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He said, "How could I possibly get to
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know a person well enough before
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marriage to know if they're right? It
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seems like getting married is like
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jumping off a cliff." This struck a
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chord with me because when I was a
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teenager, there was a very big push in
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my circles of friends in the church I
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went to of this like knowing God's will
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for your life. And a lot of my friends
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took it to this extreme of like knowing
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having to be so certain of
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of the things that they're going to do
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with their life. So, where they're going
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to go to college and what they're going
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to study as a career and what they're
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going to the person they're going to
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date and all these different things. And
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they had this like they needed to know
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the answer uh before like living life. I
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think that that ruins a piece of like
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what life is about, which is making
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mistakes and learning lessons.
