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I Said I'd NEVER Homeschool My Kids! | EXHS #12

October 16, 2024 / 01:01:33

This episode features a conversation with Morgan about their experiences growing up in the homeschool community, their childhood memories, and their current lives as parents. Key topics include homeschooling, youth group experiences, and the transition to adulthood.

Morgan shares her journey through various educational settings, including private school, public school, and homeschooling. She discusses her rebellious teenage years and the unique challenges of being a homeschooler.

The discussion touches on memorable pranks from youth group, including a humorous anecdote about a prank involving a youth leader's truck. Morgan reflects on the importance of friendships formed during this time.

As a parent, Morgan talks about her approach to homeschooling her children, emphasizing the importance of fostering a fun and relaxed environment. She shares her thoughts on the pressures of traditional education and her desire to focus on practical life skills.

The episode concludes with Morgan expressing gratitude for her upbringing and the influence of her parents, as well as her excitement for creating similar experiences for her own children.

TLDR

Morgan discusses her homeschooling journey, youth group memories, and parenting experiences in this episode.

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well hello hello hello we are back for another episode Another Day Another ex homeschoolers club and uh today I'm
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joined by my friend Morgan uh I've known Morgan for it feels like a long time um but uh
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I don't know how long actually to be honest with you so thank you for for joining me it's funny because this show
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has definitely brought a lot of people out of the woodwork who I would have never I don't want to say I would have
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never reached out to them I always viewed you as too cool for school too cool for the homes School community and
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so there's a lot of people in my life who I'm just like I'm like they were too
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cool for The Homeschool Group they would never listen to this they would never you know whatever and uh anyway that fun
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but it has brought us back together um to some degree so thank once again for being here and thank you again for
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joining me yes I know I have really enjoyed watching all the videos I think because I've known so many people since
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we were so young um and so when I first saw the account pop up I was like no way
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click it's true you have got to be kidding me so I don't know if you remember but Hannah amiko she was my
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best friend in high school her and I are still really close she lives in Australia now her husband's from there
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and they have a bunch of kids um but I messaged her and was like look at this everyone's back on here and so she's
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been wa she watched it too and I don't know it was just funny it just brought
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brought back a bunch of memories from stuff that's awesome yeah I love the I love the amicos I knew them mostly
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because of church so and that's how I feel like I I mostly knew you I feel like because of church um but we also
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did go to group Solutions together y we did and I was a part of acheve for a little bit too I was just very my
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parents would have to like make me go and make me do the school work like I couldn't even tell you what class I took
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at a chief I have no idea what I took so give me a little rundown of like your homeschool experience like were you
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homeschooled all the way through you know college what what it look like from preschool to gosh okay do you remember
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the school vccs in Ventura Ventura County Christian a little private home or private school um it was really tiny
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like in my my class it was like we had grades that were together like second and third were always together fourth
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and fifth were always together um I went to that school from uh gosh maybe like first or second until till fifth grade I
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think um and then before that we had done like some home school some online like K12 type
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stuff um junior high or when my parents pulled me out of the the private school I went to public school in
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Oxnard that was very eye opening um my parents pulled me about halfway through the school year because it was just
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really really intense so I did public I did private school public school uh online school and then for junior high I
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was strictly at home um doing home school and so that's probably when you and I would have met was more during
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that time yeah um especially because we started doing group Solutions um I think
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I think when I was in junior high um so and I did seventh SE no I'm sorry I did Sixth and eighth grade I was
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only in junior high for two years because seventh grade was like that weird review year and my parents let me
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text out of it I was um a really big Troublemaker during my junior high and for most of my high school years so my
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parents really just did not want to put me in um school because I was just gonna
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make really worse decisions so um yeah worse than I would have even made as a homeschooler um so
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for junior high and high school I did home school but I did like co-ops and I would do online school um I did uh like
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a lot of block work I was always like at least a week ahead in school so if something cool came up I could leave and
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go do whatever yeah more than more than anything probably what you saw with my like too school for too cool for school
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whatever it was not that it was insecurity and it was me trying to figure out what the heck what the heck
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am I doing who am I I think that was kind of all of us though I mean you know the high school the teenage years in
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general Junior High High School are just like already just super awkward it doesn't matter home school public school
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whatever but yeah you're just like I don't know you're figuring yourself out
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and like I think there's a lot of false confidence sometimes like totally with
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with people and yeah I don't know it's it definitely I don't know there's just
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it there's a there's a weirdness to it and I think being a homeschool kid also
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like like you said you came from doing private school public school too so think that also when you come into it
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kind of at a later stage and there's so many people who already have known each
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other for forever it can sometimes be hard because you're to some degree you're like the odd man out well and my
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parents were were very different we they were I mean we grew up traditional in the sense that like I don't know my mom
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stayed home for the most part and like in those types of ways but like my mom and dad were um they were strict when
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they needed to be strict and weren't strict when they felt like they didn't
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need to be strict whereas my like perception of a lot of The Homeschool parents and I think this is why I would
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get in trouble a lot by like teachers at and teachers parents at group Solutions
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and other things was that I just wasn't used to having things be so strict and
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so on a leash like when my when I was 16 I asked my parents if I could go to Uganda on a mission strip and they were
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like sure go ahead no big deal and then when I came home there was something that happened there that me meant a lot
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to me and I really wanted to get it tattooed so they took me when I was 16 to get this tattoo in a garage in ohh
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high like there weren't there weren't a lot of like homeschool parents that were
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letting their kids at 16 get tattoos and I remember when that when I got it it caused like an uproar at group Solutions
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like it was a problem so I think there were I always felt kind of like judged but in my judgment from the
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homeschoolers like traditional homeschoolers it was like this Rebellion like like I don't know if I even like
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you guys anyway so it was like a weird mix for me of trying to figure out what my what I I just didn't know where I fit
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so yeah no I feel that because yeah I mean a lot of us were super rule follower like uh yeah my my parents the
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rule was no tattoos until like as soon as you get a tattoo it's your indication
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that you can afford life on your own so it was like which is so dumb um and uh I
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I mean I get like no tattoos in high school that makes sense to me but yeah I was like in college I don't know I I had
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friends who wanted to get me a tattoo for my birthday and I was like I was like guys we can't do this and they're
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like dude you just get it like on your butt or something it's like not a big
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deal and I'm so glad I didn't because uh I ended up having some health issues and
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like and my parents had to see my butt at some point after I was an adult and like that was yeah it would it just
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would have been a whole thing it wouldn't have HD itself as well as you would have hoped it would have so
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exactly that's that's they would picked you up the insurance immediately exactly
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exactly so um yeah so it was like definitely a sign of that but I think there was just so many homeschool kids
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where yeah there was just like these rules that were just I don't know and and sometimes they
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weren't even necessarily the parents inflicting the rules but it was just as
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a as a social group there was just so much expectation of like well this is how kids act and this is what we do and
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like all that kind of thing because I mean like to your point you got a tattoo and yeah it was like whoa she's really
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young to have a tattoo that's really surprising you know and kind of thing and it's like first time I smoked a
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cigar and like people found out about it it was like oh he's smoking now it's
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like that's I don't know 17 years old you know it's like I was oh it was not a big deal you know I
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didn't hear about it if I would have heard about it i' been like Jacob let's
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go so we all had our little rebellious things um totally but yeah well that's
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it's it's interesting to hear like you said that it's just like feeling kind of
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like that Outsider was interesting and I feel like the I I knew you more through
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church and youth group and that definitely felt like in comparison and I've been trying to think back of like
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you know interactions we've had and things like that and um and I'm like at
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group Solutions I feel like you were like a fish out of water and then you put us in like the youth group setting
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and you were much more like you had public school friends and you were like one of the cool kids and things like
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that where like I felt more out of my element in that place but it I don't know it was just more obvious that you
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were more comfortable in that situation does that seem relatively true yeah for sure especially because I'm a huge
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extrovert I needed to be around a ton of people and I think that was a lot of times what my um yeah because at group
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at group solution I really only had one friend Michael sandal was my my closest friend and he was really the only friend
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I had the whole time when I was there that's the only person I'd hang out with
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um because his parents were also just super chill and relaxed yep I could wear twopiece at their house it wasn't weird
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yeah um and and um yeah so at youth group it was a better mix of kids for me because it was just kind of like okay I
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I don't feel so like it's um so honed in on like what is your type of school that you do it's
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more about your relationship with L so right yeah I was definitely and Hannah and I we were the queens of all the
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pranks going on so that was another reason why I was very comfortable was because there was always a plan at hand
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that we were executing so it we had to be there so the plan would take form so okay give me give me an example of that
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because I'm trying to remember pranks now oh gosh um let's see okay do you remember Drake
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Drake the youth leader Drake big really tall super BFF guy yeah he was kind of behind the scenes like for somebody of
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that stature he was very behind the scenes scenes mhm uh and he drove this really tiny little white truck like I
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don't know how he fit inside of it uh like it's like okay you know on Despicable Me how Gru gets out of this
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tiny little car that's like what it always reminded us of well um he he had gotten a girlfriend or something and
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both Hannah and I thought that that was like the funniest thing ever I have no idea why we in high school like I have
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no clue so we decided uh we knew that he was going to be taking her like on a date or something like that after you
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group one night so during youth GP We snuck out to the parking lot got in his car and we had
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found like a big thing of powder and maybe like in the nursery or something and what we ended up doing was we put
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powder all under the hood of the truck and then all in the air conditioning vents in his car so that when they went
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to go on their date they just like became these ghosts right well when we had turned the the AC on to so that it
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was like inevitable they had to that was one another one was uh back in the day he was kind of like
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an OG uh youth leader from I think harp but do you remember Danny Jack yeah okay
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so Danny Jack was supposed to be taking a group of kids on I think they were going on a mission trip to like Mexico
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or something so Hannah and I we went fishing the night before and we got we caught a fish couple of fishes and we
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put it in the roof of the van so that the whole car I D they had to smell dead fish the whole time wow so that was
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another one we ended up Hannah and I went we we went a little too far with some of our pranks another one was a kid
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that we had met at youth grip I'm not going to give you his name because who
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knows if the cops are still looking for us we went and completely vandalized the
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front of their house one time with like oatmeal and like powder toilet paper anyways we didn't know that that day his
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mother had gone under surgery and was on really really heavy medication and she saw us through the
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window doing it well she came out butt naked and chase us around the neighborhood like I'm talking butt
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naked and uh so we got to watch her Chase's butt naked and the cops ended up
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like coming because the kid had called the cops on us I ended up falling while being chased by this naked woman and
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breaking my wrist so much so that the bone was like sticking out of my wrist and it was a disaster an absolute
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disaster so that was our final that was one of our final ones but yeah we were always we were always doing something oh
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my did I get a lot out of youth group spiritually maybe not but prank wise I got a lot of ideas so yeah no youth
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group wasn't great it was an incubator for friends which was to amazing and and
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the camps were like topnotch so fun yeah I always had so much fun I think we had
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one of the better youth group experience Es as just far as like I don't know the
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stuff that we were able to do was crazy we yeah um well like the guys we got in trouble because is this the oiled pigs
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yeah um I was just thinking about this because I just went to the fair and so we bought pigs and we yeah we we did
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like a pig wrestle thing and Peta please don't come for me like we loved those
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pigs we built a big mud pit in a backyard um we and we basically just played with them there was no tackling
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there was no no one killed any of them but didn't it end up in the news so yeah
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so you you say nobody killed them that's actually not true um but but basically
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the premise of the night was like we had these pigs we did a pig wrestle and then
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we had uh someone come in who was a trained kill Hunter and they taught us how to properly like how to properly gut
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a pig basically and then we roasted it and ate it for dinner so like there is a ending to it however it wasn't like we
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were out here torturing pigs like we we played with them we had fun with them people it was professionally done
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professional and yeah woke up the next day to like being on the front page of Santa Barbara times or something like
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that and then Peta was basically calling for all of us to be arrested and put in
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jail for torturing pigs and stuff and uh yeah it was not it was not a good time it was not fun um to
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I remember seeing it in the news and it was like Caleb Amo and and Kaden golden were on in the picture where you could
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like see them I didn't realize that you guys had actually like been killed the
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yeah yeah no and that was yeah and it was not meant to be a very like public event sound brutal yeah
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no I mean Mr Golden is the one who came in and taught us like here's how you do
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it here's the proper procedure and all that stuff it was really inter yeah and
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he's like a legit like he knows how to do all that stuff so he is a hunter yeah
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he he knows what he's doing and so yeah that was an interesting experience to
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say the least and so anytime anything happened with animals after that there was always the joke that Peta was going
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to come after us because um yeah like a bird would get trapped in a room and we'd have to get it out you know
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something like that it' just always be like peta's gonna come for us but if you
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did that here like somewhere out here in the South they'd be like no big deal
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absolutely yeah you and I now live you live in Kentucky I live in Tennessee and yeah it I just went to the fair and
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literally watched they had a pig wrestle and it was like kids and it was like how
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fast can you grab the pig and hold on to it and I'm like that was much more I don't want to say harmful but
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yeah it was much more harmful of those animals than like what we did and so it's just interesting and yeah we ended
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up making it on I want to say we made it on Fox News at one point and yeah the guy was like um yeah the guy was just
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like it's you know we did that as kids like it's not a big deal kind of a thing
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so yeah is so funny that is see those are some good times those are stories that you can't
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make up that yeah exactly it's yeah it's one of those stories that it's it's good
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to pull out at a party when you're meeting new people like oh yeah you want to hear about the one time Peta tried to
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put me in jail like you know who's got a story like that right you're like I may
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have been homeschooled but I lived a freaking good life exactly exactly and I ate good too um yeah
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toally but anyway bringing it back a little bit to The Homeschool world so yeah so after high school so you were
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homeschooled all the way through high school um I do have a high school diploma as well so just for everyone
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knows that's is something people ask me so do you actually have a diploma of
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course I do are you kidding me I do too I do too yeah it's an official piece of
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paper um but uh how was it like transitioning After High School like what did you did you go to college you
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did why wh at one point like what did what did the transition look like after high
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school um so okay so after high school so I graduated when I was 17 I graduated in
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200 2014 um yeah 2014 um K and I we always my husband and I always go back and forth because he
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graduated 2015 but he's technically he's older than me by three months and so I
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always tell him like nah you just weren't as smart as me um but yeah so 2014 so and then I went to Y I graduate
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I went to Y 2015 September 2015 and then in that Gap I traveled I traveled to Europe by myself and met with a friend
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in um Austria we kind of backpacked around a couple of countries for I don't
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know gosh maybe like three or four weeks um that was a blast oh my gosh uh and then really the main thing I
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did was I worked I worked three jobs um I had worked at lure uh the restaurant in Ventura from the time I
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was 15 like once I could get a work permit I had friends that already worked there and pretty much had just a job
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instantly which was really cool um so I worked at lure from uh in in that period
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of time as well and then I was so I was working at Starbucks in the mornings I was opening at 3:30 I would get off at
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12 I would go pick up these girls that I was tutoring in the afternoons I'd tutor them for like two
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hours hour and then I'd go to work at lure and I do the clothing shift at lure
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wow um so I was working a ton honestly I was just really bored um I had a boyfriend at the time that broke up with
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me that crushed my heart uh so you know I just threw myself into work it's like
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so stupid um but uh yeah so that was kind of what I did and then crazy enough I was working at Starbucks one day this
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group of guys came in and I was like who are these people they are dirty and gross looking totally judging them and
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then turns out I had been kind of like throwing around the idea of ywam but it like wasn't totally sold yet and
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whatever well it turns out these gross dirty dudes were W whammers from the Los Angeles base um and the biggest thing at
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that base was it was a base for skaters basically I'm not a skater by any means
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but that um group they just encouraged me like hey if you're interested in it
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you might as well look into it like what do you have to lose and it was kind of like you know what you're right what do
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I have to lose so that night I actually invited all of them over without my parents knowing to come over and I made
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everyone tacos and we had a big old taco dinner right and um so it was just kind of like
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this like crazy God coincidence that happened um I still know all of them which is really
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cool um and ultimately when I went that was in the beginning of of the year in 2015 my school started at ym in
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September of 2015 and that's where I met my husband was in my DTS my first school for those
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people who are not super familiar with ym right it's youth with a mission youth
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with a mission yep and it's basically okay so how the school's broken up is
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you have um three months of a lecture phase so I lived three months um at the base uh at the Lo Los Angeles base on y
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base and um you just basically basally go through like intensive Bible classes making sure that you
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know what it is you're talking about a lot of people come in with a lot of trauma and things that they need to work
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through um so they make sure that we touch on those things and whatever no one's perfect we're all coming in with
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crap let's be honest um and then after that they pray about like a place for
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everyone to go to sometimes schools will split it up so like half of the school will go somewhere another half of the
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school will go somewhere else our entire school was a total of 16 of us and we all ended up going to the same place so
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when I tell you this you're going to be like wow that sounds luxurious it was
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not luxurious it was horrible during some parts um but we ended up going for the three Monon Outreach to um St
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Vincent in the Grenadine Islands so it's like you have Barbados up here and then
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it's the archipelago of islands just underneath Barbados so absolutely gorgeous stunning I think I only got to
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go to the water three times like I'm still bitter about that it's the most
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beautiful ocean in the whole world and I touched it like three times um but yeah
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so we just did we did our Outreach there oh and but then sorry I forgot this it's
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important the beginning of my Outreach actually started in La we lived two weeks in a tent on Skid Row that's
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pretty crazy yeah yeah so that was pretty gnarly um so yeah so my husband was just another one of the students in
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school you are not allowed to date you are not allowed to like each other you are not allowed to share intentions so
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um yeah obvious we waited until afterwards too yeah that was that's something i' yeah I've really because
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I've had a number of friends now do ywam stuff and some of them come out in relationships or really quickly after
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come out in relationships a few of them have resulted in some marriages um a lot
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of them have resulted in div very bad breakups um yeah uh and I I think it's
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interesting because like to me it's like very much uh I don't want to say it obviously you
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found your partner and that's like you're G you're not gonna offend me go
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ahead like I think I've seen it all myself yeah you're putting kids you putting young adults in a situation
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where they are also kind of isolated in a lot of ways where it's like they're
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just with each other and you kind of get that you get that like Cabin Fever kind
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of a thing and so I'm never surprised when people come out and they're like oh
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I'm like so in love with this person and then six months later they're like out
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in the real world again and they're like do I actually even like this person or
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is this person even the person that I think I know them as um and so that's I
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don't know it's just always really interesting because I've just seen
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people go in come out and within months they're like engaged married like doing
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the thing totally um you guys dated for quite a while I feel like after yam no no nope we're I'm just gonna tell you
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where everything you just said um no but I have seen every single situation that
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you have said I have seen every single one and also 10 other variations we you talk about off screen but
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um we okay so we met met September 2015 our school ended March 2016 we started dating and
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we did a secondary school as well at y la so we dated um in that second school and the uh second school was all
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on um Ministry uh it's called somd Ministry School of leadership and Ministry development um because we knew
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we always knew we wanted to be business owners of some kind so it was really cool to be able to like incorporate both
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of those things anyways long story but um we dated through that school that school
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ended March April May June end of June and then I moved here to Kentucky so I was like you are not getting away
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from me um and we dated in Kentucky uh got engaged January 2017 married June 2017
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and we moved back to California um a week before our wedding so it was it was quick yeah yeah so a year and a half
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from the time that we met till we were married okay so I take it all back back all of it and then but we
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waited a while before we had well yeah a while for we waited like almost four years before we had our first baby so
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well and I think it comes down to also like your intentions of like continuing to get to know somebody and you know I'm
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I'm married as well like you guys got married about a year before me uh it sounds like and yeah it's like but you
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continue to grow you evolve as people right and so it's it's all about the
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intention of like you know is this my person am I going to you know just walk with them through some of this
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stuff you know it's like people go through changes and that's okay totally
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you know I wake up next to a person that I'm I'm not the same person I was five
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years ago or almost six years ago at this point that you know got married so it you know it's yep I get it and I got
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married at 22 you know we got married super young uh relative to a lot of people and you know and I think that's
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also a big thing that sometimes people push back on to is just like oh how do you know and it's like how do you know
00:26:29
yeah how do you know how do you not know yeah I mean sometimes really that is it
00:26:33
it's like how do you not know yeah for him and I we are because our Outreach
00:26:37
was pretty like um I don't know there was some really we experienced some really weird stuff on our
00:26:43
Outreach um both him and I were the two extroverted so we were paired to do most
00:26:49
things together because we were like the ones that are constantly being volunteered to go preach at this church
00:26:54
or to go sing here I I don't sing or to do do this or to lead this or to stand
00:27:00
on a truck with a microphone and go yelling down the island so it it's like we we're kind of like destined to be
00:27:07
best friends because we just kind of had to be but then within that because we had to do so many hard things it was
00:27:13
like oh we like we're got a really good team okay okay so and Ken had a girlfriend at the time so that also kind
00:27:20
of held me off quite a bit because I didn't want to ever like do anything to
00:27:24
disrespect her right yeah um but uh then when he went home after the DTs was done
00:27:30
the first school was done he broke up with her and then called me like a week later was like I can't do this without
00:27:35
you and I was like oh thank God because I can't do this without you so so and
00:27:41
that's kind of how we operate in our marriage too we are best friends first always I mean we even parent like best
00:27:49
friends that are parenting their children I don't know that might on weird um but at the end of the day it's
00:27:54
like yeah I'm married to Ken but Callen is my best friend like he's who I want
00:27:59
to tell everything too so yeah um so one of the things too that you and I had kind of we chattered a little bit about
00:28:06
this previous to recording was like you had this idea of like I'm never going to
00:28:12
get married I'm never going to have kids and lo behold that is uh not your reality um not the case at all so like
00:28:19
what was that kind of shift for you I I understand the the getting married one a
00:28:24
little bit easier because sometimes it just takes that right person to click in you but the kids I think is a is a a
00:28:29
whole another layer to that so yeah share a little bit about that and like what did that look like and how did that
00:28:35
change kind of come to be and um I think because I have such a large personality
00:28:39
I'm very vocal about everything I I don't keep secrets about myself I think
00:28:44
I always felt like with especially the getting married part that it would just be really hard to find someone who could
00:28:50
put up with that um and Ken's really good at it because he's super patient
00:28:55
and he not only puts up with it but he puts me in my place very graciously so for him it was literally
00:29:02
the night before I met him I prayed to the Lord before I went to please do not bring me anyone because I don't want
00:29:08
this to be the case like I don't want to look like the ym couple well well just
00:29:12
kidding it's exactly what happened so um I had always told my parents like I am
00:29:17
not getting married I am not going to college and I'm G to be covered in tattoos and the only thing I stuck to
00:29:23
with that was being covered in tattoos so um yeah the kids the kids thing really I don't know I think I'm sure you
00:29:33
experienced this too it's like especially with marriage I think you just start to soften
00:29:38
towards people when you've been married to someone you say like okay like I I am called to love you and I'm called
00:29:47
to wake up each day and to choose you and it's I mean your spouse is so cute
00:29:52
that you're like God I wonder what we look like mixed together and like as a
00:29:55
woman I like started having those thoughts to or was like like hm I wonder like what this would look like so it's
00:30:01
not that it was just like some spiritual thing that happened that's not really
00:30:05
what it was honestly was more like uh curiosity at first and then when we really started talking about it then I
00:30:13
was scared I was terrified it's like okay maybe we could have like one maybe
00:30:19
maybe we could have one um and yeah I don't know over time I think the Lord just really started working on my heart
00:30:26
of like okay so am I scared and really the the matter behind it was that I was just terrified I didn't want to have to
00:30:33
raise someone I didn't want to have that responsibility of making choices for
00:30:38
them before and after they were born like that's a lot to think about it's a
00:30:42
lot of things to have to do so um and I also think there's this stigma that like
00:30:48
when you start trying to have a baby that for everyone it's going to take a long time to get
00:30:55
pregnant and that was not my that has not been my experience like mine's almost the opposite where it's like it's
00:31:01
a blessing but it almost feels like uh I'm probably going to get a lot of hate
00:31:05
for this but it also feels kind of like a curse sometimes because it happens too
00:31:09
quick and too easy that it's like okay we're uh we have a three- yearold that's
00:31:14
our oldest and we're on our fourth kid like that's a little ridiculous um so I
00:31:19
was just thinking like when we started at first talking about and thinking about having kids it was going to take
00:31:23
like two years no I was pregnant in three weeks like it was shocking and my first pregnancy was identical twins so
00:31:31
add that on to that so it was just it was just yeah shocking and it every single pregnancy that I find out I'm
00:31:39
pregnant I'm like my gosh how did this happen well we know how it happens but
00:31:44
yeah um but yeah so it's just I don't think the shock Factor goes away but um
00:31:51
yeah and you're I think especially with the kids my heart has just changed so
00:31:56
much um just in being a parent and now realizing that like even how I view God is different based on being a parent
00:32:04
like I understand so many things now that were talked about in the Bible because it's like oh okay I get this
00:32:10
from like a parent perspective now of like why X YZ or why someone would have Grace on this or blah blah blah it's
00:32:17
just I don't know it's just a weird transition that happens so yeah that's interesting because I I think
00:32:25
that like man and I don't want to have kids and we never say never however yeah
00:32:30
it's pretty positive yeah we don't want to and and that's okay too yeah and
00:32:34
that's fine and um but yeah I think it's I I just I always tell myself I'm a
00:32:40
little bit more I feel just more like the cool Uncle person that I'm gonna have those people in my life um instead
00:32:47
you'll be a cool uncle and uh yeah exactly and so but yeah I think it's that is an
00:32:56
interesting thing to think think about of just like how it changes when you have a kid
00:33:03
um you know and just the way yeah exactly I mean that's what you hear right is everything changes and it's
00:33:09
like it's a very um and you won't understand it until you do it right um
00:33:15
true because there's nothing to compare it to like right literally nothing to I
00:33:20
I couldn't prep you enough if you guys decided if you come to me I'm G to be
00:33:24
like okay well I can give you some Spark Notes but it's still not going to be
00:33:29
it's different for everybody and um what's interesting too is you have also
00:33:35
yeah you baby number four is on the way and you have decided to homeschool at least one of your kids right if not all
00:33:42
of them uh probably probably all of them probably all of them okay yeah and so so
00:33:48
that has just started um because we're recording this we were supposed to record a week ago and uh life just kind
00:33:55
of kicked you in the butt um so you are what a week into homeschooling your kid now I am a week into
00:34:03
homeschooling um okay so my oldest okay so so everybody knows I have a three-year-old she's gonna be four in
00:34:09
December I also have a 2-year-old she's gonna be three in March and I have a
00:34:14
10-month-old he's going to be one in October and then I'm due with the fourth
00:34:18
and it's a boy we haven't announced it but I'll tell you guys it's a boy which
00:34:23
is awesome so it's like two and two how could we like so perfect um he is due in
00:34:30
I think like March end of March sometime so that's a lot of I mean that's a lot
00:34:35
of kids back toback it's like if we were going to put them in private school or
00:34:39
something like that that's so much money like affording private school these days
00:34:42
is like affording college and I don't want to pay for their college yeah it's
00:34:46
ridiculous so um okay so Haven is going to something kind of similar to I don't know it might be the same
00:34:54
idea as like um El Camino do you remember El Camino I do remember El Camino so it's a little bit of a mix of
00:35:01
both right at home in school at home in school um so she has a teacher that she reports
00:35:08
to uh to like turn in all of her stuff she goes there for Chapel for History Science art
00:35:17
um some like life skills stuff um so that's what her preschool so she's there
00:35:22
from two days a week Tuesday and Thursday and then I'm then the one teaching her at home Monday Wednesday
00:35:30
Friday um and that's so that's really cool uh and the place she goes to is
00:35:34
like a little Christian Academy it's through the church that my husband and uh his family used to go to when they
00:35:38
were little um so that's helpful it's not it's not as overwhelming for my
00:35:43
brain I'm very disorganized I do not do great with like a plan or a schedule
00:35:48
most of the time so I think having someone for her because she is just very TI Bay um to kind of give her the
00:35:57
overvie and to have her come home and give me the like okay this is what we're doing
00:36:02
is a better fit for especially my personality in the season of life where we still have a bunch of little kids at
00:36:10
home and more just coming along so yeah um and she's very social as well so it's
00:36:16
good it gives her the ability to go take orders from somebody else for a little bit make a bunch of friends and then
00:36:22
come home and then we can do the harder stuff at home so yeah so what is teaching at home then look like right so
00:36:30
obviously you've kind of agreed to this is the curriculum that they're using and
00:36:35
so like yeah what is what does it look like how does it differ from like I mean I only I only ask that because like my
00:36:42
mom we would buy curriculum but it was she kind of put together like okay we're
00:36:46
going to do this math and we're going to do this science we're going to do that
00:36:49
which is very it's a little bit different than having someone kind of set out this like here's here's what
00:36:55
we're doing and you're going to help us on Monday Wednesday Fridays so at home
00:37:00
um we're doing math stuff uh math think it what was the other thing literature and I mean with a preschooler
00:37:09
um she's she's very very smart she really is she'll be smarter than me by
00:37:13
like second grade probably um we we're just doing small things right so I think with preschool we'll be
00:37:19
learning uh obviously how to count to higher than I think maybe 50 or something she's really interested in
00:37:26
learning about money she really wants be able to go and she's trying to figure
00:37:30
out what coin coins to use she wants to learn how to tell time um so I think it's just like normal kid things that
00:37:36
they're catching on to like oh Mom and Dad do this this is like a good life skill on top of us also being able to
00:37:43
apply it to um like uh subjects my goal with school this was something about this is something about school that I
00:37:51
very strongly dislike I really think a lot of school is a waste of time I think having to learn algebra I think having
00:37:57
to learn trigonometry these are all things that I had to do um I've never used any of that in my everyday life
00:38:04
some people might I'm not saying that we're not not going to teach those
00:38:07
things to our kids to an extent but I did um consumer consumer math whenever I was a senior in high school and I
00:38:14
honestly wish I would have done it all my years because it has served me so well to be able to know how to do my
00:38:20
taxes to write a check to pay bills to um do bookkeeping my husband's also in
00:38:25
finance too so for him those things that he did because he was also homeschooled
00:38:29
they have served him greatly and he doesn't even have a degree in finance and he's like doing incredible at the
00:38:35
bank so it's just things that like I really want to hone in on focusing on skills and things that can apply to
00:38:45
everything rather than just like one specific thing like oh you may become an engineer but probably not like unless
00:38:54
that she just like shows interest in it I wish somebody would have been like okay these are um certain things that
00:39:01
you could use in photography because now being a wedding photographer there are things that like I wish I knew how to do
00:39:06
better and uh how to keep clients and how to stuff like that but obviously we're not going to know what we're going
00:39:12
to do when we're older but still it's it's um things that I used um and a lot of un a lot of used
00:39:22
space that was wasted on other things hopefully that makes sense no that no that does because I mean you're
00:39:26
basically saying like you you want to play into your kid's passion there's obviously things that
00:39:32
any kid needs to know how to do right every kid needs to know how to read and write and they need to know how to do
00:39:36
two plus two equals four you know um and I yeah I trust me I get it um because yeah there's plenty of stuff that I'm
00:39:43
like h i bothered to learn this and I'm never going to use it um totally but you
00:39:47
sometimes you never know sometimes things do pop out but it's like whoa um but I did I also had parents who they
00:39:53
encouraged me to to you know hone in on the things that I like I liked music you
00:39:58
know I served on the worship team I I worked in a music studio I had like a billion in one guitars like I just like
00:40:07
that kind of stuff they really were like yeah encouraging me to to pursue those things because I was very passionate
00:40:13
about it right and same with like different histories and I've talked about this on previous episodes of like
00:40:17
being really into Pirates and studying Pirates and things like that it's like
00:40:21
that is where I think traditional education sometimes gets it wrong but it's I I think get wrong in the sense
00:40:28
that you're talking to a classroom of kids that are all very different and they have to create something that works
00:40:33
somewhat for everybody and that's just really hard you know and so regardless
00:40:38
of a kid that's in public school private school whatever it's like having mom and
00:40:42
dad who are just there to be like you're really into this let's just go all in on
00:40:46
it and be let's incorporate this yeah exactly like like you said your daughter
00:40:50
is really into like coins right now and like understanding how money works it's
00:40:54
like okay well that's interesting you know like let's just do that how when we
00:41:00
play cashier at home you know like let's do with real money she doesn't realize
00:41:04
it but it's math yeah exactly exactly and it's somewhat complicated math too
00:41:09
because it mean you're talking about things that just kind of have arbitrary
00:41:15
value to them um in a lot of sense like it doesn't I don't know money still
00:41:18
doesn't make a lot of sense to me can you tell um but well money is confusing
00:41:23
especially these days it's yeah yeah well and like you said like there are things that you now own your own your
00:41:30
own business and like there are plenty of things that you're like I wish I would have had some learning and some
00:41:37
education around these things that it would just put you in maybe that next level of whatever it is it would just
00:41:43
have set you ahead uh instead of having to basically play catchup now right yeah
00:41:49
yeah well and the funny thing is is that so I ended up going to like college for
00:41:53
a while I not not like what most people did but um when I was trying to figure out because I always um did some sort of
00:42:02
like Photo work even at group Solutions I actually took a um a photography class
00:42:07
and a Photoshop class at group Solutions it was always something I was super passionate about um but in when I got
00:42:14
home from Y and we were married and I was honestly just like in aoras and I just decided I was like you know I've
00:42:18
always loved makeup um I used to work backstage Fashion Week in La every now and then um because we had a bunch of
00:42:24
connections through um through y working with different models and stuff like that and that was something I thought
00:42:31
was really fun really cool it like provided a really unique perspective on like the beauty industry um so I ended
00:42:37
up actually going to sbcc and I got my license uh in to be an aesthetician so a lot of my learning in how to build a
00:42:47
clientele and how to deal with people on a client level actually came from um learning how to be an aesthetician which
00:42:55
is so funny because I hate being an aesthetician it was not what was meant for me I do not want to touch people's
00:43:02
gross faces like it it's just it was not it did not end up being what I desired
00:43:07
ultimately I desired to be a photographer still I should have just stuck with what I knew I loved but it g
00:43:12
that gave me um I I was able to transfer all of that over really well um so that
00:43:19
was cool I I like almost got a crash course in it just then used it for a different skill so yeah um
00:43:27
yeah so it it ended up working itself out but yeah I don't know just funny I
00:43:31
like had to try something that I was like I think I like this but just kidding I actually still want to do this
00:43:36
no I think that's and we're allowed to Pivot and change I mean I would to
00:43:40
originally be recording I wanted to do recording engineering or audio engineering excuse me which is like kind
00:43:46
of ultimately what I do now I'm podcast editor but like I wanted to work with
00:43:50
bands that was the thing and then I got there and I hated classes and I was like
00:43:53
okay I'm going to go to music business entertainment industry I want to manage
00:43:56
B that was the thing and then I got out and I was like it's really hard to break
00:44:00
into the music industry and then kind of fell into podcasting and all of the skills that I learn doing those things
00:44:07
all come into play with what I do currently and it's you're in the perfect
00:44:11
spot for it too that is true too but it's been interesting that that like because there were times where working a
00:44:21
dead end job and just like feeling like I wasted all this time and energy learning this stuff that I'm never never
00:44:27
going to use because I'm just stuck in the rabbit hole of serving people food
00:44:31
or working at a coffee shop or whatever been there ultimately it came out and now it's like okay now I get to use all
00:44:37
of these skills for what I want to do my passions now totally um and that's super
00:44:43
cool so and those are just extra skills that you have in your back pocket that every now and then if you need to whip
00:44:48
them out voila you've got it so exactly exactly and um so yeah I wanted to there's two places I want want to go I'm
00:44:57
I'm trying to figure out which place I want to go first let me go here first so
00:45:01
you you and your husband own a wedding photography company and um so shout that out really quick how can people find you
00:45:08
if they're looking um is it specifically in Kentucky do you guys travel I mean
00:45:12
for the right price most people do anything but we have traveled a lot yes this coming year I'm not traveling at
00:45:18
all because traveling after having a newborn I've done it this is my fifth this is my fifth wedding season
00:45:26
pregnant um I've been pregnant every year since 2020 so um yeah it's been a lot so this
00:45:33
coming year I have decided I'm I'm we're not traveling at all this coming year
00:45:36
but um so yeah Kentucky Tennessee Indiana Ohio really are like the best um places for us because we can
00:45:44
drive we're at like the most perfect spot in Kentucky to be able to reach all
00:45:49
the states around us within like an hour and a half two hours so um so that's
00:45:55
really nice but um yeah our page is called um you and me so it's like word you and then just the letter N me
00:46:02
photographs um and yeah we just built it off of um the fact that we we had an incredible experience with our wedding
00:46:11
photographer he was actually not a wedding photographer we fired our first wedding photographer because she was
00:46:17
just distracted all the time and um honestly really annoying to work with and um we uh ended up contacting a while
00:46:27
he was kind of like a an adventure wildlife photographer but I loved how he um edited and his perspective on life
00:46:33
was really cool and so he shot our wedding kind of from like a I don't know not from a wedding
00:46:41
perspective a normal one yeah so just gave us really interesting photos so um I love kind of like our inspiration I
00:46:48
remember when you guys got married and and the photos came out and I was like these are super cool shots I mean you
00:46:53
guys got married in a beautiful place you got married in Santa Barbara outside the the most beautiful location
00:46:59
absolutely gorgeous the cheapest location and it's that pretty it's so crazy how cheap it is I mean I got
00:47:05
married right outside of Ventura Hall uh City Hall and that's beautiful too exactly um and I'm amazed and people to
00:47:13
this day are like well how'd you do that I'm like well we literally I mean also I
00:47:17
didn't have people at my wedding it was just immediate family but literally we
00:47:21
called it the uh the uh Flash Dance uh wedding because like literally we just walked up did the thing took photos left
00:47:29
um didn't have to pay scent just was it just was and honestly that's the way to
00:47:34
do it and that's the thing that I actually love shooting the most is because there's no show there's no uh
00:47:41
there's nothing staged it's just two people who really love each other who
00:47:45
got married and they they just went did the thing so that's awesome well I'll
00:47:50
definitely I'm gonna link all of it in the show notes and stuff because oh thank yeah if you guys are looking for
00:47:55
wedding do you guys do anything beside wedding for photography or is it just primarily wedding photography I do
00:47:59
weddings um we do obviously couples and families I started really I love doing families especially now that I have kids
00:48:07
um I just have a um a different eye for shooting families now that I have my own
00:48:12
my own kids so um I don't know I like very wild natural Family Photos where kids are rolling in mud and having fun
00:48:21
so um yeah so we do mainly mainly families couples what okay so very cool yeah I I've only ever done three we call
00:48:31
them professional photo shoots with an actual like hired photographer that and the first one was with Becky Schwarz who
00:48:37
you know yeah oh yeah and she gave like I just did not know what I was doing and
00:48:43
she gave me the best piece of advice was just she was just like she we just were
00:48:48
we started laughing and she started telling jokes and all the stuff we were just hanging out and just very and those
00:48:52
are the photos that turned out the absolute best were just yeah it was there was no like okay you're going to
00:48:57
smile say cheesee like it was nothing like that it was just very like natural walking posing just like very spur of
00:49:04
the moment she snapped the photo kind of a thing and those just their authentic feeling um they give the best photos yes
00:49:11
absolutely so okay so the second place I wanted to go and this is kind of jumping
00:49:16
back into now that you have kids was is there a specific memory or event from your childhood whether it's
00:49:25
homeschooling days or not not that you are like wanting to maybe try to like replicate a little bit with your kids
00:49:32
some of the magic that uh your family had or things that you're just like I don't want to do that my parents did
00:49:38
that that was big no no those are good questions um you know we did a lot of really fun
00:49:49
um okay so we had a cabin in E my family did and we did that was mostly where like majority of our family
00:49:58
vacations happen we didn't ever go on like big crazy trips I think we did one
00:50:02
time um when I was 15 we we went to Hawaii as a family and that was super fun um but my best memories I think are
00:50:11
just from like simple family car rides and um honestly we would go on a bike ride most nights after dinner and just
00:50:22
my my parents never we never had to look perfect we were never expected to like be prim and proper at church like I I
00:50:30
think they just uh there was just a uh there was never too much pressure added onto anything and I think that's
00:50:38
what I appreciate the most looking back in my childhood is that nothing was ever
00:50:41
taken too serious and um I was only really expected to be a kid um and yeah they they helped us have we
00:50:52
had a great childhood honestly um we did all kinds of fun stuff we we my dad we have this running joke in
00:51:00
our family my dad is not super handy like really at all I'm being kind on here because just in case he watches
00:51:07
this but um we asked for a tree house we had a tree okay so keep that in mind we
00:51:13
had a tree uh in our backyard was huge and um we kept asking him like Dad we wouldd love to have a treehouse be so
00:51:21
fun so one day we come home we come home from doing something and he's like girls
00:51:26
guess what because we're all girls in our family I made you guys a treehouse
00:51:30
and we were like okay so we go in the backyard and it is this stupid corner of the house that has a tent or not a tent
00:51:37
a tarp that is hung like across this corner of the house and he's like this is your tree house and it was just like
00:51:46
I still just remember the um he was so proud of himself and we were so like you are so dumb why would you do this for us
00:51:55
but it just like the sil of like seeing your parents just like still enjoy being uh a kid and I really
00:52:05
think Ken was just saying this the other night with becoming a parent having your
00:52:08
own kids I think replicating their childhood you're also just kind of a whole time trying to replicate your
00:52:14
childhood because it's the best especially if you had a good childhood you just want to live through them
00:52:19
through everything yeah um and like even dropping Haven off at school for the first time last week I thought it was
00:52:25
going to be a mess and St and cry the whole time and honestly I was just so excited for her because I remember that
00:52:30
feeling of getting new shoes and getting to go make friends and I mean it's just
00:52:35
really exciting so more than anything I think we just don't want to put too much
00:52:40
pressure on them to do certain things they don't ever have to look perfect going to church the I mean we just they
00:52:49
have uh we have a property that has about three acres on it and we just set them free and let them go be fun and
00:52:56
wild and um I don't know I just want them to enjoy their childhood and look back and
00:53:04
be like Mom and Dad were fun like they got in the pool and like in the tiny little plastic pool that had a bunch of
00:53:09
grass and bird poop in it and still like had fun with us so yeah um in negative honestly
00:53:17
I I don't actually have a ton of negatives um obviously my parents wen't perfect
00:53:26
but they they really championed Us in and were um I mean there's not really much in my head at least that I remember
00:53:34
maybe if you would have asked me as a teenager probably G to come up with like a trillion things but um it's always
00:53:39
easier when you're in the middle of it to to be like oh Mom and Dad suck but
00:53:43
gosh they were I mean I remember even as a high school kid being like man Morgan's parents are cool they were cool
00:53:49
honestly and they my parents were always the the um they were always the house that wanted to host everything like they
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loved having high schoolers over the junior highs over like it was just the Delight of their heart to host everyone
00:54:03
and to always have food for everyone and um our house also looked like um if this
00:54:09
is our house right across diagonally across the street was Ventura High so like my friends would get off of school
00:54:16
and come to our house to eat so like or like come on their lunch break to come over and hang out so it was fun like our
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my mom and dad were always very just like yeah invite everyone over or like one of our family vacations we went to
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um youbody and we went back country camping and I think I brought I brought James Andrew Ella Tiffany Josiah uh
00:54:40
Josiah's brother like a whole bunch of people that we just all packed in in a
00:54:44
my car and we just all went camping together on my family's vacation so like
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they were always very um down for the party so yeah that's a good a good way to live because
00:54:58
I mean what I've realized more and more is like we only get one life to live
00:55:02
right and so it's just like you got to make the most of it you got to have fun
00:55:06
you gotta explore you gotta like it's okay to be a kid sometimes even as an adult it's okay to be a kid sometimes
00:55:14
and just do those things and um no that's super cool even as an adult you should always have a set of play clothes
00:55:20
I am a strong believer in that too so absolutely absolutely you kidding me yeah no uh I worked at a toy store a
00:55:29
couple years ago and that was like some of the most fun we did birthday parties and but those were some of the most fun
00:55:36
of all time because it was just like we just got to play and we got to play with
00:55:41
people and with kids and and kids can tell when you're like an adult and you're like they're just as enthralled
00:55:48
with whatever it is they're like you're cool like cuz you're just with it you
00:55:53
know you're just yeah you're just in it with they sniff out BS from like 12
00:55:57
miles away it's kind of ridiculous yeah yeah I had a client who we were on a
00:56:02
call and his daughter came in the room and we were chatting and and I had met her and we were we were chatting or
00:56:07
whatever and she had a stuffed animal and I was like oh can you tell me about your stuffed animal or whatever and you
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know does it have a name does it you know favorite color all that kind of stuff and um and then I was like do you
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want to meet my favorite stuffed animal and I went in the other room and I grabbed I have my monkey from when I was
00:56:23
a kid still it looks disgusting it's like gross looking um it's like bald it's
00:56:29
like missing an eye like it's disgusting looking and uh I showed her and she's
00:56:33
just like he's ugly and I was like well I've had him for a really long time like
00:56:38
I've had him for like nearly 30 years please but it's funny because whenever
00:56:42
we get on a call she now remembers me because of that and so because of your monkey because of my monkey and so it's
00:56:49
just yeah sometimes you just got to have that childlike Wonder still um to this day it's true Y and kids really open
00:56:55
your they really open your world up to a lot there's just so many things that I'm
00:57:00
like I I just like don't get to be a selfish person because my life is in servanthood to ultimately obviously
00:57:09
first to Ken but then to our kids and it's like you just you just do it I don't know but I'm still think most
00:57:16
people are like uh bitter I think a lot of moms are bitter once they go into motherhood but for me I'm like you just
00:57:21
got to roll with it like you just got to go for it because they're not going to
00:57:25
be three and four and my kids they have this cuss word that they've made up um
00:57:31
it's it's called a butt Fork I have no idea what that is but everybody is a
00:57:35
butt Fork behind closed doors and it's like even stuff like that it's hysterical hilarious like I'm not gonna
00:57:40
get after them for saying butt Fork it's freaking hilarious like that's so funny
00:57:45
yeah they keep things Lively yes well that's awesome and um well I I wanted to
00:57:52
say it one more time thank you so much for coming on and is there anything that in chatting has either sprung to
00:58:00
mind where you're like oh shoot I just remembered this story I got to share it
00:58:03
or uh any last words that you want to leave the people with man I don't know I um I don't miss
00:58:13
Ventura I'll tell you that California is my home state but Kentucky is my soul state so I know a
00:58:20
lot of people have wondered like oh why is she there like I love living here so if anyone's wondering um I cannot tell
00:58:25
you the of times I get asked that probably once a week by someone from Ventura uh so and that's not like a dig
00:58:32
at all it's just like this side of the country just is awesome like it's so fun
00:58:38
oh yeah but yeah I mean I don't know I'm I'm really thankful for for youth group and just
00:58:47
being able to make friends ultimately and um thankful that we had a an awesome church that we got to go to that for me
00:58:56
I mean looking back between CH youth group and ym like those were really big things that shaped my life and um I'm
00:59:04
thankful for the people that poured into me even when I was a little crapper so um yeah I don't know I just think there
00:59:12
that uh yeah that that time of life was better than what I was thinking it was when I was in it and obviously you
00:59:21
always look back with fond eyes eventually but um yeah I did not have a negative experience with homeschool or
00:59:29
youth group or any of those things so um I hope that we'll get to Foster something similar to that for our kids
00:59:36
so good yeah and if people are uh thinking about wanting to homeschool their kids obviously I'm like not that
00:59:42
far in but I have a ton of kids anybody can text me and ask me how it's going so
00:59:47
yeah no that's that's cool well yeah nothing nothing profound he that's okay not everything I
00:59:54
don't have advit for anyone everything has to be a TED talk you know yeah well
01:00:00
Morgan this has been awesome and I appreciate your time so much and um it's been great like catching up and
01:00:05
reconnecting with you and it's been it's been a little while so and we're
01:00:09
neighbors so who knows maybe we probably have the highest likelihood of actually
01:00:13
running into each other at some point it's true it's true and we love Nashville like Nashville coffee shops
01:00:18
are what we we go down there literally just to drink coffee so well cool well next time you're in town we'll go get
01:00:24
coffee do it yep I'd love to meet your wife so yeah all right well this has been the ex homeschoolers Club thank you
01:00:32
thank you thank you for listening and uh as always you know do the things that you got to do subscribe follow like rate
01:00:38
review you know I like criticism too um you know just put it in a friendly way please um and uh if you want to get a
01:00:46
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01:00:56
email me at exhs [email protected] and uh yeah if you've got questions you've got things you want to talk about
01:01:02
maybe you want to come on the show hit me up um I want to chat and I want to reminisce with you so uh this has been
01:01:08
great and uh until next time we'll see you all right peace [Music] [Music]

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Episode Highlights

  • Reconnecting Through Homeschooling
    The show brings together old friends from the homeschool community, sparking nostalgia.
    “This show has definitely brought a lot of people out of the woodwork.”
    @ 00m 24s
    October 16, 2024
  • Tattoo Controversy
    A discussion about getting tattoos as a homeschooler and the reactions it sparked.
    “I remember when I got it, it caused like an uproar at group Solutions.”
    @ 06m 14s
    October 16, 2024
  • Youth Group Pranks
    The hosts share hilarious and outrageous pranks they pulled during youth group.
    “We were always doing something, prank-wise I got a lot of ideas.”
    @ 13m 13s
    October 16, 2024
  • Unexpected Connections
    Meeting a group of YWAM students led to new friendships and opportunities.
    “It was a crazy God coincidence.”
    @ 20m 14s
    October 16, 2024
  • The YWAM Experience
    A unique school structure that fosters deep connections and personal growth.
    “You have three months of a lecture phase.”
    @ 20m 46s
    October 16, 2024
  • From Reluctance to Parenthood
    A journey from not wanting kids to embracing motherhood.
    “I was terrified of raising someone.”
    @ 30m 32s
    October 16, 2024
  • The Importance of Skills
    Discussing the value of diverse skills over traditional education paths.
    “I wish I knew how to do better things for my photography.”
    @ 39m 04s
    October 16, 2024
  • Childhood Memories
    Sharing cherished memories from childhood and the desire to replicate them with kids.
    “I just want them to enjoy their childhood and look back and be like, Mom and Dad were fun.”
    @ 53m 04s
    October 16, 2024
  • Navigating Career Paths
    Exploring the journey of finding one's passion and the twists along the way.
    “Sometimes you just got to have that childlike wonder still.”
    @ 56m 53s
    October 16, 2024
  • Kentucky is My Soul State
    The speaker reflects on their love for Kentucky, calling it their 'soul state.'
    “California is my home state but Kentucky is my soul state.”
    @ 58m 16s
    October 16, 2024
  • Thankful for Youth Group
    The speaker expresses gratitude for the youth group that shaped their life.
    “I’m thankful for the people that poured into me even when I was a little crapper.”
    @ 59m 04s
    October 16, 2024

Episode Quotes

  • I think there’s a lot of false confidence sometimes.
    I Said I'd NEVER Homeschool My Kids! | EXHS #12
  • I may have been homeschooled but I lived a freaking good life.
    I Said I'd NEVER Homeschool My Kids! | EXHS #12
  • I don’t want to look like the YWAM couple.
    I Said I'd NEVER Homeschool My Kids! | EXHS #12
  • I was terrified of raising someone.
    I Said I'd NEVER Homeschool My Kids! | EXHS #12
  • You’re in the perfect spot for it too!
    I Said I'd NEVER Homeschool My Kids! | EXHS #12
  • You got to make the most of it, you got to have fun!
    I Said I'd NEVER Homeschool My Kids! | EXHS #12

Key Moments

  • Nostalgic Reunion00:24
  • Youth Group Shenanigans13:13
  • Meeting YWAM19:26
  • Skid Row Tent22:11
  • Unexpected Pregnancy31:25
  • Childhood Nostalgia53:04
  • Parenting Insights57:25
  • Coffee Shop Plans1:00:16

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