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The Chesire Murders: The Petit Family | Murdered at First Sight

September 21, 2025 / 44:42

This episode covers the tragic story of the Pettit family, focusing on the events surrounding the brutal home invasion in Cheshire, Connecticut, on July 22, 2007. Key discussions include the lives of Jennifer Pettit and her daughters, Haley and Michaela, the details of the crime, and the aftermath for the surviving family members.

Guests share personal memories of the Pettit family, highlighting their close-knit relationships and the impact of their loss. The episode recounts the horrific events of the night, including the 911 call made by Jennifer Pettit from a bank, revealing the family's dire situation.

Law enforcement and community responses to the crime are discussed, emphasizing the shock and disbelief that such violence could occur in their town. The episode also covers the investigation, the arrest of the perpetrators, and the subsequent trials.

Survivor accounts detail the emotional toll on family members, particularly Bill Pettit, who lost his wife and daughters. The episode concludes with reflections on the community's grief and the memorial established in honor of the Pettit family.

TL;DR

The episode recounts the tragic home invasion and murder of the Pettit family in Cheshire, Connecticut, and its devastating impact on survivors.

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Jen and Bill were such awesome parents.
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They located to Cheshire and decided to
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raise their girls there and I think had
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like a beautiful life there.
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My aunt was Jennifer Pettit and my
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cousins were Haley and Michaela.
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I think my earliest memory is being at
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their house in Connecticut.
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Michaela was just like my very best
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friend.
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Haley would make sure we were all like
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kept in line.
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It couldn't be more like siblings when
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we were all together.
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On July 22nd, 2007,
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I was sitting here and my sister had
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given me a call. She was at the beach.
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When I picked up the phone, I said, "So,
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how are you?" And she said, "I'm great.
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There's not a cloud in the sky. It is
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the most beautiful blue sky. It is just
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the most perfect day.
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There's your emergency.
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>> I'm the banking center manager at Bank
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of America. We have a lady who is in our
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bank right now who says her husband and
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children are being held at their house.
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Her name Jennifer Pettit.
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>> We clearly have a fire fatality. I know
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that there's bodies inside, but how many
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deaths are we looking at?
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The activities at the home took the
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police by surprise.
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>> None of those officers had ever
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encountered a scene like they
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encountered inside that house. It was
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pretty clear right from the beginning
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that this was going to be a terrible
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story.
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>> For this to occur to this family is the
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worst thing most people could ever
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imagine.
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It was outrage that these guys could do
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something this horrendous to wipe out an
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innocent family.
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>> They were wonderful human beings. And we
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lost a lot in losing these three women.
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>> These women did everything that they
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were told to do. So it was hard.
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>> This was a all-American family living in
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a beautiful suburban town. And then
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horror came to their house.
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>> I miss all of the future that we had,
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like the the future memories, the future
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fun events. My mom should have gotten to
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be with my aunt. And I feel so sad that
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she doesn't get to have that.
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>> I don't know how anyone can do this.
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Like, you're not human to me if you do
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things like this.
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[Music]
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[Music]
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This one's when the girls came to visit
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us and Jen and Uncle Billy and we had I
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believe it was an anniversary dinner
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party for our parents
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and the four of you are standing on the
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stairwell here
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and then you're up in the bonus room on
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this brightly colored floral couch we
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had.
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>> You probably picked out our outfits.
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Would you like chat with her about like
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I'm going to dress her in this and
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you're going to dress her in that? Like
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they coordinate well. Did you guys
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pre-plan things like that?
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>> I think we always just made sure we
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thought you had cute clothes on.
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[Music]
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>> This is the one where they're out
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catching fireflies and we're standing on
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the porch.
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My like first clear memory is like
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playing with fireflies and catching them
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with all of them in my grandparents
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front yard in Pennsylvania and it was
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really sweet.
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[Music]
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As a Methodist minister's family, you
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tend to move around a lot.
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I feel like Jen and I were a lot closer
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because we always knew we'd be there for
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each other.
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As an older sibling, she was constantly
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giving me advice and she had a lot of
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finesse about how to dress, how to wear
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her hair, what looked pretty.
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I think Jen was very caring about other
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people and their feelings. I feel like
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that's kind of what guided her into
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being interested in becoming a nurse.
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She was working at children's hospital
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in Pittsburgh. And she said, "I'm going
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to go out with this guy. He's in med
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school here. His name is Bill. He's
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taking me to a place downtown called
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Tramps." And I was like, "Wait, I got to
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get this." Like, you're going out with a
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guy named Bill and he's taking you to
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like a nightclub named Tramps.
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I was like, "I don't know, Jen. this guy
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just doesn't sound good to me. Like he
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just might be a loser. She went out with
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him and she had a really good time. And
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it was just a success story after that.
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When they got pregnant with Haley, I
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couldn't wait for it because I'd never
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had a child.
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When I first met Haley, I could see how
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Jen and Bill just loved her so much.
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I just loved rocking her when she was a
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newborn. And I think I loved her like
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she was my own.
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After Jennifer had Haley, two years
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later, I was pregnant with Evan. And
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then 2 years after I had my daughter
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Lydia.
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2 years later, Jen had Michaela. They
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started to just call her KK or KK Rose
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Bud.
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>> Hi.
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Show me what you have there.
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Can you show me in the morning before
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you go how you ride the zipline
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so nicely?
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KK was super softspoken,
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but I think she went out of her way to
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look out for other people. She would be
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the person that would look around and be
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like, "Oh, you're by yourself. I'm going
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to make sure that you're included." She
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was just like my little best friend.
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[Music]
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There wasn't anything Haley wasn't good
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at. She was like classic older child. I
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never got to have an older sister and I
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never got to have a younger sister. And
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that's what it felt like when we were
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all together.
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Hi.
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>> I had to get you on video before you go
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home.
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>> Lydia, did you have fun with your
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cousins?
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>> You liked sleeping with that one? You
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girls had a big slumber party in here,
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huh?
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>> Yep.
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[Music]
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The last time that I saw Haley,
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Michaela, and Auntie Jen, all of us went
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to our boat in Carolina Beach.
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And we just spent every day like sun up
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to sun down at the beach. And it's the
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same beach that my mom grew up going to
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with Auntie Jen.
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Haley would make sure we were all kept
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in line and like everyone had sunscreen
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on and we were all ready to go and play.
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And my brother would always want to go
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off and do some sporty thing. Her and
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Evan could just like hang. She could
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like rough and tough with any of the
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boys. I'm sure she could kick his butt
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like up and down in every sport. So, it
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was I feel like he had a best friend
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there, too.
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I was sitting here and my sister had
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given me a call. She said, "It was so
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fun when Haley and Michaela and I all
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came down and visited your boat. like we
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really want to come back and bring
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Billy.
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>> I'd been texting back and forth with
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Michaela excited about it and calling
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her about it. We kept kind of going
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between all of us and the more excited I
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could get Michaela, the more she would
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then go to her mom and be like, "We're
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so excited. We're going to make sure
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this happens."
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I remember hanging up and being like,
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"Okay, talk tomorrow. Love you." Like
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just real fast. Like things weren't
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done. Like our conversations weren't
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over. Um but that was it. Like Yeah.
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[Music]
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In 2007, Cheshire was the kind of town
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where people would feel comfortable if
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they didn't lock their doors.
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>> Cheshire is one of those places that
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felt like it was picture perfect. Like
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you just couldn't imagine that you
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weren't safe. Was there crime there?
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Yes.
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But it was typically very low-level type
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things.
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I cannot recall in my 39 years of being
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a prosecutor,
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you know, this something like this never
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happens there. It just doesn't.
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[Music]
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There's your emergency.
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>> I'm the banking center manager at Bank
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of America. We have a lady who is in our
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bank right now who says her husband and
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children are being held at their house.
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Her name Jennifer Pettit.
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>> The 911 call was from the bank manager
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and I think the police didn't really
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understand what it was.
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It took them 5 minutes to respond to the
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bank. And in that time frame, Jennifer
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left the bank, got in the car, and they
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drove back to the house.
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The police arrived uh shortly after
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receiving the call from the bank teller.
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They surrounded the house in different
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locations. Approximately 5 to 10 minutes
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later, they observed some flames coming
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from the house.
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I got a call from one of my co-workers
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and she said, "Just wanted you to know
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we have a report of a house fire in
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Cheshire. It sounds pretty bad."
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By the time I got there, I knew very
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clearly this was far more than just a
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house fire.
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At the time, I was a reporter at the
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Harford Current and I got a phone call
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from a state police source that this was
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going to be a bad case. over the
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scanner. You could hear that they were
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trying to get in because they knew there
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were people in there.
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>> It was difficult for anybody to know
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where to turn first.
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>> We had people running down there, you
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know, photographers and reporters
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running down to the scene. So, it was a
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pretty hectic situation.
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[Music]
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I'm watching them desperately trying to
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get in the doors and they can't. That
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tells me there is somebody still inside.
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They would not be so frantic to get in
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if they were not trying to save a life.
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Then we start hearing smatterings of
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they've got people they're putting in
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handcuffs.
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>> The police had arrested two people
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leaving the scene at a high rate of
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speed.
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There was a roadblock. They tried to
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smash through the road block and didn't
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succeed. And they were arrested at
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gunpoint while the fire was burning.
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>> As reporters, we're all just beginning
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to get bits and pieces of information.
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Things changed very fast, not just for
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us, but for all of the first responders.
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Neighbors are telling me they think at
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least some of the family members were
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still in the house. But then another
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neighbor said to me that an ambulance
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was in the area of the back of the
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Pettit house and that Dr. Pettit came
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out of the basement and they're not sure
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what that was all about.
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>> Mercy, are you please? Yes. I got Bill
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Pett here who hurt my neighbor. The
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neighbor at first didn't recognize him.
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He was screaming for help. He had
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multiple head injuries that were
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bleeding. His hands were bleeding. His
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wrists were bleeding. When they they got
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him to the hospital, they determined he
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had lost almost seven pints of blood.
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From the information that we were given,
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Dr. Pettit had fallen asleep in the sun
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room watching TV.
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In the middle of the night, he woke up,
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found himself being struck by hard
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object in the head numerous times. Uh,
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he began bleeding profusely. It was in
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his eyes. He couldn't see, but he could
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make out there were two people. He had
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heard a voice saying, "If he moves,
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shoot him. Put a couple of bullets in
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him." He was led downstairs into the
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basement. His hands and ankles were
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bound with plastic zip ties. He was tied
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up to a support uh pole.
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During the 6 hours or so that they were
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in the house, police believe he was
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unconscious because of the beating.
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[Music]
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I was only 13 when everything happened.
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My mom was trying to convince me to do
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some kind of math worksheet or something
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and I remember trying to distract her by
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being like, "Well, why don't we call
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into Jen?" And then our home phone rang
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and it was my uncle's sister.
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I remember handing my mom the phone and
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before she picked up the phone, she
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said, "Something happened to the girls."
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cuz I'm thinking in my mind like why
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would you be calling me like you never
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call me? You would only call me if they
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can't. Something must be wrong. And I
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said, "Are they dead?" And she said,
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"How did you know?"
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She said, "Well, there were these two
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men and they like came into their home
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in the night. They like broke in somehow
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through the basement, tied the girls to
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their beds, and they beat Billy really
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badly." And I was like, "You mean he's
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still alive?" And she said, "Well, for
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now,
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I remember going out on my deck and just
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thinking, "Oh my goodness, like I have
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to call my parents and I have to tell
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them that not just their daughter whom
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they love dearly
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is dead, but their two grandchildren are
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also gone." And I just screamed, this
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guttural scream.
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[Music]
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>> I sat next to her as she told my
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grandparents what had happened to their
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daughter and their grandkids.
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[Music]
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That's tough.
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[Music]
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I remember when we got to Connecticut,
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we were staying with my uncle's sister.
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It just felt like this like terrible
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movie that we were in.
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I had fears of being in public.
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I thought, if two men could do this,
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how do we know we're not in the company
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of people that can do other horrible
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things to us?
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We went on to see Billy in the hospital
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because it was really all we wanted to
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do was just to like see him.
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I remember going to the hospital and
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seeing my uncle for the first time and
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just being like, I cannot believe that
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he's alive. Like touching and holding my
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hand like I can't believe you look like
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that and you're responding and you're
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alive. Like that was a miracle in
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itself.
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seeing him there laying in that bed and
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hearing him saying, "I'm so sorry. Like,
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it's me and not her laying here. I know
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you would rather wish it would be her
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and not me." And I was like, "No, Billy,
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don't think like that.
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We wish it could have been all of you.
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But at least you're here."
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>> It was clear that he was having a very,
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very difficult time dealing with what
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happened. And that's understandable.
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I mean, he's lost everything.
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>> They said he'd lost so many pints of
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blood that he really shouldn't have
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lived.
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>> The two people arrested were Steven
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Hayes and Joshua Cerjeski.
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Both of them had extensive criminal
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records.
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Hayes had a raft of petty larsenies and
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burglaries. The last one that had put
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him in prison was for breaking into a
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home through a window. Joshua Thomaseski
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was 26 at the time.
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>> He was known to the Cheshire Police
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Department as someone who was a problem.
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>> He prided himself on breaking into
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people's houses at night and literally
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watching them sleep.
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>> It gave him a feeling of superiority
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over others. and he liked that feeling
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of power. He had been sentenced to a
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significant sentence in jail.
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>> Thomas Ojeski and Hayes had been
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released early from prison. So
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technically both of them still should
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have been in jail when this occurred.
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>> Once released, they both met up at a
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halfway house and decided that they were
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going to hang out together and commit
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crime.
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These guys had broken in and brutally
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murdered this family. It could have been
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any house in any suburb in Connecticut
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where this happened and people were
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freaked out.
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[Music]
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Commerce Ojeski and Steven Hayes did
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confess to certain aspects of the crime.
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They both fully admitted, "Hey, look,
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I'm a burglar. I broke into the house.
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We were planning to steal money." Both
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of their stories was, "Well, it was the
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other guy who started the fire. He's the
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one who killed these people, and it was
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never supposed to get that far.
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[Music]
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They broke into the house at 3:00 a.m.,
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hit Dr. pet it with a bat, tied them up
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in the basement, tied up all the girls
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in their bedrooms.
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The perpetrators found a bank statement,
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and it was at that point they directed
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Mrs. Pettit that she was to go to the
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bank and withdraw the $15,000.
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Jennifer Pettit went to the bank with
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Steven Hayes and she managed to pass a
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note to the teller saying, "My family is
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being held hostage. Call the police."
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Steven told Mrs. Pettit that if she did
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anything to alert a teller that they
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would kill her children and her husband.
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So even with that very credible threat
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being laid, she still took the risk to
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try to save her family.
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>> I think she looked distraught. I know
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she probably had the fear
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of what was happening to the girls back
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at the house on her mind. I don't know
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if she knew what was going on with Billy
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because he was kind of
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absent and in the basement.
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Dr. Pettit also provided us with some
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new information concerning the event
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>> right at the time when Jennifer and
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Steven Hayes returned from the bank.
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>> Dr. Pettit heard like a thud
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as he described it. It sounded like a
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body or something hitting the floor
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above him.
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Dr. Dr. Pettit really didn't know what
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was going on upstairs. He didn't know.
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He also heard a voice saying, "Don't
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worry, it'll be over in a few minutes."
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>> Jennifer was killed in the living room
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right above where he was tied up. So
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that's part of what he heard.
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>> It was at that point when he realized he
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needed to do something and he had to get
00:22:30
out of there.
00:22:32
As a medical doctor, he knew the extreme
00:22:35
amount of blood he had lost that his
00:22:36
blood pressure was actually lowered as a
00:22:38
result. He was trying to take steps such
00:22:42
as standing up just to raise his blood
00:22:44
pressure enough that he had a hope of
00:22:47
getting help for his wife and children.
00:22:50
>> He was able to break free and he ran out
00:22:54
the back bulkhead that the two guys had
00:22:58
come in, which was still open.
00:23:00
He could barely stand up or walk. He
00:23:03
literally log rolled to a neighbor's
00:23:06
house.
00:23:07
>> Back upstairs, they started spreading
00:23:10
the gasoline around the living room, on
00:23:13
the stairs, into bedrooms, and then lit
00:23:16
the fire as they were running out of the
00:23:19
house.
00:23:20
>> They were running at the same time that
00:23:23
Jennifer had just been murdered. And
00:23:27
Bill is out the back door. And it's all
00:23:30
happening at once, but the girls were
00:23:33
still alive.
00:23:36
[Music]
00:23:37
>> To think that these young girls were
00:23:40
restrained and having gasoline poured in
00:23:43
their bedrooms knowing that eventually
00:23:46
someone's going to light a fire.
00:23:49
I I I can't imagine what that was like.
00:23:52
[Music]
00:24:04
[Music]
00:24:09
So these are Wet and Wild. The four of
00:24:12
you on laying on a towel.
00:24:14
>> That's so cute.
00:24:21
And this one you all went to get cotton
00:24:24
candy. So you're stuffing your mouths
00:24:26
with cotton candy.
00:24:29
Look at her face.
00:24:31
>> She's so happy.
00:24:35
Michaela was a lot of fun. She always
00:24:37
like had this cute little smirky grin
00:24:39
that I could relate to.
00:24:44
What do we have in here? two sleeping
00:24:48
cousins.
00:24:49
>> Haley was so strong, so smart, all of
00:24:53
the like perfect first child things.
00:24:56
[Music]
00:24:58
Haley was just like brilliant
00:25:01
and was just like insane at athletics.
00:25:04
>> She was definitely on a path to
00:25:06
something greater and to think that that
00:25:09
was all cut short was just so sad.
00:25:12
[Music]
00:25:19
I wanted to go to their home because I
00:25:21
wanted to see that it was all real and
00:25:25
it did all happen. The outside didn't
00:25:28
portray really what happened inside the
00:25:30
home.
00:25:32
>> Going into that house is not something
00:25:34
I'll ever forget.
00:25:37
Upon going into the front door, you were
00:25:40
confronted with
00:25:42
just a black charred mess
00:25:46
and the smell of smoke and burnt
00:25:49
material. It's all you could smell.
00:25:52
The most disturbing of all though was
00:25:55
going up those stairs
00:25:58
because we knew when we went in there
00:26:00
that two young girls had died on that
00:26:02
second floor. And that was very hard to
00:26:06
uh to deal with.
00:26:09
It was quite evident that there had been
00:26:12
accelerants poured. You could see the
00:26:14
pore patterns on the floor.
00:26:16
>> The police literally tracked the
00:26:18
gasoline that was left up the stairwell
00:26:21
into the rooms of the two girls. This
00:26:24
leaves a very different mark than if
00:26:27
there was just a regular fire occurring.
00:26:29
So they could actually see the exact
00:26:31
pathway the fire took.
00:26:40
There were ties still attached to the
00:26:44
beds.
00:26:47
>> Haley was able to untie herself and like
00:26:49
she got out of her like restraints and
00:26:52
instead of going to leave, she went to
00:26:54
go try to untie Michaela.
00:26:56
It was clear that she was running to her
00:26:59
sister's room when she was overcome by
00:27:01
the fire and the smoke and her body was
00:27:04
found at the top of the stairs, not too
00:27:06
far from the entrance to Michaela's
00:27:08
room. Michaela never was able to get
00:27:11
free.
00:27:12
>> I'm sure Haley was trying to figure out
00:27:14
a way to get Michaela out of her
00:27:17
bindings and she would never have left
00:27:20
that home without her little sister.
00:27:25
Haley was just 17 years old and Michaela
00:27:27
was only 11.
00:27:29
These two offenders had no intention of
00:27:32
leaving these victims alive.
00:27:36
Going into the house, as difficult as it
00:27:39
was, it was a necessary thing.
00:27:42
The two people arrested had given
00:27:45
versions of what happened and it was
00:27:47
necessary to go into the house to see
00:27:49
whether or not the evidence that was
00:27:52
found in the house matched up with what
00:27:54
they were telling police.
00:27:56
>> Police wanted there to be no ambiguity
00:27:59
on this. They wanted as much physical
00:28:01
and forensic evidence to make sure they
00:28:03
were both found guilty in court.
00:28:06
There are a number of feelings that go
00:28:08
through your head when you go to a crime
00:28:11
scene such as this.
00:28:14
Anger,
00:28:15
frustration that it couldn't have been
00:28:17
stopped, and sadness of the tragedy that
00:28:21
the community had lost three vibrant
00:28:25
young women.
00:28:28
Uh yeah, I had a family
00:28:32
[Music]
00:28:37
Yeah, it was hard.
00:28:44
When you have a young daughter who's the
00:28:46
same age as the younger victim here, it
00:28:49
kind of hits home.
00:28:56
[Music]
00:29:01
When the memorial service happened, Bill
00:29:04
had been in the hospital still and so we
00:29:07
didn't know if doctors were going to
00:29:09
release him to even come.
00:29:12
I remember seeing Billy before he came
00:29:16
to the church. We observed a doctor
00:29:19
removing the stitches from his head. I
00:29:23
just remember thinking,
00:29:25
he's so black and blue.
00:29:28
watching my uncle leave the hospital and
00:29:31
sitting behind him and like still seeing
00:29:33
all like the stitches and like the open
00:29:34
wounds in his head and like it's unreal
00:29:37
to picture that he was like, "Okay, like
00:29:39
I have to be there for my family now."
00:29:42
>> I remember when I saw Billy get up to
00:29:45
speak just thinking, "Oh my gosh, like
00:29:48
he's really getting up. He's going to do
00:29:50
this." I couldn't believe it.
00:29:53
>> There was a collective gasp in the room.
00:29:58
He talks about Michaela as like the kid
00:30:01
that would go out of her way to like
00:30:02
take care of the FLKs and he like
00:30:05
explained it as like funny looking kid.
00:30:07
KK was just showing those like little
00:30:10
things that she was going to be a great
00:30:11
human.
00:30:14
He was immensely proud of his daughters
00:30:17
and I think he relished every moment
00:30:20
with them.
00:30:22
I remembered him talking about Haley and
00:30:24
just like how strong and athletic she
00:30:26
was and how close she was to her dad was
00:30:28
really special.
00:30:31
I wanted someone to love me the way that
00:30:33
he like loved my aunt.
00:30:35
He was talking about her like she was
00:30:37
glowing.
00:30:40
It was very clear that his family was
00:30:42
the center of his world, that Jennifer
00:30:45
was his best friend. His general message
00:30:49
was when you leave here, remember who
00:30:53
they were and let that guide you to do
00:30:57
things in their memory that exhibits
00:31:00
their kindness and their compassion and
00:31:02
their excitement for life. You know, it
00:31:05
was a message of
00:31:07
this was a horrible thing, but this
00:31:10
cannot be how we remember them. We have
00:31:13
to remember who they really were.
00:31:16
If we can keep doing the good that they
00:31:18
would have, then that's the best that we
00:31:19
can do.
00:31:21
[Music]
00:31:34
Because this was a death penalty case,
00:31:36
it took several years for them to
00:31:37
actually go to trial. The trials were
00:31:39
held in New Haven's Puria Court.
00:31:42
Each of them were blaming the other for
00:31:45
basically escalating the event which led
00:31:48
to the murders
00:31:50
and so they had to be tried separately.
00:31:53
>> Hayes went to trial on September 13th,
00:31:57
2010.
00:31:59
>> Steven Hayes was tried on 17 counts.
00:32:03
Those involved assault charges,
00:32:06
kidnapping,
00:32:08
home invasion,
00:32:10
and felony murder. as well as arson
00:32:12
murder.
00:32:14
>> Commiy went on trial about a year later
00:32:16
in September of 2011.
00:32:20
Joshua Commer Jesi was tried for the
00:32:23
same crimes as Steven Hayes.
00:32:30
[Music]
00:32:33
It was clear that the case really
00:32:34
started the night before when Joshua
00:32:37
Okamajeski happened to go to the stop
00:32:40
shop at the same time as Michaela and
00:32:42
Jennifer to get supplies to make some
00:32:45
pasta dinner.
00:32:47
>> Kasujeski
00:32:48
saw Michaela in the grocery store and
00:32:52
immediately took a liking to her.
00:32:55
>> He had a weird infatuation with young
00:32:58
girls. He followed him home and watched
00:33:02
the house for a bit and then called
00:33:04
Hayes and told him to come down to
00:33:07
Cheshure that they were going to make a
00:33:08
big score.
00:33:11
He sexually assaulted Michaela after
00:33:14
hours of having her be tied up. This, I
00:33:17
think, was the primary goal. The robbery
00:33:20
was actually just a an additional thing
00:33:23
that they were able to get out of this
00:33:24
horrific crime.
00:33:27
The sexual assault on Michaela took
00:33:31
place while he had sent Hayes and Mrs.
00:33:34
Pettit to the bank. When Steven Hayes
00:33:38
got back from the bank with Mrs. Pettit,
00:33:41
Thomas kept pressuring him. I assaulted
00:33:44
the girl. Now you have to assault the
00:33:46
mother. Steven Hayes did uh strangle her
00:33:51
to death after sexually assaulting her.
00:33:54
They were intent on getting rid of
00:33:57
whatever evidence could connect them to
00:33:59
those sexual assaults and that was a big
00:34:02
reason for the fire to cover up their
00:34:06
culpability.
00:34:08
There was accelerant on both of the
00:34:12
defendants on their footwear on their
00:34:15
pants and so forth.
00:34:17
As far as we were concerned, they were
00:34:19
both entered up to their eyeballs.
00:34:29
I think some people never heard autopsy
00:34:31
results before, especially involving a
00:34:33
crime.
00:34:35
It's always hard.
00:34:39
>> Haley and Michaela Pettit both had died
00:34:42
from smoke inhilation. They had also
00:34:44
suffered burns from the fire having
00:34:48
direct contact with the flames.
00:34:52
>> I think one thing that did seemed to
00:34:56
really strike people was that Haley had
00:34:58
managed to get free and make it to the
00:35:01
top of the stairs before she collapsed.
00:35:04
She'd fought so hard to save Michaela
00:35:08
and just didn't quite make it.
00:35:12
There was extensive accelerants that
00:35:15
were poured on that stairway.
00:35:19
That clearly showed the intention of the
00:35:22
perpetrators was to make sure that no
00:35:25
one was going to be able to escape down
00:35:26
the stairway.
00:35:30
Jennifer's body had been extensively
00:35:32
burned, which appears to be an effort to
00:35:35
destroy evidence of a sexual assault.
00:35:39
Despite the fact that it was said
00:35:40
numerous times by these defendants that
00:35:43
there was no intent to do that, they did
00:35:45
it. It's kind of a an explanation that
00:35:49
doesn't really make much sense.
00:36:02
There were 12 jurors in total. They all
00:36:04
had to agree unanimously that the
00:36:07
defendant was guilty.
00:36:09
They found Steven Hayes guilty of 16
00:36:12
charges. He was found not guilty of the
00:36:15
arson.
00:36:17
>> And that's because the jury was not
00:36:19
convinced beyond a reasonable doubt that
00:36:20
he's the one that set the match that lit
00:36:22
the fire that started the arson.
00:36:25
>> But they felt that the death penalty was
00:36:28
the appropriate penalty.
00:36:32
>> Joshua was convicted on all 17 counts
00:36:35
and sentenced to death.
00:36:37
I was satisfied with the verdicts. I
00:36:40
thought justice was done.
00:36:44
>> Not long after Joshua was convicted,
00:36:47
Connecticut did decide to eliminate the
00:36:49
death penalty. And so their cases were
00:36:52
commuted into a sentence of life in
00:36:55
prison without the possibility of
00:36:57
parole, which means they will die in
00:36:59
jail.
00:37:01
>> Three young women are gone and it's a
00:37:04
loss. It's a big loss to the community.
00:37:07
It was a big loss to the family. It's
00:37:09
just unfortunate that they never had the
00:37:11
opportunity to do the good things that
00:37:15
they were destined to do. Uh, and that's
00:37:18
tragic.
00:37:19
[Music]
00:37:24
When we finally did get the 911 records
00:37:26
and the dispatch, it showed that police
00:37:30
were outside the house for roughly 26
00:37:33
minutes.
00:37:35
how that could have changed the
00:37:37
trajectory of this horrific case. I'm
00:37:39
sure that just weighs on the rest of the
00:37:41
family members. Did it have to happen
00:37:43
like this?
00:37:46
There were no blinds and no curtains on
00:37:48
my sister's windows. How could they not
00:37:50
have seen what was going on there? You
00:37:52
could have just looked in and seen that
00:37:54
my sister was like already laying there.
00:37:56
But at least you could have saved the
00:37:58
girls.
00:38:01
they were outside their house and they
00:38:02
should have done something. I can't like
00:38:04
harp on that because it destroys me, but
00:38:06
that stuff matters.
00:38:08
When people are taken hostage and
00:38:11
there's a intruder in a home, the police
00:38:14
are always concerned. Is this person
00:38:16
armed? Will they just shoot and kill the
00:38:19
hostages immediately?
00:38:22
A lot of illogical thinking happens and
00:38:24
that's what police are afraid of and
00:38:26
they take extra precautions to make sure
00:38:29
that they're protecting the lives of
00:38:30
these victims so these terrible outcomes
00:38:33
don't occur. However,
00:38:36
there are rules that allow police to
00:38:38
deviate from that because they think
00:38:40
there is imminent danger or time is of
00:38:43
the essence. There's a crime ongoing and
00:38:45
if they don't do it immediately then in
00:38:48
fact lives or evidence could be lost.
00:38:51
But in this small town where they hardly
00:38:53
ever experienced this, they probably
00:38:55
weren't that well verssed in these types
00:38:57
of rules.
00:38:58
>> The fire was lit right before the
00:39:02
defendants fled the scene. So certainly
00:39:06
had the police gone in there before the
00:39:08
fire was lit, good chance the girls
00:39:10
would have been saved.
00:39:12
But it's very difficult when you're
00:39:14
presented with a situation and you
00:39:16
simply don't have all the facts to make
00:39:19
a decision that could end up costing
00:39:21
people's lives.
00:39:23
The police afterwards felt terrible.
00:39:27
They might have been saved. The pettit
00:39:29
women and unfortunately it didn't turn
00:39:32
out that way.
00:39:35
[Music]
00:39:40
Billy, my brother-in-law, was like,
00:39:41
"What would you do with that property if
00:39:43
you were me?" I'm like, "That house just
00:39:45
needs to be taken down. Nobody wants to
00:39:47
try to refurbish a house where that
00:39:50
awful thing happened."
00:39:53
>> He turned it into a memorial garden for
00:39:55
them
00:39:57
and people in the community helped tend
00:39:59
it and it is beautiful.
00:40:04
After the verdicts, I felt we should go.
00:40:09
Yeah.
00:40:11
And uh
00:40:14
it was kind of like to get some closure
00:40:17
for myself.
00:40:21
It's uh a peaceful place. I think it's a
00:40:24
place that people go to remember the
00:40:27
family that lived there
00:40:30
[Music]
00:40:31
to remember the pet the Pettit girls and
00:40:34
Mrs. Pettit
00:40:36
and uh kind of reflect on their lives.
00:40:42
They were extraordinary people and so uh
00:40:47
they'll always be in my thoughts.
00:40:51
Cheshure carries this. It was a
00:40:55
tremendously traumatic event. They'd
00:40:58
never had anything like this and haven't
00:41:01
had anything like it since then.
00:41:03
[Music]
00:41:08
I still do feel like I'm lucky that I
00:41:10
have such special people to grieve. And
00:41:12
I think that all comes from like
00:41:13
watching my mom handle it because she
00:41:16
lost everybody. Like it felt like she
00:41:18
was like left behind kind of. and she
00:41:20
met it with grace.
00:41:24
>> At my daughter's wedding, she was given
00:41:26
very small charm that I keep on the
00:41:29
mirror in my car and it had like a
00:41:34
picture of the three girls in the middle
00:41:36
of it. It was wrapped with a ribbon at
00:41:40
the bottom of my daughter's bouquet. So,
00:41:42
we felt like walking down the aisle, the
00:41:45
girls were right there with her.
00:41:48
[Music]
00:41:53
Who's getting ready to go home?
00:41:55
>> We can have a great time.
00:42:00
>> Hey, what'd you get? Back seat book.
00:42:03
[Music]
00:42:07
>> Go Santi Chen back for Connecticut.
00:42:12
Bye.
00:42:14
>> Bye.
00:42:19
Bye-bye.
00:42:24
>> This past summer, we finally like buried
00:42:26
my aunt's ashes. Like, it took this long
00:42:29
because my grandparents wish was like
00:42:31
them to all be buried together. And
00:42:34
I like got to hold my husband's hand
00:42:36
through all of that and be like, he got
00:42:38
to see, I guess, that side of
00:42:39
everything.
00:42:42
And that was my like full circle moment
00:42:45
where like I got to show Sullivan where
00:42:47
I grew up and made all these memories
00:42:48
with my cousins and we got to catch the
00:42:50
fireflies and like do all of the things.
00:42:54
The positive things that I think of when
00:42:56
I see my daughter with her son are
00:42:59
things like what a great mother my
00:43:02
sister was to her daughters and what a
00:43:05
good family they had and how they worked
00:43:09
very hard at trying to educate their
00:43:12
daughters to make them be the best
00:43:14
people they could be.
00:43:17
>> It's been so long since I've gotten to
00:43:19
like have them and be around them and
00:43:20
like listen to them laugh.
00:43:24
I love I always get called like a mini
00:43:26
Jennifer.
00:43:28
I thought she was like this perfect
00:43:29
beautiful human. I just wanted to be
00:43:32
her. Like I love that we match and look
00:43:35
similar, but like
00:43:38
I would have loved the comparison now.
00:43:39
Like I would have loved to get to stand
00:43:40
next to her and take those pictures.
00:43:43
Yeah.
00:43:45
[Music]
00:44:31
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Episode Highlights

  • The Emergency Call
    A bank manager calls 911, revealing a family is being held hostage.
    “There's your emergency.”
    @ 01m 38s
    September 21, 2025
  • A Shocking Discovery
    The police encounter a horrific scene at the Pettit home, leading to a tragic story.
    “None of those officers had ever encountered a scene like they encountered inside that house.”
    @ 02m 10s
    September 21, 2025
  • A Beautiful Life
    Jen and Bill created a loving home for their daughters in Cheshire.
    “They were wonderful human beings. And we lost a lot in losing these three women.”
    @ 02m 38s
    September 21, 2025
  • Jennifer's Brave Act
    Jennifer Pettit risks everything to alert the bank teller about her family's hostage situation.
    “She still took the risk to try to save her family.”
    @ 21m 11s
    September 21, 2025
  • The Aftermath
    The aftermath of the tragedy leaves a community in shock and mourning.
    “To think that these young girls were restrained and having gasoline poured in their bedrooms...”
    @ 23m 40s
    September 21, 2025
  • A Father's Love
    Billy's emotional speech at the memorial highlighted his love for his daughters.
    “He was talking about her like she was glowing.”
    @ 30m 37s
    September 21, 2025
  • Justice Served, But at a Cost
    The defendants were convicted, but the death penalty was later abolished in Connecticut.
    “I was satisfied with the verdicts. I thought justice was done.”
    @ 36m 40s
    September 21, 2025
  • The Tragic Loss of the Pettit Family
    Three young women lost their lives in a horrific crime that shook the community.
    “Three young women are gone and it’s a big loss to the community.”
    @ 37m 04s
    September 21, 2025

Episode Quotes

  • I miss all of the future that we had.
    The Chesire Murders: The Petit Family  | Murdered at First Sight
  • I can't believe you're alive.
    The Chesire Murders: The Petit Family  | Murdered at First Sight
  • It's all happening at once, but the girls were still alive.
    The Chesire Murders: The Petit Family  | Murdered at First Sight
  • This was a horrible thing, but this cannot be how we remember them.
    The Chesire Murders: The Petit Family  | Murdered at First Sight
  • She fought so hard to save Michaela and just didn’t quite make it.
    The Chesire Murders: The Petit Family  | Murdered at First Sight
  • I still do feel like I’m lucky that I have such special people to grieve.
    The Chesire Murders: The Petit Family  | Murdered at First Sight

Key Moments

  • Tragic Day01:11
  • Emergency Response01:38
  • Horrific Scene02:10
  • Community Shock19:42
  • Bravery21:11
  • Haley's Last Effort35:08
  • Memorial Garden39:55
  • Reflection and Grief41:10

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