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WHY SEX ISN'T ENJOYABLE FOR YOU

June 23, 2026 / 01:57

This episode discusses women's sexual health, orgasm education, and the importance of access to medications. Dr. Jennifer Gunter, a urologist, emphasizes the need for better sexual education and awareness of women's anatomy.

Dr. Gunter explains how a specific cream can enhance sexual experiences and prevent urinary tract infections, yet many women are not receiving prescriptions for it. She expresses frustration over the lack of information available to women regarding their sexual health.

She highlights the misconception that orgasm primarily comes from penetration, noting that many women do not know how to achieve orgasm through clitoral stimulation. Dr. Gunter stresses the importance of education in improving women's sexual satisfaction.

The conversation also touches on men's misconceptions about sexual performance and how these do not align with women's needs for pleasure and satisfaction in relationships.

Overall, the episode advocates for better sexual education and awareness to enhance women's health and sexual experiences.

TLDR

Dr. Jennifer Gunter discusses women's sexual health, orgasm education, and the need for better access to medications and information.

Episode

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You rub it inside the walls of the vagina, like that. >> And just rub it in like you would rub
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sunscreen on your face. And if you do that twice a week, it makes sex not painful and dry. It helps with arousal
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and orgasm. It's literally better than Viagra. And it's cheap. And I'm telling you all this as a urologist that this
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cream can also help prevent death from urinary tract infections. But more than 75% of people in large database
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collections are not getting prescriptions for this. And so women are not getting access to generic
00:00:27
medications that could save their lives and also really improve quality of life.
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And so I am filled with rage because people are limiting their ability to have great sex, great health because
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they aren't having access to all the information that they could. For example, women are not orgasming as much
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as men. The data is very clear there. And women come to see me all the time as I'm a sex doctor. And they say, "I'm
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broken and you have to fix me. I'm not orgasming during sex." And I think the majority of problem is education. Women
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think that orgasm comes from penetration. But the clitoris is how most women orgasm. And yet most women do
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not know where their clitoris is. And in fact, the word clitoris today in 2026 does not exist in the checklist for what
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an OBGYN has to learn in their training. >> And as men, what are we getting wrong in
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heterosexual relationships when we're trying to arouse our partners? >> Well, men are constantly asking about
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they want their penises bigger, harder, straighter, girthier, lasting longer. But none of that has anything to do with
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how women experience pleasure and satisfaction in the bedroom. So that's [music] why I'm so loud about these
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things because no one is getting good sex ed. Because the basic information is not being shared. And we fundamentally
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don't give a crap about women's sexual health, about their menstrual cycles, pregnancy, menopause, hormones, pain
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with sex, libido. But we actually do have a lot of information that we are not using because everyone forgot to
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teach your doctor. >> So let's go through these one at a time. But just before we get into all of that,
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we've got some sex toys in front of us. >> This is going to be so [ __ ] good.

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Episode Highlights

  • The Power of a Cream
    A urologist reveals a cream that can enhance sexual health and prevent UTIs.
    “It's literally better than Viagra.”
    @ 00m 09s
    June 23, 2026
  • Women's Sexual Health Ignored
    A passionate plea about the lack of education on women's sexual health.
    “I'm filled with rage because people are limiting their ability to have great sex.”
    @ 00m 32s
    June 23, 2026
  • Misunderstanding Orgasm
    Many women believe orgasm comes from penetration, but it's often about the clitoris.
    “Women think that orgasm comes from penetration.”
    @ 00m 51s
    June 23, 2026
  • Clitoris Not Taught
    The clitoris is not included in OBGYN training, highlighting a major gap in education.
    “The word clitoris today in 2026 does not exist in the checklist for OBGYN training.”
    @ 01m 06s
    June 23, 2026
  • Men's Misconceptions
    Men often focus on penis size rather than understanding women's pleasure needs.
    “None of that has anything to do with how women experience pleasure.”
    @ 01m 27s
    June 23, 2026

Episode Quotes

  • It's literally better than Viagra.
    WHY SEX ISN'T ENJOYABLE FOR YOU
  • I'm filled with rage because people are limiting their ability to have great sex.
    WHY SEX ISN'T ENJOYABLE FOR YOU
  • Women think that orgasm comes from penetration.
    WHY SEX ISN'T ENJOYABLE FOR YOU
  • The word clitoris today in 2026 does not exist in the checklist for OBGYN training.
    WHY SEX ISN'T ENJOYABLE FOR YOU
  • None of that has anything to do with how women experience pleasure.
    WHY SEX ISN'T ENJOYABLE FOR YOU

Key Moments

  • Urologist's Rage00:32
  • Orgasm Misconceptions00:51
  • Education Gap01:06
  • Pleasure Misunderstood01:27