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[Music] You are the single most requested guest. And let me tell you, this has not been
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easy because we went to some hard places. But I don't think we'll ever talk about anything more important than
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this. Cuz it's not fear that gets in the way of us being brave with our lives and
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our work. It's the armor that we reach for to self-protect when we're afraid. And the hardest work is being aware of
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what is my armor when I'm afraid. Is that automatic? Oh no. That's a train. And what about vulnerability? Like is
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vulnerability important? It is. if we want to be brave with our lives. But we were raised to believe
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that vulnerability is weakness. Like in my family, we were allowed anger. But sad was not an option. You needed to be
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tough. And so when I get scared, when I feel anxious, disappointed, I'm just angry. And so when you're raised without
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vulnerability, it'll put you in jeopardy. Like you want to know what vulnerability is? Joy. Joy is so
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vulnerable that people choose to live disappointed rather than to get excited about something and risk getting sucker
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punched by disappointment. Like there is no courage without vulnerability because
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courage is the willingness to show up and be allin when you cannot predict the outcome.
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Wow, I've never thought about that before. But you can develop skills. Remember four steps to courage.
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Yes. We've taken 165,000 people through this work. That included how to build trust
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and I've heard about your marble jar theory. Could you explain to me what your marble jar look how excited you
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are. I know. So this is how we teach trust to the most senior leaders in Fortune 100
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companies. It's awesome.