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Josh Duhamel Got Dating Advice from James Caan

June 11, 2026 / 51:31

This episode features a conversation with actor Josh Duhamel, discussing his experiences in Hollywood, dating advice from James Caan, and his work on various films.

Josh shares a humorous anecdote about his first date with Madonna, where James Caan advised him to relieve himself before the date to avoid being overly excited. This leads to a discussion about Caan's unique approach to acting and life.

The conversation shifts to Josh's career, including his breakout role in "Win a Date with Tad Hamilton" and his experiences filming "Transformers" alongside Shia LaBeouf. He reflects on the challenges of acting and directing, emphasizing the importance of preparation and collaboration.

Josh also talks about his life in North Dakota, his love for the outdoors, and the freedom he feels living away from Hollywood. He shares insights into his cabin life and the joys of fishing and spending time in nature.

The episode concludes with a light-hearted discussion about the film industry, the challenges of directing, and the camaraderie among actors during productions.

TLDR

Josh Duhamel shares dating advice from James Caan and discusses his Hollywood career and life in North Dakota.

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I had a date. I'm not going to say who it was with, but I had my first date and
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>> Madonna, >> you know, and I said, "Jimmy, what do I do?" I was
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really excited about this date and I didn't want and I I just wanted to impress her and I didn't want to screw
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it up. And he and I said, "What do I do? You know, we're going out." He says,
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"Well, first of all, take her to VBR and jerk off before you go on the date so
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you don't have any." >> Yeah. He told me he told me to >> I have heard this theory. He would find
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any excuse if if the scene had any sort of physicality, he'd find a reason to
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pull a pencil out of his little thing and I'm going to stick it in your neck.
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It was like, well, that's not scripted, but seems a little over the top >> in the show. That's funny, but you're on
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a horse galloping and you're this huge truck and I don't know. It just seems
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fun to me. I never I'll never be offered that role, you know? It's like >> And I never get to be the church lady.
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God damn it. Yeah, >> I want to be the church lady. >> Dana Josh Du Hamill. I think that's the
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pronunciation. >> I hope you're correct. >> That's pretty. That's what I say.
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>> I think that's it. >> I've known him briefly over the years.
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Always a gentleman. >> Always a cool guy. Sense of humor. I knew he was going to be
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>> pretty easy because uh he's done a lot. And uh we got to extract it cuz we're
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[ __ ] pros, man. >> It's unbelievable what you're going to see. Like you're going to hear about
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Transformers. You're going to hear about James Con. You're going to hear about We
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don't give it away. >> You're going to hear about his life in the mountains and the woods and the
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lakes and >> the grid, on the grid, off the grid. >> You're going to about different actors.
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So I'd click it fast. >> Click it fast and furiously. >> Yeah. >> And I'm jealous. I would like to be one
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of those transformers. That would have been fun. >> I'd like to be that.
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>> There's a tennis ball up there. Act like it's Transformer. Oh my god, it's Octop
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Octopolis. Whatever his name is. >> Hey, look at this can opener. Oh no, it's a monster.
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>> Yeah. Oh, I opened it wrong. He's only got one leg. Oh >> yeah, we did get into Transformers.
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What about Shia, too? Yeah, I love Shia. >> Yeah. Yeah. And so it's a it's fun
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interview. He's extremely likable guy. Josh, >> here we go. Josh Daml.
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>> David left. But anyway, we don't need him. >> I was I thought you bailed. Come on.
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>> No, I felt bad for him because he didn't know anything. >> No, we've had guest take it takes 45
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minutes. U so that was quick. I am so uh the least techsavvy person, you know. It's
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>> Are you on the grid? >> I am. I'm in Los Angeles. Where are you
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guys? >> A farm. >> Are you? >> Oh, common denominator. Horses having a
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baby in July. >> Really? Where are you? >> Um up uh in central California.
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Somewhere between St. Louis Bispo and Santa Barbara. >> Nice. Beautiful up there. Thanks. But
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don't you go to North Dakota or do you live there mostly? >> Yeah, we live we live in North Dakota in
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Fargo and we got a cabin about an hour and a half into Minnesota from there up in the woods.
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>> Wow. I you know the cabin on a lake I cuz I I read about you a couple days is
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magic. >> Oh yeah, we've been cramming. >> I'm from Montana. There's not a
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competition, you know, >> but we we we can kick ass if we want to. But I actually played Minet, North
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Dakota and I never forgot it. >> You're kidding me. >> I did. In what?
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>> I did a I did a standup gig in Minet. >> Okay. >> Minet. >> M I
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right. >> That's my home my hometown. >> Backup quarterback. >> Yeah.
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>> You know that's >> Jesus Dana check. What was your height and weight
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as a senior in high school? Were you an early mature like or did you grow later?
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>> I was pretty tall but very skinny. >> I remember I wanted to get to 200 lb and
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I and I put these and we used to wear these these like stretchy pants underneath our football pants and they
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had little pockets in them for for pads. >> Sure. >> And I would slip little 2 and a half
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pound weights in the hip pockets so that I could wet I never quite and I got to 199 that was that was the most I ever
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weighed in. So the little weights in the stretchy pants built up your legs and created
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>> No, no, no. They just made me look heavier. They made me So weighed in.
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>> Yeah. >> No, just just just when we weighed in. I didn't I didn't play with those weights
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in. >> Oh, for the weigh in. You hacked it with these little weights. Everyone goes,
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"Man, >> the first time I've ever admitted that to anybody."
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>> Yeah. >> Um we're not going to report it. Uh but I think that's pretty clever.
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>> I put a kettle bell in my underpants sometimes when I go to clubs. You You
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put a what in there? >> A kettle bell. >> A really tiny kettle bell. Yeah, just
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for extra extra. >> It's all right. It was true confessions. >> I tell everyone that though.
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>> Ah, I was 91 lbs. 5 feet tall when I entered >> when I entered high school.
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>> Jeez, >> I got my ass kicked a lot. >> They let you in with those measurements.
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>> Look, I played D basketball in those days. There is varsity, junior varsity,
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C basketball, D basketball. And this is not a joke. I've said it before, but our
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center, the man who controlled the paint was 54. I'm not kidding. >> He controlled the game video.
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>> Yeah. >> Isn't he video of this? This is something I'd like to see.
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>> It was a long way up. When you're 5t tall and you're shooting a free throw.
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>> Listen, we'll get to Josh. I was 57 with full pads. >> Uh I weighed 114 with full pads 134 and
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I went out for football and I got smeared like Lucas. I The coach said, "Hey, let me let me talk to you." And he
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took me to the sideline. Let me talk to you. Took me to the parking lot and he's
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like, "All right, get in your get out of here. You cannot be." He said, "I'm
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saving your life." >> I know the real story. He said, "Get the [ __ ] out of here." Remember he slapped
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your face? >> Yeah. >> We don't want to go there. >> Oh, >> I went out for that was okay. You could
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actually do it back then. >> Yeah. Coaches were supposed to rough you up. It's like
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>> I don't know what happened. >> We were definitely Our coach would take
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you out behind the woodshed and he would threaten to take you behind the woodshed. You never knew what happened
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behind the woodshed, but he would say, "I will I [ __ ] you not. I will take you
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behind the woodshed." >> Oh, wait. He would take you behind the woodshed and then say he'll take you
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behind the woodshed. You're like, "We're already here. What do you mean?"
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>> I don't know. No one wants to be taken behind a woodshed. I don't think John
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>> I'd be more worried about sexual things happening. worried or kind of
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interested. >> Just wondering what what what >> All right, Josh is our guest.
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>> No, no, go on. >> No, Josh. Sorry, Josh. You're going to talk toward the end.
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>> We're fascinated. Have you ever run across John Corbett? >> Yes, I worked with John Corbett.
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>> I figured that guy's worked with everybody and I figured you two. Which
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one were you in? >> I worked on a movie called Ramona and Bezes with him. Mhm.
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>> Uh, >> let's look at a clip. >> Yeah. Selena Selena Selena Gomez was in the movie.
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>> Selena, right? Yeah. Yeah. >> Yeah. Bases Ramon and Bezes. I don't know if you
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remember those. >> I think they paid her in followers. >> Yeah. >> John Corbett. John Corbett. Quick quick
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impression. Yeah. Yeah. I got a buddy. >> Sorry. That's it. >> That's it.
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>> He know he knows everyone. I got a buddy. I mean, he knows everybody. the
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guy. He's he's a he's a friend. He's he's fun, you know. I'm sure you guys
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>> He lives up, doesn't he? Live up there in that area. >> Yeah. Yeah. He's very cool.
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>> Um, what's the movie where you win a date with Tad Hamilton? >> So, Win a Date with Tad Hamilton was my
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very first break into this industry back in >> a big break, wasn't it?
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>> Two, I think it was 2001 or two. Yeah, it was uh that was my that was my
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first, you know, real job in this business. I did all my children. I guess that was a real job too. Three years
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before that, but you know, um so I got Las Vegas and then I got Winter Date with Tad Hamilton right around the same
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time. So I thought I was just >> take off, which never really happened, but it was it was a it was an
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interesting moment. >> Your resume is pretty stout, Josh. You were a movie star and you go to a
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small town and you you someone wins a day with you and is it Kate Bosworth? Who was it?
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>> It was Kate Bosworth. >> Okay. >> And she was dating to for Grace
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>> at the Pigley Wiggly. >> They worked at the Piglet Wiggly and I and I strolled into town like a big shot
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>> and tried to steal his girl. Didn't work out in the end for me, but you know,
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>> it couldn't in the movies. It couldn't. She had to run back to the Bag Boy.
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>> Yeah. Damn. Damn. >> I like that. I saw that movie. I like it. I like that. And Vegas with Molly
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Sims. Vegas was on for a long time. >> Wasn't James Con on that. >> Or was it Jimmy?
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>> James Khan was on that. Uh Vanessa Marcel, Molly Sims. >> That was a cool show.
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>> Yeah. >> Yeah, Jimmy Khan was >> Tell us about Jimmy Khan, please.
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>> He was just >> He's one of those guys that that I I learned more from Jimmy than anybody
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else. And mostly he would be like, "You do what I say, not what I do." You know,
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because the guy would admittedly say that he made a lot of mistakes, >> but was one of the most honest
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uh people that I've ever worked with. He operated really well with chaos all
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around him. So he always tried to create he needed like some [ __ ] to talk about
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some somebody to somebody to be pissed off at on the set whether it was the writers or the DP or
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>> the network or whoever it was he needed that in order to like rile himself up
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but ultimately want always showed up he would he would hang out with anybody on set at all times. He was just one of
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those guys that you just absolutely adored and didn't care, you know, he just sort of said what was on his mind
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without any thought of repercussions. And I think that's what I admired the most about him. And he, you know, gave
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me some some really interesting advice back in the day, not only about acting, but also about dating. I don't know if
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we can share that here, but it was not >> You can share thing here. Yeah, >> we I'm intrigued by this. So, go ahead.
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>> I had a date I had a date. I'm not going to say who it was with, but I had my first date and
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>> Madonna, >> you know, and I said, "Jimmy, what do I do?" I was
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really excited about this date and I didn't want and I and I just wanted to impress her and I didn't want to screw
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it up. And he and I said, "What do I do? You know, we're going out." And he says,
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"Well, first of all, take her to VBR." I You guys ever been to VTO, the
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restaurant up in >> Everly Glenn? Ever Glenn? Yeah. and and jerk off before you go on the date so
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you don't have any. He told me he told me to >> I have heard this theory
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>> before I went on the dates that I didn't have any sort of >> horny man.
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>> I knew a comedian who would do that. >> Really? Every time he would go on every
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time he would go before he'd go on stage. >> No, before he'd go on a date after the
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show, he would take care of his sexual urges so he wouldn't wake up going, "What? That's something I've heard and
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it's >> I never practiced it because >> except before podcasts, right? I mean,
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>> yeah. Well, that's different because that's business. >> That was that was his sage advice for
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>> and did you follow it or no? >> Uh, probably. >> All right, let's look at a clip to do.
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>> Go to the clip. I couldn't wait to say it that time. He was He's been holding
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that go to the clip thing for like two minutes. He knew. He waited for the opening.
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>> But isn't it something about New York guys who have been around for a while,
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>> you know? They're like, "Hey, here's what you here's what you're going to
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want to do. Okay. >> This the way you're going to handle this guy. Do this."
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>> Yeah. It's like Joe Py was hosting SNL and he goes, "Yeah." And I didn't know
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how much was acting, how much was Joe. And you're going, you know, when you when are you going to fight? You got to
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ask yourself, when are you going to fight? I say, "Fuck it. It's a sugar
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bowl across the nose." And you could tell that he'd done that. in life.
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Someone was [ __ ] with him. Sugar bowl across the nose. >> I think guys like are acting like people
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want them to act like from Good Fellas. Like that's his persona. He likes it and
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then he's like I'm the tough guy and then he almost turns into that. I think
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James Khan probably gets asked about Godfather >> Sunny for his whole life and so he's
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just like >> he's got a built-in cool factor just from that by the way.
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>> Oh my god. >> Yeah. He would he would find any excuse if If if the scene had any sort of
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physicality, he'd find a reason to pull a pencil out of his little thing and I'm
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going to I'm going to stick it in your neck. It was like, well, that's not
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scripted, but seems a little over the top >> in the show. That's funny.
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That's gangster. Yeah. >> And I always kne and I was pretty green when I first started this show. I mean,
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I hadn't done much at all and and I was really open to learning from this guy,
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obviously, because he's he's James K. But he would say we'd be in the middle
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of a scene in between takes. I knew that I knew that I was going to get a talking
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to and he'd be like, "Hey, come here. Come here for a minute with Joseph."
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>> That's very New York. >> And he would give me advice on what I
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should do, what I could do better. >> And you know, >> I I actually really learned a lot from
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that guy. You know, >> it's good if you take it or at least fake take it because that's when fights
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can happen. Sounds condescending, but if you're taking it from someone in the
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Godfather, you go, I'll hear you out. You know, I'll hear what you say. Maybe
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something will ring true and I can tweak it. >> What was What was it like in general?
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Was it really short, quick statements, you know, for him, Jimmy advising you about the scene? Here's how you can
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improve and it be like or was it confusing or was it just like >> really clean and and helpful? It was uh
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God, I don't remember exactly, but it was usually pretty long-winded if I remember correctly. All right, guys.
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It's time to uh it's time to get back to, you know, he he didn't care about,
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you know, >> the time. >> He he'll go he'll we'll go when we're
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ready. Uh but but yeah, that was uh that was five years we shot that show. >> Yeah.
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>> And it was one of the more memorable experiences I've had in this business.
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It's been half a lifetime ago now. Damn. >> Was Vegas shot in Vegas? It sounds like
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a dumb question. >> We shot the first episode there and then when we got picked up, we shot the pilot
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there and then when we got picked up, they built a big big casino on a sound. >> 108 shows. Do you still get checks?
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>> If I do, it's not enough for my sister. Do you tell me about it? how you met
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Molly Sims, who is also in Benchwarmers and the Wrong Missy. >> Oh. Uh, yes,
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that is where I met Molly. >> Lovely lady. >> How long have you two known each other?
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>> Agreed. >> Can we just talk about you two for a minute? >> Uh, we like taking questions.
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>> We're not dating anymore, me and Dana. We're just sort of working friends.
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>> He's picked his team and we're cool with it. >> Uh, >> here here's the advice Dana gave me when
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I was acting on SNL. He goes, "Hey, come here." And I go and he goes, "What are
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you doing?" I go, "I'm sorry. What are you doing in this scene?" I'm like,
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"That's not a very constructive." >> I wear that. And I would wear the tank
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top and I' I have a water cash in my back pocket. I go, "Hey, hey, David, you
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know, this next scene, hey, do me a favor. Do me a favor." You know what I mean? Try to [ __ ] be funny. All
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right. And I'd hand him like 520s. >> Do me a favor. That's very New York. Do
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me a favor. >> How do you not know your lines are on Q cards? >> Yeah.
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>> I don't know. Read the [ __ ] card, David. Come on, man. I'm sick of this
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[ __ ] >> I met Dana. I don't know where I met Dana. I used to like him because he was funny comic. And
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then uh I would see him >> clubs clubs pre-SNL. David was right out of high school, literally. And uh and
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then he was around the clubs before I got on SNL in ' 86. >> No. Easy easy with
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>> I know. Let's just say a while back. But back to our guest, what I'm curious
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about is this evolution of male model >> soap opera Vegas. When did you sort of
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feel or maybe you felt it during Vegas like I got this? I mean, when did you kind of go I know how to do this?
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>> Did you study outside of the shows or did you just kind of a natural when did
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you feel >> you could do it confident? >> Well, I mean it's it's I mean I'm I'm
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still not sure I'm all the way there to be honest. >> That's everyone's feeling. I agree with
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you. Even Vegas and Tad Hamilton to a normal person be like, "Shit, great looking guy. Two things going, he's set
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for life." And you're like, "Didn't even cross my mind. I was set for life." I
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was just like, "What if they both don't work? I'm right back to zero."
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>> That's the reality of it. It's so scary. >> It is. And it's still the reality, you
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know? It's I I I still have that same mentality, I think. But to answer your
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question, Dan, I would I was >> bound and determined to be proficient at this. And I knew that I wasn't in the
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beginning and I needed to be if I wanted to stay in the game, I had to keep working at it. So
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>> I would be taking these these workshops from Larry Moss. I'd be taking classes
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on the side, especially in the earlier days. >> Okay. Um, and even up until recently,
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just to, you know, scare myself a little bit, those Larry Moss seminars were were
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two weeks and you would put like big chunks of like a Eugene O'Neal play up on stage or Tennessee Williams or
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whatever it was, and you'd have to rehearse with your partner with all the props and the whole thing. You put it up
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in front of, you know, the whole class, which is a small theater. So, that was the closest I ever got to doing theater,
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but it was terrifying. And I think that that's that's the kind of stuff I did
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just to keep myself >> smart. >> You know, >> all those things help. I think
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>> Yeah, >> we've heard that story a lot by people really, you know, when I was I watched
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the uh first episode of um the Western Ransom Canyon and I and I just thought you were really in the pocket. I don't
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know how you felt about it, but I just felt you were very there was a lot to do in that first episode. I don't know. I
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don't know how you felt about that. Uh I I really enjoy the show actually, you know, I felt like uh it really sort
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of found it. >> Yeah, it it was a little soft in I thought in the beginning.
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>> Uh but then it gets it gets much it just keeps getting better and better and I
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think the second season is is an extension of that. Um but you know I work April Blair is the writer or the
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the head writer the showrunner on she just runs a great set. lets us really sort of
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uh you know offer our thoughts and our ideas and she's really open to that kind
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of stuff which I love because you know I want this character to feel as authentic
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as I can make him and she's open to that. Isn't it fun to kind of play the
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alpha? You know, I mean, you're kind of a badass, but you're sensitive. At least
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what I saw. But you're on a horse galloping and you're this huge truck and
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I don't know. It just seems fun to me. I never I'll never be offered that role,
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you know? It's like >> And I never get to be the church lady. Goddamn it.
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>> Yeah. >> I want to be the church lady. No, >> I'm writing a movie starting tomorrow
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and you're going to be the church lady. The >> church lady. >> Well, a little thing called growth
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hormones. We're larger now. Get used to it, [ __ ] Yeah, you I can see you doing that. I mean, do you have a thing
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where you feel like you were in Transformers this and that? Do you have a thing to do a wacky comedy? Have you
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felt you've done a really wacky one almost like Wayne's World or Joe Dirt or
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you know? >> Well, those are those are truly my those are my favorite movies to be honest. Um
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that's why I was so stoked to be on the show today because I'm a huge fan of
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both of you. Honestly, I'm not just saying that cuz I'm here. >> Um but I do I love Fairly movies. I love
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Adam Sandler movies. I love >> Todd Phillips and >> all those guys. >> And you know, we did a movie I directed
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it a couple years ago. We did two of them now called Buddy Games which is just ridiculous. Just
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>> Yes. >> It is. They're hard Rs. Your boy Nick Schwarz sadly with Nick Schwarz.
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>> We wanted to ask you about that. Two things. One is you're directing these
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movies. So you're making that leap. >> The balls out Rated funny and you have
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Nick Schwarz. What could go wrong? And Olivia and and and Kevin Dylan and at least in the first one
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>> was in it. >> James Rode. Yeah, we had we had a really funny cast.
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Um, man, that was just like, you know, that talk about terrifying. Directing was like something I always
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wanted to do and felt like I could, but didn't think I knew enough. >> But then I realized that I knew enough
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to know that I didn't have to know everything >> and just surrounded myself with really
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good people like Nick. And >> what is the hard part come in? Do you come in and, you know, you've got as a
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director opposed to being an actor, so you've got to be part of all the prep?
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It's it's sometimes it seems so much prep >> that once you're there,
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>> 90% of the hard stuff is done because there's so many decisions. Then you're
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like, now we just got to go. But that's got to be hard because I'm not in those
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when you're not directing. So you set up and everything's ready >> and you know, you can tweak things, but
00:22:13
you've got to go with what you got. So that's probably a lot of the hard part.
00:22:17
>> Yeah, it's all about the prep for sure. But even even when you're prepped, you
00:22:22
things rarely go to plan. >> Yeah. Exactly. Exactly. because you never have enough time or money or you
00:22:27
know weather or you know >> change locations last minute and you're like I got to do this whole scene in
00:22:32
this now. Does this make any sense? >> Yeah. Dan Badol broke his leg. >> Oh wow.
00:22:38
>> H at the exact halfway point of the first movie on the we built this big
00:22:42
slide and he he kind he wanted to do it. We he was supposed to have a stunt cap but he's like I'm going to do it and
00:22:49
sure enough he's going down feet first. Should have gone head first. turns, bangs the crap out of his leg. And he
00:22:55
had this, it wasn't a break. It was called a sub sub uh subermal hematoma, I
00:23:00
think is what they called it. That was almost worse than a break. >> And he couldn't walk for the rest of the
00:23:05
movie. >> He literally had to sit down in between takes and raise his leg up.
00:23:10
>> And so any anytime we had him moving, we had to throw in this his his his body
00:23:16
double. And so that of course threw a huge wrench into things. We had to change the way we shot scenes and
00:23:22
everything else. But man, that guy was a warrior. He he he battled through it, you know. It was it was a rough one, but
00:23:28
he uh you'd never know watching the movie, but it's things like that. You
00:23:31
just have to be able to make decisions and be able to switch on the fly. And you when you have really good actors and
00:23:39
a good DP and a good crew, you're able to do it. And that's really what I
00:23:42
needed was all those things to pull. >> Yeah. I used to think it was just knowing lenses when I was younger, like
00:23:48
technical things. And now I realize what Spielberg has, just using his an example, is blink. I mean, all the other
00:23:55
stuff can be learned, but then it's like in the moment, oh, we got it. That's
00:23:59
funny or that's going to work. And so that's all the director the sensibility
00:24:03
if it comes through one guy's sensibility >> is usually better than having too many
00:24:09
cooks, you know. >> Yeah. And I think that there's a lot of different some some directors are much
00:24:13
more technical. They do understand every lens. And I wish id have paid more attention honestly early in my career so
00:24:19
I would have known more about that stuff. >> But it's just about your relationship
00:24:23
with your DP and being like >> DP does that. >> But if you say we're gonna do a twoot
00:24:27
here, does he say suggest a lens? Does he even mention it or does he say I think we should do this and you go I get
00:24:34
what you mean. Okay, that makes sense. >> Yeah. Or they'll show you through their
00:24:37
little thing. They're able to take their phone now and just sort of say okay so
00:24:41
this >> Oh. Oh the phone. Oh yeah. Yeah. Yeah. And they can they can tell you what the
00:24:45
shot looks like and they have different lenses that show you like, okay, this is
00:24:48
what >> Oh, that's great. >> Yeah. >> So, yeah. I mean, there's a million
00:24:52
things you can do, but really it's it's about the prep. It's about the, you
00:24:55
know, getting make making it through all of the landmines that come about while shooting. And then the fun part is
00:25:03
really editing. That's really >> that's where the movie gets. You can
00:25:06
find a movie in there. And you got to just tell Nick to bring it down a million% every couple minutes.
00:25:12
Nick is actually Nick is actually >> that guy. I'm just so proud of that
00:25:17
dude. He's he's sober now. >> Yeah. >> You know, >> you're doing great.
00:25:21
>> And and you know he while we shot he was always he never drank, you know, which
00:25:26
was really impressive. >> It is for Yeah, it's true. I was with him. Yeah, it's true. He he
00:25:32
>> and he sits on set all day every day and sort of sits and punches up jokes and
00:25:36
he's extremely helpful. >> He's great for that. He was that on the
00:25:39
wrong miss. He was that on doover. He would sit >> together a lot, haven't you?
00:25:44
>> Yeah. It's not great, but Yeah. Listen, it's not great news, but it's news.
00:25:51
>> No, I have sushi with him and he and I know he's not drinking because he's
00:25:54
always grouchy. Do we have to go or you want to go? Why the [ __ ] are you always
00:25:58
like this? I go, Nick, you live downtown. Why am I going downtown for anything? I don't even want to go to a
00:26:02
Lakers game down there and get gunned down. >> I go, come downtown now. >> Yeah. You'll come to where people
00:26:09
actually live >> downtown. >> I thought he lived over by uh Barney's
00:26:16
Beanery. >> He lives by behind Koi. He did for a long time. Barney's Beanery area. I
00:26:20
always thought he had a tunnel into Barney's Beanery because >> he was there so much. I go, "No one's
00:26:24
actually seen you except there. Do you go under?" >> Pops up like a [ __ ] Mircat.
00:26:32
>> Mircat. >> No, you have in a movie. You can get >> Mircat Manor.
00:26:38
If you have him in a movie, you're going to get laughs. And also, he can help
00:26:42
punch up, so he's valuable. >> Yeah. >> And he's just a very sweet person, you
00:26:47
know. >> He really is. And he's a Vikings fan, which doesn't hurt.
00:26:51
>> He does like the Vikings. So, you're from North Dakota. What's your team?
00:26:55
Where do you intersect? >> Also, also Vikings, Twins, Timber. >> Okay. Because you're close.
00:27:00
>> Because you're in Minnesota now. I was listening. >> Lake Lakehouse.
00:27:05
>> Yeah. And I I have questions. When you do Transformers, we're jumping around,
00:27:10
but Transformers. Oh, a couple people saw it. I heard some applause. >> Three Transformers.
00:27:15
>> Three of them. >> And is Shia in any of these at these this point or not?
00:27:21
>> Yeah. So, Shia was in the first three and then I didn't do the fourth and I
00:27:27
ended up doing the fifth, but yeah, I worked with Shia in the first three. >> Oh, you were in three and then another
00:27:31
one. >> No, one, two, and three, and then five. Oh, so you were in Okay, you were in
00:27:36
film. >> Uh, great. Shia, I mean, he seems, first of all, he's pretty good actor and he
00:27:41
seems like a cool dude, but I know he steps in [ __ ] a lot, but I feel like was
00:27:46
he cool? He seems like a cool dude. >> I love him. I really do. >> Oh, good. Okay.
00:27:51
>> You know, he's misunderstood. He's a little bit uh complicated, I guess.
00:27:58
>> Sure. >> But also, when he's sober, he's amazing. you know,
00:28:02
>> I'm not sure where he's at now with all that, >> but he was uh
00:28:06
>> he was just a kid when we started. I mean, he was I >> True story. We're at I'm at the airport
00:28:14
flying to New Mexico for the first day of shooting this movie, which was a giant break for me. I was like, "Oh my
00:28:18
god, >> huge movie. Michael." >> Yeah. >> And Shia, who was this kid, you know, I
00:28:25
think he was 17 or 18 years old, shows up with a black eye at the airport. He went to a Dodgers game the night before
00:28:31
and got into a fight in the parking lot after the game. >> What a start shooting in like two days.
00:28:38
>> Oh boy. >> And I was like, "Oh my god, this kid just doesn't care."
00:28:43
>> Yeah. >> But you know, not that he doesn't care about the work, he just he just fullon
00:28:49
sort of like Jimmy in a lot of ways, but super talented. >> Yeah. >> A sweetheart of a guy
00:28:55
>> and I got nothing but love for him, honestly. >> And the movies work. I mean, and you
00:28:59
were there for the Megan Fox ones, too, right? >> Yep. >> And you had And then she did how many?
00:29:06
>> Just one. >> I think she did the first two, didn't she? I don't remember.
00:29:12
>> I feel more than one. >> She used to do the first one. >> And then it was an Australia. I mean,
00:29:16
they kind of It's always going to be once she was out, they're like, "Okay,
00:29:19
we need something gorgeous. We need a gorgeous girl." Not something. We need a gorgeous actress
00:29:25
and they can act. And it's and they were coming through. >> Yeah, he's got an he's got an eye for
00:29:31
that, Michael Bay. He knows how to he knows how to find them. >> He knows he knows what he's doing. I
00:29:36
just want to mention about Shila is the movie he did about his dad >> explained a lot.
00:29:41
>> A honey bear or something. >> Yeah, it was so twisted. >> It was such a um twisted to have a
00:29:48
parent jealous of your success and all the competition and >> Yeah. >> Yeah. I think that's where a lot of the
00:29:54
complication came from. I mean, I don't know for sure what the story is there,
00:29:57
>> but I but he's he's a he can be brilliant as an actor. He's incredible.
00:30:02
>> He truly is a incredible actor. He really is super intense and is able to
00:30:06
access that so quickly. >> Uh I was mostly impressed at how just how talented he was
00:30:13
>> and fearless because, you know, he was the lead of this big movie and just like
00:30:17
went for it, you know. I >> I just have to ask you because it's in my head. Did they what did they do about
00:30:22
the black eye? Did they have you punch him the first day or something? >> I don't remember shooting at the
00:30:28
sequence, too, which is >> I was like, what were you thinking getting into a fight like the night
00:30:32
before? >> Hey, dude. I'm starting a $300 million movie. You You're You're a good man. I'm
00:30:40
weak. I'm >> We have to get out of any fight. I'm starting a $300 million movie tomorrow,
00:30:44
guys, or I would just beat the [ __ ] out of everyone in here. Then they go, "I thought it was Buzz
00:30:49
Boys." It's the budget's getting up there. >> When someone says to you in a parking
00:30:54
lot, "What are you looking at?" You got to say, "Uh, nothing goodbye." You can't
00:30:59
go, "What?" You don't go, "What? What do you mean what are you looking at? What
00:31:02
are you looking at?" Hey, do me a favor. Get the [ __ ] out of here. You know,
00:31:06
>> Jesus. >> I just want to do that character all day. Once you said Joe Peshi, I'm off
00:31:10
with the races. So, the thing about directing, like everyone has always said, just direct. You can't spend your
00:31:17
story. You just So, how much better did you feel with the second one, the sequel, Buddy Game: Spring Awakening?
00:31:24
Cuz there was a second one. >> Yes. Um better. I feel better. I I felt a little
00:31:31
bit more confident, I guess. that I could that I could that I knew what you know what to look out for,
00:31:38
>> you know, because the first time you're you're doing anything like that, you obviously
00:31:42
you make a bunch of mistakes and you learn from those. But um but then the second one just presented a whole new
00:31:49
slew of challenges. So but it was but it really was a lot. I mean it was I just love those guys. Rode
00:31:59
back at all Schwarzen Dylan. They're all just such great guys and really sort of patient. So they they
00:32:08
came ready to go >> to adapt. >> Yeah. And they were great. And and I
00:32:13
think that when you have guys like that, it just makes a lot easier. >> Do you get to use your first AD, your
00:32:19
DP? Did you try to get everyone sort of the same because you had sort a system at that point?
00:32:26
>> Yes, a lot. We had a lot of the same crew there in kind of the same area.
00:32:31
Some of them, you know, some of them were off working somewhere else, but for the most part, we had the same team.
00:32:35
>> Were they both in the same city? I'm sorry to interrupt you. Were they in the
00:32:37
same city? >> No. Well, no, because it was it was Vancouverish, but we were out at this
00:32:44
thing place called Lake Harrison for the second one. So, yeah. I mean, it was >> that's complications, too. It's
00:32:50
different crew. You you you have to use some local crew. You have to use some local talent, right? I mean, maybe I'm
00:32:57
crazy. This is what I used to. >> No, that's that's and it'd be nice to be
00:33:01
able to work with the same people all the time, but people get jobs elsewhere and they're not available. So,
00:33:07
>> uh, like my DP, I didn't get to use the same DP because his his mother was sick.
00:33:11
He was from the UK and he couldn't make it. >> Uh, so we had a different DP who's also
00:33:18
very >> also sometimes you're saying, "Hey, we're starting in January." And then
00:33:21
they clear it and then he go pushed to April and they're like, "I got to take
00:33:25
something." And then it's so complicated that you go. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. That's the hard part about that's
00:33:31
especially if it's >> under a $30 million but if it's not like a tent pole, it's something they just
00:33:36
are locked into. Things can be moved, things get pushed, people fall out. >> It's tough coordinating.
00:33:43
>> Yeah. But, you know, the thing that I that I've really learned from this, and
00:33:47
I think it was just in general for me in all facets was that I was able to, one of the things I guess
00:33:57
I'm most proud of was I was able to get, you know, whether it's my my wardrobe or
00:34:00
my hair and makeup team or my art department, I let them go do their I said, "Okay, I
00:34:07
gave them an idea of what I wanted and I let them be the artist that they are rather than try to micromanage it too
00:34:12
much because then they felt enlisted and going out and sort of walking through walls for because then it was like all
00:34:18
of us were moving in the same direction. Um, you know, and I've worked with directors, all different kinds of
00:34:24
directors, some that were micromanaging and some, and they, you know, everybody's kind of operating out of a
00:34:29
sense of fear, and there were some that felt like they were all part of a a thing where we're all, we're all working
00:34:35
towards the same objective. And >> we really did a good job of that, you know, because we didn't have a lot of
00:34:40
money or a lot of time, and we had to get these days shot or we didn't we just
00:34:45
wouldn't get it. So, >> Mhm. >> It seems like actors make better
00:34:51
directors often because they know what it's like. You're so vulnerable and the
00:34:55
camera's on you, the crew's watching, you're doing multiple takes or maybe you
00:34:58
blew a few lines and so anyway, I just assume you'd be naturally good at it,
00:35:03
you know, just because you're experienced on the other side. >> Well, I don't have any big studios
00:35:08
knocking on my door, so I don't know how good at it I am. >> Well, do you ask do you ask Ransom
00:35:12
Canyon if down the line you can do it? Yeah, Josh H. Yeah, Transformers, of course. All right. Thanks, Stephen.
00:35:21
Spielberg. >> Oh, good. >> Gonna call you. >> Oh, good. >> I was going to ask you being a leading
00:35:27
man, like it wasn't something that David Well, David did some romantics things.
00:35:32
Did you ever have somebody that you either kind of fell in love with secretly or you knew that they had
00:35:37
fallen in love with you without You don't have to name names. I'm not looking for a trend, but you know,
00:35:42
>> on a on set with like a like a like >> Yeah. >> Kristen Bell, Jennifer Lopez.
00:35:50
>> No, no, no, no, no. I never did. Thank God. >> No. >> Ma Kelly,
00:35:55
>> they all had significant others. Mhm. >> But even then it's like
00:36:01
>> I just knew how problematic that be. >> So I mean I haven't been perfect but I
00:36:08
have never gotten romantically involved with a >> and plus I was always you know either in a relationship or
00:36:15
married. So no. No. >> Yeah. >> Okay. Sorry I got that off my um you
00:36:21
know there's always beautiful people in the show biz. So, I can see I can see
00:36:26
why it happens in the world. And uh the hard thing is going from movies, even friendships, you're like so locked with
00:36:32
people, especially you when you're directing with your whole crew and then everyone splits. It's such a it's such a
00:36:37
weird mind [ __ ] that people don't really take into consideration and then the
00:36:41
next one you you sort of have to slowly get to know everybody and then by the end of the rap party you're like, "Wait,
00:36:47
we're leaving." And then everyone just gone and you might never talk to them
00:36:50
again in your life. We might stay in touch but everyone's busy and >> work is the best way to keep friends
00:36:56
together because if you all have to be somewhere common goal >> then you stay in it's very hard to keep
00:37:02
going. >> I feel like Sandler's done a really good job of that, hasn't he?
00:37:06
>> That's why we're all crazy. >> Sandler's a singularity. There's no one
00:37:10
like Adam Sandler in terms of the amount of work he does, how loyal he is to his
00:37:15
friends. I mean, they're going to do Grown-Ups Three. That's outright. So I mean there are the
00:37:22
poses back together. >> Chris, Rob Snyder, David. >> I mean it he's the best example of I
00:37:30
think what David just said is you know keeping you know that crew that that team or those that group of friends
00:37:37
together but it's hard to do. And every movie and every project as you guys know
00:37:42
is like a summer camp. Everybody comes together and it's like you you're just
00:37:46
getting to know everybody's name and then it's time to go home. >> Yeah. And then you do and then you do it
00:37:50
again. But it's like building a little business for however long this production is on and then it all goes
00:37:57
away and then you go on to the next one. So >> for sanity purposes it helps to have be
00:38:02
around the same people. It's just like so odd because LA you know you're in
00:38:06
Vancouver Schwarz and goes this you know I have friends here then everyone splits
00:38:10
off and standup comedians your friends and they on the road. It's same kind of
00:38:14
thing. No one's really one spot for too long. No, we're all we're all Vega
00:38:18
bonds. What do you think about the uh the chance that you know production starts coming back to Los Angeles? I'm
00:38:27
hearing some I know that's on the top of mind for some of these pol some of these
00:38:32
especially the mayor all candidates, >> but you think they're going to do
00:38:35
anything about it? >> What do you think the first step is tax breaks or try to compete with all these
00:38:42
places? Um, Sandler did Happy Gilmore in New Jersey and this is what I read. I'm not
00:38:50
so it's in whatever Hollywood Reporter just it was $150 million budget and then
00:38:55
it they got it down to a 90 billion a million dollar budget because of the tax credits. However that works but
00:39:02
>> in Los Angeles >> no in New Jersey like Netflix is moving their major headquarters to New Jersey.
00:39:09
New Jersey, at least in the states, is saying, "Come on down." >> But California didn't keep up. It's got
00:39:15
a lot of pensions to pay. It's It's got a lot of money going elsewhere. So, it
00:39:19
wasn't easy. But they weren't matching New Orleans or now even Toronto. >> People are going to Romania, as you
00:39:26
know, uh London, Ireland. >> We shoot We shoot We shoot, uh Ransom Canyon, New Mexico. They got a hu
00:39:32
Netflix has a huge >> Yeah. >> uh Yeah. Yeah. And that's what it is. I
00:39:38
mean, when I do a movie or TV show, it's literally someone, first of all, they
00:39:42
say they don't even consider LA. They go, they look at some, it's really just
00:39:46
a chart. They go, "This one gives 13% tax break. So, let's say you spend this
00:39:50
much money, you get money back, and that's a $20 million movie can be shot for, you know, 16 million. They save 4
00:39:57
million. That's all they want to hear." And here it costs 20 or more. So,
00:40:01
>> it's all it's all math. Rob told us about his game show uh the floor and
00:40:06
that they just had to move the entire American >> contestants >> everybody to Dublin
00:40:13
>> really >> um to Dublin >> Roblo's game show the floor has to be
00:40:18
done in Dublin because you can shoot for three weeks there at the same price of one day or something
00:40:24
>> incredible the differential so but the the good news is is like you can
00:40:30
>> no one knows where anyone is anymore or like you can you can just be in Mina or
00:40:34
whatever. We're just going to zoom in or you know no one has to be in the olden
00:40:38
days. You got to go to Sardis and have a drink and your manager would network and
00:40:42
now it's just >> I don't know if it'll ever come back to where it was. Paramont is trying to do
00:40:48
it. The Ellison twins or whatever. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. I mean it'd be nice to work at
00:40:54
work here once in a while. Yes. You know what and you know >> it just feels like fewer and fewer
00:40:59
things are being shot here. And you know, it's fine if you if >> we can go elsewhere and work, but what
00:41:04
about the crew that lives here in LA? >> That's that's the really sad part. All
00:41:08
those people, a lot of them have had to move and scrambling for money. And that's the real cuz the so-called stars
00:41:16
are they can move around, but yeah, they're fixed in one place and they're
00:41:20
professional set designers and grips and all that. How about we lose the highspeed rail and then we have showbiz
00:41:27
back >> 100% back. Just keep giving the highspeed rail money as tax incentives
00:41:33
cuz >> $20 billion get you a mile. I'm not even saying that's a good or bad thing. I'm
00:41:38
just saying 20 billion get you a mile. >> I'm going to bid on that. I can beat
00:41:41
that. >> I would love I like European high-speed trains. I don't really like airports or
00:41:47
flying. I would love a high-speed train, but it started when I was in eighth grade and um I have to live to 140 to
00:41:55
ride on it. Other than that, it's terrific. >> They have it. It's not even built yet.
00:41:59
They're like I've seen some renderings. I I've seen it for 10 years. When do
00:42:04
they make it? >> I don't know. What's the What's uh North Dakota like? Is it a pretty high What's
00:42:10
their state tax? Well, I'm actually feel you're a >> resident OF NORTH DAKOTA.
00:42:18
>> OH. OH, WOW. SMART. >> And I can tell you I've been a resident
00:42:23
there for years, but um yeah, my wife is from there. You know, our house is there.
00:42:30
>> I love Montana. I love North Dakota. I love that part of America. I love the
00:42:36
mountains. I like the lakes. I mean, West Western Montana in the in the summer. H it's a love fest, but So you
00:42:45
you're That's great. So you're not It gets pretty thirsty down here, as David
00:42:50
would say, as far as taxes. It's pretty pretty sad. California does. It's crazy.
00:42:54
It's crazy. And I And it would be one thing if I knew where they were going,
00:42:57
but I I just I look around like where we pay more taxes. Minnesota is also really
00:43:02
bad for taxes. >> Yeah. But >> got your own things up there. >> Yeah.
00:43:09
>> I I'd like to kind of I I just want to know for a second like what are you
00:43:13
>> what are you like out in the world in in up in North Dakota? Everyone leaves you
00:43:17
alone. You wear a baseball cap. You're just you're just blend in and then when
00:43:21
you're on your lake house, you're just going to the Are you to fish there? Do
00:43:25
you water ski? I mean, what do you what's your life up in those mountains? So, we have a we have a our place in
00:43:33
Fargo, which is, you know, Fargo is actually a bustling little town. It really is. There's a lot of
00:43:39
>> It's like a real city, right? >> Yeah. It's it's it's a it's a really fun
00:43:43
town, too. I mean, people know of it from the movies and the TV shows, and it's it's uh it's very different than
00:43:48
that, but but, you know, it's >> uh I just I just love North Dakota. I
00:43:53
love the people there. I love how I love this the the way they live their lives.
00:43:57
is very it's it's a little bit slower. Um >> yeah, not everyone's talking about
00:44:03
politics. >> No, the cabin life is is just kind of my it's just absolute freedom out there.
00:44:11
>> So I bought over the last 15, 16, maybe 17 years now. I bought like a little
00:44:16
half a parcel for 12 ac 12 acres for like nothing. And then the other half of that parcel went up for sale when the
00:44:23
old guy Cody died. Then I had then 26 acres with a little cab little shack of a cabin with no electricity, no water,
00:44:32
>> but it was a cabin. It was a structure. I got a cabin. I'm not going to sleep
00:44:36
there. >> Yeah. >> With the rats or the mice or the raccoons. And then the one next to that
00:44:42
went up for sale. So it was like I had now I had I got it for nothing. I'll tell you I'll put tell you what I paid
00:44:49
for. $189,000 for 26 acres. >> I'll give you one. and right on the water.
00:44:56
>> Yeah. So, it was like, wow. >> You know, the amount you can get there
00:45:00
versus what you pay for it here is crazy. Oh my god. >> I'm not sure I would be able to get it
00:45:04
for that now. But >> then all of a sudden, I had two little cabins and like 50 acres on this place
00:45:10
and I never planned to do that. I just wanted something >> out there somewhere that I could just
00:45:14
get away and go, you know, fish and stuff like that. Well, it's turned into like a whole passion of mine because I
00:45:20
just love and I started moving dirt and I started shaping it and and you know and then we built we actually built a
00:45:27
property because the other two were so small we couldn't have any families like
00:45:30
these cabins are so small they're just big enough for three people or family of
00:45:34
three >> and so you know it's what I think I love the most about it is I just get out
00:45:40
there and it's just my heart rate drops about 25% it's just much less of uh that
00:45:48
my priorities change too. I feel like I have purpose by you know I'm always working on something where I don't even
00:45:54
mow my own lawn here. I just you know >> Are you homesteading it or did you get
00:45:59
services? Did you get water from the city and hook it up? >> Well, we had to dig wells. Okay.
00:46:04
>> Each one of the cabins has a well. >> Mhm. >> We operate off propane.
00:46:09
>> Um solar. Uh, you know, for the first few years we was, you know, there was no
00:46:16
water. There was no bathroom in the we had electricity in the little cabin, the first the second one, but no water. So,
00:46:21
we were like washing our dishes in the lake and it was it was like homesteading.
00:46:26
>> But, I loved it. You know, it was like so different than anything I'd ever done
00:46:29
before. >> That's Dana's place right now. >> Uh, I like all that everything you're
00:46:34
talking about. I I love being on a lake. Uh, Montana. Uh, it is just magic. There's a vibe and an atmosphere you
00:46:42
can't quite describe, but it's it's completely different. I mean, >> yeah,
00:46:46
>> that's awesome that you do that, you know? >> It's good for the soul.
00:46:50
>> Yeah. >> Then a week later, you're on a night shoot somewhere in Atlanta. You're like,
00:46:54
>> it might be rude, but I'm playing Minneapolis and I kind of like to take a
00:46:58
little vacation. I mean, I I'm not going to say what's the address and where's
00:47:01
the Heidi key, but I'm just saying >> hide. >> I would Hey, you are welcome anytime,
00:47:07
Ben. And I mean that. I mean it. You can take you can take the little red cabin on the water.
00:47:12
>> I like the sound of that. >> It's really It's really cute. It's tiny
00:47:16
little >> And do you have a boat? Do you have a little fisher boat or do you have like a
00:47:20
speedboat or you have a canoe? >> I got We just bought I just splurged and
00:47:26
bought a pontoon because I hadn't Ours was old. >> Gotta have a pontooner.
00:47:31
>> Uh I got a little old fishing boat out there and a couple old jet skis. with
00:47:35
us. Oh, and so >> a sea plane. >> I wish. So, there's this. So, we did I did this movie a couple
00:47:47
years ago with JLo >> called Shotgun Wedding >> and there was this movie or there's this
00:47:54
not movie, there was this boat that was kind of in the beginning of the movie and at the end it was going to throw a
00:47:59
little picnic for in the movie and and it was this old 54 Chriscraft and I was like, "What do you what's up with that
00:48:04
boat?" boat and they said, "We paid a lot of money for this thing." I said,
00:48:07
"Well, I'll give you >> I'll give you this for it." They said,
00:48:10
"No, no, we paid we paid a we paid this." >> What are they going to do?
00:48:13
>> Let it go. Well, about six months later, they come back and they say, "You still
00:48:17
want the boat?" And I said, "Well, I'll give you like half as much as I offered
00:48:20
before." >> And smart. >> They said, "Fine." They took it
00:48:25
>> and then it was over in Puerto Rico or something. I had to get it all the way
00:48:28
back to the States. And finally they and they were having to do all that and they said, "You know
00:48:33
what? It's yours. So, they gave it to >> They gave it to you. So, you just
00:48:38
>> they gave it to me, which there's a little more to this story, but so I had
00:48:42
So, I ended up getting it back to to Florida and we and I had somebody pick it up in Florida and drive it to Fargo.
00:48:48
And I have this old guy named David Selvig and he's got two buddies who help
00:48:51
him. He he restores these old boats. He It looks beautiful on the outside, but when they open it up, man, it was just
00:48:58
>> it was a whole It was a It was a huge money pit. So that free boat went to,
00:49:02
you know, >> Yeah. You paid >> not free, >> right? >> But it's all done now and it's out on
00:49:06
the water and it's a really cool ride. >> Wow. >> So, you know. >> All right, D. We're gonna let Josh go,
00:49:13
but I want to ask him about Inenie in a bottle video. >> Did you ever think you'd have to worry
00:49:18
about money again? >> And did you have to go in the bottle? >> What was that? You were the hot guy in
00:49:26
the video. >> I would have made it in the video. >> I love that. I love that song. Oh, I
00:49:30
love that video. Um, but I don't remember you in So, what is it? She's jumping around and then you're a hot
00:49:36
guy. >> Well, you don't know. You don't you don't remember me in it cuz I was in it
00:49:39
like that long. >> I like that. It's the number one thing on your resume. They're like, "Please
00:49:44
mention this." >> Literally, you can't if you're not if you're not watching super closely,
00:49:49
you'll never see me in the video. I auditioned for the lead guy. So, the the
00:49:53
video is about these this group of guys who crashes Christina's slumber party on
00:49:57
the beach in Malibu. like it's a story one of the guys that >> it's great.
00:50:03
>> You're not the hottest guy. I bet this is insane. That guy, >> you could hot circles around that guy. I
00:50:09
don't care who it is. >> Uh all right. Well, Ransom Canyon seems >> Ransom Canyon. You got
00:50:15
>> 23rd, >> second season start. And there's a season on right now.
00:50:19
>> Yep. Ransom Canyon. >> Nice chatting with you, buddy. >> All right, guys.
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Episode Highlights

  • High School Struggles
    A humorous reflection on being small and skinny in high school sports.
    “I was 91 lbs. 5 feet tall when I entered high school.”
    @ 05m 23s
    June 11, 2026
  • Unconventional Dating Advice
    A surprising tip for managing nerves before a date: a pre-date ritual.
    “Take her to VBR and jerk off before you go on the date.”
    @ 11m 13s
    June 11, 2026
  • The Reality of Acting
    The fear of failure looms large for actors, as they constantly strive for success.
    “That's the reality of it. It's so scary.”
    @ 17m 39s
    June 11, 2026
  • Directing Challenges
    Transitioning to directing brings its own set of challenges and learning experiences.
    “Directing was like something I always wanted to do.”
    @ 21m 34s
    June 11, 2026
  • Shia LaBeouf's Early Days
    A glimpse into Shia's wild youth and his journey in acting.
    “He was just a kid when we started.”
    @ 28m 08s
    June 11, 2026
  • Creative Freedom in Filmmaking
    He emphasizes the importance of allowing his team to express their creativity.
    “I let them be the artist that they are.”
    @ 34m 07s
    June 11, 2026
  • The Emotional Toll of Filmmaking
    He discusses the challenges of forming connections during film projects.
    “It’s such a weird mind [ __ ] that people don’t really take into consideration.”
    @ 36m 37s
    June 11, 2026
  • Love for North Dakota
    He shares his deep affection for the slower pace of life in North Dakota.
    “I just love North Dakota. I love the people there.”
    @ 43m 51s
    June 11, 2026
  • Real Estate Bargains in North Dakota
    He discusses the incredible value of land in North Dakota compared to California.
    “I’ll give you one.”
    @ 44m 54s
    June 11, 2026
  • The Calming Effect of Nature
    He reflects on how being in nature reduces his stress levels.
    “It’s just my heart rate drops about 25%.”
    @ 45m 40s
    June 11, 2026
  • Presented by Odyssey
    Fly in the Wall is presented by Odyssey, featuring Dana Carvey and David Spade.
    “Fly in the Wall, believe it or not, is presented by Odyssey”
    @ 50m 57s
    June 11, 2026

Episode Quotes

  • I put a kettle bell in my underpants sometimes when I go to clubs.
    Josh Duhamel Got Dating Advice from James Caan
  • I never practiced it because except before podcasts, right?
    Josh Duhamel Got Dating Advice from James Caan
  • Directing was like something I always wanted to do.
    Josh Duhamel Got Dating Advice from James Caan
  • He was just a kid when we started.
    Josh Duhamel Got Dating Advice from James Caan
  • It’s such a weird mind [ __ ] that people don’t really take into consideration.
    Josh Duhamel Got Dating Advice from James Caan
  • It’s just my heart rate drops about 25%.
    Josh Duhamel Got Dating Advice from James Caan

Key Moments

  • Weight Management Confession05:07
  • Reality Check17:39
  • Determination17:49
  • Directing Dreams21:34
  • Shia's Wild Side28:08
  • Filmmaking Challenges36:37
  • Nature's Calm45:40
  • Show Credits51:02

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