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Longevity & Retirement | Jeremy Keil - E127

January 14, 2026 / 53:37

This episode covers retirement planning, fixed indexed annuities, and strategies for effective withdrawals. Guests include Jeremy Kyle, author of Retire Today.

Host Jesse Kramer discusses the importance of understanding retirement planning, highlighting a listener's experience with a fixed indexed annuity. He warns against the high costs and complexities associated with these products, emphasizing that they often benefit the seller more than the buyer.

Jeremy Kyle joins the conversation to share insights on retirement longevity and the common misconceptions surrounding retirement age. He explains how many people retire earlier than expected and the importance of planning for a longer retirement.

The discussion also touches on social security strategies and the emotional hurdles retirees face, such as transitioning from saving to spending. Kyle emphasizes the need for a comprehensive retirement plan that includes tax considerations and income planning.

Listeners are encouraged to consider their own retirement needs and to seek out resources for better financial planning.

TLDR

Jesse Kramer and Jeremy Kyle discuss retirement planning, fixed indexed annuities, and strategies for effective withdrawals.

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Welcome to personal finance for long-term investors, where we believe Benjamin Franklin's advice that an
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investment in knowledge pays the best interest both in finances [music] and in your life. Every episode teaches you
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personal finance and long-term investing in simple terms. Now, here's your host,
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Jesse Kramer. Welcome to Personal Finance for Long-Term Investors, episode 127. My name is Jesse Kramer. By day, I
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work at a fiduciary wealth management firm helping clients nationwide. You can learn more at
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bestinterinterest.blog/work. [music] The link is in the show notes. And by night, I write the bestinest blog and I
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host this [music] podcast. I also put out a weekly email newsletter, which as of now uh just crossed 4,000 active
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weekly readers did the newsletter and and all those projects, the blog, the podcast, and the newsletter, help busy
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professionals and help retirees avoid financial mistakes and grow their wealth by simplifying their investing, their
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taxes, and their retirement planning. And today I'm going to focus this episode on the act of retirement itself
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in part today helped by the author of the book Retire today and that author is Jeremy Kyle. But first we'll do a quick
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review of the week. This one comes from CJ from NorCal Northern California. CJ says, "Must read for financial
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education." Maybe CJ means must listen, but you know what? I write a blog, too.
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So anyway, CJ says, "Jesse Kramer talks personal finance in an easy to understand, entertaining, and empathetic
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way that will get you thinking the right way about your money choices. From the teenager to the retiree, this should be
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near the top of everyone's podcast library." Well, thank you CJ very much
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and I would be happy to send you a Supersoft podcast t-shirt. Simply uh email me jessebinest.blog
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and we will get you hooked up with that. And before Jeremy Kyle joins us today to
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dive into some of his favorite retirement topics, I have a little monologue where I'm going to dive into
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some of my recent, you know, the little corners of the retirement planning world
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that I've been diving into. And the first one is from an article I recently wrote. And the article is called about
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that free steak dinner. We will include a link in the show notes. It was inspired by a a reader named C. And and
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the short version of C's story is that she went to a lovely free dinner uh sponsored by a financial investment
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company who would like to take her traditional IRA and convert it to a Roth IRA via something called a fixed indexed
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annuity. They would pay uh C a 17% bonus on her roughly $600,000 in traditional IRA and SE IRA and 401k and then over
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the course of 10 years they would convert that amount to Roth dollars keeping her income low enough to not
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trigger any sort of Irma increase and that's again their language to her and
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then as she understands it her only risk and this is again is her quoting the financial institution here her only risk
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is the opportunity cost of not maximizing market gains and so see thank me in advance for any insights she was
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willing to provide. Well, when I read what she had outlined, my my radar detector rapidly kind of wore to life,
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and I was getting ready to sound a loud red alert like they do on uh Star Trek: The Next Generation.
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>> Red alert. All hands stand battle stations. >> So, first, let's define this lackluster
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tool. What exactly is a fixed indexed annuity? A fixed index annuity, FIA, I I'll just call it a fixed index annuity.
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It's easier than probably saying FIA is an insurance product that promises two
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things. First, it promises you principal protection that your initial investment
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can't lose value due to market declines, but then [snorts] it also promises you
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some upside potential because the returns of the annuity are tied to a market index, say like the S&P 500, uh,
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but only partially tied. So, here's how it typically works. The insurance company, they take your premium, your
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initial investment if you will, and they invest it conservatively, mostly in bonds. Then they use some of the
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interest earned from the bonds to buy options, option products on a a market index like the S&P 500. If the index
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goes up, you get a portion of that gain through something that's called a cap or
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a participation rate. If the index goes down though, you earn zero. You don't
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lose money either, but you earn zero. So, it kind of sounds nice, at least the way I've described it so far. There's no
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real downside. There is some upside, but as you might guess and as you might know
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from my previous episodes and previous blog posts and everything I really do, I think there are way more reasons to
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dislike fixed index annuities. The first one, the very high opaque costs. The commissions paid to salespeople of these
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products are often in the 6 to 10% range upfront, hidden from the investor. those
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costs are just baked into the product's kind of internal mechanics, resulting
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in, of course, a lower crediting rate and slower growth for the client. So, for this fixed index annuity that the
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original reader C was considering, the $600,000 in principle that she would have put into the product upfront
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probably would have resulted in a $35 to $60,000 commission for the salesperson.
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And that fact alone ought to give us some pause. It makes me think of that famous Charlie Munger quote, "Show me
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the incentives and I will show you the outcome." If you're going to pay someone
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$50,000 to sell a product, they're really going to push that product probably whether it's a good fit for you
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or not. The second reason to dislike these products is just the complexity and the confusion. I think the jargon
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behind annuities is complicated, right? I've already used some of these words,
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cap rates, participation rates, spreads, reset periods, surrender charges, and and here's a quote from the annuity
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industry itself. One reason annuities can be confusing is that the language used is often complex and technical. The
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Alliance for Lifetime Income, that's a industry organization, learned that the
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current jargon makes most consumers feel confused and disengaged. In response, the Alliance for Lifetime Income,
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created a plain language annuities language glossery to help you better understand the beneficial retirement
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income option. In other words, everybody's confused by the language, including many professionals. the
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numbers and then the way those numbers interact. It's usually much more complicated than the jargon. And that's
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a problem, too. Every annuity uses its own verbiage in unique ways and then combines confusing semantics with
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actuarial math. It's nearly impossible for a lay person to fully understand what they're getting. It's often
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impossible for financial professionals to understand what some other person's
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annuity was. I think that complexity, it hides the fees and it hides the the limits, the upper limits of what these
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products can do. I've had to work with people looking to unwind these annuities
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and I I just simply detest how complex they are. I'd like to think that I can
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understand complex things and even I oftentimes struggle unless I really really really dive into the details to
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understand what is going on under the hood of these products. My third reason for disliking them, limited upside. The
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fact that a fixed index annuity is market linked is a misleading promise. If the market grows by 15% and your
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fixed index annuity has a 6% cap, well, you only see 6% of the 15% growth. Now, they're sold as market linked to make
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you think you're getting a real shake at the market growth. But over time, these
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products really lag behind market growth by a significant margin. The fourth reason to dislike them, liquidity traps.
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Most of them lock up your money for 7 to 10 years before you can annuitize them and start to live off of an income
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stream. And if you want out early, you'll face some sort of heavy surrender penalty in addition to that 6 to 10%
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commission you paid up front. This inflexibility just it runs counter to sound investor centered financial
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planning. Fifth, I already referred to this one, the misaligned incentives, annuities are often sold, not bought nor
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advised. And because of those big commissions, many non-fiduciary salespeople pitch them aggressively to
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retirees seeking safety, sometimes overstating the returns of the product or understating the downsides. So, one
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thing I haven't even talked about yet, and now we're going to pivot back to C's
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specific question. What about that whole annuity plus Roth conversion thing she was mentioning, if you recall, she said
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she was sold the idea of a fixed index annuity in particular for using it as a vehicle for a Roth conversion. And there
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are some other sales language in there, too, which I'll address first. She was
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promised a 17% bonus. The bonus isn't free money. It's not even real money. It
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sounds amazing, of course, but that's the headline they use to hook people. A
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real 17% bonus would result in actual money sitting somewhere in an account. But this bonus that is often tied to
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annuity products, it is not a cash bonus. It's a contract value credit that only applies to income calculations
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after the 10-year holding period, not to the actual account value that you could
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walk away with today. That 17% bonus is therefore offset by lower caps on your returns over the next 10 years. Right?
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Your index growth gets throttled down. It's offset by longer surrender periods
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like the 10 plus year uh surrender periods that are very common or it's offset by reduced liquidity, right? You
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can't easily access your money without penalties over this long 7 8 10 year period. You've got really high annual
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fees going on at the same time too. That 17% bonus pretty quickly gets eaten away. And like I said, besides, it's not
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a lump sum bonus. It's it's a uh a crediting bonus on the income that you'll collect a decade from now. My
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second issue that the 10-year Roth conversion plan certainly sounds smart, but it's also structured to benefit the
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annuity company, not the client, not the investor. A a gradual Roth conversion over time certainly can be a smart thing
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to do by spreading your tax payments out over time to avoid jumping into higher tax brackets or sure to avoid triggering
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Irma, but a fixed index annuity isn't needed to do that, right? You can hold
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investments in a simple lowcost IRA and still control the pace of your Roth conversions every year. They don't care
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about the Roth conversion. They care about locking your money into their product. That's why they suggest the
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10-year timeline, right? It's a trap, just like in Star Wars. It's a trap. It
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It's a trap that pays the agent a large commission and keeps you from easily
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changing course once you realize how limiting the contract is. Point number three, and this is one thing that C
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wrote to me where she said, "I think the only thing going on here, Jesse, the
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only risk is opportunity cost, and that is the sales line, but it's misleading
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because the real risks include liquidity risk, complexity risk, right? You may not understand how the product works
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until it's too late, return risk, of course, right? These fixed index annuities just lag simple 60/40
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portfolios by a lot every year. And then inflation risk, the returns might not even keep up with the cost of living."
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And the fourth issue is the the Roth angle. Again, it's a smoke screen. The sales pitch uses Roth conversions to
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sound like they're doing careful tax planning, but the fixed index annuity company isn't optimizing your taxes.
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They're selling a contract. A real tax planner could help you do the same Roth
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conversions without all the added costs or restrictions. So, the bottom line is that you can absolutely do a multi-year
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Roth conversion strategy. You just don't need a fixed index annuity to do it.
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Adding one into your retirement often makes things worse, not better. Again, annuities are sold. They're not bought.
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And so for some people, see, that steak dinner you attended might have been the most expensive free steak dinner of your
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lives. I know this might sound like scary fear-mongering, and yeah, I apologize for that, but I think it would
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be scarier if you said yes to buying one of these products. And last, uh, before
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Jeremy joins us, I'm going to read from another article, and the the the title
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of this article is pretty straightforward as to what the topic will be about. It's, "Are dividends and
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income part of my retirement withdrawal rate or my safe withdrawal rate?" And
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again, this comes from a question from Barry. Barry said, "Jesse, I'll need
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about $100,000 per year for my portfolio in retirement. I currently have $3 million in my retirement portfolio. It's
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producing about $60,000 in income and dividends per year for me, meaning I only need to sell about $40,000 net of
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taxes of the principal value to fund the rest of my need." And again, listeners,
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that's $60,000 in income and dividends and then $40,000 in actual sales of the
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investments. And uh Barry says, "By my math, the $40,000 that I'll need to sell
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divided by the $3 million portfolio value, that's about 1.3%." In other
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words, his withdrawal rate is way less than the four 4% rule, right? It's 1.3%,
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not 4%. Barry says, "Am I thinking about this correctly?" So, we we are going to
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answer this question. We are going to let Barry know if he's thinking about this correctly. I won't bury the lead.
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He's not actually thinking about it correctly. And so, we'll point out why.
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But before answering Barry's question, we have to ensure we're all on the same
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playing field. So, first, the 4% rule. If you're not familiar with the nitty-gritty details of the 4% rule, uh,
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I've got some excellent primers that we will link in the show notes for you.
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Some stuff about the basics, what the 4% rule is based on, uh, why many people are using the 4% rule wrong. We talk
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about is the 4% rule too risky. We talk about all the conservatism that's built
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into the 4% rule and why actually, uh, you know, many retirees, if you, uh, look at historical back tests, could get
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away with four and a half, five, five and a half, six% withdrawal rates, something like that. So, I won't dive
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too much into that topic right now. It's just worth understanding what the 4%
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rule is if you're not familiar. What's more interesting and getting really to
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the point of today's question, let's talk about where investment returns come
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from. No, this isn't the kind of question that children ask their parents and involve storks, we need to discuss
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where investment returns come from. Where does the growth come from? If you own stocks, if you own bonds, if you own
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real estate or anything else, how does that return on investment end up in your pocket? The answer of course is
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different for each investment class, but most investments provide their return to
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investors via two separate mechanisms. The first mechanism is that they regularly return some sort of cash flow
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to their investors. It could be interest from a bond. Could be a dividend from a
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stock, which is really like profit from a stock, right? I should say interest from a bond is because you lent someone
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your money and now they're paying you interest. A dividend from a stock is because you own a company. that
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company's making profits and they give you some of those profits as an owner.
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If you own real estate, you might be charging rent and you're collecting some
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of that rent, you know, net of any expenses as the owner of the real estate. So the point is that investments
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oftent times return cash to their owners in some way. But then the second mechanism is that the investment itself
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appreciates in value over time. This could be a stock, a company increasing in price over time as the underlying
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company grows and becomes more profitable. It could be the building you own, the real estate you own growing in
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value due to capital improvements or due to increased demand in its local market.
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In the bond world, it could just be a bond value going up because global interest rates decrease. And now all of
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a sudden, your bond, which is paying a higher interest rate, becomes more valuable to investors. So for a typical
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retirement portfolio, portfolio growth equals dividends plus interest plus capital appreciation. So dividends and
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interest are are kind of one thing. That's the cash flow back to you. And then capital appreciation is the second
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thing. It's the value of your assets actually going up over time. So when someone says, you know, a 60/40
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portfolio grows at 9% per year on average, what they're actually saying is that 9% equals average dividends plus
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average interest plus average capital appreciation over time. So, getting back to Barry's question, do dividends and
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income count toward that 4% rule, the 4% annual withdrawal rate or whatever rule
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you want to use, 4%, 5%, 6%. The answer is yes. If dividends and income are leaving your portfolio, they are part of
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your withdrawal rate. If you extract 2% of your portfolio via income and dividends and then another 1.3% via
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selling assets, which is kind of what Barry outlined in his math above, then Barry's withdrawal rate is 3.3%. It's
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the sum of the dividends and income, which was 2% plus 1.3%, which was selling assets for capital gains. Those
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dividends and income, they are not free money. Don't need to get into that topic
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right now. Some of you might have heard me talk about it before. You might have heard other people talk about it before,
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but dividends and income are not free money. They are one of the key components of your overall portfolio
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return. And if you weren't extracting those dollars via dividends and income,
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you'd reinvest them or the companies would reinvest them on your behalf and and compound those dollars over time.
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Believing that dividends are are free is one of the biggest misconceptions in especially DIY investing. I think very
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few professional investors think that dividends are free. They know better. But I think there is an interesting
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clutch of DIY investors on the internet who uh are really convinced that dividends are free. Very interesting. So
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that really is the answer to Barry's question. You know, I know Barry was quoting the 4% rule. And as many of you
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know, the the 4% rule, any withdrawal rule, it's just a rule of thumb. It's a
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starting point. It's a good way to do some back of the napkin math, but it does become pretty limited. You need to
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go deeper. And so, Barry, I would recommend you try to do maybe a long-term cash flow model to analyze
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your portfolio's planned withdrawal sequence over time, including, of course, income or dividends from your
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taxable account. That withdrawal sequence, it's likely to be lumpy, right? It's not going to be constant.
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It's not going to be 3.3% every year. It'll change for sure once you start
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collecting social security. It'll change again when you hit RMD age. Some years
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are probably going to include Roth conversions or or the realization of 0% capital gains or something like that.
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You should do your best to try to plan that out all ahead of time. And starting your retirement without taking that
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detailed step is probably a risky move. So, if you haven't taken it yet, there's
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no better time to start than right now. Thank you very much for that question, Barry. Here's a quick ad and then we'll
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get back to the show. Every January we make the same promises. Eat better, work out, read more books, and of course,
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head to bestinterest.blog/work and fill out the short form. Let's make better finances the resolution that
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actually sticks this year. And with that, let's bring Jeremy Kyle onto the show. Jeremy is a certified financial
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planner and chartered financial analyst. He works with clients from uh from his home near Milwaukee, Wisconsin. He hosts
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the Mr. Retirement YouTube channel and he hosts a podcast called Retirement Revealed. He also recently published a
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book called Retire Today. Jeremy, you could say, likes Retirement and I'm glad
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he's here to share with us today. >> [music] >> Jeremy, you know, you you've built a
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career around helping people step confidently into their retirement. So, when you zoom way out, maybe we can
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start there. We zoomed way out. Here's just a a a maybe this is a softball question or maybe this is actually a
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hard question. I could see it going both ways. What do you think people misunderstand the most about the
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retirement decision itself? The biggest misunderstanding with retirement is how long you might actually be in
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retirement. And there's two parts of that equation. That's why I call it the
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retirement longevity number. It's not just life expectancy, but how long you
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might be in retirement. And there's the beginning, there's the end of your
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retirement. At the beginning, if you ask a 55year-old when might you retire or when you planning to retire, they'll
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tell you 65. But if you ask a 65year-old when did you retire, they'll tell you
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62. Most people retire three years earlier on average. Which is why I encourage you to be ready to retire
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three years earlier. >> Whatever your number is in your spreadsheet of I'm going to retire at
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this date, subtract three. That's your target so that you'll be ready to retire
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in case you're like the average American who retires early. Or maybe you do the
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math, you get there and you say, "Why am I stick around for 3 years?" So that's
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the beginning part of retirement. But there's a lot of misunderstandings on the end of retirement. your life
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expectancy. How long might you expect to retire? It's tough. I can't blame you
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for getting it wrong, but chances are you're getting your life expectancy wrong. One part of it is when you read
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the news articles about how long people live, you're going to read 78. >> Yeah.
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>> 78 is the average life expectancy in America for a newborn child. If you are
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planning to retire, you're a lot closer to 65 than you are to zero. And you need
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to plan for your retirement based on being 60 years old, 55 years old, 65 years old, whatever it is. And your life
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expectancy is a lot closer to 85 than it is to 78. But who cares what the averages are? Go out, get your own
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personal longevity estimate place called longevity illustrator.org. Free site. And I am such a huge fan
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because you can get your own personalized longevity estimate and then you're almost there. You're almost there
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because you need to understand what life expectancy means. It's the median. It's
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just the halfway point. Half the time you'll die before that. Half the time you'll die after that. You'll live
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longer than that number. And so you want to get an accurate number, but you also
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want to consider what happens on both sides of that line. What happens to you and your spouse and your finances if you
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die before you hit that number? What happens to you, your spouse, your finances if you happen to make it past
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that number? So, get an accurate estimate, but understand what happens on both sides of that. I've got a couple
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interesting follow-up questions. That was two you you sparked two really interesting thoughts for me. So, the
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first one, let's go back to the the pre-retire who you said, you know, the average retiree ends up retiring three
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years earlier than what they once predicted they would retire at. So, the question that naturally came to my mind,
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it's kind of a two-parter, is when does that change occur? So, you said, you
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know, a 55-year-old will say 65, but then by the time they're 65, the answer
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actually ended up being 62. So, it's kind of when does that change end up occurring for people? I'm putting my
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shoes my my myself in the listener's shoes right now. But then also, what are
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those biggest approximate causes that lead that average retiree to pull back their retirement date by 3 years? That's
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a great question and I'm going to make some assumptions. I'm going to assume
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it's between 59 12 and 62. At 59 12, you know that your IRA and 401ks are available and that's very tempting where
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you start thinking, do I really want to put up with this anymore? you can get the money out without a penalty. So,
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that's a big trigger. >> 62 is another big trigger because >> do I want to put up with this anymore? I
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can just quit and get paid to not work by social security. So, I think those two are big ages kind of in between.
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That's a big turning point. So, there's a bit of the the retirement I call it a
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retirement age trigger. >> Like you don't you're retiring, you're
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doing something because it's just kind of a a number that the government gave
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you or your company gave you, but there's still a trigger and a lot of people come with that. Sometimes it's
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your health. Often times it's your parents' health. If you're 60 years old,
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your parents are 85 to 90. They start needing your help or your grandkids are just born, they're 5 years old, you need
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to somebody needs to get them to the the bus stop, right? There's a lot of triggers that are family related.
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Everyone kind of thinks, "Oh, I might have to retire early because of my own
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health." It's usually somebody else's health or you're taking care of the
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grandkids or you got a new boss that's younger than your son and you think I
00:22:55
can get social security and I don't have to put up with this. >> That's really interesting. Well, let's
00:23:00
pivot then to the on the tail side of retirement. You said it was it was longevityestimator.org.
00:23:06
>> longevity illustrator.org. It's put out by the Society of Actuaries. There's no
00:23:11
one more qualified in the world to tell you how long you might live than the Society of Actuaries.
00:23:17
That's okay. We'll we'll make sure we include that link in the show notes. And
00:23:20
just for the the listener who maybe wants to check it out but but hasn't checked it out yet, what kind of
00:23:26
questions do they ask you? And then in your experience, I mean, I think you did a good job of explaining. They still
00:23:33
present you with a median outcome, right? They don't have a crystal ball, but I'm I'm really interested to
00:23:38
understand kind of how accurate their medium projected longevity ends up being. This is the number one most
00:23:45
important number to your retirement planning uh is your longevity, how long you might live. So, take five minutes to
00:23:50
understand it ahead of time. You're making million-dollar decisions here. Learn about your longevity ahead of
00:23:56
time. What they do, they only ask four questions. They ask your age. They ask your gender. They ask if you are a
00:24:02
smoker or not a smoker. And they ask your general health. Are you average health, excellent health, or poor
00:24:09
health? And you might think that's four. Come on. Yeah. And so I had Dale Hall,
00:24:13
the uh head researcher for the Society of Actuaries on my podcast, Retire Today podcast. And I asked him that. He said,
00:24:20
"Well, we need to combine being accurate with also people going through and doing
00:24:27
it. And how much precision do you really need?" Right? If I ask you four questions and I get you 95% of the way
00:24:33
there or ask you a 100 questions and you don't even bother doing it, which one's
00:24:38
a better deal? And a lot of times all these other factors about, you know, family health, your own health, you have
00:24:44
a good idea and just answer it. Am I average health? Am I excellent health? Am I poor health? That's going to get
00:24:49
you most way there. And those are the most important factors. Your age, your gender, are you a smoker or not? And
00:24:55
just your overall level of health. So they get very specific just off of those and they'll give you the median. More
00:25:02
importantly, they'll give you the whole probabilities. A lot of people come to
00:25:05
my office and they're asking me about social security and what's the break
00:25:08
even age and what are the odds I'll make it to the break even age. I said let's
00:25:12
go here and let's find the odds that you'll make it to the break even age. So
00:25:16
you can go through and say oh the odds are 72%. >> So is that a number you want to make? Do
00:25:21
you want to take those odds? Those are pretty good odds. If you walk into casino you will take those odds.
00:25:25
>> But also they do something called joint life expectancy. If there's two of you,
00:25:30
it's harder for two people to die than one person to die. Or kind of the inverse of that, it's on average, if
00:25:36
there's two of you, one of you might make it not there. You'll be die below
00:25:40
average. One of you will live longer than average. And you can't just look at
00:25:45
your own individual life expectancy. You've got to look at the life expectancy of the couple. You got to
00:25:50
look at the life expectancy of the person that's likely to make it above average. So, it's that joint life
00:25:56
expectancy is a huge thing to look at when you're a couple. >> Yeah, totally totally agree with that.
00:26:01
That's really interesting. The the the four questions are really powerful and I
00:26:05
think it it illustrates to me for example, I know the one question was about smoking. I I know if that's one of
00:26:11
their top four questions obviously that smoking that binary option must play a really large must have a really large
00:26:19
influence in the outcome of how long you live. And the other thing you made me think of, Jeremy, is that quite
00:26:24
understandably, I think people, we have a hard time with what I would call conditional probabilities. And you
00:26:30
brought it up earlier. I I liked your example with um you know, you look it up in the newspaper, you see an article,
00:26:35
the average person lives to 78, right? That's the average newborn. But once you're already listening to this podcast
00:26:41
today and you're 55, the question should be, what's the average age that you uh
00:26:46
live to conditional upon the fact that you're already 55 years old? Maybe I'm
00:26:51
phrasing that in a way that a statistician wouldn't appreciate, but the point is that all these
00:26:56
probabilities that retirees have to deal with. You've already avoided some of the
00:27:01
negative outcomes. So, it's really, you know, how long will you live conditional
00:27:04
upon the fact that you're not a smoker, that you happen to be a woman, that you're already 58 years old, and you're
00:27:10
in great health. That is a really important and fundamentally different question than just how long does the
00:27:15
average person live? So, I I I really like the fact, and I think that's really
00:27:18
unique take that you have. It's kind of simple in a way like once you hear it,
00:27:22
but right I think there's so many voices in this space that simply are not asking
00:27:27
that fundamental basic question and it takes you five minutes to get there. And speaking of probabilities, here's
00:27:34
another thing that people get wrong with life expectancy. They talk about their own life expectancy as if it's their
00:27:40
death certainty. Like people don't say, "I might live to 80 or I've got a 50%
00:27:46
odds of getting to age 82." They say, "I'm going to die at 80. I won't make it
00:27:51
into my 70s." No, that's not correct. I'm a math guy. I like looking at stuff.
00:27:55
I looked at another math longevity table. It's from the Social Security Administration. Nobody else in America
00:28:02
knows more about Americans dying and living than Social Security because they're paying out or not paying you
00:28:08
out, right? And if you look at their chart and you're 55, 60, 65 years old, whatever the number is, and you look at
00:28:16
your life expectancy, I'm 62 years old. My life expectancy is 87. And the odds
00:28:22
that you actually die at 87, 4%. >> 4%. >> You have less than 4% chance of actually
00:28:28
dying at your life expectancy. You have a near certainty of not dying at your life expectancy. So get the number
00:28:36
correct and then think about what is the near certainty that I won't actually
00:28:41
live to that number and make your decisions based on that. That's so funny. That's so interesting. Well, I
00:28:47
guess speaking of those conditional decisions, Jeremy and and you already did mention social security. I really
00:28:51
liked your take on the on the spousal decision about or or maybe the fact that you know one spouse is likely going at
00:28:57
least one spouse is going to live a long time. that might play into the social security decision at all. But I don't
00:29:03
want to lead the witness here. I mean, what is your take on social security claiming strategies for lack of a better
00:29:10
term? Yeah. So, two parts of social security is one, you ought to learn the math and actually do the math. And when
00:29:16
you look at social security, especially if there's two of you, if there's two of
00:29:19
you, >> your benefits grow by roughly 8% per year by waiting. But if there's two of
00:29:25
you, one of your numbers is bigger. and 8% on a bigger number is a bigger number. Your default thought is you
00:29:33
probably want to take that bigger number and wait a little bit longer than you expected and you probably want to take
00:29:38
that smaller benefit and maybe take it a little bit earlier than you expected because it matters a little bit less.
00:29:44
It's a smaller number and the rules of social security, the survivorship is going to show up to be the higher
00:29:52
number. the survivorship option. If there's two social securities, one of them is going to go away. It's a smaller
00:29:58
one. So, you got a smaller number that doesn't grow as much, that doesn't last
00:30:02
as long. Feel okay taking that a little bit earlier than perhaps you wanted or plan to, but then the bigger one is a
00:30:10
bigger number and it's a bigger deal for a longer time. Probably wait a little
00:30:14
bit longer on there. So, that's kind of a just a quick thought on it. But if you
00:30:18
want one thing to say, how should I approach and make my social security decision, forget the probabilities I
00:30:24
talked about earlier, forget about the break even calculator that you already have in your spreadsheet right now. I
00:30:30
want you to think of social security in terms of its official name. The official
00:30:35
name for social security is the old age survivor insurance program. It's there
00:30:41
to help you in your old age. It's there to help your survivor. It's there to be
00:30:46
insurance in case you live longer than you expected or inflation came in higher than expected or your market returns
00:30:52
weren't as much as expected. So when you're looking at your social security
00:30:56
and thinking of it of how does this help me in my old age? How does this help my
00:31:01
survivor? How does this help the insurance aspect of my retirement and things in case things don't go as well?
00:31:07
That's how you approach social security. >> Got it. And that that makes sense. And
00:31:11
and going back to the the spousal decision-making, just to make sure that I'm following along and and the
00:31:16
listeners are following along. The way I've heard it described before, let's
00:31:19
think of this imaginary couple with two different benefits, one larger benefit, one smaller benefit. I I think the way
00:31:25
I've heard it described is you know that when the first spouse dies, no matter
00:31:30
what, the smaller benefit is going to drop away and the larger benefit is going to continue on with the surviving
00:31:36
spouse. And it really doesn't matter. You know, it's either the larger spouse
00:31:40
dies first and the smaller spouse inherits that survivor benefit or the smaller spouse dies first and okay, the
00:31:48
larger spouse now continues that. So, you just know either way, the larger benefit is going to outlive the smaller
00:31:54
benefit and you'd rather just wait to let the larger benefit grow and grow and
00:31:58
grow a little bit extra. I mean, is that the underlying logic? >> That's exactly it. You should you should
00:32:03
become a financial adviser. >> Yes. Right. Right. I should start a podcast. Well, I mean, thinking about
00:32:07
the way that these different, you know, we've talked about social security, but
00:32:11
we know there are all these different aspects of retirement planning and holistic planning, I found, can feel
00:32:19
overwhelming to people. There are tax consideration, there's income planning
00:32:23
in retirement, how should that affect my portfolio? Do I need to think about estate planning? And sometimes in the
00:32:29
early conversations with people, it's almost like, I know I've got eight
00:32:34
different things I ought to be concerned about. I don't know which one I should
00:32:36
start with. So, how do you tend to sequence your conversations so that your clients or just people that you're
00:32:42
talking to don't feel totally overwhelmed and they have a a specific order to approach these retirement
00:32:48
planning problems. Yeah, that's exactly it. You want to take a comprehensive
00:32:52
look at your finances. You want somebody that takes a comprehensive look at your
00:32:56
finances, but you want to do it in the right order. It's kind of like you want
00:32:59
to make the first decision because it informs the second decision and on down the line. And you know what you're
00:33:04
referencing is the five steps I put in my book. I've got my book retire today.
00:33:08
I call it create your retirement master plan in five simple steps. One, because there's five steps. It's what I've done
00:33:14
for 22 years as a financial adviser to help you create your retirement master plan. But the order I take them in, you
00:33:20
might be surprised. A lot of people start with an order where way down the line in my opinion. The first thing I
00:33:26
think you ought to do when you're looking at your retirement is figure out how much is it you're going to spend in
00:33:31
retirement which is a bit of how much like what am I going to spend every month or every year but it's also the
00:33:36
how long that we have already talked about and a lot of people hit retirement and they're almost afraid to do some
00:33:42
retirement planning because they feel like I've got to do a budget and they hate doing budgets so they just put that
00:33:49
off which means they put off the retirement planning. I tell you don't do a budget. The only thing you have to do
00:33:53
to figure out how much you might spend in retirement is to look at is to look at how much you are spending today. And
00:34:00
the easiest way to do that is look at your paycheck. Whatever shows up in your take-home pay into your checking
00:34:07
account, usually what goes into your checking gets spent. You might make 150,000 for your salary, but if it's
00:34:14
only 3,000 every paycheck times 26 paychecks, it's $78,000 a year that you're spending on what I call your
00:34:21
lifestyle spending amount because you're it's coming in and you're spending that
00:34:26
money on whatever it is you do. And that's great. Go do what you want to do.
00:34:30
What's interesting though about your paycheck is it already took out your tax
00:34:33
cost. It already took out your health insurance cost. So that's the next two
00:34:37
things you put into your budget. You don't have to go out and build a budget
00:34:41
from the ground up. Just look at what's my take-home pay, that's my lifestyle
00:34:44
spending amount. Then let me put into my planning what's my likely health insurance costs, what's my likely tax
00:34:51
cost. You've taken care of most of it just right there. That's the first step
00:34:54
is to look at the the spending. Not let me look at the investments. That's on
00:34:58
down the line. And I suppose I mean does it matter after that point kind of what's next? Now I don't you know we
00:35:05
don't have to go into every bit of minutiae and detail. So, we start with spending. I like the fact that your own
00:35:10
paycheck kind of back you into a a rough outline of what your spending is, but where do conversations go from there? Or
00:35:18
is it just a case- by case basis? And it depends on what's going on in the individual circumstances. The next step,
00:35:23
step two, is what is it you make? Just because you stop working doesn't mean
00:35:28
you stop making money. You might be making money in retirement from a pension, from real estate, from some
00:35:34
annuity that you've already purchased before. And definitely you'll have
00:35:38
income from social security. A lot of these, especially with the social security and the pension, you got these
00:35:44
one-time decisions that affect the rest of your life. >> So, it takes some time here to figure
00:35:49
out what is it that I need to do with my decisions to help set me up for the whole lifetime. That's the second step.
00:35:56
The third step is I know how much I need. I know what's coming in from the consistent lifetime income. How do I
00:36:03
keep more of my money? Step three is keep. How do I project out and plan for the times that I have a lower tax
00:36:11
situation and the times I have a higher tax situation? And the way to do tax planning in retirement is to kind of
00:36:16
even those out. If you see here's a year down the road where I'm going to have a
00:36:20
high tax situation, I want to avoid income showing up that year. But if I have years down the road, often just
00:36:27
after retirement and before you turn on social security, if I have a projected lower income, lower tax rate situation,
00:36:34
you want income to show up at the lower tax rate, usually through Roth conversions. So the step three is the
00:36:39
tax planning, how to keep more of that. Step four is finally to invest your money. Most people think it's step one.
00:36:47
Most people think a financial advisor job is step one to go invest your money. You don't know what you're investing for
00:36:52
until you figure out the first three parts of it. And the biggest thing you want to think of with investing is when
00:36:58
do I need the money? It's not about picking the perfect stock and bond. It's
00:37:01
about having the money available when you need it. And if you need the money in the short term, you need short-term
00:37:06
money. If you need it available in the long term, you need long-term investments. The thing that's
00:37:12
interesting with retirement, why I think it's so scary, you spent your whole
00:37:15
career saying, "Invest for the long run. It's down the road." And then you got
00:37:20
down the road and now you got the shortterm. You got the short run and you need some short run money, but a lot of
00:37:25
times you think that's all you need. No, you still have a long ways away. You
00:37:29
need long-term money. You need short-term money. You need the right mix there. That's what you focus on in step
00:37:34
four. And then you get to the fifth step, which is what is it you leave behind? Some people leave behind their
00:37:39
money. Some people leave behind their mess. And I'm guessing you'd rather
00:37:43
leave behind money to the next generation versus leave behind a mess. So step five is looking at it's a bit of
00:37:50
what's the amount you might leave behind, but it's also what are the things you've done to prepare the next
00:37:57
generation either the documents or the the ways that you've set them up so that
00:38:01
you've kind of taken the risk off the table and make sure that things are going to turn out right even when they
00:38:06
don't happen to be all right. Interesting. I like the five-step process. I mean, it's it's very clean
00:38:11
and it's easy to remember. And I think as humans, we're kind of naturally
00:38:14
aligned to we we like when things go in order. And hey, five is an easy round number to keep track of.
00:38:21
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Again, the web address is bestinterest.blog. Check it out. I think I heard you, Jeremy. I I want to say it was on
00:38:53
another podcast, although I'm not at this point. I can't quite remember, but
00:38:56
I think I heard you say that tax planning, so it was step three, it was that keep step is the place where most
00:39:04
maybe you said where most retirees leave the most money on the table or something
00:39:08
along those lines. So, I kind of wanted to zoom in on that one. I mean, whether it's a a single mistake that you just
00:39:15
see happening over and over again or whether it's just a a lack of knowledge
00:39:19
and a series of just, you know, missed opportunities that you see. I mean, what's going on there that makes tax
00:39:24
planning so important, but yet also so often overlooked? Yeah, your tax planning is often overlooked because you
00:39:31
spent 35 years working not really having much chance to actually affect your taxes, right? If you're a W2 employee,
00:39:39
you don't own a business and you're worried about that stuff. But if you're
00:39:41
a W2 employee, you get your W2, you give it to your tax person, it's kind of too
00:39:46
late, and you didn't really have too much you can actually do about it. But you hit retirement, you have so much
00:39:52
more opportunity to actually affect your taxes. And that's where the power comes
00:39:57
in of your tax planning where you get the choice of when do you take your money out and what type of money do you
00:40:05
take out, right? You could take money out in December or January. It's two different tax years. That's two
00:40:09
different tax situations. Or you've got your brokerage account, your savings
00:40:14
account, your traditional account, your Roth account. [clears throat] That's four different types of money
00:40:19
with four different types of tax situations. So when you plan out and look ahead and say when do I want my
00:40:27
money to show up to me? When do I want my money to show up on the tax return? Which account am I going to take money
00:40:33
from? You can make positive changes to your tax situation as in it'll be lower
00:40:39
in the long run. That's your projection. And I often see a 20% projected lower
00:40:46
tax burden over your whole lifetime. And if you want to depress yourself one day,
00:40:51
project out your entire level of taxes you'll pay over your lifetime. You might
00:40:57
be sorely surprised. It's probably a million dollars. >> It's a lot of money that you are likely
00:41:01
to pay in taxes over your lifetime. And if all it takes is a little bit of planning and kind of forethought to say,
00:41:07
"Oh, I'm going to pay taxes when it's lower. I'm gonna avoid taxes when it's
00:41:11
higher and you might get a 20% tax savings. It It seems well well worth it to me.
00:41:16
>> Definitely. One of my go-to phrases there is that we all have an obligation
00:41:21
to to pay taxes or, you know, by law we all have to pay taxes, but we also all have, you know, a right to not pay any
00:41:27
more taxes than we otherwise have to. And that's one of those foundational ideas behind tax planning that really
00:41:32
resonates with me. I mean, speaking of tax planning, Roth conversions, just to talk a little more about those, I think
00:41:39
sometimes Roth conversions are talked about like they're magic. Oh, and really, I mean, it's pretty nuts and
00:41:45
bolts. How would you help someone listening right now simply just figure out if they're a good candidate for a
00:41:51
Roth conversion, whether it's today or at some point in their future retirement? I mean, how does someone
00:41:56
know if they're a good fit or if actually it's just kind of not going to
00:41:59
work out for them? Well, everyone should consider a Roth conversion. And what you
00:42:04
do is you project out what your tax situation is going to be like. For me, I have software that projects out every
00:42:11
tax return from here until the end of time. I imagine you have software like that as well, too. Chances are, if
00:42:16
you're a do-it-yourself individual, you don't have access to that tax software.
00:42:20
But consider the kind of before and after situations when your taxes are likely to change before you're retired
00:42:27
and after you're retired, before you turn on social security, after you turn
00:42:30
on social security, before your RMDs, after your RMDs start. And one that's often overlooked is if there's two of
00:42:38
you while you're a married filing joint versus a survivor, a single tax return.
00:42:44
So that's eight before and after, as I just said right there. take a little time, maybe project out eight tax
00:42:50
returns and say, "Wait a second. There's some times here where I'm in the 12% tax
00:42:54
bracket. There's some times there I'm in the 24% tax bracket. What can I do to
00:43:00
try to pay taxes in the 12% lower tax bracket to avoid the taxes in the higher tax bracket? And often the way to do it,
00:43:06
the probably the best way to do that is to do a Roth conversion. is to intentionally pay taxes on purpose on
00:43:12
your traditional IRA by converting it over to the Roth IRA so that that growth now is tax-free and there's no RMD then
00:43:20
on the Roth IRA where you're not being forced out to do that. So that's how you
00:43:25
look at it ahead. But the biggest mistake people make when it comes to tax planning is just thinking they don't
00:43:31
have the control. You do have the control. take some time, put some uh pen to paper, get out the spreadsheet, and
00:43:38
project out these different times, find your low tax situations, try to pay taxes then. Yeah, it totally lines with
00:43:46
my understanding. And uh cuz I think the the funny situation that I thankfully haven't run into much, Jeremy, but it's
00:43:52
come in a couple times from from listener emails or reader emails is people who say, "You know what? I I
00:43:59
haven't really figured out, they might not even know this, that they haven't
00:44:01
figured out their long-term kind of tax bracket projections yet." Here they go.
00:44:08
And they say to themselves, "I've heard Roth conversions are good. I happen to
00:44:11
be 15 years old or 52 years old. I'm a VP at some big company. I'm making
00:44:15
$400,000 a year." and I'm doing a whole bunch of Roth conversions and I sit
00:44:19
there and [laughter] oh no, you're in like the 32 or 35% tax bracket and odds
00:44:24
are if you're making Roth conversions in that tax bracket, it's probably not
00:44:28
ideal for you. And just like you ended on, I mean, the whole point is to identify your lowest future tax years
00:44:34
between now and the end of time and to consider stuffing those years with with Roth conversions. People get convinced
00:44:41
that Roth conversions are magic and they want the magic. So, they don't really
00:44:44
think about their tax situation, but uh I don't know if that resonates at all
00:44:48
with you. >> Yeah, you've got to think about your tax situation because you want to project
00:44:51
out pay the taxes at the lowest time. Figure out when it's best to pay the taxes, that 52-year-old example there.
00:44:57
If they happen to do a withholding from their traditional account, that's a 10%
00:45:02
tax penalty on the withholding because they're below 59 and a half. So, you got
00:45:05
to figure out where you're going to pay the taxes from. But a lot of people think of the the binary of do I do tax
00:45:12
uh Roth conversions or not? And really the answer is should I consider it? Yes. Then the answer becomes well how much
00:45:19
and for how long and when? And so I had a couple came into my office a few years
00:45:24
back and they kept getting hammered with the Irma and the Medicare extra taxes. And so I projected things out and said,
00:45:30
"Well, with your required minimum distribution levels, you're just hitting
00:45:34
this one level just over and over again. But if you happen to use up the entire 24% tax bracket, you will jump to the
00:45:42
next Medicare cost. It's going to cost you extra Medicare for a couple years.
00:45:46
You're going to pay the taxes now at 24%. But hey, you're projected to always
00:45:52
be in the 24%, which at the time was projected to go up even higher. >> And so we did the math and said if you
00:45:57
just happen to take this, it was a $600,000 account. if you convert it over the next three years, 200,000 per year,
00:46:05
you'll save in the long run. It made a lot of sense. This was late in the year,
00:46:09
December. I helped them do the Roth conversion. I said, "We'll do the next
00:46:13
one in January, right?" Only four weeks later. So, I called her and said, "It's
00:46:17
time to do the second of the three." And she said, "Don't worry about it. No
00:46:20
need. It's already been done." >> So, what do you mean? Our plan was to do
00:46:24
three years in a row. She said, "Yeah, but you said it was a good idea, so I
00:46:28
just did the whole thing. I figured just rip the band-aid off. It's not going to
00:46:31
matter anyways. No. >> And by then it was too late. And I said, "Well,
00:46:35
>> all right. Well, thanks for letting me know." And I thought, I wonder how much
00:46:37
it did matter to her cuz she did not stay in the 24% tax bracket for 3 years. She jumped into the 32% tax bracket and
00:46:46
then the 35% tax bracket for that particular year. I did the math. It was $23,000 of extra taxes because she said,
00:46:53
"It doesn't matter. Let me just take care of all of it." She follow what you
00:46:57
said. A lot of people think the Roth conversion is a magic magic pill. You got to plan some things out ahead of
00:47:02
time. >> Yeah, that's a very painful way to rip off the ba the band-aid. 20 $23,000
00:47:07
worth of tax pain. >> Extra taxes. Yes. Exactly. >> Right. Right. Extra taxes. Well, let's
00:47:12
pivot. I' I've got an interesting kind of emotional question for you again. I
00:47:16
think that from my vantage point, there are some big emotional hurdles that people face, especially in either the
00:47:24
last few years leading into retirement or sometimes the first few years at the start of retirement. So, I'm just
00:47:30
wondering in your experience, what are some of those really notable emotional hurdles that that stick out to you that
00:47:36
that people face in that retirement transition phase? >> Yeah, I'd say there's two emotional
00:47:42
hurdles I see in there. One is people think, "Have I have I done enough? Like
00:47:47
am I really going to be okay?" You know, I've never done this before. A lot of
00:47:51
people say to me, I don't know what I don't know. Like I'd hate to retire and
00:47:56
then realize I made a mistake and it's too late to fix it. So that's why like
00:47:59
let me guide you through the process that I've guided hundreds of people before. So you feel a lot more confident
00:48:04
in your money when you know more about your money. And that extra confidence actually helps you make better money
00:48:10
decisions itself. So you want to have a process. That's a a mistake, an emotional, right? If you there's a lot
00:48:17
to worry about if you don't know what to do, but if you know what to do addressing each worry along the way. The
00:48:23
other thing people are concerned about is I've been spending I've spent 35
00:48:29
years saving into my account statements. I've spent 35 years adding to them. How
00:48:36
am I supposed to start taking the money out? I'm a saver and that's a good
00:48:40
thing. and you want me to become a spender and that's absolutely evil. So there's this huge identity people put
00:48:46
into their minds about I am a saver and I cannot become a spender. And my encouragement there is you're not a
00:48:53
saver. You're not currently a saver. You started out planning. You're a planner.
00:48:59
You've been planning towards retirement. The tool, the tactic you were using was
00:49:04
saving, but you're still a planner. And now it's time to use the next tool which
00:49:09
is spending. And so if you can think of yourself of I'm a planner, not a spender
00:49:14
or a saver, you can continue on saying I'm just always been planning. I'm still
00:49:19
planning. It's just I'm using a different tool. But that's I hear that a
00:49:22
lot of I'm a saver. I can't become a spender. And try to disassociate your
00:49:29
identity with those two words and add back in the word that you've always been. you're a planner and just because
00:49:34
you're taking money out of your accounts, it still means you're a planner.
00:49:37
>> I really like that. I, you know, it's just a slight pivot, a slight pivot to
00:49:42
being a planner. I think that does, it resonates with me. You can probably tell by the way I'm stuttering over my words.
00:49:48
I would wager that resonates with a lot of people out there, too, because it is it's kind of like two sides of the same
00:49:55
coin, right? The saving and the spending are two sides of that planning coin. I'm
00:50:00
curious, do you find any any sort of issues? I shouldn't say issues, but in your conversations with clients once
00:50:07
people are a year or two or five years into retirement, do they ever come back to you and say, "Boy, retirement isn't
00:50:13
really what I thought it would be." And if they do come back to you and say
00:50:16
that, I mean, what are the usual reasons why? That is interesting. If uh in the financial advisor space in the
00:50:22
retirement researching space, that's a big hot topic of you want to retire to
00:50:26
something instead of from something and you want to have a a phase retirement and you you want to change your identity
00:50:32
from being this worker person to being whoever it is you want to be out there. And I agree with that for a lot of
00:50:40
people. I just don't see it. >> I just I really don't see it. The people
00:50:43
that come to me, they're not doctors and lawyers and business owners. There are
00:50:48
people that have worked for the same company, a public company with a pension for 35 years. They've been looking
00:50:55
forward to collecting that pension. They've been looking forward to spending
00:50:57
the time with their grandkids. They've got this list of things they want to do.
00:51:01
And they retire. They love it. And they tell me, "I wish I done it earlier." And
00:51:06
they also say, "How did I have any time to do anything when I was working? I'm
00:51:09
not working and I'm still busy as ever." So, it's this interesting thing. It's
00:51:14
like a a certain persona that happens to be the persona that a lot of uh adviserss and retirement researchers and
00:51:22
academics are in. I don't see that outside of that. That's really interesting. I I like that perspective
00:51:27
too. And uh I can admit I think both my parents are very much in your court or in the court of maybe your clients,
00:51:34
Jeremy, where um they both were public school teachers. And I know especially having some conversations with my dad,
00:51:39
he couldn't wait to retire. It's not like he didn't like work, but he knew
00:51:43
exactly what he wanted to do with his free time, and he never looked back. And I he's just, you know, happy as a pig
00:51:48
and slop with with what he's spending his time on in retirement. So, it really
00:51:51
is maybe, you know, to each their own, and um there's a spectrum of outcomes
00:51:55
there. You know, Jeremy, you've shared so much with us today from kind of your
00:51:59
real retirement focus, retirement expertise, and I know you've mentioned podcasting, I think YouTube, and your
00:52:05
book. Let's talk real quick. If someone wants to follow up, if they want to start consuming your content on a
00:52:09
regular basis, maybe they want to order a copy of the book, where can they go to
00:52:13
check out the rest of your work? Yeah, you're listening on the podcast now. Go
00:52:16
out and check out my podcast, Retire Today, which is also the same name as my book. The book is Retire Today, Create
00:52:22
Your Retirement Master Plan in Five Simple Steps. You can find that anywhere, but you can also go directly
00:52:28
to jeremyle.com, je.com. If you're a video person, check me out on YouTube. I'm Mr. Retirement on
00:52:39
YouTube. So, Mr. Retirement is what you would type in to find me there. That is an awesome screen name, Mr. Retirement.
00:52:46
Well, Jeremy Kyle, Mr. Retirement, thank you so much for joining us on Personal Finance for Long-Term Investors. Thanks
00:52:52
for having me on. >> Thanks for tuning in to this episode of Personal Finance for Long-Term
00:52:56
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00:53:03
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Episode Highlights

  • Welcome to Personal Finance for Long-Term Investors
    Join Jesse Kramer as he simplifies personal finance and investing for listeners.
    “An investment in knowledge pays the best interest.”
    @ 00m 04s
    January 14, 2026
  • Listener Praise
    CJ from NorCal shares his thoughts on the podcast, calling it a must-listen.
    “Must read for financial education.”
    @ 01m 11s
    January 14, 2026
  • Understanding Fixed Indexed Annuities
    Jesse dives into the complexities and hidden costs of fixed indexed annuities.
    “The only risk is opportunity cost.”
    @ 09m 49s
    January 14, 2026
  • The Cost of Free Steak Dinners
    Jesse warns about the hidden costs associated with seemingly free offers from financial institutions.
    “That steak dinner might have been the most expensive free steak dinner of your lives.”
    @ 10m 44s
    January 14, 2026
  • Dividends Explained
    Jesse clarifies the misconception that dividends are free money in investing.
    “Dividends are not free money.”
    @ 15m 30s
    January 14, 2026
  • Understanding Retirement Longevity
    Most people underestimate how long they might actually be in retirement. Be ready to retire three years earlier than planned.
    “Whatever your number is in your spreadsheet, subtract three.”
    @ 19m 04s
    January 14, 2026
  • The Importance of Longevity Estimates
    Get your personalized longevity estimate to make informed retirement decisions. It's crucial for planning.
    “This is the number one most important number to your retirement planning.”
    @ 23m 45s
    January 14, 2026
  • Social Security Strategies
    Learn the math behind social security claiming strategies to maximize benefits for couples.
    “Your benefits grow by roughly 8% per year by waiting.”
    @ 29m 22s
    January 14, 2026
  • The Five-Step Process to Retirement Planning
    A structured approach to retirement planning that emphasizes understanding spending, income, taxes, investments, and legacy.
    “I like the five-step process. It's clean and easy to remember.”
    @ 38m 08s
    January 14, 2026
  • Retirement Realities
    Many retirees express joy and surprise at how fulfilling retirement can be.
    “I wish I’d done it earlier.”
    @ 51m 06s
    January 14, 2026
  • Follow Jeremy Kyle
    Learn more about retirement planning through Jeremy's podcast and book.
    “Check out my podcast, Retire Today.”
    @ 52m 16s
    January 14, 2026

Episode Quotes

  • Must read for financial education.
    Longevity & Retirement | Jeremy Keil - E127
  • Dividends are not free money.
    Longevity & Retirement | Jeremy Keil - E127
  • You need to plan for your retirement based on being closer to 85 than 78.
    Longevity & Retirement | Jeremy Keil - E127
  • Don't do a budget. Just look at your paycheck.
    Longevity & Retirement | Jeremy Keil - E127
  • You might be sorely surprised. It's probably a million dollars.
    Longevity & Retirement | Jeremy Keil - E127
  • You're not a saver. You're a planner.
    Longevity & Retirement | Jeremy Keil - E127

Key Moments

  • Investment in Knowledge00:04
  • Listener Feedback01:11
  • Annuity Discussion09:49
  • Free Dinner Warning10:44
  • Budgeting Anxiety33:41
  • Retirement Expectations50:11
  • Retirement Satisfaction51:06
  • Content Promotion52:11

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