Lilly Singh: My Deepest Insecurities Led To My Greatest Achievements | E136
- Apr 20, 2022
- 1:29:52
- Full Episode
This is also the first instalment of The Diary of a CEO: USA. Over the coming weeks, you will get to see some incredible conversations with guests the likes of which we’ve never seen before. Bringing more value, more incredible stories, and more world-beating expertise.
Lilly Singh is one of the biggest influencers on the planet who was the first woman of colour to have a syndicated talk show on network television, but after it was abruptly cancelled she’s had to start from scratch on what she wants to do and where she’s going.
0:00 Intro 01:27 Early Years - Having to prove I was worthy 07:00 The reason for starting on Youtube 13:14 What helps you when you’re going through pain 16:38 The skill that made you different 19:58 Why are you wired to be disrupted? 26:03 Do you think you are enough? 31:15 Advice when stuck at a crossroads 35:50 Your late-night talk show 42:50 The impact criticism had on you 53:36 What happened after the show got cancelled? 01:01:52 What makes up the foundation of your life? 01:04:25 Panic attacks, meditation, and breath works 01:08:41 Struggling to form friendships 01:15:11 What does success mean to you? 01:16:31 Relationships and expectations 01:20:41 What's the hardest question you could be asked? 01:27:10 Our last guest's question
Lilly: https://www.instagram.com/lilly/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCfm4y4rHF5HGrSr-qbvOwOg
Lilly’s book: https://www.amazon.com/Be-Triangle-Being-Getting-Shape/
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Brief Summary
Lilly Singh discusses her journey from YouTube to late-night TV, identity struggles, and the importance of self-acceptance and empathy.
Key points
- Lilly's Journey to Influence. Lilly Singh reflects on her desire for power and influence to prove others wrong.
- Perspective on Pain. Lilly reflects on how we perceive pain and struggle throughout life.
- The Power of Disruption. Lilly embraces her identity as a disruptor in her career and life.
- Realizing You're Enough. Understanding that you are enough can clarify your ambitions and priorities.
- The Cost of Relevancy. Holding onto past successes can hinder growth and creativity.
- Redefining Success. Success is now defined by enjoyment and passion, not just achievements.
Episode highlights
- Lilly's Journey to InfluenceLilly Singh reflects on her desire for power and influence to prove others wrong.“I wanted to prove that being a girl was worthy of celebration.”4:52Apr 20, 2022
- Perspective on PainLilly reflects on how we perceive pain and struggle throughout life.“The current crisis always feels like the fatal one until hindsight tells you otherwise.”14:54Apr 20, 2022
- The Power of DisruptionLilly embraces her identity as a disruptor in her career and life.“I am built to break systems and molds.”19:25Apr 20, 2022
- Realizing You're EnoughUnderstanding that you are enough can clarify your ambitions and priorities.“Knowing you're enough kills fake ambition.”27:58Apr 20, 2022
- The Cost of RelevancyHolding onto past successes can hinder growth and creativity.“You cannot expect to grow and also stay the same.”32:59Apr 20, 2022
- Redefining SuccessSuccess is now defined by enjoyment and passion, not just achievements.“I have to have fun right now or I'm not successful.”42:35Apr 20, 2022
- The Weight of ExpectationsBeing a minority in entertainment comes with unrealistic expectations and criticism.“So many people are counting on you to reflect their experience.”44:24Apr 20, 2022
- Clarity After CancellationThe cancellation of the show brought unexpected relief and clarity about personal goals.“I was rewarded with a lot of clarity in that moment.”55:12Apr 20, 2022





