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Growth Mindsets to Afford Anything | Paula Pant - E75

February 28, 2024 / 52:39

This episode features Paula Pant, host of the Afford Anything podcast, discussing personal finance, real estate investing, and the importance of mindset.

Paula shares her journey from a newspaper reporter earning $21,000 a year to building a successful platform with over 30 million downloads. She emphasizes the concept that you can afford anything but not everything, highlighting the significance of opportunity cost in financial decisions.

Real estate investing is a key topic, as Paula owns seven rental units across Georgia, Indiana, and Nevada. She explains her investment strategy, focusing on properties with healthy cap rates and the importance of location in real estate.

Mindset is another crucial aspect discussed, with Paula advocating for a growth mindset and the idea of 10x thinking. She encourages listeners to focus on income growth rather than just saving, promoting the idea that anyone can achieve financial success through hard work and smart choices.

The episode concludes with practical advice on how to approach personal finance and investing, making it accessible for listeners at any stage of their financial journey.

TLDR

Paula Pant discusses personal finance, real estate investing, and the importance of mindset in achieving financial success.

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welcome to the best interest podcast where we believe Benjamin Franklin's advice that an investment in knowledge
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pays the best interest both in finances and in your life every episode teaches you personal finance and investing in
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simple terms now here's your host Jesse Kramer hello everybody and welcome to
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episode 75 of the best interest podcast my name is Jesse Kramer today I'll be
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joined by Paula pant Paula is the host of the afford anything podcast we have a really fun conversation not only talking
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about some of Paula's personal finance background and and how she started afford anything and built it into the
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empire for lack of a better term that it is today but also we talk about some of
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Paula's real estate investing because she owns seven real estate properties as
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we'll get into or seven doors I should say and she has a lot of cool things to
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say about real estate and we also talk a little bit about mindset in in a couple
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interesting ways growth mindset or just you know the willingness to take on challenge in the world and go through
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some struggle and build something new and unique for yourself which Paula has done an amazing job with first we're
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bestest gear okay before Paula today we're going to talk a little bit about some Minds ideas I'm not talking like
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Guru woo woo uh you know kind of fanciful ideas but just kind of helpful thoughts at least some things that have
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helped me along the way and I'm going to start with a classic friend of the blog
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friend of the podcast Tyler Tyler you know who you are I hope you're listening
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right now this story starts in August of 2021 when Tyler broke his hand on his birthday no less H what a bummer sorry
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Ty I know that was a tough time for you because sure there was the the physical pain of a broken bone B and and that's
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certainly not fun but I know Tyler also felt the mental frustration of knowing that I slipped I fell I took the wrong
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step this wasn't some unavoidable external mistake this was a self-inflicted wound self-inflicted
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wounds are a double bummer and and bummer one is the wound itself but that physical pain is compounded by the
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knowledge that you did it to yourself and that really is bummer number two it's the knowledge that the injury was
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avoidable and the knowledge that your own mistake WIll Cascade into weeks or months or years of negative consequences
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but I want to convince you that bummer number two has very little utility in our lives you can't go back in time to
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undo the mistake Tyler can't Unbreak his hand so what is the real use of feeling
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that ongoing regret I think the smart emotional response is not prolonged but brief it's to realize your mistake to
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learn the lesson to commit to changing diffus your behavior which I think is very important and then to move on
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because in finances there are a lot of self-inflicted financial flaws for example we spend money on stupid stuff
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that we later regret or we borrow too much money we go into too much debt for our houses for our cars or maybe for our
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college education or we invest too little money early in life we start investing a little too late in life now
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the obvious consequences appear on our balance sheets and in our bank accounts we don't have as much money as we hoped
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we would the secondary consequence though it haunts our thoughts right if only I bought Bitcoin in 2012 I could
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buy four jet skis like the Jones family down the street but just like with Tyler's broken hand those if only
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regrets they really don't have much use in our lives they're only worthwhile if
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they help you learn for next time and that's great if they do help you learn
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for next time that's a wonderful reason to have a regret but beyond that it's
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uselessly crying over spilled milk so my go-to overspending story as an example is that I bought a hot tub in 2017 I
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overspent and then I underutilized it but it helped me learn some amazing lessons so the first one I have a
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psychological weak spot for a good sales pitch and you might too I think most of
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us think that we're immune to sales or we think no no I'm I'm not going to fall
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for that sales pitch but until you understand the way that sales people work the fact of the matter is you might
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fall for a sales pitch and for example I found the book influence by Robert calini I'm looking at it right now in my
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book it was extremely helpful because it allowed me to recognize sales pitches more readily another thing when it came
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to the hot tub I learned a lesson that it's important to find the root of your
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desire so it turns out I thought hot tubs were so much fun because in my limited experience with them it always
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involved groups of friends it involved you know that fun weekend getaway in the atar around deck mountains with a kind
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of a cabin in the woods and a hot tub see it it wasn't the hot tub itself that
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was so fun it was the friends it was the weekend getaway and you don't necessarily need a hot tub just to hang
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out with friends and I also learned that good deals are always out there I bought
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what ended up being called it the Mercedes of hot tubs and I probably should have just gone with a used Honda
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maybe a new Honda but either way a Honda over a Mercedes I don't regret necessarily buying the hot tub but I
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learned some valuable lessons from that experience now another self-inflicted wound that many of us have suffered is
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over borrowing if only I knew at age 18 what I now know at age 24 or 28 or 32 I never would have borrowed that $100,000
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for college I see this sentiment a lot it's a really tough pill to swallow a
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lot of the millennial generation are dealing with these thoughts and now I suppose what gen Z they're after
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Millennials they're starting to deal with it too the desire to change past decisions is so strong but the ability
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to change those past decisions is non-existent and if you let it that kind of frustration can consume you so what
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can you do about it a few ideas well the first one obviously hopefully is to never make that same mistake again right
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we have to learn from our mistakes the first time the second one is to help others avoid the same mistake in the
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future I think that's a powerful way of of learning from our stakes and then the
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third is to find an optimal path out of the woods so if you find yourself in debt maybe you don't take joy and you
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know or you just don't want to put yourself out there and help others avoid the same mistake I totally get that I
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think it behooves you to find an optimal path Out of the Woods for you right you
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you can't change the paths but you can find the quickest way to to get out of
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the mess that you find yourself in so we learn from the past and we lean into the
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future the last one too little too late the regret of an action so now that we are what we are 14 years into an amazing
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bull market stock run okay maybe we had a little blip there in 2022 that's fine
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but either way the last 15 years overall since the great financial crisis have been a wonderful time to be a stock
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investor and I read a lot of comments like bam I missed my chance to invest and that means either one I'll never get
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another chance to invest again or two I should wait for the market to fall before pulling the trigger and investing
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now this thought process is very easy to empathize with but thankfully it's also
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easy to refute for evidence I highly recommend you read two articles that I've written on the blog the first one
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is called are we in the best stock market period ever and the second one is called should you keep investing at
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all-time highs the current stock market is not a reason to feel like you shouldn't be investing and again those
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two articles are in the show notes now the last thing I want to leave you with from this first kind of stanza of the
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monologue is self-inflicted growth because I want to leave you with this question what are all the things you've
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done right in your life it's easy to focus on the negatives in life many of us are maybe perfectionists or at the
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very least we we seek growth we seek Improvement our mistakes those are loow hanging fruit right for the fixing right
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it's easy to see the broken hand and say I messed up stop I want to improve that
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does it do us good to focus on the bad stuff a 100 times more than we focus on the good stuff I doubt it so next time
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you're wallowing in self-inflicted guilt remind yourself of the amazing contributions that you've made to your
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world to your financial life etc etc etc and take heart in the fact that you're
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making strides to be ever better okay let's transition to Travis Scott's
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important investing reminder now Travis Scott I'm told is a a rapper I used to
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be into full disclosure when I was maybe 12 13 14 High School age I enjoyed rap there was some Jay-Z fabulous I still
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know the lyrics to a lot of rap songs Eminem all all fine good artists talented people Travis Scott and some of
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the new age hip-hop and rap stars I I don't really know them I don't really
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know their music but anyway Travis Scott is a a more modern rapper and he has an
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important investing reminder for us and this story starts uh November 5th 2021 where sadly there was a crowd surge at a
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Travis Scott concert in Houston that I think in retrospect a lot of people ended up blaming Travis Scott for and it
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sounds like he was probably guilty that's neither here nor there I'll let
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you guys do your own research if you want but the sad thing is the crowd got out of control and people panicked and
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some people died and it's a terrible terrible way to die and more importantly
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for the the topic today is that it's a preventable way to die and I say it's
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preventable because this has happened before crowds surges have happened before not once not twice but hundreds
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of times for example the Romans and the Jews infamously suffered a deadly crowd trampling incident that killed hundreds
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of people and do do you know when that was I mean the hint is it was the Romans and the Jews it was thousands of years
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ago humans have known this for a very long time that crowds cannot control themselves left to their own devices
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they will over crowd they'll Panic Stampede and Riot and that leads to death Humanity knows this or at least we
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should know it right we should have learned this important lesson Millennia before Travis Scott was a glimmer in his
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papy's eye but we need reminders and without those reminders we repeat our past mistakes it gets worse you know
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it's the same for nightclub fires or or structure fires and I know this is a
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morbid topic but but stick with me for a minute and we will get to the investing
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content I swear for example the station fire the station was a nightclub in Rhode Island the station fire killed 100
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people and injured 230 more people you might ask yourself wow that that's tragedy when did that happen was it in
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the 1800s maybe the early 1900s or I don't know maybe it was in like the 1950s before fire alarms that kind no it
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was in 2003 the station fire was far from the first awful club or structure fire in the United States too we've had
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fires kill more than 500 people from one building but at the station in 2003 they
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forgot or ignored or never even contemplated the lessons we've compiled from generations of fire safety again
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people need reminders without them we repeat our past mistakes now both Travis Scott's concert and the station fire
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both the scenarios making me want to grab someone by the shirt collar and shake them and ask them how did you not
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know better but we already know the answer people need reminders it's that simple if we don't actively choose to
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remember then we forget entropy kicks in we get lazy we cut Corners our safe systems lose their Edge and it's a
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slippery slope downwards and then tragedy strikes that tragedy jolts us and we suddenly remember oh this is why
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we had those safety measures in place this is the bad outcome that can occur tragedy or if we're lucky a mere close
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call it's a highly effective reminder of rationality but of course it's a tragedy
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too right we don't want to have to suffer a tragedy every time we need a reminder of how to be rational the
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Preferred Choice is to maintain rationality before the painful reminder okay so let's talk
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investing there's a direct analogy between the Panic of a crowd and the Panic of an investing Market every
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investing bubble in history is marked by the fact that rationality was forgotten
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Common Sense became uncommon and past lessons were ignored in fact the language of Market irrationality is the
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same language of crowd irrationality what's a synonym for a market crash it's a panic well how do you describe a
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panic selling event it's like a large movie theater with a small door that sounds like a fire trap to me and in
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fact the most famous book about investing bubbles is called extraordinary popular delusions and The
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Madness of crowds That's right The Madness of crowds the psychology of markets is eerily analogous to that of
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physical crowds the highs can be similarly euphoric right we're all One Soul Man the music is flowing through me
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but the lows can be similarly destructive and just like a fire or crowd surge a market crash helps us
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remember that people need reminders and without them we'll repeat our past mistakes so when I wrote this article it
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brought me to Charlie Munger you know the Bitcoin Grinch himself love Charlie Munger more rationality more often that
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is the best preventative for avoiding crashes of all sorts and if I had to guess that's exactly why Charlie Munger
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says that cryptocurrency is disgusting and contrary to the interests of civilization those are exact quotes one
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of my favorites ones right there contrary to the interests of civilization it's because Charlie Munger
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saw crypto as a bubble and a bubble is kind of equivalent to Travis Scott's concert before the tragedy struck it's a
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powder keg waiting for a spark and Munger saw that and he didn't want to wait for what he thought would be a
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future Bitcoin Panet he wanted to call attention to it now in other words Charlie remembers he remembers the many
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bubbles that he's read about before and the few that he's seen firsthand and he
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doesn't want to forget or repeat past mistakes now is Charlie right was he right about Bitcoin about cryptocurrency
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I'm not wise enough to know myself but I listen hard I listen hard when a smart
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rational person says we've made mistakes like this before and I see one again
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Charlie was acting like a fire marshal right he's seen the charred remains of
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too many buildings and he's now walking into the Bitcoin nightclub as it were
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and calmly stating this is a fire hazard and a death trap period it's hard to
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know if Charlie Munger was right we might not know this week this month this year this decade it might take a long
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time to know if Charlie Munger was right or wrong but if he was correct and the risk was present then the law of large
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numbers mandates that tragedy will eventually strike Charlie to his credit is famously a student of psychology he
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knew how people tick both individually and in crowds and he knew that people need reminders and without them we
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commentator on financial Independence real estate investing money management and financial literacy she is the
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Creator and the host of the afford anything podcast which has more than 30 million downloads and is ranked by Apple
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podcasts as one of the top 50 business podcasts she is the founder of afford anything.com person finance and
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financial Independence website that draws more than 2.5 million annual page views and holds more than 78,000 email
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subscribers and you might have seen Paula starring in the Netflix documentary get smart with money on
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which she also served as a Consulting [Music] producer Paula thanks for stopping by
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the best interest podcast I thought we could start with the afford anything Credo I think anyone who has listened to
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you has heard the idea that you can afford anything but you can't afford everything so I wanted to start with
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that statement because I think it's just such a fundamental but probably underrated pillar of personal finance so
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where did the statement come from why has it really become one of your personal mantras sure well first uh to
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explain that Credo a little bit to anybody who's new to it the notion that you can afford any anything but not
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everything is fundamentally one of opportunity cost every time you say yes to something you are implicitly saying
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no to something else and the problem is a lot of people don't consciously recognize that I came up with afford
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anything when I was in my 20s my my mid 20s I quit my job I was making the highest income that I ever made working
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for somebody else was $31,000 a year so I I quit a job at which I was earning a full-time salary of $31,000 a year and I
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lived out of a backpack and for the next 27 months I backpacked around the globe
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I flew to Egypt on a one-way ticket and spent six weeks in Egypt and then I went
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to to Israel to India to Nepal to Thailand Lao Cambodia Vietnam Malaysia Singapore Indonesia and then I finished
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it off with 10 months in Australia plus like three weeks in New Zealand during that time my friend kept saying I would
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love to do that but I can't afford it I kept hearing that over and over and over
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I would love to travel like that but I can't afford it but the thing is I know
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that those friends were making substantially more than 31,000 a year many of them were making double or more
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than double that right but they were also living in apartments with stainless steel appliances they would go to bars
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on the weekends and buy $14 cocktails right they would buy $50 or $100 concert tickets and that's fine if you sit down
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and you make the conscious choice that hey I could either travel or I could have stainless steel appliances and $14
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cocktails right which one do I prefer if you sit down and you think about it and
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you make the deliberate conscious decision that you prefer the stainless steel appliances and the $15 and the
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expensive cocktail that's great I fully support that because that is a deliberate conscious
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choice but then the statement is not I can't afford to travel the statement is
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I choose not to travel I have decided that travel is not a priority for me right so it isn't that you can't it's
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that you choose not to to say that you can't is simply disempowering and also
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false and so that's why I started to afford anything is I wanted to eradicate
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the phrase I can't afford it from people's mouths when it comes to all reasonable purchases now of course there
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are like nitpicky nerds out there who are like can you afford a rocket ship you know and so afford anything is not
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an abdication of common sense right afford anything means that anything that a reasonable middle class American can
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do is something that is within your reach as well I I think to myself I think it's Jesse meechum and the wab you
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need a budget app they part of their fun Al rules is you know a dollar can only be spent once and that's that's a very
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similar thought process which is like you know right if you want the spend a dollar on that cocktail go for it but
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that dollar can no longer be allocated to your future trip it can no longer be allocated to your retirement savings and
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on the opposite end of that Spectrum you know we're big Savers and and the FI and
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personal finance Community are big on saving if you allocate dollars to your savings you can't then spend those
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dollars on having fun today and it really is about striking some sort of balance there and I should also add you
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know it's this applies not just to money it applies to any limited resource so it
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applies to time it applies to energy attention focus all of those are limited and that's something especially in the
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FI the financial Independence Community many people become obsessed with the numbers they often I think this is one
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of the pendulum swinging too far in the opposite direction can devalue their time in exchange for a rounding error
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and when that happens you are trading your most valuable asset which is your time your energy your attention that is
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a non-renewable asset money is a renewable asset and so afford anything applies to time as well it applies to
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all limited resources that that's so cool and and only out of curiosity do you have a background in in economics at
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all because the whole opportunity cost is a very you know very economic uh thought yeah I have a masters in
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economic journalism Economic and Business journalism M from Columbia University very cool very cool well
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let's segue a little bit because I'm I'm kind of interested so you're you're
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greatest earning year $331,000 you used it to afford not everything but anything in the in the
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form of this amazing world trip so I'd like to learn a little bit more about
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your personal fi or fire or just your personal finance Journey Paula you know we love good examples good stories
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everybody likes a good story so where did you find yourself in life before discovering the world of personal
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finance and what's your journey and growth been like so straight out of college I was a newspaper reporter and
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my starting salary was $21,000 a year now this is in 2005 so you've got to adjust that for inflation so actually
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you know what let's do that really quickly right now let's do it live yeah
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let's do it live all right so 21,000 in 2005 is what today okay okay ooh 32752 got it got it so my starting
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salary was today's equivalent of earning 32,000 a year and I worked that job for
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three years and so at the time that I quit that job which was in 2008 my ending salary was 31,000 so let's see
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$31,000 in $208 so $ 43,800 okay okay so modern dollars 44,000 is 434 4,000 was your top end
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salary exactly exactly so uh during that time I lived on my full-time income I I
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still contributed 15% to a 401k but other than that I lived on and I didn't know unfortunately I didn't know about
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the Roth IRA um which was dumb but I contributed 15% to a traditional 401K the rest of it uh I lived on and then
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during the evenings and weekends I freelanced and my freelance income was at at an hourly rate was substantially
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higher than what I was making in my full-time job I would write these articles where I would make the
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equivalent of $75 an hour which when you're making a full-time salary of the
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today's equivalent of 44,000 a year and on the side you're making $75 an hour I
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mean huge it's huge the shortcut for anyone listening is you you work about 2,000 hours a year in a standard job so
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take your salary divide it by 2,000 you are earning about $22 an hour in your salary so 22 an hour versus 75
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on the freelance side right exactly exactly I mean it's just like what 4ex difference yeah it's huge it's huge
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every penny that I made from freelancing after taxes I saved and so I ended up over the span of three years I saved on
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average about $800 a month and so after three years that totaled up to $25,000 now that for me was the
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equivalent of about onee salary cuz you remember during this three-year time span I was earning 21 on the low end 31
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on the high end so on average during those three years I was earning 25 Grand and after three years that was what I
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saved I had the equivalent of a year salary in the bank and so when that happened a couple of things so it was
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2008 it was I quit my job kind of right before the Great Recession really kicked
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in like there were signs that the economy was not doing well but we weren't really in the the throws of it
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quite yet but was very clear that print journalism was not doing well and it was
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very clear that if you just stated a newspaper hoping for promotions you gonna go nowhere fast so you saw the
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writing on the wall yes exactly exactly but yeah so it was clear that the future
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of Journalism was going to be online and it was going to be independent and so I
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did in 2008 the thing that no one ever does which is I voluntarily quit a job at a print newspaper which no one does
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because those jobs are so few and far between everyone was like you're committing career suicide you're never
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going to get a job again and sure enough I never have gotten a job again that that was the last job I ever
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had so I guess they were right you know I I never got a job again and so for the
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next 27 months I just backpacked you know I I was not trying to build a full-time freelance career I was just
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freelancing Moonlighting here and there writing an article or two but mostly I was in countries where the dollar
00:27:29
exchange rate really worked in my favor you know I was in LA I was in Cambodia like I was in places where the US dollar
00:27:36
just went a lot further so I was living on about ,000 dollar a month a lot of people think that traveling is like oh
00:27:43
I'm in transit all the time like which is what you do if you've got 10 days of
00:27:47
holiday right right when you're backpacking you go to one location and you park your butt there for five weeks
00:27:54
which means you're not spending money on bus tickets you're not spending money on
00:27:57
Transit you're like renting a guest house for $5 a night and you're eating
00:28:03
local food you're eating pad tie for 25s and so travel becomes a lot cheaper
00:28:09
when you think of it not as a holiday but rather as essentially just living your life in a different location right
00:28:18
that's how it becomes so cheap you're just living your life elsewhere like I
00:28:23
just sat there in like read Harry Potter books did you take any inspiration from
00:28:27
uh vagabonding but the book oh by R po yeah that's that's an oldie that's an oldie
00:28:33
but goody indirectly because that's that's what he talks a lot about is just
00:28:36
travel somewhere and then Park yourself preferably travel somewhere cheap and then Park yourself and just live life in
00:28:43
this new city and and see how the locals live and it's a very cool way of approaching not only travel but just
00:28:48
kind of being a global citizen exactly I'm a huge fan of that like long-term
00:28:53
slow travel because that's the that's the way that you sink in cool how did
00:28:58
that then so now you're probably by then what in your late 20s maybe when the 27
00:29:03
months is up yeah exactly I was 20 with no job yeah exactly you're you're in
00:29:09
Australia or New Zealand and and then what so then I came back to the US I moved to Atlanta because that's where my
00:29:18
parents live I found uh on Craigslist it was five roommates sharing a three-bedroom so my personal share of
00:29:26
the red was $200 per month but only because we were cramming so many people into such a small space I had a car that
00:29:35
was worth probably around like three grand you know just a super old beater and you know I basically ate from Costco
00:29:44
and those those were my bills that in health insurance right health insurance is probably my biggest bill but based
00:29:51
with like a extremely extremely cheap cheap cheap cost of living I started eeking out at at the time a career as a
00:29:59
freelance writer and eventually that escalated two things happened simultaneously one was that as my
00:30:07
freelance writing clients grew and grew and grew and grew I came to realize that
00:30:12
I was getting more work than I could individually handle myself and so I formed a Content agency and so I started
00:30:20
hiring freelance writers who worked under me and then I managed those writers and I would pass the projects on
00:30:26
to those writers and then my agency my content management agency would handle you know the assignments and then I
00:30:34
began to realize that you could make a little bit of money if all you did was like submit an assignment but you could
00:30:40
make a lot more money if you did all of the management of the editorial calendars and so I was serving clients
00:30:47
these were mostly small business clients small businesses paid much better than Publications so I started working for
00:30:55
these two to three person certified financial planner firms or these two to three person accountant firms these
00:31:03
small businesses that needed content they needed real estate content in order to be competitive on Google to Corner
00:31:10
SEO you know they wanted to to Really Corner the SEO market for like Kansas City accountant but they don't have the
00:31:16
time to do all of that writing themselves nor do they have the time to even just broadly like if you're
00:31:22
assigning it to writers somebody still has to manage that you've got to manage
00:31:26
the editorial calendar you've got to study keyword optimization right somebody needs to manage
00:31:31
editorially manage the project and so that's what my agency ended up doing we
00:31:36
became content editors and managers we became a Content editing and management agency so that ended up being fairly
00:31:44
lucrative and so that was how I that was the first time that I began earning six
00:31:48
figures and you know as somebody who used to make 31,000 a year to be self-employed and earning six figures
00:31:54
was huge and so I was doing that that was my full-time work and then in parallel with that I was running a Ford
00:32:02
anything I started a Ford anything in 2011 and for the first five years or so it was making some money but not a ton
00:32:11
but I knew the audience was growing right the readership was growing after five years I knew that if I were to give
00:32:18
it my full-time attention then this could really be something and so in 2016 I faced this Crossroads where I was like
00:32:26
man do I continue running this six-figure business that I built or do I kill the business like it it it didn't
00:32:35
seem viable enough to sell you know do I kill this business that I painstakingly
00:32:40
grew and instead Focus all of my effort on building out my own platform right afford anything and it was terrifying
00:32:52
but my thinking was a Content management agency is a service-based agency model business and the gross
00:33:00
margins on that tend to be rather limited I felt like that could be a six-figure business but I would I
00:33:07
personally would have a hard time growing that to a seven fig business by contrast if you're building a platform
00:33:14
if you're building a brand that's a very different business model entirely that
00:33:21
can be a seven or eight figure business that was around 2016 so since 2016 or or
00:33:25
so aord that thing has been 100% of your time and energy maybe even 110% of your
00:33:32
time and energy exactly and you don't have to share personal details with us
00:33:36
but as far as your own Financial Independence journey goes I mean how has afford anything helped you in that
00:33:43
regard oh I mean it's the overwhelming I mean it it's my sole source of income
00:33:50
right okay and so the money that I've made through first through the content
00:33:55
marketing agency that that was really key and then later through afford anything the money that I've made
00:34:00
through being an entrepreneur and through running businesses that has allowed me to aggressively invest and by
00:34:09
virtue of a increasing my income and then B using that increased income to aggressively make investments that's
00:34:17
what's allowed me to build my net worth here's a quick ad and then we'll get
00:34:21
back to the show one of the more common questions I hear is Jesse what do you like in you books blogs podcasts even
00:34:29
Banks and brokerage firms what are your recommendations so to answer that question I put together a web page you
00:34:36
can check it out at bestter interest. blog reccommendations again that's bestin interest. blog SL recommendations
00:34:45
to check out how I'm improving my financial life let's transition a little
00:34:49
bit into the investing Paula I know that you have done and continue to do a lot of real estate investing real estate
00:34:56
investing is a a regular topic on a for anything and you even you have some courses related to real estate investing
00:35:04
just one just one I'm sorry so one course we haven't talked about real estate investing a lot here before on
00:35:09
the best interest podcast so what's some of your background or experience or just
00:35:14
you know where are you in the real estate investing world so I have seven uh rental units all paid free and clear
00:35:21
one Triplex one duplex and two single family homes so yeah that's portion of
00:35:27
my portfolio do you manage them yourself as like are you the the landlord who someone's going to call at 10 at night
00:35:33
if the toilet's overflowing only with one of them for the rest they've got
00:35:36
property managers got it what's the thought process on that well number one they're all out of state right I live in
00:35:43
New York City and so these and the Seven units that I have are spread across three different states they're spread
00:35:49
across Georgia Indiana and Nevada you know I live in Manhattan Manhattan is a terrible place to invest in uh rental
00:35:56
real estate so I'm a big proponent of if you live in a high cost of living area don't buy
00:36:01
real estate there not as an investment I mean if you want to have something for yourself personally I think that's still
00:36:07
a really terrible use of money but if for emotional reasons you want to then you know people buy things for emotional
00:36:13
reasons all the time but specifically as an investment Buy in lowc cost of living
00:36:19
areas you know that's where the good investment deals are because you're
00:36:22
going to be looking for properties that have a healthy cap rate right and a cap rate is simply a measure of the
00:36:29
unleveraged dividend or income stream that a property produces so if you think of it all assets whether it's index
00:36:36
funds or income properties all assets make money in two ways right there is appreciation which is the value of the
00:36:43
asset rising and then there's the dividend or income stream that it pays so a share of Coca-Cola ideally will
00:36:50
rise over time that's the appreciation and that share of Coca-Cola will also
00:36:54
pay a dividend same thing with a rental property that rental property will ideally rise in value over time that's
00:37:02
great but that's also market-based appreciation which is largely out of your control I like to conservatively
00:37:08
estimate that it'll just keep Pace with inflation nothing more historically it's
00:37:12
actually been around 5% so if you want to say inflation plus two if you imagine around 3 to 5% uh over the long term
00:37:20
that's ballpark what you can estimate there now the real money comes from the
00:37:26
dividend or the income stream that that property pays and so that income stream is rent minus operating expenses is your
00:37:35
net operating income and then that net operating income divided by the purchase price or acquisition price of the
00:37:40
property that's your cap rate you know what I look for is properties with healthy cap rates and you're likely to
00:37:47
find a really healthy cap rate in a location that has a low cost of living so Paula what what is an example of an
00:37:54
attractive cap rate to you oh okay okay so in the way that you want returns to be commensurate with risk right you want
00:38:01
low risk low low risk you accept low returns higher risk you demand higher returns in order to justify the higher
00:38:06
risk that's the same way that I look at cap rates so when you think of properties are class A B C or D A Class
00:38:13
A property is a property that is relatively lowrisk it tends to be uh newer property either new construction
00:38:21
or newly renovated it tends to be in the you know what I call the the Lulu Lemon
00:38:26
Panera Bread neighborhoods the soul cycle neighborhoods right yeah yeah right so if you're if you're drawing the
00:38:33
Lululemon crowd right that's those are the class A rental properties and generally in those properties you tend
00:38:40
to have high occupancy low levels of repairs maintenance Capital expenditures because they are tend to be newer or
00:38:48
more newly renovated properties you tend to have like I said High occupancy low tenant turnover high demand so your
00:38:54
vacancy rate tends to be quite small there tend to not be a whole lot of problems or issues that you have to deal
00:39:00
with in those properties and so for a class a property I mean if it's super CL
00:39:06
if it's class like A+ man I'll take a three cap for that even or you know if
00:39:11
it's like class A++ plus by contrast if you've got a property that is Class B
00:39:18
which is I would say where Homer Simpson lives like if you think of Homer and Marge Simpson that would be like a Class
00:39:24
B neighborhood I grew up in a like a class I'd say B minus C+ neighborhood this is not what you should do but this
00:39:30
is just what I personally do personally I would look for maybe a five cap in a place like that and then if you're going
00:39:38
Class C I would look for maybe at least a six seven cap there because they are worse grade real estate you're demanding
00:39:46
a higher percentage of rental income like so for a seven cap that would be what that the operating income of the
00:39:52
property pays you back 7% of what your initial invest investment was on an annual basis the net operating income of
00:40:00
the property would be 7% got it net operating income okay and and and these are riskier properties and therefore as
00:40:08
the investor you are saying that you need more reward for them yeah exactly exactly and and the reason for that is
00:40:15
because there's going to be a lot more with the riskier properties there's
00:40:17
going to be a lot more volatility in what you're actually making right with riskier properties you are likely to
00:40:23
have much higher repair costs much higher m cost much higher levels of capital expenditure more turnovers more
00:40:30
vacancy vacancy is a huge huge cost right massive cost because of that there's likely going to be a lot of
00:40:39
variability there might be some years where you are just negative right where you're in the hole with a Class C
00:40:45
property and you you're bleeding money you're losing money and then there are
00:40:49
other years where you need a really good return in order to compensate for the years where you were just bleeding by
00:40:56
contrast with a Class A property you tend to have more stability right you tend to have more predictable returns so
00:41:03
the returns aren't going to be as high you're not going to make as much money
00:41:07
but it's going to just be a lot more generally going to be a lot more predictable over time and actually I I
00:41:13
do want to come back to the fact that you have properties in such a diverse different geographies but are your
00:41:19
properties that you own would you classify them as Class A Class B Class C I used to have C Properties I no longer
00:41:26
do so they range Class A and B got but there's even within that there's a
00:41:30
spectrum of like you know you've got the B minus and you've got the B+ they're
00:41:34
all I would say within the ab sphere like this this this one there is a Panera close by but the bread is kind of
00:41:42
stale usually so that's not really an a it's kind of like a B+ but you you
00:41:47
mentioned properties in Georgia your parents are in Georgia yeah exactly but I I moved to Atlanta I liveed there for
00:41:52
five years gotcha and and is that the Georgia connection which is why you you have properties there exactly what about
00:41:58
the Nevada and was it Indiana was that the other place yeah Nevada I also lived in for five years and then Indiana that
00:42:07
one I had never I'd never set foot in Indiana prior to going there to look for
00:42:13
rental real estate I actually in my course uh the course that I teach which is called your first rental property
00:42:19
it's for beers I documented the entire process of having never set foot in the
00:42:26
state of Indiana I documented all right from the internet you know from afar from New York here's how I'm doing my
00:42:34
preliminary research here's how I'm narrowing it down here's how I'm looking
00:42:38
at different neighborhoods and here's my preliminary research from that I've done
00:42:42
from Manhattan and then I actually videoed myself like all right here's me boarding the plane here's me getting off
00:42:49
the flight and realizing I forgot my toothbrush right and and then just documented like a 48h hour trip it was a
00:42:56
weekend literally a weekend trip where I was just like zipped across all these different neighborhoods got like a a
00:43:04
sense of the terrain and 48 Hours on the ground and then boom back home right it
00:43:09
was a weekend trip and then from home I started just making offers on properties
00:43:15
with you know the knowledge of the neighborhoods that I had from those 48 hours and then I went under contract on
00:43:20
a handful of properties before I closed on uh the duplex that I have there have you been back to in Indiana since cuz I
00:43:27
know you're you you're managing it remotely right I've been there one more
00:43:30
time since then actually it was I went under contract on another property because I was going to buy a different
00:43:36
duple like a second duplex there and so I went under contract on it and then during the inspection a bunch of stuff
00:43:43
came to light and so I canceled the contract got it that was the other time that I went back that's so cool though
00:43:48
just because it shows the power of you know much like in the way that Index Fund investing gives you access to these
00:43:55
cash flows and access to these companies you don't have to sit on the board and
00:43:58
you're not the CEO you're not the employee but you get to invest in them
00:44:01
from afar and I think the average person probably thinks of rental real estate investing as like oh that's very
00:44:08
Hands-On and it's it's very intense and you better know how to replace a shingle
00:44:13
and and fix a toilet but you're kind of showing and and others have shown that
00:44:17
no it's very possible to do from a remote location you can hire out a lot of the help and and I'm sure there are
00:44:23
some costs involved in all of that obviously that might affect your all return but if you pick the right
00:44:28
property with a good cap rate and a good neighborhood those kind of things it's
00:44:31
it's a great investment yeah exactly exactly you could say it's a 10x investment which is a perfect segue one
00:44:38
of my next questions Paula it's it's one of my favorite articles on afford
00:44:42
anything it's about 10x thinking what exactly is 10x thinking so this is something that I wrote Because I myself
00:44:50
was struggling with thinking bigger and I I think that that's something particularly those of us who are
00:44:56
naturally Frugal we're inclined to save maybe people especially people in the
00:45:00
financial Independence space there's a bit of a mindset of hey what I earn is
00:45:06
fixed or what I earn is you know X and so my job is to save more of what I make and 10x thinking flips that on its head
00:45:17
and says you know what no you're you can't shrink your R greatness if you are
00:45:22
entirely focused on pinching pennies then you're never going to get very far
00:45:27
you're going to be overlooking opportunities for dollars for the sake of clutching onto dimes let's flip the
00:45:34
script and let's focus on the earning side the income side the growth side let's focus on what are the things that
00:45:41
you can be doing that would 10x your income I remember going back to what we were talking about earlier I when I was
00:45:48
making $331,000 in 2008 which is the equivalent of with inflation I was making the equivalent of $44,000 000 a
00:45:56
year as a full-time salary in today's dollars right which is the equivalent of
00:46:01
$22 per hour but as a freelancer I was making let's see let's actually do the
00:46:07
math because $75 per hour in 2008 what would that be in today's dollars so 75 that'd be
00:46:16
$106 per hour today that was 5x right that was 5x I I in my day job was making the equivalent of $22 an hour but as a
00:46:26
freelancer I was making the equivalent of $100 an hour right so I was making 5x as a freelancer over what I was making
00:46:33
in my day job and those are the types of opportunities that allow you to move the
00:46:38
needle I mean how making 31,000 a year I never would have been able to save to aass a savings of 25,000 there's just no
00:46:47
way right but freelancing I could back then I didn't realize that there was a
00:46:51
distinction between being self-employed versus being an entrepreneur at the time
00:46:55
I thought that one was equal to the other it took me a couple of years to figure out that even being self-employed
00:47:01
you're trading time for money versus as an entrepreneur you're building a
00:47:05
platform and a brand and systems and processes and you're building something
00:47:09
that can outlive you right the goal of a business is build something that outlives you and outlasts you so that
00:47:15
you are not the bottleneck and it is not dependent on on you and only you what do
00:47:20
you think is the thing that is holding you know Average Joe or average Jane who who may or may not listening to this
00:47:26
podcast it's actually um we've done science we've hired the Einstein of the
00:47:30
world and listeners of the best interest podcast are not Average Joe's and James
00:47:35
they are far above average we thank you for listening but for those who are listening who are like H how do I
00:47:41
Implement 10x thinking into my life what is your thought process on that there are a few things so number one and I
00:47:49
think each person listening needs to do an internal check of whether or not they
00:47:52
have a tendency for this I see this a lot on on social media anytime that there's an article about
00:47:59
somebody's success you inevitably read this long string of comments where people will attribute somebody else's
00:48:06
success to some imagined advantage that they just assume the other person has right so there will be an article on
00:48:15
like so and so bought a house and people are like bet their parents bought it for
00:48:20
them but if you actually stop and do the math okay so and so bought a $300,000 house using an fa loan putting
00:48:31
5% down so like 5% of$ 300,000 that's what $155,000 so how do you save $155,000 you save $500 a month for 30
00:48:41
months can you save $500 a month yeah I think you can very few people will stop and actually do the math and ask how is
00:48:50
this possible instead they'll have this knee-jerk reaction of like I bet it's
00:48:54
not possible and so you see that and it's really toxic thinking and that's the type of
00:48:59
thinking that makes people people hold themselves back right because if you're
00:49:04
just always assuming that everybody who has done something great has done it through mechanisms that you cannot
00:49:11
access if that's the assumption that you use to walk through life you are guaranteed to be stuck where you are
00:49:18
right so that is not a success mindset it's not a growth mindset and it's not a
00:49:23
mindset that's serving you it's a fact it's a mindset that's holding you back
00:49:27
so if you want to move forward then you got to get rid of that thinking I I really like that and I I like the idea
00:49:32
of just open-mindedness and curiosity wonderful traits to have and then some something that's helped me and I'm not
00:49:39
sure if I'm at 10x yet maybe I'm at four or six or 8X and working my way up but I
00:49:43
kind of zoomed out on the world and said to myself you know what there are some people who are the Einstein and they
00:49:49
were born with a really high IQ and and maybe I'll never be there there are other people who are the Shaquille
00:49:53
O'Neal of the world and you know what I'm never going to be 7 foot one and
00:49:56
weigh 300 pounds and and be as strong as he is so maybe that's not my future but
00:50:01
for 99% of people and 99% of jobs and 99% of the paths that are available before us it's kind of just average
00:50:09
people like you and me but who who dedicated themselves in a big way or were open to try something new and then
00:50:15
they they went after that thing and it worked out for them and you realize it's
00:50:20
not that someone's born with this amazing trait that you and I aren't privy to the Einstein or the Sha type
00:50:27
trait they just have a little bit of gumption and maybe a little bit of luck and and a little bit and a lot of hard
00:50:33
work and all these things kind of mix together in a pot and some magic ensues but it's possible for me and you I mean
00:50:39
that's the big takeaway I think yeah exactly so 10x thinking I like it a lot
00:50:44
and we are I really like I was saying I love that article a lot it'll be in the
00:50:47
show notes a lot of afford anything will be in the show notes but just in case Paula someone isn't sure how to find you
00:50:54
how to reach out to you how to I don't know follow you on social media where
00:50:58
can you direct our listeners well the the number one place to find me is through the podcast the afford anything
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00:51:41
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00:51:50
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Episode Highlights

  • Investment in Knowledge
    Exploring Benjamin Franklin's wisdom on the value of knowledge in finance.
    “An investment in knowledge pays the best interest.”
    @ 00m 04s
    February 28, 2024
  • Self-Inflicted Wounds
    A reflection on the pain of personal mistakes and their consequences.
    “Self-inflicted wounds are a double bummer.”
    @ 03m 18s
    February 28, 2024
  • The Importance of Reminders
    Discussing how reminders help prevent repeating past mistakes.
    “People need reminders, without them we repeat our past mistakes.”
    @ 12m 21s
    February 28, 2024
  • Paula Pant's Credo
    Paula Pant shares her fundamental belief in personal finance: opportunity cost.
    “You can afford anything, but you can't afford everything.”
    @ 18m 04s
    February 28, 2024
  • Choosing Travel Over Comfort
    The speaker emphasizes that choosing not to travel is a deliberate decision, not a financial limitation.
    “It's not that you can't; it's that you choose not to travel.”
    @ 20m 41s
    February 28, 2024
  • The Value of Time
    A discussion on how time is a non-renewable asset compared to money, which is renewable.
    “Money is a renewable asset; time is a non-renewable asset.”
    @ 22m 39s
    February 28, 2024
  • A Bold Career Move
    The speaker shares the story of quitting a stable job in journalism to pursue freelancing.
    “I voluntarily quit a job at a print newspaper which no one does.”
    @ 26m 51s
    February 28, 2024
  • The Last Job
    Reflecting on the decision to leave a traditional job and its long-term effects.
    “I never got a job again; that was the last job I ever had.”
    @ 27m 10s
    February 28, 2024
  • Living on a Budget While Traveling
    The speaker describes how they managed to live on a tight budget while backpacking.
    “I was living on about $1,000 a month.”
    @ 27m 36s
    February 28, 2024
  • Investing from Afar
    You can successfully invest in real estate remotely with the right strategies.
    “It’s very possible to do from a remote location.”
    @ 44m 19s
    February 28, 2024
  • 10x Thinking Explained
    10x thinking flips the script on saving and focuses on income growth.
    “Let’s focus on what are the things that can 10x your income.”
    @ 45m 36s
    February 28, 2024

Episode Quotes

  • It's uselessly crying over spilled milk.
    Growth Mindsets to Afford Anything | Paula Pant - E75
  • People need reminders, without them we repeat our past mistakes.
    Growth Mindsets to Afford Anything | Paula Pant - E75
  • Money is a renewable asset; time is a non-renewable asset.
    Growth Mindsets to Afford Anything | Paula Pant - E75
  • I was living on about $1,000 a month.
    Growth Mindsets to Afford Anything | Paula Pant - E75
  • You can’t shrink your greatness if you are entirely focused on pinching pennies.
    Growth Mindsets to Afford Anything | Paula Pant - E75
  • It’s possible for me and you.
    Growth Mindsets to Afford Anything | Paula Pant - E75

Key Moments

  • Introduction of Paula Pant00:28
  • Investment Lessons08:39
  • Time vs Money22:39
  • No More Jobs27:10
  • Budget Living27:36
  • Class A vs Class C39:02
  • Investing Remotely44:11
  • Mindset Shift49:21

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