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The B administration just like really screwed up our immigration policy in a profoundly dangerous way. But
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>> even if you agree that immigration is a problem, it seems division is the most
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compelling narrative for politicians. I remember this particular quote about the
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black community where he said, >> "What do you have to lose? >> I'm a black man. I feel like I've got
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things to lose." And my concern is when the western narrative is that it's the brown people that are the reason that
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your life is hard or like Mexicans and murderers. If I heard that from my political leaders, it's conceivable that
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I might be angry at my neighbor even though they've done nothing. >> But let let me just say very often what
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the president is accused of saying, he didn't say it or there was much greater context.
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>> You witness but but I think well the president I certainly have way different
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styles. But Donald Trump is much different as a human being than the media makes him out to be.
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>> But back in 2016, there was a private message between you and a roommate where
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you said Trump was either a cynical or America's Hitler. How do you go from that position to vice president
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of the same person? What what is that journey? >> A crazy journey, man. But look, I
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thought Donald Trump would be a failed president. He was not. I thought that America's institutions were
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fundamentally functioning. They were not. You always have to be able to acknowledge when you're right and when
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you're wrong. Like he's so non-conventional in the way that he does everything that things that were
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previously unimaginable are actually on the table. This peace deal with Iran, for example. But there's been lots of
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false deals. >> Well, this one's real. So, >> and Israel. Trump called Netanyahu a
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very difficult guy. What does Netanyahu want? >> I don't know. Well, what I would say is
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that we're different countries with different interests. >> Do you trust them? >> I don't really trust anybody. Having
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seen the president of United States operate, I feel quite confident that they are the junior partner. We're the
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senior partner. We are the world's superpower. >> I'm going to take a little bit of a hard
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turn. Um, do you think aliens could be real? >> I do. >> Mr. Vice President, I had no idea about
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your earliest context. >> Mhm. >> And it has informed what I've then seen from you later as an adult, but can you
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take me back? >> The emotion's still right on the surface for you. >> Very much so.
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on with the show. Mr. Vice President, I have your book here. Okay. And it says, "Of all the things that I
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hated about my childhood, nothing compared to the revolving door of father figures. I hated the disruption. And I
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hated how often these boyfriends would walk out of my life just as I began to like them."
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I always think to understand the people that are sat in front of me, you have to
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take get a picture of their early context. >> Sure. >> And I had no idea about your earliest
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context. and it it has in some respects informed what I've then seen from you later as an adult. But can you take me
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back to your context and explain that quote for me? >> Yeah. So, um I I was raised in very
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working-ass town, very working-ass family. You know, this is a photo of me when I was a little kid here. And my
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family, like a lot of other families in similar circumstances, we struggled. We struggled to adapt to middle class life.
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Yeah. This is my sister and my grandfather. It's interesting. My my my grandfather had very low formal
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education. and he graduated from high school. My grandmother actually left school when she was 13. Very religious
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people, particularly my grandmother, but you know, they they struggled pretty much economically for most of their
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lives. My grandfather died when I was 13. I think my grandmother died when I was 20. And you know, this is Yeah, this
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is right. This is probably not even a year before she died. And I was about to go to Iraq and she was very old and
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frail. And this is one of the last photos of the two of us. And this is really the woman who raised me because
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you raised the the revolving door of father figures. So mom, amazing person. She's been clean and sober for now 11
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years. But she was was in the throws of a pretty bad addiction problem for much of my childhood. And so this was kind of
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my savior. This was the person who stepped in and made sure I had a stable life to the extent that I did.
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>> And your grandmother, she got pregnant at 13. >> Correct. >> And she had a miscarriage at that age.
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>> Yeah, that's right. So, think about this. Eastern Kentucky, you're talking about the hills of an extremely
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impoverished, very rural part of the United States of America. And so, you know, she is dating my grandfather who I
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think at the time is 16. She's 13. So, these are children. She gets pregnant. They move to Ohio for more opportunity
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because you you just couldn't build a good life for yourself. There weren't enough good jobs in that part of the
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world. And she had a miscarriage. So, like the thing that brought her out of her home, I think hastened them getting
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married. I don't think they would have gotten married at 13 and 16 were it not for this unplanned pregnancy. You know,
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she was kind of in it then. So, they're married. They have a very chaotic marriage, an abusive marriage in a lot
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of ways. But they have three kids, my mom, my uncle, my aunt. And the story of our families in some ways, some of us
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were able to kind of break the cycle and some of us weren't. And part of what motivated me to write that book is
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trying to understand why is it why is it that life worked out for some of us and
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didn't work out for others. >> So your biological father >> Yeah. >> He he put you up for adoption.
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>> So he did. So I was adopted by a man when I was five or 6 years old by the name of Robert Hamill and he became and
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it's still technically if you look at my birth certificate he is still listed as
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my legal father. Now, he was in the picture from, call it, I was seven until 10 or 11. And then he and mom got
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divorced. He still stuck around for a little bit after that, but by the time I was 12 years old, he was just gone.
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Never talked to him again, never saw him again. And >> and am I right in thinking this is the
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the third man in your life at this point? Because your sister Lindsay comes from a different father.
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>> That's right. So So her father, a very good guy. She's five or six years older
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than me. And so he was the first of my mother's husbands. And then my dad, my biological father was number two. And
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then my legal father was number three. And then, you know, things sort of got a little quicker from that point forward.
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So there was a there was a there was more turnover, let's say, in the relationships at that point forward.
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>> There was also a guy called Matt thereafter at 13 years old that your mom had met.
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>> Yeah. Yeah. Good guy. Very close to him. He actually is very political and so he
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and I um reconnected a little bit over our shared interest in politics, but he was just a good hardworking guy. You
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know, he was only around for maybe a few years, probably less than that of my life, but he was a a significant and
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positive force. >> In your book, Page 124, you you say living with M and Matt, which is when
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you were 14 years old, was like a front row seat to the end of the world. >> Yeah. Yeah. Well, it was just chaotic,
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right? I mean, things that I thought of as normal that I later realized in, you know, talking to my wife or talking to
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friends that just a level of relationship instability, you know, fighting, people throwing stuff, if the
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fights get really bad, some person throws a plate at somebody else. Again, it sounds even talking about it now kind
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of crazy, but it was pretty normal back then. And, you know, sometimes it was worse and sometimes it was better, but
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there was a sense in which relationships were always just kind of chaotic. as an adult, you know, like you can
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almost imagine now that you've got so many kids yourself that I I can understand the feeling of craziness
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being normal and you kind of don't realize until you see into someone else's world or someone else hears about
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yours >> cuz I can relate to that in many ways. But as an adult, you must look back on
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that and now see the the way that that shaped you. >> Yeah. Well, it was very unhealthy. Um I
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certainly think again it was hard to sort of really feel a sense of stability. It was hard to really attach
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to people because you always assumed that they were going to be gone. And you know, years later, I was I was talking
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to I was actually at a a conference. I was giving a speech and this guy came up to me and he was a child psychologist.
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And you know, he said, you know, one of the things the literature shows is that people who come from traumatic or
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chaotic environments and end up doing pretty well, they always have one person, whether it was a teacher, a
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social worker, a grandparent, aunt or an uncle. They always have one person who sort of their anchor. And that seems to
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be the difference for a lot of these kids. And and again, I was lucky enough to have that. And I think about my life
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a lot of time, sitting here, I'm the vice president of the United States. What would my life have turned out to be
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if you'd had all that chaos which was just a background part of my life? But you take out those stabilizing forces.
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God knows man. >> Your grandmother knows my grandmother. That's right. >> Cuz through your story when I was
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reading about your childhood, she seemed like the safe place that you would retreat to over and over again.
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>> You know, I was obviously I think it's very important for boys to have male role models, to have father figures that
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they look up to. She was in in an unconventional way like both a mother figure and a father figure. She was
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extraordinarily odd. And I mean that in the most loving way possible, but she was just incredibly tough. You know, I
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was, I don't know, 12, 13. I was hanging out with one of the kids in the neighborhood who was kind of going down
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a bad path. He actually would later spend some time in jail, but you know, he was getting into drugs, starting to
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smoke weed, starting to do a little bit more than that. Again, 12, 13, so we were pretty young kids. My grandmother
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found out and she told me that if I kept on hanging out with this kid, she was going to run him over with her car. And
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then I was like kind of caught off guard by that. And then she said, "Jie, I promise you and no one will ever find
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out about it." And I was like, "Wo." So like for the sake of this kid, I pretty much stopped hanging out with
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him. But that toughness, I think, was like a necessary part. It was like through sheer willpower that she kept me
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on the straight narrow. And uh again, I don't know where I'd be without her. >> And over the next sort of couple of
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decades, your mother your mother's addiction um seems to get worse and worse. >> It does. It does.
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>> From prescription drugs to heroin and everything in between. And it really sort of ravages not just her life, but
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the family's life. >> That's right. >> Nearly making your your grandparents bankrupt.
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>> Yes. And mom, by the way, has been clean and sober for 11 years, which is an amazing thing. But you know, when Papal
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died, he was what my grandmother was for me. I sort of realized that that's what
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papa was for mom. He was her safe place. He was her anchor. And I think she already had some addiction problems, but
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it just really accelerated from there. And things kind of went off the rails. And you know, my my grandparents before
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my grandfather died were trying various ways to help her. And yeah, it got worse
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and worse, harder and harder drugs, had a few bad overdoses, and you know, by the grace of God, some miracle, you
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know, it's it's amazing how transformed she is. And it sort of drives home how for some people drugs are just they they
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take so much away from a human being. And she was certainly that that way. And in the same way that they took so much
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away from her, sobriety has given her a whole lot back. >> If I asked your wife >> Yeah. how this season of your life, the
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most formative season of your life, >> has changed you. >> What are all the things you would say?
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It's funny because I remember interviewing, I think it was Michael Jordan's coach,
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>> and he said to me that people's dark sides and their light sides are like fundamentally interconnected.
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>> Yes. >> And I can relate. >> Absolutely. >> The things things people might clap for
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or applaud about, you're also fundamentally linked to the things that you struggle with or that make you
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sometimes not the most normal person. Yes, that makes total sense to me. I think on the dark side, what she would
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say is I have an extraordinary mistrust. I think of of people that I don't know particularly well. I sort of
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assume the worst sometimes about circumstances and and and things outside of my control, but I maybe assume the
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best about the people themselves, right? So, there's an inherent like sense that
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the world is going to fall apart. I think that's a very true thing. I mean, even in like our marriages, it would be
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hard to imagine. I'm not saying, you know, all marriages are work, but it would be hard to imagine like a marriage
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that was more successful and more happy than ours. Our kids are doing great. They're healthy. Like, my wife and I
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love each other very much, but we're also just like, she really is my best friend. She's the person I talk to about
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everything. She's my closest confidant. And yet, there are all kinds of times during our 12-year marriage where I've
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just had this thought like, there's no way this is going to last. either because she's taking the kids to the
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grocery store and I start thinking to myself, "Oh my god, a drunk driver is going to have a head-on collision." I I
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I just there's a sense of like instability that is very much built in. That's that's kind of the dark. I think
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the light is because I've seen a lot of people at their very best and their very
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worst. I sort of assume the best about the human beings themselves. So even though the circumstances are crazy and
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even though hits the fan sometimes completely outside of your control, I just I think what she would say is that
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I probably have a higher empathy quotient than any person that she knows. >> And I really try to understand what
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makes people tick. And so there's there's the light and the dark together. But there's there's a lot beyond that. I
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mean, look, I mean, I I was a lot of work when I look back at our early relationship and we'd have an argument
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like before we ever married and and I'd be like, "Okay, well, fine. Let's just break up." And her response is like,
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"Well, that's crazy. Why would we break up? Let's just like have a rational conversation." Like, I honey, I don't do
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rational conversations in this context. That is not something we do. But again, so long as you're, I think, self-aware
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about that, it's a problem that you can solve. And certainly I I mean I think she would say com now compared to 14
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years ago when we first started dating it's just night and day but very early on it was a chaotic relationship itself.
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>> Clearly an avoidant attachment style which obviously makes a ton of sense 100%. Yeah
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>> I can relate. And >> yeah I didn't have the vocabulary to describe that but that's exactly what
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that was. Did you go did you have to go to like couples therapy? Because it it seems
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almost inconceivable that you could go through that early context, have be so avoidant, see be so sort of on on edge
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with commitment and see everything as kind of being ephemeral yet still have a healthy relationship like the one you
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you have with her? >> No, never went to coup's therapy. I actually went to like therapy a couple
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of times and I just found it way too uncomfortable to talk to a stranger and so you know uncomfortable. Well, no, no.
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I mean, this is I guess this is kind of a we, you know, a weird kind of therapy,
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but no, it it's it just the idea. The other thing I really didn't like about it, and again, I don't mean this to
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criticize therapy. I'm sure it helps a lot of people. So, so please don't take this the wrong way. But there was
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something about it that felt almost too self-reerential and too like it almost encouraged at
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least me to blame others or to blame my past or to blame my mom or to blame it just I really didn't like this feeling
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that I was sort of giving up agency over my own life. And so we've just gotten better at how we relate to each other.
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But that's primarily me. I mean, she grew up in a very stable situation. So, her parents are South Asian immigrants
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to the United States of America. But she was born and raised in San Diego, California. You know, just very normal
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middle class Southern California life. And I think because that she just had much healthier, let's say, much
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healthier relationship practices than I did. >> That point about understanding the
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person on the other end and having empathy for the human being. >> Politics. >> Yeah. appears to be almost exact because
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I watch the I watch the election campaigns. I watch how like yourself and the president went against um people
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like Camala Harris. >> Sure. >> So you must with that logic think that Kamala Harris is actually like a really
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good person. Like you must understand Kamala. >> I I don't I I don't have I wouldn't say
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that I understand her. I would say that I just don't have this animosity towards
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people on the other side. >> But you is that not like sort of implicit in the job itself that you have
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to point out their faults and >> Yeah, you do. Yeah. No, absolutely. But I think you can be sort of rational
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about it. You can be cerebral about it. Certainly there are things the other side does that annoy me. But you know
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like my my fundamental bias is that just most people are good people. And to the
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extent that they do something you disagree with, it's either because they screwed up on something or because they
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made a mistake or I just I've always been like this. I've always been more charitable about other human beings. And
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I I don't know. Again, maybe I pro maybe I do that too much. Maybe I'm too charitable. But I'd rather be too
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charitable than too cynical about human beings because that I mean you talk about a screwed up perspective to take
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into politics. If you're always cynical about other people's motivations, man, you're going to be in a very very bad
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spot. I actually think the same about interviewing remarkably because No, because I I miss I meet so many people
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from so many different and one of the things that I've come to learn is just just try and meet everybody as I
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experience them versus like >> you know especially when I'm interviewing politicians
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>> it's I just want to meet them as I experience them versus thinking about how they've been framed or whatever. And
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it's actually made me much more empathetic because again obviously we all have preconceptions and then you
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meet someone and you go, "Oh, they are a family person. They care about X Y and Z. They care about the same things. They
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just disagree about pathways." >> Yeah. Yeah. Of course. >> But politics seems to be like the the
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sort of game of politics to me seems to be like paint the other side to be malicious.
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>> Well, I I think the game of politics I mean fundamentally you're making a pitch
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to people, right? It's not it's not about Kla Harris or Donald Trump or JD Vance or Tim Walls. is about the
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American people, right? And fundamentally to make that sales pitch, you have to say what's better about this
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product, what's worse about the other product. So that that is just inherent. But again, I I think you can do that.
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You know, what I always try to do is I try to talk about here are the policies that are really bad. Here are the
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reasons why I think this is screwed up. Here are the reasons why I think that she made mistakes. But I, you know, it
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is weird. It is fundamentally you are in a position where you're trying to point
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out the faults in another people, even if it's just their conduct as opposed to their character. But even with that, I
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again I I I do think that you see people in politics who fundamentally just really hate the people on the other
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side. >> Yeah. >> That's that's just not me. It's never going to be me. Even when I'm being very
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pugilistic, like even when you you really have to drive home a point, like I you know, not to get too much into the
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weeds of of partisan politics, but like something I think the Biden administration just like really screwed
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up in a profoundly dangerous way was the was our immigration policy. right now. There are all kinds of reasons why that
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might have happened. But fundamentally, that was a very, very, very bad screw up, but I don't hate Kla Harris because
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I think she had a bad immigration policy. I just think it's important to point out the flaws
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>> on on the immigration policy. I mean, still got to go through your chart here,
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but on this point of immigration, this is another area where you get such division.
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>> Sure. >> And you get, you know, I remember watching the there was a couple of
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things I remember watching when I was I think probably back in Plymouth um in the countryside. One of them was like
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Trump, the president demonizing me Mexican people and brown people. I remember this particular quote which
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I've always struggled with a little bit where he said about the black community,
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what have you got to lose? And I remember thinking, I'm a black man. I feel like I've got things to lose. Um
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that kind of narrative about those individuals, that broadstrokes sort of demonization of them would make
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people's lives harder and feels unnecessary. Even if you agree that immigration is a problem, the the sort
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of like skin color or religion or like Mexicans rapists and murderers is is might might galvanize in the near term,
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but in the long term is probably going to sow division and that's probably net negative for society.
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Well, what I one thing I'd say just about anything that I've ever heard the president say that then that's then
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refracted through the lens of social media or you know non-social media >> is very often what he is accused of
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saying he didn't say it or he said it in a totally different way or there was much greater context. So like I like I
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remember for example like I remember back in 2016 or 2015 whenever he said this sort of being like offended at the
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rapists and murderers line >> and then I went and looked at what he said and what he said which is actually
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true is that some of these countries are actually encouraging prisoners to come into the United States of America. Does
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that mean that every person comes in America as a rapist or a murderer or as a prisoner? No, it doesn't. But he
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didn't say that. Right. So, so again this goes back to the point about being charitable is I I do try to understand
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fundamentally like why did a person say that? >> What are they actually thinking? What
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are they trying to get across? And again, if you disagree with that's fine. >> You wouldn't have said that.
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>> But but I think well the president and I certainly have way different styles.
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Absolutely. We have different styles. But I mean the the way that I talk about immigration I'd say that's one of the
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issues where we've always been like extremely closely aligned and that was obviously a major issue during the 2024
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campaign. But the way that I think about immigration is is fundamentally like as
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a country you are the people who live in your nation. Okay? So America's 330 million souls, you know, I think fun
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again most of them who whether they voted for me or not, they're really good people and they want really good things
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for their families. They want really good things for themselves. And yeah, there are like some bad apples in every
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crew, 330 million people. There are definitely some bad people, but most people are fundamentally good and
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decent. However, you could let people into your country who could be fun, decent, normal human beings who just
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kind of mess with the the equation a little bit. It's like if I have a bunch of people over to my house for dinner
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and I I invite 10 people to come over for dinner and one of them brings a stranger, it's probably going to be fun,
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right? But if like every single one of them bring three strangers, it's going to totally change the character of the
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conversation that you're going to have of the room that you're going to have. A country is like that just on a much more
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massive scale. So I maybe come at it or I describe it a different way. But fundamentally I think that the president
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was very right about immigration in a way that was preient. And even if the blunt way that he described it offended
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some people, I think it was like a very important contribution to not just our country but to the world. I think it
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would be hard to find an American who didn't think we needed um again I'm not an American so I I guess I'm talking
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about wherever I'm from but we needed borders and a policy around borders. >> Sure.
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>> Just in the same way that we have it around our house and every festival we enjoy and whatever it whatever venue we
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go to. I think the um the thing I've always been concerned about when I see the sort of rising narrative across the
00:23:23
world, not just in America, but now across the West, um the UK as well, is in trying to solve that problem, it
00:23:30
seems that like division is the most compelling narrative for politicians. And then the like downstream consequence
00:23:35
of division you see playing out on the streets. You see like especially in the UK at the moment you're really seeing um
00:23:42
certain communities be quite um demonized and victimized because of this broad political narrative which which is
00:23:48
being used to get people into power. But then the downstream consequences of like
00:23:52
real people on the streets that are brown or black or Muslims is like >> I don't think the people at the top
00:23:58
consider that. Well, I mean I is there another way of of making the point on immigration,
00:24:03
legal immigration without demonizing people? >> Well, I I certainly when when I talk
00:24:08
about it, to the extent that I demonize anybody on the immigration conversation,
00:24:12
I demonize the leadership that is immune to thinking about the consequences of this. And so just this this point about
00:24:19
division, division is a very interesting word to me because I think division is very bad. Like I I like living in a in a
00:24:24
community that's cohesive, where people get along, where we love everybody regardless of what they look like or
00:24:29
what they what thoughts they might have in their head. But like let me give you like a slightly different perspective on
00:24:34
the division thing. What if division is not the result of politicians demonizing
00:24:40
certain groups? But what if division is the inevitable consequence of when the population changes too quickly, too fast
00:24:47
in a given society? and what you see as as you know politicians exploiting division. I actually think that what
00:24:54
they're trying to do is articulate a feeling that people have and sometimes people might express that feeling in
00:25:01
ways that we don't like or maybe they're offensive but but fundamentally like let's just say you're you know you're a
00:25:08
working-class guy in Britain or you're a working- class guy in the United States
00:25:11
of America and you know somebody moves in your neighborhood. >> That's right. I did I did.
00:25:17
>> Yeah. So my my black we my family is obviously black. My mom's Nigerian and I
00:25:21
came from Botswan and I moved into an all white neighborhood. >> Okay. And I mean how did people treat
00:25:25
you? >> Uh we were called the n-word a couple of times. >> Well like like that's terrible. I don't
00:25:31
like that. But I imagine that a lot of people in your community were welcoming unless unless
00:25:35
>> you know they were. For sure. For sure. But you know as a kid you only remember
00:25:38
the ways you stand out. >> No of course you know that can be like Yeah. And I understand that and I and I
00:25:43
certainly think it's important to like try to fight back against that stuff. Like we don't want young kids who come
00:25:47
into a community for that to be like their their memory. But like I also like our next door neighbor was black family
00:25:54
and my my grandmother was not woke. She did not have progressive views about race or gender or pretty much anything
00:25:59
else. But like she really loved I'll never forget this. The the the black man who lived next door to us, she said he
00:26:06
has a good heart. And that was her highest compliment of anybody. >> He was a preacher. The family was like a
00:26:11
very very good family. Stable family. Mom, dad, few kids. And I was very close to to to the young son. And I I just I
00:26:18
did not experience that. When people talk about division, I just did not see that family as substantially different
00:26:26
from us. And I don't think that family I'm sure they experienced racism, but I don't think that was like a common
00:26:33
fixture of their day living in that neighborhood. Now, yeah, that's >> where Mammald really did resist the
00:26:38
changes is when we had a few people like the neighborhood went downhill very quickly, and I talk about that a little
00:26:46
bit in the book, and you had a bunch of people move in with different habits, and you had a woman who, you know, she
00:26:52
said a bath, but then she got drunk and passed out, and so she ruined her entire
00:26:57
house. And you know some at some level was it wrong for my grandmother to feel offended that her neighborhood had
00:27:06
changed so quickly so fast that she never felt she didn't feel comfortable there anymore or the people who came in
00:27:13
had different values or she couldn't hold a conversation with somebody in the same way. You know, I I got attacked by
00:27:19
this on this during the campaign in 2024 when I said, you know, it's actually okay if you're an American, an English
00:27:27
native speaker, it's actually okay for you to want the person who moves in next to you to speak English, not because
00:27:33
you're a racist or a xenophobe, but because you want to be able to talk to the person you share a community with.
00:27:39
And so what what I often see is that division gets magnified when statesmen don't do the job of actually ensuring
00:27:48
that integration is possible. And for integration to be possible, it has to be, I think, slowmoving. You have to be
00:27:54
careful, right? A 100 people moving into a community is different from 10 people
00:27:58
moving into a community. You have to make sure that everybody has economic opportunities, right? It's one thing to
00:28:04
welcome a newcomer when everybody has access to a good job, but you welcome a newcomer when a lot of people are
00:28:10
feeling economically distressed. They're going to react to it totally differently. So again, this is maybe me
00:28:15
being charitable to people you think I shouldn't be charitable to, but fundamentally like my job as an elected
00:28:21
leader is to create the kind of environment where division happens less. It's not to pretend that division
00:28:29
doesn't exist. people naturally, I think, feel reactive when things change too quickly, and that's okay.
00:28:36
>> No, I I understand the the sort of human instinct of of uh I guess of kind of
00:28:41
like xenophobia in a way. Um and I think we all we all would want our neighbor to
00:28:46
be able to connect with our neighbor. >> Yeah. >> I think it's like the the point of
00:28:49
nuance is when they can't speak my language, what do I then do about that? And I think, you know, maybe if my
00:28:58
neighbor didn't speak my language, we might not get along because we won't be able to connect and talk. But but I
00:29:02
wouldn't be angry at them. And I and my my concern is from a high level when the
00:29:06
the sort of western narrative now is that it's the brown people that are the reason that your life is hard is I if if
00:29:12
I believed that if I heard that from my political leaders, it's conceivable that
00:29:15
I might be angry at my neighbor even though they've done nothing. Just their presence alone might make me resent them
00:29:21
a little bit. And then what happens when I resent them? because I'm being told that they're the reason that I'm
00:29:25
suffering. They're the reason I don't have a job. And then we get into this these like cultural wars, which is a
00:29:31
slippery slope. I've always >> I hear you. But what I would say is is I'm not mad, and I said this on the
00:29:37
campaign trail all the time. I'm not mad at the illegal alien who broke our laws
00:29:40
and came into the country. Probably some of them probably didn't even know they were breaking our laws, who came into
00:29:45
our country and wanted better opportunity for their families. What I am mad is the political system. The I
00:29:53
don't know, right? It's hard to say, but I am mad at the political system that encourages people to break those rules
00:29:59
and sews division and then gets mad at the native population for looking around and saying, "Wait a second. I didn't
00:30:04
sign up for this. I didn't agree to this." So, I just like, you know, I don't know what you describe that. I I
00:30:10
would say there's an instinct in every human being to want to share a community with people where you've got something
00:30:16
in common with. Okay. And and it's like everything, right? A little bit of spice
00:30:20
is good. Too much spice changes the the dynamic a little bit. And I think most people, they're okay with change, but
00:30:28
change that happens too fast, too quickly. I think in an immigration context is very very bad for a country.
00:30:32
And I think you guys have had that. We've had that. A lot of European countries have had that. I don't even
00:30:37
feel particularly angry um at any country because it's a mistake that all of us made. But now that you see that, I
00:30:44
mean, you rightly call it division. I just think that we have to say, "Wait a second. let's try to do things a
00:30:48
slightly different way. >> I think algorithms also play a big role in that because of the the design.
00:30:53
>> Yeah. Yeah. Absolutely. >> So that's but that's probably another conversation. Um I do think though if I
00:30:58
if my family were struggling or at all in danger at risk and there was a an area of land over there that offered
00:31:07
them a better chance. I personally think for the sake of my family if my family was struggling I would try and move my
00:31:12
family into that area. And I I assume you would do the same. I assume you would if your family I've got this
00:31:17
wonderful photo of your kids and your wife. Well, if America went to catastrophe and Mexico was doing great,
00:31:23
would you not try and get into Mexico even if it wasn't um you didn't have a visa?
00:31:28
>> I No, I don't think I would. I mean I I I can understand why some people have to
00:31:31
like move, you need to eat, you need to provide for your family. But you know, I
00:31:35
I I think that this is another thing about about the immigration thing that is that is challenging is, you know, you
00:31:41
want people to feel a certain rootedness and a certain devotion to their country.
00:31:45
You know, one of the things that's very unique about America compared to Europe is there's this poll question that went
00:31:50
around when I was a teenager, maybe I was in my early 20s, and it asked, "What percentage of young people in that
00:31:57
society would die for their country if they had to?" Like, I'm not excited about the idea, but would actually do
00:32:02
it. In the United States, it was something like 70%. And in all the other European, all the other Western
00:32:07
countries, it was like 20 to 35%. And so, you know, you talk about like, okay, moving to Mexico because there's
00:32:15
economic opportunity in in a universe where Mexico is flourishing and America's struggling. I get what you're
00:32:21
saying that you want people to move and migrate to the place where they can have
00:32:25
a chance of feeding their family, but like I I love this place in a way that is totally independent of the economic
00:32:31
opportunities it provides to my children. There's something much deeper and there's a connection to to to the
00:32:36
places, to the memories, to the folkways. I I mean I I drive through Eastern Kentucky, man, and those
00:32:44
beautiful rolling hills and even mountains, but they're all mountains that are a light with life because
00:32:50
they're, you know, it's not the Rockies. You know, you go you go to you go to West Virginia, you should do this. It's
00:32:56
the most beautiful area, I think, in the world because you get the mountains and
00:32:59
you get the rivers and you get that, but it's also so green and rich with life. I
00:33:04
feel an attachment to it that is very, very unique. But even if if your family were at risk, you wouldn't move them
00:33:11
into Mexico. >> Well, I mean, look, my my the story of my family, my grandparents, is they came
00:33:17
from Eastern Kentucky and moved to southern Ohio, not exactly that far away. These are these are two very close
00:33:21
areas, but they moved away even though they didn't want to because of economic opportunity to provide for their
00:33:26
families. So, I I certainly empathize with that. I mean, yeah, if somebody showed up, I mean, like, I'm the vice
00:33:30
president. I have a Secret Service detail. It's hard to put myself in this perspective right now, but if like
00:33:34
somebody showed up to my home in Cincinnati and pointed a gun at my head and said, "You have to leave or we're
00:33:38
going to kill your children." I'd leave, right? But >> yeah, >> I I think most migration decisions are
00:33:45
not actually that >> extreme >> consequential and extreme. >> Makes sense. >> Yeah. There should be a button just down
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00:34:10
>> I go into the Marine Corps. Yeah. So, this is this is me in I believe right after boot camp. So, 2003, maybe May.
00:34:18
Yeah, I think 2003. This is me. This photo is taken in boot camp. And this is I'm pretty sure this is taken in Iraq.
00:34:24
Actually, this is either in ' 05 or ' 06 at a point when, you know, the Iraq war
00:34:30
was not going well. But >> why did you die? >> What was the decision? >> You know, there was this sense, and in
00:34:37
hindsight, I really resent this. I mean, I'm genuinely still angry at George W. Bush over this, even though, again, I I
00:34:44
try to I try to be charitable and I have friends who worked for him, think he's a
00:34:48
great guy. Not saying he's not, but when I was a senior in high school, I remember
00:34:55
I'm at a restaurant. It's called Skyline Chile in southwestern Ohio. And this guy
00:35:01
comes out of Skyline Chile. He's got like a World War II red veterans hat. We call them Red Hatters in the United
00:35:06
States. So he was a veteran of World War II. And I remember feeling like cuz you
00:35:11
know even that stage, this is probably 2003, 2002 maybe. Remember thinking to myself, this generation is dying away.
00:35:17
like I I have this feeling, right? Because most most veterans you met, they were veterans of Vietnam, maybe of the
00:35:23
first Iraq war. But I just went up and I was I shook his hand. I said, "Thank you, sir, for your service." And you
00:35:28
know, he was like genuinely touched. But I remember thinking, "This guy answered
00:35:33
the call. Now we have to answer the call." You know, September 11th happened when I was a junior in high school. And
00:35:39
there was this patriotic sense of this is our World War II, right? And even some of the historical analogies that
00:35:47
got used were the exact same. Saddam Hussein was Adolf Hitler. What if you had had an opportunity to stand up and
00:35:53
say no to Adolf Hitler when he annexed the Sudatan land? Wouldn't you have taken that chance? And it it's like they
00:36:00
they they were so good at tapping into that patriotic reservoir. And by the way, I think that reservoir is a very
00:36:06
valuable thing. I think it's important for statesmen to cultivate it, but only to tap into it when it's really
00:36:11
necessary and when it's really justified. And what was so screwed up about Iraq is I mean I remember like I
00:36:17
went to the Marine Corps recruiter and I wanted to be Marine because my older cousins were Marines and people said the
00:36:23
Marines were the toughest. Whether that's true or not, that was certainly the impression that Marines had of
00:36:27
themselves. I signed on the dotted line. I went in what's called open contract. So sometimes you sign up and you have
00:36:33
your job assigned like you already know what you're going to do. I went I went an open contract. I said, "You can give
00:36:38
me whatever job you want to. I just want to be a Marine." And I I I did that because I loved my country and I wanted
00:36:46
to contribute in the same way that that guy who wore a red hat, was still wearing his red hat, was still proud of
00:36:52
it, knew that he contributed. And uh you know that led me of course to go to Iraq
00:36:56
from '05 to '06 and made a lot of friends gained a ton of appreciation for the Marine Corps as an institution and
00:37:02
the people but you know became a little jaded about our political leadership. >> Why are you you said you you kind of
00:37:07
annoyed at Bush >> because that patriotic reservoir that exists in any country I think it's maybe most
00:37:15
powerful in the United States of America because again we have this 70 70 plus percent of young people say they would
00:37:22
die for their country. It's very unique among advanced economies. And I'm sure a
00:37:26
lot of people in Europe look at that and say, "Oh, those jingoistic idiots, they're, you know, they're they're wrong
00:37:30
or there's something bad about that." But I actually think you ha to have a real nation, you have to have the
00:37:36
willingness that if, god forbid, something happens, you're willing to put on your uniform and go and do what needs
00:37:42
to be done. But again, in order for that to work, in order for that feeling to be
00:37:47
justified, leaders have to not take advantage of it. You can't say Saddam Hussein is Adolf Hitler. He wasn't.
00:37:54
>> You You got to be careful with it. And I don't think that George W. Bush was careful with it. I I think that he
00:37:59
called the nation to do something that ultimately wasn't actually in our best interest as a nation, but more
00:38:06
fundamentally, he drew on that wellspring of patriotism to direct us to do something that we shouldn't have been
00:38:13
doing in the first place >> because he had bad information or because of negligence or incompetence.
00:38:17
>> I don't I mean, I you know, I know enough people who know him. I think he had bad information but you know
00:38:22
fundamentally like post 911 was really important. We had to go and deal with the terrorist networks
00:38:31
that had existed all across the world that had been allowed to fester over the previous generation of of American
00:38:37
negligence. But fundamentally the war on terrorism was not an existential thing to the United States
00:38:43
of America in the same in the way that like World War II was an existential thing for Britain. Right. And I think we
00:38:49
just we have to be careful about how we describe what we're asking our young people to do because if you ask them to
00:38:57
do something and they feel like you were being honest with them, I think that sort of pays dividends into that
00:39:02
patriotic reservoir. If you ask somebody to do something and it turns out you were lying to them, whether it was
00:39:07
intentional or not, I think you draw down that patriotic reservoir. I don't know what the By the way,
00:39:12
>> I mentioned that that poll and you know, I don't have the information. I don't
00:39:15
know the data in front of me, but whatever the number of Americans, young Americans who say they would die for
00:39:21
their country, I would bet my I' I'd bet a lot of money that that number in 2026
00:39:27
is much lower than it was in 2003. >> So, it's really like a sort of a contract with the nation that's built on
00:39:33
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See you there. >> The the US is I guess in a war now. >> Well, not anymore. >> Famous last words.
00:41:51
>> Fair. >> We are in a ceasefire that I feel very good about. >> Okay. that we announced. I know this
00:41:55
will air later, but but we announced the ceasefire. We announced the the peace agreement with the Iranians yesterday.
00:42:01
>> Yes. I've learned so much about war because of this war. Um, in part because I'm an interviewer at the time of war
00:42:08
and so I've been having lots of conversations with lots of people about the nature of war and I've learned so
00:42:11
much. Frankly, I didn't know anything about Vietnam and really the psychology of war. Yeah.
00:42:15
>> And how like when you start a war, Robert P said this to me. He said, "The thing people underestimate about a war
00:42:21
is when the bombs start dropping, politics changes both where the bombs are dropping and at home."
00:42:26
>> Sure. >> And I I to some degree think that with the Iran war now, that's like exactly
00:42:31
what happened >> from my assessment of it, which is it looked like it was going to be quite
00:42:37
straightforward. Drop the bombs, take out the leader. Um the people rise up, which is what um the president had said.
00:42:43
He had encouraged the people to rise up when those bombs dropped and Kmeni was taken out. But then what then happened?
00:42:48
What it's again I don't know what I'm talking about here so please correct me is it looked like the country kind of
00:42:52
fractured into all of these sort of little pockets of militia and military um I remember I think it was heath
00:42:59
saying it just takes some time for the carrier pigeon to get out to where the soldiers are the outpost but and it
00:43:04
speaks to how the fracturing had happened >> and then I heard the president and I
00:43:08
think yourself multiple times say like we don't really know who we're negotiating with or words to that effect
00:43:15
>> because we've taken out the first and second row of leadership ship and then I
00:43:20
I thought we gosh we're in the same situation again where the bomb started dropping unintended consequences were
00:43:27
there's now not one central leadership to negotiate with but also politics at home has shifted the I mean the approval
00:43:33
ratings of I got this graph of the approval ratings had started to plummet at home
00:43:38
>> and politics is changing on the ground there as well is this another forever war
00:43:44
>> well the answer is no um and you This is always when I I talked about this this
00:43:51
conflict. I always said Donald Trump learned the lessons. It's actually that's almost unfair to him. He didn't
00:43:59
learn the lessons of the Iraq war because back during the Iraq war, he was saying this was stupid. We should get
00:44:04
out of Iraq. He was saying that back then. And I think that while there were certainly some objectives that we had in
00:44:11
this conflict, I just never had any doubt. Now, obviously I'm an insider. I saw the president's deliberations and
00:44:16
thought on this, but I I never had any worry that this would become a multi-year expedition with no end in
00:44:22
sight because I knew that we had leadership that was trying to define the objective very narrowly, accomplish the
00:44:28
objective, and then see where we are. Mhm. >> And so, you know, if you go back, you
00:44:32
talk about this this street uprising, certainly there was some thought that it would be possible that the Iranian
00:44:38
street would rise up in the face of this thing and that you would see, you know,
00:44:43
a new government that was much more pro-American, much more pro-western. What what happened though is and what we
00:44:51
knew we could do is degrade their military. That was the that was actually the primary objective. Yes, the
00:44:56
president talked about the Iranians rising up, but the primary objective was always to degrade their conventional
00:45:01
power so that we could be in a better position visa v Iran so that whoever was calling the shots, they didn't have a
00:45:07
loaded gun to our head anymore. Okay? And that's what we knew we could accomplish. And then there was always
00:45:12
the question about, okay, now that we've accomplished that, where do we go from here? And you know, one one of the
00:45:18
things that I I feel just just quite good about this moment that we're in is the president basically bought us an
00:45:24
option. He said, "We can weaken their military, destroy their conventional military, we can change their
00:45:31
leadership, and then we can actually present a pathway to the Iranian leadership. Where do we go from here?"
00:45:37
Like, you said something very interesting that was true months ago that's not true now. Two months ago, I
00:45:42
would have said, "I have no idea who we're who we're negotiating with." Absolutely. Now, I feel very confident
00:45:47
that we have an understanding of who we're negotiating with, what it is that they care about. Yes, there are
00:45:52
fractures in their system. Well, there there so so so so the Iranian system, this is oversimplifying it a lot, but it
00:45:59
has kind of three poles. There's the political poll, the people who are most responsive to the leadership. That's the
00:46:05
foreign minister, the president, the speaker of the parliament. Okay? There's a clerical poll, meaning the clerics who
00:46:12
actually hold ultimate authority in the Iranian system via the supreme leader, the clerics, the the the religious
00:46:20
leaders. And then you have the military, particularly the IRGC. Okay, all three of these polls interact with each other
00:46:27
in in weird ways. And one of the things we definitely two months ago, we were like, "Wait a second, who has the upper
00:46:33
hand? What does this group want versus this group versus that group?" But what what I feel pretty confident about now,
00:46:39
I mean, this this we're taping this interview, I guess, June 15th, right? What I feel quite confident about right
00:46:44
now is that we know who we're dealing with and the fractures really aren't the the you know the system is kind of
00:46:51
coalesed and what they're telling us which is interesting now is it the street rising up no but what they're
00:46:57
telling us is you know what you know obviously they're not like endorsing anything that we did there's a
00:47:04
lot of mistrust a lot of animosity but you know fundamentally we've done one thing visav the United States for 47
00:47:10
years and we shouldn't do that thing anymore. We want to change. And if you, the Americans, are willing to actually
00:47:19
negotiate with us to have a conversation. Yeah, we're willing to make the long-term commitment never to
00:47:24
develop nuclear weapons, but we want a totally different economic arrangement than what we have with the West right
00:47:29
now. So, that's where we're at right now is actually figuring out the details of
00:47:33
what that would look like. But where where we stand right now, I actually feel pretty good about it. I feel good
00:47:38
that we actually could have a better relationship with that country. I feel good that they'll never have a nuclear
00:47:43
weapon. So that'd be like a real loaded gun they would have to the West. But I also think that there is a general
00:47:49
consensus that their in in their system that their relationship would be different than than um than the past.
00:47:56
The other thing just this is very important the underappreciated element like this
00:48:02
is like if I was ever going to write a book about Donald Trump's foreign policy and by the way he hates people who write
00:48:07
books not like books like that but insider books where you take trusted information and put it into a book
00:48:15
doesn't like that but what I would what I would say is he's so non-conventional in the way that he does everything but
00:48:22
certainly in the way that he does foreign policy that things that were previously unimaginable are actually on
00:48:27
the table. So when Donald Trump says to the Iranians, we want you to be a successful country if you give us what
00:48:34
we need on nuclear. We'll take the sanctions off your country and allow you to prosper. That would have been
00:48:39
unthinkable 10 years ago in any Democrat or Republican administration. But it's thinkable because Donald Trump is just
00:48:46
like, "No, the the way things worked in the past are dumb. We're going to do something new." And that's that's what
00:48:50
he's putting on the table. We'll see if they meet us, but right now I feel pretty good about it. The other term I'd
00:48:55
never heard before is straight of Hormuz. >> Yes. >> I've heard so much about the bloody
00:48:59
straight of Hormuz. Um, did you have any idea that the Iranians would cut off the
00:49:03
straight of Hormuz? You you did know that going into it. So, >> it was a major you see these media reports like the the
00:49:11
Trump team was caught off guard. What would happen in the straight of Horus was a main fixture of the conversation
00:49:16
that we were having about whether to do this, how to do this. So, it was certainly a variable. Now, now you can
00:49:23
never predict with a 100% certainty what people are going to do, but the basic bias that we had going into it is that
00:49:29
they would try to cut off the straight. They would try to jack up energy prices.
00:49:34
They thought, and I think this is true, they thought that they could cut off the
00:49:38
straits for us, but actually keep the straits open for themselves. That ended up not being true when we imposed the
00:49:44
blockade. But fundamentally, we we knew some version of what would happen. But we also went into it saying if they do
00:49:52
this fundamentally it's a short-term thing. So like Brent crude is sort of the main crude oil index, right? I think
00:50:00
the highest it got was $126 per barrel. Right now sitting here it's around $82 a
00:50:06
barrel. It's fallen off a cliff because there's a broad recognition that yeah, it was a short-term shock, but not a
00:50:14
short-term shock that's going to permanently alter the world energy economy. It's quite a powerful weapon
00:50:18
they have in their arsenal just to take shutter the world's economy and piss off
00:50:22
your people at home at the gas pump. It's quite like it's quite a >> well uh geography really matters in
00:50:29
warfare it turns out and yes they have great proximity to the straight of Hormuz but but again if you just go back
00:50:35
two weeks ago one of the things that's interesting really under reportported um but I think you know your listeners will
00:50:41
obviously be interested in is if you look at the amount of oil that we were getting out of the straight of
00:50:48
Hormuz we I mean the United States the Gulf Coast coalition broadly speaking the Arabs in the Gulf Right? You look at
00:50:55
it what it was, call it April 1st, it was like close to zero. You go to May 30th, early June, it was many, many
00:51:05
million barrels of of oil a day. Now, not enough to eliminate the shock to be clear, but we were seeing significant
00:51:12
increases in oil traffic. And again, I think that's one of the reasons why we're having a good negotiation with the
00:51:17
Iranians is they recognized, yes, they have this leverage point, but maybe not forever. And it's one of those cards you
00:51:24
can play, but you can't necessarily play it week after week after week. It degrades in power. So, I take your
00:51:31
point. Yeah, they have this geographical thing going on. But I think that geographical leverage point was
00:51:36
weakening over time and it's it's why we are where we are. I think with a very good deal,
00:51:41
>> knock on wood, we have to see it completion >> because if you're them, you go, "Well,
00:51:45
all I've got to do is wait two years because the president is going to be, you know, removed from from office in
00:51:51
two years time. is going to be at the end of his term. So, if they could just wait it out for 2 years, they can hope
00:51:56
that a new political leader that comes in um might be more charitable with them.
00:52:01
>> Yeah. But if if if Donald Trump has two and a half years left in office, I think
00:52:04
the Iranians recognize they did not have two and a half years to weigh things out. One is as we got more and more oil
00:52:10
out of the straight, their leverage point decreased. But in some ways, more importantly, like look, you look at
00:52:15
Persian culture, you look at the history of Iran, this is one of the proudest and
00:52:18
oldest civilizations anywhere in the world. They don't want to be like a Libya style rump state.
00:52:26
>> They want to have a much brighter future. Like I think that that's actually true. Now there's a question
00:52:31
about how to get there and obviously there's a lot of animosity between the two sides, but I do think something has
00:52:36
fundamentally changed in the way that regime sees the world. >> The um the deal that you have on the
00:52:42
table. >> Yes. >> Now, okay, excuse me if I'm skeptical, but I said to you before we start
00:52:47
started recording, I watch everything. >> Yes. So, I've watched every if if you do
00:52:51
an interview, Hexath does one. If the president does one, I see it. I see the whole thing. I don't know why, but that
00:52:57
I I'm very very interested in US politics because it does impact the whole world.
00:53:01
>> Sure. >> And as I've watched these interviews, there's been lots of false deals. You
00:53:05
flew out there to Pakistan and you flew right back. The deal wasn't done. Um I think I saw a report the other day that
00:53:11
said uh the president has said roughly 30 times that there's a deal done or that there's a deal on the table.
00:53:17
Usually on a Sunday, then it's not. Then we go back into this negotiation thing.
00:53:20
So I'm like I don't have any trust anymore for for a deal getting done. >> Well, this one's real. So
00:53:24
>> Okay, good. Okay, so >> people can always change their minds, but this one is real
00:53:28
>> for sure. So what what does that mean? Does it mean that there's a contract that has been sent with terms on it and
00:53:33
they've provisionally like a term sheet said we agree? >> Yes. >> That's exactly what's happened.
00:53:38
>> Okay. So they've agreed to a term sheet. >> Yes. >> And then as is the case in business and
00:53:42
investing, that becomes more of a formalized contract. Correct. And then that's signed.
00:53:45
>> That's right. >> So what is in the term sheet? Well, a few things. So, the the first is
00:53:50
that the Straits of Hormuz opens effectively immediately and the blockade is lifted effectively immediately. Now,
00:53:57
when I say effectively, that's doing a little bit of work there because, you know, part of what's going on is there's
00:54:03
a different risk tolerance for different shippers in the Gulf. So, some again, like I said earlier, some of these guys
00:54:09
are already shipping a lot of oil through the Straits of Hormuz right now, even though the Iranians are threatening
00:54:14
to shoot at them. But what what this means is that over time we're going to demine the straight of Hormuz. The
00:54:20
Iranians are going to stop shooting. We're going to lift our naval blockade and you're going to see I think a pretty
00:54:25
quick resumption of full flow of traffic in the straight of Hormuz. That that's number one. And there's most important
00:54:30
thing there's mines there mines in there. But it it's, you know, it's a very big waterway. There's a lot of
00:54:35
traffic moving right now. So we know where the mines are. They're not everywhere. And you know, again, the
00:54:41
ships are able to move. The biggest obstacle and impediment to ships moving right now is actually not the mines
00:54:47
themselves. It's the Iranians who are shooting drones and missiles on the other side. Now, I say that we have seen
00:54:53
a precipitous decline since we signed this agreement. We've seen a precipitous decline and even that happening. So,
00:54:58
you're already again seeing the fruits of this negotiation that we have. Number two
00:55:04
is it contemplates the Iranians giving up their highlyenriched stockpile of material, committing to a long-term
00:55:12
inspections regime on their nuclear program, and in exchange having a totally different economic relationship
00:55:18
with the United States of America. So like there's a stack of of sanctions that the US has on Iran that is like 60
00:55:25
pages long. That is incredibly destructive to the Iranian economy by design, right? the the the deal is
00:55:31
you're not going to behave like a normal country. We're not going to engage in normal trade and transactions with you.
00:55:37
What this agreement provides is that if the Iranians take significant steps to behave like a normal country, they're
00:55:43
going to get significant reintegration into the world economy. And I think that's that that that is in some ways
00:55:49
the most profound thing. And what the United States gets out of that is is the long-term guarantee that they never
00:55:54
become a nuclear power. I think people always sort of it's hard to to appreciate how temporal this is. The
00:56:01
Iranian nuclear program has been completely destroyed. Like it doesn't exist right now, but over time you can
00:56:08
try to rebuild it. And so what we're trying to say is we don't want you to rebuild this program. If you make real
00:56:14
commitments and verifiable commitments that you're not going to, then you're getting a lot of economic benefits on
00:56:19
the side. >> You dropped those big uh bunker buster bombs. >> Correct. um was very fascinated by all
00:56:24
the all that whole series of of military operations and um it the nuclear material is now buried pretty deep
00:56:32
underground from what I understand with this deal. Do you get to go and get it? Do they hand it over to you? What
00:56:36
happens? >> So the way the deal is is structured is that the Iranians, the Americans and the
00:56:42
International Atomic Energy Agency will actually work together to go get the material and destroy it. That's that's
00:56:48
the basic idea is that we're all going to work together. Again, the the agreement contemplates a new era in
00:56:53
relation. So the idea is that we're all going to try to work together, destroy this material. And again, if that
00:56:59
happens, the Iranians are going to have a totally different economic relationship with the West. And if it
00:57:03
doesn't happen, then the United States is no worse off. >> And you do you get to check that they're
00:57:08
not just going to a different mountain and building new nuclear weapons? >> That's where the verification element
00:57:12
comes in. But we have a very good sense, you know, you can probably guess why. We
00:57:15
have a very good sense of what's going on in the country of Iran. We could probably keep that material just
00:57:20
permanently buried, but we don't want to do that. We actually want to solve the problem and we want the Iranians to have
00:57:24
a different relationship with us and that's what we're trying to do. >> And the specifics of you being able to
00:57:28
go and check that they're not just building new nuclear weapons. It sounds to me like the specifics haven't been
00:57:33
defined yet, like how those checks take place. >> Well, it's Yeah, it's like you said,
00:57:38
it's it's a term sheet where we've got broad agreement on principles and how we're going to approach the negotiation,
00:57:44
but there are a lot of details that we got to figure out from here. So I've got straight of Hamuz opens um nuclear
00:57:49
inspections but also a coalition to remove the nuclear waste. >> Correct. >> Um from that they get the opportunity to
00:57:55
participate in the in the economy and sanctions will be lifted. Yep. >> Is there anything that's in that term
00:57:59
sheet that's not included there? >> I mean there are other like little details and things like that. You know
00:58:04
obviously the permanent sessation of hostilities. We're trying to bring in a a regional era of peace here. But that's
00:58:10
pretty much the main thing. and Israel. Um, there was some uh some interesting words exchanged yesterday. Again, I
00:58:17
watch everything. So, I saw that the the Fox reporter had called Trump, I think yesterday, because Netanyahu had started
00:58:23
firing some bombs and he had some select words, kind of like your grandmother's words.
00:58:29
>> Yes, indeed. >> Apparently, he said uh Trump said he'd phoned Netanyahu and told him he had no
00:58:34
judgment. Why did BB have to do a attack? I'm so pissed off. Half an hour before we were supposed to
00:58:39
sign the deal, Trump called Netanyahu a very difficult guy. He should be very thankful for us for doing this because
00:58:45
if Iran had a nuclear weapon, Israel wouldn't be around for 2 hours. Um, lots of cussing at Netanyahu and what he had
00:58:52
done. You I've heard you actually say that you think Israel and the United States have two different objectives as
00:58:58
it relates to I don't want to mischaracterize your words, but >> Well, what I'd say is that we're
00:59:01
different countries with different interests. I think the United States sometimes people characterize, you know,
00:59:06
Israel is is a good partner to the United States. That is true. But sometimes people mischaracterize it and
00:59:10
say that Israel and the United States are fundamentally always aligned. It's just not true. We're different
00:59:15
countries. We have different needs. We have different geographies. >> Do you trust them?
00:59:19
>> You know, I don't trust anybody. Um, when it comes to international affairs and diplomacy, do I think that they're
00:59:25
they're very capable? Absolutely. Do I think that again, when we have shared interests, we work together very well?
00:59:30
Absolutely. But but do I but I I don't trust anyone. And I think that we we just have to continually be laser
00:59:38
focused on what our interests are. And you know what the president said about BB is, you know, sometimes,
00:59:44
you know, we are the world's superpower and obviously we're Israel's most important ally anywhere in the world.
00:59:50
And sometimes to ensure that we are able to accomplish our objectives, the president has to have a very frank
00:59:57
conversation with the prime minister of Israel. Sometimes he does that. Sometimes everything works smoothly,
01:00:01
sometimes it doesn't. It's just the nature like any relationship, right? Any relationship is going to have moments
01:00:07
where you have to be more direct, sometimes you're working together, and sometimes there's a little bit more
01:00:13
conflict. >> The world's opinion and thoughts about the USIsrael relationship, >> yeah,
01:00:19
>> has never been more widely discussed. >> I agree. And I I almost I almost don't
01:00:23
know why, but it's it seems to be the case that over the last I'd say six to 12 months, people are really now
01:00:29
questioning what is this relationship and who is who is the dominant part partner in the relationship? What for
01:00:34
someone and just in super simple terms because I don't really know a lot about this particular point.
01:00:37
>> Sure. >> What is the relationship and why and where did it come from? >> Well, you know, I'm I'm hardly an expert
01:00:44
in US-Issraeli relations, right? But but let let me just say they're obviously in some ways the only
01:00:52
democracy in the Middle East. Okay. Uh very advanced economy, very high-skilled people, technological ingenuity. I mean
01:00:59
it's a country of 9 million people. They generate a lot of the world's inventions
01:01:02
just from 9 million people. It's very impressive country economically. They're also probably better at intelligence
01:01:07
collection than any country in the world. So there again and and again because they're an advanced economy
01:01:12
because you know they're people generally speaking want to live in peace and harmony just want to go to work and
01:01:17
raise their kids there are a lot of shared interests and a lot of shared objectives and I think that you know
01:01:22
over time especially for example when one of our biggest problems going back to you know the early 2000s was the rise
01:01:29
of Islamic terrorism um Islamic radical terrorism I should say there was a sort of broad recognition that there's a lot
01:01:36
for us to work on but but again even even if you go back to then the early 2000s,
01:01:41
very large alignment between Israeli interests and American interests. But even in like the early 2000s, the
01:01:47
Israelis were much more worried about Iran than the United States was, right? We were much more worried about
01:01:51
al-Qaeda, like a different branch of Islamic terrorism. So even when we've been very aligned, we're just different
01:01:57
countries that have different objectives. And you know, I will say having seen the president of United
01:02:02
States operate, I feel quite confident that, you know, they are the junior partner. We're the senior partner. We're
01:02:06
the world's superpower. That's the way that it works. But, you know, again, sometimes it's it's like with the UK. I
01:02:12
would say the UK is our closest ally, our oldest ally. I'm not just saying that because you're a Brit.
01:02:16
>> Do you trust the UK? >> Uh, again, I don't really trust anybody, but do I like do I like a lot of Brits?
01:02:22
Absolutely. Do I have a I mean, incredible fondness for the United Kingdom as a country and a culture.
01:02:26
Absolutely. And I really like a lot of the people even in the Labor government, even though they're politically
01:02:31
misaligned uh with with me and and the rest of the Trump administration. But you know like we have disagreements from
01:02:37
time to time. So we work really well together and sometimes we have misaligned interests and we have to
01:02:43
pursue our interests in the best way we can. >> What does and please do tell me like
01:02:47
what does Netanyahu want because I sit here with these experts and they say they want to overtake the whole of the
01:02:52
Middle East. They want to run the Middle East. >> What does he want? >> I don't know. I don't know. Um
01:02:58
>> I Well, I mean I I I don't I can't get inside somebody's head. >> Have you asked them what they want? What
01:03:03
do you think? Well, I I think that in this particular operation, again, where interests were aligned is we wanted
01:03:11
Iranian conventional military power to be much weaker, to be decimated. You know, the the Israelis shared that
01:03:17
objective. Do I think that there are maybe I don't know if BB thinks this, but do I think there are people within
01:03:22
Israeli society who would like to turn Iran into Libya, basically a failed state with 90 million people? Probably.
01:03:29
But I I don't know that BB wants that. I've actually never had that conversation with her. It would be an
01:03:32
interesting conversation to have. I'll tell you right now, is Iran turning into a Persian Libya good for the United
01:03:38
States of America? Absolutely not. And that's one of the reasons why the president has set us on this course of
01:03:44
working on our interest, which is the elimination of the nuclear threat and a and a change dynamic with the Iranians,
01:03:50
which is very much on the table. >> You run for Senate. >> Yeah. >> Um and you're successful. And this is
01:03:55
really from what I could see from my research where you and Trump first >> uh made friends, I should say. Uh,
01:04:01
before then you weren't friends. >> No, that's right. >> You were quite critical of Donald Trump
01:04:04
before then. And you've been probably asked this a million times, but what I actually didn't know this until
01:04:09
literally today. Okay. >> That I read the piece you written in the Atlantic where you criticized him for
01:04:13
taking advantage of the struggling working class. What Trump offers, this is your quote, is an easy escape from
01:04:19
pain. To every complex problem, he promises a simple solution. He can bring jobs back simply by punishing offshore
01:04:24
companies into submission. As he told the New Hampshire crowd, folks are too similar with the opioid Scrooge. He can
01:04:30
cure the addiction epidemic by building a Mexican wall and keeping the cartels out. He will spare the United States
01:04:35
from humiliation and military defeat with indiscriminate bombing. But it doesn't matter that no credible military
01:04:41
leader has endorsed his plan. He never offers detail for those plans to work because Trump's Trump is cultural
01:04:47
heroine. He makes some people feel better, but he cannot fix all that ils all that them and one day they'll
01:04:53
realize it. >> Very tough words against Trump. >> Long time ago, but 2016 and 10 years
01:05:00
ago, >> what changed? >> Well, let me let me pick up. First of all, I think you always have to be able
01:05:06
to acknowledge when you're right and when you're wrong. And there was a lot I was right about in
01:05:14
2016, but but just pick up on something. Can you read the line for me again where
01:05:18
I talk about no is it no credible military leader has endorsed these plans? >> Yeah, it says um it doesn't matter that
01:05:24
no credible military leader has endorsed his plan. >> Okay. So, what I would say is I wrote
01:05:31
that. I believed it when I wrote it. And reading it now, I'm almost embarrassed that I wrote it because it was so
01:05:36
obviously absurd. In fact, the the fact that Donald Trump was misaligned with the military experts and the military
01:05:44
leadership of 2016 was a good thing, not a bad thing. Think about those military
01:05:50
leaders. I mean, I have a lot of respect for the troops, the people who serve, the people who put on a uniform, but you
01:05:55
can make a very credible argument that from the early '90s until, you know, at least 2016, America hadn't
01:06:06
won a war in 30 years. Like, there's a reason why Donald Trump mist mistrusted the military leadership. And he was
01:06:13
right. And so much of what I think the president re represented at the time was a recognition that American institutions
01:06:21
had become sclerotic and broken and he was a weapon to break down those institutions.
01:06:29
>> Your assessment of him is similar to the democratic assessment of him. But your
01:06:33
assessment of him back in 2016 is similar to the democratic assessment of him. That there was a private message
01:06:38
between you and a roommate where you you said he was either a cynical or America's Hitler. How do you go from
01:06:44
that position to vice president of the same person? What is that journey? >> A crazy journey, man. But but again, I
01:06:53
mean, it's you have to ask yourself, first of all, I thought Donald Trump would be a failed president if he got
01:07:00
elected. He was not. I thought that America's institutions were fundamentally functioning. They were
01:07:07
not. I thought that the military leaders who told us this about a war were the scientific experts who told us this
01:07:13
other thing about a pandemic were fundamentally maybe not always right but fundamentally wise people who were
01:07:18
mostly right. I was wrong. >> What have you observed behind the scenes that that JD didn't see? So in operation
01:07:26
when you see him making decisions. >> Yeah. So I I mean I I want to caveat this with with saying that you know I
01:07:33
didn't know him well by the time you know I mean I voted for him in 2020. Um obviously you know very very involved in
01:07:42
the 2024 campaign well before I was ever his vice presidential nominee. I I had that change based purely on what I saw
01:07:50
from the outside. It's not like I had insider knowledge about Donald Trump and that's what caused me to change. Now,
01:07:55
what I will say is that having the insider knowledge, one thing that that really mistakes or or gets wrong, that
01:08:02
piece in the Atlantic, that's when that that that's where that piece was published, is that Donald Trump is much
01:08:08
different as a human being than the media makes him out to be. He's very warm. He's a very like loving person to
01:08:16
his kids, to his grandkids. He's incredibly generous. Like if you see Donald Trump, you know, in the Oval
01:08:22
Office, it's like he has to give you a gift. Like he has to whether it's, you know, a water bottle or a MAGA hat or a
01:08:28
coin or a pin. Like he he just he's one of these people who he really likes hospitality. He really likes making
01:08:35
other people happy. I had no understanding of that from him from the outside. What I would see is, you know,
01:08:42
clips of him arguing with a journalist and that was it. And that gives you a very very one-dimensional view of a
01:08:48
person. And so yeah, I definitely from the inside have seen a much much more multi-dimensional figure. The thing I
01:08:53
say about about Donald Trump is I remember this in 2016 and in hindsight it's just so so dumb. People would say
01:09:00
that he was dumb or that he wasn't very smart. He's super smart. Like he reads a
01:09:07
lot. He understands people at an instinctual level better than anybody that I've ever known. But he is a very
01:09:14
very like from a pure IQ perspective, he's a very smart person. And it's interesting that so many people like,
01:09:21
you know, if you give Donald Trump an IQ test with the other 45 46 presidents that the United States has had, I
01:09:28
guarantee he he'd be either near the top or at the top. And the entire American media in 2016 had convinced me at least
01:09:38
that he was not a smart person. And by 2022, he's endorsed you and you, uh, you win your race in the US Senate.
01:09:45
>> Correct. >> And then sometime after then, um, at some point, you're going to get
01:09:48
introduced to him and he's going to ask you to be the vice president of the United States.
01:09:52
>> Yeah. >> Bring me, if I was a fly on the wall, was that a phone call or was it a
01:09:54
meeting? >> Well, there have been meetings before that. Just generally at that point, I
01:09:59
was involved in his re-election campaign. I was one of the first, maybe the very first senators to endorse him
01:10:04
in 2023, I believe, is actually when I endorsed him. very early on in 2023 when again I thought he would win but the
01:10:10
conventional wisdom was that he would not win even the Republican nomination that his political career was over. So I
01:10:15
endorsed him very early. He and I became quite close over over that period. We talked a lot about issues. He gave me
01:10:22
some advice on various bills that I was working on in the Senate. We just became
01:10:25
pretty close. He and I worked very closely together over there was this train derailment in East Palestine, Ohio
01:10:30
and he and I became quite quite close over that. So we just sort of developed a relationship. we were friendly and
01:10:35
then we were closer and then he was sort of, you know, a person that I really looked to in politics and then the 2024
01:10:43
campaign really started heating up and there were all these rumors about possibly me being his running mate. And
01:10:49
you know, he and I didn't ever have that conversation like about being his running mate until like a day or two
01:10:54
before he picked me. And that was an inerson conversation. It was actually the morning he was shot in person. He
01:11:01
goes to that rally in Pennsylvania. He gets shot. Um, obviously he's okay, thank God. And then two days later, he
01:11:08
asked me to be the nominee. >> So, where where were you when he asked you? >> Uh, I had just landed in Milwaukee for
01:11:13
the RNC convention. It was there's like a deadline to it because the way the convention works is you have to be
01:11:19
formally nominated by the delegates on Monday at like 3 or 4:00. >> Mhm. >> And it was 11:00. I had just arrived in
01:11:26
Milwaukee. I had no idea what was going on. And I thought I had a good chance, but I wasn't sure. and he called me. I
01:11:33
didn't answer the phone. Uh I think that it was like it was just it was one of those things where I was getting so many
01:11:39
phone calls and the call went straight to voicemail. Like it never rang. And so I get a text message from a friend of
01:11:45
mine who's now the White House chief of staff said, "You just missed a very important phone call." I called him
01:11:49
back. I said, "What's up, Mr. President?" He said, "J, you just missed a very important phone call. I'm going
01:11:55
to have to pick somebody else." Uh but then he asked me and the rest is history. Man,
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now. >> Did you know at that time what you were signing up for? >> No, I had no idea. No idea.
01:13:05
>> So why did you want to do it? And you know people say I represent my country,
01:13:09
but why why? It's it's a lot. It's a big cost to your family. When when I when I
01:13:13
arrived here today, I saw I don't know. It felt like 50 men with guns >> probably.
01:13:16
>> Yeah. They'd scoped out the whole building. I thought how does the vice president live with
01:13:26
his family when you have this >> going everywhere with you? Like did you know what you were signing up for?
01:13:34
>> No. No, I didn't. I mean I you know you sign up because you want to make a difference and because you know I was
01:13:40
already a senator so I'm already in the politics business. I might as well try to serve at the highest level possible.
01:13:45
You know you think you could help. Right. Part of being the VP is you help on the campaign trail. You know, six
01:13:50
months really the part of the campaign that is the most intense is the part where you're sort of riding a side
01:13:56
saddle with uh with the presidential nominee. So just like all these things for why people get into politics in the
01:14:01
first place. But no, I mean look, I'm not a whiner and I would never complain about this, but if I was a whiner, the
01:14:08
one thing I would say is it was very hard on the kids, in particular our oldest son. And I just had no idea what
01:14:15
I was getting myself into. I mean, okay, so the president, he and I have this brief phone conversation. You know, my
01:14:20
kid is talking to me about Pokemon cards at the hotel in Milwaukee. We're still like unpacking our suitcase, and it's
01:14:26
like, okay, I'm now the VP nominee. I have to get on my suit. I have to get prepared to be nominated like 3 or 4
01:14:32
hours later, and all these thoughts are swirling through my head. Knock at the door, and it's the Secret Service. And
01:14:39
it's like, "All right, you're under our protection now. We have to move your entire family to the president's hotel
01:14:43
so that you're in the same protective bubble." And all of a sudden, I just realized my life is totally different
01:14:49
now. It'll never be the same. I I was okay with that, you know, like you sort of you just get used to it. I'm a grown
01:14:55
man. But it was very hard on, you know, my my oldest boy who's 9 years old now. >> He made a comment, didn't he?
01:15:01
>> Oh, yeah. He hated it. He he hated the attention. He hated how people treated
01:15:05
him differently. It was like one of these things where, you know, he would go to a school and people would treat
01:15:10
him like he was special and he just wanted to be a normal kid. And I felt guilty. I felt really guilty about that.
01:15:16
And I felt this sort of sense like, oh my god, I've conscripted this kid into this life. I had no idea what he was he
01:15:25
was what I was signing him up for. He didn't sign up for it. I signed him up for it. And that was pretty tough.
01:15:31
>> Sometimes I feel like I ruined his life without even asking him. You wrote that
01:15:36
in your new book, page 198. >> Yes. >> In reference to your seven-year-old son. Sometimes I feel like I've ruined his
01:15:43
life without even asking him. >> Yeah. Yeah. And that's that's how I that's how I felt. I mean I I think that
01:15:49
I've I've gained certainly some perspective about it. You know, one of the things we've been quite good at is
01:15:54
just finding communities where he's more isolated from all the attention and all
01:15:58
the pressures of it. You know, we have a very very good school community for him,
01:16:02
a Christian school that he goes to and he loves. There's also, by the way, a flip side is, you know, kids, as you may
01:16:08
know, you realize how much nature matters more than nurture. You know, our oldest boy is an introvert. Um, our
01:16:16
six-year-old is a little bit more like me. He's a bit of an extrovert. He loves it. And so, you you kind of have to
01:16:22
balance the way that it affects the kids. But, you know, I don't feel like I've ruined my nine-year-old's life
01:16:27
anymore, but I certainly at that time I felt extremely guilty about what I had signed him up for. And in your new book,
01:16:33
Communion, you say, "Dad, he you quote him and say that he said, "Dad, I just want every everyone to go back to
01:16:39
treating us like they used to." >> Yes, that's right. >> These are these things hard to hear.
01:16:44
Like, is it hard? >> Of course, man. Of course. I mean, you you know, do you have kids?
01:16:48
>> Not yet. It's been trying. >> Yeah. Yeah. Good for you. You know, my my prayers for that endeavor. But
01:16:52
>> thank you. I I think your kids have an emotional effect on you that is just totally profound and
01:17:03
revoly and yeah man when when your son tells you that he wants something that you can
01:17:09
no longer provide him that's a very very tough thing. Now the flip side of it is
01:17:15
and you can say this a rationalization but I think it's true. The flip side is there are a lot of blessings that come
01:17:20
along with this life. And you know, I've talked to him a lot about this. I actually, you know, I write this in the
01:17:26
book that Charlie Kirk was probably the person who was most influential in helping me think through this
01:17:31
conversation is, you know, don't try to pretend that it's not a sacrifice to him. Like I I you know, don't pretend
01:17:38
that you haven't signed him up for something that has changed his life. You have. But I try to talk to him about,
01:17:44
well, there are benefits, too. You've gotten to see the world. We've got to see the country in a in a way that no
01:17:49
kid has ever gotten to see it. And we get to live in this cool house. I live in the Naval Observatory here in
01:17:53
Washington DC. We would not get to do that if I was not the vice president. So, what I've I've I've learned to do
01:17:58
with him is not to minimize the negative, but to try to contextualize it, but also to try to emphasize the
01:18:05
positive. And it's funny, you know, I asked him this probably about a year ago. I said, "Are are you still unhappy
01:18:11
that I became the vice president?" This is probably four or five months into it.
01:18:14
He said, "Absolutely." I asked him that question recently and he said actually it's pretty good. So kids adjust, you
01:18:21
know, lives change. You figure out a routine for the kids. But I also think that, you know, that that guilt
01:18:26
motivated certain conduct. Would we have built the life that we have around them
01:18:31
were it not for this recognition that we had caused this change and this disruption? No. So you take the good
01:18:38
with the bad. You accept that you've caused some problems, but you also accept that you can make things better.
01:18:43
a lovely photo here if your your wife is. >> I love this photo. I think she looks
01:18:47
beautiful. This is actually the day or at least the weekend that I met her mom. We were This is at the Highline in
01:18:54
Brooklyn. Have you ever been to the No, not in Brooklyn, in South Manhattan. >> Uh the Highland. Yeah, Highland Park.
01:18:59
You know, it it basically travels a long way up South Manhattan. >> Uh there's this little observation deck.
01:19:04
We're sitting there taking a photo. And you know, that that first summer we were
01:19:09
together, we started dating in March of 2011. And so I was doing a research assistant
01:19:15
thing in New Haven, Connecticut, about an hour and a half train ride. She was in New York City. And um you know, it it
01:19:23
was in some ways like a metaphor for our relationship because I found New York just this totally intimidating place. I
01:19:28
didn't know how to ride the subway. I didn't even know how to like buy a subway card to get on the subway. But I
01:19:33
was just because I was in love with her. I went down there every chance I could get. We spent every moment. You know,
01:19:38
like when you're when you're when you're newly in love with somebody, it's just like an obsession. and we sort of
01:19:44
explored New York City together as this young couple this summer and uh that was
01:19:48
the day that I met her mom and I passed the test because here I am. >> What surprised her most about you
01:19:54
becoming the vice president? What what what didn't she expect? >> She doesn't get surprised by much. So
01:19:59
that's actually a very very hard question. I do think the Secret Service protection surprised her too. The way
01:20:04
that it changes your life like to give you an example. So, you know, we went to Rome for the Pope's inaugural mass, the
01:20:12
new pope, the American pope. And like my favorite thing to do in the world, like
01:20:17
if you said, I'll give you two hours, you can do whatever you want. What I would do is I would go to some place,
01:20:23
whether in the country or in a big city, and I would just take a walk with Usha.
01:20:27
Like that's that that is my ultimate way to like vacation or to relax. And you know, we tried to take a walk in Rome
01:20:35
and it was like, you know, Seal Team Six had descended upon Rome. They were shutting down every traffic
01:20:42
intersection. There's a helicopter flying overhead and just that I think that's surprising to her how much the
01:20:49
security protocols have changed just the way that you know we we do things like take a walk together.
01:20:54
>> Can you make that decision still yourself? Can you could you say to all these Secret Service people? There's
01:20:58
none. Okay. I can't see any secret service at the moment, but I know they're behind that curtain.
01:21:02
>> They're all behind the curtain, >> and I know they're building. Yeah, they're outside. They're everywhere.
01:21:06
They're probably on the roof. But can you just Are you the one that still gets to make the call of of what you wanted
01:21:10
to do? So, could you say, "Listen, I want to walk down the street to Walmart." >> There are actually like statutory
01:21:16
prohibitions like they they have legal obligations in order to protect me. They are, I will say, great people, amazing
01:21:23
people. And we found accommodation like we found a way of taking a walk without disrupting everybody, right? But it's
01:21:29
taken a little bit of work and a little bit of practice. And the biggest change is just again, it's not that you can't
01:21:36
take a walk. It's that the basic protocol, the thing that they've gotten used to is much different and more
01:21:43
misaligned with the way that we want to live our lives. So, we figured it out. Like, we've gotten things to a good
01:21:48
place. But in the in the in the first instance, man, it was crazy. >> I I just couldn't imagine. It was
01:21:53
actually getting here today. Like you hear about Secret Service, but when you as someone like me who I was here
01:21:58
yesterday, so making my way into this building today, which is like our studio. >> Yeah.
01:22:01
>> I couldn't believe it. I was being tapped down, pocket checked. People were handing me stuff. Keep this on.
01:22:06
>> Uh I went downstairs to the toilet in the basement. There was a guy down there
01:22:09
with a gun. I was like >> I was like there was a guy outside my door with a gun. The gun's I was like,
01:22:13
"Wow." >> You've never been safer than you are right now. >> I do feel safe. >> Yeah. Yeah. Um you've written this new
01:22:20
book called Communion. >> Yeah. which is about it's I mean the subtitle is finding my way back to
01:22:24
faith. >> Back to faith. >> Yeah, that's right. >> So for your 30s you you you became
01:22:31
atheist in your early your late 20s. >> Yeah, I would say in my 20s even yeah in
01:22:36
my early 20s. So I was raised in an evangelical household. Very conservative, you know, very evangelical
01:22:43
Christianity. My grandmother was one of these people, you know, she read the Bible five, six times a day. She prayed
01:22:49
five, six times a day. was a woman. You know, mama was was devoutly religious, but we were what you you would call
01:22:54
unchurched. So, I would go to church with my dad. I would occasionally go to church with my mom, occasionally with my
01:23:00
mama, but you know, our religion was very much experienced at home. It was you would watch televangelists on TV. Uh
01:23:07
you would watch Billy Graham revival um things on TV, but we didn't go to church
01:23:12
that much. And so, you know, I got to a point in my life where I I just felt like my faith wasn't speaking to me
01:23:21
anymore. It didn't seem to have particular relevance to my life. There was a certain, you know, new atheist
01:23:27
element to it where I assumed that I knew more than these, you know, bumpkins that had raised me. And, you know, her
01:23:32
faith is all superstition. I'm rational and I'm a college educated kid and I know things that other people don't. So,
01:23:38
there's a certain intellectual arrogance that was built into it. But sort of all
01:23:42
these things kind of swam together. But fundamentally, I I think that the with all love and affection of my
01:23:50
grandmother, I I think the thing about my faith that just never took root is that I never saw why it actually
01:23:57
mattered that much. It was just a thing. It was in the background. It was something we believed. I mean, I really
01:24:02
did believe this stuff when I was a teenager, but it didn't really matter. And so when that boy collided with
01:24:09
reality and collided with a lot of things that were going on in the world, I just was not properly prepared to
01:24:16
actually integrate my faith into this new world. >> When did you realize that it mattered?
01:24:21
>> Well, well, so so okay. So, so I become an atheist. I'm I'm sort of one of these
01:24:26
like angry atheists, you know, where I'll like argue with people who say that they're religious and I I pretend that
01:24:32
I'm smarter than everybody else. And it was like very embarrassing in hindsight.
01:24:35
But you know I I I go back and so just a flaw that I have all of us have many flaws, many virtues. But a
01:24:44
flaw that I have is I just I wanted to rise above. Now where it came from a good place is I
01:24:50
wanted stability. I wanted a decent income. I wanted to provide my kids that stability that I didn't have. But where
01:24:55
it was a very bad thing is I cared way too much about what credentials I had, where did I go to school, how much money
01:25:02
that I made. And so this sort of new atheism actually was like the perfect philosophy
01:25:09
for the creed of a kid who just wanted to get ahead. I wanted to make as much money. I wanted to have the most
01:25:15
prestigious profession. I was super ambitious for ambition's sake. And you know, so I I I'd won every competition
01:25:22
that life had put before me. You know, I'm I'm at this point in my late 20s. I've got a beautiful girlfriend. Things
01:25:29
are going pretty well. I'm at Yale Law School, right? The top law school in the United States of America. Very
01:25:35
prestigious. Everybody thought I was very smart because I went to Yale Law School. And I cared about that back
01:25:39
then. I don't care about it now. And I sort of realized I'm actually not like a happy person. I'm not a good person. I
01:25:48
care about where I went to law school way more than whether I'm good to this girl, right? I mean, like like I I
01:25:52
really was like madly in love with her. But was I like a particularly good boyfriend? No. I I had learned from my
01:25:58
youth to be chaotic and I'd threatened to break up with her every other month. And you know, if we had an argument, I'd
01:26:04
just like disappear for a couple days. And I was just like not I I sort of realized, okay, there's something
01:26:10
missing here. There's something that all of this obsession with achievement and being smarter than everybody else and
01:26:17
being rational, it has not actually made me a good person. And I sort of looked around and said, well, who are the
01:26:23
people that I like actually want to be like? Who are the people that I most admire in the world? And I slowly
01:26:28
realized that the ones who were the most virtuous, the ones who were the best at
01:26:32
the things that actually mattered, they were Christians. And their faith motivated not an obsession with getting
01:26:39
ahead, but an obsession with treating people well or an obsession with developing the strength of character
01:26:46
that mattered so that you could withstand, you know, very tough circumstances. And I started to think to
01:26:51
myself, okay, wait a second. There's like these rays of sunshine from Christians that I knew in my life, from
01:26:58
Christian ideas that sort of were in the background of my own, you know, intellectual curiosity.
01:27:04
And if there are all of these rays of sunshine where Christianity seems to be warmer and truer than something else,
01:27:13
maybe the rest of it actually has something to be said for it, too. And that kind of led me down a pathway of
01:27:18
thinking about my faith in a way that I never had when I was a teenager. I never
01:27:21
had to when I was a teenager. And it finally just hit me like there is something deeply profound about this.
01:27:28
And at first it was an intellectual thing, right? But over time it became a more emotional and more practice thing.
01:27:37
And eventually I got baptized. I never been baptized as a kid. And you know even though my wife is not Christian, I
01:27:43
force force her to take take uh our three kids and husband to to to church every single week and she's remarkably
01:27:51
patient about it. But it's it's it's one of these things where it really did transform me but in a slower way.
01:27:59
Atheism is a form of religion in in a way, isn't it? It has the same level of sort of certainty
01:28:04
>> and that's why myself to you as an agnostic because I it feels a little bit arrogant to say that I know.
01:28:09
>> Yeah. Yeah. No, that's that's that's interesting. >> I'm going to take a little bit of a hard
01:28:13
end which is uh AI. AI is going to cause a lot of job disruption and um >> it's a big topic of conversation for my
01:28:19
audience, but also as an entrepreneur and investor. We we're talking a lot at the moment about the impact of AI. When
01:28:24
you look at the the words of the big AI CEOs over time, one thing I find fascinating is if you look at Sam
01:28:29
Alman's words about the impact AI is going to have, it's very dystopian. You look at Elon, very very dystopian.
01:28:35
>> Yeah. >> And right now, I think the only thing that's up there with being as unpopular
01:28:41
as AI is ICE in the US. I saw this graph the other day in terms of how unpopular
01:28:47
it is. Eric Schmidt, who I know you know because he was an investor in your company, I believe.
01:28:51
>> Yeah. >> The other day when he was doing that commencement speech in front of the
01:28:54
college students, he was booed every time he said the word. >> That's right. >> Are you scared about the potential
01:29:00
economic impact and unemployment impact of artificial intelligence at this moment in time?
01:29:05
>> So, I'd say I'm less scared about that than I am about other things. Okay. >> Okay. So,
01:29:10
historical analogies are always fraught. And by the way, I think the AI companies
01:29:14
themselves, the CEOs, there's a certain incentive to be super dystopian. Yeah. Because it's it's like a form of viral
01:29:21
marketing that if people are really scared of your product, that must mean that it really works. And if they're not
01:29:26
scared of your product, maybe it actually doesn't work that well. So, I think there's something weird there.
01:29:30
There's something synergistic about the most pessimistic predictions about AI and some of the people who are making
01:29:37
it. But like, set that to the side cuz I do have some real concerns. But on the job displacement thing, okay, so let me
01:29:44
back up for a second because I bring a certain bias to this. So when I was, again, this is a this is an almost
01:29:50
religious idea that I developed in the early 2010s that I think is just preposterous now. And that religious
01:29:57
idea was that there was like this inevitable march of economics from agricultural to industrial to
01:30:06
service-based. M >> and the reason that all of my friends and family were losing their jobs was
01:30:13
because that was just an inevitable economic trend that advanced economies they de-industrialized. Okay? And there
01:30:20
was even this argument at the time that the reason why manufacturing employment was going down in the United States was
01:30:27
because of automation, because of technology. that it had nothing to do with outsourcing or with immigration but
01:30:34
it was purely because of technology had replaced all these workers with robots. I think that story is totally false. Now
01:30:42
the robots that exist in manufacturing did they make people more productive? Absolutely. Did they cause a change in
01:30:48
what a manufacturing line worker was doing in say 2005 versus 1955? Absolutely. So the change is there but
01:30:56
in reality there was a ton of manufacturing job growth. it just wasn't happening in the United States of
01:31:00
America. And I think sometimes we tell ourselves a story that technology always leads inevitably to job loss to make up
01:31:09
for the fact that what often leads to job loss among populations is either outsourcing or immigration. You ship the
01:31:17
job to another country or you have somebody else take the job of somebody who currently has it. So what do I think
01:31:24
is actually going on with AI? I think you know if you go back to the industrial revolution, right? the last
01:31:30
significant major disruption in the labor market, you actually had way more people working at the end of the
01:31:35
industrial revolution than you did beforehand. Again, some of the jobs were different. There was some job
01:31:40
disruption. But when I look at AI, I don't see mass unemployment as the most likely consequence. I think people will
01:31:48
become more productive. I think some people's jobs will change. Some people will lose their jobs. But I I just don't
01:31:54
buy this idea and I haven't seen any evidence in the data that it's going to lead to mass unemployment. Let me tell
01:31:59
you what it does what does worry me. Again, historical analogies are always fraught. You go back to the industrial
01:32:04
revolution. Was mass joblessness the main consequence of the shift from an agricultural to an industrial economy?
01:32:11
No. But what did happen? Rich people got way richer. And that led to in Europe fascism and
01:32:19
communism. In fact, your country and my country pretty much the only two countries that successfully avoided
01:32:24
either a fascist or a communist revolution in the in response to the industrial revolution. That's by the way
01:32:30
one of the real interesting things about you know Christianity is the the seinal
01:32:36
text about how capital and labor could work together about how you could have social harmony compared to Marx who was
01:32:44
sort of saying there's an inevitable social division was Pope Leo I 13th who wrote in his famous encyclical that the
01:32:52
way to preserve harmony between the social classes was to ensure that the workers could bargain. This is where
01:32:59
sort of the idea of collective bargaining had a Christian underpinning and to make sure that the the
01:33:05
capitalists weren't able to take advantage of the workers. They had to sort of respect them. And that that that
01:33:12
model of social harmony I think is something we're either going to follow that Christian concept of social harmony
01:33:17
in the age of AI or we're going to wake up and we're going to realize that rich people have gotten way richer. The
01:33:24
average American, the average Brit, the average Western society member has stagnated and people really hate
01:33:31
relative poverty. You can give people iPhones and you can give the people the creature comforts of a 21st century
01:33:37
economy, but if you make rich people way richer, you are going to have significant problems. And so I think
01:33:44
that is like one of the consequences that I see from AI. The one other just because you asked about it, the other
01:33:48
thing I really worry about with AI is surveillance. AI is, you know, a friend of mine once said that AI is
01:33:54
fundamentally a communist technology in that it allows governments and corporations to surveil
01:34:01
people in very profound and different ways. And that scares me a lot. Like I don't want a social credit system that's
01:34:09
powered by AI. I don't want you to not be able to buy a beer because some tech CEO has given you a score based on an
01:34:18
artificial intelligence algorithm that nobody actually understands. That scares me, too. But I don't think we're going
01:34:24
to have mass unemployment. We might have mass inequality. That's its own problem.
01:34:29
It's a different problem, though. Um, according to this the current 2026 Federal Reserve and Census Bureau data,
01:34:35
financial inequality in the United States has reached its highest level in nearly four decades. And obviously,
01:34:40
we've seen this headline this week of the US's first trillionaire. >> Yeah. >> Which again has been talked about
01:34:44
everywhere around the world and has now sparked this debate. You think about the
01:34:48
the explosion we're seeing in Rob rob robotics and Elon Musk's pay packet rewarding him for getting a million
01:34:53
humanoid robots out there at at a certain timeline and Elon himself saying there'll be a billion humanoid robots at
01:34:59
some point. There'll be more humanoid robots than humans. It appears to me that there will be some kind of job
01:35:04
disruption. We can obviously there's new jobs created which are like hard to forecast.
01:35:08
>> Yeah. And you've got these big like um frontier model companies like OpenAI and
01:35:13
Anthropic that are going to be bene benefactors of this evolution. Wealth is presumably going to acrue to these large
01:35:21
large corporations, the metas, the anthropics, the open areas. How do you think about we're already we already
01:35:26
have crazy crazy inequality. How do you think about redistributing that wealth? >> Bernie Sanders is saying people need to
01:35:33
own 50% of these AI companies. What is >> which the president by the way likes that idea too. He likes that idea. Um I
01:35:39
don't know that he would say 50% but he does like that idea. So there there's a um there's a concept in uh in in like
01:35:46
the social welfare literature of redistribution versus predistribution. The idea of predistribution is that you
01:35:52
give workers you give people normal people a seat at the bargaining table. And I don't think it's just economic.
01:35:58
The economic thing by the way is very important. like you you you want the the the worker whose life has been
01:36:04
transformed by this technology to have a seat at the table. You want them to be able to actually bargain with the
01:36:10
company for better wages. Now, that's impossible if you think about it. Like the individual worker to negotiate
01:36:16
against, you know, Daario from Anthropic, it's not going to happen. But workers working together, this is where
01:36:22
the idea of collective bargaining came from. But there's all kind of interesting things. And again, I think
01:36:25
there's like a deeply Christian concept to this. I know you're sort of you know fascinated by faith but not a person of
01:36:30
faith yourself. There is a very deeply Christian concept that you have to give everybody in the country a seat at the
01:36:40
table. So for example like okay there's the economic piece of it. What about the
01:36:44
cultural piece of it? How will AI transform the culture that we consume that we distribute that we make? You
01:36:52
know, back in the 50s and 60s, it was broadly accepted that now it wasn't a censorship regime. There was nothing
01:36:58
legal going on here, but it was broadly accepted that Hollywood would consult with the religious leaders at the time
01:37:06
in order to ensure that the content they were making was actually consistent with
01:37:10
the sensibilities of their membership and consistent with some basic Christian ideas. Again, that wasn't forced, but
01:37:16
there was this mechanism that gave everybody a seat at the table. And I think that's one of the bad things about
01:37:22
the there are many bad things about the decline of institutional Christianity in
01:37:25
this country. But we do not have a mechanism that gives powerful people that forces them to actually work with
01:37:35
everybody else. >> Religion was one of the ways that happened in the west. I think probably
01:37:40
the most profound and effective way that happened in the west. We just don't have
01:37:43
it anymore and I really worry about that. So the president is supportive of of the United States owning these big AI
01:37:50
companies. >> He likes the idea as sort of a sovereign wealth fund idea of the United States
01:37:54
taking some stake in these AI companies. He said so publicly. I'm not breaking news. But you know again the president
01:38:01
he is a very unconventional person. You would say a Republican is not supposed to think like that. The president
01:38:07
doesn't care. The president just thinks the thoughts that he has. He develops them whether they're, you know, he tries
01:38:13
to determine is this a good idea or a bad idea. I would call him sort of a rag radical pragmatist, though I think most
01:38:18
Europeans think that he's this hyper ideological person. He's extremely pragmatic about this stuff. But but but
01:38:26
one one one very important thought. The idea that we're going to allow these companies, let's say 10 20 years down
01:38:34
the road to accumulate trillions and trillions and trillions of dollars of wealth and then we're going to be be
01:38:41
able to successfully redistribute it to workers. I'm very skeptical of that. Very skeptical of that. I think that's
01:38:47
that's a that's a very modern I call a liberal concept. this idea that you can just tax people and give it to poor
01:38:55
people and it works out. Then you turn the poor people into effectively subservients of the rich people. You
01:39:03
have to give everybody a stake in the society. I haven't quite figured out how this is going to work in the age of AI.
01:39:08
I think labor unions are a very important model here, but this is the the model where you just take from some
01:39:15
people and give to other people. That's never provided a stable society. You've got to give the workers a seat at the
01:39:21
table. Mama. Mama. >> Mammo. >> Mama. >> Mammo. >> She passed away when you were 21 years
01:39:27
old. Rushed hospital with a collapsed lung 2 days after her 72nd birthday. Y >> and she was taken off life support. She
01:39:34
was clearly the most important um figure in your life from reading your story for
01:39:38
so many reasons. >> Sure. >> She hasn't gotten to see the position you rose to today.
01:39:42
>> Yeah. >> I read that you didn't cry when she passed away. um you didn't process those
01:39:47
emotions either because you sensed that your entire family was on the verge of collapse and you wanted to give the
01:39:53
impression of emotional strength. That's what you say in your book um Hillbilly in on page 169.
01:40:00
What would she think of you today? What what would she have said? >> Well, I think you know she she she was
01:40:08
again a deeply patriotic person. I think she'd be amazed by this. I mean the the
01:40:12
pageantry, being able to go to the White House, just things like that would have
01:40:15
been very very meaningful to her. Um, >> what would you say to her? >> I think that I would say thank you. I
01:40:22
mean the the the the through the maybe the most important lesson that I've learned is that the
01:40:31
difference between good people and people who struggle is good people have a good sense of gratitude. And I
01:40:41
don't know that I would be alive were it not for this woman. I certainly wouldn't
01:40:45
be here. And I think the the one thing Maml would worry about, and I think I've done a pretty good job, just to be
01:40:50
clear, but Mammo would worry a lot about the pomp and the circumstance. In the same way that she would be amazed by it,
01:40:56
she would find it incredible and she would love to participate and see it. She's always really, really worried. She
01:41:02
would always say, "Don't get too big for your britches." And what that means is,
01:41:06
"Don't let it go to your head. Don't think that you're better than somebody just because you have a title or because
01:41:10
you have more money than they do." And I think that I I have to constantly remind
01:41:14
myself that I get to be vice president for four years. I'm going to do as good of a job as I can for that four years,
01:41:21
but it doesn't make me better than anybody. And it doesn't mean that I know more than anybody. I mean I may know
01:41:26
more about like CIA reports, but fundamentally if you start to see yourself I think as
01:41:33
better, you become unable to successfully govern a democratic country. >> Have you ever grieved the loss of Noah?
01:41:40
Because >> Oh, absolutely. I mean, I you know, I think I wrote in the book, I didn't cry
01:41:43
when she died. I I cried a lot two days later. Yeah. I mean, I've grieved I've grieved her for a long time. I My
01:41:49
biggest regret with Mamal is just she never met Usha. And there's something so similar about
01:42:00
them, but so different. Like they're both incredibly smart. Even though Mammo left school, middle school, Usha went to
01:42:08
law school, they're incredibly blunt people, right? I mean, Usha just doesn't have a filter. It's one of the things I
01:42:15
I was immediately attracted to about her is that even if she was going to offend
01:42:18
you, she was going to say exactly what was on her mind, but they came from such different worlds and I think my
01:42:23
grandmother would be fascinated by her. You know, when mom met Usha and you know, Usha ethnically is Indian.
01:42:30
She was born in the United States. But you know, my mom said, it just goes to show sometimes how how uh how little
01:42:38
some of us knew about the world. She said, you know, what is she like ethnically? And I said, "Mom, she's
01:42:44
Indian." And my mom says, "Which tribe?" So they came from very different worlds,
01:42:51
both mom Anushia, but also Mammo Anushia. But that that is the biggest regret about her death is that you know
01:42:57
if she was the most important person in my life for the first 20 years is the most important for the rest of it. And I
01:43:03
really wish those two people could have met cuz they're amazing people. >> The emotion is still right on the
01:43:06
surface for you. >> Very much so. >> We have a closing tradition on this podcast. Okay.
01:43:12
>> Where the last guest leaves a question for the next next guest not knowing who
01:43:15
they're leaving it for. >> Okay. The question that's left for you is uh I think it was slightly biased,
01:43:20
but the question is, are aliens real? It's interesting. Answer is I don't know. It It is It is something that I
01:43:32
have sworn to myself, I'm now a year and a half into this job, that I would go through all of the highly classified
01:43:38
information about everything that we know about UFOs. I just haven't done it yet. It's like one of these crazy things
01:43:42
where you get in the job and the day-to-day just takes over. So, I haven't done that yet. But, I mean,
01:43:47
look, I I am I believe in things and I think that they're true and I think that they're rational, but I
01:43:55
recognize that there may be even crazier than the idea that there are extraterrestrials. Like, I believe that
01:44:00
a Jewish man about 2,000 years ago was the only begotten son of God, was literally crucified, and then rose from
01:44:06
the dead 3 days later. Like, I recognize that sounds a little out there, but I think that it's true. And I I 100%
01:44:14
believe that people have mystical experiences. I I've talked to people who have been involved in exorcisms. And
01:44:22
again, I think the rational mind says, "Well, that's just schizophrenia or that's some other mental illness." I've
01:44:26
talked to people who said, "Yeah, 99.9% of the people that I've looked at to do an exorcism on were schizophrenic or had
01:44:32
some other mental illness." But there's something there are weird things out there that we cannot explain. There are
01:44:38
weird moments. I mean, I remember not long after my grandmother died, my sister lost, you know, she didn't really
01:44:44
lose her temper, but like got kind of angry with her daughter and her daughter's, I don't know, seven or eight
01:44:49
years old at the time and like the light bulb just exploded and both of us looked
01:44:55
at each other like that was mamal. Remember I was talking I I write about this in communion. I was talking to the
01:45:01
New York Times writer um about the pope and sort of different perspectives on the pope and he was more critical of the
01:45:08
pope and I was more my attitude is like ah you know he's not a politician you can't judge him by politician standards
01:45:13
this is the last pope and we're like having this conversation and it's like I'm telling you man a glass just falls
01:45:21
off the bar in a totally crazy way and shatters and like stops a step in our tracks and we both just looked at each
01:45:28
other and said what the hell was that And I I I'm a believer in mystical experiences. I don't think they happen
01:45:33
that often, but I think that people have experiences that are impossible to explain if you have a purely narrow,
01:45:41
hyperrational view of the world. In other words, I think the hyperrational view of the world is actually not
01:45:46
totally accurate. There's some weird out there. >> So, you think aliens could be real?
01:45:50
>> I do. >> Communion. Um, it's really interesting because I went on a similar journey to you in
01:45:58
terms of new atheism, >> very rational, how could any of this be true, arguing with Christians every time
01:46:03
that I had the opportunity to in part to try and figure out my own opinion. It was like a sparring match,
01:46:07
>> of course. >> Um, and I now found myself as being an agnostic person and being open-minded
01:46:12
and curious to new ideas. And I've it's almost a humility >> that I wasn't humble before in that in
01:46:16
that season of my life, but now I'm like open that I could be completely wrong. >> Sure.
01:46:20
>> And listening intently. And I think this is why this book is so interesting because you represent, I think, the
01:46:25
journey of a lot of people who have rationally talked themselves out of the possibility of faith, but then have felt
01:46:32
something Yeah. >> is missing at some level, feel like they've been lied to by themselves or
01:46:37
society or some kind of culture. >> Sure. >> And then have had the sort of open-minded exploration back to a place
01:46:43
of meaning. And I would say that that meaning and that sense of purpose is so absent in society at the moment. And
01:46:48
also like you said, the Christians that I've interviewed here, it doesn't feel to me to be a
01:46:54
coincidence that they're the most virtuous, anchored, stable, happy, empathetic, charitable individuals I get
01:47:02
to sit with. And that itself appears to be proof of something. >> And so your book here, Communion,
01:47:08
Finding My Way Back to Faith, is I think a wonderful journey in that direction for anybody who is finds themselves at
01:47:14
any stage in that journey. and it's out right now. Mr. Vice President, thank you
01:47:19
so much for your time. I realize you're very busy, so it's a true honor that you
01:47:22
chose to give me some of your time today. I really, really appreciate it. Thanks.
01:47:25
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