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Ben Stiller | Full Episode | Fly on the Wall with Dana Carvey and David Spade

October 07, 2022 / 01:15:48

This episode covers the recent Will Smith and Chris Rock incident, featuring discussions with Ben Stiller, David Spade, and Dana Carvey. The hosts share their thoughts on the implications for comedy and bullying.

David Spade and Dana Carvey express their feelings about the slap incident, highlighting their experiences with bullying and the impact it had on their perspectives. They emphasize the need for consequences for such actions, questioning the response from the audience during the Oscars.

Ben Stiller joins the conversation, discussing his career and the challenges of comedy. He reflects on his time at SNL and the evolution of his work, including his latest project, Severance.

The hosts reminisce about their experiences in the entertainment industry, sharing anecdotes about their interactions with notable figures like Robert De Niro and the pressures of live performances.

Throughout the episode, they touch on the changing landscape of comedy and the importance of adapting to new societal norms while maintaining authenticity in their work.

TLDR

David Spade, Dana Carvey, and Ben Stiller discuss the Will Smith incident, comedy's future, and their careers in entertainment.

Episode

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hey guys this is uh David Spade Nana Carvey and before we get into Ben Stiller we just wanted to share a few
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thoughts about the other night with the Will Smith uh Rock situation Rock it's
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obviously a buddy of ours we had him on here a little bit ago and we have a common
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denominator which is being bullied growing up I was a certified pipsqueak uh and always being pushed around and it
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really hit a nerve with me and Dana also and rock had talked about on this uh podcast
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um I could jokingly say that slap in the face was a real slap in the face for comedy but it is true that
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um on a serious note this is a dangerous precedent um that was the straw that broke Will
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Smith's back I it couldn't have been a medium rough joke uh just bad timing it was like a Jack In
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The Box that you hear Dean today and here's Chris Rock so that was just the one where he decided to flip and not
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sure what Will's going through a met him seems like a decent enough guy uh I'd love to see him in a roast I mean
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listen comedy's rough I just did a comedy special for Netflix and it's there's some stuff in there that makes
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me laugh people could get offended by it's just the way it is I hope roasts aren't
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outlawed soon I mean my god um I don't know I just thought it dimmed some light on the other performers that
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night you didn't really think about any other performer anybody that won it was just that
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and they allowed him on stage again I didn't I probably wouldn't have not a
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lot of defensive Chris right there and then at the show like other people or people are standing up and giving Will a
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standing ovation like nothing happened I thought that was all very odd and I honestly just don't think he should have
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been able to go get his award I hate to say it but there's got to be some consequence because you shouldn't be
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allowed to do that Dana well first of all um you know I've seen real anger and
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experiences so the first thing I thought was I was triggered because everyone talks about triggers when I saw a very
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large person Go Go full [ __ ] house physical on a person who's not small but
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much smaller and that just like whoa this really just hit me so I saw a bully and you know I when I entered High
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School I was five feet tall 93 pounds you know I look like a fetus with shoes but my point is
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me too dude I I that yeah I I'm not a psychiatrist but I've played one on TV
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but this was not about Chris Rock it was not about the joke something else is going on especially the second time will
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said keep your keep my wife's name out of your [ __ ] mouth the energy and rage
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and anger of that was so extreme so I don't really know but mental health is a
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thing that I would just say needs help secondarily where was security could anyone else have gotten away with that
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it was very awkward um and then to give them a stand Ovation he had 45 minutes to kind of pull it
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together he had Denzel Washington talking to him other really smart people Bradley Cooper but he couldn't pull it
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together to apologize and said sort of double down I protect women um yeah so the word protect was Heavy in
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there yeah I'm protecting and then the next morning he got said uh hi this is your publicist uh Brian
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and uh maybe we should talk you know because then there was the apology so I just looked at it as a bully it
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triggered me and uh I think it was uh kind of horrific and just felt bad Chris is our friend and our colleague and I
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don't want to see anybody slap like that at any time on television especially or
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anywhere David yeah it's funny you know Dana when you get older uh like us we we
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when we were bullied and I know rock was bullied as a kid a little skinny kid and
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he said he really it really stuck with him and it does it's it's the root of a
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lot of things I I you know get me mad I have a short temper and any bullying in a car cutting me off
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or a guy if I'm on a date coming up with me and looking at me and going okay I could
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take this guy and so I'll hit on this girl right in front of him those little
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forms of it are there all the time yeah so when I saw that obvious just walk up hit him and walk away and almost like
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laughing like [ __ ] you what are you gonna do about it it made me spin out like oh my God so it bothered me all
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night uh I thought Chris was pretty cool about it of course but what do you do your
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mind's spinning I'm in live TV a billion people what's happening you know what do
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I go down do I hit him back do I I couldn't even read The Prompt after that I'd probably be going I I gotta get out
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Chris Chris handle it perfectly and well I give him a lot of credit for keeping it together after something like that
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you know I I actually thought Will Smith would walk up if if he was staying and he's joking around laughing which was
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sort of more crazy in my head or more that's not a good word but it was just
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more unusual and then when he got his award I would have said what the [ __ ] was I doing with Chris Rock that was not
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sorry yeah I thought you know I thought that for sure the jokes got to me I [ __ ] how stupid I'm gonna go back and
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tell him right now thank you for this award whatever any acknowledgment would have just taken all the pressure out and
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gone it was nuts we'll still talk about it but hey something else is going on
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clearly and I'm sure Chris is your friend like it just all it was all tough to watch so I don't have a ton to say
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about it other than uh what we just said I mean it'll all work out everyone will
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walk away but definitely an odd moment in time you know before that moment of course my
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relationship with Will Smith was just from afar as a very likable uh positive person so it was it was it's disturbing
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on so many levels it gave everyone a relief from covid and and Ukraine you know so the whole culture has been
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rotated on on this moment because it was so shocking and I really just uh I don't know it's still it's still going
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on because Chris hasn't spoken at this hour yeah I hope they uh make up they
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seem to be it seems they're friends and uh like them to get back to that uh and
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have everyone live happily ever after it's tough to live with that hanging over your head if you think someone's
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out there after you hey Lady Gaga oh all is who's beautiful but she's always
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working with really old people like she gets next to Tony Bennett she looks like
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a high school senior last night they wheel out Lisa Liza Minnelli poor sweet woman and then Lady Gaga looks like
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she's in eighth grade it's a I don't know it's it's I would I know and Us
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magazine immediately did who wore it better and who looked better and that was unfair
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um also Dana Regina uh one of the hosts beautiful lovely woman she did a bit that I have to say
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as an observer I'm for all forms of Comedy but if everyone else gets to complain
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if it's a male host bringing the prettiest actresses up to analyze them and take them backstage right with them
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covet test then Pat them down it just wouldn't fly I mean I don't care that
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writing bits someone in the room should have gone what if someone doesn't love
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this idea but listen fine fine I just have to say it because I don't care just
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either let everyone do comedy in general men women or just don't but you can't
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say you can't do this you can do that that's all you agree uh totally agree it was uh
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was really surprising maybe the Oscars are coming back now if they have more more fights more Politically Incorrect
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things and they go just ape [ __ ] you know maybe it'll become a huge winner
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again I don't know I mean the only thing could have been bigger would be a melee
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Chris fights back and then you've got Nicole Kidman who's knows her way around
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the block you've got Keith Urban coming up you've got Costner probably with a
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shotgun stopping the whole fight to either Perry would have gotten in there so Joe Jonas is ripped he would have
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come down there's a lot of people that have been trained to do movies like that
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where they have training so they can come in and send them yeah I mean I don't know if Keanu was there he needed
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to be um it must have been tough for Chris to sit in the back and realize literally
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nothing happened no one walked up no security no stopped the show no it was just like on with the show this is it
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Standing Ovation for standing ovation you know it's hard to pull for the bully
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I don't know Will Smith probably a great guy just in that particular instance
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it was the bad guy talk to people who grew up not bullied because they were bigger at a young age and so forth so on
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so maybe their father didn't bully him they're like what yeah they don't get it
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they didn't get it um but that's what my takeaway was but I wish everyone the best in the end of the
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day so I'm not a Negative Nancy no it'll we'll all land on our feet all right here's a show Squad
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Dana we've got Benjamin Stiller Ben Stiller yeah he's Ben Stiller who's pretty much
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a superstar I would say uh yeah I would say if you add up everything he's done
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by the time you get to the end you can't even remember the whole amount if you
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read his IMB it you get exhausted he's done it all you get exhausted I mean if
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you think of night of the museum one two and three right there that's over a couple of years to do
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three movies that are very like Robin Williams is in all these great people in them they all Crush they all killed
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worldwide PG family movie check three three three you gotta have an animated franchise
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Madagascar one two three how about doing a comedy with Robert De Niro Meet the Parents meet the water meet the father
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too yeah yeah Zoolander one two I'm gonna call him the franchise kid I mean my gosh it's unbelievable and he's a
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cool dude I saw him last year I don't see him a lot but I saw him last year it's Sundance which is uh it's a dance
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place I go to so we went out there and uh people were hounding them I the guy I think
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he directs a lot now but he's got a very interesting life he did sign it live he
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did it for how many five shows five shows and that's the riveting hook of why we get to talk to him because we
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want to talk about that and we just he's just a guy that's very cool big star
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Something About Mary was a monster monster I mean you don't even get to that one and it's so big dodgeball all
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these big comedies yeah and he directs a lot and he's got the new show Severance
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which is cool weird sci-fi so yeah all props to him he's very unassuming person
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uh and kind of shy uh but we're gonna tease him out on today's show oh yeah
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we'll flush him out of the brush it's gonna be it's gonna be interesting is it
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mono and mono is it a fight no it's a conversation but I think things will happen
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things will happen but yeah looking forward to talking to our friend Ben I'm
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already thinking of how I'm going to interrupt you during the show when you're asking very good questions well
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yeah when I'm running out of steam I should have a signal like just please please bailed me out on this please
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interrupt me I am winding down and I have no no you know sorry anyway so Ben Stiller yeah I hope you're going to have
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a good time with him um an old school snlr that spun it out into his own sketch show and uh won an
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Emmy for it but he'll tell you all about it yeah yeah revenge of uh whatever yeah
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he won the Emmy beat out his own his old gang I think there's a there's over there
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it's like a comeback movie's tale of Vengeance it's a bit of a Rocky theme oh
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definitely yeah and he he was he was a lightweight boxer yeah he was he was uh I think 82 and seven as an amateur boxer
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if I read that correctly yeah you know I'm super um fly on the wall wait oh boy yeah the jokes are getting worse
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uh fly fly on the wall fly fly the wall gotta fly don't blow up all right let's
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just get to Ben Stiller these people are sick of us ladies and gentlemen we bring
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you we give you the one and only Ben Stiller Ben Stiller yeah [Music] I'm okay if I gotta be oh [ __ ] there's
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that guy there's that guy um yeah Mr Stiller yeah if someone said to me this so I'm gonna start with
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someone said to me you know Ben Stiller is probably the biggest most successful comedic influence of his generation last
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20 years my answer is I wouldn't I wouldn't punch them in the face like I
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wouldn't I wouldn't have an argument with him I wouldn't get mad I would go
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huh it would make you go okay if they said Spade was you'd go no I was looking over your film films and I
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was reading them out loud to my wife and she goes man people he might be underrated I mean it's like yeah it's
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kind of crazy I said lucky oh yeah look yeah mostly luck come on okay I'm just gonna get
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these out of the way real fast then we're gonna get into Severance but these
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are these all the [ __ ] monster movies I'm not gonna go to existential questions it's two Howards coming at you
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with coffee and I'm overlapping so you jump you can ask us questions too Ben
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we're all at will we're excited because you're here uh certain uh Impressions
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I'm gonna request and yeah we'll get to that later the last 40 minutes is about
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us believe me Eddie Munster uh by the way I just talked to Mike Myers about Eddie Munster on sprockets
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the very first sprockets that was the first one right yeah yeah incredible yeah okay just real quick like it
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commence blushing okay night of the museum three great movies Meet the Parents got three out of that then you
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do something got three I got three out of that no but those are brilliant something really in terms of ringing
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ringing movies out of a concert I've definitely yeah not at the Museum yet so it was so
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so many that you got to present history people you got to like Joe Biden then you do Tropic Thunder and Zoolander
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dodgeballstar ski Hutch as broad characters you do something about time my observation for you Ben which maybe
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you've never thought of before it's very difficult in modern comedy what you did
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was play these broad characters and then have a character that could travel as Ben Stiller
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uh in movie that's all I got I'm tapped out David you go that's all I have for
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the day like that analysis uh like a 40-minute answer I think it was basically yeah you know
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it was basically doing what was there you know coming at me and I never really you know look when I was at my short
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short time at SNL I was so overwhelmed by the level of sketch comedy acting prowess that was there I never ever was
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you know I never considered myself being to be good at that I did like sketch I loved sketch comedy I like to do it and
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try to do it but I think I never felt like I always felt like okay I'm kind of
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like trying it and I can kind of do it sometimes and it's fun to do but I never
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considered myself you know that wasn't like my wheelhouse really even though I
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like to do it well I would have been curious because if if say it was a government order that Ben Stiller has to
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do 100 episodes of Saturday Night Live because I I felt altered after about 80 episodes it took me to kind of I faked
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it in the beginning you know you only did like five shows right so who could get results yeah it was so intense and
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overwhelming you know you were there it's crazy you know it's funny that it
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was because it is and then you do movies which there's makeup there's directing
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there's you know directing is no easy task there's so many pressures of just
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being in the movies and TV and it is true that that one hits you in sort of a different way where you get in there and
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you go you're just like hit around going what the [ __ ] is happening you know you
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don't see it coming even though you think you do yeah because of the whole process of the week leading up to the
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show and and what it takes to get to the show and what it takes to get a sketch on the show and then to really
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understand how to gear yourself to and you were both really good at it to you know for that 11 30 show because the the
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thing that always sort of was like this kind of crazy mind [ __ ] for me was when you do that dress
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rehearsal and the dress rehearsal would be like all right we nailed in the dressers was like yeah but we actually
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haven't done it for real at all yet because nobody saw that yeah you know it's worse on air and you go God damn it
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yeah you hate when dress goes too well you always want the idea was that the live show in the back your head if if
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that voice is talking it's saying this is the best you've done it all week this
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is I'm I'm actually doing it's going the best it doesn't always happen but I
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remember the intensity when we did Dustin Hoffman and Tom Cruise and just you're in the slats and the music's
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playing and then it is kind of like they just push you and all acting or come it's all about getting it out of your
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own house and then you're giving yourself a report card like am I okay am I doing it too
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much where's Ben I mean I I get it it's just it's a ridiculous concept really
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it's a torture yeah and I'm sure you guys talk about it on on this this this
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podcast all the time the you know like that feeling right before you go on and right before you get you have to go out
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the door um or just like The Surreal nature of like your whole life wanting to be a
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part of SNL and then you get there and then you're doing it and then it's like
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it's just crazy the voice in your head goes I'm on SNL and I'm doing it we had
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Tara uh Julia Sweeney on and she she came in one show early and just watched this show but she was so Adept at doing
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sketch comedy she said she wasn't nervous she looked at it and said oh I can do that but then she got nervous
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later but initially it was like La Dee Da just say your life did you guys did you guys get nervous doing it oh sick
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yeah I wasn't when I was there I went I did the same thing as Julie did I went
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there a week early and watched and I had the other reaction of I cannot do this like I was just I was a stand-up now
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she's coming from an improv group so she's used to Quick changes she's used
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to blah blah everything jumping around in characters and I'm watching it going
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are you out of your mind and how fast it moves and during the commercials that's
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really all the time you have I didn't really get that part like if it's 30
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seconds it's 30 seconds or they go to a fake graphic in the front that's just to
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buy you some time uh and then when I was doing my first update piece I'm on the
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side and it's such a little studio in when I got there that I go so when I walk three feet uh 10 million people see
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me and then I come back and it's just some stage and chewing gum going good job good job here they move the camera
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and look at the other guy and I go is that it like did anyone see it that one out there yeah it actually happened yeah
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and I don't have my phone you know I'm not on a cell phone back then so then
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hopefully somebody saw it somewhere and they tell you but you just go the rest of the night and everyone's doing their
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thing my first sketch uh I never did sketch comedy just to stand up my first sketch was a cold opening with Jan Hooks
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and Phil Hartman and when I landed a laugh I had to I my head wanted to turn toward the audience like a stand-up and
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I go keep looking at Phil he's the host of the game show so but I could show you
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Church chats early on where she's going like this her hand goes up and it's wet
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with sweat you know sure babe you were so good but you like that's crazy that
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you never did sketch comedy at all before the show I was doing it as a stand-up but didn't really know it you
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know I didn't have any jokes I've written maybe two jokes in my life I was
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doing one man sketch but I there was no theater group in ssf at the time anyway but um but I do that but I do think that
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with you guys both coming from stand up that did at least prepare you in a way because it's the live experience of
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going up in front of an audience you know and I had had some of that but I didn't come out of stand up and you know
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there's the natural sort of thing of being in front of an audience you know I've done some theater but you know that
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I always gravitated towards having more takes and doing it you know you do in a movie where you could just like you
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could do it a number of times that was really what you know I I felt more comfortable doing which is why I went
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running away after a few weeks and one one the Emmy for best television sketch show two years later yeah but I mean I
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was you know I was like looking at that environment going oh man this is really hard I don't know if I I will do well
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and even when I you know think back on the few things that I did there I was so nervous
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um even you know sprockets like Mike was that was his first box and Mike was just
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so like that was such a great sketch that character it was all so well formed he was a great sketchwriter right out of
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the box and he was just so you know he understood you know I was doing whatever character I was doing Eddie months there
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wasn't even a character it was just like you know well it was a very funny take on it the
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outfit was hysterical you know Dieter was such a like a perfect kind of SNL type character he just understood the
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structure of it and everything instinctively yeah well I I get that I mean Mike did a lot of sketch comedy
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before he got SNL that that would be helpful but still but Ben did you do uh was it a color of money why would you do
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that you did a video and why did you do that for is that what they saw is that what Lauren saw I liked it yeah yeah I
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um yeah I I was doing a play uh Off-Broadway um and I saved up the money I'd made in
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the play to do this takeoff on The Color of Money with a couple of friends of mine and we made this short and I didn't
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know then I didn't know what to do with it because I basically had made a short
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but there was nowhere it was pre everything you know there was nothing to die no nothing there was nothing so it
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was sort of like I had a 16 millimeter short yeah and that was like transferred to
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three quarter inch tape so I had this like three quarter inch tape I was taking around and John Lovitz came had
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come to the show that I was doing the play uh called The House of Blue leaves and he had come back stage and I reached
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out to him I didn't even know him really I said hey I got this short I'd love to
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get it try to get it to you know somebody to see for the show and he took it up to Lauren he literally owned his
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tape up to Lauren the romance of that when I hear about somebody let's put on
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a show and making financing making a short film and then having it go somewhere because imagine all the young
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people now putting stuff on YouTube but the fact and I did watch some of it this
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morning it was absolutely hysterical they make up the whole like yeah it was all like my friends and my parents my
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grandfather it was like oh you know the whole cast of it was just people doing favors and the Tom Cruise impression and
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character was so potent and bizarre and your look was so amazing I mean what it was you must have laughed your ass off
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it was called you [Laughter] you know we kind of like had the idea for the movie uh it was uh Steve Clayman
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Ralph Howard my two friends that we and we had this idea and was like Who's Gonna Do cruise because like we knew we
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had the idea but and and Steve actually did a cruise too and I was like oh well maybe I should do a cruise and then you
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know we had like a cruise off like we should do the best part well what was your not to interrupt Ben but what was
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your into Cruise usually it's like one hook you did it in the restaurant it was
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just it was one thing it was just sort of yeah that yeah um which I'd love to understand how you
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how you what your method is because you talk about it sometimes I'm trying right
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now with Biden I'm still trying to find your Biden is great where are you at
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when you're buying right now well the the new the latest Hook was that he he
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yelled in the beginning it was like come on here's a deal my dad lost a job no
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joke not kidding around here that was you know it was not a joke and he said no joke
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number one the one part number two what the guy said number three you know the drill come on it isn't rocket science
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folks and then once in a while saying nothing it's mad I know how to do this I
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can talk loud look at me go and he's finally had it do it right and then he whispers you just no but yeah no please
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no whispers are really funny The Whispers when he comes down you go what's going who's he talking to is
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there someone else to do someone and also for the audience to get used to that person you know just
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little hooks later on I know more about Biden's voice now than I did six months
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ago but anyway I think it's your comedic hooks into the characters to me are
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always like what you choose to focus on is what makes it so funny because it's
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like something nobody else would think and then you're like oh my God yes that's exactly what he does that's the
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hard part and when they when you do it Dana and then some someone like George Bush like back in the day when there's
00:26:03
only four channels in SNL that you know all the presidents are aware and then they almost do what you're doing because
00:26:10
that's what they're supposed to be doing it's a weird thing that happens I wanted
00:26:15
to learn Michael Caine because of Steve Coogan yeah those guys traveling around Europe in their car and doing
00:26:22
impressions oh yeah yeah the trip yeah they were so good at Michael Caine that was me consciously wanting to learn
00:26:26
Michael Caine just for myself not not to put on TV or anything but then how do you do it knowing that that exists do
00:26:35
you go to you just go to Michael Caine and go I'm going to come up with my own
00:26:38
take um yeah I realized them what is it I used to do it like this and then I realized the whole Hook is the nasal you
00:26:44
could choke like that but if you go totally a day so you got him there and the hook that I do is I do Michael Caine
00:26:51
in kindergarten so it's Michael Kane at five years of age and the line is I like
00:26:57
to eat paste I I don't know why I don't know why I like to eat things in the classroom I'm
00:27:05
sure on a hula hoop so that's right but as far as Saturday Night Live having that Focus like it's
00:27:16
gonna be on TV Saturday you know I'm terribly lazy about these things so yeah
00:27:21
yeah but yeah anyway you understood how to do that and uh it's a definite a specific art form that uh you know I
00:27:28
think some people are built for and some people aren't [Music] but what's the difference like so you go
00:27:38
in there and uh you do I I guess it was you said five shows maybe Dana said that
00:27:43
but then you go ultimately not Revenge but you still are interested in it you go back and do your own show and then it
00:27:53
works you got to feel a little good like see it's not it just wasn't my situation
00:27:57
that wasn't perfect for me yeah I mean that's why I made the decision in the
00:28:02
moment and I think it was after I made that decision in retrospect a lot of people you know including people in my
00:28:08
life are like wow you quit Saturday Night Live you know and which was like oh yeah geez but I I did have a specific
00:28:14
thing that I was going to which was this MTV show which was uh Jeff Khan and I were working on uh uh this thing called
00:28:23
it they have this thing called it's your hour where you could kind of do your own
00:28:26
thing and it was really because of the shorts and that time I wanted to be doing short films and I wanted to do
00:28:31
what Albert Brooks had done on the show that was sort of my dream and and you know he'd go and make these little short
00:28:37
films and then show them on the show and that wasn't happening back at that point
00:28:41
and so that was I had an opportunity to do that and really I think instinctually
00:28:45
I just felt like oh I'll be more comfortable doing this and I'll be able
00:28:49
to you know that's funny Ben is that to go like uh you go to MTV and they go why
00:28:54
should we do a show with you about sketches you go well my resume shows you I just quit a sketch show no so we
00:29:01
should do one with you and you yeah I was at the Emmys Saturday Night Live was having a good year it was the political
00:29:08
campaign everything and the winner is for best comedy show the Ben Stiller show and I remember you and Bob onakirk
00:29:15
and your gang going up there and just how shocked you were can you describe that feeling of like oh it was surreal I
00:29:22
mean yeah we'd been canceled for nine months already I think we'd been off the
00:29:26
air for that long and you were canceled that's right yeah we weren't even on the
00:29:30
air oh that's even more of a shocker it was crazy easy and you know I think there was a fair amount of bitterness
00:29:36
towards Fox that we all felt because we felt you know we thought like oh our show is you know we were good and give
00:29:42
us a chance but we really didn't play our cards right with uh the network it
00:29:46
was a fledgling Fox network you know at that time they weren't even on fully you
00:29:51
know they were on like maybe like 12 hours a week or something and we were up against 60 minutes so we had awful
00:29:56
ratings and you know and also we were a weird show I don't think anybody should
00:30:00
have really watched us necessarily but we we felt very excited I loved it but you know the head of the network I think
00:30:08
we did something I really I know there was a moment when there was some sort of presentation I think it might have been
00:30:14
the TCA things which is like the television critics Association and you go up and you talk to everybody and Bob
00:30:19
and I and Janine were up there and we made some joke about the head of the Network's hair I think Bob did looking
00:30:28
like an old-timey uh leather head football helmet like that you know that movie leather yeah yeah we made a joke
00:30:35
about the head of the Network's hair looking like that and that might have been the nail in the coffin first and
00:30:40
after that uh you know we were just we didn't expect that you know to win I didn't expect to win I heard Bob talking
00:30:46
about it recently and saying that he actually thought we might have had a chance
00:30:50
um but you know which he was such a great sketchwriter yeah he was amazing so funny Dana it's so funny
00:31:00
he was yeah and he and he really I think it was his a lot of his writing was on the episode
00:31:06
that won it you know for us um so it was great it was and then I said some stupid
00:31:12
thing about like Fox you missed something here I was sitting next to Lauren when your
00:31:20
name was announced or the show and Lauren just went oh anyway I was listening to you guys break down
00:31:37
the Lauren Impressions um recent episodes which I can never you know always entertaining to listen to
00:31:43
different interpretations different Lauren I guess Rob Lowe does a good one oh yeah I do I do a copy of anyone's
00:31:50
copy I'm like a cc of a cc I just it comes down that's what I do I'll try to
00:31:55
do just noises how does Lauren feel about it you think I mean at this point you know I think he is you know I think he's
00:32:06
he's like he's Lauren he's aware bigger yeah right he doesn't he doesn't dig
00:32:11
into it I think he he underst I think he understands how it's meant because everybody always is doing it with a
00:32:16
sense of like Lauren is a singular entity that's created it's like us he's
00:32:19
a celebrity now and it's like a celebrity impression and a weird way and he also knows you know anytime he does a
00:32:24
sketch on the show he always knows how to do himself yeah I mean like he always can be he would
00:32:30
have a glass of Chardonnay at least the first season he'd walk around the floor
00:32:34
during the live show I guess just to try to calm us down you know but he was an intimidated figure but then after you're
00:32:41
not on the show he's like your greatest friend he's like so positive and
00:32:46
everything is positive I mean you went back and hosted twice I was just going to ask you to the nerve part did you get
00:32:52
past that by being a host on two shows and you've done a lot of cameos as well
00:32:56
recently Michael Cohen yeah has it gotten a little better just because you're Ben Stiller now and you know
00:33:01
there's nothing to lose honestly not at all every time I feel that thing in the pit of my stomach
00:33:09
especially when we were doing the last round we were doing the Michael Cohen ones because there were changes that
00:33:13
were happening and this must have happened to you all the time you know the few times I was out there I don't
00:33:18
remember when I was on the show the last minute changes like literally like like
00:33:23
a minute 30 seconds before still playing around like things like that I remember
00:33:28
them on the cue cards while you're standing there and they're like this will be a little different you're like
00:33:32
and you realize that you're just on your own like maybe it's like whatever like
00:33:36
you just have to do it nobody else is going to do it you have to keep it in your head
00:33:41
so you know it's fun when you can come on I think in a an unannounced moment
00:33:47
right when you show up in somebody when somebody else is hosting and it's like
00:33:51
all of a sudden like you walk out and I remember doing that once with De Niro and it that was probably the most fun
00:33:56
because I didn't really have to do anything there was no pressure and it was like oh people are excited to see
00:34:00
you because they didn't know you were going to be there right yeah big Applause yeah and then you don't have to
00:34:04
do much um but uh I think uh yeah the hosting I think is really you know there's nothing
00:34:10
like that feeling when you go out right before you have to go out and um again but that's the same feeling I
00:34:15
always had so I don't think it'll ever it's chilling going through that door
00:34:19
Ben Stiller and just the Roar of like expectations really high yeah and right now and then
00:34:29
it's like then the show all right I like when the host you know Dana when the
00:34:32
host has to go uh you know ladies and gentlemen Red Hot Chili Peppers you know they've dragged you all the way out
00:34:38
there and they put you in a different outfit for that I'm like how about I just wear what I'm wearing and you've
00:34:42
never heard of them you know but ladies and gentlemen bent nerve you know yeah sometimes like hot House Flowers it is
00:34:48
interesting to watch when you go through the old shows like what the bands were and like which ones are actually they
00:34:53
made whatever yeah yeah because they try to catch them right on the precipice of
00:34:56
blowing up and some of them blow down they never quite catch and you're like
00:35:02
no it's a game I play with myself watching the show now to see which bands I actually know better on the show
00:35:08
because I almost I'd say like 80 of the time I don't know do not that's out of
00:35:12
it I think it's a typo there's no way that's a band on the show I have never
00:35:16
heard of them when you listen to music Ben like now today what do you listen to do you listen to it in your car because
00:35:22
that's why I listen to music yes I listened to music in my car I live in the city and I also live north of the
00:35:28
city of New York so I kind of go back and forth and I like listening to music but I'm I'm so like as I get older like
00:35:34
my I can start going like 80s 70s yeah 90s I go to the 90s and then little and then I become the old guys like what is
00:35:43
this what are they playing what is this stuff that's not music I don't this
00:35:46
auto-tune all of it um I mean I like hip-hop I guess but from like even like my hip the hip-hop
00:35:53
taste is much older but I'm like I could listen to you know like Elton John all
00:35:58
day I'm that guy right I got lost somewhere around the Spin Doctors after that I don't I think I'm pre-spin
00:36:04
doctors but isn't that interesting though because it really does sort of like settle in like what you really like
00:36:08
to listen to you know and like you just don't know it after a while you just
00:36:13
stop knowing anything wanting to know it too yeah but like I was thinking about it like if I'm
00:36:21
listening to Elton John from 1973 right now that's 50 years ago or whatever right
00:36:28
pretty much almost yeah yeah yeah right so that's like if my dad in 1973 was
00:36:34
listening to 1920 some hit song from 1923 all the time oh my God you know what I mean yeah
00:36:42
yeah totally the one thing that happened to me was the stereos back then sucked so I have a Volvo it's not a rich man's
00:36:49
car per se but it's a you know and the stereo in it is so insane that uh maybe
00:36:56
three months ago I put on oh Tiny Dancer okay so I blast it it's 1500 watts I'm
00:37:02
surrounded titanium speakers it's like I'd never heard the song before but then
00:37:06
I go to the hip-hop Channels with my sons and they introduced me to cardi B and I'm like wow I've never felt so old
00:37:12
you know WAP anyway this one's about poontang G-rated yeah they're not open to it I'm
00:37:22
open to it but then if I'm really being honest with myself usually I don't get
00:37:25
into new stuff so Ben what here's the question how did you get so good at what
00:37:30
you do you think like you're a little kid you like to like I I want two I want
00:37:35
one or the television shows I know Star Trek we got to interview William Shatner
00:37:39
on this podcast which was a thrill oh really a crazy the Lucid brilliant analyzed everything you know asked us
00:37:48
question it was like a shrink he's a scientist he described what a mirage is
00:37:52
we talked about UFOs so I know that and I was wondering what other films or TV shows that just blew your 10 year old
00:38:00
Ben's mind and then you grow up to equal or surpass Your Heroes as a film director uh I don't know kind of surreal
00:38:10
it's not you know for me it yeah I loved movies ever since I was a kid and was
00:38:15
just making Super Eight movies as a kid and watching movies and television watching movies and television you know
00:38:22
in the 70s when it was uh stuff was on TV or you actually went to the movies and go see Planet of the Apes or go see
00:38:29
you know Towering Inferno or side Adventure itself Shelly winners I was obsessed with it
00:38:37
Gene Hackman the way I was up there he had a turtleneck on he was just it's out
00:38:42
that's incredible life is out there it's one inch stick less thick than two
00:38:48
inches remember that he said they had to go up there and they go yeah it's an
00:38:52
inch of Steel a pair of Lights yeah yes do that again up there is life down here is death
00:39:04
many gives Shelly Winters a big wet kiss oh I love it and she swam under the water she was the
00:39:12
championship swimmer and God damn and that was a great movie but that tidal wave that's a great shot right Ben
00:39:21
yeah the tidal wave it's incredible that's great direction is that Irwin and Ronnie
00:39:27
McDowell is the you know the waiter who helps them and they had to turn the Christmas they had to take the Christmas
00:39:33
tree it was so smart I was just obsessed it was UPS everything was upside upside
00:39:36
down I'm gonna watch that all day okay I remember once my parents were going to
00:39:42
see uh they had tickets to see Lily Tomlin performing live on Broadway she was doing one of her amazing one-woman
00:39:49
shows and they said come on we're gonna go see Willie Thomas I was like no Poseidon Adventures on yeah 12th time
00:39:55
I'm gonna stay home and watch it do you remember there's got to be a morning
00:39:58
after yeah unreal song Perfect her brother the bass player dies in The you know the only time it looked fake is when
00:40:19
they looked through the binoculars they see the huge tidal wave and then when it
00:40:22
hits they had a crew guy throw a cup of water a Dixie cup of water into the captain's face he goes oh
00:40:31
are you [ __ ] me it was Unreal I was scared as a kid I could I was riveted I wasn't scared enough like I was during
00:40:37
scary movies it was sort of accidentally scaring me but I was riveted to it like
00:40:42
what if this happened my sister and I snuck out when we were in LA with my parents because we grew up in New York
00:40:48
where my parents would come out to LA to work and do like The Love Boat and things like that and we would stay at
00:40:53
the sunset Marquis Hotel with them and like my sister and I snuck out once to see The Exorcist at the man's timeout
00:41:01
these are grumman's Chinese Theater and it scared the [ __ ] out of us we just
00:41:05
were so freaked out by it but we didn't tell my parents that we've got to see it
00:41:09
he said they couldn't understand why we were so why you were crying every day
00:41:13
yeah oh my God yeah go ahead you're I want to hear your exercise I still can't see it I used to my
00:41:22
brother told me about it and I was so [ __ ] scared that I would talk before I went to bed to make sure my voice was
00:41:26
wasn't like the way he said the voice was in the movie because I was scared I'd be possessed and then I I won't I
00:41:34
shouldn't tell Dana you don't have to listen to this but I'll tell Ben because
00:41:37
he's a better all right I'll mute Ben I saw the movie Tommy at this huge this
00:41:43
huge theater in Arizona the Santa Capri when I was whatever age I was when I came out and it scared me that I got
00:41:50
like a stomach ache and I had to leave when the Acid Queen there was burning and it threw some something to burn the
00:41:56
guy's face and right at the beginning I go what the [ __ ] that that movie is not
00:41:59
for kids I thought it'd be a fun movie Tina Turner right yeah it was a Psycho
00:42:04
movie I saw him he was like a great he did Altered States too remember that movie with William oh yeah
00:42:10
Bob going on I'm on [ __ ] fire remember when this and he turned and his feet turned into eight feet in the in
00:42:17
the shower and it's just like he's having these crazy hallucinations he was
00:42:20
a really interesting filmmaker yeah so I I mean those movies were so good when we
00:42:24
were that age that I was and I was so into them that you know just I wanted to do that and make make movies and and so
00:42:31
that's you know I I was always doing that that's honestly like part of the
00:42:35
reason why I didn't stay at SNL and all that is because I wanted to keep exploring that and doing that but I was
00:42:40
also kind of like trying to be an actor too and I think uh you know I just have always loved that more and probably like
00:42:47
the last you know six or seven years I've you know I haven't really acted in
00:42:50
anything for a while and it's been mainly directing and I stopped acting and in the things I was directing which
00:42:57
I've really enjoyed a lot more because I do feel like that gives you the opportunity to really focus on the you
00:43:03
know what you're doing it's hard when you're kind of you know doing both like
00:43:07
just how hard it is to either and then you got to do both I mean yeah yeah yeah well it's kind of cool that your latest
00:43:13
thing you've done is being received so it's brilliant and I'm obsessed by it my
00:43:17
son's in their 20s the way it's shot that I don't know the set design the colors of the lights
00:43:23
action you know it's so music so Atmos atmospheric and as it gives you this wash of feeling and really takes you out
00:43:31
I mean what what I mean yeah you know what's interesting yeah I mean first of all it was written it was a
00:43:38
script that came to our production company about five years ago by a writer as a writing sample Dan Erickson this
00:43:43
guy who had not had anything produced and I read and I was like oh this is really this reminds me of like the
00:43:49
office it reminds me of office space it reminds me of like Parallax view it reminds me of you know um
00:43:57
Truman Show um yes and it had all these different things going on and I was trying to
00:44:03
think of that other movie oh what was it the Andromeda stream yeah or t-h-t-h-x 1130x 1138 yeah the drama story I just
00:44:11
thought it was like an interesting thing he was doing with the tone which he was
00:44:14
taking the office workplace comedy and then sort of like adding this other surreal layer to it which is like who
00:44:21
are these people what are they doing why are they doing it but yet they're bantering like they work in an office
00:44:24
but they don't even know what who they are yeah you know you know that's like
00:44:28
really interesting concept so anyway I I just you know it took a while to set it
00:44:33
up I knew Adam Scott was the guy to play it because I felt like Adam has sort of
00:44:37
like mastered that tone yeah can we talk about him for 10 seconds Adam Scott is I
00:44:42
saw my big little lies I you've seen him around for years and then I've seen him
00:44:46
on this I go holy [ __ ] he's never made a false smooth as it's amazing and he has
00:44:52
this like really interesting quality because like sometimes he'll he'll be
00:44:55
like he'll look like Tom Cruise he'll have this like this like thing and then
00:44:58
other times he'll be like sort of like this kind of regular like guy like kind
00:45:02
of you know very self-effacing and then he'll be kind of like flat and nothing
00:45:06
going on but then all of a sudden you look in his eyes and there's some really
00:45:09
deep thing happening and he's also like just as an actor he just like is he just
00:45:14
is so specific and I call him an acting machine and I mean that as a compliment yeah whatever you want whatever you can
00:45:22
do it wait you too David I feel like you're an acting machine yes thank you um and he has this ability to uh like
00:45:30
just change things by a millimeter but uh you know and still you know do what he did but then like as a director it's
00:45:37
great to work with him so the whole thing was really interesting to me and you know trying to do something that I
00:45:42
tonally that I guess you know was an experiment and then I I thought you know well it's fun to be able to experiment
00:45:48
with some something we did it all during the pandemic it's been literally like
00:45:52
two and a half years working on it yeah so we started before the pandemic and then we were about to start shooting and
00:45:58
then the pandemic happened and we had to shut down so it's been a long process
00:46:02
and we were in this you know very oppressive uh claustrophobic set for like nine months shooting it so it got a
00:46:09
little bit you know like it was the show kind of like folded in on itself and you
00:46:13
got John Turturro and Christopher Walken I mean those are also just it was weird
00:46:17
because tutorial I was talking to him about doing the part and he suggested Chris Walken he said because we hadn't
00:46:25
cast the role of this his co-worker bird who you know Chris plays and John said well have you cast I'm like no you know
00:46:32
I'm thinking about some music it goes what about what about Chris and I'm like
00:46:35
yeah that would be great okay I'll reach out to you because I can call him and he
00:46:41
literally made it happen he's like yeah everyone loves Christopher Walken I know
00:46:45
I mean anything he's got this amazing voice amazing face and he just you can't
00:46:51
not look at him on the screen yeah you know I mean and he's aware you know he's
00:46:55
such a sweet person I actually worked with him in that first play that I ever did the thing I did when I did Hustler
00:47:00
money to take off on color money yeah he was in that production and he worked with my dad a lot
00:47:06
um and uh you know he's just he's very sweet and sensitive uh yeah guy I
00:47:13
remember this is a non-securator standing next to Bonnie Ray at a party and it was Eric Roberts and Christopher
00:47:18
Walken and this is in the 90s and Bonnie Ray said I feel like I'm having sex just
00:47:23
looking at him [Laughter] um if he is aware of all these Impressions and if he it throws him off
00:47:35
acting because you know that's the way he sounds and now he's like do I sound
00:47:39
like a cartoon of myself yeah I think he's aware that people you know he knows
00:47:45
that people will adjust scripts when when he's in it that because he's in it
00:47:49
you know I think he's aware of it but he honestly I think is not a guy who you
00:47:53
know he doesn't really he's not I don't want to like say too much because it protect his privacy but
00:48:01
like he's not a guy who engages in social media and does it you know what I mean like he really just lives his life
00:48:06
and um he's a very genuine person like I think he loves act he's been acting
00:48:11
since he was a like a small child I mean literally like a like five or six years old yeah I have a question for you
00:48:19
but this one is not Christopher Walken related but still a good question can't
00:48:23
wait um in severance in the first episode I picture like you know we all get scripts so you're
00:48:32
reading it I'm like I wonder where it won Ben over like you know because I think you only read the one right you
00:48:39
only read the first episode that's right that's right so I'm watching it starts a
00:48:43
little Bleak it's got some interesting creepy music I mean I don't really know
00:48:46
what I'm watching music you know yeah and that's so I'm watching I'm like this
00:48:50
looks so different and so I'm just getting hooked in on the fact like I don't know what's happening you know
00:48:55
that's kind of fun but I'm picturing on the page because you sort of you know
00:48:58
bring it more to life and then and in those last couple minutes I go oh [ __ ] oh [ __ ] and that's probably where I
00:49:06
go I bet Ben was like oh [ __ ] this is great because it makes me go I gotta watch the next one now right which I
00:49:11
think is like the bottom line with TV shows and I learned that on the last one I worked on which is like you just want
00:49:16
to get people to watch want to watch the next episode you know you want to have a
00:49:19
story that unfolds but you know when I read it it didn't have all that there
00:49:24
was no music attached to it right there just like reading it and it totally I think I might have taken it a slightly
00:49:31
different place and I didn't even know it was going to go because I really responded to the like that that
00:49:36
workplace comedy thing that was in there you know the banter that was happening you know and like just sort of like the
00:49:42
back and forth between uh Adam and Zach Cherry in the beginning when they're at
00:49:46
their workstations that seems so familiar to me and funny and like oh I've you know I've heard that but then
00:49:51
like I said it was that other layer to it but I think the ending too I just as a pilot I thought oh well this like this
00:49:57
crazy little thing that happens at the end with one of the characters where you don't expect it that really pulled me in
00:50:03
and uh but I don't know you know I I don't know if you're like this but like
00:50:07
when there's something you read as that just you have a gut feeling about where
00:50:11
you just go okay this is something that I really connect with I don't even know
00:50:14
why I connect with it but it's just you know it's just pulling on something that
00:50:18
like I something it's resounding with something in something inside of me which um sometimes you don't have to
00:50:25
explain also it's Unique it's a unique read so yeah I'm sure you see like I get
00:50:29
similar comedies a lot and you and Dana and so if you see something out of that world it's it's our already a little
00:50:36
easier to keep your attention because you're not doing this every day and is
00:50:40
it kind of unintentionally zeitgeisty you know about work from home and the great reset and people rethinking their
00:50:46
lives because it rang true that sometimes people are in a corporate situation they're not quite sure what
00:50:51
they're doing which is kind of funny and separate no one really knows what they're doing you know that's the funny
00:50:57
that was one that's one of the things I loved about is they have no idea what
00:51:00
they're doing to do they don't know why they're doing it or what what purpose it serves and
00:51:04
they know they're not really supposed to question that also you know yeah um but
00:51:09
uh you know this was all before everything that was happening we wrote the script like six years ago or
00:51:14
something so yeah it was kind of ahead of it all it's uh I don't know it just
00:51:18
it feels like people are definitely rethinking that kind of corporate structure and you know just yeah you
00:51:24
know it seems like everyone in the world is really rich now because it's never
00:51:28
been in our face as much notwithstanding Ukraine right now but just the idea of uh people monetizing fame or Instagram
00:51:35
or what is it David fans only to get people on a cubicle for 50 years you know with all this other input
00:51:50
coming at them but anyways we told kids kids are being told like I see on uh these places where they're like why are
00:51:57
you working for other people when you can make millions on your own it's like
00:52:00
I don't know if that's the best message I mean it's a good message but everyone
00:52:04
chasing their dreams at once might collapse everything you know it's very hard to say keep one foot in reality but
00:52:12
always try to strive to do something better in life but it's hard because right now they're like quit your job
00:52:19
I also think that's changed in the way uh you know in Show Business too and like what you're you know you talk about
00:52:25
back when there was no YouTube or anything to or Instagram to post funny stuff you know I made my little short
00:52:32
and was like taking it around now it's almost incumbent on uh an actor or a comedic performer to put their stuff out
00:52:40
there and to make stuff so that you you know that you have to do that really to get noticed and then the other aspect of
00:52:46
that is there's so much of it out there now it's almost the opposite where now
00:52:50
like how do you get noticed within that sea of um you know content quote unquote
00:52:54
and I think um it has changed the way people sort of approach like what are you supposed to what do you call success
00:53:01
and you know are you supposed to be successful by 19 or 20 and you know if you're if you're putting your stuff out
00:53:08
there feels younger and it feels younger when you're Kylie Jenner and you're like
00:53:11
19 and you have a billion dollars everyone goes wait I'm it's so much stress for kids like I'm so far behind
00:53:17
I've got fomo from Instagram everyone's prettier than than me everyone's you
00:53:20
know everyone there's two girls at my school are pretty and now I'm like I'm
00:53:24
competing against the world if you're a woman you know it's like I see every
00:53:27
guy's life everyone's Rich it seems everyone's having a better time than me
00:53:32
it's funny that during the the lockdown it almost let you relax for a second if
00:53:37
you're a kid to go at least everyone's in the same spot for a second like
00:53:41
they're not on a yacht they're not skiing they're not and I don't feel
00:53:44
because I think people feel badly over and over quietly about all that stuff and it makes them nice I I I feel that
00:53:52
way even you feel that way yeah because I I looked up I mean yeah what your celebrity net worth no I'm kidding
00:54:00
novice I definitely feel that way I took I got off Instagram because of that yeah I I'm
00:54:07
still on Twitter but like I I couldn't I was feeling all those feelings way too
00:54:12
much and I was like this is I'm too old to be getting into this like it's not
00:54:16
healthy I should be really concentrating and spending my time you know on much more
00:54:21
um positive in you know things and you know so I just made that choice for myself the thing is when you do do take
00:54:28
yourself out of that you know right now everybody sort of communicates that way though too you know even there are good
00:54:33
parts of it being able to stay in touch with family and you know and and stay in
00:54:37
touch with people that you're you don't see all the time but I just decided that
00:54:40
for me that was that was too much um and I think you know it's I I don't see the good
00:54:47
thing I I feel like Twitter also I have uh conflicted feelings about Twitter too because I I like being able
00:54:56
to get immediate news and information and things that are going on in the world but then I'm also again way too
00:55:02
aware I think sometimes the things that I shouldn't really be spending my time
00:55:05
on you know [Music] did you turn down any uh Big commercials like in the 90s or the knots or did you
00:55:19
do some I mean now that's totally changed and people talk about their brand and getting their product in the
00:55:24
marketplace which is great by me but did you turn down commercials I did a few naively yeah no I did I didn't I've
00:55:32
never gotten offered a lot of commercials weirdly but I did do I did a Japanese beer commercial
00:55:38
in the 90s uh yes I or nice um uh I'm trying to even remember that it was like it was a crazy thing I had
00:55:48
to say I had to go um this like frozen wave or something um that's it and you got paid money I
00:55:57
got paid money for that and uh and then not a lot of offers after that maybe that effective but um yeah I got offered
00:56:05
one a couple years ago uh one of those Super Bowl ads uh and I somebody else did it and I saw it and I just felt like
00:56:14
it didn't feel right I had that happen a Super Bowl ad and then someone else did it I'll tell Dana
00:56:19
later I'll do anything at this point but I remember Paul Newman and I don't know
00:56:24
if he gave it to charity but Paul Newman is like the greatest kind of celebrity industry I think I think he was writing
00:56:29
a a tricycle or something like it was a motorcycle or something but Paul Newman and I think Meryl Streep did one and
00:56:35
then they didn't like it and they she got millions and they didn't even show
00:56:39
it but I do think the Super Bowl is unique everyone kind of goes hey it's a Super Bowl commercial I mean also now
00:56:45
it's become such a thing where the commercials are such a huge deal and you know everybody watches I watch them you
00:56:51
know and see like okay what's yeah you know who's gonna did they ever ask you
00:56:55
to Direct One um I've I've directed some commercials back then I have been offered
00:56:59
commercials to direct I'm not great at directing commercials because I don't
00:57:04
love this process at the end of the day it's a little bit like I have to care about this someone's
00:57:11
like move the Doritos closer to the Chihuahua please hold it up while you're
00:57:15
talking Angela Chihuahuas chewing the bag it's an art form I I enjoy a funny
00:57:22
commercial but you have to really care about that so Ben how are you as a celebrity like your emotional
00:57:27
temperature I just made it how are you is like kind of assuming Superstar obviously you don't
00:57:34
you're not out there all the time I mean when was the first time you're going you
00:57:37
were like Mickey Rooney and the Twilight Zone like uh I'm too famous I'm too
00:57:42
famous what was the one that blew you up where you were like oh [ __ ] now it's
00:57:46
good you know there's there's a point where you hit critical mass I don't know
00:57:49
what your words like you're really famous yeah and that's where my glasses
00:57:53
broke and I couldn't read any of the books Meredith young Ben Stiller with Fame that he
00:58:00
never wanted go ahead I think it was a kind of a gradual you know thing for me because I was around
00:58:06
for a while from like my you know my little stint in like late 80s uh to you know then getting little parts and
00:58:13
movies and something about Mary was something about Mary was the one that really was the first time I was ever in
00:58:19
yeah that was huge and meet the parents and then Zoolander that was pretty quickly boom go ahead
00:58:26
yep yeah and that was that was after that was like 1998 or something and I had been doing it for you know on and
00:58:34
off for 10 years and had you know had directed Reality Bites and directed cable guy at that point and like so I
00:58:40
was working in Show Business and happy I was really happy and then that that movie you know was a big hit and I
00:58:47
remember people going like oh I knew like someone who worked in my team said I knew it was always going to happen for
00:58:53
you I was like I thought it had you know I thought I was doing it okay and you're like I've heard people say
00:59:02
come back oh come back did you wear a hat and stuff when you went out or sunglasses yeah when you first got yeah
00:59:08
David I love it to be in a convertible you know hi everybody yes I mean I was definitely going around La
00:59:18
I you know I had a period of time when it acted ridiculous I'm sure you know
00:59:23
like I bought a Jaguar sweet do it yeah a low-key rhyme yeah yeah um yeah I mean it was yeah it was it was
00:59:40
definitely like you know fun but a little bit sort of intoxicating in that you know it's that thing where like
00:59:46
everybody you know is recognizing everybody's being nice to you and there's just a lot you know a lot of
00:59:52
opportunity in all ways and it's like you know weird yeah it's weird when
00:59:56
there was a jizz scene you might not remember in Something About Mary no I forgot which one was that it was there a
01:00:03
discussion of the amount of jizz is it too offensive is it too far there was because I don't think people have seen
01:00:09
too much jizz on screen apparently brothers or since yeah um I had a discussion and Bobby Fairley
01:00:17
about that scene because you know I took my work seriously and I was I was questioning a lot in that movie but I
01:00:25
would like question all of like the logic moments in that movie with them and then I realized halfway through the
01:00:30
movie that you know shooting the movie that I just was wrong because they were yeah because they're just going to do
01:00:35
what they did and they were so right because they knew exactly what they were doing but I was like okay I'm gonna make
01:00:40
sure this makes sense to me so my question was how am I not feeling how am I not
01:00:47
feeling the jizz on my earlobe right why am I not feeling this yeah how can I nerve ending how do you play that so I
01:00:56
literally like said can we somehow set up in the movie at some point in like in the past I lost feeling in my earlobe
01:01:06
that's what they said they're like Ben [ __ ] I'm like really I think it's not
01:01:13
gonna be as funny if you think you're wondering why I don't feel it on my
01:01:16
earlobe so I lost that argument and yeah and I guess you're smart to say when I'm
01:01:22
in someone else's thing I've done that where you go this is their thing I'm
01:01:25
kind of along for the ride I did sign up and I I can put in my two cents but overall they're gonna win in editing so
01:01:32
I got at some point just gotta roll it yes and you have to recognize that you know and I think it took me I remember
01:01:39
we were there in Miami it was so much fun shooting that movie too because it was just like everybody was having a
01:01:43
great time and they cut together like the first 10 minutes of the movie and Peter pulled me into his trailer and
01:01:49
said hey check this out I want to show you and I saw the first 10 minutes and I was like oh this is like it's so much
01:01:53
fun and it had such like yeah I think I was like you know I'm like kind of more
01:01:56
of like a serious type of person or you know and they were just like happy fun I'm like okay this is like a happy fun
01:02:03
thing which I have to get used to and you know Embrace is probably good for me um but I remember also after the movie
01:02:09
we Shot the movie weirdly uh I keep saying weirdly don't I um it's a good
01:02:15
word um you have a big life um no but I was living in the same apartment building as Cameron Diaz in LA
01:02:23
in largely that is weirdly yeah and um I was coming downstairs and and she was going out with Matt Dillon at the
01:02:32
time and you know so we'd all done the movie together the movie hadn't come out
01:02:35
and he'd just seen a screening of the movie and Matt was like hey man did you
01:02:40
see the movie is really it's funny man it's funny and he's like dude dude you
01:02:45
jerked off in that movie that's a good Matt Dylan yeah that is good and I was like yeah I know I did it
01:02:56
I definitely did it um and he was like he was saying it as a compliment I think but it was kind of like you really did
01:03:01
that and at that time we didn't know how the movie was going to do so it felt a
01:03:05
little bit scary your balls are in a zipper dude it's great it was like a hangover in a movie that came out and
01:03:12
just kind of changed everything for a while but I'd like to talk before we go
01:03:15
whenever we go about Tropic Thunder because that hit me like a ton of bricks and I've probably seen that three times
01:03:23
I mean I just absolutely I I think I mean Ben died you went full r word that's why you went
01:03:31
home empty-handed it is like it for comedy writing at the time I know that you couldn't do it today I suppose but
01:03:39
God that was that brilliant that movie how did you [ __ ] come up with that but I think in today's you know
01:03:45
environment now of course it just would never even get out of the you know it would never get out of development um
01:03:50
but that was an idea that I had had since I had a little part in Empire of the Sun in 1987 I was playing one of the
01:03:57
pows uh in that movie and I which was hilarious thank you and Robert Downey Jr was in blackface in
01:04:06
that film too I remember but uh I you know I thought oh that at that time in like mid 80s all the actors my age were
01:04:13
auditioning for every you know war movie it was all war movies it was all Hamburger Hill platoon
01:04:19
um and yeah we all and we all I remember and everybody was going on these fake boot camps where they'd go out with Dale
01:04:26
die and you know spend two weeks in the Philippines and get you know dirty and get yelled at yeah well could David just
01:04:32
for an insert David could you do your Michael J fox War thing just and then go back to you I can't do it hey Sarge you
01:04:38
got to give me a minute on this hey she's just a just a farm girl we don't know I have to ask you what
01:04:48
would uh Bert Lancaster be like yeah I'm telling you we gotta get down I did a movie with bird Lancaster that's
01:05:03
one of my favorite of your impressions is the bertland the Kirk Douglas Burt Lancaster entertainment oh that thing oh
01:05:09
that's beautiful yeah would you like to come over to my house I'd like to come
01:05:13
home five o'clock I'm on Cannon Drive there's a code five four three two gate
01:05:20
code no we're gonna yes we're gonna wrestle right we're gonna rest we're
01:05:25
gonna wrestle Greek Romans die because that lack the wristle I do too two men having fun doesn't mean a thing I had to
01:05:33
I made it a little more PG yeah no that's good yeah did you ever see the swimmer by the way with Burt Lancaster
01:05:39
oh yeah what a weird weird crazy movie he just swims in people's pools fences
01:05:45
in this like tight tighty whitey you know speed up thing the whole time he looks good but it's like he's swimming
01:05:53
in people's pools for two hours to get home and kind of going crazy it's
01:05:57
fascinating Dan is like I love that movie so much I saw it once so Tropic Thunder I'm gonna update
01:06:04
that change it I'm gonna up it to five times [Music] now Ben before you go one last one we're
01:06:14
not talking enough about The Reality Bites yeah come on Dana do you know this Spade had a little part
01:06:22
you went in Reality Bites I was have a tude wiener dude come on plucked me out of obscurity out of a
01:06:32
rigorous casting and I went in there I don't know if I was on SNL or was I on
01:06:36
it I feel like how did you even remember how that happened I don't remember the
01:06:40
beer yeah but Ben the funniest part about this is I first of all I'm not great at acting so I I I'm trying to
01:06:48
memorize the script I thought before I do the scene I should know it because I do that with a lot of my parts
01:06:55
um so I I look at and I go I'm interviewing Winona for a job at the wiener Hut or whatever it's called
01:07:02
and so I'm the manager and then uh so I have I the the joke is like I go I I I'm
01:07:09
with it whatever is I interview her and then I go just I'm gonna throw out some
01:07:12
numbers what's remember I told her she's gonna get cashier so I'm gonna go what's
01:07:16
85 plus 22 and she's like uh 1. I'm like nope like dollar 40 I'm like nope she
01:07:21
was already and so I go but listen so anyway I do this and then Ben hits me with this
01:07:29
[ __ ] curveball I picture we're sitting in a little interview table like in the back of Burger King and then you
01:07:35
know I just go back and forth and then he goes okay let's go now Spade scenes
01:07:39
up here you go you're gonna walk this way you're gonna hand the customer this
01:07:42
you grab a bag you put this mop over here I go what the [ __ ] I have to walk and talk and say my and say the lines
01:07:48
and you go yeah and I go holy [ __ ] inside my hands I'm like this was never
01:07:53
discussed it's never happened in acting before and so I go why is he doing this
01:07:58
to me and so and then Winona all she has to do is trail behind me that's way
01:08:02
easier and so I'm literally going in rehearsal going if I hand them this then
01:08:07
I say this that's how you remember it you know you go by blocking so I go somehow we got it but I agree a lot of
01:08:15
business you had a lot of business and I think I believe I did it as a winner I think it's like a one shot which is
01:08:22
worse because they have to get everything right yeah it's like you're traveling you're following the Steadicam
01:08:27
or something yes and you have to get it all right and I'm like but obviously that's the way to do it
01:08:32
obviously it made it funnier and then um yeah and it was funny I still love it I
01:08:36
love hearing people saw reality no and I love that you're in it too it always
01:08:40
makes me happy I'm gonna have to order that up on Amazon tonight and check out
01:08:44
Dave and the last thing I got to tell Ben is when I did this last movie they go uh a Sandler sent me this movie and
01:08:51
he goes you know you're not like it it it's the wrong Missy he goes it's
01:08:56
not the typical thing you do blah blah but then I go I read it and I go oh this is like what a Ben Stiller would do
01:09:02
because I always like what you do in these movies where these craziness around you like you don't meet the
01:09:06
parents you're not always doing that but you're very good at it and I go I want
01:09:10
to do one where it's sort of a re you know grounded guy that's overwhelmed
01:09:15
and so everything was happening around me swordson was funny each night it was funny Lauren Lapkus who was great is the
01:09:22
Missy character and uh and I was sort of trying to keep it together but there's it's a hard thing
01:09:28
to do and you do it very well and I was like going if I can just kind of do that
01:09:32
part because it's an underrated uh thing to do in movies yeah and it really keeps
01:09:38
everything working if you have good reactions and do it and then that movie was super fun wound up being but I just
01:09:44
wish they could tell you ahead of time if the movie's gonna be a hit it would
01:09:48
be so much easier to shoot like something got married you'd have so much more fun if you go this is a [ __ ]
01:09:53
yeah you never know here we go that's the old adage you just you know you really have no idea but I think like
01:09:59
when you're doing that like that kind of thing like the great thing is I always
01:10:02
felt like there's no pressure on me except to just you know just to be in the scene and hopefully react honestly
01:10:10
but like you have to not have the ego about like feeling like I always wanted more funny people around me because I
01:10:16
just felt like that would make the movie funnier it helps everybody if you don't
01:10:19
understand it by being around funny people who make me funnier how happy were you when when you sat
01:10:25
down either rehearse or shoot the first scene on Meet the Parents and you saw that De Niro was playing it full
01:10:32
badass dinero which made it so funny the way he intimidated your character it was
01:10:37
just such a perfect common chemistry he was amazing and also I think you know he
01:10:41
at that point he hadn't done a bunch of comedies you know he'd maybe done analog
01:10:44
I don't know if analyze this was before or after that I think oh right right he
01:10:48
you know and he was one of the producers of the movie too but he totally got it from the beginning and you know was just
01:10:55
playing that he knew that playing it straight and also he knew with me that you know he could just sense with me
01:11:02
that I was nervous around him and so he would yeah you know what I mean like he wouldn't make it so he worked off that
01:11:09
he enjoyed doing that and you know it was really like there was like real that was a real thing like I remember like
01:11:15
we'd be in the car together doing these scenes and then like you know back then
01:11:18
we were doing scenes where you actually were in the car it wasn't like a green
01:11:21
screen and we'd have to then take the car around to start the scene again and
01:11:24
then we'd have to just sit together in the car in between when we did the seat
01:11:27
and when we restarted so there'd be like five minutes of us just sitting uncomfortably which is staring literally
01:11:33
just you could have just kept the camera rolling it was the same as the movie it
01:11:37
just wasn't moving I have nipples do you want to milk me or is it I was just like coming out of De
01:11:45
Niro's mouth you want to find him you want to make my nipple yeah great that's
01:11:49
great all right well let's let Ben go he's been great you guys Ben was very
01:11:52
nice thank you very funny people great to catch up with you Ben uh I'm glad you're doing for kids who want to live
01:12:00
stream Stiller for young people dodgeball starts getting Hutch Madagascar Something About Mary more
01:12:06
than I could mention Jesus it's a resume I got exhausted is Severance Apple TV Severance is Apple
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TV plus it's Apple TV plus that's the part you have to pay for yeah and it's
01:12:20
uh that's all right it streams every Friday so all right guys thanks [Music]
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hey what's up flies what's up please what's up people that listen we want to
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at cadence13.com we have one from Andy Lipsy all right Andy lipsey says hi guys what
01:12:48
was the first concert you ever saw live and who do you want to see that I've
01:12:51
been able to I'll start with this I saw heart 16 as a heart the band they [ __ ] rocked it and my brother's
01:12:58
snuck in some Sloe Gin you ever know what that is it's so gross it's like
01:13:02
Boone's Farm it's like a muddy cherry wine it's like a red I don't know what it is but it had booze
01:13:08
in it I didn't care I couldn't be picky chugged barfed and I did like heart I
01:13:14
still love them and then did a joke about him and I said no one got in trouble and then I would love to
01:13:20
see Led Zeppelin live Dana Les Evelyn is the greatest uh when I was 14 I was running cross country freshman High
01:13:26
School this summer I ran a six mile time trial at 5 20 a mile so I was feeling really good I have three older brothers
01:13:34
so I was 14 16 18 and 20. they took me to Fillmore West ooh ten years after Cactus and toe fat so I'm there girls
01:13:43
are bikini dancing there's a show Bill Graham actually came out and said stay
01:13:47
away from the brown acid I actually did and they were passing joints along I didn't have any but all that experience
01:13:54
was Unforgettable then went outside and this dude kind of like a wino was really
01:13:58
high and he looked up at the Marquee he was really buzz and he goes ten years after Cactus and toe fat what the [ __ ]
01:14:06
that's what I said when you just said that was the name of a rock band toe fat
01:14:11
my brother in 1966 he came home from Fillmore was he was like in eighth grade he says I've
01:14:19
just seen the best guitar player in the world I said what's his name he woke me
01:14:22
up I was in like sixth grade Jimmy Jimmy Jimmy Hendrix Jimi Hendrix for real that
01:14:29
was Hendrix it was Hendrix I said yeah weird name probably won't go anywhere he
01:14:33
goes why do you say that just a thought but then we saw Jeff Beck a lot me and my friends would Jeff Beck
01:14:39
um we saw I saw Fleetwood Mac Jesus a lot of Neil Young and who would you see now if you could pick
01:14:48
um Snoop Dogg okay because my sons played that for him and that was the first time I really appreciated hip hop
01:14:59
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Episode Highlights

  • Comedy's Future
    Spade expresses concern about the future of comedy in light of recent events.
    “I hope roasts aren't outlawed soon.”
    @ 01m 25s
    October 07, 2022
  • Reflections on Bullying
    Both comedians reflect on their experiences with bullying and its impact on their lives.
    “It was the bad guy.”
    @ 08m 52s
    October 07, 2022
  • First Sketch Comedy Experience
    Ben Stiller shares his transition from stand-up to sketch comedy, landing laughs with Jan Hooks and Phil Hartman.
    “I had to... my head wanted to turn toward the audience like a stand-up.”
    @ 20m 07s
    October 07, 2022
  • The Evolution of Comedy Impressions
    Stiller discusses the nuances of impersonating public figures and how he approaches character hooks.
    “Your comedic hooks into the characters... are what makes it so funny.”
    @ 25m 46s
    October 07, 2022
  • Winning an Emmy After Cancellation
    Stiller recalls the shock of winning an Emmy for a show that had been canceled months prior.
    “It was surreal.”
    @ 29m 22s
    October 07, 2022
  • Childhood Movie Obsessions
    The speaker reflects on their childhood love for movies, particularly 'The Poseidon Adventure.'
    “I was obsessed with it.”
    @ 38m 34s
    October 07, 2022
  • Sneaking Out to See 'The Exorcist'
    A childhood adventure that turned into a terrifying experience.
    “It scared the [ __ ] out of us!”
    @ 41m 05s
    October 07, 2022
  • Changing Definitions of Success
    Exploration of how success is perceived in the age of social media.
    “What do you call success?”
    @ 52m 59s
    October 07, 2022
  • The Impact of Social Media
    Discussion on how social media affects self-perception and mental health.
    “I took off Instagram because of that.”
    @ 54m 05s
    October 07, 2022
  • The Rise of Ben Stiller
    Ben discusses his gradual rise to fame, highlighting key films that changed his career.
    “Something About Mary was the one that really was the first time I was ever in...”
    @ 58m 16s
    October 07, 2022
  • The Reality Bites Connection
    A humorous exchange about Ben's early role in 'Reality Bites' and its impact on his career.
    “I plucked me out of obscurity out of a rigorous casting.”
    @ 01h 06m 26s
    October 07, 2022
  • Filming 'Meet the Parents' with De Niro
    Ben shares his experience working with Robert De Niro and the chemistry they developed on set.
    “It was just such a perfect common chemistry.”
    @ 01h 10m 32s
    October 07, 2022

Episode Quotes

  • It's tough to live with that hanging over your head.
    Ben Stiller | Full Episode | Fly on the Wall with Dana Carvey and David Spade
  • I was so nervous.
    Ben Stiller | Full Episode | Fly on the Wall with Dana Carvey and David Spade
  • I’ve done a lot of cameos as well.
    Ben Stiller | Full Episode | Fly on the Wall with Dana Carvey and David Spade
  • I thought it’d be a fun movie; it was a Psycho movie.
    Ben Stiller | Full Episode | Fly on the Wall with Dana Carvey and David Spade
  • I remember Paul Newman... the greatest kind of celebrity.
    Ben Stiller | Full Episode | Fly on the Wall with Dana Carvey and David Spade
  • I always wanted more funny people around me... it helps everybody.
    Ben Stiller | Full Episode | Fly on the Wall with Dana Carvey and David Spade

Key Moments

  • Oscars Incident00:41
  • Comedy Concerns01:25
  • Surreal Emmy Win29:22
  • Childhood Movies37:55
  • Fame Journey58:05
  • Cameron Diaz Encounter1:02:20
  • Funny People1:10:14
  • Music Predictions1:14:33

Tension Over Time

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Vibes Breakdown