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How Do New Hires Feel When They Find Out They Were Not a First-Choice Pick?

November 21, 2024 / 11:04

This episode features Samir Nurmohamed, an Associate Professor of Management at Wharton, discussing the implications of being a second choice in hiring. Key topics include employee integration, organizational dynamics, and leader inclusion.

Nurmohamed explains how employees who learn they were not the first choice often feel less socially integrated within their teams. This feeling can impact their proactivity and willingness to seek feedback, especially in the early days of their new roles.

The conversation also covers how organizations communicate this information, whether directly or indirectly, and the effects of timing on employee perception. Nurmohamed highlights the importance of how leaders can foster inclusion to mitigate negative feelings associated with being an alternate choice.

He shares findings from his research, including the role of social barriers and the need for consistent messaging from leaders to help new employees feel valued. The episode concludes with practical takeaways for organizations to improve onboarding processes.

TLDR

Samir Nurmohamed discusses the effects of being a second choice in hiring and how leaders can foster inclusion to improve employee integration.

Episode

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Dan Loney: What if you're hired by a company, but somewhere along the way, you find out that you weren't the first choice for the
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job. How do you react to that news, and how does the company or the employees react to either you knowing the news, or them
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knowing it as well? Samir Nurmohamed is an Associate Professor of Management here at the Wharton School, and he's
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part of research that looked into this component, and he joins us right now. Samir,
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great to talk to you again. How are you? I'm doing well. Thanks for having me, Dan.
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I guess let's start with, what was it that piqued your interest to look at this?
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Yeah, it's really interesting. So I have a— I have an interest in the topic of underdogs. It's this very idea that— and we've
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actually talked about it before. This very idea that when you're not expected to succeed, what happens? A lot of prior research
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says you're not gonna end up doing well, and what I found in my work is that you can actually be motivated and perform better.
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So along those lines, I started thinking of other instances in organizations where people might perceive that they're the
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underdog. And one common context is a hiring context. You're hired for a role, but you weren't the first choice. So
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sometimes this is communicated directly to you. So like, for example, at Wharton, our students are sometimes on a wait
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list, for example, for either the school or for their employers. And sometimes it just happens more indirectly. And I
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wanted to find out, well, what are the implications of that? So I got a little bit curious and started studying it.
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But you would think that once somebody does find out that they were a second choice, that it probably does throw some
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unique dynamics into the mix, especially if you're in an office setting. - Absolutely, right?
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I mean, because very fascinating to see, especially depending on what side of the coin you're on, if you're the
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person who's hired as what I call the alternate choice, well, what happens? Are you more reluctant to talk to people, or
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are you very proactive, because you want to make connections and build relationships and get, you know, a lay of the land of the
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organization? But then on the flip side, as a co-worker, as a leader, what happens? Right? Do you start saying, "Well, I need
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to really help this person more to get them onboarded," or are you little bit more distant from them, because you're not sure if
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they're as qualified for the role as someone else that he might have liked during the process.
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So it really does create these dynamics. So let's take— through each one of these segments here. The employee,
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when they find out that they weren't the first choice, what's the most likely reaction, feeling, emotion that they feel?
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Yeah. So what we found in our research— and this is a study I did with Zoe Schwingel-Sauer, who's a PhD student at Michigan,
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but a former undergrad here at the University of Pennsylvania. What we found is that people feel actually less socially
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integrated in their work groups. And this is kind of interesting, because in some of my other research on underdogs, we found
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out that people are very motivated. They want to prove others wrong. But what we found in our research is that people
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feel like they're less integrated in the group. They feel like they belong less. And this makes them feel a little
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bit more distant from their coworkers, and this has implications for their proactivity, especially in the
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first days, first weeks on the job, in terms of whether they get feedback from others and whether they're proactive or not.
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So what about the employer? Because the dynamics of making sure that they have the best kind of working scenario, the
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teamwork, all of these different components, it has to throw a variety of different challenges their way.
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Yeah, absolutely. So this is one of the things we were kind of curious about. You know, how do organizations handle this? What
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happens? So as part of one of our studies, we tried to find out, well, how do employees find out or discover or perceive that
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they're the alternate choice? And we found out that this kind of happens one of— in a variety of ways, but two key factors
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were the following. One was, this either happens before they start their role. For example, the organization tells them in some
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way. Or it happens after they start their role. And you can imagine that there's a different dynamic to each of those. If you
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find out before you start the role, well, at least you're finding out before you accept the offer, for example, right?
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And you can prepare for it going in. If it happens after you start the role, it might hit you as more of a surprise. You might
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have not realized this. It might be more unexpected, and it might catch you off guard, for example. So that was one key
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factor. Did it happen before you started or after you started? And then the other way is in terms of whether you're told it
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directly or indirectly, for example. So, some people find out through things such as a wait list, like we talked about, or
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maybe they'll have a conversation with their manager, or they'll find out in the offering process that, hey,
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someone else had accepted this role but then didn't take it. So that's one way you find out, but sometimes it happens more
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indirectly, right? And maybe it's not even intended that you find out. So you might find out through gossip from others, or
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it may accidentally come up in a subsequent hiring meeting when you're considering other candidates. It can even come
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across in a— in strange way. Someone says, you know, "We're considering this person. What if they don't take the offer?" "Oh,
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well, it worked great with Dan. Dan was a great choice, even though Dan wasn't our first choice in the role." And people
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have a laugh at it, and you're sitting there saying, "Wait, is that a compliment or not?" - Yeah, right.
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So, yeah, it happens— it happens in these unique and interesting ways. Does the leader or the manager—does the type of person or type of
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leader they are factor into how that integration really goes, and— and works to the to the— to the benefit of all?
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Yeah, absolutely. So this was really crucial to our— not only our findings, but also the theory that we were developing.
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So in our studies, we were finding this consistent effect, this consistent pattern, that employees who are the ultimate
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choice, who were not the first choice for the role, felt less socially integrated, and therefore seek less feedback
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from others. And we saw that in a variety of contexts, for example. And one thing we were curious about is, well, if we're
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seeing this, is there anything the organization can do, and in particular, that leaders can do? So that's one of the things we
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examined in our final study of the paper. We wanted to see what— what role do leaders play in this process? Can they kind of, you
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know, ameliorate some of these negative effects, for example? And what we were interested in was the idea of leader
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inclusion. This is the idea to which leaders convey to others that, you know, their input is valued, that they're seen and
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heard in the organizations. And in our last study, we investigated exactly this. We investigated whether leaders
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were more inclusive to the— to the alternate choice to the first choice that was hired, versus less inclusive to them?
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And we saw that that had an effect. So that when leaders ended up being more inclusive, the negative effects were
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weakened for the alternate choice. They didn't feel as likely to feel less socially integrated. They were likely to
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seek a little bit more feedback. But it didn't totally eliminate the effect. It wasn't enough, in our study.
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It sounds like, as well, that the component of social barriers which you talk about in the research becomes that much more important
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as well, so that you're trying to mitigate some of these issues, whether they be, you know, in a team meeting or the
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first couple of days that an employee— a new employee— comes on board. Or even as you said, maybe even, it's before that
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employee even shows up, to kind of lay the groundwork. Yeah, no, absolutely. And you know, in our— in our study, we
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were looking at it and we were trying to be really explicit. Have a leader say, you know, "I value your input, I welcome it," and
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so forth. But I think if you think about these in organizations, there are many more opportunities for leaders
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to do this, to convey this repeatedly, right? Because sometimes you might say it once and your employees don't hear you,
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or they don't necessarily recognize it or believe it, for example. So I think having consistent messaging is really
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important. Another thing that matters, too, is how are they— how are these employees introduced their teams? Are they introduced as,
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you know, just Samir, and their background, and what Samir likes? Or are they actually introduced through a lens of worth? And it
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goes beyond that. Are you— you know, are you saying more about the person's qualifications? And those attributes really matter
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in terms of how people form their first impressions of you. Is there an importance as to how you go about that, whether that
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is kind of in the formal setting or kind of in an informal setting? I mean, it could be, you know, around the water
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cooler, our Friday happy hour, in comparison to bringing everybody into the— into the office building, into the
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office— the meeting room. Yeah. I think it's both. I think it's both formal and informal.
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And it's not just saying it, it's also demonstrating and showing it, right? So how can you actually— you can say that
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this person has really great ideas and they have this track record, but how are you behaving towards that employee in the
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first meeting? Are you incorporating that employee's ideas? Are you giving them feedback on how they can be
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better, for example, and are they refining it? And then, are people seeing that you value and trust them? That's going to be
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really important for this process. What do you think are the most important takeaways from doing this research?
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Yeah. I think, you know, one big takeaway is just recognizing that this is out there. We were struck by the literature that
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this is a phenomenon that happens in a variety of domains, not even just in the companies that our students go and work
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for, but you see this in acting. You see, for example, in <i>The</i>
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<i>Godfather</i>, we didn't know that Al Pacino wasn't necessarily the
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first choice to be Michael Corleone. - That's right. Similarly, Satya Nadella.
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There were other leadership candidates considered at Microsoft at the time. So there have been some high
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profile people that have been potential alternate choices. We'd have to ask them to really find out. But yeah, so
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establishing that this occurs, and it's a status that people recognize, I think that's one. The second thing that I think is
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really important, that really stands out is that, you know, it can be really hard to prevent this from happening, right?
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Like, one solution would be, "Well, we just shouldn't tell people. We shouldn't tell them whether they're the alternate choice
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or not. We should keep a lid on that." But what we found in our research is that people have plenty of examples of this
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happening, and it's really hard to keep a lid on it. So it's not a matter of just telling people, "Don't tell people." I think
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that's going to be a really hard secret to keep, and it may not be the best one. The better way of addressing this is, well, how
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are we going to reveal this? Right? And how should we be talking about this? And should we be consistent and on
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the same page, for example? And then, how can we help people be onboarded into the organization? And I think that's where that
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last part comes in. Is, you know, people think they're alone when they're having these situations. That I'm the
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only person here who's been the alternate choice. But one of the things we found in our research is that many people have these
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experiences, and chances are there's someone on your team or organization who's had it, and who's been quite successful. So
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sharing their stories, connecting people with those individuals as mentors, for example, can be really
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valuable. And letting people know that this doesn't get in— doesn't get in the way of their performance or motivation or how
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they're seen, that this can be actually overcome, for example, is really important for companies to recognize.
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Samir, great work. Thank you very much for your time today. All the best. - Absolutely. Thanks for having me, Dan.
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You got it. Samir Nurmohamed, Associate Professor of Management here at the Wharton School.

Episode Highlights

  • The Underdog Effect
    Samir Nurmohamed explores how being a second choice impacts motivation and integration.
    “You can actually be motivated and perform better.”
    @ 00m 48s
    November 21, 2024
  • Social Integration Challenges
    Research shows that alternate choices feel less integrated in their work groups.
    “People feel less socially integrated in their work groups.”
    @ 02m 39s
    November 21, 2024
  • Leader Inclusion Matters
    Leaders can mitigate negative effects for alternate choices by being more inclusive.
    “When leaders are more inclusive, the negative effects are weakened.”
    @ 06m 31s
    November 21, 2024

Episode Quotes

  • What happens when you're not expected to succeed?
    How Do New Hires Feel When They Find Out They Were Not a First-Choice Pick?
  • People feel less socially integrated in their work groups.
    How Do New Hires Feel When They Find Out They Were Not a First-Choice Pick?
  • It's really hard to keep a lid on it.
    How Do New Hires Feel When They Find Out They Were Not a First-Choice Pick?

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  • Underdog Dynamics00:36
  • Social Integration02:39
  • Leader Inclusion06:31

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