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ASK THESE 10 QUESTIONS TO BECOME LIKEABLE

December 16, 202501:07
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So if I ask someone those 10 questions,
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they're going to like me
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>> probably. Yeah. More than if you didn't
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ask the questions, you actually go back
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and forth and ask each other these
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questions. So the first one is, what are
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you excited about lately? Next is, what
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is something you're good at but don't
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like doing? What's something you're bad
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at but love to do? Is there something
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you'd like to learn more about? Is there
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something you'd like to learn how to do?
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What can we celebrate about you? Has
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someone made you laugh recently? What's
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something cute your kid, friend, pet, or
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partner has been doing? Did you grow up
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in a city? And have you fallen in love
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with any new music, books, movies, shows
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lately? It's just 10 questions that are
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of this flavor that many people, but I
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suspect lots of men don't ask that are a
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great starting point. It's just the
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first turn, right? You have to actually
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listen to what the person says and ask
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follow-up questions to really deepen the
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conversation and move up that topic
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pyramid. But the key is not just asking
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that question, but actually asking
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follow-up questions about like, why do
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you connect with that show? What do you
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see in the main character? Do you see
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anything from the main character that
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you see in yourself?

Podspun Insights

In this episode, the conversation takes a delightful turn as the host introduces a set of ten thought-provoking questions designed to spark deeper connections between people. Each question, from what excites you lately to what you’d like to learn, serves as a gateway to more meaningful dialogue. The host emphasizes the importance of not just asking these questions but also engaging with follow-ups that peel back layers of understanding. The discussion highlights how these inquiries can foster genuine connections, especially among men who might shy away from such introspective conversations. Listeners are encouraged to embrace these prompts in their own interactions, making the episode a practical guide to enriching relationships.

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Episode Highlights

  • The Power of Questions
    Asking the right questions can deepen conversations and strengthen connections.
    “It's just 10 questions that are a great starting point.”
    @ 00m 38s
    December 16, 2025

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Key Moments

  • Starting Point00:38
  • Deepening Conversations00:46
  • Listening Skills00:46