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Defining Happiness

November 25, 2014 / 12:56

This episode discusses the relationship between happiness, time, and money, featuring research by a happiness expert. Key topics include how time influences happiness, the differences in happiness expression across ages, and the impact of experiences on well-being.

The guest explains that focusing on time rather than money can lead to greater happiness. A study conducted in a cafe showed that individuals thinking about time engaged more with others and reported higher happiness levels than those focused on money.

Additionally, the guest shares findings on how happiness expression changes with age. Younger individuals tend to express excited happiness, while older individuals often express calm happiness. This shift suggests that ordinary experiences can be as fulfilling as extraordinary ones for older adults.

The discussion also touches on implications for marketers, emphasizing the need to understand their target demographics and how to convey happiness effectively through branding.

Finally, the episode highlights a recent incident involving Iranians arrested for dancing to a popular song, illustrating the universal and motivating nature of happiness.

TLDR

Focusing on time over money enhances happiness, with age influencing how we experience joy.

Episode

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I research people's happiness um and what I found across the work is that time plays a critical role so for
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instance I've looked at what's the effect of merely drawing people's
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attention to time as opposed to our other lovely resource of money how does that impact people's levels of happiness
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how does age and more specifically the amount of time people feel like they have left in life influence both how
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people experience happiness as well well as the types of experiences that elicit
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greater happiness so for example the things that I have found is that focusing on time leads to Greater
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happiness than focusing on money and the way that I explored that was building on
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prior work which has tracked how people spend their days and also how people feel over the course of their days
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finding that people are happiest when they are connecting with other people there least happy when they are doing
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work or commuting and so I wanted to see would thinking about time versus money influence people's Tendencies to behave
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in particularly happy or unhappy ways and so in one study I looked in a context um in which
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people both connect with others as well as do work namely at a cafe and so what I did was as people were entering a cafe
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asked them to fill out a survey and on survey was a sentence and scramble task which surreptitiously exposed them to
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time related words or money related words and they were thaned they went into the cafe and unbeknownst to them we
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observed how they spent their time at the cafe noting the extent to which they were connecting with other people at the
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cafe talking to others or on the phone um the extent to which they were doing work so either on their computers or
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reading books um and as they left the cafe we we conducted another survey asking how happy they felt and those who
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were led to think about happiness or time rather going into the cafe spent more time connecting and left happier
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than those who were led to think about money going into the cafe in the other work um I have found that age influences
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how people experience happiness so the way we looked into this initially was looking at how people Express feeling
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happy on their personal blog so we looked at millions of blogs any any time someone wrote I feel or I'm feeling
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happy we looked at the content of that emotional expression and what we found was that there's really two forms of
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happiness that emerged one that's really tied to feeling excited and the other
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that's tied to feeling calm and based on the blogger's profile information we
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could see who it was that was expressing these different types of Happiness so what we found was that people people in
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their teens and 20s were significantly more likely to express excited happiness than calm happiness people in their 30s
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were actually equally as likely to express one or the other and then people in their 40s 50s 60s and above were
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significantly more likely to express feeling calm happiness than excited happiness suggesting that the way that
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we feel happy um changes over the course of our life um in other work we're looking at the types of experiences that
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are associated with greater happiness Finding that again actually age has an impact so comparing the happiness that
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people extract from extraordinary experiences you know those bucket list type events like um in credible
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vacations um life Milestones graduation getting married um versus ordinary experiences those mundane everyday
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events um and what we found was that amongst younger people or people who felt like they had a lot of time left in
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life it was really those extraordinary experiences that led to Greater happiness but interestingly as people
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got older those ordinary experiences produced greater happiness such that amongst older
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participants um they felt as much happiness from ordinary experiences as from extraordinary
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experiences well I thought I was really interesting that when a 20-year-old says
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I feel happy and when a 60-year-old says the very same thing I feel happy they're
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likely feeling very different things um one excited you know an excited feeling and the other um a greater sense of calm
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um I also think it's uh surprising and actually quite nice that these ordinary
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experiences those little moments um that sort of pop up every day can produce as
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much happiness as extraordinary moments and I think that's really powerful in
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terms of where people find um the happiness in their life so an interesting implication for
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consumers or really anyone who's interested in feeling happy is to shift attention away from money which is a
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resource that tends to absorb most of our attention and our sort of thinking and planning on a daily basis and shift
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it to this other sort of I would argue fundamentally precious um resource of time and in making that shift it will
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remind you and motivate you to behave in ways that are happier and to spend your
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time in more fulfilling ways um another implication is to understand that what makes you happy
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and even the way that you feel Happyness um will or has changed over the course of your life so not holding
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your um in evaluating or assessing your level of Happiness not holding yourself to a standard that was either you know a
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concept that you had when you were younger um and allowing yourself to accept and sort of appreciate that it is
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maybe those Quiet Moments those calming moments um where you really will find happiness
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it doesn't mean that you're boring if you're fired up about you know a Friday
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night on the couch watching TV or movies um that allowing yourself and realizing
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that that's actually perhaps if that's what you want to be doing that that is a
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happy outcome yeah so it has um tremendous implications for marketers in two ways
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first you see more and more examples of marketers through their campaigns um and
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S branding of trying to really connect with consumers on this fundamental level by promising happiness and what it
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suggests is that they should think about um first of all who they're targeting what
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demographic are they trying to speak to older or younger individuals um and Ed L
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how should they be communicating that happiness that they're promising is it
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this excitement these like loud colors um high energy um intense color um or is it should they be conveying happiness as
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a more sort of tranquil Serene calm type of Happiness to really connect with and
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resonate with an older consumer um it also has more implications for marketers who are more
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and more there's this trend towards dialing up the experiential aspect of your product or brand and it's
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suggesting that again um they should consider who they're looking to connect
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with and speak to um in terms of in order to inform the types of experiences that they are really positioning
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themselves with respect to so is it this exciting extraordinary those types of experiences or is it those more everyday
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main experiences that will really resonate um with their target consumer well uh there is the news story
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from a couple of weeks ago when six Iranians were arrested for posting on YouTube a video of them dancing and um
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to the Fel song Happy um and I think it what it does is first of all the the fact that the F song happy has become a
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phenomen phenomenon in and of itself suggests that this emotion of happiness is so fundamental and so motivating and
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so resonant with people um and the fact that uh there's been such an outpouring
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of support and care for these young Iranians who were arrested for that the act of celebrating um and sharing their
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happiness um just goes to show how um effective uh this emotion um of happiness is so what it suggests is that happiness
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is not a singular thing that people you know are pursuing and will someday get there um
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instead and on the other hand it's actually not idio purely idiosyncratic and something different to everyone um
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instead there is predictable regularity in how people experience happiness as well as the experiences that elicit
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happiness and there's a systematic shift over the course of people's lives
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whereby when people are younger happiness is more about feeling excited as people get older happiness is more
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about feeling calm it suggests that we should be shifting our attention um away from
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money and towards time so there is a lot of attention within the business school
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of Wharton and research um on money in the bottom line and also within psychology and happiness research that's
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looking at this relationship of does money buy happiness and I would argue in my research would argue that um that
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there is a lot of value in shifting attention altogether um towards this other resource um that is so fundamental
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to us and that is time I exploring several different sort of paths all related to time and
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happiness um one is what are happy ways of spending time we've been looking at
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whether people should be filling their days with more variety versus less variety so um and so far it suggests
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that in general actually variety is a spice of life people um enjoy greater happiness from a more varied activities
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but that is not the case when you get to smaller partitions of time like an hour
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um and in some cases even a day where too much variety makes you feel like you haven't gotten anything completed um in
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other work I am looking at um with a doctoral student of mine we're exploring
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the impact of giving time on the extent to which people feel connected with other people so specifically find ing
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that when people give experiential gifts the gift of time um people the recipient
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feels more connected to their gift giver than um receiving a material gift uh and
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finally I'm doing work looking at whether people would prefer feeling happy over
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the course of an hour or their life or whether they would prefer feeling happy looking back on that hour or life so
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this preference between experienced versus remembered [Music] happiness

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Episode Highlights

  • The Role of Time in Happiness
    Research shows that focusing on time rather than money increases happiness levels.
    “Focusing on time leads to greater happiness than focusing on money.”
    @ 00m 40s
    November 25, 2014
  • Age and Happiness
    As people age, their expression of happiness shifts from excitement to calm.
    “Happiness changes over the course of your life.”
    @ 03m 20s
    November 25, 2014
  • Value of Ordinary Experiences
    Ordinary moments can bring as much joy as extraordinary events, especially for older individuals.
    “Ordinary experiences can produce as much happiness as extraordinary moments.”
    @ 04m 56s
    November 25, 2014

Episode Quotes

  • Focusing on time leads to greater happiness than focusing on money.
    Defining Happiness
  • Happiness changes over the course of your life.
    Defining Happiness
  • Ordinary experiences can produce as much happiness as extraordinary moments.
    Defining Happiness
  • Happiness is not a singular thing that people are pursuing.
    Defining Happiness
  • We should be shifting our attention away from money and towards time.
    Defining Happiness

Key Moments

  • Time vs Money00:40
  • Age and Happiness03:20
  • Ordinary vs Extraordinary04:56
  • Shifting Attention10:28

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