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If you want to know the secret, if somebody's being fake with you, there's really three things that you got to
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know. Number one, it's what I call bestie bombing. It's like, "Oh my gosh, we're going to be best friends. I I love
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you so much." Since we just met, they give way too much right out of the gate of how much they love you. It's not what
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secure people do. Secure people don't attach to you instantly. Two is the over compliments.
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We all have this sixth sense to be able to sniff out if that's real or not. They'll go, "Oh my
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gosh, I love that outfit." And then all of a sudden they've turned their head. You know what I mean? They're not really
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truly engaged in what it is. It's just a ritual to them of that's how they have learned. Because to me, if you have to
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perfectly curate yourself, this this sense of perfection, you you're not getting
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the real human. You're getting a person in character. The third that you have to
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watch out for are the people that aren't willing to actually have an interest in you.
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Meaning they never ask anything about you. They're only wanting to talk about themselves.