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So if I ask someone those 10 questions,
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they're going to like me
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>> probably. Yeah. More than if you didn't
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ask the questions, you actually go back
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and forth and ask each other these
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questions. So the first one is, what are
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you excited about lately? Next is, what
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is something you're good at but don't
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like doing? What's something you're bad
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at but love to do? Is there something
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you'd like to learn more about? Is there
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something you'd like to learn how to do?
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What can we celebrate about you? Has
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someone made you laugh recently? What's
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something cute your kid, friend, pet, or
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partner has been doing? Did you grow up
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in a city? And have you fallen in love
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with any new music, books, movies, shows
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lately? It's just 10 questions that are
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of this flavor that many people, but I
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suspect lots of men don't ask that are a
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great starting point. It's just the
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first turn, right? You have to actually
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listen to what the person says and ask
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follow-up questions to really deepen the
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conversation and move up that topic
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pyramid. But the key is not just asking
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that question, but actually asking
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follow-up questions about like, why do
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you connect with that show? What do you
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see in the main character? Do you see
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anything from the main character that
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you see in yourself?