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ASK THESE 10 QUESTIONS TO BECOME LIKEABLE

December 16, 2025 / 01:07

This episode discusses effective conversation starters, focusing on ten specific questions that can enhance interpersonal connections. Topics include the importance of follow-up questions and active listening.

The host shares a list of ten questions designed to foster deeper conversations, such as asking about recent excitements, skills, and personal interests. The first question is about what someone is excited about lately.

Follow-up questions are emphasized as crucial for understanding the other person's perspective. The host encourages listeners to engage meaningfully by asking why they connect with certain shows or characters.

The conversation highlights that many people, particularly men, may not typically ask these types of questions, making them valuable tools for building rapport.

Overall, the episode aims to improve social interactions by suggesting practical ways to engage in more meaningful dialogue.

TLDR

The episode shares ten questions to improve conversations and emphasizes the importance of follow-up questions.

Episode

1:07

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So if I ask someone those 10 questions, they're going to like me >> probably. Yeah. More than if you didn't

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ask the questions, you actually go back and forth and ask each other these questions. So the first one is, what are

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you excited about lately? Next is, what is something you're good at but don't

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like doing? What's something you're bad at but love to do? Is there something

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you'd like to learn more about? Is there something you'd like to learn how to do?

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What can we celebrate about you? Has someone made you laugh recently? What's

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something cute your kid, friend, pet, or partner has been doing? Did you grow up

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in a city? And have you fallen in love with any new music, books, movies, shows lately? It's just 10 questions that are

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of this flavor that many people, but I suspect lots of men don't ask that are a

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great starting point. It's just the first turn, right? You have to actually listen to what the person says and ask

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follow-up questions to really deepen the conversation and move up that topic pyramid. But the key is not just asking

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that question, but actually asking follow-up questions about like, why do you connect with that show? What do you

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see in the main character? Do you see anything from the main character that you see in yourself?

Episode Highlights

The Power of Questions
Asking the right questions can deepen conversations and connections.
“It's just 10 questions that are a great starting point.”
@ 00m 32s
December 16, 2025

Episode Quotes

What can we celebrate about you?
ASK THESE 10 QUESTIONS TO BECOME LIKEABLE
You have to actually listen to what the person says.
ASK THESE 10 QUESTIONS TO BECOME LIKEABLE
Do you see anything from the main character that you see in yourself?
ASK THESE 10 QUESTIONS TO BECOME LIKEABLE

Key Moments

Starting Point00:34
Deepening Conversations00:44
Self-Reflection01:00