World Leading Sex Therapist: How To Avoid Having Bad Sex: Kate Moyle | E73
- Mar 21, 2021
- 1:38:33
- Full Episode
This weeks episode entitled 'World Leading Sex Therapist - How To Avoid Having Bad Sex' topics:
0:00 Intro 01:34 My sex partner did not like sex 16:51 How common is low libido? And what are the causes? 19:46 How do we keep our sex lives exciting and interesting? 30:56 What is asexual? 35:10 What are the motivations for sex? 42:19 Who are your clients seeking advice? 45:24 Polygamy 46:59 What are the most common misconceptions about the opposite sex 51:41 How many times a week should we be having sex 56:27 Practicalities of sex 01:02:57 How to give constructive feedback about sex? 01:10:31 Is falling out of attraction with your partner normal 01:14:20 Marriage 01:20:38 What is the single biggest killer of relationships? 01:28:25 How good are you at implementing the things you know? 01:32:49 What are the principles for a great sexual relationship?
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Brief Summary
Sexual anxiety and unrealistic expectations are major relationship killers; communication is key to maintaining intimacy and excitement.
Key points
- Vulnerability in Relationships. The host shares personal stories of vulnerability and regret in past relationships.
- Communication Challenges. The discussion emphasizes the difficulty of communicating about sexual issues in relationships.
- Learning About Sex from Porn. A surprising analogy highlights the misconceptions about learning sex from pornography.
- Keeping Sex Fresh. A simple tip to enhance sexual experiences: change one thing every time.
- The Purpose of Sex. Exploring the motivations behind sexual experiences reveals they often go beyond procreation.
- The Stigma of Seeking Help. Why do we hesitate to seek help for sexual issues?
Episode highlights
- Vulnerability in RelationshipsThe host shares personal stories of vulnerability and regret in past relationships.“I do regret breaking up with her because I did so maybe too flippantly.”3:39Mar 21, 2021
- Communication ChallengesThe discussion emphasizes the difficulty of communicating about sexual issues in relationships.“The hardest person to talk to about sex is the person we're having it with.”10:49Mar 21, 2021
- Learning About Sex from PornA surprising analogy highlights the misconceptions about learning sex from pornography.“Learning about sex from porn is like learning to drive from Fast and Furious.”21:55Mar 21, 2021
- Keeping Sex FreshA simple tip to enhance sexual experiences: change one thing every time.“Change one thing every time to keep sex fresh and exciting.”26:59Mar 21, 2021
- The Purpose of SexExploring the motivations behind sexual experiences reveals they often go beyond procreation.“The majority of reasons people have sex are not about procreation.”37:43Mar 21, 2021
- The Stigma of Seeking HelpWhy do we hesitate to seek help for sexual issues?“Why do we feel embarrassed about accessing help for sexual issues?”44:03Mar 21, 2021
- Understanding Sexual CompatibilityExploring the importance of physical compatibility in sexual relationships.“There's a physical compatibility to sex as well as desire compatibility.”58:06Mar 21, 2021
- Navigating Sexual CommunicationHow to approach sensitive topics about sex with your partner.“Leading with a positive affirmation can help in discussing sexual preferences.”1:03:44Mar 21, 2021
