Robbie Magasiva Opens Up on Loss of Pua Magasiva
- Mar 14, 2026
- 1:37:33
- Full Episode
Robbie Magasiva is one of Aotearoa’s most recognisable actors.
He is possibly best known for his role as Will Jackson, a prison guard on Wentworth. But his IMDB page is massive:
He is part of the iconic Naked Samoans comedy group.
He’s been in Shortland Street, The Lord of the Rings, Sione’s Wedding, The Strip with Taika Waititi and much more.
In this episode we chat about all sorts of stuff:
+ The good, bad and ugly of acting, including the anxiety that almost forced him off Wentworth.
+ A heartbreaking story about moving to NZ from Samoa at 10 and being ashamed of his Samoan nose.
+ The devastation of watching his mum live with dementia diagnosis.
+ The sudden death of his brother Pua, the grief that followed, and what healing has looked like over time.
+ A wild story about the best perk he has got from his mate, Taika Waititi and so much more.
By the time we wrapped this episode the thing that stood out most for me was the cool place Robbie is in now: grounded, self-aware, still ambitious, but far less interested in outside validation.
At 53, he is still pretending to be other people on camera. But off camera he is unapologetically himself.
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*** Introduction and Nervousness (0:00-1:19) Life in LA and Returning to NZ (3:17-4:14) Overcoming Financial Struggles and Anxiety (5:45-6:35) Wentworth, Anxiety, and Almost Quitting (6:35-11:15) Living with COVID Restrictions in Melbourne (11:15-12:35) Life in LA and Meeting His Partner (16:35-18:03) Kiwi Contingent in Los Angeles (18:03-18:27) Reflecting on Childhood and His Father (29:19-30:35) The Success of the Film 'Tina' (34:03-34:50) Reflecting on the Film 'Tina' and His Brother (34:50-36:43) Early Career and Getting an Agent (36:43-38:22) Working with Taika Waititi and The Strip (38:22-39:05) Challenges and Realities of the Acting Industry (43:04-44:03) Turning 50 and Personal Growth (48:36-49:09) Lord of the Rings Experience (49:09-52:02) The Naked Samoans Comedy Group (52:02-54:23) Role on Shortland Street (54:23-56:41) Wentworth Con and Fan Experiences (56:41-58:30) Future Acting Goals (58:30-1:00:13) Reflecting on the Loss of His Brother Pua (1:00:13-1:06:33) Grief, Healing, and Public Reaction (1:06:33-1:14:43) Finding Presence and Positive Memories (1:14:43-1:16:54) Family Dynamics After Loss (1:16:54-1:17:36) Message to Future Grandkids (1:27:59-1:29:05) Final Thoughts and Gratitude (1:34:15-1:37:06)
Brief Summary
Robbie Mangarva discusses grief, ego, family, and his acting career, reflecting on personal growth and mental health challenges.
Key points
- Loss and Regret. Reflecting on personal loss and the impact of ego on relationships.
- Self-Reflection. Exploring the depths of self-awareness and the journey to forgiveness.
- Finding Home in LA. He reflects on his journey and how he now calls LA home.
- The Impact of Family. He discusses his parents' sacrifices and the realization of their efforts.
- The Start of a Career. He made people laugh in primary school, sparking his interest in acting.
- Community Support. A group of friends forms a support network over the years.
Episode highlights
- Self-ReflectionExploring the depths of self-awareness and the journey to forgiveness.“When I went to that place, I saw stuff about myself that I didn’t like.”12:44Mar 14, 2026
- Finding Home in LAHe reflects on his journey and how he now calls LA home.“That's home for me.”17:52Mar 14, 2026
- The Impact of FamilyHe discusses his parents' sacrifices and the realization of their efforts.“I never realized that until I spoke about it.”32:22Mar 14, 2026
- The Start of a CareerHe made people laugh in primary school, sparking his interest in acting.“Oh, this is cool. What's this all about?”36:16Mar 14, 2026
- Community SupportA group of friends forms a support network over the years.“Bro, we're here for you. I know that [ __ ] but we're here for you.”47:34Mar 14, 2026
- The Impact of GriefReflecting on the emotional aftermath of losing a loved one, he shares how it affected everyone.“I was just like, yeah, it really hit everybody.”1:02:03Mar 14, 2026
- A Mother's PainHe recounts the moment his mother's grief became palpable, expressing her belief that she should have gone first.“It should be me. It's not you.”1:02:56Mar 14, 2026
- Understanding DemonsHe discusses the universal nature of personal struggles and how everyone has their own battles.“Show me a person that doesn't have demons or flaws and it doesn't exist.”1:05:53Mar 14, 2026





