and then each day we would
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just start a little bit later. By the end of the week it was it was night shoots. Going to splits lingo lingo. Going to
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split. You know, I wasn't going to say splits. Splits is lingo and I want the people want to hear it.
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First of all, we were watching your uh movie this morning. Uh this is The Listener, right Dana?
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The Listener is a heavy film. Uh it's very very interesting. The conceit of
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it, this this volunteer helpline woman. I I mean, we'll talk to a minute. It is
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your movie that Steve directed. It's very it's compelling. it and it it just
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kind of captures the angst uh post-pandemic angst or just human angst
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uh and sadness. It's it's extremely well done and well acted uh by Tessa Thompson
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who is the only actor in the film. You go ahead, Steve. Well, she's the she's the only actor
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that we see in the film. Thank you. There's an amazing cast of callers. Yeah. She plays a home helpline worker.
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She works the night shift. She works from home. And um she gets all these calls during
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the night that she navigates and uh and we have a wonderful cast that of the callers, but you only hear their voices,
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but you and you only see Tessa on screen for the duration of the film. And she's
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amazing because they are characters also. And they uh I was watching it with someone
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and the first guy that called in, she was more into
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the guy. She was like, "I like his voice. I like his tone. I like what he's saying. I like this guy." And so, it's
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actually a big challenge to be a voice and to have any sort of resonance or
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impact. And Tessa's obviously great on her end. She's got a very calm, soothing
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uh voice. And she's, you know, she could get very riled and it seems she's got a
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very uh you have to to have that sort of job. That's what her whole job is. And
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uh very interesting. I think what she worked with was, you know, because we did everything we
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could to make it cinematic. You know, if this was pre- pandemic and she was at a call center where she was, you know,
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kind of tethered to a desk, I don't know how I would have made made that film. But because she is a is able
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to work at home, we purposefully found a location that had a nice flow to it that she could walk around, be in
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different rooms, go outside, and uh yeah, what's amazing about Tessa is that
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yeah, her voice was, you know, she always tried to keep, you know, like a calm level tone, but then but you could
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see on her face if she was upset about something that somebody said or worried. Um, yeah, she
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had a lot of these uh micro expressions uh that you know sort of gave you an
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inkling of of what she was going through herself. And you know what you really captured
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which you do a lot when you're young anyway where you'll like a girl or something and then you'll talk on the
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phone at night. It's very intimate. It's c and these two people Tess's character and the strangers
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calling in. They don't know each other. It's very dim. It's the middle of the night and they're having this intimate
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conversation and the voice actors immediately the first one just sounded very just extremely real like your ease
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dropping you know you captured that. So thank you. Thank you so much. I appreciate you guys watching it.
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Yeah. Uh you know the voice is first of all I kind of want to ask you one other question but about this but
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when I was on the phone as a kid or dating or doing anything in life the voice was kind of a fingerprint. So when
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I think of women I've dated in the past or present, a voice is one thing I really appreciate in people because they
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are fingerprints. It's so unique and you I think I was brainwashed growing up like trying to talk to girls on their
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phone and talking for hours so many liked and you always remember that and sometimes people get older and everything but you know their voice
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right away, right? And so when I go into 7-Eleven and if I ask for something they go, "Oh, I was waiting to hear you talk. That is you."
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So you know it's kind of interesting. So when you have people call in, it's very powerful to have the right person with
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the right because you have to make them all a little different. And true. Yeah. Yeah. That's a trick. And then you have to make
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for people that don't know that sort of indie uh budget is like if you have one
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location, what you were saying is you have to use some trickery and some movements and some things to keep it
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alive. And you did that. And that's the hard part with one subject and one um
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location. It's it's an it's less expensive, but it's very it's hard to keep it going. So, to make a good movie
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is tough. We also we also shot the movie in six days because
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Essa was still working on Westworld, the HBO show that Oh, okay.
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and that was her hiatus. She had seven days off and she chose to work with us.
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you know, we were trying to find a window and she's so busy um with other films and other things, but she had that
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one week off. So, we shot the entire film in that one week, which was doable
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because it is a confined space and one actor, but still it was it was it was a
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bit of a challenge. And another interesting uh layer frequency, I don't know. I didn't I went
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to state school. um is this idea when you take on a role like when you see a
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teacher outside of school, you go, "They're just normal. What are they doing?" So, in this case, her character
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is has her own issues and yet she's in the helper mode. It's like when you have a therapist and you kind of wonder
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what's going on with them, you know? So, that was a whole another layer to the film that the people don't, you know,
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she's just in the helper mode and then she's in that mode, but she had so many other issues herself. So
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yeah, I mean I think most of the people who do that work have been through it
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themselves. And part of the conceit of the film is that Tessa's character, she breaks
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protocol because you're not really supposed to tell, you know, your personal story to
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callers, but she does so for this one call where this woman is in crisis.
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And um she reveals, you know, a lot about herself in order to uh help or
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save the person that she's talking with. Um, but I know what you mean about the,
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you know, seeing people out of context, like seeing your therapist on the street or I remember when I was a kid, I went
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to Catholic school and I remember one time during lunch seeing my teacher who
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was a nun eat a sandwich and I was blown away. What you eat?
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It's true. You never see him eat. They never eat. I saw Pastor Jerry. I was raised Lutheran. uh Pastor Jerry at the mall
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and he's wearing desert boots and I go, "Pastor Jerry wears desert boots because those were very cool back in the days."
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You know, I saw a rabbi on a pogo stick and I was like, "What are you? You're never on that." Um,
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right. I know. You know, Steve, I'm looking at this. There's so much Dana about Steve that we
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love because he's uh Oh, actually, one more question about the movie before I get into your illustrious I
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I have a question about the movie, too. Okay. My last one is being a wellknown actor and a name and
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uh I don't want to hype you up too bad, but you know, you direct and you're uh well-liked guy out there. Is it still
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hard to get a small movie off the ground? Yes, this is the first film I've
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directed in 15 years. Um and there were others along the way that I tried to do.
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This one was, you know, hard to get off the ground as well. We um but yeah I
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think the climate out there is tough for any filmmaker um but you know but uh where there's a will
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there's a way and we did it you got through it single single location helps with the budget and were you like I was just as a
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you're making film first film in a long time and now it's it's it's digital digital
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playback and you're going you got six days and so you're with your DP or your producer whatever and you're looking at
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stuff and are you going at some point, holy [ __ ] this is awesome. Or you're being self-critical or I I just wonder
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what you want us uh who will enjoy the movie. What do you What did you want us
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to feel? What were you trying to reach for? And do you feel that you got it? Yeah, I just I wanted to create this
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really intimate atmosphere and have Tessa's
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uh the location be totally her her world where you're getting clues about her. um
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and and for the the audience to want to lean in and and and be involved and it is
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exciting that on set. Um, it's also
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overwhelming because there's so much uh dialogue in it and uh so I'm
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constantly thinking, you know, I I try not to think of the editing process
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while I'm doing it, but yeah, I mean that's things that you have to think
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about. Uh, and is it is there enough movement? Is there is you know when should it be still? when, you know, when
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or if the camera should should move, when should Tessa get up and move
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around? And um so we spent a lot of time actually working that stuff out before
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we before we shot it. Did you ever once on the set after a take just go, "What are you doing?"
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And like Sandler, you sound like Sandler.
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I want to ask a question because Steve's been famous for a long time. So, it's hard. You're kind of okay. I get to talk
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to Steve. It was so much fun hanging out with you and at Sandler Singh in DC, you know, because
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you're one of the people I'd say uh Steve Bash's here. You know, I'm doing this thing with Steve Bash and it's like
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what? You know, it's like But I just here's something maybe you've never been asked. Who's more talented,
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Joel or Ethan Cohen? You have three seconds. Go.
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They're both hacks.
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Who likes feet more? Whon Tarantino or
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anyone else in the planet? Is he like feet or is that like a fake thing or is that like a joke?
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I don't know. I I I I don't I if he did know, he wouldn't
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tell you. Well, no, he can like feed. It's fine. I like things. Yeah. I just don't know if that's, you
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know, how much or Okay, we've got a We've got a what's it
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called when the witness is being very troublesome. I'm a hostile. Hostile witness.
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We We're trying to trend, Steve. We're like, no one knows we exist. We have a sweetheart deal with a F
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feetinder. Okay. I I'm reading this. This is what I read about Steve Bushi because there's so much to know about him.
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I know this guy goes frequently plays fast talkers, frequently plays cowardly
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characters. It's funny. And often characters mixed up in crime.
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Yes. All true. A little generic, but all true. They're just Steve is in so many
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good movies and he's so someone that everyone thinks is cool, which is where
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what I'm going for. Not there yet. But I think like Conair, cool [ __ ] movie. Just a random movie.
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Conair fun big movies. I miss those kind of you get to work with Nicholas Cage
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and his whole Nicholas Cage thing. It's great. Um, you remember that movie?
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I've had a great cast. John Malkovich and Oh yeah, yeah, yeah. Danny Tjo,
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can't you tell that he's lying? No, I'm I'm working on a Malovich. Uh, Nicholas Cage. Why? God, why? Um,
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oh, you know, Dana, to bore the [ __ ] out of Steve again, not to bring it back to me. And it's not about me. I do not care.
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I'm timing you this time. I read three times for his part in
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Conair. For whose part? Yours. And you probably was an offer.
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I'm sure you got offered it while you were milling it out and swishing it around. They were dragging me to the
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valley back and forth going, "Do it like this, you monkey." And then uh they go, "No, we got our guy. Thanks. Bye."
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I never knew that. Wow. You would have been I have a Steve. When's the last time you
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auditioned for a movie? Yeah, good one. Oh, wow.
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It's been a while. I I yeah I remember auditioning for a movie and then
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reading, you know, reading one of the parts and then asking the casting director, can I read for the lead? I was
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like, why? You know, and she looked at me and she said, oh no,
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we're going to get a name for that. And that's the first time I ever heard that expression. We're going to get a name
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for that. Like, well, I have a name. And then I thought, oh, I see. I have to get
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my name known. I didn't know it worked that way. I just thought if you were Oh, so many things I auditioned for were
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offers out to people and I was jumping around to kill time to scare them like we're having auditions right now. I
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mean, no one no one's good yet. Don't worry, no one's good yet. I hated when you walked into an audition room and I
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saw all these this is in the 80s. Babyfaced men with no chins. Like I go,
00:24:46
"Okay, I get it. Oh, I I I get the look." Yeah. They're all look alikes of me. No
00:24:52
chin, baby face. Okay. Cherubic. I get it. But they I I was over for 150 at one
00:25:00
point. 150 auditions. And I've got one time the agent called me. You didn't get
00:25:05
it and you frightened them. Oh, I remember auditioning for Barry
00:25:12
Levenson once and reading, you know, reading this part and he liked it. He went, "That was
00:25:20
good. It was good. Now, can you do it?" And he gave me a very specific direction.
00:25:26
Did it again. Exactly the same. And we both looked at each other.
00:25:34
I was mortified. He was embarrassed. And I And I said, "That wasn't that
00:25:39
different, was it?" She went, "No, no, okay.
00:25:44
Okay. Can't take direction." My [ __ ] acting coach shocked. Yes, I had one.
00:25:50
They said they might give you direction just to see if you can take direction. A lot of people can't. I'm like, why not?
00:25:56
And they're like, it's shocking. They can't. They go Stemi. They just start listing people.
00:26:02
But honestly, it's like you just say that and you go, oh, I would just change it. And some people are coached so hard
00:26:09
or they're with their teacher or whatever and they go, this is the right way to do it. even to the director. They're like,
00:26:15
"I've got the right way. You don't." Right. And they're just testing you. But I've done that. I bomb every every commercial
00:26:22
audition. Even more embarrassing. Um do do the Cohen brothers give you a line by line reading
00:26:31
like say the line like how are they, you know, their writing is so
00:26:37
specific, you know, that they really want you to, you know, say what's written. And so there's very little. I
00:26:44
think I improvised something once on Fargo and I was nervous about it, but they liked it. But I remember in the
00:26:50
beginning when I first started working with them, they uh I think in Miller's Crossing that they just wanted my
00:26:57
character to be even, you know, he was a fast he was the fastest talker that I think I ever
00:27:03
It's hard with lines to do fast. Yeah. And they just wanted it even more
00:27:08
like they just wanted it more intense or more shrill. And um I remember doing the
00:27:14
scene where I, you know, all I do is talk talk talk talk. Gabriel Burn had like two
00:27:21
words, then I talk talk talk. He would just wait till I stopped talking, then he would say two two words. And there
00:27:27
was a whole casino of people behind me uh on my co coverage. And I remember on
00:27:35
one of the takes, my late wife Joe, she came to visit me on set, but I didn't know she was there yet. And as I'm doing
00:27:42
the dialogue with the whole casino, you know, extras behind me, I see her head
00:27:48
poke out, you know, behind somebody to watch. And I just stopped talking.
00:27:54
Oh, through you. And all right, back to one. You know, and it was you hear a lot of rumbling
00:28:00
and she felt horrible. I could see the look on her face. She knew what happened and she just ducked back out. Um,
00:28:06
yeah, because your brain just switches. You go, "Wait, oh, Joe." Yeah. Turns you off.
00:28:13
You know, uh, Dana, I don't know if you remember this one. Of course you do. I don't know who you played in this. Maybe
00:28:19
Travolta. One of my favorite sketches was Welcome Back Cotter. Tarantino's Welcome Back Cotter.
00:28:26
When uh, John hosted when John Oh, it was John was playing John. Okay. about hosted and it was welcome Back
00:28:33
Carter directed by Quentyn Tarantino and um at the end of it
00:28:40
yeah because Michael McKeon was on the show and they had Lenny and Squiggy pop out remember and then I came out at the
00:28:48
very end as Mr. pink and said something like up your hole with a jelly roll,
00:28:54
something like that. I remember in the rehearsal uh or the dress the dress rehearsal show
00:29:03
uh I was late getting out there and I didn't think it was my fault. I thought I was cued late. But you probably don't
00:29:10
remember this, David, but afterwards you did give me a little [ __ ] about that. Shut the [ __ ] up, did I?
00:29:16
You gave me a little bit. A little bit. You did. You did. You were like, "Hey, the you know, Johnny on the spot there.
00:29:22
What happened?" Something like that. And I went and they didn't kill me. You know, how dare I? I I was I was nervous.
00:29:28
Nervous. I was Horseshack and I was in character.
00:29:36
I got to play Horseshack. It was I loved it. I thought that was such a funny idea, funny sketch.
00:29:41
It was great. Yeah. One of my all-time memorable ones. That's fun you got to be in that. And um
00:29:46
I just watched your monologue of character actors. That was a good idea.
00:29:52
You were people in the audience, cast members were character actors. Yeah. Asking you how to be a lead.
00:30:00
Wait. Yeah. They said like, "Hey, you're a lead, but you play a lot of character
00:30:06
actors, but now you're a leading man. I play the girl with all the bags at a store that's the best friend." And and
00:30:12
then she frat falls out of frame and then Kristen Wig is like, I'm the girl
00:30:18
running from the killer with a knife, but I don't know where anyone is. Steve, are you here? So, everyone was playing a
00:30:23
character and they were asking for your advice to get past being a character actor. I thought it was pretty clever. I
00:30:29
thought that was good. That was good. I should watch that again because I totally blanked that out.
00:30:35
I'll send you a link. Sure. Thanks. All right, let me ask you a question.
00:30:41
But now that you say it, now that you describe it, I do do I do remember it. Yeah. I mean, it is a blur because you've got
00:30:47
13 sketches. You've hosted I think twice. Twice. Yeah. Yeah. So, it's hard to remember every nook and
00:30:53
cranny, but it was a good job. I thought that was interesting. I like what I remembered about the first
00:30:58
time hosting during the dress rehearsal, I came out to do the monologue and I spotted a
00:31:05
friend of mine from high school sitting in the front row. And again, it was just like seeing seeing my wife on set. I
00:31:12
looked at him and I was like, "Hey, it's Eddie." And I was like, "Ah, [ __ ] What's my like I don't know what to do
00:31:18
now." On top of your nerves. You see that throws you off. So scary.
00:31:24
One take. That's the hard part. I know. You're like, "Let me start over." Nope. But thank God it was a dress rehearsal.
00:31:30
And then at the for the show, I just went just told myself, just don't look at anybody. Just avoid eye eye contact.
00:31:38
Yeah. Yeah. So, what a run you had in the 90s. I mean, it come and then SNL calls. You'd
00:31:44
been in at least five giant movies, Reservoir Dogs, Pul Fiction. Um, when
00:31:51
did Fargo come out? Yeah, that came out like in 96. I was surprised that I got the call for it
00:31:56
because I didn't think I had really done enough to like warrant me being like
00:32:03
that people would even know me. Uh but John Toutur was also on that year and I
00:32:08
thought, "Oh, is this the year that they're like going after uh independent
00:32:14
film actors or something?" And I I was like, I'm so thrilled to like get it, but I
00:32:19
was nervous that uh I think I suggested because in the opening monologue, it was
00:32:25
some monologue about my name, Steve, and something, you know, it was and it just wasn't me and I was nervous about that.
00:32:34
So, I sort of addressed that and then I suggested something. I can't remember
00:32:40
who came up with the idea that we were gonna like I was going to take suggestions from the audience and do
00:32:46
like an improv with the rest of the cast and then I would just insert scenes from
00:32:52
movies that I was in. But part of but the ulterior motive was to like to remind people I was in Fargo where
00:32:59
Reservoir Dogs were nervous that people wouldn't know like who is this guy? Um
00:33:04
but I was glad that they changed it. I was very sort of shy to say can we do I have to do this opening monologue
00:33:13
can can we change it? and uh and Lauren was really open to it and and receptive
00:33:18
and but that first time you host it's just it's just so uh mindb boggling. I
00:33:26
was so anxious and I didn't know if I was allowed to say anything or contribute and even though they were
00:33:32
asking me like is there anything that you like to do or you have any special talents can you sing?
00:33:37
Yeah. Whatever you want. Right. Do you feel like you're being a problem if you say too much on a set?
00:33:44
Yeah. Yeah. And then also like what do I know? Like aren't like you're the experts.
00:33:49
Yeah. You put yourself in their hands. I think they just test you to say we have a sketch we've been sitting on, but we
00:33:55
need someone that can speak Russian or we need someone that can, you know, sing and they and Yeah. And you need just
00:34:01
dialects and weird [ __ ] And you go, I can juggle. They go, okay, we can put that in something. And then right, that helps. Did Did Lauren calm me down
00:34:09
or is he sort of imposing in his own way? But normally he would really take a host. You go to dinner with him. You'll
00:34:16
be nervous on the dress rehearsal and then on air it'll all just come together.
00:34:22
That's Yeah, he's kind of both. He's very intimidating and comforting at the
00:34:28
same, you know, kind of at the same time because he's so calm, you know, that like and it's no, this is what we do and
00:34:35
you'll be fine. And it's like, okay, I'll believe you.
00:34:41
Do you you know, we had a an old movie you did was called Airheads. I saw it again on the flight because we had
00:34:47
lovely Brenon Fran who was a super sweetheart. Uh he's great. And then uh or Sandler
00:34:54
for seeing Airheads Again because I went and saw it on uh Broadway in like 69th
00:35:00
wherever there's that little theater in New York during I think it was SNL and it I saw the whole thing again. Pretty
00:35:07
fun to see the whole thing again. Um and Billy Madison of course is such a big
00:35:12
one that people remember you from you know I did one day on that movie on
00:35:19
and everyone remembers it. Is that you when you cross the the list of kill who to kill that thing? And then Yeah. Yeah.
00:35:25
So memorable. He he calls me up and he apologizes for his bullying behavior in high school and
00:35:31
then I cross his name off the people to kill to kill and then I for no reason at all
00:35:37
I just put on lipstick which that was my favorite part.
00:35:44
You know we went Do you think I mean Yeah. Being the character actor is great. We saw Sandler tape his thing. I
00:35:50
thought I might see it. He's doing his um stand up special. I know. And uh Bridget was there.
00:35:57
Yeah. Veronica Vaughan, the teacher in Billy Madison. And uh
00:36:05
and I said, "You get to be for history in one of Farley's funniest things,
00:36:11
saying that Veronica is one fine piece of ace." And then
00:36:17
Billy goes, "You went with her?" And he goes, "I had a couple fun nights with them." He goes, "No, you didn't." He goes, "No, I didn't."
00:36:24
Or whatever. He says, "It's so funny. It's very, very, very Chris." Yeah, it was. Yeah.
00:36:31
He plays the bus driver in Billy M. So funny. Yeah, that's fun. It's fun to be a part
00:36:37
of even like that one scene you did just everyone remembers it. I loved and you know Yeah. And Chris was in Airheads. And I remember when we did
00:36:45
the read through and afterwards, Chris said to me,
00:36:51
there's a part in Airheads where, you know, like my character gets angry and I'm like yelling at Adam and and uh
00:36:58
Chris says to me, "Wow, Steve, when you were yelling that one time, you you sounded just like you did in Reservoir
00:37:04
Dogs." And I kind of looked at him like, "What are you saying?" And I realized Chris really was that way. Like when he
00:37:10
had that sketch on SNL, he was, "Oh god, what?" You know, remember when you were in the Beatles?
00:37:16
Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. He really was that way kind of, but he was excited, I'm sure, to see
00:37:22
you. I know. I know. It's fun. And and I just, you know, and and I kind of looked at him and he looked at me and
00:37:28
and then we like just laughed. But, uh, it was a really funny thing for him to say.
00:37:34
Yeah, he's he is a sweetheart. Was Fargo the one you get asked about the most only because it won best pitcher, right?
00:37:41
It was No, it's uh the big Labowski. Okay. And that was another
00:37:46
And it took a few years for that to happen. Um because that was the one that followed Bargo and
00:37:54
I think critics and like didn't know what to make of it at at the time and it kind of fell through the cracks. But
00:38:00
then like five years later, I would start to get these like college kids come up to me and mention it because
00:38:06
they watched it on VHS like over and over. And then in 10 years time, then it was Yeah. And then it it got to be where
00:38:14
I knew the Labowski fans like somebody would come up to me on the street and
00:38:20
they'd be about to say something and I'd say, "Shut the [ __ ] up, Donnie." And they'd like look at me like, "Yeah, I'm
00:38:25
wild." Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. God, I I'm telling you, I hear about that like people I'm not in it, but people go, "God, have you
00:38:32
seen The Big Labowski?" Oh, like one of my when they listing movies they like and comedies and it just really did
00:38:38
resonate. Yeah. Hey, I'm the dude, man. Jeff Bridges is such a stud.
00:38:45
Such a stud. Jeff Bridges. I always say that when he became a cowboy actor, he always sounded
00:38:50
like it just had a hogy. I'm gonna do a take here in a minute, but I just had a
00:38:55
big deep fried sandwich with him. He, you know, he a his Jeff now, if he
00:39:02
listens to our podcast, he just once he did true true grit and then he just
00:39:08
stayed his voice got grallyier. Well, he just sort of he went post acting. I think some people if you see Hell or
00:39:14
High Water, he's being so playful in that it's almost like Anthony Hopkins in the one
00:39:19
he got the Oscar for a couple years ago. some kind of like beyond acting. They're just playing. I I don't know how to
00:39:26
describe. He's like, "Let's get a giddy up on this car." You I don't know. In the hell or high water, I went, "Oh, he
00:39:31
jumped the shark. He's not acting anymore." Do you know what I mean, Stephen? Yes. He's just become whatever,
00:39:39
you know, you just Yeah. He Yeah. Rules are out. the most in the pocket you feel you've ever been like in a role
00:39:46
like okay this is the most I'm not thinking that I'm acting in a way or I'm
00:39:51
just feeling so so great in each take if it ever happened well no um
00:39:59
I mean the first feature that I directed Trees Lounge was a character that I
00:40:04
wrote for myself that kind of was like an exaggerated version of me, but
00:40:12
it was me and and um so but it was weird
00:40:17
because I was also directing it and I always get very anxious when I direct. So it was hard to really enjoy it, you
00:40:25
know, fully in the moment. If somebody else was directing, I think I maybe I would have felt like, "Oh yeah, I'm
00:40:31
nailing this." Otherw otherwise I'm just like I'm just thinking about the rest of the day and just wanting to get through
00:40:38
a scene, make sure I got it right. But yeah, uh but my anxiety I think just
00:40:43
gets in the way. Wait a minute. An actor with anxiety. I mean and and self and self you're you're
00:40:49
having a brilliant actor has self-doubt and anxiety except for Brando maybe. I don't know. But everybody else was a
00:40:55
little shaky. I don't know. Hard to hard to place Brando. I'll bet he was insecure.
00:41:01
Brando. No. Well, he got the earpiece at some point. So I think he was like a [ __ ] memorizing
00:41:08
lines. It's too stressful. Not giving a [ __ ] is is another way to
00:41:13
do this, you know. No, I'm saying the word anxiety I didn't know growing up or I would have said it
00:41:20
every day. But I think now that you give people this word, like kids, they're like, I'm anxious at
00:41:25
school. I'm like, well, no [ __ ] I've been anxious since the day I was born till right now. Like, it's a very rough
00:41:30
life out there. And they're like, I don't want to do my homework. It gives me anxiety. No [ __ ] Like, everything
00:41:36
does. Oh, I had panic attacks before I do standup and I didn't know I was having a panic attack.
00:41:41
Yeah, you don't know what it's called. You're just like I was I'd give it a name and then I'd have to go talk to a therapist for 225 an hour.
00:41:47
Maybe a talk her down to 200. Well, that's enough personal information for tip. But
00:41:53
uh yeah, everybody is anxious now and depressed. Steve,
00:41:58
true. We can now now we know what we are. We know we're screwed up. We have
00:42:04
vocabulary. Before I let you go, Steve, because you're a wonderful guy, I I And you're doing 12 other podcasts after
00:42:12
this for the listener. You know, the good thing about Steve is he's not totally out there on everything. Like that's the interesting
00:42:17
mystery of Bushmi. He's just kind of cool, lays back a little bit, doesn't smother them.
00:42:23
He I don't It's I think it's unintentional, but yeah, he's effortlessly cool. And the fact that you
00:42:29
I mean I'll just throw this out here because I don't it's not common knowledge to everybody that you were a firefighter who dreamed of becoming an
00:42:36
actor. Yeah. Who became an actor. 9/11 happens and then you apparently volunteer and you're
00:42:44
going into the rubble with the firefighters. Not to bring up such a dark subject, but that's an extraordinary
00:42:51
uh thing for a human being to have done, you know. Well, thank you. No. Yeah, because I I
00:42:58
was a firefighter for a few years in the early 80s and then, you know, as the years went by, I got
00:43:04
further and further away from it and lost touch. But then 911, yeah, it just put me back in touch and I felt really
00:43:11
honored that they would even let me come back and work with them with my uh my
00:43:18
company, Engine 55. and I I had access,
00:43:24
but I know so many people who would have done the same thing that wanted to be there, but just was couldn't get in
00:43:31
there and and I had I had the opportunity and the access because I used to be on the job and I felt very
00:43:39
honored to, you know, that that I was that I was able to do that. It's hard for any of us to imagine that
00:43:46
scene of what what you went through and you were invisible in a sense with the gear and everything. No one knew, hey,
00:43:51
that's the Fargo guy. You know what's weird is that, you know, I still had my uh my turnout coat and my
00:43:58
helmet and boots. And so I went there thinking that I would that I could blend
00:44:04
in, but I had been off the job like since the mid8s and all the and all the
00:44:10
equipment changed and the bunker gear. You look like Curious George or something. I kind of stood out anyway. And then
00:44:17
people were like kind of looking at me like who why who is this guy? Why doesn't he have like why is he
00:44:23
from a time machine? A relic from the past. Oh, wait a minute. It's that guy. It's that actor. Yeah.
00:44:29
You know, Dana, he did that anonymously and he he helped for uh weeks. In a
00:44:35
related story, I brought cookies down and had tipped off TMZ to follow me and
00:44:41
then later and I was in full makeup and then Hey man, you both you both are heroes. when I you're different kinds of heroes.
00:44:49
I want to ask Steve a qu because I don't know if this is true either because I was a pipe David and I were pipsqueaks in high
00:44:55
school. Like I I graduated I was probably 125. Me too.
00:45:00
But I I heard you wrestled at 105 on the varsity. Oh, really?
00:45:06
But you got bigger than that, right? Were you that a freshman? 105 or I know I did that up until my senior
00:45:12
year. Maybe I went up another 105. I don't think so. 105. Yeah, that's crazy. I know.
00:45:20
Were you your height? Uh I But the because I I was pretty wiry
00:45:25
and I was pretty uh strong for my weight. I did pretty good during the
00:45:30
year. Uh you know, like in the in the team matches, but then in the tournaments I
00:45:36
always I always choked. When you started wrestling guys, was it harder?
00:45:42
He says the girls a little easier and then they started putting me up against guys when they got to 110.
00:45:50
Then it was two girls versus Steve and he he'd take them down three girls and it was getting hard and then they had a
00:45:56
87 pound uh guy. No, but you were good. I mean you were actually you would seem
00:46:02
like the kind of guy who would be good at wrestling. I don't know why I think that, but yeah, your intellect and kind of I
00:46:08
think wiry people are secretly strong. I was I was okay. I did I you know I had
00:46:15
I had a great coach, Mr. Earl, and and uh and his son Richiro was my wrestling
00:46:22
partner. So, and like he was like the best on the team. So, it kind of rubbed off on on me. I had one secret move
00:46:29
called the reverse cradle. And if I got you in it, if I got you in the reverse cradle, it was like a
00:46:36
surprise. And I actually beat some like guys who were probably better than me. But then, you know, that's why I would
00:46:43
choke in the tournaments because then you wrestle these same people again.
00:46:50
It always seemed a little close quartery in a way. You ever wrestling a guy and all of a sudden your face was right up
00:46:55
against his junk and you're going, "Why am I doing this?" It's very almost erotic wrestling. It is
00:47:02
okay. You know, it Let's look at a clip. It's part of the appeal. It's part It's part of the appeal. It does get a
00:47:09
diverse audience. Yes. Yes. That's good. Yeah. All right, Dana. What do we do with Steve? We let him go.
00:47:16
Well, we could do hours because of He doesn't need our help, but Yeah. He's Steve Bushi. He's a national treasure.
00:47:23
I'm going to use that as a because you're just been around so long and uh
00:47:29
if I see one in a movie, I'm just happy. Yeah, you're like this guy.
00:47:34
It's this guy. And I think when you are in your lane, um I I don't know who your
00:47:41
peers are. I don't know if it's Christopher Walkin. These are older people, but um it's there's the cool
00:47:47
factor. You're not in you're not a pretty boy in front of a movie doing all the press. You're just the guy who goes
00:47:53
in and you can't take your eyes off that guy, you know? I mean, it's like you weren't in Fargo. It was like it didn't
00:48:00
feel like you were acting. You weren't an actor in that movie. They're like, they got a real guy to do
00:48:05
this. They How where'd they get this? I had that once with Rip Torren. I saw a movie. Where'd they get this guy off the
00:48:11
street? He was so good in this movie. And I think you have that vibe about you.
00:48:17
Thank you. So, I'm not a pretty boy. That's what you're saying. Well, I'm saying you're you're ruggedly
00:48:24
handsome. Thank you. Thank you. I agree. Do you think David's a pretty Yes, absolutely.
00:48:30
Thank you. I've gotten away with uh every time I date someone, it's Beauty and the Beast in every article. I'm like I enough for this. Like just why not
00:48:39
just say I'm okay like a beast. They say they go yuck. That's like exclamation is the headline. I'm like
00:48:44
all right. You can't do that. You can't do that with the girls. You can't say, "Look at this great looking guy with
00:48:50
this dog." It's like, and you can't. You can do with me. All right, Steve. That's really what I
00:48:55
wanted to get off my chest. Okay. Um, thank you for talking to us. Uh, you're a stud and, uh, we'll talk soon.
00:49:01
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    Steve Bushi is known for his intense acting but is a sweet, funny person in real life.
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    David shares a humorous story about trying to match his drunken acting in a scene.
    “Were you drunker last time?”
    @ 04m 22s
    November 27, 2025
  • The Listener: A Unique Film Experience
    Steve directed 'The Listener,' a film featuring Tessa Thompson as a helpline worker navigating personal issues.
    “It's extremely well done and well acted.”
    @ 11m 26s
    November 27, 2025
  • Auditioning Realities
    The harsh truth of auditions: 'We're going to get a name for that.'
    “I have a name. And then I thought, oh, I see. I have to get my name known.”
    @ 24m 16s
    November 27, 2025
  • The Pressure of Direction
    Facing the challenge of taking direction in auditions can be daunting.
    “I was mortified. He was embarrassed.”
    @ 25m 34s
    November 27, 2025
  • Anxiety in Acting
    Steve discusses the commonality of anxiety among actors.
    “I think now that you give people this word, like kids, they're like, I'm anxious at school.”
    @ 41m 25s
    November 27, 2025
  • Returning to Firefighting
    Steve reflects on the honor of returning to firefighting after 9/11.
    “I felt really honored that they would even let me come back and work with them.”
    @ 43m 11s
    November 27, 2025
  • The Rugged Appeal
    There's a unique charm in being the 'real guy' in a movie, not just an actor.
    “You can't take your eyes off that guy.”
    @ 47m 47s
    November 27, 2025
  • Beauty and the Beast
    The struggle of being labeled as the beast in relationships is humorously shared.
    “I've gotten away with uh every time I date someone, it's Beauty and the Beast in every article.”
    @ 48m 30s
    November 27, 2025

Episode Quotes

Key Moments

  • Steve Bushi's Charm00:25
  • Intimate Conversations14:02
  • Directing Challenges18:34
  • Audition Struggles24:16
  • Anxiety in Acting41:25
  • Effortlessly Cool42:29
  • Rugged Charm47:47
  • Podcast Call to Action49:09

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