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Losing Your Temper and Perspective

May 31, 2019 / 21:20

This episode features discussions on the impact of anger in the workplace, with insights from Mary Schweitzer and Jeremy Yip. They focus on their research titled "Losing Your Temper and Your Perspective," which examines how anger affects perspective-taking.

Jeremy Yip defines perspective-taking as the cognitive process of recognizing differences and understanding how others view situations. The conversation highlights how anger, a common emotion in conflict, can impair this ability and fuel disputes.

The episode distinguishes between incidental anger, which arises from unrelated situations, and integral anger, which is directly linked to a specific conflict. Schweitzer explains how both types of anger can lead to egocentrism, making it difficult to consider others' viewpoints.

Yip and Schweitzer discuss their experimental methods for studying anger and perspective-taking, including inducing anger through negative feedback and assessing perspective-taking through scheduling tasks. They emphasize the importance of recognizing emotions in the workplace.

Finally, they offer practical advice for managing anger and improving perspective-taking, highlighting the need for self-awareness and emotional regulation in professional settings.

TLDR

Anger in the workplace impairs perspective-taking, affecting conflict resolution and decision-making.

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hello I'm Steve ghulami editorial director at knowledge a warden and today I'm speaking with Mary Schweitzer who is
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a pro is a professor of operations information and decisions at the warden school and with Jeremy Yip who is
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professor of management at Georgetown University thank you both for joining us today
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there's your dangerous and so today we're going to talk about your research
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on the impact of anger in the workplace and the title of your paper is losing your temper and your perspective anger
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reduces perspective-taking so let's start with just the title of the paper itself and specifically that term
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perspective-taking so Jeremy can you define that for us in this context yeah perspective-taking is a cognitive
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process that involves recognizing differences and making inferences about how others view a situation when people
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engage in perspective-taking they often form mental representations of a particular situation for themselves and
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for others that overlap enables people to be able to bridge differences between percent of perceptions interests and
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backgrounds perspective-taking is closely tied to conflict in that poor perspective-taking is often associated
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with conflict and in this paper we explore an emotion that's commonly associated with conflict anger and it's
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and examine whether anger may actually impair perspective-taking and potentially fuel conflict okay and
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in the paper you talk specifically about two different kinds of anger one is incidental anchor the other one's
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integral anchor Maurice could you help us figure out what the difference is between those two and and why that's
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important sure so there we explored two different kinds of anger in federal anger anger that
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might bleed over from one case into another so imagine you have an argument with your spouse and then you go into an
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important meeting at work those two cases could be completely unrelated but that anger might carry over and still
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influence the way you behave and act in that second situation so many of our studies we look at
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incidental anger anger that's just carrying over from one case into another it's a more conservative test that we're
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just looking at that pure emotion and what we consistently find is that the motions we have from one setting really
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do carry over to unrelated settings in contrast integral anger is anger that I feel toward that same person or about
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that same issue that bleeds over from one case to another and in that case it might be quite relevant so it could be
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that I'm upset with a co-worker and I'm dealing with that co-worker in a second
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case and that emotion that I'm feeling could be informative and relevant in how
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I'm dealing with that person and so here when we think about conflict settings
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what we're showing is that even incidental anger anger from an unrelated source can really impair
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perspective-taking and it's certainly the case that integral anger that is anger I feel
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about a particular situation or a person is going to influence how I deal with that same situation or person okay so
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let's get to the why then so to Jeremy why why does anger impact prospective
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taking in these cases yeah it was something that we thought very carefully and deeply about what might explain why
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anger diminishes perspective-taking and in our work we found that when people feel angry they experience elevated
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levels of arousal and that interferes with their ability to think carefully and deliberately which reduces
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perspective-taking we can look at emotions according to valence and magnitude and
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what we're finding here is that anger is a negative valence high arousal emotion
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can I just stop you for a second can you just define what valence means in this context okay yeah valence refers to
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whether it's positive or negative and in this case anger is a negative emotion that also
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tends to be higher in terms of energy or arousal and when people feel or experience greater arousal they tend to
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be more likely to rely on heuristics what's valuable about our work is that we were also able to shed some insight
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into the puzzle about how emotions influence cognition prior work has found that when people feel happy they tend to
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exhibit impaired perspective taking similarly when people are anxious they tend to struggle with perspective taking
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and here our work finds that when people feel angry they tend to struggle with their perspective taking and what ties
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this all together is the role of arousal Maurice yeah I just add to that that that that essentially we're finding is
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that when people feel angry they're collapsing in on themselves they become far more egocentric and other work
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Jeremy and I have done together we're finding that basically anger which is this high arousal that is my heart's
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beating fast it's as high Roselyn motion I'm high an alert we're focusing in on
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ourselves and we're more likely to think about our own interests and it gets in
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the way of trying to think about things from somebody else's perspective so as
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Jen was explaining before we're trying to disentangle what we know in our heads
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from how other people are seeing and experiencing things and it's really hard
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to make that mental leap to really put ourselves in somebody else's shoes that
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perspective-taking requires this cognitive effort and we're finding is that the emotions we feel this anger
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that we feel is impairing that process and in fact that leads to what you call spirals correct conflict spirals yeah
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exactly right so so and Jeremy eluded this before that is negotiations or conflicts or disputes you know imagine
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your neighbor's dog bit a member of your family you might be angry about that
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angers a common theme in many conflict situations and what we're finding is that anger
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hums perspective-taking exactly the kind of skill you might need to try to resolve a conflict so whether it's at
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work or at home if you're feeling anger within a conflict situation it might
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make it even harder to resolve that so imagine we're going to court and as we're going to court if I can't take the
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other side's perspective I might be sure that the judge is going to rule in my
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favor and so now I'm gonna be less likely to accept any overtures to try to settle before we go to court I'm gonna
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escalate this conflict so I'm curious to know how you would study an emotion like
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anger in a lab setting so Jeremy King explained maybe a couple of the experiments that you did sure so
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we conducted six experiments in the lab and we our basic approach to these experiments was that we would induce the
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emotion and we used many different ways to induce emotion so for example we induced emotion by providing people with
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negative feedback or we had them watch a video in which an injustice occurred or
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we had them recall a time that they felt most angry and write about it they then
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completed measures of perspective-taking and here's where we were able to introduce some new ways of assessing
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perspective-taking in particular we assess perspective-taking through a scheduling task we told participants
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that they were that they needed to write an email and arrange a meeting time with
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a very important client who was based in California which was three hours behind
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their current time zone Eastern Time we were we looked at whether they wrote their messages using
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meeting times that were in Eastern time or in Pacific time and for those who wrote in Eastern time that reflected
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egocentrism on the other hand if they wrote it in Pacific time that reflected prospective taking and what we found was
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that consistently participants who felt angry tended to refer in their own eaters or to their
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own egocentric time zone Eastern Time we also assess perspective-taking using other measures where we present
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either a number which is which from one vantage point can look like a sixteen or
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four from another vantage point 91 as well as we ask them questions about who would they side with in terms of an
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insurance case when when attributing blame so there's a number of different ways that we induce anger and a number
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of different ways we assess anger or I'm sorry assess perspective-taking so so
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Maurice what do we do then with that information so we know that anger reduces perspective-taking
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what can employees and managers do when anger arises what should they be doing so so so the first thing to recognize is
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that perspective-taking is always an effortful and challenging process if not something we do well naturally and in
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any strategic decision any collaborative decision we need to work at perspective-taking
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so the first thing I would say is to is to be mindful of how important and challenging perspective thinking is and
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the second thing informed by a work is to recognize that how we feel can influence our ability to take
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perspective and when we feel anger in particular as well as any other high arousal emotion we should recognize that
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our ability to think about other people's perspectives is diminished that we're more likely to think egocentric
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alee that our tendency to focus in on ourselves becomes exacerbated by the high arousal emotion of anger or other
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related emotions so so we've got to check our emotions be mindful of that and recognize that we're going to be
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more likely to adopt an egocentric perspective so then all right there any Jeremy are there any specific techniques
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that you our manager can can hughes when these situations arise in our research we
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examine both incidental and integral anger and we were able to gain insight on how people can manage incidental
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anger in relation to their perspective taking what we found was that when people are made aware about the source
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of their incidental anger and they're able to infer that their anger is irrelevant to their particular social
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situation they're able to block the effects of anger and exhibit more perspective-taking the important point
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here or the important point here is to cultivate an awareness of our emotions and the sources and pinpoint the sources
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of our emotions so that we can judge whether they're relevant or irrelevant to the social situation at hand based on
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your research do you think that this would is does this not work in the case of integral anger as well as for
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instance if I'm fighting with someone in the moment about something very specific
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nor we're getting into an argument it's getting kind of heated is it useful to
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say I'm getting angry or you seem to be getting angry about this is that helpful
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in that moment as well do you think because I can see how would work in the case of you know I've had a bad morning
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and it might be helpful for me to say look I'm reacting this way because I had
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a terrible morning and this happened but in the case of integral anger does it does it I can almost see a case where it
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might cause a spiral to go further if you recognize the fact that I'm getting
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really mad do you think that that's true I I think that it is so I think we have
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to be careful we think about integral anger the anger could be integral with the same person or it could be the same
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situation or both and when we now vent about those issues they could actually make us angrier
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so we have to be careful on the other hand in general the more we can be cognizant of our emotions the more aware
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we are of our emotions and ideally as Jim was saying what an internal anger so I know that I'm
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angry about what my boss said to me at work and now I come home and I recognize the source of my anger I'm less likely
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to have that bleed into my interactions at home even when the even when the sources are integral recognizing what's
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making me angry can help us deal with that anger and recognize explicitly that this emotion is likely to influence our
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cognition that is where our work contributes to this growing body of work that's linking how we feel to how we
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think so speaking of that growing body of work 10 years ago maybe you know someone might have come to work and they
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would have been told check your baggage at the door work is work you don't you
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don't bring your problems here you just focus on work now it seems like the pendulum is swinging the other way and
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we are more inclined to acknowledge the power of emotion at work how do you think that's going to reshape management
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practice I think managers need to be aware of their own emotions and how it can affect their behavior but they also
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want to be attune to the effects of the emotional effects of their communication
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so when they use incendiary words whether it is directed at people in within their own workplace or outside
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competitors there's an opportunity or there's a chance that that may elicit
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anger among their audience of workers and that can have significant effects and consequences for how individuals
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behave to one another as well as how they behave towards the leader I think realizing this connection or
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this link between emotion and cognition is very important for managers to pay attention to yeah I'll just add to that
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that I think emotion is really integral to getting our world done a lot of emotion conveys
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information so if you have an employee who's angry about something that helps
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guide attention to that issue and maybe they're upset because something isn't
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working well and we should be paying more attention to that issue or in the workplace the motions that we express
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can help us accomplish different kinds of tasks so sometimes anger can be very motivating
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we're upset about some injustice and we're now motivated to address it or it
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could be that the the use of positive emotions can help us either bond together or serve a client or help us be
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excited when we sell a product that the motions that we have are really part of us and rather than trying to check our
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emotions at the door and assume that we're unemotional throughout the full day to recognize that there's
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information here and there's use for the emotions that we feel so part of this
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also I mean it seems to me that this could be letting a genie out of a bottle too for some managers right so in other
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words if I'm gonna start validating or acknowledging emotion in the workplace
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we'll get to a point where all's we're talking about our feelings about things
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and the works actually not getting done like we're is there a balance that needs
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to be found within that yeah I'd say absolutely so so clearly we don't want
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unregulated emotions running wild and instead we need to be careful about how we regulate our emotions I think the
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first step is just recognizing that we do feel these emotions and if we can attribute where that emotions coming
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from I think those two key steps how do I feel and why do I feel that way that's
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going to take us a pretty long way the third sort of next up would be figure out hey how do I change my emotions so
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it could be that I'm feeling upset about an interaction I had with a co-worker or
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a colleague I have to make an important strategic decision I know that if I go for a walk or I go
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to the gym or I talked to my other friend down the hall I'm going to clear my head in a way that's gonna allow me
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to think differently about this decision so I think it's it's that recognition to
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recognize how we feel why we feel that way and how we can change how we feel that can really help us make much much
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much better decisions and improve our interactions at work it's so Jeremy what
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what kinds of questions this research raised about anger that maybe you would want to explore next we became
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interested in exploring the role that anger may play within a team context so we currently have ongoing work that
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explores another topic of research that were both that we've collaborated on
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trash-talking and in particular we look at trash-talking when leaders trash talk
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is there a functional benefit to doing so within groups and our evidence suggests that when that in-group members
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when in-group members witness a trash-talking leader they actually that trash-talking can build cohesion and
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identification with their organization so it really depends on what these aggressive what this aggressive these
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aggressive words this incendiary language what it's targeted at when it's
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targeted at outside of a particular organization or in-group it may actually have functional benefits and that anger
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that is elicited may essentially serve as a call to action to be able to have a group of people coalesce around a
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particular cause and pursue it okay Maurice where do you think you would take this research next well I think we
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can think about a series of other related emotions so we've done some really
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work on anger and disgust and sadness and happiness to think about the sort of broader set of emotions I think
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understanding how we think about emotions and recognize our own emotions and the interplay of the emotions that
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you're expressing and how that interacts my thinking and cognition those are all
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areas that were eager to explore and and I think this trash-talking work is particularly interesting when we don't
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always behave in a civil way with each other and it's easy to trigger emotions
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and other people and sometimes you might do it inadvertently in ways that cause other people to act in ways that
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surprised us but in hindsight probably shouldn't well thank you both very much
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for joining us today it's a topic that I think is you know it touches everyone so
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I think it's a it's a great one to explore thanks very much thank you thank
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Episode Highlights

  • The Impact of Anger
    Research shows that anger can impair perspective-taking, affecting workplace dynamics.
    “Anger may actually impair perspective-taking.”
    @ 01m 24s
    May 31, 2019
  • Understanding Perspective-Taking
    Perspective-taking is crucial for conflict resolution, but anger complicates it.
    “When people feel angry, they become far more egocentric.”
    @ 05m 18s
    May 31, 2019

Episode Quotes

  • Anger may actually impair perspective-taking.
    Losing Your Temper and Perspective
  • When people feel angry, they become far more egocentric.
    Losing Your Temper and Perspective
  • Recognizing our emotions can help us deal with anger.
    Losing Your Temper and Perspective

Key Moments

  • Research Focus00:19
  • Defining Perspective-Taking00:34
  • Types of Anger01:33
  • Effects of Anger03:31
  • Managing Emotions09:47
  • Future Research18:30

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