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Harry Jarvis | I’m Related To A Killer

December 20, 2024 / 43:24

This episode discusses the murder case of Carol Jarvis, her husband Harry Jarvis, and his mistress Rita Haster. Key topics include Harry's manipulation, Carol's health struggles, and the discovery of her body.

Carol Jarvis was reported missing by her children, who suspected something was wrong when their father, Harry, was evasive about her whereabouts. The police investigation led to the shocking discovery of Carol's remains hidden under the floorboards of their home in Bathgate, Scotland.

Harry Jarvis was portrayed as a manipulative individual who drugged Carol, contributing to her deteriorating health. His relationship with Rita Haster, who was found living in a shed on their property, raised further suspicions about his intentions.

The episode highlights the complexities of family dynamics, particularly the impact on their children, who struggled with the realization that their father was involved in their mother's murder. Graham Jarvis, one of the children, reflects on the emotional turmoil of losing both parents in such a tragic manner.

Ultimately, Harry was convicted of murder and sentenced to life imprisonment, while Rita was charged with attempting to defeat the ends of justice. The episode concludes with the lasting effects of this case on the Jarvis family.

TL;DR

The episode covers the murder of Carol Jarvis by her husband Harry, who was aided by his mistress Rita Haster, and its impact on their children.

Episode

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when Harry was dring cattle she would
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spend days and days in bed unable to
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speak the medication he was obtaining
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and applying to his wife was not
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designed to make her feel better but
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perhaps to make her feel lost Harry
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wrapped her body in a doy and put her
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under a gap in the
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floorboards Harry Jarvis was a totally
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unexceptional individual to look at he
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was very Brazen about the whole thing
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you put your lover up in the shed in the
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garden just outside the window your wife
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is Harry was determined to do what he
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did to get what he wanted out of it to
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do away with Carol and move on with Rita
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that was all that Harry cared about
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just that worry in the back of your mind
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of is he dad or is he Harry the Killer
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Carol Jarvis had been reported missing 2
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days before she was found
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dead initially the missing person's
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report had come in from Carol's children
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to say that they hadn't seen their mom
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um for some
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time and their father had said to them
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that she was away on resik here up in
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dunde when she disappeared he
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reaction was she's left the house she's
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gone
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away is just utterly bizarre because
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she'd been bad ban for a significant
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amount of
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time decided to form the police just to
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report a Miss
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person the police visited the house just
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to establish what what had went
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on a body was then
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discovered I remember hearing on the
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news that a body had been found in a
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house in Bathgate which was the area
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that my practice was based in West
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lodan I was interested to know what was
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going to happen with the people who have
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been charged with
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murder the police in Bathgate had
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discovered caros remains under the uh
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floorboards in the
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high there were clear signs there was a
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body that had become a deposition site
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thoughts very quickly from the police
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turned to there's only one suspect in
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this case and it's her
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husband there was a very tragic case but
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from the perspective of those working as
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lawyers in the case it was totally
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unique the background to the death of
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Harry Jarvis's wife
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was
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bizarre he was very Brazen about the
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whole
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thing Clover up in the shed in the
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garden just outside the window your wife
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is this looked like on the surface
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potentially quite a well planned
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murder but actually there were so many
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issues within Harry's plan for
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this you couldn't make it up I don't
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think he was particularly
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clever he had some degree of
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intelligence but he did a number of very
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foolish
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things whole setup at the house was
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bizarre Harry Jarvis and his wife Carol
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had four children Graham is the youngest
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son
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this one yes Mom and Dad always are very
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young dad looks really really young
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there mom's not wearing glasses or
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that's all right that must
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been one when they were growing up to
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but she looks
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happy Graham was told his father was
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probably her killer and he was nowhere
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to be seen if your spouse is just been
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found dead in the floor space in your
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house your natural reaction as a
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grieving spouse would be to stay to help
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the police with their inquiries to
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support the children to plan the funeral
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so the fact that he absconded and was
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nowhere to be seen would have
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immediately raised
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suspicions how can you see that somebody
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is going to do that unless if bu in an
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act or they've got a gun then you can't
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suspect that somebody's going to just
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hat your plan to kill somebody or do it
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SP of the moment you can't foresee that
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at
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all it's going to be really tough for
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anyone who loses a parent to something
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as violent as a
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murder but even more so when the person
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who took their life is their other
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parent there's going to be a real
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conflict there between Still Loving a
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parent as most people do and hating them
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for what they've done
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Harry Jarvis met his future wife Carol
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in the late 1970s when he was living in
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South London and working as a bus
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driver I believed in met just by Mom
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working in the the shoe shop and then
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just Dad asking her asking it out on a
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date mom was 18 dad was 30s or 12 year
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difference people might say that's a big
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gap but sometimes there's a connection
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or whatever it may be it might just be
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it by 1982 Carol and Harry Jarvis were
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married and the couple went on to have
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four children together I just thought M
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and dad were happy as a couple you know
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they AR gooded like any other couple
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would and you know money or life worries
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but for me yeah they were just a general
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normal happy Mom and Dad
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couple in the early 1990s the Jarvis
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family moved over 400 m away from London
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settling in the west loan town of
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Bathgate in
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Scotland I see done this house a lot of
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the childhood memories and friend and
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Neighbors
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and even to family gatherings that
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happened in in that
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house she would be the the first one up
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dancing or trying to cheer you up and
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yeah generally quite quite a bit doy and
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but really um sort of live Lively
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character when you wanted to
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be it was just a mom that was there for
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you her main sort of life was centered
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around the kids and you know the kids
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extra activities such as the brownies
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the
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guides on the off chance he did have a
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cup of tea with a friend that would be
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from a friends across the road the house
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or or next to her neighbor so generally
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just a very very quiet life centered
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around the four
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kids har was left to deal with the the
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DAT running of the house and the
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children and she had to see to
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everybody's needs because Harry was you
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know in and out of prison all the
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time probably about 97 98 maybe I
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remember visiting him in sockt so he was
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in jail then for whatever reason again I
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not sure what was if he was in prison
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mom had the kids and so it was left to
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to bring us
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up Harry was a petty criminal regularly
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committing low-level crimes such as
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deception minor fraud and
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shoplifting after the London buses dad
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never really had a permanent sort of
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career a permanent job to hold
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down he did try at times to hold down
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lawful
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employment and did try and become fairly
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decent
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person but it wasn't long before he
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would be enticed back in into breaking
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the law
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again anytime he was in prison or every
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time he done a disappear AC he came back
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it was just normal nothing
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changed there was never any talk about
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like sort of mom and dad splitting up
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or any changes or at all it would just
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went back to Everyday
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Life when Harry Jarvis was out of prison
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there were still times when he would go
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missing from the family home without
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warning that just did disappear you know
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right from when I was a young kid right
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up until you know the the last sort of
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days of of seeing him he would go
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anywhere from the local pub to ending up
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at his brothers down south to you know
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just no no explanation given at
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all for the family the difficulties
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occurred when Harry was out of of prison
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but would just then disappear for
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periods of time which would cause Carol
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real
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anxiety it just became the norm whereby
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it was like oh you know we used to come
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home and Dad wasn't there and then sort
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of mom would be are we bit
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upset that level of anxiety no matter
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how hard she tried to Shield her
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children from it would have been imp
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almost impossible because they would
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have picked up on mom's not okay and
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Dad's missing and that would have caused
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some level of uncertainty and
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instability within the family
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fold it was almost like Mom was fending
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for herself and looking after the four
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of us and that's when it kind of began
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to spiral out of
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control seeing their mom treated in that
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way would have had a massive impact on
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on them
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family children are supposed to be
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protected whereas they will have felt
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quite protective of their mother because
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of Harry's
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Behavior Dad could do a lot of stuff and
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they used to fight like C dog but I
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don't think anybody could ever turn and
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go my my dad's got it and him to kill
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somebody Bathgate in Scotland was the
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Jarvis's family home for 18 years
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bate used to be home where it grew up
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really so know the streets like the back
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in my
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hand basy is a very average Scottish
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town with a very close-nit
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Community most likely the locals would
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say nothing exit never happens
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here sometimes right by when in B gate
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just to drive by or just out the house
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just for a couple minutes just as a we
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sort of
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memory to M I'm still thinking about her
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and let me get on with my day and and
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life
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really he felt quite resentful that he
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had a wife and
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children he lived very much a Playboy
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lifestyle um but didn't really have the
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cash to do so so that's where you know
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he would fleece Carol and any other
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woman who had the misfortune to meet
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him Carol was aware that Harry had lots
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of other relationships outside of the
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marriage and I think she tolerated that
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because for her her Central narrative
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was to get him
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back Carol Jarvis had been battling ill
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health and soon after moving to Bathgate
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was diagnosed with fibromyalgia and
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muscle
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degeneration at that time Graham had
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just turned
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13 initially mom used to just be tired
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and fatigued and used to sort of stay in
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bed a little bit and used to sort of
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complain about having s muscles so
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that's my first memory of it being I
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feel in terms of not not being able to
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get out as bed as
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much as Carol's Health deteriorated
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further Harry Jarvis became his wife's
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carer I don't think Harry was a
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particularly caring individual would
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have relished the idea of having to care
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for Carol but actually he probably saw
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that as a bit of an excuse not to have a
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job not to have to go to work every day
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and he saw it as an opportunity for
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financial gain as well
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because he used her money that she got
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to support him with having a disability
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for his own gain going out to the PO B
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in he didn't think anything of just
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leaving Carol and the kids for weeks and
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weeks and weeks at a
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time he was somebody who liked things to
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go his way anybody who came into his
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sphere was used and manipulated by him
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Carol would take to bed particularly if
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she was having a depressive
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episode he would maybe play the
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attentive husband for a while but
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quickly got very bored of that he would
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do his usual Disappearing Acts for quite
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a long time come backwards and
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forwards cattle absolutely adored Harry
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he was able to read all his way back in
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and charm
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her looking back at it now I think to
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myself how did she manage to do that all
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you know I sort of got the the kids now
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and life's life's a struggle so and yeah
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Fair Point Fair Point M she was um one
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of our
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kind as they became adults
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Graham and his siblings each moved away
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from the family home I left when I was
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16 I went to stay with my friend through
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college and then
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uni obviously in ter time or at the
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weekends I used to go
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back so I was like sort of back and
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forth Harry Jarvis was now living alone
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in the house with his wife Carol har
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Jarvis was involved in procuring the
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medication for Carol Jarvis there were
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circumstances attached to that which
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would have indicated that he wasn't
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perhaps acting in her best
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interests there was an indication that
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the medication he was obtaining and
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applying to his wife was not designed to
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make her feel
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better but perhaps to make her feel
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worse every time I went around
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everything was Nor
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in terms of dad was there and mom was
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there there was nothing sort of f
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towards when Harry was dring Carle she
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would spend days and days in bed unable
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to speak she was very Dy she would sleep
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most of the time the children would pop
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in and out she was incapable of holding
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conversation and purely because Harry
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was drugging
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her when he used to disappear and then
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we used to try and sort of take over or
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help out the care between the siblings
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mom used to p cup and we noticed a a
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sort of difference when he wasn't there
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to when he was
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there the fact that she was up and down
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could have been put down to something
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like
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fibromyalgia rather than the direct
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correlation of her improving when Harry
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was away versus worsening when he was
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around
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conversations between me and the sister
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or
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brothers was almost like oh like you
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know why is it that you know when when
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Dad's away then like she's up and about
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and not even questioning it just sort of
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like oh wow mom's mom's actually up
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she's doing
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stuff people who use poison or drugs to
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subdue a person for their own gain or to
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ultimately murder somebody as Harry did
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they're very weak individuals it's
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something that can be done
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quietly almost with minimal force and
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effort drugging somebody makes them
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easier to look
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after I feel like you never thought or
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wait a minute here like eventually
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that's going to kill her and that's
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that's a tough one
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on September 11th 2009 Graham
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unexpectedly bumped into his dad Harry
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in Bathgate Town Center the Friday I
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seen him at the market he looked a bit
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Dazed and Confused as for a couple of
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pound
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um never thought anything of it I
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actually asked him like where's mom and
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you said she's in the house
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sleeping gram noticed a woman trailing
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behind Harry unbeknownst to him this was
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his father's latest lover I didn't link
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the two of them together but for
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whatever reason that memory still comes
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back to me like how do I how did I
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remember like a to stranger to of behind
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dad like was she that close to
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him Graham told his eldest brother Kevin
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about their dad's strange Behavior at
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the market so Kevin headed to the family
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home to check on his
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parents his mom was nowhere to be seen
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and Harry was being evasive about her
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whereabouts this was so out of the
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ordinary that Carol would disappear
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without telling her children where she
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was
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going just wanted to to find out where
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Mom was you know in terms
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of um making sure she was all right and
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yeah just something didn't add
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up the children of Harry and Carl Jarvis
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came to the house
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and Harry Jarvis seemed to do all he
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could to prevent them entering the
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house it was complete manipulation by
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Hari
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Jarvis just to keep them out of his
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way he gave us some story about he was
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moving to dund with Mom and she was up
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in
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dunde Graham decided to call the
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police the police turned up to the
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house to see if they could establish
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Carol's
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whereabout when police entered the
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property they found a woman in Carol's
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bed who was not Carol despite what she
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was
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claiming now fortunately one of the
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officers had previously met Carol so
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realized that this was not Carol Jarvis
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it would have been at that point where
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there's a strange woman in the bed Carol
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is missing this is really going to raise
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alarm balls for Polie the mystery person
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under the
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bed was a woman called Rita
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haser it become AAR that there was this
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person called
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rer we had never really experienced R
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before and there was still no sign of
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Carol Jarvis
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the police you know said to us that you
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know that Mom was an adult and there's
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nothing they could do for 24
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hours I had no idea what was
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coming the police in Bathgate had
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discovered car's remains under the uh
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floorboards Carol Jarvis had been
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reported
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missing outside the the Jarvis family
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home Rita hter had been revealed as the
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mystery woman found in the
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house there was another person in the
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house that Dad had claimed to be
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mom on the night we had no idea as who
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she would be when Graham saw the woman
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he immediately recognized her she was
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the woman he'd seen with his dad just
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before Carol's disappearance
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he was in the
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market I remember her trailing behind
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him for some bizarre reason had a
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suitcase and again I didn't link the two
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of them together but for whatever reason
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that memory still comes back to
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me Harry met rer hter in 2008 on the
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internet and uh immediately hit it off
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and of course when R told him who her
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family
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was very well known very famous very
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wealthy
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Bakers he immediately decided that she
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was going to be his next partner purely
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for uh financial gain we're talking
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millions of pounds that's the big
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attraction for
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Harry reers
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money he's a very manipulative
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individual he was a
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liar and he I think showed narcissistic
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Tendencies he cared
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about nobody else really other than
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Harry
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Jarvis Rita was an ays and a lot is made
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about the fact that she was in this
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position but financially she was
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actually in quite a dire situation she'd
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lost her house um she'd squandered her
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Fortune so it's almost like he's the
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protector in this role and Carol's the
00:24:34
enemy that needs to be removed so him
00:24:36
and R can be together and he can save
00:24:40
her you've got Harry at the center of
00:24:45
this family
00:24:46
picture with everyone else orbiting
00:24:50
around him almost like objects in his
00:24:53
game and he's moving the pieces
00:24:55
absolutely horrendous
00:24:57
[Music]
00:25:05
initially the missing person's report
00:25:07
had come in from car's children to say
00:25:11
that they hadn't seen their mom for some
00:25:15
time you're probably just thinking
00:25:17
where's mom you know as he as he left
00:25:20
her somewhere or in a hotel or or they
00:25:24
sent her to the shops and I'm not not
00:25:27
too sure but yeah yeah you don't think
00:25:29
off the the worst case
00:25:33
scenario police said that they would
00:25:35
conduct a further search to try and
00:25:38
assertain uh where Carol dvis was after
00:25:42
24 hours Carol was still missing police
00:25:46
return to the Jarvis's
00:25:49
house Harry and Rita Haster were no
00:25:52
longer
00:25:54
there they said I we'll go around to the
00:25:57
house to see if she's got a bus pass or
00:26:00
purse or bag um if they've any like
00:26:03
recent photos of her so they can log
00:26:09
it the police did discover something
00:26:12
unusual in the garden
00:26:15
shed Rita hter had been living in the
00:26:19
shed so you've got a mislim woman who
00:26:22
was very unwell you've got a missing
00:26:25
husband who has just appeared and then
00:26:30
they found someone's actually been
00:26:31
living in the shed this is a very very
00:26:34
absurd
00:26:37
situation are the conditions there dirty
00:26:41
grubby
00:26:42
basic for anyone to live in those
00:26:45
squalid conditions was a great surprise
00:26:48
to
00:26:49
me the shed in the garden was a very
00:26:52
basic 6x6 garden
00:26:55
shed there was a tiny window in
00:26:59
and R lived in the garden in the shed
00:27:01
which basically just had a single
00:27:04
mattress and a
00:27:07
blanket no toilet facilities existed
00:27:11
there were
00:27:12
improvised facilities in the form of a
00:27:16
bucket
00:27:18
and that was about
00:27:21
it the shed was right outside the
00:27:24
windows of the house it wasn't far away
00:27:26
only a matter of feet
00:27:28
and really the
00:27:31
shed was so close to the house that it
00:27:34
surprised me that that's exactly what it
00:27:39
was Harry may have been incredibly good
00:27:43
at
00:27:44
finding victims who were susceptible to
00:27:47
his
00:27:49
charms you can see that with the
00:27:52
relationship with Rita you know
00:27:54
persuading her to live in the
00:27:56
shed if you find find the right target a
00:28:00
person can be very Charmed and
00:28:03
hopeful we didn't really know anything
00:28:06
about it until the Monday night it was
00:28:08
almost like this this R
00:28:12
woman the lover that was hiding in the
00:28:17
shed
00:28:21
Biz I have no reason to believe that she
00:28:25
was there under any Jess
00:28:30
I do think she was there from the
00:28:33
evidence under the
00:28:36
manipulative aspects of Harry Jarvis's
00:28:39
character and he persuaded her to to go
00:28:41
there I'm not saying that was against
00:28:43
her will but I'm sure that this was his
00:28:48
initiative and that this is what he
00:28:50
wanted
00:28:59
Rita's residence in the shed was
00:29:01
unfortunately not the only Discovery the
00:29:03
police made at the Jarvis
00:29:08
house when the police came around they
00:29:11
said look listen you know we we found I
00:29:14
found a body in the house and um yeah we
00:29:19
knew that that would be
00:29:22
mom if you're looking for a person and
00:29:24
they find the body a good chance it's
00:29:26
not going to be some else
00:29:31
up what had been a missing person case
00:29:35
was now a homicide
00:29:38
investigation Harry was determined to do
00:29:41
what he did to get what he wanted out of
00:29:43
it which was to do away with Carol and
00:29:46
move on with
00:29:48
Rita that was all that Harry cared
00:29:52
about for Graham what he's caring about
00:29:54
is a lot bigger
00:29:58
just like just got
00:30:02
rening You' you've almost prepared for
00:30:04
yourself for two days that you know
00:30:06
something bad's happened
00:30:08
and you're kind of stopping yourself
00:30:12
from thinking the
00:30:21
wor nobody knows exactly when Carol
00:30:24
Daris died but sometime between sep
00:30:27
nember 11th and September the 15th
00:30:31
2009 the police in
00:30:33
Bathgate had discovered car's remains
00:30:37
under the uh floorboards in the
00:30:40
KN apparently the children used to play
00:30:43
in that exact
00:30:46
spot there was two basement the real one
00:30:50
in the living room is where they
00:30:53
founder we used to go down there as kids
00:30:55
and quite like hide and seek I used to
00:30:58
have a mini kid snooker table down there
00:31:01
and
00:31:01
[Music]
00:31:04
stuff hearing that from the police again
00:31:07
just makes you
00:31:09
sick was just
00:31:12
horrific just horrendous man like I was
00:31:19
sick harrie was so blinded by his
00:31:22
obsession with Rita he just wasn't
00:31:23
thinking about consequences or next
00:31:26
steps he wanted to be with Rita he saw
00:31:29
that Carol was in the way of
00:31:32
that therefore removed Carol and he's
00:31:36
free to be with
00:31:38
r that's probably about as sophisticated
00:31:41
as it
00:31:42
got Carol's husband Harry Jarvis had
00:31:46
last been seen in the house the day
00:31:48
before with Rita
00:31:51
hter police needed to find the couple
00:31:54
urgently
00:32:00
I'd got a text message from a police
00:32:02
contact who said that there had been a
00:32:06
body found in a house in
00:32:09
Bathgate it became very apparent very
00:32:13
quickly that they had a suspect close to
00:32:16
home for
00:32:18
this the police basically said to us
00:32:20
listen we trying to find a dad we don't
00:32:23
know where he
00:32:25
is just that sort of worry
00:32:29
in the back of your mind of to wait a
00:32:31
minute here like is he is he dad or is
00:32:35
he har the
00:32:37
killer I can't believe that he
00:32:41
could have been a killer or was a killer
00:32:45
and still sit here in disbelief that
00:32:49
that that
00:32:52
[Music]
00:32:54
happened Harry and Rita were on the Run
00:32:59
with Carol found dead in the basement
00:33:02
and evidence that Rita had been living
00:33:04
in the shed for some
00:33:05
time they were both now Prime suspects
00:33:08
for Carol's
00:33:11
[Music]
00:33:13
murder Harry and R spent the night in a
00:33:16
B&B and the next morning they
00:33:19
disappeared without
00:33:20
paying the owners of the B&B phoned the
00:33:23
police and gave a description of the
00:33:26
people that had uh just left without
00:33:29
paying police Tracked Down the couple
00:33:31
the day after Carol's body was
00:33:33
discovered arresting them as they got
00:33:36
off a bus in
00:33:38
Edinburgh both were charged with murder
00:33:41
they released him on Bale and they were
00:33:44
still the court process to go
00:33:46
through it was almost like you he was
00:33:49
still dead and I think the four of us
00:33:52
spoke and was like we're just going to
00:33:54
need to try and help him somehow
00:33:58
giving him like sort of a jacket or
00:34:00
money to go and and stay somewhere you
00:34:03
didn't think it was
00:34:07
possible it was almost that
00:34:10
moral compass of like mom would want us
00:34:13
to help him
00:34:16
out I can sense that kind of tension
00:34:19
that struggle between my dad and this
00:34:23
murderer and I think that tension is
00:34:26
always present for for for Graham he
00:34:29
works really hard to find a way to deal
00:34:32
with that internal conflict which at
00:34:34
times can be very difficult for
00:34:42
him as the details of the case started
00:34:45
to emerge and the horror in which Carol
00:34:48
had died and the circumstances under
00:34:50
which she had
00:34:52
died people couldn't believe it you know
00:34:54
how could this happen right under their
00:34:56
noses after police had found Carol's
00:34:59
body love letters that Harry Jarvis had
00:35:02
sent to Rita were discovered in the
00:35:06
house Harry shows that he had every
00:35:08
intention of killing Carol because of
00:35:11
the content of the letters that he sent
00:35:13
Rita that in and of itself is very
00:35:18
juvenile one said the drugs are doing
00:35:22
the job just took longer than I thought
00:35:25
but going fast now
00:35:28
another claimed Carol is dying as I
00:35:31
write then we have the house to
00:35:32
ourselves and sell all in it to move on
00:35:36
dangerous times but we will get
00:35:40
there we can see Harry's intention with
00:35:43
the letters that he was writing to
00:35:46
Rita there is definitely premeditated
00:35:49
Behavior at play here so this wasn't a
00:35:53
crime of passion this was a crime of
00:35:55
planning
00:36:01
Harry's trial began on January 31st
00:36:09
2011 he pleaded not guilty and the true
00:36:13
horrors of the crime played out in
00:36:17
court there was no established cause of
00:36:19
death but the circumstances pointed to
00:36:24
Harry having a major involvement in the
00:36:26
deterioration of her
00:36:28
health creating a set of
00:36:32
circumstances with the administration of
00:36:34
medication or maladministration of
00:36:37
medication which contributed to
00:36:40
that Harry was already drugging
00:36:43
Carol he anticipated that he would be
00:36:47
able to uh get rid of her fairly
00:36:50
quickly after Carol passed away Harry
00:36:54
wrapped her body in a Duvy and and put
00:36:58
her under um a gap in the
00:37:04
floorboard and he told the police that
00:37:06
he'd put Carol there to keep her close
00:37:08
to him and me he tried to claim that
00:37:11
Carol had died from natural
00:37:14
causes hiding her in the way that he did
00:37:17
and saying she died in natural
00:37:19
causes just shows a real lack of
00:37:24
remorse car was identified through d DNA
00:37:27
from her fingertips because there had
00:37:29
been such a decomposition of the
00:37:32
body the postmortem could not show any
00:37:36
cause of death and how Harry did
00:37:42
it har Jarvis wrote notes which were
00:37:45
producing evidence and the prosecution
00:37:48
relies on those notes they were crucial
00:37:51
to the prosecution case to show some
00:37:54
degree of evil intent on his part and
00:37:57
some intention to act to the detriment
00:38:00
of his wife's health and as the
00:38:02
prosecution argued his intention was to
00:38:05
kill
00:38:06
[Music]
00:38:12
her the jury concluded that all the
00:38:16
evidence was such that a clear inference
00:38:19
could be drawn Beyond reasonable doubt
00:38:22
that Harry was responsible for her death
00:38:29
Harry Jarvis was eventually convicted of
00:38:31
murder and sentenced to life
00:38:36
imprisonment even after the verdict
00:38:40
Harry remained silent about the
00:38:44
murder we'll never know as what happened
00:38:48
what made him do it or how he done it if
00:38:52
he stabbed her or shot her then that's
00:38:55
like clean cut but it was never Cas of
00:38:59
it was clean cut as to what had
00:39:04
happened Graham as an adult has to come
00:39:08
to terms with his father murdered his
00:39:11
mother and buried her body in the house
00:39:15
that his father had a mistress living in
00:39:20
the shed and had planned to get rid of
00:39:23
Carol and run off with
00:39:26
Rita that his father was basically a
00:39:29
criminal hidden in plain sight and this
00:39:33
is the person you call
00:39:36
Dad this would be mindblowing for Graham
00:39:40
to wrap his head around all these
00:39:43
multiple narratives about this one man
00:39:46
this is my dad I loved him as a child
00:39:49
and these are the things that he did as
00:39:53
a result of his
00:39:54
behavior Peter hter instructed
00:39:57
a member of my firm who constructed me
00:40:01
as solicor Advocate to defend her for
00:40:03
the charge of
00:40:04
murder 5 months later on June 15th Rita
00:40:09
Haster stood trial at Edinburgh High
00:40:11
Court charged with murder and attempting
00:40:14
to defeat the ends of
00:40:17
Justice DNA identified as being that of
00:40:21
Rita hter was found at the edge of the
00:40:24
trap door leading down to the sell area
00:40:28
below the living room where the body of
00:40:30
Carl Jarvis had found that doesn't
00:40:33
necessarily mean that R hter was there
00:40:36
but it did link her physically to the
00:40:39
premises and to the vicinity where the
00:40:42
body was
00:40:44
found by the finding of a DNA in the
00:40:47
house together with all the other
00:40:49
circumstances led the jury to convict
00:40:52
her of the charge of attempting to
00:40:53
defeat the ends of
00:40:55
justice and she was sentenced to 4 and
00:40:58
1/2 years imprisonment for that but of
00:41:01
course the murder charge did not apply
00:41:04
to
00:41:06
her in
00:41:09
2017 6 years into his life sentence
00:41:13
67-year-old Harry Jarvis died in prison
00:41:16
of heart
00:41:20
failure Graeme and his siblings would
00:41:23
have felt this huge loss with their
00:41:25
mother but also with their
00:41:28
father so there will be lots of complex
00:41:31
feelings here and and trying to figure
00:41:34
out that relationship and where it
00:41:36
stands after that point Harry dying in
00:41:39
prison might not have brought closure to
00:41:40
his family because he didn't serve much
00:41:43
of his
00:41:44
[Music]
00:41:50
[Music]
00:41:53
sentence because you've lost both of
00:41:56
them you're not really angry you're more
00:41:58
sad at the
00:41:59
overall
00:42:02
situation all did get on top of me and
00:42:04
then I done some mental health therapy
00:42:08
stuff C CBT and that
00:42:11
um which which which
00:42:17
helped still have you know I still have
00:42:21
the old Nightmare and that about the the
00:42:24
basement in the floor and
00:42:27
don't no better we get rid of it at
00:42:32
[Music]
00:42:35
all life goes on eh
00:42:44
[Music]
00:42:58
[Music]
00:43:12
[Music]

Badges

This episode stands out for the following:

  • 85
    Most shocking
  • 80
    Most heartbreaking
  • 80
    Most surprising
  • 75
    Most dramatic

Episode Highlights

  • Harry Jarvis's Manipulative Nature
    Harry's behavior raised suspicions about his involvement in Carol's disappearance.
    “He was very Brazen about the whole thing.”
    @ 00m 38s
    December 20, 2024
  • The Disappearance of Carol Jarvis
    Carol Jarvis was reported missing, leading to a shocking discovery.
    “A body had been found in a house in Bathgate.”
    @ 01m 31s
    December 20, 2024
  • The Shed in the Garden
    Rita Haster was discovered living in a shed, revealing a bizarre situation.
    “The shed was right outside the windows of the house.”
    @ 27m 24s
    December 20, 2024
  • The Discovery of Carol's Body
    Police find Carol's remains, turning a missing person case into a homicide investigation.
    “A good chance it’s not going to be someone else.”
    @ 29m 24s
    December 20, 2024
  • Harry's Obsession
    Harry's fixation on Rita leads him to remove Carol from the picture.
    “He just wasn’t thinking about consequences or next steps.”
    @ 31m 22s
    December 20, 2024
  • Trial and Conviction
    Harry Jarvis is convicted of murder and sentenced to life imprisonment.
    “The jury concluded that all the evidence pointed to Harry's responsibility for her death.”
    @ 38m 12s
    December 20, 2024
  • Rita's Sentencing
    Rita is convicted of attempting to defeat justice and sentenced to 4.5 years.
    “She was sentenced to 4 and 1/2 years imprisonment for that.”
    @ 40m 58s
    December 20, 2024
  • Harry's Death in Prison
    Harry dies of heart failure in prison, leaving complex feelings for his family.
    “You’re not really angry, you’re more sad at the overall situation.”
    @ 41m 56s
    December 20, 2024

Episode Quotes

  • He was very Brazen about the whole thing.
    Harry Jarvis | I’m Related To A Killer
  • It was like, oh, you know, Dad wasn't there.
    Harry Jarvis | I’m Related To A Killer
  • They’re very weak individuals.
    Harry Jarvis | I’m Related To A Killer
  • It was a very absurd situation.
    Harry Jarvis | I’m Related To A Killer
  • It was almost like you he was still dead.
    Harry Jarvis | I’m Related To A Killer
  • This would be mindblowing for Graham to wrap his head around.
    Harry Jarvis | I’m Related To A Killer

Key Moments

  • Harry's Deception00:49
  • Family Turmoil11:20
  • Bizarre Discovery21:15
  • Rita in the Shed26:15
  • Harry's Manipulation28:36
  • Family Disbelief34:54
  • Life Sentence38:31
  • Closure Eludes Family41:44

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