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that's it i was like my career is over i had like no confidence or no i was like
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a shell of like my former self you don't often get to hear about the real human implications of cancer culture you don't
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get to hear how it feels for the recipient you don't get to see how it plays out in the moment my next
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guest he can tell you jack maynard was caught in the middle of a well-known well-documented british council culture
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moment when something that he had said almost 10 years earlier resurfaced while he was at the peak of
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his powers while he was fulfilling his dream while he was in the middle of filming i'm a celebrity get me out of here a
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couple of years ago and the events that would unfold following that council culture moment would change him
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forever ptsd anxiety depression shame he even remarked today that there was a high chance he wasn't going to make it to this podcast because some of those symptoms still remain
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i guess the question is how do you pick yourself up from something like that how do those moments feel what actually
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happens when you're told while you're in the middle of the jungle in australia filming a show
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that the outside world has turned against you these are the things you can only learn
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from hearing the truth from someone that's been through those situations so without further ado my name is
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stephen bartlett and this is the diver ceo i hope nobody's listening but if you are
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then please keep this to yourself so jack um i did a lot of research on you and your your background what you're into
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the work you do and your sort of professional endeavors are quite eclectic that you know it's hard to pin down
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whether you consider yourself to be a youtuber now yeah or a dj yeah or something else so i wanted to despite
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all the research i wanted to ask you like i'm not a fan of like labeling oneself how do you how do you classify yourself
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i still do describe myself as a youtuber like to everyone on me i kind of say oh yeah you know i do
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youtube and you still to this day get a look of like which mean you do youtube that's your job but i think
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like you said there's kind of a collective of things i do and when i kind of break it down to everything i do they yeah like kind
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of fully understand now like very recently as well people have only just started to
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understand like what it actually is in that youtube and just social media itself can be
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obviously a job so yeah i still go for youtube that's why you don't post as much as you used to on
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youtube no mainly because literally at the beginning of last year i decided right i want to go kind of bigger productions a lot like a lot of the music videos i've done and
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things like that and i just want to kind of get out there like other i kind of really want to just get loads of like celebrities and like reality tv
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stars on my channel and do loads of fun things in places like you know all over the world with them and then
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obviously kind of covert came in because i was just at a point where i was so like honestly like sick to death of
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filming videos at home like in my flight you know i was honestly just beyond board and i had so many other
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things i was doing as well you have i think you i think i saw four videos this not many is it considering i was uploading once or twice a week yeah before but
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yeah like i said i really just kind of couldn't face doing those kind of videos and
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for me youtube's always been something i enjoy so much and my best videos are honestly the videos i've kind of enjoyed
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making the most what's the like the you know people will look at youtubers especially especially young kids and
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they think oh god i'd love to be a youtuber i think i read a report that said um one of the especially in the the
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western world in the uk one of the jobs that people aspire to young kids aspire to the most gen z
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is to become a youtuber yeah but i'm sure and i know because i've spoken to a lot of youtubers that
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there's a lot of um adverse side effects of the job yeah definitely i think well
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the first thing is people think it's obviously like people do think it's easy 100 you know you get to sit around
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making silly videos in their eyes i think if you ask you know 100 people probably 80 of them
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would probably say are they just going to sit around making like stupid videos they don't see a lot of the stuff kind of that goes into it
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but it's definitely not easy you know there's no guarantee that you're going to do well on it you have no idea if you do
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well on it how long that will last and all like you know there's all those kind of things and it's just
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a lot of pressure because it's not like uh cool i know i'm gonna do these every week i'm gonna
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get paid like x amount this is gonna be my job this could be my career like you're on a salary site
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no you could you know you could put all your time and effort into it and maybe like money into certain things you're trying to do and
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if it doesn't pay off it's definitely and the algorithm changes yeah well things are changing on
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it constantly you've got to really like kind of try and keep up yeah exactly it's anxious yeah
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you can have a month where you do really bad or you upload a certain video that you're really proud of and it does really bad and you're just like
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oh god why is that and then you kind of fall back to your safety net of things that you know maybe will do well but you don't want to
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do those anymore and it's just like a yeah it's very hard and i think it does affect people in like many different ways some people kind of love that and they love the challenge you want to keep on going
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which is amazing but yeah like i said there are people who want to do this one thing which can do incredibly well and then it
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switches and it suddenly doesn't do well anymore not through any fault of their own but just because youtube have kind of
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decided yeah we want to see more stuff like this and they can push all that kind of content in yeah people
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can get incredibly bad like mental for me and i think people are very vocal about that now as well which is which is amazing so
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it's really good but i think yeah especially obviously all youtubers are pretty much like self-employed so
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if you are doing very well and then one minute it drops and that's it i remember frankie cacosa said yeah do
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you know frankie yeah he's from brighton yeah frankie said to me one day i'm sure he won't mind me saying this that um obviously after all the
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fame he had a fairly young age x factor he did a couple of other shows and then the money dried up yeah and he
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was like well i can't go and work at [ __ ] tesco now because yeah i just like an ego still
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yeah it has the money but the ego is kind of still there in a way i see that with youtubers a lot i think
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i think they because they've they've been in the public spotlight and they've built fame yeah you know or notoriety in whatever
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way they then feel like they they can't go and have a normal life because yeah fame your
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your family is fairly famous i'd say yeah relatively yeah yeah i heard your your grandpa your
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grandparent your granddad your dad were also singers yeah so my grandad i i don't know like too much about it so i know my dad
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appreciated like west end when he was younger kind of like a kid but you might still be making that up there you know give
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him up i have no evidence of this i used to be a football player but they did that and then yeah my
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granddad as well was like a kind of like stage singer and things like that um so i think
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that's probably where my brother gets it from that's for sure and i guess he's had like the most fame out of all of us
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um but yeah he kind of started on he's the more you know traditional like famous like
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pop star whatever you want to call it but he kind of yeah the same as me side on youtube and he's kind of like back to
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that now as well has kind of gone full circle so he's kind of back on there and how was that when when he i've
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got two brothers i know people ask you a lot and i've seen them ask you a million times like are you jealous of your brother or like whatever but um
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how was that when he started to get a little bit more well-known um and you're a younger
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brother yeah he's two years older than me so i've got two older brothers as well so i can relate okay but i can't relate to them being
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famous yeah to be honest it was there like honestly was no jealousy because i think one i was so young like
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i was literally sitting in school just finishing school like leaving school he was like kind of yeah relatively
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famous got signed all of this so he's doing that really well great money coming in like moved to london all these things so it was just
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like so cool feels like so cool to just be around all of that stuff and just experience it all with him and it was kind of more again i said not jealousy but i like saw i just saw that
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opportunity there i was like there must be something yeah i can do even if it's like working for my brother
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somehow doing something god knows what it would have been but like i knew i could have
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kind of figured something out and just conveniently my brother like basically broke up with
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his girlfriend she moved out and he was like oh do you want to come and live in london with me
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i was like yes yes obviously i wouldn't do that absolutely so i made a deal with my brother because he kind of knew he was like
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i was always arming and hiring about starting youtube he was like well let's make a deal this
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was the best deal kind of much ever made in my life in a way because i'll let you live in london with me rent free but you have to like you know
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promise your maker and put out a youtube video once a week every week just why did he say that to
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you because i think he like it just needed he needed to like incentive for me that i am like actively like working and i'm at
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the same time i'm still trying to find other work in london but it's like he wanted me to live with him like he did he did he kind of like needed me to live with him in a way
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but at the same time yeah he didn't want me just living there rent-free sure living it up doing nothing
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so yeah it was like a pretty good deal and very fortunately for me i couldn't really pinpoint why but yeah my youtube like took off really really fast after about
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kind of two months of doing youtube i didn't really need to find a job anymore i was making like
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more than enough money to kind of carry on and luckily he was like really good friends with people
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like well and then so was i at this point like casper joe sugg all of these who were you know oh geez
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oh geez huge at this time so we all just kind of started filming you know every video like all together
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is like a big group and then it just like yeah really like blew up from there so the golden days lucky yeah definitely
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definitely the golden days that's for sure bro yeah it was everyone talks about those moments like alfie does the same and
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i know josh i've met him a few times yeah it's fair to say it was so much easier then like i could sit at home and film some
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weird game with my friends and get like three million views in like a week just off that one video
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so it was just like wow now if i did that it wouldn't yeah i wouldn't do the same so this is when i got to the point where i was like right i wanna
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do like something different from all the others i don't wanna come up the next youtube idea i kind of wanna
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break ground in terms of like tv and and youtube tv yeah your first experience on tv mainstream tv was that your celeb yeah how did you
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feel you get the phone call um i didn't think it was and i honestly did not think i was gonna get on it
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whatsoever but i was like let's definitely go to that meeting you know the whole thing of let's see so they can see my face and they're like
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we'd love to just chat to you about something you're going to need just called me in flight a meeting and i don't know what it was that day i
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remember leaving the meeting thinking either they're just like really nice and good at acting all that one like so well
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um i just like kind of felt like i was on fire that day i got in there like nothing to lose i was like i'm not gonna get it but this will
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be you know i was more thinking cool maybe next year then the next one then i like will get
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on if i carry on and do all this kind of stuff was it an audition it wasn't an audition it was just a meeting you met like the
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like the casting people i guess and i know a few of my friends had also met them i think like casper and stuff
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had also met them it was like two months i just had the meeting i never told anyone for some reason like again like i said because i just
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didn't think it was gonna happen and then the boys oh yeah this like meeting as well and i was like oh oh well you went there then i was like
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we got told like a couple of weeks ago that uh you know it's not going to go any further but thanks for coming in and i was like oh i haven't got that called i didn't
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say i think i'm pretty sure that hasn't happened unless my manager hasn't told me or something
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and literally it's like the next day they called oh we really want to meet jack again
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and i think i met them i can't really remember me this one was more just sort of like a
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kind of how it all goes if i do do it and literally like the next day they're like cool we want jack to do it
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can you do it i was like obviously obviously i can do it i was so scared though because i'm actually like
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terrified of bugs so i was so excited and i was like this is it could you you couldn't tell people for a while right no i couldn't obviously i did
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but i was just like i think i was like so scared i was like how the hell has this happened but the one
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thing i will say i didn't is and this is like bad obviously i did when i knew i was doing it but i never actually really
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watched the show before obviously i completely knew what it was but i didn't realize how big the show was
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i didn't realize at that time it was arguably the biggest show like in the country yeah between like
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that like kind of strictly things like they're all like battling out for number one so yeah i just kind of
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prepared myself for it all like i said i was i was feeling great going into it i was feeling like really good
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how much notice did you get between knowing where you were on the show i think i actually knew for like a while i must have known for like a
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couple of months i remember getting there and people like i found out literally like a couple of weeks ago really
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i was i knew for like ages because i said i guess they knew they were getting youtuber on like
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the end of the season before they're like oh next year we need a youtuber or something so you flew to australia yeah i'd done
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all my stuff i was feeling good flew to australia and i was the first one to get there so i was there for a week like no phone
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and i was an idiot because i said i was in the jungle people were telling me like oh did you not just bring another phone and like hide it and i was like
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obviously i was too scared to do that so i was like oh no they didn't do that yeah everyone did all the other guests
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they just had another phone with them somewhere in their suitcase so they were just like talking to a
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friend i guess whatever like no i didn't know who else was there at the time but when i was in the camp
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while they were in the jungle no no no they were like in the like kind of like the locked downy kind of thing
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before you were shot in a hotel room for a week and you didn't have to see anyone
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and you're like jet lagged as well but luckily the lady who's looking after me yeah she just i could not leave my room
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without her being next to me but she was really nice like we got along so well so i was really happy with that and every morning at breakfast she's
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like oh you know another one's got here and everyone's got here and she wouldn't tell me who it was but she'd give me clues and then i was like
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oh it was just annoying i was like i wonder how my social media is going again because that's just what my thing
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was like an everyday thing for me i posted every day i do all these things it was so weird not checking it i was like look let's make a deal i kind
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of deal with you there was no deal in my heart not my mom but you know we do me a favor
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just have to don't say anything you just go on my instagram and let me look at like what's been uploaded and
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let me just see it's going well and i think at the time i was averaging like 40 to like 60 000 likes
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so it's going like pretty well and then she's like yeah but you can't look at the comments or anything they might be saying who's in there i was like deal
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and i didn't actually look but i was looking to my photos and i was getting like 250 000 likes i was like
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what and that's when i realized how big the show was like that moment i was like oh my god just from being announced
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yeah like it's just gone crazy and i was thinking you know maybe they're making a bit of a
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like it probably is causing debate like oh this youtuber is he is celebrity is he not
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and i was like welcoming that because i was like let's get more people like talking about me he gets my name out there more
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so that's when i was like oh my god this is massive i need to win this i need to i need to win this what was
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your strategy because i've always thought if i ever got into a reality tv show i'd be like how do i not be a prick like for me it
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was just on it like to be honest at that point i had like no anxiety no stresses i was not scared at all i wasn't even nervous like
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nerves never hit me that was always one of my strengths i found so i was just yeah i was like confident
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not so much coming down i'm gonna win but i'm just so confident that you know i know i can go in there and come across like
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fine i know i know i won't go on there and be like a horrible person or whatever that's just not who i
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am so yeah i was confident and went in there first couple of days of filming with
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everyone just felt like great like so natural i guess i kind of knew what was going on a
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little bit because we got partnered up straight away and i was obviously the youngest i was the youngest person on there i was
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the youngest guy and then toff was the youngest girl then we got partnered it was like the people at home
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voted who was together so i just kind of saw where that was like going it was like cool so they're trying to
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do that kind of story so you're way there so i think to realize i think she's like
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a very smart girl i didn't ever play a character it was like play the most entertaining version of yourself the
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whole time i'm just like yeah kind of giving the people what they want and i knew she was doing the same
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as well like she read into the situation and i remember thinking i was like oh it's going to be it sounds really mean for the other people on there but i was like i have like a feeling maybe it's going to be
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between like me and her or i think we'll both do like really well if we keep as we're going just like little things
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like you realize we were just maybe saying the most like kind of jokes between everyone and like we were maybe the most like just
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having the most like like fun with it a lot of people were quite stressed and stuff but we're having like a lot of fun um
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and then yeah obviously it took like a massive turn i don't know what you're talking
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about if you don't that's fine congratulations yeah no one knows they're going to say what happened next um i mean i don't think i'm allowed to
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get too into in terms of like what happened but it's like in terms of i won't tell anyone cause i was there
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in the morning like super early i mean it must have been like 6 a.m so i'm like 5 6 a.m
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and there's like a rule like two people always need to be in the camp at one point and they were calling the you know the
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voices of god the person on the microphone was like calling people to go and do something like oh you need to go down there i realized i was on my own and i was like i swear this isn't allowed
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but i was like oh well maybe you know we've been in here a few days now they're like loosening up
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and whatever you know we're all adults here i'm sure i'll be fine type thing and say oh jack can you come to like the
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medical hut i was like okay and i had two things on my mind first being i had like a tick the day before right and so i was like oh maybe they're just checking in on that or
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this is like really depressing i was like oh here we go because they always in the show kind of pull someone to the side and they have like kind of like a
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secret mission-y type thing oh yeah they do in the show there's always someone who has to do something without anyone else knowing
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is this that oh maybe it's that so i was like going there like really quite excited intrigued and then i went
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in there just like all the producers and stuff and i was like this doesn't look very good i was like
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what i was taking out with like no explanation whatsoever i had no idea you weren't given a next i was not told
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for like four hours i got taken out and the hotel was like four hours away and pretty much until i got my phone which is the hotel which was that far away i didn't know anything they just said it
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was like oh something online i was like wow that was really oh that narrows it down like my whole life's online this is something
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something something i'm online i'm just thinking like absolutely like worst case scenarios of what could like possibly
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happen to a young guy on tv because i was thinking all kinds of things like it's weird like you're sitting there thinking of things i know i've never done in my life but i'm like oh god
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someone never said something yeah someone said something or made something up or i don't know you're just thinking the worst
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and you're panicking and then i mean it was like the weirdest you get back to your friend yeah i get
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back to the hotel room finally and i get my phone and my phone's like so crazy and then well i think like the
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next day i realized they'd actually like announce me being taken out before they took me out so like my i mean yeah everyone knew why
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i'd left but i didn't so i was seeing things on my phone i was like what the hell just like everyone was just like you
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know i hope you're okay like i can't believe this and all that and i'm like oh my god i don't know what to do i don't want to
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look at it i'm like kind of standing in my eyes closed like my phone's man [Music] i don't know what to do but two calls i
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need to make here i've got a call from my brother and then like a thousand from my manager
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so i call my manager and it's like my manager lawyers the ceo and everyone there's everyone of any importance in my life is on that call and yeah
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let's find out you know this is something that's been going on for like nearly a week in the papers and stuff of
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like tweets and everything like this and obviously i'm in there i don't have a phone so i have no control i can't say
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anything how are you feeling then i was like crying i was like oh i was like all over the
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place i was i was just so frustrated that's what it was i was so frustrated and like angry why
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i don't know i just felt this could have all some they were sitting on the like they
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were sitting on this for a while these tweets and stuff i just know it because it was deleted
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long before i went on this show like a year before i even went on the show they didn't exist anymore because they were awful it was stupid
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so i kind of got rid of them when i was kind of coming up on youtube as i wanted to first see my management made me do
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that like cool let's go for everything and lee anything you've said that is just idiotic and i was like we should
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definitely definitely do that so i knew i'd had twitter since i was like 15 14 or something so it didn't have to get to the point where i was taken out
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to then have to address it all i wish i could have before i even went on or after or or just after
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kind of late yeah like stuck with it and kind of adds more drama to it yeah it just made it look it made it
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look worse they said oh jack wanted to leave and address it and i do feel like i did need
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to address it as soon as possible don't get me wrong but i mean yeah i didn't say yeah i should i should leave here and and
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and address these things so just frustrating and yeah so i spoke to my management we kind of went over everything and like
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what happens now and it's like do you want us to come australia no i just want to come home
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then cause i was like although i knew i'd done like bad things how it was all handled like i had like
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hatred at that point at that moment in time anyway for the people that were involved like in the show that were like near me but i said i was so frustrated so i don't want to be here
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no way i want to come home then if this if this is it and i'm this is done then i'm coming home what is the point
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of me being here right yeah might as well come home so oh that was a range i was literally a
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flight in like three hours or something so i just like legged it so yeah paul yeah again i hadn't like looked at my
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phone i hadn't looked at anything and i opened whatsapp twitter instagram like nothing
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i still don't really know the extent of what's happened and then like yeah i called my brother he was like speechless as well but he could but again like he'd kind of been
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i said it's been going on for a week so he's been on the phone type my management and stuff for like you
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know days and days and days going through all of this kind of trying to help i don't know i don't know really what they were asking him or how
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he could kind of help but they were like you know they don't reach out to you don't say anything don't comment on anything don't do any of these things and he was like
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trying to help in whatever way he could did you worry that it might have an impact on him
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yeah when i spoke to him that was kind of one of my first thoughts to be honest i felt like
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i just like [ __ ] it for everyone like i said at this point i didn't really know and then we were talking about it he felt like you know this is
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my time to shine and all of this it could have been like life-changing if i'd have like let's
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just say i went on like one could have been yeah life-changing it was but not in the right way and then he was like have you looked online or anything and i was like no i don't want to
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i was like scared and he was like oh and i think you should like have a look i was like why he's like look just hang up
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have a look online and stuff go on twitter so it did when i went online and twitter
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to be honest like all i saw was like support for me because it was a thing of everyone knew what i said was very stupid very naive me like really bad
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but you know people also knew what i was gonna say people have kind of been there themselves people understood
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that okay yeah he was like a kid at the time i was actually like still in school and these things that happened
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it was before i had any kind of like following i didn't want you know the jack of today to be
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you know known as the jack of like when i was 15 i fully understand this is like one of the conversations i had with my mum i like accept when i was
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like 15 16 whatever i wasn't a very nice like kid i was pretty like bad i was like kind of a naughty kid i
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guess so people like understood that you're an idiot but at the same time we feel kind of like sorry that this has come back to like bite me on the ass you
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know like seven years later or something in that moment when you go online and you see everybody
00:26:24
like the world you know it must feel like the world is ending to some degree yeah what are your thoughts about your future in that moment and like oh
00:26:30
i thought that was it i was like that that's it i was like my career is over but i also wasn't thinking oh
00:26:36
what am i going to do but i was just like i don't care about what i'm going to do now but
00:26:42
i reckon that's it but then also when i saw online and like the amount of support i mean it was like ridiculous it's like
00:26:48
trending number one like twitter and all of these things but it was just like huge in the amount of
00:26:54
celebrities that were like in my corner or whatever you want to say it's like very overwhelming the weirdest one i saw was like katie hopkins i was like
00:27:04
she was like oh don't worry jack you're an angel compared to me because obviously she was on the show and like nothing
00:27:09
i was like that's not the person i don't know behind you there's like donald trump and katie hopkins
00:27:16
everyone was just very divided i think it was a to sum it up you know i apologize loads
00:27:22
of times on tv on my youtube channel in like newspapers and everything what's the silver lining oh my god i like to think i probably actually won't go anything won't go through anything as bad as that
00:27:35
ever again like the toll it kind of took on me like my mental health and everything but
00:27:42
that didn't kind of come until like a year after because i think like i said although i was very upset and
00:27:49
everything i kind of brushed it all under the rug type thing and just put on like a happy
00:27:54
face ah you know what whatever kind of time to get on with it but me it was like i've definitely learned
00:28:00
a lot from this like i know now what is and like absolutely isn't like acceptable and how to like deal with those things and like move forward and just how to face
00:28:11
horrendous situations like that and like i said hold my hand up and fully take like the blame obviously but it was just like did you pick ptsd i think i read that
00:28:23
somewhere yeah so it was like um so i've gone full gun hoe on huel and from having you know a little bit of an eye at the data it seems that i'm not the only one in
00:28:35
times when we know that we're going to get our lives back and we're potentially going to be having a great british summer rebound
00:28:42
there's a lot of people like me right now that are piling in to heal um i'm doing a few things i'm having
00:28:47
fuel i have at least two or three heals a day of the ready to drink berry flavor but i'm also doing meal prep and so now my diet
00:28:56
is fuel which is super convenient and it makes sure that i'm hitting a lot of the things in terms of like vitamins and
00:29:01
minerals that i'm not getting from my other food and my meals and for me that is the perfect combination
00:29:07
did you pick ptsd i think i read that somewhere yeah so it was like um so like i said i wasn't facing it for
00:29:15
ages and then like a year later or like 18 months later yeah i just started feeling like awful like really anxious like all the time and like just
00:29:27
super like depressed but at the time i didn't know it was that i just felt really weird i was like what the hell
00:29:33
is wrong with me i didn't even like go for like dinner with my friends without like wanting to like desperately leave
00:29:39
and i'm feeling like so uncomfortable like like my safe place was like at my home i just wanted to be at home became like a
00:29:44
bit of an introvert because i didn't want to do anything it massively affected my work in terms of i just couldn't
00:29:51
face going to any kind of like meetings or anything doing any kind of work it would like for me to do that i'd
00:29:56
literally have to like i was like going through hell just to do like just to go to like a meeting or
00:30:02
something i had no idea what it was i was very quiet about it i never like spoke to anyone which was obviously making it worse and
00:30:10
then how did it feel though in terms of it was like it felt like a lack of motivation yeah it was just like i didn't want to
00:30:17
do anything i didn't want to have to face doing those things i basically now looking back and it had like a complete loss of confidence i
00:30:24
kind of felt like i wasn't good enough to do any of these things i was like a shell of like my former self
00:30:29
like i said before i had like nothing i was so excited to do that show i was kind of going in there to win it and everything whereas now
00:30:35
at that point if they asked me oh my god even if i hadn't been on it type thing before myself at the same they asked me to probably have to be like i don't
00:30:41
think i can do it because i don't think i've had it in me to kind of push through
00:30:47
and then yeah eventually my friends kind of clocked on like okay something's really wrong and i think they kind of
00:30:54
knew it was my brother's been through it before like really badly before me it was like him and a few others and things kind of like yeah like oh
00:31:00
sat me down and yeah it's kind of like opened up to everyone what did they notice
00:31:07
i was just like not myself like i said i was like one of them one of the main ones i
00:31:13
remember was on my friend josh's birthday and i had this thing of like because i knew i would always want to
00:31:18
like not go and leave these like events or dinners or whatever i'd go early it's like 20 minutes early so i can kind of get there they sit at the table
00:31:28
and just like calm down type thing essentially i was having like an anxiety attack pretty much like once i got there when i was on the way so i get there and i kind of get past it and then
00:31:40
like get on with my night type thing and hopefully feel a bit better but most of the time i'd get there and
00:31:46
i'd leave before and i'd just text them some weird excuse oh i've got to do this
00:31:51
ah this has come up sorry i've got to go home or i'd pretend like i never went oh yeah no i'm just not feeling great not going
00:31:58
to come so they were just like what the hell is going on like and jack the jungle yeah no like no way i was like the
00:32:05
life of the party in a way kind of thing i was up for doing everything and anything you could like
00:32:11
couldn't stop me type thing but take me back to the intervention you said your friends had like yesterday and sat you
00:32:16
down your brother had messaged you yeah yeah so i you know kind of explained it uh all
00:32:21
of them again i still kept it like pretty close friends and my manager because she needed to understand i didn't want to have to keep lying basically i don't know i think because she's been in the industry i think she
00:32:33
probably knew what it was as well it's very common and that's why i realized when i spoke
00:32:38
to my friends because they were just like basically yeah like you know it's very like normal everyone like has it
00:32:44
because at the time i said i knew my brother had it before what's it just like anxiety like depression
00:32:52
like everything but i didn't i just didn't want to accept those things i didn't understand
00:32:59
i didn't i hadn't really done any research i didn't really understand when i spoke to my friends i then yeah understood what it was
00:33:05
and although everyone's is very different from different things and and it's caused by different things like different triggers or whatever
00:33:12
it's also like very much the same people deal with it in different ways of course but it is
00:33:17
it's like the same like feeling and overwhelming feeling and stuff so when they kind of explain that you know they've all had it and
00:33:24
my brother was like really good with it because i said he he'd had that anxiety like really bad he's probably still like
00:33:30
he still does i still do i don't you don't doesn't just disappear but you learn to to deal with it and yeah just having
00:33:38
that conversation it's like cliche as it sounds just talking to people about it made me feel
00:33:44
so much better like unexplainably better so uh and then yes and then there was just like kind of a gap between of like nothing just kind of same old probably doing a bit more work
00:33:56
but at the same time still wasn't feeling great but i think it had kind of like calmed down a bit and i'd figured
00:34:02
out little ways to deal with it and then yeah sas wanted me that was like what channel is that uh channel four channel four call you in there yeah yeah
00:34:13
i want jack to do you're up sas i hadn't done any tv since when you find out how do you feel
00:34:20
i was like terrified but i think i would have it anyway because like sas is a it's crazy
00:34:28
that is like the craziest show i mean correct me if i'm wrong but i'd probably say it's the hardest show there
00:34:34
is like it is the hardest show there is to do so i was just i remember thinking like why do i always get these like
00:34:41
really hard shows why can't i just go on like celeb juice or something like that so i'm gonna sit there for the
00:34:46
evening i was like okay what the hell am i going to do here because i just know in the back of my head i'm thinking i'm saying yes all these things i'm just trying to do i'm like yes why not and
00:34:58
you know they explained it to me as you know they were pretty black and white about it like this want this to be
00:35:03
like his big tv come back and all of this and i knew that was going to be um a massive part of my storyline i was like oh god because i know i'm going to say
00:35:15
yes to do this and i'm going to want to not do it i don't want to do it but you can't turn down something like this can't turn down a show that big so obviously i've said yes and i'm going
00:35:26
through with it and then yeah kind of gets the point where like my anxiety and everything and like my panic is like i mean the worse it's ever been i didn't
00:35:38
even want to leave my house and just yeah straight away my manager's like i think it's time to see
00:35:44
a therapist where was this in terms of the run-up to the show um where it got the worst it's ever been
00:35:50
i'd say like two months before the show started yes filmed in like november okay
00:35:56
it was like yeah pretty like september-ish it was like so bad so i was like yeah i think you're right
00:36:01
i probably i probably should i've never been to the therapist before so i was anxious about that in itself which was really weird
00:36:08
like speaking time i'm feeling like you wanna like feel like you're gonna want you want to
00:36:13
like die in this room because it's just so yeah i don't even know like what i was thinking at the time to be honest with
00:36:19
you but it was just horrible so yeah being therapist like three four times a week doing all this just trying to like figure it out before on the show and then she's just like yeah it sounds
00:36:32
like you've got like ptsd basically and i was like what other when i hear that i just think of
00:36:38
like the army yeah pretty much i was like yeah i think that's like quite dramatic
00:36:43
i was like i don't even feel like qualified to be labels or something like that because
00:36:49
i'm not getting like shot at somewhere like yeah yeah how then she just yeah like explained it to
00:36:54
me and one of my like worst things was basically it made me feel like physically ill like i always feel like i'd want to leave because it made me feel like i was like throw up or something like there and then i felt
00:37:05
like i was like holding it but it was like yeah really really bad like you can't imagine like how bad it was
00:37:12
and then the best thing that she did was she went this book it was called the idiot brain and it explains
00:37:19
how your body reacts to the feeling of like anxiety and like depression and let you know the whole fight or
00:37:25
flight type thing and it basically just completely broke it down as to why i feel everything i do
00:37:32
whilst it's happening and that like again like i said when i spoke to my friends it made me feel like oh just that one
00:37:38
thing yeah it was like the biggest way and that was it was the same kind of thing i was like now i understand why these things are
00:37:44
happening and it's not like what was the key thing you took from that book in terms of just like a basic principle it was
00:37:49
honestly this like the science behind it yeah it explained like the signals like your
00:37:56
brain sending out to like your stomach and stuff because it's like it's a you're in a sense of panic it's
00:38:01
like imagine you walk around you're about to get hit by a car and you had like loads of adrenaline type thing after just like that so it's
00:38:07
a massive sense of panic and your body wants to like get out of something get away from a
00:38:13
situation they use examples from like the caveman time so it's like your body is like sensing danger though there is none and
00:38:20
this is kind of a whole problem with it like nothing's really happening you're just scared of like nothing yeah you know
00:38:26
usually you do kind of get through it and you're it's like fine but past memories relating it to trauma situations right
00:38:31
yeah so just like yeah pretty much just like that's why it was like a ptsd thing for me because
00:38:37
i felt in a similar situation as when like the whole i'm a celeb thing happened really i said at the time i didn't even know if it was that but when she kind of broke it down to me
00:38:49
when do you think it will start and it just made so much sense for it to be because of that like it was all around work in like certain situations that all
00:38:56
similar to to then because i'd kind of go to you know say an event i just yeah you'd feel like i'm known as the kid you got kicked off mm-hmm i'm misled anywhere i'd go that that would always
00:39:06
you know people would always be kind of talking about it i honestly before then i probably would not have
00:39:13
been able to do this and like there's a high chance i'd have like cancelled last minute like last minute because i'd be like oh i can do it i can do it never
00:39:19
come to the time and i'll be like no way i can't even like get in the car and drive here but it was just yeah and it
00:39:25
would explain why yeah your body is literally feeling that way and it's just because it was like oh
00:39:31
it makes you feel incredibly nauseous and stuff because your body is like scared and tense in danger and things you need to escape a situation
00:39:38
so it like your bod like the last thing your body's worried about is like digesting something
00:39:43
so i always had the singles i was like i never wanted to eat when i was anxious yeah i would not be thinking about
00:39:50
eating i wouldn't even get hungry though yeah but i would just not eat anything like the whole day i lost like loads of weight from it as
00:39:56
well one of the most important quotes i i i read in the book lost connections was um
00:40:03
as a society we used to think that like mental health disorders like ptsd and anxiety depression were a consequence of
00:40:08
like something broken in you yeah but in fact everything you've described goes back ten thousand years to like
00:40:14
savannah and africa are lines running at me yeah i'm like i need my body to get ready for me yeah yeah and so there's there's nothing
00:40:20
the human body is working perfectly fine in fact the most more important question is like what's happened to you
00:40:26
and like cause yeah and that's and that's where that's where my perspective on mental health disorders shifted
00:40:31
because i didn't believe that um when i looked at the data and there's this huge rise in mental health disorders yeah
00:40:38
and i know that like human beings aren't evolving anymore we're not changing anymore so you think okay if there's a rise in
00:40:44
the the data what has changed to cause that and then you think okay well the only thing that's really fundamentally changed is the world we live in
00:40:51
we start looking at the world we live in and you say how how has that changed you say well you know
00:40:56
15 years ago the average american would say they had three people they could turn to in a time of crisis they now said they have zero
00:41:02
we're now living in these white walls between our loan tapping screens we're not speaking to friends and all of these factors which are
00:41:08
conducive with like positive mental health have now been slowly torn away i mean the lock down is a great example of like extreme and then there was a study which
00:41:15
i talked about in my book where if you get an animal and you put it in a cage and you take away um any uh companionship you take away
00:41:23
all other animals of its type and you take away the ability for it to exercise and you take away
00:41:29
anything that might give it stimulation and then you give it the choice of drinking heroin water or normal water
00:41:35
they all become drug addicts and uh if you if you reintroduce like a running wheel and another rat for it to be with
00:41:42
it doesn't it doesn't become a drug addict it doesn't choose the hair and water and so what you're describing is like the same as all the guests that have sat
00:41:48
here with me is there's there's this key moment which is caused trauma and that's um and i think that's really empowering for
00:41:54
people to know that yeah you know it's not it's something that's happened right and you can address it from that perspective
00:42:00
as opposed to just throwing drugs at it thinking that something's broken yeah but tell me about the therapy process because i've not had therapy
00:42:06
before but i've always i've always been intrigued by it at my company we had a therapist for all of our team members
00:42:13
yeah and i would definitely have therapy i think i probably should but what how was that process and did it
00:42:18
help um it was like it was strange it may it did make me feel a lot better like i said for me i think
00:42:26
this is just who i am i think some people love talking about things and just getting it off their chest and it helps them that way
00:42:33
for me it was just the understanding once i understood it and then like i said i figured out ways to kind of deal with it as well i don't think it ever goes away if you just figure out ways to
00:42:44
to deal with it i think if i'd got an uber here i'd have probably actually been like more nervous i don't think i wouldn't cancel
00:42:50
but i'm not at that level but i would have still probably been a bit more like how come kind of i don't know i think so
00:42:56
you're not doing it for me i love being like distracted so i'd always say like like tiktok for instance is like the
00:43:02
perfect app for that i always found because it was like it's really quick and it's like funny and like it would always like kind of put
00:43:08
it was always just really funny kind of put me in a good mood it's like really quick so if i was in an uber i'd try and do something like that or watch some like
00:43:14
youtube videos and just keep my mind off kind of what i'm going to do and jack before wouldn't didn't have
00:43:19
that yet no way i'd have been honestly when my brother would like talk about like his anxieties and like when he'd feel weird i wouldn't want to come do anything i'd like
00:43:29
be like what are you talking about right it was literally like just get over it come on you'll be fine that was like the classic thing like oh come on you'll be fine like what could possibly go wrong but in his mind he's like
00:43:41
listing all the things that go wrong just you think of the worst case scenario pretty much so um yeah once i kind of understood it
00:43:48
a lot more and had my reasons like which helped me kind of get over it a little bit i then did kind of stop seeing her this
00:44:00
was all very close like for sure the show i kind of stopped once the show started for instance um i haven't been
00:44:08
back since because i think like i will happily say that like at doing sas like saved me somehow it
00:44:16
gave me like a new lease of life um not like i said not saying it's gone away by any means but i just a thing there of thinking i mean
00:44:27
if i can do this and this being at like six o'clock in the morning jumping out of a helicopter backwards into literally like freezing cold water in the middle of
00:44:38
winter in scotland i can definitely go and do a podcast or something like that and that's kind of
00:44:44
like what i like lived by and i still think of it sometimes i'm like oh my god jack come on when i was like at my and at that point
00:44:50
i was honestly at my absolute worst like the night before as i got there i got to scotland
00:44:56
and like the morning of i tried to like pull out they took again when we got there they took our phones off because we baked
00:45:03
that you know just can't we see everyone who's on the show so we can't text people oh guess who's in the show and then they like eat the stories
00:45:08
or whatever he doesn't go out until maybe i was like i kind of need like i can quit yeah i need my phone call my manager i'm
00:45:16
not doing it and the best thing that happened that they took my phone otherwise i would
00:45:21
have pulled out i guarantee it but um they had like therapists on the show that i would like i'd spoken
00:45:31
quite a bit before and i was very open with them and they kind of knew i mean everyone going on they definitely
00:45:37
had their struggles and they had their their battles and i'm not saying mine's worse than than anyone but i was
00:45:43
definitely like very like vocal about mine and was said i'm not saying it's worth anyone else's
00:45:48
but i was like this is the worst it's ever been for me like this is the worst i've ever been so
00:45:54
prepare yourselves for me to be like a nightmare and yeah like i said i didn't not i like
00:46:00
people say like i didn't get a second to sleep then i thought i literally didn't i just sat there like seriously
00:46:05
like freaking freaking out and i was just like what the hell am i gonna do and i knew he had to leave at like nine and like knocked my door like oh jack like you ready
00:46:16
i was not ready i was like at least i was like i felt like crying i was like so emotional i was all over the place it was like really i'd never been like so bad it was really weird i felt like very uncontrollable
00:46:30
and i was like can i use your phone i think i need to speak to the like therapist guy i was on the phone tim for
00:46:36
about two hours i del i'd push back the whole first day of filming so much but they were like like amazing they were honestly like so good because look realistically i
00:46:48
think they knew i wanted to do it i probably was gonna do it i was having a serious moment they also knew that my
00:46:54
mental health was in like a really bad place at the time they were amazingly understanding and kind of
00:47:00
patient with me and um yeah there was this kind of one one woman there who was like he'd be the exec or like a producer maybe the exact producer but she was
00:47:12
like my go-to my go-to girl and she made me do it because i said i spoke to the therapist for ages and i was still a bit like oh god he gave me that very good thing of like
00:47:24
you know one step at a time he's like get ready go downstairs see how you feel next step
00:47:29
you know you're ready when you get in the car and get to the location and see how you feel and like and it was
00:47:35
like that was like again there were like words of wisdom to me at that point so i was like i'm not gonna be able to do it so i'm just thinking to the end of
00:47:41
the show i'm like how the hell am i gonna do seven days like a month like no way yeah say he's like you know it's like one step at a
00:47:47
time like break it down and that helped me so much and then yeah i was just kind of with her and that is such
00:47:52
good advice i think for anybody that's listening that i mean pretty much in all facets of life whether you're trying to achieve
00:47:57
something great or you're trying to overcome fear yeah breaking it down into smaller manageable pieces
00:48:02
makes it absolutely yeah it was like a game changer for me like those simple yes but it just helps
00:48:09
you think in a different way so yeah i was just kind of talking to them talking down and i definitely i said like calm down i
00:48:15
was just like hey do you know what yeah obviously do it jack i didn't want to do it like these things
00:48:20
just the show's crazy i want to give it a go like you know that piece of me is still
00:48:25
in me like ah i wish i if it was more like oh i wish i still had it me to kind of do that was that right let's go
00:48:32
and and yeah just kind of got on with it had like very highs and lows in there every time we finished the task i'd feel literally like on top of the world like everyone in there you know you just
00:48:43
accomplished something i never thought i'd be able to do especially like with how i was feeling
00:48:50
then when we're kind of going to a task that's when i'd have the thing of oh i'm gonna i want to pull out i want to
00:48:56
like leave and in the show you that's the kind of point you pull out when you've kind of reached your
00:49:02
your limit and for me definitely for me a bigger part although physically i mean it was just
00:49:09
hell like it was how i got like so hurt doing it like everywhere but for me it was definitely a way bigger mental battle and i think
00:49:17
probably everyone in there would say the same because you are thinking i don't need to
00:49:22
do this it doesn't matter if i get to the end or not it doesn't actually really make a difference to me
00:49:28
i really hit my limit about god it was like four days in i think it's like a seven day thing it was like the fourth day
00:49:34
mentally i was like drained but also i was like so physically hurt and had like one injury that was like really annoying me but and i'm thinking yeah cool i'm gonna
00:49:45
get to tomorrow and see how i feel if it like still really hurts as i was at that point where i couldn't like
00:49:50
run it's more like a fast limp like and we got like halfway through that day we just played a game called murderable which you can imagine it's really fun yeah which involves being like rugby
00:50:02
tackled by tony bellew and stuff like that so after that i was like i'm done but the thing that like made me like a lot happy about it one i got further than i ever thought especially the days before it further than i
00:50:14
ever thought i'd got like i never thought in a million years when i feel like that i could be able to achieve those kind of things
00:50:21
and it really showed me like you know if you just commit it's gonna make me feel so much better like afterwards
00:50:26
if i stick through and just persevere and then at the same time i was like well i've
00:50:32
left after like completing something so it's kind of like a it was like a good sign off for me i didn't get something and be like ah no
00:50:39
thanks i'm gonna go so i kind of i was like look i'm just gonna do this one tick this off and then yeah
00:50:45
it's probably time to go because i can feel like when they're like die now like everything's in so much pain
00:50:50
and i was just like yeah i mean beyond exhausted so and you could be proud of yourself at that point honestly like i was so happy
00:50:57
with how far i got it was like uh you know kind of had to be there moment when you're going through all that to understand how hard it is to do
00:51:04
that for that long but like two people get together two people got to the end of the show
00:51:10
so i was like yeah i was so happy with how far i got and that really made me like feel like just so
00:51:16
much better and it kind of showed me like you know just physical exercise everything like that is so good for your like mental
00:51:22
health and so i carried on running after that and like training really hard because in the build up i was training like twice a day for like
00:51:28
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00:51:46
terms of career in terms of your mental health in terms of your personal situation yeah like mental
00:51:51
health i feel pretty good like right now i definitely have my days like about a month ago i had like
00:51:57
a weird week i was like trying to help a friend who was going through it and they but they well who would just
00:52:04
finally start talking about it and didn't know what was going on and i was just explaining how it was with me
00:52:10
and it was like that was the first time i spoke about it in like quite a while so it just kind of made me it just brings it all to just yeah
00:52:15
brings it service it made me feel a bit like funny for a few days but like to be honest with you i think like i said a lot of my
00:52:21
problems were when i was going to things and trying to do something where i felt really like
00:52:26
uncomfortable kind of out of your comfort zone that's kind of a lockdown you just have to be at home a lot so
00:52:32
i do definitely feel like comfortable and i think it's been quite good for my mental health and now when i
00:52:37
have the days where i go out and i've got like you know a day of like work or something i've got to do loads of things i'm really happy
00:52:43
to kind of be out sure and stuff so it's kind of like yeah i think it's again are you nervous about coming here
00:52:48
you're kind of releasing i wasn't you know what i was nervous that i was gonna get nervous about coming
00:52:53
so when it came to i was like oh i don't want to get to the day and be like yeah i don't i i feel a bit like weird
00:53:00
yeah i feel like honestly completely fine like i said i'd have you've probably heard no yeah i
00:53:05
would have problems so i hear talking about lockdown i heard you um you got a little bit of relationship over lockdown which is um yeah seems a lot of a relationship yeah
00:53:17
we were talking about this before we started recording yeah been with your girlfriend now eight months how's that going it's never easy it's going
00:53:22
incredibly well to have a lockdown relationship yeah it's definitely not like easy having a lockdown relationship
00:53:28
but we also don't know any anything else because we met like the beginning of last year what because we were neighbors basically we were like our apartments doors opposite each other
00:53:40
and i moved in like the first week of march last year so that's kind of like how we met
00:53:47
and she had a dog so there was lots of dog walk dates basically excuse me was it was it difficult
00:53:54
dating when you were um really in your stride with youtube and you had like i imagine you people were stopping you a lot yeah stuff like that and when you had the you know the stuff on tv
00:54:05
yeah i didn't really date then to be honest with you because i'd like there was like two things one i
00:54:10
had in my hand of like you know i'm just so like focused on what i'm doing right now and i
00:54:15
i didn't purposely not but i would i didn't put much effort into you know it wasn't really one of my priorities
00:54:20
whatsoever and i was just having you know i was enjoying i was like just living life i was having so much fun
00:54:26
yeah and like all of my friends were single as well so just i don't know just didn't happen whatsoever there was no need for me to do that but also my
00:54:33
brother got a girlfriend in his prime of like his his career and i think he'd you know be the first to say that it
00:54:40
i'm not saying this is for everyone at all but my experience it like kind of held him back not in terms of she held
00:54:47
him back but you know just having a girlfriend you have different priorities and different focuses and stuff they're focusing on
00:54:52
their life yeah so i just like didn't have any real intentions what's been the upside of having a partner
00:54:59
um because i'm a single guy so i'm like asking i want you to pitch it to me what's the yeah people think people think are you
00:55:04
saying like it's so much happier i feel i don't sound so like cringy but i just feel like so much
00:55:11
happier i look at the days of when you know being single and like wanting to like go
00:55:16
out and do all these things and like or like dating and stuff like i look at it now like oh my god
00:55:22
so much like effort in a way where it's now so like just fun and like relaxing it's very nice to feel for
00:55:28
everyone listening to this but that can't see him he's saying all this but he's shaking his head it's amazing definitely do it
00:55:36
but it's just like amazing being you know so comfortable with someone i think for me especially that was like a massive thing because
00:55:42
i've been so uncomfortable in so many situations with like where i was at to then meet
00:55:47
someone and and be in those positions where normally i would be uncomfortable sounds kind of like cringy
00:55:53
but having her there makes me feel like so much better without her even knowing it just being with someone and whatever
00:55:59
makes you feel you know so good and i've never had i've never i've actually never been in a relationship
00:56:05
really so this is kind of like my first relationship which i don't know if she likes or not really you know if she likes it yeah so
00:56:12
as in like the fact that it's my first relationship sometimes she's like you know i wish you'd maybe had a girlfriend before so
00:56:18
you'd know this or that and the other i think she also likes the fact that she's my first and why wouldn't someone
00:56:24
want to be you um i think the main one i'd probably say is there's like a lot of pressure like but i'm the one putting that pressure on myself no one's putting
00:56:37
pressure on me but it's just a lot of like self-pressure like i'm in control of like everything i'm i said it's a diary you're like ceo i'm like my own boss i'm in control of everything i
00:56:49
do i'm in control of all my finances like what comes in like what goes out it's all just
00:56:56
kind of on me so if i stop you know it all stops if i work my hardest then you know
00:57:01
hopefully it kind of pays off so it's just a lot of a lot of pressure in terms of you know
00:57:07
wanting to keep going and like also expand like taking like every opportunity you can get that's why
00:57:12
you know i went from youtube and i did radio and i was like i want to break that barrier to tv and then i started djing and
00:57:18
doing like music and going on tour and all these things it was like just grabbing every opportunity i can to kind of grow as much as i possibly
00:57:25
can but it's like exhausting it definitely takes a toll and sometimes you do need to kind of step
00:57:31
back but also like i said if i stop kind of everything stops so taking a step back is like
00:57:36
not possible yeah it's a bit of a risk that carpet was it carpentry yeah job you had when you were 16. just
00:57:42
sometimes you wish maybe i'm like yeah because you know my dad does fine for himself he's like three
00:57:47
kids and we've all turned out like fine and we've all done well for ourselves sometimes i feel like i would be so much happier at that same time i'm
00:57:54
like oh my god when i look back at some of the things i've done in my life i'm like that's amazing i'm like so proud of
00:58:01
myself for some of the things i've done in the moment it felt pretty cool but when i look back on it i'm like that was like
00:58:06
huge and you're still so young yeah i'm 20 just about yeah 26. taking all the pressure
00:58:12
off and i don't want to apply extra pressure here but when you look forward at your the next i don't know 20 years of your life
00:58:17
how in your mind do you see that kind of playing out i don't mean like i'm going to be doing this exact thing but like what are you looking for from life
00:58:25
um i think i'm looking like being completely honest with you it's kind of like probably looking more into like
00:58:32
businesses and like business and having like i said i've got my own like production company right now that's doing probably way better than i thought it
00:58:38
was going to be doing at this point which is good so like things like that just growing it as much as i can and
00:58:43
you know kind of the classic i want to be like a boss and across so many things not that
00:58:49
i'm not working but you know it's not like i've got a nine to five type thing so it's kind of like
00:58:55
like i was doing youtube because i i could kind of do whatever i wanted with my days but i knew i had to do likes kind of
00:59:00
things and and you know i'm still making like my money and everything like that and i think yeah you know look at i'm probably
00:59:07
not going to be 30 years old making like these kind of youtube videos anyway who knows
00:59:13
but might be a niche for that yeah yeah so it's like realistically i look at my life probably like
00:59:19
trying to go into into that kind of direction just building something else well i'm looking
00:59:25
forward to seeing what you do next i'm um i'm gonna be watching very very closely now that i
00:59:30
stalk you on social media so and i think like as i say you're like super young but you have such a wealth of experience
00:59:36
from everything you've been through and i don't think you know sometimes you don't realize how how valuable some of that experience has been until
00:59:42
until later in life and in fact i still think about my hardest ever moment starting a business as a young guy yeah as being my um
00:59:49
some of my most traumatic moments as being my most valuable because they like yeah yeah you have something that no one else has right yeah you know and you have
00:59:55
experiences thank you so much for coming today yourself riveting and um right you've been so honest as well which was the whole point of this podcast at the end of the day because i also know that
01:00:05
you've helped a lot of people by walking us through your journey with mental health with with you know and with learning a bit more about it so
01:00:11
just want to say a huge thank you and um if you ever do start a podcast we'll do this again once yeah since i
01:00:17
can siphon it for your listeners but uh but yeah thank you so much thank you thank you
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