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A Man Has To Swipe 2 MILLION Times For A Date?

July 08, 2025 / 01:26

This episode discusses online dating challenges, focusing on a guest's experience with swiping on dating apps. Key topics include the effectiveness of dating apps, the importance of offline social interactions, and self-reflection in dating.

The guest shares their experience of swiping over 2 million times, resulting in only one date. The conversation highlights the inefficacy of relying solely on apps for relationships.

Advice is given on the importance of engaging in offline activities and building friendships to enhance dating prospects. The discussion emphasizes the need for individuals to reassess their approach to dating.

The episode critiques the relationship between users and dating apps, suggesting that the real issue lies in personal habits rather than the apps themselves.

Overall, the conversation aims to provide honest advice for those struggling with online dating, encouraging a shift in focus from app usage to real-life interactions.

TLDR

A guest shares struggles with online dating, emphasizing the need for offline connections and self-reflection.

Episode

1:26
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He swiped 2 million times. 2,58,000 times. He got 2,000 matches from that. Mhm. Which turned into 1,200 chats, which
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turned into one date. Such a system is failing a huge percentage of people. What's the honest advice that someone
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like him needs? I would not spend my time discussing what you're doing on the app. I would
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discuss what you're doing off the app. And if you ever are even off the app, the amount of hours of swiping that
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you've done, obviously this is not yielding anything. Why are you continuing? 5 years is an enormous
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amount of time in your life. I feel sad for you. Have you been with with your friends? Do you have friends? Have your
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friends introduced you to people? Have you gone to places where you are more likely to meet people? If you're trying
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to park in a space that you can't get in at some point, don't you go look for another space? So this is not an
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indictment of the app. This is not an indictment of disperses. This is an indictment of the relationship between
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us and something that we have been told is going to deliver to us. And when it doesn't deliver, we'd rather humiliate
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ourselves. A sense of what's the matter here? Why is this not happening? What's wrong with it or what's wrong with me?
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It's a statement of this thing doesn't work for me and men don't get answered on the app. And you get this whole
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plight.

Episode Highlights

  • The Swiping Struggle
    After swiping 2 million times, he only got one date. Is it worth it?
    “5 years is an enormous amount of time in your life.”
    @ 00m 35s
    July 08, 2025

Episode Quotes

  • Why are you continuing?
    A Man Has To Swipe 2 MILLION Times For A Date?
  • This is not an indictment of the app.
    A Man Has To Swipe 2 MILLION Times For A Date?
  • What's wrong with it or what's wrong with me?
    A Man Has To Swipe 2 MILLION Times For A Date?

Key Moments

  • Dating App Reality00:12
  • Self-Reflection01:06
  • The Plight of Men01:21