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If you want to know the secret if somebody's being fake with you, there's
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really three things that you got to know. Number one, it's what I call bestie bombing. What they're doing is
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it's, "Oh my gosh, I just we're we're literally the same person. Oh, I think
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we're best friends." And it's we just met. Like I just we I talk we're just
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standing next to each other at the same party and they're like, "Oh, we've got
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to go. Oh my gosh, we you're my best. You're my soulmate." And it's like they
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they give way too much right out of the gate of how much they love you. It's a
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form of insecurity. It's it's a form because if it would be manipulation if
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they actually meant it, but they don't. Two is the over compliments. We all have this sixth
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sense to be able to sniff out if that's real or not. Like nobody needs to teach
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you if it's a fake laugh or not or they overcomplent something. They compliment
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your shoes. I mean, and then they have really they go, "Oh my gosh, I I I love
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that outfit." and then all of a sudden they've turned their head. You know what
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I mean? They're not really truly engaged in what it is. It's just it's it's a
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ritual. The third that you have to watch out for are the people that aren't willing to actually have an interest in
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you. You're networking in a big room and somebody's looking at you and all of a
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sudden they're looking at the room like they're they're looking for who they're
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going to talk to next and you've lost them. And so it's like why? We're both
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just kind of here saying things. are going to slow down our words so it's not
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as awkward. And you say things like, "Yeah, that's that's crazy." Yeah. And
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like while you're both looking for somebody else to talk to. But that's what happens. You realize you stay you
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come out of focus and they they're looking for the next person.