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David Gandy: Highest Paid Male Model Opens Up About Insecurities & Imposter Syndrome | E102

October 18, 2021 / 59:47

This episode covers topics such as imposter syndrome, mental health, and entrepreneurship with guest David Gandy, a well-known model and entrepreneur.

David Gandy discusses his experiences with imposter syndrome, revealing that despite his success and looks, he has faced insecurities throughout his career. He emphasizes the importance of hard work and strategy in achieving success, rather than relying on luck.

Gandy shares insights into his transition from modeling to entrepreneurship, highlighting his new brand, Wellwear, which focuses on men's wellness and comfort in clothing. He explains how his experiences have shaped his understanding of mental health and the importance of supporting others.

Throughout the conversation, Gandy reflects on the pressures of the fashion industry, the impact of social media, and the need for resilience in the face of criticism. He also touches on his personal journey with mental health, sharing moments of darkness and the strategies he employs to cope.

Stephen Bartlett, the host, engages Gandy in a thoughtful discussion about the challenges of fame, the nature of happiness, and the importance of self-awareness in personal and professional growth.

TLDR

David Gandy discusses imposter syndrome, mental health, and his entrepreneurial journey with Wellwear, emphasizing strategy over luck.

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the diver ceo live my live show my live reincarnation of this podcast is coming on tour and it's coming to a city near
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can't wait to see [Music] everything that people said well you're lucky to work with dr varna
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and i can say that wasn't luck it was strategy what's that imposter voice saying is
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going to be found out good question i suppose do you have insecurities yeah of course i do has that ever had a impact
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on you i never believed my own hype it's very easy once you see yourself in articles
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and winning awards and everyone's telling you how amazing you are but i i suppose i never really did
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i didn't fit in particularly well and i've seen the extremities of mental
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health me myself going to dark periods where nothing would nothing to fight nothing would cheer you up if you
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haven't got a thick skin you shouldn't be in this game david gandy at one point he was one of
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the highest paid male models in the entire world a beautiful beautiful man and so hearing
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that and seeing how beautiful he is would understandably make you assume a lot of things about him
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but what you're going to hear today is that those things are wrong and that you
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should never judge a book by its cover how is it possible that someone that looks like david gandy
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can describe themselves as having imposter syndrome being low in confidence and waiting to be found out
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he's now become an entrepreneur he's focused on launching his brand new brand
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david gandy well where and he's taking on a completely different industry it's crazy because when you open
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people's diaries you never know what you'll find and what i found in david's today
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was truly fascinating unexpected vulnerable and extremely surprisingly relatable
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so without further ado i'm stephen bartlett and this is the diary of a ceo i hope nobody's listening but if you are
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then please keep this to yourself there's a lot of very beautiful people in the world right
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um but they don't manage to achieve what you've achieved across multiple
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disciplines whether it's within your modeling career which is incredibly competitive
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space to play and one with shrouded with huge amounts of uncertainty or whether it's now in business with what you're
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doing with your brands there and your investments so my question is what is it about you
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in your sort of self-diagnosis that has made you rise to the top in those pursuits
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that's a good question and also where did it come from the easiest one to say is probably the
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modeling one to to start off with and that was um i questioned why men weren't in the same position as the
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female supermodels and you had the equivalent of the the male super models at the time and you always have
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that but they were never to the you know to that level um of fame of you know sort of financial
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rewards of uh as as the female supermodels and i questioned that that was all and thought
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is there a possibility is there almost i suppose a gap in the market the first five years no one actually
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realizes that i really didn't do that much for the first five or six years it
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was you know of course we didn't struggle and it was a lot of um you know sort of catalog work earning
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really good money wasn't what i wanted to do but i got to work with you know like sir chrissy turns and
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naomi campbell and those people and i literally just observed them and asked them questions
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and sort of got the answers i wanted and i all realized that it was a business for
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them they had great teams they had great agencies they had prs and pas it was run
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as a business and then you had the guys you know who were the top of the fashion
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that at the time it wasn't a business for them it was a lovely way of making a living and they
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were felt very fortunate to be there some of the time not even admitting that they were
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models they were in advertising or marketing as a lot of people used to say and i just used the female platform and
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i went to head of my agency tandy anderson and said i i don't want to do this commercial
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work anymore it doesn't satisfy me it's not when she said what do you want to do i said if
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i'm going to do this i want to be the best at it and she said right literally
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from tomorrow i've said this a million times you have to stop all that commercial work because we have to you
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have to be perceived then in a total different light to to get to where you want to be so every
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bit of that working i said wearing very good money i just quit everything we just we said no
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to all the campaign no to all the catalogues and she said to me like in a position you've got that's what most
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models are dreaming of earning what not dreaming of but that's you know they see
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you yours is an enviable position i said tan it's just not what i want to do i'm
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not happy doing it so to me i had nothing to lose because i would have carried on so we then started building
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up this other perception of me within the fashion industry not the catalog model not the commercial model but
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editorial a bit more sort of fashion based and that's when we instigated a meeting with dolce gabbana
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and that's how i did their campaign the campaign led to light blue and light blue was a to me a tick in the box
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for them to achieve what i wanted to achieve and it was phenomenal success and it still is
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but that was that was what i needed that was the platform pretty much from there
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and then we could put the team together to say where do you want to be in three years
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what and where's the next three years after that where do you want to achieve
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and i'm a big believer in having goals not always having to achieve them things
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change but i'm big believing having goals so you know roughly where you're where you want to
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end up at something and then game is a i always say sorry life is like a game of chess and you're
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moving pieces to get to that checkmate to where you want to be and often it diverts and you have to have different
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tactics but you you have to have that ambition to know the exact point to where you want to be
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of course when you get there and being a maybe an entrepreneur or typical person
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i am then i'm on to the next thing you're not particularly satisfied and
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you know i've achieved that so what's the next achievement where do you go from there what role do you think
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luck has played as you view your journey in hindsight what role and you know everyone you know
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especially very successful people will always have a kind of different relationship with luck what role do you
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think luck has played in your journey and however you would define luck it annoys me if someone says or you're
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very lucky and i feel like i have to go on this statement go hang on let me just tell
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you about you haven't seen the hard work that's gone in there and i realize that it sort
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of gets you nowhere um so listen i was fortunate to be born like i am six foot two in the frame i have with
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the way i look and people perceive that as they the way they do and it's you can make money from that
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hugely fortunate but as you said before there are a lot of good looking people there are a lot
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of beautiful people i've admitted myself i go into my agency there are 25 better looking guys on that board
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there are 50 better models i've just cast 10 of them for my brand they're my
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they're better models than me they're better spokespeople than me i was fortunate to be in that position but
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then you and say you make your own like you maybe you do so every sort of everything that people said well you're
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lucky to work with dolce gabbana and i can say well let me tell you how this the story of how we went to meet dolce
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gabbana how we instigated that yeah that wasn't luck yeah it was strategy and
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it was not my i think at the time everyone's going you are armani you are raffler in
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your mind you're afraid it was tandy anderson who said you are dolce gabbana
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you're adult shigebang i don't listen to anyone else you are deutsche it was her
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genius that said and then sort of instigated this meeting with them and then through that and working with tandem
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working with select everything we've achieved is strategy you know it's gone out it's
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like think what do you want to achieve what do you want to what's your goal and it just it doesn't just happen yes
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there's certain opportunities that come around that people approach you but we approach a lot of people with
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ideas and we approach from people would love to do this yeah you know m s it was
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us who wanted to do that collaboration and i wanted to do it with one of the biggest
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british institutions everyone knows and everyone has a great thing i wanted to do with m s we had lots of different
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brands approach us we didn't do that we wanted to do it with m s and that again looked at we didn't start
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off by just doing a collaboration and you know a huge deal it was i had to model for two years with them prove that
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i could still prove that i could work with m s then we talk about collaboration then we
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would move on and you know then they trusted me it didn't it's not a finger click you know it's
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yeah it's it's it's because the way that look um those moments the amazing
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collaboration that amazing email that comes out of nowhere in hindsight because it appears to have come out of
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nowhere um it always appears in hindsight like look and i've got my own story you know examples from my story
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where when i was 18 19 years old i went on linkedin and typed an investor the first person that came up i emailed him
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he invested in my company people think you know they say you got lucky right and i'm like well you know
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again it's what to what you said about the story well look at the email it was
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sent at 3am and i shot on stage i'm like and i then removed the timestamp and i'm
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like i was up at 3am thinking about emailing people so for me action and what you describe there is
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like that smart strategic work is just increasing probability that you know you might get what people
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call luck and um in that moment with dolce and kabana and when when you form that partnership with
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them how pivotal was that for you and the trajectory of your career in like real terms
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light blue is the reason i'm here and i you know the famous commercial but again you could look back to that
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when i came into modeling the circle of the fashion world at that stage of what was perceived as
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fashionable was the small androgynous skinny guy now i'm over six foot two i was quite skinny
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when i came in but i built up and i just got bigger and everyone else said you need to get smaller you need to fit
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in you need to you're too big you're getting too big but that's where i was happiest i wasn't
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doing it for reading you i was always playing sport i want to continue i couldn't play sporting while so i was in
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the gym and it was you know to have a good physique and be healthy was the way i was
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happiest in my head in my well-being so that's what i did and in a way i just
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looked at the models and tyson becquers and titan baloo and paul scoffer and all
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these different people that were you know the levi's guys the famous levi's ads that we used to
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used to look at and the raffler ring guys i was like they're all big muscular classically handsome guys
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and they were the biggest in the industry so i just thought this has got to come around at one point so when it
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actually came around to that creative for light blue of course there was a smaller pop because everyone
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had followed each other yeah yeah yeah and then there was me and we'd just done
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the campaign with the auction gabbana and then we went to and do light blue but that the day it came out um it just
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changed everything i mean literally changed everything i hate when people say that but it was went from that
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campaign going out in the afternoon phone not stopping and i think i went to new york and
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my agencies called up and just said we've got telegraph the times the mirror
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they all want to speak to they all want to have an interview with you and we didn't have pr's at that point
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you know this was i was like okay how does this work um very green about it all but exciting you
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know so that that's that change um so you're talking about lifestyle how
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did your lifestyle change and i want to know about like how people treated you and friends and
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you know romantic potential partners when that that blows up for you the phone doesn't stop ringing how does your
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world shift from a like a very personal perspective friends have never changed great
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and we're still you know on all on whatsapp groups and see each other i don't see them as much they all live
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closer together and that's a shame really but it's just never changed i get the absolute
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roasting roasting all the time i'm just an easy target yeah so you can just google my name on
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so many pictures that get putting online so and that's it you know it keeps you
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and i love that no one takes themselves too seriously and i think hopefully that's what i didn't do too much as i
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always said to people if models ever come up to me now so what made you different or how did what did you learn
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i said i never believed my own hype it's very easy once you see yourself in articles and winning awards and
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everyone's telling you how amazing you are to to believe that but i i suppose i
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never really did do you have imposter syndrome yes yeah yeah of course absolutely and what does
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that mean in practical terms in your mind and your thoughts you're always waiting to be found out
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i think there's the end of the day you're always waiting for you know you
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sort of go okay all right come on if you've had a really good inning you've been 15 years in yeah you're
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still thinking well 20 20 years later we've had a good angst you know i'm
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still thinking that today to be found up you do that by putting yourself at risk
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of something it's like i suppose there's there is the risk and reward so
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everything i do there has to be a slight risk otherwise it's not sort of worth
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i suppose me doing it so there's always got to be that risk of failure in many ways and i don't mind failure
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i've learned more from failure than i have from success to be honest and that
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risk element of you know vanity fair asking me to write an article i mean i'm not a writer
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to do that is scary but i won't have anyone write it for me i have to do it we're going back to the integrity thing
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i have to do it that goes for sort of the fashion game to collaborating with brands to
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investing you know as you know it's you know it's a risk there's an element of risk i take
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into i suppose everything and i suppose it makes life exciting what do you think
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when you say be found out what's going to be found out what's that imposter voice saying is
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going to be found out good question i suppose have you bitten off too much then you
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can chew but no one can be as as uh harsh a critic to me as i am myself i will beat myself up in something fail
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as i will beat myself up if i don't do the best job um so no one can affect me like that by
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actually saying anything because i'm my worst critic so yeah that's a good point of what
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someone you know what that voice is going to say to me just a whisper of doubt i guess
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that may be well the way that i typically think about imposter syndrome or at least i've
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seen it in my business and there's a couple of like top level execs in my business that talk about imposter
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syndrome a lot and it sounds like um yeah exactly what you described there like biting off more than you can chew
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and are you really capable and experienced enough to be at this level doing this
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thing do you really have the skills yeah there's other people that are smarter
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and better and that have you know you know won more awards or more you know experienced something like that
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there's also the side that and it's not about money it's about success there's a
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lot of people that actually don't particularly want other people to do well and
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most people they will try to bring you down in many ways and put doubts in your mind you
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know it's like the sort of the backhanded commentizer as i always sort of call it it's it's hard for someone
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and i i've learned you know sort of that from other people's comments and what they've
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said to me and i'd make sure i never ever do that and i always just encourage
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people and if i can help i will help them and that's probably where my investments have come from in many ways
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is i have had this opportunity and i haven't borrowed a penny in my life to get to where i was
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you know i when i first went to new york modeling i used to go around and couldn't afford
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to eating nice places so every time i'd go on like castings i was walking around
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all day and going to shoot i would then go past a uh like a diner and they would
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have a special deal on so it'd be like a burger fry and something else for 5.95
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and i'd write it down go i've got to remember to come back here because it's
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5.95 plus taxes like i suppose i can have a beer and it might be ten dollars that's where i used to have to think
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because i just didn't didn't have anything then i've always wanted to then i think i'd
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never really had any help but i would like to help people talking about helping them helping people and then
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other people tearing people down with female models i think we can all quite easily believe how nasty comments would
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affect them but there's something in in i think the public perception or within
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society where we think ah if you slag off a male model if you criticize them say nasty things about them well they'll
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be fine if you go on twitter for example it's totally okay just uh people will
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tweet at pierce morgan all day saying but the people would never do that to well they would but it would be much it
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would be considered much differently if they were saying that to a woman i believe that to be true so i guess my
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ultimate question here ultimately is like have strangers criticizing saying nasty
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things on the internet about you how you look or whatever has that ever had a impact on you
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in this business anyway if you haven't got a thick skin you shouldn't be in this game you've got
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to have a thick skin and it's what i understood and i've probably only actually understood this
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from having to cast myself for people to represent my brand is that you're not being horrible to someone
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someone doesn't fit what you have perceived in your head and that could be for any reason whatsoever
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um the attitude you bring into it the charisma you come into that day on that casting the way you look and it could be
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anything that person is too skinny that person's too tall that person is not big
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you know anything and you have to realize that when you were casting is they weren't it wasn't
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personal it was almost business no you just don't fit the creator that we want
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at the moment that changes when you have a name that change when you have a brand
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because they're buying into your brand they're buying into your engagement with
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your fans that's different but when they first look at you at face value and there's different people you know
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there's been castings where they're on the phone they don't say anything to you
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you put the book down they go through two pages and they hand it back to you now that is a bit demoralizing but hey
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you know like i have always made sure i might probably overcompensate that because i've been on the other side of
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you know casting casting other people was i'd probably get there for too long
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and just chatted and everything else internet trolls though like someone on instagram or in the edm's just
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you post something and they just no i'm very full i'm very fortunate that
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my fan base which is a very organic fan base actually on on social are massively kind
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and positive and that's the way i've always put social i'm not a big lover of
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social media i've stated it before i see the use of i see the brilliance of it i also see the
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negativity from especially for young children i've spoken out about that um yes does that do things affect yeah of
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course you'll probably know this is a you might see a hundred comments all positive
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and then 101 comment 102 comment is negative and you'll remember it you'll remember those
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two comments so you can't remember the other hundred that are positive and it's
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a really weird thing so it's like dealing with people you deal with the nice ones you don't deal with
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the negativity and that's what we've tried to do really and again another sort of social i guess um
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not maybe stereotype but sort of misunderstanding would be that someone that is you know makes their career out
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of modeling someone that's very you know um attractive um like yourself um surely
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they can't have insecurities surely they realize that they are you know surely they can't have self doubts like
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us muggles who had gq are yet to call doesn't everyone have insecurities i can't believe that you told me there's
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not a person that doesn't have insecurities do you have insecurities yeah of course i do absolutely
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physical insecurities of course they do had you said something about your if your nose and your your nose i know my
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eyes got any bigger my nose my eyes got any bigger which they do the only things
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that came with like i just look like the bfg also i think something that going back to the sort of
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trolling and instagram there is this thing about age now age is used as a weapon you are so old
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look at all your wrinkles it actually sort of makes me laugh when people say my god you like
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that most people have positive comments but they can say oh you're getting older
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yeah everyone is i've been in this game for 20 years if you're comparing an
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image from 20 years ago i'm not going to look the same but it's almost like
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it's a negative thing you know it's and that that's i've noticed that increasing over the
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last couple of years is this aged thing is used as a weapon as if it's a bad
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thing does that bother you no i always feel i've always been quite an old man in a young young man's body
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anyway so should i say mature but um no you grow old at the end of the day you grow a little
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bit wiser you get a little bit you you calm down a little bit more and you you accept
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yourself for who you are a little bit more as well 20s and 30s 30s less but 20s can be
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quite tricky for everyone i don't quite know who you are you're trying to be
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trying to find out where you are in the world you then i think you get a bit more confidence in your 30 and i that's
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where my 30s sort of came from to why are you trying to be something else or trying to fit in
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and i never fit in i've never fitted in ever anywhere really particularly well
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or felt i haven't particularly fitted in you're in the fashion industry i've
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never felt i fitted in i was telling um a model the other day actually we were working with
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and we all used to go off to new york for this big casting two weeks try and get the jobs
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be with all the big agencies and you would go and go in a group of probably about 10 guys and you'd have a list back
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in those days you would have a fax believe it or not you didn't have mobile phones it was a fact
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so you got your fax in the morning you had all your appointments 9 o'clock 10
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o'clock 11 o'clock 12 o'clock all the way through everyone used to go down to the subway
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or walk and we'll go together and there's this very pack mentality and i was never into that pacman tells
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you it was quite always a i'd say a much more sort of individual sort of loner so i used to look at the
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facts and i used to let them go around the corner and i would vegetate upside down and do the opposite way so those
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nine guys would go to the nine o'clock and i would go to the six o'clock and i
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would just turn up the office and go hi i'm i know i supposed to be here at nine
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o'clock but is john someone then because yeah yeah he's here like can i see him
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you take the opportunity where you got imagine going through seeing nine guys speaking to nine guys looking but by the
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third person you're like they're gonna be bored and you take the opportunity so i did that all the way
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around and that's why i did kind of all the time it was thinking constantly of
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like outside the box of doing something different yeah it's amazing how these small things
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can create such significant like it's such a marginal thing can create such a
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big gain and most people are obviously they don't even try and think outside of
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the script and so they end up you know competing in a very saturated way for a limited
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amount of rewards but one slight innovation in the process i think can deliver such an exponential return you
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it's only 105 calories so when i wake up in the morning especially i've been
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working out a lot lately come downstairs quickly blend it together in my nutribullet
00:25:07
drink it's 100 calories and then my next sort of main meal because i'm a
00:25:11
breakfast skipper will be at lunchtime highly recommend it um and i shouldn't say this because i don't
00:25:16
have any approval to say this but there's some amazing amazing flavors coming in the
00:25:21
ready to drink range that i've been lucky enough to try um and one of those is my new favorite
00:25:26
flavor so stay tuned in the industry of modeling one thing that i think is probably i don't have any
00:25:34
data to support this claim but i think it's probably rife because of the nature
00:25:38
of the business and what i know about the subject of mental health and mental well-being is anxiety
00:25:44
and i i just i've just seen amongst my friends um the women that i know that model
00:25:51
high levels of anxiety um for a variety of reasons um have you ever suffered with anxiety yourself
00:25:58
at any point in your career i'm naturally a shy person but shyness is not anxiety
00:26:07
so i can't say i mean if i probably gave someone symptoms of stuff i've had or
00:26:11
things that have happened they might say well that's anxiety my anxiety if i still think of
00:26:18
now there's there's a weird thing of when i hear the music to the antiques roadshow on a
00:26:24
sunday night i still have anxiety that i haven't done my homework and i have to go to school the next day
00:26:30
that's how much i hated didn't hate i hated school to a certain point the sixth one was great with my
00:26:36
friends that i still have but that was the point of i still have that today when i hear that
00:26:42
music i literally stop and i'm like oh you know oh i don't have to go to school tomorrow
00:26:46
what was that about school i mean i was i didn't fit in at school that was basically it it wasn't
00:26:53
you know all good friends from that school but it was just a certain time before i kind of met those people
00:26:58
um the group of guys cycle and and girls i used to you know hang around with and there was bullying
00:27:04
and there was i just didn't fit in that was all it was but you said you were
00:27:07
bullied in school primary school well secondary school secondary school yeah primary was primary was quite fun
00:27:13
enjoyed primary school secondary school was just something different maybe went to the wrong school maybe you made the
00:27:18
wrong choices it was me it wasn't i'm not blaming anyone not blaming anything
00:27:21
it was just and i was quite steadfast i'm not fitting in i didn't fit in particularly well
00:27:29
and i wasn't going to change my way of fitting into everyone else in what way
00:27:32
didn't you fit in i just i just a bit like the same night i i'm still like it so i'm still in the fashion that
00:27:40
example of not being in that group not not being that pack not doing the same thing everyone does
00:27:47
exactly the same thing i didn't want to be in but i saw things differently and
00:27:50
wanted to do things my way maybe that's it i mean maybe it was doing something my way and
00:27:58
and i've always looked at that that goes on for that that can go into if you look and go
00:28:03
into styling it's like well no one's wearing suits oh i'm going to wear suits
00:28:06
and no one's you know why don't you do this it's like you know people still take me
00:28:11
at me because i do not own a pair of sneakers or trainers and the people like now everyone that's
00:28:17
all they're wearing i have one pair and i go to the gym with them and i have a running pad but and
00:28:22
everyone sort of looks at you as if but i love that fact you know it's just me
00:28:26
being a little bit different but it it can also lead to you know being a little bit stubborn that you
00:28:32
take that to a little bit far of not ever relinquishing that you want to be sort of different like all the time you
00:28:38
want to i don't know why you do it was that physical but was that bullying because of physical things they were
00:28:44
they were saying that you were physically different what was physically different no the way you know you
00:28:49
thought maybe it was the way i thought if you think about that now yeah it's just
00:28:54
because in i do find this still now in the world that everyone likes to pigeonhole everyone likes to
00:29:03
you are put in a certain category person and if you don't fit in then you're strange you're a strange
00:29:10
person why don't you like the same stuff why don't you wear the same stuff as us
00:29:13
why don't you think the same way that we think of course it's now got to say very
00:29:17
polarized when we have different opinions as they attack each other now it's like it's either left or right
00:29:23
there's nowhere in the middle and it was it was i think that element that i've always just i suppose i've been got
00:29:30
an individual thinker in some ways which kind of and that might put me in good stead for the business we're in
00:29:36
um but yeah the anxiety thing like maybe it's a confidence again when i was confident
00:29:44
into going something i was absolutely fine i just wanted an opportunity that was always what i want
00:29:49
to be able to um you know people say why have you not gone into acting why are you not i'm not
00:29:55
confident if there's anxiety give me a script to learn and try and put me in front of a camera and you'll see
00:30:01
that's where i'll probably be anxiety although i've done that and i achieved
00:30:05
and i quite loved it so it was a scary side of it but it's not something i'm
00:30:09
naturally good at isn't that you know people would people again talking about naivety right
00:30:15
people would never guess that you would say you weren't confident and it's almost like because you know
00:30:21
what the conversation had with ben fogle you were just it was just not what you would expect based on like stereotypes
00:30:26
one would expect you to be an extrovert yeah you know super confident some kind of you know very loud you know
00:30:34
braggadocious boisterous guy but you appear to be the opposite of that and especially the point of confidence
00:30:41
yeah i mean i wouldn't say i've got a lack of confidence there's a lack of confidence
00:30:46
where i think i know my limitations maybe i want to but i also like pushing those limitations to see where i can get
00:30:51
to and seeing what i can achieve and learn um but the confidence i mean gq awards
00:30:59
we went to two weeks ago and you sign up you're i didn't get an invite but i got the red
00:31:07
i have to sort this out with gq um you're on the red carpet i've done it a
00:31:13
million times before there's still dread filled like i'm filled with dread to
00:31:17
getting on that red carpet and having the pictures taken it's just not a natural environment for me and i was
00:31:24
thrilled that there was a you know a huge long queue because everyone wanted to be on the red carpet
00:31:29
everyone wanted their picture taken everyone wanted to be in the papers and put it on their instagrams and i went
00:31:34
too long i'm not you know i'm going to swerve that one so i swerved it and went upstairs and
00:31:40
went into environment where i was much happier where actually i needed to speak to a few certain people for a few
00:31:45
certain reasons and went to go and hunt them down and go and speak to them what was it about what was the sort of
00:31:50
psychological discomfort you you feel when you think about going on the red carpet and doing that because you
00:31:56
described going upstairs to a place where you were happier so what's the unhappiness of the red carpet for you
00:32:04
it's just an unnatural environment for me to be when you're on set when you're employed by a brand
00:32:12
to create what is in who is their vision you're playing a role like blue i'm a mediterranean guy in
00:32:19
italy and small white speedos it's not me it is me but it's it's there's a role
00:32:24
you're playing i know there's actors as well i've spoken to them about they love
00:32:28
being in character but after those characters they don't want the limelight they don't want fame they don't want to
00:32:33
speak to anyone they don't want to do press junkies they hate the red carpet
00:32:37
exactly the same so when you're on set you're almost playing someone else
00:32:41
and there's an element as well of there is this david gandy and i talk about in a
00:32:48
third person because that's the brand sometimes i have to talk about that's
00:32:51
the name so you you yes you are walking onto a set almost being something else not i'm acting any different
00:33:01
but and then there is and and the red carpet is just not that environment i can probably
00:33:07
hide behind a character or hide behind a role or something when i'm playing on that date
00:33:12
that's me it's just not something it's strangely weird training yeah
00:33:19
my other half steph loves to go out and love to go to events she gets you know such a you know a buzz such
00:33:27
gets enthusiasm for it actually like you know she didn't and she honestly probably thought that
00:33:32
was me when we first met i go to an event i'm drained from people i'm i'm actually naturally a loner i
00:33:39
could you know we sort of joked with steph when he first met she would give me a silent
00:33:43
treatment and i was just like steph i'm going to tell you know i'll win at this
00:33:46
game because [Music] i can go off i can go for days not talking i'm used to it you know i prefer
00:33:53
it yeah i've traveled the you know i travel the world don't speak to people
00:33:56
for days so um it was always kind of a joke between us so um yeah i'm and then when you're naturally
00:34:03
the complete opposite of being alone you know i love taking dogs to work i love walking for hours and then
00:34:09
if i ever ever get sort of proper time to do it um with no one around me the exact
00:34:14
opposite of that is the red carpet to me and your life has put you there because
00:34:20
of your success right and you must get asked to go to red carpets all the time and events like
00:34:26
that all the time yeah and there's nothing [Music] the actual event um i mean again like presenting presenting
00:34:35
an award reading off an auto cue to present it i mean i it's an honor to do it i know it's not i know i have to do
00:34:42
it but the whole night whenever you're presenting is me on that table not enjoying that evening because i know
00:34:48
there was one point i've got to go up there and be in front of everyone and i've done it a million times now and it
00:34:53
still doesn't get any easier it's very very strange but um you know there you go it's easy to
00:34:59
accept award of course that's very interesting again again it's just a real i think for
00:35:04
most people it'd be a real surprise that um someone who is very out there visually
00:35:12
yeah no absolutely it makes no sense i understand that myself i tell people it makes no sense have you ever spoken to
00:35:17
like a therapist about that or anybody about probably should do yeah but no it'd probably be quite
00:35:22
interesting to know why i was and and actually might help me overcome some fears when it comes to my
00:35:28
anxiety and it does sound very strange even when i say it makes no sense um and it's probably why
00:35:36
maybe i've you know there's there's been sort of striving for not to be in front of the camera
00:35:42
especially with my own stuff is to be being ob behind it you know i've been creative director to quite a few brands
00:35:47
now on advisor and i've gone and helped just been on so many shoots so i just said i'll come on
00:35:53
as creative director i don't need to be paid i just wanna i just love being that
00:35:56
creative element to it gentleman's journal asked me in the raf and braylon asked me to direct her raf
00:36:02
film loved it absolutely loved not i wasn't in front and it was they were like no no we want you to be in front of
00:36:08
me i was like absolutely not i'll direct it not cast someone else for it who i
00:36:12
think is perfect for it because i'm not perfect i'm not good enough for that you
00:36:15
know not good enough but i just don't suit that role so i need someone else in
00:36:19
it again people look at me and go why would you not want to put yourself in that because i wasn't i'm not the right
00:36:24
part for it why just because the concept i've come up with in my head is not me
00:36:30
for that role i see someone else it's it's casting you know it's it's
00:36:34
because you think of the greatest role you know if you think top gun you think tom cruise what if they had put someone
00:36:39
else in that would that been the success it would be probably argue no you got asked to do 50 shades of grey right i
00:36:46
got it's a kind of a rumor i got i met the uh met the author and she said we would
00:36:52
love to send you the script because everything and i think it might have got got sent
00:36:56
and i i i admit i'd never read the books and yeah i mean they had they had i mean jamie
00:37:04
didn't you know jamie dornan an awesome actor you know he was a model i mean he was one you know he was one of
00:37:11
the biggest models but he wanted to go into acting and he's a great actor you know he's a very very
00:37:16
star and i there you know if i ever went you know i won't go into acting but
00:37:20
looking at that i was like i'm not i couldn't beat jamie i couldn't be as good as that
00:37:25
he's very very good and then you look at the other levels of sort of uh of other actors and you just
00:37:30
think it's not something i was i could i could learn i could you know sort of
00:37:35
learn to be quite getting it but i but i could never even you know be the best at it i also heard about
00:37:41
hercules 300 you were you're on yeah i mean it's crosstalk i mean you're always
00:37:45
going to be asked to do stuff like that just from the physical element of the way i look and
00:37:51
you know i'm going to be a part in it but it wasn't anything i was i've been you know and that i got my
00:37:58
being bonnet about the instagram in and where what i wanted to achieve in this so
00:38:04
there's there's always i said there's a couple of roles that i would play and i
00:38:07
would drop everything to go and play it and there's just a couple of stories
00:38:11
that i love i've even which ones one of them is about winston churchill's
00:38:16
bodyguard uh walter thompson i even found out who owns the riots to the to it all
00:38:24
and just the most incredible story and he was originally from epping in essex and
00:38:31
yeah winston churchill asked him to come back in the second world war he used to
00:38:34
be his bodyguard then he stopped and he came back and just the most incredible diary you
00:38:39
mentioned the diaries of being winston churchill's bodyguard wasn't easy yeah
00:38:42
of course fascinating because of course winston churchill that uh i can't whether they called his
00:38:49
episodes the black something or other which we now probably know as bipolar yeah you know and walter thompson was
00:38:56
the person that protected everyone or protected him from everyone seeing that wow so uh yeah just kept everyone away
00:39:03
from seeing seeing those episodes that no one would have realized speaking of um mental health disorders
00:39:09
then um you've you know you're an ambassador of a men's mental health
00:39:13
charity we're working with yeah and we're also working with calm and um others for the new brand yeah oh amazing
00:39:19
and um your new brand has a big sort of theme around men's wellness and um what does it what i guess the
00:39:28
question is why why did that matter to you and this is also why i asked the question around anxiety because
00:39:34
for you to make it a kind of mental well-being let's say a central part and mental wellness are essential part of
00:39:40
your brand and your mission one would assume that you've had an experience with it close to home because
00:39:47
i think that's one way that people typically generate a ton of empathy towards the
00:39:52
subject matter is feeling it feeling the pain of it whether within themselves within loved ones so what was it for you
00:39:57
that made you care so much about that i've never suffered from depression as when i'm very fortunate from as badly
00:40:06
as other people have and i've witnessed it because i've dated people that were then diagnosed with bipolar
00:40:14
and i've seen the extremities of mental you know mental health um me myself and i admit it's it's not happened for a
00:40:26
while would go into dark periods knowing i would snap out of it eventually but they were dark but nothing would
00:40:36
nothing would suffice nothing would cheer you up just quite in a dark place wanting to be on
00:40:42
my own just not around anyone wasn't triggered by anything but just one day i just knew i'd wake up
00:40:49
and it was gone just a chemical a chemical reaction in your brains basically what what it is
00:40:55
and yeah so i've i do understand and i can spot it in other people as well what
00:41:00
were the symptoms of it for you those dark periods the symptoms as a as i said was was just
00:41:07
nothing would make you you you couldn't snap out of it was nothing could make you happy or cheerful
00:41:14
you know you didn't like anyone you didn't want to be around anyone um it's hard to
00:41:23
the feelings are hard to explain and it was it never got to any point of seriousness i mean i've seen people
00:41:29
bipolar that will be in a room for hours on end for days on end watching the same tv series because that
00:41:37
their safety is watching that tv series and makes them a little bit happy you know because of just that safety for
00:41:43
some reason so i've seen i've seen the real dark side of it and i've also
00:41:50
from me dating someone like that of how hard it is to deal with it because you always want to try and make
00:41:57
that person better and you can't in in many many ways it's you can talk and you have to be you
00:42:07
know it's about just being patient and listening to people and trying to get them you know help
00:42:14
professional help there is an element we you know i i can only talk about certain around
00:42:18
the point and then it comes to an expert help that that they have to talk and that's what calm does you know it's it's
00:42:24
it's allowing people to talk to people um and there are people that are far better
00:42:29
people need to listen to people that's that's the point of it i think there's a
00:42:32
lot of people who even if they are talking to people they're not listening fortunately
00:42:40
it's never been that bad but i do understand it do you sleep well no i heard you hadn't slept well for almost
00:42:47
two decades no never slept well i didn't sleep when i was a child but i did was the other way around went
00:42:52
to bed early got ups you know went to bed you go to bed early and then my parents just left me being the end i
00:42:57
think they were just so sick of trying to get me to go to bed because i just didn't sleep
00:43:02
and i would be doing my homework at midnight one o'clock in the morning i still work now i was up till two
00:43:08
o'clock in the morning working last night and that's another thing when people go it's grafting or hard work
00:43:13
most people seem a lot of people are sitting down that half past eight nine o'clock in front of a tv race go to bed
00:43:20
half past eight i'm going to the gym get back up online do the shopping on the
00:43:23
way home cook myself some dinner go it doesn't stop in between is working on the phone
00:43:30
carrying on you know they'll you know pop us 10 or open the laptop and get them with some more work
00:43:35
if you're always grafting as you call it and it's and you said it doesn't stop
00:43:40
how does one become happy if they're always striving if they're always in the future or
00:43:44
did stop jim pandemic you so you sorry it did stop during the power during lockdown right yeah you
00:43:50
couldn't my my behalf the business is my business the modelling is traveling pretty much at
00:43:56
the end of the day you have to be in locations yeah it made you happy when it all
00:44:00
stopped to financial you know it affected me financially yeah and we'd already been infected quite
00:44:07
heavily in this industry by um you know say the brexit isn't it the blame of brexit now
00:44:16
it was the uncertainty of brexit so a lot of brands were not spending money not marketing money not having not
00:44:22
having budgets not working with the uk all this stuff different things also on certain brands
00:44:28
with social media now of old school campaigns versus digital which still hasn't quite fizzled out yet
00:44:34
they don't brands don't quite know where they are within the marketing world on
00:44:38
how to how to market to people how to target people so it's been affected by it
00:44:43
and you know that all kind of brexit got signed january whole different world it was sort of that december january of
00:44:53
what 2020. i was off to milan i was then going to spain i was then going to greece i was then going to new york i
00:44:59
was saying back to well i had the schedule like it used to be going off out to russia and i've been to russia
00:45:04
was really excited about going to russia for the first time in the pandemic yet everything got cancelled
00:45:10
and you're saying you were happier during the pandemic probably shouldn't
00:45:13
have been it's not unfortunate i'm very very fortunate and the fact is that yes
00:45:18
it affected me financially but it slowed you down i've invested well and i've you know it
00:45:27
there's reserves to yeah yeah point this out but um nice card collection yeah
00:45:33
exactly that's an expensive thing to be honest um there's a time probably the only time i
00:45:38
actually probably truly switch off and there's a week between christmas and new
00:45:40
year and that's when everyone i mean everyone virtually everyone is not doing anything during that week yeah
00:45:47
and that's a week where i probably switch off the most and we always sort of go away a week
00:45:52
later after that because because it takes time for people to get back and i suppose there's it's not fear of
00:45:58
missing out it's fear of other people working and i'm not working i should
00:46:01
always be working and during the pandemic no one was working how can you how can how can one be happy with with
00:46:09
their brain saying those things that that kind of constant nagging to be doing something or doing more or to be
00:46:15
striving how can that sounds like the the thief of happiness to me the thief of happiness that's a good i should be a
00:46:21
book um probably is listen i haven't got the answers to that would you consider yourself to be a
00:46:28
happy person a positive person why did you avoid the word happiness i don't know
00:46:36
completely honest that's something you'd probably have to ask her ask a psychologist i don't know happy
00:46:41
person i'm a positive person and i suppose i am a happy person in many ways yes that's right but i so it's just a
00:46:48
definition of what's positive what's happening is it all the same thing so in many ways in what ways do you
00:46:54
think you might not be a happy person again good question i i mean i am i'm happy
00:47:04
[Music] i put myself listen when i'm in control of what i do now that's why i always wanted it
00:47:13
anybody my control fair i don't know the hard work that's where we've got to has allowed me now to
00:47:21
to be in complete control of what my destiny of what i want to do if i want to renovating interiors huge
00:47:28
passion love doing it looks like a nightmare hard work for other people but i strive on it
00:47:34
renovating classic cars the same thing as i said to you earlier you're halfway through you think why am
00:47:39
i doing this why didn't i just buy a new car or you know a new bui the accomplishment is worth it to me
00:47:49
you know that sense of achievement that's what i'm striving for does it ever feel as good when you get
00:47:53
there yeah it does not for that long but it does i can take this couple of days yeah it's it's the same feeling as
00:48:09
you know when we if we're going to shoot light blue or something else and you have to work hard
00:48:14
you know in the gym to get i'm always in pretty decent shape but that's hard work to get in that shape and it's
00:48:21
getting harder the older i get and you dedicate a lot and you sacrifice a lot to
00:48:29
look like that and then there is that point of we've shot it we've seen through the pitch it
00:48:34
looks incredible you've achieved it and there is this evening of enjoying that
00:48:42
it's then on to the next thing you know it's what are we working on not next but
00:48:45
you know one of the other projects that i'm working on at the time do you have you found that in your
00:48:50
career dark episodes where you're where you feel down sometimes follow high episodes
00:48:58
because there's this really fascinating thing that i was reading about about
00:49:00
gold medal depression where up to 80 of um olympians regardless of outcome regardless of whether they win or they
00:49:06
don't come back from the olympics after training all of that excruciating effort
00:49:10
and they come back and 80 percent of them report sort of depressive symptoms i've read that i don't know where i was
00:49:17
i don't know where i've read that i've read the same thing and i could actually
00:49:20
resonate with that in in many ways sometimes actually achieving what what you want is
00:49:27
a bit it's sometimes the journey is the exciting bit which is a weird thing to say
00:49:33
it's we are on this journey of well where david ghani the brand at the moment and it is
00:49:39
so much hard work um tell me about that that whole inspiration the journey why why the brand yeah
00:49:51
because it was what i've wanted to achieve for so long is have that to me to have your own
00:49:58
brand and i didn't know what it was going to be i am a brand you know that's i say that
00:50:03
and it makes me sound like a bit of a dick no but you are but it is a brand and that's where people have to realize
00:50:08
you know when i say only sometimes that that's and then i would probably say it's 10 years i've
00:50:15
thought yes that's where one day i'd like to not saying i'm always going to
00:50:19
achieve it but yes from the creative side to being in control of that brand i'm always in control from
00:50:25
by other brands even if i'm collaborating with a brand there is still an element of control that
00:50:31
that brand has and i always thought yeah to be in complete control complete creative control and
00:50:38
that's a risk i never wanted people to think because i have a name because i've
00:50:42
been in the fashion industry for so long i could start a brand now people do now
00:50:46
you know they use social media one of the one of those elements is you can start something you can sell it
00:50:51
immediately you've got fans followers buyers it's made the marketplace a very
00:50:56
different place so i went back to really what i did for modeling observation putting myself in
00:51:03
the situation where i could learn and that was m s the collaboration with m s we saw the
00:51:08
david gandy loungewear no one was doing loungewear this was what are we talking about the concept
00:51:14
it was about six seven seven and a half years ago seven years ago lounge lounge where it wasn't a big concept it wasn't
00:51:20
it wasn't something that people thought about um and of course we did sleepwear
00:51:24
and t-shirts and everything else but it was loungewear that really took off and became the third biggest lounge in the
00:51:28
country and was successful and it had you know 60 to me in that brand as in what i
00:51:37
wanted to achieve on that brand but of course you couldn't get that last 40 because that was mns and i knew where i
00:51:42
wanted to go i knew what needed to be done but i couldn't push it any further than i sort of could
00:51:48
so that ended and then the pandemic hit and and locked down and one of my greatest friends charlie t
00:51:56
who has listened to me talk far too long about wanting to start my own thing and
00:52:02
he started his own branding agency to do exactly what i wanted and he said well listen i've started
00:52:11
this now you can be our first client but we're not talking about this anymore
00:52:16
we've got the time i've you know as my best friend who knows i'm never really
00:52:20
around it's i've got you here we work together i've gone i've got you
00:52:23
in the country we've got time let's start it what's your long-term vision
00:52:27
then for well where what's that what's the term what's it gonna become five ten years from now
00:52:34
i'd never really tell people where i've got in my head where something is going
00:52:37
hopefully going to be and there are small steps just you know to where we haven't even you know properly launched
00:52:42
yeah yeah the first ship and goes out on 22nd of october um but we wanted to do something different
00:52:50
with well where we wanted to to the essence of me it was understanding and we're calling it sort
00:52:58
of well we're well-being why clothing why does some clothing make you feel positive and confident
00:53:06
why do some not and we looked at we the studies done by amsterdam university and i think it was a
00:53:13
scientific you know element of if we put students in comfortable confident clothing they're confident that's
00:53:21
comfortable and soft their results are better than other people who are in uncomfortable clothing and they don't
00:53:27
feel as confident at all that's going in the same with business it was now why the banks the big banks
00:53:32
are saying you don't have to wear suits anymore because actually a lot of people
00:53:35
are more positive they're a lot more open to work with they're a lot calmer
00:53:40
it's oxytonin it's the same thing as feeling the ridiculously you know soft pillow or
00:53:45
puppy that softness that soft jumper can't you know that that thing you hold
00:53:50
on to is oxitone it's released into your brain it's a positive positive move and
00:53:54
that's what we wanted to do with and we looked into this and you know there was a side to me that was
00:53:59
fascinated by the element of it but i've always wondered why do i why do i hold on to that pair of jeans
00:54:06
until my ass is falling out the end of it and i would try and find that pair again
00:54:11
when i can't find that pair and why am i wearing those sweatshirts because well it was
00:54:18
one for comfort and that is an element of lots of things in the materials the breathability the style you still
00:54:26
gotta look stylish in it it makes you feel confident the fit that's why at the end of the day
00:54:32
that's why it was never to me about being trendy it was being confident and so many guys said to me
00:54:39
what do i do what do i wear here what are you confident in and then we've thought about every
00:54:44
element of the sweatshirts and the hoodies and the t-shirts of comfort level of style
00:54:50
of fit of quality of well-wear breathe well wear care we've put these elements into um
00:54:58
they're washed into the clothing that is aloe vera so pyjamas are moisturizing
00:55:02
you whilst your sleep anti-inflammatory we've got well-wear breathe and you know
00:55:06
sort of anti-bacterial elements of it which is another element of we're looking at fast fashion
00:55:14
fast fashion can be an addiction and people don't realize this addiction that you get a buzz from shopping but
00:55:22
actually you can be hugely affected knowing the impact of fast fashion on the environment actually
00:55:28
when that clothing lasts a week two weeks i was exaggerating it last you know but it can do some some people wear
00:55:34
it once and chuck it away yeah it's actually it can negatively impact you okay so there's a new
00:55:41
segment to this podcast we do what we do is we ask our previous guest to leave a question for our next guest
00:55:49
and um i've not read this question yet but i've just read it then as i said
00:55:52
this um so i'm going to ask you this question asked by someone that was sat in this the chair before you okay
00:55:58
they told me to ask you what do you promise to do to make our world a better place
00:56:05
okay can i have an easier question let me hit this right yeah yeah two weeks before yeah
00:56:12
just uh yeah let's let's take it back to hopefully promise to do um there's a number of things i do for
00:56:19
number charities but we won't talk about that and they're not promises but i
00:56:22
suppose the promises from well where to make people smile yeah to bring to bring back some
00:56:28
the positivity that i think is needed somewhere and i think we're with in this
00:56:34
polarized world that we are in is just to say [ __ ] it we're just going to make
00:56:39
people smile and and and have a laugh with everything that we do and and i think you uh you
00:56:45
can't put a magic value on that so that's what i promised to try and do over the years of well we're perfect
00:56:50
amazing thank you so much and you're gonna have to write in the book now as well okay a question for someone else
00:56:54
but listen david thank you so much for your time it's such an incredibly inspiring and twisting story of yours
00:57:00
and to see where you are now and taking on this this next adventure in business i find incredibly exciting the
00:57:05
entrepreneur me is fascinated by by that and i understand the challenge of that so
00:57:10
yeah well thank you for having me i wish i could have yeah you put out some good some good questions i probably
00:57:16
might need to no i could answer that's what i think i want to do i just always
00:57:19
want to pry but i pry because i'm curious and because i'm like fascinated
00:57:22
by those topics myself it's like there's nothing written down here that's telling
00:57:25
me to speak on those terms but yeah it's so fascinating and you also your level
00:57:30
of self-awareness i think is just really inspiring for a lot of people i i think it's something it's just
00:57:35
there's a therapeutic thing to talking of course i mean men don't do it we're useless um
00:57:41
that's mental health they wanted to know is people asking you talking yeah that's
00:57:44
what i'm saying a lot of people don't actually listen yeah um a lot of talking
00:57:48
about yourself a lot of people talking about themselves at the moment so there's a therapeutic side to this yeah
00:57:53
exactly for me as well you know that's what that's actually how it started it
00:57:56
was like it was like therapy for me because i was doing on my own going through my diary and just you know but
00:58:00
um it's it's honestly amazing and thank you so much for giving us that story
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Episode Highlights

  • The Imposter Voice
    David Gandy discusses the imposter syndrome that even successful people experience.
    “What's that imposter voice saying?”
    @ 00m 23s
    October 18, 2021
  • The Strategy Behind Success
    Gandy reveals that his success wasn't just luck, but a well-thought-out strategy.
    “That wasn't luck, it was strategy.”
    @ 08m 08s
    October 18, 2021
  • The Change After Light Blue
    Gandy shares how the launch of Light Blue changed everything for his career.
    “The day it came out, it just changed everything.”
    @ 11m 53s
    October 18, 2021
  • The Nature of Casting
    Casting is often seen as business, not personal. Understanding this can help you cope.
    “It wasn’t personal, it was almost business.”
    @ 18m 41s
    October 18, 2021
  • The Weight of Insecurities
    Even those in the modeling industry face insecurities, challenging stereotypes about beauty.
    “Doesn’t everyone have insecurities?”
    @ 20m 48s
    October 18, 2021
  • Anxiety in the Spotlight
    The pressure of public appearances can lead to anxiety, even for those who seem confident.
    “The red carpet is just not that environment for me.”
    @ 32m 04s
    October 18, 2021
  • The Paradox of Fame
    Fame can feel unnatural, leading to discomfort in public settings like red carpets.
    “It’s just an unnatural environment for me to be.”
    @ 32m 04s
    October 18, 2021
  • The Creative Process
    Exploring the joy of being a creative director and the challenges of stepping in front of the camera.
    “I just love being that creative element to it.”
    @ 35m 56s
    October 18, 2021
  • Mental Health Advocacy
    Discussing the importance of mental health awareness and personal experiences with anxiety.
    “I've never suffered from depression as badly as other people have.”
    @ 40m 03s
    October 18, 2021
  • The Thief of Happiness
    A reflection on the constant striving for success and its impact on happiness.
    “The thief of happiness, that’s a good... I should be a book.”
    @ 46m 20s
    October 18, 2021
  • The Impact of Fast Fashion
    Fast fashion can create a buzz but also negatively impacts the environment.
    “Fast fashion can be an addiction.”
    @ 55m 14s
    October 18, 2021
  • Therapeutic Conversations
    Discussing mental health and the therapeutic nature of talking.
    “It was like therapy for me.”
    @ 57m 56s
    October 18, 2021

Episode Quotes

  • Life is like a game of chess.
    David Gandy: Highest Paid Male Model Opens Up About Insecurities & Imposter Syndrome | E102
  • I've learned more from failure than I have from success.
    David Gandy: Highest Paid Male Model Opens Up About Insecurities & Imposter Syndrome | E102
  • I’ve never fitted in anywhere particularly well.
    David Gandy: Highest Paid Male Model Opens Up About Insecurities & Imposter Syndrome | E102
  • It makes no sense, I understand that myself.
    David Gandy: Highest Paid Male Model Opens Up About Insecurities & Imposter Syndrome | E102
  • The thief of happiness, that’s a good... I should be a book.
    David Gandy: Highest Paid Male Model Opens Up About Insecurities & Imposter Syndrome | E102
  • Fast fashion can be an addiction.
    David Gandy: Highest Paid Male Model Opens Up About Insecurities & Imposter Syndrome | E102

Key Moments

  • Career Transformation11:53
  • Imposter Syndrome13:34
  • Thick Skin Required18:06
  • Casting Realizations18:41
  • Anxiety and Fame25:56
  • Making People Smile56:39
  • Therapeutic Conversations57:56
  • Sustainability Journey58:11

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