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The biggest drug on earth is not
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cocaine. It's not fentanyl. It's not
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dope. It's problems. Cuz the deepest
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fear everybody has is they're not
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enough. And our deeper fear is if we're
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not enough, we won't be loved. I've
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never met a human being. I've worked
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with kings, queens, winners of
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everything you can imagine. There's some
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point in which you might feel for
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someone you care about most that you're
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not smart enough, young enough, old
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enough, pretty enough, funny enough,
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rich enough, playful enough, something
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enough. And it is the worst feeling on
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earth. To feel like you are unloved and
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worthless is internal death. So people
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come up with a story. It's just because
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I have, you know, um I have this
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dyslexia. That's why. But that's not why
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they're feeling what they're feeling
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right now. It's because they're fearful.
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And so if you have a big problem, that's
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why I'm not where I want to be. It's not
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that I'm not enough and not worthy of
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love. And so people use problem as a way
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to connect. We all must grow. When you
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grow, you feel alive. And if you don't
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grow, you start to die inside. And this
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isn't my rule. Everything in the
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universe grows or dies. As you well
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know, this is the law of the universe.
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If your relationship's not growing, it's
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dying. Don't yourself. If your
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business is not growing, you're a
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businessman. You know it is not growing.
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It is dying. You better do something
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now. Right? But we grow so we have
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something finally to give.
