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Do you think if you choose hard today,
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you usually get easy tomorrow?
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>> In many contexts, yes. So, for example,
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my think of I was thinking of my father.
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My father would never have he would
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avoid conflict at all costs. He would
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avoid the difficult conversation.
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And when I zoom out over the the decades
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of his life and marriage, I go, "Man,
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that cost you big time."
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>> You caught up with him.
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>> Oh my god.
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And me inverting that in my own life and
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continually just confronting it head on
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has had the complete opposite effect.
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You never,
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>> you know, like when you were talking
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about being a young man and making that
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decision cuz you had that voice in your
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head saying law might not be my thing
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and you made that phone call to your
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father.
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>> Yeah.
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>> Like what what I hear you did is like
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you
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>> realigned yourself to you. Now, if you
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hadn't made that call and you' let a
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couple more of those bad habits, you
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would have got to 40 and been like, "Who
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the [ __ ] is this guy? What is this
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life?" You would have looked around and
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said, "Who is she? Who are they? What is
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this job?"
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>> Right?
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>> And that's that course correction that I
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think it requires you to do this the
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slightly harder thing today. What do you
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think?
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>> I agree with you. That's the that's the
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resistance. Look,
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I still got to learn how to take a
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vacation
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because, you know, we there's sometimes
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when the wind's at our back
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and we've earned it.
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>> Mhm.
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>> There's sometimes when it's easy street
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and it's like,
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yeah, don't interrupt this, man. This is
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a sweet ass song. Trust that the hill's
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coming. Don't be so impressed with this.
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What I have to do is don't fall into
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when things are going really well. I go,
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"Ah, there it is. That's the mean."
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No, it's not. Not with any ambition.
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It's not or not with life happening.
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It's not
