Body Language Expert: Stop Using This, It’s Making People Dislike You, So Are These Subtle Mistakes!
- Dec 9, 2024
- 2:43:35
- Full Episode
Vanessa Van Edwards is the founder of ‘Science of People’, which gives people science-backed skills to improve communication and leadership. She is also the bestselling author of ‘Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People’ and ‘Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication'.
00:00 Intro 02:13 The Crucial Role of Cues for Success 03:45 I'm a Recovered Awkward Person 05:36 What's an Ambivert 07:28 One Word Can Change the Way People Think 09:39 The Most Fundamental Skill to Invest In 12:41 The Resting B*tch Face Effect 16:01 Do Not Fake Smile! 18:29 The 97 Cues to Be Warm & Competent 21:44 The Formula to a Perfect Conversation 24:37 Science Reveals Why Some People Are Extremely Popular 28:34 Message People Telling Them This... 33:22 The Luck Experiment 35:05 Being Around Successful People Is Contagious 41:55 The Importance of Hand Gestures 43:38 Hand Tricks to Be Liked 54:15 The Scientific Formula to Be More Charismatic 56:47 The Danger Zone of Being Too Warm or Competent 58:45 The Power Cues 1:07:55 How to Spot a Liar 1:15:23 If You've Been Told You're Intimidating, Do This 1:18:37 Don't Let Anyone Use This With You 1:21:45 The 6 Questions to Connect With Someone 1:34:20 Leaning Too Much Towards Someone... 1:39:03 How to Greet Someone 1:49:42 How to Master Messaging 1:54:40 Personal Branding 1:59:01 Improve Your Dating Life With These Tips 2:04:27 Body Language and Brain Connection 2:06:33 Are You Awkward? Watch This 2:10:14 How to Get Someone to Approach You 2:15:08 How to Make Friends as an Adult 2:18:57 AirPods Are Killing Friendships 2:22:16 Ads 2:24:08 How to Spot a Liar 2:30:05 Toxic Relationships 2:32:34 How to Start a Conversation With a Stranger 2:37:00 How to Get Started With All This Knowledge
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Brief Summary
Vanessa Van Edwards discusses body language and cues to enhance social skills and confidence.
Key points
- Transforming Awkwardness. Vanessa van Edwards shares how she helps 400,000 students conquer awkwardness and improve communication.
- The Awkward Journey. Navigating social interactions can be overwhelming, especially for those who feel awkward.
- Perception of Luck. How you perceive your luck can influence the opportunities you see.
- Gestures Matter. Hand gestures significantly impact how we are perceived and can enhance charisma.
- Eye Contact as a Power Move. Making eye contact at the end of sentences can enhance your authority. 'Highly competent people make eye contact specifically at the end of their sentences.'
- The Power of Nodding. Learn how a simple hand movement can manipulate agreement.
Episode highlights
- Transforming AwkwardnessVanessa van Edwards shares how she helps 400,000 students conquer awkwardness and improve communication.“I used to believe that Charisma was genetic.”3:56Dec 9, 2024
- The Awkward JourneyNavigating social interactions can be overwhelming, especially for those who feel awkward.“I thought it was all my fault.”21:07Dec 9, 2024
- Perception of LuckHow you perceive your luck can influence the opportunities you see.“If you think of yourself as unlucky, you miss opportunities.”34:17Dec 9, 2024
- Gestures MatterHand gestures significantly impact how we are perceived and can enhance charisma.“Hands show intention; they are windows into the soul.”42:22Dec 9, 2024
- Eye Contact as a Power MoveMaking eye contact at the end of sentences can enhance your authority. 'Highly competent people make eye contact specifically at the end of their sentences.'“Highly competent people make eye contact specifically at the end of their sentences.”1:03:03Dec 9, 2024
- The Power of NoddingLearn how a simple hand movement can manipulate agreement.“It's a secret way to get someone to secretly agree with you.”1:19:49Dec 9, 2024
- Self-Reflection Through CharactersDiscover how characters reflect our self-perception with a thought-provoking question.“What book, movie, or TV character is most like you?”1:27:50Dec 9, 2024
- The Art of Non-Verbal CommunicationLearn how to bridge intimacy through non-verbal cues and small gestures.“You can even touch without touching.”1:38:14Dec 9, 2024





